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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Doctor Marisa, also known as the Asian Oprah. Her mission
to be a beneficial presence on the planet, her purpose
to be your personal advocate, to live, lap love, learn
her life motto, don't die wondering. Take Back your Life
with Doctor Maursa.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Fey and welcome. You are tuned into my weekly talk
radio TV show called Take My Advice I'm Not using it.
Get Balanced with Doctor Marissa every Tuesday at naturally high noon.
You're out of Burbank, California, right beside the Warner Brothers
Studios with ubn Go and then rebroadcasting on my syndicated
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CNBC NBC News radio channel Case AA AM ten fifty
FM one oh two point three FM one oh six
point five and that is on Sundays at eight Make
Noe New timeslot and then on demand anytime on iHeartRadio.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
And this is a show about hope and happiness.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
So no gossip, no scandal, no k words at all,
no Kardashian talk, because I want you to focus on
your own reality show and how you could be happy
eighty eight percent of the time. And if you missed
any of my past shows these past three hundred and
seventy five consecutive weeks on the air on camera. Whoop woop,
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Do I get a little love on that one?
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Thank you? Over seven years. I cannot believe it.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
I just cannot stop splattering more hope and happiness onto you,
especially now that I have a mission, my Happy eighty
eight mission, with my new number one best selling book,
Eight Ways to Happiness. From wherever you are, I've decided
that you know, it's getting a little too slow and boring,
So I have a goal of eight million more happy,
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eighty eight percent of the time people in the next
eight years.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
So if you're with me.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Get the book, go and help support happiness, because there's
way too much unhappiness on the planet right now. There's
so much complaining and it makes my ears hurt. So
I want you to be with me as we go out,
and if you're happy, let your face know so that
they'll know that you've been listening to doctor Marissa and
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I am peace and peace out. I have been away
for a little bit of a moment, and so I
want to wish you a belated first Happy Independence Day.
Independence you for my home United States of America, but
for those of you who don't know, I was born
in Canada, so happy Dominion Day as well, and hopefully
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you enjoyed that. There's a little shot of one of
my favorite T shirts that shows California's Canadians, which I am.
And I'm so grateful to have been able to speak
at the University of Toronto as well as Unity Kitchener,
where I was born, and people recognized me, which is amazing.
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And most of all, I got to reconnect with my
math teacher, JJ Bristow. I've been looking for him for years,
those of you who know I had this special place
in my heart for all kids, and wherever I go
and speak, I look at them in the eye and say,
you can do anything that you put your heart in
mind to. And that's because JJ Bristow, my tenth grade
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math teacher at Bluevelle Collegiate in Canada, said that to
me after class one day. Never forgot that and I
got to reconnect and it was just a beautiful thing.
And I'll tear up in a second if I don't stop.
So also Unity London, Ontario, beautiful people, and my interview
on that channel in Toronto, So piece and piece out
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to all of my new listeners, and I'm so grateful
I made it on the cover.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Of a magazine, the Unity Magazine.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Thanks Katie Coons for contacting me last year asking me
to write an article. My name is on the cover.
That is not my face on the cover, but that's next.
But yeah, that is a guy, but it does say
and my article is called Happiness is a Choice, So
please do pick that up. You can get that anywhere
Unity Magazine is sold, and you can also get the
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online version by going to all of my social media
outlets doc Balance, Instagram, Doctor Marissa pay Twitter, LinkedIn, Facebook,
Facebook and I'll see you there or doctor Marissa dot
life and stay tuned. At the end of the show,
I'm gonna give away Asian Oprah giveaway free tickets to
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the Catalina Jazz Festival, so make sure you stay in
after my amazing guest who I'm delighted to have back
in studio by popular demand.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Who.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
You may remember her as the mom on the blockbuster
epic Spielberg movie Et, But did you know that she
is the only actress alive today with over two hundred
film credits and if you when you see her, you'll
see that she does use oil.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Of l a.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
In fact, I came in and I did it. I
almost like turned and went, oh, she's not here yet,
because I saw a woman standing with Tony and is like,
she's gorgeous. She I was like, because I haven't seen
her in five or six years, but you've gone backwards.
But anyways, back to your thing. I love you more,
from Kujo to critters, to a myriad of TV series,
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to commercials, to tedek stages, speaking and on her own show,
being on the Oprah and Today shows. And you call
me a busy bee.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
She outdoes me every.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Single day of the year. She's still going strong. Please
welcome to the studio one of my favorite people on
the planet.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
D Waller, Hi Baby, Hi baby bib.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Last time you actually, I think skyped in, so I
didn't get to see you and we didn't get to hug.
So the last time I physically saw you was at
the Conscious Life Expo. Would you say like five years
ago but at least maybe more? Yeah, And honestly, you
really do. I'm not just saying that because I don't
lie very easily, as people who.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Know me can say.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
But I literally almost turned around and went, I did
do a devil? I did I did you saw that?
And yeah, I love your facial expressions. So when when
people give you that kind of accolade two hundred movie
credits like that is amazing. You just finished, you got
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off at least three or four different sets. I know
Warner Brothers is celebrating you because of Critters, the return
of Critters, Critters attack, and is that your two hundred?
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
I didn't even know that I had hit this milestone
until my publicist and said, did you realize You've just
done two hundred film and and you're the only living
actress that we can find it?
Speaker 3 (07:11):
And I went, when did that happen? How did that happen?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
I think I just you know me, I'm like the
energizer Benny, Yes you are. I don't like to be bored,
and I like to be creating all the time. As
long as I'm creating, I'm happy. And then the universe goes.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
All right, here's some worse stuff.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Yeah, yeah, absolutely absolutely, And and you know you're you're
a quintessential actress. But on top of that, you have
not had it easy. So so here's your craft is acting.
And you know you've heard I'm sure I've heard the
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saying that you know, when you've gone through a lot
in life, it really makes you a good writer, a
good artist, and a good actor. I don't know if
you've heard that before. I heard that, and I and
I and I take that to heart because I do
believe that pain in life is mandatory, but suffering is optional.
And I do believe that the more pain we have,
the more qualified we are to reach or tap into
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or connect with that energy that is beyond world.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
I don't know if I agree with you. Okay, here
we go, Here we go. I would like to.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
Invite everybody to be open to losing that belief that
we have to suffer in order to achieve, or when
we get what we want, we have to pay for
it somehow. Because all my work, my healing work, is
based on the I am you know, God said I
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am that I am. I have to say I'm God
if I'm going to be God right, And so I
really go off of everything in my life from as
you believe it's delivered to you.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
So we have the belief. I just did.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
A big speech down in Fort Lauderdale, and all I
heard all weekend was about the pain and the problems
and the suffering and the channel said, oh my god,
this is such an old.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Belief, You've got to let go of it. Yes, you know, And.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
I played all these mothers, these traumatic mothers, and Kujo
and an Et and everything in the press would always go,
oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
D you know, how how did you know to do that?
Speaker 4 (09:39):
You hadn't had any children, I said, no, but I
had a mother, right, Yeah. So I have had a
lot of pain and trauma and drama in my life, haven't.
We all were on a physical plane. My younger brother
just committed suicide. My daughter, God bless her heart, got
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in a car and drove over six am so somebody
would be with me when I got the news, and
we cried, and we called the family and we all
cried together, and two hours later we were on the
set doing a movie.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Yeah. Yeah, because I.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
Said years ago, I will not allow anything or anyone
ever again to keep me from creating who I am
and who I want to be.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
So the good news is she was not disagreeing with me,
because what you heard, what you heard me say, was
you didn't hear the second part I said, suffering is options.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
Yes I did.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
I totally, I totally agree with you.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Yes, that we don't have to suffer. But it gave
me an opportunity to teach something, so I jumped. There
we go.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
So, yeah, I knew it was kind of going to
be like that, but I revel it.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
I love I love I love it. We always do,
we always do.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
But here's and and this is what I absolutely agree
with you because I think there is almost this addiction
for many of us to to stay in that pain
or to use it as an excuse, or to stay
in bland, or to stay in suffering, which is which
is the bulk of my book is is really you
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don't have to do this if you want to feel lonely,
feel lonely, and then get over it, out of it.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
Because life is way too short.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
So we totally agree.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
And you're not here for an hour.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Yeah yeah, but you know, people do love conflict too,
but we we have loving con but we.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Don't, especially within myself.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Yeah yeah, but I think there is the aspect. Okay,
So for those of you who don't know, I didn't
actually know this until I did a little more deep research.
The last couple of times I didn't have to. Your
father committed suicide. That is that is painful trauma. Your
little brother just what two months ago, commits suicide. So
that's you know, the majority, the seven out of ten
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of us who've had some kind of childhood trauma. Not
saying that it's okay or that you know it gives
us an excuse, but it is just a very statistics.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
So if if you keep calling in it an excuse
and you kept keep telling your story, you will keep
living your story. You will keep being the victim. I
love Dana Wile's quote. You know it's not your story,
isn't the problem. The problem is that you keep telling
your story, right, which is a direction of energy, which
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says I am a victim.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Then you get to get experience.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
And I and and if you see me scrolling, I
am listening to her, but I'm trying to put the
link down so everybody can tune in right now.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
If you have just.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Tuned in and you're wondering who I am lovingly arguing
with but not really arguing with, it is the incomparable
d Wallace. And this is our third interaction. And yet
it feels like you know, I'm coming home because I
we just clicked the very first time we met, when
We were at the Hilton by the Airport.
Speaker 3 (13:26):
For that, honest broads, and I love it.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
You say broad like it's a bad thing.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
Oh no, I am proud. That's a scream queen, and
proud of it. Yes, that's a nickname. I didn't know
you had. Can we hear it? What the scream? Oh?
Dear God, are you ready? No? Seriously, just for fun?
Sound I got Okay, there you have it.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
I wanted it in memorys and I got it. That
was That's a good scream.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
Yeah, I'm a good screamer. Yeah. Does it hurt? Does
it hurt? Yeah? I love to talk about sex too, Yes,
we did. It doesn't hurt, It doesn't hurt. No, you
look from way back in the beginning, how to do
it from your diaphraend. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Did you ever imagine that you would be in so
many horror movies?
