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September 7, 2025 6 mins
People Who Love To Be Controlling & Tell Other People What To Do, When To Do Things, How To Do Things Their Way, What To Say, How To Say Things, Etc..
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Speaker 1 (00:15):
Hey, everybody, Welcome to today's show. Welcome to Disabled Reality.
I'm your host, Anthony L. Rito Duke, and we have
a very important topic for today's show, in which it
is people who like to tell other people what to do,
when to do it, how to do it, what to say,

(00:36):
how to say things. So let's get right into this. Unfortunately,
in today's society, there are a lot of people who
are like that. You know, they love to tell people
what to do, what to say, when to say it,
how to say it, when to do things, and how

(00:59):
to do things, and and to do it their way
and only their way, and how to speak and how
they want you to speak. And I've never done that
in my entire lifespan. I'm fifty three years old. I've
never ever done that to anybody. When somebody talks to me. Okay,

(01:32):
here's the thing I would say, oh, okay, in order
to oh give them recognition to our acknowledgement. I'm saying, sorry,
let me correct that, to give them acknowledgment, letting them
know that I hear what they're saying, right, not that

(01:53):
I agree with it, It's just an acknowledgment letting them
know that. Okay, I heard what you said. Now do
I give my opinions and my suggestions to people when
they speak. The only time when I would ever do
that is if they ask me for my opinions or

(02:15):
my suggestions. If people do not ask me for my
opinions or suggestions, then I do not give that to them.
I don't why because it would make them feel like
they're stupid if they don't know how to do things,

(02:39):
that's why. So unless if somebody axes you for your
opinion or your suggestion, then don't say anything to them
about about your opinions or your suggestions. Keep it to yourself.
Do I tell people how to do and when to

(03:01):
do and so on and so forth. No, No, if somebody,
if somebody tells me that they're going to be doing
something again, I would just give them an okay for
an uh, giving them an acknowledgment of okay, I heard

(03:25):
what you said. They're in the adult age, Hey listen,
they know right from wrong. They already know right from wrong.
That's that again. I do not give my suggestions or
my opinions unless to people unless if they ask for them,

(03:50):
and if I ask them. If I ask them, then
I show it the appreciation that. Okay, I appreciate your
suggestion of your opinion, which I then value, but only

(04:11):
if I ask for it first. There's a difference here
because a lot of people out there love to be controlling.
They love it, they have to have it. But that
doesn't work in real life. It doesn't. It doesn't. So

(04:43):
you know, that's just how I. You know, this is
just how I do things seriously. So but anyways, I
want to remind all my fans out there about my business,
which is my website, Advocate Information Highway. The link to
there is a I h n Y dot com. Again,

(05:04):
that's a I h n Y dot com and you
can check out all the pages on there, and I
just want to remind all my fans out there that
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(05:28):
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(05:49):
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for sale on Amazon now. So with that, take care everybody. Bye,
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