Paper Pregnant, Real Hormones: Lindsay Diann on Baby Joy, Loss & Ride-or-Die Friendships

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
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Speaker 2 (00:03):
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Speaker 4 (00:06):
Hey? Listen man, it's the one and only Trunks that
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with Kikia Medina Monroe.

Speaker 5 (00:14):
Here.

Speaker 4 (00:20):
Today's cocktail is called the prego Rita.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
You heard it right, the prego rita. I'm not pregnant.

Speaker 4 (00:29):
The ingredients you need to make a prego rita two
ounces of fresh lime juice or alcohol free lime margarita mix,
one ounce of fresh oj one ounce of agave syrup
or just adjust to taste how you like it. Add
two ounces of sparkling wine if you're making a cocktail
instead of a mocktail. Three to four ounces of club
soda to top it off, and that's your cocktail version.

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You can add a salt or a to heen rim,
and then you can even add some little jalapeno slices
for a little kick and make it spicy. Here's how
you're gonna make a prego rita. You're going to salt
the rim of your glass, shake the lime juice and
the orange juice and the agave with some nice little
crunchy nugget ice pour it into a glass over that ice.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
And then top with some club soda.

Speaker 4 (01:12):
Garnish with your halapino if you want it spicy, but
if not, just go ahead and enjoy a prego rita, y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
It's tasty.

Speaker 5 (01:20):
And welcome back to Cocktails, Dirty Discussions, you guys. We
are back with another episode, and today we have a guest.
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Speaker 4 (01:44):
And y'all, we got an actress on this show. We
have a famous person on the show this week.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
Okay, so please welcome our guest, Lindsey Diane.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
You do a lot. You do a lot.

Speaker 4 (01:58):
You're an actress. You sing, yes, you write, you produce,
you dance.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
That's how you polled dancing on your IMDb.

Speaker 5 (02:12):
Know it was so good when you drop that baby,
you don't have to teach us some things.

Speaker 3 (02:15):
We love learning new dance moves.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
Ok, we really do.

Speaker 4 (02:18):
As soon as you dropped in our live shows when
we were touring, we incorporated dance. I don't know who
we think we are, but we are who we think
we are, and we did dance routines at the beginning
of each other.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
You we don't. We're not dancers at all.

Speaker 6 (02:30):
Everybody's a dancer, Yeah, everybody. You can find a beat.
If you can't, you know, find your little vibe vies.

Speaker 3 (02:39):
Definitely was some of them.

Speaker 4 (02:40):
Some people found beats and some of us did it.
But you know what, we did it.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
It was fun.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
Yeah, and you had a good time.

Speaker 2 (02:46):
We did. That's a good time. How are you. How
have you been?

Speaker 1 (02:51):
I've been very pregnant. Is the mondsel you described? Is
that what I'm drinking.

Speaker 2 (02:56):
That's what you're drinking without the sparkling wine.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
You just have soda in yours. I just have and
no spicy stuff.

Speaker 5 (03:03):
And because I know sometimes people get the heart burns,
so I was like, I'm not even about to breathe.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
That is the thing.

Speaker 4 (03:08):
That is because your pregnancy been easy, it has been
a breeze.

Speaker 6 (03:13):
I cannot lie. My friends say I'm fake pregnant, like
or no, I'm sorry, I'm paper pregnant, Like I'm not pregnant,
no stretch marks all, like I'm just sitting here a
huge In fact, I woke up maybe like four months
because we were filming at first, we did all our movies,
and I was pregnant the whole time, even as the Tima.

(03:34):
But after maybe about four and a half months, then
it's like, okay, it started coming and start.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
You started feeling pregnant, and now we're here.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
Now I feel pregnant.

Speaker 2 (03:43):
Okay, okay, I feel pregnant, and this is your first baby,
it's my first favorite. Happy are you?

Speaker 6 (03:48):
I'm very happy. I finally got rid of the delivery nerves.
That was the only thing I was kind of scared
of once I got really big. You know, you kind
of grow up when you have yours, like okay, i'm
gonna have my husband, I'm gonna have my kids. And
I've always been that girl. I want kids, I want this,
I want that. And then I got pregnant and I
was like, oh my god, okay, I'm pregnant.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
We're here. I'm a woman now.

Speaker 6 (04:12):
And then I started getting bigger and bigger, and I'm like, okay,
you gotta come out of here right, like I have
to push you out of here. And she's my small
she apparently she's hava.

Speaker 1 (04:22):
She is good.

Speaker 6 (04:23):
Last week she was about six and a half pounds,
so no, no, maybe about two and a half weeks
ago now, so maybe she's gonna be a good seven
of it.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Wow and then we done.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
Yeah, not looking for no ten twelve pounds. Baby.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
This is when I.

Speaker 4 (04:41):
See pregnant people. Even though this is like you know
people are getting pregnant, I'm just like, wow, you're really
like your body is really making a human. It's crazy,
Like do you ever just sit in the tub or
like on like on the edge of the bed, like
looking at your like it's really a human in here.

Speaker 1 (04:56):
I do it all the time.

Speaker 6 (04:57):
Like as soon as I feel her, I literally just
pulled my shirt up, like let me see you moving
around like a little alien, like you can see her
little elbow or see her foot like pushing out the side.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
Now it doesn't hurt as bad all the time anymore.

Speaker 6 (05:14):
Initially, like those first kicks where when she had a
lot more room, oh they were devastating. But now maybe
because she's so tight she can't kick as hardy one
and she would come out she is to dance with
her mama.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
I'm just like that is so cool.

Speaker 4 (05:33):
Like I just think women are superheroes because of that
right there, Like you're literally brewing a child. And then
there's a book that I was reading that I'm reading.
I keep talking about it, and y'all, this ain't no ad.
It's called Boundaries. And there's a part in the book
where it talks about women and babies, and there I
can't remember the age range, but it talks about how
when the baby is born, and like whatever the age
range is, there's a moment where the child is so

(05:56):
connected with the mother.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
Just that's just how it goes. But the child is.

Speaker 4 (06:00):
So connected with the mom that it feels the child
thinks that it's you, like it still thinks that it's
in you, and it thinks that you.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
Guys are one unit. I mean, it was. You should
research it.

Speaker 4 (06:11):
It's a beautiful description of It's normally the baby phase
when the baby just wants to see it's called I
think they call a stranger danger phase, and the kid,
the child just doesn't want to go to anybody, and
you just got to I'm so sorry. It's a phase
because the child thinks that y'all are one, the mom
and the baby. I was like, this is a It
was just a beautiful reference that it talked about.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
So that's just so dope.

Speaker 6 (06:31):
I can say last night, and I don't even tell
my husband this, but I was laying down and neither
one of us could go to sleep. I took a
long nap. I went to sleep at like seven, woke
up about eleven thirty. So around twelve, we're up and
moving and I swear like, I know she's head down
and I can tell like where her butt and where

(06:52):
her feet are. But I swear like when I was
holding her here, like I can just feel her little
hand like this, and I'm just like moving her hand
and I'm like you, I'm like, okay, so we we
hold their hands.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
I swear.

Speaker 3 (07:08):
Movie what about you?

Speaker 6 (07:10):
But I swear that was my first moment where I
felt like, okay, I feel like we are I mean,
obviously we're connected now, you know what I mean. But
I can feel you in the moment, like okay, I'm
touching you, you're touching me, and we just having conversations
like that was definitely last night.

Speaker 5 (07:26):
What has been the most surprising part about your pregnancy
for you, maybe something you didn't expect to happen or
to feel even.

Speaker 6 (07:37):
I would say the entire process, to be honest, Like,
you wake up one day and you know, you get
that positive pregnancy test, and then you slowly just see
yourself getting bigger and bigger and bigger, and I'm like, wow, okay,
you start seeing the small things. You start saying your no,
just start seeing your cheat, you.

Speaker 3 (07:57):
Know what I mean.

Speaker 6 (07:57):
You start saying now, like I said, my little fake
pregnancy that they say, and I have Now I see my.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
Feet are a little bigger, Like.

Speaker 6 (08:08):
I think, just seeing yourself change and your body actually
go through those things and you see a little person
moving around in you, that alone.

Speaker 1 (08:17):
Is like, it's beautiful.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
It's beautiful.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
It really is, I think too.

Speaker 6 (08:24):
Also, it started to make me realize and honestly just
have so much more respect for women that are single
because I have no idea how they're doing it.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (08:37):
I have no idea.

Speaker 6 (08:38):
Now that I am pregnant, it's like, literally, life is
not fair, Like it's you against the world for real,
for real, because you are you are handicapped, you literally
cannot physically.

Speaker 2 (08:49):
Do things, but you still have to go to work.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
But you have to.

Speaker 4 (08:52):
You still gotta you know, like take care of whatever
you gotta take care of and hold a whole human
in your belly.

Speaker 2 (08:59):
This ingle moms that do it. I'm always like me too,
I be looking like.

Speaker 4 (09:04):
Even even the men that leave them, I'm like, how
could you do that? Like, even if you don't want
to be together, make sure that you are, You're making
sure she's good. Because, bro, what I'm telling you right now,
you're crazy. On as a team, I'll be crazy really
like pregnant or I'm pulling up man, I get it.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
I get it now.

