Marriage advice-Throwback

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Episode Transcript

(00:00):
Yeah, right up the cloud whenwe're speaking. They would never understand why
I love reach across the world timepeople who ain't eat it. Let's agree
to join together, leader world withpeace in it. If you would greed,
let's sit down and handle it.You bring your play as well,
bring out the scramberling. Then weneed to go and start from that from
the bottom, keeping love intact.Huh, we need to go and start

(00:21):
from that from the bottom, keepinglove and tac you know, because one
of the first people I know,they get married. Uh. I can't
remember if I was in your marriageor not. Was that the man?
I think I played some part init. I can't remember what part though,
he was something around that. Ohso you know he he know what

(00:45):
it takes to be married for what? How long have you been America?
Twenty years? In November? Twentyyears? Okay, So this is the
question that you probably can help alot of people out with. I know
you had your ups and downs,but what do you need to be happy
in the marriage or what do youthink? I don't know, Mary different.

(01:12):
So it's on a person that's ina marriage, their advantage is not
the same. And if you lookat a person marriage and be like,
all right, they just happy.They don't have a problems now, don't
have bad days. And if theytell you that, they lie, so

(01:34):
as I can say, I don'tknow what, I don't know. It's
it's too many people, you know, you think everything be good and even
like they were just happy yesterday,how did they get divorced? How do
they get divorced tomorrow? They gotpapers and they can get divorced in another
week. Left all this type ofstuff. Well, I think I think

(01:59):
people get voice so quick now becauseit's so easy to get the voice,
I mean things you can do itfrom an app now. Uh yeah,
yeah, you're right. And youknow it's you know, you don't have
to put in that work like youused to back in the day with being

(02:21):
married, because now everybody's so acsessibleby social media and all the dating apps
and all this stuff. I liketo have a lot to do with it
too, because it's more like backto Lord and be like, yeah,

(02:44):
our friends like I ain't know you'regonna through that. I want to do
this and I want I want totake this. And they went the people
in your ears into telling you whatyou think they should what you should do
and they don't even knowing what theycan go on about what they say,
Well, yeah, in the play, be like I wouldn't be doing it.
They ain't kind of sign out likeI wouldn't be. They're telling you

(03:05):
not to do it. You turnaround me like, don't your man got
too baba about somebody else? Don'tyou you know why y'all married? Don't
you got don't you got ful babydaddy? And ain't your kids ain't number
three two years apart and you ain'twith that person on all. Well,

(03:25):
I guess that dude make you think. I don't know. I think that
you know, you don't People don'tlike to work like they used to back
in the day on their marriage.You know, back then you just have
to work as a marriage. Andnow these days, if it's not instant
or it's not like what you seeon social media like trips and every day

(03:50):
is good and everybody happy and doingall this stuff going out fancy restaurants or
whatever, against you know, gettingthese expensive gifts. Yeah, you know,
then I think that dude play apart in it. Could then like
people started feeling like, well whyand I'm not getting that same type of
treatment, but a lot of itbe cover up. A lot of would

(04:15):
be cover up like this it well, I'm the same friends like, I
haven't seen people who I spend allthis money on to go get the girl
a ring to get married and itjust be material. That's what she wants,
you know it don't be like theain't he won't. It did be
like she wanted this big ring,we getting married and march down the line,

(04:39):
be like, man, I gottheir ring and we spend all this
money on this and not we can'tdo this. We can't. We got
so much dead because they're with andthey'd be like, I'm on a child
support and I'm staying with him.Wait a minute, what baby is it?

