December 31, 2023 • 53 mins
Continuing discussions about what creates conflict in relationships and how to navigate it.
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M hm, no, I don'tlike to do that. It's on the
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Welcome to Dirty Tea podcast, isyour Girl be Savage in the building And
we are back doing part two becausethere was just too much to talk about
and we have mister B in thebuilding. That's right, melby Malne mal
and then the mechanic now you knowwhat y'all can call. We knew that
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would like some point respectfully because I'malways right. It's fine, that's right,
and we didn't need a therapist tofigure that out. So going back
to everything that we talked on theconflict episode, just recap, we were
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talking about to resolve conflict, accountability, I think is number one, or
maybe too maybe number one is creatingthe safe space. Yeah, I think
that's a good number one, createa safe space for your partner to talk.
Number two, accountability, whether you'rein the wrong, they're in the
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wrong. You might both be inthe wrong because you just don't know how
to come inflick with each other.The you're like, you know, working
on that communication. Sometimes you bothhave to take accountability on just not being
good communicators, right, and thenyeah, communication is key. So I
think that pretty much sums up asfar as that goes. But we were
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diving deep in a lot of differentthings and we're just going to touch back
on that. Mister b what wouldyou say is the best way you've gotten
out of conflict in a past relationshipgetting out of the situation, Getting out
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of the situation. I have alittle bit of toxic misen me, so
sometimes I don't do the right thingall the time. That's where accountability comes
in. He's accountable and indulging sometimes. But I'm kind of a smart ass.
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I could tend to like to makethe situations where sometimes that's right.
Because being sarcastic has its perks,then it has its CODs. I'm a
real smart ass. And does thatcreate more conflict? I mean, it
doesn't solve the conflict. It doesn'tmake it easier to solve because that was
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like the fuck are you talking aboutinstead of just getting to the root of
the problem and just fixing it.Sometimes you just expect people to have a
little bit of common sense. Noteverybody has coming I understand that now,
especially people who are BookSmart. Alot of books smart people do not have
common sense. That's just facts.So if someone came to you and say
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mister b this is how you're makingme feel right now. I feel like
you don't listen enough to me,and I can't get my point across.
What do you think a healthy wayto resolve that would be? I mean,
I'm a listener, though I've growna lot. Sometimes I feel like
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older relationships that you have, likeaxes and stuff like that, like healing
from that is like it's like havinga baby. You can never be ready
correct. That's good because sometimes yougo into other situations where you think you're
healed and it's still things that triggeryou from old things. You know what
I'm saying. It's just like,yeah, I'm not doing this again.
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That's what therapy is great. Idon't think that's I don't think that's He
was able to rationalize it himself apparentlyoff experience. Sometimes living off experience is
the best way to go because thenyou can pass this down. It's like,
why if you're somebody I'm close to, when I'm seeing you living off
experience, why would I be harddenough to go down that same road and
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not learn from your mistakes? Seeingit like myself, Because I feel like
every situation is different their experience isn'tthe same as your experience, even if
the argument is similar, because you'redealing with a different type of person than
that person dealt with. So ifyou're in a situation with me, right,
we're in a relationship and it's somethingthat's bothering you and you're telling me
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is bothering you? To me,I'm going to try to figure out any
way to solve that problem because you'recoming to me telling me what the problem
is. It's not like you're makingme be a mind reader. That's where
shit gets difficult. Females tend towant a man for everything, including mind
reading, and we don't really havethat power. We don't have that power.
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So help me, help you,help you. That is my most
infamous line, help me help youbecause I don't mind help, but I
just need like just let me.That goes back to uncomfortable conversations, spit
it out and like I can fixit the mechanic. What's your experience with
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someone thinking that you're a mind reader? Oh, it didn't work. It
didn't work, But it goes basicallyyou know. But the thing, here's
the thing is that the ladies havean issue, especially if they are kind
of submissive. They have an issuewith trying to figure out, like like
the line between communicating and being anag. So if they're just like,
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if they're just like, I don'twant to say nothing because I don't want
to be a nag, and thenthey're pissed off that nothing's getting fixed,
that's a you problem. Or theythink you know how they they think you
should know how they feeling with you. I mean, that's not me.
I'm just saying they think you shouldknow how they feel and what you did
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to make them feel that way.So example, right, if someone tells
you put the toilet seat down twothree times, now the seat is still
up, not maybe not every time, but enough to piss the partner off.
Are you gonna call it mind readingbecause she's not nagging and bringing it
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up again and she feels like I'vesaid it enough times that he should know
by this point. This upsets me. So although I don't know that life
because I got three sisters. However, if you haven't figured out how to
go peet or drop a deuce onyour own and that you can't actually use
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the seat, that's a that's onceagain, that's a new problem. That's
that is nagging. That's a stupidthing to be upset about. I'm sorry.
It was just one of those nightswhere you just got up in the
middle of the night, you know, it's kind of rusty, didn't want
to put the light on and justsat down the toilet and splashed it and
scream. That would be a differentsituation, Like, yeah, but the
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foul person in me, like,if I'm all honesty, if that ended
up being a constant nag or aproblem, I'll be like, all right,
cool, I'm just closing the lidto it, you're still grabbing it.
Yeah, I'd be like he's thenicest, Like that's why I'm with
him, because he's like the nicest. If you if you, if you're
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if you're coming at me, likeI'm gonna put the toilet seat down to
down too. So if you couldn'tput the toilet seat down, now you
have the task of pushing the lidup. I put You're gonna have to
do something. But it's it's onlyif you end up making it a big
deal. Like but yeah, mepersonally, it was kind of a thing
I did at a young age andit's a habit. But yeah, I've
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never understood how that's a real legitargument from some ladies. No, but
I mean like metaphorically, like someone'stelling you. So I'm a type of
person where one of my pet peevesis like repeating myself fact. So if
I tell you something more than threetimes, I'm infuriated by that point.
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So it's is it nagging better tokeep repeating it or is it okay I
said it three times? Now heshould know this upsets me, but he's
still doing it now. It's myreading. I think I think that it's
more along the lines of like itreally does, like we have to rationalize
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with like how how like serious orhow how how how much does this really
affect you? So if it issomething like like I said, simple as
a toilet sea thing, yeah that'sthat's just silly. But in other aspects
or whatever, if there's certain thingsthat I end up doing one of the
stupid things, I ain't gonna lie. Like sometimes if there's a laundry basket
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that just so happens to sometimes bein the bathroom, and sometimes it ain't
either the closer we're gonna be onthe floor or they're gonna be in the
basket. One or the other.But if I'll like it, it's there
and that I know gonna well thatdrives her nuts. Uh. I try
my best, but if the solutionain't right there in front of my face,
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we're simple, I'll just like,I, well, this is the
new solution. I'm just leaving itthere. Well, I think you want
to. I think you want topinpoint the major drivers that are making you
angry, because if you're like ifif if everything is bothering you, like
like the Mechanic and mister Bombast havesaid, like they're simple. So if
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like everything's gonna make you angry,then you're gonna be angry at with time.
So fuck it, we're gonna bemisingexactly. I'm gonna do what I
want to do. Whereas if youcan pinpoint, like sometimes sometimes what happens
I think with any woman is thatlike you get mad at those little things
because the big things have built upand that little thing like sets you off.
But if you can pinpoint those largethings and communicate those large things,
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I think you'll get more. Ithink you'll get farther in your relationship.
See, but I disagree. Ifeel like it's the little things that become
the larger arguments, like things thatbother you on a daily basis that you
like pick your battles and you choosenot to talk about. I feel like
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when something bad happens, you're alreadyinfuriated from all those little things that that's
when you end up blowing up.I think those little things only set you
off because there's like major major issuesalready that maybe like you haven't you're sat
with yourself to really understand what thosemajor issues are. But there's something like
major and those little things just likeset you off. And then so if
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they're always getting yelled at, ifthey're always if you're always like yo,
what the fuck? Like the laundryand this and that, Like I may
say, like come on, likethe laundry baskets right there, like really
like you can't even like throw itin there, like you even gotta like
like nothing. But like if Iwas like, are you serious? You
can't put it in the basket,And if I was giving if I was
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giving the same energy to those smallthings as I am to the larger things,
it's like, oh, I'm gonnago yelled at no matter what.
And as they said, they're simplerif I'm gonna get yelled at, no
matter what, I'm gonna do,what the fuck I want to do,
because regardless of anything, I'm gonnafucking get yelled at. And like I
said, I think those little thingsset you off because there's like there's those
big things that maybe you can't evenlike you don't understand because again, if
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we're going back, but I feellike before the big things on the flip
side though, Uh, just toput it out there as as far as
men go, we just handled thoselittle things and we don't say a damn
thing. Yes, so we don'tsay nothing. We don't about so he's
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sleeping on the floor. So thethings that irk you about us is what
you're saying. Sorry, I justneed okay, So I just I need
to know Jesus crazy, and Iain't say nothing. I just do them
and it's whatever. But I'm amazing, take care of it, and we
call it and that's it. Youknow what I noticed about women, It's
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like it's always like you said,you like, it's the little things and
then we fix the little things andthen there's other little things like things just
never stop coming. It never happenslike with a guy we might be like
damn, like you know, werehungry or TV a little bit of time,
love us, give us attention.Yeah you know what I'm saying,
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that's small ship. Even like itdoesn't take we plan we can go to
school for being rocket scientists and allthat. Females, someone is doing the
dishes or whatever, the laundry,then yeah, you're getting fed and whatever
else you want. Because for me, it's the simple things like that make
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me happy. I don't need,but every woman's different. We have the
gold diggers. I need my billspaid, I need this and that,
And then there's the people who justlike show me that you care, do
the small things that make me knowyou're thinking of me. I think that
matters more for everybody like that.That right there is everybody wants to know
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good and well that they are specialto the person that they're playing on sharing.
