Ep. 457 Banter & Blushing: Jugo Alexander on Love, Lust & Laughs

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Yeah, you're a check one two, check one two?

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Is this Mike On?

Speaker 1 (00:05):
Is this Mike On? Hey?

Speaker 3 (00:06):
Listen man, it's the one and only Trenks that the
DJ system and you're listening to cocktails Dirty Discussions with
Kikia Medina Monroe.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
Here.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
Today's cocktail is called a tall gentle Man that smells
good and is fine. The ingredients you need to make
a tall gentle man that smells good and is fine.
You need some tequila, you need some ginger beer. You
don't even need no ice, because we're gonna get right
to it. You're gonna it's hot anyway, Yeah, it's hot.
You might be swaying a little bit. So you're gonna
pour the ingredients into a shaker and just shake it

(00:41):
with no ice, just so it gets mixed and blended
real well, and you pour it into a red cup
and enjoy a tall gentle man that smells good and
is fine.

Speaker 1 (00:50):
I hope y'all make it. Tell me how it tastes.

Speaker 4 (00:53):
I hope y'all do you have loved here? How you
think it tastes? Welcome back to Cocktails Dirty Discussions, you guys,
I am Kiki said, so, hey, y'all, I am Madina
Monroe and this week we have a guest. But before
we introduce him, we do have a few quick announcements
that we want to make. I want to remind everybody

(01:14):
one join the book club this month. I think we're
going to have the author joined for our meeting at
the end of the month. We are reading If You
Loved Me. I think it's the name of the book.
Check the description to make sure I'm saying the right thing.
But the author's name is Kimberly Brown. This is the
first book that I'm reading from her. So I hope
that you guys join us. This isn't something that we

(01:36):
always do, but it was something that I asked the
book club if they might be interested in, and so
many people say yeah, So I'm going to try and
do that. I'll let you know when the authors will
be coming. But yeah, so that's this month's book. I
also want to remind you guys to sign up for
the trip to Hedonism in December. We are going December
thirteenth through the eighteenth. A few people hit me up

(01:58):
and asked me about like, oh, if they want to
share a room but they don't have somebody, do I
know somebody. So I'm gonna do two things. One, they
will match you up with somebody. You don't have to
have your second person. But if you're still a little
nervous or you just want to know who's going from
the cocktails crew, you'll send me a dam let me
know that you're interested if you sign up, and make

(02:18):
sure you tell them that I'm the one who sent you,
so I get the credit for that. But if you
sign up, I'm gonna make a group message on probably Instagram,
and then that way everybody can chit chat and everything,
and then we can meet up when we get there
and it'll be like maybe less nerves. I also want
to remind you guys to continue checking out XOMM podcast.

(02:38):
I have it linked in the description. You can watch
it on YouTube. New episodes drop every Wednesday and Tuesday
is when the audio comes out. We still have a
ton more episodes that have already recorded that haven't been
released yet. I appreciate all of y'all supporting the show,
sharing the show. Continue to share it, tell a friend
to tell a friend and leave those comments.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
Love the show XMM.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
Also, I think it's a great addition that you are
bringing the author into the book Club. I love that,
and somebody hit me up about the hedonism triples, like
can I room with you?

Speaker 1 (03:08):
I was like, I'm not going with the trip, Like
that's Kiki.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
Trip hit her up, So shout out to you, Kiki.
I want to remind you guys really quick. One of
my girlfriends, she has put she started a foundation in
honor of her mother, who died a breast cancer is
called Lula's Legacy of Love Foundation, and it's one of
the very very few breast cancer organizations in the US
that's specifically dedicated to serving African American women. So they

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are doing a Save the Tatas two point zero breast
cancer awareness walk in Tampa, Florida, October twenty fifth. If
you can make it, please go. If you can't, we
would love it. If you could donate, go to www
dot Lula's Legacy of Love Foundation dot org. Lula's Legacy
of Lovefoundation dot org. That is such a special organization
to my heart. And if you've ever been affected by

(03:52):
breast cancer, then you get it. And if you haven't,
just donated anyways. Also, the Lover Girl's Only trip, you
guys were going, It's Highland August twenty twenty six. I
am so excited about this trip, Piky. We started a
group chat. We've been talking about like what we want
to do, how we're gonna do it. Now, We're like,
should we make a nineties R and B music video
in the rain in Thailand so we can cry our

(04:13):
eyes out together?

Speaker 1 (04:14):
It'd be fun, right, I'm like, Okay, let's do it.

Speaker 3 (04:16):
Which one we want to do? Okay, let me try
to find a little tie of videographer out there. I
know it's gonna be cheat, so girl, I'm just so excited.
The group chat is poppin'. If you would like to go,
please click the link in the description. It's not until
August twenty twenty six, so you have time to save
those funds or secure a man that can pay for
it for you, or just send him the link and
tell him to gift it to you if your birthday's
coming up. People forget that that's a gift. That is

(04:38):
a gift, Like, ask me for the link, I'll send
it someone for you. Also, I wanted to let you
guys know, y'all already know my grandmother passed away.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
We'll talk about it next week.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
We'll do a little recap of it, but I it
was crazy because it sparked so many different emotions. I
realized that a lot of black people do not have
their finances in order. They're just their their estates and order,
and so I think it's really important that you know
how to write a will. So I am hosting an
online how to write a will situate.

Speaker 2 (05:10):
Y'all.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
I don't know how this is gonna go because I
don't even know how to write a wille. And I
was like, as adults, we should know how to do it.
You're buying a house, you got all these collector vehicles.
You got people who have things to lose. Don't have wills, bro,
people who are going through divorces and don't want your
wife to have anything while you're alive.

Speaker 1 (05:26):
If you die tomorrow, the bitch is getting everything.

Speaker 4 (05:28):
And that's why y'all be getting.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
Popped, Like protect your assets. If you don't know what
an asset is, that's okay. We're gonna go through all
of it with I have an attorney who's joining with me.
It is August seventeenth, that is a Sunday evening. Because
I was like, when can nigga sit down and just
like pay attention. You know you're not doing anything. It's online.
Click the link in the description and if you already

(05:50):
have a will, send it to somebody, send it to
a young person you need. And if you don't have
nothing even to give to nobody. You just got a
pet still, like what if your mom like, we're giving
it to the shelter?

Speaker 4 (06:01):
No, Like, okay, I have baby. It's not about to
be a ward of the stick.

Speaker 1 (06:06):
Like why down at the pound?

Speaker 4 (06:07):
Yeah, my precious.

Speaker 1 (06:09):
But you talk about you don't want your cousins moving
in your house.

Speaker 3 (06:12):
You know what if you don't have a will and
you don't say where it's going, it's either going to
the state or your mama gonna move the whole family
in you even like them. Okay, don't get me started.
Join the live click the link and like I said,
you don't have to say anything. Just click it, listen
and join. August seventeenth. I can't wait to see you there.
Other than that, I I think that's all I have.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
Go.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
Okay, this is the other thing I forgot because I
couldn't remember when this episode comes out. I do want
to remind you guys that August eighteenth through the twenty first,
I will be in Dallas, Texas at the Podcast Movement Conference.
I'll be speaking on Thursday. I cannot remember if my
session is at eleven thirty or eleven one of them.
It's on Thursday in the eleven o'clock hour. Check the app,

(06:53):
check the sites off. The full schedule has been released.
There's a ton of events. There are people that want
to go. I don't know if y'all bought your tickets
or what, but if you're going to be at the
conference or you're in the area, two things. Anybody who
is actually already a podcaster, I would love to link
up with you while we're there and maybe do some
content and just meet each other. I love meeting other creators,

(07:14):
especially black ones, at these conferences, and I do try
my best to stay in touch with people. I've made
friends from the conference that I went to the first
time this time last year, and we've stayed in touch
and we've been able to help each other. And I've
really been working on finding more people who are in
the industry that I want to be connected with. So
if you're in it already, I would love to connect

(07:35):
and if you are interested in being in it and
you'll be at the conference or you're just around town,
let me know. Hit me up. I want to connect
with as many people as possible. I'll be at the
conference all week. I'm staying at the host hotel. I'll
be around. So hit me up and let me know.
And yeah, that's it. And if you're not going, I
hope to see you at a future conference.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
That's really exciting.

Speaker 3 (07:56):
Okay, y'all, before we introduce the fine Man, you made
me think of something that I keep forgetting. Okay, August
twenty fourth or the twenty seventh, I know it's coming up,
but if you've got money, you can come. I'm interviewing
is Ray in Sedona, Arizona. Paradise and Vibe dot Com.
For tickets, we did give a virtual situation now, so
if you can't make it, there's a virtual ticket. If
you live in Arizona and you're like, well, I don't

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want to stay at the resort, I live there, there
is a day pass. So go to Paradise dot Paradise
and Vibe dot Com and I hope to see you
there and if not, I hope you watch online. Okay,
this week we have a comedian, y'all know, that's my
favorite type of guests. They know how to talk, they're
well spoken, and they'd be funny.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
Hugo Alexander.

Speaker 5 (08:36):
Hi, y'all, I love first of all, I love y'all
energy on this podcast that before. But I'm just watching
like they don't even gott to put me on it.
I get.

Speaker 2 (08:48):
I like how y'all was popping it off.

Speaker 4 (08:50):
Really, I love that you.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
You have your own podcasts, right, what's it called.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
It's called Away from Home.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
Oh, that's the name of the podcast too.

Speaker 2 (08:57):
Mm hm yeah.

Speaker 5 (08:57):
It's comedy for mental health, so the whole brand is
so if it's just comedy for myself, I.

Speaker 1 (09:01):
Absolutely love that.

Speaker 4 (09:02):
So really, I mean though it's like to make you
feel better, or we can laugh at how crazy we are.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
A little bit of all of it. It's like, no,
it's like poetic license.

Speaker 5 (09:11):
So you think about it like joy in the battlefield,
Like you know, every day you're gonna have to get
up and do things. But being comfortable and being able
to smile while you're doing things like that that you
might not even want to do. You get what I'm saying,
Like get being able to like get rid of the
idea that you have to be like in the house
and comfortable to do the things you need to do.

(09:32):
You got to go meet people, you got a network,
you gotta get told no, you gotta still be able
to do it with a smile on your face. You
still got to show up. You still got to be
faithful in the process. So it's like learning how to
be comfortable away from your comfortability.

Speaker 1 (09:43):
Basically, it sounds like how y'rell supposed to behaving marriage or.

Speaker 4 (09:47):
Just in life in general, especially.

Speaker 2 (09:51):
To be with somebody.

Speaker 3 (09:52):
So yeah, I like the message, do it broke, do
it scared, do it ugly, just do it because what you.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
Look like in all of those A lot of people
don't know what they look like.

Speaker 5 (10:03):
Yeah, we don't know how A lot of people try
to be with somebody in a season, and you're growing
into new seasons, so you might be you might've been
in an ugly season, but you've never been in an
ugly rich season, like where you got money and you
can handle it, but it's still ugly. So you know,
I always tell people do it yourself first, like heal first,
be whole first. Find somebody that's on that road too,

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so that y'all not worried about each other, y'all worried
about where y'all headed.

Speaker 2 (10:26):
It's more like.

Speaker 5 (10:28):
Eyes up type of situation versus like looking beside you.

Speaker 4 (10:32):
You know, you can't pour into somebody from an empty cup.
We did a whole episode about that one time, and
I can't well, a few times, I can't remember who's
on here. But I was like, you know, I think
it's hard to date when I know that, like I'm
going through some changes and I'm trying to figure things
out because me, it's hard to make sure that I'm

(10:53):
showing up in present for somebody else when I've realized
I haven't been doing that for me and now I'm
trying to. It's just too much, Like I need the
space to be able to get to a good place
for me and then I can be a good person
to somebody else. Because sometimes you like it's like you
think you're being good to somebody, but when you actually reflect,
you weren't right. You was too snappy attitude.

Speaker 5 (11:15):
But I mean, it depends on it depends on the
grace you're giving yourself, because like I mean, you could
have been snappy in the attitude, but you could have
been a lot better than you've been before.

Speaker 4 (11:23):
So yeah, it's not going to go away. Yeah, I mean,
but it's like, you know, calm down a little bit.

Speaker 5 (11:30):
Yeah, but at the end of the day, like you
gotta be hungry and hard on yours like and you
got to be solid in how you feel, and you
got to allow people to feel that and allow people
to be uncomfortable by it, and the person that wants
to be with you will glide through that. Like a
lot of times, Dayton don't even have to be hard,
like a lot of people make it harder than any
Dating is literally going out to get food with somebody

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you enjoy. Well, you get what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
When then you start talking, you get what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (11:57):
Like they it seem like you you don't got to
do a.

