February 4, 2024 • 28 mins
After VSavage guest starred on The Kava Club Podcast episode Love or Help, she felt like there was more to talk about. Don't miss this episode on whether our musician singles are looking for love, or just help with the bills. Get info on there upcoming new singles coming out.
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Mm hm, no, I don'tlike to do that. Welcome to Dirty
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tea podcast is a girl v Savagein the building and we have a new
guest that we haven't had on thepodcast yet. I'm super excited to hear
what she has to say and introducingnot a but vibes. What's up?
What? I'm grateful to be here, thank you coming, And y'all remember
(01:07):
probably season one and two, wehave a Marquise welcome back and as always
we have mis He's coming with thebedroom voice every week. Okay, let's
(01:36):
see how this goes. So thereason I chose this topic is because I
was just featured recently on a podcastand it was one of those like live
YouTube video podcasts, which was kindof cool because it was like people from
all over America and there was aguy from Portugal on there, and everyone
(02:00):
had some very interesting views. Therewas a lot of yelling, There was
a lot of arguments, a lotof shots thrown over are you looking for
love? Are you looking for help? And to give just a little bit
of context to that, some especiallylike gold diggers, that are looking for
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someone to take care of them,or it could be just no, I
don't care about that I want tofind the right one, like I want
to choose my partner, or youcan even add there was a third option
added companionship, like you don't careabout the money or the love. So
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in their everyone was different ages,So I guess different stages of your life.
Might you know, determine if you'relooking for love, companionship, or
just help, because let's be real, it's very expensive. We're in Connecticut
and literally one of them expensive statesin America. I would say definitely top
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five And I just want to everyoneto go round, and I'm gonna start
with amrquis are you looking for or? First of all, are you single
or are you in a couple?I am super duper single, super duper
single, absolutely okay? So thenare you looking for love, companionship or
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help? I say love? Imean I feel like I've been single long
enough. How long have you beensingle? A year? In, a
year, in three months? Okay? I feel like the last relationship I
was in it was cool until shecheated on me. But it was cool.
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Sorry, it felt good. ButI just feel like, you know,
I'm ready to have that support systembehind me. Gotcha not abo vibes?
What are you looking for man,I think oddly in this like my
goal is love at the end ofthe day. I feel like, honestly
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though, at this time, Ithink companionship just because I don't even feel
like I'm out of space to completelyprovide the way I would want to in
a loving relationship. So interesting.Also, yes, I'm single too.
Have you been single for I think? I mean, do you guys count
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like a little like COVID relationship becauseI'm like, I feel like if there
was like, uh, like amutual agreement like we're exclusive or whatever,
I feel like that counts as arelationship. Maybe even if a a sure
one. A lot of people,a lot of people had kids during COVID,
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it's gonna be a long It's whenCOVID COVID me you had a lot
of time to spend with that person. It's nothing else to do. So
yeah, because like I think it'slike almost been like three years, and
if not, it would be likeif we don't count that, I would
be like, okay, the mathmath real quick. I think it's like
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been six years. Wow, you'reright, right, relationships, I think
I've been six in the last year. Given chances, huh not for hard,
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I'm exaggerating, but single or ina couple, a couple, I'm
single, okay, looking for love, companionship or help? I mean,
companionship is cool. I'm not lookingfor love. It's not how you find
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love. Love finds you, ah, for real, If I'm keeping it,
if we rib in or something like, you don't just go like,
yeah, I'm gonna go out withthis person and hopefully this is just somebody
I love. Like this doesn't happenlike that when you have like a vibe,
I'm seeing who you are and I'mfiguring out if this is somewhere I
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want to be here, some shiplike that, and it just happens.
I don't think it's just something thatjust you keep on the mind when you
go on a date, like it'sjust somebody love, like that's the quickest
way for it to fall mm hmm. Honestly, I think companionship and love
kind of go handed man necessary.It's like, I feel like companionship,
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like you gotta kind of at leastvibe like something before you fall in love.
You don't just you have to bein a relationship to fall in love.
Listen, your guys, you knowhow many times you crack ship that
you don't love that championship. Ifwe're getting up and we got a physical
attraction, that can be companionship tome, Like we can do what we're
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doing those strings attached, and likeI feel like I feel like companionship is
a step of love. Like youcan just be a competent. You just
stated that's all you are. It'sjust somebody. I'm just rocket with that.
