Daily Insomnia Episode 357 - Just some compas

In this episode, we’re fueled by the smooth Run Conejo Run cocktail and joined by the homies from Compas Unfiltered Podcast for another epic North vs. South Chicago crossover. The guys chop it up about what it really takes to survive in Chicago, whether modern parents are raising soft kids, and Ramon shares a dog story that might just break your soul. From laughs to life lessons, they even break down the keys to making a relationship last—plus a whole lot more you don’t wanna miss!

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey guys, welcome back to Daily Samia.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
This episode three fifty seven coming to you pre recorded
like always, my name is Ramonte, your hosts and my
co host.

Speaker 3 (00:08):
Here, what's up, guys? Come out here?

Speaker 4 (00:10):
Hey guys doing in the studios today special podcast once
again North Meads South talk about West South. Now in
the studio today we have Los Compas all the way, Aurora.

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Town a town.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
Because I forgot what because I was out of the
video yesterday.

Speaker 4 (00:31):
That's why I was for them yesterday, something like That's
all I was thinking about the whole time.

Speaker 3 (00:35):
So, yeah, I about to call you guys.

Speaker 5 (00:37):
I'm sorry shout out to them though. Man, people, episode.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
Fifty six, I just want to check it out.

Speaker 3 (00:43):
I don't even.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
I mean, this is a long time to make it.

Speaker 6 (00:49):
Yeah, man, Like I was telling you guys, like it's
been like what two years now, we were trying to
collapse do something. I heard your pod from the rest
in the Homie Flora. You guys had him on. Yeah,
you guys also had him for your Demon Hour.

Speaker 2 (01:05):
We have Demon Hour. We did Ken Floor's Homecoming in
the World. Were you guys there at that show?

Speaker 5 (01:08):
No, bro, we wanted to make it. We couldn't make it.

Speaker 7 (01:11):
I was never to see him always selling out bro.

Speaker 4 (01:14):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, that was uh, that was what's
what's called? What was what's we're looking for? Seeing himsell
out that one show was just the future for him
moving forward.

Speaker 2 (01:24):
Yeah yeah, yeah, it just it's kind of put him
in that track.

Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, get to where he was.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
But yeah, we planned out, we had a date locked
in and then like the Midwest.

Speaker 5 (01:36):
Yeah, we chickened out. Bro, that's that's that's yea.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
I said nothing, man, that's beautiful blue sky.

Speaker 6 (01:45):
Bro.

Speaker 4 (01:46):
It was cold, no, no, no, I trust me, man.
It's because for you guys, you said it was two hours.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
If the studio right.

Speaker 6 (01:52):
From from Aroad to Belvedere, it's probably an hour and
a half and a half at least at least blows
and then with that snow, it probably would have been
like two hours.

Speaker 2 (02:03):
A couple of flicks.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
Yeah, you guys argue, you guys not from here already.

Speaker 5 (02:08):
Don't know drivers apparently not.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
But yeah, yeah, obviously episodes didn't happen, and now we
are here.

Speaker 5 (02:20):
Location. Do everything, man, and don't shut up. By the way, bro,
this is this is nice.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
It's nice.

Speaker 5 (02:26):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (02:26):
All of our over money went into here.

Speaker 3 (02:29):
Ye're so paid it on, man, and then something is
not it's not inn profit. It's all negative. A couple
of acts here and there.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
But but but we're not paying taxes. No taxes, no taxes, No,
we don't.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
We don't do taxes.

Speaker 7 (02:50):
That were all the virus.

Speaker 8 (02:53):
Cut cut that out, keeping my mouth, trying to trying
to close on her rest anyways, man, all right, so
hopefully we're in the when the when the making.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yeah yeah, but so I mean, you guys been doing
your podcast for a hot minute two.

Speaker 7 (03:08):
He's been doing it for four years.

Speaker 5 (03:10):
Yeah, we're going on to five years. Would be in
October this.

Speaker 3 (03:14):
Year, five years, man, okay.

Speaker 5 (03:16):
Five years. Bro.

Speaker 6 (03:17):
I had another co host and then my cousin joined
in after we took a break.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
So because there was another guy, there was another I
was like, I was looking at you, but he doesn't
look the same.

Speaker 7 (03:28):
He's brown.

Speaker 3 (03:30):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:31):
I was like, I'm like, and that's why we walked in.
I was like, they brought somebody else.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
That's all you too, And I'm like, oh, maybe I'm
just tripping.

Speaker 6 (03:39):
Yeah, but there was a different hosts. Yeah, we had
a different host. We took a break. He Uh, his
work schedule changed. That's pretty much what happened. So we
couldn't really record anymore. And I thought I was gonna
be done, man, Like I was like, that's it, it's
over with, you.

Speaker 5 (03:54):
Know, just hanging up.

Speaker 6 (03:55):
But it's fun, bro, it's fun getting together with different
people chopping it up. Even know what if if it
was just me and him and now it's like me
and my cousin.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
Yeah, it's great, man.

Speaker 5 (04:05):
We love it, bro.

Speaker 1 (04:06):
Yeah, that's the sad part about it.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
It's a love the game. Man.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
It is a love game because money never maybe or
a long time down the road right right, And like
some of our best story like we've we've had nights
where it's like just drinking, having a good time, you know,
and then sometimes you forgot to do the podcast, like
to in the morning and we're like, oh man, we

(04:31):
should have tomorrow.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
We already killed two bottles. Yeah, two bottles two in
the morning.

Speaker 4 (04:34):
Were like, I got to shoot the podcast all right, man,
set up for everything real quick, let's get this done,
you know. And even then we sell conversation for days, man.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
And it's like always like like we were telling me before,
it was like the pre podcast conversation, right, like we
get all demons and like now that we have guests,
we treated as like a just so by the time
we get into the podcast, we're just already like a
little bit of a icebreaker.

Speaker 4 (04:55):
Exactly what it is ice breakers, get the butterflies.

Speaker 3 (04:58):
You know. It's our first AI time moment, just date.

Speaker 4 (05:02):
Just two guys, a couple of bro sexuals.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
That's a man. But no, man, we're happy you guys
made the trip. Man.

Speaker 4 (05:12):
I mean, like I said, this is something we're planning
on doing it for a while and finally did it.

Speaker 5 (05:16):
Man, so thank you for having us.

Speaker 2 (05:18):
This is like I said, this is you know, you
guys have dope set up and man, that's all we
do for Yeah.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
We're doing the move ramon here. He was searching for
the apartment and we're literally looking for an apartment, which
is after it's the studio.

Speaker 4 (05:37):
No no, but we're looking for this type of place
that fits the studio.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
Nothing else.

Speaker 4 (05:42):
We gotta figure out how this is gonna be Other
places to narrow down a space. But this was perfect, man,
that was literally perfect.

Speaker 5 (05:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
No, I mean you get an apartment the city it's
a bitch. Yeah, it's I never I never thought it
would be this hard to get an apartment in the city.
Like the amount of background tracks you do, the like
you have to be, you have to be a certain
amount of credit score, certain amount of money.

Speaker 3 (06:05):
Come three or four times the whatever the rent.

Speaker 9 (06:08):
And should have just said you were an illegal, bro,
I would have given you. It would have given you
money to.

Speaker 3 (06:15):
Be tell me that.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
I think my English was too good to the right way,
the right way, But yeah, dude, it was just.

Speaker 3 (06:25):
A bitch man.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
And then you know, as we were going through the process,
I just kept asking them all, like, how do people
get out here? How do people move in the city?

Speaker 1 (06:33):
Yea and that, But how do people live in the city?

Speaker 2 (06:37):
Yeah, because there's a lot of people that you know,
working at you know, the waiters, you know, working at
restaurants living check check bro, yeah living jack check yeah,
literally check bro.

Speaker 3 (06:47):
Missing some meals.

Speaker 4 (06:49):
Some people are missing meals right now as we speak,
you know, just to make it tomorrow's run.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
Because I remember we were at at at the what
was what is it called No No No, the gay street.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
Voice voice.

Speaker 10 (07:05):
Yeah, I know, you.

Speaker 2 (07:13):
Know, we we didn't go there often, but we you know,
we stop by.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
Cheap drinks, music, heavy, cheap drinks, give music, right, the guys.

Speaker 3 (07:24):
Problem pick me up, bro, you go there, right, But
I remember.

Speaker 2 (07:31):
I don't think I need to try it out before
you start bringing it out. But yeah, I was there
with with some friends and some people that lived out
here in the city, and we need to cash. You
get into one of the bars, right, And so me
and this random guy who lives out here, we went
to the ATMs some cash and I was right behind him.

(07:54):
You know, I'm not trying to look, you know how
sometimes it pops up on the screen like your balance
you get and my boy had like two hundred dollars
is and I'm like, what are you doing out here?

Speaker 3 (08:05):
Are you surviving? Yeah? What are you doing out here too?

Speaker 1 (08:08):
I'm like they didn't make any sense to me.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
I was like, I'm like, yeah, you got a job,
you work in, you know, in a decent place, you know.
And I'm like, what two hundred dollars in this fucking
just now?

Speaker 7 (08:18):
Happy bro, living day by day, day by day.

Speaker 2 (08:21):
And I was like, holy shit. And I remember like
hit me right there in that moment where I'm just like,
that might be my life come a couple of months,
because it was like, I don't know, unless you're making
say minimum of seventy grand, yeah, that's what you want
here in this area, in this area yea.

Speaker 4 (08:41):
Yeah, because you want to go closer to the city,
and then in the city you're at least making a
hundred and undred and twenty thousand in the city.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
Yeah, you have to, but not even to like live comfortably,
just to like survive, survive and save a little bit
of money.

Speaker 3 (08:52):
Yeah, you know.

Speaker 2 (08:54):
And and I was like, god, man, dude, it was
like there was a it was a true sense of
like we're moving to because hey, supper you save all
the money, dude. Yeah, you know you buy houses like
you buy everything, right, but out here, you know, go
to grocery store, pay dollars later, you got two things,
You're like, what may do you want to move them?

Speaker 5 (09:15):
Bro?

Speaker 3 (09:16):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (09:16):
I mean I love the city. It was it was
my dream, Like it's always been my dream to live
in the city. I'm a supper guy, you know me.
So it's like, you know, this was new to us,
and we will come out here a weekend, you know,
we would come party and but we would have to
do that two hour drive back home.

Speaker 5 (09:38):
As it.

Speaker 9 (09:40):
Now, I lived in the city for so long. Yeah,
now that I move out to the Birds, I don't
ever want to come back.

Speaker 2 (09:46):
That's what everybody says, everybody from here or something.

Speaker 9 (09:48):
I can't even when we were driving in, like we
were on miss I do not miss this drive. I
do not miss the traffic. And I'm like, bro, people
taking back to the whites.

Speaker 3 (10:00):
Hey we love the white.

Speaker 5 (10:07):
Producer here man, what is it?

Speaker 2 (10:09):
What is about besides like I think it's just like
the common Yeah, you know that's definitely a big factor.

Speaker 9 (10:17):
Like me with three kids, bro, Like you know, I
growing up in the city, Like I said, I grew
up on twenty fifth and home and dude, you know,
a little village you know, Lang Kings all that. Like,
I don't want my kids growing up in that, dude.

