Episode #194-“10 Mistakes Growing Up Like MC EIHT”

On the “World’s Most Dangerous Podcast”…This week, we reflect on the everyday challenges of inner-city life —from economic hardship to street politics —with insights inspired by West Coast legends like MC Eiht.

We discuss:
✔ The constant threat of theft and loss ("If you didn’t bolt it down, it wasn’t yours.")
✔ Making do with less ("Government assistance meals and hand-me-down everything.")
✔ Navigating unsolicited ‘guidance’ ("O.G.s mixing wisdom with their own vices.")
✔ The unspoken rules of survival ("What you learned just walking to the store.")

A raw conversation about resilience, community, and the realities that shaped a generation.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
What up, hommie, What up? I got a quick question
for you, man, All right, do you ever think about
mistakes you made growing up that changed the path of
your life? Every second? Every second damn now where you're
gonna think about it for about an hour or now.
That's what we're talking about on this episode of Grumpy

(00:21):
Oh Mixtape. Game kid kicks No good yass Jay Jay
early hand chaps of this bitch. I like to welpop
me all to another episode of Grumpy Old Mixtape. I'm

(00:42):
your host, doub h and I'm here as always with
my partner in crimes allegedly Big tie. You do boom?
Think you think you think you could have been anywhere
in the whole.

Speaker 2 (00:56):
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Speaker 1 (01:06):
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more motherfucker that you're on d fucking with your goddamn boy.
Is another round of applot all that one time? Yes, Yeah,

(01:29):
make sure you go to Apple Music, leaving five star
review and a comment. I don't give what it say.
You can say, I really don't like these motherfuckers. They
cut too much. I don't give a fuss. Just say
something about your goddamn boy to be proud of that.
Hey man, what's good?

Speaker 3 (01:43):
Man ship?

Speaker 1 (01:44):
Ain't nothing good? Ain't nothing at all? You know.

Speaker 3 (01:47):
I started off the week and started started back another
week in the matrix. All right, it's exactly like the
week prior. All right, all right, except for a few details.
But yeah, it's crazy. Hey, I got some I want
talking about though. All right, I was doing some research
for this episode, A little light research, right, you studying,
not really studying. Did you have a really it's really

(02:09):
kind of cheating.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
Did you have a book? No, it's no fucking books
at all. You know, it's not really study. It's really
kind of like cheating, you know, half ass and you know,
skipping steps to get I love it so and and
what do you use when you're trying to skip steps? Chat?
G P T skip all you skip all you do?

Speaker 3 (02:30):
Used to used to go to I think it was
Staples and by that yellow book for the it's like
a you're ting it's a preview of a book, like
like podcast if you dummies, say you get say somebody
want you to read Makebeth?

Speaker 1 (02:46):
What the ever? Cliff notes, Cliff notes, Yes, yes, Cliff notes.
They got to do a lot of ship.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
That strong scene.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
Now, if you're doing any if you do a little
research on top mother, you fuck around and get a
B ninety is and so walking around and talk to
three smart people in the class and read that and
don't funk around to being a group. Sh All you
do is bring your ship to the table and everything
is everything. You're bringing the obvious, they bringing the real ship. So, yeah,
I was doing doing research for this episode or whatever,

(03:20):
and I come to a realization because I really just
started using chat GPT that that motherfucker ain't always right.
I'm I'm here to tell you, bro, So you know,
I send you, I send you the topic. You read them.
You was like that ship wrong, number two wrong, Ship

(03:43):
number five wrong too. I don't know who the fuck
said number seven ship was wrong? Ship was wrong. So
then you know what that made me do is go
back to last week when I was, you know, applying
for a job. Let's be real. I'm being real. I'm
being real with your motherfuckers right now. When I was

(04:04):
applying for a job. You know, they had us do
this case study, and I looked at that ship. I
was like, dog, I don't even this ship is a
fucking lot. Let's fucking use chat GPT, put it in
chat GPT, shout out some shit. I was amazed now
seeing this with these fucking with the shitty I say,
let me go back and look at this ship. I

(04:25):
go back and look at the ship, and I'm like, dag,
that shit is fucking wrong. Ship was wrong. It was
like shitting there wrong and it's obviously wrong. But because
you so amazed at how this fucking chat GBT shit works,
damn it, man, Yeah that ship it was. It is
some wrong ship and obviously obviously fucking wrong shit. I'm like, dude,

(04:49):
it's right, fucking that it's right. So you know, I'm
not blaming chat GPT because it did right ship, But
if you're using chat GPT in your life, like I
mean to get by, you better check that ship. You
gotta gotta And I'm saying, then go back, yes, just
just look at look at the ship, really look at

(05:09):
the ship, and fix what needs to be fixed, because
motherfucker will steal you in the wrong direction, and I
believe that's what happened to me going back. I'm like,
but that's because I'm I haven't been really using it,
like I'm really like trying to use it and master it. Now.
Now I see that ship you got the it's a tool, Yes,

(05:31):
it's a but you're still gonna have to go back
and do some ship. Yes, and I and I actually
did that to like certain parts, but like the main
part you thought that was. I'm like, ship, that's the
bread and butter, that's the ship. That's great. That ship
fucked up. Damn cuz yeah, bru. So I mean I'll
be going back in that plant.

Speaker 3 (05:50):
So damn ch gpt a ship.

Speaker 1 (05:53):
Got because god, man, I wish I would have did
this ship before. But it is what it is. Man,
All I look at that. You know, I asked you
when we did the Mid Life Crisis Crisis ship was saying,
you know, this is not my path, this is my path.
I was asking was it a cop out? You know
what I'm gonna say, this just wasn't my path. It

(06:14):
wasn't meant to be. So I'm gonna go this way.
Is it a cop out? Or is it just what
it is? Divine intervention or whatever the fuck. Maybe I
think so too, because I was looking at a lot
of that ship, and I'm like, what if I get
in there? You know, I leave a job that pays
fucking well to go to another job that I have
no clue about. But it pays well, but I have

(06:35):
no clue about what goes on.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
And then you hate it and you hate your life.
Start smoking.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
No, I'm not smoking weed, but I understand. I understand
what you say that it's a possibility. But with the weeds,
it's a possibility. Ship can get that fucked up. So,
you know, I just look at it. It's like, you
know what, it was not meant to be at the moment. Yeah,
you know, you know, because I had always said, once
I leave the job i'm at now, this ship will

(07:06):
be on fucking fire. That's what I always had said. Well,
so just to keep you on that path, keep right
on that, mother. It's opening up that.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
Job as a blessing for somebody who will actually be
a blessing for you.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
Gotta, I guess you gotta look at it that way.
But once again that those things sound cop outish sometimes, bro, I.

Speaker 3 (07:25):
Don't give a fuck what it sounds like I think
the whole cop out thing is bullshit. I think some
people made that up to make it like quick crying
and all that ship.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
Fuck you, I'm gonna cry. It's my part if I
want you ship. That's what it was, bro, That's what
it was. The vine fucking intervention you connected, tell how
your power and how your power said you know what,
nah brouh, you ain't going there. You are doing that, bro.

(07:54):
You need to shut your ass down and then what
you got over here? Oh man? But yeah, man, but
let's see what else we can get into before we
get into the sh.

Speaker 3 (08:04):
I know you're talking about the computers and ship being
so smart. In my job, they like to say, the
higher ups like to say, well, you know, the computers
so smart that it does this, this, and this.

Speaker 1 (08:18):
The computer is dumb as fuck the computers.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
The computer is smart on a numbers level as far
as what you've programmed into it, yeah, but as far
as any common sense, it has none. If you call
and make a fucking payment to Saturday, but they didn't
tell you that they already sent your payment to the
bank on Friday because it's a weekend, it's not gonna
show immediately. They've just allowed you to make two fucking payments.

(08:42):
You call me, hey, man, y'all hear me, y'all took
two payments.

Speaker 1 (08:47):
Hey, well, ship want my money back?

Speaker 3 (08:50):
It's gonna be tough to see if it's got to
see to see if that ship clear in the bank first,
then we might be can do something because we say
about three week for all that ship. Hey, you want
your money back, bitch time. And that's how smart the
computer is, you know.

Speaker 1 (09:08):
Like you said, it's a tool. It's a tool and
another thing I learned with chat GPT. The more you
funk with it, it gets used to the way you
you used the ship. But but yeah, proof read your ship, bro,
proof read your ship. That's up up. It's like I
was on my ship. I was like, I'm good. I

(09:28):
went back and look at that ship. I'm like, this
motherfucker got a tupac lyric room. Let me look at
this bullshit. I know, man, I know all right, Hey,
just hlarryous breakfast club. You men, you've seen some of
that ship. Man.

