Everythin' Yet Nothin' and Ace O'Hearts #3

This is the third week of the Ace O'Hearts Saga. We have leaned about his past and present, now it is time to see what he has planned for the future.

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Episode Transcript

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Warning. The following video contains stronglanguage which may be offensive to some viewers
and or inappropriate for children. Contentwithin this video is intended for mature audiences
only. Welcome to Everything Yet Nothing. Here's a hill billy and eyeshadow who's
looking fabulous and talking about anything yetSomething. Get ready to chew on a
blaze of sweet grass and talk abouta variety of LGBTQ topics to the lifestyle

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of a gay hill billy. Watchup books. These hills don't just got
eyes, they got themselves a podcast. Now here's t Roy. Hey,
Hey, hey, hey, Hana. Welcome to Everything Yet Nothing. Oh
my god, if you haven't beenwatching the last two weeks, honey,

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you need to remind your stuff andwatch it because this is the last show.
And let me tell you, Ihave had so much fun getting to
know this individual because you know,of course, it's kind of like my
job to get to know people that'scoming on my show, because I get
to pick who comes on my show. So yeah and so and so.

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I really got to learn a lotabout this individual. And you know,
just by looking, you can lookand tell that he's talented, you can
look and tell that he is oneperson that is always going to stick out
amongst everybody and don't give a shitabout what anybody else says or thinks or

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does. I mean, hello,he lives his life, and I think
a lot of us individuals that arewho we are and how we are need
to absolutely live our life to thefullest. Okay, you don't got to
live my life, he chips,Hey, Chap, what's up talking?

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Nah? Sorry, I didn't meanto cut you off whatever. So so
uh yeah, um, I can'twait to get to the end of his
story. And yeah, this isan end. What about the best of
the middle. We did that lastweek. Honey, you weren't here,

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Oh you were, but you're learning. I remember. It's okay, husbands,
you're not my husband on here.Argue you're like your sister, a
sister. I don't learn. Icall him my secretary all the time.
He does not like that. He'slike, I am not your secretary.

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Like, then, what are youmy husband? You gotta love husbands,
you can just do whatever. Anyways. Um, this individual is very eccentric
and I love that, and he'svery roal rainbow wish as you can tell.
I don't like rainbow or anything anythingoh, I meant to change that

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background. Okay, my word.Okay. What you don't see is because
it's green and behind me is agreen screen, so whatever I'm wearing is
green, it does not show up. So like four shows ago, it
was really funny because all you couldsee is my head. It was like

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I was like a ghost dead orsome Oh I like that one right there.
I didn't see that one. Sowe're doing a little bitter down loading,
up loading, Kathay and I cannotlet to show what we are doing.
Check behind the scenes on only fans, I mean everything yet what and

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the sheep shit are you talking about? Don't they don't remember that our state?
I mean, come on now,how will we go and get more
viewers? True? Come on?Everybody? Not really good? You know
our secrets? I'm an only fannow, we don't have secrets. If
we did, we show the linkfor real. Now. We need your

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presents, we need everything, Weneed you to watch us. Um where
did we go? I don't know. It's everything, nothing on the whole
everything. I don't know. That'sjust some some rants that happen when I'm
not paying attention. Guys. Sorry, hey, Marsey and Casey Hey,
Marseille, what's so I Donna?So, Um, mister Ace has an

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individual that is going to be comingon this show with him, and I
hear that. We're pretty dang luckythat this individual is actually doing this,
So thank you so very much.Yes, definitely show him some love.
And I really appreciate it because Iknow how it is to get in front

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of our camera, and I meanespecially when it's worldwide and thousands of individuals
are going to hear and see you. Not that that's supposed to like hinder
you or anything like that, sobut sometimes it's like, what are you

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talking about? I'm gonna be onWorldwide two. It's so good because Joe
Man's got it and don't you worry. Okay, So this last week has
been pretty decent. Um. Theweather, husband crappy is always some beautiful
thunderstorms. Yeah, bipolar, theywere beautiful. It needs to go the

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doctor. Canna get something for itbecause I'm so done with this Bible,
Like I am so ready to likeget in the summertime and all that good
stuff. Anyways, um sella,Yeah, I do want to take a
moment guys. Um she now mightbe when not working, might not be

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with us. Um, she's beenwatching us since day one, and I
just want to give her some yes, some girl and tell her that you're
in her thoughts. Keep the headout of hospital with cancer. So I
just wanted if you're watching watch salewho everybody is? Who gives Chanels thoughts

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and some good vibes? Okay,anyways, let's say hi to the All
right, let's bring the boys outand here are boys? What's up?
Lewis's good? Here is boys?Oh about that? Gotta love it?

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So what's up Rainbow? Oh?My god? You know what I like?
Well, you told me to seethe first two times you did your
makeup how I wanted it. Sowhen you recommended Rainbow today, I was
like, done, We're going forRainbow. I love it, Love love
love it. Partner here of fiveyears, Hello, but hi, you've

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been like behind the scenes huh oh? Yeah, so you said I had
to drag him. So is itreally as hectic behind the scenes as it
is in front of the scene.Well, I don't know. In front
of the scenes, he seems tokeep it together pretty good, but behind
the scenes, it's behind the scenes. Yeah, I feel it like he's

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totally the same way. I'm likerunning my head off, and he was
like, okay here, I'm like, yeah, how many times the dating
you roll your eyes you don't haveto, Oh well, he'd still see
I's gonna say, you just haveto put up never so we don't hear

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you, but he'd still see youthere all the time. It's usually it's
usually either an I roll headshaker busytoo many to count. People are like
did you see that? And he'slike, yeah, I'm not surprised,
rewatch this and be are like,damn, I did that a lot.

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I told Typically when there's people likeAs and t Roy and they're partnered up
as the people that are have tohold them down time we have to ground
them. Yeah, that's really cuteTikTok. And it was just one of
those oh my god, that shouldbe a TikTok moments. It because I
literally walked up to him in thebar the other night and he looks at
me and he's just like hands man'sfreaking empty cut, and I'm like,

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who the fuck do you think youare? And then I was like,
oh my god, this be aperfect and I was like, I'm so
sorry. Yeah, I mean that'sthat's a little so I did it again.
I hate him something. He goes, what am I dealing with us?
Yeah? Yeah, I'll be likestanding there and he's like what and

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I'm He's like words, use words? What are you I do that to
him? I'm like, babe,I cannot read your mind, so I
need to know what you're thinking soI know what where to go. He's
the quiet one. I'm lost rightnow. I am so lost. How
are you doing? You should knowwhat the hell I'm talking about? No,

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you know, yeah, that's usuallywhat I get. How was it
good? So it was terrible?No? Good, that's the best word
that I've got. Good totally.I do that with my hair like tonight,
I'm like, babe, does myhair look good? Oh yeah,
yeah, it looks good. Reallyseriously, I don't want it to look
and he's like, no, babe, no it looks now that he's pointed

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out. So yeah, I guessthat all the time. And we only
have one mirror and it shows thisside of me. So I want like
wall to wall mirror so I don'thave to ask him. He says,
no, if it's like flat orlooking like crap, you know, we
all look around me. He says, we have one mirror. That's a

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mirror. That's a mirror. Itdoesn't show the up in my head,
though there are plenty of freaking mirrors. Just in the studio. Up and
hold it behind me. I'm notgonna be that's pretty damn big freaking glitter
all over the place. I lookdown there there's glitter. There's a lot.
Literally, Yeah, but it's somuch fun because I dressed up with

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my glitter and everything. And yougo out to the Big Friends Star and
Mason if you want to see Masoninto tizzy when he gets home after a
while, after like being on theroad, he comes in and he's just
huffing and sweeping and stuff, andI'm like, I already clean and he's
like, well, obviously you didn'tget all of it. Stitch to some
things and he's like, yeah,I gotta get the rest or he's like,