Speaker 7 (10:30):
So for sure. Now the stuff that they're growing up with,
it's night and day compared.

Speaker 3 (10:35):
To what I grew up with.

Speaker 9 (10:39):
Yeah, stuff like that is like I don't want. I
never wanted them to experience, you know, anything like that.
Like we couldn't be out past eight o'clock, nine o'clock,
you know, stuff like that. Now you know, my kids
go outside on the street, no supervision.

Speaker 7 (10:57):
Yeah, you really think that's gonna happen in a little.

Speaker 9 (10:59):
Village now, having by that's one of like, yeah, peace,
just being peaceful, just away from everything. My parents live
or my in laws live in the city. They live
in Berwin, so we come once in a while. Yeah,
I go in and.

Speaker 3 (11:15):
Even Berwin isn't the best.

Speaker 5 (11:19):
It's not as bad.

Speaker 4 (11:20):
It's getting there though, because even like it's it's once again,
it's getting bad again, you know what I'm saying, Like,
why is it getting bad though?

Speaker 7 (11:30):
I think I think because you know, they're pushing everything.

Speaker 9 (11:34):
Out, you know, everything in the city, like all Section eight,
all that stuff.

Speaker 7 (11:39):
Now it's getting beat.

Speaker 9 (11:40):
Bought out where they got to go somewhere and they're
drinkling into these little suburbs and stuff.

Speaker 4 (11:46):
For sure, I think you made a good point, like
having a family, Yeah, you don't want to be in
the city for having a I'm.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
Gonna be fucking crazy because, like I said, I'm still
in the no I see.

Speaker 3 (11:58):
I think I see your point of view too. I
unders in your point of view because it's it's a
dangerous area if you're somewhere with the whites, different experience, right,
I want to my family here. I think that's what
it is, because definitely what.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
It is, because like every park like hey hey right there,
right there, U.

Speaker 3 (12:24):
Remember?

Speaker 2 (12:25):
But yeah, like living out in this area, like for
the most part, it's been very like calm, Like I
don't have my window down a couple of times just
because I'm bringing like uh, like Michael Stuma is from,
like the suburbs, were like I forgot my window was down,
you know what I mean, and then like my car
was fine the next day.

Speaker 9 (12:45):
Like when my when we moved out a little village
we moved into, uh, we moved out to Bridgeview.

Speaker 7 (12:50):
Okay, and it was like old Polish people there. Bro,
it was all Polish people.

Speaker 3 (12:55):
My dad.

Speaker 9 (12:55):
We used to leave our keys in the ignition like
that's how safe was.

Speaker 3 (13:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (13:00):
And then within the last like ten years, a lot
of the like Arabic community started moving into that area,
and like now it's not even known as bridge View,
it's known as Little Palestine.

Speaker 3 (13:11):
Wow.

Speaker 7 (13:12):
And you drive up there.

Speaker 9 (13:13):
Dude, and it's like a complete one eighty two. When
we first moved out there, it's just all you know, Arabic,
Palestinian food, Middle Eastern food.

Speaker 7 (13:23):
Everything is Middle Eastern out there.

Speaker 3 (13:25):
That is true. That is true, which I'm not mad
the food at all.

Speaker 10 (13:29):
All.

Speaker 2 (13:35):
But I would say this praise a lot.

Speaker 4 (13:38):
I would assume committities are pretty safe then too, right,
I would I would say the safeness is still still there, man, really?

Speaker 7 (13:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (13:45):
Because okay, So like the older Palestinian or I shouldn't
say Palestinians.

Speaker 3 (13:48):
Right, but Arabic people, Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 9 (13:50):
They have that sense of respect, right. It's the new
generation that come with that mentality of it's our way
or no way.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
Keep be a thug and be air Baic at the
same time.

Speaker 3 (14:01):
I mean, I don't know, I think that's that's not
is it a thing?

Speaker 2 (14:04):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (14:04):
I don't know you I mean, yeah, you can't.

Speaker 2 (14:06):
I mean I see these guys like jump on the
same motor cycle. Yeah, Duggan, you can't be dug in
the stream like we were presenting broycles. Then what you're talking.

Speaker 4 (14:25):
About depending there's I mean, like I said, I when
I think releasing I think a little bit more Islam
a little bit.

Speaker 7 (14:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (14:32):
So I would assume being how you know, straight, the
religion is would.

Speaker 2 (14:38):
Be he doesn't say that the parents are, but the
kids are coming in with different.

Speaker 3 (14:41):
Right, like anything else. Right, likens what you know? Bad
kids for sure? Yeah, for sure for sure? But why
is that? Is it a lot of just parenting parents
are around? Like why why? Why are they being instructive him?
These questions.

Speaker 1 (14:55):
Tell me why I just mentioned an antidote.

Speaker 7 (15:00):
Honestly, I don't know.

Speaker 9 (15:01):
I mean I think it worked for both, right, Like
why do why us as Mexicans like that too?

Speaker 7 (15:06):
Is it a lack of parents being there? Lack of
it is?

Speaker 2 (15:12):
We gotta we got to bring that back, man, And
that's what it is.

Speaker 7 (15:15):
And you can't touch kids nowadays. I beat the hell
out my.

Speaker 3 (15:20):
Brother r bro.

Speaker 7 (15:21):
They gotta learn, bro, Like that's the way I learned.

Speaker 11 (15:24):
Yeah, some ladies cross the street with their kids and
your kids like pulling your back into the crosswalk and
I'm sing hit her, hit they.

Speaker 4 (15:36):
I don't know if you've seen the boom Docks, Yes,
where he pulled the grandpa pulls out his bell. They're
they're the supermarket and the white kids acting up. You
try whipping them the belt snaps it. Little kids all
scaredy ship the same thing, dude.

Speaker 9 (15:50):
That's that's the issue. Like this new generation of parents
is like that gentle parenting. I don't know if you
heard that term. You can't say no to these kids.
You can't yell at these kids. Bro, These kids are
gonna run you over.

Speaker 5 (16:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (16:02):
They don't understand the belt.

Speaker 3 (16:05):
Yeah yeah, yeah, I mean disciplined, right, You gotta have
discipline in anything.

Speaker 1 (16:10):
Does the right way, doing it right.

Speaker 9 (16:11):
Yeah, I'm not saying whoop, yeah, whoop them right, like
for no reason. Woman is deserved right, like my kids,
Like my oldest is fifteen, and I could count, what
do you like, I could count on my hand how
many times I've hit him.

Speaker 7 (16:30):
Yeah, but it was enough to know him.

Speaker 9 (16:33):
Okay, he has that respect or that fear in me
where I don't have to do it anymore.

Speaker 5 (16:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (16:38):
And and his fear trinkle down to my little ones.
So now they see when he gets scared of me.

Speaker 3 (16:45):
Bro, scared of all generation.

Speaker 12 (16:47):
Brom, scared of all generation Bro.

Speaker 3 (16:53):
But they're gonna be great kids.

Speaker 2 (16:54):
Yeah, you know what I mean, They're gonna grow up
hopefully there's lawyers, judges, bro, manager.

Speaker 12 (17:09):
It must playing down at job right, stick around the
grad dude, podcasters, no money in this here, the torch
care of.

Speaker 3 (17:19):
The torch or comedian dude even broker than podcasters.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
It's funny because I was having this conversation with a
friend the other day and I was telling him that, like,
my dad would hit us, but he would hit us,
and then at like the five ten minute mark, you
would come back and he'd be like, you guys want
some ice cream?

Speaker 9 (17:39):
My dad used to say, bro, my dad used to
whoop me, like bad bro. He would grab a piece
of like a tree branch. Yes, he would beat beat
the hell out of me for no reason, dude. And
then like an hour later, Hey, you want to order
some pizza?

Speaker 2 (17:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (17:56):
Like yeah, well, like grab your Poppy're.

Speaker 2 (18:05):
Like yeah, yeah, my should buddy, Come on, no, but
I think that's the way to do it.

Speaker 1 (18:13):
Did you hit him?

Speaker 2 (18:14):
Give him, give him a second to embrace that fucking fear,
and then you come back.

Speaker 1 (18:17):
You're like, hey, you want to go get some ice cream?

Speaker 7 (18:19):
You know how I screwed up on the head?

Speaker 3 (18:23):
Hey?

Speaker 2 (18:24):
He life sucks, bro, right, life sucks sometimes better that
they'd be like, I'm angry for you the rest of
the day.

Speaker 10 (18:29):
I don't want me here and there because I would
sunk up. And he'd be like, I'm doing this because I.

Speaker 7 (18:34):
Love you, Like yeah, up, dude, yeah, he's.

Speaker 10 (18:37):
Like, you're making me do this.

Speaker 7 (18:38):
I don't want to do that. That's that's making me angry.
That's what I do with my wife. Bro, I hit it.
You're then putting those salt on those beans. I love you.

Speaker 3 (18:53):
I'm just kidding, not the beans man, the beans from
the can. Bro mine, yeah hotly, Yeah, hit him twice
from me.

Speaker 10 (19:04):
Right like st him love bro, a hand coming.

Speaker 3 (19:13):
I don't think you know how to listen.

Speaker 7 (19:15):
Bro, she's dead.

Speaker 10 (19:17):
Bro, she listened all right.

Speaker 3 (19:24):
For sure.

Speaker 9 (19:25):
Just sometimes you gotta they force your hands, hand slips.

Speaker 3 (19:33):
Shake him real hard, dude.

Speaker 2 (19:35):
It's like I'll never hit a woman, but I shake
the funk fucking you get it.

Speaker 3 (19:40):
What's called shake the babies? This baby's baby? Yeah, I
know it's real thing.

Speaker 13 (19:47):
I'm gonna joke around who after so like they tell
them mothers newborns, They're like, listen, like you're gonna want
to shake this baby.

Speaker 10 (19:57):
Just don't shake it all right, you're gonna kill You're
gonna be up all night like just sleep deprived. Just
you just had a baby, dude, Like that's so what bro?

Speaker 7 (20:08):
Tough enough?

Speaker 3 (20:09):
Yeah that's work, bro. I get home.

Speaker 2 (20:13):
I never want to take my baby once.

Speaker 9 (20:16):
You got you guys have kids in that I dot yeah, yeah,
eleven eleven, Yeah, I understand.

Speaker 2 (20:26):
Man, I'm honestly, dude, I think I'm infernally, I think
I'm in there's a little part of me.

Speaker 5 (20:33):
You're pregnant.

Speaker 2 (20:33):
I mean I've done enough. I've done enough where not
even like not.

Speaker 1 (20:41):
Even like an accident.

Speaker 2 (20:41):
You don't say, yeah, you know what I mean, Like,
I'm not that good like the put mef. It works,
but I'm not the best at it, you know, Like
I still let it drip drip.

Speaker 3 (20:54):
The market.

Speaker 2 (20:57):
Simmer and the pre comfortle thing, right, I guess I
got there kids, dude, he was working kind of Yeah,
what is that?

Speaker 5 (21:06):
What are those? Bro?

Speaker 2 (21:09):
That market took a hit? It was the last time
you you wear a coldom once?

Speaker 4 (21:13):
Twice in my adult life? Yeah, yeah, not lot. I
think literally twice out of my adult life. I mean
when you're in high school.

