Ep. 454 @sexwithashley on Dating, Pleasure & Her Cult Escape

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Yeah, you're a check one two, check one two? Is
this Mike on? Is this Mike going?

Speaker 2 (00:06):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (00:06):
Listen, man, it's the one and.

Speaker 2 (00:08):
Only Trenks that a dj sis and you're listening to
cocktails Dirty Discussions with Kikia Medina Monroe. Here cocktail is
called sir Nasty. Sir, would you need to make this cocktail?
Two ounces of Sir Davis whiskey, one ounce of honey

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syrup equal parts honey plus hot water, ip point seventy
five ounces of some fresh lemon juice, a half ounce
of ginger liqueur. Oh, that sounds good. A dash of
cayenne pepper or a few drops of spicy bitters. That's optional,
but it makes a little spicy. You're gonna use a
lemon twist or a candy ginger for garnish. Here's how
you're gonna make us, Sir nasty. You're gonna shake all

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of those ingredients with ice and strain into a coop
or rocks glass garnish with a lemon twist and a
whisper something nasty before sipping it.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
Oh daddy, I you liked it. Welcome back to cocktail.
Let's story to say, Cowboy Carter and that's not where
we are, but that's where I am. Mentally, this ain't
j Exus, all right, I am, and Kiky said, so.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Sorry, y'all. I was tasting this, Sir Nasty. I am
Adina Monroe akaa coffee bean Dean.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
Hey, y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:23):
So we are back and this week we do have
a guest, but before we introduce her, we want to
make sure that we give you guys a few quick
announcements and then we'll introduce our guests. I'm gonna go
ahead because I want to sit mile.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
And that's really good. I can taste the honey. Okay,
quick reminder you guys. October twenty fifth, one of my
good friends is doing a Save the Tatas two point
zero breast cancer awareness walk in Tampa, Florida. If you
remember last week and the week before, I was telling
you guys about her mother, she passed away from breast cancer,
and my friend started this foundation in honor of her mother.

(01:55):
It's called Lulu's Legacy of Love Foundation. It is one
of the very very few breast cancer organizations in the
US that's specifically dedicated to serving African American women. Their
mission is to bridge the gap and care for minority women,
especially those diagnosed with aggressive subtypes of breast cancer. So
if you guys are interested in donating or you would
like to join the walk, go to Lula's Legacy of

(02:17):
Love Foundation dot org. That's Lula's Legacy of Love Foundation
dot org. And I hope y'all can donate or or
go to the walk if you live in Tampa. Also
my Lover Girls trip. I'm so excited, Kiki, We're going
to Thailand.

Speaker 3 (02:30):
Oh, that is exciting. Do you know when?

Speaker 1 (02:33):
So, I don't know yet.

Speaker 2 (02:34):
It's like I'm trying to see, like what would work
for everybody, because everybody want to go in September, and
I'm like, well.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
You want to go? Ever, then you know, you gotta look.

Speaker 2 (02:42):
At when it's a good time to go to Thailand
because Thailand is one of those places where the tsunamis
be tsunamis.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
So we're gonna figure out the month that we're gonna go.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
It'll either be September, April, or October. But I wanted
to make sure I told you guys, men you can't come.
There was a moment where I was considering it, and
then too many men started signing up and then all
the girls like I'm not coming if men come, and
I was like, well, the men can't come, y'all can't come.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
And you know, why do you know why men can't come?

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Why they gonna ruin the trade? Why do you say that?

Speaker 2 (03:09):
Because I just feel like the men are gonna come
on the it's already said it was for lover girls only,
So you didn't listen. You already didn't listen. You picked
to come on a trip that said lover girls only.
I just feel like men are going to come and
create confusion because somebody might be fine, or they might
be like, oh yeah, let me take y'all. They're gonna
just add this vibe that doesn't need to be there. Now,
bitch is just crying even more.

Speaker 3 (03:29):
So, what's the vibe of the trip?

Speaker 2 (03:31):
The vibe of the trip is you are the girl
where you're just tired. God, you had a little heartbreak
these past few years. You had a little sadness. Maybe
your friends had to pull you up out of the bed.
Maybe you lost little weight because you were sad. But
then it turned out looking really good on you, and
you just are like, you know what, I want to

(03:53):
go back outside, and I want to have a good
time in a different country, and I want to try
some new things.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
You can date again. You'll be okay, revitalizing.

Speaker 2 (04:01):
Okay, little turn up, little torker can't wait to take
y'all to a naughty club in Fouquet. Oh my god,
don't forget I've been to Thailand before. I absolutely love Thailand.
So you could be single, you cannot be single. This
is just if you need a splash, a breath of
fresh air. Join me on my lover girls only trip.
I would love to host you, and I would love
to have you, and we are gonna cap it because

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it's a lot of bitches it signed up. Also, y'all
know I'm also a realtor and I'm really excited to
let you guys know I'm doing a virtual home Buyer's
guide on July twenty third. Me and another realtor really
excited about this. Six thirty PM. Will put the link
in the description. If you are an entrepreneur, if you
have a career that is not a normal one. Maybe

(04:41):
you are a podcaster, maybe you are an actress, or
you do voice work. You have some money coming in
and you've done your taxes and you're like dang. I
never really thought about home ownership because it's a little
bit difficult. My money's not always good. But you got
a little bit of organization about yourself.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
Join it.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
Let me show you some ways that you can get
into home ownership, and it's not as hard as you
might I think it is. I actually just got Lex
into her first house and she didn't think she could
and I was like, bitch, let me show you and
showed her and now she got into a house that
she absolutely loves.

Speaker 1 (05:08):
That I picked out.

Speaker 3 (05:09):
And that's good.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
It's really good. So make sure you guys check that out.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
Follow my real estate page Attachment Style homes atl and
if you are looking to buy or know someone, send
them my way.

Speaker 1 (05:19):
What's you been at too, Teeky?

Speaker 3 (05:22):
You know, I'm still trying to just monitor my heart
right throughout the day because I'm not over Cowboy Carter.
But I'm not gonna talk about it all the time, Okay,
But what I do want to talk about is the
Worst Behavior Tour trip. I'm going back to hedonism, So
all the guys who are getting kicked off the Lover
Girls Trip, you can come with me. We are accepting
the men, the women, and the non binary whoever. Y'all

(05:45):
come on down. We're gonna have a good time. I
don't know themes and details yet. I am so sorry
that I missed the Memorial Day weekend trip, but had
a funeral to go to, so you know, but we
are going back in December. I will put the dates
on the screen in the description because I can't remember
off the time my head. I think it's like the
thirteenth or the eighteenth or something like that that I'll
be there, But it is a December trip. It's gonna

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be really fun. I went before. I had a blast.
You don't have to participate in anything that you don't
want to, but there's plenty to do. And what I
tell everybody that the one thing that I took away
when I thought about it and was reflecting on my
way back home, because I was tired as hell and
I was ready to go home. I was just hired,
you know when, Yeah, because it's a lot going on.
You up late and I was not missing any of

(06:27):
the functions.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
And then you can go to buffet have a little
snack any hour.

Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah, I was eating oxtail.

Speaker 1 (06:33):
I had it's booty.

Speaker 3 (06:35):
I was like wow, and drinks everywhere, there's pools, sand, beaches,
Like you really don't have to leave the resort and
you can pack, like I really think I'm gonna pack
with just to carry on because I was naked most
of the time. I mean for real. Yeah, so it's
gonna be a really good time. Go to worst Behavior
tour dot com click the link in the description and
if you are going, because I told you to make

(06:55):
sure you use my promo code, it is Kiki. I
would really appreciate that so that they know who sent
them or who sent you. And then there was one
other thing I want to just say about, Oh what
I tell everybody to me? It felt like the most
freeing experience. And I'm not saying this to be funny,
but before I went, I was kind of hung up
on like people gonna be naked. I'm gonna have to

(07:17):
be naked. Oh I'm not happy with how my body
is right now? Is everybody gonna be looking at me?
And I said something before and it wasn't meant to
offend people, but I saw a lot of bad bodies
out there and little micro penises and everything, and nobody cared.
And it was just like, after a while, After really
that first stay, I was just like, why am I
so worried about? Ain't nobody worried about me? Why I'm

(07:38):
worried about me? Be out here and have fun. It
felt good not to be worried about what you was
gonna put on every day? M h or how do
I look in this? I'm just me, a blob of me,
and that's what you're gonna get and it's gonna be
a good time. So you guys joined me. Also, I
want to remind you guys to check out my new podcast,
the XOMN Podcast. The episode that came out yesterday was

(07:59):
with David Bane. That one has been one of my favorites.
He was flirting a lot. I was flirting too. That
man is just something about him. I mean, he's single,
he is he is m he is single as a
pringle honey. And my dress then I wore that day.
I think I told you all this before, but oh well,
I'm gonnaell y'all again. Y'all know i'd be on repeat
that dress. It wasn't because I was too fat for

(08:21):
a change. It just the zipper broke. So then it
was like my dress was trying to make me flash
him or something, and I was just like, this dress
is hot in the twat had mine all out. But
it was a really good episode. There's lots of other ones,
and I want you guys to listen, like listen to
every episode even if you don't know who the person is.
Sometimes I didn't either, and I told him that and

(08:42):
I learned. And it's just been really interesting though all
jokes aside, to hear all of these different men open
up and be vulnerable and share their experiences and how
they got to the thought process that they have. And
it's not like they trying to flirt with me or
they're not trying to like show off for anything. Well

(09:03):
A hope. Anyway, y'all tune in and listen to it.
I would really appreciate it. There will be a link
on here and you can just search XO like the
letters XO man. That's one word podcast and you'll see it.
What else should I want to remind you guys about?

Speaker 1 (09:17):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (09:17):
Yes, the book club. So this month we are reading
what is that girls name? Kennedy Ryan's book whatever the
latest book is. I said I wasn't going to do
another romance to the Fall, but the girls wore me down.
They wore me down because we wasn't really feeling the
last book, The Nothing Man. So we're back to Romance.
But everybody so far has loved it. So you still
have time to join the book club and discuss the

(09:38):
book with us this month and then next month's book.
I forgot what it is, but I'll put it in there,
and then oh, also last thing next month August eighteenth
through the twenty first. I have been selected as a
speaker for the Podcast Movement Conference. So if you are
interested in podcasting, if you are a business that is
looking to advertise, if you are a business that is

(10:01):
doing the production, the behind the scenes, anything that might
touch podcasting or something similar to podcasting, this is a
great place for you to be. You can still buy tickets.
I will put a link and I have a code
so you can get a little discount. But I'll be speaking.
I Am going to be talking about making money from
doing live shows and how to take your podcast and

(10:24):
turn it into a live show that can be successful
that people actually show up to and have a good time.
And I'm like, what are you gonna do it again?
And then you say, oh, I don't know. You gotta
go see Beyonce or somebody else because I'm not on tour,
but yeah, that's what I'll be doing. It's in Dallas,
Texas this year, so that'll be good to be home
for a few days. I don't know which day my
session is, but when you buy the past to the conference,

(10:47):
it is for the whole conference. So I hope to
see you guys there. If you're going to be there,
send me a DM so that we can link up
while we're there.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
That's exciting. I forgot one thing. If you guys don't
want to wait until next year to travel with me,
Paradise and Vibe is still a thing. We're going to Sedona, Arizona,
August twenty fourth of the twenty seventh. It is not
too late to sign up. If you go to Paradise
and Vibe dot com check out the Vibe Fest. It's
going to be such a time. They now have day passes,
So if you live in Arizona and you don't want

(11:15):
to buy the whole package and stay at the Enchantment Resort,
which I don't.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
Know why you wouldn't want to, because it's amazing.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
You can get a day pass and you can pick
and choose which days you want to come to and
there's also a virtual experience. So but to Paradise and
Vibe dot Com can't wait to see you and.