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can you not do glitter in here? Like, well, we have
to watch TV and I have themature has glitter And he's like, then
stop buying glitter or go outside.Yeah that's what he said, go outside
of it. Yeah, it's allover the place. It's over Oh god,
h says, hey boys, hey, hey, hey, so we

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had a donna on here. ChipsterHi loves Marcy Lewis is the one who
says, scare the person before heeven shows up. Yeah, follow,
I'm telling you though. Mason's oneof those people though. If he opens
his mouth in a general space,everybody listens because he doesn't say much and

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so or if somebody ticks him offand he he goes off, I just
sit there. I'm like, youbrought onto yourself me. That's me.
See, I'm usually the one that'slike, you know, just you know,
not cordial and stuff like that.And then Mason's eyes will get big
or like kick my foot or somethinglike that. Oh yeah, definitely.
There's always signs. There's tricks,you know, like people like or some

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shit he like not like me orhave OURBF and I'm like sometimes it's both
the only time we ever got intobar fights because of Troy yeah homosexual,
about eleven years ago. We werein a straight bar and the way it

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went down those We're like we weregoing to karaoke and it literally was the
DJ and then our friend and thent Roy sang and then it was my
turn. So the DJ sang,our friends sang, Troy sang, and
this group of honkeys in the backwas all this blah blah blah blah.
Well, when it got to myturn, one of them went up there

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for a song and I was like, hey, dude, we're just here
to have fun. You're here tohave fun. There's no need for name
calling, and let's just leave itat being. He started mouthing me,
and then he Roy stands up andhe's like, you leave him alone.
He pushed his Troy and I jumpoff the stage and Superman punch him in
the face. Yeah, like I'venever seen a white ball jam so far.

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I mean, he didn't. Itwasn't high. It was fun.
Like I was on the stage onthe seven foot guy took him down.
He was all like whoop in hisass, and then his friend side swiped
me and broke the nose and literallyloosened up the side of my face to
where I could blow my nose andliterally the whole side of my face.

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But no, it literally was abloom and would like blow them out.
I'm right. So I was likegoing form glad, I want to kill
the m h and so he hadlike dragged me out of the damn straight
bar. I mean, like wewould ever go in through anything like that
in a straight bart. Come onnow, all I can see is him

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flying through the air and you havethe slow most scene of did you ever
know? Did you have? Ilove it. We're gonna have to like
reado that video and do it tothat song. Hey, leave it the
comedy slow overs. No, camerasare so tricky though, we can like
make you fly far and not far. Just a sen do we have any

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more questions or do you want togo into pictures or do you guys have
questions for you? All right?So there is one thing um for work,
sister, I know right, moh yeah totally. So there is

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one thing that I like to askindividuals that come on here have a special
individual beside them, and if hewould like shut up and lessen, then
he would know and so and thatis one thing from you to him.
If there is like a moment intime that it was like the last moment

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on earth whatsoever, and you absolutelywanted to look at him and tell him
how you truly feel about him,how it's been and what you can't wait
to look forward to. Are youtrying to make makeup run half with you
this show, right, so Iwanted to hear about the date, so

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go, you know, think aboutthat and uh, yeah the date for
sure? Like yeah, so you'regonna think about what Troy said, yes,
throughout the show. Yes, that'dbe towards the end of the show.
But I want to hear about thisdate. Yeah, the first date
right now. Yes, I'll lethim tell it from his perspective. Oh

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please do. So I get tohis house and we plan to go to
lunch. So we go to lunchand on the way there, the first
I guess red flag. He ranlike four stoplights. Wasn't paying attention.
He was talking imagine that and ranfour stoplights. So I was like,
okay, cool. And then weget there and then he spills my water

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on me. I was like cool, whatever. And then when we were
leaving, somehow he came up withum. He asked me if I knew
the difference between a lamb that goat, right or no, a lamb in
a sheet. Yeah, there wasgoat the sheet. So he proceeded to

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tell me the difference in sounds likethe animal noises. I don't know.
I didn't pay attention versus and hedid a peacock. Yeah. So,
so the worst noise in the world. I was like, you want to
know the worst noise in the world, and he's like sure, and I
was like a peacock. And thenI went, oh, anybody in their

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car listening forgive me. I wasjust giving you that from your volume down.
But I won't do it again.Yeah, in the middle of the
restaurant. But anyway, so Ilove it. Yeah. So then I
got like real big, like serialkiller vibes, but I decided to stay.
Yeah, here we are. Ilove it. Yeah, you just

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wanted to see what happened next.When I met him. Don't let him
out to you. When I methim, he was a psych nurse and
that's how I was how he didhis research. That's what it was.
She know, He's like, howdo you deal with the crazy person?
Well, exhibit A. I thoughtyou are the smartest and the most expert
experienced at doing so, because ohit's all thanks of you, Ace.

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Yeah, yeah, exactly. Youknow, I'm the reason why he is
where he is now. Yeah,except for the fact that that's where see
the thing is is, that's whenI know that I'm being as nervous as
it gets the eye roll or youknow, he gets like the headshake or
whatever, and I'm like, mhmm, you know, oh yeah, yeah,

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he definitely I think that, AndI think that he stayed because he's
like, what's gonna happen next?Like, if if I don't die,
things gonna be interesting. I know. It's a good mind you. He
didn't tell me that because I wasn'ttransparent. I didn't think anything of it.
He didn't tell me that until we'vebeen together for a year and a
half and he's like, this iswhat happened. And I was like,

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I mean, I was just teachingand not like I didn't know it came
off that way and four stop Blut'sno way. He's like, yeah,
I'm well I'm not surprised, butwell at least you know yourself. Yeah,
hey, you know. And everytime I tell the story, I
have to teach everybody else the differences. So right, yeah, that's that's

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great. I love it. Andnow he's a travel nurse. Now he
travels all over the place. Cool, So you like being a travel nurse.
Yeah, it's pretty it's uh,I it's it's uh. That explains
all so how far off key travel? Um, well, I went to
Saint Louis first, which was amistake, but I went there first,

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five hours away. And yeah,Alan in Kansas, and in which you
talk Kansas next and next we're goingto Florida. Let's you talk Kansas as
like the most driest, flattest placeI've ever been to. I've had my
grandparents lived up there whenever I wasyounger. So we go up there for

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like winter time, and it wasthe most it was the prettiest in the
winter. Other than that it wasshitty, like I mean weatherwise. See,
we're just we're Kansas fasting the theoryof Kansas. I love Kansas.
It's the greatest place on earth.There you go. I try to sleep

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whenever we got through color go toColorado, I sleep do I dried ten
hours? Hey, I've been tryingto send him a pair of Ruby sleppers,
but shipping just costs so much.I know, right, I clicking
my heels. Nothing's happening. I'mlike, if I can save on gas
with these prices, I will clickmy heels in tapping right exactly What was

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the comments that popped up Donna's fromKansas. Donna highat So I'm sorry,
there's a reason she moved to theother Yeah, that's she's from Kansas.
That's all the reason you need KansasCity, or wait, from Kansas.

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I was gonna say Kansas City,Kanus City, Kansas, Kansas City,
Missouri. She just said Kansas.Yeah, this is where I'm from.
I've got from Kansas. I'm fromKansas, Oklahoma. And it's not flat,
nor is it dry. Oh yeah, well of course, mind you.