(05:01):
They'd be their kids, oh god, and they'd be on child support.
I'd be like, what hold on, you're not on child support and
you stay with him? That's ahscrab money back and you get your money
back? What what shans do thatmean? Well? Once I think about
it, if you on child support, I mean I think you could get

(05:24):
Section you get Section eight. Yourbaby Jack have to be on child support,
so I guess you get cheaper randthen you get your money back.
You can't stay though your name ain'ton it. I mean your name ain't
only but you know, we allknow that people still stay there. Yeah,
but at the same time, Oh, it ain't benishing y'all as far

(05:46):
like, oh, come, Imean, what you do You get to
save a lot of money, butyou still get behind. Yeah, huh,
well I think it do do givethem a chance to like live away.
You know that they outside of theirmeans, you know, because if

(06:10):
your rent is cheap, you know, rent is a big part of their
paycheck. I'm true. So ifyour rent cheap, you know, shoot,
you got a job. You probablygot a job to pin that's a
lot of money. And then yougot off. You got a job,
she got a job, she gota new car. You got a new

(06:30):
car. Your kids need you.Stoff and y'all brother than making it so,
y'all know, what's the what's thepurpose of it? The stop for
the ground? Come on, cutthe new times. I know I'm talking
about too much none, but yea, hey, that was a lord to

(06:51):
come here. Hey baby, wedon't need you to do here. We
don't need you to well, yeah, they don't have people don't have no
conversations. They'd be like, okay, make it happen. We'll go get
this and then see a month laterstalking about what I'm to the car?
Oh man, yeah, I hadno problem the income tax come, income

(07:15):
taxes they not. I read aboutthey they not. I really went about
everything they need and waiting on theirmoney in a car. Well you know,
check you know if people used toget new cars every income tax check
true, And nine months later they'rewaiting on three months to them, three

(07:38):
months to pass. Ah, they'vebeen there, ran through the car.
Hey, that's one time. Aboutthey waiting on them next three months to
come so they can get another carin three months. Well, yeah,
I guess, yeah, you gotyou got a point right there. I
guess you're over the cars. Theygo over the car. They can't keep
the mainings up on it, givingthem all the lights to be on.

(08:03):
Why don't have to the car.But they can drive a car, they
can put gas and they can't donothing else. Well for that first month,
you know they stunned out there.Oh yeah, they fly rim and
everything. Yeah, new clothes,keep the car full. Keep Then that
gives you right, I mean you'reright. Every marriage is not the same.

(08:28):
I guess happiness all depends on yourmarriage and what makes y'all happy.
It's all about how you come intoit. Some people come into it with
a lie, and they have tokeep up the lie. Why. Okay,

(08:48):
let me ask you this question.Say you were single, right,
yeah, but then you were youwere rich? What you get married?
Do you think you would get marriedif I was rich and I would single?

(09:09):
Yes, Like you're rich, you'resingle, probably would so you wouldn't
feel as if the girl is withyou for your money. She went on,
I had what you mean, sheintgonna know you you're rich? How
you ain't how she ain't gonna doyou get it because you're rich, don't
mean you got to Yeah, right, you gotta see what the other person

(09:33):
you got to get bringing to thetype. So you're gonna have two spots.
You're gonna have your regular house andyou're gonna have you gonna have a
be in my house. No,are barely making the house? Uh?
They want No, I won't dothat. Be like we can meet it
on something where. Man, wejust had to see how see how we

(09:54):
vide. That's how to come first. I had to see how you living,
just like you got to see howcause if I go to your house
and you ain't got better food,turn in a living room and that's it.
Oh nah, that's dead. Well. I mean she could have a
two TV, a food torn asixteen TV. No, not sixteen,

(10:15):
it's like a thirty seven. Noah, that's how it be. They have
a food tie a big TV.Well, I mean you gotta think how
much time they really spend in theliving room. Yeah, I mean most
people just be in their bedroom anyway. The food tion is only for people
to come sleep over. Just nah. That's that's what I'm saying. If

(10:35):
I'm rich and I go to somebodyout and they ain't got but a food
t on in the living room,not in the bedroom, I say,
in the living room, I mean, ain't nothing going on now? Oh
no, man, that food tonecan turn to a couch. You can
fold it and sit up on againstthe wall. Yeah, I mean the
food time turned to a couch.Nah. No, sorr that that they

(11:01):
had to and we're having to matchup. It won't be about the money.