November 5, 2023 • 37 mins
In our premiere episode for Season 3, we introduce new co-host Izzy and special guest host Mel B. VSavage gets her reading from Tyler Tarot. We disect the reading and how it relates to VSavages's love life. If you want your reading done you can message Tyler Tarot on Instagram @Officaltylertarot.
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No, I don't like to dothat. Welcome to Dirty Tea Podcast.
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We are finally a season three.That's right. It took a long time
and we made it, niggas,we made it yep. So today we
have my girl. Melby said hello, Hello, we got the new co
host Isy the house and uh yeah, Jolie, I don't know where she
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is. Well, she's supposed tojoin us. We'll find her for one
of these episode hard she's getting thatcoin, yes, sis. And then
we're gonna welcome back Tyler Tarot.Hello, and I'm gonna start. I'm
gonna kick off because I am dyingto know the person that I'm recently saying
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if this is gonna all work out. So Tyler Tarot is gonna reach in
to her inner soul and figure outif love is in the air for Vi
Savage because it's been a while andI deserve this absolutely. I guess I've
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been practicing. Let's see your skills, right, it's been a while since
I played poker. I'm so nervous. I feel like my fingers shrunk.
But all right, Tyler, Igotta know what's in your soul. Looks,
Tyler, you need a new Stepdaddythe right. That's right. She's
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like, oh, I brought thewrong card, the wrong cards for that
one. We need a couple morecandles, right that part we should like
all the candles. You should havetold us, should have brought some with
us. What exactly does the candlesrepresent? Well, different colors represent different
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things, So like if you're doinga love reading, I would use like
a red candle. If you're doinga reading because like you want to know
something or you want advice, Iwould use a blue one. It's like
different colors have different meanings and likespirituality, so in taro, so yeah,
it's just I'm not gonna list allthem because I'll take forever. Yeah,
but yeah, it's just to getthat sort of energy going while you're
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doing the reading. Gotcha? AndI see a stone? Is that the
same sort of Yeah, it's thesame concept. So like this is Cornelian,
So it's which looks orange and spody. Yeah, it's like orange and
then it has like dark spots onit. Yeah, this is a good
one for love. Or you coulduse rose quartz. That's like a popular
one. Is that like the pinkishone? Yeah, that pink and then
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this one is just selenite. Itjust it's a charges other quick crystals and
it cleanses things. So it's kindof a special crystal because it can charge
the energy of other crystals. No. One kind of looks like cloudy glass,
yeah, kind of. It's itcan come in different forms, but
this is just it in a stick. And then this is black tormalaine,
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and this is raw black tormaline,and it's like you use it for either
cleansing or protection as well. Iused to. Yeah, I used to
have a necklace with it. Butlike from a long time, a few
years ago. This was one ofthe first like crystals I ever got.
It's a really I think this wasthe first crystal I ever got. It's
a really good starter one. Wellmean a stepdaddy who got that crystal?
Budget It is very expensive. Girl. I got some nice ear rings with
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the what was that whitish one calledagain, I think you clear cords.
It was clear cords. I'm prettysure it was celly oll Night. And
then it had a little bit ofthe black on top of it. Whatever
that is moon, I don't know, but it looked exactly like this,
and then it had a little bitof that added to it and the prettiest
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ear rings ever, and then theystart falling apart. I was gluing that
bitch back together because a girl needsprotection. Yeah, I need that energy.
It probably was sele though, becauseSelena is very very fragile, like
very frag It breaks super easy.Like I used to have uh Celia knite
stick that was a lot shorter thanthat, and it was kind of in
a like a rectangle form and itwas like I dropped it a little bit
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on island ones and it like startsbreaking apart. I wonder if that's why
it's used for love, Like theit falls apart every time and fells apart.
But we got that good energy.It's gonna be strong waves studio yes
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with my boy a because I can'tfigure I can't even download the damn episodes
we already did. Still trying tofigure that out. Okay, you're looking
at me all side. You wantmore? Oh yeah, thank you?
Pass it off. Oh that wasa better shuffle. Yeah that was legit.
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Okay, I got this. Now, walk us through this process that
you're doing, Like what are thesecards representing? Like in your reading?
So basically, when when you're doingany sort of terror reading. The main
thing you look for is major arcaneof cards, because major arcanic cards are
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cards that are they last, somethingthat's more long term and has a bigger
impact versus minor arcane cards. There'ssome things that usually happen either a little
bit faster or it's for a shorterperiod of time. So that's the main
things that you look for because it'sgonna show what's like most important that's coming
up. Also, you look forlike the house that it's in. If
it's cups, which is more likeour emotions and stuff, if it's one
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which is more like about ourselves andour self expression. Swords is about like
our mind and I'm like just ourmentality and also can be communication. And
then Pentacles is like uh stability,financial stuff like that important what helped you
to get into this, like whatpiqued your interests and or what or who?
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Definitely spirituality is something that like I'vealways kind of been interested in,
but definitely I feel like I likewhen I would go to libraries like Brin's
and Nobles is one of my favoritestories. You know, I go therely
all the time, so I wouldlike see books about it. I would
see different terarrat cards, and Iwas like interested in it and basically just
went from there, Like I wouldbuy books that are just like teaching about
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different parts of spirituality and teaching aboutdifferent practices and like different parts of the
world. Self taught pretty much.Yeah, did you have any like guidance
from some people as you got intoit or no? Everything is self taught.