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We're going back to Florida. I'moriginally from Florida, like I said
in the first episode, So goingback to Florida, and Mason is like,
I want beaches, and I'm like, cool, I want to be
in entertain I want to be backin entertainment. So let's go. So
we're we're gonna venture down there.Maybe take a few cups along the way.
By the way, I just wantto pause this. Have you ever
heard of Fire Island? Yeah?Yeah, I just watched a documentary on

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that. It's like Cherry Grove,that place. I'm like, I just
want to go and stay the wholesummer. Anything goes. Yeah, I'm
like open minded. You can dowhatever you want, dress however you want,
Like whatever or not dress for me. I was like, and they
said, it's just like it's literallylike heaven, just going there, just

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you know, you don't have toworry about anybody, you know, pushing
and like, you know anything.It's just every person for themselves and there's
so much entertainment there. In fact, Lady Gaga performed there. Um,
Liza Minnelli performed there. Um.Oh, I can't think of his first
name is Cummings, but Alan Cummings, he's performed there. But yeah,

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Liza Minnelli, Lady Gaga, asshe started getting her fame, they had
her book there and they're like,oh, if she's not gonna come,
she's too famous. She showed upnice and I was like, that's all
right, that's right, that istrue. Yeah, we got that bitch
right, she got. Speaking ofdressing it however you want to, if

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you want to go through some ofthose pictures, I'll tell you stories behind.
Yes, we love stories. Wecan dress how we want to.
Actually, So this was the firstoutfit, this one, and not the
hair, because the hair I havesomewhere here. I still have my first
hair though that I wore from outfits. But this was the first outfit that
I wore UM when I went outto my first bar in um Ace drag

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Really nice, that's cool? Hellyeah, I love that. This is
awesome too. Okay, So thatone was originally and it's possibly going to
be in magazine, but it wasoriginally for a magazine cover UM, and
then it was my cover photo onFacebook for a long time. But that
is that's one of my favorite pictures. UM. That was. That was
also one of my first photo shoots. And that coat. The first comment

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I ever got on it was howmany muppets did you have to kill to
make that coat? It was likea good question I'll have to ask UM
Joan Fabrics because I just got itall from there. All right, all
right, what's the next one?Oh? That one was my UM.
I hosted one of the first bigPride Show drag shows in Rogers, Arkansas,

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UM, and that was me hostingat it UM. As much as
I wish that all those tattoos werereal, one day, hopefully there will
be someone close to that. UM. But yeah, and actually that's the
same hair that I'm wearing today.But that was my second jumpsuit, Elvis
jumpsu that I ever made. UM. I feel like he gives Burton Ernie
vibes, though I don't know.I love it. I love the sleeveless

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elvis suit style all right, what'syeah exactly and with the open chest.
Oh, this one, So thiswas actually one of my most recently that
favorite top half that's up there andeverything in it. Um, but that's
that's probably one of my favorite ACEpictures because it just has the arts.
I feel like I'm wearing faster slashedlike Willy Wonka hearts. Yea. Um
My drag Son who I mentioned lasttime. It takes a lot of my

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photos. Um, Lucas Alexander photography. He is incredible and he did that,
did that photo. That's one ofmy favorites. I love it.
Oh, I love this one.Okay, So that one ruffle coat over
there. Um. Actually, whenyou guys get to see some news in
my logo that has a story withit later, that is actually the photo

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that he downsized to create my logo. So definitely keep that picture in mind,
that ruffle coat with the with thehat and everything. We'll pop it
back up and pop the logo.Okay, but we'll do that later.
Okay, we gotta talk about theFuture. Oh I love this one.
So that's Powerline from Goofy Mason.Hilarious because it looks like I'm wearing a

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diaper. Um, but that wasbut I was in a phase of actually
designing cod pieces and if in personit looks more copies than diaper. But
um, I actually so power line, my drag son, Um, what
kind of could pull off? Max? And I always wanted to And my
drag mother was always like, somebodyneeds to do a Powerline number, and

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I was like, okay. Andso one of my first big drag numbers
was we did eye to eye intothe Perfect Cast and stuff like that.
Um My Dragson and I. Hejust have his Max and I just have
his power Line and that same outfit. I went to a local commaton here
and met the m guy that voicesMax in that outfit as power Line.

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So cool. That's super cool andI can do the perfect cast. I'll
have to do it his show sometime. Uh. That is Taco. So
that was my dog Taco. Thatwas from the That was from one of
my first photo shoots as well.That was taken the same time that I
had the fur cut one on.But he happened to be like running around

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my feet, and so I waslike, you know what, let's do
a picture with my lovely puppy.Even though he every picture no matter why,
he could look the cutest thing,but the minute lebody takes a picture,
he looks horrified. He always lookslike he's like looking into the soul,
like what's happening? He doesn't oneof them. I tell people that

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the reason why I got him wasbecause I was hoping that one day I
would do a discount taco about butum, half of the half of the
Yeah, the people that we couldtalk about now were so young they don't
remember the talk about commercials, withthe talk of right what lezar lizard now

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started watching this new show on Peacockcalled Girls five Ever, and it's just
like um, an old girl band, the three Group, and like they're
at forties now. Yeah, sothis guy's like, well these people were
like do you remember them? He'slike as a baby in ninety nine school.
It reminds me of my almost titties. That's run. I love the

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eyes though. We got to talkabout the eyes and here you got two
flags going on. You describe itfor the people that aren't going to hear
it on Spotify or see on myeyes. So I have the Pride flag
on one eye and then I havethe trans trans representation on the other eye.
Um shut to my trans brothers andsisters as well as my nom binary
ones. Love you all, um, and definitely. I mean that was

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one of the things that when Istarted doing those photos and stuff, I
actually um one of the photos thatdidn't make the cut was like one of
the no hate photos. And that'soriginally whenever I did that one, because
I wanted to be able to sayno hate on the back of my hand
and have the trans flag as wellthe Pride flag. However, one day
I'd like to do all the looksthat we have, the pan sexual flag
and the dimmi sexual flag and differentlooks and makeup with that to be able

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to create like a whole T shirtor a whole design or something, do
a whole calendar. In fact,here we go, maybe he won't look
so horrified. M He's like,what the hell that None Again, He's
like I don't okay, So thatone, um is actually remember the Lady
Gaga's shoes that looked like hoofs thatwere like, yes, so those are

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actually and started into that. Idid that as a ru off the red
Nose Reindeer number UM and did likea fawn mix. I got my red
glitter nose my you know antlers andeverythink that and that's that was one of
my favorite builds. UM. Everytime I do wanted to show, people
are like, oh my gosh,that's so crazy. It looks so real
and I'm like, mhmm, that'sbecause you're drunk, honey. So do

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you make all of your costumes?I do? Yeah. I made the
all of the ones that I've shownso far except for minus this one.
This one I acquired. But alot of my costuming that I've shown so
far i've made. Yeah, thatone that was one of my favorite.
UM. Originally we did we dressedup for Halloween's rocor Or Pictures Show a
lot, and I built that outfit. UM. First, I built it

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because I was going to design aYouTube kid show and I was going to
have a character named Matthew can doand teach math and using it for um
Eddie and Rocky Horor Picture Show whenwe dressed up, because I'll do Frankenfurn
and I'll do Eddie UM and Halloweenthat's usually like to go to. And
then UM, I did that oneand I did a Pride fundraiser UM for

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the Equality Center locally UM and theyhad me do the AIDS Crisis for the
No Hate Aids Crisis and I hadto sign everything and I performed the song
We're not Gonna take It, We'renot gonna take It. And I had
that full outfit UM for that withthe green hair and everything. So that
was probably one of my favorite looksUM for that that Pride that year.

