August 23, 2023 • 42 mins
Join Matt and Will as they open some Bud Light and Fireball and discuss the future or restaurants in the dating world. This one takes a few turns but it was nice to get outside and have a nice fire on a summer evening.
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I got my chili WILLI lost Patsand Palm Beast, Florida. I think
Jake got me this. You saidit with a Jake accent. Come a
chili WILLI will, come a chiliWILLI. So can we talk about real
quick? First of all, I'mjust drinking butt light. You're just drinking
white cloth whatever fireside chat. Switchthe butt light and we'll see if this
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is even I had a two realgood beers. Yeah. I have two
cameras on us right now, onewhich is my phone, one which which
is like a nice Canon DSLR camera. We'll see if this even hits YouTube.
They might hit TikTok couldn't be aTikTok, could be a TikTok,
could be YouTube. Who says whosays it? Like? That was what
he said, TikTok, TikTok,the TikTok. No, you said TikTok.
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You said TikTok. You understand thatwe're like on camera? Yeah,
I didn't say it. Yeah,maybe I should make sure we're recording.
Yeah once not has that mistake again? We had headphone I had ever breaking
see pasty I am as well.Anyway, headphones on halfs look great I
was gonna say, you're a lotmore tan than you used to be.
You're still don't have hair on yourlegs because you were pants so much as
a kid, and they burned alot of it off younger. Yeah,
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so like putting my legs on firea lot. What it's like a fun
trick tricker? Yeah, asking askingfor help? Oh no, I didn't
know you would never as don't wantto help. But no, it's like,
you know, I wondered to spraysome cologne on there and then letting
them fire, and that we wouldhave known irreparable damage happened. That was
your parlor trick. Ah. Youknow, we did a bunch of them
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when we were skateboarding, like youlight things on fire, jump off buildings,
whatever you can do to get thelittle skate rat girls don't want to
Okay, So who was your firstskate rat? Gal? Was taking picture?
A man? Was her name?Okay? And now can can I
can I try to paint the scenehere? Sure, you probably won't get
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it right. She was not typicalof your taste or of just enjoyed that
for that genre, for that environment, which was not typical, wrong crowd
for her to hang out with Sothat means that she was like Abercrombie and
Fitch, blonde, maybe brunette,brunette cheer leader. Yeah, but like
rebel against your parents. You're notsupposed to hang out with the bad kids,
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you know. Is that where youlearned your ways? Is that where
you learned that you could you couldfirst girl I corrupted, for sure.
Yeah, you could bite off.You could bite off girls that you have
dope business being with because they're agtheir parents, my life. Yeah,
yeah, yep, that's what itis. Yeah, Handy in the woods.
You know that girl Amanda, Amanda. I'm not gonna say her last
name. I'm sure she doesn't listento this, but maybe that knows.
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We're just to you, Amanda.What about Okay, that was a real
digression of way more typical girls thatlike to hang around skaters and people smoking
weed and drinking. That doesn't surpriseme. And there was Stephanie then actually
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then Becca, and then I stoppedkeeping track of the I was gonna say,
here's here's I have. Like youremember their names? That's weird.
Yeah, they're like you know yourfirst ones, you kind of remember names.
Don't remember Marke like much about anything. I kind of like, I
feel like I blocked off first ofall, because not a lot was happening.
I mean, these were all thingsthat were happening. Yeah, remember
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those ones. Not a lot washappening. This is all from like fifteen
to seventeen. Yeah, not alot was happening for me. I don't
It's weird. There's nothing to doin your town. Besides, you know,
I mean, no, I didstuff, but like I was like
a serial dater. I would ohno never still now yeah, I would
date people only one I didn't startsaying all that worked out, I did.
I have a theory about all ofthis. But what you give the
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therapy about it? We should goto therapy, by the way, go
to therapy every I think therapy super. Maybe we could get a sponsor from
a therapy place. But I don'tsend them angry emails. So you really
said an angry email to better help? Wasn't angry? Wasn't? It was
an antagonizing email? And what wasI don't know. I don't remember it
entirely. She's this bro Uh.No, I do have a little theory.
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I don't want to get too deepin that. I don't want to
get too deep in general, yourmom she no, my sister would not
agree with this because she did it. She married the first person she dated.
But our mother was very much like, you shouldn't date and you should
just be friends with everybody, butno relationships because she didn't want us to
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make her a grandma. Oh andnow she's a grandma times three. Well,
my brother got his girlfriend pregnant ateighteen, so after that she was
like, no, we don't wantto. I forgot your nieces like nineteen
twenty. Yeah. My brother's oldestis twenty eight, twenty eight, yeah,
and then the youngest I think itis twenty twenty twice twenty. So
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she has one to you, fourby him, one by me, one
by Hayley, and then one moreon the way. Yes, I said
she's pregnant. Yeah she'll be.She's dealing like a week. No,
so yeah, the world was likerepressed from dating. Yeah, yeah,
which is probably why I'm the lambnow, I don't think so. Anyway,
we should we talk about like restaurantsand stuff. Probably we just got
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done and the videos will be out. We don't know in what order.
But we were at Land Grant,then brew Dog. We didn't get any
bre roll a boot dog brew dogthough, No, we didn't. He
bought a couzy. Yeah, andthe well, we don't know, but
I have no idea. I haveno idea what orders he's gonna come.