Speaker 3 (12:00):
Whole bunch a whole bunch when when you raise the
steakes and like people start just go.

Speaker 2 (12:05):
Pay for your go there and make and make sure
you pay for your food. Hit him in the face
with your card and you get split it.

Speaker 4 (12:11):
He's gonna be in there like, I'm sorry, but no
to what I was saying before, I get what you're saying,
and I agree to an extent. Before we started talking
about pulling out cards and you get it. It is
hot in here. We're all gonna laughing.

Speaker 1 (12:27):
I'm in the face with the car, sir.

Speaker 2 (12:30):
We're not doing nothing.

Speaker 3 (12:32):
The confusion will be gone, but then you're gonna be
dealing with the man. It's like, and I don't want
to don't. Oh, you can't church because you know what
you're not gonna do.

Speaker 1 (12:42):
You're not gonna start because I thought about that.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
There are some people that church to be hooking up
or like you bring somebody and then it's like, you
messed up my church experience.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
You got to can't come. You got to can't come.

Speaker 5 (12:50):
No, man, you got to you got to invite them
to church and let him sit in and see you
praise and worship hard like being like I'm the type
that invited good and being there the hardest worshiper.

Speaker 2 (13:02):
And she'd be like, wow, I did not know you
really here.

Speaker 5 (13:05):
Yeah, because like you're gonna have to be comfortable with
all of the skins that I'm in and if you not,
I'm already knowing how I'm policing it.

Speaker 2 (13:11):
You want to go get food, damn, I ate before.

Speaker 3 (13:14):
That's absolutely that is okay, really quick, you're going here
diving right in.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
So y, I'm sorry and I'm cutting you off.

Speaker 5 (13:26):
Ahead the drink, yo, Do y'all know I used to
drink tequila and gingerbeer.

Speaker 1 (13:30):
Stop playing? Why she stop so tasty?

Speaker 2 (13:33):
When I stopped drinking? But that's my drink of choice.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
Why did you stop a bad night?

Speaker 2 (13:38):
No?

Speaker 5 (13:38):
Hell no at the University of Miami. Yeah, we don't
have bad nights off.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
He's one of clarity in life.

Speaker 2 (13:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (13:45):
It's just like I snagged an Undergommer commercial and like,
I'm in a space now where if I'm gonna be
touching TV, I need to just go ahead and touch TV.
And then like, if I get my bad my body
in shape, first of all, they're gonna hate me.

Speaker 2 (13:58):
Go ahead, and life are be okay because the dad
by killing him. But don't let me.

Speaker 5 (14:04):
Don't let me be in sedgs out here now.

Speaker 1 (14:09):
I would love to see that.

Speaker 2 (14:10):
You can see it now, dad?

Speaker 5 (14:13):
Fine?

Speaker 3 (14:14):
Okay, So a really quick backstory on Hugo before we play.
I'm curious to know with him, to get to know
him a little bit better. Now, I'm curious, y'all. Ain't
y'all curious about you? Go?

Speaker 1 (14:25):
Like, is he saying? What's he doing is he celibate? Okay? Wait?

Speaker 3 (14:29):
So I met Hugo on Instagram in my DMS. He
slid in my d MS a few days ago and was.

Speaker 2 (14:36):
Like my first base.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
He slid in.

Speaker 3 (14:39):
Like he knew me, and he was like, I put
together a show. It's the Laugh Away from Home Comedy Show,
and I'm doing a show in Atlanta and I would
love for you to come. He said he listens to
cocktails and he was like could you come?

Speaker 1 (14:51):
And I was like, oh my gosh.

Speaker 3 (14:51):
I was like, Okay, did he does he really listen
to the show or did he listen to show? And
here that I love comedy. You know, I'm always like
I love comedy. I do this in my free time.

Speaker 2 (14:59):
For three years.

Speaker 1 (15:00):
Wow, that's incredible, y'all know. I love a comedy show. Clocket,
that's what they nails.

Speaker 3 (15:08):
I was gonna go to day but I forgot. We
recorded like I go to mom. So when he did that,
I was like, I love a good comedy show. I
go to comedy shows by myself. I'll go to a
big comedy show, but I really love a good local
comedy show. I love comedians, I love I just love
the environment, even when to be smelling like black and Miles.
I love it. So when he sent it, I was like, oh, okay,
I'm gonna try to go. Not sure if I'm gonna
be feeling it, just coming off my grandma's funeral. And

(15:31):
then I had stuff to do and I told him.
I was like, I'm gonna try to come. He was
like come.

Speaker 1 (15:34):
I was like, I'm gonna try to come. He was
like come. I was like, I'm gonna try to come.
He was like come. I ended up going.

Speaker 3 (15:37):
I invited Kiki, I had invited lex P from Poor Minds,
but everybody ended up having stuff to do. So I
went with this girl from my brokerage, and we weren't
sure how it was gonna because sometimes when people like
are like come and support me, sometimes you get there
and you're like this is bad.

Speaker 1 (15:52):
Like you're just like good job, Like this is great.

Speaker 4 (15:55):
I gotta leave early.

Speaker 1 (15:57):
Like we he had our seats right in the front
leaving early. It was such a good show.

Speaker 3 (16:05):
And the fact that like you put the ship together,
like we know about putting stuff together.

Speaker 2 (16:10):
It's hard stay with it.

Speaker 3 (16:12):
That's incredible, Like the amount of time that it takes
to pour into your craft, and like for it to
come out good and you're like, I just love it,
Like I had such a good time. The host was
funny Detroit Detroit Read Detroit Read. He was hilarious. There
was a thirteen year old comedian.

Speaker 2 (16:31):
Bro Alexander Gordon. Oh my god, this kid is so amazing.

Speaker 5 (16:35):
He's already he's the star of Underdogs with a Snoop
Dogg on Prime Video.

Speaker 4 (16:39):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (16:40):
The little boy was funny.

Speaker 5 (16:41):
Yeah, he's doing his thing, Like I got him set
up to come out to LA and do some stuff
in January. But like y'all, I've been working with him
and working with his family and like getting them acclimated
to like what he can and can't do on stage
and showing him like the difference between like some of
the stages he may be able to touch and what
like a big stage I feel like. But yeah, I
had him up there with just Niche last night I

(17:01):
was hosting and then he coming. I'm hosting it this
weekend again at the theater and the same place she
invited you to, Atlanta Comedy Theater.

Speaker 2 (17:11):
Flex Flex Norcross Yeah, Flex.

Speaker 5 (17:13):
Alexander from one on one. He's he's like doing stuff
all weekend there, so I'm the host.

Speaker 1 (17:18):
So will you either Saturday or Sunday.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
All of the day is today, tomorrow, Sunday. Your name
up there. Just come, I'm coming. Yeah, just be like,
I'm with you.

Speaker 1 (17:26):
Go Okay, don't have me looking stupid.

Speaker 2 (17:29):
Girl.

Speaker 1 (17:29):
Come let's go.

Speaker 5 (17:30):
You can bring as many people as you are. I'll
make sure your name is eddo.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
I'm excited. So the show was amazing. Kelly Kel's performed,
She's been on the show before.

Speaker 2 (17:39):
That's my sister. She started me.

Speaker 5 (17:40):
So she's the reason why I'm funny. Really, Like I
used to drive five hours from North Carolina to her
Monday every week when I first started. And that's how
I built confidence to be able to produce shows because
I was already throwing parties and doing a bunch of
stuff before I started, like comedy, and like meeting her
and getting plugged in and and like understanding the art

(18:01):
of it and taking my rawness and actually having jokes
and building from it and then realizing that like I
do have a high energy, so I needed to be
around that consistently. Like she definitely like is the person
that got me there, even down. She was just at
my at my creb in La like we hang out
all the time, like she was just doing my lap
away from am O dear.

Speaker 3 (18:20):
I mean, it was just an incredible everybody was. It
wasn't like it got to one person.

Speaker 2 (18:24):
It was like, no, yeah, we ain't playing.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
The white guy was funny Blake. Blake was funny Blake.

Speaker 3 (18:29):
I wholeheartedly enjoyed myself and thank you so much for
inviting me.

Speaker 1 (18:34):
I needed a good laugh. I got the good laugh.

Speaker 2 (18:36):
I don't even know.

Speaker 5 (18:37):
I didn't even know that was going on. I just
kept saying, like, make sure you come, it's gonna be good.

Speaker 4 (18:41):
And she needed that a blessing.

Speaker 5 (18:43):
Yeah, and then it's already all right at the end,
and then he has seen it on your face.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
He was like he.

Speaker 3 (18:50):
Started talking about God, and he started talking about how
like if you're going through something like it's it was
just such a positive message. And then that you were
comfortable enough to like tie it into like yeah, we
were just all up here casting and acting crazy and
telling very funny stories. But then at the end it
was like and if you're struggling with mental health, if
you're struggling with this, and God is still with and
it was just it was such a beautiful. I just

(19:12):
want to give you your props. It was amazing. What
you're doing is amazing. I am so excited for you
and you're I just see a Netflix comedy special, maybe
even a little HBO situation.

Speaker 1 (19:22):
Comar you need one. It was.

Speaker 3 (19:25):
It was incredible, had a good time. And then I
had brought a girl that's a new friend. I was like,
I hope these thinks is funny because.

Speaker 2 (19:30):
I didn't want to.

Speaker 1 (19:30):
You know when when somebody bring you somewhere and you're like.

Speaker 4 (19:32):
I'm never going anywhere with her.

Speaker 1 (19:34):
You know.

Speaker 5 (19:36):
When everybody saw the kid, they was like, Okay, this
this is goanna be something.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
I wanted to talk to his parents because I was like,
how did we know? How was this?

Speaker 3 (19:46):
Like?

Speaker 1 (19:46):
Were they ever like, no, you're not doing this?

Speaker 2 (19:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (19:49):
They they're the ones who pushed him into it, Like
so acting is slow right now. I told you he
was the lead role and stuff, so he was getting
stuff going and they didn't want him to lose the
idea of being in the industry with what he's got
going on, so they kind of pushed him to stand up.

Speaker 2 (20:03):
And he's been doing it for like a year and
some change his just like I DM. His mom DM me.
I was scared. I was looking through dms or whatever
I look.

Speaker 5 (20:12):
She sent me along DM talking about what he do,
sent me links telling me that you know, his time,
and I end up calling her and I'm driving down
from Carolina. I flew to Carolina to get my car.
I'm talking to her for like two hours. First of all,
his name is Alexander. I got Alexander in my name.
Then her his parents both went to A and T.

(20:32):
I have a house that I own right by A
and T. So, like, I'm a very spiritual and alignment
type of person.

Speaker 2 (20:38):
So at that.

Speaker 5 (20:38):
Point of them like kind of needing something, and they
already had him together, I was willing to help, Like
and I just ate with him yesterday, and we've been
setting updates for him to be able to like fly
to me and get on major stages or if I'm hosting,
come meet the headliners. Because even last night, Justinice was
gonna put him on stage, but it had got too late.

Speaker 1 (20:57):
You know, he got go to the school.

Speaker 5 (21:01):
But you know what I'm saying, just popping up. People
will be like, oh, I got go a hand, go
up there and do for hove. You know what I'm saying,
so you never know how it happens.

Speaker 2 (21:08):
It.

Speaker 1 (21:09):
Yeah, that's wild, that's that is just what.

Speaker 5 (21:12):
That's what I'm mental to point it back though, Like
it's you can't be better if you're not building people
that are better. Like being a millionaire is cool, having
success is cool, Having money is cool, having freedom is cool.

Speaker 2 (21:23):
Being mentally clear it's cool.

Speaker 5 (21:24):
But if you can't coach people through their own moments
of uh, you know, despair, you.

Speaker 1 (21:32):
Really what you're doing?

Speaker 5 (21:33):
You know what I'm saying, Because it's not a formula
that's able to be duplicated. We're looking for duplicated like formula,
something that I can pass down, something that could work again.
And that talking about how the event goes, Like that's
how you building events and taking them once you have
a certain formula to how you're doing it, no matter
who you're using or no matter what it's about, it's
a certain formula to how you approaching everybody.

Speaker 2 (21:55):
And it's a numbers game.