Speaker 3 (09:43):
People don't get that ship together. Y'all want to do
in life some bullsh Yes.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
That's what I'm saying. Man. I was looking at that ship,
and I'm like.

Speaker 3 (09:53):
I gotta I got a spot for both of the
motherfuckers at this job, because I can the motherfucker's over there,
and I can be somewhere else.

Speaker 1 (10:02):
I can be at the brother. I'm arguing with you
getting this. Yes, we be where we want to be,
and and you upset because tell me to shut up.
We should let's just go fight, yeah, and then come
on back in and but but but I say, I
say this, yeah on air, what's the other what's the

(10:25):
girl name? I think her named Lauren? I think it's
Lauren something like that. If I'm wrong, la London. If
I'm wrong, fuck it, I'm wrong. But she on the
Breakfast Club and she's not just hilarious Charlamagne or her.
So I saw the episode where she told her to
shut up, and she handled it very professionally. She was

(10:47):
she why let her do her ship? And then she
said all they went off set and they talked about ship.
But then you know when it came back up again,
now you talking about it on air. So yeah, she
was like, yeah, when you told me to shut up,
you fucking crazy because I'm a grown ass woman exactly.

Speaker 3 (11:06):
So now, so that ship. The should have never been this, That's.

Speaker 1 (11:09):
What I'm saying. It's like, y'all in a position where
you're all supposed to be professionals. That ship could be
handled behind the scenes. Y'all go out to dinner, y'all fight, y'all,
do whatever y'all got to do there.

Speaker 3 (11:21):
Really, the ship that they were saying was right, like
it was like, I mean, shit, we were still gonna
be on this show doing doing our ship. This ain't
gonna fake that, but you know, I can just let
you know that this. And then Jess was like, well,
you know, maybe that's just how I come off. I
didn't mean it like that and shit like that. And
I will say it's some motherfuckers. I know that's true

(11:43):
for some people, because a motherfucker like me, I say
ship to some.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
People, and I mean, it's just certain people.

Speaker 3 (11:51):
And they can't take the ship like and it don't
even be no ship, like just be like you know,
real ship.

Speaker 1 (11:58):
Yeah. True. But also it's like, all right, that is true.
But when you take the social media and all and
talk all this ship, you can't do that ship, man,
because for one, you get people in the yes and
for one, for one, you're giving the people that already
don't fuck with you like that AMMO against you because

(12:19):
you look like you crid about some bullshit when that
ship can be handled behind the scenes, you know what, Yeah,
I told you shut up, shut up? Is crazy. Telling
the motherfuckers shut up on fucking national.

Speaker 3 (12:32):
Ain't many right ways you can say shut up, that's it,
that's it, motherfucker shut up.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
But in the middle, but in the middle of fucking
actually talking and you say, look, shut up, that's crazy.
And because there's almost a trigger, Yes, that is a
trigger to some people. That is a and you can
see you can see it. Fuck it. Fucked with the
other chip because when she but you can tell it,
fuck with it, because when she had a chance to
talk of out it live, she was like, look, I'm

(13:02):
a grown ass woman. You know you can't do ship
like that. Man. Then that that brings us to a question,
is that just because of too many women in the
workplace sometimes that's what it looks like. It's like it's
one woman. So you mean to tell me two women
could fuck up? Oho, definitely can, definitely, cause usually you

(13:23):
have that one woman because she needs to beat up woman.
When you bring another woman into a situation, any situation, it's.

Speaker 3 (13:31):
Gonna be different because it's like dudes for the most
I don't mean, you know, got the new dudes, dud dudes.

Speaker 1 (13:39):
For the most part.

Speaker 3 (13:39):
We can have five motherfucking dudes working together. It's no problems,
no problems that three women in that bitch, the fucking
business blows down because women have to be catered to.
Like I was working with two women, all right, so
one woman it's always too hot, ol woman, it's always
too cold.

Speaker 1 (13:59):
Damn.

Speaker 3 (13:59):
So what you want to didn't even have a fucking opinion,
So I didn't. I just I just work. Yeah, I said,
I like it, I put on, I don't give.

Speaker 1 (14:08):
And that's how that's how men operate. And that's what
I was trying to explain the business bonique. When she
talked about her friends, I'm like, look, man, we don't
talk about that ship. We don't give a fuck about
that ship. Yeah you have you have your circles of
some guys who talk about like we don't like, we
don't go around talking about crazy ship. It's like we

(14:30):
just in the moment, I mean, we talked about crazy ship,
but it's just like in the moment type ship it
ain't like, hey, you remember when you did such and such,
motherfucker there was no ship. Don't go on like that.
It's like there's been times where you have had where
I have had beef with motherfuckers and then had to
work around them and the beef is squashed after that,
because it's like, man, all this there's been other times. Now,

(14:52):
don't get it twisted. Like if this motherfucker say the
wrong than I might get. But you know what I'm saying.
When when there's a group of men, like you said,
a group of men work together, ship run front, find us,
throw two women in that bitch and man ship crumbles.

Speaker 3 (15:11):
Yeah, it's like, yeah, damn, it has to be one woman.
It has to be one. That's what it seems. Was
like like my homegirl, she dinna have a baby. She
already got she got a boy and a girl, all right,
so she wanted to have another girl. I'm like, no, man,
and everybody, everybody that you know, talks about the baby.
Baby ain't here. Nothing, didn't know the genders. Everybody like yeah,

(15:34):
he said such, I say, I'm telling you it's a boy.
Because you can't have two girls. I said, Oh, motherfuckers
can have two girls. But I'm saying, somebody protecting you.
I say, because I say, how many how many girls
does your mother have one? And she got like two
or three brothers? All Right, you see what I'm saying.
I say, that's that ship for a reason. You can't

(15:56):
beat three of y'all in the house. You see what
I'm saying. It can't fucking be three of y'all. You're right,
you're right ship man.

Speaker 1 (16:04):
Right, yeah, yeah, because I'm I'm in here right now,
and I got you know, my little daughter, she three.
I got my wife and she can be kind of
the hected you the men in here. You get picked that,
you get assaulted, get talked about. You know, there's a
lot of ship that happened. So when you put it
quit when you got grown ass women, and yeah, that's

(16:26):
a lot. Jess Larry's got on there and she was like,
I don't know how Angela, Angela, you did this ship
for so long. I was like, fuck, man.

Speaker 3 (16:33):
Angela, you did it?

Speaker 1 (16:35):
What was it? That girl Laura went there, No, it
wasn't that. She just saw my she talked my ship,
but out yeah, she was like she was like, motherfuckers,
say ship about me? On the internet. They don't ever,
she said, they don't never take up for me and
money you don't even give. That's what I'm saying. And
that's how media, that's how we approach it. We like,

(16:58):
you're a fun exactly. Hate's gonna hate is that the saying.

Speaker 3 (17:02):
It's like, remember when you was fucked up? Just remember
that ship. Yes, and that's gonna motivate you to get
through all any of that ship. Yes, all love it.
It is fucking hiring us too. It is hiring for
them load of positions. Motherfucker work from four eight.

Speaker 1 (17:20):
They gotta come back and got damn five to eight
or some But they're hiring you. But you you're in
a good place. You got a Arican dish, you get
the talking ship, enjoy the fucking internet.

Speaker 3 (17:32):
Man, stay out in there to keep your business private.

Speaker 1 (17:35):
Especially business business.

Speaker 3 (17:37):
If you want to kill that bitch and then you
should be talking to her in the back office about her.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
I just set up the funeral because I'm gonna kill you.
And then and then you get on, Hey, y'all, this
is just what the god. Damn't be messing with your
co working man. You know you're not. You're fucking with
the bad. Yes, it's like it's like you be messing
with your co workers and just regular jobs. You're fucking
so you're on a you're on a platform like that.
Can't do that. No, you can't do that, man, But

(18:04):
it is what it is. It ain't me speaking of
the internet. Motherfuckings. Big U and the whole crew. Motherfuckers
have been dragged me in off the street for rico.
They getting the rico on they ass.

Speaker 3 (18:17):
I've seen that, I saw something. I put a comment up.
I put a comment up saying, you would think by
now that motherfuckers would get it because they're taking public figures. Yep,
not just rappers, but public figures that are associated with gangs,
and now they're putting all y'all ass under some kind

(18:37):
of fuck rico. Yep, you would thank you no by now.
So if you're gonna do some some ship, if you're
in a gang, you never gang. But it never should
have been. No broadcast shit.