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Is there any oh that one?So that one UM was actually advertising a
little cabaret or less show kind ofthing. Unfortunately that code I did not
make. That was the spirit Halloweenone that everybody bought this last year for
the twenties. And I happen tofind that hat at a costume shop over
Oklahoma and tuls Oklahoma, and theyjust worked well together and I was like,

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I advertise in the cabaret show.What better way he's combined? So
that was that was super fun andthat that got me a couple hosting jobs
as well. That was that wasa good one. I've always been a
fan of hats too as much asI love my hair pieces and my head
pieces and everything. My hats areyes, and like with um, I

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didn't done with this one. Holdon another okay, um, Well,
and don't get me wrong, theone thing that behind every entertainer is an
incredible critic, uh, because Masonis really good at being like, no,
you don't need to go out andlook like that, or you know,
at the end of the day,yes, they can be a little
bit bitchy, but it's you know, they're they're also your best friend,

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lover. So tell you the stuffthat nobody else will everybody else just like,
oh my gosh, that you singwhere they're gonna be like no,
no, no, that that looksthat looks stupid, or you're you're gonna
come off as a fool. Andas much as it moments I'm in my
diva mode, I'm like, ohmy god, I can't believe you said
that I had. I'm like,like, think, gosh, she said
something now right right right? Yeah, I'm totally with the other. Okay,

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so that one. Um, thatwas another one that my my drag
son took. That pompadour was designedby a local wig artist called Hello Wigs
UM and that's actually a hairpiece thatgoes in there. I loved, I
love Pompadours, but I never reallyhad a natural hair color pompadoor. And
then yes, that outfit, however, I did make. It's actually a

(32:42):
full Elvis sequence Elvis suit with abig heartbelt buckle and um, everything like
that. And that's that's one ofmy favorites. I Uh. The first
thing that I ever did in that, I said, I sing, Michael,
well, I now see Michael Boubletin it, and you're feeling good
and it's kind of my tuxedo kindof look. But the first number I
ever did in it is I wantto dance with somebody the male version,
um bye it Witney Houston obviously,but it's one of my favorites because I

(33:07):
whipped the cover up off and Ihave that on and everybody's like, oh
my gosh. Yes, everyone lovesto reveal the sequence, right. Um.
So that actually is a picture ofmy drag daughter and myself. That's
Ambrosia hearts um and we were ata Bingo drag fundraiser um And that was

(33:29):
one of the first ones that Iactually that was the first time I ever
did the heart over the eye beforeI did at Continental when you guys saw
me. Um. And so whenI was getting ready for Continental, I
was like, oh I knew dowthat heart. Look again and see if
I can get it cool over myeye. Um. But she's a sweetheart.
She is an upcoming diva UM,which means that she is a female
that does over exaggerated drag persona,which is super cool. Um. She

(33:51):
just competed for Miss Diamond Diva.UM. And she's she's growing so fast.
She's she's well and learn anything.She's involved in the Sisters of Perpetual
Indulgence. Um, she's involved inall kinds of fundraisers. She's just an
incredible human being. UM. Awesome. But but definitely, yeah, we
being in the drag community. Youknow, like I said, when you

(34:13):
get a platform, you really allthank you so much. Now I'm glad
you like him. Um, it'sdefinitely it's definitely a labor of love.
I mean, those things take alot of time to build. Um.
And as I say, you know, Dragon cheap Man, maybe there's plenty
of times and I'm like, hey, so this is what I'm investing in,
will you help me out? Andhe's a sweetheart. And you know

(34:34):
usually tells me yes, but um, it's definitely one of those things that
he has. We kind of haveto talk through it because having a partner,
you know, and having things thatto invest in, especially because I'm
getting ready for this Showman pageant aswe kind of like move into what's to
come. Um, I am competingfor you know, National Showman for the
United States and for pageants. Yeah, thank you. Prepared for pageants is

(35:00):
not cheap. I mean just thecost of feathers for a headpiece like this
one that I showed you guys,I mean just for twelve feathers, it
can be around uh fifty to seventyfive dollars just for twelve feathers. Wow.
Yeah, that's the cost of aostof each others right now. And
building the big back pieces, youknow, building headpieces, building stoning things,

(35:23):
which is a traditional you know thing, and drag but um and and
sometimes you know, I'll drag himin just stoning and stuff. Of course
there's the eye roll, but it'sa labor of laugh. Like he's one
of those the whole roll his eyes. But he'll still do it. He'll
just pitch the whole time. UmAnd I'll even say it. I'm like,

(35:43):
I'll dude, I'm just gonna bitchwhile I do it. That's yeah.
Sometimes you don't even tell me,you just know it's coming. Works
really wonders, like if you putcotton in your ears that moment I want
to take or something I know wealready say. Hey, no, m
as I said earlier. Guys,she's in the hospital and they're doing some

(36:05):
procedures to get her sin cells.So they and then she's gonna have to
go back in. It's bout merrowcancer. So they're taking merrow out and
radiating it, and she's putting merrowback in in a couple of weeks.
So yes, thank you for beinga regular. It's so great having your
support. Even when she comes onmy lives on Facebook before as I'm getting

(36:28):
ready or whatnot. Did you feellike that video and me getting ready?
Oh yes, yes, I wasgoing to like stuff. But we actually
I didn't hate my nap today.As you see about wide eye Bush tells
um, I'm tired. I've beendriving. I can do that too,

(36:49):
like driving is the most h Yeah, I was thankful. I'm really thankful
for the fact that you know,aside from most of course having a life
here and you know, him havinghis job there. He's even when we
started dating, when we started dating, I'll get back to the future stuff
here a minute, guys. Butanyway, Um, when we started dating,
you know, it was one ofthose things where it's like, will
you come down to see me,I'll come down. I'll come up to
see you. Mind you I onlydrove down once when we first got together

(37:13):
seeing him. He drove up everyweekend, every weekend that he could,
he was here. Um, andthen even through our relationship over I guess
we're almost at five years, youknow, and he's still you know,
even going off to work and he'lldrive the four hours home, even if
he just here for one day.You know, it's it's definitely it's definitely
something that doesn't go unnoticed. Umthat's awesome. But uh, but anyway,

(37:37):
moving forward into uh, you know, future things, I've got the
Showman competition. Um, we're lookingat the possibility of we're building a tour
right now, um for um andour show myself and another drug artist which
I kind of mentioned and touched onlast week. Um, we've got to
go ahead for some prides that we'reappearing at UM, I may be auditioning

(38:00):
for some TV shows in the future, UM that people can that people could
eventually see me on who knows UM, but of course ending up eventually hopefully
fingers crossed and knock on what everythingUM doing a show on Branson and having
like the first queer show. UM. That's kind of what we're hoping this
tour moves into, is being ableto have a real after the show.

(38:24):
We got some things talk about yes, oh cool, fantastic, but definitely
And I think that's the other thingyou know that doesn't go unnoticed is UM.
You know, as I as Iprepare for these events, as I
do UM, you know, itbecomes after you've been together for a while.
I mean, you guys know this, but it goes unspoken. You

(38:46):
know, if you need help oryou know, some people don't realize that.
Being in the drag world, Imean being out in front of people,
t roll you know this. We'rehigh energy, it's draining sometimes and
then you come home and you're likeready to cheer and you know they're there
to hold you and you know thething's gonna be okay or UM or be
able to be like you know thatperson that they you know. So the

(39:10):
reality is we're there to hold youguys after the effect when you guys are
drained because your energy is going becausewe're freaking tired and we're ready to just
go lay down too, like we'vehad to deal with it all day too,
so come on, let's let's justwipe it all. Offers the pictures,

(39:30):
the whole this, the you know, can you carry this? And
can you take videos of this?Can you take pictures of that? Can
you? And by the end ofit, they're like, listen, the
audience is to wear me out.You wore me out, So let's go
on. All right, um,and I'm going to post this one too
on TikTok somewhere. But during You'reAcuniversity, they as with the bearded babes

(39:53):
and they were like, pick crew, Pick crew, TAKEI tenas shoe blue
out and that was the first Hey, pitt crew, will you go get
those shoes? And then yeah,hey, you know see Mason. Mason's
one of those He'll just sometimes I'dbe like can you do this and He's
like I don't know, can't AndI'm like, oh my gosh, please,

(40:15):
I love you and he's like,oh really, you know, or
it's one of those moments where it'slike, well remember this later when you
get irritated, like oh, don'teven want right, or or he makes
me have to be this like hugeevent. I'm totally not. I know,
don't you love it? Right?I think I'm not unintentionally needy most

(40:43):
of the time. Some of thetime just all the time. I mean
in tious defense. When we didget together and I went into his room
the first time, he did haveone in pillows and in purple sequences said
high maintenance. Boom bitches it is. I tell makes all the time,