Speaker 5 (21:56):
So if I sent a thousand DMS, I'm gonna get
one hundred people that really want to respond to I
just got to be willing to sit and send a
thousand d M.

Speaker 1 (22:04):
The work that's that'd be the part before doing great things.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
I can't wait till you get to experience this.

Speaker 1 (22:13):
This funny man, that's my hand o. My nails aren't done,
but they normally be done.

Speaker 4 (22:20):
Okay, hands, you know it's funny. It's kind of I'm
curious to know. That's one of the questions. Can I
feel your hands? Hands? A line was that, Okay, I
put the card down trying to sign it to you,
but my long enough.

Speaker 1 (22:36):
You're okay.

Speaker 3 (22:37):
My nails aren't done it, but your hands tell me
this is wait, let me feel it again.

Speaker 1 (22:41):
Your hands tell me. I tell you girl that you
are romantic mm hmm. And it's telling me something about
the bedroom. I'm feeling something about the bedroom, but.

Speaker 2 (22:52):
I want it was sha.

Speaker 1 (22:53):
I won't say that part. But your hands feel good.

Speaker 3 (22:57):
They're not too soft to where you like, can you
fix something, but they're not too hard where it's like,
are you okay? They feel like a good balanced aligned
next okay, okay, I'm curious to know who you go.
What's your favorite part on your own body?

Speaker 5 (23:17):
I say my mouth like because it embodies me being
able to speak, so I would say my voice, my
teeth like my smile my tongue for multiple reasons, because
the tongue is powerful.

Speaker 2 (23:29):
And it is and Thornberry.

Speaker 3 (23:35):
I used to love wild Thornberryes was a little wild berry,
and his tongue was always What's wrong with Donnie?

Speaker 2 (23:42):
Right on the clip?

Speaker 3 (23:45):
Absolutely on the clip with Donnie Thornberry, M M all.

Speaker 4 (23:52):
Right, describe your current sex life with a song title.

Speaker 2 (23:57):
A song title Damn Bill with his lovely day.

Speaker 1 (24:03):
He came to that song. Okay, I'm not I notice
it now.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
Okay, yeah, you know that's crazy.

Speaker 3 (24:10):
Okay, I'm curious to know why did your last relationship end.

Speaker 5 (24:15):
I think that, like, I've been through so much in life,
and I've been in so many different avenues from like
corporate America to like I don't want to say street life,
but like nightlife to now entertainment, entertainment, like high entertainment.
I'm well versed, and I always end up calling to
spirits or calling to people.

Speaker 2 (24:36):
That are are for me but not as well versed.

Speaker 5 (24:39):
So the things that like I'm able to touch and
the things that I'm around, I don't end up having
ability to keep their reassurance going because like, at a
certain point, you got to have your own self confidence,
and I'm working backwards trying to I'm like spoon feeding
you and keeping myself up here when really I need
to be going that way. Fools be but I'm trying

(25:00):
to get you to be okay with what I got
going on. But I met you like this, and it's
like a lot of people don't have the know how
or purpose to know what it takes.

Speaker 2 (25:11):
And energy, and a lot of people want to win
with you. They don't want you to win.

Speaker 5 (25:14):
So like if I'm gone and I'm winning and you
not next to me, like I need somebody that I
can come next to with.

Speaker 2 (25:20):
What I got. You know what I'm saying. A lot
of times we are not in a space for that.

Speaker 5 (25:25):
And I feel like when I was in a space
for that, I was younger, but I didn't have enough
of my own self awareness to be able to even
talk it out or to have those moments of grace.
Because I always talk about God, like Gawd, I talk
about grace, alignment, worship and determination, and like even in
a relationship, like first you have to give a person
grace because you just got to believe them. You gotta

(25:45):
take it for what it is. You gotta be willing
to learn. You know what I'm saying, Like, you gotta
be aligned. It's the timing of everything's gotta work for you.
The worship is just creating a routine. It's not necessarily
like creating a faith. But the faith is in the
process of y'all having a certain route, and then the
determination is like perseverance from y'all getting through shit. So
a lot of people don't have that built in their

(26:06):
character already, and to teach it would be counterproductive, especially
when I'm managing myself, moving around doing certain things, paying
a mortgage, multiple apartments, living by coastal, flying back and forth.

Speaker 2 (26:19):
You get what I'm saying. So it gets to a
point where it gets hard. You know.

Speaker 3 (26:22):
In Will Packer's book I Keep forgetting the name of
the book he taught, there's a part in the book
where he talks about how picking your partner, whether you
want to get married or dating and being in the
creative space is such a task because if you get
with someone which a lot of people do, and I've
experienced this that doesn't believe in the vision that you see,

(26:44):
and they don't like support it. I'm not talking about
financial support, but just like you just pour into the persport. Yeah,
like you can do things like this is a downtime,
but you got it, Like.

Speaker 4 (26:53):
And sometimes it is financial because if you got it
and I don't and I need a little help, what.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
Do we do?

Speaker 4 (26:59):
Why wouldn't you help me? I think you wouldn't help
me because you don't believe in and all of it
means you need to go.

Speaker 3 (27:05):
Yeah, and he talks about it can really make or break. Yeah,
what's gonna happen.

Speaker 5 (27:09):
Helping you is as simple as keeping shit peaceful. Helping
you is as simple as it's simple as clearing something
out of the way. Helping you is responding different than
you want to because you know I'm going through things.
You get what I'm saying, Like a lot of people
put pressure on the relationship and put pressure on the
transfer of energy that y'all have, not realizing that, Like, yeah,

(27:32):
you have things you worried about, and you have things
you're doing. But as a creative and as an entrepreneur,
we're not living week to weak checks. We're having one
thing that happens, then one you might hit big and
not have nothing for months and have to work through
it and be creating content every day. And be peaceful,
and then as a comic like being drained from a

(27:54):
relationship and then going out and having to get on
stage and making people who didn't.

Speaker 3 (27:58):
Get to going through my little hear break. I wasn't
even funny no more. And I felt so bad because
I was just like.

Speaker 2 (28:04):
What was that with your heartbreak? He wanted eating couchie.

Speaker 5 (28:06):
He was, yeah, you gotta he gotta eat coochie and
your foot.

Speaker 3 (28:12):
He did that, but he wasn't doing what we're talking
about the whole, Like he didn't believe in me, and
it was very he was damn for real at all
he did.

Speaker 5 (28:20):
He probably just was like niggas be butt sore about
their lady having motion, Like you had to really have
a powerful mama and respect her to want to be
with a woman too and see her really be powerful
and hold it down like like my mama has made
one hundred thousand since I've been young, you know what
I'm saying, working multiple jobs, doing her thing, not dating,

(28:41):
don't give a fuck.

Speaker 2 (28:42):
Strong her ship. You feel Gabrielle Union in the movie Nigga,
like get.

Speaker 1 (28:51):
You feel me?

Speaker 5 (28:52):
Like my mama counting, so she you feel me. She's analytical,
she with the numbers. She ain't with the bullshit. So
it's like when you are dealing with a man who
has never been around a boss, and then you're a
classy boss. So it's different. You not popping pussy, you not.
He don't have a reason to be mad, He don't
have a reason not to believe you gonna go. It

(29:13):
makes him have to do nothing but be a good
man to be around you. It's not that he didn't
believe in you. It's like, I'm not a good enough
man to sit through where she's finna go with this,
and I'm finna have to be watching her do her
podcasts and interview on niggas and it's gonna be g
herbalnecks and all types of shit. My favorite wrapper on
this shit, I'm pissed off this bitch want me to

(29:34):
cook spageting tonight.

Speaker 2 (29:35):
Seriously, that's wild.

Speaker 4 (29:38):
And I think sometimes these are conversations that I've actually
had with different men, not that I was dating, thank god,
but I realized how many men they say things that
make you think that maybe he wants like a woman
who doesn't work and plans to be a stay at
home mom, wants to have kids and stuff like that,
But then you realize, oh, no, no, no, he doesn't
want that. He wants that, but he wants you to

(29:58):
have two jobs. He wants you to be acting like
a stay at home wife and taking care of all
this stuff at home. And he wants you to have
a career that makes a lot of money. But you
can't get any shine in that career. You cannot do
anything that is forward facing because he needs to be
the face of this.

Speaker 1 (30:12):
And don't start feeling your Why are you so excited
about the attention.

Speaker 4 (30:16):
You don't need friends outside of our friends. You don't
need much outside of this, And I'm just.

Speaker 1 (30:21):
Like, wow, it's too much. That's why I have sat
my black ass down. I know, that's why.

Speaker 4 (30:27):
Well, these are random people that I found out in
the wild. These aren't my actual like people I was dating.
I host another show, but I don't know how long
you'll be here, but maybe I can have you on
that one too. And I only interview black men. I
have to make a date for you because we'll get
into it later. But I only interview black man and

(30:48):
I talk to them about different aspects of black masculinity.
But from their point of view, it's really more like
I want to hear your story and I'm going to
ask questions to move it along. But I don't know
how you really look at things, how you've the world,
What was your experience and what events in your life?

Speaker 2 (31:03):
Let have conversations. Yes, that's what I do to my friends.
I'm not gonna care.

Speaker 5 (31:09):
I'm the type of person like I'll put my face
on an open mic flyer and it'll be a church
address on Sunday. I swear to God and got friends
to pull up on church like that. Like, bro, when
you go up, like bro, this, what what are you
talking about?

Speaker 4 (31:22):
Like, you know what, that's not a bad idea.

Speaker 1 (31:24):
We're having a live show.

Speaker 4 (31:25):
And because these girls are gonna be dressed, dishes don't matter.

Speaker 1 (31:29):
They're welcome.

Speaker 2 (31:31):
You gotta come, is it? Because? And and that's why
I run my should not for real?

Speaker 1 (31:36):
I run like that too.

Speaker 2 (31:38):
And I talk, I talk crazy. I do all that.
But like at the end of the day, like my
basis is God. Everything that I'm doing is God. I
wake up, I smoke weed in the morning. But guess
what else I do? Listen to gospel every morning, Ganja
and gospel. That's my thing. You know what?

Speaker 1 (31:54):
I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (31:55):
So it's like for everything you really do? Are you
writing the sitcom? Because I think you should?

Speaker 1 (32:00):
I mean, write a character for me.

Speaker 2 (32:02):
These things are coming. I do got scripts that that
I want.

Speaker 3 (32:06):
To do that.

Speaker 2 (32:09):
Again a virgo?

Speaker 1 (32:11):
So am I?

Speaker 4 (32:11):
When is your birthday? You are right in between us.
She's a libra third.

Speaker 2 (32:18):
Oh wow, and I'm the thirteen.

Speaker 4 (32:20):
Really whoah.

Speaker 2 (32:29):
Got live about it? I know I didn't know if
that you liked me today and go to church Sunday Jesus.

Speaker 4 (32:37):
Adina has flotation blindness. Let's actually at the end of
the game. Yeah, we're gonna move on to weird sex
really quick. I have a really quick story about this
lady in a sack, and then we're going to get
back to.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
Who who go lady and lady and a sock.

Speaker 4 (32:52):
I'm not now if she could fit in the sacks
that would be a hmm okay, all right, okay, all right, yeah,

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This goes perfect with that.

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Speaker 1 (34:40):
You said a man is not a necessity. A man
is a luxury like dessert.

Speaker 5 (34:46):
Yeah, a man is absolutely not necessity.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
Did you mean that to sound mean it bitter? Oh
not at all.

Speaker 5 (34:55):
I adore dessert.

Speaker 4 (34:56):
I love man.

Speaker 1 (34:57):
I think men are the coolest, But you don't really
need the.

Speaker 4 (35:04):
This week's weird sex story and y'all keep sending them
to me. Y'all have been sending them, and thank you
so much.

Speaker 1 (35:09):
It helps.

Speaker 4 (35:11):
But this woman posts it on Twitter weill X. But
I'm black, and you know it's your mama names you Twitter,
so we're gonna call you Twitter.

Speaker 2 (35:18):
I like that.

Speaker 4 (35:19):
Yeah, like what We're not doing all this name changing
shit the hell. People usually don't even call it Instagram.
They call it ig because that's your nickname, and that's
just what it is. That's what we know. You got
what in long ass names?

Speaker 2 (35:31):
Instagram sound like something for somebody grandma, And I'm a grandma.

Speaker 4 (35:34):
So I do say Instagram. But sometimes when I'm trying
to connect with the kids, I will say IG, or
when I'm typing, I will put IG. It is so
much easier.