Speaker 1 (11:28):
You guys, I'll get to interview you, sir. Ray like excited.
I'm so excited.

Speaker 2 (11:32):
I absolutely love her and I can't wait to tell
her that to her face. So I'm really excited about that.
She doesn't take a lot of interviews, and so she did.
She did research on Paradise and Vibe, so she knows
who each and every one of us are and it's
just it's very exciting. So now for this week's guest,

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we have sexual health expert and writer Sex with Ashley.

Speaker 1 (12:00):
And podcaster and podcaster. You do a lot, girl, I'm trying.
How are you doing? I'm great. How are y'all doing?

Speaker 3 (12:07):
If you are an og listener? We had Ashley on
back in the dark ages when we didn't know if
we were going to live or die, if the world
was ending or what. Everybody's faces were covered in mass
and we were all in our rooms or my kitchens.

Speaker 1 (12:22):
And podcasters were still trying to podcast. We were like,
we're gonna die. Who can we collaborate with?

Speaker 3 (12:27):
Now's the time, get these stories out before it's all over.

Speaker 2 (12:31):
So we did a virtual episode with Ashley and it
was dusty because it was zoom. Now we have her
here in persons. How have things been since COVID? Oh great,
because I'm moved to let us since COVID? Where were
you at North Carolina?

Speaker 1 (12:45):
Where I'm from?

Speaker 3 (12:47):
North Carolina? Are you from?

Speaker 2 (12:48):
I'm from a small town ride outside of Fabvue where
j Cole's from.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
Okay, I'm from there, Okay, Jay Cale.

Speaker 2 (12:55):
I went to the street club with him one time,
very random. Yeah, he's such a respectful guy.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
How did that happen?

Speaker 2 (13:01):
My my nephew's mom, who was my brother's ex girlfriend.
We were really cool and she plays the violin. She
did a lot of work with him, and so one
day she was like, come to the studio. And I
went to the studio and I didn't know what to expect,
and it was she it was Ja Cole, and it
was just like, oh my gosh, this is just so cool.
And then he was like, y'all want go to your club
and we went and it was just it was really good.
It was a really good time. So welcome back to Cocktails, Ashley.

Speaker 1 (13:23):
Thank you for having me before we play. I'm curious
to know.

Speaker 2 (13:26):
I always want to know what makes somebody a sex expert?

Speaker 1 (13:30):
Good question? Do you just call yourself that? You talk
about it a lot? I just use a title because
it just it just kind of sounds great.

Speaker 3 (13:39):
But I think a year in a boat it was
a lot of people.

Speaker 1 (13:41):
Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 2 (13:42):
I don't like the title educator because I don't think
I'm an educator because I'm not educating people. I don't
feel like it. I just talk about sticks and right
about it. So I'm like, okay, so I need a
title for something when somebody likes, oh, who was Ashley?

Speaker 1 (13:54):
So that's just the title.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
But would you consider yourself an expert? Like you talk
about it so much that you are like, I do
you can know what I'm talking about the basics of it, Okay?
I think though, I think sex is ever changing, evolving
and what makes me come and not make you come?
So you know, I'm not a sex expert for all people,
just for some people. That's a very honest way to
put it, though, because like when people say certain things,

(14:17):
it's like everybody is not the same in any avenue
or line of work. So I appreciate the person that's
like listen.

Speaker 1 (14:23):
Like I got.

Speaker 2 (14:24):
It's a lot that comes into this so thing or two.

Speaker 3 (14:29):
What made you get into that?

Speaker 2 (14:32):
So originally, so I have a public health degree my background,
and so I wanted to work with black women HIV,
which which is I do. But I realized that we
also didn't really talk about pleasure, and so sex would
actually originally started as me talking about my sex journey
because I was a part of a whole cult in
my twenties. Different long story, a cult, like an actual one,

(14:53):
like a religious quote. So you have lived some life, okay,
So so one point in my life, some people don't
have six, right, And so then when I got to
like twenty eight, twenty nine point thirty, I was like, oh,
I want to like fuck now, and I wanted to
like experience what that is. I didn't know learn my
own body. So sex with Ashley was a blog about

(15:14):
be trying to figure out what that was, and it
kind of just came something else. That's kind of how
it evolved. Yeah, that's kind of how it started. So
it started like when I was twenty eight.

Speaker 1 (15:25):
Wow, I got questions about that cold me too? Oh wait, wait.

Speaker 3 (15:32):
I'm I'm glad we blued on today Baby's song here
because last time all of it would have toppled off.
We're gonna play actually a quick game of our card
game I'm curious to know you guys can buy it,
and I'm curious tonow dot com. And we're gonna ask
you some questions before we get carried away, asking you
a whole bunch of other stuff because I got some
to you. I want to know. So I tracked found pleasure. Yeah,

(15:53):
it doesn't take much. I was about to say, what
are we doing? Yeah, just that quick, okay, I have one.
Have you ever had sex with a coworker current coworker,
have to be current? Just well they were currently your
coworker when you had sex with them.

Speaker 1 (16:12):
No, we worked at the same place, but then we
had sex after not.

Speaker 3 (16:17):
Yeah, I would say absolutely not. I've never done that.

Speaker 1 (16:20):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
I'm curious to know what would your most recent ex
say about you as a partner.

Speaker 1 (16:30):
You worked on me like you probably have.

Speaker 2 (16:32):
A bit, I don't know, argue, okay, and so he
probably did that bitch, So that's probably what they probably
would say. In fun though, I'm a good person, but
as a partner, like I'm caring as a partner. I
think for me, I'm also very independent and I wear
that like boss bitch energy that men do not like.

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So is that I always think that's so interesting because
the men that's what they say that they want it.
And then when you meet the women that are like,
oh no, I actually don't need you to do anything.
Then they're like, you don't, well.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
You think you can do everything?

Speaker 3 (17:08):
What do you want? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (17:11):
Will you help me paying my carn? No, you don't
you know good with your finances? Shut up? And you're like,
that's my tell me that I had.

Speaker 2 (17:17):
I I live like a twenty five year old because
you know I'm not good finances. I said that I'm
not either. I go a finances child. I've known that's
I was in college. Every closing I have, I started
looking at stuff I know I don't need to be
getting Why.

Speaker 1 (17:31):
Ports the car you got?

Speaker 2 (17:32):
Off? Right? I have?

Speaker 1 (17:35):
And a bad type bitch right?

Speaker 3 (17:37):
You want every day?

Speaker 2 (17:39):
You don't know if you were to be here tomorrow
was a thing I was yellow for like this, yeah,
so so maybe like yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:50):
No, I mean we're in partnership.

Speaker 2 (17:52):
Were supposed to help each other like show me the way, baby,
you're you're you're better finances than me, So show me.

Speaker 3 (17:57):
Yeah, since you want to lead so bad, since you
got your no, every damn thing. Okay. Have you ever
had sex with more than one person in twenty four hours?

Speaker 1 (18:06):
Yes? Multiple times?

Speaker 3 (18:08):
Okay, was it all together?

Speaker 2 (18:10):
No? No?

Speaker 1 (18:11):
It was uh most probably. I remember.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
This is the one that states in memory, I had
one of my exes came to Atlanta. He was kind
of showed it. He was here for a concert, sit
in my house. We fucked, and then my boyfriend came
the next morning.

Speaker 3 (18:27):
This one was better, just so different the ex.

Speaker 1 (18:33):
Because we haven't had sex in a while.

Speaker 3 (18:35):
Yeah, I don't do it.

Speaker 1 (18:37):
I don't do it.

Speaker 2 (18:39):
Okay, Ashley, I'm curious to know what's your favorite part
of your own body?

Speaker 1 (18:44):
My lips? You do have nice lips?

Speaker 3 (18:47):
You do? I love a nice list of us be
paying for? What's another one? Have you ever record? What
did yourself or been recorded? Having said yes, I know
you're gonna say that, so I have a follow up
that's not on the card, but I'm making it up. Okay,

(19:08):
what's your your go to when being recorded? Like? What
moves do you like to do? How do you like
to act? Is there a certain way that you wanted
to look or do you want it to be like raw,
super up close.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
Sweat, you don't care if you look cute or not. Yeah,
it's kind of in a moment, so it's kind of
like raw, what's the vibe? Kind of raw up close,
very amateur whatever doing at the time. One of my favorite,
one of my favorite videos from back in the day,
day day was I had a video with like a
cucumber okay, and you know it was like a stimulation

(19:46):
of it was six, not just basal six. So Cumber
put a kind of on it and it's big ass
cucumber two. And you know, it was a video of
me in starting into my vagina, you know, in and
out and out. And so I sent that to this
guy who al was saying the time. This has been
over a decade ago, and every one time we will talk,
he like you super that video.

Speaker 3 (20:05):
I'm like, it's safe to work.

Speaker 2 (20:08):
If you just randomly send a man videos like that,
you can damn You're getting to do anything you want.

Speaker 1 (20:14):
I mean, like, I just that is it really is true?

Speaker 2 (20:18):
Like if you just do that and they don't have
to ask you, and you just like you would be surprised, how.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
But I don't. I don't like being asked for videos.

Speaker 3 (20:25):
It's weird.

Speaker 1 (20:25):
I ain't extend it.

Speaker 2 (20:27):
Let me be they want to do it, don't be asked.
I can't stand it because you're never gonna get one
as Yeah.

Speaker 3 (20:32):
You know you probably still get it, but I'm gonna
roll my eye. Is depending on who you are.

Speaker 2 (20:37):
I think if you ask me for one, I don't
have many. I don't do it a lot, but there
are a few people that can get a video or
two from me. But if you ask, you're gonna get
one that's recycled that everybody got.

Speaker 3 (20:45):
Oh yeah, it's not gonna be fresh content.

Speaker 1 (20:47):
Oh I'll give you a og one if you don't ask,
like I'm creating it, and let me.

Speaker 3 (20:50):
Watch the whole thing. Make sure ain't nobody else in here.

Speaker 1 (20:55):
Okay, this is my last one.

Speaker 2 (20:56):
I'm curious to know what's the longest you've waited to
have sex with someone? Okay, So I'm an O hope
to start there. So waited to have sex with someone? Okay,
So I need I need sold questions. Okay, so one

(21:18):
person was like a year, but we didn't live in
the same state. Does that count or no?

Speaker 3 (21:22):
I think it counts because were you strapped to a bed,
were you a house arrest, you would have left. But
you did it. Well, yeah you still waited.

Speaker 1 (21:30):
Yeah I waited.

Speaker 2 (21:31):
I was younger in my twenties, you know, trying for
y'all life. I didn't have a job, so I couldn't
get there. That's probably what That's probably what it was.
But in like able to get to you. I believe
in fucking sooner than later tomorrow. It's not I believe
in before feelings because I need to know if I
like it, not before I catch feelings. So for me,

(21:53):
my my roalle thumb is to do it sooner than
later so that I can know, because if I don't
like it, there's no one's going on. So you've never
so you've never had feelings for someone without having sex
with them.

Speaker 1 (22:06):
That's kind of like have.

Speaker 3 (22:07):
You ever had sex with someone and you think that
that is what made you catch the feelings cause the
sex was just so damn good.

Speaker 1 (22:14):
Oh yes, okay, I think we've all been like digmatized.

Speaker 3 (22:17):
Once I know I have more than that.

Speaker 2 (22:19):
Yeah, So, like, I don't think it happens now though,
like I think now because you know, again I'm an
oh so I've had a lot of good dick, so
it has to be something very specially like oh yes
I want I want it.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
But like fall in love with it?

Speaker 3 (22:34):
It is different, I know, yeah.

Speaker 2 (22:36):
Like it has it has to be something like really special.
You gotta be like, I don't know special, when.

Speaker 3 (22:42):
Did that happen in your life? Like how long ago
would you say you hit that point? Mine is pretty recent.

Speaker 1 (22:47):
Of not being digmatized, no more of just kind.