It all depends on Like he didn'tsay not to steal a pine class.
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Did you steal him? No?But no he gave me yet I really
wanted to, like we should puton up here, so we but they
don't have to get muf Why didn'tyou just fucking just tell me that I
was just gonna take it? Butthen you're like, let's walk up to
tell me that you want to takeone. You would have been we would
have probably been able to wave ather. But I think I could have
said I'm stealing this. Yeah.They just don't care. Yeah, it's
whatever, which is fine. They'rebartenders are not supposed to be managing.
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What do you think about so brewerystuff is pretty much tapped out? This
it is a saturated Yeah, comingfrom a brewery. It was a niche
market and now it's when your startedit was for sure how long it was
before? It was nineteen ninety five, Yeah, so like that was before
like the brewery, well, craftbrew brew pub, craft beater kind of
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had just become a thing, probablylike Sam Adams and all that stuff.
Yeah, because Sam Adams was likea big part of it was like,
all right, this is gonna bethe next big thing. Yeah, that
was thirty fucking years ago, thoughit's fucking crazy to think about twenty eight
years ago. I mean, breweriesare great. I would I don't want
them to go No, I don'tthink they should go away. I just
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also think we can keep opening breweriesforever. That's kind of where I'm at
because I like craft beer, butI don't need it. Yeah, that's
kind of where I'm at with withit. Like the amount of breweries,
especially in this city, Columbus,Ohio. Yeah, insane, insane amount
of breweries. Chino's got a lot, Michigan is riddled with Michigan's Riddle with
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Michigan doesn't even make sense anymore.But do you think it's Like So,
there used to be a joke thatwe had back at my old job,
and it was like, if youfall backwards into some money, what you
do You open a pizza shop.I feel like that used to be a
thing, yeah, or buying abar. Yeah. Now I feel like
if these people are starting concept,like just the amount of brew hubs and
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breweries out there are fucking insane.What about I'm saying, Yeah, I
think craft beer in general it's great. Who doesn't love it? Because what
do you think? What's that nextthing? So like breweries and breweries,
brewerweries and especially Mike Breweries dominated MichaelBrewery's got to have a short over the
past like ten years. So Ithink, what's really taken off in the
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last ten years and what I seeis happening right? The next thing?
Then we talked about in our lastshow about branding right, like, like
a lot more companies are branding.So like, even if you have a
restaurant, which is I mean,shit, there's this place called Blue Willies
downtown from downtown from where I live, small ass burger joint, delicious Burgers.
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We probably go to lunch there tomorrow. T shirts. I wouldn't expect
it, but they got T shirtsand it said, I think they're their
phrases like blue Willies because no goodstory ever started with So I was eating
a salad and it has so Iwas eating a quotations because it's all about
the Burgers, but even a smallplace like that. I think the next
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thing is these activity based restaurants actsthrowing. Oh yeah kins, Now they
got these basketball ones, they gotbaseball one. They got awesome. I
mean the one that the fucking thingthat tried to take off and didn't was
like the Barcades. I had atay Day for like two years. They're
still pretty popular here, but peoplemore fluctuate, like to your point,
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more towards the pins part. It'sa lot of the more connected here.
Excelle's cool backstory. I think mightbe my favorite bar activity to do.
Fouling is like a real big fouling. I think it depends where you live
whatever. In Detroit, it's fowlingbasically. Listener, it's I sound like
Jason Bateman are it's smart smart lessalways does that basically listener, Basically the
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two people listening to this, it'sit's set up. You set up just
like regular bowling, but then youhave a football and you're knocking off the
pin. It's like the cornhole coornholewith a football and bowling pins and it
is super fun. It's really fun. Yeah, yeah, that kind of
stuff. That kind of stuff willprobably take off. There'll be a thing
that I just don't know which oneit is, yet there will be the
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thing, Like nothing's gonna replace billiards. Yea pool's always going to be a
thing. How how but at onepoint shuffle board almost was the thing.
I like shuffle board. I didn'ttake over. Well, don't you think
though that? Like I think it'sjust people. What is this obsession?
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And I don't know if I don'tknow what it is and what shifted of
wanting to do those things when yougo out to a bar. Going out
to the bar used to be likethe social aspect and go out of the
public house, like you know what, I think it is a little bit.
Maybe I'm speaking because of the agewe are now hold as buck You
know how much fun is it tojust sit at a bar anymore? Honestly?
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Not because I I could do thatat home. Yeah, you know,
I can do I can, Butback then it was a public house.
You didn't have a cell phone,you didn't have you know, your
social activity was to go to thebar and talk to people. Now we
have too much shit going on,so you're got a bar is borning.
So I'm just gonna do this andlike, yeah, cool, And then
I'm if we were red ording withmy phone right now, I'd probably be
on Yeah, I'd be on Reddylooking on Redd or Tender. You know,
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fuck it, I wouldn't be onTender. You wouldn't. You're married.
But I'm saying, like, there'sjust so much alleged so now you
have to go out to do somethingsocial but having activity because there's too much
social bullshit going on on your phone. I mean it's because we've we've all
been to them, and I don'tknow if everybody has, But what brothels?
When did when did I? Whendid I say? When did I?