But I feel like the larger things, the larger issues that you're not
really talking about or not pinpointing orwhat have you, is what makes you
like get set off about time.So what would be an example that's because
y'all just like dumb shit that isn'treally pertaining to the real conversation or problem.
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Maybe if you're just like, thisis a safe space. If you're
just like it don't feel safe.It's like if it's just like the point
you're going to and you said that, you know, y'all go ahead,
y'all, let these little nitpicky thingsboil up, and this that and the
third and then something ship you know, shit hits the fan and you're just
bringing up everything for the past likesix months. That's what I'm saying.
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Don't that's dumb. That's dumb.It is dumb, because sometimes it might
be it might be like they're notspending enough time with you because they're like
hustling too hard, and you're justI feel like that's more of a big
thing. That's somebody. But that'swhat you asked me, Like what what
would a big thing be? Andit's like maybe you can't pinpoint it because
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maybe you didn't need that extra incomecoming into your household. So it's like,
how do you tackle that with themwhen you kind of did need that
income, but the same at thesame time, you're like resentful of it,
and so those little things are suckingsetting you off about me. It's
not like no, no, no, I have a million jobs, so
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I wouldn't be able to have thatmuch time. They would have to be
patient with me. She was talkingabout quality time, not me. Okay,
I'm just saying women, listen,it's either you get a man that
has all the time and no moneyor all the money and no time.
It's really like it's really hard tolike figure that out because being a man,
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we carry the world on our shoulders. Everything is about stability. With
a man, a real man isworried about where we're gonna live. Okay,
this is my job. I getthe house. You make it a
home. I buy the food.You making some mell mm hmm. It's
traditional ship. Nowadays that's not howthings go. But you need a traditional
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woman for that exactly. It's likea unicorn, yes it is, but
I mean, but I mean,if you want a traditional if you want
me to let my grandmama, mygrandmother did ain't out of work, so
you need to my grandma. Iknow what she was doing, the bills
always to set the funk up.If you want me to be my granda,
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my grandmay where she stayed home,then you didn't even like my Grandpapy,
where he had enough money for meto stay home and take care of
everything in the house. Just sayingI know plenty of women that are okay
being stay at home wives. MeI could never be that. I rather
rather rather may be at home withit literally is imaginary. They're crazy.
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There's no fucking way I would dothat. Think about this either. When
our when are like older generation,like our grandmothers and great grandmothers and relationships
with our great grandfather but grandmomy didn'thave to work. Okay, I'm gonna
explain this. It's like a becauseit's a generational change. Like I never
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seen more women wanted to be inthe same space as a male than I've
ever seen. But when your grandmothersand great grandmothers, we were in situations
with your grandfathers or great grandfathers,I feel like they knew their role and
they just played their role to befair. But they didn't have to work
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exactly it was, but they didn'thave to work. They weren't happened with
these mothers even to the idea thatthat they weren't allowed to work or anything.
It was an option. Then it'snot an option though it wasn't really
an option. Seventy three. Shewas not allowed to go to the college
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she wanted to go to. Theonly thing she was allowed to do was
go to typewriters, where you learnedhow to type. What's the only thing
they allowed women to do. Shewanted to be an engineer, but women
were not allowed to do that backthen. What I mean by an option,
I understand what you're what you're saying. I mean as in, like,
in most situations, you need tohave both parents, are both people
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working. Yeah, that's what Imean, Like in most situations, I
mean, we're talking about probably likeone or two percent of the population that
is able to actually go ahead andlike have like one person be the breadwinner
and actually everything is like extra comfortable, right, But if you actually want
to have like a really good damnyou couldn't have done that, like further
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away from a mic, I justsaying right now. But to be honest
with you, it was like it'slike, you know, to have its
loud as hell in my own earanyway, we're yeah, yo, fair
fair enough, fair enough, Butlike you know, the thing is is
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that like nowadays it's twenty twenty three, that's not a thing. And in
all honesty, like you were sayingthat you you've never seen so many people,
like so many ladies trying to goahead and get into into different fields
that men are in. To behonest with you, I mean, granted,
like I said, I have threeolder sisters. My mom was a
hard working woman. I applaud that. So it's like it's more or less.
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It's like I can appreciate that.That's a good thing. The downside
is is that now men have tostep their game up, and people keep
on talking about like traditional situations,that shit is foreign, that's not real
anymore. Yeah in this economy,Yeah, it's not real. It's not
a thing. And that makes relationshipsnot really anymore, believe it or not.
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Those relationships with the grandmother's they lastedtwenty seven years, thirty eight years
like now, because people had avery simple I mean, they got cheated
on and they were straight with that. Though it was his story. I'm
sure they figured out ways to fixtheir complications. Oh boy. I feel
like people were fucking miserable back thenand they had no choice but to stay
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together because their family was shamed ifthey didn't. I don't think it was
happy, Like I think that shouldbe our next episode, we'll put it
in shameless seriously because like, don'tbring that back. I'm good. I
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were hard hard, And if youtalk to these older women from that generation,
the baby boomers or whatever you callit, like a lot of them
were fucking miserable. They were mygrandmother at home, My grandmother wanted to
be a lawyer, but spending tenhours a day cooking and cleaning they had,
they felt worthless and they had nochoice but to be that person.
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And they never saw their husbands.But these men who cheated on them,
and I mean not every I'm notgonna say these people were cheating on them.
I'm just gonna say they were workinglike slips to provide because all they
did was fuck. When they finallycame back home and now they have nine
ten kids, yep, some sixteen. I mean they didn't have table there
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was no cable, there was nowatching Netflix. Grandma had Instagram, there
was no distract But but it waslike, oh, like my grandfather,
he was an Air Force pilot,so he spent a lot of time gone.
He would come, you know,get some come, and you know
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she was just non stop pregnant everyfucking year. Yeah, But like it
got to the point where she waspregnant so many times. Her last one
had down syndrome because she was tooold bead babies. But that's all there
was to do back then, likeand there was no it was, Oh,
you're beautiful, let's get married.There wasn't too much with the courtships
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back then, like they were likein a month, Oh I'm in love
with you, let's get married.What I know, they don't have that
conversation, in that personality connection,that emotional connection where all it was is
all right, I'm back, letme get some sex. Now I gotta
go back to work. What Iwill say is that's that's definitely something we
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should like unpin and talk about becauseit's like some of some of some relationships
where you're going into it where youdon't really know the person that well.
You guys, you can make youcan make it work with different people if
you're willing to change together. Soeven though those older relationships, even in
relationships where you're like put together offrip, like if you can move together,
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it'd be interesting to talk about that. That's all I'm saying. I
don't feel like relationships are far factsfrom my old ones. I just feel
like the women are new women.Like you know how they say the game
doesn't change, it's just the playersand that's just what it is now.
Like when I say, females tendto be like wanting to be like guys
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so much. It's like a femaleI'll be like, oh you cheat on
me, I'm gonna chat back onyou instead of just saying, oh,
you cheated on me. This isn'tfor me. It's time for me to
move forward. I don't, Idon't. I don't think that's what it
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is. I think I think,actually I think you kind of had it
right. But the game hasn't exactlychanged. The problem is the players need
to actually adapt. So every everybody, everybody has a mindset that they that
that the man is still supposed togo ahead be the bread winner, do
all this extra ship. They wanttraditional relationships, but they want to go
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ahead and do some fuckery and andthat that is a huge problem. That's
why I like I. I Iappreciate my woman even more and more because
in all honesty, like this shipis an anomaly, but in my in
my opinion, it's also the goal. Like I don't understan and I don't
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understand how the hell people don't knowhow to how to communicate. I don't.
I've dealt with machines for damn neartwenty years. So it's like,
when it comes down to dealing withshit, it's everything has a procedure.
Fucking people don't make sense, andthere's no manual for me. Okay,
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there's no manual for me here.But yeah, like I don't. I
don't really, Uh, I shit, I lost my place, I drink
too much. It's fine, Ihonestly I want your I want the male
perspective. You you can talk firstand then mister B. But like,
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I want to know for this youngergeneration of men that have been raised by
single mothers who have spoiled them rottenand done everything for them. They are
in that mentality where takes care ofthem. So it's like, how do
we break that cycle? Okay,cool, I'm gonna let you know right
now. Uh, men have alwaysbeen raised by essentially single mothers. If
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you can't really think about it,the man was absent. My father was
essentially absent. I mean, yeah, there was always food on the table,
there was always close on my back, there was all the you know,
but he worked two jobs. Ididn't see the man to this day.