Speaker 3 (22:51):
Of but like also being like, okay, it has to
be something more to make me, you know, interested in
you just because I like the sex, not necessarily digmatized.
Just then, how old am I thirty six? I'll be
thirty seven this year?

Speaker 1 (23:05):
Okay, so I think around that age for me.

Speaker 3 (23:10):
Okay, yeah, for real reason.

Speaker 2 (23:12):
I think you get to a point where like you
just kind of like a right, I think that's my business,
but I think it's the point like okay, like I've
I've had enough sex, right, like okay, like you know
you understand that good dick is like buses, like no
one might it might not come tomorrow, but I'll get
it again. So like if you go cool, you want

(23:32):
be my last good dick experience, So it'll it might
take a year, might, but good dick is coming back
because I've had enough good dick to know that. So
you're I'm not going to be like digmatized or sad
if you leave.

Speaker 3 (23:46):
Yeah. I think I had sex with somebody and then
later had text with somebody else and I thought it
was good. Then I was like, I don't really feel
no difference between these two. It's kind of like I'm
repeating and I'm fucked enough they're repeating, so now I'm
over it. There's nothing. It's not feeling new. I think
the feelings new.

Speaker 1 (24:03):
I think I think too, like it has to be.

Speaker 2 (24:09):
Once you also, once you have enough sex, you have
to like do something different, Like, okay, so I've done
Missionary a billion times, Let's let's spice it up. Let's
hang from feelings. Oh you know, let's do something. Let's
let's jazz it up a bit. You know, I think
I think I also like men who are into different.

Speaker 3 (24:29):
So yeah, the man that I have had, there's been
a few who are into different. Most of them are not.
And what I always find is that they love to
talk a good game in the beginning. But I'm like,
this is pretty basic, especially, like, yeah, I tell them,
like if they start talking shit like they're just so
nasty and they're so I'm like, this is what people

(24:51):
call vanilla. It's okay, and it's fine, but like, stop
acting like you're really doing You're not doing anything special.
There's nothing here is you and your body. And you
ain't got no extra tricks up your sleeve. You have
no finger, wrist movements, no neck movements. You're not touching
places on my body or yours that are not normally touched.
This is basic. It's okay, but let's call a spade

(25:13):
a space. You've got good, solid cars like Toyotas, Hondas,
and then you've got the exotic cars. So like, some
people are more just basic and some people are exotic
and they just need to accept it and it's okay.

Speaker 1 (25:28):
Yeah. Also, I was like, you know, I am a sexually.

Speaker 2 (25:33):
Fluid guy magnet, okay, right, And so like guys who
are into things tend to find me, I don't look
for them find me. So I mean guys who are
into all types of all types of things that really
heteronormously people will find like, oh, I don't like that.

Speaker 3 (25:52):
It's a little funny.

Speaker 2 (25:57):
But those are the guys that find me, and I
think because I'm able to make them feel very comfortable
and like, Okay, we can try that. We can we
can do that. It's not it's not too many things
that I won't try.

Speaker 1 (26:07):
Has there ever been something that where you're like, absolutely not?
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (26:11):
So. I don't like pain, anything that's painful for me,
anything with like waste also for me, waste like poo poop.

Speaker 1 (26:19):
Oh, I'm good on blood. I'm good on that.

Speaker 2 (26:24):
The only thing of blood pee uh, feces, pain, those
are those are dead nose. I'm not trying those, but
I know people who are into that. I remember that one.

Speaker 1 (26:35):
Did you come to Frolican?

Speaker 3 (26:36):
I didn't left for something else, Like I just went
to that one thing and used toy.

Speaker 2 (26:41):
I stayed and I kept going to We had had
somebody on the Sean camera there like do you want
to take it to the frolicon? And we ended up
he went to one night and I went to the
whole weekend because there was a lot that I see
in Atlanta, right, Yeah, this was several years ago, and
I knew that I was not going to participate in
a lot of it. But I'm also one of those
people where like I want to see it, like I
want to see it just to see what the people
are doing. And when you say like the blood, it
was like they did this needle thing.

Speaker 1 (27:02):
I don't know what it's called. And the lady had
the slave man.

Speaker 2 (27:05):
He had his mouth like wrapped up and he had
a collar on and she had a leash on him
and she was putting needles to his backfat and he
kept it in like and I was like, I was
just standing there.

Speaker 3 (27:15):
Like, wow, people playing with knives and shit, and this
is not a murder festival, you know. So when somebody
is talking about they are freaking you. You look shocked.
If I say well are you into this? This and this?
And they looking like, bitch, where did you come from?
See that's what I'm talking about. You know, you really
not know free I think it.

Speaker 2 (27:30):
Behooves people to buy tickets and stuff like that, even
if you know you're not doing anything and just go
and just see what's happening, because it really was interesting.

Speaker 1 (27:37):
I was stopping and asking people questions.

Speaker 3 (27:39):
I was like, oh, does that hurt and it's interesting too,
because there are like that I would never just in
my mind, I wouldn't think of that being a sexually
pleasurable experience. It sounds like pain, but some people really
like it. I saw a video somewhere on the internet
today and this girl was like getting spanked really hard

(28:00):
with one of those paddles, and I'm like, see, to me,
that looks like a real punishment. I'm like, a fun punishment.
I'm not into that. But if you live in your box,
you'll never know about these things. And maybe you did
kind of like it.

Speaker 2 (28:12):
He was never scared of so, like, I know, I
don't like I don't like paddles because I need it.
So I tried it with somebody. It's like, oh, it's
not for me, But you don't know what. You don't
like it too, you know, until you try more things. Yeah,
and some of y'all do like paying y'all keep going
back to the same man that's breaking your heart, stopping
on it and g No, you got a baby boy
somebody else and now you're marrying.

Speaker 3 (28:32):
Him, taking it in before you even get wet. You
like it rough.

Speaker 1 (28:36):
He's not listening to you at all. He's not helping
at home with the kid.

Speaker 3 (28:39):
Like you like a little pain, you might be into
BDSM look it up. There's lots of things out there. Okay,
well that's it for I'm curious to know again. If
you guys want to purchase it, please do. I'm curious
to know dot com. Now we're going to move on
real quick to weird sex. It's not too long, and
then we're gonna.

Speaker 2 (28:59):
Talk to I think I hate the strong word I
got year's.

Speaker 1 (29:08):
It's uncomfortable, but it's so.

Speaker 3 (29:11):
It left me feeling worse than when I came in.
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (29:15):
I like how you can see the.

Speaker 3 (29:18):
Growth.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
You gotta cleanse it out.

Speaker 3 (29:21):
I'd rather just drink a smooth moved tea that the
Ballerina tea and just put it down the toilet. All right, Okay,
so this one is about a man who got a
colonic during her first date at her house. Okay, so
the story is A woman on TikTok went viral after
sharing that her hinge date came to her house and

(29:44):
asked to use her bathroom immediately. I mean, as a
person who frequently has to go, I get it right,
that would not be alarming to me. Sometimes you just
you gotta relieve yourself. I wouldn't, it wouldn't be a ship.
But you know, anyways, Okay, so she fit. He was
just nervous. But after twenty five minutes and some suspicious noises,

(30:06):
she peaked in and I'm like, you went up in
there like you didn't smell nothing.

Speaker 2 (30:11):
Along came polydam No, no, no, it's not.

Speaker 3 (30:17):
I just have to tell y'all, I have been sleeping
so good lately, even though I might have trouble falling asleep.
I just remind myself getting them Brooklyn bed in bed
and now you guys, I have upgraded my entire sleep experience,
because that's exactly what it is. I got the mattress
before I told you guys, I got the Sedona Elite

(30:38):
same so comfortable. But now I've upgraded my pillows. I
got the Luxury Jel Cooling pillow. You look like it's
firm and it's heavy, but it's not so firm that
it's like you're laying on a brick. It just feels
like it's your head can really lay into it without
like feeling like you don't have support. I'm not waking

(30:59):
up with the neck pains or any of that. I
absolutely love it.

Speaker 2 (31:04):
I every time it's time to get in my bed,
I whisper to myself, we're brooklyn At. You're Brooklyn At,
and I just get into my Brooklyn bedding.

Speaker 1 (31:15):
I got sheets. I got some sheets.

Speaker 2 (31:17):
I got the they're the bamboo breatheable white sheets.

Speaker 3 (31:21):
How do you like those?

Speaker 2 (31:23):
It's actually at first I was like, can you really
feel a difference.

Speaker 1 (31:26):
It feels like you can feel the cooling.

Speaker 2 (31:29):
You can feel that it's breathable. I have the pillow
cases also. I also got the cooling jel pillar. I
got two of them. You guys, I mean we're Brooklyn At.

Speaker 1 (31:40):
Were it at? Baby?

Speaker 3 (31:41):
Sleep quality?

Speaker 2 (31:43):
Sleep is so important, like especially when you start to
get older, y'all. You know your body aches and pains,
and if you're doing the things that people do in beds,
you also.

Speaker 1 (31:55):
Want to be comfortable, like you don't want to be
just sinking.

Speaker 2 (31:58):
I am just so impressed with this brand, like because
they really hold value to what they say.

Speaker 3 (32:04):
Yeah, there's no waking up on the wrong side of
the bed when you've got a Brooklyn bed, Okay, come on,
because it is going to feel good. And then if
you upgrade, they have not only mattresses, you guys, but
they have the pillows, they've got protectors. I think next,
I really want to get a knee pillow. I was
eyeing it. I wasn't really sure because sometimes I'm a

(32:24):
side sleeper a lot of the times and that hurts.
But it has improved being on this mattress. And I
think it's how it's like holding my whole body up
because down at the bottom I'm a little heavy, y'all.
So anyway, the bed is very supportive. But I think
I will just elevate this entire sleep experience. Y'all know,

(32:44):
I don't be sleeping like talk about it, but I
kind of look forward to it. This is something that
I enjoy romanticizing. I have my bathroom routine, and I've
taken my bath and my shower whatever, and I get
real clean and then I get all lotioned up. I'm exfoliated.
I just want to feel good. Yeah, I lay down
and I watch investigation Discovery Channel and fall asleep to

(33:05):
true Murders and I still wake up feeling peaceful.

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Speaker 3 (33:42):
And now we'll get back to the show.

Speaker 1 (33:47):
You said a man is not a necessity.

Speaker 4 (33:50):
A man is a luxury like deserve. Yeah, a man
is absolutely not necessity.

Speaker 1 (33:57):
Did you mean that to sound mean bitter?

Speaker 4 (34:00):
Oh not at all.

Speaker 3 (34:02):
I adore dessert. I love man. I think man are
the coolest, but you don't really need them to live.

Speaker 2 (34:12):
Ben Seller and Jennifer Aniston, and he does. He does
that in the movie Is So Funny.

Speaker 3 (34:17):
Along came, let me write so I can watch it.
I've been looking for more movies to watch. Oh I
didn't write this right, but whatever, Okay, So she peeked in,
only to discover he had brought his own kalonic irrigation
kit like an enema, and was giving himself a di
y n Emma in her bathroom. I don't know who

(34:39):
else will give me an enema besides me, but okay,
would you? And I wanted to ask you guys, because
I thought that was weird. He said he wanted to
be prepared, and I'm like, no, exactly. I guess he
had they met on him. Okay, okay, but I wouldn't
even pick that on. I wouldn't think I would get

(34:59):
that hinge. That's more of a plenty of fish field.
One of the other ones.

Speaker 1 (35:08):
Would be scared, sir, what are you in here doing?

Speaker 3 (35:12):
Why did we get here?

Speaker 1 (35:13):
That's details.

Speaker 2 (35:14):
I feel like he had a conversation about something show
with his ass.

Speaker 3 (35:19):
She probably said she was a pegasaurus in her bio
and he was like, oh, let me get ready, because
this is my.