Speaker 6 (09:22):
I could see why women are so mad or certain
women are mad or you know, just feel without. And
I have friends that grew up as single parents or
you know, have been kicking and doing this thing on
their own, or women that have two three four kids
like being pregnant.

Speaker 1 (09:40):
I do want to have more.

Speaker 6 (09:41):
Children, one more, but trying to breast bless you trying
to breastfeed or take care of another infant while you're pregnant.
I can't get the hot sauce down from the cap.
Like seriously without it being a whole thing, like, but
it's women and that continuously have to do that. If

(10:02):
we just moved into a new house that we love,
but if I had to pick them boxes up by myself,
like no, or.

Speaker 5 (10:09):
You have to spend so much more money because you
constantly have to hire somebody or pay somebody to do
those little.

Speaker 6 (10:15):
Things because you're already single. You're already single, you already
working and doing the most to try to better your
life for you and your child to you know, just
make try to find a way to make things comfortable,
if that even exists. But I just feel like things
are so unfair, you know what I mean, just naturally,

(10:35):
you know.

Speaker 4 (10:36):
And then you throw in the hormone imbalance, Yes, let's
you throw in the hormonal imbalance that, in my opinion,
is not talked about enough. And I appreciate when men
talk about it specifically because I've heard men be like, yeah,
I'm wrong with her, And it's like, do you have
you read a book about what happens to a woman's hormones?

(10:59):
It can you you can feel like you're schizophrenic, yeah,
and that there's nothing you can.

Speaker 2 (11:03):
Do about it.

Speaker 4 (11:05):
And there was one of my pastors in my church,
him and I have conversations like this all the time,
and he was like, I really knew I was a
man when I really did realize that women go through
these changes when they're pregnant and it's not just made up.
He's like, because a lot of us be thinking like,
you are right, and it's like when I really did
pick up a book and like really see, like, oh no,
there's a there's an imbalance going on.

Speaker 3 (11:26):
I'm sorry'.

Speaker 5 (11:28):
And it's crazy that you even have to pick up
a book to read it and you can't listen to
the woman that you created life. Yes, why do you think?
Why would you lie about being crazy?

Speaker 3 (11:37):
Why would you.

Speaker 4 (11:39):
Even naturally, when you're on your period, we be a
little crazy, and I sometimes I shocked myself.

Speaker 2 (11:43):
I'm like, are you okay.

Speaker 4 (11:45):
And it's like, oh, I'm about to st long period,
So I can't imagine the pregnancy part. When my sister
was pregnant, I will never forget. There were moments when
she would just calm me in the middle of the
night and be like, I'm reading a million vadilia.

Speaker 2 (12:02):
It's a cartoon story, and she was like, yeah, it's
like a it's.

Speaker 4 (12:06):
She just doesn't know, and she just it's okay.

Speaker 2 (12:11):
I couldn't imagine being with somebody who's.

Speaker 3 (12:13):
Like, stop crying.

Speaker 2 (12:15):
She can't stop crying. Just let just let her.

Speaker 1 (12:17):
Cry, Just let her cry.

Speaker 2 (12:19):
May join in.

Speaker 1 (12:22):
A million, you're gonna be all right.

Speaker 4 (12:24):
And so I also command the men that get it
or try to get it, or they might be like,
she's crazy, but you still sit there.

Speaker 2 (12:29):
You want some apple sauce, Like what you want me
to do?

Speaker 1 (12:32):
Like they don't.

Speaker 4 (12:33):
They don't like prolonged argument because I'm crazy right now. Baby,
we said for better or for worse, they need to
throw it through pregnancy and what comes with you.

Speaker 6 (12:40):
Seriously, seriously everything that comes to pregnancy. Now, I can't
say I haven't had those crying moments, like I haven't.

Speaker 3 (12:49):
Really are having a paper pregnancy.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
I haven't. I was just literally just thinking I just.

Speaker 5 (12:53):
Have physical changes in the few yeah, because you keep
calling yourself big, and I'm like you like this after
I eat.

Speaker 3 (13:01):
So we're looking.

Speaker 5 (13:04):
The same hell and it ain't no baby in here,
you know.

Speaker 6 (13:08):
I mean, she's a good I think I gained like
thirty pounds.

Speaker 1 (13:14):
They said, like, yeah, about thirty pounds. You look good.

Speaker 4 (13:18):
Yeah, you look healthy. Because I have heard some hor
some people losing their edges. Yeah, a lot of my
losses was like my edges fell out.

Speaker 2 (13:24):
I was like, why, I've.

Speaker 3 (13:25):
Heard that that happened sometimes when you're pregnant with a
boy for somebody. I don't want one.

Speaker 1 (13:30):
I don't know what I want to.

Speaker 6 (13:31):
I want to boy next may gonna snatch them edges out,
Like I think the girl is supposed to give you hell.

Speaker 5 (13:39):
I think the girl they say, they say the old
wives shell, they're.

Speaker 3 (13:43):
Still your beauty. But I don't believe that.

Speaker 5 (13:45):
I think that was a hating mama that said that
started that because she didn't really want no baby. Yeah,
but I think it's the problems after like growing up
that now the girls might give you hell, the attitudes
the I.

Speaker 6 (14:00):
Feel like, I'm definitely gonna be the more disciplined.

Speaker 2 (14:03):
You think so?

Speaker 6 (14:04):
I think so too.

Speaker 2 (14:05):
You're the one that's like I said, what I said,
he's going.

Speaker 6 (14:07):
To run all over Anthony.

Speaker 3 (14:09):
Oh well yeah, she probably is going to give you hell.

Speaker 6 (14:13):
She's going to give him hell, and he's gonna say
yes to everything.

Speaker 5 (14:17):
I have a question when y'all decided, okay, it's time
for us to have a baby. We're ready to expand
the family. How did that conversation go or was there one?

Speaker 6 (14:28):
So first of all, that's actually not normal, And it's
crazy that you knew that we planned that because most babies, you.

Speaker 1 (14:36):
Know, are oops.

Speaker 6 (14:38):
And last year actually we had oops and I had
a miscarriage. I had a miss miscarriage, what they call
a miss miscarriage, a missed miscarriage.

Speaker 3 (14:48):
You didn't really realize you were pregnant.

Speaker 6 (14:51):
No, I knew I was pregnant. I've found out and
I was. I don't feel like I was getting bigger
or anything like that. But no, yes I did, Yes,
I did in the beginning anytime, because I'm used to
having a flast stomach, So as soon as it start moving,
I'm like, lords, your mama gonna find out.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
She's gonna know.

Speaker 6 (15:09):
I have to wear I bought all these loose, big
MAXI dresses because I'm like, she's gonna be able to
tell me when to keep it a secret.

Speaker 1 (15:16):
For a second, wasn't big at all looking back at
it now, like.

Speaker 6 (15:21):
I did not move, but I was going to get
the ultrasounds and everything was fine. And then we went
one day and I just remember the doctors like you
can always tell when something's going on, and I remember
looking at the screen.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
Like okay, well I don't see nothing.

Speaker 6 (15:38):
I never know what I'm looking at at ultrasounds. I
just now today earlier we went to the doctor and
I'm like, I can finally understand her face, like, okay,
I see I see the eyebrows and see that, you know,
because I always just looks like Gibby jabbers a shadow.
I can see the side profile and I can see,
you know, when they call it. But when they're like

(15:59):
he on her face, I can never see it until today.
But when I went, I'm like, I don't see anything.
So they called us back, and long story short, we
went back in and they said, yeah, so you had
a miscarriage. And I said okay, and then then I cried,
just just cried cry. I cried, and they said, well,

(16:20):
you have to now this is something I did want
to talk about. Oh Lord, I'm talking about my miscarriage.
One No, it's fine. I was gonna I wasn't gonna
talk about this. I wasn't gonna talk about this because
this is something I do feel like it's not talked
about enough.

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(18:15):
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(18:37):
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Speaker 6 (20:56):
They sent me home and they said, you can decide
when you want to have your miscarriage, and I can
give you this pill, or we can, you know, make
you have a miscarriage because they call it a miss
miscarriage because I didn't bleed.

Speaker 1 (21:09):
My body doesn't know.

Speaker 6 (21:10):
I'm not pregnant yet, but they're like, there's no baby
in here, so it's it's done.

Speaker 2 (21:15):
Yeah, So you can.

Speaker 6 (21:16):
Kind of get the rest of that out of there
yourself and you can plan it or you know or not.
So I said, okay, now, mind you. They did not
warn me about what was going to happen when I
took this pill. They did not give me all the
side effects. She just said, you'll know when it happened. Yeah,

(21:37):
you'll know when it happened. You need to medical professionals.

Speaker 5 (21:40):
Y'all need to tell people what happens, because that would
be such a shock if you didn't know so well.