Yeah, I basically just yeah.I mean YouTube is sometimes YouTube is
my opinion, when it comes tospirituality, not that good of a source
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because it doesn't teach you what practicescome from, what culture, and what
practices are open or close practices.So like open practice is kind of something
anyone can do, and a closepractice is something that is specific to that
like culture. So if you're nota part of that culture, that's not
something that you really want to likeget into. So sometimes people don't in
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the spiritual community. They don't reallyrespect that. So learning from other people
you kind of take the risk ofjust believing what they say. But everything
of spirituality you have to fact check. It's all research, Like that's what
everything is, is research. SoI would really encourage like doing your own
research, like reading at a lotabout it before you really like get into
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it too much. Yeah, Idon't really like reading, so this is
why I go to Thailand. Forthe rest of you that don't like to
read either, you can find heris it officially official? Tyler Official Tyler
taro so do Instagram. So,speaking of direction, do you feel like
this helped, like give you thatdirection that you were like looking for,
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Like I help fill that weid Definitely. I feel like spirituality it opens your
eyes to a lot of stuff likeyou don't realize, like especially when you
learn about different cultures. I feellike it's just a way that you can,
like you know, how to likesettle yourself, you know, like
it helps you learn how to dealwith your emotions. It helps you learn
how to deal with certain situations,how to if you feel like you're stuck
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in a way, like getting yourown advice, like you don't feel so
much like you need to find thatin other people. So when I hear
suttle yourself, I hear like kindof like anxiety and it helps kind of
like right, definitely, it helpsthat. It helps like anything that you
could be struggling with, like anymental health you could be struggling with,
or personal situations like It definitely teachesyou how to like like settle those feelings
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and like look deeper into yourself andlook at what's causing those feelings and learn
how to fix the root of thatproblem. So there's a lot that can
be very beneficial to people. Okay, thank you? What is in the
cards? Who are we? Savage? She just got to the chase why
I want to know? I don'tknow, like the behind, Like my
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mind is like what's going on?Well, like I'm not gonna give too
much, uh to what's going on, but I'm dating a classmate who is
significantly younger than I am. Okay, so yeah, we're on different wavelengths,
wavelengths as far as you know,like maturity, career, that kind
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of thing. But but the way, it's like he's an extra sketch,
just like brand New, Like hehasn't been like like what jaden maybe the
word I wouldn't say that, butI will say he's emotional intelligent, which
most men are not. So heactually, you know, shared something personal
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with me, But any other manwould have internalized his situation and just like
hated women forever. And he actuallylike didn't let him jade his perception of
relationships or what it could be,which is amazing because most guys can't do
that. I mean because when youtalk about mature, like you can meet
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someone that's like fifty something and superimmature. Yeah, so like yeah,
dating older men does not doesn't matterthe age, Yeah, it's the the
maturity, the intelligence. I thinktheir life I think, you know,
definitely like who they are, buttheir life experienced experiences definitely shape them.
And you could be like twenty somethingor like fifty something and still be a
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freaking child. Yeah, yeah,of course literally. So I mean he's
been on his own since he's beennineteen years old, so he knows how
to grind. He was yelling atme for using too many paper towels when
I dropped something. He's like,this is what we do in their household,
and I'm like, you damn right, because I ain't a ro bench.
I can afford more paper towels.Right. He's like, the whites
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have been on for hours now,I turned the white off and like he's
like, you're okay, it's timeto turn the TV off. I would
be I would be agreeing right withhim because I don't care how much money.
But you know what he every time, like he we only been on
a couple of dates so far,but he got out the car and opened
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the car door for me. Thathas never happened in the forty years of
my life that someone opened a cardoor. That they'll they'll open the regular
doors, but never the car door. Like I was like, good for
you, good for you. Theystill exist. I ain't never met them
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in my life. I mean,I get the car door open and close
for me when I get in.Part is they're scared of you. I
don't think he gets terrifying. ButI don't think that's the reason because he
doesn't do it every single time.I think just when you look at him,
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yeah, right, scout. Idon't know, I don't know what
it is, but he'll just,I don't know, think about it.
He'll walk over to that silar andopen the door, and I'm kind of
like, Okay, this is nice. It's nice. But like I said,
it's not every single time. Butdoesn't often. Everyone should be made
to feel like like even men shouldbe made to feel that like special sometimes
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at least sometimes you want me toopen the car door for him, get
in the driver's and maybe maybe that'llgive you don't know. In my astrology
chart, he is seven out often fed in I'm seven out of ten
masculine. Oh so I've always andI said, this makes complete sense,
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right I My ex husband. Thewhole reason he said his reasoning for cheating
was because I demasculated him, andI'm like, I need to do his
chart. He must have that feminineenergy too, pussy as. I'm just
kidding. Sorry, Tyler ear muffsair mubs. Trust me, I will
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not I will not stop any slander. I don't worry about me, Tyler,
like, I am a grown assman and I can handle all of
this, and I am way morespiritually confident than all of that. I
don't know why I was talking tome like I'm pole child anyway, go
ahead. Sorry. I never talkedto any of my kids like there were
kids ever. I don't think evenwhen they were toddlers. I'm like,
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get up, motherfucker, walk itoff, get over here. But yeah,
so it's funny. It's just likeit's okay, I'll be the man
in the relationship. I'm used toit, and he's like, get off,
Like this is the feminine energy we'retalking about. But he's just so
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funny, and I'm like in mylittle giddy stage. So let's see how
long that's gonna last. Is ita long time or a short time or
a good time? What are wedoing here? Okay? Basically like so
we're doing the reading, yeah,the all good things, all good things,
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all good vibes. Okay, justiceoh so not that literal. So
basically the main thing I'm seeing hereis that kind of like a little bit
of an imbalance. I give theEmperor reverse and the justice right. This
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could be like you said about theage sort of things, So that can
be something that's kind of like onyour mind about like how younger he is
than you always he said a cringyTikTok. And I'm like, I am
rethinking our connection at this moment.It's like I might feel like a little
thing, like you know, yeah, like the age difference can be a
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thing. Also, I'm seeing sothis card versus mainly like going through a
bad financial spot. So it's likethat could be a thing on both ends.
Really, that could be an issue. Just quit his job literally told
me yesterday, yes, this isamazing. So that could be an issue
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with that, That is an issuelike trying to you know, because like,
yes, relationships, like majority ofit is feelings, but like you
also, like money is a bigpart because like you know, you guys
have to be able to help eachother out, like if you want something
long term. Yeah, so that'ssomething to think about. Page of Cups
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like it's saying to and with thethree of One's, it's saying to explore
the connection a little bit more sobefore making any like kind of decisions,
like there's still time to like justget to know each other, and you
know, I kind of have morefun, Like I don't think too serious
right now. It's kind of morelike in the like yeah, in the
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moment type of stage right now.And then here we have the Nine of
Cups in reverse. This is kindof talking about how to not miss opportunity.
So it's the Nine of Cups uprightis talking about like a wish being
granted, and once it's in reverseit's talking about how you can like miss
that opportunity. So it's basically sayingto, like, don't miss out,
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try to have fun, get toknow each other more. That means keep
my options open, yeah, likeyou know, don't get to Like it's
in the stage the fun stage rightnow, So don't get too serious too
quick, you know what I'm saying, Like still, you know, we
already had this talk and he waslike, don't feel any pressure. We're
taking it a day at a time, Like thank you smart. Yeah,
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because I went on another date justto see somebody who had their ship together
on paper and I hate that term, but it's true. And he's,
you know, a construction worker.He's in school for truck driving, you
know, fine as hell, buthis personality was absolute ship and it was
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awful, awful, awful, awful, awful, awful, And I was
just like, okay, boo.I never cheered out, you can that
guy was trash. I can't.I blocked him. I never had.
