"We Gotta Touch Grass"

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Did you miss us last week? You guys, we're back.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
It actually was happy that we didn't have an episode
last week. Why were you happy? It just felt good
having a little break.

Speaker 1 (00:09):
So I'm not seen you in ninety five days?

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Has it really been ninety five?

Speaker 3 (00:13):
No?

Speaker 2 (00:13):
You heard about Shannah Shark and I just looked and
was like, but I.

Speaker 1 (00:18):
Just think it's weird when people like and I said,
what's your favorite part about being married? They all had
different answers. I like seeing when I know how my
friends are like as individual single people, right, they get
with a man who they love and respect, who loves
and respects them back. Like I've been thinking it's cute
and I'd be giggling. They'd be like bir whenever they're like,

(00:41):
oh he talked to my husband, Like I didn't see this.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
Soky, I don't. I think maybe you're getting into something
that you could not waste your time. You want to
be outside this summer. You're trying to be running around
with booty shorts and do that.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
Yeah you're check one two, check one two.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
Is this Mike going?

Speaker 1 (01:00):
Is this Mike on?

Speaker 2 (01:01):
Hey listen man, It's the one and only drinks that
a DJ system and you're listening to cocktails. Dirty discussion
is Wikia Medina Monroe.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
Yeah, today's cocktail is called turks and Cocoa. What you're
going to need to make this streak is two ounces
of vodka, one and a half ounces of blue crasal
licor an ounce of coconut cream. This is coconut. Yeah,
cream of coconut, coconut cream whatever in the squirt bottle.

(01:31):
It makes it so much easier to handle. You'll need
one ounce of lime juice and then some club soda.
So you'll have a cup filled with ice that we're
gonna put the drink in, and then you take your
shaker and fill it with ice and start adding in
the ingredient.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Two ounces of the vodka, one and a half ounces
of blue cys.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
Then you'll need an ounce of lime juice, Okay, the
cream of coconut. You're adding everything in here except for
the club soda because that would cause a mess.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
Did it?

Speaker 1 (02:15):
Put everything?

Speaker 2 (02:16):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (02:16):
So now we're gonna shake this up. Okay, So it's
gonna be a nice creamy blue color. Then we are
going to pour this over ice at just a little

(02:38):
bit of club soda. Give it a nice start and cheers.
It's a Turks and cocoa. Enjoy, Oh, Medina, do you
want to taste? Pretty?

Speaker 2 (02:58):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (02:58):
What you saying?

Speaker 2 (03:02):
You like it?

Speaker 1 (03:02):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (03:02):
Good? Okay.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
Anyway, that's a Turks and coco if you make it
at home, tag us and enjoy. Did you miss us
last week? You guys, We're back and welcome to cocktails,
dirty Discussions. I'm Kiki said, so, hey.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
Y'all, I'm Medina Monroe. I actually was happy that we
didn't have an episode last week. Why were you happy?

Speaker 1 (03:25):
It just felt good.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Having a little break. And then I always am wanting
to see, like, what will people's reaction be like, because
when we were late on posting an episode, it's like,
my DMS be chaotic? Where's the episode? Did y'all stop?
Where's the episode? Where is the episode? Where is the episode?
I'm like girl, So it felt good to be like,
make y'all wait down in a little bit.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
And speaking of breaks, we have not recorded since March,
so we both had a lot of different things going on.
So we have been recording lots and lots and lots
of episodes, and then we were out of episodes and
just having a break from having to come to the
studio and record, Like I guess I didn't really think

(04:07):
about it too much like the week off, because we
had been off, but it did feel good. We definitely
needed a break and it was nice. So thank you
guys for being back this week and understanding sometimes the
girls need a little break.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
Sometimes you need a little break.

Speaker 1 (04:22):
If you need a little break, sometimes you gotta go
touch grass.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
Put your feet in the grass. One of my girlfriends
she had I loved this birthday party idea, Kiki, it
has to do it putting your feet in the grass.
She was like, this year, I don't really want to
go crazy with celebrations. I just feel really grateful. And
she was like, I want to go put my feet
in the grass. So she had a grounding birthday party
at Piedmont Park. She was like, everybody, bring a blanket,

(04:46):
bring a bottle of wine, bring a fruit tray or
snacks whatever if you want to snack on some little
picnic and just and come and take you shoes off
as soon as you get here. And so we went
we hula hoo. It was such a good Everybody had
their little boy, little wine. Some people brought a little liquor,
everybody had their little snacks. We danced in the grass.
We felt like fairies and we sang Happy Birthday, had

(05:08):
a little birthday cake. There were balloons, we played uno. Yeah,
sometimes things are nostalgic, and when you get that nostalgic feeling,
it just takes you back to just like when life
was simple.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
Mm hmmm a long time ago. But I did something similar,
and you saying that makes you want to call my
girlfriends when we leave here. I have a group of
friends who are here in Atlanta, and everybody lives all over.
Everybody's super busy. I haven't hung out with the whole
group and god knows how long, and we keep trying
to like schedule things with the last besides anything that

(05:39):
they showed up for for cocktails, because they always show
up and I appreciate that so much. But the last
time we just had a girl's day. We went to
Pymont Park and we had just like a girl's day.
We had a picnic. Everybody brought different stuff, everybody brought
the drinks. Now we didn't do the grounding part. Maybe
we can add that in this next time. But yeah,
sometimes it's good just to do simple thing.

Speaker 2 (06:01):
Take it back to simple. Yeah, it was it was nice.
She was like, I'm not doing that. I'm sick of
birthday dinners. I was like, I get it, and now
I can really and it was like, come as you are.

Speaker 1 (06:10):
You gotta stress you out getting ready and outfit nothing.

Speaker 2 (06:14):
Yeah, it was nice.

Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yeah. Now, because we've already shared that we haven't recorded
in so long, so many things have happened since the
last time we recorded, so this episode, we are going
to do an extended catch up in the episode. But
first I've wanted us to make any announcements that we have.
I know, I want to remind everybody to sign up

(06:37):
for the Trip with Worst Behavior Tour. We are going
to Negrill, Jamaica Memorial Day weekend. The whole trip is
the twenty first or the thirty first. I will be
their Memorial Day weekend. I learned my lesson. You don't
have to stay the whole time, but people are going
for different blocks of time. I guess if you just
really get to live the soft life, you could stay
for ten days. I will be there for three or four.

(06:58):
So y'all come out there. Oriyan is hosting. There's going
to be some different activities, different theme nights. I don't
know what they are, but it'll be a good time
and you can just come and relax. You can stay
at the resort, you can leave the resort, whatever you
want to do. It's up to you. But sign up.
There's a link in the description box.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
And you guys. August twenty fourth through August twenty seventh,
Paradise and Vibe is going to Sedona, Arizona, and it
is going to be nice. I forgot to mention this,
at least I think I did in the last few
episodes that I told you guys about the trip. It's
an all inclusive retreat, so your food is included. People

(07:37):
always want know is your food included, and normally is
not in the For the Sedona trip, your food is included.
Everything is taken care of. We have a bunch of
amazing programming lined up and amazing different panel hosts that
will be there, including ere I get to do an
interview with her. I am so excited about just meeting

(07:57):
her and being in the same room with her. The
whole theme of this trip is the magic of big thinking,
and so there's an idea you've been sitting on. If
you're scared if you're not scared and you've already started it,
or if you're around people who don't really encourage you,
this is the place to be if you want a
little slight turn up. Come on because we have in
a dance party. We have Club ONEBD who's going to

(08:17):
be doing the festival if you will. This one's more
of a it's called Vibefest, so it's more of like
a vibe fest, I mean a festival situation. So go
to Paradise and vibe dot com. We'll put the link
in the description. I hope to see you there. There
are payment plans because we know money be a little
bit tight and I have to see y'all there. What's
the dates again? August twenty fourth through the twenty seventh, Sedona, Arizona.

(08:38):
We're staying at the Enchantment. Another thing, since this episode
is coming out this week, I can actually give something
that's I'm doing this weekend. So Kiki, I got my
very first listing and it is a very nice condo
is in the Atlantic. I'm doing an open house and
I'm making that like a thing. So it's this Sunday,
May fourth, two pm to four pm in the atlant

(09:00):
if you've never been in that building before, you can
come and see. But I would like you to come
and see if you want to buy it or you
know someone who does.

Speaker 1 (09:06):
So how much is this property?

Speaker 2 (09:11):
Okay, so come have a little mimos, and I hope
to see y'all there. It's going to be really fun.
What time two to four?

Speaker 1 (09:19):
Okay, two to four on Sunday? All right, y'all might
see me there. I ain't buying nothing, but I know
some people who are looking, so i'll see. I'll see
if I can bring them through. Any other announcement.

Speaker 2 (09:29):
I think that's it.

Speaker 1 (09:32):
Yeah. Oh, other thing I wanted to remind you guys,
just sign up for the book club. I've been getting
new people in the book club. We actually have our
book club meeting for April tomorrow, like Wednesday, so you
would have missed it. But I'm trying some new things
this month and next month going forward. So for the
people who missed the meetings, just some little extras. But
I realized that some people there's a lot of people

(09:54):
in my book club, not a lot of people join
the meetings.

