KCAA: Get Balanced with Dr. Marissa (Thu, 25 Sep, 2025)

KCAA: Get Balanced with Dr. Marissa on Thu, 25 Sep, 2025

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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Cuff off at exhausting amster Wheel and into balance. Living
with Doctor.

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Marissa from Miss Joy the mis.

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Doctor Marissa, also known as the Asian Oprah. Her mission
to be a beneficial presence on the planet. Her purpose
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her life motto, don't die wondering. Take back your life
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Back from all that's ubnradio dot com stuff off at
exhausting amster wheel and into Balance.

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Living with Doctor Marissa.

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From missu Joy.

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Doctor Marissa, also known as the Oprah. Her mission to
be a beneficial pressence on the planet. Her purpose to
be your personal advocate, to live, laugh, love, learn her
life motto, don't die wondering. Take back your life with
Doctor Maurissa Fay.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Welcome. You are tuned in too, Hi weekly talk radio
show called take My Advice. I'm not using it. Get
Balanced with Doctor Marissa every Tuesday at naturally high noon
out of the sunset Gower Studios here in Hollywood, California
with UBN Radio TV Universal Broadcasting Network, and then every

(01:38):
Thursday and Saturday on my CNBC NBC News Radio Channel
KCAA amf AM ten fifteen, FM one oh two point
three and FM one oh six point five and now
nationally everywhere where iHeartRadio is. And this is a show
about hope and happiness. So there's no gossip, no scandal,

(01:59):
even the scandal is shot here, and no k words,
no Kardashian talk at all. Instead, I want you to
focus on your own reality show and how you can
be happy eighty eight percent of the time. And if
you missed my great show last week, it was a
Sexual Healing with Doctor Marissa's special series with Clarissa Bert,

(02:19):
supermodel and international celebrity, please go to my YouTube channel
and you can get it there. And upcoming we're gonna
have lots of fabulous guests next year, Kathy Richardson from
Jefferson Starship. Next week we're having Aaron Dickens the original
Manhattan Transfer. So you just keep it here for more

(02:41):
hope and happiness. And as per usual, I'm going to
start with my PC and peace out. Shoutouts for excellent
customer service, Devin Smith at the UCLA RASK office and
the staff at the Executive Vintage Court Hotel in San Francisco,
Brian Eha and Tiffany Peace In and at the red

(03:03):
carpet event that I got to go to last week
at the Grove tenth Annual Salvation Army Kettle Kickoff thanks
to an invite by my wingwoman Diana Kelly, and got
another red carpet SoundBite from keynote speaker billionaire John Paul
de Jorio, who was actually in the streets and helped
buy Salvation Army, so he gives back one of my

(03:26):
favorite kinds of people to sing with. I got to
sing with Shana they'll be coming next year too on
the air and Mickey Rooney's son Jeff, So it was
a fabulous time. And last but not least, Emmanuel who
will be coming on next year. Just heartwarming story of
this young man who came from Australia who was actually

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rescued by his adopted mom from the war torn Just
horrific time in so you'll want to come and see
that show next year. Shout out to the Jacobsen Love
Burrito Clan. Friends of Frank call me Frank Starr and friend.
Shout of peace out, piece in and peace out to

(04:13):
my twenty nine thirty stage mates at the Agape International
Spiritual Center celebrating our choir bosses and our choir anniversary.
To my new and renewed friends, I was blessed to
meet this weekend in San Francisco, my beautiful niece's birthday.
Happy birthday, Dear Christina, my favorite niees A happy birthday

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to you, Happy birthday and UH for my UH. I
went to the new Agape North with TJ, who brought
up my big brother, doctor Michael Bernard beckw with to
speak and my past chair and friend Liz, where I
got to sing at the party and my first true

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Mongolian uber driver Andank by your who taught me how
to say thank you in Mongolian ready by a la
because I'm actually Chinese with a dash of Mongolian. I
know you all thought I was Swedish, but it was
nice to reconnect with some of my Mongolian roots. And
finally at peace shout out to my la uber pet

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poolmates in the middle of Chinatown, Crystal and Kit and
she told us that we looked like we were thirty
five so I love her for that and a piece
shout out to r V at the Vitality Station. I
love to try new things, so I actually had the
oxygen bar and then a water massage without getting wet.
I'll let you figure that one out and without further ado.

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I am so, so so happy to have today's guest.
It's someone who I watched for years and years and years.
Love the show Monday Tuesday Happy Days. Guess who it's
one of the top three, always on the air, always
on the film. It was Phonsie, and there was Ron

(06:02):
and then there was Potsy, and Potsy is here in
studio Anson Williams. He played the beloved character Potzy on
the iconic TV series Happy Days. He's a TV director
on shows like melrose Place and Beverly Hills. Nine O
two one oh, author, businessman, an acknowledged expert by the L. A. P. D.

(06:22):
California Senate and Congress on the subject of drowsy driving.
And his uncle is Uncle Heimlich Maneuver. It's not really
there there that is. Please welcome to my studio, Anson Williams. Hello,

(06:45):
who has a great radio voices. You're going to be
able to tell him what have you done any are
you been asked to?

Speaker 5 (06:53):
No?

Speaker 6 (06:54):
Actually I have it? Oh what Actually, I think that
would be fun. It would be I like, I like
that just being able to converse and you know, not
have all the makeup and all that stuffy.

Speaker 2 (07:05):
Yeah, except there is a camera.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
So you where's my makeup?

Speaker 2 (07:09):
I don't know where is.

Speaker 5 (07:09):
Your makeup gone?

Speaker 2 (07:11):
So what was your favorite part of being Patzi?

Speaker 7 (07:16):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (07:16):
My gosh, the well? Actually, you know, the show was fun.
I mean it was an amazing break. But more than anything,
happy that he has became a college for us. Gary
Marshall really wanted to be a teacher in life, and
he used Paramount Studios as his college. And he inspired
us to knock it in the way of ourselves, keep

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ego at check, and take advantage of being on that
lot and learn everything we could about the entertainment business.
So I think the reason so many of us are
still productive in the industry behind the camera is because
of Gary. He inspired us to take advantage of being that.
We had ten and a half years of it. So,
you know, I've been fortunate in directing you know, a

(07:57):
lot of television, over three hundred shows.

Speaker 5 (07:59):
But they asked me, did you go to film school.
I go, you bet I did.