I feel like it's a it's astep. Yeah, honestly, I'm
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coming into companionship. I'm just enjoyingmyself at the moment. I'm not worried
about being in a relationship with you. I'm not trying to fall in love
with you. I'm just enjoying thetime right now. So I'm like and
that that You're right, it's astep towards loving. But that's nothing that
you can't control because you con vibeand I can love the way your vagina
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feels and your personality is shitty,So it's like that's not going. So
that's that's really like what that is. We all have. I'm pretty sure
we all had those. Like that'swhy people are saying like now it's up
to you. We all single,how about you, because that will tell
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a lot about the space right nowrelationships. Yeah, I agree, But
I was in a relationship because Iwas so used to being in one that
I felt like, that's gonna feelnormal, this is gonna this is what
I'm used to. That's my comfortzone. Then I'm like, damn that
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I did have like a large gapof being single almost two years now,
and I'm like, I don't knowhow to be in a relationship anymore.
Before that, I was in arelationship my entire life, since I was
in kindergarten. From relationship to relationship. You should be an expert by now.
You kindergarten. It's crazy. Ihad commitment issues, Like you know,
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you committing kindergarten. You were prettymuch locked in. So I don't
know how you can't call it acommitment. That's crazy. Yeah, David
to beat him at my jump ropecommitting her two different things too. I
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believe that too, you could betogether and not necessarily commit to that pressure,
because that's how people have options forIt's what she said, there's a
comfortability thing. A lot of timespeople hang on situations because it's their comfort
zone. I don't think it's reallylike I'm so in love with this person
thing. Like I think it's justlike do I want to step outside of
my comfort zone and go for whatI feel like I deserve or just be
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comfortable where I am. It's amindset. Like so if you're talking commitment
to me, you talk marriage.Commitment goes way past marriage because people get
divorced, like for the dumbest shiptoo. I was at the dentist one
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time, right, and my dentistwas married for like thirty something years.
I'm like, damn, how didyou last that long? Like mm hmm,
And she told me, she waslike, your generation gives up too
fast. Everything, Like everything thatgoes wrong is just like people find out.
People don't work on things anymore.So marriages doesn't really last long.
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Like you said, it's like youwalk the wrong way. It's like we're
divorcing tomorrow, you know, right. Everyone talks about like having like the
ache and stuff, and I'm like, yes, I'm like, I'm like
at the end of the day,I'm like, maybe it's like a reflection
of yourself, you know what Imean, Because like sometimes I'm like if
I don't like a certain thing fromsomeone, I'm like, maybe it's just
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like I don't really get the X. I really don't, but like I
guess people have gotten it from me. So it's just like interesting to think,
like, like what what don't youlike about that? Is it is
you think it's going to be likea consistent thing for the commitment going forward,
or like you think like you thinkI'm not going to grow? Or
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is it like you just don't fuckwith that and that was that was just
your way out basically, or thatwas your excuse to be out. I
feel like sometimes you put two piecesof paper down on desk right here,
and me and him fill out oneand YouTube fill out one. The things
that we don't like would probably belike a half a page me and him
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m hm. Years would be likea front and back. Then. Females
are great at telling you what theydon't like, and they're undecisive just want
everything that they do. Like like, if I ask you right now,
what do you want to eat?You see how your eyes went to the
sky. That's going to happen.I'll tell you. If I tell you
what don't you like to eat?You're not even gonna thin about it.
You're gonna tell me everything right nowthat you don't like you just said it,
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like it's just a woman thing.Like women are undecisive and it's like
when you want to decide what afemale want to eat, I assume they
don't want to eat right everything thatthey don't name. You could just that's
all it is. I feel likeit's like that relationships too. You might
that's when you get into something andyou get the X. I feel like
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you just got there too fast,because relationship is a mental thing. You
gotta get to really know this personand understand if with everything that you don't
really feel too comfortable with and theperson is a deal breaker or not before
you make that step. Because ifyou if you feel like it's it's not
gonna work, you're gonna be doingfrom the beginning. True. Well,
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yeah, if you go in witha negative mindset to begin with, and
then starting it picking all this stuffyou don't like. But I mean there's
there's always gonna be stuff you learnfrom press relationships where you're just like,
I can't deal with this again.It's gonna be a trigger, I think,
mm hmm. Yeah. Basically theis like a trigger of something that
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you're just like oh she's got hesaid he did in like six relationships in
the time that she's been single.I feel like that's a good thing,
you know why, because that meanslike you guys watched sports. You watch
sports, not really, I haven'twatched it. When you're a quarterback,
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right, I'm trying to tea Andthis is a good example. If you're
a quarterback, you're the person thateverything falls on your shoulders when it's good
and when it's bad. All right, So if I was a throw interception,
which is give the ball to theother team and give them a chance
to score on us, then it'slike I can either hang my head and
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have a terrible game after that,or just forget the interception like it never
happened and just keep playing the game. With him having all these relationships like
in that time, I feel likehe didn't trick himself into thinking like he
doesn't deserve that still even though itdidn't work the first time, you know
what I'm saying, If it didn'twork, you gotta forget about that and
keep it moving, like you knowwhat I'm saying, Like, keep your
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head high and just go for whatyou feel like you deserve. So it's
not a bad thing. It's justthat's what dating is. Sometimes it doesn't
work and you just move to thenext and see if that one works.