Speaker 1 (35:42):
I get it.

Speaker 4 (35:43):
Okay. Anyway, a woman posted on Twitter about the first
time she hooked up with a guy who seems super
shy and quiet, total introvert energy, right, So they get
back to his place. She heads to the bathroom to
freshen up, but when she comes out, he's waiting on
her bed or on the bed, but ass naked with
a sock on each hand. And now I thought it

(36:05):
was going to be on his little peepee, but it
was on his hands, and I would be so confused.
I would be scared, and I would feel like I
am now definitely going to be the number one story
across the top true crime podcast because I'm getting murdered
tonight and this is about to be newsworthy. So anyway,
she's like, what's going on?

Speaker 1 (36:25):
Like what's up?

Speaker 4 (36:26):
He says, I get really into it, So I put
socks on my hands to avoid scratching people, as he's considerate.
But why no, no, no, because why are you even here?
Why are your hands claws?

Speaker 2 (36:39):
Why is my skin under your fingernail? Why are your.

Speaker 1 (36:43):
Nails so long?

Speaker 4 (36:44):
So she thinks he's joking, right, which I think is
a natural reaction because this yeah, but he still had
the socks on. And then they start having the sex
and she realizes he this man is throwing it down
like a demon, hands flailing with these damn socks like
puppet master of pleasure. Apparently his last partner complained about

(37:08):
the scratches, so now this is just part of the routine.
She stayed the night, but said every time she saw
a pair of socks after that she got flashbacks. Y'all
know what that makes me think of, which I never
want to think about when I'm thinking about sex.

Speaker 1 (37:18):
Sesame street newborn.

Speaker 4 (37:20):
Babies when they have them little mittens on because they
scratched their faces and stuff because you know, they don't know,
but you are grown, sir.

Speaker 1 (37:28):
That makes me wonder.

Speaker 3 (37:30):
Have you ever been in a situation with somebody, like
a sexual situation, and like they do some weird shit
and you really are like what?

Speaker 1 (37:37):
I had a friend who she was dealing with a guy.
He kept biting her.

Speaker 3 (37:39):
And normally a bite a little nibble, A little nibble
is not nibble. He was she was like, she showed
me her bruises and she was she was black and blue.

Speaker 1 (37:49):
He was hearing her up. I mean it looked bad.
It was the teeth mark. She was like, have you
ever had this happen? Like? Is this normal?

Speaker 3 (37:55):
I was like, that's not normal. But the sex was good,
so she let it keep happening, and she was like
this one day he broke skin. Have you ever had
somebody do some weird and you're like this, you can't
do this on one.

Speaker 5 (38:05):
Uh not not like biting me, but I mean, I
feel like, guys, we go through all like, man, you
you it's as simple as a female trying to suck
your dick and not pulling your nuts all the way up.

Speaker 2 (38:17):
What you mean, it's a little piece of skin in
between your nuts and your You gotta just.

Speaker 1 (38:23):
You have to gather it all.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
Yeah, you got.

Speaker 4 (38:26):
You're saying she's spreading it apart.

Speaker 2 (38:29):
That's funny. But no, not that I've lick before.

Speaker 4 (38:32):
That's the other side. Now I'm just trying to figure
out what she's doing with the balls. You said you
want her to pull it all up.

Speaker 5 (38:40):
I'm just saying, I'm just saying in general, right, I
like that stupid Yeah, you know, in general, like in bed,
like if people do like all right, put it like this,
I'll give you a time.

Speaker 2 (38:52):
This is something simple. I had total the chick to
spit in my mouth like she was riding me.

Speaker 5 (38:57):
And I'm into ship like that stream and then like
I'm into like I'm not into like grabbing. I'm not
I'm not into like grabbing a hold of you and
making you feel like I'm dominating you. I want to
grab a hold of you to feel like you got
the power. So like I'm like, I'm a person that's
empowering you during sex. So like me telling you something

(39:19):
like that, and your heir you like this nigga really
want me to make him a slipt like.

Speaker 2 (39:24):
Like and that's that's what I'm into. But I had
a time. Motherfucker. She was an older woman too, which
is I know.

Speaker 1 (39:33):
You had a lot of old lady joked because I
love older.

Speaker 2 (39:36):
I'm thirty. You feel I'm old.

Speaker 1 (39:38):
I'm periatric, taking.

Speaker 2 (39:40):
You look good.

Speaker 5 (39:41):
I'm still I'm still playing. Yeah, man, she man, I
had told her spit in my mouth and the next
thing I know, that shit hit my face hard.

Speaker 4 (39:50):
Damn.

Speaker 2 (39:51):
I was like what it was like. I was like, oh,
like I did this old women? Come on?

Speaker 3 (39:59):
Man?

Speaker 1 (39:59):
She she try just flicked it off like you okay man.

Speaker 5 (40:02):
She drinking pity a light and all type of ship man.
She was all that ship to get the Mukius out.
So you feel me, that's man. I feel like she
had a cold this week. It was it was I
was prot of the weirdest other than that, like when
an older lady tried to lick my ass one time.

Speaker 2 (40:18):
That was crazy.

Speaker 1 (40:18):
I'm like, what's crazy about?

Speaker 5 (40:20):
Because I'm thinking it's I'm thinking it's Gucci. I'm thinking
we're there, Gucci man, playing in the background with it.

Speaker 1 (40:26):
Gucci Man.

Speaker 2 (40:27):
I'm with the wine. Get you look you feel me.
I'm laying like I'm laying like a snow angel. You
feel me. The legs st patrick start under the rock.

Speaker 5 (40:38):
I'm playing as wide as the legs gonna go cuz
we're gonna lock these out.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
They can't go up.

Speaker 5 (40:42):
She done lifted. I didn't even know the nux window.
She doesn't put the chin in the bed. You know,
she older, So she got a soft bed the chin
that went sharp into the bed. She went under, scooped
it up, said I'm gonna get this.

Speaker 1 (40:54):
But you thought that had to the song hard way.
But I'm gonna get that butt. That's wow. Okay, y'all
we'd sex and then.

Speaker 4 (41:03):
Keep sharing these stories. I would love to hear them.
And if you find that you are scratching anyone during
sex so bad that you need to put on mittens
or socks, I think that you should. You can't just
clip your nails. You've got to file them, because it's
just going to be a sharp point. You need to
do something about that.

Speaker 3 (41:19):
But it also makes me wonder because there have been
times when I've been on dates and I noticed that
a man has long nails and I'm not with it, Like,
why are your nails this long?

Speaker 4 (41:26):
I usually assume they do drugs.

Speaker 2 (41:31):
Coke, pinky or like he's busting down.

Speaker 1 (41:34):
I mean, it's just dirty.

Speaker 3 (41:35):
You're liable, and your hands infection, Like you're not thinking
about that.

Speaker 2 (41:40):
But I don't think. I don't think niggas don't even
can locate where their clippers are now clip. I don't
think there's organized enough for him to think about that.

Speaker 5 (41:52):
Like he was just happy he had enough money to
take you out that day and get there and make
it make sense.

Speaker 2 (41:57):
And you responded and.

Speaker 3 (41:59):
Here we I'm looking at your nails. I can't even
get to the mint. But we mean, maybe we make
that a product, what grown mints, grown man mints.

Speaker 2 (42:07):
I used to introduce my shows like that when I
used to host, I'd be like, Hey, how y'all doing.
Y'all in relationship Mason noise?

Speaker 5 (42:12):
If you're on to day Mason noise, like fellas, stick
your hands in the air, look at your fingernails, you know,
if you getting pussy or not.

Speaker 3 (42:19):
And everybody used to be like, well, after at your show,
everybody there was I can't remember who was. Maybe it
was Kelly, maybe it was the other girl from Dallas.
They kept making the jokes about the side teeth missing,
and whenever that's done, I always feel so bad, not
because I'm missing a side tooth.

Speaker 1 (42:33):
I'm not, but because you.

Speaker 3 (42:35):
Know, there's people in the room that are and like
and like they're talking about people not laughing all the way,
and it was just I'm just always like, oh my gosh,
oh my gosh, Like, so what's bringing you to my
first question?

Speaker 1 (42:45):
Actually? How when do you have you ever crossed the
line on stage? And do you care?

Speaker 5 (42:50):
No, because it's all all fun and comedy, like we
were comedians were coming here to do a job. You
know what I'm saying, Like, I don't care what you're
going through, and I'm not trying to make you have
a bad day. Now if you talking back and forth,
now you made a fair game. And I really don't care.
But like, if I'm coming and I'm saying something, I'm
never at home thinking how can I go disrespect somebody?

Speaker 2 (43:12):
How can I I'm coming to hell? So let me
do my job.

Speaker 5 (43:16):
You get know what I'm saying, Like everybody can't do it.
Everybody can't do it. So like, in the midst of
everybody not being able to do it, allow yourself to
go through the process of what that feels like. And nigga, no,
I don't care what you're talking about home, tell you
what the fuck to do at your job?

Speaker 2 (43:33):
What's wrong with you?

Speaker 1 (43:36):
Have you always been this confident?

Speaker 5 (43:40):
I think I was forced to be like my mom.
I was an only child, you feel me. So I
grew up alone in the house, my mom working all
the time. I played sports, you know what I'm saying.
I was taking ap calculus as a thirteen year old
freshman in high school, you know what I'm saying. So
I had always been advanced and knowing that I was
gonna be having to do something and move around. I've
been cooking since I was fourteen, So it's like I've

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always been in a space to be like trying to
be confident. But I was always the one that was
too big for my breaches or I was like you
too much or you you know.

Speaker 2 (44:12):
What I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (44:12):
And it took me finding purpose and find an alignment
through life to have a reason to be as confident
as I am. So I've always been confident, but it
was like unwaivered. It wasn't unwavering like how it is
now versus like before. I didn't know how to be
confident and push confidence on people and promote purpose and
still be you know what I'm saying, still have a
class to the confidence. But uh, you know, younger, I

(44:37):
was fat, I had fucking around and got in shape
in high school.

Speaker 2 (44:40):
I had my Dodge Charger, I was homecoming king, bitch
y'all back then. They didn't want me back then, they
didn't want me now all on me. Oh god, I
was like what I went from.

Speaker 5 (44:50):
I went from I went from being the nigga that
didn't give a fuck, that that they didn't give a
fuck about to be a homecoming king.

Speaker 2 (44:58):
I was student body, I was student Student b president
at the time.

Speaker 4 (45:00):
That shit, and it was actually like BookSmart too.

Speaker 2 (45:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (45:04):
I went to the University of Miami on full academic
scholarship for architecture.

Speaker 1 (45:07):
Amen, Why that's amazing.

Speaker 4 (45:10):
What made you want to do architecture and then you
still do it?

Speaker 2 (45:13):
No?

Speaker 5 (45:13):
I don't, But it's the freedom in it. I feel
like with who I am, and especially now, like with
my purpose, like building from zero and creating with a
rule and no, like creative bounds is like it's almost
the same in everything that I've chose to do, from
the music to audio engineering to putting together events and
producing to now the comedy is like everything is about

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starting from one thing and building something that is housing people.

Speaker 2 (45:39):
You know, you know.

Speaker 5 (45:40):
So I feel like architecture taught me, you know, how
to be the best type of entrepreneur, because you are
teaching yourself how to start from something that isn't here.

Speaker 2 (45:49):
We're just giving you the land.

Speaker 5 (45:50):
And the rules to create, and you figure out what
material is supposed to be here, You figure out what
function is building has, you figure out how this is,
how this is gonna bring jobs?

Speaker 2 (46:00):
To the area and how it makes you a community thinker.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (46:05):
And when you are a community thinker, it's not hard
for you to build a network or you know, to
build a family or a community of people that are
resource because in life everything is either a resource or
relationship or research. You can have whatever you want in
those three. You know what I'm saying. It's not really
about anything else. Even with schooling, it's just research and
resources and relationships. You know, even going to college, it's

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all the same things.

Speaker 1 (46:27):
So, yeah, are you a preacher?

Speaker 2 (46:31):
Nah, just go to church? Outis on.

Speaker 1 (46:32):
Wow, you're just so.

Speaker 3 (46:33):
Well spoken, and I appreciate that we say a lot
on the show that we sometimes it's like hit or
miss when you bring a man on, because sometimes the
men that we've had on.

Speaker 2 (46:41):
Maybe I'll be their favorite, bring him back, bring him back.
What are you doing now?