Speaker 6 (08:03):
I watched Roman Polanski directing Chinatown on the back lot
right next to him. I watched John Seleshion's directing Dave
the Locust right next to him. I watched all the
Grease musical numbers that were done on the lot right
next to the director. That was my college for filmmaking. Wow,
and all because of Gary. And he also inspired my
entrepreneurial skills. He saw a business side of me, and

(08:26):
so it was the show was great, but honestly.

Speaker 4 (08:29):
It was life.

Speaker 6 (08:30):
It was a life learning experience. It was like getting
a PhD in life.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
To Gary, that's so awesome. Is he still around?

Speaker 5 (08:38):
No, he passed away just over your well.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
He can still hear.

Speaker 6 (08:43):
Us, but he leads through all of us, and we
pay forward his kindness and his you know, I try,
I try mysets. I try to mentor young people, try
to inspire them to get outside of themselves and to
you know, really take advantage because most of us won't
be actors all our lives.

Speaker 5 (08:58):
That Gary said, especially.

Speaker 6 (09:01):
Oh thank you, Well, I was never that good, but
I always but I always knew I'd end up behind
the camera.

Speaker 5 (09:07):
And it took full advantage on that show I could
do I could do that show, I could do that.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
You're like my favorite.

Speaker 5 (09:13):
Well well yeah, yeah taste.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
Yeah, there you go. Sorry, funds. Now, do you still
keep in touch with with I.

Speaker 5 (09:21):
Do the cast? I do.

Speaker 6 (09:22):
In fact, we just saw each other not too long ago.
They changed They had the first big fundraiser for the
Gary Marshall Theater and to look like it used to
be called the Falcon Theater, but after his passing they
changed it to the Gary Marshall Theater. Well deserved little
museum in there and it's an equity house and they're

(09:42):
doing fantastic shows and they had a huge fundraiser and
Henry was there, and don was there, I was there,
Marion was there, Ron was you know, still in London,
England doing shooting Han solo. But yeah, so we're constantly
in touch with Donnie lives twenty minutes for me.

Speaker 2 (09:59):
So yeah, that is very cool. That's this is the honestly,
this is the first time I've heard of a healthy part,
the healthy part of Hollywood, you know, because you hear
a lot of obviously lately well unhealthy parts.

Speaker 6 (10:13):
Of Hollywood's an illusion, you know, you know, I mean
Hollywood's made up.

Speaker 5 (10:16):
There's no Hollywood. I mean, that's a made up It's
made up.

Speaker 6 (10:22):
It's an illusion people's heads. It sells product. There is
no Hollywood. There are hard working sound stages. But guess
what most of my work when I direct, I'm never
in Hollywood. I'm in North Hollywood. I'm in Santa Clarita.
They've turned all these warehouses into stages. You know, these
are issues, so Hollywood, it just so happens that they're
well known people being a well known person, lots of

(10:44):
people look in lots of advertising dollars for networks and
they're gonna they're gonna promote you know, scandal, They're gonna
promote all that.

Speaker 5 (10:51):
So what was the question.

Speaker 2 (10:55):
If you've just tuned in and you're wondering who the
great voice here? That does sound a little bit familiar.
It is Potsy from Happy Days, who is way more
than Potsy and we're going to get to know other
sides of him today. But you are tuned in to
take my advice, I'm not using it. Get balance with
doctor Marissa and answer Williams. So another thing that people

(11:17):
don't know, and I didn't know until I got the
bio sheet, was you have a relationship to your uncle
or your cousin and his Heimlich doctor Heimlich.

Speaker 6 (11:30):
Yeah, well he's actually my second cousin. But ever since
I was born, I called him uncle and he said, no,
call me uncle Hank. So I called him Uncle Hank,
and we became very close and it's just actually happy days.
It's very responsible for saving many many lives because just circumstantially,

(11:51):
doctor Heimlich was on the set visiting and he was
just starting to promote the Heimlich maneuver and he was
getting a hard time getting track national national traction. He
got some regional traction, but because of the Red Cross
in that conflict was he was having a hard time.
Just so Hackens happened that on the set while he
was there, there was a phone call from the MERV

(12:12):
Griffin Show and I took it. And I had done
the show a few times before someone had dropped out,
and they they asked if i'd be available that night
sing a song in the interviewed. I thought this is great. Yeah,
I go yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll do it. So I
go to Hank. I say, Hank, look, you know, come
with me. Maybe I can talk to MERV and maybe

(12:33):
we can get the Heimlat maneuver on.

Speaker 5 (12:35):
He goes, well, let's try it. So we get down
to the MERV.

Speaker 6 (12:38):
Griffin Theater there and on Vine Street right here in Hollywood,
and I'm looking. I can't find him. Can't find him,
can't find him, can't find him. I rehearsed the song,
can't find him. I'm thinking, well, you know, Hank, you'll
watch a great show, but it ain't gonna happen. It
ain't gonna happen. Yeah, So I sing the show starts.

Speaker 5 (12:57):
I don't.

Speaker 6 (12:58):
I don't think I was first whenever I was on.
I sing the song. And then you go sit down
and get to get an interviewed, and there's a commercial.
So there's mrph So I gave him the elevator pitch
about and he happened, I've heard of it, and and
he goes and think we come right back up, you know,
on air, unbeknownst to anybody, including his director, he introduces

(13:20):
Henry in the audience, stands him up, brings him on
stage and does the maneuver on mirth.

Speaker 8 (13:25):
Wow.

Speaker 5 (13:26):
You know. It went on a.

Speaker 6 (13:26):
Little few days later. It was pre tape, saved so
many lives. Three weeks later was on the Johnny Carson
Show and it exploded, but that was because of the
Happy Days set.

Speaker 2 (13:35):
That's what a great story. Yeah, yeah, And I don't
believe in accidents, so it was just one of those coincidences,
cooperating incidents, Yeah, with a friendly universe, so that everybody
could know about something really important. Yeah, it has saved
a lot of lives. And speaking of which, you're not
falling that far from your uncle heimlike Maneuver's tree. Yes,

(14:01):
with your own work and your own invention, that is
saving many, many lives. So without further ado, I think
you can explain it the best. I was shocked to
find out that it's actually drowsy driving. Is it kills
more people than drunk drivers.

Speaker 6 (14:20):
And medicated drivers combined. It's right up there with guns,
drunk driving, medicated driving. It's up there in the top
five catastrophic problems in the United States of America, and
no one talks.

Speaker 2 (14:32):
About it, and no one talks about it. Last week
was a National Drowsy Driving Awareness Week.