I mean, guests allowed to askquestions, all right with what you heard
from? Not doneist? It's cheatingan absolute deal breaker? Or is there
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any way if someone cheats you couldwork through it. Yeah, I don't
feel like I don't feel like it'sjust it depends on the situation that how
it happens, you know what I'msaying, Like if it's like a play
in disrespect, like you hit oneof my homeboys or some shit like that,
like you can't you can't fuck onour homeboys, Like that's a deal
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breaker, you know. If it'ssome shit that's like I don't know something
that Like I'm a big I'm bigon like moral and respect, Like you
know what I'm saying. So ifyou do some shit that's against your moro
and I know it's like not reallylike some shit that I will respect.
Yeah, I don't know if itcould be like something I could work on
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because that's just your mindset and you'regoing to continue to do that because that's
who you are. Like I can'tlike make this situation that make you change
for me. You got to changefor yourself if you that's just like being
the man. I'm gonna take thisbecause I'm a man and I've been a
cheater before, like you know whatI'm saying, And I feel like women
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don't have the patience for us toget out of a whole phase where we
just want to be like you know, of course they're never gonna be okay
with that, but that's the besttime for us. Like being a man
that understands like, yeah, Idon't want nothing but you right now,
that's the best space of being asa man, Like you know what I'm
saying, Like when you're young andshit and you're not over the whole phase
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you're like, it's no sense ofeven jumping in a relationship because it's gonna
go bad every single time because theperson that you are, you're a cheater.
So it might be you might bea little smarter cheating this time than
you was last time, but it'sgonna come out because that's where you are.
But when you're not that person,you're a great person. Either one
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of you done any songs on cheating, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
oh yeah, yeah, truthfully.Actually, so I got coming up this
month actually in February. I havea song called someone Else's Arms. So
basically what I'm saying in a songis that you cheating, then me fall
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into somebody else's arms. That's notme saying I cheated on you, necessarily,
that's just me saying, all right, you cheated on me, I
left you, and now you seewith somebody else, and now you look
at me differently than you did before, so you realize kind of like,
damn, what I did was fuckedup. Like said, I have a
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couple of songs I was fucking laughed, which is like a cheating song,
which that's like Deadly's favorite song.Ever, that's just about like, if
you was gonna cheat, let me, I said, you just me falling
in love with a girl who Ithought was a one night stand. I
fell for it, and if youcheated on me, and that's where the
fuck that I came from. Iwas just like, yeah, if that
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was the case, I should havejust fucked them up in the first place.
So yeah, I have. Butactually I do think cheating is fixable
depending on the situation. Why becauseespecially in a man's case, I think
we do things to push women atcertain levels that we shouldn't push them to.
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Mt not all the time, likesometimes like like Middle Bla basically Bember
proudly cheat on me, and thenwhen she cheats her, you're surprised,
like you did do it. Sometimesyou can't want to do it if you
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do it. That's how I lookat it. Honestly, I see ship
like being a male or female doesn'tchange anything. It's females that have the
player in them, Like maybe youjust want to deal with more than one
nigga, Like I'm saying, theybelieve it'd be crazy because it'll be a
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good guy that'll feel fucked up andI feel like, damn, did I
do something wrong? But in allreality, it was just fucking with the
help, bro. That's just whatthat is. It happens, it happens.
I've been on both sides, ofcourse, this is we are human
beings. I've been cheated on.I've cheated. It's just the way shit
goes sometimes sometimes not above vibes.Have you had any songs on cheating or
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Yeah? The first single I dropped, Fracture was actually based off of my
parents or grandparents broken marriage. Soyeah, my grandfather actually cheated on my
grandmother, but like somehow like madeI think they hired for like help knock
up twice that's fire. And thenI basically just wrote in the perspective of
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like her if I was in hershoes. So yeah, I only have
that, I think for some likeon release, I think I have maybe
another one, but I don't reallytalk about cheating. I think I'm more
of like the I'm hurt, amI gonna project this on you? You
didn't suck up? Hopefully we gotone together? Which one that's how now
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caught my past? Oh well,yeah, technically that's telling me about me.