Speaker 3 (14:19):
Nope? That was because I'm very wissy. Uh yeah, when
I I can't watch slasher movies, I can't.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
And you're in a well I'm not in slasher movies. No,
I'm in the quintessential horror films. And the difference is
in a horror film, you get to learn the characters
and you get invested in the characters, and there's an
actual storyline in a slasher film, it's high here's the
six people, watch how gruesomely we can kill them.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
So you don't really have an investment.
Speaker 4 (14:53):
Yeah, but like A Quiet Place last year was one
of the first really modern, quintessential horror film.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
God, I love that film. I thought it was so
well have you seen.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
I have a friend who's trying to get me to
see Midsummer and my both of my daughters are saying, Mom,
you hate horror. You remember in that Gremlins movie when
when the mom was walking backwards and you knew the
Gremlins were in the tree. So I'm in the theater
and the music's building in and then right before they
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could jump out, I go and the whole theater went
like this.
Speaker 3 (15:31):
That's how my ref we love an audience like you.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
I'm getting chills just remembering that. I'm so bad with it. Anyways,
So so you went from acting and your continue I
shouldn't go, went from You're still dying?
Speaker 3 (15:48):
Four films? What are They? Critters?
Speaker 4 (15:52):
Attack will be on Sci Fi in October. Rob Zombies
three from Hell. Oh I should have brought the picture
three of you.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
Oh my lord, you will you won't.
Speaker 4 (16:04):
I walked right by, said Haig and Bill and when hey, guys,
and they looked at me. It's d and she goes,
oh my god, I know you so well. I went
to it's out there. Let me tell you my daughter,
Gabrielle Stone and I just finished really awesome. It's a
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combination of sci fi and horror called Await the Dawn.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
And then I have a lovely.
Speaker 4 (16:29):
Little family film called Renovation of the Heart, which will
be out in January. From the end, another horror film
called Dolls that's coming out.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
That's that's awesome. That's awesome, it, says. Matthew Barnett says.
This is usually I can't multi whatever, but.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
I'm in awe of how she's doing all this. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
And Matthew Barnett says, hello, d are you looking forward
to attending Weekend of Hell in Germany? Very that's November.
I look forward to meeting you.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Oh great, I will look for you. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Mikey's saying, a beautiful show today, Collette. I am all
for positive thinking, good vibes, in the power of prayer.
Love to you both, and Y, Karen and Sonny are watching,
so piece and piece out. We'll get better at including
y'all as you're watching. But I'm so grateful to have
d while it's in the studio. She's a young seventy.
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I want to know your beauty secret, because do you
use any particular? Is it love?
Speaker 3 (17:34):
It's all love. I just try and live my life
and love. Yeah, it shows. But also my mommy had
really good skin. You know what I use.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
I use Ivory soap, a buff puff and all May cream.
That's that's my regiment every once in a while. While yeah,
slap on a facial that it is love.
Speaker 3 (17:59):
I had you.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
Have you met Don Wells?
Speaker 3 (18:03):
I love Don too.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
The three of us should play poker, she loves.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
You'd have to teach me, but I'm in okay cool,
She says the same.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
She doesn't use anything either. She says, it's just positive,
positive living.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
Well, you know, when you get the BS out of your.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Energy, the belief systems there, there you go. I'm surprised
you haven't. You don't use that.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
I use that. People love it.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
Your energy lightns you know, because you're not carrying around
the anger, you're not carrying around the blame, you're not
carrying around the fear because you know that you're in
control of creating your own life. And you know, I
I believe here we go. I believe that Christ was
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teaching brain science, because when you break down brain scien, spirituality,
and religion, we're all saying the same thing, exactly the
same thing. Like you know, brain science will say, focus
your brain. Tell your brain what you want it to
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focus on, because that ends up being the creation of
your life.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
Christ said, think.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
Only on these things, and of course the most important
thing he said to focus on is love, right and spirituality.
We all, we all know that we what we believe
and think we create in our lives and all the same.
If we could all just come together and go whoa,
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we've all been saying the same thing all this time.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
And if you look at the.
Speaker 4 (19:50):
History of films, you know, Peter Pan think happy thoughts
and you fly e t keep your heart light Openizard
of Oz. You had the power all along. Dorothy, you
know we've been hearing it and hearing it and hearing it.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
And hearing it. We just have to live it. Why
am I going on?
Speaker 2 (20:09):
No?
Speaker 3 (20:10):
I love it. I love it. You are the first
guest ever to.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
Help me make that link between movies and spirituality, the
first one, the first one ever. My life just went on.
Oh cool, yeah, no, very cool.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
See I know that creative.
Speaker 4 (20:31):
Well we're all creative people, yes, but people who are
in the business of creating product like movies, they often
download the truth years before the mainstream public gets a
hold of it.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
Yeah, well matrix, Oh my god, they got it.
Speaker 4 (20:50):
So right, pick a door, any door, and you get
to step into that reality.
Speaker 3 (20:54):
Well that's the same thing a thought is.
Speaker 2 (20:56):
Yes, right, exactly. The power of choice, I say all
the time is your freedom. That's our strongest u uh
uh not weapon in life, our tool, our strong list
tool in life is choice and focus and it's your freedom.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
Absolutely absolutely.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Now you you have your own show too that you
have people call in. And so for those of you
who don't know, she already like dropped the G bomb
and the J bomb. So you know, I know y'all
thought you were tuning into a movie show today and
uh and we're talking Jesus God and spirituality. So movies,
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hold on and movies and screaming. And you got the
D scream. Thank you very much. I don't think Oprah
got that. Sorry, I love you. But I don't think
you screamed on the show.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
See I had to, you know, Asian Oprah had to
do the get a little more. But you are, You're
a known and celebrated channeler. So for those of you
who don't know.
Speaker 3 (21:59):
What that is, I'll let you explain. I am gonna
throw you.
Speaker 4 (22:05):
Look, anybody can channel probably all of you have channeled.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
You get a hit, you have a thought and you go, wow,
where did that come from? That? That's channeling.
Speaker 4 (22:17):
And anybody that's open enough to do that and trust
themselves and trust the information does it.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (22:26):
It's like anything else. You just have to create that
intention right of doing it. So I am a clear
audience channel although, which means I hear not like I
hear you, but I hear information and also see pictures
and things.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (22:47):
Now'd I've talked to I have talked to many people
on the other side.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
Yeah, I believe you. Yeah, I believe you.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Steve Young says, hey there d and mikey Adam Cohen says,
beautiful show today.
Speaker 3 (23:00):
He is happy.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
So, so I don't know if you anybody here, Oh,
Steve Young says schoolboy crush.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
Did you know?
Speaker 2 (23:09):
Are you are you married now?
Speaker 3 (23:11):
Uh no, but I have a guy you have thank you?
Speaker 2 (23:14):
Okay, sorry, Steve, I tried. But so I'm going to
invite you to because you did also channel me the
very first time we met, and you were so right
on the spot. This was the five six, seven years
ago of you know, where I was on the outside
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and where I was on the inside. And what's interesting
is at that time I was a reluctant woo woe.
I really, you know, didn't necessarily believe in what you
were doing, or I wasn't trusting of it or really yeah,
I didn't let me know that I know, I know,
because not that I would have cared exactly so, so
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like decaffinated coffee, why bother letting you know?
Speaker 3 (24:01):
But uh but I did.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
I did get a lot and and I actually after
I talked to you, I went up and I got
a an aura, a picture taken and what you had
been saying about me hearing things but not necessarily attending
to them. They saw dark blue by my ears and
I said, what does that mean? They said, you're audio
clariont but you have little white dots in those dark
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blue places. And I said, what's that? And they say
you don't always listen.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
So isn't that twice in one day? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (24:34):
Yeah, hopefully you stood up and went, well, I guess
I'll choose to listen.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
Yeah, absolutely, absolutely so. And and for for people who
are interested, you still do that.
Speaker 3 (24:46):
Right you have oh yeah, all over the world to.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Get in the direction person.
Speaker 4 (24:54):
Yeah, you can call into my show on Sundays and
ask the channel anything sex, drugs, rock and roll, relationship, success.
Speaker 3 (25:05):
Money, health. Had a lot of questions about help. What
do you want to know?
Speaker 2 (25:11):
I'm going to come back from break with an actual question,
So we're not going to do it right now, because
I think people want to know a little bit more
about you. So I know you are in a book,
you fell in love, your soulmate was Gabrielle's father, Christone,
who was your co stars, and many things. How did
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you guys meet? I love love story? So there.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
God. We met on Chips.
Speaker 4 (25:37):
No, we met on an episode of Chips and we
both looked at each other and said, you know, the
only reason I'm doing this because the director asked me
as a favor to come in, which was true. And
Chris was a very established actor at the time who
proceeded to think he might have to direct.
Speaker 3 (26:00):
Me all week, and I wasn't going to have any
of that.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
Let me tell you, I wanted if I could have
been there to Yeah, that would have been.
Speaker 4 (26:09):
And then as we're driving back after the last shot,
I happened to mention that I had done a guest
star this guest star role on lou Grant where I
played a hooker, and he went.
Speaker 3 (26:23):
My god, that was you. I changed right before his
very eyes.
Speaker 4 (26:27):
So all of a sudden, I was an actor right
by the time I got home. And this was back
when you know, we all had pagers and stuff, and
nobody was supposed to give out any information about you.
But Chris could I blood out of a turnip. And
by the time I got home there were two dozen
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red roses waiting for.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
Me at the door. He had niggled my address from
you know, oh, I just saw that due me and
jo Oh. I like that. Yeah, I wanted to. But
it was interesting working with him because he worked the
old what I call the old way, the old established way,
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broke everything down, figured out the beats.
Speaker 4 (27:16):
I worked the opposite way. I don't break down anything.
I don't think about it. I mean, it's definitely a
training right method. But I and so like I saw
that shot from the Hawling fly By and we were
on this set and Joe Dante said, well, you've got
a hit her today and everything. So I'm sure you
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guys worked it out last night. Show me what you're
gonna do it. Chris looked him and he said, my
leading lady doesn't rehearse.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
I'm sorry in and out of bed. Yeah, you met
always in the moment. It's always better in the moment.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
Yeah, Yeah, that's so great. Yeah, I wanted to hear that.