Speaker 3 (21:20):
That's all.

Speaker 1 (21:21):
Yeah school only high school, yeah, only high school.

Speaker 3 (21:23):
Yeah. After that, you get your first first time bro
put a bag over myself.

Speaker 7 (21:33):
Literally brod Yeah, I got one.

Speaker 5 (21:42):
That's wild. That's wild.

Speaker 3 (21:46):
There was a last of you guys, use it, man, my.

Speaker 2 (21:49):
Boy, never.

Speaker 7 (21:51):
I have my kid younger. I was eighteen eighteen. I
grew up with that one.

Speaker 2 (21:58):
It's the first time I got bront That sounds like.

Speaker 7 (22:00):
Where are those?

Speaker 3 (22:01):
Bro? I lost Virginie and I became my father on
the same hit.

Speaker 2 (22:06):
Bro, I've got that, dude?

Speaker 7 (22:11):
What you for you thinking?

Speaker 3 (22:12):
Dude?

Speaker 2 (22:13):
I mean just fear man.

Speaker 7 (22:14):
Have you gonna get tested?

Speaker 5 (22:15):
No?

Speaker 3 (22:15):
No, no, I don't think he is, man, I don't
think he is.

Speaker 7 (22:18):
You got to find the right girl.

Speaker 5 (22:19):
That's what it is.

Speaker 3 (22:19):
What it is? Maybe, yeah, it's not.

Speaker 1 (22:22):
You're right, it's damn, it's damn.

Speaker 3 (22:25):
I gotta stay it from them thirty. You gotta stay
away from thirty year olds. Man, alright, I go younger. Yeah,
twenty four up, twenty four not yeah, all right.

Speaker 5 (22:34):
Down.

Speaker 3 (22:37):
But you really want to make it twenty one out
forty yeah, twenty to twenty one to twenty nine. That's
your window right there. Make it happen cool? Yeah? Yeah,
who thirties to young? Tell me to you to you
for you?

Speaker 2 (22:48):
Man?

Speaker 5 (22:48):
What about you?

Speaker 7 (22:48):
Man?

Speaker 1 (22:48):
You have kids, no kids, and we both finally.

Speaker 5 (22:53):
Right there with you.

Speaker 2 (22:55):
Don't even know there was an option.

Speaker 7 (22:58):
He got he got dog, kids.

Speaker 3 (23:00):
Got white.

Speaker 1 (23:02):
Bro, you wake you wake up to walk your dogs
in morning.

Speaker 5 (23:04):
All the time.

Speaker 10 (23:06):
Month my dog doesn't piss on my beds.

Speaker 2 (23:10):
And how many dogs you have to bro got like
man dogs are like, oh, you're gonna love this.

Speaker 3 (23:18):
What do you have?

Speaker 1 (23:19):
Like little little we're gonna talk about that.

Speaker 5 (23:24):
You got small dogs, bro, small dogs? Okay, okay, I
got a little small dogs.

Speaker 3 (23:27):
More ship bro alright, that's that's that's.

Speaker 5 (23:30):
Not bad babies. Huh babies.

Speaker 3 (23:34):
They are just straight the mouth, dude, you go to work.

Speaker 2 (23:40):
I got.

Speaker 10 (23:40):
I got a little pug. Ship to the next thing. Okay,
I used to know, but I used to have big dogs,
had hus mix and great parentees. That was like one
eighty five dude.

Speaker 5 (23:49):
Oh yeah, some dogs.

Speaker 14 (23:52):
When I got during COVID, somebody said they founded on
their property and find a home for it.

Speaker 10 (23:57):
I was like, I'm taking them in.

Speaker 7 (23:59):
Yeah, I can't tell you.

Speaker 1 (24:00):
Sorry about dog, so.

Speaker 7 (24:04):
Change the conversation.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
So all right, sorry, I got a cough. So I'm
not a dog person. I'm not a cat person. I'm
not a dog person, but I prefer dogs, you know
what I mean. But I'm just not the kind of
guy that wakes up in the morning walk the dog.

Speaker 1 (24:26):
I don't pet dogs. Like all my dogs have had
the same name.

Speaker 2 (24:30):
Get away from Me, like one one be gone. We
had so like my family they love you know, they
like dogs and all that stuff. I'm just the one
person doesn't. But we had this like German shepherd. We
had it for like three months. I mean we got
like a puppy right like, you know, right to the
point where it starts getting you know, getting its size.

(24:51):
And you know, we're Mexicans, so like we treat him
like a Mexican dog, you know, kept on.

Speaker 3 (24:56):
The garage, you know, fed it kept alive.

Speaker 2 (25:00):
But we were walking walking yeah, no walking, no training,
none of that stuff. And it was just, you know,
I kept telling my parents. I'm like, I'm like, man,
this dog deserves better. Like I'm on an asshole, you know,
if I see an animal in a cage, it makes
me you know, sad.

Speaker 3 (25:16):
Right and got heart man.

Speaker 1 (25:18):
And we were like we got to get the dog away.

Speaker 2 (25:20):
We gotta get away, like we're not giving it a
good life, stuck in the garage, just barking all night,
you know.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
And so we my dad met a couple. He was
doing a job for them.

Speaker 2 (25:31):
They had to go a farm, and they had just
mentioned that they were looking for a dog, and that's like,
all that's funny because I got a dog.

Speaker 1 (25:42):
Yeah, I got a dog that's locked up and looking
for a good home.

Speaker 2 (25:46):
And they're like, oh cool, give us your pictures, shown
pictures and they're like, oh yeah, you get sure, yes
I want them. It's like I was like, no, you
always can't take care of blah blah blah. All right, cool,
so we'll yeah, we'll take the dog.

Speaker 7 (25:56):
Dude.

Speaker 2 (25:56):
I've never seen a dog run faster away from my dude. Literally,
that was my dog. It was our dog. The moment
white people walked in, ran up linking the hell out
of him, dude, And and there's a white girl. She's like,

(26:17):
oh my god, my god, you're so cute, like saying
all these things we had never said to the dog.
And then she goes, hey, so what's the dog's name.
I'm like, ghosts, we gain a stupid and they were
like ghost and she's like, oh, he's gonna call Benjamin
the fucking Benjamin.

Speaker 3 (26:34):
Dude.

Speaker 2 (26:34):
Literally, dude did like a fucking front lip, a front flip.
Dude jumped in the air, fucking didn't mean way back.

Speaker 10 (26:42):
Door open.

Speaker 2 (26:45):
Dude ran out, jumped in their car, dude, and then
the door. I remember, I remember the girls. She goes like, hey,
don't worry, We'll send you guys pictures and updates with something.
And I'm like, hey, get out of here.

Speaker 3 (27:02):
It's like, give you.

Speaker 2 (27:03):
I don't care about not even ghosting where Benjamin like,
girls died as soon as they walked out of the house.

Speaker 7 (27:12):
That's crazy.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
But no, white people TREATO dogs good man. White people
want you, man people. Yeah, that's abut of life.

Speaker 3 (27:24):
Well, I got a wife riend like that. Yeah, okay, okay, married?

Speaker 2 (27:29):
Yeah, you got any tips for sing guys? I guess,
And it's just what single guys. You know, we're not married,
so we don't go to boys town.

Speaker 3 (27:39):
Put that, write that down, put that chucklest girls there.

Speaker 5 (27:43):
I'm not interested yet.

Speaker 7 (27:45):
I can't promise that the girls that go there might
not be girls.

Speaker 3 (27:50):
That's right.

Speaker 4 (27:52):
It feels nice the grandma really, Yeah, that's biceps. A
lot of things work hard, you know.

Speaker 1 (28:00):
I'll give some tips, man, what is how do you
How do you have a good marriage?

Speaker 5 (28:02):
Man?

Speaker 9 (28:04):
Communication? Bro communication, communication and learning how to accept.

Speaker 7 (28:08):
When you're wrong.

Speaker 3 (28:10):
Okay, but we're never wrong.

Speaker 7 (28:11):
Yeah, that's what'll get you in trouble.

Speaker 2 (28:14):
Wait a minute, what.

Speaker 1 (28:17):
Communication and accepting when you're not wrong, but just submitting
to it.

Speaker 3 (28:21):
Let me ask you this, how many times you right?
Always right? Bro?

Speaker 2 (28:25):
You can't know that.

Speaker 5 (28:27):
You gotta let them win.

Speaker 7 (28:28):
Sometimes we gotta take your battles, bro. Some battles are
worth it.

Speaker 9 (28:32):
Some battles are just like there's sometimes that my wife
wants to start arguing and I'm sitting there like, okay,
do I want to argue?

Speaker 3 (28:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (28:39):
Or do I want to get laid all right? I
was just like, okay, yeah, you're right, I messed up whatever,
take your clothes off. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (28:55):
But it's communication, And it's not that it's not that hard.

Speaker 9 (28:57):
It's just it's not as hard as people make it
as of right, it's not something unachievable.

Speaker 7 (29:01):
It's just literally just being open.

Speaker 3 (29:04):
That's the biggest saying, being open to new things, because
a lot of people are not open at all. There's
like the one way of thinking, and that's it my
way or the highway. Yeah.

Speaker 9 (29:14):
Well, my wife and I, like, we we dated when
we were in high school, so we yeah, we yes,
but we when we had our oldest we ended up
breaking up like almost right away, and we co parents.
It for four years and then we ended up getting
back together getting married. But the reason why we broke

(29:36):
up was because of me, Like what I saw my
dad as machista typical Mexican dad is my way. If
you know I'm right, you know you do this, you
do that, and only what I say goes. So I
thought that was the right thing to do. I thought
that was that was a relationship. Well that's how it
should be. I lost my girl, I lost my kid
in a sense because I would only see him twice

(29:58):
a month for sure, and I had to sit down
self reflect.

Speaker 7 (30:01):
And be like, Okay, maybe what I was doing isn't right.

Speaker 9 (30:03):
So it took me four years to turn that around,
and I apologize to her when we got back together,
and I was like, hey, I messed up. I shouldn't
have treated you that. I shouldn't have treated the relationship
that way. And yeah, yeah, ten years.

Speaker 4 (30:18):
Later, Okay, wow, wow, congrats man, honestly, congrats, thank you.
The selfish, the self reflect reflect part man, the knowing
or accepting that you're wrong. Like I said, a lot
of people know how to even start how to even
trip that away you go, like the therapy or anything like.

Speaker 3 (30:36):
That bro, just a couple of dunk nights. I'm alone.
I had a bit of years.

Speaker 7 (30:43):
It was literally, like you, I.

Speaker 3 (30:50):
Honestly, what what what was a little click, a little
what's the word? I'm looking for you using a lot
eureka eureka moments.

Speaker 7 (30:57):
It's not seeing my kid.

Speaker 9 (30:59):
Yeah, not seeing my son, you know, from seeing him
every day to see him twice a month, just missing
out on him walking, him talking.

Speaker 7 (31:11):
That is literally what it took me.

Speaker 9 (31:13):
I know it's for everybody's different, right, everybody that could
have been something else, But for me it was that
it was my kid. My kid was everything and I
would have done anything for him, and that anything just
happened to be changed myself, right, So that's.