Speaker 6 (21:47):
I mean, just what you're gonna go through once you
take this pill. So, because I was already so overly emotional,
I told Anthony, go ahead, go to work, babe, like
I feel like we're gonna do this. I'm gonna I'm
gonna take this pill. I'm a chill, she said on
a note. When it happened, like, okay, cool. It was
about four or five hours. And my friends that have

(22:08):
gone through this that told me later and had a baby,
they said, baby girl, you just gave birth. I was
in that bathroom. I thought life was over. Like I
was on a towilether do you got to throw up?
You gotta use the bathroom. You have to I have
to feel, you can feel everything. The sack has to
come out, literally, the sack has to come out, and

(22:29):
you're you're inducing it, so you're making it happen. Your
body doesn't want it to happen, so you're forcing it
to happen, and like I said, it was like four
or five hours of just constant pain. I'm in and
out the shower. I'm like, oh my god, I cannot
do this. And then all of a sudden it just
came out. But the excruciating pain of that.

Speaker 1 (22:49):
I wouldn't have.

Speaker 6 (22:50):
Told Anthony to go to work, like I would not
have said, let me do this by myself, like I
would have said somebody should be here, because it was
so many times I'm like, am I gonna have to crawl?
Where is my phone? I need to call the ambulance
to come get me.

Speaker 1 (23:02):
Like what is this?

Speaker 4 (23:05):
Wow?

Speaker 6 (23:05):
And then I asked some of my friends when I
was telling my friends that hey, girl, this is what
I'm going through. I just had a miscarriage, you know,
blah blah blah, this is what it felt like. And
then so many of them say, and I'm talking about
friends that are close to me that I know a
lot about you already, why how did I miss your miscarriage? Like,
but they were like, yeah, I went through the same thing,

(23:26):
and I know how you feel, you know, and blah
blah blah. And I'm like, well, why didn't you tell
anybody like why isn't anybody saying, hey, let's just spread
the word. If this is something that you're going through,
don't do that by yourself. We know about abortions, we
know about you know, actual miscarriages that happened. But I
just feel like so many things as women, sometimes maybe
we're ashamed to talk about them. Sometimes we're embarrassed to

(23:49):
talk about them, or you know, it's too painful to
talk about it, which I understood.

Speaker 1 (23:54):
I understood that.

Speaker 6 (23:55):
That's why initially I told them to go to work,
cause it's just too emotional. I don't want to talk
about about it, but I feel like we need to
because so many things could have happened in that bathroom.

Speaker 2 (24:06):
I imagine who would have taken it and like went
to the store, yeah.

Speaker 4 (24:12):
Traffic, Yes, now you in the car hunched over the steal, like.

Speaker 6 (24:17):
They said, within like I don't remember slashing maybe like
a couple of hours or something like that. Like it'll happen,
but it's not like necessarily a time thing. And that's
why she just kept saying, you know, you'll know, and
yes I knew when it was happening.

Speaker 1 (24:33):
Like well, when I went.

Speaker 6 (24:35):
Back later, I told her what happened then and just said, yeah,
I knew, but I instantly felt myself also like kind
of shutting down and being quiet about it.

Speaker 1 (24:46):
I don't know what it is. I don't know why
we do that as women.

Speaker 6 (24:51):
Sometimes women that have you know, go through sexual things,
you know whatever, and it's like we kind of just
shut down and close close out once we go through
traumatic things or things that we just feel like are
just too emotional, like you know what, never mind, I
just don't want to talk about it. I had a
miscarriage and.

Speaker 2 (25:08):
That was it.

Speaker 4 (25:08):
Sometimes one of them, me and some of my friends
had a conversation like about like what we're talking about
not miscarriages, but like just things that have happened that
are traumatic in your life and you don't tell anybody.
And then when we all get together, we're kind of
like sharing stories. Yeah, and it's we were all like, dang,
I didn't tell anybody, like what this person did to
me or whatever happened, And a lot of it was

(25:30):
like sexual abuse, honestly, And we came to this conclusion
that we maybe do that because you're you start to
tell yourself it's not that serious, and if I say something,
people are gonna be like, well, why you ain't well,
how you ain't well, and then you just kind of
like don't want to deal with the app that where
you're like, dang, like maybe I shouldn't say so, maybe
it wasn't that serious.

Speaker 2 (25:50):
No, it's that serious. Yeah, it is that serious.

Speaker 4 (25:52):
And I've gotten to the point now where I try
to tell people it's that serious.

Speaker 6 (25:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (25:56):
And I also think that like, depending on what it
is that you go through and the time it has
been since you've gone through whatever it is, it might
still just be too hurtful and you're still trying to
wrestle with those emotions. I know, whenever I've been through things,
there's certain things that I haven't shared with anyone and
I'm still not ready to because it's already like an

(26:17):
emotional thing. And then I don't want to put my
feelings in the hands of others, not knowing how those
reactions may be or what they may say, or just
being fearful of you know, when you tell somebody something
they throw it back in your face later, you just
never know. And it's like okay, until I can get
a better grip on my feelings and my emotions and.

Speaker 3 (26:39):
Work through it with professional help.

Speaker 5 (26:41):
I'm not ready to share that, and I think sometimes
it's just personal. But I do commend everybody any time
that they do feel comfortable enough to share, because I
do think it helps, and thank you for sharing that,
because you never know who that can help, that's watching
this or listening to this and can relate and they
don't have anybody to talk.

Speaker 2 (26:59):
To about it.

Speaker 4 (27:00):
Another version of that, which I think is interesting because
this is a common saying with everybody, where it's like like,
don't in a relationship, don't let nobody in your business,
like don't keep it between y'all, and that I get it.

Speaker 2 (27:10):
I do get it.

Speaker 4 (27:10):
But then there's a version of that where it's like
some people be this happened to me, where you're keeping
stuff in your business cause you're like, I don't want to.

Speaker 2 (27:16):
And then you be like is this abuse? Like is
this stuff like that?

Speaker 4 (27:20):
Even it's like and I'm not talking about somebody's busting
you upside your head the way somebody is speaking to you,
things that they're doing that are emotional abuse, and then
you kind of like start to tell, yeah, are you
in the house depressed and quiet talking about doing it?
Said don't tell don't let people in your business, because
that's not really relationship.

Speaker 2 (27:35):
Nigga, you ruin me everybody else?

Speaker 3 (27:38):
Is he here doing this to you?

Speaker 4 (27:40):
And then you tell them they're like apps. That is
not how this is supposed to go.

Speaker 2 (27:44):
Like that is normal?

Speaker 5 (27:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (27:45):
Is this normal?

Speaker 4 (27:46):
And sometimes you do need to ask your smart friends
and family that have like a grasp, a little bit
of a grasp on life. Not just the people that mature,
not people you notice want to be in your business.
But if somebody is treating you wrong and it feel wrong,
sometimes you gotta let somebody in your business.

Speaker 5 (28:02):
Yeah, And I think too, like that's why I love
having girlfriends and I hate when I meet other women
who don't have girlfriends or sisters or just like other women,
because I still feel like, no matter how great your
partner might be, or your guy friends or whoever else,
there's nothing like talking to a woman because there's something
about some form of being able to relate, even if

(28:24):
they haven't been through the exact same situation.

Speaker 3 (28:27):
It's just something where sometimes we just get each other.

Speaker 5 (28:30):
And I love meeting other women, and I like making
new friends. You know, I think we both do like
making new friends and I hate when people are like, oh,
I don't want new friends, and I feel bad for
them because I feel like you probably went through something,
and I hope that you grow out of that, and
I hope that this is a phase because we need
each other and hopefully you have at least one person
that you can share something with, because you're right, like,

(28:53):
people go through things and they think it's normal, and
then you sitting there thinking you crazy right in.

Speaker 2 (28:59):
The house, get mostly uppercutting and blessed aside.

Speaker 3 (29:02):
Hey yeah, eyes all swollen and got out.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
Skinny. Everybody's like, what's your workout? Playing niggas?

Speaker 3 (29:12):
I'm depressed.

Speaker 6 (29:15):
Like women naturally just say okay, I got it. I
got my big girl hat on, like naturally all the
time in a lot of situations. But to your point, no,
we don't need to do that. You need to talk
about that. Because also when I was talking to my
friends and they told me then that they've been through that,
I was like mad at them, like not for real

(29:37):
mad in the sense of did you not trust me
that you could tell me that, Like I know, I'm
a good friend. We talk about everything, like why would
you go through something like that and not say hey,
I need support here, I need help here, or I
need you know whatever. And it was only two people.
I'm not saying I had a bunch of friends, but

(29:58):
they both kind of said the same thing. And like,
I was just going through it and I just want
to handle it and be done with it. And I
couldn't necessarily argue that because as soon as it happened
to me until this day, like I wanted to make
this big post and I told Anthy this all the time, like, Okay,
I have to share this. I made a video because
it was it was traumatic in other ways. Also, we

(30:19):
had just told our parents, we did this whole I
just sent all these gifts to my best friends. We
had just told everybody that we're pregnant, and then now
I got to go back and tell you I'm not.

Speaker 1 (30:29):
And like I said, that was a year ago.

Speaker 6 (30:30):
Oh lord, I had you asked me a question, this
was not your question.