And so the two of you were together like.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Eighteen years eighteen years before he passed.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
Yeah, a heart attack, that was yeah, probably.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
During I was filming The Frighteners at the time, and
he had a heart attack. Gabrielle had just left and
come back with her nanny and was.
Speaker 3 (28:20):
She not a six six and had a heart attack.
I came back. They did an angioplast. He was fine.
He said, honey, go back, they're holding filming for you.
So I went back.
Speaker 4 (28:31):
Four days later, he got up and a blood plot
hit his heart and he was gone and Gabrielle found him.
Oh yeah, and so I flew back again. We threw
his party. He didn't want to service right, and grabbed
my kid and my nanny and flew back again. All
this happened within two weeks. I didn't know where I was.
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I didn't know.
Speaker 3 (28:55):
Whether I was coming her going.
Speaker 4 (28:56):
Fortunately, in New Zealand, they have all these new ages,
and they sent me to this one lady who worked
with my chakras and put rocks on me. It was
the weirdest thing because I'd never heard of.
Speaker 3 (29:11):
It at that time, you know. But I'll tell you.
Speaker 4 (29:15):
I came back here and I found people that knew
how to do that because I walked in and she
looked at me and said, oh my god, Dee, I
can't I can't work on you at all until I
get your balance jacket's like, you don't.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
Have an aura right right right? Oh wow, wow wow.
Speaker 3 (29:33):
So much to talk about when we come back.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
Dee Wallace, so much more than an actress, so much
more than a channeler, so much more in life. So
grateful to have her here on air and on camera
in studio with me. We're going to come back because
we have to give a little love and proper to
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So we're gonna be back.
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You are tuned into my weekly talk radio TV show
called take My Advice.
Speaker 3 (31:37):
I'm not using it.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
Get Happy with Doctor Marissa here out of Burbank, California,
broadcasting live right.
Speaker 3 (31:46):
Beside Warner Brothers Studios with.
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UB and Go, and then re broadcasting on my CNBC
NBC News radio channel kc AA AM ten fifty FM,
number one FM stage voted in Southern California that has
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Speaker 3 (32:02):
And the Asian Oprah.
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That's AM ten fifty f one on two point three
fan one of six point five Sundays at eight pm
Pacific Central Pacific Standard time, not Central Time, and you
jinxed me becaus you said, how do you remember all that?
And then anytime on demand at iHeartRadio. And today I'm
delighted to have d Wallace, the only living actress to
(32:25):
have over two hundred film credits to her name.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
You'll remember her.
Speaker 2 (32:30):
Kujo, Critters TV and ET's Mom, one of my beloved
favorite favorite films of all time. And she's here not
only to talk about how you can be the best
that you can be by letting go of all that's
in your way, as she very readily lectured me when
(32:51):
I first met her at Conscious Life Expo, just saying.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
But I love the story.
Speaker 2 (32:56):
I'm you know, it's no accident. I call it an accidental.
You met Chris, your soulmate on Chips. Well, I just
did the carpet red carpet interviewing for the release of Wishman,
which is the movie that Greg Reid made his wish
come true. Frank Shankwitz, who's the founder of Make a
(33:17):
Wish Foundation, friend of mine. He was in studio. He
loves me, thank you, and I love him.
Speaker 3 (33:24):
And I interviewed them on.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
The carpet, like gazillion views on that one. And he
had in his movie two of the original Chips guys
who I also got to interview Larry and Robert Pine.
So that was kind of cool. Small world.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
Well, and it just keeps going, you know, we just
keep bouncing back.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Yeah, yeah, isn't it? Isn't it wonderful? And again, when
we here so much negativity about you know, who's are
drugs or who messed up this? Or who got in
you know accident that who is you know an actor
in the limelight that fell or all of that negative
(34:06):
stuff about Hollywood. There's so much good in Hollywood. There
are so many actors and actresses in Hollywood who are
balanced and wonderful and giving back and staying alive to
still hone their craft. So, you know, I had Bill
Zook as a guest too. You know, it's like this
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is the point of my show is to balance out
all of the negative news with positive news.
Speaker 4 (34:32):
So you're yang and what again, choices your freedom?
Speaker 2 (34:37):
Yeah, yeah, what you choose to focus on.
Speaker 3 (34:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:40):
Your advice to anyone who has had a dream to
be an actor or an actress and you know it's
not it doesn't look like it's happening, or they've given.
Speaker 4 (34:51):
Up, Well, my first advice is, if you're saying it's
not happening, what have you done to make it happen?
Because most of us, you know, we're on a physical plane.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
Poop happens, right, Well, talkie, happens.
Speaker 4 (35:08):
What most of us do is we keep looking at
the poop. Wow, Look how brown that poop is. Wow,
Look how much it smells. Wow, that's a pretty big load. Hey,
come on over here and look at my poop. Let's
talk about my pooper. And then we think we're doing
something about moving our life along, right when really we're
(35:30):
just still focused on the poop. And you know which,
we all say they want to be an actor, but
they don't mean whatever I need to do to be
an actor. So if that means a community theater where
you're not getting paid, that's still being an actor. That's feeding,
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you know, the heart that wants to get out and
do it. Being in class and working out is being
an actor. But what happens is that people don't commit
to what they say they want. And so if you're
not committed, then the universe isn't going to come play
with you. And by the way, you won't play with yourself.
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That came out before I.
Speaker 3 (36:19):
Thought about it.
Speaker 4 (36:21):
It's fun to play with yourself when you're doing what
you want.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
Right here we go, We've got to do another sexual
healing with Doctor Riss episode all she's having difficulty keeping
it down. So, but yeah, I think practically, you know,
you hear about actors talking about the role they almost
got or they didn't get that my career, right, and
(36:49):
you don't focus on that, right, You don't. You don't
focus on what is your take on venting because law
of attraction is very you know, you just don't. You
just don't talk about out anything that is not life
affirming or anything that happens.
Speaker 3 (37:03):
Yeah, well, good luck with that, Okay. So I have
to be.
Speaker 4 (37:07):
Hey, if you can, if you can live there, then
that's great.
Speaker 3 (37:11):
Most of us I don't. I think we've got to
get pissed off every once in a while. That's just
life then.
Speaker 4 (37:19):
But the point is as soon as you see what
you don't want, acknowledge it, and then create and focus
on the opposite positive.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
So knowing what you don't want is a great gift, but.
Speaker 4 (37:35):
If you stay there, you're stuck forever and getting what
you don't want.
Speaker 3 (37:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (37:39):
Absolutely, very well, said another shout out from de one.
Charles Roseblatz, Anne Marie, a longtime friend, and Steve Young.
Oh he's your crush, He's he's blowing up the comment section. Okay,
so we do have a little bit of and we
(38:00):
have literally five minutes. So I don't want to ask
what's getting in my way because I well.
Speaker 4 (38:10):
Ask what you need to bring into alignment for whatever
you want?
Speaker 3 (38:14):
Okay? That well around.
Speaker 4 (38:16):
Around what what do I need to bring into alignment?
Speaker 3 (38:19):
Around what? Prosperity? Prosperity?
Speaker 2 (38:27):
Literally no, it says nothing.
Speaker 3 (38:30):
Yeah, so what were you going to say now? After that?
I work?
Speaker 4 (38:35):
Oh, sorry with a pendulum in case it's not I
can't tell of it.
Speaker 2 (38:39):
Yeah. And then before you were doing this, what was that.
Speaker 3 (38:41):
Just a way to balance myself?
Speaker 2 (38:43):
Interesting?
Speaker 4 (38:44):
Yeah, if you want a quick way to balance yourself,
just tap over your ears, breathe out while you're tapping
over your thyroid, and then I pop my fingers like
that because a lot of times, if you're working with
emotional issues, you can get switched, and if your energy's switched,
you will test incorrectly. Okay, so we're going to start
(39:09):
doing a further explanation on prosperity. Something else came in
for you, and that's.
Speaker 3 (39:13):
Where we're going.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
I was going to be sarcastic, Well go there, I
was just you said literally and I said no, figuratively,
I was being sarcastic.
Speaker 4 (39:26):
Well, and that's where we're going because you haven't literally
defined what prosperity means to you and what it looks
like like if you wrote down on a piece of paper,
this is the prosperity that I am choosing and committing
to create right now, right so you haven't done that.
Speaker 3 (39:49):
There's one thing you're.
Speaker 4 (39:53):
Are you afraid to literally say I want this much money?
Because when I say you've said that, I get to know.
Speaker 2 (40:02):
Of course you figured that out. It's the I coach
and tell people or I have this this belief. This
bs that when you're that specific about things, you're setting
yourself up for disappointment.
Speaker 4 (40:21):
Okay, well, if we had an hour, we can explore that.
So in other words, you said, I am a person
that believes when I ask for exactly what I want,
I will be disappointed. That's what you just said to me,
and anything you say after I am is a clear
(40:42):
direction for your energy. Now, when I said that applies
to your book, I get to know because you did ask.
Speaker 3 (40:54):
You wanted it to be big, you wanted it to.
Speaker 4 (40:56):
Go all the way you wanted it on the bestseller life.
So you see, you're caught, Theresa, because you're it's it
was okay in that instance, but it wasn't okay when
you say you want a lot of money. But it's
okay if you get a lot of money through a
best selling book.
Speaker 3 (41:19):
But would it be okay to get that?
Speaker 4 (41:21):
See when I say it's okay to get that by
winning the lotto, it goes right to know. So in
other words, it's okay with you if you get it,
as long as you work hard for it and produce
something and are in service, then it's okay. But that
I gotta say this because it's so important and it's
what's up right now. It limits the world of all possibilities,
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and you want to be open to all possibilities because
then the universe creates miracles. See, miracles don't make sense.
So if we're trying to make sense out of what
we're asking, or we'll never create the mea.
Speaker 2 (42:02):
And I know exactly where it's the it's coming from.
I can just see it. One is my dad was
so careful, and you know, and he would say, hope
for the best, but prepare for the worst. Yeah, we
are for the best, yeah, but prepare for the worst.
And so so that's one, and then the big hit
I took in the divorce. It was a big hit,
(42:24):
and so I think that really has I'm really trying
to to.