Speaker 3 (31:27):
What it was for me.

Speaker 5 (31:28):
That was good man.

Speaker 3 (31:29):
You good.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
Some dance not that good, but no, that's great man.

Speaker 2 (31:37):
So man, So you got back together after four years
and had two more kids with her?

Speaker 7 (31:41):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (31:42):
We yeah, so we got back together, dated for another
two years and then uh got engaged, got married and
then had the two other kids.

Speaker 3 (31:50):
We're gonna make up lost time maybe, girl, sir.

Speaker 9 (31:54):
That's why there's a big age difference. Fifteen and then
six and five six okay.

Speaker 1 (31:59):
Wow, wow, did you was it? Was it hard with
her dating other men when you get separated.

Speaker 7 (32:06):
Yeah, but not because of I was jealous with her. Yeah,
it was how are you treating my son?

Speaker 5 (32:12):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (32:13):
The thought of another man being in my son's life
is what like ate at me right, Like in my head,
I was just sit there at night wondering what he
was doing and just even thinking, damn, dude, someone else
is in my spot. Someone else's is seeing what I
can't see. That's what I was more pissed off of.

(32:34):
I'm not like her life was her life.

Speaker 1 (32:36):
Yeah, we never talked.

Speaker 9 (32:38):
Our relationship for those four years was literally, hey are
you picking him up this weekend?

Speaker 3 (32:44):
Yes? I am?

Speaker 5 (32:44):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (32:45):
Every two weeks was the exact same conversation, No, hey,
how are you hey? This about nothing. It was literally
strictly just business.

Speaker 4 (32:53):
About to ask I know yourself, you reflected and all that. Yeah,
but how did she take it? Like, hey, let's how
did you How did you even approach that conversation after
four years?

Speaker 5 (33:06):
You know?

Speaker 3 (33:06):
Well it was tough, like like how do you tell
her like like, hey, so to get back together?

Speaker 5 (33:12):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (33:12):
So that's literally what it was.

Speaker 9 (33:14):
That one of the first nights that we did get back,
like we were starting to like kind of rekindle, we
actually went too.

Speaker 3 (33:21):
Hey dude. Yeah.

Speaker 9 (33:22):
It was like because at that time it was like, uh,
we were kind of talking already, like back and forth,
but I still wasn't.

Speaker 7 (33:29):
Sure where she was.

Speaker 3 (33:31):
Where she was yeah for sure?

Speaker 9 (33:33):
So I literally posted on Facebook. It was literally a
Facebook post. I was like, Hey, I'm hungry, who wants
to go eat tackles? At twelve o'clock at night?

Speaker 7 (33:41):
Midnight? And she texted me like thirty minutes later, She's like, hey,
is the offer still up? And I was like, what
the hell?

Speaker 3 (33:48):
First move?

Speaker 7 (33:49):
Yeah, I was like yeah, I'm like I'll pick you up,
and you.

Speaker 2 (33:53):
Know, what about your kids?

Speaker 3 (33:56):
Literally right?

Speaker 5 (33:57):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (33:57):
And then I yeah, I picked her up and uh,
we talked. We sat at twenty four hours yeah before yeah,
there for a while.

Speaker 9 (34:08):
And that's when I told them I'm like, hey, look,
you know, if if we do go down this road,
I want you to know it's not I'm not the
same person and I've learned what I did before was
a mistake, and you know, I just apologize to her
and she accepted my apologies.

Speaker 7 (34:26):
She apologized for things that she did too, and luckily
we're here.

Speaker 9 (34:30):
Now what is that like, we're killing the relationship you
once had? Is did you go right back into it?
It almost felt like we didn't miss a step.

Speaker 3 (34:39):
Really.

Speaker 9 (34:40):
Yeah, well, in a way because obviously we're four years
is a long time and we're different people at four years,
you know, because if if you don't at the end
of those four years or there's four years past, if
you if you're still the same person that you were
four years ago, then you completely wasted four years.

Speaker 3 (34:59):
Of your life, you feel yourself.

Speaker 5 (35:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (35:01):
Yeah, So in a way like once we rekindled, once
we realized that we still had that thing for each other,
it was like we just hopp right back on and
it was just smooth saling mineus, the fact of me
trying to be you know, macho. You can't hang out
with your friends, you can't do this, you can't do that.
It was more open, more free, and yeah, so yeah

(35:23):
it was it was. But it did feel good. Yeah,
it did feel good. We were terrified though, because our
son was now for for sure, right, our son was
for so now it's like he was seeing me more
so now if God forbid, something did happen how are
we going to break it to him?

Speaker 7 (35:40):
Hey, mom and dad are not going to be hanging
out though.

Speaker 1 (35:43):
Yeah, yeah, right, So that's.

Speaker 7 (35:44):
Where our little his station hesitation was, but for.

Speaker 4 (35:49):
Sure hesitation, but also like a reason to keep working
with one another. Yeah, it's not gonna be perfect, but
there's a reason why they keep working.

Speaker 5 (35:58):
You know.

Speaker 3 (35:58):
When people lose that reason, thats why everything just falls
to apart.

Speaker 5 (36:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (36:03):
Yeah, and the issue too of it.

Speaker 9 (36:05):
A lot of marriages now is the first sign of
trouble people. That's why there's such a high divorce rate
that's like sixty Well people like just.

Speaker 4 (36:17):
Now, just in simple relationships, the first sign is like
all right, cool, mam, I got I got Julian and
this guy waiting for me. You know what, I'm saying
the same thing with the guys off Mario Jostling.

Speaker 14 (36:28):
You know why I'm holding out for everybody to be
on like their first or second divorce and I'm just
going to clean house.

Speaker 10 (36:33):
Man was my second husband. I just want to have
fun with.

Speaker 4 (36:41):
Hit me up no for like you said, yeah, the
first son of of anything? People don't I mean, did
you get married through civil or through church?

Speaker 5 (36:50):
Church?

Speaker 3 (36:51):
Church?

Speaker 4 (36:51):
Which I think the mean, the most most important vows
to death, through life, through rich and poor, good health,
bad health, everything. You know, a lot of people don't
believe in those those ideals anymore.

Speaker 9 (37:05):
Unfortunately a lot of people don't, which is nothing wrong
with it either, right, Like, if that's what they want
to do with that, yeah.

Speaker 3 (37:11):
Make your own choice.

Speaker 10 (37:13):
But some people are just not right for each other.
But they keep trying. Man, Yeah, just got to be like,
cut this out.

Speaker 5 (37:19):
It's toxic.

Speaker 7 (37:20):
Yeah, toxic.

Speaker 4 (37:21):
Well, it depends if you know. Like I said, I
guess that point of toxicity. Yeah, you got call it quits,
but you keep you know, something goes wrong, but you
just keep trying. But the love is still there. And
that's the relationship is going to be. You know what
I'm saying. It's not going to be perfect, not always
gonna be perfect. Some day might be broken, hopefully she's
still there. Some day you're gonna be sick, hopefully you're
still there, and vice versa.

Speaker 1 (37:40):
You know, I think that's the thing, right, is to
ride and die. Yeah, that's hard to find.

Speaker 2 (37:44):
The one person is gonna be like you know what,
you know, like it says right bad or worse, good
or worse?

Speaker 1 (37:49):
You know like I will, I will be there. Yeah,
and a lot of people run. Just like you said,
it's like the moment of a little bit of weakness
or a.

Speaker 3 (37:56):
Moment of adversity, right, versity.

Speaker 9 (37:58):
Yeah, And that also has to with openness, like I said,
like I said earlier, openness.

Speaker 7 (38:02):
Like a lot of us guys, we don't want to talk.

Speaker 9 (38:05):
About anything to our wives that might worry them, right,
financial stuff, mental stuff.

Speaker 3 (38:12):
I mean, go to your boys for that, for sure.

Speaker 4 (38:14):
You you, I mean the way I see it this
is you go to your boys first to get all
the facts laid out, and then once you have an answer,
you to go back to the wife and like, hey,
I have an answer to her.

Speaker 3 (38:25):
Whatever the issue is going to be.

Speaker 2 (38:27):
Is gonna tell you about.

Speaker 3 (38:29):
Anything? Right? Maybe?

Speaker 4 (38:31):
Maybe maybe that's but we find but maybe even then,
like I still feel like some things she does not
need to know. You know what I'm saying, there's issues.
Guess what I'm not bring theosations to the house. I'm
gonna figure out what my guy friends we're talking about,
and we find a solution everyone.

Speaker 1 (38:48):
I think I think it's a comfort level.

Speaker 9 (38:50):
Yeah, it's a comfort because my wife and I I
could talk to my wife about anything anything financial, mental, anything,
And there's no one in this world that I trust
more than her. So whatever I'm dealing with, I'm gonna
tell her. I could go to my boys or my
like my boys, right, I don't. I don't really have
like close boyfriends like that. Well yeah, but like like

(39:16):
my my brother for example, Like my brother is my
right hand, uh, next to my my wife. But like
I go to my wife first. My wife is like
she were when we got married in church, we became one.

Speaker 7 (39:32):
So my problems are her problems. Her problems are my problems.

Speaker 9 (39:36):
And I'm that's just the way I see it. People
maybe not, they don't see it that way, you know,
but I don't. I don't mind talking to my wife.

Speaker 7 (39:45):
About that stuff. And it took a while because it's
it's the same thing.

Speaker 9 (39:50):
It's like, damn, bro, I'm the man of the house.
I shouldn't be talking to you about financial stuff. I
shouldn't be talking to you about this stuff. But we're
in the world now that we have to work together
there or else it's not gonna.

Speaker 4 (40:01):
Work well, I mean with everything rising costs. Yeah, that's
it's a two team thing. Man, It's not like back
in the day. You know our grandfather's got you know
race two families? You know grand apparently apparently Yeah, dad's
family ship.

Speaker 10 (40:15):
Well move down the block and have another family that's.

Speaker 3 (40:19):
Accounty was good, bro booming.

Speaker 2 (40:22):
That's a sign if you're dad can the four two families?

Speaker 3 (40:26):
How do you do? Fantastic?

Speaker 6 (40:31):
I want you guys though, man, real quick? Like the
single life, bro. Yeah, your mid thirties, bro, single like.

Speaker 3 (40:40):
It makes my diet tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (40:42):
You want to you want the truth or you want jokes?

Speaker 3 (40:47):
Next? Next?

Speaker 2 (40:47):
Man, First, I'll see, I'll keep it truth. You keep
keeping jokes, like right, Okay. The reality as a thirty
four year old man, single, no kids, there is there
is a part of me that feels a sense of

(41:09):
like failure in the sense of like like I'm talking
to this girl, Curly, and I've told her like my
my biggest Like what I feel with my biggest failure
in life Curly right now is it's not having kids,
because I feel like I've taken that away from my grandparents,
from my parents, and for them to know their grandparents
like I knew my grand my grandparents, you know, I

(41:29):
have memories of them. I cherish moments that I had
with them. And I'm thirty four. You know, my parents
are getting older, so the reality is that my kids
won't have the same amount of time that I had
with my grandparents, and and and I feel and.

Speaker 1 (41:47):
I don't like that, like it does.

