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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Soul tithes runs deep. That's why you have to be
careful who you give your body to. It runs so
deep that it's deeper than the ocean. One thing I
know about life, we all gotta get it right one day.
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And I'm telling you now that soul tithes is different.
It's different. I mean you can't even put your hands
or put your.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Finger on it.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
I'm gonna look up soul tithes real quick, okay, so
we can get it, you know, a good understanding of
what's going on. Soul ties refers to an intense connection
between two people who share a lot in common, such
as beliefs, hopes, and taste. Unfortunately, not all soul tithes
are positive. Some soul tithes leave people to stay in
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unhealthy or even destructive relationships that can help their mental
that can hurt their mental health.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Well you hurt it first. Soul tithes refers.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
To an intense connection between two people. It use the
word intense, and all I did was google it. I
just looked up the word of the meaning of that's it,
and that's it, and I'm just looking it up. You
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have to be careful who you give your body to,
or who you give your energy to is another thing
that's on a whole other level. If you always feeling
depleted by someone or some people or gathering or something
like that, and you always feel depleted or have anxiety tea,
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maybe you should look at your circle.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
And I'll leave it right there, because.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
It's not always about being introverted or extroverted or omniverted.
It's about knowing who your people are, who's sharing you on,
who's lifting you up on those days where it gets
really dirty and low.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
And I'm telling you now that.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
If you do not find yourself in a healthy relationship,
whether it's friends or within a partner, you have to
be careful who you give your energy to. I don't
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know how I'm gonna have to reiterate that, but I'm
gonna have to reiterate this that you have to be
careful because you spend a lot of time wasting time
if you don't find yourself with the right person to
be connected with. And sometimes it's hard to let go,
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and a thought of letting go of someone it's almost immaculate,
it's almost impossible, and your heart says, I'll.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Die if I have to let go of him or her.
You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
I feel you on that because I'm in the same
position as you are, no different than you are. I'm
letting you know now that I know where you are
right now. If you feel depleted or you feel you
feel empty, you feel like.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
You have spun out with people, and nothing.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Can heal that but time. But how much time do
you have? Is the question?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
I got all day to talk about this, Because soul
tides run deep, baby, You cannot play with soul tithes.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Soul tithes is.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Very, very, very dangerous to deal with, so dangerous that
you don't even know which direction to go in. If
somebody was trying to come and marry you, but you
couldn't marry that other person because you're still connected to
the person that's in your past. You share beliefs with
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these people, hopes, and your own an and and and taste.
And it says unfortunately, not all soul tithes are positive.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
That means that they left a bad taste in your mouth?
That not all soul tithes are created to be connected.
But that's why you have to care for who you
give your time and your energy to and you you
give your soul, your spirit, your mind, and that soul, baby,
is deeper than anything. I have given my soul to somebody,
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not the devil, but I have given my lifeline to
somebody because I know I love him unconditionally. And you
heard me, I said, presentense love, not loved. This is
a person of my past but still in the full
throttle present time with me.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
And that really, really really bothers me.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Because he says he wants to have babies, but I
know that I can't give him that.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
You know, I'm spun out.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
I'm giving you a little taste of my gossip a
little bit, but still, at the same time, we.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Have to be careful.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Because they're still seeking other souls to get tied with,
and you're still suck.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
You're still suck stuck.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
You are still stuck on them, and sometimes that's stupid.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Stuck on stupid does not.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Work.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
I feel you on this.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
I'm giving you a little bit a piece of me,
but so I can relate to you. There's a lot
of people that don't want to talk about these things,
but we have to get it out. Who else are
we gonna give it to if we don't give it out.
What else we're gonna do.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
We explode, We're gonna explode. We don't need to do that.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
A lot of these soul times are making us sick, unhealthy, mentally, spiritually,
and physically.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
I knew that my ex husband was my soul man.