Speaker 6 (14:38):
So well, just to give you an idea of how
large this problem is, I think you'll be blown away.

Speaker 5 (14:44):
Okay.

Speaker 6 (14:45):
In twenty twelve, the National Sleep Foundation did a detailed study.
They found at least one hundred and sixty eight million
drowsy drivers a year, one hundred and sixty eight yes,
million drivers a year. And there's more. They found out
one at least one out of five admitted to falling asleep,

(15:08):
more than one out of five accidents are caused by it,
twelve billion dollars a year, more fatalities, more deaths than
drunk driving and medicated driving combined. One hundred thousand hurt
people a year, seven thousand deaths, the average age eighteen
to twenty five. Your college kids are not coming home,
Families are being torn apart, husbands are coming home, you know,

(15:30):
I mean, it is a huge problem. And in fact,
New Jersey just made a law. They just made a
law as fierce as drunk driving if they can prove
you were drowsy. But so, what happened to me. The
reason I got involved is because years ago I was
I was directing a show called Slat Maxwell Damney Coleman
right in the local Palm del Desert. It was a

(15:53):
hard day. I was dehydrated, it was, and it was
it was just, you know, horrendous day of exhaustion. I'm
driving home. Next thing I know, I'm bouncing around the desert.
I almost killed myself. Wow, I fell asleep for three seconds,
it's all. It took off the road right scared the
hell out of me. I went to I talked to

(16:13):
Hank about it, doctor Heimlich, and he said, by the way,
doctor Heymick was an expert at sensory connection of body,
how the body helps the body way way brilliant alert.

Speaker 5 (16:22):
Drops came about from my own experience. I fell asleep
at the wheel.

Speaker 2 (16:26):
We're watching something that is that? Is that?

Speaker 5 (16:32):
That was me? That video?

Speaker 2 (16:34):
Yeah, that's so cool.

Speaker 5 (16:35):
Well, but what happened?

Speaker 2 (16:35):
So I almost you're interrupting yourself.

Speaker 5 (16:37):
I interrupted myself.

Speaker 6 (16:39):
So I talked to doctor Heimich and he said, ants
and cut up lemons, he said, and then bite into
it hard if you fill yourself getting tired. And he
explained how the citric acid with sour lemon natural sour
lemon hits the lingual nerve on top of the tongue,
middle of the top of the tongue. The automatic reflex
reaction of the body is adrenaline. Nothing in your system,

(17:00):
your own body wakened. The body as simple as the
Heimach maneuver so I did. I cut up lemons and
never had the problem again. Then I went into the
product business along with the entertainment business. I love creating
problem solving products, and we've done many, many through the years.

Speaker 5 (17:14):
I won't get into it, many many.

Speaker 4 (17:16):
Through the years.

Speaker 6 (17:17):
Years ago is when I started finding out all the
facts about Josy driving and I'm thinking, well, why, I'm thinking,
why can't we If it's that citric acid and sour
lemon and water, maybe a little bit of preservative. For
I said, why can't we recreate that in a spray job.

Speaker 5 (17:35):
I just hit the lingual nerve right on. I call
it Hank he said.

Speaker 6 (17:40):
He says, oh my god, he says, not only will
it work better, he said, you will say, more lives
than the Hemach maneuver.

Speaker 5 (17:46):
You absolutely have to do this. So we did. We
created alert drops, which is all thats which is basically
a hard hit of citric acid, a hard hit of
sour lemon water, a little bit of preservative, and that's
what you spray A couple of sprays in the middle
of your tongue and boom, you're awake. You're alert.

Speaker 6 (18:03):
You're not going to kill yourself. Nothing in your system
doesn't script your sleep pattern. It's old science. By the way,
if you go to alert drops dot com it's alert
jobs dot com. You'll read about it, why it works.
You'll seem I t DIDs studies on the lingual nerved
years ago. This is very old science, just placed in
a very convenient way of.

Speaker 2 (18:20):
Distributing, and no side effects that are going to make
you feel worse than you started with.

Speaker 5 (18:25):
It's a lemon. It's a lemon. It's it's an adrenaline.
It's a lemon adrenaline.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
So if I do it now, is it going to
do anything to me? You just do a couple of
the middle of I'm pretty awake, Like, am I going
to change personality?

Speaker 9 (18:35):
No?

Speaker 5 (18:35):
No, You'll just feel the adrenaline rush right in the
middle of your tongue.

Speaker 4 (18:38):
Coupl of I missed, hm, did it come out?

Speaker 2 (18:50):
I have a faulty plunger.

Speaker 5 (18:52):
Let me see you're kidding.

Speaker 2 (18:54):
No, oh, the one that you bring that's okay, that's okay,
that's all right.

Speaker 5 (19:02):
I'm sorry, that's all right.

Speaker 2 (19:04):
I actually have one right here, and I'm gonna pas no, no, no, no,
that one's I did get it. It's it's very Yeah, yeah,
it's just lemon. It's concentrated.

Speaker 5 (19:15):
No, you know what it is.

Speaker 6 (19:17):
I screwed up this one's This was mine in the car,
and I had another one that was and I mixed
I got it mixed up.

Speaker 10 (19:24):
That's okay, hysterical, it's a blooper that it wasn't it's
not anyway anyway, you go like that, you go like
this a couple and you're and you're up and you're ready.

Speaker 5 (19:34):
And we found out how everybody's different. Every every body
is you know everyone, it's a different effect. But we
found it with subject groups.

Speaker 6 (19:43):
It was an average of thirty minutes for an hour
and then if you need some more, do it again. Nothing,
nothing harm. It's and you're not gonna go home and
screw up your sleep pattern. Well that is so embarrassing.

Speaker 2 (19:54):
No, no, no, no, no, nothing to be embarrassed.

Speaker 6 (19:56):
No, no, but anyway, but anyway, so so already we've
been on by the United States Congress, by the California
State Sentate, by the City of La the La Fire
Department and the La Sheriff's Department had a Drowsy Driving
Awareness Day on pch and we were handing out alert
jobs at red lights drivers with information.

Speaker 5 (20:15):
I mean, it's a powerful product. It is saving.

Speaker 6 (20:17):
If you go to alert jops dot com, you'll read testimonials.
If you go to Amazon dot com where it's sold,
you can get an all sorts of different variations twelve packs,
six packs, two packs, one, but you'll read just read
those reviews of how it's helping. Yeah, very very important.
We can stop this catastrophic problem today. I don't want
to thank you for this time because somebody else, somebody

(20:39):
out there's life is safe today.