Speaker 1 (18:47):
No, you fucking around, you fucking around, and you getting
in there with Adam twenty two on No Jumper saying
all these gang shit you're fighting up there and shooting.
Come on, man, what happened on crip and you know
who ain't get dragged into this ship, Adam twenty two,

(19:08):
and he liked the ring leader this ship.

Speaker 3 (19:11):
Ship before that, before that, Plad was doing the same thing.
I mean, and they ain't saying that they're wrong because
they're getting their money, but they're setting it's a platform
set up for you to come and basically telling your fob.

Speaker 1 (19:25):
But but this ship, the ship is so crazy with
no jumper, no.

Speaker 3 (19:30):
Jumping, straight gang ship and they only had gang motherfuckers
on it, not only motherfucker. I saw that what the game.
Motherfucker was fucking wilding out the the he was no
fucking was on there, Nick Nick, But Nick Daddy ran
a gang in fucking Oakland or something. It's everything is gang.

Speaker 1 (19:52):
Related and it's and it's like cause Freeway was on
there a matter of fact, showing the way Freeway, like
the not not not rich Freeway. He was on that
and it was like a regular show. It's a regular
show because he ain't affiliated with that ship. But this
mother Adam twenty two gets god damn five gang members.
They blood on script and they talk about like real

(20:16):
intertwining game ship bro Like, yeah, this motherfucker told me
to do this, no, what you think will happen? The
motherfuckers just sitting back taking notes. Dog. I mean, let's
let's be real in reality.

Speaker 3 (20:28):
I should never know how many phase you had to
take the.

Speaker 1 (20:30):
No, bro, No, I should know that that's crazy. I
should never know talking. I should never know you robbed
the motherfucking then the motherfuckers came back and y'all gave
them the money. I should never know that ship, bro.
That shit crazy. And then on top of that, now
they bring up old videos. That's an old video today
that Big You went live. Big You try to act

(20:52):
like he don't be fucking around on the internet, but
he'd be right there too. So Big You went live
right after Nipsey died and he was reading the comments
down there, and motherfucker put up justice for nip So
he reads it they had justice for nip and looked
back at his homeboy and they all start laughing. That
ship don't look good, bro.

Speaker 3 (21:13):
And let me tell you something. You think that the
motherfuers finna tie all kinds.

Speaker 1 (21:16):
Of Yes, we're gonna find out a lot of ship
right now.

Speaker 3 (21:19):
Motherfucker's finish saint to the bottom of ocean like an
anchors typed, yes, because they are finna tie all kinds
of ship.

Speaker 1 (21:27):
Niggas, because it's already been rumored about this ship. It's
already rumored about this ship.

Speaker 3 (21:32):
The rumors fuckroom. It's like nigga, it is Ricos going everywhere,
and my thing is, okay, look you on thug got
a Rico good Georgia, Atlanta, Georgia bloods motherfucker that ain't
got ship on the West coast.

Speaker 1 (21:51):
Nothing nothing, You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
It's a million of those since on the West coast.
It's a milli of cript sets on the West coast,
and they are old linked. That's the thing. You see
what I'm saying. You literally could take that rolling crip
ship and linked a lot of them other crypt gangs
to it and roll they ass into the Rico too.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
It's fucked like you putting the ben.

Speaker 3 (22:14):
It should have been a red flag up like you
know what, ho the fuck up? We got these motherfuckers.

Speaker 1 (22:19):
He's watching us already because you're on fucking TV every
day watching. Yes, they've been watching you before you on
the fucking internet talking. They've been watching it so now
exactly and it's crazy like you got the snitch ship
and all that. These motherfuckers get up there and tell
a whole fucking lick. Yeah, they tell it, and then

(22:42):
you just yourself, every fucking boy, big you, We get
us to do this, and then we going there and
then all the motherfuckers we just robbed come walking in
and he says, give them forty thousand, and we know,
what the fuck? Bro, what the fuck going on? So
a lot of a lot of bullshit's, like you said,
a lot out of this ship finna get tied together.

Speaker 3 (23:01):
Bro Mafia was some secret ship.

Speaker 1 (23:04):
Yep.

Speaker 3 (23:05):
Now you're John gotta do this thing. Teflon done the
dawn and he you know, he had his ship was
this ship was brutal. Yeah, because it's like he can
fuck if you knew or not, because motherfuckers know he
was dead.

Speaker 1 (23:16):
Joe.

Speaker 3 (23:16):
Yes, your ass would wake up dead one morning, if
that's possible.

Speaker 1 (23:21):
But it's like.

Speaker 3 (23:22):
You, if you're doing illegal ship, you probably shouldn't.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
Be shouldn't be doing, Bro, You shouldn't nigga.

Speaker 3 (23:30):
You act yes all the way like you may or
may not run that ship. Yep, you see what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (23:37):
You may or may not run some ship. It's already bad.

Speaker 3 (23:40):
It's already bad that I in South Carolina know that ship.

Speaker 1 (23:43):
What the fuck?

Speaker 3 (23:44):
I have no business knowing that.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
Y'all sit here and you fucking let God damn Adam twenty.

Speaker 3 (23:49):
Two in Trick what for a little change? Dog money
is the root of all even It would make you
sell your dick, and you exact all of it.

Speaker 1 (24:05):
Mother, just telling all kinds of ship man and he's
just sitting in the corner just like this, and they
just be talking. Guess what the man, gang ship's acting
out the door in front of your studio. It's a
whole ass beating going on. That ship fucked up in there. Man,
I never go in that bitch.

Speaker 3 (24:25):
I would have L E. P D sitting outside because
they escorted me there. What the fuck?

Speaker 1 (24:32):
Man?

Speaker 3 (24:33):
Motherfuckers get caught up in bullshit.

Speaker 1 (24:34):
It's like it's like they don't need to get caught ups.

Speaker 3 (24:37):
Be wanting to look like a gangst and ship so bad,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (24:42):
I don't know what it's like.

Speaker 3 (24:43):
It's like, it's like, motherfuckers, it's like, if you done
did all this ship in the street, really you shouldn't
give a fuck because you you that nigga for real.
You got to prove ship too. But I feel these
motherfuckers just they just burst to be known like that
so bad, like funk just doing that. Sh niggas to
know I did this ship?

Speaker 1 (25:01):
Right? Are you crazy?

Speaker 3 (25:04):
Gangster ship? It wasn't This wasn't meant for that. Just
be a fucking rapper. If you want everybody to know
aboudy you and you can lie lying ass rapper, that's it.
That's the way to go, exactly, ship, that's the way
to fucking go.

Speaker 1 (25:18):
That we out here in these streets. Everything you out
here in these motherfucking streets A speaking a freeway. I
won't give a freeway. Shout out man me. I was
taking mail to school, and you know she like listened
to her music and ship. So we listened to listening
to her ship, which is trolls or some crazy ship.

(25:38):
Listen that ship. She was like, father, I want to
I want to hear some different music. What well, I'll
be damn all right. I got I got something for you.
So I put on what we did is wrong, what
we do is wrong with our freeway, jay and mean
I put that on and she went to jam bit.
So I recorded that ship and I posted up on

(26:00):
the pay on the story freeway like that ship, and
he reposted.

Speaker 3 (26:03):
On his padamn shout out the mother fucking freeway.

Speaker 1 (26:06):
That's that's actually the that's the second time that shit happened.
Because I had got I bought mel a well, I
bought me a Compton h skull cabin couldn't fit my
goddamn head, so I gave it to her and she
took a picture and I posted up when NWA won
the award, and all the n w A reposted that ship. Yeah,

(26:28):
except for Cuban Dre of course, but ship ran yellow
do o c. They reposted that ship. Shout out the
motherfucker's paying attention to fucking fans. Bro damn right, man
like oh man, alright, let's go ahead and get in
get into the ship of the show. All right. Speaking
of all this ship that's going on, we're gonna talk

(26:49):
about the ten biggest mistakes made growing up in the hood.

Speaker 3 (26:54):
And before I before I go start on number ten,
I would like to say remember this before we get
into this. Mistakes made in the game never replayed. That
comes from an elite lyricist. Thank the mistakes made in
the game never replayed.

Speaker 1 (27:13):
What I don't know. Fuck it, I said it. Shout
to myself where you said that ship? Shout up to
my goddamnself. I got a hundred down now because I
was talking about some real ship.

Speaker 3 (27:22):
Aparently, I know you said. Nobody else would have said that.

Speaker 1 (27:27):
Fuck it, I said it. I take that. I will
take that.