We were essentially strangers until probably thelast probably about four or five years
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that I finally actually have a decentrelationship with my father. Oh it's fine.
I gave him a second chance becauseof her and my child. But
but to be honest with you,it's just like I adn't know him,
he didn't know me, and that'swhat it is. The day providing money
that was love. No well,no, no, no, no,
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no, I don't I don't faulthim for it. I appreciate him all
that shit. But the fact ofthat raise is that all of us are
raised by our mother. He saidit himself. A man provides the home,
a woman makes it right. Soshe's raising the kids. She's the
one that's bringing them up. Allthat shit. The only difference between a
straight up and down single mother backyou know, back in the day and
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now is that the financials were takencare of, so you know, you
have you have unfortunately like crazy asswomen that go ahead and have kids with
ridiculous dudes and then they bring uptheir child not dealing with their own trauma.
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That's the big difference. Yeah,that's the biggest difference. I agree
with that. So, like inall honesty, like everybody in their mama
has been raised by a quote unquotesingle mother. The father wasn't around.
You said it yourself. So it'slike, you know, everybody says,
you know you need the dead aroundthis and that that wasn't around, that
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was never around. That's a goodpoint. What's your take on this,
mister B. I mean, hisdad wasn't around for different reasons than my
dad wasn't around, So our outlooksare different. His minds is more like
the guy that he's talking about.Women have kids by shitty guys. Oh
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my dad was one of those guys, you know what I'm saying. So
it was like out of jail,like you know, that's why I didn't
really see my father, And itwas like at least his father put the
food on the table. Facts.My father made me have to be a
man and put that shit on thetable for my family, Like you know
what I'm saying. Do you thinkyou would see him differently if that's what
the relationship was, You didn't seehim because he was working versus I would
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rather that because that's the same feelwith me knowing like him not him being
absent in my life and knowing he'salive instead of him like not being alive.
Like my father passed, you knowwhat I'm saying a couple of years
ago, and he was absent,but I knew he was alive, so
I still had like a feel likeyou know what I mean, Like I
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still have a dad, like youknow what I'm saying, Like, and
then I'm thinking now, like theymy father passed, and it's like he's
kind of shitty buzz, like,damn, he's not even here, like
for the sake of my kids thoughit's not even a me thing anymore,
you know what I'm saying, Likemy kids asked for their grandfather and it's
like he wasn't there for me orthem, So it's like, damn,
you failed us, you know whatI'm saying. So that's that's what makes
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me want to be in my kidslife like as much as I can,
because like time is like something younever could get back. It's the greatest
commodity. I wonder if people alwaysjudge like, what, you're not bringing
this to the table, when atthe end of the day, you're just
trying to be better than like whatyou had and not everybody. Oh yeah,
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I get judged every fucking god damnway over it, especially being the
woman. So it's like everyone expects, Oh, the dad is supposed to
bring in the finances. It's okayif he's working two jobs and isn't seen.
But when it's me, Oh,you're a bad mother. Yeah you're
not showing up parents teacher conferences.Honey, is you're not real that you're
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you missed this, you missed that? Well, you know what. The
dad wasn't around and I had toplay both parts. And that's just how
the cookie crul you know. Andit's like you want to be there for
those things. And it's even likeit's even like amazing, Like his mom
is amazing, my mom is amazing. They're amazing women. However, like
the sexism is real from the oldergenerations and what we get from the older
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generations, it's like it's like fuck, like we're never fucking good enough because
we're not like bringing to the tablewhat they brought to the table. But
we also have to do not thatit didn't work and they didn't work hard,
but we have to do a differentkind of fucking work and we have
to fucking hustle to make ends meetand they don't even fucking see that.
Yeah, you're with their son.You're never gonna be good enough. I'm
never gonna be good enough. It'sperfect. I'm never gonna be good enough.
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They just tolerate you because I justI just survive and support you.
That's what I'm on this just tosupport. This is perfect. Never engineer
money coming in when not Maybe maybemaybe he'll accept me for who I am.
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I don't know, maybe I'll begood enough. I don't know what
to sem. You know, Inever understood. I never understood, like
I know, it's just like totallyoff topic. But the situation that Will
Smith and Jada Smith is gonna go. Boy, you know what I'm saying.
I mean, I don't really watchanything on that. I know she
was with August. I've seen atone point, and I don't know what
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the current. I don't really understandwhat there is not to understand. It's
a gay man that was married toa woman and uh to in my opinion,
he seemed well. He said hehad trauma from sex, okay,
and then throw up because used tothrow up by like being in a vagina.
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I'm just saying the details. Buthe was so he was trauma like
driven and so like sex meant somethingdifferent to him than yeah, yeah,
yeah, I was getting mad.It was the marriage aspect. I feel
like I feel like they married andship like that. They've been together,
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they got kids, everything, andit's just like Will Smith was on the
higher all day, you know whatI'm saying. So I feel like people
be putting him. He's a rapper, That's what I'm getting. Financially,
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he fished. What is your whatis your favorite? Like Jada movie,
I'll wait and don't tell me setit off. That's not that's cheating years
ago or twenty years ago. Ohfair enough. She has done nothing appreciated.
I feel like, in her ownright, she played the submissive wife
and stood in the back while herman shine got here. Now she's doing
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like you know, her talk showsor whatever. But at the end of
the day, she said, fuckall this. They have a toxic as
relationship and now she's living her lifeand she's like, I don't give a
fuck with everybody think I think you'remistaking submissive for less talented. That's fine
either way. She we have evenheard nothing of Jada all these years exactly
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until now because she decided to liveher life, no, until she wanted
to go ahead and drag her morefamous women that don't sleep with their kids
friends. It is weird. Thatis weird. It is weird saying it
happened so mistering together. You know, I got options, But like,
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if that's you, if she wasto get divorced, if they was to
get a divorce right now, right, they will be splitting his money,
yes, his his money. Yeah, but he's done some fucked up ship
too, and a lot of talkabout right, like what's the problem.
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And then I feel like the reasonshe's going so hard to bash him and
ship is like she's trying to dolike he doesn't want to get a divorce.
He's not divorce. Like apparently she'sdoing everything she can to embarrassed him
into a divorce. That's her lastresult. They had an open relationship this
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entire time, and it wasn't untilshe got caught out or maybe she did
it on purpose to get out ofthe marriage. I feel like she did
on purpose. Why was she arelationship because would she wait until she's older?
Because at her stock is her beingcute? It's like she's waiting till
her excuse like, what nothing,I don't know what you're talking about.
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Why would she wait all these years? Is what I'm saying. Whatever everybody
they want to go any means becauseshe probably fell in love with somebody.
When you have open relationship, you'reyou're in love with the partner you're with.
No, she's not at the time. She's been in love with you
since ninety six. Yeah. Fact, But I'm just but I'm just saying,
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regardless she chose Will, she stayedwith Will. We haven't heard anything
until she started doing her indiscretion.Yeah, because she's not. She's like,
I'm ready to get out, andI'm going to let it know.
I'm ready to get out. She'sdoing all this on purpose, so publicly.
You get caught having sex with oneof your kids friends, right,
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you want to divorce me and youstill get half of my ship. Okay,
So to say that he hasn't hadsex outside the marriage, he definitely
has. But exactly that's besides thepoint. Actually, actually she's she's not
each other and she raised the kids. Damn, we really are talking about
this anyways. So so all right, all right, all right, because
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I have, I have opinions,so but it is what it is.
I have. I have apparently followedthis nonsense way too much. Yeah yeah,
so like so so okay, soyou have you have this woman who's
less successful than her husband, who'sa gay dude. I'm sorry, he
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just he's soft. He's gonna callyou out. So whatever, I'll still
work in his car charging more So, like, she goes ahead, she
she she she sucks around and sleepswith It's not just August is the first
one. Whatever the hell that cameup. But let's be real. She's
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she's had the red table talk,which it just seems like she wanted to
feed that ship because she's she's,she's, she's done acting. She's she's
been in a band. I don'tknow if y'all knew exactly, because she
sucks at life. So she's beenin a band, she's been in a
whole bunch of other bullshit, andin all honesty, like none of the
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things, none of the avenues thatshe's wanted to make money, has really
worked out. So she goes ahead. She trashes him man who has been
incredibly successful since the early nineties andship eighties. Fuck it, that's the
argument. Y fuck out of herewith all that fuckery. But that's nobody,
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yo, Like, who gives usfuck Jada until she fucks somebody else.
But if if she supported him,she supporting him through his all right,
all right, I'm sorry, ladies. I'm sorry, ladies. That's
saying why even half around if sheain't gonna iron the uniform? Yeah,
okay, okay, so so uhso okay, So y'all didn't know that
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she was in in a rock band? Uh huh, what does her success?
No? No, no, no, no, the title is easy
easy. She's tired of being inhis shadow because she sucks at life,
or maybe she just doesn't like himas a person. She wanted to be
famous and he didn't slap the facehonestly, will to slap me away a
bit more than Chris Rock. There'snot gonna work stage saying there's no that
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is questionable. Way, that isquestion he's letting and they slap him like
that. There's just no way,There's no way. I don't know.