Speaker 1 (35:24):
Tween who does that.

Speaker 2 (35:26):
And maybe he had never had it done for he
was like, I finally gonna get somebody in my boy.

Speaker 3 (35:29):
Maybe he wanted his ass eight but you don't need
to have a color, maybe she said she Well, that
was considerate though, because I told you about that time
I went down there and I was gonna do it
for this man. But it smelt like rhinoceros ass back there,
and I was like, the nerve of you you hate me,
You literally hate me because you tried to kill me
with the poisons and toxins that your your body is

(35:51):
literally expelling. Anyway, I wanted you to know would you
rather both of you? Would you rather somebody on a
first date being too prepared and too eager for something
sexual if it even if it wasn't already discussed, Or
would you rather somebody being overly spontaneous and just like
going for ship that you didn't know.

Speaker 1 (36:14):
I really eager? Now I feel like you're creeping weirdos.
I don't want to do it now.

Speaker 3 (36:22):
Spontaneous is way better than overly eager and prepared, like
it's too much planning and it's get me.

Speaker 2 (36:30):
Yeah, so you knew he was, you know, and my
mind just goes left When I start thinking you're weird,
like weird like that, It's like my mind is gonna
go left now.

Speaker 1 (36:38):
I'm like, okay, is this how you get your victims? Whoever?

Speaker 3 (36:42):
Am I going to be on dateline? What are you
going to say to my mother now that I'm gone?

Speaker 2 (36:46):
Like?

Speaker 1 (36:46):
What are we doing? And first of all, I also
just want to point out first date at the house
off of Hinge.

Speaker 3 (36:53):
What what I wonder if I don't know, but I
wonder if it was a situation where he came to
pick her up.

Speaker 2 (36:59):
Still, I think that the word at a point where
the world is just absolutely wild. Like if y'all meeting
people off the internet on Beyonce's Internet and you.

Speaker 1 (37:09):
Don't know them from Adam, don't do that.

Speaker 2 (37:11):
I feel like she was a sex worker and they
had an arrangement.

Speaker 1 (37:14):
That's just so scary to me. Y'all need to.

Speaker 3 (37:16):
Meet make her career pop off. Could be I don't know,
but not me.

Speaker 1 (37:25):
But they also linked to have sex when they're doing it.

Speaker 3 (37:27):
I have a friend away, but yeah, he's uh, he's
done some wild things that he shared and I'm like, well,
and then he just slips it into the conversation. She's like, oh,
I never told you that. I said, I will remember this.
I forget a lot, but this right here is weird.

Speaker 1 (37:44):
Well I never knew.

Speaker 2 (37:45):
And I learned this from an old friend and he's gay,
and he was like, and in Piedmont Park there is
a certain.

Speaker 1 (37:52):
Hour of the night where the gay men go to
the park. Have you heard this? And you can get
your dick sacks.

Speaker 3 (37:59):
A lot of places.

Speaker 2 (38:00):
There's a people in the park and I was like
in the outside in the park and he told me
where the area was and I was like, we have
you gone? He was like yeah, he's like because sometimes
you just want you to dig sect And I was like,
is that nice?

Speaker 1 (38:12):
Is everyone almost?

Speaker 2 (38:13):
Now?

Speaker 1 (38:13):
I want to go? It's at night and he was like,
and you got, I'm not going. I'll be terrified.

Speaker 3 (38:17):
There's a website that you can go to. It's twenty
four hours, not the hour thing, but I know chuck
about and people will go what is it called. I
can't think of the word. One of y'all might know.
You might know there's a website and then go on
there and it's like like, imagine find my friends, but
it's like find who I'm about to fuck or who's
dick come about to suck or whatever. And they will

(38:37):
be random places. You don't have to really communicate you
but you can see where people are. So then when
you run into the person, I guess you say password
code or whatever it is. You do something so that
they know, okay, we see each other, we were on
the app and they get to it right then they're strangers.
It's a snuff or something like that. Something anyway, they
and they'll be all over the place. And my friend

(38:58):
told me, and it's either a website or an app.
I wanted to download the app because I wanted to
see who around me was doing all that and make
sure nobody I was with, like on a date with,
or someone was sneaking off to the bathroom. Oh, you
want to go to the beltline so bad? Why and
way keep going to the bathroom. You're trying to go
get your dicksuck or something. I don't know. But then
I didn't want it to be following me and the
wrong person think is me, And then we got some confusion.

(39:21):
So I don't have it. I'm gonna look for that, look.

Speaker 1 (39:23):
At what it is. I don't want to message my friend.

Speaker 3 (39:26):
Right now that told me about it. We'll see if
he messages.

Speaker 1 (39:29):
Met too many date lines. And I don't know if
you frequent Peedmont Park. I do, and I have a
bed line.

Speaker 2 (39:35):
And there was one day I was at the at
Petermont Park and I was reading the book How My
Little Blanket Out, and there was this man. I don't
know if he was homes but he did look homeless.
And he looked kind of like a crackhead, and he
looked a little drunk. And he came stumbling up the hill.
I was minding my business, and I was I was
just sitting there.

Speaker 1 (39:50):
Like, you know, you know, I love everybody, but I'm
also scared right now.

Speaker 2 (39:54):
So I was sitting there on the blanket, like, I
hope this man don't come over here and ask me anything,
not one thing. He his whole butt was out, his
pants were falling down to the ground, his whole butt
was out. He was like, gibling, man, mind if I
can get a little beast of his shade real quick.

Speaker 1 (40:09):
And he sat down right in butt out.

Speaker 2 (40:11):
He's farting, And I was like, are these the people
that are in pe my parking their their dick sock?

Speaker 1 (40:16):
How would you know? Wait, huh, you gotta get that.
I'm going to pass.

Speaker 3 (40:23):
Okay, I just messaged him. I'll let y'all know if
he hits me back. But uh, that's where it secks.
Thank y'all for sending me stories. More people have been
sending me stories. Send me stories, Send me your confessions.
Tell me that thing that your friend did that you're
not supposed to tell nobody, But it just burning you up.
Send it to me. It will remain anonymous, and then
you can get it off your chest and you don't
have to tell your friend group and like be the

(40:45):
weird person where nobody wants to tell you anything anymore.

Speaker 2 (40:47):
Yeah, thanks y'all, and I will dive into some of
our topics. Actually I wanted to ask you currently, what
are some of your personal pleasure practice is I've heard
a lot of us talk about how like black women
don't really learn about pleasure, and so now everybody's trying
to make sure that that we do. Like you just

(41:08):
kind of you want your girl says, are you being pleasured?

Speaker 1 (41:11):
Like do you know I do it yourself?

Speaker 3 (41:12):
Are you?

Speaker 2 (41:12):
Are you opening up your mouth and letting your partner know?
What are some of your personal practices for pleasure? So
masturbation is one.

Speaker 1 (41:20):
Two.

Speaker 2 (41:20):
I'm very vocal on what I like, not like in
the mean way, but like we have conversations about like,
oh this is what I like. I like this like
nipple play, I like clatoral stimulation, I like whatever. But
the people seem to have a hard time having that conversation.
How do you have it? Is it just a normal
casual conversation with the person you like, very normal conversation

(41:40):
for me because most people who most men who talk
to me know what I do, so it's not weird.
So they're like, okay, so I just kind of bring
it up, like, oh, how was the weather? Same way
you know when we have because usually in some point
the conversations goes to six typically at some point, and
so we just kind of talk about, okay, so what
are you into? When it gets to that point, and

(42:02):
I let them lead, Okay, what are you into? And
they'll tell me, you know what, I'm like, Okay, well
I like that, I don't like that, or I'm into
blah blah blah, they don't asks. It kind of goes there.
So whenever we have like the typical sex conversation, out
of as and it kind of and men are very
forthcoming with things they like, and then you just kind
of be like, Okay, cool, good to know not these
the things that I like.

Speaker 3 (42:22):
Do they ever share with you that they're not into
something that you're into?

Speaker 1 (42:27):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (42:27):
Or do they pretend so no?

Speaker 2 (42:29):
So I also lead with I'm a ethical nom monogamous. Okay,
So prior to probably a year ago, I didn't really
say that on dates.

Speaker 1 (42:38):
I was kind of I just didn't. I didn't lead
with it.

Speaker 2 (42:40):
Well you explain what that means for someone who might
be listening, and they're like, what's that?

Speaker 1 (42:44):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (42:44):
So people who would ethical nominogamy who practice echal nominogamy
are people who date multiple people, and so there's different
So poly falls under that. I'm not Polly. I'm not Polly,
but I do date people who are. But like, like
I'm into like swinging, I'm into like open relationships and

(43:06):
I can explain what that means too. But so I
like to have six outside of my primary partner with
other people. That's vexable terms, and so like I tell
people that, So I'm now I'm very open.

Speaker 1 (43:17):
I lead with oh, so this is what I do.
Are you go into it? Yes? Or no? You know,
sometimes men be like no or well maybe someone'm gonna
be like where's that? Where like what is that?

Speaker 2 (43:29):
And so did I explain? Like I had a dude
from my past who recently and he doesn't live here,
he lived he plays basketball overseas and I was like, uh,
and he asked me, oh, could you be with me
in whatever.

Speaker 1 (43:44):
Country he's in. I can't say because he might know
who he is. I mean the people who have known
me might know who is.

Speaker 2 (43:51):
And so I was like, yes, but I'm in Atlanta,
Like I'm not leaving Atlanta to go to Spain, Like
I'm just not doing that.

Speaker 1 (44:01):
So like, you know, I could be your Atlanta girl.
You know that's over here.

Speaker 3 (44:07):
I'm not.

Speaker 2 (44:09):
Yeah, I mean you know it's gonna be somebody here
in Atlanta. And he was like, I like my person
to be just my Like, okay, cool, best look. I
like if you if I'm not gonna need your thing,
that's great. It's just not my thing, even if it's
someone like even if you live here in Atlanta. Right,
my schedule is very busy. I'm not here a lot.
I'm busy doing work. And I also don't have seven

(44:31):
days a week pussy that you're gonna be fucking because not.

Speaker 1 (44:34):
A pussy's head up. I just don't have it.

Speaker 2 (44:37):
So if you're somebody who likes regular sex in terms
of like I want to, I won't stick there every day.

Speaker 1 (44:41):
You're gonna have to get it for somebody else.

Speaker 2 (44:43):
Like I have like a good probably two through day,
two to three day a week type of vagina right,
lean heavy on two right, So like I have no
issue with my guy, Like, if you need outside sex
for somebody, like, go do that, because I'm not I'm
not your girl, right, And so I know that about
myself and so I allow my person to also do

(45:07):
those things.

Speaker 1 (45:08):
What was the question I got? What was the question
you asked?

Speaker 3 (45:12):
What was it for her to explain it? And before
that you were asking where she was in her you.

Speaker 1 (45:17):
Had asked them.

Speaker 2 (45:18):
I don't know, but you made me think of something
else with the non ethical non monogamy ethical non ethical
because it is ethical ethical?

Speaker 1 (45:30):
Does what where does it come from?

Speaker 2 (45:33):
Like because people that I know that also identify with
that type of dating when you get down to the
root of it, it normally the people that I've talked to,
it's comes from trauma. And so I do you do
you not want to commit or be monogamous because there
is some sort of fear there or you This is
just really just a free and this is just what

(45:54):
I want to do my I honestly don't believe monogamy
humans is relatively new, right, I mean, we've been doing
it for probably the last hundred years, but like on
the scale of humanity is relatively new. Like if you
if you're someone who like you know, grew up Christian
like me, cool and the Bible men had wives, cockubines,

(46:15):
multiple people, right, so women did not, but men did
so like I, and I also believe that for six,
it's just six and six does not equate to love,
like it's two different things.

Speaker 3 (46:29):
And that's why you would say you're ethically non monogamous
but not poly, Yeah, because we ain't doing all that.