Speaker 3 (30:33):
But yeah, I don't even know what I'm talking about.

Speaker 1 (30:37):
Go ahead.

Speaker 6 (30:38):
I made the video a year ago and it sat
there until we just naturally start talking about it. But
to your point, when you are talking it out with
people and you feel comfortable in a certain space, then
it just naturally comes out. I don't even trust people
that don't have friends. I'm gonna be honest with yours.

Speaker 2 (30:59):
Man or woman.

Speaker 5 (30:59):
It's like.

Speaker 1 (31:01):
No friends at all? Why am I mad at you?

Speaker 4 (31:04):
What you do?

Speaker 2 (31:05):
Or why are you so closed off? Like what is
going on? I'm sorry, I gotta go.

Speaker 3 (31:11):
It makes me really nosy.

Speaker 5 (31:12):
I don't know if I don't trust them all the time.
But I'm gonna ask a few questions and then I'll
decide very quickly, this is weird and you weird or
something happened.

Speaker 1 (31:21):
It usually comes out.

Speaker 6 (31:23):
That's why you ain't got no friends. Yes, as you're
on the way out, Yeah, that's what you do. That's
how you be acting. Send off queen or you you know,
I don't know. You lie about a bunch of stuff.

Speaker 2 (31:34):
It eventually it's just too much, like it's doing too
much and I have to go.

Speaker 6 (31:39):
We've all been through high school, middle school, college, we
are grown grown.

Speaker 1 (31:43):
Now where did all your friends go? Like you, where
did that go?

Speaker 6 (31:50):
Unless something happened and like continuously happen. Most of my
friends are like from childhood to be super honest, and
I have a lot of friends, but like my best friends,
they are long term, it's like, Okay, we're still here.

Speaker 5 (32:05):
Yeah, I have some new friends with my core group
of friends are from college or like one of my
really close friends, we've been friends since junior high, a
couple of them since junior high. Not really friends with
many other people from elementary because I left where I
was at. But yeah, and it's so interesting seeing the
friendships that end up lasting. And just sometimes when we're

(32:25):
together or just talking on the phone, we reflect on
how different our lives have been. And like I was
hanging out with a friend last weekend. I was in
Texas with one of those friends and she's pregnant right now,
and so I'm going back to Texas. She's having a
gender revealed party. And we were just talking about stuff
and I'm like, you, I just saw you not too
long ago, and now you have this big stomach, Like

(32:47):
what happened? She hugged me and it's like a beach
ball there. And then I was like, do you remember
all the times we would be at the club and
we'd have to carry you out of the club, Sandra,
we have to carry her. I know she's a mother
and this is her second baby, and I'm like, it's
just so crazy to see the evolution and like how
much more calm she is and how like level headed
she is with so many different things, and when we

(33:10):
talk and just sharing the different things that we learn
from different people and being able to share friends.

Speaker 3 (33:14):
I think it's beautiful. I love.

Speaker 4 (33:16):
And also to touch on ships, it's when you have
friends that you've been friends with for song and they've
seen you go through all the season for real, all
the times people be married for two years and be like,
he saw all my seas a bit, you know he didn't, Yeah,
I did exactly, you know what I mean. And it's
interesting because it's like you have those friendships and they
are like that you see each other through so many
different things. There's a love there that a man could

(33:38):
never feel like sometimes even just in dating and in relationships.
Sometimes when you compare it to like your friends, you'd
be like, people can't even last through like you had
I had a drunk night or you saw somebody like
I'm going through. I'm I'm literally depressed and you like,
well you just you are drink. I'm just like but
yr girls they're gonna be like, oh, like I get it.
Let me just sit with you I know that's what
you need right now.

Speaker 5 (33:57):
It's really can give you space and come back like
because you got to work this out and I'm going
through my thing.

Speaker 2 (34:02):
It's not that over.

Speaker 5 (34:04):
Yeah, I'm just going to give you space to protect
the friendship. I'm here if you need me.

Speaker 4 (34:07):
But friendships really naturally be the real ones, because they
don't all be like sometimes you do be like all
right bye girl. Yeah, but the friend them real ones,
they do be like for better or for worse, for real.
I'll never get I choked my best friend and I
just knew he wasn't gonna be friends no more.

Speaker 3 (34:23):
I remember that ship and it was bad.

Speaker 2 (34:27):
It was bad.

Speaker 4 (34:27):
It was jumped out, it was bad, and we still
rock with each other. It wasn't like you and it
had out that way, And you really know me, like.

Speaker 2 (34:41):
Years ago, kinky, since we were in not junior high
high school.

Speaker 3 (34:46):
Yeah, years ago, years ago.

Speaker 4 (34:49):
I went on the show last week, shout out to Renee,
and she asked me this question has been asked me
a lot.

Speaker 2 (34:54):
My therapist has asked me.

Speaker 4 (34:55):
Several people have been like, what do you feel like
is a relationship that has taught you so much about
relationships and yourself. And I always say me and Kiki's relationship,
because when you start a business with a friend, it's
up and it's down. Sometimes it's in between. Sometimes y'all
both going through things. Sometimes you're not seeing eye to eye.
But one thing we've always done is we know the
bigger picture. We know each other.

Speaker 2 (35:17):
She knows me.

Speaker 4 (35:17):
I know it's never been like this. Sometimes it might
be like, but it's always like and but I still
love you.

Speaker 5 (35:23):
Yeah, Like right now I can't talk to you, but
I still love if you need me, but I don't
want to hang out.

Speaker 3 (35:28):
I don't want to do shit. We needed some space.
Even when we say that it's okay, yeah, and it's.

Speaker 2 (35:33):
Just it's to me, that's relationship. It's not relationship.

Speaker 4 (35:37):
Isn't real if it's like we've never had a challenging
moment and we just always y'all don't know each other.

Speaker 2 (35:42):
Bro, I want to know you.

Speaker 4 (35:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (35:45):
I like.

Speaker 6 (35:46):
That is me and my friends to the tea when
I send so I have. I have a lot of
close friends, but my core group. One is from third grade,
one is from high school, one is from college, and
we are all like completely opposites.

Speaker 1 (36:01):
And me and Anthony krack up about it all the time.

Speaker 6 (36:04):
My college best friend Page, she's married, she's been with
her husband twenty years. Like she's good. She's saying she's
always gonna come and say something that makes sense. And
actually we made We all met at different times, well,
at least my child childhood best friend.

Speaker 1 (36:20):
We all went to college together.

Speaker 6 (36:21):
We all went to Clark, so her and Page we're
best our best friends also, and then we have Jasmine
women from high school. But everybody has their own little
vibe now choking.

Speaker 2 (36:33):
I ain't choking them, but there was alcohol. I just
want to.

Speaker 1 (36:38):
Choko and very very very seldom do we even have moments.

Speaker 6 (36:42):
Me and Paige don't have moments because the Page is
saying and I like to think I'm not the same
with another group. Jasmine Jazz was gonna tweak every time,
She's always gonna tweet. But she is the life, she
is the love. She's one of the most beautiful spirits
on the plane. She's not a little liberal, she's a Capricorn,
but she's amazing.

Speaker 1 (37:02):
But we just know what to expect.

Speaker 6 (37:04):
To the point now you just laugh and if it
ever gets too much, it's the same thing, like, okay.

Speaker 1 (37:08):
You know what, you really really tweet this time, I
need a minute, you know what I mean.

Speaker 6 (37:12):
And then we'll always just come back, and it's usually
me that'll say like, Okay, well.

Speaker 1 (37:16):
No, no, no, we gotta we gotta talk about this.
We gotta talk about this, don't never talk about.

Speaker 6 (37:20):
Nothing me like a few days and it's like, Okay,
it's Jasmine, you know what I'm saying, Like we're coming back.

Speaker 1 (37:26):
She just needed a moment for whatever.

Speaker 6 (37:30):
But I totally understand the core group cause it's like
I would never be able to live life without any.

Speaker 1 (37:36):
Of them, you know what I mean.

Speaker 6 (37:37):
And we all bring different things to each other at
different moments. If you look at my Instagram and any
big moments, you're gonna see them there, you know. At
some point, I think it's so funny how this was
not even supposed to be talking.

Speaker 4 (37:52):
I have another question though, and this is about friendships.
Have you found that it's everybody married in your friend groups?

Speaker 1 (37:58):
No, just Paige.

Speaker 2 (37:59):
Has there been like, like, do you think it's.

Speaker 4 (38:03):
Hard when you do start getting into those serious relationships
you have found the love of your life and people
start expanding their lives, is it hard to do you
ever go through a phase with your friends where it's
like I feel the separation happening because right now I
have to focus on this, Okay, So.

Speaker 5 (38:18):
Not with them.

Speaker 6 (38:20):
Some of my other friends, my very very close friends, also,
they did not, they didn't like the separation at first
because I was also when.

Speaker 1 (38:28):
I met Anthony, I was living in La.

Speaker 2 (38:30):
Are you from La?

Speaker 6 (38:31):
No, I'm from Chicago, Okay, okay, but I was in
LA for like thirteen years, and our relationship was very abrupt,
like came out here two times and then just never
went back.