Speaker 2 (41:48):
It just caused me pain knowing that there might be
a opportunity where you know, I'm on my third kid
or my fourth kid or whatever the case is, and
my parents not around anymore. And that's painful knowing, like
that's the true reality of of where I am at
my age. Right when I was growing up, I thought
I would be married by you know, twenty five kids,

(42:11):
you know, like now, like that would be like at
least my final kid or something, right, But the reality is,
you know, like I'm thirty four, you know, I mean
at the moment, there's no you know future where there's
a you know, a child in my life.

Speaker 1 (42:26):
So you know, that sucks.

Speaker 3 (42:28):
That's painful.

Speaker 2 (42:29):
And every day that goes by, like it hurts.

Speaker 3 (42:31):
Just a little bit more, you know. I mean, like
that sham right down right there, right right clip.

Speaker 2 (42:44):
But yeah, that's the reality that you know, I should
nkock somebody up.

Speaker 3 (42:48):
I literally, you know, this guy just brother, Yeah, just
get in there. The yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:55):
Yeah, no, that's that's that's that's the reality of it.

Speaker 2 (42:57):
Yeah, being single thirty four, I mean as rosen conros
and cons, it's the eighty is harder than ever.

Speaker 3 (43:06):
Yeah, because there's just too many avenues.

Speaker 2 (43:08):
The suck, the apps suck, and then you can you
can get something going on app and people because there's
so many options coming at you, especially for a woman,
there's so many options come to you at one time.

Speaker 3 (43:19):
Every day.

Speaker 1 (43:20):
You can literally choose every day, get mister right.

Speaker 2 (43:23):
Yeah, there's forty guys hitting up a pretty woman every day,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (43:26):
And so you know she's like, well, this guy is not.

Speaker 2 (43:29):
Funny, or he said one thing wrong, he misspelled this
one word, he didn't laugh the way and want him
to laugh.

Speaker 1 (43:35):
Whatever the cases. But they'll find an excuse him.

Speaker 7 (43:36):
They can choose.

Speaker 3 (43:39):
Every little detailed du But at the same day, I
may interrupt.

Speaker 4 (43:43):
That's hurting them too, because as we get older, they
get older too, you know what I'm saying. I mean,
we're still focused on what we're gonna do, right, but
for them, they have a time clock so many years
we can have a healthy kid. Even then, I know
technology medicine is advance, but even then you still have
a small window with.

Speaker 10 (44:02):
The money for all that ship.

Speaker 3 (44:03):
Dude, it's crazy exactly what I'm saying. You have a
have a window to do it free. You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 10 (44:09):
Yeah, I know a couple of people that did the
I v F virtual.

Speaker 14 (44:13):
It's expensive, bro, and they've gone through like five or
six different times, man, and like one finally caught. They
were hopeful and I'm like everyone just say your person
and unfortunately lost and they're like, we can't keep doing this.

Speaker 2 (44:25):
We want a kid, but yeah that will cost Yeah,
bro't ad you know people doing against hard.

Speaker 10 (44:33):
To do so you want a kid, I can get
your kids.

Speaker 3 (44:41):
Right your gold fishing.

Speaker 10 (44:43):
Well, you know what, you get a kid, you get
to gold fishing.

Speaker 7 (44:48):
But you said the girl you're talking to a high
she feel but like the kids are no, kids are no?

Speaker 1 (44:53):
No, I mean she's four kids, that's not an issue.

Speaker 7 (44:56):
It's just uh kids.

Speaker 2 (44:58):
It's like but just like in the OL, like you
want to have kids with right person too, for sure,
because the last thing I want at this point that
you might as just start having that. I was like
this I'm not even asking. I'm you know, I got
the but I joke around. I'm like if I'm infertile,

(45:18):
and like, man, dude, you know how many times I
could have just shot without like.

Speaker 1 (45:24):
Like the's gonna be a party one.

Speaker 10 (45:25):
Like like if you are, I'll donate so you can.

Speaker 3 (45:30):
Have it Rambo.

Speaker 1 (45:32):
He'll look like me.

Speaker 2 (45:34):
You're like, yeah, like no offs room, but shoot all
you want. Hey, you know, I mean every shot you
don't make, every shot you don't take.

Speaker 10 (45:41):
You know, I didn't even shoot her. My best friend's
sister's kid looks exactly like ya.

Speaker 1 (45:51):
Just by vicinity. You were like because you were around
so often.

Speaker 14 (45:55):
During COVID, all of a sudden, they're like started getting
blind hair and like holding him up next to the husband.

Speaker 3 (46:01):
Like something up here.

Speaker 7 (46:04):
Yeah that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (46:06):
What about you man?

Speaker 3 (46:07):
Why no kids?

Speaker 5 (46:10):
Like yeah, yeah, I don't know. And real ship, we've
been trying. We've been trying.

Speaker 6 (46:17):
Yeah, we've gone through like the process of getting tested
or whatever.

Speaker 5 (46:21):
Yeah, I'm good.

Speaker 3 (46:26):
You would never but he it is what it is from.
But like anything, guys, you know that there's certain windows.

Speaker 4 (46:36):
Of course, you know all that, right course, you know
I do you gotta do it like four times a day, bro,
get it in there, brother.

Speaker 7 (46:42):
That's a lot of time.

Speaker 9 (46:50):
The full moon.

Speaker 10 (46:52):
Do it in the moonlight.

Speaker 2 (46:57):
But that's the reality of it, right, because they're like, yeah,
they're just like the Schaels. They got to hit in
the right moment, with the right time.

Speaker 1 (47:03):
You know, her hazard be on the right spot.

Speaker 2 (47:06):
But we're Mexican.

Speaker 1 (47:07):
You put us in the cage.

Speaker 4 (47:10):
I mean I could say this that. I mean with
food and technology, man like our sperm increasing, its decreasing.

Speaker 1 (47:19):
Microplastics, micropast all that is.

Speaker 3 (47:22):
It's decreasing our tential be able to reproduce. I mean
it's affecting the same with women, especially women have been
on birth control for many minutes.

Speaker 1 (47:32):
I've heard I don't know if it's true, but I
heard it that.

Speaker 3 (47:38):
Men hate.

Speaker 1 (47:41):
Have got it, have shrunk.

Speaker 2 (47:43):
Taints hat.

Speaker 3 (47:48):
Is shrinking?

Speaker 1 (47:49):
What does that mean bychoplastics?

Speaker 3 (47:52):
What does that mean? I don't understand what is it?
Look at it right, what does a good shrink? You
have anything?

Speaker 2 (48:00):
Not?

Speaker 10 (48:02):
Yea Theresa?

Speaker 2 (48:04):
Brokay, sorry, well we're not to say in this defense.

Speaker 7 (48:11):
I heard I heard he heard wrong your history.

Speaker 1 (48:16):
Get let me let me ask you, guys, says all right,
cut out of the podcast.

Speaker 3 (48:19):
If you're at a chick you know, touched the cheroo
the chero.

Speaker 2 (48:25):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, my boy, my boy with.

Speaker 3 (48:30):
Okay, okay, cool, yeah, why not?

Speaker 1 (48:34):
Let me ask you why not he's married?

Speaker 7 (48:36):
Man, I'm married, bro exactly.

Speaker 3 (48:37):
Especially yes, I can't do it to my wife. Random
bitch though.

Speaker 10 (48:49):
Like the rise of autism, yeah, I know, like the
the vaccinations, bro.

Speaker 14 (48:55):
Like, but all this ship now where it's like I
remember growing up, the big thing was like there was
a lot more down singer people.

Speaker 10 (49:00):
I know they're still out there, but it was just kind.

Speaker 1 (49:02):
Of like on the forefront of like, you know, what's
crazy about that? And I think it's look, they'll check.

Speaker 7 (49:07):
My check fact checking. I think it's.

Speaker 2 (49:13):
I think in Sweden they literally don't have anybody thousand
because because they just terminate the pricy as soon as.

Speaker 3 (49:22):
They find soon as they find.

Speaker 14 (49:23):
But they were doing they were also like closing their borders,
like genetic testing, like they were like, yeah, you're tall
and handsome and blue eyed, you're gonna I think.

Speaker 7 (49:35):
That's I think that's how Poland is, isn't it.

Speaker 3 (49:39):
Poland's open for everybody, but you gotta do it the
right way, which is the right way. Yeah no, no
because no, no because and the borders. If you try
to cross the border, you getting shot. Poland, Bro, they
have on kill.

Speaker 2 (49:56):
For real, they got muskets due.

Speaker 10 (50:04):
I'm Polish, Like you said himself.

Speaker 2 (50:08):
You remember when when the Hitler came away, he ran
up with horses and tanks.

Speaker 4 (50:14):
Well, I mean touch the theory, my boy. But yes,
they as soon as they have they detect anything. They
right away determined the pregnancy.

Speaker 5 (50:25):
Yeah yeah, you guys real quick.

Speaker 3 (50:28):
Bro.

Speaker 6 (50:28):
So now that you're guys are older, I don't want
to call it requirements, bro, but have requirements changed from
when you were older?

Speaker 5 (50:35):
I'm younger. I've got looking into females.

Speaker 1 (50:38):
You know, I've got to pick.

Speaker 2 (50:39):
I've got a picture I think my boy, my boy victors.

Speaker 6 (50:42):
But also, like, have you accepted that you're pretty much
going to be a stepdad? Hey no, So you're still
looking for someone with no kids?

Speaker 3 (50:50):
Yeah for sure?

Speaker 10 (50:51):
Yeah last year, Like I've already to be a stepdad.

Speaker 3 (50:55):
Yeah. Well you you have your reasons. You said don't
have kids, which you should.

Speaker 1 (51:00):
No, But I think that's a fair question.

Speaker 10 (51:01):
But is a fair question?

Speaker 2 (51:04):
Yeah I know because yeah, because I'm I'm bad age.
So the reality is yeah, for sure, there's like a
point of me where I'm like, look, I'm like, it
is what it is, is what it is.

Speaker 7 (51:13):
Yeah, Like.

Speaker 2 (51:16):
There's levels of the game too, Right, we're not talking
about four kids. We're not talking about like two may
one you know what's the max, right one.

Speaker 1 (51:24):
We're like, I think it really depends on the mom.

Speaker 2 (51:32):
Like if she is phenomenal, right, and I'm like, yeah,
she has a kid, you know, just a small percentage smaller.
She is phenomenal and she's great, and she's better than
a bunch of these single women with no kids. I mean,
I don't I don't think that's a bad trade off.

Speaker 7 (51:47):
What are the kids.

Speaker 2 (51:48):
Like a teenager, I think he's he's down five years
at the high school. You goes street to college paid
for too.

Speaker 3 (52:01):
Yeah yeah yeah yeah me and your mom now brother.

Speaker 2 (52:06):
Yeah yeah no, I mean yeah, being older, Yeah, that's
that's a that's a real possibility.

Speaker 4 (52:10):
I I always said that as we get older, I
mean we're financially becoming more stable, more money more, that's
more that we're investing more things, We're investing towards the future.
So to have a younger woman, twenty two, twenty three,
twenty four. That possibility is still there man, as long
of course you take care of yourself and you do

(52:31):
the right things necessary. But yeah, I don't I don't think.
I don't think single mom is well't like the grandma
says she's phenomenal, one a million cool, you know, But
the possibility is not having a single mom.