Speaker 2 (46:34):
Yeah, so you're poly is relational? Right, I personally don't
have don't have the capacity to have multiple ongoing relationships.
It's just I just don't have it. But I'm okay
with Daddy someone who's Polly as long as you understand
that these are probably is not about just six. It's
about relationships. So that made you have to give your

(46:55):
time and you don't want to do that. I have
one person that I have, one person that I have
a relationship with. I have sex with other people, but
it's just six. It's like, you know, it's just a
six thing. Like for example, I had this guy was
dating we were He was a cook, right, and so,
and what cooks are cooks are people who don't who

(47:17):
like watching their persons sex with other people. And so
I was dating him, but I was just we were
I was just having sex with other guys for him
to watch.

Speaker 1 (47:24):
I had a good time doing it was great.

Speaker 3 (47:26):
I was about to say, was it a good time?

Speaker 1 (47:28):
It was great because he was involved in the process.
He liked it.

Speaker 2 (47:32):
We will find a guy online together, I will find
a guid on profile, show him the person he had
he had.

Speaker 1 (47:40):
Okay, it me and the guy.

Speaker 2 (47:41):
Me and the guy would meet him, and the guy
and me would actually eventually meet my person at dinner.

Speaker 1 (47:48):
Drink, yeah, I eat something. They all be cool. We'll
set it up. We will be there. That's kind of
how it was.

Speaker 2 (47:56):
And so it was fun, but it is enjoy of
It's not you don't have this child a trauma, traumatic
story behind it.

Speaker 1 (48:02):
I mean, we all got trauma, right, you know.

Speaker 2 (48:04):
I have dad issues like the like the rest of us. So,
but I don't think for me, me wanting to have
other sex with other people, it's not from that. It's
just I like you though. I like steak, also like
chicken sometime. Yeah, It's just I don't mean, I can't

(48:24):
see me having one penis forever type of thing that
just seems like I don't want to feel you.

Speaker 3 (48:32):
At what point in your life did you realize that's
what you wanted? Did you cheat a few times first?
And then it was like no, actually.

Speaker 1 (48:42):
To do this.

Speaker 2 (48:43):
So I'm writing a book, right, it's on next year,
and so in the book I talk about it's one
of the book is from please from a disease. Every
alphabet has a different title or subject and so an
end it's not traditional relationships.

Speaker 1 (48:58):
And so the funny.

Speaker 2 (48:58):
Thing was this was probably I don't know thirty two
one of my really got good guy friends who's married,
and he was like, you ain't one of those monogamies
type of girls.

Speaker 1 (49:10):
Like what you mean?

Speaker 2 (49:11):
Because I grew up in the church. My parents are married,
my mom, my parents met in high school. My mom's
only been one guy, my dad, my grandparents, my grandparents
got married, my grandma got my grandma went from her
parents' house to my granddad's house.

Speaker 1 (49:25):
Like, so I'm in from very traditional, very traditional people.

Speaker 2 (49:28):
We get married young, we stay with our husbands, right,
we have kids, and that's who and then there's me
the rebel. So so he was like, that's not who
you are. I was like, why do you say that?
And then he was like, you're just not you like
these things, and I was like, no, I'm not. I'm
a traditional person.

Speaker 1 (49:46):
I was like, no, I'm not.

Speaker 2 (49:47):
You're not talking about and so I fought it for
a very very long time. I was like, no, I
can be, and I think I can't. So I do
have I do have peers of monogamies. I can be monogaus.
I can be with one person for a long time,
but but in between that, we're gonna have to have
some type of something, like you know, maybe you our
anniversary or something. We're gonna have do something something. But yeah,

(50:10):
it's like we're gonna need to do something. So it
wasn't until probably three four years ago. I was like
I texted him. I was like, you know, you remember,
you know you told me years ago that I was
this person.

Speaker 1 (50:22):
It was like you were right. He's like, yeah, I know.

Speaker 3 (50:24):
I'm like I get it now.

Speaker 2 (50:26):
I get what you were saying because like I've tried.
I've tried the I've tried it, and it's.

Speaker 1 (50:32):
Like it didn't work for you.

Speaker 2 (50:33):
No, It's like I like going to swimmer clubs, I
like participating in stuff, I like doing it. I don't
have to do it every day, but I like the
option of it being open and available.

Speaker 1 (50:47):
So I get it. I get it.

Speaker 3 (50:50):
I feel you on that. Have you ever really liked
somebody who tried to be okay with that? And then
he realized how did how did that conversation when he
realized I can't do this?

Speaker 1 (51:02):
So I think we're me and Daddy. Most men. I
think most men like the idea of me, and they're like.

Speaker 2 (51:10):
Oh, your name is sex with Ashley, right, yeah, so
they assumed I have like poorn star six and it's
really regular, and then they feel like, you know, they
liked the idea, but then they really realized that, oh,
she actually does the ship she talks about. Yes, right,

(51:30):
so yes, I'm a church girl, performed whatever. But like
the stuff I talk about, I really do, and so
like sometimes they kind of like be shocked by that.

Speaker 1 (51:41):
And I remember one time I was going to go.

Speaker 2 (51:43):
This is during COVID. I was supposed to go to
hto if I didn't go because it.

Speaker 3 (51:46):
Was COVID and I was dangerous, right.

Speaker 2 (51:55):
I was talking to this guy at the time and
I was and he didn't know what KETO was he
was new divorce, I think, and he was married for
like years, like a decade maybe, and I think before
his wife he had like maybe like one other relationships.
So he's been he's very vanilla, very traditional, and I date,
I date traditional men to traditional men seem.

Speaker 1 (52:14):
To follow me. I guess it's the South. I don't
know what it is.

Speaker 2 (52:17):
And so I explained to what he was and he
was like, sor, are you gonna go there and sex
with other people? I was like, I mean, I don't know.
I mean, but it's a place where people do, so
it's a possibility. Right, I'm not going there. Oh I'm
going to fuck five guys. No. If I happen to
go there and someone vibes with me, cool, like you know,

(52:38):
let me open. But he and I struggled because he
was very very traditional, and I found that a lot
of guys in the South for traditional, y'all don't find that.
I like a lot of guys everywhere are are very
traditional like that. When you when it comes down to it,
like okay, like you want to try something, and it's.

Speaker 1 (52:55):
Like, ok, I'm very open. Let's together. I don't know
how this is gonna go, but let's try you want
sex club, Let's go to sex club?

Speaker 2 (53:02):
When in Rome do is the Romans and a lot
of the men that I have met that aren't really
like they get in it and it's like they're kind
of like nervous and like don't really know how to
like move in it.

Speaker 1 (53:12):
And now it's like now we're fighting in the club,
like you wanted to come.

Speaker 2 (53:17):
I have popped a lot of niggas cherries at the
sex club. I think it's cool. Then we go and
some of them like it, some of them like, oh
this is different, and then like they don't go back.
I would I would like for it to go like
the men moving forward. I'm not dating right now or
having sex, but like I don't really like it. If
you don't, I want you to be comfortable. I don't

(53:38):
want to have to guide you and lead you. I
don't I don't want to do If you never go
to sex club, I'm done trying to I'm done trying
to pop the sex club cherry. If you don't really
want to go, please don't say you want to go.
But they be wanting to go though they'd want to go,
but then they be and they're mad, Like.

Speaker 3 (53:52):
I haven't been to a sex club with somebody who
got mad, But I will say that a lot of times,
what I find is the guys will truly be traditional
and maybe they think they want to step out of
that box, so they think that they're not so stuck
on it, and it's like, it's cool when they do it,
it's a problem when.

Speaker 1 (54:10):
I do it.

Speaker 3 (54:10):
So you can fuck the other girls. We can have
threesomes together. But if I want to go fuck a
man and have a threesome without you, it's a problem.
If I want to go fuck another man or a
girl without you, it's a problem. You want to be
involved in everything, and you really don't want me fucking
nobody else.

Speaker 2 (54:29):
I know people who are identify as Polly, but it's
it's one sided polly.

Speaker 3 (54:36):
Mm hmmm.

Speaker 2 (54:37):
So it's the guy can do whatever, but he expects
his person to only be with him. I mean, it's
kind of like I guess it's kind of like Nick
Cannon for what I heard and read the stories, like
he he expects his women to just be with him,
but he has bab mamas.

Speaker 1 (54:51):
So but but if that works for that works for you, Yes,
that's what you like. Well, he's paying for our whole
life solves. Man, y'all could be quiet, we're gonna do this.

Speaker 2 (55:01):
That I think I would try too, and I have
your baby for nick, I think I might, but but
also I also know how I am and I'm like, man,
but that brings me.

Speaker 1 (55:14):
I put a question on here and it it's.

Speaker 2 (55:17):
What has sex taught you about boundaries? Because a lot
of what we're talking about is like you put yourself
and you say you want to try something, and then
you're in the position to try it and you realize
it brings something out of either like it or you don't.
You're like, this is a hard no, Like don't do
this ever again? Like what has sex taught you about boundaries?
That it's okay to not be in certain things and
it's okay to say no. Like so I'm a big
anal sex fan, like me done it, had a good experience,

(55:41):
had a bad experience with it, but something I don't
ever have to do again, prefer not to actually to
be honest, So like so when people ask about anal sex,
I'd be like, it's it's not all my listle things
to do. And so I had this one guy I
was dating who he wanted to try anal and I
was like, I'm good on it, done it before, good?

(56:03):
Oh why can't you do it with me? Done it
with other people, Babe. There's a lot of things I've
known other people that I will.

Speaker 1 (56:08):
Never ever do with you.

Speaker 2 (56:08):
I'm about to run it back because like, I'm not,
I'm not going to try everything with you. I've been
having text as I was a teenager, Like, there's a
lot of things I've done like you won't be privy to,
so like it taught me that having sext taught me that,
you know, my heart knows you don't like it too bad,
you can find somebody else to do it, like some

(56:30):
all the time.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
If you go find somebody else to do that, I
won't be mad.

Speaker 3 (56:34):
Because there's lots of people in this and now they've
got all the apps for I don't don't want to
speaking of apps. That site or app whatever it is.
It's called Sniffy's. He texts me back, so y'all look
it up later, sniffing for dick. Have you ever found
that when people so they see you online you're sex
with Ashley and they have these assumptions about you. Do

(56:57):
you feel like sometimes people are too pushy with their assumptions,
and they are surprised when they're not, You're not whatever
idea they have created. And do they ever get disrespectful?

Speaker 1 (57:09):
So no, people get direspectful.

Speaker 2 (57:11):
But I think me and are like surprised that I'm
like not hanging off schadeliers like I do. They're like, oh,
you just have you just you have regular sex. Yeah,
I like it, missionary. That's my favorite position.

Speaker 3 (57:23):
That's my favorite time.

Speaker 1 (57:25):
Like, I like it most of the time.

Speaker 2 (57:27):
It's regular, boring, vanilla six ninety percent of the time.
Like this is what I That's what I like. I'm
not like I have a whole a little shoot thing
of sex toys. I don't use it most of the time.
Like you know what I'm saying, I'm in a regular
sex I think sometimes when people get so hung and
we could probably all speak to this your sex with

(57:49):
Ashley where cocktails. I know that there. I have been
challenged with some things where it's like just because we
and we talk about sex, dating and relationships, I like,
I say, always add in it, but people only see
the sex, and it's like sometimes people can't look past
that and they there's like this I don't know if
I would want to call it a cloud, but there's
something where it's like you just see the sex, you
see girls talking about sex, and some people get really

(58:11):
offended by it, and some people will hold certain things
against you, some people will have certain judgments towards you,
and to me, it's just really interesting. It's like, because
you talk about sex, you shouldn't be at God forbid,
you're at church, and it's like, what does that have
to do You talk about can't enjoy sex? You can't
do any of that, or it makes you less of
a woman, or you talk about sex, it's like you

(58:33):
sure are you? I bet you're having sex with everybody.
It's like, where do we get this from? Where are
you talking about sex? Who don't know who your baby
daddy is? Like how are we living our lives? Like
I'm just like I don't understand that. Like there is
a part of me where it's like when people's lives
have been affected because of we talk about sex. We're
not poorn stars and again there's no judgment, but there
is a huge difference. And so has your dating life

(58:56):
ever been affected because you do decide to talk about sex?
Cause I know, yeah, So one of my good friends
as a guy, heterosexual guy here in Atlanta, and he
was like, because I complain him about day life all
the time, He's like, you do realize that guys think
they put you in and those porns are in the
same category.