Speaker 2 (20:41):
Well, the Asian Oprah giveaway is going to be the
one that's in the car. I'm going to go out
and get it, and then I'll be able to give
that away. I'll then Carlon will be sending your many Okay,
that would be great because it is and and there's
you said it. I love problem solving products. Yes, so

(21:02):
for just for that, not because you are on happy days,
even though that was pretty cool, but just for that,
because I think that that is one of the most
important things that humankind can participate in, right, using our
brains and our ingenuity and our creativity to save someone something.

(21:25):
So you get wait, wait for it, you get doctor
Marissa's Beneficial Presence on the planet award. That's what I wanted.

Speaker 5 (21:36):
Thank you.

Speaker 6 (21:37):
Well, you know, everyone asks, I mean, they asked, what's
your favorite thing. I actually think everything I've done is
led up to this, you know, honestly every I mean,
people are alive because of that, I know for fact.

Speaker 2 (21:52):
And doesn't that feel fabulous?

Speaker 6 (21:54):
Well, it feels it's paying Doctor haimik Forward talk about
his instincts. I talked to him. He did, he passed.
He lasted summer seventeen, almost a year ago. Well he's
ninety six. What a life, you know, but with a
couple of weeks before, Yeah, a couple of weeks before.
In one of the last parts of the conversation, he said,
you get this out to everybody, and he reiterated, it

(22:16):
will save more lives than the maneuver. You get this out.
It's an honor of him. Without his knowledge and brilliance,
I wouldn't have known, right, I mean, all I did
was like have a common sense idea. He was the
one that was brilliant enough to understand how the body
worked and caring.

Speaker 5 (22:31):
Enough so he was read the word was empty.

Speaker 2 (22:33):
He was an empty How did he come up with
the maneuver.

Speaker 5 (22:37):
Well, he well, he some personal people had personal problems
with choking to death.

Speaker 6 (22:44):
But his wife was Jane Heimlich. And Jane was one
of Arthur Murray's twin daughters. Oh, and Jane was a
pioneer in alternative medicine. She wrote the book which your
doctor doesn't tell you. She was a big influence in
doctor Heimak. He was head of Cincinnati Jewish Hospital. I
mean he was a real like western medicine doctor for years,

(23:06):
I mean traditional and I mean huge doctor. But she's
the one that inspired him to look a little further.
She's the one that's in you know, not everything has
to be with a knife and drugs. And that started
his research into hell, how the body helps the body
and and all that. That and the Heimac maneuver came
from that. I mean he looked for simple, simple, basic

(23:29):
ways of solving problems. And this here, I mean, and you.

Speaker 5 (23:33):
Look it up. It's it's every it's like old science.

Speaker 6 (23:36):
It's not like it's an I mean all he just
gave me the knowledge of what's already been research. He
researched it, their studies done years ago. And then all
I did was find a more convenient way to distribute it.

Speaker 2 (23:48):
But and they're not even they're not expensive, like anybody
can get one.

Speaker 6 (23:52):
Oh my god, it's like either're like it's it's over
a month's supply for under ten dollars. I mean you
buy Starbucks five, that's ridiculous. And if you buy like
if you buy twelve, like sometimes people buy twelve acts
for their companies or people, it's it's four dollars a unit.
I mean, it's like nothing, and it lasts a month.
It's over eighty sprays. So we try to make it

(24:15):
where it's where it's really gettable, reasonable and long lasting.
And you know, and every car, every car, not only
that construction sites of buying it good because they need
to be alert and they need to be safe.

Speaker 5 (24:29):
We're selling out of hospital staffs is they're up all night,
right and EMTs, doctors, any job where you need to
be alert and safe, and especially entertainment business.

Speaker 2 (24:39):
Yeah, our hours are crazy right right. Well, even I
know when I'm driving back to pick up my kid.
I live in Orange County, just coming from here, and
I'm up for the show, right, And by the time
I'm like halfway back, I feel that real drop and
adrenaline and I'm like, if I didn't get a really
good night's life, I will feel drowsy and I will

(25:03):
have to pull over. I've pulled over by the time
I get to IKEA. Yeah, and just put my head back.

Speaker 5 (25:09):
Because even that's not sick. It's not sick because you're
gonna wake up.

Speaker 6 (25:12):
Do you ever, you know, do you ever drive and
you're driving and and alsen you don't remember how you
got there?

Speaker 2 (25:18):
Yeah, yeah, that's sleeping that. That was in my college
days too. But anyways, but there is but this, but
there's a there's a name for it. But it's basically,
you're sleep with your eyes open. M you're sleep with
your eyes open. I will run to the car and
get you some for your trips. Yeah, I promise you.
I will run to the car and run get I
should be a good night's sleep last night, although I

(25:39):
just flew in from San Francisco. If you ever need
just to yeah yeah, no, no, no, I did get
a little that accidentally went that way.

Speaker 5 (25:47):
I saw too.

Speaker 2 (25:50):
And it does definitely have a kick.

Speaker 6 (25:52):
Oh yeah, so you haven't felt you know, you'll feel it. Yeah,
it's not a kick.

Speaker 2 (25:56):
I mean that what you fellas adrenaline natural, naturally stimulate.

Speaker 5 (26:01):
Stimulate the lingual nerve.

Speaker 6 (26:04):
It's just like going to the doctor with when the
rubber mallet they test your reflexes.

Speaker 5 (26:08):
It's the same thing here. It's a reflex reaction.

Speaker 2 (26:10):
Is it in seven to eleven? Because I would think
that that would be like it.

Speaker 5 (26:14):
Will, absolutely will.

Speaker 6 (26:15):
But you know, if you know commerce, commerce is its
own beast, and you need to bring such awareness to
such demand for it before you go in or they'll
kill your product. So you know, you don't know, it
needs to be placed properly, and you need to have
the power of the public with you when you go in.
We're getting close.

Speaker 11 (26:33):
We're getting close, as seen on TV. No, no, seen
on TV. Actually it's that's become kind of a dinosaur.
What's working for us? I mean, we've we're on our
fourth run. It's products blowing out. Is we do Facebook ads,
but we do them. We do all these if you look,
really cute video ads and things that we just placed properly,

(26:55):
and we do Amazon ads and I'll tell you it
beats the heck out of sn on TV. Okay, and
we're just we're just doing tremendous sales.