Speaker 2 (09:57):
Oh join, And then.

Speaker 1 (09:59):
I've realized people being nervous to join the meeting if
they didn't finish the book. So I want you all
to know. I think I've said it before, but I
want to reiterate. We are not strict. Okay, sometimes life
happens and we get it. It's really a social club
book club, but on the internet. And if you don't
finish the book, just come and if you want to
finish it but you haven't had time, just log off

(10:20):
when we get to the part of the book, so
you don't have spoilers. But we have a good time.
We have mid month happy hours. We get on Zoom
for that. We're about to start trying more real life events.
Everybody's all over the place, so it just kind of depends,
but just doing more stuff. But it's very laid back.
We love talking. It's just like a girl chat vibe
and it's a good way to meet new friends. So
last well, earlier this month, we did our happy hour

(10:44):
and some people joined who never joined, and they were
telling me that they were.

Speaker 2 (10:47):
Scared and because they didn't finished the book.

Speaker 1 (10:49):
Yeah, because they hadn't finished the book or they were busy,
and they're like, well I wasn't done yet, And I
was like, it is not strict. This is not school,
so don't worry, just come and have a good time.
We read all types of books. Everything is not literature.
We read funny books, we read nasty books. We read fantasy.
This one is based on a true story. For the
month of April, we read what is it called The

(11:11):
Personal Librarian. Interesting read. I'll save my thoughts but for
the book club. But next month or next two weeks,
I'll let y'all know what May's book is, so you
can join at any moment. It's just patreon dot com
slash kiki sets up. All right, So now we're going
to move on to where it's sex, and then we'll

(11:33):
get into our business.

Speaker 2 (11:35):
You said a man is not a necessity.

Speaker 1 (11:38):
A man is a luxury like dessert.

Speaker 3 (11:41):
Yeah, a man is absolutely not necessity.

Speaker 1 (11:45):
Did you mean that to sound mean it better? Oh
not at all. I adore dessert. I love man. I
think men are the coolest, but you don't really need
them to live. All right, So this week's ford sex.
Unless you were able to totally avoid all media, all internet.

(12:08):
You heard about Shanna Shark.

Speaker 2 (12:12):
And I just looked and was like, now, sir.

Speaker 1 (12:17):
And then all the people pulling up clips of everybody
warning him about little things. Now, here's my thing. I'm
not going to rehash the story and what was really
weird about it all. I'm going to leave the crimes
that he's accused of alone. But I just think it's
weird when people like Raceway. I don't like it.

Speaker 2 (12:37):
Now.

Speaker 1 (12:37):
I'm not trying to king shame y'all, but I am.
I just don't get it. I'm really starting to be concerned.

Speaker 2 (12:45):
Looks she looks like a kid, and I get she's
not a kid, but to me, verly, we.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
Like, what when I see people who are eighteen, nineteen,
hell twenty five, I just say, like, you look like
a kid. I think about my little brother and to
behave like one, Yes, very likely, I really do.

Speaker 2 (13:09):
I'm like, I really want to know the investigation because
I just I wonder if his friends or family are like, so,
what did you see? Like, what were you doing? Like?
What was the attraction? Not that she's ugly or anything,
but again, she just looks like a kid. I'm just
going on here, how did this even begin? And why?

Speaker 1 (13:26):
Bro?

Speaker 2 (13:27):
Like, do you not when you're at a certain status
with a certain amount of money.

Speaker 1 (13:33):
Where's your discernment?

Speaker 2 (13:34):
Where is your discernment, But also do you not think
of someone might this might come out not even saying
that you're doing something wrong actually or you're not just
this like this probably just isn't a good move.

Speaker 1 (13:49):
Where does that? And then after and you call and
never remember Mam Michelle. A while ago, I just feel
like Shannon Sharp has such a heavy bottom lip and
it just sounds like it when he talks. And then
when I was hearing him from Mama Shoe, I was
just like h And then I'm thinking about that and this,
why do we know so much about his sex life?
I don't want to know anything else, But since I

(14:10):
had to know, I was gonna make sure y'all knew
and we was gonna talk about it. I think it's
very weird, and I think you should explore others, safer
options for things to do.

Speaker 2 (14:22):
To celebrities, specifically are people who are like public figures.
And then you wake up and this is all like
when the phone call was released and it was all
over social media. Do you think he just turned off
his phone and was laid in the dark. I don't
think so.

Speaker 1 (14:37):
Because now I might be messing up the order of events.
Sometimes I think people start having like a god complex
almost they think that they can get around it or whatever,
because then he was releasing pieces of text messages and screenshop.
But then it's like, you only sent part of the conversation.
What is she responding to? What was you saying? And

(14:59):
we need to see the whole throat? Don't send me
no pieces of no conversation. I just think it's crazy,
And sometimes I think people just don't listen to their counsel.
I don't know. I just thought it was wild. What
y'all think, what you think he was thinking? And do
you think drugs are involved? That's always what I'd be
wondering too, too much of that damn cognac, bad decisions, bad,
bad bad. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (15:20):
I definitely think he's embarrassed. I don't see how I
think he's embarrassed and you're not embarrassed, like it's embarrassing.
Like again, even if you didn't.

Speaker 1 (15:27):
I would have embarrassed at the Instagram live thing, which
I think was a little fabricated.

Speaker 2 (15:31):
Boy, I don't think I've seen the Instagram Live.

Speaker 1 (15:33):
So he got on Instagram the Ma Michelle thing that
I was talking about. He got on Instagram Live talking
about whose phone was hacked. Nobody is hacking your phone,
mister sharp. But he was having sex or it sounded
like he was having sex with somebody. I'll pop get
off the line. And then I wonder, and I feel
sorry for his daughters. Are you so shamed? I would be.

(15:55):
I would be like, I don't even know that man.
I've never seen that man a day of my life.

Speaker 2 (15:58):
They probably feel bad for him.

Speaker 1 (16:00):
I would be embarrassed. If it was my daddy, I.

Speaker 2 (16:02):
Would be embarrassed. But I also be like, dang, like
what you need, like you want to hug?

Speaker 1 (16:12):
I don't know anyway. I just thought that story was
so wild. I had to bring it up since we
are recording right now. In the episode comes out in
a few days, it won't be so old. Y'all's happen
in the comments and let me know y'all thoughts on
the whole ordeal. And if you think that girl gonna
get paid or not, I'm just I think so. I
think she's gonna get something, especially because I think he
already tried to settle, so she's leaving here with something.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
She's definitely leaving here with something. And even if it
ends up being a book deal because I wouldn't like
what happened here.

Speaker 1 (16:41):
I wonder if her only fans subscribers are going up definitely,
and I wonder how many she has. I didn't really
look into any of that. I wasn't that interested, but
now I'm wondering. Anyway, y'all's happen and let me know
the thoughts. Your thoughts in comments or DM me if
you're listening to this.

Speaker 2 (17:02):
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(17:26):
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(17:50):
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And I did mind the opposite way almost took me out,
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I got the exact same mattress. Now. I was excited
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(19:37):
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mean lying. They were not though, because when I got

(19:59):
in the bed, I was laying there, Whitley jumped on
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Usually I would feel a little you know, so ilocal
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(20:21):
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(20:41):
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That is four months, you know, like what, just sleep
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You do have to try it out for a while. Yeah,
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And they have lots of different ones, y'all go check
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My only regret is regret is I should have upgraded
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us how your sleep improves, and now we'll get back
to the show. Okay, so I've not seen you in

(22:43):
ninety five days?

Speaker 2 (22:44):
Has it really been ninety five? No?

Speaker 1 (22:46):
Oh, it's been like a little over thirty. Okay, I've
been like forty five days, so for real, Yeah, it's
been a long time. Okay, what's been up? What's new
and life?

Speaker 2 (22:58):
So before we say what is new, I wanted to
make sure because I don't want to forget this, okay,
Keicky and I went to a dinner. It was called
a Risky conversation dinner or risky dinner.

Speaker 1 (23:10):
Risky dinner, risky dinner conversation.

Speaker 2 (23:12):
Risky dinner conversation, and I wanted to make sure to
shout out Koya. She's the one who puts on the
she has a team of people that helps her, but
she's she's the one who doesn't and she's the name
I can't remember. It's hosted by Weezy and it's a
dinner about HIV basically, and we got invited. We went.
It was in Atlanta. I had such a good time

(23:34):
at that dinner. I wasn't really sure what to expect.
I've always seen him loading around on Instagram and I'm
always like, dang, I want to get invited.

Speaker 1 (23:40):
I know, I've been dying to go. I was so excited.

Speaker 2 (23:43):
I was so excited. I just wanted to say. The
marketing was impeccable. First of all, y'all eat detail. Influencer
got these these cards with your This is me from
Keicky and I Valentine's shoe. She had her own caricature
on hers.