But do you feel like like likethat first date situation is like a weird
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I mean, we could get intothat later, but like that for the
first date situation is just like maybelike a bad interview, like and again,
let's pay that well, no,because he was drunk before he even
picked me up. They tell nolies. He was super touchy, grabby
and I said, dude, Ijust met you yesterday. But that was
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even the worst of the worst.Because I'm used to women grabbing on me.
I'm used to men grabbing on me. That was even the worst part
of it, because he said hewould like, I'm gonna leave you lloe,
like the attitude, like, ohmy god, you're so boring.
He literally, I love how youtalk about men because I hear this like
feminine, like like you just yo. He created a tender in front of
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me, in front of me,he created his tender profile. That's one.
Two. He fucking blocked me onFacebook in my face. How old
is he? Like too forty three? This is why older man? Oh
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my god. And then that stillwasn't the worst part. Still wasn't the
worst part. He already knew meon Facebook and didn't even tell me he
knew me until I'm already there inhis house. So mind you, he
got me an hour late. It'salready late night when I got out of
school. So he's just like,oh, we're there's nowhere to go at
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this hour, so we'll just havea couple of drinks at the house and
I'll bring you right back home.Okay, he definitely planned that out,
But the motherfucker had the nerve tosay, oh, well, we're not
really strangers. When I was like, stop trying to grab on me,
something like do I need to beworried about you? I told him,
because I'm right ober like, becauseyou whalin right now and fight you know,
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you know your sold. He waslike, no need for all that,
blah blah blah. I'm not gonnago to jail. He's oh,
he said, oh, no offense, honey, you don't look that good
for me to go to jail.But you hear right now touching me right?
Do you hear? How this datelasted more than five minutes because he
picked me up and I didn't havemy own car. Yeah what if I
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had my own car? Mind you, I always meet people. But because
he had no idea where he wantedto go, I was already tired from
the long day I had. Iwas like, you know what, just
picked me up? Well, Ithink, Tyler, this is something else
we could stick a pin in.But like from our generation, like as
women, we were brought up tobe like super respectful of everyone, which
I don't think is like really veryhelpful and I don't think it's really the
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best for us. And I don'tthink it's really the right mindset to have.
But we always second guess ourselves,especially in like scary situations. We're
like, okay, but are welike are we like being rude and are
well? Because you set somebody overthe edge, you can make the situation
worse. And also it's like kindof like how we were raised and it's
and it's not the super healthiest,Like again, something we can stick a
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pinion because that's I think that's awhole nother thing get into. But it's
normal to get picked up, butjust to understand like old school traditional values,
you know what I mean. Butthen like we're always made to second
guess ourselves as women, and that'ssomething we can we can get into like
a whole other day. But thenhe's like, yeah, we're not really
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strangers, Like we know each otheron Facebook. We've had conversations, like
he already knew about my breast cancereverything. So I'm like, wait,
hold up, let me look upwho you are, Like I want to
see this conversation. He goes,I already blocked you. You blocked me.
Why are we even talking right now? Who? He's like, I
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know more? Are you gonna befriends with you on Facebook? When I
already have your phone number? AndI already know where you live, and
I'm like, oh you don't.You don't want me to see the im
right now? Like any time togo, time I will cut. You
don't even have to callow over.You have friends, you can just call
us. He probably he also probablytrying to hide you from someone like he
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probably like once I got the numberand he blocked you off, like his
all his social media. He probablydidn't want anyone seeing that he like follows
you or you know, is Iconnected to you? I don't even know
if it's that or it's more likelike you're gonna be mine and I need
to block everything from you, likeeverything I do from here on out.
I need to block my phone.I don't want you to see the next
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morning and I blocked him. Howdo you like that? Blocks taggeran taggerant
potato. We don't really know eachother. You don't need to be following
me. Yeah, it's crazy,So thank you for bringing us into that.
I know that's a lot. Itwas a lot. I'm traumatized.
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So we go the home. Thewhiskey takes the time away, the safety
and good instincts and getting the funaway from strangers. Stranger stranger danger.
Oh my god, hilarious. I'mdying right now. Yeah, I'm so
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sorry, So Tyler tell us more. Sorry we went on a tangent.
Yeah, But continuing with the reading, it's saying to spend times with friends,
spend time with friends, be happy, single life, live in the
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moment, and have fun. Soit's definitely saying I don't like focus too
too much on the relationship. Likealso remember like friends stuff like that,
do things you would normally enjoy doing, and enjoy that. So his relationship
evolving to evolving to the next phaseand healing inner child and growth. So
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this could be again the fun partof the relationship. This could be good
for both of you guys. Likeone of the big things in spirituality is
like healing your inner child, andit's like doing things that maybe you never
got to do as a kid thatyou've always wanted to do, or like,
you know, just having a connectionwith someone that you know that you
can just have fun with and doesn'thave to be serious all the time.
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So it's saying to really, whyI like this relationship. I'm used to
the serious and I gotta be thefunny one and I gotta keep it like
herded all the time, and youcan't always be that person. So I
just I saw something on like TikTokone day and they were like, yeah,
it was totally absolutely like infatuated withthis guy. And I didn't understand
why. And then I realized someonepointed it out that like I'm in like,
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I'm cool ast shit and I'm likein love with myself and it's like
I'm always making this guy laugh andhe's laughing. But it's not that I
really like the person. It's thatI like myself because I'm fucking hilarious just
saying like and I was even amover here. Another thing, big thing
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that I'm seeing here is karmic relationship. So karmic relationships and spirituality is a
relationship that is there to teach youa really big lesson that you need to
learn. So a comic relationship canbe anyone in your life, like you
can be family, friends, romantic, whatever. But there's different types of
karmic relationships too many people in mylife. We need to narrow this down.