Speaker 4 (42:33):
Leave that, okay, and you need to, but the channel
wants you to know that that happened in the divorce
because you have this belief, as you believe one way
or another, you've got to create that as a reality
in your life until that belief has changed.
Speaker 2 (42:52):
So what practically would I do at this point?
Speaker 3 (42:56):
Now?
Speaker 4 (42:57):
Well, you want to know that you can have everything
you want and still be in service, and you're open
to all possibilities about how you get it, and that
it consistently stays that you consistently created in your life.
Speaker 5 (43:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:18):
Yeah, that's that's that's the C word. It's not commitment,
it's the consistently yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (43:26):
Wo yeah, we get it. We all get into fear.
Speaker 4 (43:29):
Yeah, and when we go into fear, we stop consciously creating,
which is the name of one of my books, conscious Creation,
because we're all creating twenty four to seven. We're creating, right,
just most of us are doing it without any consciousness behind.
Do you know if you watch TV for one hour,
(43:51):
you can see fifty ads of how you're going to
get sick, what medication you should take, and how that
me ocations probably.
Speaker 3 (44:01):
Going to screw you up really badly.
Speaker 4 (44:02):
Anyway, while you're watching happy families with dogs romping and
and you know what, your brain says, Oh, I get it.
Speaker 3 (44:11):
Sickness is happiness.
Speaker 4 (44:14):
And if you're not consciously saying I am beautiful, fabulous,
perfect health and wellness, your brain real default to the
lesser creation for you.
Speaker 2 (44:28):
And we're almost out of time. But no, no, no,
but I have to say, what if you want to
say those things? But the but the data looking back
at you, you know, I'm beautiful, I'm you know, svelt,
I'm you know, I'm I'm I'm you know, in perfect
health and wholeness. But you look in the mirror and
(44:48):
you go, I'm fat.
Speaker 3 (44:50):
I mean that's the reality. I look fat.
Speaker 4 (44:52):
The reality is what's shown up because you didn't say
those things. And so again, and think only on these things.
You have been thinking about the fat, You have been
thinking about how old you're getting, blah blah blah blah.
And your brain and your heart are electrical and they
send that out to the universe, and the universe says,
(45:15):
your wish is my command. I will help you continue
creating that.
Speaker 2 (45:19):
I mean, I can't blame anyone else, nobody, no thing, Dan.
So my last question of all my beautiful guests is
who and what are you most grateful to or four?
Speaker 4 (45:35):
Uh huh, Well that would be a toss up between
my mother and my daughter.
Speaker 3 (45:40):
When my dog and I grow go on our.
Speaker 4 (45:43):
Gratitude walk every day, I always thank my mother for
giving me all the attributes of integrity and truthful.
Speaker 3 (45:53):
I cry every time I talk about my mom.
Speaker 4 (45:58):
And my daughter who teaches me tenacity and unconditional love
man and which, by the way, her book's out right.
Speaker 2 (46:09):
Now, thank you for that. Gabrielle Stone has a eat
prey f asterism and we'll have her definitely back with
you very soon. Because I want to see I want
to see you two together and benefit from that. And
I would like to bestow on you because I don't
(46:31):
know if I did it last night last night, last
time you were on, you were not in studio, so
maybe I didn't. But I'd like to bestow on you
doctor Marissa's Beneficial Presence on the Planet Award.
Speaker 3 (46:44):
Wow, because you try to accept.
Speaker 2 (46:48):
That, truly, truly love the words.
Speaker 3 (46:52):
I hope you take them to heart.
Speaker 2 (46:53):
I know I am. I'm so grateful to have had
d Wallace in studio and it's almost time to go
quickly welcome to my balance bar to step up and
find out. I'm back on the beach teaching back by
popular demand. I cannot say no to y'all, So Power
Cheese starts this Saturday, Long Beach by nineteen hundred Ocean
(47:17):
Beach Club. It's across from Cherry Park. Plenty of parking there.
See you by the water's edge at ten am most Saturdays.
Go to my event on Facebook or doctor Marisa dot
life RSVP, and that way I'll tell you what saturdays
I'm not there while I'm traveling as well. Get your
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(47:38):
if you would like to be a winner of one
of the jazz Track Catalina Festival Asian Oprah giveaway, go
right now, Doctor Marissa dot Life. Go jazz Track dot
com to see which show you would like, and I'll
get you the tickets for that as long as they're
not sold out. Okay, and that is that for today's
(48:00):
fabulous episode of take my advice, I'm not using it.
Get balanced with doctor Marissa and get happy with doctor Marissa.
I hope you all know how loving, lovable, and loved
you are. Peace in and peace out. That is world
peace through inner peace, and I hope you enjoy that.
(48:42):
That is my throwback Thursday offering today where I get
to give you from my show treasure Chest, a past
interview you that I've had out of my one thousand,
(49:03):
four hundred and sixty six shows, but who's counting, And
that was the amazing, the incredible, the super funny. God.
I love that woman, Dee Wallace. The best thing about
the show, there's so many best things about doing the
show for the past six hundred and ninety six consecutive weeks,
(49:26):
definitely is having guests who turn into friends, and Dee
Wallace is definitely in my top I don't know one
hundred and ten five. I love her so much and
I'm so grateful. I don't know if she's going on Saturday.
(49:49):
But for those of you who want a great organization
to support, you know that one of my organizations is
Doores of Change and the Saturday is there once a
year fundraiser and I pull that up. If you'd like
to join me in the VIP time, you can message
(50:13):
me as usual go on dates, but I don't don't
last long enough to have a date for my my
work stuff. So let's see if we do this tub
(50:33):
sharing And as you can see, it's going to be
this Saturday, the twenty twenty five Concert of Pope starring
Rolling Stones tribute band Jumping Jack Flash with opening act
with me Shay. One hundred percent of ticket purchases will
go directly to help homeless youth and it's wow, this
(50:55):
is cool. Seventy five thousand and matching funds to the
Lucky Duck found So that's awesome. And uh yeah, I've
been supporting this particular group for four years. I want
to say, we got to go to see the first
year I was there, we got to have life and
(51:20):
I danced to them. Jeremiah was a bulldog and I'm
my I'm always my memory is really good, but my
recall sucks. And that group is why am I? Okay,
(51:44):
anybody in the cashier gallery can help me. Let's see, Ah,
Jeremiah was a bulldog. Three dog nights. I knew there
was a number in there. Horrible. Sorry, Well there's my
twelve percent step in it. I'm eighty eight percent fabulous
(52:07):
twelve percent of the time I step into it. So
that is this Saturday. So if you'd like to join
me Asian Over giveaway is to be my date this time.
That will be four this Saturday, Saturday, September the sixth. Yeah,
(52:28):
so gratitude sandwich that I don't do to the end
of the show. Usually we do this at the beginning
of the show. But I throwback Thursdays. I want to
definitely have you watch the entire fabulous interview today with THEE.
Speaker 3 (52:43):
Wallace.
Speaker 2 (52:43):
If you missed it, go to my YouTube TV channel
free subscribe, give me the finger, this one, not the
other one, and you'll get to see all of that.
So I'm grateful for throwback Thursdays, where I get to
re listen to the brilliance of my guests. I'm grateful
that my guests turn into friends. D Wells is a
(53:05):
great example of that. I'm grateful that I have another
full day in front of me with lots of fun
things to do for my jobs. I'm grateful that this Saturday,
I am going to let's see pull this up. I
will be doing a book signing this Saturday. Sorry, not
(53:30):
this Saturday. The following Saturday, and I would like you
to join me. It's local in Long Beach and it
will be in the traffic circle. And let's just pull
this up, Sames is the one. Nope, I will be
(53:56):
at Jay and Elle Jewelry and it is right near Marshalls.
If your local in Long Beach, you'll know that if
you're in LA and it's a fabulous location where I
(54:18):
showed up. Yes, let me pull this up big, all right,
and you get free champagne and twenty five percent off
all of the all of the jewelry that's there. So
(54:39):
I'm doing readings. This is between twelve and four Saturday
and thirteenth, so save the date and I look forward
to seeing all of you books site. You get twenty
percent off all jewelry, plus if you get a signed
copied for a twenty dollars donation. Part proceeds to go
to Habitat for Humanity and the other part goes to
(55:00):
my own nonprofit Hate Ways to Happiness from wherever you are.
And that's a number one Amazon plus national bestseller now,
so I am so excited to I can't do it
internationally anymore, however, I can do it locally. So that's
(55:20):
what we're switching to and between twelve and four. The
readings will be at one and two, So I'd love
to see you anytime during twelve or four. All right,
oo key doo key. That is it for my gratitudes.
(55:41):
Let's go to the bottom of the bun, which is
what are you grateful for inside of yourself? It's weight
training for your mental health. How are you happy taking
responsibility for your happiness by knowing what you're good at?
And if you watch D's interview just now, the importance
(56:03):
of loving yourself, the importance of really letting go of
BS belief systems that get in your way of loving yourself.
So I appreciate my ability to go easy on myself.
You heard me, eighty eight percent fabulous. I give myself
the leeway to be twelve percent imperfect Perfectionism is a
(56:28):
disease with life. I'm covering perfectionist. So I know that
sometimes things just go awry, and it's okay. I always
do the best that I can with the time that
I have and the resources I have, but sometimes that
doesn't mean it's going to be great, and that's okay.
(56:48):
I appreciate my ability to continue to put my lifejack
out on with the silver lining, even though the black
plots are majorly affecting my ability to do what I want,
when I want, how I want in terms of flying
and certainly racing sailboats. But you know, war will be revealed.
(57:12):
A year knows what a day doesn't, and it's always
some better. And that's my hashtag discipline to stay in
a good feeling place, which is so much better than
being in a pisophtness state all the time. Okay, and
that's it for Breakfast with Doctor Marisa. I promise you
(57:33):
if you practice this good life habit hashtag discipline with
me every weekday morning, you will sand what your day
in the most positive way. Thanks for joining me for
breakfast and you'll have to tune in live tomorrow. It
will be an amazing show because I will be live
(57:54):
in studio in Westlake Village with my co host. First straight,
it's Ricky Rebel in Westlake Village Live. We will be
at MB Studios. You may have heard his fabulous launch
of the Blue album on the show last Friday and
(58:16):
this Friday. Who knows what we're talking about, but it'll
be fun. It'll be a new venue, so tune in
tomorrow for more. Take my advice. I'm not using a
gift balance with Doctor Merits of the Morning Show, because
it's all about balance. He's out world piece through inner piece.