Speaker 4 (46:46):
But my ds and tell me what you really think
that you don't want to put in a comment section,
but leave it on YouTube.

Speaker 3 (46:52):
It's very well spoken, and so since you are well spoken,
I didn't put this on the noose, but I just
want to ask you this and see like what your
answer will be.

Speaker 1 (46:59):
What are you scared of.

Speaker 2 (47:01):
I'm scared of not being as faithful as I should
be to God.

Speaker 5 (47:05):
Like I feel like God gave me so much grace
in my life, and he gave me so much opportunity,
and he took me out of so many different things
that could have put me somewhere else. I'd be a
fool to not go as hard as I should be
going and as hard as I've been going consistently. So
I always say that I'm more so scared of like
you know, who I've been, versus like scared of what

(47:27):
I'm about to be. You know, It's like I'm scared
of the relapse, not even saying that it will happen.
But like in life, I've had so many ups and downs,
and I've been in so many times, even just recently,
I've had to really align my life this year, you
know what I'm saying. I moved to la in October,
and you know, it ain't no God out there, and
it's nothing but scams and nothing but bullshit. And to

(47:50):
be navigating how I'm navigating and moving through the world
and getting closer to God. I realized that, like my
only fear is to stop. You know what, I'm saying,
I don't really have a fear. I'm not scared of
like death. I've faced death before. I'm not scared of,
you know, like being unfinancially stable. I've been that before.
And I have enough going on where I still do

(48:12):
sixty plus people's flyers for forty a piece a month
from when I used to do it back in the day.
So it's like you you keep things and you work
on things, and a lot of people don't want you
to be a jack of all trades because they say
it's a master of none. But in the midst of it,
my jack of all trades is under one umbrella. You
get what I'm saying, I have one brand who is me?
So if I want to sell socks and I'm calling

(48:33):
them big stubbles, guess who coming to get big step
of socks?

Speaker 2 (48:37):
Whoever? The fuck fuck with me? You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (48:39):
The big feet, I mean, they don't got to have
big feet. You just gotta be able to feel big shoes,
you know what I'm saying, their shoe strings. For that,
there's growth. You know what I'm saying. Everybody can't be
a big dog. But you know, in the midst of
it for the people who are big dogs. Like, one
thing I would say I'm scared of is just being
unfaithful to God and not being who I know I

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should be.

Speaker 2 (49:01):
So I'm not really fearful, though I take chances for sure.

Speaker 4 (49:06):
I have a question, what if there was a moment
or like something that happened, what made you decide to
really focus on your relationship with God and really build
that and be vocal about it.

Speaker 5 (49:19):
It was the relationship that I got with my baby
mom and my son. So I got a three year
old and like my dad got forty kids.

Speaker 1 (49:27):
Forty for real, are you being funny?

Speaker 2 (49:29):
It's a birthday every fourteen days of.

Speaker 1 (49:30):
A year, so it's actually forty kids.

Speaker 2 (49:33):
Actually forty. Yeah, I'm three or forty, so I number three. Yeah,
my mom's only only kid though.

Speaker 5 (49:40):
So, like I was like in the midst of me
doing all the corporate stuff and all that I was
in music, I was hosting in the strip clubs in
North Carolina and Atlanta, doing going back and forth. Of
course you're gonna touch drugs, You're gonna touch a bunch
of different stuff.

Speaker 2 (49:52):
I was the utility guy. I'm clean cut. I could
go up and down the road. Whatever.

Speaker 5 (49:58):
Cool, I was not gonna stay. I was very successful
with what I was doing. I had my house, I
was moving around.

Speaker 2 (50:04):
People knew me. I was cool.

Speaker 5 (50:06):
My son is what created a situation for me to
like jump into something else, and that's when I transitioned
into comedy. So I will have been doing comedy at
the end of this year almost three well, I would
be three years in October.

Speaker 1 (50:19):
So it's like, that's wild because I would not have
thought that.

Speaker 2 (50:22):
That's on purpose. Wow, that's on purpose, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (50:25):
And like I was saying, like I literally would have
talks with my pastor about how my baby mom was
treating me because at the time I was moving around,
I had I had my son seven days on, seven
days off, and then my baby mama didn't like that
I was going up and down the road doing the comedy.
So it ended up being seven am to seven pm

(50:46):
every day, you feel me. And then I figured that
out with my family and still was on the road.
And then it turned into something else and I had
ended up getting on a best some on tour or
I pe a beon.

Speaker 1 (51:00):
No, no, not that, but I'm not.

Speaker 2 (51:04):
I'm not on the tour. No more, that wasn't that
was that wasn't, which I think that is.

Speaker 5 (51:08):
That's not You know what I'm saying, all right, be
to the tour, to me being on the tour, a
repee to me on the tour, I got those in
my mouth.

Speaker 2 (51:17):
You know, the niggas be talking sleep but.

Speaker 5 (51:20):
But yeah, I was on the tour and I was
talking with my pastor because you know, my baby mam
was making it super hard for me to get my
son come back and forth. I'm still halfway on, halfway on.
I'm paying child support. At the time, before child sport,
I was paying her rent. We only had sex once.

Speaker 1 (51:36):
This is better wrap it up?

Speaker 2 (51:37):
No, yeah, for real?

Speaker 5 (51:38):
And I'm not like like I was twenty seven when
it happened, So I have been having together. No, that's
what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (51:44):
We better wrap it up.

Speaker 2 (51:45):
Yeah for real? And I was. I was thirteen when
I first started having sex, though, you get what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (51:49):
Sevteen.

Speaker 2 (51:50):
Yeah, I was a freshman in high school. I was
taking ape calculus.

Speaker 5 (51:52):
You think I'm finna bust down that equation and I
ain't feel okay anyway.

Speaker 2 (51:57):
I was six ft at thirteen but.

Speaker 4 (52:00):
He was already thirteen in high school, which is also.

Speaker 5 (52:03):
Like, yeah, and I had one of them situations. You
stay right up the street from the high school. You
know how that goes my mama working? Anyway, That's not
what I got a baby.

Speaker 4 (52:12):
Yeah, but you had sex one time?

Speaker 5 (52:15):
Yeah, we had sex once. And think about it, I'm
twenty seven. I'm not in a space where it's like, oh,
we're gonna you don't have to get an abortion. You
get what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (52:22):
And she wanted one.

Speaker 5 (52:26):
I paid, she didn't get it, and I found out
four months later and she said me the money back
right before Christmas, and that was my Christmas present.

Speaker 2 (52:33):
I was like, what the fuck? This is the same
amount I sent you.

Speaker 4 (52:37):
What's going on here?

Speaker 2 (52:41):
I'm like, I'm like, I'm like you must be I'm like,
you must be making you must be making money, bitch.

Speaker 1 (52:47):
I always wonder when that happens. Too minutes.

Speaker 3 (52:49):
I was like, this isn't someone you were going to
be in a relationship with no disrespect. But it's like
that wasn't the plan. And then they are having the baby.
Are you stressed or are you just like I'm.

Speaker 1 (52:56):
Gonna be a man?

Speaker 5 (52:57):
No, I was I was in some shit, Like I
kept telling her, I'm gonna be a dad. I'm gonna
be a dad. Like we not finna be together, but
I'm gonna be a dad. And you know, I showed
that through paying rent. I showed that through a lot
of different ways, but it got to the point, like
fast forward. I would talk to my pastor every Wednesday,
I sit with him and eat, I be with my son.
I bring him and we talked and he kept telling me, Man,

(53:19):
you should take the comedy series.

Speaker 2 (53:20):
You keep going to these open mics and you're not
getting up or you might get up and you just
there to hear comedy.

Speaker 1 (53:24):
Were you nervous?

Speaker 3 (53:25):
Nah?

Speaker 2 (53:25):
I just was there for therapy.

Speaker 5 (53:26):
I was thinking that that was I got tired of
going to therapy. I was like, shit, I'm gonna just
go hear people downstage like this, you feel me? Because
open mics are trash bro Then like.

Speaker 2 (53:37):
Yeah every now and again for real.

Speaker 5 (53:39):
Then I started finding myself through like different comics that
were in the area, like Stef Funny and other people
like and like Juwan Capp and people like that in
North Carolina. And it built a situation where like my
pastor literally kind of was like the person that was like, bro,
get up there, and once I did it, I got
that high off of it and I never stopped. And
I realized, like old comedy events, so just like parties

(54:00):
or just like other events are just like it's comedy.
A joke is just like a hit song. You gotta
go take it everywhere, and you gotta chisel it, you
gotta engineer it. You might have to change the beat,
you might have to show different people. You might have
to go back and change words. You might not need
to put it out yet. If you put it out,
you might need to re release it. You might not
need to shoot a video yet. It's like all that
same thing applies to comedy. So when I got locked

(54:21):
in on that it was overweight, I was like, oh yeah,
I could be a geek again. And now I ain't
got to look over my shoulder, ain't I was gonna
talk about what I was selling, but I.

Speaker 4 (54:29):
Ain't more at peace day to day.

Speaker 3 (54:34):
Yeah, on God, this is just amazing. Okay, I have
another question that I was going to ask you. Do
you have a type of women that you that you
go after or that after women? So let me change
my words. Do you have a type of woman that
you would like to be with.

Speaker 5 (54:53):
My type of woman is a woman who is powerful
in her purpose, strong in God, very responsible and responsive.

Speaker 2 (55:03):
Very very passionate and willing to be firm.

Speaker 5 (55:07):
But like also a woman who like understands the position
of a woman too, Like I don't want you to
be no, you don't got to be no, shut the
fuck up type of woman. But like, at the same time,
there's a time and a place for everything, and then
like if we're going to be a unit, allow that
unit to be what it is, and then we handle
our shit where we handle our shit. But you know,

(55:30):
I feel like the world now has changed a lot
of it, and I feel like the dynamic of what
I would want would change because it's like I was
raised for my granddad, Like you know what I'm saying,
My granddad would believe that the man not supposed to
cook and do all that I actually love to cook.
I think my wife is going to be a woman
who wants a man that got different food every day.

Speaker 2 (55:48):
You know what I'm saying. I don't.

Speaker 5 (55:51):
I'm more so like whatever your position is in life,
and whatever even your love languages that you express well
to people.

Speaker 2 (55:58):
That's what I'm into.

Speaker 5 (56:00):
I want to find the best parts of you and
find purpose in that for me, because there's always gonna
be something you don't give a fuck about.

Speaker 2 (56:05):
It's always gonna be something that you can't work with.
But what do you do well?

Speaker 5 (56:09):
What is your element? And how do I feel when
you're in your element? Because if you're at your best
and I feel my best, then that's something that I.

Speaker 2 (56:15):
Can work with.

Speaker 1 (56:16):
Do you think you've experienced that before?

Speaker 2 (56:18):
I feel like spurts, I feel like they have the things. Yeah,
and then it'd be like you you you love the motherfucker.

Speaker 4 (56:26):
Then they don't got no edges, life our eggs or
you know, texting. They help with hair lots.

Speaker 1 (56:36):
And also Kelsey who we had on the show, just
to both TX or oh.

Speaker 3 (56:41):
And also we're going to Turkey next year with Paradis
and we're doing that whole body scan thing and that's
one of the things. So you know, I'm not trying
to plug, but if you are struggling with your edges
or your hairline niggas, then come.

Speaker 1 (56:50):
I wanted to tell you it was fresh cut Friday
for you because.

Speaker 2 (56:53):
You oh yeah, I went and got a cut for you.

Speaker 1 (56:55):
You did it looks good.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
I wasn't even.

Speaker 5 (56:57):
Gonna get a cut the whole time. So you told
me about it. That's I pushed it back. I was like,
I was like, damn okay. So in the midst of
you saying five thirty, I'm like, nah, I need to
push that for it because I was naturally gonna have
to get the haircut.

Speaker 2 (57:09):
Early, and I need to go handle it. I need
to handle We wouldn't have been able to do this.

Speaker 3 (57:13):
And then it's wild because when I told you at
the show that we weren't recording, I was like, but
I want you to come back and come on, And
then all of a sudden I was set up a
haircut anyway.

Speaker 5 (57:20):
But I was like, fucking, I'm gonna just wait because
I got showed as soon as I get back to
LA And I don't like going to barberzon go too,
so shout out the chop gud.

Speaker 2 (57:27):
He wanted the best out here, but I just don't
like going.

Speaker 1 (57:31):
It'd be hard to find somebody that won't mess up
your health.