Speaker 1 (23:57):
Mine is up in my house like art, I'm.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
Gonna put this up as are and they she it
was just beautifully crafted. So shout out to the paper
bar code. Also, I was like, ooh, I want to
utilize them one day. But it was all about spreading
the awareness about HIV, and I think it's really important
to let y'all know that this was in the little
booklet they gave us at the dinner. Everybody was shell

(24:20):
shocked that a study was conducted by the Atlanta Department
of public Health, and it showed that black women represented
nearly sixty percent of all new HIV diagnoses in the
city in twenty nineteen, a rate sixteen hundred percent higher
than white women. And that was the whole conversation. There
was no alcohol, she wasn't playing. Everybody was like, do

(24:40):
we get a cocktail? No, you can get a mock tell.
She was like, y'all gonna learn today. We learned a
lot about the numbers. We learned a lot about They
sent us home with at home test kits, and she
was just really pushing this message of how important it
is to get tested, which our episode the week before
last week was about, you know, HIV and AIDS and
make I'm sure y'all really are just out here getting

(25:01):
tested because a lot of people are not, and you
can tell by the numbers. So shout out to Koya.
The dinner was amazing, The food was really good, the
set of the tablescables, it was just such a well
put together event. They sent us cameras to record it.
They sent us these little watches, I can't remember the
name of them.

Speaker 1 (25:18):
It's a bracelet and you download an app to go
with it, and it's like an in case of emergency bracelet.
I thought that was so cool. So you can program
it and then you can it can call nine one
one for you. It can brands. Yeah, it does all
these things. It will send people your location. It's just
it's really helpful and it's very discreet. Nobody would know.

(25:40):
It doesn't look like an Apple Watch is just a
gold bracelet.

Speaker 2 (25:42):
Yeah, it was really dope. Like I just I thoroughly
enjoyed that event, And so shout out to you, Cooya,
because you really out here changing the world and using
your voice in a positive way. I appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (25:54):
And if y'all didn't know, they have a lot of
the ladies that's the event didn't know this either, But
they have rapid tests that you can do at home.
I know a lot of people are very nervous because
it's like, well, what if I do have it, then
everybody's staring at me, you know, all the things that
may go through your mind when you're having an honest

(26:16):
conversation with yourself. And you can get tested in the
comfort of your home, and yeah, and then you know
the sooner you know, like not getting tested doesn't mean
you don't have it, So go ahead, and get tested,
because once you get tested, you can find out if
you do have it, what your options are to live
a full life.

Speaker 2 (26:36):
And one of the things that was discussed a lot
at that table was when you have these at home
kids and you're let's say you're about to have sex
with somebody and you're like, hey, I have this at home, kid,
let's both use it and test ourselves. If someone really
puts up a fight about that, that stops all the BS, right,
because I can't imagine someone telling you absolutely not, I'm

(26:57):
not testing myself and you still be like, Okay, I'm sure.
Sobody out there with that can really like just take
away some of the stuff you deal with that don't
make sense that you're dealing with right there.

Speaker 1 (27:08):
Yeah, Yeah, so y'all check it out. Order them. They
have them on door dash. They do from like Walgreens
and different drug stores. Yeah, because I was searching, like
how easy is it to get Do you need to
order it like online somewhere and wait for them to
ship it to you. They sell them in drug stories

(27:29):
in different places, so check wherever you have to shop
locally and see what they got. Check it out.

Speaker 2 (27:35):
Incredible. Okay, back to our ketchup. Okay, Kiki, you've been
doing a lot lately, so I have tell us about it.
I have been dying to hear about your currous trip.

Speaker 1 (27:45):
Okay, let's start there. Let's go in chronological orders. I
can't remember. Okay, y'all, curous out is amazing. I suck
because I still ain't really posted too much. But I
want you to understand something. When I go on a trip,
a lot of times, what happens is I don't really
post too much unless i'm but I don't really post
a whole lot because I really tried to be in
the moment. I want to enjoy the company that I have.

(28:08):
I want to see the things, experience the things. Luckily
for me, the lovely ladies on their trip loved being
on their phones, so they was getting all the footage.
So what I like to do and fun little thing
for you to do with your friends. I don't know
what you would do if you don't have an iPhone,
But for the iPhone, people make a shared album and
everybody can drop their stuff in at the end of
the trip. So that's what we did. I just need

(28:29):
to make a reel or something to share. But y'all,
it was great. I was so nervous, I was so stressed.
I know, I shared that so many times. I just
really wanted to make sure that everybody was having a
good time, that I paid attention to details, and that
I was present, and that people felt like they didn't

(28:51):
waste their money. I didn't want people thinking about how
much money they spent while they were on the trip,
because I feel like when I do, that is because
I'm not having a good time, you know what I mean.
It's like I didn't spend all this money and this
is all you know what I mean. It's just like,
so I wanted to make sure that they weren't thinking
about it, because everything was worth it. We did a
cooking class. The chef was very handsome too. A lot

(29:12):
of the men there are handsome. The people in general,
I don't know. I didn't inquire.

Speaker 2 (29:18):
Everyone was like, the men are handsome, but they probably
got oh.

Speaker 1 (29:21):
I think maybe single a lot of times, but I
don't know. Cooking class, we did some jet skis one day.
Some of the girls got in a wreck. Yeah, they
were fine. It was like a slow motion wreck. Now
jet skis in so emotion, you wouldn't think that, right,
but I think it was Crystal and Gig. They just

(29:41):
slowly ran into each other like this. I was like,
what is going on? I was cracking up. I fell
off the jet ski, but that water felt good. Honestly,
I wanted to fall off. They were so worried, but
it was so much fun. We did a boat day,
We went to some beach clubs, we hung out, We
ate so much good food and and everybody had such

(30:01):
a great time. Some of the girls stayed an extra
two or three days, and I was jealous because I
had to come back home, but they just kept extending
the trip, extending the trip. We had a local guide
with us to kind of help facilitate things and get
us around and give us recommendations. Her name was Dushka.
She was a shit. She was great. Dushka has eight kids.

(30:21):
Ega Doushka, she has eight kids. And she was like,
yes by the same husband. I said, I know that's right, y'all.
Push you pushed out eight babies. She was like yeah, girl,
And I was like, oh my goodness, and she's still
up moving around. I just feel like that would be
automatic stress every day. But she did it, and we
met her husband. We met some of the kids. She
was a scuba diving instructor. They have a diving school.

(30:44):
None of us did that, but we will be back.
So the ladies decided that we need to make the
Curious Out trip an annual trip. So I'm trying to
figure out the time frame for next year. I think
next year it'll probably be around September. I really enjoyed
it when I went for my birthday, so I'm thinking
twenty six will go back to Cures South around September.
But right now I'm working on another trip. I don't

(31:06):
know where we're gonna go yet. If y'all have some suggestions, recommendations,
drop them in the comments, DM me or something. But
I'm excited about it. I'm excited that everybody had a blast.
And last thing, I want to remind you the ladies
that were on the trip, everyone was single and they
were looking to mingle. And I want any men to know, like,

(31:27):
you can come on the trip too. We did have
one man, but he came with me, so that wasn't
really that wasn't for everybody, but y'all can come on
the trip. It's not just a girl, you know what
it is about men not doing retreats. Well, mine isn't
really a retreat or group travel group travel retreat.

Speaker 2 (31:46):
It's I don't know why. It's like men don't really
do it. And I'm even trying to figure out. We've
had a few men come on our trips, but it's
a I'm like, Hm, why don't y'all go or on
group travel. You can go by yourself and really have
a good time.

Speaker 1 (32:02):
Yeah, So we had to source locally for men and
y'all find them. Yeah. So one of the ladies, it
was really funny because she was scared of the jet skis.
She was scared to get in the ocean. She was
she was just a little nervous right about everything. This
fine man came over on his jet ski. Next thing
I know, I see her riding off into the ocean.
This is on our yacht day. She rides off onto

(32:24):
the ocean with this guy. She's like blowing us kisses,
like by bitches, and she was having a blast. And
I was like, see, sometimes you just need to find me.
I'm telling y'all, y'all need to come on these trips.
It's usually a lot of women. It's like being on.

Speaker 2 (32:37):
It really would be like if you were a man,
You're like, you get your guys together, and you're like,
let's go on one of these.

Speaker 1 (32:43):
Group travel trips hosted by a girl, because you know
it's gonna be a bunch of girls.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
Don't be breaking hearts on the trip.

Speaker 1 (32:50):
Don't break hearts, but you know it would be.

Speaker 2 (32:53):
I think that's a great way to meet somebody. Yeah,
you know, they got their passport, they probably got some coins,
because traveling internationally is not cheat and you can.