Now go and have the best day ever. I'll see
(58:39):
you tomorrow.
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Speaker 2 (00:19):
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Speaker 2 (01:02):
So no gossip, no scandal, no k words at all,
no Kardashian talk, because I want you to focus on
your own reality show and how you could be happy
eighty eight percent of the time. And if you missed
any of my past shows these past three hundred and
seventy five consecutive weeks on the air on camera. Whoop woop,
(01:24):
Do I get a little love on that one?
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Thank you? Over seven years. I cannot believe it.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
I just cannot stop splattering more hope and happiness onto you,
especially now that I have a mission, my Happy eighty
eight mission, with my new number one best selling book,
Eight Ways to Happiness. From wherever you are, I've decided
that you know, it's getting a little too slow and boring,
So I have a goal of eight million more happy,
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Speaker 3 (01:53):
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Speaker 2 (01:55):
Get the book, go and help support happiness, because there's
way too much unhappiness on the planet right now. There's
so much complaining and it makes my ears hurt. So
I want you to be with me as we go out,
and if you're happy, let your face know so that
they'll know that you've been listening to doctor Marissa and
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I am peace and peace out. I have been away
for a little bit of a moment, and so I
want to wish you a belated first Happy Independence Day.
Independence you for my home United States of America, but
for those of you who don't know, I was born
in Canada, so happy Dominion Day as well, and hopefully
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you enjoyed that. There's a little shot of one of
my favorite T shirts that shows California's Canadians, which I am.
And I'm so grateful to have been able to speak
at the University of Toronto as well as Unity Kitchener,
where I was born, and people recognized me, which is amazing.
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And most of all, I got to reconnect with my
math teacher, JJ Bristow. I've been looking for him for years,
those of you who know I had this special place
in my heart for all kids, and wherever I go
and speak, I look at them in the eye and say,
you can do anything that you put your heart in
mind to. And that's because JJ Bristow, my tenth grade
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math teacher at Bluevelle Collegiate in Canada, said that to
me after class one day. Never forgot that and I
got to reconnect and it was just a beautiful thing.
And I'll tear up in a second if I don't stop.
So also Unity London, Ontario, beautiful people, and my interview
on that channel in Toronto, So piece and piece out
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to all of my new listeners, and I'm so grateful
I made it on the cover.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Of a magazine, the Unity Magazine.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Thanks Katie Coons for contacting me last year asking me
to write an article. My name is on the cover.
That is not my face on the cover, but that's next.
But yeah, that is a guy, but it does say
and my article is called Happiness is a Choice, So
please do pick that up. You can get that anywhere
Unity Magazine is sold, and you can also get the
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life and stay tuned. At the end of the show,
I'm gonna give away Asian Oprah giveaway free tickets to
(04:37):
the Catalina Jazz Festival, so make sure you stay in
after my amazing guest who I'm delighted to have back
in studio by popular demand.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Who.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
You may remember her as the mom on the blockbuster
epic Spielberg movie Et, But did you know that she
is the only actress alive today with over two hundred
film credits and if you when you see her, you'll
see that she does use oil.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Of l a.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
In fact, I came in and I did it. I
almost like turned and went, oh, she's not here yet,
because I saw a woman standing with Tony and is like,
she's gorgeous. She I was like, because I haven't seen
her in five or six years, but you've gone backwards.
But anyways, back to your thing. I love you more,
from Kujo to critters, to a myriad of TV series,
(05:32):
to commercials, to tedek stages, speaking and on her own show,
being on the Oprah and Today shows. And you call
me a busy bee.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
She outdoes me every.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Single day of the year. She's still going strong. Please
welcome to the studio one of my favorite people on
the planet.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
D Waller, Hi Baby, Hi baby bib.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Last time you actually, I think skyped in, so I
didn't get to see you and we didn't get to hug.
So the last time I physically saw you was at
the Conscious Life Expo. Would you say like five years
ago but at least maybe more? Yeah, And honestly, you
really do. I'm not just saying that because I don't
lie very easily, as people who.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Know me can say.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
But I literally almost turned around and went, I did
do a devil? I did I did you saw that?
And yeah, I love your facial expressions. So when when
people give you that kind of accolade two hundred movie
credits like that is amazing. You just finished, you got
(06:41):
off at least three or four different sets. I know
Warner Brothers is celebrating you because of Critters, the return
of Critters, Critters attack, and is that your two hundred?
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
I didn't even know that I had hit this milestone
until my publicist and said, did you realize You've just
done two hundred film and and you're the only living
actress that we can find it?
Speaker 3 (07:11):
And I went, when did that happen? How did that happen?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
I think I just you know me, I'm like the
energizer Benny, Yes you are. I don't like to be bored,
and I like to be creating all the time. As
long as I'm creating, I'm happy. And then the universe goes.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
All right, here's some worse stuff.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Yeah, yeah, absolutely absolutely, And and you know you're you're
a quintessential actress. But on top of that, you have
not had it easy. So so here's your craft is acting.
And you know you've heard I'm sure I've heard the
(07:49):
saying that you know, when you've gone through a lot
in life, it really makes you a good writer, a
good artist, and a good actor. I don't know if
you've heard that before. I heard that, and I and
I and I take that to heart because I do
believe that pain in life is mandatory, but suffering is optional.
And I do believe that the more pain we have,
the more qualified we are to reach or tap into
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or connect with that energy that is beyond world.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
I don't know if I agree with you. Okay, here
we go, Here we go. I would like to.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
Invite everybody to be open to losing that belief that
we have to suffer in order to achieve, or when
we get what we want, we have to pay for
it somehow. Because all my work, my healing work, is
based on the I am you know, God said I
(08:44):
am that I am. I have to say I'm God
if I'm going to be God right, And so I
really go off of everything in my life from as
you believe it's delivered to you.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
So we have the belief. I just did.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
A big speech down in Fort Lauderdale, and all I
heard all weekend was about the pain and the problems
and the suffering and the channel said, oh my god,
this is such an old.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Belief, You've got to let go of it. Yes, you know, And.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
I played all these mothers, these traumatic mothers, and Kujo
and an Et and everything in the press would always go,
oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
D you know, how how did you know to do that?
Speaker 4 (09:39):
You hadn't had any children, I said, no, but I
had a mother, right, Yeah. So I have had a
lot of pain and trauma and drama in my life, haven't.
We all were on a physical plane. My younger brother
just committed suicide. My daughter, God bless her heart, got
(10:03):
in a car and drove over six am so somebody
would be with me when I got the news, and
we cried, and we called the family and we all
cried together, and two hours later we were on the
set doing a movie.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Yeah. Yeah, because I.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
Said years ago, I will not allow anything or anyone
ever again to keep me from creating who I am
and who I want to be.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
So the good news is she was not disagreeing with me,
because what you heard, what you heard me say, was
you didn't hear the second part I said, suffering is options.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
Yes I did.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
I totally, I totally agree with you.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Yes, that we don't have to suffer. But it gave
me an opportunity to teach something, so I jumped. There
we go.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
So, yeah, I knew it was kind of going to
be like that, but I revel it.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
I love I love I love it. We always do,
we always do.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
But here's and and this is what I absolutely agree
with you because I think there is almost this addiction
for many of us to to stay in that pain
or to use it as an excuse, or to stay
in bland, or to stay in suffering, which is which
is the bulk of my book is is really you
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don't have to do this if you want to feel lonely,
feel lonely, and then get over it, out of it.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
Because life is way too short.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
So we totally agree.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
And you're not here for an hour.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Yeah yeah, but you know, people do love conflict too,
but we we have loving con but we.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Don't, especially within myself.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Yeah yeah, but I think there is the aspect. Okay,
So for those of you who don't know, I didn't
actually know this until I did a little more deep research.
The last couple of times I didn't have to. Your
father committed suicide. That is that is painful trauma. Your
little brother just what two months ago, commits suicide. So
that's you know, the majority, the seven out of ten
(12:24):
of us who've had some kind of childhood trauma. Not
saying that it's okay or that you know it gives
us an excuse, but it is just a very statistics.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
So if if you keep calling in it an excuse
and you kept keep telling your story, you will keep
living your story. You will keep being the victim. I
love Dana Wile's quote. You know it's not your story,
isn't the problem. The problem is that you keep telling
your story, right, which is a direction of energy, which
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says I am a victim.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Then you get to get experience.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
And I and and if you see me scrolling, I
am listening to her, but I'm trying to put the
link down so everybody can tune in right now.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
If you have just.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Tuned in and you're wondering who I am lovingly arguing
with but not really arguing with, it is the incomparable
d Wallace. And this is our third interaction. And yet
it feels like you know, I'm coming home because I
we just clicked the very first time we met, when
We were at the Hilton by the Airport.
Speaker 3 (13:26):
For that, honest broads, and I love it.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
You say broad like it's a bad thing.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
Oh no, I am proud. That's a scream queen, and
proud of it. Yes, that's a nickname. I didn't know
you had. Can we hear it? What the scream? Oh?
Dear God, are you ready? No? Seriously, just for fun?
Sound I got Okay, there you have it.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
I wanted it in memorys and I got it. That
was That's a good scream.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
Yeah, I'm a good screamer. Yeah. Does it hurt? Does
it hurt? Yeah? I love to talk about sex too, Yes,
we did. It doesn't hurt, It doesn't hurt. No, you
look from way back in the beginning, how to do
it from your diaphraend. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Did you ever imagine that you would be in so
many horror movies?
Speaker 3 (14:19):
Nope? That was because I'm very wissy. Uh yeah, when
I I can't watch slasher movies, I can't.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
And you're in a well I'm not in slasher movies. No,
I'm in the quintessential horror films. And the difference is
in a horror film, you get to learn the characters
and you get invested in the characters, and there's an
actual storyline in a slasher film, it's high here's the
six people, watch how gruesomely we can kill them.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
So you don't really have an investment.