Speaker 5 (57:34):
Yeah, because I like my hair girl, like how my
beer hair girl, So like it's not like a situation
where you can not know what you're doing.

Speaker 2 (57:41):
You know what I'm saying. You gotta have a little
one wrong move. Come on now, and then I'm four
weeks with have had on.

Speaker 4 (57:48):
That's crazy and it's already hot. I had a question though,
to something you just said. Why don't you go after
women like?

Speaker 5 (57:55):
I don't feel like I go I feel like I
approached women in a quarter according style. Going after them
like I'm not trying to Going after sounded like cornering
a woman, I.

Speaker 4 (58:06):
Guess, pursuing, but even not like a predature.

Speaker 2 (58:14):
Like energy. You know what I'm saying. I can see
you could be gorgeous, you could beautiful. I'm gonna let
you know that. I thought that, how do you let
them know? I'm gonna say it?

Speaker 1 (58:24):
Oh, and that's it?

Speaker 2 (58:25):
Yeah, and that might be all. You might never see
me again. I might have just been speaking to you.

Speaker 4 (58:30):
But what about when you see somebody that you are
really attracted.

Speaker 5 (58:35):
I don't know if I'm really attracted to you, because
I see beautiful people all the time.

Speaker 4 (58:39):
But everybody ain't beautiful, I can agree.

Speaker 2 (58:41):
Everybody doesn't have facial symmetry.

Speaker 1 (58:43):
How do you want to let them know?

Speaker 3 (58:45):
You want to interested and you want to stay connected
or do you just throw a bone and it don't happen.

Speaker 2 (58:51):
It don't happen.

Speaker 5 (58:52):
You gotta be you gotta be in alignment. I'm working
right now. So if I was right now searching for
a woman that focused, if she come in to pack,
like how you you showed up to the show? You
you were fine. I've always been attracted to you. I'm
willing to go to lunch with you.

Speaker 2 (59:07):
We can go to church. I'm in here at your ship.
That's how I think that that should go. You feel me.

Speaker 5 (59:12):
I'm pursuing now that it's made since and we're in
a bubble of understanding and I understand.

Speaker 2 (59:16):
I don't got to go through character checks.

Speaker 5 (59:18):
And if you spiritual or if you got something going on,
and I seen you in your element, I've been a
part of it.

Speaker 2 (59:24):
She's already seen me in my element and been a
part of it. And that was in the That was
in four days.

Speaker 5 (59:28):
That'll take four months with a motherfucker, what I don't
got four months? We did that just now?

Speaker 2 (59:35):
Girl, call me FaceTime. What are you talking about? I'm
already dating somebody.

Speaker 4 (59:48):
I am curious because the men will say that, but
it's like, Okay, what exactly.

Speaker 2 (59:52):
I'm not a sit on the wall ass niggas. What
you asking, I'm not a nigga that's gonna.

Speaker 4 (59:55):
Be like I should sit on the wall. But I'm
just wondering, like.

Speaker 2 (59:58):
You know, like I approach women, yeah, for sure.

Speaker 4 (01:00:01):
And what do you do pay a compliment?

Speaker 2 (01:00:04):
Compliment?

Speaker 5 (01:00:04):
It depends on where I'm at, It depends on what
I got going on, It depends on what she looked like,
It depends on what mineset I'm in.

Speaker 2 (01:00:11):
I could just be practicing a joke. I could be
just walking up to see if this ship in the heat.

Speaker 4 (01:00:15):
Could you imagine if he thought he was flirting with
you and he was like working out jokes I know,
but you would know later when I never hear from
you again, you.

Speaker 2 (01:00:25):
Know, but you you would have had to want to
hear from me.

Speaker 1 (01:00:28):
Huh.

Speaker 4 (01:00:29):
Yeah, But I'm saying, like, imagine though, if you were
the woman at the end of.

Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
This day, you gotta believe in yourself. Like imagine you.

Speaker 5 (01:00:36):
If I met y'all at Walmart and y'all actually had
two minutes to talk to me, y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:00:40):
Would speak to me again, it would be something you
I know, I would I feel like you gotta.

Speaker 5 (01:00:49):
I feel like even on you, like at a certain point,
somebody approaching you, it's something about your energy that got
to make them feel like, yeah, I was supposed to
approach her. It felt like that, like I feel like
I was supposing invite you.

Speaker 2 (01:01:00):
You know what I'm saying. I could have dm I
could have dmn her. You get what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:01:03):
It's like I could have damned anybody. But in the
midst of it, you pulled up. And then when you
pull it up, I actually saw you. And then it
was like, okay, bet, like I wasn't.

Speaker 1 (01:01:12):
Sure if you hain't seen me. At first, I was like, hello,
what are you talking about? Oh that's great.

Speaker 3 (01:01:16):
I had to make a pun on my hair need
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Speaker 4 (01:02:07):
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And I just thought I was broken, but I wasn't broken.
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uncomfortable transition. So I would just like to warn you

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about that, But it's not so uncomfortable in a physical way,
because then you're gonna start seeing results. You'll actually feel
more energized. You're gonna go to bed and like actually sleep,
wake up rested. I mean, it was just such a
foreign concept. To me, it's been like magic pills.

Speaker 1 (01:02:44):
Yeah, I love it.

Speaker 3 (01:02:46):
I mean I know that it doesn't do this, but
it feels like to me that it just did something
in my mind where it was like eat better, eat better,
and work out and healthy snack, Like that's how I
be feeling. The more that I work out. Sometimes I
need more energy, so have be twelve shots from them.
I give myself a B twelve shot every three days.
And like Kiki said, it's not always just for weight loss.

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Sometimes you just want to feel better in your body
and have more energy. And so I don't know about y'all,
but this was the first summer that I was actually ready.
I was summertime fine.

Speaker 4 (01:03:18):
I mean, yeah, I started these in the summer, so
I too was not ready again. But that's all right
now that this is a part of my overall wellness plan,
I'll be ready in the fall when most of you
guys will be big in your back Mine will be
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Yeah, you don't want to pull up in there just
like here you go and you're like, wait, nobody test me.
You need to test my blood mmm hm.

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Speaker 1 (01:05:19):
Okay, really I got one more question.

Speaker 3 (01:05:21):
I have so many questions on her, but that just
means you have to come back and you have to
go on Kiki show eventually, because I just think he
would be a great guest, so well spoken.

Speaker 1 (01:05:27):
Oh right in there. Gosh, that's so crazy, Okay, I think, yes.

Speaker 4 (01:05:32):
I I.

Speaker 1 (01:05:37):
Howard. How do you know that? I have two questions
that I really want to ask you.

Speaker 3 (01:05:42):
Okay, No, I'm going to ask you this one because
it's in alignment with your the theme of you, what
you got going on? What's something that you wish more
men knew about managing their emotions because and I just
want to follow up with this, there is like a
disconnect right now in our in the world right now
with all of us dating and people who do want
to get married and everybody who's like, we're trying to
do this thing with each other and every you want love, you.

Speaker 1 (01:06:00):
Want it, but people a getting divorced, people don't.

Speaker 3 (01:06:02):
Everybody's like, I'm not gonna date anymore, and people like
I'm not gonna everybody's just like all this hard.

Speaker 1 (01:06:07):
Stance of like, how are we going to create more
people the first place?

Speaker 2 (01:06:11):
Though?

Speaker 1 (01:06:12):
Yeah, but it's.

Speaker 3 (01:06:13):
Sometimes I'm not gonna say all men are the problem,
but there have been a lot of instances where it's
like you sometimes I look at men, I won't say everyone,
and I'm like, you're not being honest. You're not being
honest about your emotions, You're not being honest about honestly anything,
and that fucks everything up. You get into a relationship,
you get married, and you're playing with people and it's
or of age where it's not it's not okay, but it.

Speaker 5 (01:06:35):
Ain't even about the age. It's the game of cat
and mouse. Niggas been doing that with their mom for forever.
They moms don't know who they really are what they
moms don't know who they really are. Like when my
mom had to get me out of a situation and
she had to like see who I really was and
then see what I was in trouble for, and then
I had to tell her where money is in the
house too.

Speaker 2 (01:06:56):
You realizing who the fuck your child is, and you like,
what the fuck you? Like? A lot of us, for a.

Speaker 5 (01:07:01):
Long time have an art of being right up on you,
loving you to death unconditionally and not letting you know
who the fuck we are. So at the point of
us having sex and having emotions and having you be
a woman with emotion or being a person, you are
breaking those barriers down. And you're gonna start seeing that
because it's gonna be wearing tear of him not being

(01:07:23):
able to storm out and not talk to his mom
for a couple of months.

Speaker 2 (01:07:26):
He really liked you.

Speaker 5 (01:07:27):
He don't really invest in term, he don'et invest in money.
You don't invested his feelings, And a lot of us
haven't opened ourselves up to that. So imagine you got
a dog that is in a cage that you want
to take out to a dog park around other dogs,
and he ain't never been out there, and he ain't
never been out the cage, and you just finna think

(01:07:48):
you're finna tell him how. And that's like how we
feel as soon as we get into that open field
of emotions where we finally got to talk about it.
And it's like, now I'm just biting whatever come close
to me because I don't don't even know why everything's
so happy and running around. I'm you know what I'm saying,
like I don't, and I'm saying this from a general
space of how I used to feel before I was

(01:08:08):
open to talking about what was wrong and you know
what's going on? You know what I'm saying, and like
you know it, I feel like men we don't speak
to ourselves enough like women coach themselves through shit. Y'all
got y'all got group chats, y'all consult each other before y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:08:25):
Go do something.

Speaker 1 (01:08:26):
Men, but y'all have the tools to do We do it.

Speaker 3 (01:08:29):
We do it.

Speaker 2 (01:08:30):
Afterwards, we come to our friends after we done fucked up.

Speaker 4 (01:08:33):
Why you know you can do it before embarrassed. I'm
just not feeling to do it amongst each other.

Speaker 5 (01:08:40):
Yeah, because it's no way to tell your friend. Hey, man,
I feel like I'm a bad man and I love
this woman, and I feel like I'm fit a loser,
and I gotta figure out a way to politely get
rid of these bitches because she the one that I
fucking want.

Speaker 1 (01:08:53):
But that doesn't make sense to me, because I don't
understand why can't.

Speaker 5 (01:08:56):
You just say that because a lot of their friends
have not built one on one relationship where they're not
gonna condemn you for it. It's like everybody I ain't
never came to me like that. I'm gonna be like, boy,
you tender about this bitch? All the hoes you funking?

Speaker 2 (01:09:11):
Are you serious?

Speaker 3 (01:09:11):
It is.

Speaker 4 (01:09:13):
He and she got a problem, but you wouldn't do that.

Speaker 5 (01:09:16):
Now, I'm saying that's how men talk to each other
and which they haven't created that space. Like all my friends,
I tell them about theirself, like I got a couple
of dope boy from wilding Out, like he he the
one who run my podcast while I'm at his podcast studio.

Speaker 2 (01:09:31):
And he helped me engineer shit, and I talked to
him about his girl all.

Speaker 5 (01:09:34):
The time, and it's like, my friends, I'm on your
ass about it, like, because I'm not personally even gonna
get in a relationship. If I'm finna go back and
forth about why I'm here or what I'm doing or
who I'm dealing with. I'm not gonna do that. If
I feel like I gotta do anything extra. We just
gonna date and you gonna know that I am with
you when I'm with you, and then that's just what

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it is. We don't even gotta have sex. We can
just experience each other.

Speaker 1 (01:10:00):
No, I'm not saying you mean that we're just gonna
be you and it depends.

Speaker 2 (01:10:06):
But I'm saying in each situation, nigga.

Speaker 4 (01:10:08):
Oh my god, each situation poor heavy today.

Speaker 2 (01:10:12):
This is what I'm saying. This is what I'm saying.
This is why man can't open up because I'm trying
to speak generally.

Speaker 4 (01:10:20):
Say similar things.

Speaker 1 (01:10:21):
So I get what you're saying.

Speaker 5 (01:10:23):
I mean, it's okay, like it's our fault because we
were just not as strong as we appear, you know
what I'm saying. Yeah, I'm cool with saying that I
wasn't as strong as I appeared like me going through
my year of being away from everything I know and
being in a new culture and being out in LA
Like it really taught me I was not.

Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
As strong as I appeared. Like it took me crying.

Speaker 5 (01:10:45):
It took me, like you know, being away from my
son and having moments when I'm fighting court doing ship
like I had to. I got a notebook that say
dear Lenox, that's my son's name, and it got our
pictures on our right to him every day.