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You said we've all been to him? And I was just like clubs,
brothels? What are we talking aboutright now? Japanese bathhouses? No
massages? No, what have weall been to? Listening here to Shawn
Watson, we're talking about activity,bars alowing I duck bowling. You know,
usually don't let you get me thatfired up anymore. It's fun,
though, was just obnoxious. Itwas on purpose. I didn't say anything,
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even they're almost never on purpose,and that one was on purpose.
That was fucking stupid. So whatI don't think the next big thing to
me. So axing is a reallyinteresting one to me. Well, and
you know, like I do inmy backgyard for fun. Yeah, but
you're weird. Yeah, I'm apsycho. I don't know that'll be a
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progression to something else. Then what'sgonna be the next thing? But here's
what archery? No, here's no, not even that. I'm thinking like
digital archery at a bar. No, concept wise, I'm thinking and some
places are like some some classes haveit because you could do a night like
this for a date night, butcooking your own ship, you know what's
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funny. I was gonna go there, but I think I was gonna go
to the other way. Black rockdidn't take off. Black rock didn't take
off. But I think as faras like the having a structured date,
because here's the thing first date withsomebody, say I'm taking Shannon out for
Sandy out for a first date.I'm like, what's gonna fill our time
that we can talk about something?Ax strowing? Let's go axe throwing together?
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Yeah, what's to say? Whatif restaurants? Because ghost kissiens are
becoming more and more of a thing, and ghost kiss are also with these
pop ups, we actually didn't getto talk about that. But that wasn't
that. We need to go overthat for sure, but we're Shannon's taking
pictures of us. She's like,look at these fucking nervous recording a podcast
and nobody's gonna listen to that's yourassumping. But really she's inside like what
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has been so cute? She's shakingher head. No, but what I'm
thinking of is like built in datenights, and I think there's a market
for that. So you're you're buyingall of your ingredients any Okay, you're
buying all your say hey, we'regoing to cook a file at dinner,
So you're right about I think whereyou're going this, there is a concept
of cooking in restaurants that do thisreally, because I think you're talking about
like I'm not talking about black rocksor wanting to bring out the stone Korean
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barbecue. Does this really fucking well? Yes? That could, Yes,
but that also feels like an assemblyline like a Chipotle. No, Like
there's good Ones Whitney in Detroit.I don't think I've ever been so the
coals are built into the table.No, there's a heating almond underneath you
and they turn it on, theybring you the things, and then you
cook them. That's pretty fun.Look, so it's kind of almost like
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really two with the fond dude.Yeah like that. But I think the
act I think we're even going evenfurther into it though. I think it's
gonna be and it's something that Iwould I would pay a hundred bucks for.
Oh, you're gonna be one hundredand fifty, Unna be like two
fifty three hundred and then you're drinking. Yeah, So it's it's a niche
market for sure, but it's alsoI think if you do it right,
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you're teaching people how to cook alittle bit also giving them a date night.
I mean, because you're we're givingthem a cultural idea of how to
cook. That's a really good wayto say on that cultural way. Cultural
way, like okay, you gottahere's your fucking hot stone and thirty seconds
on each side for rare whatever likeblack Girl. I'm not totally shitting on
black Rock and just didn't take off. No, I didn't the way the
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way that I thought it would have. Yeah, the first time I had
it was like the first restaurant thatthey had built, and it was a
maybe in Brighton. We were drivingfrom Lancing back to Toledo and some you
know had to stop eat there andI didn't even do their thing. I
got a burger. I was like, what's the point of this? Yeah,
it's crazy. You can bring outWe'll bring out you will Black Rocks,
the one they took over the oldClata. Yeah it did. Yeah,
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And that was doesn't do a storyfrom the story from from old,
old old episodes. But basically Clatais where I Claude was a great restaurant
where I got into we're gonna talkabout the progression to what's the next thing
instead of breweries or food. I'mgonna tell this clos story real quick,
interrupting me or you, but youknow, my trains of thought go quickly.
So Clada was a restaurant that Iworked at, an Irish pub,
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and basically how it shut down wasthe workers were doing a trash run to
close out the night and found blueprintsfor black Rock. Oh yeah, I
said, Cloda on it. Andthen the next day and they said,
hey, what is this And thenext day they shut him down. Yeah.
But the next big thing, Ithink I think that's what it might
be or I'll tell you my hope. I don't know what it's gonna be.
My hope for it for dying.I forgot to mention top golf to
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top golf is part of that.Top golf is definitely gonna not go away
for a Top golf is part ofthat. Activity based dinner activities we're kind
of talking more about. We're talkingabout dining and restaurant we're talking about dating
kind of more than anything. Yeah. Yeah, And as a guy who
in the last year has fucking dateda lot regular restaurant dining. If you're
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going out on a first date oryou know in the first couple of dates,
that is the worst ship you cando. Yeah, it's awkward,
don't do it? Yeah you know, Wait did you do that? No?
But I've had girls say they wantthat. I'll remember so we can
pivot. But is there quickly astory that you can tell of a date
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that you went on that it waslike, Oh, this is a fucking
terrible IDEA bad first date spot,not as much spots, just like the
general date though. Yeah, Iwas saying like, oh, it's a
really bad I don't understand why peoplego to movies for a first date.