Speaker 2 (27:05):
Yeah I was, I know, someone on there, and I
know someone on QBC. So that's why I was asking.

Speaker 5 (27:11):
We were on QVC for a decade, you are ten years?

Speaker 2 (27:13):
Okay.

Speaker 6 (27:13):
We probably have thirty products on QBC through the years.
And that's fine, and QVC is great, it's fun.

Speaker 5 (27:19):
That ain't the.

Speaker 6 (27:20):
Future right right at all? It's all the future. The
future is I mean this is that Internet is one
powerful tool. Positively, yes, very very very powerful.

Speaker 5 (27:30):
Done right.

Speaker 6 (27:30):
You can waste a lot of time on it, but
you can also do some great things on it.

Speaker 2 (27:34):
It's and it's important to do and it's a great
stocking stuffer, you bet it is. So I think that
that would be a great way to help promote the
awareness around the need as well as help have your
partner saving a life. So how do we find it?

Speaker 6 (27:52):
Just go to you go to if you want all
the information and all the all the science.

Speaker 5 (27:57):
Why it works, how it works, all the all the research.
You go to alert drops dot com gives you Drops
dot com, and then you buy it.

Speaker 6 (28:04):
You know you can from there they'll click you to
Amazon or you can go straight to Amazon.

Speaker 5 (28:09):
And we have everything from twelve packs, six packs, three packs,
two packs, one pack, the twelve if you're gonna like
do stocking stuffers, the twelve pack is an amazing deal.

Speaker 6 (28:17):
It's like less than half price and you can give
to friends.

Speaker 5 (28:23):
It's say, it's probably the most important part of their stuffer.

Speaker 2 (28:27):
That's especially companies too. Instead of chokes, this is like
a meaningful choch.

Speaker 5 (28:33):
You bet you bet? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (28:35):
Yeah, Well, like they're saying, you know, they were saying,
what's the most important thing? Answered, Well, I'll tell you.
Directing a show is great, being on a teller show
is great. But saving a life you can I'd be
much rather be promoting saving a life.

Speaker 2 (28:47):
And Rember next.

Speaker 6 (28:49):
And I don't even want to be remembered for that.
I just wanted. I just want the product to be
remembered to save lives. I don't I don't really don't
care about me, but I'm just I'm the person to
put the word out there and it's and I really
it's not me.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
Have you always been?

Speaker 8 (29:03):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (29:03):
Have you always been this humble?

Speaker 5 (29:07):
Most I learned to be?

Speaker 6 (29:08):
Yeah, I learned to be trial and error, Yeah yeah,
trialing And thank god I had the air at a
young age. I was able to grow up at a
young age. And Gary Marshall had a lowed to do
with that too. And Ron Howard's amazing. He Ron was
a big influence. He was he always had tremendous character,
very good, I mean, just humble, hard working, you know, giving, caring, smart.

Speaker 5 (29:31):
Guy, talented of course.

Speaker 6 (29:33):
Yes, so I had some good mentors, some good you know,
good people you know with me. So yeah, but yeah,
you know, and I almost you know myself. I people
don't know I almost passed.

Speaker 5 (29:43):
Away a year ago? What yeah, what happened?

Speaker 6 (29:47):
They found out I had colon cancer, right, but it
wasn't if you're going to get it, they said that's
the one to.

Speaker 5 (29:54):
Get Thanks, but I knew.

Speaker 6 (29:57):
But actually I needed that. I needed that kick in
the butt the time, just for my for long term.
I'm healthier now i've been in my life. But I
almost got nailed in the hospital. Wow, through some mistakes.
Oh you know, and five days stay ended up twenty one.
But I'll tell you that time, you know, you think,
if what do you want to leave me?

Speaker 5 (30:17):
Yeah? What's it about? Boy? I'll tell you makes.

Speaker 6 (30:21):
Every cliche, every cliche is real true, every single cliche
is true. But yeah, it makes it, I mean, it
makes even re evaluate even more. You know David Cassidy
was his last words?

Speaker 5 (30:34):
Do you know?

Speaker 6 (30:34):
His last words were? And I actually guest starred with
him on a fantasy island. He was a great guy.

Speaker 2 (30:39):
I actually met him too at a party.

Speaker 6 (30:41):
Great guy, Yeah, great, nice, sweet, Shorter than I thought
he was, but he was great. His last words were
so much time wasted. That was his last words. And
there's one of the biggest stars in history. Yeah yeah,
and you go, boy. I said, you got to live.
You got to live, and you got to give right right,

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live and give to your last breath.

Speaker 2 (31:03):
So my life motto is don't die wondering. So that's
my future part of it, and my past part of
it is no regrets.

Speaker 5 (31:11):
That's right.

Speaker 2 (31:12):
So what are yours? What's your life model? I mean,
we've already basically been talking.

Speaker 5 (31:19):
No one is.

Speaker 6 (31:20):
There's a great quote, I can't don't die with the
music Stelenia. And the other one is my li is
like hopefully, I mean it's again it's a cliche. I
hope the people I meant, I hope I made things
a little better by being here.

Speaker 5 (31:35):
I hope.

Speaker 6 (31:36):
I hope I had a purpose that continues to have
a purpose. That's my life model.

Speaker 2 (31:40):
Oh, that's good purpose that continues to have a purpose.
You bet, that's fabulous and perfect. To go out on
our little side promotion to thank the sponsors who make
this show possible and we'll be back in two and two.
Peace in and peace out.

Speaker 9 (32:05):
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Speaker 2 (32:16):
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Speaker 9 (32:18):
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Speaker 2 (32:22):
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(34:02):
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AA AM ten fifty FM one on two point three
FM one O six point five and everywhere on iHeartRadio
and Today's guest. We are truly blessed to have one
of the most humble men I've met, and definitely the
most humble man in Hollywood that I've ever met. It's
Anson Williams, best known as Potzi on Happy Days, but

(34:45):
hopefully you will remember him because he has a fabulous
product that is saving lives in an area that we
don't talk about, drowsy driving that takes more lives, as
we heard early before the break on more than medicated
driving and drunk driving. So it is time. You can

(35:06):
get them from Amazon or alert drops dot com. And
I want to have all of you support the work
by buying the product and creating the demand so it
can be taken to places like seven eleven uh, so
that more and more people can use it and save lives.
So how's that for a commercial. I'm just gonna sit

(35:30):
here quiet, No, but it's it is really a great product.
But okay, so I oh, first, I want I just
he just told me. Can we just everybody feed on
the ground, palms up and take a very deep breath in.
We're gonna send some comfort and healing and and energy

(35:51):
to the first responders right now who are taking care
of the fires that are out there threatening many many people.
So just take that deep breath in through the and
releasing in the mouth out of your heart. And I
know they felt that. And just knowing that everything's going
to be okay. And you actually have a second house

(36:12):
in o Hi, which may be in the line of fire,
don't know yet.