Speaker 1 (38:43):
I came in February, in May was my Latin.

Speaker 6 (38:47):
No, maybe April was my last time coming out here
and going back to LA, and then I just stayed.

Speaker 4 (38:52):
It was in love.

Speaker 6 (38:53):
And my friends initially that were in La, we're not
rocking with that. It's like, okay, where's my friend?

Speaker 1 (39:01):
Can't find you?

Speaker 6 (39:02):
Oh you're so busy now because you gotta talk to Anthony.
Oh well I'm down. You can't answer the phone now,
or you know, I don't want to talk to you,
and Anthony like, I just want to talk to you,
and I was the thing, and I did. I understood it,
you know what I mean, because I do know that
when you're used to being in a certain space with
your friends, like how you were saying, like sometimes you

(39:23):
just need your friend, especially if these are your single friends.

Speaker 1 (39:27):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (39:27):
I just want to talk to you all right, y'all,
we have to put you onto something because you know,
we're all about grown woman wellness over here, and lately
I've upgraded my routine. I'm talking to skincare candles and
even I'm trying meditation.

Speaker 3 (39:42):
It's not working out so great.

Speaker 5 (39:43):
But what is working out great that I would like
to celebrate is my celebrate tour.

Speaker 3 (39:48):
Okay, yes, it's the celebrun y'all.

Speaker 4 (39:51):
And listen before y'all try to get cue, this is
actually a sexual health and wellness device.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
It's not just a toy.

Speaker 4 (40:00):
It's literally made for women who maybe have a little
trouble reaching the finish line, you know, like it's way
more common than people might think.

Speaker 3 (40:08):
And the reason it helps is because it actually doesn't vibrate.

Speaker 2 (40:11):
It oscillates.

Speaker 5 (40:12):
Oh that means instead of it like buzzing or humming
and making that annoying sound, it's gonna move side to
side over one hundred times per second, So that thing
is getting busy, okay, and that motion that's what the
body responds to naturally. So there's engineers and scientists who
did all of the work so you don't have to
and you can just enjoy the pleasure. That's why it
is faster, it's deeper and more effective at triggering a real,

(40:36):
satisfying climax. So if you have trouble climaxing, you might
not with the celebrator.

Speaker 2 (40:43):
Listen, call me usher because I'm climaxing.

Speaker 4 (40:46):
It's wild because when you look at it, when you
look at the celebrator, it's super unassuming. It looks like
a little wellness gadget. But baby, the results and it's
engineered by my literal engineer using sound wave experiments. Y'all,
this sounds like science, So the motion isn't just random,

(41:06):
it's literally science designed to work with your body.

Speaker 5 (41:10):
They put a lot of thought into this, and I
can tell each and every time I use it because
that hundred times the second of oscillation, it feels so good.
I don't know how many times it's gonna go for
me because I don't even last a minute. And the
material itself, in case you were wondering, it's premium body
safe silicon.

Speaker 3 (41:29):
It's soft to the touch.

Speaker 5 (41:30):
It looks like an electric toothbrush, so if you leave
it out, nobody knows. It's smooth, it's hyper hypo allergenic.
It's non porous, and that also makes it super easy
to clean. It's fully waterproof. It's whisper quiet, and it's
under fifty decibels, which is like if I put something
on the episode under fifty decibels, you couldn't hear it.

(41:50):
So you can discreetly even leave it out. If you
live with people, if you got kids or whatever, they
won't know.

Speaker 2 (41:55):
Yeah, babe, they sure won't know.

Speaker 4 (41:57):
And if somebody's downstairs or outside your door, they won't
hear you because it's quiet.

Speaker 2 (42:01):
And that's what I like. It's polite, but it's powerful.

Speaker 4 (42:05):
You know. The battery life, y'all. I still ain't charged it.
Since I took it out the box, it still ain't
been charged. And I am this is not this is
for real, like I have not. I'm always like now,
I'll just be using it to see if it's gonna die.
It ain't died yet, so it has up.

Speaker 2 (42:16):
To three hours one on one charge. That's a lot
of me time.

Speaker 3 (42:21):
That's why you have to charge it because you only
gonna be able to use it for a few seconds.
I mean, this is efficient.

Speaker 5 (42:25):
If you're having a rough day, try it out and
you can do it in like thirty seconds or less.

Speaker 3 (42:30):
Probably.

Speaker 5 (42:32):
It also ships totally discreet. It's a plane box, no
weird labels. Even the billing statement is pretty neutral, so
your business stays your business. And they have a facility
in Georgia, so if you're in Georgia, you might even
get it next day, depending on the time of day
you order.

Speaker 2 (42:47):
You need to reach that climax.

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Speaker 3 (43:07):
On the screen. And now we'll get back to the show.

Speaker 6 (43:10):
I don't want to talk to you and your man
every time, and I was constantly hearing that now, Jasmine,
and at least they're still in Chicago, so we don't
communicate on the phone as much. But that'sould be a
real big thing. But I know they might have a
little bit, you know, more than people that are used
to me being with them twenty four to seven, it's like, Okay,

(43:34):
how are we doing this? But then eventually I'm like,
y'all just get to know if y'all will love him.

Speaker 5 (43:38):
So before they said something to you, did you feel
that happening? Did?

Speaker 3 (43:45):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (43:46):
Because my mind is just over there. I'm in bliss.

Speaker 6 (43:49):
I don't know what y'all talking about. Like actually I'm serious,
Like I was literally like, what are you talking about?
Like when you call, I'm calling. But it's because I
didn't see him as an interruption of anything, Like I
didn't see him as you're taking time away from me
and my friends. Why we can't just all be together? Right,
That's how I saw it. But as my friends, they're like, no,

(44:11):
we want time separated. We want to just kick it
with Lindsey, and I'm sure I want.

Speaker 1 (44:16):
They see this podcast, they.

Speaker 6 (44:16):
Probably still feel like I still want my friends with friendships.

Speaker 2 (44:21):
It's really interesting.

Speaker 4 (44:22):
I don't know the smooth way to do it because
it's like y'all were grown like even though we did
say with your friends for better and for worse thinking thing,
but like you not my man.

Speaker 2 (44:30):
I got to meet a man and love him and
get to know him.

Speaker 4 (44:32):
I'm just it's gonna be this phase is gonna be
for a minute, and then I don't know the way
to do it unless y'all went to I think Sandra
and Blank Door. Really they've been together so long that
they're like a unit. So it's like you already know.
But when you do meet somebody new, when they come
in and your friends they're like, well, you're always with him,
and it's like, but we're always together.

Speaker 5 (44:49):
To know what else I like about him, he'll be
there and I forget so because he's quiet, and I
feel like if I ever did some dirt, I would
tell him before I talked, because he does not tell shit,
because that is the most secret keeping. Not in a
negative way, but he would. You can trust him to

(45:09):
like not say shit, And I'm like, how do you
do that? You don't want to tell your mama, the
dog nobody. Oh, you're good. I think eventually, like Alce.

Speaker 6 (45:18):
They got to meet him and really know him like
I knew him. Then it became much easier because now
it's like, okay, now now we all can kick it. Actually,
if I'm sleepy, I remember the firs. No this time
when I was pregnant. He knew I was pregnant because
I was telling him and Jazz.

Speaker 1 (45:36):
Like, you know what, y'all just go kick it.

Speaker 6 (45:37):
Y'all have some broinsist time, I'm gonna go to bed,
and it's like ten o'clock, which is not me at all.

Speaker 1 (45:43):
But now they have their own relations.

Speaker 6 (45:47):
It's not me just saying a name like oh, I
can't talk to you because I'm with Anthony, Oh I
can't talk to you because I'm with or they call
him apple Way, I can't talk to you because I'm
out running around, or I'm just too busy for you.
And they just want their friends right, you know. But
like I said, I'm sure they still feel the same way.
But now that I've heard it so much, I try

(46:07):
to Yeah, no, they said it.

Speaker 3 (46:15):
Somebody it will stew on something. They wait and blow
up about it. It's just like, well I didn't realize
that's how.

Speaker 2 (46:21):
Yeah, y'all better read the boundaries. But talked about that.

Speaker 4 (46:24):
It's like it's your fault if you brew in on
something that don't say nothing, and you want the other
person to acknowledge it, say it's not their responsibility.

Speaker 2 (46:30):
You feel a way say it Yeah.

Speaker 5 (46:34):
I also think sometimes whenever I'm talking to my friends,
I notice a difference and my friends that are here
and local and the far away friends. It's so much
easier to manage the far away friends because it is
just phone calls, or it's easier to like text, and
we have our group chat, so we might miss some
Sometimes people get mad, but I'm just like, okay, if

(46:55):
there is a major update, and y'all not just dilly
dallion in the chat tag me, because some days I'm
not looking at it. It's overwhelming. Y'all have sent two
hundred messages. Did anybody work today? I'm looking at the phone.
I want to see what's going on. I'm gonna need
a summary, which I love new Apple update by the way,
because it will summarize.

Speaker 2 (47:15):
Your text update.

Speaker 1 (47:17):
Yeah, it'll summarize it.