I don't know if you know whatit's a bad first date. But I
had a accidental first date at amovie that ended up being a good first
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date. But the story of itis we had made plans to go on
a date on a Monday, butwe I thought it was Monday and she
thought it was Tuesday. Whatever,So we had our babysitters crossed, and
then we ended up both having babysittersfor Monday and Tuesday. So then Monday
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we're like, okay, never mind, it was supposed to be Tuesday,
We're gonna go get sushi. Iwas like, yeah, but what are
you doing tonight? And she's likewhy already have a babysitter? Like,
got me too. So we endedup going to a movie, which was
like a weird good ice breaker.It was like pre first date, first
date. Yeah, like meet up, We're gonna get some popcorn, watch
a fucking movie. Did you cutthe hole in the bottom or did you
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just like stuff it through? No? I just held her face. I
was just asking just a good questionthat and then you went you're gonna go
down reddit hole you don't want toin? Yeah? No? Actually,
no, good good to dates nevera good idea to plan the first date
to be a movie, but becausewe had figured out that the date was
actually supposed to be Tuesday and getsushi, Like we both have nothing to
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do on Monday? Do you wantto just hang out? When to a
movie? Watched Megan, Oh yeah, yeah, went to a movies Like,
all right now we kind of like, don't have this weird first date
vibe on the first date, whichwas cool. It's almost like when you
if you're you may have never donethis, and I don't think I really
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have either, like gone on afirst date with some with a girl that
you're friends, that you've been friendswith for a long time, but never
it kind of felt like that bythe time or at the first date,
I actually have done that. Ireally haven't. Intentionally. I've ended up
out with a girl that had knownfor a long time and they're like,
oh, I guess this is kindof a date. Yeah you know.
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No, But I think traditional dynastonI've accidentally dated. It's been both of
my life. I think traditional dininglike sit down, have a salad and
entraining a dessert and a glass thewine. As a first date, that's
got to go the fuck away.Yeah, because the interactive thing is good
because you know why, it's aninterview. It is, and that's all
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it turns in. It's a fuckinginterview. And the way dating is now,
most of the time you meet somebodyonline, you're you're talking well,
and you text for two weeks.First. By the time you get to
the first date, You're like,now, what the fuck do I ask
you this? He talked about allthese things, this thing, and I
don't want to put this out inthe universe, but I'm going like,
well, if this, if ifif my marriage goes tits up, I'm
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fuck, I can't do that.I can't do anything. Man. I
thought that too. And you knowwhat, because you were different. You
were different before your ex right.I was a serious I remember I was
a serial monogamous for a very longI was never a monogamist. Yeah,
I know you are, And thenI was only a monogamist. Yeah,
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And then I was like, oh, yeah, you don't have to do
that. If she han like,if she ever wises up, He's like,
you know what I mean, she'son doctors every day. What the
fuck am I? Ah, youget a pretty good career, buddy.
Yeah. The podcast on side,and I do stuff with food. That's
how I play hockey and break yourlegs every hockey and break by like,
hey, honey, it just gonnabe a quick three grand after I already
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paid about three grand over the pastthree years to play the sport. Just
gotta gotta reset a few bones inmy leg. But I twisted in the
circle. It was. It waswe got so off topic there, but
we do and I can bring itback though. We're talking about the dating
thing and I know, but thenI had a point that I wanted to
make and I lost it. Ohyeah, No. So my hope for
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yeah, dining in general, thenext thing for activities. Yeah, I
think that activity like based bar stuffis going to continue full top golf,
axe throwing. There'll be new shipthat we don't know about yet. You
know, I've seen the places thathave like flip cupp and all those things
set up. I think that's anoxious. But I'm hoping for dining.
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I'm hoping what happens is either morecourt out like you're here for a dining
experience. You're not here for asalad, steak, dessert, go home
like tasting menus. I'm hoping well, doesn't already exist though, but as
more normalized like more, that's whatyou're gonna get. I think that's how
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you have to pay one hundred andthirty dollars for a tasting. I know
that's when you run into like that'swhen you run into the profitability like so
profitability wise doing that and not chargingas that amount because you're not turning anything,
right, you're talking about a threehour probably table turn talking about tapas.
Yeah, basically small portion. Yeah, but you can three yeah,
but not as much as you wouldif you would do fastcast. And this
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is the thing that everybody always argues, Yeah you have no table turn.
Okay, that's fair, but ifyou can, you know, you're stretching
this experience over two or three hours. So the ideas you're going to spend
more money per person, and thenyou have to have good people in sales
so it can continue. Servers haveto basically be salespeople. Yeah, but
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then they're the ones that have tokeep the other side of that that.
I wish i'd see more that youalmost never see unless you go to like
a fucking buffet, which I thinkis trash. Is family style dining would
be so family style dining. I'dlike to see more of them. You
know, that's actually large portion.I would like to see that too.
We see it, we see whichthen doesn't have to be two hours.
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We see it in like barbecue placesand we see it. Yeah, like
we just had some barbecue. Seebarbecue is the most chicken places. Like
this place is called the Eagle,which I did not know is a change
until I went the fucking sor rightgood, change are good? Change are
all bad? I know until Iwent to Pittsburgh one year, Like I
thought it was a Columbus thing.I went to Pittsburgh with the Pittsburghs.