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No, I mean, it's it'sdefinitely about the person that you're like
doing the reading about, Like foryou, what's about like the person you're
inquiring about. But in general,a karmic relationship can be about anyone like
or maybe the horrific date I wenton, that's who I'm learning the lesson
from. I was questioning, butthe whole age thing that maybe I don't
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keep all my eggs in one basketand venture out a little bit. And
then it was like nope, Imean I think you should definitely like consider
like you know, how many whoeveryou dated that was like in a quote
unquote appropriate age, and like howthat worked out, and if like that's
not a thing, I would gomore towards that direction only because karmic relationships
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it's not a one time thing.This is someone that you have like a
deep connection with and it's gonna lasta while and then you learn the lesson
from that like relationship, it's notlike a quick person you just met,
Like, yes, it's someone thatyou like actually have to have a connection
with. Yeah, so it sayslessons and letting go and loving you.
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So it's like it might like it'slike teaching you the lessons, like you
have to let something go, whateverit is. You'll eventually find out through
this karmic relationship that let that go, that's what needed to go. And
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then another card is saying, enabelboundary, where's the organs Jesus yeah.
Another card says to enable boundaries.So it's saying like, wow, yes,
you still have fun, don't forgetyour standards. Still, don't forget
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like your boundaries and things like that, and then you have to look at
the bigger picture and step out ofyour comfort zone. So I think I've
been out of my comfort zone.Well you hear it, but we hear
it like you're already saying you're likeage age age age, and it's like
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and it's like, so obviously there'slike a barrier to you and stepping out
of your comfort imory something. I'veknown her for what twenty seven years?
It would be fine, whatever,we're not that old. Though we're not
old. We're not old. Thereseventeen years experience. But but I'm nice
and she loved me too. Shutup, I don't care. I love
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you, but me knowing her forso long, let me more. I've
told her that she was to stepout her comfort zone, and I think
that I think this is stepping out. And that's why I've never dated anybody
young. That's why. I said, that's great, and let's see kind
of where that goes. But youneed to, you know, kind of
give it time and just see howit plays out, because you tend to
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kind of cut it off at acertain age fairly quickly, and I just
tell the time, just give ita little more time. I'm decisive,
but I see the traits that Ineed to see, and then I'm just
like, no, I'm not wastingany time on this person. I mean,
I think there should yeah, definitely, I think there should be red
flags. But I think something westruggle struggle with as humans, not even
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like men, when women as humans, like we have this relationship that like
we've all had like a fairy talerelationship where there was like chemistry and there
was like emotion and there was likeyou felt this and that that relationship probably
did not last, and then we'rehere for good time, not a long
time. And then when you getanother relationship, you're like, yeah,
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well I like him, but Idon't feel this spark. I like him,
but I don't feel like chemistry.I like him, and I feel
like the glue, like you know, at least for me and my relationship,
I feel like the glue is likeit's not from like me feeling that
like this amazing like chemistry or mefeeling like this fairy tale where I kind
of like block out all the badshit. It's more from like the appreciation
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from like when I'm really fucked up. They're there and it takes time to
like get to that point and thenand then it takes for me to like
really feel it and see it.And it's not like it's not the same
kind of love. And it's nota love that came easy, and it's
not a love that came quickly,and it's not a love associated with like
this crazy, amazing chemistry. It'sjust like real love that was built on
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this strong foundation. And I'm notsaying that if you see red flags you
shouldn't like run away, but atthis at the same time, something that
may be like boring or not whatyou were necessarily looking for can be something
really strong, especially when it's it'sgrown from this like really strong like cement,
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really strong foundation of them just likebeing there when nobody fuck else was
there, Like nobody else was there. That's why I said Tyler was saying,
but that's the problem my ex hewas there when no one else was
and we were kind of like traumabonded, if that makes sense. There's
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times where we have bed bugs,He's like, I'm not leaving. Knew
he stayed in that air mattress withme every night for god knows how long.
There's times we got stuck in NewYork where all the hotels were booked
out. We were legit sleeping inthe hallways. But something, but something
that I think you also have tosee those red flags. That's not to
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say that you you you're not,but that's why I don't look for that
anymore because at the end of theday, if you have a like an
original connection, like a genuine connection, then I feel like that person's gonna
want to be there for you duringthose hard times. But like initially in
the beginning, I think I lookfor other things. But we're gonna get
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into that in the next episode calledRed Alert. Yeah, so we gonna
put in that. I definitely,I definitely agree with like some points,
I think, like this is kindof how we're talking about yesterday, red
flags versus flaws. I feel likepeople cross that a lot. They see
a flaw and they think it's ared flag. Right, But those are
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two different things. Like a redflag is something like this person is doing
something harmful, so you're kind ofnoticing maybe they're a little bit manipulated.
Yeah, they're intentionally to show numbers, don't it's sixteen y'all? She like,
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yeah, it's like it's like someonedoing something that's seriously gonna be harmful
towards you, towards your relationship,versus a red flag. It's more if
they're doing something you just don't aflaw, something to do something you just
don't necessarily like like it's it's notgonna really. Yeah, I give you
the egg because no one's perfect,right, no one's perfy or as cats
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ship. But you don't got videoy'all. Oh yeah, we got video
Dirney Underscore podcast, all social media'syou guys are say, be at her
finest, my friend. Wait asecond, I need an over home.
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Yeah, I need o home alertas the chicks are chating. Oh well,
holy moly. We ran at atime if Tyler has something to wrap
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up with and then maybe like liketwo minutes, one minute, one and
a half minutes. Yeah, thatwas that was pretty I finished the reading.
I thought everyone is getting reading isnot happening next time. Yeah,
the reading is pretty much finished.So yeah, but they thank you Tyler
for your like background and like shegot there definitely appreciated, greatly appreciated,
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very well informed. So uh,to wrap it up, I think that
means, uh, don't put allmy eggs in one basket. However,
we're gonna see this through. We'renot gonna shy away because of the age
gaps seven years, but it's okay. I'm gonna holds wrong and we go
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as your mature and a good headon your shoulders. I think we'll continue
the journey. We'll continue the journeyand we'll see where it goes, and
I'll give you guys an update andabout a month or two, we'll see
what happens. And stay tuned forour next episode. Read alert. We're
gonna have Melby back and Izzy andwe have a special guest coming in,
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so don't miss out on that nextweek. And also don't forget to follow
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you know, private you whatever,whatever flows to your damn boat, but
she got you and she'll let youknow what it is. So good night
everyone, and we'll see you nextweek. Bye. No, I don't
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like to do that
No, I don't like to dothat. Welcome to Dirty Tea Podcast.