Speaker 3 (27:31):
Right.

Speaker 1 (27:31):
Let's go through this this, brother, I'm not allowed to
read because motherfucker said I can't read?

Speaker 3 (27:35):
Oh ship?

Speaker 1 (27:36):
Yeah, motherfuckers say my ship was stumbling, So I'm my
ship was stumbling. So I'm gonna let you handle the
red because you know, because you know, you always have
been the reader. Am I stepped outside of my box
that episode. But it's the grubby way. You know. You
might hit their plause over there. Who yeah, I mean

(28:03):
their own buttons, Yes, definitely. I don't give a fuck.
All right, bro, let's get into this. Here we go.
Mistakes made growing up in the growing up in the hood.

Speaker 3 (28:14):
Number ten skipping education.

Speaker 1 (28:16):
All right? Why is why? It's a mistake.

Speaker 3 (28:18):
Education is often undervalue, leading to limited opportunities and perpetuating
cycles of poverty.

Speaker 1 (28:24):
All right, fuck dog? That was nobody stated? That was
very That was stated very intelligent.

Speaker 3 (28:29):
How to fix it, create membership programs and scholarships to
emphasize the importance of education.

Speaker 1 (28:35):
All right, let's let's let's let's dive into that. All right,
education is undervalue by those in the hood. Do you agree?

Speaker 3 (28:44):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (28:45):
All right, all right.

Speaker 3 (28:46):
Because you don't really need a bachelor center crack.

Speaker 1 (28:50):
You know, you know.

Speaker 3 (28:51):
Then it's like, see, okay, boom soy, you know, just hypothetically,
hypothetically speak you you going to school, just started you
a freshman? Damn what four more years of this ship?

Speaker 1 (29:04):
Ship?

Speaker 3 (29:04):
I could but I could go in the hood right now,
man and start off as a mid level. It's like, it's.

Speaker 1 (29:15):
And what fuck you up with?

Speaker 3 (29:16):
That ship?

Speaker 1 (29:17):
Is really your micup? A little bit ship? It's a
little bit there you right, grab like this, No, not
down to the side, yeah, right there there, right there?
Check this out.

Speaker 3 (29:34):
What's fucked up? It's like, it's gets motherbuckers who just
say when you when you graduated, when you okay, when
you got out.

Speaker 1 (29:42):
Of school, back out of high school? A right, cool, you're.

Speaker 3 (29:45):
Out of high school. It's motherfuckers that had degrees and
ship that you knew probably but you probably didn't really
know they had one. And it was never like broadcast
like boom, see Richie got a degree. Yeah, and look
at his house, look at his car. He got a
pocket full of money. Now, on the other hand, on
the selling them rocks, they let you know, old fangled rings, gold,

(30:09):
Cadillac on twenty twos, bad.

Speaker 1 (30:12):
Bitches, all the ones, all the ones that you think
you would like. Also, yes, right now, that's the fucked
up part.

Speaker 3 (30:19):
That is, I think we don't make motherfuckers with education,
with an education like degrees, and you.

Speaker 1 (30:26):
Don't hold them up like we should. You don't hold
them up.

Speaker 3 (30:29):
Like because because they always tied, because they're going to work.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
It's always a joke. Many comedians, many comedians have told
the motherfucker who graduate, you know, he gets a little dinner,
or the motherfuckers come out of prison. Oh yeah, that
motherfucker get a celebration. Is some of the motherfucker whole celebration.
But that's the thing.

Speaker 3 (30:52):
And then it's like like you have athletes and ship
to make it, but you really don't see them like that.
What you see every day that it looks inviting, its
the it's the dope boys, and that that's the It's
like a lot of motherfuckers don't skip education because they
can't do it. They skip education because it looks like
it's an easier way.

Speaker 1 (31:11):
Yeah. Like, I went to school with this nigga.

Speaker 3 (31:14):
This nigga, this nigga, got got it, got you said,
you said. It's like in nineteen eighty nine, nineteen ninety,
I'm sitting in study hall, a motherfucker showed me like
two three thousand dollars.

Speaker 1 (31:26):
That's fucked up.

Speaker 3 (31:27):
We here, yo, here, you're older than me, but we're
in the same grade. Yeah, bro, Yeah, And he wouldn't
get you in the streets.

Speaker 1 (31:36):
He wasn't even like the one. Damn.

Speaker 3 (31:39):
He wasn't the one showing out like it was. Motherfucker's
coming to school with four fanger fucking rings.

Speaker 1 (31:44):
Get fucking dookie rolls, right, you know what I'm saying,
Always fresh and Chris and that's the Tyson ship. Bro.
It's enticing to see that. It's not enticing to see
a motherfucker come on every day with goddamn hands hard
as bricks. It's not it's not.

Speaker 3 (32:01):
It's not enticing to see a motherfucker get up at
the crack of don and go somewhere's its dark.

Speaker 1 (32:05):
It's not that it's not enticing. You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (32:08):
It's not enticing to see a motherfucker read a book.

Speaker 1 (32:11):
No, not at all. Fuck that ship books is trash.
You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (32:16):
Right, It's like it's like the ship that's being promoted
is the fuck up ship. That's why niggas gip education
a lot, all.

Speaker 1 (32:22):
Right, So the fix it part, create mental mentorship program,
that scholarship. That's bullshit. I agree, man, it's bullshit. Nobody
don't give about it. Let's let's how you fix it.

Speaker 3 (32:32):
I don't know because because it can't be fixed, because
I couldn't control something like that. Because I would say,
let's put people on the four in the forefront who
have good jobs and have a great life.

Speaker 1 (32:43):
Nobody cares, exactly, nobody cares, That's what I'm saying, because
it don't look cool. People want to be cool. I
don't want to hear about your job, bro.

Speaker 3 (32:53):
But I think what we should do we should be
taking like boom, take motherfuckers from ten years or twenty
years ago who was just getting it and where are
they now? Yeah, so that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (33:04):
But the but them war stories though them, get them
ghetto superstars though, still don't motherfuckers.

Speaker 3 (33:11):
Be like But then I whant I take you to
meet them? Do you really want to be this motherfucker
or not?

Speaker 1 (33:17):
But motherfucker's be like, ship, I ain't gonna be that motherfucker.
I'm better than.

Speaker 3 (33:22):
One percent of niggas made it, made it through all
that bullshit, unscathed, unscathed. And then I'm like, nigga, what
if you go to jail? Are you that nigga?

Speaker 1 (33:32):
Exactly? Are you? Are you that bitch? You can be
one of the other out of the motherfuckers, be that
bit exactly.

Speaker 3 (33:38):
See, that's what I'm saying that it is so I
understand this ship go, that's it's it's levels. There's no consequence.
We don't understand consequences.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
And some ship like that it because shit be moving
so fast and it'd be good ship. God damn what
I want to man be good ship?

Speaker 3 (33:56):
The school man school. But yeah, skipping education is definitely one.
Do you want to read this, Yeah, let's do it, okay,
And this is the tupac lyric that goes along with that.
I know my mama wished she had she got a diploma.
So instead of me working at Burger king, I'd be
a doctor, Tupac.

Speaker 1 (34:15):
Keep your head up and that is what is wrong.
And that ship was I don't even think I put
it in there for fucking short. Wasn't and keep your
head up. It definitely wasn't. But you know that's that's when,
this is when we found out chat GPT full of ship.
So we are going to read these Tupac lyrics. Some
may be right, but a lot of them are wrong, wrong,
but they do relate, They do relate to the situation.

(34:39):
I don't know TBT made some of this ship up.

Speaker 3 (34:44):
I do too, like they made one of them Tupac.

Speaker 1 (34:47):
Yeah, I think it's like we're gonna say it like Tupac.

Speaker 3 (34:50):
Would say it. So how would I see no changes?
All I see is racist faces misplay? Oh that was
a real, real lyric. All right, number nine, brother, let's
go nomber nine. Falling into preer, falling into peer pressure.
Why it's some mistake. Peer pressure can lead to bad
decisions like joining gangs and committing crimes and then eventually
getting caught up in ricos.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
How to fix it?

Speaker 3 (35:12):
Build self self confidence through positive role models and community programs.

Speaker 1 (35:17):
All right, peer pressure, we just talked about peer pressure.
Peer pressure kind of went is a bitch is a bitch?
You know. I'm I have never really been, you know,
caught up in peer pressure. I'm I'm like a motherfucker
who like moved to my own ship that was good
to peer pressure is fucked up and that and that's

(35:39):
the and that's the thing, especially with your young ones.
You got to instill that ship in them, because that
peer pressure can get you fucked up so many different ways.
Caught up in fucking gangs and crime and ship, caught
up with getting pregnant, caught up with everything. It ain't bad,
Everything ain't bad.