(41:04):
I'm high maintenance. But then he'slike, really, not that bad.
That pillow was the only high maintenanceI've ever been. I'm just that's why
I had it. What um stairsone way, just saying two hundred and
fifty stairs one way, just sayingwow, Oh what I was gonna say

(41:25):
is I'm gonna put it on TikTok. I am filmed the steps that I
took when I had to go gethis shoes for him, and we were
all the way up at the topand we parked all the way down below
by New Delhi, and so andI went downstairs. So of course I
went upstairs because I'm point A topoint B kind of person. I'm not

(41:45):
going to go the easy way.I'm just gonna go the fastest way.
So that's why I use out ofbreath, suddy, And just so the
first time I did it in umtime flaps so it looks like I'm speeding
upstairs. And after the second runup stairs, I did it a SloMo
and you can hear anyone at firstbefore the SloMo kicks it. It's funny

(42:09):
though, because that's when I getth I roll, can you go get
this? We didn't get out ofthe car the first time, like I
roll, and he's just like giveme the keys, you know. And
then and then like all I canhear in the back of my head,
even though it goes unspoken, islike, you're gonna helpe me for this
always and it always comes at theoutport opportune moment, like would you,

(42:30):
you know, would you clean thehouse right before I get home or something
like that, and I'm like,you're lucky, you know. But then
I never cleaned the house enough.That's the thing. I can never clean
enough for his standards. I'm likeyou should have seen it before I started.
You should have seen it. Whata minute to go where you go?

(42:51):
There? We're gonna close it,yeah, or not go to bed
right now? The lumps are therefor a reason. Right. But moving
forward, I think you know thelocks of ever um. But moving forward,
I keep having to keep riving bringingmyself back to it because I always
de side tract that's in my lifeanyway, UM, forgive, forgive us

(43:13):
people that are listening anyway, Butuh, moving forward, I think you
know I'm wanting to move. Ilove to love being in the dry community
and in working and stuff like that. You're getting a lot of highs um
and um. I think that Ikind of want to expand into more of
like a performer personality, you know, I mean, obviously not as incredible

(43:35):
as any Gaga. Everyone could havehoped to be that, but you're already
there, but having but having tobe the talent of of Letty Gaga.
You know, she's she's worked hardfor that. I mean, I've worked
hard, but I've still got waysto go. I know I do.
But um, moving into you know, being a being a face for um
growth that hasn't happened yet, Likefor example, having that first queer show

(43:58):
you know in Britton, that's ahuge thing. Yeah, we're having or
being being a face of that's notafraid. That's like like kind of like
you do. Even even in Branson, you know, you walk around and
it's like, yeah, that's whatI look like, you know. I
I have run into people, youknow that have obviously queer bashed or they
don't care you know, what I'vedone. But I run into more people
that are either in shock that wantto look at my makeup or they want

(44:20):
to uh, they want to justlike meet me and talk to me.
And I think that that I tellthem all the time. I appreciate that
so much that you just want tomeet me and talk to me and just
you know, treat me human versusmaking it seem like I'm something that's repulsive.
However, I will say I'm adrag performer. How Mason has been
in drag before too, and makesa very pretty drag queen. Um.

(44:44):
Her name is Sarah Quill the antiPsychotic. Yeah, Sarah Quill is her
drag name. M and repeating inmy drag fundraiser, um that is the
end of may Um. It's thetwenty sixth if anybody want or twenty eight,
twenty eighth, UM twenty eighth,if anybody want to come up to

(45:05):
come out to it. Um,we will have several performers, a big
slew of very very talented people andanybody from um ver lesque performers to boy
lesque performers, to singers to dragsingers to um impersonators. We may have
a share impersonator that will be there. UM him. Oh hi, Mom,

(45:30):
I'm so glad you came. Ilove her, yes, UM,
she is. She is incredibly supportive. Um. That's a journey. I
mean, just even with me figuringout you know, my persona and how
I wanted to think yea, um, but but incredibly supportive, UM,
because she's been there since the beginningof me trying to you know, figure
out how to use all of mytalents and things that I do and seeing

(45:52):
that this is, you know,going into something and all this hard work
has done that. I mean,the from her taking me to theater you
know, uh camps two lessons.You know, Mom, you're listening to
this. I love you, Thankyou so much. I appreciate it.
Um. But to voice lessons toprinc Cooala Trodan's course one princ Cola to
um, you know, even supportingme as i've as I've grown up and

(46:15):
kind of support things. Sure weyou know, we've had our moments obviously,
but um, but I think justjust growing to understand parents out there
that are that are you know,have questions with our kids. Sit down
and talk to your kids. Yeah, I mean we had a conversation today,
you know, talking about how muchshe learned more about me and growth
and things like that. And youknow, it's just about asking questions or

(46:37):
sometimes waiting for your kid to beready to talk about it because something's very
hard, and let no know thatthey are going to be there, you
know, whenever that time comes.And yes, your mom's freaking awesome for
doing you the way she did youand is doing you because that's just beautiful.
And I think, oh, parents, other father should be like that
one well. And people who arecoming out or are you're transitioning or are

(47:02):
you know it's boring their sexuality ortheir sexual preference or um, their identity
whatever it may be. Yeah,you know, parents understand that that they're
going through a process and sometimes theydon't have the answers right away, but
also from the other perspective, thepeople that are that are going through that,
you know, transformation, transition,accepting the life that they've always wanted
to live, and things like that. Just understand that you have to keep

(47:27):
these people, you know, youhave to bring them on as much as
journey as you can because I don'tunderstand and the only way for them to
understand is for us to educate themas we go along, you know,
um, and understand that they haveto understand that sometimes things in your life
have affected you for you to turnout the human you are. And once
you understand that, then they're like, I get it. Yeah, but

(47:49):
definitely, it's it's been a it'sit's been a journey. And even moving
forward, you know, Um,there's sometimes where Mom says, you know,
I don't understand why you're doing whatyou do, and then I do
it and she's like, okay,you know you you have don't understand.
Hello, I don't know I'm gonnado And she's like, I'm sure you'll
figure it out. All right,Well, it is time for a commercial

(48:13):
commercials and the monster's got out somehow, and then we'll have to answer our
quiet big question when we come back. Yeah, oh, talk about the
talk about the marsh line. Yes, yes, definitely, I'd not me
to push. Yes, our littleodor came into the studio so he's like,

(48:37):
hey, I want to be seenanyways, So yes, let's get
a commercial and then we'll come backfor you right back at the rainbow commercials.
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(48:58):
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(49:20):
shows WLFE dsh dB dot com.Hey and her back and that was really
fast. So hey, everybody,welcome back to everything and nothing. Do
you want to talk about the marchline first? Yes, yes, since
we came off of a merch commercial, that'd be perfect, perfectly short.

(49:40):
So yes. Um one of thethings for the future I UM ring to
release at my um my benefit showfor Showman. We are going to release
my merch line and so go aheadand put the logo up there. This
was also the my awesome drags onCastanova Hearts or again um Lucas Alexander Photography.