Speaker 1 (59:14):
I was like, like, no, it's not. He's like, yes,
it is. It's sex. We all put that in group.
It in one thing.

Speaker 2 (59:20):
So people think you are like this prostitute porn star.
And I was like, oh, okay, that makes sense. I mean,
but I didn't get it first. I'm like, what is
the problem.

Speaker 1 (59:29):
But yeah.

Speaker 2 (59:29):
So I've had people who who not turned off, but
I think, well, what I did did not align.

Speaker 1 (59:38):
With their careers.

Speaker 2 (59:39):
Like, you know, I have people who are who work
in corporate America. Who are I have a friend who
I was dating who was the face of a big
organization here in Atlanta. Like, you know, you can't they
can't take me to their Christmas Christmas social because people
know me and I talk about sex on the internet
and it's like, now you gotta explain that to people.

Speaker 1 (59:58):
No, you don't.

Speaker 2 (59:59):
That's the hard that I'm like, who would actually sit
here and be like, hey, you need to explain yourself
and why are you talking about all it sex young
lady like.

Speaker 3 (01:00:07):
But it's also weird to me that so many people
equate pleasure, well women's pleasure with promiscuity, and promiscuity with
being less of a person, as if that is the
only thing about you. And if you listen closely, niggas
half the time were talking about not even being pleased.
So I don't even know what's going on. It's frustrating.

(01:00:30):
But then it's also like, you know what, your mind
is too close for me. You don't align with me
right because I'm not trying to over explain myself all
the time or prove myself to me. That is exhausted.
Medina posted a real it's both of us. Somebody the
other day said something about these whoror something, and I'm like, now,
how did we get here? We were literally doing some

(01:00:51):
TikTok dance. I wouldn't even shake a pass in that one.
It's just like, God, damn, Jean's in a tank top.

Speaker 2 (01:00:58):
I just think it's interesting that people will take something
like conversation and it's not hatred, and it's not you
know what I mean, It's not we're not hating anyone
it's like you don't but you don't look at how
everybody lives different lives, Like we don't sit here every
single day all day, just like sext XIXXI, Like what
I just really think that people think that I'm like

(01:01:18):
I volunteer at meals on Wheels for Atlanta, I go
to like a Bible study, like I've served with the
children and what exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:01:29):
Like I really.

Speaker 2 (01:01:29):
Sometimes like when people are like, oh, yeah, well you
the one of the people that you interviewed on your
show where he was like, you're the nasty girl, and
I was like, oh man.

Speaker 3 (01:01:37):
The nasty girl. I'm just like, what what is it
that you saw? Because there are moments where we have
shared nasty stories, right, but what is it that you
saw that made you feel like this is it? Or
that it's so raunchy? Because also the way that you
cut up when your cameras are not on for your
show and when you're super Christian faith based following is

(01:01:59):
paying attention to you. It's two different people, you know.
So it's really interesting to me how much people put
on or it. Again, if a woman says anything about
having sex and God forbid, it's enjoying the sex that
they have. Then all of a sudden, you are just
fucking anything that you can.

Speaker 1 (01:02:17):
And you think that walks Yeah, you have no morals,
and it's just really I had got tell me that once.
I had a guy tell me that.

Speaker 5 (01:02:22):
You have no morals.

Speaker 1 (01:02:24):
There are morals in the line, and which is fine.
Some people's morals don't aligne. But this is how it
got here. Right.

Speaker 2 (01:02:29):
So we got here because he wanted to go to
a sets club and I was like, oh, okay, I've
been to a plenty of them. We can go, right,
And he was like, so the question was would I
let somebody if he went to a sess club with me?
Would I let him have success with somebody else? I
was like, yeah, I've gone to a sess club with
the guy I was with and they had sex with
someone else.

Speaker 1 (01:02:48):
Because it's a sets club. It's like me going to.

Speaker 2 (01:02:51):
A club and I'm getting mad because like, you know,
my dude's desk on somebody else.

Speaker 1 (01:02:55):
You come home with me. I don't really cares as long.

Speaker 2 (01:02:57):
It's like tastefully you're not like you know about But
and then so we had a conversation like several weeks
after that, he was like, yeah, are morals on the line.
But I didn't bring up the sixth club you did and.

Speaker 3 (01:03:11):
The fucking sex club. So where is the line in
the sand with sex club behavior for him?

Speaker 1 (01:03:16):
I don't I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:03:17):
I think it was just the fact that I actually
would go and then it would actually allow him to
like do that, and then he was on this thing
where he had a daughter and he wanted he didn't
feel like I was like a great role model for
a shower.

Speaker 1 (01:03:29):
Okay, cool, I just people. I think the only the
only way you are safe there too, So why you
look at people's real lives?

Speaker 2 (01:03:43):
This is conversation And when I look at some people
who have the audacity to have even family members have
the audacity to have any sort of judgment about just
this situation. You could judge me on other things that
I've done that have been absolutely wild, but like talking
about like sex and just being open and trying things
and doing things and just comfortable talking about it. How
dare you look me in my eyes when I know
some of the things that you've actually done in your

(01:04:03):
real life to hurt people, to lie to seek like
it's like one thing that I love with me as
a person is you.

Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
What you see is what you get.

Speaker 2 (01:04:13):
It ain't really know, you're not it's not gonna be
no surprise, free nasty sex.

Speaker 1 (01:04:16):
It's not like you're either gonna get that, you're gonna know,
you're gonna know me.

Speaker 2 (01:04:20):
And I don't like when people like you're walking around hiding.
You don't have to have a podcast about sex. I'm
not saying that you have to put all your business
out there, like we're comfortable any more sex podcasts. Actually
we don't need any We don't any more podcasts, No
more we got it. Yes, just coming if you be
a guest and don't just you know, just get a taste.
But it's like again it goes back to like you

(01:04:40):
so busy looking at what we're talking about.

Speaker 1 (01:04:42):
Who are you as a person?

Speaker 2 (01:04:44):
No? Are you yourself? Are you getting in relationships with people?
And then it's like surprise, bit, really I'm trying to
change you.

Speaker 1 (01:04:51):
And it's like, oh no, what are we doing?

Speaker 2 (01:04:55):
Like if somebody once told me I'm not gonna be
a good mom because we talk about sex, and I
was like.

Speaker 3 (01:05:00):
Why a baby gonna get here when all.

Speaker 1 (01:05:02):
Of are gonna be fine?

Speaker 3 (01:05:04):
Like they're gonna and even that is crazy again. It's like,
why does having sex and enjoying it make you less
than anyone else?

Speaker 2 (01:05:13):
And being honest about your experiences. You've got a lot
of people here lying true, you doing the same thing.
You just lying like it's interesting. The only profession I
feel like that is safe. As in, like the sexual
space is like, if you're a sex therapist, people assume
you having people, So you're cool, right, no one looks
down sex therapy.

Speaker 1 (01:05:29):
Oh cool, your therapist.

Speaker 2 (01:05:31):
If you are in like the academia, if you're like
a professor, also cool, Like that's acceptable. I can tell Oh,
she is a a professor at SO and Soul University.

Speaker 1 (01:05:40):
She teaches team and sexuality. But like anything else, like
they like use a hoe, right, trashy hooker, crashy hooker.

Speaker 2 (01:05:49):
You deserve to die burn head? Yes, And it's like,
oh my goodness, I just I.

Speaker 3 (01:05:56):
Wish more people would get to a point in their
own lives where they felt more comfortable with who they are,
whoever those people may be. Hopefully it's not this person
that you're projecting. But I think when you get rid
of the hang ups that you have that you've been
taught or conditioned to believe and you really think about
what actually actually matters to you that wasn't taught to you,

(01:06:20):
you'll have a lot more of an open mind, and
you'll be a lot more accepting of people and understanding
of people. And until we get to a place where
more people are like that, there's going to be even
more people continuing to hide. I think that society has
gotten better in the grand scheme of things with allowing
people and accepting people for who they are, but we
still have a long way to go. But speaking of acceptance,

(01:06:42):
before we move on to indecisive Diiana, I did want
to go back to you said, you're in a cult.
What kind of cult was this?

Speaker 1 (01:06:48):
So?

Speaker 2 (01:06:49):
And were you an adult or you were a kid?
I was in my early twenties, so adult is I
grew up in the church. I grew up in a
very religious, very traditional religious family. And so twenty two one,
twenty two somewhere now, I was a part of this.
I was one of one of the group leaders of
this cult.

Speaker 3 (01:07:11):
Uh huh.

Speaker 1 (01:07:11):
It's called Pinky Promise. It's it's not anymore.

Speaker 2 (01:07:14):
It's actually founded by someone who lived in Atlanta at
the time.

Speaker 3 (01:07:19):
Is there a documentary about it?

Speaker 1 (01:07:21):
Not yet give it time? Was it a lot of
people in it?

Speaker 2 (01:07:23):
Uh? Huh because she has in different cities.

Speaker 1 (01:07:27):
Okay, they're a bar.

Speaker 3 (01:07:29):
So what's the pinky promise.

Speaker 1 (01:07:30):
Yeah, pinky promise is you're not gonna have a second
till you married. Oh okay, yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:07:33):
So so I was the leader, you know, So like
I was one of the leaders for the North Carolina
chapter and so we will like meet weekly and do
all these things. And also people are like, oh, save
yourself for your husband. And then somewhere around twenty six

(01:07:56):
twenty seven, I was like, yeah, were you a virgin? No,
so I had six I have. So I go to college.
So I was like eighteen nineteen freshman year whatever whatever
that was, first mean year, second semester, So I don't know,
eighteen nineteen and so no, but like I didn't really
have I didn't have a whole phase until like late

(01:08:18):
twenties thirty because in college it was really like only
like three people. But so because when I think of calts,
I immediately go to like nobody's geating food.

Speaker 1 (01:08:29):
You gotta all stay in a room, and like they're
just rations well, no, no, no, very much.

Speaker 2 (01:08:34):
It was very much group think, like this is this
is what, This is what I believe. This is what
y'all didn't think. This is how how I didn't live together.
No no, no, no, we didn't live together, but we
like met weekly. We get like these group text messages.
Oh are you I remember? Because I used to like Scandal.
I was a big Scandal person. I'm rewatching it now actually,
And so she the leader, the leader leader was she

(01:08:56):
didn't really like Scandal. She thought it was like you
had too much sexual thing.

Speaker 1 (01:09:00):
Y'all can't watch Scandal? Right, y'all like Scandal?

Speaker 2 (01:09:04):
Like me, watch Scale didn't make me want to have
six it was sixteen, but it was a good show.
And so that's when I remember I started thinking, like,
I don't know if this is for me, because like
I like Scandal, I'm not it's not causing me to
like want to go fuck a man? So why am
I not watching the Shoulder I love? So it was
like things like that over time that I realized, like,
I think this is very much a cult.

Speaker 3 (01:09:25):
It's like nobody can be different.

Speaker 1 (01:09:27):
Yeah, but I think.

Speaker 2 (01:09:28):
Purity culture in general is like a scam and very coldish.
I think it only focuses on women and whatever yeah,
but so yes, I was a part of that to
about twenty six, twenty seven, and then I was like,
I'm horny.

