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September 26, 2025 48 mins
What High-Quality Men Secretly Want (And Why Anxiety Pushes Them Away) Dating a high-quality man isn’t about playing games—it’s about becoming your most authentic, magnetic self. In this episode of Midlife Love Out Loud, Junie Moon sits down with international relationship coach Clayton Olson to reveal what high-quality men secretly want—and why dating anxiety can quietly sabotage your love life. You’ll discover:
  • The “finite vs. infinite” mindset shift that makes dating feel exciting instead of exhausting
  • Why being willing to walk away is incredibly attractive
  • How showing your “dark side” can deepen trust
  • The art of challenging a man in a way that inspires growth, not defensiveness
If you’ve ever felt like dating in midlife is a high-stakes game, this conversation will help you relax into the journey, keep your standards high, and attract love that lasts. Clayton Olson transforms lives through the heart. As an International Executive Relationship Coach and Author, he's guided nearly 1,000 clients across four continents over 11 years, turning relationship pain into lasting love. After scaling startup teams for a decade, Clayton made a bold leap into transformational coaching—yearning for those raw, life-changing conversations that matter most. He's invested over $200,000 in his own growth, mastering Transformational NLP and earning CTA accreditation. Clayton doesn't offer band-aid solutions. He dives deep into the painful patterns that keep people stuck, rewiring them from the inside out. His clients don't just fix their relationships—they discover peace, clarity, and joy that ripples into every corner of their lives: career, purpose, spirituality, and beyond. Grab Your Secure Relationship Blueprint https://claytonolsoncoaching.com/the-secure-relationship-blueprint/https://www.youtube.com/@claytonolsoncoachinghttps://www.instagram.com/claytonolsoncoaching/ Learn more about Junie here: https://www.midlifeloveoutloud.com
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