He really looked like a bit everybodyexactly the whole show bitch made. I'm
just I'm sorry, nah that thatthat's just the mechanics is like not today.
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But I'm watching that ship and andand I'm just like, this is
a toxic human being. That's justwhat I'm saying. He's toxic kidding me,
yes, No, he's just whatyou want. No, no,
no, no, just saying Ifeel like there is a part that he
played and that he's not the niceguy everybody thinks he is. And at
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the end of the day, ifshe wants to get out, she wants
to get out, and that's onher. She has her reasons for it,
and for him to tell her shecan't is absolutely crazy. She's decided
to do somebody doesn't want to bewith you, why are you going to
force him to be with you?And that we're definitely coming back on that
pin. Oh, So that lastpart I didn't know. I didn't.
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I didn't know that a gay guy. I was trying to hang on to
the boy he has. He's tryingto boyish. Uh ventriloquist dummy. Their
son chopped his own penis off?Did you know? That's awesome? That's
crazy. I didn't know that story. He didn't want to be labeled him
or her like, literally, thatcan't be real. I'm just saying family
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actually has issues because they had Ifeel like they need to be a part
of this point they have going on. Because that's why I was going to
actually like, as a woman,what what what? What do you think
can sound? Nothing can solve that? Well, yeah, there is no
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He has to start liking Vagina everytime he comes because he's like, she
still looks like a boy. Butit's not working. I don't he still
giant. He had trauma when itcame. That's where like I forgot he
mentioned something in the movie Hitch,but he has real trauma that is associated
(41:12):
with sex, and that's why hevomits when he comes. Anyways, that's
weird, Listen, that's what isactually Even if like I would, I
don't think I would get rid ofmy penis. Let me tell you what
fun I'm not. But I'm tobe honest with you, Like I mean,
I maybe if I wanted to bea woman, I just wouldn't get
rid of my Would you would youwant me to vomit after busting a nut?
(41:36):
I would get rid of you?Was pretty clear. So I'm just
saying with somebody after they were prettyclear in our communication. That's why we
so it's not a dude. I'msorry, there's not enough muscle. I've
been not right. I don't know. I've never had that issue. But
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alopecia, and I think a lotof people forget about this. This is
a this is a medical baby causedby numerous things. So like when I
was going through chemo and I wasbald, I would get my partner at
the time was oh, I'm tootired, Oh I'm this and that,
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and it's like, damn is itbecause I look like a boy. You're
not attracting it to me if youwere delicate, like they were scared to
her. But that was the wholepoint of initiating. I'm sure you feel
the way, but I'm letting youknow it's okay. And it's like,
oh, no, I lady,if my lady had had that, and
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I'm busting ass. Still I'm notthinking about it. You're not focusing on
the hair because everybody knows I alwayshad a different hair color every other week.
But like, that is what itis. Like, Yeah, I
was like, oh, you don'tlike, get somebody else. I think
that was just the person. Thatwas just the person. I think I
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think there's just that there's just anabundance of that was just thetro that it's
fine. Yeah, I don't knowwhat it is about chemo, but you
be horny as like, I don'tunderstand. There's a lot of things.
There's a lot of things that makeit almost a year good for you.
I think there's a lot of thingsthat change. So after was your left
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horny? Yes, because I'm goingthrough menopause now, I wonder whether or
not a matter of like I wonderwhat, h what uh? What the
is it? What fast acting cellactually plays a part in that estrogen really
specifically? No, no, no, the estrogen was what was feeding the
(43:52):
cancer. So my ovaries removed.And that's why I don't want to No,
you're good. I'm very open withit because there's not enough people that
are. And it was like supportgroups that helped me through mine because it's
like you're not getting the information youneed from the doctors. They're like literally
(44:15):
rushing you out. I got thenext person lined up, so like,
and I know, like I'm notgonna put the names out there, but
I know a lot of women thatare going through it, and I know
for a fact they follow me onlike Facebook and stuff. And they don't
want to share their story, butlike other people told me about them,
and it's like it's okay, youneed to share your story because and it
(44:37):
doesn't have to be public, butyou have to talk through it with somebody,
like you can't get through that withouta strong viewers, so strong.
And I was like a straight likereally nasty dude. I would fucking come
for you hard. I promise,Well, thank you. And if I
was single, weird, I don'tcare were things coming out. That's why
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we love her. That's why youkeep me around. It keeps it interesting
all the time. I mean youkept me around for years and years ago.
Say like when you're on menopause,you don't want to have sex,
but I think I would imagine itwould only get ramped up. No,
actually it doesn't. Like chemically yourbody is like dried out. I think
(45:25):
you have more like you literally don'thave anything, like no ship. Yeah,
so it's just like you're like justyour body is drained from every like
natural lubricant, like basically every naturalhormone that gets you to that point.
So you God thanks to look forwardto, babe, but you have to.
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That's where you It's so much moreimportant to find that mental connection because
what I found was the partners thatI had dealt with in the past.
I didn't have that mental connection,and I couldn't get there. Like I'm
not gonna get wet for you becauselike and I'm thinking it's the menopause,
it wasn't the menopause. When youfind that mental connection, it's like,
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oh, okay, I actually canget stimulated in some way or another.
But it's getting there that is thehard part, believe it or not.
I mean, at least for myself, is more important than anything. That's
what it takes old like bad decisionsout. If I see one fucked up
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trait from your ass real quick,if you're boring as fuck, if I
can't have a conversation with you,if if I could just see, if
I got a glimpse that you endedup looking at somebody else while you with
me, anything like that, I'dbe like, yeah, well, my
dick gone just stay sot. Wellthat's what the mechanics said for like a
long time. It's pretty much like, you know, if you think beauty
(46:52):
is your stock, your stock isconstantly plumbing. You're getting older. Stock
is plumbing. If you're trying toIf you're trying to like say that it's
your beauty, that's keeping the wayI think that your beauty, it's your
booty. Ain't going nowhere anything.It will get fatter with all the brownies.
(47:15):
I love brownie. It's my weaknessdelicious. But I'm just in general,
Baker connect. You gotta find theperson that you're going to be on
that deserted island with when apocalypse happensand everyone gets wiped out and you're with
(47:37):
that last person, who could yoube in the middle of nowhere with and
have the best time of He's annoying. I think that is the problem,
is that nobody seeks that out right. Dudes are out here going in and
they're they're flexing wealth or trying tobe flexing wealth because it's it's it's bait.
(48:00):
It's bait to try to find whateverthe hell kind of female. And
that's what girls are, you know, think that they should be attracted to
is just a guy that supposedly isa good provider as a mechanic. I
will tell you right now, ifI see you with a German vehicle,
I know you're broke. Damn anduh and if I see you with a
(48:21):
German vehicle and a pair of j's, I know you extra broke, so
you can't lie to your mechanic,I promise. So, like I I
realized that that you know it's bait. But the problem is is that it's
bad bait. It is fucking You'reonly going to seek out bottom feeders,
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bottom feeders, that's right. Ilike that. Yeah, you're only going
to get end up with chicks thatare sucking gold diggers. And if if
that's what you feel, that that'swhat you want to the end of your
life, have at it. Butyeah, yeah, I don't know where
the hell that came from. Iapologize. We talked about Jada and Will
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and all types of ship and Italk a lot. Yeah it's him,
it's so. Any final thoughts,mister b before we uh log off out
of here. Why do you feellike your body is just gonna get bigger?
(49:24):
I mean, I'm just going basedoff of experience. They used to
call me muscle but when I wasin high school because I had a small
ottle tight but but then it justexpanded from child after child, Yo,
Brownie and I do a lot ofsquats after Brownie is like, do you
(49:50):
check the mirror. I haven't hadbrownies in a while, but I know
someone who pH ones. I meanonce in a while. Indul it's a
whole different kind of high. Yeah, she brought some cookies and only higher
than high. I could not goto sleep. That we'll talk about for
(50:13):
hours hours. Yeah, mushrooms thatI will never touch. Money. Do
you want to meet God? Why? I don't want to know I met
yet? You meet a god ifyou don't want to surf on a black
(50:36):
woman? Or that was just straightup darkness, but he brought me all
the happiness and or she or whatever. Man, I got to get back
there. Let's let's put this toput in psychedelics. Psychedelics, and we're
going to come back. I'm excitedfor that. I'm going to pay on
(50:58):
myself. We're gonna take a bathroombreak. So fair enough. Next time,
maybe part three, maybe something elsewe'll come back to. And I
appreciate everyone has. It's not onewe needed to find him some male all
(51:19):
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Welcome to Dirty Tea podcast, isyour Girl be Savage in the building And
we are back doing part two becausethere was just too much to talk about
and we have mister B in thebuilding. That's right, melby Malne mal
and then the mechanic now you knowwhat y'all can call. We knew that
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would like some point respectfully because I'malways right. It's fine, that's right,
and we didn't need a therapist tofigure that out. So going back
to everything that we talked on theconflict episode, just recap, we were
(01:34):
talking about to resolve conflict, accountability, I think is number one, or
maybe too maybe number one is creatingthe safe space. Yeah, I think
that's a good number one, createa safe space for your partner to talk.