Speaker 5 (47:19):
It'll summarize your text like it'll be like, Okay, well, basically,
this is what's going on. This person is going through
a crisis, this person thinks they're pregnant, this person wants
to know if we want to do a group trip
next year. Like, it will really summarize it pretty well. Yeah,
And you can just see a group chat the groups
or any of your texts. It'll just have like a
little summary. I wish I had some, but I put
my phone on do not disturbed, so it's not going

(47:40):
to do it. But yeah, it'll summarize the chat for
you or your messages or even like your voicemails and
you see the little banner come across and it'll summarize
the voicemail and you can read the voicemail or listen
to it.

Speaker 1 (47:52):
Technology is getting crazier.

Speaker 3 (47:54):
Apple, turn that off.

Speaker 5 (47:58):
I want it on because because if I got two
hundred messages every two hours and it's just y'all three yeah, and.

Speaker 3 (48:05):
Y'all are talking about the Housewives? Was there two hundred? Stop?

Speaker 2 (48:09):
I like you, I like to look and be going
through it.

Speaker 6 (48:12):
Really sometimes, but sometimes I gotta clock inn as soon
as I get there. I'm not going back to two hundred.
As soon as I get there, I'll start responding from there.

Speaker 4 (48:21):
Yeah, yeah, I'm saying, but I do like to see, like, oh,
y'all you're communicating going back to the friend thing.

Speaker 2 (48:26):
Also, like I was gonna say, it's interesting because now
at my.

Speaker 4 (48:30):
Big age, I have gotten to the point now with
my friends, my oh, the ones that are that I'm
really close with they get it. But some of my
newer friends who I met later in life, I have
gotten very clear on being like, hey, listen, I don't
want to go to everything, and I don't also want
it to be a fallout about whatever it is that

(48:50):
I am not. I'm not just because I'm not going
to all the dinners. That does not mean I'm mad
at somebody or I'm in love and about to replace
y'all with a nigga.

Speaker 2 (48:56):
That is not what's happening.

Speaker 4 (48:57):
If I don't If you say I want to come
over and I don't want you to come over, that
doesn't mean I don't love you. Like I've had to
get very clear because there are some friendships that make
you really start getting stressed, like, bro, I'm fighting for
my life, but I don't want nobody around. I'm really
close with my sister, and sometimes I have to remember, like, oh,
you have friends, but I'm so close with my sister

(49:18):
and she fulfills a part of my spirit that sometimes
I'd be like, oh, okay, I see with the friends
we talking about, but also like y'all got to chill. Also,
I'm not mad. This don't need to be a fallout.

Speaker 3 (49:31):
Every time. I don't need to give you a reason
we are not in school.

Speaker 4 (49:35):
We're not just because I'm not coming to the birthday dinner.
That's that is not a reflection of our friendship. Stop
turn Instagram off, pray. I'm trying to get close to
God real quick. And if you don't understand it, I
don't really know. Art.

Speaker 2 (49:46):
That's what we need to be looking at.

Speaker 4 (49:49):
Like you don't understand that somebody's pregnant, they're having a
baby and they're trying to focus on being a mom,
or they got married and you getting mad talking about
my man.

Speaker 2 (49:55):
Man, this is a family.

Speaker 4 (49:56):
Now, Yes you are still my friend, but like we
got other things that were doing and I just need
to focus on this right now.

Speaker 2 (50:02):
Relax e for.

Speaker 5 (50:03):
Anybody who might be going through like those kind of
friend things. One thing I talked about was Sandra. I
was nervous that when she got married, well first when
she got engaged, and then she got married.

Speaker 3 (50:14):
I was like, I really hope I don't lose my friends.

Speaker 5 (50:16):
She never did anything to make me feel that way,
but I had a little fear of you know how
people act like married people can't have single friends. And
then it's like, Okay, we're already doing the show. I
know that we're we have a reputation even though this
is a show, this is an hour of the week,
not my whole life. But it's like, is he not

(50:39):
going to want her to be around? Is she not
gonna want to be around in all those things? And
I made sure that I wasn't always just inviting her
to stuff that we used to do, And especially when
she had her baby, I was like, I am in
town because she doesn't live here.

Speaker 3 (50:53):
I'm in town. Can I come over?

Speaker 5 (50:55):
Do you need me to bring you something? You want
me to go get you some lunch? We can just
sit at the house. And she was telling me that
one of our mutual friends. Neither of us are friends
with that friend anymore. She would never do that kind
of thing, and she lived in town, and it was
just like only inviting her over to her place or
only inviting her out to events and functions. And she's like,
my life has changed, and I'm trying to adjust. But

(51:18):
I don't always want to go out to a party.
I don't always want to do late night stuff. I
wanted to have a child.

Speaker 1 (51:23):
I have my child.

Speaker 5 (51:24):
I want to spend time with her, and I want
her to know you too. Can we do something during
the day that is friendly to her. She's like a
well behaved kid because I'm like, we can all go
to brunch.

Speaker 3 (51:34):
I don't need to be at the club brunch. We
can go to regular brunch.

Speaker 5 (51:37):
La Marco gonna have her mocktail and eat her meal,
and she engages in conversations. She's not a tablet baby.
And we all sit there and we chat and she
was when we were talking one day recently, she was like,
I just really appreciate that about you. So sometimes if
you are the single person that's not going through life
changes and you got these friends and you're upset, check
yourself and see what are you doing to like kind

(51:59):
of eat ease the way to keep the friendship going,
or how are you supporting your friend because you're not
going through no changes. They are right, and they might
want to ask something of you and they think that
you don't want to and you might be over to it.

Speaker 4 (52:11):
So if you up to just do it, everybody has
to make some adjustments. And just like in a relationship,
sometimes you're giving more and then sometimes the other person
is giving more and it's it's like.

Speaker 2 (52:21):
That with the friendships. Hey, we just got to learn
how to adjust.

Speaker 4 (52:24):
Like if everything is a fallout, it's a problem with you,
and you need to pick up a book.

Speaker 2 (52:30):
I say this every week. Y'all need to pick up
some books and read them. You need to turn a
little baby off. A love little baby, but you need to.

Speaker 4 (52:36):
Turn them off for a minute and stop listening to
what the people are saying, because they'll have you alone
and just sitting on the floor with a pillow.

Speaker 6 (52:44):
I'm glad you said that. That was actually really deep
and I didn't think about that. But I am blessed
to have friends that kind of moved with my life changes,
you know what I mean. I don't have friends that
are at least not my close friends, that are judging
into or saying, hey, also, you want to get married now,
I'll so you want to be engaged?

Speaker 1 (53:04):
So now you want to have a baby?

Speaker 6 (53:05):
Okay, fifty eight exactly, Like when do you want me
to do this? Like I waited all this time, like
when do you want this to happen? But I think
that is one of the things I can say that
I do appreciate and I didn't pay attention to that
at all. But once I do have a baby, I
don't want everybody in my ears screaming about okay, so

(53:27):
you ready to go to.

Speaker 3 (53:28):
The club now, or you know you can't watch the
baby ye.

Speaker 2 (53:33):
In your throat?

Speaker 6 (53:34):
I come over, and I don't want to feel bad
about it, Like I don't want to feel bad to say, hey,
I want to be with my child, and or hey,
I just want to be with my man and my
child right now, like that's it, or like you said,
I don't want I have to stay on Instagram too,
because I kept constantly getting to get invited to events,
and I was also this whole pregnancy outside meaning like

(53:56):
working or you know, premieres or this, that and the
third because I do have to work. But I had
to ask, hey, respectfully, stop inviting me to stuff. Yeah,
I'm nine months pregnant, Like I do not want to
drop this baby on your floor. But I don't want
to feel bad and I don't want you to feel
like I don't support you or that I don't love you.
So that was something that I had to check myself with,

(54:18):
like don't feel bad for saying you need a little
space right now, or hey, I physically just cannot do
that right now, or I just don't want to do
that right now.

Speaker 1 (54:26):
I just want to chill, you know.

Speaker 6 (54:30):
Yeah, I just remembered your question from earlier.

Speaker 4 (54:32):
What was it?

Speaker 6 (54:33):
Because I don't went on a totally while as you said,
how did How was the experience when we decided.

Speaker 3 (54:44):
When y'all talked about did y'all talk about it?

Speaker 1 (54:46):
We did?

Speaker 6 (54:47):
Okay, so we planned it because Lord, we planned I
love y'all.

Speaker 1 (54:54):
We can definitely kick you out the time.

Speaker 6 (54:58):
We planned it because of the carriage. So okay, it
was okay, Well, let's do it when we're ready.

Speaker 4 (55:06):
Now.

Speaker 6 (55:06):
I do feel like spiritually, like all of that happened
for a reason. We weren't mentally in a different space.
Like our relationship happened very very fast.

Speaker 1 (55:15):
It was beautiful.

Speaker 6 (55:16):
But we learned a lot and did a lot very
very quickly, and we took on a lot very very
quickly once that baby came. Oh yeah, we you know,
we we switched up a lot of things within our
life and we wanted to stay on that path. And
I feel like that happened absolutely for a reason. We
checked each other really quick, but we also knew, hey,

(55:37):
this could be so much better if we planned this,
like if we knew.