Downtown Toweto is now riddled with thingsthat you wouldn't think are changed. And
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then if you go to the website, there's ten of them. They're not
that's fear of them, but there'sten of them. You know, they
have like five cities at their sixcities whatever they do them. I do
like the idea of family style becausewe still like see more because how awkward
is it? It creates the samekind of conversations exactly, because you're talking
about creating conversations, and that's Ithink why Also to the activity dates top
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golf. Terrible idea, pins terribleidea for first eight sixteen bit terrible idea.
You want it to be almost likeeither axe throwing or honestly, axe
throwing might be the only one thatwere And so actually six I'll take it
back sixteen bit because you gotta thinkthey're turn based. Yeah, you can't
talk to somebody because it's like,Op, it's my turn, I gotta
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go. Yeah, Op, it'smy turn, I gotta go. We
didn't do fireballs. No, wecan do fireball. I fucked up the
recording yet again. So we're justgonna do shots of fireball. What's happening?
We got thirty minutes in, soI think we finished the story about
the conversation, that conversation we werehaving, and then I think that's a
good It was about you know,activity, activity, dating activity, dating
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activities and bars. So what's thenext thing that it cut off? I
mean dating that we got into adating conversation. Yeah, we got into
a dating conversation, but we talkedto it, you know, fulling and
all that stuff. Yeah, barsare gonna have to have activities, for
sure. They're gonna have so muchfor activities, you know, maybe more
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bars just need to sell little individualthoughts to Fireball. I don't know,
I think they don't they I mean, you can just buy a shadow.
I love how you made fun ofputting the water in here. But my
thirty six year old asks like,yeah, aw hydrate, Yeah, oh
you want to about being old.So on the way down here, I
bought up fifty leader thing of wateror whatever, and then I bought a
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coconut water for tomorrow morning. Whenyou gotta make sure you get your vitamins
back, Yeah, we're gonna takethem all. So I think where we
kind of left off was the questionI was asking you was sort of like,
what's the difference of dating when ormarried? Yeah, as opposed to
like you don't remember because it wasa million years ago you were dating.
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Yeah, I think I used acertain person. You're you're obviously you've been
dating for the past about year nowyear heavily dating, Like heavily dating.
What is how to Shannon night?Date? Like? Is it? Yeah?
Like? What is it? Youknow? What's important when you guys
want to date? Is it justgoing to Applebe's on Tuesday or nothing wrong
with that? No? But likeno, doesn't But I think your main
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point was like having a plan.So yeah, we Yeah, there's we
take turns like planning stuff. Wewe actually we bet on it like we
were big Big Brother fans. That'sa sentence for you. We watch a
lot of reality TV and what we'lldo is we'll bet and we'll like draft
people and we'll have like fantasy.Yeah, not for The Bachelor, the
Bachelor at because I can't watch those. I give it like two or three
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episodes that I'm done. Yeah,but like inc Master, like The Challenge,
Real World and stuff like that.But either way, coming back to
that, Yeah, it's super importantto us. We try to make it
so that we don't do the samething over and over and over again.
Yeah. So it's like, hey, it's the first Tuesday of September or
the first Tuesday of the month,like let's go to Cooper Sauk like we
always do. Like we don't dothat, Like we try not, so
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we try to go to different places. So that's important to us, is
I guess variety? Variety is important. Variety is important. But I guess
one of my question was like isn'thaving the plan? Yeah, like if
it's your turn to plan the date, and then you show up and it's
Friday night, Like I don't know, we're just gonna like yeah, especially
because whatever we'll win it that's sounimpressive, right, So she's just gonna
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be likens like everybody that knows mywife, she's a psycho about our dogs,
so like planning is more important toher, not for just like me
having the plan, but more forthe dogs. But what pisses her off
the most is if I don't havea plan, like you have to even
if you're married. And also it'skind of a respect thing, like if
it's your like and like when webet, it's on who's going to plant,
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Like if you win the bet,that means you are not planning the
date, like planning a date.Oh you know what, though I would
so much want to want to planto plan it. I will fucking because
she does some really cool shit,and like I feel I feel so much
pressure. Yeah, if I aska girl if she wants to go out
on like a Saturday, but I'masking around like a Tuesday, I like,
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fucking great, Now I've got fouror five days to like come up
with a plan. Have you beenon a date that the gal has planned
not recently. Closest thing to that, which is just in ladies, Matt
Turner will not go on a datewith you if you plan it. No,
No, I'm saying like the closestthing to that was about a year
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ago with a girl that I wassort of dating. I hope the plane
is being picked up you too,Ah, that was sort of dating but
not dating. And she showed upwhere I worked a couple of days after
my birthday because I didn't do anythingfor my birthday, and she said,
I'm gonna take you out to dinnerfor your birthday. And then she was
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like, but what do you wantto do? Like bol So showed up
here who I was getting off,I'm gonna I'm gonna pay, but you're
still I'm gonna take you out,But where do you want to go?
But it was a really complicated situation. I was like, most places we
can't go because we can't be seentogether. Oh, we'll talk about that
off at the off. Yeah.But I'm saying like, no, really,
I've not had a girl ask meout on a date she had planned.
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No. I don't think so.I think you have to. I
think it's a guy when you're singleand you're theres two people when you're single.