Speaker 4 (14:53):
Yeah, but like A Quiet Place last year was one
of the first really modern, quintessential horror film.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
God, I love that film. I thought it was so
well have you seen.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
I have a friend who's trying to get me to
see Midsummer and my both of my daughters are saying, Mom,
you hate horror. You remember in that Gremlins movie when
when the mom was walking backwards and you knew the
Gremlins were in the tree. So I'm in the theater
and the music's building in and then right before they
(15:25):
could jump out, I go and the whole theater went
like this.
Speaker 3 (15:31):
That's how my ref we love an audience like you.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
I'm getting chills just remembering that. I'm so bad with it. Anyways,
So so you went from acting and your continue I
shouldn't go, went from You're still dying?
Speaker 3 (15:48):
Four films? What are They? Critters?
Speaker 4 (15:52):
Attack will be on Sci Fi in October. Rob Zombies
three from Hell. Oh I should have brought the picture
three of you.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
Oh my lord, you will you won't.
Speaker 4 (16:04):
I walked right by, said Haig and Bill and when hey, guys,
and they looked at me. It's d and she goes,
oh my god, I know you so well. I went
to it's out there. Let me tell you my daughter,
Gabrielle Stone and I just finished really awesome. It's a
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combination of sci fi and horror called Await the Dawn.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
And then I have a lovely.
Speaker 4 (16:29):
Little family film called Renovation of the Heart, which will
be out in January. From the end, another horror film
called Dolls that's coming out.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
That's that's awesome. That's awesome, it, says. Matthew Barnett says.
This is usually I can't multi whatever, but.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
I'm in awe of how she's doing all this. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
And Matthew Barnett says, hello, d are you looking forward
to attending Weekend of Hell in Germany? Very that's November.
I look forward to meeting you.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Oh great, I will look for you. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Mikey's saying, a beautiful show today, Collette. I am all
for positive thinking, good vibes, in the power of prayer.
Love to you both, and Y, Karen and Sonny are watching,
so piece and piece out. We'll get better at including
y'all as you're watching. But I'm so grateful to have
d while it's in the studio. She's a young seventy.
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I want to know your beauty secret, because do you
use any particular? Is it love?
Speaker 3 (17:34):
It's all love. I just try and live my life
and love. Yeah, it shows. But also my mommy had
really good skin. You know what I use.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
I use Ivory soap, a buff puff and all May cream.
That's that's my regiment every once in a while. While yeah,
slap on a facial that it is love.
Speaker 3 (17:59):
I had you.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
Have you met Don Wells?
Speaker 3 (18:03):
I love Don too.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
The three of us should play poker, she loves.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
You'd have to teach me, but I'm in okay cool,
She says the same.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
She doesn't use anything either. She says, it's just positive,
positive living.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
Well, you know, when you get the BS out of your.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Energy, the belief systems there, there you go. I'm surprised
you haven't. You don't use that.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
I use that. People love it.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
Your energy lightns you know, because you're not carrying around
the anger, you're not carrying around the blame, you're not
carrying around the fear because you know that you're in
control of creating your own life. And you know, I
I believe here we go. I believe that Christ was
(18:54):
teaching brain science, because when you break down brain scien, spirituality,
and religion, we're all saying the same thing, exactly the
same thing. Like you know, brain science will say, focus
your brain. Tell your brain what you want it to
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focus on, because that ends up being the creation of
your life.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
Christ said, think.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
Only on these things, and of course the most important
thing he said to focus on is love, right and spirituality.
We all, we all know that we what we believe
and think we create in our lives and all the same.
If we could all just come together and go whoa,
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we've all been saying the same thing all this time.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
And if you look at the.
Speaker 4 (19:50):
History of films, you know, Peter Pan think happy thoughts
and you fly e t keep your heart light Openizard
of Oz. You had the power all along. Dorothy, you
know we've been hearing it and hearing it and hearing it.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
And hearing it. We just have to live it. Why
am I going on?
Speaker 2 (20:09):
No?
Speaker 3 (20:10):
I love it. I love it. You are the first
guest ever to.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
Help me make that link between movies and spirituality, the
first one, the first one ever. My life just went on.
Oh cool, yeah, no, very cool.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
See I know that creative.
Speaker 4 (20:31):
Well we're all creative people, yes, but people who are
in the business of creating product like movies, they often
download the truth years before the mainstream public gets a
hold of it.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
Yeah, well matrix, Oh my god, they got it.
Speaker 4 (20:50):
So right, pick a door, any door, and you get
to step into that reality.
Speaker 3 (20:54):
Well that's the same thing a thought is.
Speaker 2 (20:56):
Yes, right, exactly. The power of choice, I say all
the time is your freedom. That's our strongest u uh
uh not weapon in life, our tool, our strong list
tool in life is choice and focus and it's your freedom.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
Absolutely absolutely.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Now you you have your own show too that you
have people call in. And so for those of you
who don't know, she already like dropped the G bomb
and the J bomb. So you know, I know y'all
thought you were tuning into a movie show today and
uh and we're talking Jesus God and spirituality. So movies,
(21:33):
hold on and movies and screaming. And you got the
D scream. Thank you very much. I don't think Oprah
got that. Sorry, I love you. But I don't think
you screamed on the show.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
See I had to, you know, Asian Oprah had to
do the get a little more. But you are, You're
a known and celebrated channeler. So for those of you
who don't know.
Speaker 3 (21:59):
What that is, I'll let you explain. I am gonna
throw you.
Speaker 4 (22:05):
Look, anybody can channel probably all of you have channeled.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
You get a hit, you have a thought and you go, wow,
where did that come from? That? That's channeling.
Speaker 4 (22:17):
And anybody that's open enough to do that and trust
themselves and trust the information does it.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (22:26):
It's like anything else. You just have to create that
intention right of doing it. So I am a clear
audience channel although, which means I hear not like I
hear you, but I hear information and also see pictures
and things.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (22:47):
Now'd I've talked to I have talked to many people
on the other side.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
Yeah, I believe you. Yeah, I believe you.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Steve Young says, hey there d and mikey Adam Cohen says,
beautiful show today.
Speaker 3 (23:00):
He is happy.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
So, so I don't know if you anybody here, Oh,
Steve Young says schoolboy crush.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
Did you know?
Speaker 2 (23:09):
Are you are you married now?
Speaker 3 (23:11):
Uh no, but I have a guy you have thank you?
Speaker 2 (23:14):
Okay, sorry, Steve, I tried. But so I'm going to
invite you to because you did also channel me the
very first time we met, and you were so right
on the spot. This was the five six, seven years
ago of you know, where I was on the outside
(23:34):
and where I was on the inside. And what's interesting
is at that time I was a reluctant woo woe.
I really, you know, didn't necessarily believe in what you
were doing, or I wasn't trusting of it or really yeah,
I didn't let me know that I know, I know,
because not that I would have cared exactly so, so
(23:57):
like decaffinated coffee, why bother letting you know?
Speaker 3 (24:01):
But uh but I did.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
I did get a lot and and I actually after
I talked to you, I went up and I got
a an aura, a picture taken and what you had
been saying about me hearing things but not necessarily attending
to them. They saw dark blue by my ears and
I said, what does that mean? They said, you're audio
clariont but you have little white dots in those dark
(24:27):
blue places. And I said, what's that? And they say
you don't always listen.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
So isn't that twice in one day? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (24:34):
Yeah, hopefully you stood up and went, well, I guess
I'll choose to listen.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
Yeah, absolutely, absolutely so. And and for for people who
are interested, you still do that.
Speaker 3 (24:46):
Right you have oh yeah, all over the world to.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Get in the direction person.
Speaker 4 (24:54):
Yeah, you can call into my show on Sundays and
ask the channel anything sex, drugs, rock and roll, relationship, success.
Speaker 3 (25:05):
Money, health. Had a lot of questions about help. What
do you want to know?
Speaker 2 (25:11):
I'm going to come back from break with an actual question,
So we're not going to do it right now, because
I think people want to know a little bit more
about you. So I know you are in a book,
you fell in love, your soulmate was Gabrielle's father, Christone,
who was your co stars, and many things. How did
(25:33):
you guys meet? I love love story? So there.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
God. We met on Chips.
Speaker 4 (25:37):
No, we met on an episode of Chips and we
both looked at each other and said, you know, the
only reason I'm doing this because the director asked me
as a favor to come in, which was true. And
Chris was a very established actor at the time who
proceeded to think he might have to direct.
Speaker 3 (26:00):
Me all week, and I wasn't going to have any
of that.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
Let me tell you, I wanted if I could have
been there to Yeah, that would have been.
Speaker 4 (26:09):
And then as we're driving back after the last shot,
I happened to mention that I had done a guest
star this guest star role on lou Grant where I
played a hooker, and he went.
Speaker 3 (26:23):
My god, that was you. I changed right before his
very eyes.
Speaker 4 (26:27):
So all of a sudden, I was an actor right
by the time I got home. And this was back
when you know, we all had pagers and stuff, and
nobody was supposed to give out any information about you.
But Chris could I blood out of a turnip. And
by the time I got home there were two dozen
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red roses waiting for.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
Me at the door. He had niggled my address from
you know, oh, I just saw that due me and
jo Oh. I like that. Yeah, I wanted to. But
it was interesting working with him because he worked the
old what I call the old way, the old established way,
(27:13):
broke everything down, figured out the beats.
Speaker 4 (27:16):
I worked the opposite way. I don't break down anything.
I don't think about it. I mean, it's definitely a
training right method. But I and so like I saw
that shot from the Hawling fly By and we were
on this set and Joe Dante said, well, you've got
a hit her today and everything. So I'm sure you
(27:38):
guys worked it out last night. Show me what you're
gonna do it. Chris looked him and he said, my
leading lady doesn't rehearse.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
I'm sorry in and out of bed. Yeah, you met
always in the moment. It's always better in the moment.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
Yeah, Yeah, that's so great. Yeah, I wanted to hear that.
And so the two of you were together like.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Eighteen years eighteen years before he passed.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
Yeah, a heart attack, that was yeah, probably.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
During I was filming The Frighteners at the time, and
he had a heart attack. Gabrielle had just left and
come back with her nanny and was.