Speaker 3 (35:58):
I think we need peer pressure to good ship.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
You can't feel you can't motherfuckers you know college, your
motherfuck you better go to college. Nigga ship all the bullshit.
Nobody don't want to know. Man. Nobody says that it's
fucked up.

Speaker 3 (36:12):
Man.

Speaker 1 (36:12):
So the how to fix apart build self confidence through
positive role models and community program I think that's right. Yeah,
I feel, I feel that it's good.

Speaker 3 (36:19):
You got I really talked about like positive role models
even though you don't see them, though you don't only.

Speaker 1 (36:26):
Motherfucker, I gotta come from the home. You gotta start from.
If you it's first, you got to have a home
that you can respect. Yeah, if you don't respect your parents,
it's fucked up already. Man, spect y'all coked that bitches.
You know what I'm saying me. If you're home fucked up,
you kind of fucked already. But you don't even know
what I'm doing. You got eight goddamn chilling it's all
of them bitches, the same age, and all of us

(36:47):
fuck up.

Speaker 3 (36:49):
No, I'm telling you you you don't even be home, pops.

Speaker 1 (36:53):
How the fuck you gonna tell me what to do?
Every day you got?

Speaker 3 (36:55):
They say, you got three other families.

Speaker 1 (36:56):
I ain't seen you, seen you in three goddamn years
going on. No, man, you're gonna tell me something, man, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (37:05):
And the part is, you know, the only motherfucker probably
that can tell you something outside of the dope boys,
an athlete who's made it.

Speaker 1 (37:16):
That's probably the only motherfucker. And they have to really
made it though, yes, but really, really, when the motherfuckers come,
they hold the camp because goddamn three hundred and eighty dollars, well,
not all of them, not all of them. All right,
it's free wents from where I'm from. You just go
down there and get in the motherfucker.

Speaker 3 (37:32):
You know what I'm saying. They can't be.

Speaker 1 (37:34):
It can't be. They're not like, they're not accessible like
the dope boys. And no boys don't got that. Dope
boys rather got to go training. They gotta go to
free camp.

Speaker 3 (37:41):
You know what I'm saying, drinking and getting sucked up
all day selling that crack crack damn man.

Speaker 1 (37:48):
But yeah, but that is that is a way to
fix it. So yeah, and then.

Speaker 3 (37:53):
The tupot lyrics that goes along with that is I
see no changes. All I see is racist face and
misplated hate makes makes disgrace the races.

Speaker 1 (38:00):
Is that really? No, No, it don't go with that.

Speaker 3 (38:02):
Ship but it changes is a good song?

Speaker 1 (38:05):
Changes a good song. You found a lot of ship
and changed.

Speaker 3 (38:07):
Changes is a good song. But I don't think is
that even changes?

Speaker 1 (38:11):
Is that changes?

Speaker 3 (38:13):
I see no changes? All I see is racist faces.

Speaker 1 (38:16):
Changed cool all right?

Speaker 3 (38:18):
Next eight, Number eight Glorifying street life. Why It's a mistake.
Romanticizing the streets often leads to violence and conspiration of death.

Speaker 1 (38:30):
How to fix it?

Speaker 3 (38:31):
Share real stories of consequences of street life and highlight
success stories outside of it.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
That's what you was just talking about. You just said,
get one of the motherfuckers, take them the little boat,
use the slain that crack back in the day. Little
bow kind of fucked up right now, oh little both
little fucked up. The boat just started working.

Speaker 3 (38:50):
I ain't got none of that money or caused nothing.
But you know what, Also, it's a it's a highlights
success stories outside and share stories of consequences streetlight. Even
like us, we should be talking motherfuckers like boom Ship,
I ain't gonna even lie what was out there a
little bit.

Speaker 1 (39:10):
Now, yeah, I god, damn hubbles, goddamn.

Speaker 3 (39:17):
I mean, but you the reason I say that because
you need to let them know boom I did that,
Bullship and it was stupid. And then because they believe you,
because why you set up a home that they respect them.

Speaker 1 (39:28):
And I'm saying, I got, I got a son I
got so you know, he's in the place that he
can't come home for a little while. He's in that place.
And I went through that because it's like you, you
sit here, you give them what you can give them.
You know, I've told him, he yeah, your box was
out there a little bit, you know, but you know

(39:49):
the ship is fucked up. This happened. You see, you
not good at it. You need to didn't stop, so
then you know it's it's fucked up. But at some
point you gotta do what you can to try to save,
you know, try to fix the situation. So at that
point I started like it was like, all right, if

(40:10):
you're gonna do this, yeah damn. I mean, if you're
not stopping, you're not stopping, but you're sucking up. If
you don't do this, you gotta move this way. It's
like it's like you get to the point where you
try everything, you try everything. It's like, yeah, it was.
It was crazy because you know, I gave him like, look, man,
you can't do this, blah, you know, you gotta do this.
But when I see you not changing, and this is

(40:33):
what Look, that's how you gotta do. Cut your motherfucking head,
tucky fucking shirt is you know you gotta move like
this is this how you And I'm just speaking from
the experience. I know, did I do right? You did
what you thought was right. That's you can do. I
mean I can't say if it was right or now
who is taking you right? You're right, But it's like

(40:56):
you when he get drastic, man.

Speaker 3 (40:58):
You it's I think when like you never had a
chance for him to really grow up in your house.
That's you see what I'm saying. I think if he
would have grew up in your house, it would have
been a totally different thing.

Speaker 1 (41:13):
You know, that's at all.

Speaker 3 (41:16):
You know what I mean, Because that it's a lot
of kids like, yeah, it's just like ship though you
you over here over there though, you know what I'm saying.
You know the going on over there, and then then
here come your friends.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
Right, they're doing this, man, we should do this. Let's
do it. Let's do it. It's like that. It's like
all this ship definitely ties together with the whole the streets.
All that ship is right, that's right, right.

Speaker 3 (41:44):
And and once again, let's let's go to the Tupac reference.

Speaker 1 (41:47):
Let's go.

Speaker 3 (41:48):
I'm trapped inside the yellow and I ain't proud. I'm
just a black man with a mind on cloud nine.
Tupac never said that ship they said that was in
Tupac trapped. Tupac never said.

Speaker 1 (42:01):
But that's a good one. That's a little it does
go with it. I mean, that's probably the first, it
goes with it. I don't know who said it to GPT.

Speaker 3 (42:14):
Mother fucker, man, what the ship you go through school
is full of ship?

Speaker 1 (42:22):
It is that one of the motherfuckers that if they
can't they can't finance, make this ship up and then
be acting like it's right man, You like, hell yeah,
I used to doing school that ship right to be like,
what the fuck is this? You're looking like the motherfuckers
when they looked at my goddamn case study.

Speaker 3 (42:40):
What the fuck is did this motherfucker is an idiot?

Speaker 1 (42:44):
No, they talked so bad about your bro.

Speaker 3 (42:46):
Feel sorry your marriage for you.

Speaker 1 (42:49):
Let's move on right.

Speaker 3 (42:51):
Seven not building not building financial literacy?

Speaker 1 (42:54):
All right? Why is a mistake?

Speaker 3 (42:56):
Lack of financial knowledge needs to poor money management and
a generational poverty.

Speaker 1 (43:01):
That's fucked up. How to fix generational poverty.

Speaker 3 (43:08):
Introduce financial literacy programs in schools and communities. I think, yes, yeah,
that's definitely one thing, because think about it. What you
learned about real life money money ship in school? What
economics class taught you? Because I remember a fucking thing
from economics was hard at fuck and it had nothing.

Speaker 1 (43:27):
Real that I only took home economics. I cooked you never.
I ain't took no real economics, bro.

Speaker 3 (43:34):
Don't worry it was you did better learn how to
cook for yourself. You know how to make yourself a meal,
cook you some eggs or something.

Speaker 1 (43:43):
Right. And the thing is, even with all this ship,
you need a motherfucker to explain this ship how you
can understand it, bro Y and that and that, and
that's the thing. That's why no shout out to goddamn
rich right, d J right, we get him in there.
We need to get him in here again. But when
we get him on here, he talks about the ship
where we can understand. And that's what fucking people need.

(44:06):
That's what people we need.

Speaker 3 (44:08):
And you know what we really need even above that
is for the kids to learn this ship, because that's
where the is gonna make a change at because learn the.