Number two, accountability, whether you'rein the wrong, they're in the
(01:56):
wrong. You might both be inthe wrong because you just don't know how
to come inflick with each other.The you're like, you know, working
on that communication. Sometimes you bothhave to take accountability on just not being
good communicators, right, and thenyeah, communication is key. So I
think that pretty much sums up asfar as that goes. But we were
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diving deep in a lot of differentthings and we're just going to touch back
on that. Mister b what wouldyou say is the best way you've gotten
out of conflict in a past relationshipgetting out of the situation, Getting out
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of the situation. I have alittle bit of toxic misen me, so
sometimes I don't do the right thingall the time. That's where accountability comes
in. He's accountable and indulging sometimes. But I'm kind of a smart ass.
(03:06):
I could tend to like to makethe situations where sometimes that's right.
Because being sarcastic has its perks,then it has its CODs. I'm a
real smart ass. And does thatcreate more conflict? I mean, it
doesn't solve the conflict. It doesn'tmake it easier to solve because that was
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like the fuck are you talking aboutinstead of just getting to the root of
the problem and just fixing it.Sometimes you just expect people to have a
little bit of common sense. Noteverybody has coming I understand that now,
especially people who are BookSmart. Alot of books smart people do not have
common sense. That's just facts.So if someone came to you and say
(03:57):
mister b this is how you're makingme feel right now. I feel like
you don't listen enough to me,and I can't get my point across.
What do you think a healthy wayto resolve that would be? I mean,
I'm a listener, though I've growna lot. Sometimes I feel like
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older relationships that you have, likeaxes and stuff like that, like healing
from that is like it's like havinga baby. You can never be ready
correct. That's good because sometimes yougo into other situations where you think you're
healed and it's still things that triggeryou from old things. You know what
I'm saying. It's just like,yeah, I'm not doing this again.
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That's what therapy is great. Idon't think that's I don't think that's He
was able to rationalize it himself apparentlyoff experience. Sometimes living off experience is
the best way to go because thenyou can pass this down. It's like,
why if you're somebody I'm close to, when I'm seeing you living off
experience, why would I be harddenough to go down that same road and
(05:05):
not learn from your mistakes? Seeingit like myself, Because I feel like
every situation is different their experience isn'tthe same as your experience, even if
the argument is similar, because you'redealing with a different type of person than
that person dealt with. So ifyou're in a situation with me, right,
we're in a relationship and it's somethingthat's bothering you and you're telling me
(05:27):
is bothering you? To me,I'm going to try to figure out any
way to solve that problem because you'recoming to me telling me what the problem
is. It's not like you're makingme be a mind reader. That's where
shit gets difficult. Females tend towant a man for everything, including mind
reading, and we don't really havethat power. We don't have that power.
(05:50):
So help me, help you,help you. That is my most
infamous line, help me help youbecause I don't mind help, but I
just need like just let me.That goes back to uncomfortable conversations, spit
it out and like I can fixit the mechanic. What's your experience with
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someone thinking that you're a mind reader? Oh, it didn't work. It
didn't work, But it goes basicallyyou know. But the thing, here's
the thing is that the ladies havean issue, especially if they are kind
of submissive. They have an issuewith trying to figure out, like like
the line between communicating and being anag. So if they're just like,
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if they're just like, I don'twant to say nothing because I don't want
to be a nag, and thenthey're pissed off that nothing's getting fixed,
that's a you problem. Or theythink you know how they they think you
should know how they feeling with you. I mean, that's not me.
I'm just saying they think you shouldknow how they feel and what you did
(06:56):
to make them feel that way.So example, right, if someone tells
you put the toilet seat down twothree times, now the seat is still
up, not maybe not every time, but enough to piss the partner off.
Are you gonna call it mind readingbecause she's not nagging and bringing it
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up again and she feels like I'vesaid it enough times that he should know
by this point. This upsets me. So although I don't know that life
because I got three sisters. However, if you haven't figured out how to
go peet or drop a deuce onyour own and that you can't actually use
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the seat, that's a that's onceagain, that's a new problem. That's
that is nagging. That's a stupidthing to be upset about. I'm sorry.
It was just one of those nightswhere you just got up in the
middle of the night, you know, it's kind of rusty, didn't want
to put the light on and justsat down the toilet and splashed it and
scream. That would be a differentsituation, Like, yeah, but the
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foul person in me, like,if I'm all honesty, if that ended
up being a constant nag or aproblem, I'll be like, all right,
cool, I'm just closing the lidto it, you're still grabbing it.
Yeah, I'd be like he's thenicest, Like that's why I'm with
him, because he's like the nicest. If you if you, if you're
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if you're coming at me, likeI'm gonna put the toilet seat down to
down too. So if you couldn'tput the toilet seat down, now you
have the task of pushing the lidup. I put You're gonna have to
do something. But it's it's onlyif you end up making it a big
deal. Like but yeah, mepersonally, it was kind of a thing
I did at a young age andit's a habit. But yeah, I've
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never understood how that's a real legitargument from some ladies. No, but
I mean like metaphorically, like someone'stelling you. So I'm a type of
person where one of my pet peevesis like repeating myself fact. So if
I tell you something more than threetimes, I'm infuriated by that point.
(09:13):
So it's is it nagging better tokeep repeating it or is it okay I
said it three times? Now heshould know this upsets me, but he's
still doing it now. It's myreading. I think I think that it's
more along the lines of like itreally does, like we have to rationalize
(09:37):
with like how how like serious orhow how how how much does this really
affect you? So if it issomething like like I said, simple as
a toilet sea thing, yeah that'sthat's just silly. But in other aspects
or whatever, if there's certain thingsthat I end up doing one of the
stupid things, I ain't gonna lie. Like sometimes if there's a laundry basket
(10:01):
that just so happens to sometimes bein the bathroom, and sometimes it ain't
either the closer we're gonna be onthe floor or they're gonna be in the
basket. One or the other.But if I'll like it, it's there
and that I know gonna well thatdrives her nuts. Uh. I try
my best, but if the solutionain't right there in front of my face,
(10:24):
we're simple, I'll just like,I, well, this is the
new solution. I'm just leaving itthere. Well, I think you want
to. I think you want topinpoint the major drivers that are making you
angry, because if you're like ifif if everything is bothering you, like
like the Mechanic and mister Bombast havesaid, like they're simple. So if
(10:45):
like everything's gonna make you angry,then you're gonna be angry at with time.
So fuck it, we're gonna bemisingexactly. I'm gonna do what I
want to do. Whereas if youcan pinpoint, like sometimes sometimes what happens
I think with any woman is thatlike you get mad at those little things
because the big things have built upand that little thing like sets you off.
But if you can pinpoint those largethings and communicate those large things,
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I think you'll get more. Ithink you'll get farther in your relationship.
See, but I disagree. Ifeel like it's the little things that become
the larger arguments, like things thatbother you on a daily basis that you
like pick your battles and you choosenot to talk about. I feel like
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when something bad happens, you're alreadyinfuriated from all those little things that that's
when you end up blowing up.I think those little things only set you
off because there's like major major issuesalready that maybe like you haven't you're sat
with yourself to really understand what thosemajor issues are. But there's something like
major and those little things just likeset you off. And then so if
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they're always getting yelled at, ifthey're always if you're always like yo,
what the fuck? Like the laundryand this and that, Like I may
say, like come on, likethe laundry baskets right there, like really
like you can't even like throw itin there, like you even gotta like
like nothing. But like if Iwas like, are you serious? You
can't put it in the basket,And if I was giving if I was
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giving the same energy to those smallthings as I am to the larger things,
it's like, oh, I'm gonnago yelled at no matter what.
And as they said, they're simplerif I'm gonna get yelled at, no
matter what, I'm gonna do,what the fuck I want to do,
because regardless of anything, I'm gonnafucking get yelled at. And like I
said, I think those little thingsset you off because there's like there's those
big things that maybe you can't evenlike you don't understand because again, if
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we're going back, but I feellike before the big things on the flip
side though, Uh, just toput it out there as as far as
men go, we just handled thoselittle things and we don't say a damn
thing. Yes, so we don'tsay nothing. We don't about so he's
(12:58):
sleeping on the floor. So thethings that irk you about us is what
you're saying. Sorry, I justneed okay, So I just I need
to know Jesus crazy, and Iain't say nothing. I just do them
and it's whatever. But I'm amazing, take care of it, and we
call it and that's it. Youknow what I noticed about women, It's
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like it's always like you said,you like, it's the little things and
then we fix the little things andthen there's other little things like things just
never stop coming. It never happenslike with a guy we might be like
damn, like you know, werehungry or TV a little bit of time,
love us, give us attention.Yeah you know what I'm saying,
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that's small ship. Even like itdoesn't take we plan we can go to
school for being rocket scientists and allthat. Females, someone is doing the
dishes or whatever, the laundry,then yeah, you're getting fed and whatever
else you want. Because for me, it's the simple things like that make
(14:03):
me happy. I don't need,but every woman's different. We have the
gold diggers. I need my billspaid, I need this and that,
And then there's the people who justlike show me that you care, do
the small things that make me knowyou're thinking of me. I think that
matters more for everybody like that.That right there is everybody wants to know
(14:26):
good and well that they are specialto the person that they're playing on sharing.