Speaker 3 (28:20):
She not a six six and had a heart attack.
I came back. They did an angioplast. He was fine.
He said, honey, go back, they're holding filming for you.
So I went back.
Speaker 4 (28:31):
Four days later, he got up and a blood plot
hit his heart and he was gone and Gabrielle found him.
Oh yeah, and so I flew back again. We threw
his party. He didn't want to service right, and grabbed
my kid and my nanny and flew back again. All
this happened within two weeks. I didn't know where I was.
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I didn't know.
Speaker 3 (28:55):
Whether I was coming her going.
Speaker 4 (28:56):
Fortunately, in New Zealand, they have all these new ages,
and they sent me to this one lady who worked
with my chakras and put rocks on me. It was
the weirdest thing because I'd never heard of.
Speaker 3 (29:11):
It at that time, you know. But I'll tell you.
Speaker 4 (29:15):
I came back here and I found people that knew
how to do that because I walked in and she
looked at me and said, oh my god, Dee, I
can't I can't work on you at all until I
get your balance jacket's like, you don't.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
Have an aura right right right? Oh wow, wow wow.
Speaker 3 (29:33):
So much to talk about when we come back.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
Dee Wallace, so much more than an actress, so much
more than a channeler, so much more in life. So
grateful to have her here on air and on camera
in studio with me. We're going to come back because
we have to give a little love and proper to
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So we're gonna be back.
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called take My Advice.
Speaker 3 (31:37):
I'm not using it.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
Get Happy with Doctor Marissa here out of Burbank, California,
broadcasting live right.
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Beside Warner Brothers Studios with.
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Speaker 3 (32:02):
And the Asian Oprah.
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That's AM ten fifty f one on two point three
fan one of six point five Sundays at eight pm
Pacific Central Pacific Standard time, not Central Time, and you
jinxed me becaus you said, how do you remember all that?
And then anytime on demand at iHeartRadio. And today I'm
delighted to have d Wallace, the only living actress to
(32:25):
have over two hundred film credits to her name.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
You'll remember her.
Speaker 2 (32:30):
Kujo, Critters TV and ET's Mom, one of my beloved
favorite favorite films of all time. And she's here not
only to talk about how you can be the best
that you can be by letting go of all that's
in your way, as she very readily lectured me when
(32:51):
I first met her at Conscious Life Expo, just saying.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
But I love the story.
Speaker 2 (32:56):
I'm you know, it's no accident. I call it an accidental.
You met Chris, your soulmate on Chips. Well, I just
did the carpet red carpet interviewing for the release of Wishman,
which is the movie that Greg Reid made his wish
come true. Frank Shankwitz, who's the founder of Make a
(33:17):
Wish Foundation, friend of mine. He was in studio. He
loves me, thank you, and I love him.
Speaker 3 (33:24):
And I interviewed them on.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
The carpet, like gazillion views on that one. And he
had in his movie two of the original Chips guys
who I also got to interview Larry and Robert Pine.
So that was kind of cool. Small world.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
Well, and it just keeps going, you know, we just
keep bouncing back.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Yeah, yeah, isn't it? Isn't it wonderful? And again, when
we here so much negativity about you know, who's are
drugs or who messed up this? Or who got in
you know accident that who is you know an actor
in the limelight that fell or all of that negative
(34:06):
stuff about Hollywood. There's so much good in Hollywood. There
are so many actors and actresses in Hollywood who are
balanced and wonderful and giving back and staying alive to
still hone their craft. So, you know, I had Bill
Zook as a guest too. You know, it's like this
(34:26):
is the point of my show is to balance out
all of the negative news with positive news.
Speaker 4 (34:32):
So you're yang and what again, choices your freedom?
Speaker 2 (34:37):
Yeah, yeah, what you choose to focus on.
Speaker 3 (34:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:40):
Your advice to anyone who has had a dream to
be an actor or an actress and you know it's
not it doesn't look like it's happening, or they've given.
Speaker 4 (34:51):
Up, Well, my first advice is, if you're saying it's
not happening, what have you done to make it happen?
Because most of us, you know, we're on a physical plane.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
Poop happens, right, Well, talkie, happens.
Speaker 4 (35:08):
What most of us do is we keep looking at
the poop. Wow, Look how brown that poop is. Wow,
Look how much it smells. Wow, that's a pretty big load. Hey,
come on over here and look at my poop. Let's
talk about my pooper. And then we think we're doing
something about moving our life along, right when really we're
(35:30):
just still focused on the poop. And you know which,
we all say they want to be an actor, but
they don't mean whatever I need to do to be
an actor. So if that means a community theater where
you're not getting paid, that's still being an actor. That's feeding,
(35:55):
you know, the heart that wants to get out and
do it. Being in class and working out is being
an actor. But what happens is that people don't commit
to what they say they want. And so if you're
not committed, then the universe isn't going to come play
with you. And by the way, you won't play with yourself.
(36:18):
That came out before I.
Speaker 3 (36:19):
Thought about it.
Speaker 4 (36:21):
It's fun to play with yourself when you're doing what
you want.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
Right here we go, We've got to do another sexual
healing with Doctor Riss episode all she's having difficulty keeping
it down. So, but yeah, I think practically, you know,
you hear about actors talking about the role they almost
got or they didn't get that my career, right, and
(36:49):
you don't focus on that, right, You don't. You don't
focus on what is your take on venting because law
of attraction is very you know, you just don't. You
just don't talk about out anything that is not life
affirming or anything that happens.
Speaker 3 (37:03):
Yeah, well, good luck with that, Okay. So I have
to be.
Speaker 4 (37:07):
Hey, if you can, if you can live there, then
that's great.
Speaker 3 (37:11):
Most of us I don't. I think we've got to
get pissed off every once in a while. That's just
life then.
Speaker 4 (37:19):
But the point is as soon as you see what
you don't want, acknowledge it, and then create and focus
on the opposite positive.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
So knowing what you don't want is a great gift, but.
Speaker 4 (37:35):
If you stay there, you're stuck forever and getting what
you don't want.
Speaker 3 (37:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (37:39):
Absolutely, very well, said another shout out from de one.
Charles Roseblatz, Anne Marie, a longtime friend, and Steve Young.
Oh he's your crush, He's he's blowing up the comment section. Okay,
so we do have a little bit of and we
(38:00):
have literally five minutes. So I don't want to ask
what's getting in my way because I well.
Speaker 4 (38:10):
Ask what you need to bring into alignment for whatever
you want?
Speaker 3 (38:14):
Okay? That well around.
Speaker 4 (38:16):
Around what what do I need to bring into alignment?
Speaker 3 (38:19):
Around what? Prosperity? Prosperity?
Speaker 2 (38:27):
Literally no, it says nothing.
Speaker 3 (38:30):
Yeah, so what were you going to say now? After that?
I work?
Speaker 4 (38:35):
Oh, sorry with a pendulum in case it's not I
can't tell of it.
Speaker 2 (38:39):
Yeah. And then before you were doing this, what was that.
Speaker 3 (38:41):
Just a way to balance myself?
Speaker 2 (38:43):
Interesting?
Speaker 4 (38:44):
Yeah, if you want a quick way to balance yourself,
just tap over your ears, breathe out while you're tapping
over your thyroid, and then I pop my fingers like
that because a lot of times, if you're working with
emotional issues, you can get switched, and if your energy's switched,
you will test incorrectly. Okay, so we're going to start
(39:09):
doing a further explanation on prosperity. Something else came in
for you, and that's.
Speaker 3 (39:13):
Where we're going.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
I was going to be sarcastic, Well go there, I
was just you said literally and I said no, figuratively,
I was being sarcastic.
Speaker 4 (39:26):
Well, and that's where we're going because you haven't literally
defined what prosperity means to you and what it looks
like like if you wrote down on a piece of paper,
this is the prosperity that I am choosing and committing
to create right now, right so you haven't done that.
Speaker 3 (39:49):
There's one thing you're.
Speaker 4 (39:53):
Are you afraid to literally say I want this much money?
Because when I say you've said that, I get to know.
Speaker 2 (40:02):
Of course you figured that out. It's the I coach
and tell people or I have this this belief. This
bs that when you're that specific about things, you're setting
yourself up for disappointment.
Speaker 4 (40:21):
Okay, well, if we had an hour, we can explore that.
So in other words, you said, I am a person
that believes when I ask for exactly what I want,
I will be disappointed. That's what you just said to me,
and anything you say after I am is a clear
(40:42):
direction for your energy. Now, when I said that applies
to your book, I get to know because you did ask.
Speaker 3 (40:54):
You wanted it to be big, you wanted it to.
Speaker 4 (40:56):
Go all the way you wanted it on the bestseller life.
So you see, you're caught, Theresa, because you're it's it
was okay in that instance, but it wasn't okay when
you say you want a lot of money. But it's
okay if you get a lot of money through a
best selling book.
Speaker 3 (41:19):
But would it be okay to get that?
Speaker 4 (41:21):
See when I say it's okay to get that by
winning the lotto, it goes right to know. So in
other words, it's okay with you if you get it,
as long as you work hard for it and produce
something and are in service, then it's okay. But that
I gotta say this because it's so important and it's
what's up right now. It limits the world of all possibilities,
(41:46):
and you want to be open to all possibilities because
then the universe creates miracles. See, miracles don't make sense.
So if we're trying to make sense out of what
we're asking, or we'll never create the mea.
Speaker 2 (42:02):
And I know exactly where it's the it's coming from.
I can just see it. One is my dad was
so careful, and you know, and he would say, hope
for the best, but prepare for the worst. Yeah, we
are for the best, yeah, but prepare for the worst.
And so so that's one, and then the big hit
I took in the divorce. It was a big hit,
(42:24):
and so I think that really has I'm really trying
to to.
Speaker 4 (42:33):
Leave that, okay, and you need to, but the channel
wants you to know that that happened in the divorce
because you have this belief, as you believe one way
or another, you've got to create that as a reality
in your life until that belief has changed.
Speaker 2 (42:52):
So what practically would I do at this point?
Speaker 3 (42:56):
Now?