Speaker 1 (33:02):
Just meet meet new people period. But imagine that would
be such a great story if you met somebody in
it really turned into something real way, what a cute
story to tell. So come on the next trip. I'll
let you know what it is. I don't know when
it is, I don't know where we're going, but I
am working diligently on it because I'm ready for another
trip and I wanted to happen at a SAT but
not too soon where we can't have payment plans. Anyway,

(33:24):
Curus out was great. Yeah, was great. I just I
really loved it. I was there for a week I think,
and then they came a day after a couple of
days after, so like six days. I think it was
five or six days something like that for the group.
So depending on where we go, we'll determine the length

(33:45):
of time. I think when you got to go all
the way to the other side of the world, you
need to stay a little longer, you know. But on
this side you could do like a little five ish day,
four ish day, and that's going to be a good
amount of time. But it was great. What did I
do after curious out? Oh, came back here for hot
second and then I went to Chicago. How did it go?

(34:06):
So that went really well, y'all know, like I did
to get nervous sometimes.

Speaker 2 (34:12):
From but I don't know, I'm just looking nervous about
the lionel or traveling or what.

Speaker 1 (34:20):
Oh the panel not traveling. A lot of people have
been nervous about traveling because the planes are falling out
of the sky every day. But I'm just like, look,
I'm not sitting here, so if it's my time, it's
my time. And I tell my grandma'stop sending me plane
crash stories. You know, I got trips to make anyway.
So I was speaking at Evolutions by Podcast Movement. It
is one of the bigger podcast conferences in the summer.

(34:42):
Almost fall like August September, they do their really big one,
which was podcast Movement. So I went to that last
year and I enjoyed it. So I decided to apply
to be a speaker because I thought I was going
to be able to go there and be more of
a student. And while I did learn some things and
meet some people, I realized the knowledge that I have,
I could be sharing this with more people. Right Oh,

(35:04):
So I was like, Okay, I'm gonna create a few
pitch checks and I'm going to apply to speak and
just see what happens. I don't know. So they accepted
my proposals. So I spoke. I was talking about live
shows and taking a podcast from a podcast in studio
or wherever you're doing it and turning it into a
live show, and like how to go through it. I mean,

(35:25):
my segment, my session was thirty minutes. It was just me.
I was on the profit stage and I was really
excited about it. But then I got nervous. I don't know,
I just be getting nervous because I guess I was like,
is anybody gonna be sitting there? Because you don't have
to go to the sessions. There's fifty other sessions going on,
like is anybody gonna be there? It was. I had
a horrible time slot because this is my first conference,

(35:46):
is what I think it is. But there were a
lot of people there. The people really appreciated the things
that I had to share. I met more people, exchanged
and more contact information with people who want me to
help them, and it was just like, what is the
word I'm looking for? Uh? It was an affirming moment
that I need to continue to do more things like

(36:07):
this and stop being so fucking scared. What am I
scared of? I don't know, because it's like I know
what I'm talking about. I don't know why I'd be
getting nervous when I'd be getting nervius y'all. Anyway, So
I did that. I had a good time. I got
to see my friend Neural wha. I was out there
and I don't know when last time I saw her was.
But I got to take out with some friends. Chicago
was cold as fuck, and then I went to Dallas.
My sister is getting married, and so she has decided

(36:30):
that she would get married next summer, and we were
trying to well, she was trying on wedding dresses, not me,
so beautiful and it's crazy. My sister, she was a baby,
like she was my little baby.

Speaker 2 (36:42):
So she was an actual baby, like we were in
high school, and she would come to our cheerleading practicers
to come to some of the she was a toddler.
Maybe not that of a baby, but it felt like that.

Speaker 1 (36:53):
Yeah, she was like five six seven around there, you know.
And so now she's a grown woman planning a wedding,
and I felt like her mama. When we were kids,
when we had to babysit, we would split the two
younger ones. So I had Madison that was my baby,
and then my brother was Mallory's baby, my sister that
is already married anyway, so it's like watching my baby

(37:13):
grow up. I got all teary eyed. She was trying
on the dress. I'm like, you are really a woman. Nothing,
she ain't been a woman already, she's it's different. And
then she put the veil on and everything you cry.
I did. I don't know if anybody else did, but
I did. And I had just done my makeup, so
then I had to turn around and like pull myself together.
But that was a great, great experience.

Speaker 2 (37:35):
What I remember when my sister was getting married. I mean,
she older than me, but I had an emotion feel
like that. Huh, yeah, I had an emotional when we
were trying on the wedding dress. It's like, and I
love when everybody doesn't make everything like a moment. And
I love when people are doing anything in life, but
especially in marriage, and you make each step a moment,
like the trying on the wedding dresses. And when we

(37:56):
did that, I cried. I was just like, why you're
really getting married? And then I also had this dark
thought and I was like, oh, hope he don't mess
up our family.

Speaker 1 (38:06):
Well, well I didn't have any dark thoughts. I do
really like her fiance. I got to meet his mom,
so she was there. I was there, my sister Mallory.

Speaker 2 (38:18):
Did y'all do cake tasting on the same day as
wedding trying?

Speaker 1 (38:21):
Okay, just wedding dresses. And then later that day was
my niece's birthday, so my sister had a party for her,
but my aunties came, My mom was there, sisters, my
grandma was there, and it was just it was just nice.
My other sister that got married, she didn't have a
wedding for real. They went to Vegas and he loped.
So it's like the first time we're getting to have

(38:42):
that moment in this little part of the family.

Speaker 2 (38:44):
Did she find the dress?

Speaker 1 (38:46):
She's undecided. Okay, so she really liked them, but she's
indecisive like me, and she was like, I don't want
to have too many options because that's gonna make it
even harder. She's thinking that she's gonna go with one
of those, but she's not sure. So I hope that
if she does more wedding dress try on, she will
invite me so I can come. And the wedding is
going to be a destination wedding. They're getting married in Mexico,

(39:08):
so right now she's trying to decide where and then
narrow down an actual date. But I am so excited
for this wedding. I know it's gonna be a good time.

Speaker 2 (39:17):
I know it.

Speaker 1 (39:18):
Yeah, and then what happened next? Lexandrea, Oh, something happened
before that? I thought, well, maybe not okay, yeah, so Lexandria, So, Lexandrea,
I feel like I'm missing a story in there are
your show? No, it's something else.

Speaker 2 (39:35):
With family engagement. Something is on there about for an engagement.

Speaker 1 (39:40):
Well that's her that's engaged. I don't know. Oh my
niece had her party, but that ain't it. I don't know.
I won't waste too much time trying to remember. But
Lexandrea have a TV show called Travel Queens that premiered
last week. It's on b et Her on Wednesdays at
eight pm Eastern. You gotta have like cable, or if

(40:02):
you don't have cable, I think you can watch it
on Hulu with the bt hert add on or the
Live TV add on something like that and Filo and
some other apps. Anyway, they had a premiere party last Monday,
and I got to host it and do a fireside
chat and moderate that whole thing, and then we went
out afterwards, and then at midnight it was Drea's birthday.

Speaker 2 (40:23):
So anyway, God, that is I love Kiky well. I
am so proud of you.

Speaker 1 (40:30):
Oh thank you.

Speaker 2 (40:31):
That is incredible. Yeah, and then I love that it's
like real friends.

Speaker 1 (40:34):
Uh huh.

Speaker 2 (40:35):
You were able to do that, They allowed you to
do that, and then Drea's what better way to bring
in your birthday party? Right?

Speaker 1 (40:42):
You got a new TV show like what? And I
I was excited when they asked me to do it.
Now I thought I was just doing the Q and A.
I didn't know I was gonna be talking about anything else,
but I did, and some of the people from BT
were there. It was nice to meet them. It was
nice to see a bunch of people who haven't seen
in a long time. Their friends and family came out

(41:03):
and it was like such a happy moment, and I
felt really happy for them and really proud of them.
And it's like anytime you have a dream, no matter
what it is, whether it's something media related or not,
Like it takes work to get places. It is very
rare that people are just handed opportunities with absolutely no effort,

(41:25):
you know, right, I mean I wish that would happen,
but you don't. Anyway. It's amazing to see people who
I met so long ago just because I wanted them
to come on the show and have developed a real
friendship and been able to see all of the things
that have happened, the good stuff, the bad stuff, the frustrations,
and watch it come into this moment they always wanted

(41:46):
to show. Never thought it would be this type of show,
but it's crazy how things worked out, and it was
just a really I just felt proud. I was excited.
I was excited for me too, And I was telling
them and some of the other people that were there
and the publicist like I want to do more of this,
Like I did this because I'm their friend and I
didn't ask them, going to do what they asked me,

(42:08):
But I want to do more. And I really enjoy
doing stuff like that and just stepping out and doing
stuff where it's not necessarily about me and just interviewing people,
getting them to share their stories, hosting stuff like that.
So if y'all need me, hit me up. But that
was a really good time. So after the whole premiere,
we watched the first episode, We did the chat, took

(42:29):
questions from the audience, then they had an after party
on the other side, and then we did like a
surprise happy birthday the gathering spot, the gathering spot, that's right,
m h. We did all of that and then we
went out that night. Y'all. I don't need to be
going out I'm old, because I can't recover good the
next day. It is hard.