Basically I had cheated. I'm notsaying because I never cheated directly,
but it's about a man who's cheatedin the past and he tells the girl,
Yo, listen, I had apast, I did this, that,
and the third. So she knowscoming in. But then like her
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girls tell her and she looks atit differently because she's hearing it from somebody
else and not your right. Sothat's basically my past is about. Yeah,
yeah, I feel like that's adeal record for females though, like
hearing hearing shit about their man fromsomebody else instead of you. That'sk like.
I think it like plays tricks withtheir egos and ship, especially when
you don't tell it them the wholestory, because that's basically what the song
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in totally was about. It's likeI told you I cheated, but I
didn't tell you like everything like yourgirl everything right right? Like okay,
Yeah, and you said your albumrelease was coming up, right, yes,
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February tenth, which is the daybefore my birthday. I do.
I've done this every year for likethe last four years. And where are
you doing it now? That hookingladders unknown clothing store? It's right up
the street actually from there. It'syou went to the mind you went to
the one that was there, Idon't know, same place. They just
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remodeled. It looks beautiful in therenow. Nice. I I can't even
describe what it looks like. Itjust looks beautiful. It's like a white
right. Well, excited to dothat, you know, Dirty Tea podcast
is going to be in the buildingas usual and out of the vibes.
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Do you have any projects coming up? Yeah? I plan on releasing a
couple of singles, so I thinkat least two week peace one kind of
bass and the other one like afrob bass. Oh okay, yeah,
so it was definitely in the worksmore or less. I'm just the songwriting
and the recording and you know,then the engineer will handle the mixing and
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such. But after that, yeah, I'm working with some like I want
to get more visuals out, butI might, honestly just do like two
like very selective music videos. Maybemake them into like a I guess you
could say like a little short filmtoo for it. But we'll see that
sounds dope. Yeah, I can'twait for that. Yes, And before
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we go any coming up of Valentine'sDay plans, because everyone's single at this
table, I want to I wantto perform, to be honest as a
as an R and B singer.I love singing at like dinner dinner events
and stuff of that nature. SoI would like to sing if I could.
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If not, probably just relax.I mean, Valentine' Day is not
that big of a deal. It'smy birthday, so I don't my birthday.
So if you all listen to thisin time, if you want a
Markis to come serenade you and yourlady, just email us at Dirty Tea
Podcasts at gmail dot com and we'llconnect you guys, make it special for
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your lady. So what are youdoing for Valentine's Day? Me? I
don't know. I don't think I'vedone anything for the last for years.
So we shall see, right,you know, there's prospects, there's prospects.
I feel like I feel like myfriends single, I might just called
it called a called a crew,like let's listen, yeah, yeah,
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let's just do a whole like itmight end up doing that, just like
a pale pale, which reminds meKim from What's the Topic cet? Podcast?
She was on a previous episode earlierin the season, and uh,
she is doing February eighteenth. Ifyou go on her social media what's the
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Topic cet? She's doing some sortof game show speed dating thing. Oh
yeah, and I'm like, Idon't even want to date right now,
but like I just want to gojust I just want to win the game
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show. Get me right. Ifound anywhere I've never speed dated before.
I've wanted to just one time,just to get it over with a bucket,
check it off the list. Iwouldn't even know what to say.
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Yeah, I don't know how thatworks like a game show, like how
do you make it a game show? Like this is going to be interesting
if it's the same person I saw. So I saw the host I want
I'm not going to say his namebecause I'm not really sure if it's connective.
But I've seen a dude share they'relooking. He's looking for a bunch
of females for a speed dating thing. So I was like, Oh,
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I wanted these two go hand inhand. I thought it was a woman.
She definitely has like two guys nameson the flyer for you to call
and get tickets. That's to goto the show. No like to buy
tickets for the show. So Idon't know how the going on the show.
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Maybe that was what I want tobe honest, I want to better
see you all the dates right now? One is your answer. It's like
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you talk about that with the nextepisode, which is the first dates?
What an angel right now? Serena? So when is the album coming out?
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One more time for the public atsome point in February, So on
streaming platforms will be up some pointin February. Because I want the people
a marquise a market underscore ib OnInstagram, Antonio Marques on Facebook and unknown
clothing. August I said, Augustmanifesting that you know, you know and
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not about vibes. How do peoplefind you? If there's any projects that
people can come support you, letthe crowd know you. Guys can find
me on Instagram and on all streamingplatforms, not about vibes and A D
A B U, T V IB E s. If you want to
find me on Facebook, it's nota v bar, actual government name.
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Thank you guys so much for coming. Thank you. No, I don't
like to do that. It's na
Mm hm, no, I don'tlike to do that. Welcome to Dirty
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tea podcast is a girl v Savagein the building and we have a new
guest that we haven't had on thepodcast yet. I'm super excited to hear
what she has to say and introducingnot a but vibes. What's up?