(00:43):
We are finally a season three.That's right. It took a long time
and we made it, niggas,we made it yep. So today we
have my girl. Melby said hello, Hello, we got the new co
host Isy the house and uh yeah, Jolie, I don't know where she
(01:07):
is. Well, she's supposed tojoin us. We'll find her for one
of these episode hard she's getting thatcoin, yes, sis. And then
we're gonna welcome back Tyler Tarot.Hello, and I'm gonna start. I'm
gonna kick off because I am dyingto know the person that I'm recently saying
(01:33):
if this is gonna all work out. So Tyler Tarot is gonna reach in
to her inner soul and figure outif love is in the air for Vi
Savage because it's been a while andI deserve this absolutely. I guess I've
(01:53):
been practicing. Let's see your skills, right, it's been a while since
I played poker. I'm so nervous. I feel like my fingers shrunk.
But all right, Tyler, Igotta know what's in your soul. Looks,
Tyler, you need a new Stepdaddythe right. That's right. She's
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like, oh, I brought thewrong card, the wrong cards for that
one. We need a couple morecandles, right that part we should like
all the candles. You should havetold us, should have brought some with
us. What exactly does the candlesrepresent? Well, different colors represent different
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things, So like if you're doinga love reading, I would use like
a red candle. If you're doinga reading because like you want to know
something or you want advice, Iwould use a blue one. It's like
different colors have different meanings and likespirituality, so in taro, so yeah,
it's just I'm not gonna list allthem because I'll take forever. Yeah,
but yeah, it's just to getthat sort of energy going while you're
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doing the reading. Gotcha? AndI see a stone? Is that the
same sort of Yeah, it's thesame concept. So like this is Cornelian,
So it's which looks orange and spody. Yeah, it's like orange and
then it has like dark spots onit. Yeah, this is a good
one for love. Or you coulduse rose quartz. That's like a popular
one. Is that like the pinkishone? Yeah, that pink and then
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this one is just selenite. Itjust it's a charges other quick crystals and
it cleanses things. So it's kindof a special crystal because it can charge
the energy of other crystals. No. One kind of looks like cloudy glass,
yeah, kind of. It's itcan come in different forms, but
this is just it in a stick. And then this is black tormalaine,
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and this is raw black tormaline,and it's like you use it for either
cleansing or protection as well. Iused to. Yeah, I used to
have a necklace with it. Butlike from a long time, a few
years ago. This was one ofthe first like crystals I ever got.
It's a really I think this wasthe first crystal I ever got. It's
a really good starter one. Wellmean a stepdaddy who got that crystal?
Budget It is very expensive. Girl. I got some nice ear rings with
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the what was that whitish one calledagain, I think you clear cords.
It was clear cords. I'm prettysure it was celly oll Night. And
then it had a little bit ofthe black on top of it. Whatever
that is moon, I don't know, but it looked exactly like this,
and then it had a little bitof that added to it and the prettiest
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ear rings ever, and then theystart falling apart. I was gluing that
bitch back together because a girl needsprotection. Yeah, I need that energy.
It probably was sele though, becauseSelena is very very fragile, like
very frag It breaks super easy.Like I used to have uh Celia knite
stick that was a lot shorter thanthat, and it was kind of in
a like a rectangle form and itwas like I dropped it a little bit
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on island ones and it like startsbreaking apart. I wonder if that's why
it's used for love, Like theit falls apart every time and fells apart.
But we got that good energy.It's gonna be strong waves studio yes
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with my boy a because I can'tfigure I can't even download the damn episodes
we already did. Still trying tofigure that out. Okay, you're looking
at me all side. You wantmore? Oh yeah, thank you?
Pass it off. Oh that wasa better shuffle. Yeah that was legit.
(06:05):
Okay, I got this. Now, walk us through this process that
you're doing, Like what are thesecards representing? Like in your reading?
So basically, when when you're doingany sort of terror reading. The main
thing you look for is major arcaneof cards, because major arcanic cards are
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cards that are they last, somethingthat's more long term and has a bigger
impact versus minor arcane cards. There'ssome things that usually happen either a little
bit faster or it's for a shorterperiod of time. So that's the main
things that you look for because it'sgonna show what's like most important that's coming
up. Also, you look forlike the house that it's in. If
it's cups, which is more likeour emotions and stuff, if it's one
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which is more like about ourselves andour self expression. Swords is about like
our mind and I'm like just ourmentality and also can be communication. And
then Pentacles is like uh stability,financial stuff like that important what helped you
to get into this, like whatpiqued your interests and or what or who?
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Definitely spirituality is something that like I'vealways kind of been interested in,
but definitely I feel like I likewhen I would go to libraries like Brin's
and Nobles is one of my favoritestories. You know, I go therely
all the time, so I wouldlike see books about it. I would
see different terarrat cards, and Iwas like interested in it and basically just
went from there, Like I wouldbuy books that are just like teaching about
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different parts of spirituality and teaching aboutdifferent practices and like different parts of the
world. Self taught pretty much.Yeah, did you have any like guidance
from some people as you got intoit or no? Everything is self taught.