Yeah. Do you think that thatthat that gets the girl wants?
Great? I think that at thebeginning of dating as single, people call
it what you want. There's genderroles. Yeah, you know we're gonna
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we're gonna be going down a thinghere. Yeah, but there are you
know, a girl wants to gonnagive you a couple a couple of paragraphs
tell a girl wants to be takenout and shown a good time by a
guy so that she knows he's interestedin her, and then he's gonna put
some efford in maybe date three sheshould plan. I don't know, Yeah,
well I would say not even especiallyif if I ask a girl out,
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I shouldn't ask her out and belike yeah, but then whatever you
want to do, like you tellme and I'll just p I know,
I thought I was just I wantto see it, like maybe maybe if
I can, you're taking it awayfrom yeah, yeah, yeah, if
I can. Of course they leave. Thanks Ruby and Rollo. I'm so
happy that I have a stick onmy You know you did it. You
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know what, you're not the mysteriousone. I didn't think you'd be the
ones still going at it psycho psychopathsover there with her ears and keep her
in frame just for funzies, buteither way being too close to the fire.
Yeah yeah, yeah, So I'veactually had girls. One specifically,
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so I took on a couple ofdates tell me that. She's just like,
I don't really want you to askme out, and then be like,
yeah, well, so whatever youwant to do is cool. She's
like, be impressive, Like youwant to take me out. You're asking
me out to the date. Yougotta land this plane somehow, I know
how we land this plane. Allright, let's get back on track.
The point of the original question was, is there a difference in dating when
you're married, like the expectation thatis set to when you're dating when you're
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single. I would say the answeris yes and no, which is a
total cop out. But I takepride in the fact that we do fun
things together and we like to planfun things together. It is very easy
to fall into that. Hey,it's Wednesday night, It's right. I
mean, you'll never have that withsome of you just started dating. You
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can't. Well, that's what I'msaying. That's what they did. Like,
that's like you're going to find answersfor both for both, Like with
married couples, like we we takepride and I don't know if it got
cut off when we when I fuckedup the recording, but like people like
always tell us that we're a prettygood couple, and we kind of take
pride in that to you, Yeah, and because we feel oh yeah,
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prime example at the wedding, Yeah, well I was like, yeah,
solid couple. Everybody liked it.You're talking great about her, she's talking
shit about you. Yeah, that'sthe whole pa. If she's good.
That's the thing is if the secondshe stops making fun of me something,
something's fucked up, something, something'ssomething's really fun and really bad. Yeah,
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but you guys are a cute couple. You do the whole uh my
beautiful wife over there thing. Andthat's good and that's good. That's good
that you do it, you know, But I mean I feel like it's
it's necessary sometimes, Like even whenyou were set up the camera, she's
like looking at him outside. Oh, he's such a fucking nerd. She's
like, it's so cute. Howmuch it cares. No one's listening to
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this trying. That's just that that'sgood couple. The shit, I like,
we are a couple. Yeah.As far as like the idea of
what a good date is, I'lltake it back to what we originally started
talking about, the traditional dinner anda couple of cocktails date when you're single,
is that is drying up? Yeah, just like going to a bar
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and having nothing to do besides atthe bar and talk. That's that's going
away. Yeah, I felt it. Yeah, like activities for bars,
fulling acts, throwing all that,that's gonna be the next thing. Same
with dating, Like it's so infuriatedto go on a date with a girl
and she's like, all right,well it's fun talking and then she's like
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on Instagram, yeah you can't dothat. But if there's a solid plan,
then you know you did good work. And I feel like that's the
same for restaurants and bars, ifyou've done your due diligence to not just
make it a dining experience or adrinking experience. Like having a brewery is
great. If you have a greatbeer, that's fantastic, but that like
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the place we went to, theyhad all kinds of ship that like,
enjoy our beer. But then lookat this atmosphere we've created. Yeah,
there's like fucking golf, corn hole. Yeah, there's like basketball. Yeah,
we've got music. If you listento that, and we're not going
to provide they do the fucking beerkeg curling. Yeah, that's sweet.
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Yeah, that's gonna have to bethe next thing. Activities, activities,
activities. Yeah, and then getoff your phone, you know how like
get off your phone. Yeah,get like you know, when you go
to a concert now or a comedyshow, they put him in the They
put your phone in the bag.Dave Chappelle. I fucking hope at some
point when you go out to arestaurant or a bar, that'll the first
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fuck I wish I had one.I would do it. Gears a bag,
put your fucking phone in there,like they're here to have a social
experience. What not to be onyour phone? What if that is the
idea that you just came up withthat just takes I mean, I'm a
fucking know because it was How coolwould that be? Because here's the thing
is that that's a trend out.Do you know that like some of these
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like fucking minimalistic millennial fucking gen zeor whatever, like the Zennioals or whatever.
These little fucking fuckers think that theZoomers was the best from them.
They think they invented like social awareness, but they like have no idea.
I know. It cracks me out. I love. I love that you
are socially aware and you were fightingfor the little guy gal or they and
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like whatever, you didn't invent this, no, like you didn't invent this.
No, there was years of repression. There was there was so many
people that were damaged. Yeah,yeah, I forgot what we were to
even talking about. I don't know. When you go to a restaurant bart
you have to put your phone inthe bag. That's what I was going.