Speaker 2 (55:42):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (55:42):
We all kind of got that app, that that glow
app that's weopulating and all of that. So I had
the app and we made the decision like okay, well
how about say around March or so, like, let let's
just try it. And I said, okay, so I'm gonna
just turn my app off now in February, he proposed.
But I turned my app off and y'all can do

(56:06):
the math last as soon as that app turned yea.
But I think it was much better this time that
we were This was no accident at all. It was like, okay,
we knew this was happening. I didn't know when it
was going to happen. I just let it, put it
in Guy's hands, like, Okay, when you're ready for me
to get pregnant, we can try this again. But now

(56:27):
we're open to it, and now I feel like it's
it's been a nice little breeze.

Speaker 2 (56:35):
I'm just starting to do a Mother's day friendship girl
really quick before.

Speaker 4 (56:41):
We okay, yeah, really quick, but just one more topic
because you are in Zatima, yes, and on BT BT
plus and.

Speaker 1 (56:49):
It was playing on BT also yes, you are.

Speaker 2 (56:52):
Crazy on this on the show.

Speaker 4 (56:55):
Yes, can you tell our listeners who might not watch
the show a little bit about your character?

Speaker 6 (56:59):
Okay, so my character is Leslie. She is I feel
like Leslie is misunderstood. I'm gonna say that she's very,
very misunderstood. But she is a psychopath. She's been through
a lot of things. She is the woman that she's
not in a good relationship at all.

Speaker 1 (57:18):
She now she took her friend's man.

Speaker 3 (57:22):
Okay, and that's the current.

Speaker 1 (57:24):
She's started off wrong current but needs to be on
the way out.

Speaker 6 (57:29):
But he is obsessed with the lead, Crystal Renee Fatima,
so he's in love with her, but she is in
love with him, and that whole dynamic has caused her
to be overly obsessed with Crystal, and she just is
not receiving the love because you tried to get it

(57:49):
from somebody else, baby like, So it's not working out
for her. But that whole process is really really making
her crazy. But I think there's a backstory to this
that we don't know yet, But I think that she
just gives so much trauma. She gives young trauma, like
maybe her dad didn't love her enough, or her dad

(58:10):
always wanted her to be like somebody.

Speaker 4 (58:11):
Else or how old is she in the show? Is
she supposed to be like in her thirties or twenties.
She's in her thirties, okay, so she need not be
doing it. She needs some help at.

Speaker 6 (58:18):
Least, that's yeah, she's she's in her thirties. Everybody, everybody
grown enough to know right is right, wrong is wrong.
But I think she has a lot of deeper layers.
At least that's what I discovered from her, and we
need to kind of unravel them. But as of right now,
she is ape shit, like you never know what she's

(58:38):
gonna do. She's fake pregnant, and it's so funny because
I'm pregnant now, you know what I mean? And so
when I get on lives and I do stuff now,
they're like, I'm no, Leslie, not pregnant for real. But
I I wear all of her exact same hairstyles. I
show up at her job like I'm just overly obsessed
with her because I want to become her because my man.

(59:00):
I think my man wants me to be her, and
if I be her, then he's gonna love.

Speaker 1 (59:05):
Me, right, which is like, girl, like we got to
talk about that on its own.

Speaker 6 (59:10):
You know what I'm saying, Like, that's the type of
woman that ain't got enough friends that we talked about.

Speaker 2 (59:14):
That's what it was.

Speaker 1 (59:16):
But I got enough friends to sit her down and say, hey,
this man is not for you.

Speaker 3 (59:21):
She didn't have time. She's too busy trying.

Speaker 6 (59:23):
To be exact exactly. She has these shrines, but she
is a whole.

Speaker 2 (59:28):
Is this a fun character? But I feel like this
so fun character, and I would like to play a villain.

Speaker 3 (59:32):
I want to be a villain.

Speaker 1 (59:35):
It's so fun.

Speaker 6 (59:36):
I've been I've been so tired of being Okay, you're
the cute girl, you the wife. I could not get
them to stop sending me high school rolls, college ros.

Speaker 1 (59:45):
I'm like, yeah, I'm thirty. Went back then. That was
the last time I did. I think I was thirty
playing high school.

Speaker 2 (59:51):
Let me ask you, do you have a favorite villain
in all of villain history? I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:00:01):
I don't know if I have a favorite villain.

Speaker 5 (01:00:03):
The first one that comes to mind that I quite
enjoyed no Lynn Whitfield in a thin line between love
and hate?

Speaker 1 (01:00:11):
Really okay, Well that's Leslie.

Speaker 4 (01:00:16):
And Diary of a Mad Black woman, she was still
the villain even though that was a family story.

Speaker 2 (01:00:21):
She was Remember she was like my mama.

Speaker 3 (01:00:25):
Remember she's never not she always love with field.

Speaker 6 (01:00:32):
Okay, so see, you would be one of the fans
that I'm like, I appreciate that you I'm not going
to be because.

Speaker 3 (01:00:37):
You need that, you need the conflict in the show.
This isn't a Disney Channel.

Speaker 4 (01:00:43):
Even though when you get into the villain story, you
do be sad and you be like, d she ain't
even she brings the drama.

Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
They are eating it up. I'm very, very grateful.

Speaker 6 (01:00:52):
I will say this is my absolute favorite role that
I've ever played because it is a villain.

Speaker 1 (01:00:58):
I never saw myself saying, hey, I want to be
the villain.

Speaker 6 (01:01:01):
Actually, in the beginning, I'm like, everybody's gonna hate me
if I do this, if I you know, if.

Speaker 1 (01:01:06):
I blah blah blah. I'm like, should I just ease
this back? And they're like, no, that is not the
point of it. Be who this person is.

Speaker 6 (01:01:14):
And I'm like, okay, I'm in there like biting myself,
hitting myself in the head like she is.

Speaker 1 (01:01:18):
Literally.

Speaker 4 (01:01:20):
I always wonder when people get so much into a
role like that, does the role ever follow you home?

Speaker 6 (01:01:24):
And you'd be like, okay, no, I am not with
this character. And I always tell people this, This was
no type of method acting.

Speaker 1 (01:01:36):
This was not I could not do it.

Speaker 6 (01:01:38):
First of all, I couldn't relate to her, even if
I wanted to. I got a man at home. He
loves me down like I'm sitting here and bliss and
you are the complete opposite. First of all, I don't
even want to think like how you're thinking and then
bring that home. But also I just could not relate
to her. So our director is in Courtney Glade. He

(01:02:02):
called me and was saying, you know, let me talk
you through the character. Let me talk you through what
I want because y'all so wrote the series. So I
was watching certain shows. One of them was Nurse Ratchet
so Netflix, if you remember the Psycho that was on there.
So I was just watching her mannerisms, watching her movements,
and just studying people. I watched a thing line between

(01:02:23):
love and hate fifty thousand times.

Speaker 2 (01:02:25):
Have you ever seen The Hand that Rocks the Cradle?

Speaker 1 (01:02:27):
Yes, I have, And that's a good movie.

Speaker 2 (01:02:29):
I saw.

Speaker 1 (01:02:30):
That's that's what it's given. That is exactly what it's given.

Speaker 4 (01:02:36):
That for people that that's really happened to. Imagine you
meet somebody you're like, oh my god, she's so great.

Speaker 2 (01:02:40):
And really I.

Speaker 6 (01:02:41):
Would if somebody came in there and stole my baby,
I would be Leslie. I would turn into her, like
I would go all the way left just like her.
But the character is I had to study more of that,
study mannerism, study how do they cracked jokes? Because I

(01:03:01):
constantly just leave my eyes open. All crazy people just
leave it like this.

Speaker 1 (01:03:05):
They don't like.

Speaker 3 (01:03:08):
Like just they have that twitch, that's it.

Speaker 6 (01:03:11):
And Courtney would tell me during certain movements or certain moments,
like after saying like Okay, we're about to do this thing. Now,
this is what I want you to do. I want
you to hit your head, I want you to bite
your arm, I want you to blah blah blah, and
then I would just do it because he was a
good director in that moment. So a lot of the
stuff that they were saying like yes it was, well,

(01:03:32):
it wasn't in the script. And I think that was
the fun part about doing this as well, because I
never knew like, Okay, what are we about to create?

Speaker 4 (01:03:40):
Now?

Speaker 1 (01:03:41):
What is Leslie about to do?

Speaker 4 (01:03:42):
Now.

Speaker 6 (01:03:42):
I was curious myself because I knew, whatever's on this script,
that's not all that's about to happen.

Speaker 1 (01:03:47):
I was about to really go left, and.

Speaker 6 (01:03:49):
It will just play with it if I naturally did something.
There's some scenes in there that are more comedic because
I'll just play all day, but it would be something crazy.
He when she was fake pregnant and she was telling
her husband like, yeah, I'm pregnant because Fatima is pregnant.
The girl that I'm obsessed with, she got pregnant, so
now of course I got to be pregnant. And he's like, girl,
I can't have kids, and she's like, oh well why not?