Speaker 4 (42:57):
Well, you want to know that you can have everything
you want and still be in service, and you're open
to all possibilities about how you get it, and that
it consistently stays that you consistently created in your life.
Speaker 5 (43:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:18):
Yeah, that's that's that's the C word. It's not commitment,
it's the consistently yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (43:26):
Wo yeah, we get it. We all get into fear.
Speaker 4 (43:29):
Yeah, and when we go into fear, we stop consciously creating,
which is the name of one of my books, conscious Creation,
because we're all creating twenty four to seven. We're creating, right,
just most of us are doing it without any consciousness behind.
Do you know if you watch TV for one hour,
(43:51):
you can see fifty ads of how you're going to
get sick, what medication you should take, and how that
me ocations probably.
Speaker 3 (44:01):
Going to screw you up really badly.
Speaker 4 (44:02):
Anyway, while you're watching happy families with dogs romping and
and you know what, your brain says, Oh, I get it.
Speaker 3 (44:11):
Sickness is happiness.
Speaker 4 (44:14):
And if you're not consciously saying I am beautiful, fabulous,
perfect health and wellness, your brain real default to the
lesser creation for you.
Speaker 2 (44:28):
And we're almost out of time. But no, no, no,
but I have to say, what if you want to
say those things? But the but the data looking back
at you, you know, I'm beautiful, I'm you know, svelt,
I'm you know, I'm I'm I'm you know, in perfect
health and wholeness. But you look in the mirror and
(44:48):
you go, I'm fat.
Speaker 3 (44:50):
I mean that's the reality. I look fat.
Speaker 4 (44:52):
The reality is what's shown up because you didn't say
those things. And so again, and think only on these things.
You have been thinking about the fat, You have been
thinking about how old you're getting, blah blah blah blah.
And your brain and your heart are electrical and they
send that out to the universe, and the universe says,
(45:15):
your wish is my command. I will help you continue
creating that.
Speaker 2 (45:19):
I mean, I can't blame anyone else, nobody, no thing, Dan.
So my last question of all my beautiful guests is
who and what are you most grateful to or four?
Speaker 4 (45:35):
Uh huh, Well that would be a toss up between
my mother and my daughter.
Speaker 3 (45:40):
When my dog and I grow go on our.
Speaker 4 (45:43):
Gratitude walk every day, I always thank my mother for
giving me all the attributes of integrity and truthful.
Speaker 3 (45:53):
I cry every time I talk about my mom.
Speaker 4 (45:58):
And my daughter who teaches me tenacity and unconditional love
man and which, by the way, her book's out right.
Speaker 2 (46:09):
Now, thank you for that. Gabrielle Stone has a eat
prey f asterism and we'll have her definitely back with
you very soon. Because I want to see I want
to see you two together and benefit from that. And
I would like to bestow on you because I don't
(46:31):
know if I did it last night last night, last
time you were on, you were not in studio, so
maybe I didn't. But I'd like to bestow on you
doctor Marissa's Beneficial Presence on the Planet Award.
Speaker 3 (46:44):
Wow, because you try to accept.
Speaker 2 (46:48):
That, truly, truly love the words.
Speaker 3 (46:52):
I hope you take them to heart.
Speaker 2 (46:53):
I know I am. I'm so grateful to have had
d Wallace in studio and it's almost time to go
quickly welcome to my balance bar to step up and
find out. I'm back on the beach teaching back by
popular demand. I cannot say no to y'all, So Power
Cheese starts this Saturday, Long Beach by nineteen hundred Ocean
(47:17):
Beach Club. It's across from Cherry Park. Plenty of parking there.
See you by the water's edge at ten am most Saturdays.
Go to my event on Facebook or doctor Marisa dot
life RSVP, and that way I'll tell you what saturdays
I'm not there while I'm traveling as well. Get your
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(47:38):
if you would like to be a winner of one
of the jazz Track Catalina Festival Asian Oprah giveaway, go
right now, Doctor Marissa dot Life. Go jazz Track dot
com to see which show you would like, and I'll
get you the tickets for that as long as they're
not sold out. Okay, and that is that for today's
(48:00):
fabulous episode of take my advice, I'm not using it.
Get balanced with doctor Marissa and get happy with doctor Marissa.
I hope you all know how loving, lovable, and loved
you are. Peace in and peace out. That is world
peace through inner peace, and I hope you enjoy that.
(48:42):
That is my throwback Thursday offering today where I get
to give you from my show treasure Chest, a past
interview you that I've had out of my one thousand,
(49:03):
four hundred and sixty six shows, but who's counting, And
that was the amazing, the incredible, the super funny. God.
I love that woman, Dee Wallace. The best thing about
the show, there's so many best things about doing the
show for the past six hundred and ninety six consecutive weeks,
(49:26):
definitely is having guests who turn into friends, and Dee
Wallace is definitely in my top I don't know one
hundred and ten five. I love her so much and
I'm so grateful. I don't know if she's going on Saturday.
(49:49):
But for those of you who want a great organization
to support, you know that one of my organizations is
Doores of Change and the Saturday is there once a
year fundraiser and I pull that up. If you'd like
to join me in the VIP time, you can message
(50:13):
me as usual go on dates, but I don't don't
last long enough to have a date for my my
work stuff. So let's see if we do this tub
(50:33):
sharing And as you can see, it's going to be
this Saturday, the twenty twenty five Concert of Pope starring
Rolling Stones tribute band Jumping Jack Flash with opening act
with me Shay. One hundred percent of ticket purchases will
go directly to help homeless youth and it's wow, this
(50:55):
is cool. Seventy five thousand and matching funds to the
Lucky Duck found So that's awesome. And uh yeah, I've
been supporting this particular group for four years. I want
to say, we got to go to see the first
year I was there, we got to have life and
(51:20):
I danced to them. Jeremiah was a bulldog and I'm
my I'm always my memory is really good, but my
recall sucks. And that group is why am I? Okay,
(51:44):
anybody in the cashier gallery can help me. Let's see, Ah,
Jeremiah was a bulldog. Three dog nights. I knew there
was a number in there. Horrible. Sorry, Well there's my
twelve percent step in it. I'm eighty eight percent fabulous
(52:07):
twelve percent of the time I step into it. So
that is this Saturday. So if you'd like to join
me Asian Over giveaway is to be my date this time.
That will be four this Saturday, Saturday, September the sixth. Yeah,
(52:28):
so gratitude sandwich that I don't do to the end
of the show. Usually we do this at the beginning
of the show. But I throwback Thursdays. I want to
definitely have you watch the entire fabulous interview today with THEE.
Speaker 3 (52:43):
Wallace.
Speaker 2 (52:43):
If you missed it, go to my YouTube TV channel
free subscribe, give me the finger, this one, not the
other one, and you'll get to see all of that.
So I'm grateful for throwback Thursdays, where I get to
re listen to the brilliance of my guests. I'm grateful
that my guests turn into friends. D Wells is a
(53:05):
great example of that. I'm grateful that I have another
full day in front of me with lots of fun
things to do for my jobs. I'm grateful that this Saturday,
I am going to let's see pull this up. I
will be doing a book signing this Saturday. Sorry, not
(53:30):
this Saturday. The following Saturday, and I would like you
to join me. It's local in Long Beach and it
will be in the traffic circle. And let's just pull
this up, Sames is the one. Nope, I will be
(53:56):
at Jay and Elle Jewelry and it is right near Marshalls.
If your local in Long Beach, you'll know that if
you're in LA and it's a fabulous location where I
(54:18):
showed up. Yes, let me pull this up big, all right,
and you get free champagne and twenty five percent off
all of the all of the jewelry that's there. So
(54:39):
I'm doing readings. This is between twelve and four Saturday
and thirteenth, so save the date and I look forward
to seeing all of you books site. You get twenty
percent off all jewelry, plus if you get a signed
copied for a twenty dollars donation. Part proceeds to go
to Habitat for Humanity and the other part goes to
(55:00):
my own nonprofit Hate Ways to Happiness from wherever you are.
And that's a number one Amazon plus national bestseller now,
so I am so excited to I can't do it
internationally anymore, however, I can do it locally. So that's
(55:20):
what we're switching to and between twelve and four. The
readings will be at one and two, So I'd love
to see you anytime during twelve or four. All right,
oo key doo key. That is it for my gratitudes.
(55:41):
Let's go to the bottom of the bun, which is
what are you grateful for inside of yourself? It's weight
training for your mental health. How are you happy taking
responsibility for your happiness by knowing what you're good at?
And if you watch D's interview just now, the importance
(56:03):
of loving yourself, the importance of really letting go of
BS belief systems that get in your way of loving yourself.
So I appreciate my ability to go easy on myself.
You heard me, eighty eight percent fabulous. I give myself
the leeway to be twelve percent imperfect Perfectionism is a
(56:28):
disease with life. I'm covering perfectionist. So I know that
sometimes things just go awry, and it's okay. I always
do the best that I can with the time that
I have and the resources I have, but sometimes that
doesn't mean it's going to be great, and that's okay.
(56:48):
I appreciate my ability to continue to put my lifejack
out on with the silver lining, even though the black
plots are majorly affecting my ability to do what I want,
when I want, how I want in terms of flying
and certainly racing sailboats. But you know, war will be revealed.
(57:12):
A year knows what a day doesn't, and it's always
some better. And that's my hashtag discipline to stay in
a good feeling place, which is so much better than
being in a pisophtness state all the time. Okay, and
that's it for Breakfast with Doctor Marisa. I promise you
(57:33):
if you practice this good life habit hashtag discipline with
me every weekday morning, you will sand what your day
in the most positive way. Thanks for joining me for
breakfast and you'll have to tune in live tomorrow. It
will be an amazing show because I will be live
(57:54):
in studio in Westlake Village with my co host. First straight,
it's Ricky Rebel in Westlake Village Live. We will be
at MB Studios. You may have heard his fabulous launch
of the Blue album on the show last Friday and
(58:16):
this Friday. Who knows what we're talking about, but it'll
be fun. It'll be a new venue, so tune in
tomorrow for more. Take my advice. I'm not using a
gift balance with Doctor Merits of the Morning Show, because
it's all about balance. He's out world piece through inner piece.
Now go and have the best day ever. I'll see
(58:39):
you tomorrow.
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