Okay, so as we were recordingon a phone, and like I
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we recorded everything all day. Imean, but I feel like there are
there are actual millennials that you havefoot or Zennioals or whatever that have footphones
now because they're like I want tobe unconnected. So there's like you can
literally they get flip phones to nottake like they have their phone, they
have their iPhone yeah whatever, andthen they have a footphone. They have
like the same number, so theycan leave their iPhone at home and have
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their footphone to text and stuff bein the moment, so they're not on
their phone the entire time. I'mall four, that's like the thing.
That's why that's and then like obviouslyall the all the all the boomers and
stuff like that, that are thebaby boomers. My favorite term for the
present gen z's yeah, because they'rethe same mentality. Yeah, thing is
(35:37):
stupid not don't understand it. Yeah, they I just wish there was.
But they're just so like woke mentalitytoo. They're like, I don't understand
why people haven't always felt like therewas oppression. No, we all felt
it. Yeah, we looked throughremote a lot of it. And it's
nineteen you fucking morons. Like everytime a baby boomers, every time a
(35:57):
boomer says woke, a gay angelgets its wings or something like, okay,
angel gets its unicorn horn or something, it's something like that. I
don't know. I'm just like,I'm a I'm on a school thought that
I don't hate anybody. I loveeverybody me too, even though I say
I hate people all people. Ihate all people. I hate all people.
I don't hate the person you are, I just hate you. That's
(36:20):
a really good way to put Ihate all people, but in general,
it's not for who you are.It's not for who you are as person.
No, I just hate you.I just don't like you around too
many people, and I like,I don't people well sometimes like never,
I am super social. We're ina fucking thousand all the time. Yeah,
(36:40):
but they said this when we're atthe back a part of the wedding.
But I said one of the two. I think it was a wedding
saying it to your I was Iwas pulling actually saying it to your wife
because I had to. And Idon't think it was the day of the
one who was the day before weall got there. It's just always to
be up here. I'm like,I get it. You want to keep
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the energy of everybody going great.Sometimes everybody else wants to be down here,
and you're just like, well,that's the thing. I love it
because I need that. Otherwise I'mjust gonna do exactly what we're doing right
now. I'm gonna sit in achair that is Matthews. Matthew's that way
(37:21):
of telling me that I'm annoying.I like it because I need that.
I need to That's what we thinkthat's keep it going. I'll just do
this by myself. So here's thething is I do it when I think
people need it. Yeah, solike a good example. But sometimes when
you think people need it, everyone'slike, hey, we need ten.
Well that's like they I'm okay withpeople telling me that. The perfect example
(37:42):
was I remember Lex Jake's wife,Uh, good friend of the show.
Lex should be fun to have tenin the morning. Oh, she's hilarious.
He's like the best. She wasout of ten all the time too,
right, no, no, ohno, Like I don't know.
Then Quitton Bay House on a Sundayand we're like watching I think we always
(38:05):
watched bar Rescue every time we werehung over at the Bay on a Sunday,
and I was talking to Shannon aboutlike jet skiing, and I was
like super animated and super exciting.There's about ten people in this living room.
Everybody looks like they're about to die. Yeah, And I was thinking,
like we need yea and then Lexsnaps, She's just like okay,
Well, because I was talking aboutgoing jet skiing, just go then chirp,
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chirp, chirp, churp. Tripthat's all you do. That's all
you do is chur church chrip chripchirp. And I was just like,
Okay, that's my inner dialogue withall people all the time. But I
just don't say it because what Ireally do is go like that's super fucking
annoying. I'm not gonna pay attentionto that at all. I'm just gonna
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sit here quietly and got everybody saysit to you, and I wish I
could turn it. I wish Icould turn it off. No, don't
turn it. I wish I couldturn The world needs people. Well,
And that's the thing. It's like, if it's just Shannon and I,
I'm not like that. I getsuper excited. I would seriously hope you
know it was your wife all thetime. I get like this when like
people are at the house because Iget excited. I like to entertain the
people that I know and loved likethat. It's so weird when I say
(39:10):
that I hate people, yeah,but I love I love my population.
Yeah. So it's people you don'tget to choose to be. I I
tried so hard to not be asas bad as I am, but it's
it's just so like you have totell me and I won't tell you.
I just think it's funny. Wellthat's she's gotten really good. We have
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like kind of like a cobord thing. She's like, you're you're being off
with Chipper because I'm like, allright, cool. So then I know
I was like, all right,I need to dial it back because like,
for instance, like her friend Sarah, it was like one of the
first nights I ever stayed at theirnew house and I woke up at like
seven thirty. Oh, I wasready to go. I was like because
(39:54):
I had my monster and I wasgood to go. And I think that
was still when I was doing likeSunday or from my old company. So
I was just on my laptop andeverybody's walking down was like, hey,
guys, go to the roll.Yeah. And then I was like,
so you're a morning person. Yeah, yeah, it is what it is.
That's how I felt when we're atthe Batchword party. But I was
like, I'm not a morning person. I'm not a morning person. I
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just don't want to feel like shittoday. Yeah, I'm gonna get this
over with. I think mine islike my go to phrase. And you
might have quinned just get all theevil out of you. Got to get
and I deal with it. Mything is, it's like I get so
excited where my people are around,like I do. Well, it's because
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like in a great way. Idon't mean that. Yeah, here's why.