Speaker 6 (36:17):
I don't know yet, but it's it's it's in an
outside area, but it seems to be going down that line.

Speaker 5 (36:21):
So I don't know.

Speaker 2 (36:22):
We're just going to know that everything is going to
be gone by the time we are out there. And
now I have to ask, what is it like being
a father to five four or five five? Five girls?
I have two? Okay, you have five? So so you
were talking about cause and effect.

Speaker 6 (36:44):
Yeah, God, God's a woman, and God is gonna get
getting even with me for the seventies. Have fun, kid,
we'll get you later. Thank you, boy? Did I got
me good?

Speaker 5 (36:56):
Five odds?

Speaker 2 (36:58):
What are the odds? I'm asked, how many sisters did
you have?

Speaker 5 (37:02):
One?

Speaker 9 (37:02):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (37:03):
So? How many? A lot of women in your mom
and dad? It is karma?

Speaker 5 (37:09):
Uh huh.

Speaker 2 (37:11):
What did you do in the seventies that you could
talk about?

Speaker 5 (37:14):
I can't talk about it.

Speaker 6 (37:16):
No, no, it was you know, your young guy, you're single,
you're on singing on a television show there, and you
know you're doing concerts and people like you.

Speaker 5 (37:27):
Yeah, well yeah, lots of but I love them. But
my oldest she's a really really does.

Speaker 6 (37:35):
Incredibly well at BuzzFeed, you know, and I don't know
if anyone else. I mean, she gets stopped in the stores.
She's in many areas of Busfeed. She helped make Tasty
that's their site, phenomenal, She created Tasty Junior, she created
all these other platforms from but she also created wine Mom,
which she stars in. Oh, she writes edits and all that.

(37:55):
If you go to BuzzFeed on YouTube, BuzzFeed Hannah Williams,
you'll see her last video over eight million views. I
mean she's like she's happening. She's really really talented.

Speaker 2 (38:06):
Get her on the show.

Speaker 5 (38:07):
Yeah really really, she's very well, you.

Speaker 2 (38:09):
Know, young entrepreneur like your dad.

Speaker 5 (38:12):
Yeah better, she's better.

Speaker 6 (38:14):
And she's doing just phenomenal I mean on camera off camera, and.

Speaker 5 (38:18):
She created this whole career for herself.

Speaker 6 (38:20):
She started in a like almost like an apprentice there
and in a very short amount of time, very short
amount of time.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
Yeah, that's great. And then your other four.

Speaker 6 (38:28):
Daughters nineteen, sixteen, fifteen, and eleven.

Speaker 2 (38:34):
Wow, you you are you are ensconced?

Speaker 6 (38:41):
Yeah, you know right now, I'm the stupidest person on earth.
Yeah sure, yeah, right, yeah, you're in the way there,
Come on there, she goes, I go.

Speaker 5 (38:50):
That's my T shirt? She I know, I know. I said,
I have ten T shirts to my name. Why are
you're taking my stuff? You know?

Speaker 2 (38:58):
Do they watch the show like the reruns?

Speaker 5 (39:01):
They don't. They don't, They don't, really, they don't.

Speaker 2 (39:04):
They really they like embarrassed or no, it's no, it's.

Speaker 5 (39:08):
Not it's not their world, their world, and I like that. Okay, yeah,
there's no there's no special at all.

Speaker 2 (39:17):
No, did you I'm gonna I'm gonna pry a little.
Did you meet your wife on set?

Speaker 11 (39:21):
Or no?

Speaker 5 (39:22):
That was a blind day? Really?

Speaker 9 (39:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (39:24):
How cool is that?

Speaker 4 (39:25):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (39:26):
Yeah, it was geographically desirable one mile away, one.

Speaker 2 (39:29):
Mile away, and and you knew.

Speaker 5 (39:33):
No, it took a while, did it.

Speaker 2 (39:34):
Yeah, yeah, because it was that in the seventies.

Speaker 6 (39:37):
It's not in the seventies, it was it was after
the No, there was a marriage mistake before Oh my fault,
my no, my fault. That was incredibly you know, not
ready for that. But no, so I learned.

Speaker 2 (39:51):
Well, I don't call any it was an education. It
was a chapter in your book of Roman.

Speaker 5 (39:57):
Very expensive education.

Speaker 2 (39:59):
Trust me, we're not going down that one. Oh no,
let me discuss No, no, no, yeah, turn about his fair play.

Speaker 5 (40:11):
You don't learn without challenge. Yeah, what did Richard Branson?
He said? Uh?

Speaker 6 (40:15):
He said why he's so successful? He said, I don't
call it failure. I call it challenges. He says, I
fell off this mountain four times. If I hadn't fallen
off four times, I wouldn't be here because I wouldn't
have the knowledge to stay on top. I wouldn't have
the ability to stay on top. That's yeah, and that's
the truth. Yeah, you got to go through pain to gain,
you really do.

Speaker 2 (40:35):
Absolutely. I call it chiseling, Yeah yeah, because I mean
a sculpture is beautiful. But yeah, if it's not chissels,
it's just a lump up move and.

Speaker 6 (40:45):
You chisel, and you chisel into priorities of life. Yeah
you get it, Yes, hopefully you get it sooner than later.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
Yes, you're preaching to the choir.

Speaker 6 (40:53):
Yeah, you know, hopefully people get it now today because
you get it now today, you'll have a wonderful life. Yeah,
you don't want your last breath, to say, so much
time waste.

Speaker 5 (41:03):
You don't want your last breath.

Speaker 2 (41:04):
I'm so glad. If I died right like after the.

Speaker 5 (41:08):
Show, I'd be really sad, I'd be upset, I'd be
freaking out, thank you.

Speaker 2 (41:12):
But if I have no regrets, I really really have
no regrets. And that's how I want to live every
single day. Yeah, you know that's why I start with
gratitudes and then I read my we we share an
author in common at Ernest Holmes. That's brilliant and just.
It is a choice. Happiness is a choice.