Speaker 1 (44:16):
Motherfuckers that ship. They even suck it up. Shout out
a little man, shout a little man. I mean you
know he got some ship. Yeah. I shot him out, man,
fuck it, it is what it is. But shot him
out because he he does do that program where he's
trying to teach the children about financial literacy credit and
he literally brings people about ship.

Speaker 3 (44:37):
Yeah, he's not saying he did about the ship like that.
He may know some, but he's bringing in people who
do that ship shout out to talk to kids.

Speaker 1 (44:44):
That is some good ship because I think started like
ship man, that's why all this ship start from children.
But when their children, this is how it is. And
you can't sugarcoat ship because you get you get out
into the world, you naive of the bullshit that going
and you get caught up in the ship. Anyway, you
can't shit and coat the ship. You gotta you gotta

(45:05):
tell them to look, this is what it is. This
is how you need to move. This is what money
is about. You need to because if I knew knowing
any of that ship growing up as far as money,
I'd be in a different spot. It's like I'm just
getting to a point like shit, I'm damn near fifty
and now it's when now is when I know. Now
it's when I can bounce sh it around and I

(45:26):
know how to move money and do this ship. Dog,
I've been out of work since fucking June. Bro I
ain't had a fucking physical check since December. So it's
like by me knowing a little bit about my money,
I was able to bounce ship here, do ship this
while there's money making money. I can pull out from
here put this back now is making money over it?
You know, ship like that. You gotta know about that ship, man,

(45:48):
And it's not hard to know. It's not hard.

Speaker 3 (45:50):
It's just something you was young, worrying about how to
how to make this goddamn weed bag And yeah, it's
a while.

Speaker 1 (45:58):
I invented a bag.

Speaker 3 (45:59):
You legend, and this zip like really probably owe your check, bro,
and we never get in the right position.

Speaker 1 (46:06):
I was talking about the ship one time and the
motherfucker was like, wait a minute, I bought that ship
from you because he remembered the bag allegedly alleged. That's
crazy shit, that's crazy anyway, all right, what what fake? Okay?

Speaker 3 (46:22):
I was gonna say, it's just verifying what you said.
I worked with a girl she's twenty three, and she
said she said it before. She said, I'm just trying
to figure out what the fuck My parents didn't never
tell me all this shit about being grown.

Speaker 1 (46:35):
Because they didn't no bills and ship, oh like this ship.

Speaker 3 (46:41):
Like motherfucker looking at me like nigga got to wait
the cot.

Speaker 1 (46:44):
Not knowing about Bill's goddamnit.

Speaker 3 (46:46):
And then I don't I say, I say, look, you
know what I'm saying with me. It goes back to
number eight, nine and.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
Ten, all of me your mother. God damn, you're right, bro.

Speaker 3 (47:03):
I said, if I would have never dove dev in
that part of ship, I would you never would have known.

Speaker 1 (47:08):
Me, and it never would have known Also, like like
it said, it's generational, bro. Nobody talked them motherfuckers about
that ship.

Speaker 3 (47:16):
And then you got to understand. Like I was talking
to Jamaine and I was telling him, I said, you
got to understand, like our parents, they damned come off
farms like they they're there their people, Damn it came
out the fields. It's like they were happy to be
in the position they were, and they were just content
on making our life.

Speaker 1 (47:32):
Better, right, like you know what I had to do.

Speaker 3 (47:35):
They gonna be like this though, And that's it, Like
nobody thought not damn when they get grown up.

Speaker 1 (47:40):
But and and and it's all it's just that's just
how it is. It's not it's like that. Don't mean
you're bad parent. No, I don't mean none of that
was good, But that's just how it is. Nobody had
that knowledge. Yeah, man, nobody sit. Back in my day,
credit credit was bad.

Speaker 3 (47:56):
It was talk.

Speaker 1 (47:57):
Credit was like like growing up credit. But yeah, all
that ship was bad. Yeah, that's right, that it was bad.
That's right. But it is what it is. Like what
fake podcast Okay, okay.

Speaker 3 (48:10):
Check g B T Pop says, I'm making money so
I'm chasing dreams, but I'm still a thug, so I'm
dodging schemes.

Speaker 1 (48:17):
And that's TUPAC thugs match. I guess he said that.

Speaker 3 (48:20):
I don't think. I think I looked that up to
and that's a lot number six.

Speaker 1 (48:26):
Ignoring mental health.

Speaker 3 (48:28):
That's bad. That's real bad And okay, I ain't gonna
talk about it yet. But why it is a mistake
trauma from the hood from the Trauma from the hood
often goes on address, leading to cycles of pain and violence.
How to fix it, normalize therapy, and provide accessible mental
health resources.

Speaker 1 (48:43):
Yes, now, yes, with that ship, that is so true.

Speaker 3 (48:47):
And our problem is that we don't want motherfuckers to
think we're crazy. You don't want nobody know, oh no,
never saw even if you even if you you crazy,
can't be so. But so with that ship, I can
say I got a problem. Yeah, I need to be
talking to somebody.

Speaker 1 (49:05):
Ain't nobody going there talking, No goddamnbody at the mental
health Department of Mental Health. Somebody ain't see me up there?
You taking your son ride a little bus? See it's
fucked up. Bro. Let me tell you something.

Speaker 3 (49:16):
That whole little bus ship that's fucked up. Why the
fuck are we calling these casts especial ed. It's fucked up.
It's like y'all are making the ship fucked up.

Speaker 1 (49:25):
And ship we don't help. We don't help it because
i'm driving. I'm driving of the school. She see one
of them little bus like school bus. I want to
ride a school but not that one. You don't want
to ride that mother bus. It's fucked up, don't It
is what it is.

Speaker 3 (49:43):
But I just feel and I understand that, you know,
I understand. That's how it got to be as far
as like, okay, boom is different transportation for different ones
because some kids have more of an issue than other kids.

Speaker 1 (49:54):
Say what it is, motherfucker on they might go crazy
and they need to be together, see that, but that's
gonna fuck up. But that's what it is.

Speaker 3 (50:03):
Crazy other crazy motherfucker.

Speaker 1 (50:04):
That's what it is. That up. It ain't set up
right because it's.

Speaker 3 (50:08):
Like, say, your leg fucked though you besides that, besides
that loop you got you straight?

Speaker 1 (50:14):
Yeah, you bruggler. But you over here the way you're
over here with the ride on the busy, mother yell
every six exactly, motherfucker big and get in the middle
of the bus and making shape.

Speaker 3 (50:26):
Yeah, real life ship.

Speaker 1 (50:30):
I know, I know I'm saying, like I understand it,
but I think I think it could be a better
way to present this ship. You know what I'm saying,
because we can't look at them like all right, this
is fucked up.

Speaker 3 (50:41):
No, they need help, and it ain't nothing wrong with
getting help. But see, the way that we're set up
is the way the way, and look fucked up it
is because we ain't never supposed to need help.

Speaker 1 (50:51):
You're soft. You're crying.

Speaker 3 (50:52):
While you're crying, I mean sometimes you crying, motherfucker with
the crime. Sometimes you got to let the motherfucker know.
Look now, hey, you can't cry all the time.

Speaker 1 (51:01):
I can't cry all the time. If because but I'm
saying you crying all the time instead of being you,
you must you might need to talk. So maybe you
got inside you fucking get out, and.

Speaker 3 (51:12):
It's definitely a time to cry, it's definitely. But what
I'm saying, like, if you, if you right now you're
riding and you god damn tired, go flat, you're gonna
just stop and cry. You're gonna get your ass side
and try to fix the back. Then time you gotta
fucking go pick up man.

Speaker 1 (51:26):
But you can't fuck you can't fuck around and cry
because you don let all kinds of ship build up
in you and you're not talking to nobody a bout
some ship. That's that's the message, and that's what I'm
talking about. It is like this is like like prior episode,
I told you I talked to a therapist like you.
You literally told me to my face it you crazy
over this, motherfucker you and you meant because I had

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no clue.

Speaker 3 (51:51):
I had no clue, no signs.

Speaker 1 (51:54):
Motherfucker. You see what I'm saying. Yeah, but it ain't
even about being a crazy it's like ship. You just laughing,
I got you laughing, But I'm serious about some ship. Bro.
You just got to get out. You got to get out,
and you gotta talk to a motherfucker who's not gonna
judge you. Not gonna give you advice. Who's just gonna

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fucking sit there and listen and evaluate what the fuck
got going.