Speaker 3 (52:43):
It's still there.

Speaker 4 (52:43):
Was the oldest there, the oldest. He'll go twenty two
to take a serious, to take serious, the oldest, And
see right now, I'm thirty three. I would take uh,
twenty eight, twenty nine, twenty nine is a cutoff for
me to take you serious?

Speaker 14 (53:01):
Well, the equation is, yeah, half your age plus nine
you're cut off is twenty five point five.

Speaker 3 (53:08):
Twenty five point five. I'll take that. Twenty five is perfect,
twenty first perfect, twenty one is perfect, twenty two is perfect.
Anything above twenty one perfect.

Speaker 1 (53:17):
Ask about how young he'll go.

Speaker 3 (53:22):
One on youngest.

Speaker 10 (53:24):
I'm all sitting at the bar rating twenty first birthday.

Speaker 7 (53:27):
Yeah, because this quagmire from family guys.

Speaker 5 (53:33):
No, but.

Speaker 3 (53:35):
A lot of women are the twenty early twenties. They
like older man, older man, more stable.

Speaker 7 (53:40):
Yeah, you know, like I don't. I mean, I don't
know dating game right, but like it should some type
of future matureist.

Speaker 1 (53:48):
It's a maturist, that's what you gave me.

Speaker 9 (53:51):
Like if you're dating someone as twenty one and you're
thirty three, there's a there's a big age difference one
and life experience there.

Speaker 2 (53:59):
So so it's just like we're talking about nine eleven.
I saw you read about it.

Speaker 3 (54:09):
I've talked to you know, you know, younger ladies know
what I'm saying. And I asked him before he joked
around one. I asked, Hey, what do you know about
nine eleven? And she tells me, I'm just laughing my
ass off the whole time, dude, because of what happened.

Speaker 4 (54:22):
No, No, because of what they do know so much,
Like damn, Like you don't know the whole story, you know,
you start bringing down the history.

Speaker 3 (54:33):
They actually they care, but they don't give it Dan,
you know what I'm saying. But I think you just
want to throw some facts.

Speaker 7 (54:38):
Right now with eleven? What is it?

Speaker 10 (54:39):
What is it? What is just like a paragraphing like
nine eleven.

Speaker 3 (54:44):
Yeah, that's it, That's that's that's it for us. So
the world changed and they're like the Democrats.

Speaker 2 (54:50):
That is it was Algorya actually was neglected.

Speaker 4 (54:57):
Yeah, but no, but younger ladies like to have, you know,
men they're older, and then they show science of stability
and then they're cool with that.

Speaker 2 (55:06):
You know.

Speaker 4 (55:07):
It's unfortunately guys their age don't have their ship together,
is what it is. I'd have a ship together. Twenty one,
twenty twenty three, get one, man, I know, I mean
for the motherland.

Speaker 3 (55:17):
Still not bad. You thought about that.

Speaker 14 (55:22):
And he was marrying girls from China like every couple
of years so they can get their green card and
you get paid.

Speaker 10 (55:27):
Like fifteen g's for this ship. Oh damn what hey,
they give you money up the front, get half. Then
you get married. You gotta wait a couple of years
and then you get grossed.

Speaker 3 (55:36):
Hey, hey, sign me up right now. I remember now
and k I could blow twenty I.

Speaker 10 (55:42):
Was like, dude, hook me up, let's do it.

Speaker 1 (55:44):
Well, I know, I know.

Speaker 2 (55:44):
Japan was asking for men to come over because because
their men, yeah, their men were like we're anime.

Speaker 3 (55:52):
Yeah, fuck this pillow. That's what it was. What it
was like.

Speaker 2 (55:56):
They were just like, I'm too shy to go up
to girls there's a lot.

Speaker 10 (55:59):
Of places like that that will pay you to come
and live there.

Speaker 4 (56:02):
Literally literally just came up with, hey, like you want
to move to this I forgot what talent it is,
but we'll help you.

Speaker 3 (56:11):
Will pay you to fix a house. Yeah yeah, and.

Speaker 10 (56:13):
You're going to start a business, will give you if
you start a family there, they give.

Speaker 3 (56:16):
You more money for it. Right.

Speaker 1 (56:18):
It sounds like America.

Speaker 4 (56:21):
Good opportunities out there, right, you know, there's still there's
still a lot of single women out there that are available.
It was a huge place, but with today's customs of dating,
it hurts a lot of women because want too many
options too. They have a group of other women telling
them what they should be doing, where reality they should

(56:43):
be just listening to their heart, you know, like you know,
or listen to themselves good feeling, like you know what,
I want to try this guy, you know, like, oh
he said this wrong, or he doesn't wear this colonni,
he doesn't have the shoes that have this car, doesn't
have this much money.

Speaker 2 (56:55):
The red flags green flag conversation, yeah yeah, because you
remember in our age that wasn't the thing.

Speaker 1 (57:00):
Red flags, green flags. I'm like, what's that?

Speaker 3 (57:03):
Yeah, you know, what I mean.

Speaker 2 (57:05):
You're pretty, Yeah, you're pretty, You're you're fun to talk to. Yeah,
move on like we figure out the rest. But now
it's like oh grief, like refl like first date.

Speaker 3 (57:13):
Chuck and everyone that's a chuckles. You gotta hit.

Speaker 4 (57:16):
You gotta at least five out of the tax, you
know what I'm saying to at least give you maybe
a shot.

Speaker 9 (57:21):
I want to go from like zero to one hundred, yeah,
in an instant instead of working your way through that
for sure.

Speaker 4 (57:26):
There's I mean, right, fast money, don't fast money. What's
what fast money is money?

Speaker 10 (57:33):
Don't make money?

Speaker 3 (57:34):
No, you lose fast money or something like that. What
I'm trying to say is like you you if you
get into something easy, it's easy got in, it's easy
to get out, you know what I'm saying, versus like
you said, building it up, building with someone you know,
people don't know how to build people are women are
waiting the finish line for the gott to be finished.

Speaker 14 (57:53):
Already in Denmark, they're real relaxed with their dating things,
so like they'll hook up. I like the first state
to be like, okay, are we compatible?

Speaker 10 (58:01):
That way, I don't get to know.

Speaker 3 (58:03):
You damn.

Speaker 7 (58:06):
Right right now, what's the what's the worst rejection?

Speaker 3 (58:10):
You? Wait? Wait, what you want? What you want the bar?

Speaker 2 (58:17):
Yeah, I gotta go to the bathroom. But tell the story,
tell correctly, God.

Speaker 3 (58:22):
That what's your hair?

Speaker 9 (58:23):
No?

Speaker 3 (58:23):
So I go to one of the local bars here
and i'll Milwaukee here and what is called it's right
by the I guess you know, Milwaukee, right by the owl, okay,
by big wigs. Yeah, Milwaukee. I've got what the bar
is called. But as soon as I walked in the vicinity,

(58:46):
I saw one of the bartenders or a bus girl
that was bust girl, and she just just eyed me
the whole time walking in.

Speaker 4 (58:52):
She was beautiful, beautiful white girl, curly hair, blonde, curly hair.

Speaker 3 (58:57):
She was just gorgeous. I was like, fuck, you're you're beautif.
I was right away. I looked at her and then
she looked away, and like, okay, cool. I go right
to the bar, order my drink, and I see her
from the corner eye just staring at me again. So
I'm like, okay, you know, when a lady looks at
you twice, there's something there, right, there's something there?

Speaker 7 (59:15):
All right?

Speaker 4 (59:16):
Okay, you look at someone else, right, but like for
the most part we made eye contact. Hope, right, it's
always that whole part like cats from the corner and
she's looking at me. I'm okay, cool, there's something there.
I'll approach he later on when I have the opportunity.
We go we go sit down another part of the
of the bar, and same thing. She's walking back and

(59:37):
forth and I catch her once again from from my
I see her just looking at me. But I'm all right, cool,
she's staring at me some means she finds me something attraction.
Either she's like that's one ugly motherfucker, or she's like
this kind of you. Yeah, but I got right as
we're walking out of the bar, we're going to the

(59:57):
next one, I see if she's free. I I go
up to her and I was like, hey, we're just
playing I tag or you know, talking, and she's like, oh,
we were playing I TAG.

Speaker 3 (01:00:07):
I don't know. I'm like, oh hold on, hold on,
like yeah, Like as soon as I walked in, you
like you stared at me hard, like oh no, you know.
She's like mumbling her words.

Speaker 4 (01:00:20):
I'm telling you know, let me get your number, and
she was like, right now, is not a good time,
I'm like, okay, Deuce is walk the funk out, dude.
I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah, I think that's that was funny.

Speaker 2 (01:00:31):
It was funny, hilarious because you like, you did it right.
You're you know, you saw her, you found attractive, you
said she was.

Speaker 3 (01:00:41):
I mean, I believe it. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:00:43):
I was like, all right, cool, cool, Yeah, I believe you, bro.

Speaker 1 (01:00:46):
But you know, she was just going around picking the glasses.

Speaker 3 (01:00:47):
You don't work the bartender.

Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
And he goes up there and tells her that.

Speaker 3 (01:00:53):
She was surprised.

Speaker 2 (01:00:54):
She's like, she goes like where we and You're like, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:00:59):
Yeah, you questioned me a portray were I saw you
stare at me. It's like, oh I didn't know. I'm like, okay, well,
I mean I guess it's.

Speaker 2 (01:01:06):
But you know what that is. It's the it's a
Starbucks girl, you know what I'm saying, like nice waitress
being nice to you. You know, you think it's more
than it is, and then it's just like you building
this illusion in your head what it was.

Speaker 1 (01:01:22):
That's what it was.

Speaker 3 (01:01:24):
Shot. I shoot my bet me. I'm gonna shoot my
goddamn shot. It is, I know. For it's a funny rejection. Dude,
I've been rejected on my life. I've been in selles
my life. I know it's as easy to get over. Okay, cool,
no worries, move on with life. You know you don't
take it. You don't take the heart. It's part of
the game. Gotta love the whole game. Better get right correct.

Speaker 1 (01:01:44):
What is the worst thing you can do?

Speaker 3 (01:01:45):
Yeah, yeah, I least can tell hermon it does not
work out. Everybody, we laugh about it.

Speaker 2 (01:01:51):
In person, I don't think I've had a rejection. No, no, no, no,
I'm rejected. I'm rejecting the tags rejected and not answered
the heart to tell you, but no, I know I've
never had that, like in person like rejection.

Speaker 1 (01:02:05):
I've been ghosted.

Speaker 2 (01:02:07):
Well yeah, I mean i've been yeah, like some text
right bags left, I read all of that ship. But yeah,
in person, no, I've been fortunate in that I've never
been like like somebody told me, like, no, I don't
know you.

Speaker 3 (01:02:23):
Who is this? Yeah? Something? Man? Well okay, what was
what was the verse text you got received for rejection?

Speaker 5 (01:02:34):
It was.

Speaker 2 (01:02:39):
That's the problem though, because it's like I don't I
don't remember, you know what I mean, like a person
like person I would remember that ship that should happened.

Speaker 1 (01:02:45):
I think I did a grave I think about it.

Speaker 7 (01:02:50):
What about the story she's telling her friends?