Yeah, I basically just yeah.I mean YouTube is sometimes YouTube is
my opinion, when it comes tospirituality, not that good of a source
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because it doesn't teach you what practicescome from, what culture, and what
practices are open or close practices.So like open practice is kind of something
anyone can do, and a closepractice is something that is specific to that
like culture. So if you're nota part of that culture, that's not
something that you really want to likeget into. So sometimes people don't in
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the spiritual community. They don't reallyrespect that. So learning from other people
you kind of take the risk ofjust believing what they say. But everything
of spirituality you have to fact check. It's all research, Like that's what
everything is, is research. SoI would really encourage like doing your own
research, like reading at a lotabout it before you really like get into
(08:45):
it too much. Yeah, Idon't really like reading, so this is
why I go to Thailand. Forthe rest of you that don't like to
read either, you can find heris it officially official? Tyler Official Tyler
taro so do Instagram. So,speaking of direction, do you feel like
this helped, like give you thatdirection that you were like looking for,
(09:07):
Like I help fill that weid Definitely. I feel like spirituality it opens your
eyes to a lot of stuff likeyou don't realize, like especially when you
learn about different cultures. I feellike it's just a way that you can,
like you know, how to likesettle yourself, you know, like
it helps you learn how to dealwith your emotions. It helps you learn
how to deal with certain situations,how to if you feel like you're stuck
(09:31):
in a way, like getting yourown advice, like you don't feel so
much like you need to find thatin other people. So when I hear
suttle yourself, I hear like kindof like anxiety and it helps kind of
like right, definitely, it helpsthat. It helps like anything that you
could be struggling with, like anymental health you could be struggling with,
or personal situations like It definitely teachesyou how to like like settle those feelings
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and like look deeper into yourself andlook at what's causing those feelings and learn
how to fix the root of thatproblem. So there's a lot that can
be very beneficial to people. Okay, thank you? What is in the
cards? Who are we? Savage? She just got to the chase why
I want to know? I don'tknow, like the behind, Like my
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mind is like what's going on?Well, like I'm not gonna give too
much, uh to what's going on, but I'm dating a classmate who is
significantly younger than I am. Okay, so yeah, we're on different wavelengths,
wavelengths as far as you know,like maturity, career, that kind
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of thing. But but the way, it's like he's an extra sketch,
just like brand New, Like hehasn't been like like what jaden maybe the
word I wouldn't say that, butI will say he's emotional intelligent, which
most men are not. So heactually, you know, shared something personal
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with me, But any other manwould have internalized his situation and just like
hated women forever. And he actuallylike didn't let him jade his perception of
relationships or what it could be,which is amazing because most guys can't do
that. I mean because when youtalk about mature, like you can meet
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someone that's like fifty something and superimmature. Yeah, so like yeah,
dating older men does not doesn't matterthe age, Yeah, it's the the
maturity, the intelligence. I thinktheir life I think, you know,
definitely like who they are, buttheir life experienced experiences definitely shape them.
And you could be like twenty somethingor like fifty something and still be a
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freaking child. Yeah, yeah,of course literally. So I mean he's
been on his own since he's beennineteen years old, so he knows how
to grind. He was yelling atme for using too many paper towels when
I dropped something. He's like,this is what we do in their household,
and I'm like, you damn right, because I ain't a ro bench.
I can afford more paper towels.Right. He's like, the whites
(12:16):
have been on for hours now,I turned the white off and like he's
like, you're okay, it's timeto turn the TV off. I would
be I would be agreeing right withhim because I don't care how much money.
But you know what he every time, like he we only been on
a couple of dates so far,but he got out the car and opened
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the car door for me. Thathas never happened in the forty years of
my life that someone opened a cardoor. That they'll they'll open the regular
doors, but never the car door. Like I was like, good for
you, good for you. Theystill exist. I ain't never met them
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in my life. I mean,I get the car door open and close
for me when I get in.Part is they're scared of you. I
don't think he gets terrifying. ButI don't think that's the reason because he
doesn't do it every single time.I think just when you look at him,
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yeah, right, scout. Idon't know, I don't know what
it is, but he'll just,I don't know, think about it.
He'll walk over to that silar andopen the door, and I'm kind of
like, Okay, this is nice. It's nice. But like I said,
it's not every single time. Butdoesn't often. Everyone should be made
to feel like like even men shouldbe made to feel that like special sometimes
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at least sometimes you want me toopen the car door for him, get
in the driver's and maybe maybe that'llgive you don't know. In my astrology
chart, he is seven out often fed in I'm seven out of ten
masculine. Oh so I've always andI said, this makes complete sense,
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right I My ex husband. Thewhole reason he said his reasoning for cheating
was because I demasculated him, andI'm like, I need to do his
chart. He must have that feminineenergy too, pussy as. I'm just
kidding. Sorry, Tyler ear muffsair mubs. Trust me, I will
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not I will not stop any slander. I don't worry about me, Tyler,
like, I am a grown assman and I can handle all of
this, and I am way morespiritually confident than all of that. I
don't know why I was talking tome like I'm pole child anyway, go
ahead. Sorry. I never talkedto any of my kids like there were
kids ever. I don't think evenwhen they were toddlers. I'm like,
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get up, motherfucker, walk itoff, get over here. But yeah,
so it's funny. It's just likeit's okay, I'll be the man
in the relationship. I'm used toit, and he's like, get off,
Like this is the feminine energy we'retalking about. But he's just so
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funny, and I'm like in mylittle giddy stage. So let's see how
long that's gonna last. Is ita long time or a short time or
a good time? What are wedoing here? Okay? Basically like so
we're doing the reading, yeah,the all good things, all good things,
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all good vibes. Okay, justiceoh so not that literal. So
basically the main thing I'm seeing hereis that kind of like a little bit
of an imbalance. I give theEmperor reverse and the justice right. This
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could be like you said about theage sort of things, So that can
be something that's kind of like onyour mind about like how younger he is
than you always he said a cringyTikTok. And I'm like, I am
rethinking our connection at this moment.It's like I might feel like a little
thing, like you know, yeah, like the age difference can be a
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thing. Also, I'm seeing sothis card versus mainly like going through a
bad financial spot. So it's likethat could be a thing on both ends.
Really, that could be an issue. Just quit his job literally told
me yesterday, yes, this isamazing. So that could be an issue
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with that, That is an issuelike trying to you know, because like,
yes, relationships, like majority ofit is feelings, but like you
also, like money is a bigpart because like you know, you guys
have to be able to help eachother out, like if you want something
long term. Yeah, so that'ssomething to think about. Page of Cups
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like it's saying to and with thethree of One's, it's saying to explore
the connection a little bit more sobefore making any like kind of decisions,
like there's still time to like justget to know each other, and you
know, I kind of have morefun, Like I don't think too serious
right now. It's kind of morelike in the like yeah, in the
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moment type of stage right now.And then here we have the Nine of
Cups in reverse. This is kindof talking about how to not miss opportunity.
So it's the Nine of Cups uprightis talking about like a wish being
granted, and once it's in reverseit's talking about how you can like miss
that opportunity. So it's basically sayingto, like, don't miss out,
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try to have fun, get toknow each other more. That means keep
my options open, yeah, likeyou know, don't get to Like it's
in the stage the fun stage rightnow, So don't get too serious too
quick, you know what I'm saying, Like still, you know, we
already had this talk and he waslike, don't feel any pressure. We're
taking it a day at a time, Like thank you smart. Yeah,
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because I went on another date justto see somebody who had their ship together
on paper and I hate that term, but it's true. And he's,
you know, a construction worker.He's in school for truck driving, you
know, fine as hell, buthis personality was absolute ship and it was
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awful, awful, awful, awful, awful, awful, And I was
just like, okay, boo.I never cheered out, you can that
guy was trash. I can't.I blocked him. I never had.