Speaker 3 (01:09:45):
Why is something really?

Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
It was?

Speaker 2 (01:09:48):
Because I time it was I think I had it
had six like three years, three four years, Like, so
why am I doing this again? And so I had
to relearn and read and re just relearn what I
leaves in terms of like who God was six and
just my relationship with God. And it wasn't based on
if I say my coochie or not, or my husband

(01:10:10):
because at that rate, because based on that baby, I'm
forty and I don't have no man, so you mean
something I'm supposed to not be fucking okay, I'm forty,
God Like that can't be right.

Speaker 3 (01:10:22):
So sometimes it feels like another scheme that TODs set up,
Like is this for men? Is it really for men?
Because you're right, they be putting the pressure on us
but not on the man. And it's like, is it
so that we don't know any better? I do trying
to use ignorant because then if we don't know, and
it's just like, oh you think this is how it goes.
I just I get to get off and you're just

(01:10:43):
there I think a baby legacy.

Speaker 2 (01:10:46):
I think prettic culture is is just that it's so
we were made ignorant because we don't know what good
sex is. Then we think this is just this is
just this was supposed to be. Like I remember, like
the very first guy had sex in college who was
older than me. He was like four or five years
older than me. With another story another time, I was

(01:11:07):
with him for like a year and a half. I mean,
it wasn't bad, but I'm like, this is not the
stuff I read about in zag books exactly, like this
is not it so but I really know not. I
thought maybe something I don't know, I know what I thought,
but it ain't.

Speaker 1 (01:11:19):
This ain't it.

Speaker 2 (01:11:20):
But it wasn't until like I started having sex with
other people and I started.

Speaker 1 (01:11:24):
Like, oh, this is what the Jay's talking about.

Speaker 2 (01:11:26):
But see if I had if I had just to
start with him, married him, like I would have been
with some subpar fix now at forty probably you know,
with two kids and you know, yeah, but you don't
know what you don't know. You don't know what you
don't know, And that's the whole point of period, be
cause they wanted to keep you in the unknown. Some
way men don't have to live up their sex game.

Speaker 3 (01:11:47):
Yeah, and it's like I also want to say, it
doesn't mean that you necessarily have to have sex with
a bunch of people. But it is okay to have
some pleasure, I think, but all of it, all of it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:59):
It doesn't have to be interesting one hundred, you know,
But does it have to be one either?

Speaker 3 (01:12:03):
Yeah? Yeah, you're not about to die because it was
three like relaxed and I did that and well, we
won't say how long it took. Wasn't long spoiler alert.
We do have to move on to uh not weird
sex and when we come back, you're gonna help us
answer some questions from our listeners and then we're gonna

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And now we'll get back to the show.

Speaker 3 (01:16:52):
Hey you guys, we are back and it is time
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Speaker 1 (01:17:06):
Read that device.

Speaker 2 (01:17:07):
Since we talking about all the sex and all the
sex with all the people, I do just want to
remind everybody make sure you getting tested. I do think
it is our responsibility to let y'all know also get tested.
When we went to that risky dinner, I put the
HIV test kit link in my bio and I'm now
constantly really telling people get tested, y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:17:25):
You can get it on door dish, She'll deliver it
to your door. You can get condoms and let the
drug store. Now, yeah, lots of things if you're.

Speaker 2 (01:17:32):
Going to whole hole responsibly, whole responsibly and yeah, so
let's just be smart. Okay, so this one is wwy D.
What would you do? Hi, ladies, Thank y'all in advance
for helping me. I love the show and I love y'all.
I look at y'all and I see pieces of who
I want to be one day from each of you.

Speaker 1 (01:17:51):
It's an amazing compliment.

Speaker 2 (01:17:52):
I'm just about to say, Okay, I'll get to the
point now. So I started dating this guy when I
was eighteen. I'm twenty eight now.

Speaker 3 (01:18:02):
Whoop.

Speaker 2 (01:18:04):
I thought, based on his actions and conversations we have
we've had over the years, that we were moving towards marriage.
Me too, girl, I mean, I won't waiting that long,
but I too thought that I recently caught this man
secretly communicating with another woman.

Speaker 1 (01:18:20):
This isn't the first.

Speaker 3 (01:18:21):
Time, damn double homo saude.

Speaker 2 (01:18:24):
I have forgiven him in the past because his reasoning
made sense.

Speaker 1 (01:18:28):
I wonder what the reasoning was.

Speaker 2 (01:18:31):
Each time I catch him doing this, he says something like,
we haven't been having enough sex. He doesn't feel close
to me. He seeks the closeness with others, but he
only messages them, never anything physical. I know that we
could be having more sex, and that sometimes when life
gets hard, I can be not emotionally sexually present for him.

(01:18:51):
He is saying he is so sorry and he wants
to work this out and he doesn't want to lose me.
There's a voice in my head that's like, if I
forgive him, how do I know we won't.

Speaker 1 (01:19:01):
Be here again? You will.

Speaker 2 (01:19:03):
But there's another part of me that's like, yeah, he
handles it wrong, but maybe I handled it wrong first
and that caused all of this. What would you do
thanks again? He's causing confusion in your mind and he
knows it.

Speaker 3 (01:19:13):
I wouldn't be blaming my damn self, that's forgot.

Speaker 1 (01:19:16):
You're blaming yourself because he's cheating.

Speaker 3 (01:19:18):
Yeah, sounds like somebody really doesn't want to be monogamous,
And I'm being honest, girl, I mean, how do you
actually feel about this? Does it upset you because he's lying?
Or is it upsetting you because he's messaging the girls
he's claiming it's nothing physical. Do you believe that in
your heart? And these are questions that you're gonna have

(01:19:38):
to answer for yourself. But I would say, think about
what the root of all of this is that is
making you upset. And then you said something about you
thought you were moving towards marriage in the beginning, but
he hasn't proposed, So I'm wondering why you were thinking
that in a long time, maybe he will, maybe he won't.
You guys also got together really young, actually talked about marriage.

Speaker 2 (01:20:01):
Or are you basically just off of the time that
you've been together, because we all know men will drag
you along for a longer than that.

Speaker 1 (01:20:08):
Ma'am.

Speaker 2 (01:20:08):
I know I've got family members that still calling uncle
Larry they boyfriend.

Speaker 3 (01:20:13):
And see that would be me and I would be
the one dragon because you know I'm comfortable. But I
think you need to ask yourself how you actually feel
it is upsetting for somebody to be dishonest with you, right,
I'm sure that that is part of it, But ask
yourself which part of the cheap? Because you also keep
accepting him and it don't sound like you're fucking him more.
Are you actually okay with him fucking other people? And

(01:20:35):
you don't want him to lie to you about it anymore,
and you want it to be something that y'all can
talk about and communicate. Are you afraid of starting over?
I'll never forget that girl who's like, I don't want
to I'm about to be thirty. I don't want to
enter my thirty single, no shade, And it's like, damn bitch,
all right, like what is it? Is it your age?
Ask yourself that because you keep taking him back, that's

(01:20:55):
what's throwing me off.

Speaker 2 (01:20:57):
And if you don't have the answers, because you maybe don't,
if you're praying and you just like, dang God, like
I don't hear you, get on tagipt When I tell
you tagybt will tell you about yourself. Put the situation
in tagy bt, and tagipt will read you like you've
never been read before. And I'm only saying that because
like as someone who is a lover girl and I
will be. I am one of those women where it's

(01:21:17):
like you really listen to your man and you start
to feel crazy because you're like, he loves me, Like
he wouldn't tell me anything to steer me the wrong way.

Speaker 1 (01:21:23):
Yes he would.

Speaker 2 (01:21:24):
When you don't want to have sex because something's going
on in your life emotionally, physically, or you're just a
little bit stressed, and the person that you're with who
loves you won't have a conversation about it and they
just need to have sex with something.

Speaker 1 (01:21:38):
That's a problem, Like that is a problem.

Speaker 2 (01:21:41):
I don't think you want to marry somebody that wouldn't
be able to talk through that, Like you want somebody
that's gonna be curious and be like, well, baby, what's
going on? Like that shows that he cares about you.
He cares about your emotional state, He cares about your
mental state. When a woman doesn't want to have sex,
and especially if the sex is good, you would wonder

(01:22:01):
are you okay? You're not just worried about your own
and you and you said you're not okay. And I'm
only telling you this because I went through this in
my last relationship. I didn't want to have sex and
I like sex.

Speaker 1 (01:22:12):
I love it.

Speaker 2 (01:22:13):
And my person got he didn't get curious, he got
mad and and was like, you're trying to.

Speaker 1 (01:22:20):
Uh, what do you manipulate me to marry you?

Speaker 3 (01:22:24):
Huh? And I was like, because you're not having sex.

Speaker 1 (01:22:28):
It was I was like, I thought that's where we
were going.

Speaker 2 (01:22:33):
And we did talk about it, and we did talk
about marriage, and we looked at the rings we didn't
and it was just very selfish and it makes you
you have what Kiki said, write the things down and
really look at who you with sis, cause it's not
gonna be fun if you get trapped in this another
ten years and you got babies, Like it's that's not fun.
Like he has a set, he might be a sex addict,
and he is cheating on you.

Speaker 1 (01:22:51):
He's been physical. Stop letting him lie.

Speaker 3 (01:22:53):
Helying smell that dick. I think there's a song out
there called Ashley. What would you say?

Speaker 1 (01:23:00):
I don't give dating advice because I've gone back to
this thing to go on a hundred times.

Speaker 3 (01:23:03):
Oh well, we'll don't be doing the right thing. This
is this is a safe space.

Speaker 2 (01:23:08):
Yeah, I mean I'm not gonna go I never went
back to somebody, but I will say like this, ain't
it like you?

Speaker 3 (01:23:15):
And sometimes it's not because we haven't we would never
do something that you've done, but we see some bit
of ourselves in you, and we just trying to save you.

Speaker 1 (01:23:24):
Yeah, actually said, I don't round them for you. I
got it dating. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:23:29):
All right, well, girl, next best thing is you need
to seek professional help and talk to a therapist because
you are. I don't want to forget about the part
where you say that you're not okay, don't know what
that is, not sure if you know, but hopefully that
you work through that because with or without him, if
you're not okay, you want to get to an.

Speaker 2 (01:23:49):
Okay place and see happiness at the end of the day.
I think sometimes if you are a girl like me
and you really do be loving.

Speaker 1 (01:23:55):
Your man, you're not married.

Speaker 2 (01:23:58):
I mean, you don't owe him all this loyalty, walk out,
walk away, and he don't you taking all the pain
and trying to act like it's a marriage.

Speaker 1 (01:24:05):
It's not, you know what I mean, Like, it's just not.
So let it go.

Speaker 3 (01:24:09):
Let that nigga go. Sixteen cabbages, that's what you need
to play right now, and just let the cry out. Okay,
irreplaceable resentment, but don't follow the rest of Beyonce's playbook
and go back. But we're gonna move on. Well, I

(01:24:30):
mean that does change things. I don't think that's what's
going on here, because she wouldn't have been writing us.
There would be no question.

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
She would just be sitting in it, sad and dealing
with it.

Speaker 3 (01:24:40):
Might just go fly off and find her somebody too,
and we can all be happy. Okay, I'm not gonna
read this second one. We'll save that. We are going
to move on to the cocktails. The drink was trying
to come out for a party. We're gonna move on
to the cocktails. If you guys have a cocktail that
you would like to share on the show, please email

(01:25:00):
us cocktails c O. C K T A L E.
S at cocktails pod dot com and maybe we'll read
it on the show.

Speaker 1 (01:25:07):
Uh huh uh.

Speaker 4 (01:25:15):
But it ain't got wont come? How did on mean you?
Is it some catch in the place that it is
once upon a time not long ago I was.

Speaker 3 (01:25:31):
I'm not gonna read one, though, we're gonna let actually
share hers. I know it's gonna be good because you
done tried some few things. Do you remember what a
cocktail is?