What? I'm grateful to be here, thank you coming, And y'all remember
(01:07):
probably season one and two, wehave a Marquise welcome back and as always
we have mis He's coming with thebedroom voice every week. Okay, let's
(01:36):
see how this goes. So thereason I chose this topic is because I
was just featured recently on a podcastand it was one of those like live
YouTube video podcasts, which was kindof cool because it was like people from
all over America and there was aguy from Portugal on there, and everyone
(02:00):
had some very interesting views. Therewas a lot of yelling, There was
a lot of arguments, a lotof shots thrown over are you looking for
love? Are you looking for help? And to give just a little bit
of context to that, some especiallylike gold diggers, that are looking for
(02:23):
someone to take care of them,or it could be just no, I
don't care about that I want tofind the right one, like I want
to choose my partner, or youcan even add there was a third option
added companionship, like you don't careabout the money or the love. So
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in their everyone was different ages,So I guess different stages of your life.
Might you know, determine if you'relooking for love, companionship, or
just help, because let's be real, it's very expensive. We're in Connecticut
and literally one of them expensive statesin America. I would say definitely top
(03:04):
five And I just want to everyoneto go round, and I'm gonna start
with amrquis are you looking for or? First of all, are you single
or are you in a couple?I am super duper single, super duper
single, absolutely okay? So thenare you looking for love, companionship or
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help? I say love? Imean I feel like I've been single long
enough. How long have you beensingle? A year? In, a
year, in three months? Okay? I feel like the last relationship I
was in it was cool until shecheated on me. But it was cool.
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Sorry, it felt good. ButI just feel like, you know,
I'm ready to have that support systembehind me. Gotcha not abo vibes?
What are you looking for man,I think oddly in this like my
goal is love at the end ofthe day. I feel like, honestly
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though, at this time, Ithink companionship just because I don't even feel
like I'm out of space to completelyprovide the way I would want to in
a loving relationship. So interesting.Also, yes, I'm single too.
Have you been single for I think? I mean, do you guys count
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like a little like COVID relationship becauseI'm like, I feel like if there
was like, uh, like amutual agreement like we're exclusive or whatever,
I feel like that counts as arelationship. Maybe even if a a sure
one. A lot of people,a lot of people had kids during COVID,
(05:09):
it's gonna be a long It's whenCOVID COVID me you had a lot
of time to spend with that person. It's nothing else to do. So
yeah, because like I think it'slike almost been like three years, and
if not, it would be likeif we don't count that, I would
be like, okay, the mathmath real quick. I think it's like
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been six years. Wow, you'reright, right, relationships, I think
I've been six in the last year. Given chances, huh not for hard,
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I'm exaggerating, but single or ina couple, a couple, I'm
single, okay, looking for love, companionship or help? I mean,
companionship is cool. I'm not lookingfor love. It's not how you find
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love. Love finds you, ah, for real, If I'm keeping it,
if we rib in or something like, you don't just go like,
yeah, I'm gonna go out withthis person and hopefully this is just somebody
I love. Like this doesn't happenlike that when you have like a vibe,
I'm seeing who you are and I'mfiguring out if this is somewhere I
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want to be here, some shiplike that, and it just happens.
I don't think it's just something thatjust you keep on the mind when you
go on a date, like it'sjust somebody love, like that's the quickest
way for it to fall mm hmm. Honestly, I think companionship and love
kind of go handed man necessary.It's like, I feel like companionship,
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like you gotta kind of at leastvibe like something before you fall in love.
You don't just you have to bein a relationship to fall in love.
Listen, your guys, you knowhow many times you crack ship that
you don't love that championship. Ifwe're getting up and we got a physical
attraction, that can be companionship tome, Like we can do what we're
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doing those strings attached, and likeI feel like I feel like companionship is
a step of love. Like youcan just be a competent. You just
stated that's all you are. It'sjust somebody. I'm just rocket with that.
I feel like it's a it's astep. Yeah, honestly, I'm
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coming into companionship. I'm just enjoyingmyself at the moment. I'm not worried
about being in a relationship with you. I'm not trying to fall in love
with you. I'm just enjoying thetime right now. So I'm like and
that that You're right, it's astep towards loving. But that's nothing that
you can't control because you con vibeand I can love the way your vagina
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feels and your personality is shitty,So it's like that's not going. So
that's that's really like what that is. We all have. I'm pretty sure
we all had those. Like that'swhy people are saying like now it's up
to you. We all single,how about you, because that will tell
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a lot about the space right nowrelationships. Yeah, I agree, But
I was in a relationship because Iwas so used to being in one that
I felt like, that's gonna feelnormal, this is gonna this is what
I'm used to. That's my comfortzone. Then I'm like, damn that
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I did have like a large gapof being single almost two years now,
and I'm like, I don't knowhow to be in a relationship anymore.