Speaker 3 (52:20):
Motherfuckers really don't understand that the greatness of that. But
I can go talk to a motherfucker you don't know,
nobody knows. They're never gonna talk to this ship with nobody.
It's never gonna get back. You know what I'm saying.
You can say whatever the fuck you want to. You
know how important that is.

Speaker 1 (52:35):
Sometimes You're right, That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying, bro.

Speaker 3 (52:39):
And also look at it like this, like as a parent, Yeah, say,
male going through some ship just like you, fuck man ship,
let me just let's go see what's going on on
the first of all, won't won't take that first step
going on. And if they take that first step to
see what's going on, they say, yeah, but she she
probably needs a therapist, just needs to talk to somebody

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about this issue, and we probably can't help her now.
So I got to take it down here though, to
the mental health department.

Speaker 1 (53:07):
Ship A right, and that's we don't want motherfuckers to
think our kids crazy. That's crazy. And and and I
will say, like, right, now in in like our generation,
we do take that ship a little more serious. Yeah,
you're taking that ship serious, cause that ship a wearing it.
Children be fucked up. You're talking about motherfuckers like in

(53:28):
the hood. Children be fucked up. Grown people be fucked up.
You got here's the problem.

Speaker 3 (53:33):
Grown people be fucked up and they ain't getting no
damn here. Yes, so they feel like their kids can
handle it too, nor mo get some.

Speaker 1 (53:38):
Help because normalized therapy normalized normal That's why. That's why
I'm not allowed to read normalized therapy by accessible mental
health resource. I like that one. That's a good that's
a good one. But okay, what what struggle? Pop got theugg.

Speaker 3 (53:56):
Say, I'm having nightmares, homie, I'm stressed out. I'm trying
to make it through the strugg but I'm burnt out.
I don't think I know. I can't say that so
many but anyway, I get that though. That's that's good.
Whatever it is.

Speaker 1 (54:09):
GBT trying to be a rapper, Yeah, whatever, fuck it,
that's a good one. Next, Okay, damn O. This ship
kind of similar associated with the wrong crowd. Another one? Yeah, man,
why is some mistake?

Speaker 3 (54:19):
Bad company can lead to criminal criminal activity or dangerous
situations how to fix. Encourage you to seek out positive
influence in community groups.

Speaker 1 (54:28):
Yeah right, niggas. Don't want that, niggas because it ain't
what's exciting. It's like, it's like.

Speaker 3 (54:36):
It's kind of all right, I say, okay, yeah, encourage
the youth to seek out positive influences. How the funk
that is? But I say, keep kids and ship. Yeah,
so I know when I was growing up, I had
to do something. So you got to play something as
I didn't do something. And when I got old enough
to work, you can either work or place sports, but

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you don't do something to do something besides just go
to school. So see that right, they're kind of set
you up to be around more.

Speaker 1 (55:03):
Of a positive But what happened to you?

Speaker 3 (55:08):
Oh the crackyirl But it's like you know here, I
mean the motherfuckers.

Speaker 1 (55:13):
Up was like that's what exactly? What all that ship means? Nothing? Bro?

Speaker 3 (55:21):
Yes, No, it does mean something. Because the thing is,
if I wouldn't have did that and this ship and
I was hanging with the motherfuckers up the street, it
would have been even worse up the street, it would
have been even worse.

Speaker 1 (55:32):
So selling I did selling a little crack.

Speaker 3 (55:37):
It's different from selling a lot of Yeah, yes, different.

Speaker 1 (55:43):
Alleged God damn it, yeah yeah, it's fucked up, all right?
What what what Struggle Park got to say about this one?

Speaker 3 (55:49):
Struggle Punk says, and oh I fixed this one, you did.
They had part of it right and this is from
and they had the song wrong. I think too. But
Tubac said, I hung around with the thugs and even
though they sold drugs, they showed their young brother.

Speaker 1 (56:06):
That's it. That's too. That's what happens is like like
we talked about family. You ain't got no father at home.
Your mother gotta work fucking two three jobs and keep
ship going. You outside and all is the motherfuckers.

Speaker 3 (56:21):
On the person outside people is the niggas fucking around.
That's it them and they buying you ship ye with
you man?

Speaker 1 (56:29):
You want some of this chicken? Come on, get some
of this guy. You want a bill? This is junking,
that's it, that's it. But that's that's true car.

Speaker 3 (56:37):
And then then the big thing about that is you're
part of something, yes, and that's that's that's it right there,
that's it all right. Number four not planning for the future,
why it is some mistake. Living day to day without
long term goals limits.

Speaker 1 (56:50):
Personal growth and success. That is facts. How to fix it?

Speaker 3 (56:54):
Teach goal setting and provide resources for career planning with that?
That can't they couldn't?

Speaker 1 (57:00):
That no better? Yeah? Fun with that? The Tupac lyric
to go with that. It's good.

Speaker 3 (57:06):
Okay, I'm trying to make a dollar out of fifteen cents.
It's hard to be legit and still pay the rent.
Now that was not on changes though it was not
on changing, but it was Tupac. It was like straight
balling or something.

Speaker 1 (57:17):
It's hard to be legit still pay the rent.

Speaker 3 (57:19):
Oh yeah, I'm trying to find my friends, but they're yeah,
all they go together to I think, fuck it.

Speaker 1 (57:26):
That's a good but yeah, living living day to day
without long term girl goals, yeah, motherfuckers need to set goals.
It's like that ship needs to start young, like like
real just little shit, little ship with your like with
your little one, just a little ship. What you're trying
to do by this, well, I'm trying to do ship.

Speaker 3 (57:43):
That ship need to go on and then then be
on the ass like hey, you you said now you
was gonna color that page today you're gonna you got.

Speaker 1 (57:51):
You need to get it done. Yeah, you need to
do that. All right, let's go all right.

Speaker 3 (57:55):
Number three, Damn, engaging in violence.

Speaker 1 (57:58):
That's tough.

Speaker 3 (57:58):
Why is a mistake perpetuate cycles of pain, loss, and incarceration?

Speaker 1 (58:03):
Damn? How to fix it?

Speaker 3 (58:04):
Promote conflict resolution programs and community peace initiatives.

Speaker 1 (58:09):
I mean that sounds. That sounds I mean, engaging in
violence is a lot well, it's it's some motherfuckers. That's
all they do. That's their ship. They engage in violence.
It is a lot st the need to stop that dangerous,
the dangerous. But yeah, it's like, yeah, motherfucker's engage in violence,

(58:31):
bro all the time. It's people out there. That's all
they do. That's all they do. They're looking for another
just like the motherfucker motherfuckers go around and they whole
ship is just s ship to bitch you out. Damn
and you people like that, bro, people like that. So
promote conflict resolution programs. I mean that sound good. I

(58:53):
mean I like that sounds.

Speaker 3 (58:56):
I think when we say it like that, when we
say promote comp the resolution program I think that way
it's kind of fucked up. Just sounded like some suck ship.
But for instance, I know the situation happened at the school.
A girl had got you know, was in conflict with
another girl and she was like, yeah, I'm just stabbing

(59:20):
this bitch on Tuesday. And I was like, maybe you
might I want to stab them. She did, and she
and she it was a time. It's a serious goal.
Time goals. Yeah, time goals.

Speaker 1 (59:32):
Dog.

Speaker 3 (59:32):
It's like they got the money to fix this ship.
Tuesday the bitch stabbed, so they did, like, you know,
some kind of peer mediation and fixed it because it
was some boys. It was basically what happened was it's
another girl coming this situation and she's trying to start
shipped between them.

Speaker 1 (59:48):
Fucking girls, fucking girls. Your examples that reached back all
the way to the conflict resolution just hilarious. And the girl,
the woman on that ship. Yes, y'all need this now. Yeah,
but that's true, that's true.

Speaker 3 (01:00:05):
Let's go on, No, hold on, hold on, no, we
got got to say the park livert I'm tired. I'm
tired of being poor and even worse some black. My
stomach hurts, so I'm looking for a purse to snatch.

Speaker 1 (01:00:16):
Didn't say that and changes I don't know if he
said that.

Speaker 3 (01:00:19):
He did say said change changes.

Speaker 1 (01:00:21):
Yea, that's what I'm saying. He definitely said that though,
all right, but he has nothing to do with No. No,
I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:00:29):
The fucking snatching persons where they fucking crack heads, because
it's crazy, give me the ship. Let go the thought
of that. Number two. Not valuing family and community. That's
the main thing. That is why is some mistake disregarding
family and community ties leads to isolation and lack of support.

(01:00:51):
Exactly how to fix it? Strengthen family bonds and community networks.
Three events and outreach.