But do you feel like like likethat first date situation is like a weird
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I mean, we could get intothat later, but like that for the
first date situation is just like maybelike a bad interview, like and again,
let's pay that well, no,because he was drunk before he even
picked me up. They tell nolies. He was super touchy, grabby
and I said, dude, Ijust met you yesterday. But that was
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even the worst of the worst.Because I'm used to women grabbing on me.
I'm used to men grabbing on me. That was even the worst part
of it, because he said hewould like, I'm gonna leave you lloe,
like the attitude, like, ohmy god, you're so boring.
He literally, I love how youtalk about men because I hear this like
feminine, like like you just yo. He created a tender in front of
(19:49):
me, in front of me,he created his tender profile. That's one.
Two. He fucking blocked me onFacebook in my face. How old
is he? Like too forty three? This is why older man? Oh
(20:10):
my god. And then that stillwasn't the worst part. Still wasn't the
worst part. He already knew meon Facebook and didn't even tell me he
knew me until I'm already there inhis house. So mind you, he
got me an hour late. It'salready late night when I got out of
school. So he's just like,oh, we're there's nowhere to go at
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this hour, so we'll just havea couple of drinks at the house and
I'll bring you right back home.Okay, he definitely planned that out,
But the motherfucker had the nerve tosay, oh, well, we're not
really strangers. When I was like, stop trying to grab on me,
something like do I need to beworried about you? I told him,
because I'm right ober like, becauseyou whalin right now and fight you know,
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you know your sold. He waslike, no need for all that,
blah blah blah. I'm not gonnago to jail. He's oh,
he said, oh, no offense, honey, you don't look that good
for me to go to jail.But you hear right now touching me right?
Do you hear? How this datelasted more than five minutes because he
picked me up and I didn't havemy own car. Yeah what if I
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had my own car? Mind you, I always meet people. But because
he had no idea where he wantedto go, I was already tired from
the long day I had. Iwas like, you know what, just
picked me up? Well, Ithink, Tyler, this is something else
we could stick a pin in.But like from our generation, like as
women, we were brought up tobe like super respectful of everyone, which
I don't think is like really veryhelpful and I don't think it's really the
(21:44):
best for us. And I don'tthink it's really the right mindset to have.
But we always second guess ourselves,especially in like scary situations. We're
like, okay, but are welike are we like being rude and are
well? Because you set somebody overthe edge, you can make the situation
worse. And also it's like kindof like how we were raised and it's
and it's not the super healthiest,Like again, something we can stick a
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pinion because that's I think that's awhole nother thing get into. But it's
normal to get picked up, butjust to understand like old school traditional values,
you know what I mean. Butthen like we're always made to second
guess ourselves as women, and that'ssomething we can we can get into like
a whole other day. But thenhe's like, yeah, we're not really
(22:27):
strangers, Like we know each otheron Facebook. We've had conversations, like
he already knew about my breast cancereverything. So I'm like, wait,
hold up, let me look upwho you are, Like I want to
see this conversation. He goes,I already blocked you. You blocked me.
Why are we even talking right now? Who? He's like, I
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know more? Are you gonna befriends with you on Facebook? When I
already have your phone number? AndI already know where you live, and
I'm like, oh you don't.You don't want me to see the im
right now? Like any time togo, time I will cut. You
don't even have to callow over.You have friends, you can just call
us. He probably he also probablytrying to hide you from someone like he
(23:12):
probably like once I got the numberand he blocked you off, like his
all his social media. He probablydidn't want anyone seeing that he like follows
you or you know, is Iconnected to you? I don't even know
if it's that or it's more likelike you're gonna be mine and I need
to block everything from you, likeeverything I do from here on out.
I need to block my phone.I don't want you to see the next
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morning and I blocked him. Howdo you like that? Blocks taggeran taggerant
potato. We don't really know eachother. You don't need to be following
me. Yeah, it's crazy,So thank you for bringing us into that.
I know that's a lot. Itwas a lot. I'm traumatized.
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So we go the home. Thewhiskey takes the time away, the safety
and good instincts and getting the funaway from strangers. Stranger stranger danger.
Oh my god, hilarious. I'mdying right now. Yeah, I'm so
(24:18):
sorry, So Tyler tell us more. Sorry we went on a tangent.
Yeah, But continuing with the reading, it's saying to spend times with friends,
spend time with friends, be happy, single life, live in the
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moment, and have fun. Soit's definitely saying I don't like focus too
too much on the relationship. Likealso remember like friends stuff like that,
do things you would normally enjoy doing, and enjoy that. So his relationship
evolving to evolving to the next phaseand healing inner child and growth. So
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this could be again the fun partof the relationship. This could be good
for both of you guys. Likeone of the big things in spirituality is
like healing your inner child, andit's like doing things that maybe you never
got to do as a kid thatyou've always wanted to do, or like,
you know, just having a connectionwith someone that you know that you
can just have fun with and doesn'thave to be serious all the time.
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So it's saying to really, whyI like this relationship. I'm used to
the serious and I gotta be thefunny one and I gotta keep it like
herded all the time, and youcan't always be that person. So I
just I saw something on like TikTokone day and they were like, yeah,
it was totally absolutely like infatuated withthis guy. And I didn't understand
why. And then I realized someonepointed it out that like I'm in like,
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I'm cool ast shit and I'm likein love with myself and it's like
I'm always making this guy laugh andhe's laughing. But it's not that I
really like the person. It's thatI like myself because I'm fucking hilarious just
saying like and I was even amover here. Another thing, big thing
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that I'm seeing here is karmic relationship. So karmic relationships and spirituality is a
relationship that is there to teach youa really big lesson that you need to
learn. So a comic relationship canbe anyone in your life, like you
can be family, friends, romantic, whatever. But there's different types of
karmic relationships too many people in mylife. We need to narrow this down.
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No, I mean, it's it'sdefinitely about the person that you're like
doing the reading about, Like foryou, what's about like the person you're
inquiring about. But in general,a karmic relationship can be about anyone like
or maybe the horrific date I wenton, that's who I'm learning the lesson
from. I was questioning, butthe whole age thing that maybe I don't
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keep all my eggs in one basketand venture out a little bit. And
then it was like nope, Imean I think you should definitely like consider
like you know, how many whoeveryou dated that was like in a quote
unquote appropriate age, and like howthat worked out, and if like that's
not a thing, I would gomore towards that direction only because karmic relationships
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it's not a one time thing.This is someone that you have like a
deep connection with and it's gonna lasta while and then you learn the lesson
from that like relationship, it's notlike a quick person you just met,
Like, yes, it's someone thatyou like actually have to have a connection
with. Yeah, so it sayslessons and letting go and loving you.