Speaker 2 (01:10:55):
And when I first started it, like every day I
would cry, you get.

Speaker 5 (01:10:58):
What I'm saying, to the point where I couldn't write,
and I would stop writing for weeks because it would
hurt me, you know what I'm saying, And I didn't
it would bother me that it would hurt me. But
like you know, we don't address our emotions a lot
and a lot of times we don't have anything to
take us out of that so we can address it.
But once we address it and we messed it all up,
we naturally don't even make our beds. So imagine cleaning

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the mess of our minds up. You know what I'm saying.
And now I gotta go out here and do what
I was doing. Now I'm finna be doing it on
a less on a lower frequency. And as soon as
I don't feel like a king, I no longer am
moving at the same capacity I was moving at speed
I was moving at. I don't got the same lust
for anything that I'm doing. You're I don't feel now

(01:11:43):
I'm blaming you because I feel like it's because you're
not pouring into me. But it's more so I just
have never worked hard and worked through my emotions at
the same time.

Speaker 1 (01:11:52):
Woll now you're writing in your journal about my wig
what I.

Speaker 4 (01:11:54):
Do to you, it is stressful. I'm going to like
go through all those feelings, go through your life, do
all this stuff, and then to be a man and
do it. I don't give men a lot of grace
with a lot of things, because some stuff is trifling,
but with the emotions and not knowing how to deal
with them, knowing how to dress them, knowing even how

(01:12:14):
to realize, Okay, actually you're having a bad day and
it's because of this thing that you are involving yourself
in that's stressing you out. You don't even you're not
even putting those things together. You just feel like this
is life. You're stressed, and this is just how it is.
And it's like it doesn't have to be that. I
give the men grace for that, because it's like I
don't think that we extended enough. I don't think that

(01:12:38):
men get to learn how to deal with feelings or
even like I think about like a simple example, when
a little boy gets hurt and he cries, oh, you
don't have nothing to cry about, but we don't do
that to the girls. And it's just like that builds
up and so over time you feel like I can't cry,
I can't do this, or it makes me less than
and I feel bad.

Speaker 5 (01:12:58):
For y'all ie that it depends on the balance, right,
because like little boys need that ship.

Speaker 2 (01:13:05):
I was just about to say, little boys need that ship.

Speaker 4 (01:13:07):
You can.

Speaker 2 (01:13:11):
Different stuff.

Speaker 5 (01:13:11):
I'm a cute dog, you feel me so like, but
down to like building somebody down, to building somebody up
after they felt low. As a parent, as a man,
as a head of household, as a big brother, as
a doer for the community, you're supposed to really be

(01:13:32):
firm and tell people that they were wrong or tell
people when they ain't.

Speaker 2 (01:13:36):
When the ship ain't right, and you need to be
telling them how to grow it.

Speaker 5 (01:13:40):
That's why earlier I was saying, being a millionaire ain't
shit if you're not building people that know how to
reduplicate the process.

Speaker 2 (01:13:46):
So I feel like a lot of men go into
it not wanting to be the coach.

Speaker 3 (01:13:51):
You're the leader, but they say things like, well, I'm
supposed to leave, but you don't know like that you yeah,
you're not speaking. But also I wanted to say, like,
there's like this we I My situation is interesting because
I came out of a relationship where the man was
speaking a very great game and doing the things, and
then when we really got to know each other, it
was like, oh, you don't you don't actually want to

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be a leader, not of me at least, like you
don't you you don't want to try to like express yourself.
And I'm not the type of woman where it's like
you can't do I want to provide a.

Speaker 1 (01:14:25):
Space for you to do that. My type cat.

Speaker 3 (01:14:33):
There's like layers with it. I love a compassionate person,
like somebody who is passionate about whatever it is that
they do, but you have a you're compassionate for people
and like what people go through in this world not
it's not about their money. It's not about what they're
what title they how many degrees. I don't like that shit.

(01:14:53):
If you see you coming around talking about all the
name brands, like even if you can have it, and
even if we all wear it, cool, if that's like
your folk kids.

Speaker 1 (01:15:01):
I want a person that can feel like you can
you can sit in.

Speaker 3 (01:15:06):
Feel like you feel people you have you have the sight,
but you also can like see things with your heart.
You don't just like walk past someone and you see
them crying and you just like they're gonna be all right.
You're the type of person where you're like, they're hungry,
you're at dinner in the one friend, it is like, no,
I'm just gonna have water the base you'll had of money.
I got you what you want and we don't need
to tell everybody. We don't have to be like and

(01:15:26):
I'm hard is on my I'm gonna pull you aside
in the bathroom. I'm like a man that can see people.
And a lot of the times that's really hard to find.
Like you volunteer your time, you like animals, you care
about life, and so that's really hard.

Speaker 1 (01:15:41):
To find in people in general.

Speaker 3 (01:15:43):
Not even just like if you're trying to date them,
like I have found that like when you start to
get to know people, you're like, oh, okay, you know
I don't come from a family like that. Like it's
so I had a point and I totally forgot it,
but I ask you a question. No, but there was
based off of the question, the initial question that we have.
They're trying to get us to get it together. There

(01:16:03):
was something I was going to say they had to
do with what y'all were talking about. But then I
started telling him my type and I can.

Speaker 4 (01:16:09):
More important right now anyway, know type, how they're a
ling the man's emotions.

Speaker 3 (01:16:17):
You will ask a man to be like tell me
how you feel like even if you do try to
like provide the space and like you can tell me
like I.

Speaker 4 (01:16:23):
Love you, do you hear that?

Speaker 2 (01:16:25):
Listen to tell me how you feel?

Speaker 1 (01:16:27):
Well, this is me talking on the podcast, but think
about it.

Speaker 2 (01:16:30):
But as simple as that, as a man, I'm just
responding to you.

Speaker 5 (01:16:35):
Because we together on this. You know what I'm saying
on top to youde Okay, okay, ask me how I feel?

Speaker 1 (01:16:41):
How do you feel about what?

Speaker 5 (01:16:43):
Because honestly, I've been feeling things that I haven't talked
about for years before you. I have so much trauma
with women, my mom, my family, people that have died.
I'm uncomfortable that I'm not who I thought I was
gonna be by now, and I'm trying to hold it
together for you because.

Speaker 2 (01:16:57):
I know you deserve that.

Speaker 1 (01:16:59):
So what can I do help you because you don't
have to.

Speaker 5 (01:17:01):
I don't know what to do to help myself. I'm
just working through every day and I'm happy that I
was able to have you in my life, and honestly,
you make it better. And anything that I can do
to keep you in my life, I'm gonna do it.
Whether that's whether that's even not being honest with.

Speaker 1 (01:17:16):
You, and because you're not being honest with you right now,
and see this is what it turns into.

Speaker 5 (01:17:21):
But I'm just giving you. But I'm telling you how
that we not even dating though, but I'm telling you
how to our minds. When you're talking about feelings, it's
not about we could be thinking about something that ain't
got nothing to do with. Like I still wake up
in cold sweast from when I used to have cameras
in the house and feel like people was coming in there.

Speaker 2 (01:17:40):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:17:40):
Yeah, but it's not fair for you or your partner?
What are you?

Speaker 2 (01:17:44):
What can I do?

Speaker 4 (01:17:46):
What can we do?

Speaker 2 (01:17:46):
It's not about it's not about you trying to do right.
That's the problem. You don't got to touch it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:52):
You know, it's affecting our relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:17:55):
It shouldn't.

Speaker 1 (01:17:55):
What do we do?

Speaker 3 (01:17:56):
That's what I'm saying. Like when it starts to spill
into like now I'm waking up.

Speaker 1 (01:18:00):
In col Switts, like what are we?

Speaker 3 (01:18:02):
There does have to be a solution, And sometimes with
women like men be like my exit to say this,
what's easy for you to open up?

Speaker 1 (01:18:07):
No the fuck it's not, but it's necessary.

Speaker 5 (01:18:10):
It's easy for you to have an educated conversation at
your frequency, with your mental capacity when you.

Speaker 2 (01:18:18):
Want to have it.

Speaker 5 (01:18:19):
But do you know as an emotional man who's not
as intelligent as you and don't have as much motion,
And I'm already half way out the door because I
shouldn't have been with you, because you were better than
whatever I've ever had. Jumping into that conversation feels like
authority automatically.

Speaker 2 (01:18:35):
It feels like I'm talking to my boss and this
is a job I don't need so.

Speaker 3 (01:18:39):
Then we just never we never resolve the issue. Now
we get married and we acting crazy in the house.

Speaker 2 (01:18:45):
Y'all should never get married through that.

Speaker 5 (01:18:47):
And I feel like it takes like, right now, how
we having this healthy back and forth and we are
allowing ourselves and even when I had a disagreement, I'm
taking a step further and touching you and letting you know, hey.

Speaker 2 (01:18:58):
I'm with you.

Speaker 5 (01:18:59):
We can agree and it could be okay, you gotta
have We gotta want to do that. Though it has
to be a choice. A lot of times people are
choosing people they're not that are not really their choice.
You know what I'm saying, it's just financially makes sense.
It may made sense for the motion. You may have
had a kid with the person. You may not have
had nowhere to stay at the time. You might you
get what I'm saying. You might they might have had
just good sex. It might you might be It's so

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many different avenues to why we be stuck in situations,
and we allow ourselves to be numb from it because
we go so long without.

Speaker 2 (01:19:28):
When we finally get anything, we are in the space
of like, oh, it's scarcity, so let me just sea.

Speaker 5 (01:19:35):
Yeah, and you you, the bigger you feel and the
more you realize that you really calling the energies to you,
you keep getting these broken spirits because you're a broken spirit.
You like damn, you keep trying to heal everybody, and
if you would have just healed yourself, you were fine
healing hold people. Like the more I started healing myself
and the more I started like doing things in stride
and not trying to pull people with me, like just

(01:19:57):
taking care of shit and stride, it made everything better
for me.

Speaker 2 (01:20:00):
I love that I was able to meet the people
I need to meet.

Speaker 4 (01:20:02):
And we're going on to day and I have one
question before we're doing the questions for today, and this
is for the both of you. Do you find, ever,
especially at this phase of your life, that when somebody
does ask you a question, and even if you even
if we can all agree, that you know that the

(01:20:22):
person asking the question has every intention to help you
to the best of their ability. If you don't know
how to vocalize what is actually wrong or even have
an idea of what the solution is, that you don't
want to talk about it, Like if somebody asks you
what's wrong and how you're feeling. Is it like you
feel like you don't want to say what's going on
because you know that this other person doesn't know the

(01:20:43):
answer and you don't have the answer, So it say,
what are we talking about it for?

Speaker 1 (01:20:46):
If I trust you, if it's somebody that i'm talking
to that I trust, and if I'm with the man,
I obviously trust you. Even have these things I probably
shouldn't trust, but I'll be trusting. And so if I
do trust you, I'm going to tell you and I'm
gonna probably cry, and I even announce when I'm about
to cry. It's this very weird thing. I'm gonna cry.
I think I've probably have done that with you, and
I'm about to cry.

Speaker 3 (01:21:02):
And I don't want everybody to have an emotional You know,
you don't have to feel emotional, but I feel emotional
about this, and so I'm letting you know this because
it's just very delicate.

Speaker 1 (01:21:09):
So if you could take it like that, then here
we go. I'm okay with having those.

Speaker 3 (01:21:13):
I've been through some very embarrassing situations and relationships where
you just have to say what it is or else
I know that I'm gonna act out, or I know
that you're going to be wondering what's wrong with me,
And really it is nothing that you did. But it's
like I'm battling some stuff. I can tell you that,
and it's hard. It's not easy. It's embarrassing when when
my ex was like, send me all your bank account
information so I can see like it was done, it

(01:21:35):
was Oh, I thought I told you all that there's
several thing I need to make a littleffee table book.

Speaker 4 (01:21:39):
But girl, you could write a holiday one of y'all
publishing houses needed because she's got a story for y'all.
Every week I find out something new.

Speaker 3 (01:21:47):
So yes, I can say it, but I feel like
now the older I get, it's like, do you say
it because shit gets used against you?

Speaker 1 (01:21:53):
Oh that's me.

Speaker 4 (01:21:54):
A lot of times I don't want to that even Yeah,
Like like.

Speaker 5 (01:21:58):
I love peace and I love and all that good ship,
but I like, I like a woman who will speak up.
Like I'm cool with you speaking up, and I'm cool
with you hearing what I got to say about it,
and I'm cool with us moving past it.