But I feel like the larger things, the larger issues that you're not
really talking about or not pinpointing orwhat have you, is what makes you
like get set off about time.So what would be an example that's because
y'all just like dumb shit that isn'treally pertaining to the real conversation or problem.
(14:48):
Maybe if you're just like, thisis a safe space. If you're
just like it don't feel safe.It's like if it's just like the point
you're going to and you said that, you know, y'all go ahead,
y'all, let these little nitpicky thingsboil up, and this that and the
third and then something ship you know, shit hits the fan and you're just
bringing up everything for the past likesix months. That's what I'm saying.
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Don't that's dumb. That's dumb.It is dumb, because sometimes it might
be it might be like they're notspending enough time with you because they're like
hustling too hard, and you're justI feel like that's more of a big
thing. That's somebody. But that'swhat you asked me, Like what what
would a big thing be? Andit's like maybe you can't pinpoint it because
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maybe you didn't need that extra incomecoming into your household. So it's like,
how do you tackle that with themwhen you kind of did need that
income, but the same at thesame time, you're like resentful of it,
and so those little things are suckingsetting you off about me. It's
not like no, no, no, I have a million jobs, so
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I wouldn't be able to have thatmuch time. They would have to be
patient with me. She was talkingabout quality time, not me. Okay,
I'm just saying women, listen,it's either you get a man that
has all the time and no moneyor all the money and no time.
It's really like it's really hard tolike figure that out because being a man,
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we carry the world on our shoulders. Everything is about stability. With
a man, a real man isworried about where we're gonna live. Okay,
this is my job. I getthe house. You make it a
home. I buy the food.You making some mell mm hmm. It's
traditional ship. Nowadays that's not howthings go. But you need a traditional
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woman for that exactly. It's likea unicorn, yes it is, but
I mean, but I mean,if you want a traditional if you want
me to let my grandmama, mygrandmother did ain't out of work, so
you need to my grandma. Iknow what she was doing, the bills
always to set the funk up.If you want me to be my granda,
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my grandmay where she stayed home,then you didn't even like my Grandpapy,
where he had enough money for meto stay home and take care of
everything in the house. Just sayingI know plenty of women that are okay
being stay at home wives. MeI could never be that. I rather
rather rather may be at home withit literally is imaginary. They're crazy.
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There's no fucking way I would dothat. Think about this either. When
our when are like older generation,like our grandmothers and great grandmothers and relationships
with our great grandfather but grandmomy didn'thave to work. Okay, I'm gonna
explain this. It's like a becauseit's a generational change. Like I never
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seen more women wanted to be inthe same space as a male than I've
ever seen. But when your grandmothersand great grandmothers, we were in situations
with your grandfathers or great grandfathers,I feel like they knew their role and
they just played their role to befair. But they didn't have to work
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exactly it was, but they didn'thave to work. They weren't happened with
these mothers even to the idea thatthat they weren't allowed to work or anything.
It was an option. Then it'snot an option though it wasn't really
an option. Seventy three. Shewas not allowed to go to the college
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she wanted to go to. Theonly thing she was allowed to do was
go to typewriters, where you learnedhow to type. What's the only thing
they allowed women to do. Shewanted to be an engineer, but women
were not allowed to do that backthen. What I mean by an option,
I understand what you're what you're saying. I mean as in, like,
in most situations, you need tohave both parents, are both people
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working. Yeah, that's what Imean, Like in most situations, I
mean, we're talking about probably likeone or two percent of the population that
is able to actually go ahead andlike have like one person be the breadwinner
and actually everything is like extra comfortable, right, But if you actually want
to have like a really good damnyou couldn't have done that, like further
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away from a mic, I justsaying right now. But to be honest
with you, it was like it'slike, you know, to have its
loud as hell in my own earanyway, we're yeah, yo, fair
fair enough, fair enough, Butlike you know, the thing is is
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that like nowadays it's twenty twenty three, that's not a thing. And in
all honesty, like you were sayingthat you you've never seen so many people,
like so many ladies trying to goahead and get into into different fields
that men are in. To behonest with you, I mean, granted,
like I said, I have threeolder sisters. My mom was a
hard working woman. I applaud that. So it's like it's more or less.
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It's like I can appreciate that.That's a good thing. The downside
is is that now men have tostep their game up, and people keep
on talking about like traditional situations,that shit is foreign, that's not real
anymore. Yeah in this economy,Yeah, it's not real. It's not
a thing. And that makes relationshipsnot really anymore, believe it or not.
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Those relationships with the grandmother's they lastedtwenty seven years, thirty eight years
like now, because people had avery simple I mean, they got cheated
on and they were straight with that. Though it was his story. I'm
sure they figured out ways to fixtheir complications. Oh boy. I feel
like people were fucking miserable back thenand they had no choice but to stay
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together because their family was shamed ifthey didn't. I don't think it was
happy, Like I think that shouldbe our next episode, we'll put it
in shameless seriously because like, don'tbring that back. I'm good. I
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were hard hard, And if youtalk to these older women from that generation,
the baby boomers or whatever you callit, like a lot of them
were fucking miserable. They were mygrandmother at home, My grandmother wanted to
be a lawyer, but spending tenhours a day cooking and cleaning they had,
they felt worthless and they had nochoice but to be that person.
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And they never saw their husbands.But these men who cheated on them,
and I mean not every I'm notgonna say these people were cheating on them.
I'm just gonna say they were workinglike slips to provide because all they
did was fuck. When they finallycame back home and now they have nine
ten kids, yep, some sixteen. I mean they didn't have table there
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was no cable, there was nowatching Netflix. Grandma had Instagram, there
was no distract But but it waslike, oh, like my grandfather,
he was an Air Force pilot,so he spent a lot of time gone.
He would come, you know,get some come, and you know
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she was just non stop pregnant everyfucking year. Yeah, But like it
got to the point where she waspregnant so many times. Her last one
had down syndrome because she was tooold bead babies. But that's all there
was to do back then, likeand there was no it was, Oh,
you're beautiful, let's get married.There wasn't too much with the courtships
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back then, like they were likein a month, Oh I'm in love
with you, let's get married.What I know, they don't have that
conversation, in that personality connection,that emotional connection where all it was is
all right, I'm back, letme get some sex. Now I gotta
go back to work. What Iwill say is that's that's definitely something we
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should like unpin and talk about becauseit's like some of some of some relationships
where you're going into it where youdon't really know the person that well.
You guys, you can make youcan make it work with different people if
you're willing to change together. Soeven though those older relationships, even in
relationships where you're like put together offrip, like if you can move together,
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it'd be interesting to talk about that. That's all I'm saying. I
don't feel like relationships are far factsfrom my old ones. I just feel
like the women are new women.Like you know how they say the game
doesn't change, it's just the playersand that's just what it is now.
Like when I say, females tendto be like wanting to be like guys
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so much. It's like a femaleI'll be like, oh you cheat on
me, I'm gonna chat back onyou instead of just saying, oh,
you cheated on me. This isn'tfor me. It's time for me to
move forward. I don't, Idon't. I don't think that's what it
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is. I think I think,actually I think you kind of had it
right. But the game hasn't exactlychanged. The problem is the players need
to actually adapt. So every everybody, everybody has a mindset that they that
that the man is still supposed togo ahead be the bread winner, do
all this extra ship. They wanttraditional relationships, but they want to go
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ahead and do some fuckery and andthat that is a huge problem. That's
why I like I. I Iappreciate my woman even more and more because
in all honesty, like this shipis an anomaly, but in my in
my opinion, it's also the goal. Like I don't understan and I don't
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understand how the hell people don't knowhow to how to communicate. I don't.
I've dealt with machines for damn neartwenty years. So it's like,
when it comes down to dealing withshit, it's everything has a procedure.
Fucking people don't make sense, andthere's no manual for me. Okay,
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there's no manual for me here.But yeah, like I don't. I
don't really, Uh, I shit, I lost my place, I drink
too much. It's fine, Ihonestly I want your I want the male
perspective. You you can talk firstand then mister B. But like,
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I want to know for this youngergeneration of men that have been raised by
single mothers who have spoiled them rottenand done everything for them. They are
in that mentality where takes care ofthem. So it's like, how do
we break that cycle? Okay,cool, I'm gonna let you know right
now. Uh, men have alwaysbeen raised by essentially single mothers. If
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you can't really think about it,the man was absent. My father was
essentially absent. I mean, yeah, there was always food on the table,
there was always close on my back, there was all the you know,
but he worked two jobs. Ididn't see the man to this day.
We were essentially strangers until probably thelast probably about four or five years
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that I finally actually have a decentrelationship with my father. Oh it's fine.