Speaker 2 (42:48):
It was a tipsy night or it was just late both.

Speaker 1 (42:52):
Because like I think I got to the venue at
like seven, We left there at almost eleven, went back
to Drea's house. I took a video. I didn't even
realize I was recording in so motion, but we were
doing a toast at midnight. Then we went to the club.
I ain't been to club, so we went to Sweet Lounge.
Sweet Long Still help me girl? Yes, Wow, we was

(43:13):
in there doing karaoke. You were turned up. Lexus auntie
was there. It was a lot of stuff going on.
I saw DC. I used to work with him. He's
a radio personality and he hosts a lot of club Yeah,
saw him there, And I've been out with any of
the people that I know in just so long. I'm

(43:35):
all in the DJ booth. Why you are not twenty six?

Speaker 2 (43:39):
She watched thirty Spirit because spirit, that spirit was fired,
that spirit was tired.

Speaker 1 (43:44):
And then eventually I was just like, all right, I'm
not falling asleep in the club no more. That's what
I'm not doing. That is the one thing that has changed.
So I was like, Okay, I have to go. I'm
calling my lift right now. So Lexi's auntie was really
adamant that she did not want me to leave because
she didn't want me to get in the car by
myself because it could be dangerous, and I said, I
understand that, but Auntie, if it's my time, it's my time.
I'm getting in this lift. I gotta go home. I'm
not gonna make it. I'm not sleeping in this club.

(44:06):
I went home and we was out in the club.
I had on a ball gown. At some point Drea
had changed into damn near lingerie. I don't know what
was going on, but we had a blast. I had
blow up a blow up microphone and we were doing
carry up. We're doing karaoke. At some point ran into
a bunch of It was just a time, and so
the next night we were supposed to have a birthday

(44:27):
dinner for Drea. Didn't happen. Didn't happen for the rest
of the week, and then I had an engagement party
to go to on Friday for my aunt who's also
getting married later this year. That's right, Oh my god.
They had an engagement party, and I thought I was
gonna get to meet more of his friends, but it
was mostly her friends. I guess cause it's here and

(44:47):
her people are here. But there were some people there
and it was nice seeing like other people that I
know that they're her friends, not mine, but we know
each other, and it's been so long since I've seen them,
So it was just like a lot of moments of
reconnecting with people that I really enjoyed. And then went
to Black Effects on Saturday that that was good too.

(45:10):
I ran into more people. Dang, the name escaped me.
I forget anyway, went to Black Effect. That was really good.
I met some more people. I've been trying to work
on expanding my network and reconnecting with people. Do you
ever like sometimes forget how many people you know or
all the people you know and what they do, and

(45:30):
like how you could possibly work together and things like
that until you run into them again or until something happens,
like cause they're not your everyday people that you talk to.

Speaker 2 (45:40):
Yeah, yeah, I don't. I don't forget, but I know
what you're talking about.

Speaker 1 (45:45):
It's like it's not at the forefront of your of
your mind, so.

Speaker 2 (45:48):
Sometimes you don't always tap into your database, right, it's like, well,
hold up, I know the people.

Speaker 1 (45:54):
Yeah, And I have been trying to do that more,
and so when I went to that, it was good
to see a bunch of people. Girls. Some people told
me they thought I had moved. I said, why, did
you think I moved?

Speaker 2 (46:07):
Why did they think that?

Speaker 1 (46:08):
She said she was this particular person was like, I
don't ever see you out anymore. I said, girl, I
had to stop going out. But she was like at
any of this stuff. And then I remembered where I
met her, and we met because we used to work
a lot of red carpet events. But I grew tired
of doing the red carpet interviews and that's not really
the type of interviews I want to do. I need
to sit down and have a more at length conversation,

(46:30):
not a little quick promo liner, a little.

Speaker 2 (46:34):
Windy yeah.

Speaker 1 (46:35):
I want to have longer conversations. And like a lot
of that stuff, I felt like it was repetitive and
I just was no longer interested. And so she was like, oh, girl,
I didn't know that. She was like, yeah, I thought
maybe y'all had both moved to Texas or something or whatever,
cause she knows about the podcast. Anyway, it was good
to see her. I ran into some other podcast people
who I already knew, some people that I wanted to meet,

(46:56):
and that was good. And then Sunday to take a
day ar rest. My mom has been here? Is she no?
She left last night. It was time. It was time,
you know how Like I love my mama, I do,
and she means well, she'd be trying to help. But
sometimes I think that we are so alike in the
ways that are. If it's two people like this, it

(47:18):
ain't gonna work. We was getting on each other's nerves, and.

Speaker 2 (47:22):
Do y'all say it out loud when it's happening.

Speaker 1 (47:24):
We'll be fussing with each other. Yeah, but it was
good to see her. It was good to spend time,
and I do appreciate that she tries to help. She
be trying to put stuff up, and I'm like, you're
not putting it up right, Like, I appreciate you trying
to help, but why don't you ask a question? Or
if you ask a question, like listen to me, she
will zone out like a toddler and she'd be on

(47:45):
TikTok's throwing up. I mean, I'm just like, she's not
even listening. I don't know why she's asked me the questions.
I just won't answer. She'll answer for herself and move on. Anyway,
she was here, and so last night the last thing
I did, I had a repeat of last fucking Monday.
How did I end up at Sweet Lounge again?

Speaker 2 (48:01):
But you was outside. I don't want to be like you.
I want the knees that you have.

Speaker 1 (48:06):
I was sitting on the couch, okay, except for when
I was running around doing karaoke. But last night I
saw Mila. She was like Orlando and Erica left her.
Everybody went back to New York like very quickly, or
I don't think they was to New York X day.
She's here. She's here till Thursday. So we're as Sweet

(48:27):
Lounge and then here comes Mila hopping over and I
was like, who is this? And I was like, oh, Mela.
I thought she was gone. Everybody else is gone. Anyway, Wait,
who were you with? I was with Tiffany, Lex, Drea,
and Lynn. So Drea postponed her birthday dinner till yesterday.
The outfit didn't come in. Other things were happening, so
she had to get another thing, and we just in

(48:47):
people's schedules because we had planned for her actual birthday.
But we went out last night to del Bar. It
was Delish Love me too, and I got leftovers at
home and that's when I'm on Tara when we get home.
But we went to dinner and it was night to
have like a girls night dinner, and we were talking
about some things that we want to do in the
coming year, just like to have fun with friends and
it not always be dinner because you know that gets repetitive.

(49:11):
Even trying new foods is fun. But like sometimes you
want to do a little activity. We want to get
up and move, try something new, try something different, have
some real experiences. Yeah, and so then we went to
Sweet Lounge. And then today I did not even get
a chance to rest because we're had to be done
and I didn't want to come in here look crazy.
So and now I'm here. So yeah, it's been a

(49:34):
busy time. I'm sure I'm forgetting things. Did you do
anything for Easter?

Speaker 2 (49:38):
Were you here for Easter?

Speaker 1 (49:40):
Yes? I was here for Easter. No I did not.
I was really not feeling good. It was it was
a rough time. Oh and then I've been being a caregiver.
That's the other thing that's been taken at my time. Yeah.
I want to tell everyone the men out there listening
to the women who have man in your lives, remind
them to go to the doctor. And if you are

(50:04):
concerned about something be persistent. My friend got found out
that he had cancer, and it was really frustrating because
he had been asking his doctor about the issue. So anyway,
he had surgery. Actually got a call today that they
don't think he's gonna have to do chemo or radiation.
He's just still healing. So that's good. I think they've

(50:26):
gotten it all. But that was really stressful and scary
because it's like cancer, no matter what you do. Sometimes
you can do all these things that are preventative, but
sometimes you still end up with it, and it's scary
and you just never know what will happen. So he's
still recovering, but that's a hard job. So if you
got a caregiver, you'd be nice to them. And if

(50:47):
he's somebody's caregiver, who I feel for you. It's hard
when people aren't feeling good and when they're in pain
because they snap. I mean, I know I've had to
have somebody take care of me, and it's just want
to take the pain away. You want to make them
feel better, and you can't. All you can do is
just kind of take it for a while.

Speaker 2 (51:05):
And make sure they're comfy and cozy and got what
they need.

Speaker 1 (51:09):
And just try to keep their spirits up, even though
it's just like, well, you tell somebody in a situation
like that, that really makes them feel better in the moment.
You know, It's like you can look towards the future,
but right now they are in fucking pain. Anyway, that
is the summary of my life in the past forty
five days. I saw a post of you getting baptized.

(51:29):
How did it feel?

Speaker 2 (51:30):
It felt wet. It was way I got dipped into
Jesus water. It was something I have been thinking about.
And it was funny because I didn't tell anything. I
didn't really tell anybody because I was feeling. I don't
have the language for how I was feeling. It was
just very emotional. I was listening to Girls Just Want

(51:53):
to Have Fun by Cindy Lapper, and I started crying
and I was like, I mean, they're about to start
my period and this has to do with me getting
baptized today. I don't know which one it was bad.