Before that, I was in arelationship my entire life, since I was
in kindergarten. From relationship to relationship. You should be an expert by now.
You kindergarten. It's crazy. Ihad commitment issues, Like you know,
(09:22):
you committing kindergarten. You were prettymuch locked in. So I don't
know how you can't call it acommitment. That's crazy. Yeah, David
to beat him at my jump ropecommitting her two different things too. I
(09:46):
believe that too, you could betogether and not necessarily commit to that pressure,
because that's how people have options forIt's what she said, there's a
comfortability thing. A lot of timespeople hang on situations because it's their comfort
zone. I don't think it's reallylike I'm so in love with this person
thing. Like I think it's justlike do I want to step outside of
my comfort zone and go for whatI feel like I deserve or just be
(10:09):
comfortable where I am. It's amindset. Like so if you're talking commitment
to me, you talk marriage.Commitment goes way past marriage because people get
divorced, like for the dumbest shiptoo. I was at the dentist one
(10:31):
time, right, and my dentistwas married for like thirty something years.
I'm like, damn, how didyou last that long? Like mm hmm,
And she told me, she waslike, your generation gives up too
fast. Everything, Like everything thatgoes wrong is just like people find out.
People don't work on things anymore.So marriages doesn't really last long.
(10:54):
Like you said, it's like youwalk the wrong way. It's like we're
divorcing tomorrow, you know, right. Everyone talks about like having like the
ache and stuff, and I'm like, yes, I'm like, I'm like
at the end of the day,I'm like, maybe it's like a reflection
of yourself, you know what Imean, Because like sometimes I'm like if
I don't like a certain thing fromsomeone, I'm like, maybe it's just
(11:15):
like I don't really get the X. I really don't, but like I
guess people have gotten it from me. So it's just like interesting to think,
like, like what what don't youlike about that? Is it is
you think it's going to be likea consistent thing for the commitment going forward,
or like you think like you thinkI'm not going to grow? Or
(11:35):
is it like you just don't fuckwith that and that was that was just
your way out basically, or thatwas your excuse to be out. I
feel like sometimes you put two piecesof paper down on desk right here,
and me and him fill out oneand YouTube fill out one. The things
that we don't like would probably belike a half a page me and him
(11:56):
m hm. Years would be likea front and back. Then. Females
are great at telling you what theydon't like, and they're undecisive just want
everything that they do. Like like, if I ask you right now,
what do you want to eat?You see how your eyes went to the
sky. That's going to happen.I'll tell you. If I tell you
what don't you like to eat?You're not even gonna thin about it.
You're gonna tell me everything right nowthat you don't like you just said it,
(12:24):
like it's just a woman thing.Like women are undecisive and it's like
when you want to decide what afemale want to eat, I assume they
don't want to eat right everything thatthey don't name. You could just that's
all it is. I feel likeit's like that relationships too. You might
that's when you get into something andyou get the X. I feel like
(12:45):
you just got there too fast,because relationship is a mental thing. You
gotta get to really know this personand understand if with everything that you don't
really feel too comfortable with and theperson is a deal breaker or not before
you make that step. Because ifyou if you feel like it's it's not
gonna work, you're gonna be doingfrom the beginning. True. Well,
(13:09):
yeah, if you go in witha negative mindset to begin with, and
then starting it picking all this stuffyou don't like. But I mean there's
there's always gonna be stuff you learnfrom press relationships where you're just like,
I can't deal with this again.It's gonna be a trigger, I think,
mm hmm. Yeah. Basically theis like a trigger of something that
(13:31):
you're just like oh she's got hesaid he did in like six relationships in
the time that she's been single.I feel like that's a good thing,
you know why, because that meanslike you guys watched sports. You watch
sports, not really, I haven'twatched it. When you're a quarterback,
(13:52):
right, I'm trying to tea Andthis is a good example. If you're
a quarterback, you're the person thateverything falls on your shoulders when it's good
and when it's bad. All right, So if I was a throw interception,
which is give the ball to theother team and give them a chance
to score on us, then it'slike I can either hang my head and
(14:16):
have a terrible game after that,or just forget the interception like it never
happened and just keep playing the game. With him having all these relationships like
in that time, I feel likehe didn't trick himself into thinking like he
doesn't deserve that still even though itdidn't work the first time, you know
what I'm saying, If it didn'twork, you gotta forget about that and
keep it moving, like you knowwhat I'm saying, Like, keep your
(14:37):
head high and just go for whatyou feel like you deserve. So it's
not a bad thing. It's justthat's what dating is. Sometimes it doesn't
work and you just move to thenext and see if that one works.