I gave him a second chance becauseof her and my child. But
but to be honest with you,it's just like I adn't know him,
he didn't know me, and that'swhat it is. The day providing money
that was love. No well,no, no, no, no,
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no, I don't I don't faulthim for it. I appreciate him all
that shit. But the fact ofthat raise is that all of us are
raised by our mother. He saidit himself. A man provides the home,
a woman makes it right. Soshe's raising the kids. She's the
one that's bringing them up. Allthat shit. The only difference between a
straight up and down single mother backyou know, back in the day and
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now is that the financials were takencare of, so you know, you
have you have unfortunately like crazy asswomen that go ahead and have kids with
ridiculous dudes and then they bring uptheir child not dealing with their own trauma.
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That's the big difference. Yeah,that's the biggest difference. I agree
with that. So, like inall honesty, like everybody in their mama
has been raised by a quote unquotesingle mother. The father wasn't around.
You said it yourself. So it'slike, you know, everybody says,
you know you need the dead aroundthis and that that wasn't around, that
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was never around. That's a goodpoint. What's your take on this,
mister B. I mean, hisdad wasn't around for different reasons than my
dad wasn't around, So our outlooksare different. His minds is more like
the guy that he's talking about.Women have kids by shitty guys. Oh
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my dad was one of those guys, you know what I'm saying. So
it was like out of jail,like you know, that's why I didn't
really see my father, And itwas like at least his father put the
food on the table. Facts.My father made me have to be a
man and put that shit on thetable for my family, Like you know
what I'm saying. Do you thinkyou would see him differently if that's what
the relationship was, You didn't seehim because he was working versus I would
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rather that because that's the same feelwith me knowing like him not him being
absent in my life and knowing he'salive instead of him like not being alive.
Like my father passed, you knowwhat I'm saying a couple of years
ago, and he was absent,but I knew he was alive, so
I still had like a feel likeyou know what I mean, Like I
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still have a dad, like youknow what I'm saying, Like, and
then I'm thinking now, like theymy father passed, and it's like he's
kind of shitty buzz, like,damn, he's not even here, like
for the sake of my kids thoughit's not even a me thing anymore,
you know what I'm saying, Likemy kids asked for their grandfather and it's
like he wasn't there for me orthem, So it's like, damn,
you failed us, you know whatI'm saying. So that's that's what makes
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me want to be in my kidslife like as much as I can,
because like time is like something younever could get back. It's the greatest
commodity. I wonder if people alwaysjudge like, what, you're not bringing
this to the table, when atthe end of the day, you're just
trying to be better than like whatyou had and not everybody. Oh yeah,
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I get judged every fucking god damnway over it, especially being the
woman. So it's like everyone expects, Oh, the dad is supposed to
bring in the finances. It's okayif he's working two jobs and isn't seen.
But when it's me, Oh,you're a bad mother. Yeah you're
not showing up parents teacher conferences.Honey, is you're not real that you're
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you missed this, you missed that? Well, you know what. The
dad wasn't around and I had toplay both parts. And that's just how
the cookie crul you know. Andit's like you want to be there for
those things. And it's even likeit's even like amazing, Like his mom
is amazing, my mom is amazing. They're amazing women. However, like
the sexism is real from the oldergenerations and what we get from the older
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generations, it's like it's like fuck, like we're never fucking good enough because
we're not like bringing to the tablewhat they brought to the table. But
we also have to do not thatit didn't work and they didn't work hard,
but we have to do a differentkind of fucking work and we have
to fucking hustle to make ends meetand they don't even fucking see that.
Yeah, you're with their son.You're never gonna be good enough. I'm
never gonna be good enough. It'sperfect. I'm never gonna be good enough.
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They just tolerate you because I justI just survive and support you.
That's what I'm on this just tosupport. This is perfect. Never engineer
money coming in when not Maybe maybemaybe he'll accept me for who I am.
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I don't know, maybe I'll begood enough. I don't know what
to sem. You know, Inever understood. I never understood, like
I know, it's just like totallyoff topic. But the situation that Will
Smith and Jada Smith is gonna go. Boy, you know what I'm saying.
I mean, I don't really watchanything on that. I know she
was with August. I've seen atone point, and I don't know what
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the current. I don't really understandwhat there is not to understand. It's
a gay man that was married toa woman and uh to in my opinion,
he seemed well. He said hehad trauma from sex, okay,
and then throw up because used tothrow up by like being in a vagina.
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I'm just saying the details. Buthe was so he was trauma like
driven and so like sex meant somethingdifferent to him than yeah, yeah,
yeah, I was getting mad.It was the marriage aspect. I feel
like I feel like they married andship like that. They've been together,
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they got kids, everything, andit's just like Will Smith was on the
higher all day, you know whatI'm saying. So I feel like people
be putting him. He's a rapper, That's what I'm getting. Financially,
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he fished. What is your whatis your favorite? Like Jada movie,
I'll wait and don't tell me setit off. That's not that's cheating years
ago or twenty years ago. Ohfair enough. She has done nothing appreciated.
I feel like, in her ownright, she played the submissive wife
and stood in the back while herman shine got here. Now she's doing
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like you know, her talk showsor whatever. But at the end of
the day, she said, fuckall this. They have a toxic as
relationship and now she's living her lifeand she's like, I don't give a
fuck with everybody think I think you'remistaking submissive for less talented. That's fine
either way. She we have evenheard nothing of Jada all these years exactly
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until now because she decided to liveher life, no, until she wanted
to go ahead and drag her morefamous women that don't sleep with their kids
friends. It is weird. Thatis weird. It is weird saying it
happened so mistering together. You know, I got options, But like,
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if that's you, if she wasto get divorced, if they was to
get a divorce right now, right, they will be splitting his money,
yes, his his money. Yeah, but he's done some fucked up ship
too, and a lot of talkabout right, like what's the problem.
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And then I feel like the reasonshe's going so hard to bash him and
ship is like she's trying to dolike he doesn't want to get a divorce.
He's not divorce. Like apparently she'sdoing everything she can to embarrassed him
into a divorce. That's her lastresult. They had an open relationship this
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entire time, and it wasn't untilshe got caught out or maybe she did
it on purpose to get out ofthe marriage. I feel like she did
on purpose. Why was she arelationship because would she wait until she's older?
Because at her stock is her beingcute? It's like she's waiting till
her excuse like, what nothing,I don't know what you're talking about.
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Why would she wait all these years? Is what I'm saying. Whatever everybody
they want to go any means becauseshe probably fell in love with somebody.
When you have open relationship, you'reyou're in love with the partner you're with.
No, she's not at the time. She's been in love with you
since ninety six. Yeah. Fact, But I'm just but I'm just saying,
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regardless she chose Will, she stayedwith Will. We haven't heard anything
until she started doing her indiscretion.Yeah, because she's not. She's like,
I'm ready to get out, andI'm going to let it know.
I'm ready to get out. She'sdoing all this on purpose, so publicly.
You get caught having sex with oneof your kids friends, right,
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you want to divorce me and youstill get half of my ship. Okay,
So to say that he hasn't hadsex outside the marriage, he definitely
has. But exactly that's besides thepoint. Actually, actually she's she's not
each other and she raised the kids. Damn, we really are talking about
this anyways. So so all right, all right, all right, because
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I have, I have opinions,so but it is what it is.
I have. I have apparently followedthis nonsense way too much. Yeah yeah,
so like so so okay, soyou have you have this woman who's
less successful than her husband, who'sa gay dude. I'm sorry, he
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just he's soft. He's gonna callyou out. So whatever, I'll still
work in his car charging more So, like, she goes ahead, she
she she she sucks around and sleepswith It's not just August is the first
one. Whatever the hell that cameup. But let's be real. She's
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she's had the red table talk,which it just seems like she wanted to
feed that ship because she's she's,she's, she's done acting. She's she's
been in a band. I don'tknow if y'all knew exactly, because she
sucks at life. So she's beenin a band, she's been in a
whole bunch of other bullshit, andin all honesty, like none of the
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things, none of the avenues thatshe's wanted to make money, has really
worked out. So she goes ahead. She trashes him man who has been
incredibly successful since the early nineties andship eighties. Fuck it, that's the
argument. Y fuck out of herewith all that fuckery. But that's nobody,
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yo, Like, who gives usfuck Jada until she fucks somebody else.
But if if she supported him,she supporting him through his all right,
all right, I'm sorry, ladies. I'm sorry, ladies. That's
saying why even half around if sheain't gonna iron the uniform? Yeah,
okay, okay, so so uhso okay, So y'all didn't know that
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she was in in a rock band? Uh huh, what does her success?
No? No, no, no, no, the title is easy
easy. She's tired of being inhis shadow because she sucks at life,
or maybe she just doesn't like himas a person. She wanted to be
famous and he didn't slap the facehonestly, will to slap me away a
bit more than Chris Rock. There'snot gonna work stage saying there's no that
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is questionable. Way, that isquestion he's letting and they slap him like
that. There's just no way,There's no way. I don't know.
He really looked like a bit everybodyexactly the whole show bitch made. I'm
just I'm sorry, nah that thatthat's just the mechanics is like not today.