Speaker 1 (52:01):
It was it was I don't have words for.

Speaker 2 (52:04):
It, honestly, yet I'm glad I did it, and I
God has really been showing up for me in ways
that I've never experienced before in life and so it
just felt it was just very intentional, like everything lately
has been very intentional ups and downs. And I was
really you know how sometimes you look at like how

(52:28):
your friends show up for you, and you have certain
friends that show up in certain arenas, and then you
have those friends that show up in the arenas that
maybe y'all haven't y'all haven't been there yet, like maybe
you're you have a close friend, but y'all haven't seen
each other at a low yet, or y'all never have
worshiped together, or you've never you don't really like not.

(52:50):
I won't say that it's surface level because I won't
say that there's surface level friends and that's all it is.
You just go out together, but there are just different
like friendship levels that become unlocked. And like I said,
I did. This wasn't something where it was like, hey, everybody,
I'm getting baptized. It didn't feel right to do that.
My mom was even like, why didn't you tell anybody?
I was like, because it wasn't about anybody.

Speaker 1 (53:08):
It's personal, Yeah, it wasn't.

Speaker 2 (53:11):
It wasn't about that, And I didn't want to feel
stressed about people trying to get here and I had
an open house directly after I got Oh, like my
hair was still dreaping God for break baptized water. Yeah,
I think I think I'm gonna go right back into
my friend. I am too.

Speaker 1 (53:24):
These need to come out, but these need to.

Speaker 2 (53:26):
Come out too, but they, uh, I think I'm gonna go.
It just makes life as a black woman if you're
not mixed and your hair just don't just you cannot
just like you're not gonna you know what I mean.
It just makes life so much easier to just get
up and for real, go to still be cute in
the gym, and still be cute after you get baptized.

(53:48):
And yeah, my brother came, my yoga instructor came, like
and because I had casually brought it up in certain
conversations and the people that showed up and showed out,
I was like, y'all is out here cheering, like like
I just the marathon, which if you knew what I've
been through, you might say I did. But it was
just wonderful, Kiki. I don't have anything anything else to

(54:08):
say other than it was wonderful. And I just feel,
really I feel now today, I feel excited about life
and the future, and I can't really say that I
felt that way a few months ago. So just like
the journey and really learning to embrace the things that

(54:30):
come with the journey, which happened to be the most
important part, unfortunately and fortunately.

Speaker 1 (54:34):
So I'm really happy for you. Thank you for really welcome.
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (54:39):
So I don't think we have time for me to
really catch you guys up on a lot of what
the past couple of weeks, but I really wholeheartedly enjoyed
hearing about I'm sorry. I loved it. It was like
it was exciting, and also, like I said, I'm really
proud you like you talked about Lexandrea and watching them

(55:05):
kind of grow into where they're at now. But as
someone who has known you since high school ninth grade.

Speaker 1 (55:14):
Who was over twenty years ago that I met you,
isn't that crazy to know somebody over twenty years and
not feel old? Is weird?

Speaker 2 (55:24):
That is weird. It's weird. You know.

Speaker 1 (55:26):
My bones just popped as I moved.

Speaker 2 (55:28):
My knee, because even though we play about feeling old,
I don't feel old in my body, like in my
spirit and not my spirit.

Speaker 1 (55:37):
No.

Speaker 2 (55:38):
Yeah, the more I focus on my health and my willness.
I start to feel less old, but I do have
bad knees. But I was gonna to finish saying what
I was saying to also watch you on your journey.
It's been incredible. It's been incredible to watch you grow,
watch you keep going when things do get difficult and
when they're not. I'm really proud of you.

Speaker 1 (56:01):
Oh, thank you.

Speaker 2 (56:02):
Yeah, and I'm looking forward to see where your career
goes me too.

Speaker 1 (56:05):
Shit, where is we going?

Speaker 2 (56:09):
I'm call me yeah?

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Speaker 1 (59:07):
Okay, and now we'll get back to the show we did.

Speaker 2 (59:11):
You had a topic on here. You want to touch
it a little bit. We have time. Sure, I want
to hear the story because you sat a story.

Speaker 1 (59:21):
This is what I forgot that makes me remember. The
other thing I did was for one of my friend's birthdays.
I went to Chapelton Vineyards. It is a black owned
winery and vineyard in Texas. It's outside, it's closer to
like Houston. It's in between Houston and Austin, like near

(59:41):
College Station where Texas A and M is, but it's Chapleton.
It's pretty new and it's relatively small. But they have
these two villas on the property. So one of them
was well, they were both available, but we rented one.
So it was me and the birthday girl, Sorea, and
then two of our other friends and so we stayed
at the village just for the weekend. It was really
easy trip for them because they all live in Texas.

(01:00:02):
But I went out there and we had an amazing weekend.
And something that I appreciate about Saraya and Sander, they
are married. They've been married for a while and they
have kids. Sometimes when people get in relationships or they
get married, they distance themselves from single friends for whatever reason,
and I was nervous about that when they got married.

(01:00:23):
Santra's been married a long time, since we was in
our twenties, what is it wasn't that long anyway. I
was nervous about that because I didn't want to lose
my friends just because I'm not in the same place
in life. I respect their marriages. I'm not one of
the people that's like, oh, I need my single friend back,
I need all the time, none of that. So it
was nice to hang out with them. And then the

(01:00:43):
third friend that was with us, she's one of Soreya's
like childhood friends, and she's also married. Everybody married but me.
So we're out for dinner one night, and I asked them,
because they're all happily married.

Speaker 2 (01:00:56):
That you got it and mothers, and.

Speaker 1 (01:00:59):
They all made time to get away and just have
a girl's weekend, and they were talking about how important
it is, and we talked about possibly doing it like
more often and making it a thing right, and I
I said, what's your favorite part about being married? They
were like hmm, And I said, I find that a
lot of people really want marriage, and people want it
for different reasons. Right, But y'all are married. Everybody's been

(01:01:22):
married for at least two years, some way longer. And
now that you're in it, you all have children, like
you're in the thick of marriage. What would you say
now is something that you really love about it? If anything?
And they all had different answers, but some of the

(01:01:43):
things that they said were things that attracts me to
want to be married, like just really having a partner
in life, and knowing that you have somebody that has
your back even when times get rough, even when things
are difficult. And they shared all of their stories, and
then I hear some people talk about why they want
to get married, and it'd be superficial stuff, and that's

(01:02:03):
why I feel like their marriages don't be working out.
But they had really great answers. So I wanted to
ask you a question, but I can't remember what it was.
I'm about to scan this thing and see what was it. Okay,
how do you do you think I know you're taking
your dating break, but do you think that marriage is
something you might want in the future? Still for me
it is. And then I keep hearing a lot of

(01:02:25):
people changing their mind for different reasons. Sometimes I think
we get hurt or something happens and you'd be like,
fuck it all. But I was wondering about that, And
then what's something that you're looking forward to when you
get married?

Speaker 2 (01:02:44):
In being married, I think, first of all, I think
it is very important to always say getting hurt is
part of the game, if of life and in relationships.
If you're not getting hurt, what you're doing.

Speaker 1 (01:02:57):
Yeah, I think if you don't experience hur is gonna
be hard to.

Speaker 2 (01:03:01):
Like experience that. This is my thing about sharing certain
things you know, and also like almost in a way
like prepare you for marriage. I was talking to my
sister about this when I was home for Easter. Well,
I was in Oklahoma City for Easter. I had such
a good time. I got my nephew Zaying, brought him
to Oklahoma so he could be with his cousins Disney
and kind. We had such a good time for Easter.

(01:03:22):
But we'll talk about that later. And so I'm always
constantly talking about marriage, and just because I'm taking a
moment of to myself from dating, I still wholeheartedly believe
in marriage, love and relationships like I don't think that'll
ever I don't think anyone will ever hurt me bad
enough to where I'm like and just no more and

(01:03:44):
nothing like. I'm just not like that. Like it's in me,
relationship is in me, and I think that I definitely
believe in marriage. I think the power of community, which
I also consider marriage. It's a community in your household,
and it's important kids. I think that a two parent
household is very important. Things happen and no judgment. But

(01:04:06):
I think it's a beautiful union. I mean, really think
about this, Kiky. You meet somebody, let's say you meet
them in Atlantic station, y'all just bump into each other.
Y'all just bump into each other. Y'all don't know where
life is headed. It works out. You date, you've had
your ups and downs. He proposes you, guys get married

(01:04:28):
for the right reasons. You learn each other, you do
the things, you say the vowels, and you actually stick
to them, and you create a life together to do
we've done life alone, not alone alone, but you've done
life with yourself in this way for such for our
whole lives, for real to meet somebody that really falls

(01:04:50):
into alignment with what you want and how you want
to do it. And you guys can can get can
get it through the bumps because the happiness is great.
But in my world that's not what I base it
off of. Life gets tough and it be busting you
upside your head and for us to like go through

(01:05:12):
these things together. You don't know what when people say
for better or for worse and they're about the worst
is the most important part is you don't know what
it's gonna be like you don't you literally are or
are agreeing to do life together. To me, that is
such a beautiful decision. It is such a beautiful decision.