(01:04:13):
You know now we got a miracle baby. Why do
this miracle baby can't be yours? Like she was just
left and stupid, like, I literally cannot have kids, you're lying,
and I dramatically just fall out on the floor, fake pregnant.
He leaves me, and I'm like, ow, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:04:26):
Whatever, like you just don't love me.

Speaker 6 (01:04:30):
But yeah, this is season one, this is I'm on
season three and season four, Season four, y'all season watch,
you have.

Speaker 1 (01:04:37):
To watch it.

Speaker 6 (01:04:38):
We are going to break right now. But season four,
go back, binge watch it. We're coming back in a
few months, hopefully sooner than later. They split it up,
but the first ten episodes are definitely out.

Speaker 4 (01:04:49):
Now that's a lot to get through, ten episodes, so
y'all got time in the space for it.

Speaker 2 (01:04:53):
You also have a production company. Tell us a little
bit about that.

Speaker 1 (01:04:58):
So it's called La Elite Production.

Speaker 6 (01:05:01):
Lindsay Anthony Elite had a productions Our story is crazy. Also,
we filmed three feature films between April and May. All
three of them are coming out this year. One of
them is out now. It's called Girls Night, is playing
on Fox Soul. It airs again Friday at seven pm

(01:05:26):
ten pm Eastern time. It's based on the story of
Tamla Horsford. Do you remember her story. It's a true
story that happened in Georgia very quickly, her and her
husband moved to come in Georgia and she went.

Speaker 2 (01:05:41):
To a sleepover with.

Speaker 1 (01:05:45):
Yes.

Speaker 6 (01:05:46):
So that that is girl that's out now Friday, Girls Night.
What I just say seven pm Pacific time, ten pm
Eastern time.

Speaker 4 (01:05:58):
Oh friend, I know you about to drop that baby off,
and now I got an idea when you when you're
back and ready to go. This is no rush us,
but we gotta have a watch party. I don't care
how old it is. We gotta have a watch for
a girl's night watch party. Yes, bring you a white
best brain and make or.

Speaker 2 (01:06:11):
Watch this because what happened.

Speaker 5 (01:06:13):
I just saw somebody do a Waiting to Excel party
theme party, and I want to do that so bad.

Speaker 3 (01:06:19):
They had different stations for each character. Okay, and everybody came.

Speaker 5 (01:06:23):
They had their pajamas and they even did The meal
that they had was all the food that what's her
name was saying Loretta Devine's character, every little thing that
she said she was having that day when she was
watching when the neighbor was watching her walk away, that's
what they ate. They had a hookah section because for
Bernadette for when she burned the house down. And then

(01:06:45):
they had like a few other little things and they
watched the movie. They played some games.

Speaker 2 (01:06:49):
It was so crazy. I have to have a watch
and I will host it. It'll be so much fun.

Speaker 6 (01:06:53):
Okay, the story is said, but I hope everybody, yeah,
they said, hold to that. Okay, Well we got Girls
Night and then the following Saturday, so November twenty ninth,
we have the Perfect Proposal, the cutest mom com. You're
gonna laugh, you're gonna cry, You're gonna love it. We
have some amazing people in it as well. That comes

(01:07:13):
on at eight pm Pacific time this specific and Eastern.
That's me a eight pm Pacific time, eleven pm Eastern time,
The Per Proposal, It's amazing.

Speaker 1 (01:07:24):
And then we have one on Fox Soul.

Speaker 6 (01:07:27):
Okay, all three of these will be on first on
Fox Sooul, okkay. And then we have Curious It's any
rotic thriller. You're that also very sex sales for cocktails,
very sexy. You are definitely gonna be screaming at the TV. Also,
I'm trying not to get too much, but yeah, you're
gonna be screaming at the TV with that.

Speaker 1 (01:07:45):
That's starring Young Jack.

Speaker 6 (01:07:46):
Also, like we have a lot we gotta come back
for that to come back because that's his own series
on and we gotta.

Speaker 2 (01:07:52):
Get Jock back.

Speaker 4 (01:07:53):
Remember in the very beginning phase of we had Young
Jock on. It was such a fun episode. Okay, fun guy, y'all.

Speaker 6 (01:08:01):
Something to come back work with him at the radio station, okay.

Speaker 3 (01:08:06):
Yeah, he's he's an interesting character.

Speaker 5 (01:08:08):
It's always something going on I was like, yeah, you
is ready for reality TV because the cameras ain't here
and it's still they still play all names.

Speaker 1 (01:08:17):
So we so maybe I'll see it again over there
later once.

Speaker 4 (01:08:22):
Yeah, this has been wonderful. Normally we would go into advice.
We don't have time we advice.

Speaker 5 (01:08:29):
So we had good girl talk today, uh and not
just about us, so something totally different.

Speaker 2 (01:08:36):
I don't even think we have time for cocktail. We don't.

Speaker 4 (01:08:38):
We don't, So lindsay, let everybody know where they can
find you, how they can keep up with you, all
the things you want him to know.

Speaker 6 (01:08:44):
Definitely check me out on Instagram at She's just Lindsey
with an A L and d s A Y. Also
make sure you go to l A Elite Productions dot
com and keep up with all of the amazing films
that we have coming out.

Speaker 2 (01:09:01):
That was amazing. This is a good thing.

Speaker 1 (01:09:02):
In a minute, I'm gonna be dropping. So yeah, stay tuned.

Speaker 6 (01:09:05):
Very luckily didn't have it here. They didn't have to
drag me out.

Speaker 2 (01:09:11):
But thank you so much. We appreciate it. And you
look beautiful.

Speaker 4 (01:09:14):
I can't wait to watch y'all raise this little wonderful
baby and shout out to both you and Anthony. Thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:09:20):
I'm happy to know you and keep creating.

Speaker 5 (01:09:23):
I love seeing people just chasing their dreams and continuing
to tell their different stories and get creative.

Speaker 2 (01:09:30):
I love it. I do we have any announcements.

Speaker 5 (01:09:33):
I did want to let y'all know I am collecting
donations to take with me to Jamaica. This will come
out after the cutoff, but y'all can give me the donation.
So either check the link or info on the screen
or check the description box if something changes before this
comes out. If not, just side of my DMS and
let me know that you have stuff that we're taking,

(01:09:55):
like clothes, and then like stuff like toiletries, all sorts
of things. And if you just want to donate money,
don't send it to me, but I will send you
a safe link where you can give it to them.

Speaker 3 (01:10:05):
I ain't taking nobody's money.

Speaker 1 (01:10:08):
Yeah, and what else.

Speaker 5 (01:10:10):
I may have a little happy hour event in December,
but the details aren't final, so I don't know if
it's final. When you hear this, I'll pop something in
the episode for you. If not, just make sure you're
following me. Turn the post notifications on so that I
can let you guys know about it and there will
be a little charity thing tacked onto that and.

Speaker 2 (01:10:33):
Yeah, okay, really quick.

Speaker 4 (01:10:35):
September fourth through the tenth, I will be hosting a
retreat in Turkey. Go to Paradise and Vibe dot com
if you are wanting to come. I want to shout
out one of our listeners who booked her trip. She
made this beautiful post and was like, I have been
waiting for years to go on one of these trips
and she finally is able to create the time and
the space and the money to go.

Speaker 2 (01:10:52):
So shout out to you.

Speaker 4 (01:10:52):
I forgot her name, but it was really I felt
honored that you have been waiting to go on a trip,
so with me that I get to host. So September
fourth through the tenth Paradise and five dot com. Make
sure you guys come if you want to get well,
and a lot of us need to get well, so
come and it's a fun way to get well, but
you need to get well.

Speaker 2 (01:11:07):
Also wine and design.

Speaker 4 (01:11:09):
If you miss the one in November, I have one
coming up December fourteenth.

Speaker 2 (01:11:13):
It's in buck Keev. We'll put the link in the
description for you to get your ticket.

Speaker 4 (01:11:16):
For that.

Speaker 2 (01:11:17):
That's tablescaping.

Speaker 4 (01:11:17):
We're learning how to tablescape, learning how to do new things,
you guys, so come join me, have a good time
with my favorite interior designer. And December sixth, I am
hosting missus Clause, the real Santa. She's the one who
makes all of the magic happen. And December sixth, her
and I will be collecting toys in Buckhead. If you're

(01:11:38):
interested in that, click the link in the description. It's
a free community event and it's going to be amazing.
You can bring your kids, you can they can write
notes to Sanna. Santa won't be there though. It's the ladies,
but for your kids, and it'll be fun. We'll have
a hot Koco bar and all these things. Thank y'all
so much for listening. Lindsay again, thank you so much
for coming.

Speaker 5 (01:11:54):
Thank you, thank you, and you guys make sure you're
following us on Instagram. We're at Cocktails Podcast.

Speaker 3 (01:12:00):
I met Kiki said, so I at Coffee Bean Dan
until next week. I'm about to choke.

Speaker 4 (01:12:07):
Bye bye bye bye bye bye b relation, good bye
bye bye were dry, bye bye bye

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