I mean, guests allowed to askquestions, all right with what you heard
from? Not doneist? It's cheatingan absolute deal breaker? Or is there
(15:01):
any way if someone cheats you couldwork through it. Yeah, I don't
feel like I don't feel like it'sjust it depends on the situation that how
it happens, you know what I'msaying, Like if it's like a play
in disrespect, like you hit oneof my homeboys or some shit like that,
like you can't you can't fuck onour homeboys, Like that's a deal
(15:24):
breaker, you know. If it'ssome shit that's like I don't know something
that Like I'm a big I'm bigon like moral and respect, Like you
know what I'm saying. So ifyou do some shit that's against your moro
and I know it's like not reallylike some shit that I will respect.
Yeah, I don't know if itcould be like something I could work on
(15:46):
because that's just your mindset and you'regoing to continue to do that because that's
who you are. Like I can'tlike make this situation that make you change
for me. You got to changefor yourself if you that's just like being
the man. I'm gonna take thisbecause I'm a man and I've been a
cheater before, like you know whatI'm saying, And I feel like women
(16:06):
don't have the patience for us toget out of a whole phase where we
just want to be like you know, of course they're never gonna be okay
with that, but that's the besttime for us. Like being a man
that understands like, yeah, Idon't want nothing but you right now,
that's the best space of being asa man, Like you know what I'm
saying, Like when you're young andshit and you're not over the whole phase
(16:27):
you're like, it's no sense ofeven jumping in a relationship because it's gonna
go bad every single time because theperson that you are, you're a cheater.
So it might be you might bea little smarter cheating this time than
you was last time, but it'sgonna come out because that's where you are.
But when you're not that person,you're a great person. Either one
(16:51):
of you done any songs on cheating, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
oh yeah, yeah, truthfully.Actually, so I got coming up this
month actually in February. I havea song called someone Else's Arms. So
basically what I'm saying in a songis that you cheating, then me fall
(17:14):
into somebody else's arms. That's notme saying I cheated on you, necessarily,
that's just me saying, all right, you cheated on me, I
left you, and now you seewith somebody else, and now you look
at me differently than you did before, so you realize kind of like,
damn, what I did was fuckedup. Like said, I have a
(17:36):
couple of songs I was fucking laughed, which is like a cheating song,
which that's like Deadly's favorite song.Ever, that's just about like, if
you was gonna cheat, let me, I said, you just me falling
in love with a girl who Ithought was a one night stand. I
fell for it, and if youcheated on me, and that's where the
fuck that I came from. Iwas just like, yeah, if that
(18:00):
was the case, I should havejust fucked them up in the first place.
So yeah, I have. Butactually I do think cheating is fixable
depending on the situation. Why becauseespecially in a man's case, I think
we do things to push women atcertain levels that we shouldn't push them to.
(18:22):
Mt not all the time, likesometimes like like Middle Bla basically Bember
proudly cheat on me, and thenwhen she cheats her, you're surprised,
like you did do it. Sometimesyou can't want to do it if you
(18:45):
do it. That's how I lookat it. Honestly, I see ship
like being a male or female doesn'tchange anything. It's females that have the
player in them, Like maybe youjust want to deal with more than one
nigga, Like I'm saying, theybelieve it'd be crazy because it'll be a
(19:06):
good guy that'll feel fucked up andI feel like, damn, did I
do something wrong? But in allreality, it was just fucking with the
help, bro. That's just whatthat is. It happens, it happens.
I've been on both sides, ofcourse, this is we are human
beings. I've been cheated on.I've cheated. It's just the way shit
goes sometimes sometimes not above vibes.Have you had any songs on cheating or
(19:34):
Yeah? The first single I dropped, Fracture was actually based off of my
parents or grandparents broken marriage. Soyeah, my grandfather actually cheated on my
grandmother, but like somehow like madeI think they hired for like help knock
up twice that's fire. And thenI basically just wrote in the perspective of
(19:56):
like her if I was in hershoes. So yeah, I only have
that, I think for some likeon release, I think I have maybe
another one, but I don't reallytalk about cheating. I think I'm more
of like the I'm hurt, amI gonna project this on you? You
didn't suck up? Hopefully we gotone together? Which one that's how now
(20:18):
caught my past? Oh well,yeah, technically that's telling me about me.