Speaker 1 (01:00:56):
Yes, yes, this depth their family family. Yes, yes, that
that is big. Is big in our community. Respecting your
parents and all this ship, you know, definitely definitely big
in our community. Especially like single mothers. It's hard for
them because, like I said, at the end of the day,
you still got to work. You got to manage all

(01:01:17):
these personalities. If you have more than one child, you
have no help you're looking for.

Speaker 3 (01:01:21):
You may not you may not be there a lot
because you're working. Yes, other people have to watch them,
and they get to a certain age of damnitarre watching itself.

Speaker 1 (01:01:28):
Now now now I'm not saying you do have them
a one single mothers who not who handle ship and
their child respects the way shit going and has But
you also have the single mothers who don't give a
fuck and continue to have these children who also have
single mothers, And it's just a cycle of fucking bullshit.
It's out there.

Speaker 3 (01:01:49):
And then if you got ones that's really out there
busting ass trying to keep this ship together. But they
can stop these motherfuckers from getting there in the stry
right boy, I know, right, you can do sometimes.

Speaker 1 (01:01:59):
So how would you strengthen the family bond? That's tough.

Speaker 3 (01:02:04):
I mean it's tough because really they fucking destroyed the
family bond.

Speaker 1 (01:02:08):
The family don't want the family. It's let me say,
the powers that be, thank you do not want the
family structure in our community.

Speaker 3 (01:02:17):
That's why you got because it's strong.

Speaker 1 (01:02:19):
Yes, that's why you got some motherfuckers who pay twenty
five cent in rent and if they have a man
in the house, that rent goes up to seven hundred
fucking dollars. That's right.

Speaker 3 (01:02:29):
So but they but and then you look at like
sh fuck that nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:02:32):
What hide these mother hiding motherfuckers come over sometimes because
our our family structure when we have it is so strong,
very strong, that ship cannot be finished. Yes, yeah, it is.
So that's why they up.

Speaker 3 (01:02:49):
It's like when you're paying money to when you're paying
money to fuck up something.

Speaker 1 (01:02:53):
You know, you know what I'm saying, all right, what
do struggle to say about this?

Speaker 3 (01:02:57):
Pour out some looking? And I remember this because through
the drummer, I can always depend on my fam Now
that is a fucking up line, because let me tell
you what, Okay, and may say this pour some looking.
I remember this because through the drum I can always
depend on my mama. He did say something like that
and dear mama. But yeah, once again it's damn damn
sure ain't and I ain't managed that and it ain't

(01:03:20):
in that it don't even talk about that ship.

Speaker 1 (01:03:22):
No, come on, but the lyric fuck it but number
one number one believing there's no way out Why some
mistake the mindset, limits ambition and perpetuate cycles of poverty
and despair. How to fix it?

Speaker 3 (01:03:36):
Provide mentorship, resources and success stories to inspire hope and action.

Speaker 1 (01:03:40):
Yes, that's true, that's true. It's like the basically basically
to help all these problems as a fucking community aspect
to it. Yeah, motherfucker's got to be there. Yeah, and
that and that's the whole thing. You fuckers have to
be there because once again, your mind will have you
fucked up in these streets.

Speaker 3 (01:03:58):
But it's like it's so deep, because if you're at
the point where you believe there's no way out for
you in a bad spot, that's like you've hit a
lot of bad bumps.

Speaker 1 (01:04:07):
Yes, but motherfuckers believe that even when they're not in
a situation where they have to think that way.

Speaker 3 (01:04:13):
But you know what me, even when it's no way out,
it's always away.

Speaker 1 (01:04:18):
Yeah, I don't give a fuck. You know it's over
like man, it's over, man away, ain't no mother, no man.

Speaker 3 (01:04:25):
Hold on, listen, let's just sit down and think though.

Speaker 1 (01:04:27):
You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:04:29):
And then in my mind, like I told you today,
I'm always my back's always against the wall and dirt.

Speaker 1 (01:04:34):
And my dig is in the dirt.

Speaker 3 (01:04:35):
And I randomly just walked right around saying ship like
I mean the goddamn crunch baby, what the fuck that means?

Speaker 1 (01:04:42):
That's what I'm saying. You said that, And I was like,
while you're in the crunch. You're like, it's like, I
don't fucking know that. I got to stay on my ship.

Speaker 3 (01:04:49):
It's like, if I get too comfortable, I ain't gonna
be trying to get it, you know what I'm saying.
I'm like, shit, I gotta get on like what you're doing,
nigga the crunch.

Speaker 1 (01:04:58):
Get you back against the wall in the dirt, put
your ship together. I feel you BA is fucked up,
but I feel yeah, no way, I just bad. Is bad.

Speaker 3 (01:05:11):
The Tupaclary goes with that, he struggle pot I'm trying
to make a hundred thighs a quarter ounce, nor to
say that. I ain't never said that ship. I'm trying
to teach. I'm trying to teach the youth how to
stack in count. Tupac, ambitious as a rider, knows that
he tried. He said, I'm trying to you. I'm trying

(01:05:31):
to He did say something about making something out of courtounce,
but it wasn't that ship.

Speaker 1 (01:05:36):
It wasn't that. Yeah, yeah, that's that is some no
way out ship, though, like fun that I'm trying to
teach you how to count.

Speaker 3 (01:05:44):
How to stack and count. You know, I can't see
that I ain't say that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:48):
Bro, No, I ain't say that. It's just certain words.
It's like I look at it and be like, no, that
ain't that ain't pop, it ain't struggle pop. Yeah, but
it is what it is, man. That that's what Chad
G b G was. So we ran with it. The
sorry asses, man's those are We just went over ten

(01:06:09):
t mistakes made growing up in the motherfucking hood. Shout
out m c A growing up in the hood, bro,
growing up, a lot of this kind of went on.
Maybe didn't see lyrics because that growing up, and we
had a lot of this ship in here bro, gangs
and all kind of fucked up ship. But yeah, man,
growing up, Yeah, man, y'all finke fix ship. Try your

(01:06:32):
best to just keep that community aspect, especially with your
family family right now. Like our family was real strong. Yeah,
you know, even though we got caught up in different ship,
we had a strong fucking family. You're not fucking if
you fuck with one, it's terrible. I don't know if
that's good or I mean, I don't know. I don't know, man,

(01:06:52):
I don't know mans so much because it's more than
just that. Yeah, it is like you got to have
that but then you can't just have that. You got
to have this. Some family just have that, and it's
fucked up, and you don't have this, and it's fucked up.
You have two of these, but you're forgetting these. That's
all fucked up. Yeah, I don't know. I mean, is

(01:07:14):
there even even even a way to really solve it.

Speaker 3 (01:07:19):
All you can definitely is And I think it's starting
with these kids. All this ship is starting with these
kids for kids, family structure. That's the beginning. Kids family
structure goals, showing positive ship quick. Letting these motherfuckers just
see the hood every weekend. Go to the fucking football game,
basket game, cap basketball game, ladies perfectly. Yeah, you know

(01:07:42):
what I'm saying, Show them motherfuckers doing their things.

Speaker 1 (01:07:46):
Ship.

Speaker 3 (01:07:46):
Yeah, because when you're.

Speaker 1 (01:07:48):
Just sitting around seeing the same crazy ship every day.

Speaker 3 (01:07:50):
Ship, you're right if you're like ship, man, I don't
know where we're gonna go this weekend ship with it.

Speaker 1 (01:07:55):
Out of all these, is it one that you feel
is most important to.

Speaker 3 (01:07:59):
You skipping education skip Yeah, all right, that was if
that could have just kept my mind right.

Speaker 1 (01:08:07):
My mind to me. Mind to me is fucking the
mental health ship, because that ship. Really, it's a lot
of motherfuckers who really needed if they just had that
one conversation with the motherfucker, it might have would have
changed the whole.

Speaker 3 (01:08:19):
No, but hold on, hold on, all right, let's stick
to take about three steps back. You said one it
sticks out to you. Yeah, okay, So for you it's
the mental health.

Speaker 1 (01:08:28):
Yeah yeah, not for me. Not me. That's how I
did mind. That's not in my life. I heard it
over the mic, like I heard it over the mic.
I heard it over the mic. I'm talking about what's
most I'm talking about what's most most important. I feel
like as a whole, not like in my life. I'm

(01:08:49):
just crazy as that.

Speaker 3 (01:08:51):
Yeah yeah, yeah, so yeah that's it.

Speaker 1 (01:08:55):
Brother, you got the right thing for the people. Got
ship playing well? All right, And once again I would
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