(50:04):
He designed this. If you needdesign designs or logos designed or anything
like that or graphics, he's incredible. Um yeah there it is. Yeah
again it has that. It hasmy incredible hat um that yeah, I
left to put on Mason's side.There's the hat that's from the logo and

(50:27):
it has that ruffle coat like ithad, but that is gonna be It'll
have ASA hearts and stuff um onthe bottom of it. Yeah. They
have to design it. Yeah,defile flush back to the actual logo though,
so that that logo is gonna beon the shirts with my ASA hearts
written below it and like you know, like, um, what do you
call it? Like the Las Vegaslights, the type wear lights kind of

(50:49):
thing. Yea yeah, and I'mdoing banix. I hate regular shirts.
This is already irritating me. ButI love v nex so we're gonna be
making them in v neck designs.Um. So I'll be releasing another logo
which you'll have to wait and seewhenever people get there. But it is
a UM. The logo of myautograph that will be on hats will be
on T shirt hats. That's yeahlogo. So then everybody will know what

(51:14):
my my cool autograph is and thenI can actually sign beside it or on
the back of shirts or whatnot.UM. Eventually the goal is is to
be able to have crop tops andtank tops and yeah those options as well.
UM. Right now it's getting itout there. We also we have
we'll have stickers with my logo onpeople can purchase. UM. But the
whole Ace of Hearts logo or notlogo merch line will launch on the twenty

(51:37):
eighth when I have my benefit showto help raise money. If you guys
can make it to the Benefits showoff any of you live in Florida or
not benefit show sorry the National showthem in competition. UM, it will
be in Cassimi, Florida. UM. It's gonna be July thirteenth through the
seventeenth. UM. Mine I believeis the sixteenth. UM is when the

(51:59):
show and competition is. If youwant to make it out to that,
get tickets and stuff. You canlook up National show Girls Showmen on Facebook,
get your tickets there, come outand see the show. It's gonna
be incredible. Um to Arkansas,you know. Um, so that's super
exciting. Yeah, but definitely yeah. I there's so many possibilities that have

(52:21):
really opened up over this last year, and um, opportunities for even shows,
TV shows opening their minds. AndI've always said, you know,
on TV shows, I could totallybe like the Kukie one that dresses up.
Like everybody's like, oh my gosh, you gotta dress up in this
challenge and most people are like,oh, I gonna wear that, And
I'm like, you know what,let's do it. That ain't a challenge

(52:43):
for me. Let me want meto lift something or lift myself up,
forget it. I tell you allthe time, I don't do push up
and set up anything that involves theground. I am six foot and then
platforms on like sixty three. Youain't gonna catch me get close to the
ground. Takes me forever to getdown there, and get down there,
takes me forever to get back up. I know that the I know that

(53:07):
the airm no, I'll be allout of breast right that is. Um,
you also have something coming up thisweekend we touched on a little bit.
Oh yes, UM, this weekendwe have it is the Diversity Driving
Fundraiser in Fayetteville, Arkansas. Itis a fundraiser for an organization called Queer

(53:30):
NWA that is helps UH small businessesthat are queer owned, a queer allies,
helps us be able to you know, promote them as well as chopee
the queer audience where it's safe toshop or go into. UM as well
as we will have a whole slewof lgbtq I A plus performers UM that
will be performing at the actual event. We'll have over twenty five vendors UM.

(53:54):
So is going to be incredible.I can't even Cathy. It's like
maybe they're twelve to fifteen performers.They're each doing one number. UM.
I'm hosting the the event and thenwe'll have a big speech in the middle
of the acts UM by the UM, the directors of Queer in WA,

(54:14):
so they can kind of talk moreabout the organization. UM. But in
the lineup for entertainers, I meanwe've got UM silk people on silks,
We've got a burlesque performer, UM, we have some non binary performers that
are absolutely incredible. Um, wehave some singers, some people might be
singing live. UM. You knowthere's gonna be op options um for that.

(54:36):
And I'm hoping because they're kickstarting thisUM with this event, this bag
fundraiser Queer on Wa that hopefully it'llreally hit the ground running. And I
know that if you show up there, you'll be really pleased because they're making
a huge announcement that will definitely affecthow we approach uh you know queer businesses
and allies as well. That's gonnabe a big surprise. I'm not going

(54:58):
to give it away because I knowthere's also on it, but come out
and see it. Get tickets,Um, you can look on Facebook at
the diversity Drag fundraisers what's called eventwise and it's in Fayteville Ftville Town Center,
or you can go on Queer andWa Instagram or Facebook to find the
links for tickets as well. Sweet, I love it. Has it come

(55:20):
that time, It has time forthe answers. So I have thought about
it, and so I would likefor Ace to go first so that Abody
he doesn't get all cherry eye.UM. No, I mean for Mason
it's just more on the lines ofbeing thankful that I have somebody that that

(55:43):
can support me. You know.It's it's not easy being with somebody that's
that's high energy, that's you know, um all over the place, that's
scatter you know, UM, thatthat's an entertainer that can be advent times.
UM. And I'm just appreciative thatthat that he's been there and that
you've been there, um to reallysupport me and be able to um put

(56:06):
up with me. And UM Ithink that I really, I mean,
I look forward to many more yearsof you know, figuring out who I
am and having a support system UMto be able to do so. UM.
And I couldn't do it without you. Precious your turn Oh yeah,

(56:30):
they him cry. I can crywell, I'd probably just say that.
UM. It's not that I haveto deal with you, it's I love
being around you all the time.UM. That's wine or am I forever
you know, UM, But I'mextremely proud of you and I can't wait
to see what are you grow.Oh you're gonna right, You're gonna go

(57:00):
to They're in the same ship allthe time to like it's telling each your
heads. I don't know how manytimes to data, I'm like, get
out of my freaking head. Butyet when I want him to be in
my head, he's like, Idon't even know what you're talking about.
I don't even know. I'm notgonna go there. I have a I
have a catch phrase where I'll belike where I'll be like, you're gonna
do this, so this is howyou're gonna react. And then we get

(57:21):
to the moment and he does.And my response is do I know my
man? Or do I know myman? I say that all the time,
Um, but it's definitely. It'sdefinitely when you've found that partnership.
Um. And the one thing isis, you know, you hear time
and time again when you find peoplethat you know, true loving care about
each other and they've been here therefor years, and you're like, oh

(57:43):
my gosh, it's so great.And it's like, do you know how
much hell we've been through? Doyou know how many fights we've been in?
You know how you know that's partof it, you know, I
mean, we gotta go through ourship. I tell everybody, Hey,
we don't know how we're gonna betomorrow. We're gonna get up at of
bed tomorrow and all that. SoI have I'm going to put you guys

(58:05):
on the spot. Okay, SoI have a question for you guys.
Are you ready so for four futuregenerations or four couples like ourselves that are
looking to be in forever relationships?What advice do you have for success in
relationship? You go first, Um, don't be afraid to talk about how

(58:28):
you feel. If they do somethingthat pisses you off or even hurt your
feelings in that moment, don't letit build up. Just be like,
hey, that was kind of rude. That was sharp there that Like,
I'll tell him he kept me alittle bit just then, and then it
opens up the conversation to why didI do that? Or I do the

(58:51):
same thing to him, he says, might come home from work because he's
told me I'm not the boss athome, I am the boss at work.
I'm always held that plenty times,Like, Honney, I don't know
where you think you is right now, but I know you you know kind
of thing right. Yeah, that'smy advice is, don't be afraid to

(59:14):
be like, hey, you knowthat that upset me? What you just
did? Have those hard conversations.Yeah, it's because it's easier to have
those hard conversations when they happen asopposed to letting it stew. And then
by the time you let it stew, you're even more upset. And then
like me, I'm I don't ifyou let something stew, I can tell

(59:34):
he's upset, Like that's wrong.Nothing that's wrong. Nothing would I say.
He'll be like, so, thisis what was wrong? I was
like, why couldn't we talk aboutthat yesterday? Because Dan, I'm like,
so, like, why didn't youtell me earlier? What wasn't the
place or we weren't we wasn't thetime. He's like, yeah, I
wasn't ready to talk. That's Iwasn't ready to talk. And so I'm

(59:58):
like, well, here we arenow, right. That's when my defenses
go up. It's when it doesn't. Let's just get it over with.
Let us do. My answer iscommunication is, like I feel, number
one within any relationship, you gottacommunicate with each other. Don't like not
communicate, communicate because like I said, we don't know what we're thinking all

(01:00:19):
the time or how we're gonna comeoff. And that's why I want him
to check me. I don't alwaysknow I'm coming off as a bit or
however, and if I am,you know, it'll be all like,
damn, that's a little bit chyor whatever. You know, just check
me so I can change it,you know, because I check people all
the time on this damn show andI love it, so you know,
I'm like, check me, checkme, and you know, just really

(01:00:44):
be prepared for change. Don't notwant to change for each other, because
honey, that's what the world is. We get up every day and we
change something, whether we know itor not. Something is changing within us
or around us, and you gotto accept that change or it's gonna just
make it harder. Hey, mom, my mom is correct. That's my

(01:01:07):
mom commenting Saint. We talked abouthim. My family talks him all the
time. I just as a personalityand a person I'm very sky. I
sam a lot to handle, butit's more along the lines of not people
telling me. I just know what'sgoing on in my head and I can

(01:01:27):
imagine what everybody else is putting upwith um. And I really am thankful
for the level of patience. Honestly, you know, I when I whenever
I was looking for the ideal person, you know, that I thought that
I need. It was always somebodythat did the same things I did.
And now looking at the levely relationshipthat I have, it's like I needed.