(01:05:33):
Like that is what I look forward to the life together.
And you're like with someone building a lifeson and then
creating a life with you, like literally like birthing your children.

Speaker 1 (01:05:44):
Keep doing the like I just imagine like Apple.

Speaker 2 (01:05:47):
And all of coming out and just like hand him
to their dad and looking at him, like look at
what we did and like seeing how they like. I
just a marriage is so beautiful and to me it's
the most the most beautiful when you've met a married
couple and I say I met America because I'm not married,
but who has really been through some stuff and to
hear them talk about it and to see how they've

(01:06:08):
grown from it and didn't give up on each other
taking abuse out of it like everything else though, even
in fidelity like bro like and y'all worked through it.
That's what you said you would do. So I guess
what I look forward to is keeping our word.

Speaker 1 (01:06:25):
M Yeah. I like seeing this is something I like
seeing in my married friends, and then I'll be done
talking about marriage. I like seeing when I know how
my friends are like as individual single people, right. And
I'm saying this because sometimes I think that people have

(01:06:47):
this idea of like women being strong and independent and
that they cannot be a wife and like listen to
their husband or like take somebody else's leave. They got
to have it their way. I know women who are
absolutely like that as single people. But they get with
a man who they love and respect, who loves and
respects them back and always thinks about them. They can

(01:07:10):
relax and they can listen, or if they have an opinion,
their husband will listen and they can make decisions together.
Like I've been thinking, it's cute and I'd be giggling.
They'd be like girl whenever they're like, oh, I need
to talk to my husband. Like, I just think it's
so cute. Y'all really be making real life decisions together
about every little fucking thing. And here I am like, yeah, bitch,
I'm coming and let me check my calendar. Nope, nothing, Okay,

(01:07:31):
I'm coming. And I'm like, I just think it's cute
and I like that, and I love hearing them share
their stories and they just casually mention stuff in everyday
things like how they consider their husband or their husband
is sharing something with them and they're sharing like what
they considered for them and just thinking for each other
and really being there for each other. I just think

(01:07:52):
it's beautiful. I love seeing married people. Even if I
never get married, I think I will always enjoy seeing that.
I love seeing love and I love I just love it.
I just think it's cute. And then it's all these
weddings happening. I just think it's so so cutem Anyway,
that's all I'll say about that. We'll talk about relationships

(01:08:13):
more next week.

Speaker 2 (01:08:14):
And we'll go a little bit more deeper. Then when
we come back, we have some advice for you.

Speaker 1 (01:08:18):
Guys, it's time for the advice. If you have a

(01:08:49):
question that you want to ask us, send it in
advice at cocktails pod dot com and put advice in
the subject line with whatever else you want to put,
but advice.

Speaker 2 (01:08:58):
Okay, this one is titled advice because I don't That's
why I spell. I don't know what to do. Hey,
Kiki and Medina, Okay, so I'm just gonna get into it.
I've been talking to this guy I don't know for
about a year now. Oh, I don't know for about
a year now, and our birthdays are literally a day apart.

(01:09:19):
His is June twenty sixth minus June twenty seventh. Is
that Gemini? I think it is. I think so, And
it's about time to have another zodiac sign episode Castle Sellness.
That ain't Gemini cancer cancer, So it's emotional op in here.

Speaker 1 (01:09:36):
Yeah, my mama cancer.

Speaker 2 (01:09:38):
Who I'm scared? Okay, she said. We mesh very well together. However,
it is hard for us to like link up and
see each other and do things because he's a mechanic
and he works eighty plus hours damn that a week.
At least he got a job.

Speaker 1 (01:09:54):
Well, that is a blessing but my goodness, I know
them hands are callous.

Speaker 2 (01:09:59):
Who oh, I love my little callous hand. I haven't
been touched by man, and so long, I've only been
touched by Jesus. That's better. Cool, Okay, every plus hours
damn near a week, And I get that, and I
do want a man that you know is taking care
of the house. But my brother, my brother had came

(01:10:20):
into town and we had a cookout because my brother
is getting PCs military moved to Bahrain, Bahran, Bahrain, Bahrain,
and the guy had got to my house before I
got there, So my niece let him in because my
family knows him well. Come to find out, him and
my mom had a conversation and he's telling my mom
that I'm the only person that he's that he talks to.

(01:10:40):
He wants to settle down with me. He works so
much because he's trying to build for me and him. However,
me and him was Me and him have never had
a conversation about us being exclusive or anything like that.
So it's just mind blowing. So my mom kind of
tells me a little bit of the story. She told
you everything I told me a little bit of the

(01:11:01):
story about what happened. So I'm asking him like, hey,
what was the conversation you had with my mom? And
he keeps telling me that he doesn't remember because he
was drunk and all and all this other stuff. So
do I tell him like, this is what my mom said?
Is this how you really feel? She says, like a lot,
this is what you really.

Speaker 1 (01:11:22):
Feel like she did talk to text.

Speaker 2 (01:11:24):
I wonder too, what are we doing because you haven't
even told me this that this is how you feel.
But you tell my mom this is how you feel.
I need to know what's good because I don't know
if I'm ready to settle down with him. I'm thirty three,
he's thirty two. I'm having fun right now, I'm losing weight,
getting fine and if I'm ready and I don't know

(01:11:46):
if I'm ready. Lol. Sorry for such a long email. PS.
I used voice to text, so go easy on me.
Kikips this is she put her Instagram, but I'll be
I don't be one to put people. I talk to
you a few times, Medina. I love you lots, ladies.

Speaker 1 (01:12:00):
Hey girl, Hey, your email reads like my mama's text messages.
That's how I was like, Yes, probably voiced text. I
don't be knowing what she said half the time. This
wasn't that bad though. Okay, you go first, I think,
don't say that your mom told you anything. At the

(01:12:23):
end of the day, you want to know what y'all
are doing. Just ask him, bring up the conversation. Don't
use your mama as a crutch. Don't keep bringing up
this issue because also, girl, how are you gonna get
more tea from your mama? If he's getting loose lipped
around her, you don't want to close that door. Don't
bring that shit up again. Let him forget it, but
just ask him first of all, ask yourself before you

(01:12:44):
have the conversation, what are you doing? What do you
want to do? If he does, if he is thinking
about something serious, does that change your mind? And why
is what he's doing changing your mind? What do you
actually want? Then you should bring it up to him
and have a conversation and be honest no matter what
he says, Be honest about what you want, but only
share if you really know. If you don't know, maybe

(01:13:05):
you should figure that out. I do wonder what he
was thinking when he was talking to your mama, And
if your mama only told you a little bit, I
want to know what the rest is, but we'll never
know or tell your mom going to write it in
I send me a voice note, not the voice to text.
But yeah, I think you need to have a conversation
with him so that you can figure it out. That's
the only way to do it, and don't involve your mom.
Ask him because you want to know.

Speaker 2 (01:13:27):
And when Key said like you need to know what
you're doing, you had already said in the email that
you don't know if you're ready to settle down with him.
To me, that reads you're not ready to settle down
with him, and that probably should be the conversation. But
I know you're also not going to listen to us,
so wow, Like I know that you're not going to listen,
Like you're going to keep this going how it's going

(01:13:49):
more than likely, but I hope you listen. Let me
just put that out there. You don't know if you're
ready to settle down. You get in fine sometimes when
you are getting it's about to be summer. It's summer.

Speaker 1 (01:13:58):
You're trying to see each other.

Speaker 2 (01:13:59):
Are I'm trying to see? Like what all you could get?

Speaker 1 (01:14:01):
You see what you're doing.

Speaker 2 (01:14:02):
Don't play with this man because listen, like also eighty
hours a week, it's a hard working man like that.
Since we just got finished talking about marriage, and I've
I have had this conversation with several friends of mine
who are married to men who work a lot. These
this is a blue collar job, right, a mechanic, and
it's like that is that's their job. I'm not, And

(01:14:22):
they don't have any plan on like changing, which they
shouldn't if that's what they plan to do with their life.
And so I think if you already know right now
you don't like that this is what he does with
his I don't. I think maybe you're getting into something
that you could not waste your time and make it
something serious when it doesn't have to be serious. And so,

(01:14:44):
like Kiki said, have the conversation and stay true to yourself.
You want to be outside this summer you're trying to
be running around with booty shorts, and do that.

Speaker 1 (01:14:55):
Right us back and tell us what you actually do,
because now I want to know. I'm a little invested
in this story. I'm curious. I don't know what you say.
If you could just put the phone down and record
it so we could hear it, I would love to
hear both sides because I'm nosy like that. Yeah, let
us know, girl, please, Okay, this one is super short.
She says she wants to go to GAWKWK City Girl.

Speaker 2 (01:15:14):
I don't know if I can.