Speaker 4 (41:32):
Yes, yeah, everything is my.

Speaker 2 (41:34):
Addiction to joy and it is It's all about choosing
the better feeling thought.

Speaker 6 (41:40):
Well, we talked about that. You know, every self help
book in the world is three words cause and effect.

Speaker 5 (41:46):
It's all.

Speaker 6 (41:46):
It's really how you think, how you commons, how you walk,
what you eat, what you don't eat.

Speaker 5 (41:53):
Everything is cause and effect, good or bad. It's up
to you.

Speaker 2 (41:55):
Okay, So let's get.

Speaker 6 (41:56):
And that's from Thomas Jefferson. By the way, is it
Thomas Jefferson said it in Differ for Worlds he felt.
He said, you know, he looked inside for God, he
didn't look outside for God. He said, it's in us.
And he basically was saying, good and bad is in us.
We get the feeling of bad, we get the we
know good. You know, listen to yourself. You know this
was Jefferson way back.

Speaker 2 (42:16):
A long time ago, long time ago. So I'm going
to put the moose on the table. We have a
little bit of time. So I did get a message
from someone who wanted you to comment on I know,
even though I say there's no k where, it's no Kardashian,
we're not talking to Kardashian, but we are going to.
I introduced the whole Weinstein thing last week. So you

(42:37):
being in Hollywood, the non existent Hollywood, what, what's your
take on all of this?

Speaker 5 (42:45):
I don't want to get it.

Speaker 4 (42:46):
You know.

Speaker 6 (42:46):
The thing is I find just as much of this
in the in the product world. It's not buyers, it's
not just oh my god. You know, Hollywood gets the
attention and it might bring it. It might be a
little differ from Platform because there's a lot of needy
actresses and there's a lot of needy people like Weinstein.
It seems like a very needy and secure person who

(43:08):
has to well, just to backtrack, someone gave me the
greatest advice ever, and it goes back to it.

Speaker 5 (43:16):
No, Gary didn't.

Speaker 6 (43:17):
Actually it was years before that. But no, you know
we're in it. We're in it, like, yeah, you're in it.
You want the show to be successful, of course, right,
you work hard at this, Right, you're in it.

Speaker 5 (43:26):
You're not of it. It's not who you are.

Speaker 6 (43:30):
You don't need this to be you don't need this.
You're not hiding behind it. No, the Weinstein's they're hiding
behind it. They have to hide behind something.

Speaker 5 (43:38):
You know. And that's so it's just getting a lot
of visibility.

Speaker 6 (43:41):
And it's disgusting, you know, it's disgusting, But it's just
as discussing in so many other areas. However, what's great
about it is it is going to change the fabric.
It is going to change, you know. It's especially as
a leader, as a leader, if you get vulnerable people,
you know, whether it's men, women, whatever, and you take advance,

(44:01):
that is horrendous. You're an animal and that's got to stop,
you know. So I think what's good about it is
it's bringing attention to a big problem in many and
I think it's going to echo to every area of life.
So yeah, I think it's great. I think it's becoming
too much of a soap opera though. I think the
media is.

Speaker 2 (44:18):
The pendulum is swimming all the way.

Speaker 5 (44:20):
They're not yet.

Speaker 6 (44:21):
I mean, you know, this problem, okay, alert drops is
not getting some of the attention it deserves because there's
no space because of these horrendous situations, and every day
they're finding one. I mean, they've got to balance this out.
There's other things to talk about. There's other things that
probably you know, someone died because you're putting another harassment
thing in.

Speaker 5 (44:39):
I mean, we get it, we got it.

Speaker 6 (44:41):
It's becoming it's becoming too much of a money making
you know, topic topic for advertisers, and uh yeah that
I don't like. I like this being brought out. I
like that it's going to stop. And but I think
we get it now. I think we got it.

Speaker 5 (44:58):
You know, I don't think we need to I see beating.

Speaker 2 (45:01):
It, but I hope that we don't stop at just
the superficial end of it. But we look at the
whole valuing total non valuing.

Speaker 6 (45:14):
But that goes But that also goes into character also,
the the individuals that are abused or what wrack, they've got.

Speaker 5 (45:23):
To become stronger too. It's a systems they've got.

Speaker 6 (45:27):
They've got to build themselves enough to say no, I mean,
come on, if you're gonna go to someone's powerful room,
you gotta I mean, don't don't need the part that bad.

Speaker 5 (45:41):
Stop being of it. Don't you don't need it that bad.

Speaker 6 (45:44):
There's gonna be a you're going to a room, there's
gonna be someone's gonna.

Speaker 5 (45:47):
Close the door and lock it. There's gonna that.

Speaker 6 (45:50):
That's you know, don't put yourself, put yourself in this situation.
Have enough insight to yourself and empower self empowerment to
stop it before it's starts. So I think it's a combination, yeah,
I the cause.

Speaker 2 (46:03):
And effecting again Yeah yeah, yeah, it's it's a systemic
issue that requires changes and attention and valuing of diversity
at all levels. Right, yes, so so good yea, And
that is a beautiful place to sort of give you
your last question, which is your last question? I asked

(46:27):
all my guests at the end of every show, who
or what are you grateful for? So what how did
that you've already been really grateful to Gary Marshall, to
you know, a lot of different people that have helped you.

Speaker 6 (46:46):
I'm grateful of the Creator. I'm grateful for giving me
this opportunity in life. I'm grateful for the much bigger
picture of beautiful you know, of the opportunity to be
here with you now. I mean to thank our created
for every opportunity.

Speaker 2 (47:03):
Beautiful well said. I call him my ups man, by
the way, yeah, my universal power source. He delivers every
morning when I pray.

Speaker 6 (47:10):
It's just a quick, quick little piece of information that people,
you know, you know, all the living matter on Earth,
combined with all the living matter in our particular galaxy,
is less than four percent of the universe, and it's
smaller every day because space keeps growing. And by the way,
same Creator, we're not big enough for a poll, and
we can be as close to the all knowing or

(47:31):
far away. So it's a feeling, it's a connection, it's
a frame of mind, it's you know, it's energy and yeah,
so don't let the societal merry ground dictate who you are,
what to do, where to.

Speaker 5 (47:42):
Find your happiness. There's a much bigger player out there.