(01:01:50):
It's not like I got everything thatI needed. But I didn't know
that until I've experienced it, andnow I'm completely thankful, and you know,
um, absolutely, It's definitely oneof those things that even for those
that are listening that maybe you know, searching or in the younger crowd,
you know, figure themselves out.Don't put guards up because you think you

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know what you want. Because Iwent through several relationships, an abusive one
and all those different things, andthey were people that I tried to fix
because I was a fixer, andI found somebody that I can work with
and he can grow together. Weboth have our flaws and we have to
work through them. But I'm notconstantly spending my time and my energy trying

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to fix somebody else's problem, right, Right, And that's something that you
learned and you had to accept thatchange, right, you know. Pula
Abdulment, I mean she has somethingsaying when yeah, hey, and you
know, I must say, mymom's a saying too, because she's put
up with me all these years aswell, and I, hey, did

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you hear that? Mom? Hesaid, honestly, Um, she's put
up with me a lot. AndI definitely, you know, I mean
working for Disney as I guys,I told you guys, you know,
there are rough spots and seeing yourchild in a spot that they feel like
they're happy, and you see yourchild kind of falling apart um and having
to kind of sit back and belike, well, we got to learn
the lesson themselves, you know,Um, right that you know? And

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and again even with parents, youknow, we've been in those moments where
we've we've had to have you know, arguments or five so things to even
understand each other and where each other'scoming from, because we're both growing in
life and we're both experiencing different things, and we both may not know what's
going on in each other's life.So I think you know, the root
of any relationship, you know,you've really got to figure out, um

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where the where where where you're goingto step back and reason with each other
versus just trying betther to hear eachother's side. Um, you know't me
wrong. I still struggle with that. I'm human, but definitely. Well,
thank you guys so much for thatadvice. I mean, we hear
communication a lot, and I thinkthat, you know, Mason being a
quiet type. You know, oh, I love you, send Shine,

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tell you Tom, I love you, mom Shine. But anyway, um,
but I really do feel like,you know, even with Kevin and
like with Mason, you know,um, having to I'm sure in beginning
relationship, beginning of the relationships andstuff, learning when to say something,
because there's times where like I haveto understand that Mason's version of like my

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family growing up and I do something, they'd be like, wow, that's
so great, and then like Masonis like, I mean that's good,
Like that's Mason's version that great.Help tell you it's so great it,
you know, for me to catchon to it because it is. I
mean, I'm when you grow upso used to or even in the world
of like entertainment, you're so usedto getting the automatic applause or the automatic

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knowing how people feel. But whenyou have somebody that's with you all the
time. And it even took mea while too to be like you don't
want to come out to my show, Like I'm doing the same number but
like I want you there, andMason's like, I love you, but
this isn't going like I'll be thereto support you and carry your bag in,
but I'm leaving, like you know, And I had to understand that

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it's nothing means to me. It'sjust I mean. And the thing is,
I'm like, well, what ifI do it differently in Mason's like,
well, then you can tell meall about when you get home.
Well, and I get that too, Mason, like it took us a
while to where I'd like, yougo, I gotta sleep, I gotta
work. I can't do this,you know. I opened and that's four
am mornings to thirty when we livedwherever did for me to wake up.

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So there's a point where it waslike he either didn't get to go out
or I had an hour of sleep. So finally, and it took a
couple of years, it's like,we don't have to do everything together.
I trust you. We're best friends, all right, do it? I
feel guilty of I do that.You say, I'd be like, go

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do it like you did before youmet me, or yeah, or I'm
sitting there and I'm like I'm like, oh, I just wish he was
here celebrating this. But Dan,I think he gets more enjoyment out of
hearing me asking me acted out orme tell him the story than he would
if he'd actually been there. Yeah, because then we get to hear it
and we don't have to live it, and we can still get arrested.

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I'm telling you right now, they'regetting I did. Basically, I said,
all right, so you know Ialready said this whole thing about the
extravagant wants to have testa ground him. And I was like, I bet
Mason and I will be able totalk. You know, well, being

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two is this. I mean myfamily is constantly my grandparents, my mom,
you know, they've all said that, they're like, you better hang
on to him. He we've seenwhat you've dealt with before, and like
he's put up with a lot,and the main's like, it's not that
much. And I like look athim and he's like, well, I
mean he's good at he's good atdosing things out and taking it into small

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doses for himself. I'm the onethat's like, oh, it's like did
you see that. I'm the orthe one when we watch movies. This
is one thing my Mom will evenattest to and Mason courses as recently,
you know seen I get into movieslike if there is a bad guy and
they are being mean, my anxietygoes through the roof. I mean hardcore.

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I'm feeling it. And Mason's like, for a person who studied film,
you're awfully into this and but likeit just gets in my skin and
I have to walk out. Ihave to walk and like go breathe and
come back. And I think it'smore the EmPATH than me is like I
just care for these people even thoughthey're real, because I put myself in
their shoes. Absolutely. Yeah,I cannot watch Buddy gory shit because every

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time I do, my EmPATH andmy impath within me literally drains me,
makes new weak, It makes mewant to puke, It makes me just
feel miserable. The first day Ifeel it, like what was it?
Sall? Okay? First scary?Maybe we sit down to watch it's not
really scary. Maybe it's a goryvide. It's hostile, and I don't

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know if you guys have seen hostile, but it's where Americans don't do.
Americans go over to one of them. Slovakia places over my Amsterdam and there's
this place where you can pay people, and so he was okay. He
was watching it for a minute,and then there's a start. They take
a torch to this person's eye andthen their eyes hanging out, and then

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they take it and cut there,and he's like like, literally, is
the freaking eyeball the hatch? I'mall like, I cannot do this shit.
I cannot. I'm almost put peoplewho are innocent being put in situations
where they're being tortured in some wayor another, especially women or children.

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I literally cannot take it. Yeah, yeah, see, I live for
that. It pisses me off.I get into it, you know,
like you do. And well,honestly, before Mason and I met,
I had scary movies. I hadn'tgone down in houses very much, none
of that. And Mason was likeat first, he was like, well,
I'm just gonna go watch it withmy best friend back home, you
know, when I go visit.But then for his then I was like,

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we can do any one year.I made the mistake of being like,
we will do anything for your birthday, anything, whatever you want.
Well, the new Halloween movies comingout, I want you to go see
Halloween with me. You know,I was like, and he was like,
well, let's just warm you up. Let's just watch some scary movies
at home. Then you're in thecomfort of your own home. Lured me
in to watching that, watching it, watching all this stuff, and then

(01:09:47):
all of a sudden he's like,say, it's not that bad. And
then we went to see Halloween andhe jumped more than I did, the
jumpy spots of the best. Yeah. Hey, you know this is the
thing you would never know because I'mthe one that spoke Mason. All he
does is like, just chuck up. I'm the ones that they're like,

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and I'm the one clinging to him. It's not that way at all.
Now, mom My, mom,when we do we do not do scary
stuff at all because it's are justas chicken, and we will not be
there for each other because we're oneof us is running the opposite direction.
We're like, oh, the firsttime the ones have taken him to Spoot