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So it's like it might like it'slike teaching you the lessons, like you
have to let something go, whateverit is. You'll eventually find out through
this karmic relationship that let that go, that's what needed to go. And
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then another card is saying, enabelboundary, where's the organs Jesus yeah.
Another card says to enable boundaries.So it's saying like, wow, yes,
you still have fun, don't forgetyour standards. Still, don't forget
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like your boundaries and things like that, and then you have to look at
the bigger picture and step out ofyour comfort zone. So I think I've
been out of my comfort zone.Well you hear it, but we hear
it like you're already saying you're likeage age age age, and it's like
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and it's like, so obviously there'slike a barrier to you and stepping out
of your comfort imory something. I'veknown her for what twenty seven years?
It would be fine, whatever,we're not that old. Though we're not
old. We're not old. Thereseventeen years experience. But but I'm nice
and she loved me too. Shutup, I don't care. I love
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you, but me knowing her forso long, let me more. I've
told her that she was to stepout her comfort zone, and I think
that I think this is stepping out. And that's why I've never dated anybody
young. That's why. I said, that's great, and let's see kind
of where that goes. But youneed to, you know, kind of
give it time and just see howit plays out, because you tend to
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kind of cut it off at acertain age fairly quickly, and I just
tell the time, just give ita little more time. I'm decisive,
but I see the traits that Ineed to see, and then I'm just
like, no, I'm not wastingany time on this person. I mean,
I think there should yeah, definitely, I think there should be red
flags. But I think something westruggle struggle with as humans, not even
(30:07):
like men, when women as humans, like we have this relationship that like
we've all had like a fairy talerelationship where there was like chemistry and there
was like emotion and there was likeyou felt this and that that relationship probably
did not last, and then we'rehere for good time, not a long
time. And then when you getanother relationship, you're like, yeah,
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well I like him, but Idon't feel this spark. I like him,
but I don't feel like chemistry.I like him, and I feel
like the glue, like you know, at least for me and my relationship,
I feel like the glue is likeit's not from like me feeling that
like this amazing like chemistry or mefeeling like this fairy tale where I kind
of like block out all the badshit. It's more from like the appreciation
(30:51):
from like when I'm really fucked up. They're there and it takes time to
like get to that point and thenand then it takes for me to like
really feel it and see it.And it's not like it's not the same
kind of love. And it's nota love that came easy, and it's
not a love that came quickly,and it's not a love associated with like
this crazy, amazing chemistry. It'sjust like real love that was built on
(31:12):
this strong foundation. And I'm notsaying that if you see red flags you
shouldn't like run away, but atthis at the same time, something that
may be like boring or not whatyou were necessarily looking for can be something
really strong, especially when it's it'sgrown from this like really strong like cement,
(31:33):
really strong foundation of them just likebeing there when nobody fuck else was
there, Like nobody else was there. That's why I said Tyler was saying,
but that's the problem my ex hewas there when no one else was
and we were kind of like traumabonded, if that makes sense. There's
(31:55):
times where we have bed bugs,He's like, I'm not leaving. Knew
he stayed in that air mattress withme every night for god knows how long.
There's times we got stuck in NewYork where all the hotels were booked
out. We were legit sleeping inthe hallways. But something, but something
that I think you also have tosee those red flags. That's not to
(32:16):
say that you you you're not,but that's why I don't look for that
anymore because at the end of theday, if you have a like an
original connection, like a genuine connection, then I feel like that person's gonna
want to be there for you duringthose hard times. But like initially in
the beginning, I think I lookfor other things. But we're gonna get
(32:37):
into that in the next episode calledRed Alert. Yeah, so we gonna
put in that. I definitely,I definitely agree with like some points,
I think, like this is kindof how we're talking about yesterday, red
flags versus flaws. I feel likepeople cross that a lot. They see
a flaw and they think it's ared flag. Right, But those are
(32:58):
two different things. Like a redflag is something like this person is doing
something harmful, so you're kind ofnoticing maybe they're a little bit manipulated.
Yeah, they're intentionally to show numbers, don't it's sixteen y'all? She like,
(33:22):
yeah, it's like it's like someonedoing something that's seriously gonna be harmful
towards you, towards your relationship,versus a red flag. It's more if
they're doing something you just don't aflaw, something to do something you just
don't necessarily like like it's it's notgonna really. Yeah, I give you
the egg because no one's perfect,right, no one's perfy or as cats
(33:43):
ship. But you don't got videoy'all. Oh yeah, we got video
Dirney Underscore podcast, all social media'syou guys are say, be at her
finest, my friend. Wait asecond, I need an over home.
(34:06):
Yeah, I need o home alertas the chicks are chating. Oh well,
holy moly. We ran at atime if Tyler has something to wrap
(34:30):
up with and then maybe like liketwo minutes, one minute, one and
a half minutes. Yeah, thatwas that was pretty I finished the reading.
I thought everyone is getting reading isnot happening next time. Yeah,
the reading is pretty much finished.So yeah, but they thank you Tyler
for your like background and like shegot there definitely appreciated, greatly appreciated,
(34:54):
very well informed. So uh,to wrap it up, I think that
means, uh, don't put allmy eggs in one basket. However,
we're gonna see this through. We'renot gonna shy away because of the age
gaps seven years, but it's okay. I'm gonna holds wrong and we go
(35:15):
as your mature and a good headon your shoulders. I think we'll continue
the journey. We'll continue the journeyand we'll see where it goes, and
I'll give you guys an update andabout a month or two, we'll see
what happens. And stay tuned forour next episode. Read alert. We're
gonna have Melby back and Izzy andwe have a special guest coming in,
(35:42):
so don't miss out on that nextweek. And also don't forget to follow
the social media's Dirty the Letter tUnderscore podcast on Snapchat, TikTok, Instagram,
Facebook, you Know It, andalso on Instagram official Tyler Taro.
(36:02):
Make sure you follow her and ifyou need a reading hit her up in
her d M. She'll do iton Instagram live for you or even just
you know, private you whatever,whatever flows to your damn boat, but
she got you and she'll let youknow what it is. So good night
everyone, and we'll see you nextweek. Bye. No, I don't
(36:37):
like to do that
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