Speaker 3 (01:02:54):
Idiot?

Speaker 7 (01:02:56):
I tag, bro, that's right, I'll take you know.

Speaker 2 (01:02:58):
That's the conversation because she went back to the bartender's
and be like, what that fucking dude. It's like he
asked me about playing with him, grabbing your cup dude relaxed, Yeah, but.

Speaker 3 (01:03:07):
You know we leave with this right, had a whole
lousion in my head.

Speaker 4 (01:03:11):
Yeah I married her, Yeah yeah, Buffing all house, all hands,
yeah yeah, yeah, the white dogs you wanted, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:03:22):
I remember though this one time. I she didn't reject me,
but I rejected her.

Speaker 3 (01:03:26):
Oh she we were.

Speaker 2 (01:03:28):
Do you guys remember this club and I'll drink comd
This doesn't even ring a bell to you, okay. It
was like a dance club, like only eight no sixteen No,
it was twenty one and no no is eighteen eighteen up,
eighteen up.

Speaker 3 (01:03:41):
I was thinking to her, grabby right now, you know
you guys, but I saw you guys.

Speaker 2 (01:03:56):
Was one step above like siml gravity was old man, kids,
but it was still like all right, at least your
legal some of us can drink.

Speaker 1 (01:04:06):
Right, that was the story and yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:04:10):
You have at I went to the podcast.

Speaker 5 (01:04:12):
But so that's crazy to call the MEDUSA though. Yeah
that was good.

Speaker 1 (01:04:19):
Yeah yeah you guys know yeah yeah the the yeah
Greek Greek, yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:04:28):
Yeah, two for one. Really we haven't been.

Speaker 2 (01:04:35):
I remember we. I was there with a friend of
mine and there was used to be this dance back
and they called Tectonic. Oh so it was a very
it was a very like cool dancing Europe that kind
of like made a just a moment here inde bro
the USA the last like maybe two months and then
people I knew about the new about the people that
didn't right now, No, I couldn't for YouTube dance do technic.

Speaker 1 (01:05:03):
Yeah that should get it there, right, yeah, that should be.

Speaker 3 (01:05:07):
There should be one you know what, girl girl, the girl,
the girl. No, the girl does great, she kills it.

Speaker 1 (01:05:13):
Nobody no music though, that's it.

Speaker 3 (01:05:17):
That's it. I can just get the song right now.

Speaker 1 (01:05:19):
Yeah, that's what it is. Yeah, imagine a dope beat
behind it.

Speaker 10 (01:05:22):
You know.

Speaker 3 (01:05:23):
You know what in Australia they're still doing that little
version of that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:26):
But that was basically that was a dance. Right.

Speaker 2 (01:05:29):
I'm there with my boy this tall half Puerto Rican
half Russian guy and we're just you know, yeah, we're there.
It looks like the taller guy right there in the corner,
and we're there, you know, we're just you're talking, you know,
we're like, hey, we're talking about possibly, you know, going
up to a couple of girls, you know, dance with
having a lot of stuff, right, And all of a sudden,

(01:05:52):
this guy starts doing his dance and my boy was,
my boy was good with it. And I'm like, oh, Frank,
you got it there.

Speaker 1 (01:06:00):
Get in there, dude, show what's up. He's like, no, man,
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:06:02):
I'm like, not show him, show what's up?

Speaker 3 (01:06:04):
What's up?

Speaker 2 (01:06:05):
He gets up there, he starts talking clock clock clock clock,
clock clock clock clock. You're doing all that ship right,
And I'm like he's killed it.

Speaker 5 (01:06:12):
And I'm just hype. Man.

Speaker 1 (01:06:13):
I'm just going around like, yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:06:14):
Yeah, you're doing it, bro, brother. And this random girl
comes out nowhere.

Speaker 1 (01:06:21):
I ain't seen her earlier. I didn't need much of her,
but she's just like.

Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
She comes out of nowhere, and the grass grabs me
and starts like, you know, as a kid, saying grinding right,
And and then I'm like my boy's having a dance battle.
This girl's rubbing up against me and.

Speaker 5 (01:06:39):
It was.

Speaker 2 (01:06:43):
Due and I remembering over and then and then she
started like grabbing. She grabbed my hands. She started doing
the dances with my hands and we're doing this and
I'm like, I don't know what's going on. And I'm here,
I'm hearing up here and I'm I'm loving it, sponsor

(01:07:07):
and I remember getting like dancing for I'm like, you know,
I'm having a moment and I'm just like all right, well,
I'm like I think we should talk because I do
know your name, and like, hey, do you want to
go sit down and talk. She's like yeah, yeah, cool,
sat down and buy water really be handing off the cover.

Speaker 5 (01:07:32):
Whemember.

Speaker 2 (01:07:32):
We sat down and I got a good look at
the girl. I'm like, I remember looking at her. I
was going like, it's like she's talking.

Speaker 1 (01:07:50):
She's like, yeah, I'm blunt, know what the you're saying.

Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
But I was like I'm not, I'm not here man,
and I'm like yeah. I was like I gotta get
out of here. I gotta get on this one. And
so I was like, hey, we're talking. I'm like, hey,
you know, I can't hear you. But I'm like, I'm
gonna go find my boy. I'm gonna go find boy
because you know whatever what I rescue you said. But
I'm like, wait for me right here. I'm like, I'll

(01:08:17):
be right back. I'm going to go gramdma, I'll be
right back. I'm like, wait for waving right here. She's like, Okay,
this club. So there's a dance floor, the main dance
floor right and there's like a balcony area. You gotta
go up the stairs in this smaller bar, smaller like
little area they're sitting, but you can look down tourist
the dance club, sorry to dance for and you know,

(01:08:37):
I'm like, look at my boy.

Speaker 3 (01:08:39):
Find him.

Speaker 1 (01:08:40):
I'm like, hey man, I'm like let go, let's go upstairs.
And he goes like, hey, what about that girl you're
talking to him?

Speaker 3 (01:08:44):
Like hey, shut up, shut up, shut man.

Speaker 2 (01:08:48):
Go upstairs, gofstairs and we go upstairs and I'm like, nah, dude,
I'm like, nah, dude, i gotta go look at her.

Speaker 3 (01:08:53):
Man, not for me, for me.

Speaker 5 (01:08:56):
Man.

Speaker 2 (01:08:58):
He's like are you really man? Like yeah, yeah, I'm
like we were dancing.

Speaker 1 (01:09:03):
But I'm like that was it?

Speaker 9 (01:09:04):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (01:09:05):
So we're upstairs ever talking. We're talking, you know, side
of side, but we're looking down to dance war. And
then I see her. I see her going like walking
across and she's.

Speaker 7 (01:09:13):
Like she's like looking.

Speaker 1 (01:09:15):
I see her like looking how much?

Speaker 7 (01:09:16):
Looking looking at my.

Speaker 2 (01:09:21):
That tall so you're kind of hide and you know,
she's like I see her just like pacing back and forth,
like looking for me. Yeah, dude, you look for me.
Like I'm like, hey, dude, called, I'm like, let's get
out of here.

Speaker 10 (01:09:36):
He's like sure.

Speaker 2 (01:09:36):
I'm like, yeah, dude, I'm like, you already had your
dance battle. I already had a little bit of a
little bit of ass. And I'm like, let's let's dude,
just go get some McDonald's.

Speaker 1 (01:09:44):
And we're so we're going downstairs and we're.

Speaker 2 (01:09:47):
Leaving the club, dude, and there was like do you
remember as soon as you walked in, there was like
a sitting area.

Speaker 3 (01:09:52):
Yeah, the little because it was playing, so it was
like a little boof like a little yeah yeah yeah
must side yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:09:58):
Walking out a cockpuit conference and I see that girl
sitting on some dude's lap smacking him up, and I'm like, oh,
I didn't matter.

Speaker 3 (01:10:10):
That's the rejection.

Speaker 2 (01:10:12):
No, No, I didn't get rejected, but I remember like
hers is like just on some guy's lap, sounded like no,
and I was like, oh, this is this is clubbing.
You were mine just a minute ago, and now here's
some dude's It.

Speaker 3 (01:10:27):
Was just your turn, man, it's just your turn.

Speaker 5 (01:10:29):
But that was that's that's funny. But you guys rejections.

Speaker 3 (01:10:36):
Yeah, I don't get rejected.

Speaker 2 (01:10:39):
Bro.

Speaker 3 (01:10:42):
It was one dude, just one. That's one.

Speaker 5 (01:10:44):
It's been a long time, brow long.

Speaker 2 (01:10:47):
Now when that heards, no matters, dude, there's there's one there,
there's one thing.

Speaker 3 (01:10:50):
You're just like the white buffalo. Everyone has white buffalo.

Speaker 7 (01:10:54):
Buffalo buffalo with my wife for fifteen years.

Speaker 3 (01:10:57):
Bro, I don't have time.

Speaker 5 (01:11:00):
I don't remember.

Speaker 7 (01:11:01):
I honestly, I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:11:02):
In your time, you were a single nothing. I don't remember.

Speaker 9 (01:11:05):
Like my my child my childhood was school in soccer.
I had no time for anything else. Yeah, literally nothing.
And then when I finally did have time for something,
I met my wife at soccer. So I literally transitioned
right into being a damn you went.

Speaker 3 (01:11:25):
You lost Virginia, Yeah, be honest, what happened?

Speaker 7 (01:11:29):
So I don't Yeah, I don't remember like a seen
girls out.

Speaker 2 (01:11:34):
Or you don't remember any of that. In the four
years when you were separated.

Speaker 9 (01:11:39):
There was I dated one girl, but it was like
her and I had history from like like seventh grade
before I met my wife, so we kind of had
already like talked. So when we ran into each other,
like when I was already split from my wife, like
it was again, it was just like, hey, what's up,

(01:12:00):
I haven't seen in a long time.

Speaker 7 (01:12:02):
Exchange numbers.

Speaker 2 (01:12:03):
And then so in many ways, you've you've never like
dated a stranger.

Speaker 4 (01:12:09):
Yeah, so can we say safely you've been probably a
handful only people they are like any wise damn.

Speaker 7 (01:12:17):
Yeh three maybe three? And that's like and I'm just
and I'm just pushing it a man into.

Speaker 3 (01:12:26):
That was almost yeah, damn really okay, okay, okay, Well
that's I was.

Speaker 2 (01:12:33):
Like, you don't want to talk, you know, bro, we
gotta go. We got an hour drive. We've all had
tender moments on this podcast so far.

Speaker 1 (01:12:48):
Come on, a little troubling nothing. Man, she won't listen, bro,
I'll cut it out.

Speaker 5 (01:13:00):
Now.

Speaker 6 (01:13:00):
I can't really think of anything. Do you know what
I've been with my wife for about fifteen years as well.
And but the high school sweetheart as well.

Speaker 2 (01:13:07):
No, no, no, no, butever he's forty years old, thirty eight.
I'm still holding on to the college college see heart.

Speaker 5 (01:13:19):
Right, yeah, I mean it was just before my time.
I was, I mean I am a musician, but I
was also a promoter. Oh I did, I did events.

Speaker 3 (01:13:29):
Yeah for freet we got perks, you know.