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Trail. We went to Oklahoma goneand um, well, if you drive
from where you're at Tulsa, yougo through my hometown and let's take a
turn fike and that's Kansas, Oklahoma. So anyways, we have spoot trails
there because it's a big Indian townand or Native American. I'm Indian,

(01:10:54):
so I can say it, whatwhat what what um tribe? I'm Cherokee
Choctaw and I'm Cherokee. So myparents actually they bought their land from the
Cherokee Nation. And there's all kindsof stories. So were you enough to
college degree and stuff? But wereyou enough to get like free college and

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stuff. No, my great grandpawas too proud to sign up. And
that could that with DNA evidence,I could go in pay and do all
that to get my CDIV cards.But at this point, right, what's
the point I have the insurance?What was that thing something Dutch or the
oh what was it? Were theysigned their their their um national or for

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American name and I can't remember theDutch quote something like that. Oh yeah
yeah. And he wasn't about todo because that meant he could end up
on a reservation. His freedoms aregone. So he was like, I'm
not And I mean I have cousinsthat are old almost looking, full blood,
you know, they they got allthe features. So anyways, it's

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I got this from you love yourlong hair too. Yes. But and
my grandma, She's where I getthe chalk chalk talk high from. And
she had white, just white straighthair. When she died it was beautiful.
She the oldest she got gray hair. I love it, So I

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started embracing mine. When I parted, I have a white streak coming like
this. Oh you're going, Oh, you're gonna be one of the villains
in the next Harry Potter movies.I have a halo my my sail room
makes a halo, like literally justthe trim of my hair line. This
is all never I don't know ifyou can see it. I'm getting I'm
giving gray streaks in my hair andum and people are like, oh,

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you're getting old, and I'm like, listen, you better embrace it.
Here. When I get a RPcard and you're still waiting for yours,
grab it. Great respect your eldersright. People me when I'm thirty,
they're like, how did you Howdoes it feel turning thirty? And I'm
like, my age is finally catchingup with my wisdom. At that time,

(01:13:06):
I've been doing the same job foreighteen years telling people what to do.
So I'm like, I've had peopleThey're like, I'm not going to
take orders from a twenty year oldpump blah blah blah, and they quit.
You know, they'd be forty yearsold or whatever. So I'm like,
my age probably catching on my wisdom. People are gonna be listening to
me now saying that, oh there, great, yeah, Roy, what

(01:13:31):
are you burning up? And fromthe mines. Yes, it was cold,
also so hot in this freaking studio, like we have no air conditioner
or anything in here. I turnedthe heater on this one. We had,
we had the fans on the windows. There's a hot water bottle twenty
four seven. But I'm always I'mthe hot water or no, yeah,

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I'm the I'm the heat generator.And Mason burns up. Yeah, and
he burns up like I'm always cold, since always, And still I'm like,
are you serious. I'm like,I've lost fifty pounds in just an
hour, next three five big heavyblankets on top every I'm like, here's

(01:14:26):
more, and here's some more,right all night on top of him.
So he's yeah, I just well, thank you much for having me,
but yes, thank you so muchfor having me these past two weeks and
for having him on with me today. It's been such a pleasure so much.
Yeah, thank you, problems,we say goodbye, staying the back,

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so mom, farewell to you,my friends. Goodbye. So now
until we meet again. It's beenso great to talk an interview together out
of the box, and now withtime to say goodbye, good bye.
I love that show back in thenineties. I know, right, great,

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it's such a good all right,well we'll talk to you in a
minute. Everybody said it was great. Yes, it was great meeting you.
All right, goodbye, goodbye,all right, say goodbye. So
there you had it. I tellyou, fabulous, fabulous individuals. And

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you know, I love how theyare because I guess how they're gonna last
for for a while, for hopefullyfor the rest of them their eyes,
because they have their heads on andthey want to be together and they love
each other, and you know,like what you've been talking about being there

(01:15:53):
for each other. And that's abig, big part in a lot of
like everything. Your parents, please, please, please, if you have
a child and you know that thatchild is confused in any way whatsoever,
it doesn't matter if it's sexuality,anything, you know, just take a
little bit of time sitting down withthe child and say, hey, I

(01:16:15):
know that you're probably not ready totalk about it right now, but I
just want to let you know.When you are ready, please come to
me because I want to be herefor you. And don't look at it
as you know you're not still teachingthem, because you will be still teaching
them, but they'll be teaching youas well. You know, whenever I

(01:16:40):
was in Eureka for the Pride forthis last time that I was down diversity,
and this man I didn't even knowhim from I've never met him whatsoever,
sat down in the bar right nextto him, you know, and
of course I was all dressed upand my bearded drag queen shit, and
you know, I was sitting thereand he's like, hey, can I

(01:17:01):
ask you a question? And I'mall like, yeah, what is the
question? And you know, Iwas kind of thrown off because he was
asking me a question and he waslike not gay whatsoever. And you know,
whenever that happens, you kind oflike want to step back and say,

(01:17:23):
oh, okay, yeah, sure, because you never know what's going
what's to come. And he askedme, he was like, you know,
I have kids and I want toask you, what is the best
way to help my children. Idon't want them to think that I hate
them. I don't want them tothink that I don't want them to be

(01:17:45):
happy. I don't want them tofeel like I'm pushing them away. So
what is the best way and meto show my children that I have and
I am, and I'm going toI really hard to learn and teach myself
how to accept whatever is going on. You know. It wasn't even like

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sexuality. It was just you know, they were learning, they were changing,
they were trying to figure out whowho they were, you know,
And I felt really just awesome atthat moment in time, because not everybody
does that, you know, alot. That's when children are pushed away,

(01:18:29):
living on the streets, hated upon, judged because they don't parents don't
know. And you know, ifthere are other parents out there like that
individual, come up to me,come up to any of us, you
know, because nowadays, we wantyou to understand where we are coming from.
You know, we're not all bad. It's always okay. People.

(01:18:51):
I've always wanted to do and understandwhere we're coming from. Now Kates days,
they just actually pay attention and wellwe want to explain it not.
You know, back in the day, homosexuals were totally like, oh my
god, I ain't gonna tell youshit. I ain't gonna explain shit to
you. You don't need to fuckingknow and all that because they get nowadays

(01:19:11):
it's totally gonna be changing, becausethat's what everything needs to be is you
got to overlook that ignorance because thatignorance is no longer here, and you
gotta like open yourself up, goto somebody like myself, like Ace,
like any of us that are outhere to help explain who we are and

(01:19:34):
how we become, who we wereand are and who we're going to become
later. You know, don't beafraid to ask your questions. Tell your
children that you are gonna love themno matter what, and listen to them
no matter what. Learn with yourchild. Don't push your child away,
Learn with them, and be arainbow in their life. My husband's done

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listening, so I'm off of hearing. I just thought that would be a
good secret here. Thank you forjoining t Roy and a special guest here
on Everything Yet Nothing. Tune innext Thursday at ten pm Eastern, nine

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pm Central for another episode you won'twant to miss until next time. Be
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dB Radio. Oh my god,baby, you got a booker? Oh
right here, all right? Ohbye, sorry, I totally it's not

(01:21:01):
a buggy. It was a momh oh forever it is like for I'm
usually oh, it says we're notgonna get because it doesn't watch him.

(01:21:21):
Let's try it again. The buggieis still there. Sorry people, Um,
you need like, let me findyou something to wipe it off for.
I'm so sorry, and you comeback with something that's end the buggie.

(01:21:49):
You can ask you. Because Iam so small, I'll hit it
for him. That's a lot ofpeople. This is so embarrassing. Yeah.
So any ways, we are goingto be here all n because it
just does not want to end.So we're gonna try it again, and

(01:22:11):
we're gonna try it again, andthen we're gonna bring the guests out back.
Oh hey, yeah we should naOh I hate the lights. Oh
my god, to be somebody likemyself and have all these lights on me and