Speaker 1 (01:25:41):
One story?

Speaker 3 (01:25:43):
The story we call it a cocktail?

Speaker 1 (01:25:45):
Yeah, who said that?

Speaker 3 (01:25:52):
What did I say? Dating experience that was really memorable?
Whether it was really good, embarrassing?

Speaker 2 (01:26:00):
I know when I started to say it could be old,
it could be current, It could be luxury, It could
be weird, it could be odd, it could be embarrassing.

Speaker 1 (01:26:06):
And I had one You did? I did?

Speaker 2 (01:26:09):
M Was it from the colt? Was it when you
was fresh out the colt? It was recent? It was
about something well not recent.

Speaker 1 (01:26:17):
We talked. I had the story and I left. I
might talk about keep talking.

Speaker 2 (01:26:22):
It'll come to me. Well, I don't have no cocktail
for but one day I will.

Speaker 3 (01:26:28):
You know what I'll tell y'all this really short snippe.
I had the last bit of Sir Davis left from
my concert weekend, and I don't know what came over me.
After I deep conditioned this week again and I was
blowing it out, my arms got tired, but then I
just had a rush of sexual energy come over me.
So I put on my robe and my slippers and

(01:26:50):
a march downstairs, and next thing I know, I was
creeping in there like a sex demon. And I just
hopped on this man and I just I was ready
to have sex. I had even brought my little vibe
in my pocket, and I was like, I hope this
don't fall, because you imagine if you're walking down the hall.
I live in an apartment building. There are other people there.
The other guy, he lives in the building too, we
don't live together. I'm going downstairs, going down the hall,

(01:27:14):
down the stairs to his apartment. All I have on
is a rope, a slipper, some slippers, a vibrator hanging
out of my pocket, the one from the celebrator. Mm hmm.
That one is pretty efficious.

Speaker 2 (01:27:25):
It's very efficient. I have been using it very often
and I'm not gonna lie. I left it in my
bed and my nephew was at the house of the
day and I totally forgot that it was in the bed.
It's called a celebrator vibrator, and it looks like a
a toothbrush, like it's.

Speaker 1 (01:27:37):
The same shape.

Speaker 2 (01:27:38):
It has a standing as a motor toothbrush, electric toothbrush.
I hear zaying, say, Dan, Dan, what is this? And
I immediately was like he could only be talking about
one thing. That's After that he don't know. I went
running up the stairs and so quickly I said, that
is my toothbrush, and he was like, my nephew's very intelligent.
He was like, no, this isn't and I was like,
give me the thing. I was like, that's for my

(01:28:00):
is to Well, how does it workn't? Why did you
touch this, Like say, if it's first drop.

Speaker 1 (01:28:06):
It just stop touching.

Speaker 3 (01:28:08):
Shit. Mine didn't fall out of my pocket, but I
was nervous because I also had my dog. I forgot
I have my dog with me. So we're just mosing
on down the hallway, quick steps, quick steps, and I
get there and he was like, what's going on?

Speaker 1 (01:28:20):
What are you doing.

Speaker 3 (01:28:20):
I was just like, be quiet, take them pants off.
And he's with that man, so he's very excited. I
did wake him up out of his sleep, but I
think it was well worth it. And I haven't been
feeling like that a lot lately. Every now and again,
I've been having these rushes because like the previous what
was that year twenty twenty four? Last year, I wasn't
really having a lot of sex. I was depressed. I

(01:28:41):
just I wasn't feeling And it's really weird because I
like having sex with different people. Anyways, I went down
there and I just it felt really nice to just
have wild sex and then even do a little dick sucking.
And I don't like that anymore because my job is tired.

Speaker 1 (01:28:58):
It's a real job.

Speaker 2 (01:29:00):
Do you know.

Speaker 3 (01:29:00):
He gave me some lot of game mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (01:29:03):
Did it work?

Speaker 3 (01:29:03):
I didn't use it. I don't want to do it.
And what the hell lot of games? He was like, oh,
it's for your foot and I was like, but this
is one. He said, yeah, that one's for your mouth.
It was like a gail for my foot because it's
been hurting. And then he gave me some and I
was like, you're trying to be funny. I'm not using
it not anyway. Okay, good, you got it.

Speaker 1 (01:29:24):
So this was last year.

Speaker 2 (01:29:27):
Last year, so I'm at at a a AAU basketball game,
so sad and you was like, basketball tournaments and it's
expensive for these kids, but they're doing it to get scouted.

Speaker 1 (01:29:43):
They were in the airport. Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:29:45):
I think my sister was on the plane with some
of them. She was like, it's basketball boys on here
and they look good, but they look young.

Speaker 1 (01:29:54):
This was high school, uh, middle school, high school.

Speaker 2 (01:29:57):
I'm in an AU tournament. So I am at the
tournament working in the tournament with one of my friends.
She does the event stuff, and so one of the
fathers was there.

Speaker 3 (01:30:10):
First.

Speaker 2 (01:30:10):
So if you're if you are someone looking for niggas,
hight AAU games is nigga fest.

Speaker 1 (01:30:17):
I'm not gonna lie. I've had a a I got him.

Speaker 2 (01:30:24):
Short niggas, why niggas, Slim niggas like light skin niggas, variety,
nigga shor niggas, tall niggas, right, So it's niggas everywhere,
right from the sea of niggas like the Millionaire March.

Speaker 1 (01:30:34):
It's a it really is.

Speaker 2 (01:30:36):
Now some of them most of them are married or well,
I won't say most, some of them married or they
have kids because that's why they're there, right, it would
be weird.

Speaker 1 (01:30:43):
So they have their dads, but it's a nigga fest, right.

Speaker 2 (01:30:46):
So I was there working my little ticket booth and
his dad came up and we had been flirting, you know,
off and on all day, and so I gave my
number and then he was like, oh, come meet me
where we were at where he was. So we walked around,
you know, found the stairwell, you know, found the stairwell,

(01:31:07):
and and for and and then.

Speaker 1 (01:31:09):
And somehow we ended up sucking in the stairwell. Oh no,
at the where y'all met.

Speaker 3 (01:31:15):
Yeah, it was it was.

Speaker 1 (01:31:16):
It was Oh I thought they had left, No, no,
it was.

Speaker 2 (01:31:22):
It was.

Speaker 1 (01:31:22):
It was at the gym with with the kids.

Speaker 2 (01:31:26):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:31:27):
We didn't get caught, you know, because I probably have
a charge. Yeah, but we had. It was it was
for me, It was very It was really good. Five minutes,
not five minutes, let's say two.

Speaker 2 (01:31:40):
Could we say, well, so you really can't do a
whole lot, you know, pump pump pumpers move, But it
was really maybe because it's the spontaneity of it all,
like the rush of it all. It was very it
was a very good two minutes. Wow, very good two minutes.
You know, he wanted to come to This was in
d C. So he wanted to come to Atlanta.

Speaker 1 (01:31:57):
But you know, but it was it was just it
was what it was. You know, no needs you know,
to carry on any longer.

Speaker 2 (01:32:04):
But it was that is a cocktail, you know, if
you have I will just say, like everyone might not
have those spontaneous situations like that, but I do think
when you have experienced like the spontaneous sexual moments in life.

Speaker 1 (01:32:19):
Like it is like, wow, I really did.

Speaker 3 (01:32:22):
It makes you feel a lot, it does.

Speaker 1 (01:32:24):
I had to go tell my friends, like a stairweb
I mem today whatever his name was, Like, you're just like, wow,
I really did that. You're not sad after like, because
there's versions of this where you could be very sad. Yeah,
but when you're not, you're like, wow, I really I
really got a good time.

Speaker 3 (01:32:39):
Yes, I lived my life on the edge. Look at
me go out like I.

Speaker 2 (01:32:43):
Made someone's fantasy come true right right than a starwey
kids gang that he thinks about it every now and again.

Speaker 1 (01:32:49):
He still takes me from time to time.

Speaker 3 (01:32:51):
Oh so he definitely thinks about it a lot.

Speaker 1 (01:32:53):
I'm not interested.

Speaker 3 (01:32:54):
Yeah, but he still taxes me already does he never
had no experience.

Speaker 1 (01:32:58):
Like that before you daddies, we need to go to
the little ak.

Speaker 3 (01:33:04):
I ain't never been to one. My sister, my other sister,
Jasmine was here because her little brother is in that.
I was like, I know, it sounds familiar, and they
were playing the sports and traveling around. I would have went.
I've never considered that. Prot I was just like, I
want to see these kids playing.

Speaker 1 (01:33:22):
He ain't graduated high school yet, Like it's aist.

Speaker 3 (01:33:26):
I never considered that, but that makes a lot of sense.
And I bet the daddies. That's when the daddies, even
if they wasn't active, they're gonna clock in.

Speaker 2 (01:33:33):
They clock incause like usually because like it's all you
see is dad. It's a mom and a dad too,
but usually it's all the dads.

Speaker 1 (01:33:40):
When the bast of all they're real excited about dad.
So all the dads the.

Speaker 3 (01:33:47):
Left out.

Speaker 2 (01:33:48):
Well, actually we enjoyed having you. Yeah, to be in
your presence. Let everybody know where they can find you.
If you have anything coming up, let the people know
so you can find me on All Things six with Ashley,
I don't have anything. You're gonna have a book coming
out next year twenty twenty six. I just sent it

(01:34:09):
to the editors. Uh, we'll see what the day inside.
But I don't come out next year twenty twenty six.
It's called Pleasure. Please excited. Thank you, Thank you for comming.
We appreciate you. Thank you guys for listening. Follow all
the things going on.

Speaker 1 (01:34:25):
You have several trips to choose from a variety of trips.

Speaker 3 (01:34:28):
Do multiple because they don't even cross over at all.
If you got the money, come on, yeah, anything, just
make sure you checks in the description.

Speaker 1 (01:34:42):
And you have a Patreon video.

Speaker 3 (01:34:44):
Oh yeah, so we post a Patreon video for last
week and then it's part two this week. So the
content is coming back, y'all. My sister came in here
and she kicked my ask. She came to town like
a fucking tornado, and it was like, but she sitting
on all these videos. I'm thinking, didn't have stuff. It's coming,
So everybody go follow my sister. Malory Alexis is not

(01:35:06):
spelled the normal way. My mama was getting creative that year.
I'll tag her too, and she'd be editing and stuff,
and y'all send her some messages please. I'm trying to
encourage her to use her skills to like really start
editing like short form content for people and doing social
media management and marketing because she's really really good and
she gets.

Speaker 1 (01:35:25):
So Valorie Mallori. I'm about to text Mallori because I said, what.

Speaker 3 (01:35:30):
Would you charge? She sent me a text me and
she said, well, it's a lot. But I'm wondering what
she thinks is a lot. We'll see with these messages.
But I think if more people hit her up, she
can leave the salon. Sorry to her clients, but she
can leave the salon and do something else. She's really
passionate about it and she just learned. And I'm just like,
thank you, because she don't mind helping me. She thinks
I'm gonna get her somewhere, and she's like, we need

(01:35:52):
a show or something, so I'm gonna try anyway follow
her do that. We've got these trips, we've got lots
of links, and we've got paid pre videos. The girls
are back. And I had sex probably at least six
times this year, which is a record number compared to
last year, because it's probably at zero by this point,
so like something's changing, something changing.

Speaker 2 (01:36:13):
I went on a date, but I'll tell I'll tell
y'll about it next week. I'll tell you about it
next week.

Speaker 3 (01:36:17):
I know you fucking lie. Well, we gotta go so
I can hear this, y'all. Click the links. Bye everybody,
good night, good day, see you later.

Speaker 4 (01:36:25):
Peace bye bye

Speaker 2 (01:36:30):
Bye bye bye, good bye bye bye we try bye
bye bye

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