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But I'm watching that ship and andand I'm just like, this is
a toxic human being. That's justwhat I'm saying. He's toxic kidding me,
yes, No, he's just whatyou want. No, no,
no, no, just saying Ifeel like there is a part that he
played and that he's not the niceguy everybody thinks he is. And at
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the end of the day, ifshe wants to get out, she wants
to get out, and that's onher. She has her reasons for it,
and for him to tell her shecan't is absolutely crazy. She's decided
to do somebody doesn't want to bewith you, why are you going to
force him to be with you?And that we're definitely coming back on that
pin. Oh, So that lastpart I didn't know. I didn't.
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I didn't know that a gay guy. I was trying to hang on to
the boy he has. He's tryingto boyish. Uh ventriloquist dummy. Their
son chopped his own penis off?Did you know? That's awesome? That's
crazy. I didn't know that story. He didn't want to be labeled him
or her like, literally, thatcan't be real. I'm just saying family
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actually has issues because they had Ifeel like they need to be a part
of this point they have going on. Because that's why I was going to
actually like, as a woman,what what what? What do you think
can sound? Nothing can solve that? Well, yeah, there is no
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He has to start liking Vagina everytime he comes because he's like, she
still looks like a boy. Butit's not working. I don't he still
giant. He had trauma when itcame. That's where like I forgot he
mentioned something in the movie Hitch,but he has real trauma that is associated
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with sex, and that's why hevomits when he comes. Anyways, that's
weird, Listen, that's what isactually Even if like I would, I
don't think I would get rid ofmy penis. Let me tell you what
fun I'm not. But I'm tobe honest with you, Like I mean,
I maybe if I wanted to bea woman, I just wouldn't get
rid of my Would you would youwant me to vomit after busting a nut?
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I would get rid of you?Was pretty clear. So I'm just
saying with somebody after they were prettyclear in our communication. That's why we
so it's not a dude. I'msorry, there's not enough muscle. I've
been not right. I don't know. I've never had that issue. But
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alopecia, and I think a lotof people forget about this. This is
a this is a medical baby causedby numerous things. So like when I
was going through chemo and I wasbald, I would get my partner at
the time was oh, I'm tootired, Oh I'm this and that,
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and it's like, damn is itbecause I look like a boy. You're
not attracting it to me if youwere delicate, like they were scared to
her. But that was the wholepoint of initiating. I'm sure you feel
the way, but I'm letting youknow it's okay. And it's like,
oh, no, I lady,if my lady had had that, and
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I'm busting ass. Still I'm notthinking about it. You're not focusing on
the hair because everybody knows I alwayshad a different hair color every other week.
But like, that is what itis. Like, Yeah, I
was like, oh, you don'tlike, get somebody else. I think
that was just the person. Thatwas just the person. I think I
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think there's just that there's just anabundance of that was just thetro that it's
fine. Yeah, I don't knowwhat it is about chemo, but you
be horny as like, I don'tunderstand. There's a lot of things.
There's a lot of things that makeit almost a year good for you.
I think there's a lot of thingsthat change. So after was your left
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horny? Yes, because I'm goingthrough menopause now, I wonder whether or
not a matter of like I wonderwhat, h what uh? What the
is it? What fast acting cellactually plays a part in that estrogen really
specifically? No, no, no, the estrogen was what was feeding the
(43:52):
cancer. So my ovaries removed.And that's why I don't want to No,
you're good. I'm very open withit because there's not enough people that
are. And it was like supportgroups that helped me through mine because it's
like you're not getting the information youneed from the doctors. They're like literally
(44:15):
rushing you out. I got thenext person lined up, so like,
and I know, like I'm notgonna put the names out there, but
I know a lot of women thatare going through it, and I know
for a fact they follow me onlike Facebook and stuff. And they don't
want to share their story, butlike other people told me about them,
and it's like it's okay, youneed to share your story because and it
(44:37):
doesn't have to be public, butyou have to talk through it with somebody,
like you can't get through that withouta strong viewers, so strong.
And I was like a straight likereally nasty dude. I would fucking come
for you hard. I promise,Well, thank you. And if I
was single, weird, I don'tcare were things coming out. That's why
(45:05):
we love her. That's why youkeep me around. It keeps it interesting
all the time. I mean youkept me around for years and years ago.
Say like when you're on menopause,you don't want to have sex,
but I think I would imagine itwould only get ramped up. No,
actually it doesn't. Like chemically yourbody is like dried out. I think
(45:25):
you have more like you literally don'thave anything, like no ship. Yeah,
so it's just like you're like justyour body is drained from every like
natural lubricant, like basically every naturalhormone that gets you to that point.
So you God thanks to look forwardto, babe, but you have to.
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That's where you It's so much moreimportant to find that mental connection because
what I found was the partners thatI had dealt with in the past.
I didn't have that mental connection,and I couldn't get there. Like I'm
not gonna get wet for you becauselike and I'm thinking it's the menopause,
it wasn't the menopause. When youfind that mental connection, it's like,
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oh, okay, I actually canget stimulated in some way or another.
But it's getting there that is thehard part, believe it or not.
I mean, at least for myself, is more important than anything. That's
what it takes old like bad decisionsout. If I see one fucked up
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trait from your ass real quick,if you're boring as fuck, if I
can't have a conversation with you,if if I could just see, if
I got a glimpse that you endedup looking at somebody else while you with
me, anything like that, I'dbe like, yeah, well, my
dick gone just stay sot. Wellthat's what the mechanics said for like a
long time. It's pretty much like, you know, if you think beauty
(46:52):
is your stock, your stock isconstantly plumbing. You're getting older. Stock
is plumbing. If you're trying toIf you're trying to like say that it's
your beauty, that's keeping the wayI think that your beauty, it's your
booty. Ain't going nowhere anything.It will get fatter with all the brownies.
(47:15):
I love brownie. It's my weaknessdelicious. But I'm just in general,
Baker connect. You gotta find theperson that you're going to be on
that deserted island with when apocalypse happensand everyone gets wiped out and you're with
(47:37):
that last person, who could yoube in the middle of nowhere with and
have the best time of He's annoying. I think that is the problem,
is that nobody seeks that out right. Dudes are out here going in and
they're they're flexing wealth or trying tobe flexing wealth because it's it's it's bait.
(48:00):
It's bait to try to find whateverthe hell kind of female. And
that's what girls are, you know, think that they should be attracted to
is just a guy that supposedly isa good provider as a mechanic. I
will tell you right now, ifI see you with a German vehicle,
I know you're broke. Damn anduh and if I see you with a
(48:21):
German vehicle and a pair of j's, I know you extra broke, so
you can't lie to your mechanic,I promise. So, like I I
realized that that you know it's bait. But the problem is is that it's
bad bait. It is fucking You'reonly going to seek out bottom feeders,
(48:44):
bottom feeders, that's right. Ilike that. Yeah, you're only going
to get end up with chicks thatare sucking gold diggers. And if if
that's what you feel, that that'swhat you want to the end of your
life, have at it. Butyeah, yeah, I don't know where
the hell that came from. Iapologize. We talked about Jada and Will
(49:04):
and all types of ship and Italk a lot. Yeah it's him,
it's so. Any final thoughts,mister b before we uh log off out
of here. Why do you feellike your body is just gonna get bigger?
(49:24):
I mean, I'm just going basedoff of experience. They used to
call me muscle but when I wasin high school because I had a small
ottle tight but but then it justexpanded from child after child, Yo,
Brownie and I do a lot ofsquats after Brownie is like, do you
(49:50):
check the mirror. I haven't hadbrownies in a while, but I know
someone who pH ones. I meanonce in a while. Indul it's a
whole different kind of high. Yeah, she brought some cookies and only higher
than high. I could not goto sleep. That we'll talk about for
(50:13):
hours hours. Yeah, mushrooms thatI will never touch. Money. Do
you want to meet God? Why? I don't want to know I met
yet? You meet a god ifyou don't want to surf on a black
(50:36):
woman? Or that was just straightup darkness, but he brought me all
the happiness and or she or whatever. Man, I got to get back
there. Let's let's put this toput in psychedelics. Psychedelics, and we're
going to come back. I'm excitedfor that. I'm going to pay on
(50:58):
myself. We're gonna take a bathroombreak. So fair enough. Next time,
maybe part three, maybe something elsewe'll come back to. And I
appreciate everyone has. It's not onewe needed to find him some male all
(51:19):
right, right, right right,gotcha, I gotcha. I got you.
Not that ship, alpha male onthis ship anyways. You can follow
(51:42):
Dirty Tea podcasts Dirty Tea Underscore podcastSnapchat, Instagram, TikTok, Facebook,
We're all over the place, andcatch up on previous episodes because your girl
was wild in this season. Yeah, you got to listen to those catch
up fond Red Alert, Tyler Tarot, body count, don't judge me,
(52:06):
and uh yeah, well we'll beback again next week, So tune in
Every Sunday six am is a newepisode and you can hear about all my
fuckery in horrific life right here rightnow in real time, strength and amazing
positive to all my flat ass womenout there, and spots squats especially.
(52:47):
No, I don't like to dothat. It is made of the bagg
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