Speaker 1 (01:15:15):
Help you all. Try to dial back in my memory bank.
She says, Hello, ladies, thank you all for your amazing podcast.
I love listening to your voices every week. I always
know I'm in for a good laugh and will feel
empowered as a woman with a voice. I know that's right.
So I started dating this new guy about six months
months ago. The last time I went down on him,
he mentioned that I'm unable to finish him on my own.

(01:15:38):
He usually has to jerk off into my mouth. Okay,
he said, I need to use the twist motion. But
the crazy thing is I thought I was, do you
all have any pointers or suggestions? And how exactly do
I execute the twist motion? He's referring to the one
he says other women and performers in porn are doing.

(01:16:00):
Thank you, ladies. In advance, missus gaul gawk and training.

Speaker 2 (01:16:04):
All you got to do is google superhead. She does
the best the twist motion that she's talking about.

Speaker 1 (01:16:09):
Is she's talking about the twist of your head and mouth,
or the twist of your hands.

Speaker 2 (01:16:13):
When I think of superhead, she's she's doing all all
of the twists. Anything you can twist is getting.

Speaker 1 (01:16:18):
Twist and shout, twist and make him shout, yeah it is.
Are you watching the porn? Do he show you say
video and stop telling me what the other bitches is doing. Bitch,
who's sucking your dick today? That's how you end up
without a dick, suck at all? Fuck a gotgowk. You're
gonna be a jack off? How about that?

Speaker 2 (01:16:37):
But he must be fine and work it because that's
why this hand, because that's what he wanted. Ain't I
ain't never did it. You gonna get what you get.

Speaker 1 (01:16:46):
You get what you get if you get anything at all,
you better enjoy these views of this face this time
in that period. Okay, because I could be sleep.

Speaker 2 (01:16:56):
And will hmm.

Speaker 1 (01:16:58):
Anyway, if you need a well, you just need to
ask the man to show you the damn video. Make
it cute.

Speaker 2 (01:17:05):
That could be a really cute date night watching port
Well include that in there. But she should she okay, okay,
we really gonna help you. She should lock on a
canva make a cute little invitation. You know how there's
there's cooking classes, there's perfume making classes. You should have
a Gotgok City class. It's just you and your man

(01:17:28):
and you're gonna make an invitation, send it to him,
and in the invitation you're gonna put the details of
what you want him to teach you in the class.
Make it cute. It don't have to be embarrassing, and
it don't got to be hard. See what happens. Make
it very cute.

Speaker 1 (01:17:43):
If you do this, please send us a cocktail because
I would like to hear how this goes and show
us the invitation.

Speaker 2 (01:17:48):
Yea, even if you have to get on fiber and
ask somebody to create it for you, make the invitation
cute and like funny, Like get on fiber, ask somebody.
Can you make this invitation for me? It's to my
man and it's a little explicit, But can you do it?

Speaker 1 (01:17:59):
Yea?

Speaker 2 (01:18:00):
Or no?

Speaker 1 (01:18:01):
Okay, Now it's time for the cocktails. But I do
really hope you send one in Email us at cocktails
at cocktailspod dot com if you have a cocktail to share. Uh,
but it.

Speaker 3 (01:18:26):
Is it some catch and.

Speaker 1 (01:18:31):
Once upon a time not long ago.

Speaker 2 (01:18:32):
I was.

Speaker 1 (01:18:36):
Okay, oh, okay, I'm gonna read this one. It's called
Barbells and Bondage. This cocktail, it is long, so I'm
trying to read fast. But this cocktail was texting me.
But my friend I had met at Hedonism, the girlfriend. Yes,

(01:18:59):
the girlfriend, Yeah, she sent this to me and I
was like, I'm glad you finally sent a cocktail in
because I know you'd be having fun. Okay, So girl,
now's your time to shine, so she says, So I
had a gym crash. There aren't a lot of attractive
men in the gym at four am, so I usually
don't have a lot of eye candy. But this guy,
he was always so focused and it made me so
interested in him. I mean, dapping around with a pin

(01:19:21):
and pad focused. Anybody from the South knows what I mean.
I didn't.

Speaker 2 (01:19:25):
What does dapping around?

Speaker 1 (01:19:26):
I should ask chat GBT. Okay, I'm okay what I
mean when I say, Oh what I say? When he
means when he walked in with a little bit of
dap in his step, and that usually means he had
a little sum swinging in his in between his squads. Oh,
his dick was big. I guess he had at Okay, Okay,
I guess if I would have just kept reading and
not been so impatient. Okay. One day I was recording

(01:19:49):
myself doing a set and he walked past my camera
and he looked dead in my camera. Swear I watched
that video for days. AnyWho, I was scrolling on ig
one day and decided to go through my friend request
and behold, there he was smiling and looking so damn fine,
just as I remembered him in the gym. I wonder
just how long I had him sitting all alone in
that request box. So y'all know, I accepted him expeditiously

(01:20:12):
and began going on a liking spree, the old bait
and switch. He messaged me within minutes, striking up a conversation.
We almost immediately exchanged numbers and texted that night. I
saw him in the gym the next morning and didn't
hesitate to greet him. Fast forward to a few days later.
At this point, we've been on a first date and
even having the impromptu breakfast date only issue his child.

(01:20:32):
He is twenty six years young and I am thirty
one years old. Nevertheless, we prevailed saw him in the
gym this morning, and we began sending thirty text back
and forth. He said to me, don't turn me on.
You playing with the right one with the Devil's smiling emoji.
You already know what time that means. I remember the
last time a man sent me that. I responded with

(01:20:54):
who's playing? He then responded, if I take you to paradise,
you may never want to leave. Tread carefully, I responded, Lol,
Paradise is a two way street. I went over to
him as I was leaving out the gym, and he
asked what I was about to do. I responded telling
him I was going to make breakfast, and he asked
if I could make him some too, But first, could

(01:21:16):
we shower together? Of course, I said yes. He followed
me to my house and I prepped back. I prepped breakfast.
We chatted, and then up to my room. We went, showered,
washed each other's backs, and chatted even even more. We
began kissing. He looks at me and says, come on,
we need more room than this shower can give. I

(01:21:36):
nodded in complete submission, went to my room and lathered
up in my body glaze. If you know, you know,
then pulled me closer to him. He began kissing me
so passionately, licking my neck and my titties. He picked
me up, yes, all the way up, and kissed me
as I felt his boyfriend sized dick growing touching my

(01:21:58):
plump ass cheeks. He laid me on the bed and asked,
was I ready for more? I nodded again in complete submission.
He asked was there anything I didn't like? And me
and my freaky ass said na.

Speaker 2 (01:22:10):
And we know she's telling the truth, right, He.

Speaker 1 (01:22:13):
Said, our safe word was red, and he wanted me
to let him know if anything felt uncomfortable. The inner
consensual freak in me smiled. He played with my wet
pussy until I came all over his fingers. Then he
took those fingers and moved down to my ass, placing
his thumb in my ass and playing with my pussy
at the same damn time. Y'all, I can believe this

(01:22:34):
young man was doing all this to me at eight
fifteen in the morning. But here we were, she says,
she be in the gym at four. So I came again, y'all,
and he asked, was I ready for the dick? Again,
nodding in complete submission. But this is when it gets interesting.
He gets up, walks to my closet and I asked
him what he was looking for. He reassured me he

(01:22:55):
was good and grabbed a silk tie from one of
my rompers. He then proceeds over to my bathroom and
grabs the soft tie from my robe. Y'all, this man
tied me the fuck up. My wrists are tied to
my fucking ankles, and the soft wraps around my neck
with just enough force to feel it. He then puts
on the condom and starts working my ass the fuck out, kissing,

(01:23:17):
playing with my ass, pulling that damn harness around my neck,
choking me, slow stroke, fast stroke, talking, affirming the praise
Keith Queen, and me was so satisfied. I am not
a woman of little words, but y'all, I was speechless.
He then untied me, flipped me over, and fucked me
from the back, moving me over I can't talk, moving

(01:23:38):
me ever so slightly in front of the mirror so
that I could see how good I looked taking that dick. Y'all,
this man fucked me so dawn good. I went down
to my kitchen expeditiously and made them breakfast sandwiches, I
promised him while he showered again, because baby, we had
worked out a sweat. He grabbed his breakfast to go
so that he could head to work, kiss me and left.

(01:23:58):
I immediately called my friends to tell her the tea
because what the fuck. Needless to say, I'll see him
again tonight, signed your hido for him.

Speaker 2 (01:24:08):
It needed to be a visual, I know, right, because ma'am.

Speaker 1 (01:24:12):
Maybe the follow up. That's it this week for Cocktails.
You guys, make sure you check the description box for
all of the links to everything in this episode, and
make sure you're following us on Instagram. We're at Cocktails podcast.
I'm at Kiki said so, And until next week, you guys.

Speaker 2 (01:24:31):
Goodbye, goodbye bye bye bye.

Speaker 1 (01:24:38):
Bye, good bye

Speaker 2 (01:24:42):
Bye bye bye bye bye

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