Speaker 2 (47:45):
Connect to it absolutely, that's very well said, very well said.
And now you know I always find out after I
invite someone on exactly why I invited them. And now
I know that's Anson Williams on my show. Thank you

(48:06):
so much. Already you already have your award. So and
then we're going to go to the car and get
the product. But I just have a couple of things
that I usually end the show with, Welcome to my
balance bar. So if you hang out for a minute,
then well we'll take off after that. But here we go,
Welcome to what's going on? Let me find it in

(48:28):
the script. Here we go. Free tickets. Another Asian Oprah
giveaway Steve Farber's extreme leadership experience to bring in the
new year. She was my guest celebrating July Corse and
the one who interviewed me for the Ink magazine earlier
this year. If you miss that, go on my you
just go to ink dot com and put in doctor
Marissa and you'll hopefully you really enjoyed that.

Speaker 9 (48:53):
I did nothing better on Throwback Thursday than to here
a fabulous interview.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
I'm sure this mic is on.

Speaker 9 (49:09):
A fabulous interview from someone who's still in my life.
I just got to spend a concert with him, a
fundraiser with Doors of Change. He was, as usual fabulous
auctioneer for the Fawns's lunch and I think he brought
in more money than the trip to Hawaii or the

(49:32):
African so far, because he's such a great, passionate, sincere
individual that crossed our paths as Patsy on Happy Days,
but so so much more producer, director and businessman. And

(49:52):
he told me about a new one that I'm not
going to talk about because it's going to be launched
soon and it's going to be facuous. So I hope
you enjoyed that interview with Anton Williams too. Yeah, he's
got a great active social presence as well, so go

(50:13):
check them out. I think on Instagram it's Reelance and Williams,
Anton Williams everywhere else. All right, And as per usual
on throwback Thursdays, what I.

Speaker 2 (50:24):
Do is I go and do the.

Speaker 9 (50:28):
Breakfast at the end so that I make sure you
see the entire interview. And what is the gratitude sandwich? Well,
you take a bite of my gratitude sandwich to start
your day in the most positive way. Top of the
butt is what am I grateful for that's outside of myself.
So I take a quick three sixty or one eighty

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to see what I'm grateful for. And then bottom of
bun is something you do before you go to bed
at night, and that is what do I appreciate about myself?
So the gratitude extents inwards so that you are imploding
with appreciation and gratitude about yourself, instead of looking for

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others to approve of you or worse yet, like you
and literally with your antenna up all day looking for likes,
checking your social media literally for likes.

Speaker 2 (51:26):
That's a horrible way to.

Speaker 9 (51:28):
Live because people are gonna like you one day and
then not like you the other. That's why I call it.
Compliments and criticisms are just icing on your own cake
of life. You build and bake and mix and fold

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in and beat sometimes all the ingredients that make up
your cake. You bake your own cake in life. When
you get criticism, it's just icing, and you get compliments,
it's just icing. So how do you create this solid foundation.

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You do this exercise at night before you go to bed,
and you take a deep breath in through the nose
and release through the mouth of soft shoulder, soft elbows,
soft knees, which is connecting your breath with your physical body.
The second breath, This is a three breath technology that
I created some years back. The second one connection. Second

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one connects with your mind, your mental presence. So take
that deep breath in through the nose and releasing how
the stories of the drama. So before you go to
bed at night, instead of thinking about oh, I didn't
do that, or I forgot to do this, or worse,
I shouldn't have said that, shouldn't have said this, shouldn't

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have done that, you're shooting on your self and or
thinking about all the people that did you wrong. They
shouldn't have said that to me and how could they
do that? And that's a surefireway to not fall asleep
easily or at all and without side effects if you

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can practice this gratitude sandwich and taking a bite of it,
practice this good life habit of falling asleep thinking of
what am I good at?

Speaker 2 (53:33):
What do I like about myself?

Speaker 9 (53:34):
I appreciate that I smile at a little baby and
was able to make her smile back. And I love
when that happens, especially when the parents go, oh she
usually doesn't do that with strangers. So I appreciate that
I can connect with babies and dogs that don't normally

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connect because I have a discipline of enhancing what is happy,
making what is positive, what makes you smile, instead of
complaining and woe is me and sitting on my pity pot,
which is an energy that will not attract babies smileing

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to you guarantee. I appreciate my ability to have faith
during this time where I don't quite understand why all
the plans for the world tour and being able to
fly and race sailboats has been erased from my present

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and future unless there's a way to go back in
time travel to erase the two times that I've had
DVTs discovered in my body and a pulmonary embolism on
the first one. Really, there's no way to test if
new medication works except by taking the risk and going

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up on the plane, which is a little selfish when
my kids are concerned. They don't want to be taking
the risk, and there is not a risk free ability
to test that right now. But I am appreciating my

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faith that allows me to know that it's always this
or better. Everything happens for divine, my divine in best good.
I am not being punished. So I appreciate my faith
certainly to help with adjusting to this new part of
my life, this new chapter of my life being rounded.

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And let's see one more. I appreciate my ability to
laugh often and much.

Speaker 7 (55:55):
That's the definition of success from Ralph although Emerson and
I absolutely embrace that definition so that I can be
happy eighty eight percent.

Speaker 4 (56:08):
Of the time.

Speaker 9 (56:10):
All Right, thanks for joining me for Breakfast. Tune in tomorrow,
I'm straight talk. When we will start with Breakfast again
with Ricky Rebel. He'll be broadcasting live from Texas, so
that'll be fun. And I'm going to end on my
Asian Oprah giveaway. I'm giving away one free pass one

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hundreds of dollars worth of attendance to the Catalina Jazz Festival.
If you go to jazz tracks dot com or just
use my assistant Google and put in Catalina Jazz Festival.
My twin sister, Kikko Matsui is performing October the tenth.
I will be there the following Sunday. I have a

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free pass to that.

Speaker 7 (56:57):
So what you need to do is just go to
my web site doctor Asian Asian.

Speaker 9 (57:02):
OPRAH Online and it will give you a pop up
that perfect will come up and let me share the
screen with you so you can actually find it because
you'll recognize it. And what happens is when you go there,

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it will have a little pop up to the right.
Join my Happy eighty eight family or mamily I should
say mother primary role mammily instead of patriarchal father family.
If you wondered what the heck that was, I love
to play with words. Just put in your email and
I will know today that you are asking for the

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free pass too. Got Alina Jazz Trax Festival on October
the seventh, eighteenth October the eighteenth to get a free pass. Okay,
so that's it for today, Thanks so much for joining
me and throw Back Thursday one of my favorite series

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