Speaker 4 (01:22:08):
Know about you speaking up, not her speaking if it's
something that you like you to talk about.

Speaker 5 (01:22:14):
But a lot of times when you when a woman
asking how are you feeling or what do you feel?

Speaker 2 (01:22:19):
Or what's wrong? They already feeling it on you, so.

Speaker 1 (01:22:22):
Yeah, it's like spit it out and they won't spit
it out right, But.

Speaker 5 (01:22:26):
For me, like I haven't even put it in and
I may not even have made a plan for myself yet.

Speaker 2 (01:22:32):
So to ask you first, it's saying that I'm checking, like,
so yes is.

Speaker 1 (01:22:38):
The answer to the question.

Speaker 4 (01:22:39):
It sounds like because that's what I'm asking you, don't
you haven't put your plan together, so he wouldn't tell Yeah, you.

Speaker 5 (01:22:45):
Know what I'm saying. Most men not going to talk
about it in the moment. No, yeah, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:22:50):
Yeah, you can be talked about of course.

Speaker 5 (01:22:53):
And then it depends on the hierarchy of who is
talking to like if if like yeah, like no, but
I'm saying like I get that, but like a man's
relationship with everybody is different, right, So like me asking
her asking what's going on or what's wrong is different
from my grandma asking it that you are in a

(01:23:14):
conversation are the same, Like that intimate level of conversation
no matter who is with, we don't get there.

Speaker 2 (01:23:22):
So when we get there.

Speaker 5 (01:23:23):
It's only what people we give a shit ton about,
like grandma's, mama's grandpa, somebody of a stature that like
would change how you are, change the narrative of how
you feel about something from the core though. You know
what I'm saying, And so if you are in that
group of people, it's gonna be real hard to give
it to you right now because I might I might

(01:23:43):
still be frustrated, I might still be thinking of things
that I might not have nothing nice to say. And
now I'm just speaking from me. You get what I'm saying.
Why I wouldn't speak on it in the moment, You
know what I'm saying. But as I've gotten older, I've
been able to speak through things. I've gotten way less angry.
I used to be a fighter, like not with women,
but like I was if a man disrespected me, I'm

(01:24:05):
gonna put my hands.

Speaker 1 (01:24:05):
On he was busting hands daily. You remember that group
of high school There was a group in our high
school to day.

Speaker 2 (01:24:10):
And then you know how it anyway, y'all, don't let
the Navy content who are you? You know?

Speaker 1 (01:24:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:24:19):
All right, cutting up, It's time to move on, Hugo.
You have to come back, because there's just so much
more come back. We'll have an advice letter, and then
Hugo's gonna share a cocktail.

Speaker 1 (01:24:28):
Uh huh uh huh.

Speaker 4 (01:24:36):
But if you ain't got to how didn't mean you think?
Is it some cash and.

Speaker 3 (01:24:44):
Play?

Speaker 4 (01:24:46):
Once upon a time not long ago, I was all right,
you guys, we are back and it is time for
the cocktails. Actually, so if you have a cocktail that
you want to send into the show, make sure you
email us C O.

Speaker 3 (01:24:59):
C K T A L E.

Speaker 4 (01:25:01):
S At cocktails dot com or cocktails pot dot com. Sorry,
I'll put it in there and clicking you'all be sending
it to the wrong damn ship. Anyway, we are going
to let our guests is share a cocktails. You know
that he's a nasty man, or at least maybe he
was in a past life.

Speaker 2 (01:25:17):
I want to.

Speaker 4 (01:25:19):
I wonder I didn't know how clean you wanted to be.
I thought you were what I can see it? And
so your beer?

Speaker 1 (01:25:25):
Are you passionate when you have?

Speaker 2 (01:25:27):
Yeah? I work through it. I work through it.

Speaker 4 (01:25:29):
Yeah, see the material. If you are listening to this
and just just dip on over to you.

Speaker 5 (01:25:34):
I told you her face gonna be with I'm I'm
gonna naturally grab your neck when I eat.

Speaker 2 (01:25:39):
I'm gonna rub your feet when.

Speaker 4 (01:25:40):
I got long arms. So if you were thinking like
it wouldn't work, it would.

Speaker 2 (01:25:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:25:46):
Like you gotta have her do like a split, right,
like like a lay black split with your arm. Here
you choking her and rubbing the foot.

Speaker 1 (01:25:53):
That's wild.

Speaker 2 (01:25:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:25:56):
Do you have a cocktail?

Speaker 2 (01:25:58):
Oh? All right? Yeah? In the cocktail is like a
crazy sexual time.

Speaker 1 (01:26:03):
It doesn't have to be crazy.

Speaker 5 (01:26:04):
Oh my first time eating my first time eating ass
was I was in high school. In high school, I
was with my GIRLFRIENDO. My first time, my first time
having six, I was thirteen and I ate pussy. My
first time having six, No, I was in ap calculus.

(01:26:27):
I just told you I was blessing equation. You think
I won't finilsh You was.

Speaker 4 (01:26:30):
Blessing a lot of things.

Speaker 2 (01:26:31):
Come on?

Speaker 1 (01:26:32):
What uh?

Speaker 4 (01:26:32):
While you were doing all of that division? How old
was that lady?

Speaker 2 (01:26:36):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:26:36):
She well, because she wasn't no girl.

Speaker 2 (01:26:39):
She was a She was a senior in high school.
I was a freshman.

Speaker 5 (01:26:42):
Okay, yeah, but she need see but she took algebra
two and needed help with algebra two.

Speaker 4 (01:26:46):
So y'all to study because she was still stuck on
long division.

Speaker 2 (01:26:50):
She did good on her test and then I got helped.
I got rewarded, which is crazy. I was playing varsity
basketball too. She was a cheerleader. It was like weird
because like the summer I tried to holler her. She
like little niggas. I ended up being on the team.

Speaker 5 (01:27:04):
Then I ended up having to be like the teacher
assistant for algebra two my freshman year.

Speaker 2 (01:27:08):
Like I was a brainiact like I was.

Speaker 1 (01:27:11):
Did you feel like that?

Speaker 4 (01:27:12):
Sometimes?

Speaker 5 (01:27:13):
Liked just black black teachers at black schools and black
high schools that are known for sports just didn't give
a fuck. They just be going through their own ship.
She got a nigga cheating on her, she coming in
her work.

Speaker 2 (01:27:25):
I don't give a fuck how that actually was.

Speaker 4 (01:27:29):
But she didn't teach me.

Speaker 5 (01:27:33):
But I think that was the craziest, Like like my
first time having sex was probably my craziest time because
like I ate pussy. My first time I was supposed
to be over there helping her with some ship like
as far as work. She showed me the test and
she was like, niggah, She's like you ever had six before?

Speaker 1 (01:27:49):
And I'm like wow, she's dope, and I'm like.

Speaker 2 (01:27:52):
At the time, she's gatos. Did she like a girl
that like is nong gay? Like you feel me? But
like what kind of game like girls? Gay?

Speaker 1 (01:27:58):
But did she look like a boy?

Speaker 5 (01:28:00):
No, she like girling like film gay, like she like
pretty girls and she was a pretty girl. But she
you feel me like so yeah, in my head, I'm
like what I'm thinking, you just asking for shits and giggles.

Speaker 2 (01:28:11):
I'm answering like no, yeah, cool, because.

Speaker 5 (01:28:14):
You know, I'm on varsity when I'm young, so I
hear stories and I'm just not there yet and I'm
not even trying to embarrass myself and baby girl, I'm
just cool with being the nigga that get the all
your books. It's really like some love don't cost of
thing type shit like ironically and yeah, like niggas, she
brought me upstairs.

Speaker 2 (01:28:32):
I remember the first thing she's saying, like I want
you to eat my pussy. I'm like she was grown.

Speaker 4 (01:28:36):
I wasn't.

Speaker 1 (01:28:36):
I didn't get my pussy til college. Yeah, and it wasn't.
It wasn't really.

Speaker 2 (01:28:42):
It was on you too, that nigga was hung. Yeah,
it's crazy. Yeah, a by the time I had got
out of my black and face.

Speaker 5 (01:28:47):
By the time I was about fifteen, I was I
was By the time I was fifteen, I knew what
squirking was. Wow like because I could get you to
relax like she. She taught me how to eat pussy
like like she had, like I had tried it. We
had six boom. She next time, she brought old girl
over there and was like, I want you to watch

(01:29:08):
her eat my pussy, and I want you to try
to do it.

Speaker 4 (01:29:10):
You know what, even though she was way too old,
it was cool you were young. Yeah, she did you
a good one thought teaching more lesbian should lead pussy
eating class.

Speaker 1 (01:29:28):
That's the booklet that I would want.

Speaker 4 (01:29:31):
I know my best eater got taught by a woman.
He had to. I never asked him.

Speaker 1 (01:29:35):
But yeah, like.

Speaker 2 (01:29:36):
Genuinely you.

Speaker 5 (01:29:39):
You I ain't gonna get about the tea, but hey, man,
just stay at the top and work your way down.

Speaker 2 (01:29:45):
You know what I'm saying exact.

Speaker 3 (01:29:49):
Let everybody know, thank you so much for coming and
taking the time out to have conversation with us.

Speaker 1 (01:29:55):
Yeah you are. Will you let everybody know how they
can keep up with you, where they can find you.
What you got going going on.

Speaker 2 (01:30:00):
Yeah, y'all can follow me on Instagram where any of
the platforms at worldwide Hugo.

Speaker 5 (01:30:05):
That's what a j jug o worldwide like you went
to high school, jug O, like you to Spanish or whatever. Also,
I have a comedy for mental health brand and show
and podcast called laugh Away from Home. You can follow
that on YouTube, follow that on Instagram, you can follow
that on everything. I'm moving around the world, man, traveling
thirty seven states right now for comedy. I live out

(01:30:27):
in Hollywood, California. I'm a Chocolate Sunday's regular, Monday Rays regular.
I'm doing all the clubs. I'm working with everybody. Man,
y'all gonna see me on TV. It's fucking happening. I'm
glad to be here. I know I made it because
I'm out here talking about cocktails.

Speaker 2 (01:30:41):
What the fuck? You know what I'm saying. I don't, though,
but you know I can tell you about though.

Speaker 4 (01:30:49):
I tell you a lot.

Speaker 5 (01:30:50):
Okay, put that cock to your tail load boom. But yeah,
that's me man, Worldwhide Hugo, your Auntie's favorite favorite comedian. Yeah,
if you see me outside of TJ Max driving slow
on a Sunday playing gospel.

Speaker 1 (01:31:07):
Oh you might catch me, TJ. Max is my spot.

Speaker 2 (01:31:09):
Come on now, I'm not there passing outpints.

Speaker 4 (01:31:12):
I love the soft peppermints in the strawberry candy and
a butterscotch on a sad.

Speaker 2 (01:31:17):
Day in your mouth. I'll be like now melting mine.

Speaker 1 (01:31:20):
Oh now you're about to have your second child. Thank
you so much.

Speaker 2 (01:31:25):
Pretty, it'll be pretty, it'll be pretty. I'm looking at
your features.

Speaker 4 (01:31:30):
I help you, guys check out all of the links
to everything that we talked about.

Speaker 2 (01:31:35):
Successfully in a while.

Speaker 1 (01:31:36):
This was like a I really have.

Speaker 4 (01:31:41):
You'll drop some thumbs and havny thumbs up. He gets
you know, like you and she ain't been trying to flirt.
So everybody's a virgin but.

Speaker 2 (01:31:49):
Me, she don't or nothing.

Speaker 3 (01:31:52):
He praying a guy to church. Okay, t I don't
even be saying. I want to tell man, look at God.

Speaker 2 (01:32:01):
I don't know you. You ain't looking at me like that.
The other day. You look at me like you didn't
tell me you were talking. I'm like Nigga stand.

Speaker 4 (01:32:09):
Up, trying to teach her how to tell.

Speaker 2 (01:32:13):
Anyway, after the ship and everything took a picture.

Speaker 4 (01:32:16):
She has been having her blinders on and all fair
very much.

Speaker 2 (01:32:20):
I won't interested then, but now that I think about it,
I gotta go.

Speaker 1 (01:32:27):
Yeah, thank you so much. Check out the show, check
out all the things, because all the links, and bye,
good bye.

Speaker 3 (01:32:33):
Bye, b bye bye relationship, good bye bye bye try
bye bye

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