I knew that.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
I knew that we share soul man different beliefs and
someone very different. He was Jewish, I was Christian. And
how do we make that work? We just made it
work in our own little special way. And I'll never
take that season away because it was the most exciting
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season I've ever been in my entire life. But we're
out of that now. And do I still talk to
him daily? Yes, I do, because I love him unconditionally.
His name is Raphael. He's representative. He's actually an angel
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and meaning like conscious wise, when you read up on Raphael,
there's an angel, an archangel called Raphael. So my name
is Angel. He came from Jerusalem, all the way from Jerusale.
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I meet him in the United States and then we
get married. You get what I'm saying. But it didn't
work out. After four years, it was gone. Can't really
tell you this till this day. Why we got a
divorce and how I even signed the papers because I
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don't even understand what really happened.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
It was just whatever it was.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
It was devastating because it felt like I lost my
best friend in the whole entire world, my soul mate.
There's a difference. Everybody cannot be called your soul mate.
He asked me what should we call ourselves now that
we've kind of went beyond marriage, and I said, we're
soul mats and he just kind of laughed, and he said,
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I like that because it's true. You have to really
be careful though, of who you put your energy into
all the time, because again, can you see that one
person that you love the most, even though you're really
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striving just to stay friends and and and cordial and
and you know what I'm saying, You're still talking to them,
you might still be sleeping with him, you might still
you know, be dating them hunt here and there, you
know what I'm saying. Doing It's it's very rare, though,
these these type of relationships are not being talked about enough,
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because it's a very rare situation that most people get
married and they're still friends with their and with their exes.
They usually just move on if they don't have any children,
and we didn't have children. But all this to say
is you have to be careful because you know, he
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lives in California, I live in Mississippi or at the
moment right now, and it's it's sad because we can't
really be together. But we get together. We travel together.
Every year, we get together. We have a big shebang
where we just get together and we just hang out
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and travel and you know, he comes to see me,
I come to see him, those type of things. But
at the same time, we have to be careful who
we give our heart out to.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Because I'm not.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Saying that I'm in a dangerous situation because I don't
feel that way.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
I don't have that vibe. We have very we have
a very special connection.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
But there might be someone that you have tampered with
that is holding you to a point of no return
and it's mentally detrimental to your health.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
That is unhealthy. That's an unhealthy situation that.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
You need to get out of immediately, especially if it's
a abuse.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
If it's abusive, you need to run.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
My first husband, it didn't work out so well. My
second husband, to me, it still works out do. I
still talk to my first husband sometimes I do check
on him just to see if he's okay, and he
checks on me to see if I'm okay. But we
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leave it at that. We have forgiven each other and
we move on. But my second husband is almost I
can't call him my best friend. It's deeper than that
because he was he was my husband, so I would
never call him my best friend. A friend, I could
never call him that because we're just totally deeper than that.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
It's a deeper connection than that.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
So I'm talking about those people that are in a
very bad situation, and even if it was verbally abusive,
you know, wasting your time, like what is going on?
Speaker 2 (13:08):
All they use, all they do is use you for sex.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
I've been there. I had somebody that just used me
for sex, and I was so flabbergasted because I was like,
what did I give off to make this man think
that he can use me like that? Because I thought
I always gave out that wifey material thing. But I
guess because you know, we were in different situations and
in a racial relationship, and he's from a whole nother background.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
I'm from a whole nother background. He was white, I
was black. You know what I'm saying. I'm not blaming
on the race thing.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
But he ended up calling me a nigga when it
was for real, and I was like what over a
text message about something that he was upset about. But
I can understand if he was just talking to me, like,
you know, as a friend and we were laughing, kiki
and cooling. But at the same time, when you text
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me in a text message and you're mad in a
time of passion, then you know what, that's.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
Offensive to me. So that to me was verbal abuse.
Take it or leave it. I know that sounds very
very No it's not.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
And another thing is wasting your time, using you, making
you feel like you can be sloppy seconds.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
What who do they think you are? You are somebody?
You are worthy? Uh huh.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
All right, it's getting real hot up in here because
I am so fired up.