Speaker 5 (01:13:37):
Yeah, and uh so I really had like real bad,
real bad rejection.

Speaker 1 (01:13:43):
You know, he couldn't get in.

Speaker 2 (01:13:45):
Say no, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 15 (01:13:48):
That was that was the feet again in so man
and woman, I'm taking it off, right, you giving it,
taking it in, I'm giving it.

Speaker 3 (01:14:03):
Boy, hate to see me, dude, that's what you got.

Speaker 1 (01:14:07):
Boys, He's like, he's gonna recognize me.

Speaker 3 (01:14:12):
Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (01:14:13):
That you.

Speaker 5 (01:14:17):
Jokes.

Speaker 3 (01:14:17):
What's what's what's your crazy story at the promoting the
man like you know, he was a promoter to you
know that, right, I was, yes music idiom yeah yeah
yeah no, the Pirate Mans was before the podcast, yeah
yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, but no, any
any good story of being the promoter d one fetus one, dude.

Speaker 1 (01:14:41):
Give us one that's not about you.

Speaker 2 (01:14:42):
Yeah, but you're your first friend, your.

Speaker 3 (01:14:48):
Bro.

Speaker 5 (01:14:48):
I mean, you know what, anything you can think of
anything we're think.

Speaker 1 (01:14:52):
I don't have a big imagine.

Speaker 5 (01:14:55):
You guys have a demon. He's got an idea.

Speaker 3 (01:14:58):
Well the confession box man right down, ready for you?

Speaker 10 (01:15:01):
Didn't I wonder who was this time?

Speaker 5 (01:15:09):
All of a sudden, it's really fucking hot.

Speaker 1 (01:15:11):
Like I haven't been I haven't been able to my
wife for the last ten years.

Speaker 3 (01:15:15):
Who is that's crazy?

Speaker 5 (01:15:20):
Crazy?

Speaker 3 (01:15:20):
Crazy? Yeah, I sut you man having a long lock
of relations man. To be honest, I really do salute
you guys. Know it's a rare thing. It really is,
especially fifteen years.

Speaker 2 (01:15:30):
Fuck.

Speaker 7 (01:15:31):
People don't a young age to.

Speaker 3 (01:15:33):
Yeah, yeah, I know how to have been new for
all that? You know?

Speaker 7 (01:15:35):
Yeah? Did you?

Speaker 3 (01:15:36):
I mean, let me ask you this one. Any of
your you you have a lot of friends or like
close friends.

Speaker 5 (01:15:41):
Yeah, I won't say I have a close requ.

Speaker 4 (01:15:42):
I assume everyone's married, yeah, right, right, And it's kind
of hard to break out of that cycle when everyone's
already married, you know, versus you and all your boys
are single. Then you're kind of tend to get to
a little bit more than its modern you know, right, right,
If you're single.

Speaker 3 (01:15:57):
You boys are single. Thing everyone's would be single to
fucking something changes, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:16:02):
Yeah, everybody in our group single, which is why I
always like we had this uh A couple of episodes ago,
he asked me if I think you asked me if
I would ever let my wife go to Vegas like
by herself or I think that was the question, right, Yeah?

Speaker 6 (01:16:18):
But was my wife went to Vegas with her sister
her birthday. So sister married, her boyfriend went through. Okay, okay,
I mean I was like, you don't want to go?
I had no dog hitter bro.

Speaker 7 (01:16:37):
Shepherd.

Speaker 6 (01:16:39):
That weekend that they went to Vegas, his brother got
married in Mexico, so he went to Mexico. The rest
of my family went to Mexico.

Speaker 1 (01:16:47):
And I was like, yeah, why did you go to Mexico?

Speaker 7 (01:16:50):
I wanted to dog sitter.

Speaker 3 (01:16:54):
Doctors tomorrow.

Speaker 5 (01:16:59):
Don't be all right? Two days talk.

Speaker 3 (01:17:02):
But that was a question.

Speaker 6 (01:17:03):
Would he let his wife go to a trip nessarily Vegas,
but or with a sibling or whatever?

Speaker 9 (01:17:10):
I was like, sibling, yes, But like France is kind
of hard because it's like, like you said, they're going
with a bunch of single friends.

Speaker 7 (01:17:16):
Yeah, and you're the only married woman there.

Speaker 2 (01:17:18):
You know, we're going just to just to Yeah, one,
do you trust your wife, then there should be no issues. No, no, no, yes,
because if I if you, if I trust you to
do the right thing right, just like you trust.

Speaker 1 (01:17:35):
Me to do the right thing, then there's no fucking issue.

Speaker 3 (01:17:37):
I like my carbon knight, Dude, I trust people to
do the right thing right. Yeah, I love my carbon night.

Speaker 2 (01:17:43):
People see your kind of walk right by the who
left this ship here to get that car out of here?
Nobody real?

Speaker 9 (01:17:56):
Yeah I trust my wife, yeah right, But the atmosphere,
the atmosphere and the it's not for it. It's not
for it, right, Like single single people are not hanging
around the same place as married people are, right, They
don't have the same mentality as married people.

Speaker 3 (01:18:11):
You don't know how to married women. I've been with
quite a bit, man, right, quite a bit.

Speaker 4 (01:18:14):
So all I'm saying is like, Okay, you trust your wife.
But another thing is house are friends? Yea honestly horror friends?
All her friends are you know, good people. There's that
there's not whose stories you know what I'm saying, But
there are a bunch of hoes. Fuck no, dude, I'm
not going to do that. I Am not going to

(01:18:35):
put you in a situation where, oh they're looking.

Speaker 2 (01:18:37):
For what if what if your your wife is just
a fridge.

Speaker 3 (01:18:41):
Damn the fridge, the fridge, the fridge. I want to
protect us.

Speaker 2 (01:18:46):
Next, what if your wife becomes that person which she's like, no,
we're just dancing with the girls.

Speaker 3 (01:18:52):
You never know. We comes in like, no, I ain't
going nowhere. D you nowhere?

Speaker 2 (01:18:58):
Fridge qualities? The women come out your room cooler, tight,
But the friends take that you kick the bit of garage.

Speaker 4 (01:19:21):
No, no, no, But at the end of the day,
it falls under how how did the friends act if
I've heard that they have whole stories?

Speaker 3 (01:19:27):
You're not going on come on, don't even ask me that.
I'm gonna say no right away. I'm gonna say no
right away. Now you're going with a bunch of married
you know women, Cool, all right, Cool, everyone has I know,
everyone's husband. Cool, go ahead.

Speaker 2 (01:19:39):
But even then, even though it's possibly so open for sure,
I mean, I've cracked the merry way.

Speaker 3 (01:19:43):
It's just it is what it is, you know, turn
it around.

Speaker 10 (01:19:45):
You trust you?

Speaker 3 (01:19:46):
I would trust myself. What do you mean?

Speaker 16 (01:19:50):
No, dude, No, I don't trust you walking out going
out for milk, right, we believe in the bar. You stop,
they hit the bar like that, We've got.

Speaker 3 (01:20:10):
God damn when I trust me, I mean, yeah, I'll
say it would.

Speaker 7 (01:20:18):
But but here the radity is this that it's gonna happen.
It's gonna happen, it happens.

Speaker 2 (01:20:24):
To happened, or too true. A woman can just go yes.
It's a lot harder for me to cheat than it
is for her. I mean, because I can be in
my top game, you feel good, you know, go up
there and I could strike strike, strike, strike, strike, strike
out all night.

Speaker 3 (01:20:41):
Her.

Speaker 1 (01:20:41):
All she has to say is yeah, I want to drink.

Speaker 3 (01:20:44):
Yeah, that's it, you know, every dude is. But then
you then this guy shut out with the girls.

Speaker 4 (01:20:49):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is what it is, especially if
you already, like I said, especially when I meet you
already had a couple of drinks. I meet you for
the first time, great conversation and you're you're laughing. I said,
Then the possibilities already there.

Speaker 3 (01:21:02):
Yeah. One.

Speaker 4 (01:21:03):
Two, you get a little comfortable, you know what I'm saying,
something a little shoulders is over. I'm fucking cracking and
I'm watching the whole fucking skylight of Vegas.

Speaker 3 (01:21:11):
You know, yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:21:17):
One specifically, I'm like, man, that poor lady, dude.

Speaker 3 (01:21:23):
Poor lady Portland had a great time.

Speaker 2 (01:21:26):
Bro Right, she had a great time.

Speaker 1 (01:21:31):
There's a lot of demons. Theres a lot of demons, right,
He's the demon.

Speaker 10 (01:21:35):
I'm the hour, like a demon.

Speaker 2 (01:21:42):
I'm like, I'm like a minute.

Speaker 10 (01:21:45):
Your life, bro, I.

Speaker 2 (01:21:48):
Think what you're calling. Here's my boy looking at his clock. Man,
I gotta work.

Speaker 3 (01:21:52):
He's like, we got.

Speaker 7 (01:21:55):
Through the hours.

Speaker 2 (01:21:57):
Yeah, you guys have an hour, man, But you guys,
you're coming out.

Speaker 3 (01:22:01):
Man.

Speaker 5 (01:22:03):
It was dope.

Speaker 1 (01:22:03):
It was very fun. Now we're in twenty two minutes. Yeah,
stop stop laughter.

Speaker 2 (01:22:09):
With heartded questions he got in FIDELI you brought up to.

Speaker 4 (01:22:17):
The biggest thing is how to make a relationship work man,
Honestly in today's world.

Speaker 2 (01:22:21):
Yeah, in today's world, two men that are happily married
and too single, guys happily.

Speaker 3 (01:22:31):
Here.

Speaker 2 (01:22:31):
I was like happy to two dogs. No, but you guys,
we're coming out, man, I guess we're making the drive
out here. Tell the people where they can find you, man.

Speaker 6 (01:22:42):
You can find those on every social media platform, buzz
on filter, pretty much.

Speaker 1 (01:22:50):
Podcast when you gets released.

Speaker 2 (01:22:51):
The episode was when you guys release your episode, like
every you guys hear every man.

Speaker 5 (01:22:55):
That's the thing.

Speaker 6 (01:22:56):
So it used to be every Wednesday, everyone else everyone's
used to drop, but now it's.

Speaker 5 (01:23:02):
When record a day or two afterwards. I dropped, yep.

Speaker 6 (01:23:05):
So like we just literally did one on the way here.
I'll probably drop that, you know, probably tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (01:23:10):
Or guess you guys are driving, you know, that's the
second time.

Speaker 3 (01:23:18):
The other guys almost like, no, no, they did a
podcast before they got here. Yeah, you got an accident.

Speaker 2 (01:23:28):
But uh so you can find your podcast on every
podcast station available, yes, sir, all of.

Speaker 6 (01:23:32):
Them, uh, Apple podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, YouTube, yeah, YouTube, and.

Speaker 2 (01:23:39):
Then obviously we'll have the links in the descriptions. You
guys can follow them and and everything. And then Rambow
where you can where you can find.

Speaker 10 (01:23:48):
You Instagram and on here, Oh it's Rainbow. Just follow me,
but always find me here the street.

Speaker 4 (01:23:58):
Yeah, guys, running podcast station possible, same Spotify pod being
on radio anywhere you guys can find podcasts.

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