Basically I had cheated. I'm notsaying because I never cheated directly,
but it's about a man who's cheatedin the past and he tells the girl,
Yo, listen, I had apast, I did this, that,
and the third. So she knowscoming in. But then like her
(20:41):
girls tell her and she looks atit differently because she's hearing it from somebody
else and not your right. Sothat's basically my past is about. Yeah,
yeah, I feel like that's adeal record for females though, like
hearing hearing shit about their man fromsomebody else instead of you. That'sk like.
I think it like plays tricks withtheir egos and ship, especially when
you don't tell it them the wholestory, because that's basically what the song
(21:03):
in totally was about. It's likeI told you I cheated, but I
didn't tell you like everything like yourgirl everything right right? Like okay,
Yeah, and you said your albumrelease was coming up, right, yes,
(21:29):
February tenth, which is the daybefore my birthday. I do.
I've done this every year for likethe last four years. And where are
you doing it now? That hookingladders unknown clothing store? It's right up
the street actually from there. It'syou went to the mind you went to
the one that was there, Idon't know, same place. They just
(21:52):
remodeled. It looks beautiful in therenow. Nice. I I can't even
describe what it looks like. Itjust looks beautiful. It's like a white
right. Well, excited to dothat, you know, Dirty Tea podcast
is going to be in the buildingas usual and out of the vibes.
(22:14):
Do you have any projects coming up? Yeah? I plan on releasing a
couple of singles, so I thinkat least two week peace one kind of
bass and the other one like afrob bass. Oh okay, yeah,
so it was definitely in the worksmore or less. I'm just the songwriting
and the recording and you know,then the engineer will handle the mixing and
(22:36):
such. But after that, yeah, I'm working with some like I want
to get more visuals out, butI might, honestly just do like two
like very selective music videos. Maybemake them into like a I guess you
could say like a little short filmtoo for it. But we'll see that
sounds dope. Yeah, I can'twait for that. Yes, And before
(23:03):
we go any coming up of Valentine'sDay plans, because everyone's single at this
table, I want to I wantto perform, to be honest as a
as an R and B singer.I love singing at like dinner dinner events
and stuff of that nature. SoI would like to sing if I could.
(23:26):
If not, probably just relax.I mean, Valentine' Day is not
that big of a deal. It'smy birthday, so I don't my birthday.
So if you all listen to thisin time, if you want a
Markis to come serenade you and yourlady, just email us at Dirty Tea
Podcasts at gmail dot com and we'llconnect you guys, make it special for
(23:51):
your lady. So what are youdoing for Valentine's Day? Me? I
don't know. I don't think I'vedone anything for the last for years.
So we shall see, right,you know, there's prospects, there's prospects.
I feel like I feel like myfriends single, I might just called
it called a called a crew,like let's listen, yeah, yeah,
(24:12):
let's just do a whole like itmight end up doing that, just like
a pale pale, which reminds meKim from What's the Topic cet? Podcast?
She was on a previous episode earlierin the season, and uh,
she is doing February eighteenth. Ifyou go on her social media what's the
(24:37):
Topic cet? She's doing some sortof game show speed dating thing. Oh
yeah, and I'm like, Idon't even want to date right now,
but like I just want to gojust I just want to win the game
(24:57):
show. Get me right. Ifound anywhere I've never speed dated before.
I've wanted to just one time,just to get it over with a bucket,
check it off the list. Iwouldn't even know what to say.
(25:18):
Yeah, I don't know how thatworks like a game show, like how
do you make it a game show? Like this is going to be interesting
if it's the same person I saw. So I saw the host I want
I'm not going to say his namebecause I'm not really sure if it's connective.
But I've seen a dude share they'relooking. He's looking for a bunch
of females for a speed dating thing. So I was like, Oh,
(25:40):
I wanted these two go hand inhand. I thought it was a woman.
She definitely has like two guys nameson the flyer for you to call
and get tickets. That's to goto the show. No like to buy
tickets for the show. So Idon't know how the going on the show.
(26:00):
Maybe that was what I want tobe honest, I want to better
see you all the dates right now? One is your answer. It's like
(26:25):
you talk about that with the nextepisode, which is the first dates?
What an angel right now? Serena? So when is the album coming out?
(26:47):
One more time for the public atsome point in February, So on
streaming platforms will be up some pointin February. Because I want the people
a marquise a market underscore ib OnInstagram, Antonio Marques on Facebook and unknown
clothing. August I said, Augustmanifesting that you know, you know and
(27:18):
not about vibes. How do peoplefind you? If there's any projects that
people can come support you, letthe crowd know you. Guys can find
me on Instagram and on all streamingplatforms, not about vibes and A D
A B U, T V IB E s. If you want to
find me on Facebook, it's nota v bar, actual government name.
(27:45):
Thank you guys so much for coming. Thank you. No, I don't
like to do that. It's na
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