Here's why it is. We don'tsee everybody else. I'm gonna end
it on a sappy note. Yeah, like I don't get to see everybody
all the time because we're down here. We're down here. We thank god
we have like Seawan, the Triangleof Yeah, we have basically you know,
Toledo Columbus and like even saying Nattyuh cle Cleveland, Tledochus me uh
(40:58):
and I want every single minute Icould possibly get. Yeah, So like
yeah it seems like crazy. Soyeah, I'll stay up till four.
So I stay up till four lastnight, you know, woke up at
eight. Yeah, took a tooka tiny nap in a nap between eight
and eleven. But you know,like still, I was just so excited
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to get the day started, likeso like it would be the same thing
if anybody was here. You know, it's more so if like like one
of my best friends is here.So it's it's people. If they tell
me to calm down. I don'ttake it harshly, but that's just where
I'm coming from. Yeah, Ijust so excited for everybody. I was
just like, yeah, it's awesome. I'm like a fucking I'm literally a
Yorkie puppy. Yeah. I thinkmaybe it was just me and you for
(41:39):
like a week at some point andbe like, hey man, chill the
fuck out. I think big groupof people like you know what I can
do with you is I can justbe like off somebody else. So I
had your back at the wedding andthe bachelor party. I was just like
if you the second you were done, I was like, everybody, look
at me, look at me?Well, will my attention at me of
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it? That's also too is it'slike I hate people, but I like
attention. But I like attention.It's so weird because that's why I stream
all the time. Like I said, oh, it's we all know you
like it. It's crazy to me. But then I'm like, oh no,
I don't like attention. You likeattention in a good way. Yeah,
you only draw attention to yourself ina positive way, which is nice.
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You're being awfully close to like justbeing like super nice to me.
Oh, that's as close as agis. All right, let's say buy
a Matt alright,
I got my chili WILLI lost Patsand Palm Beast, Florida. I think
Jake got me this. You saidit with a Jake accent. Come a
chili WILLI will, come a chiliWILLI. So can we talk about real
quick? First of all, I'mjust drinking butt light. You're just drinking
white cloth whatever fireside chat. Switchthe butt light and we'll see if this
(00:35):
is even I had a two realgood beers. Yeah. I have two
cameras on us right now, onewhich is my phone, one which which
is like a nice Canon DSLR camera. We'll see if this even hits YouTube.
They might hit TikTok couldn't be aTikTok, could be a TikTok,
could be YouTube. Who says whosays it? Like? That was what
he said, TikTok, TikTok,the TikTok. No, you said TikTok.
(00:57):
You said TikTok. You understand thatwe're like on camera? Yeah,
I didn't say it. Yeah,maybe I should make sure we're recording.
Yeah once not has that mistake again? We had headphone I had ever breaking
see pasty I am as well.Anyway, headphones on halfs look great I
was gonna say, you're a lotmore tan than you used to be.
You're still don't have hair on yourlegs because you were pants so much as
a kid, and they burned alot of it off younger. Yeah,
(01:18):
so like putting my legs on firea lot. What it's like a fun
trick tricker? Yeah, asking askingfor help? Oh no, I didn't
know you would never as don't wantto help. But no, it's like,
you know, I wondered to spraysome cologne on there and then letting
them fire, and that we wouldhave known irreparable damage happened. That was
your parlor trick. Ah. Youknow, we did a bunch of them
(01:42):
when we were skateboarding, like youlight things on fire, jump off buildings,
whatever you can do to get thelittle skate rat girls don't want to
Okay, So who was your firstskate rat? Gal? Was taking picture?
A man? Was her name?Okay? And now can can I
can I try to paint the scenehere? Sure, you probably won't get
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it right. She was not typicalof your taste or of just enjoyed that
for that genre, for that environment, which was not typical, wrong crowd
for her to hang out with Sothat means that she was like Abercrombie and
Fitch, blonde, maybe brunette,brunette cheer leader. Yeah, but like
rebel against your parents. You're notsupposed to hang out with the bad kids,
(02:30):
you know. Is that where youlearned your ways? Is that where
you learned that you could you couldfirst girl I corrupted, for sure.
Yeah, you could bite off.You could bite off girls that you have
dope business being with because they're agtheir parents, my life. Yeah,
yeah, yep, that's what itis. Yeah, Handy in the woods.
You know that girl Amanda, Amanda. I'm not gonna say her last
name. I'm sure she doesn't listento this, but maybe that knows.
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We're just to you, Amanda.What about Okay, that was a real
digression of way more typical girls thatlike to hang around skaters and people smoking
weed and drinking. That doesn't surpriseme. And there was Stephanie then actually
(03:13):
then Becca, and then I stoppedkeeping track of the I was gonna say,
here's here's I have. Like youremember their names? That's weird.
Yeah, they're like you know yourfirst ones, you kind of remember names.
Don't remember Marke like much about anything. I kind of like, I
feel like I blocked off first ofall, because not a lot was happening.
I mean, these were all thingsthat were happening. Yeah, remember
(03:36):
those ones. Not a lot washappening. This is all from like fifteen
to seventeen. Yeah, not alot was happening for me. I don't
It's weird. There's nothing to doin your town. Besides, you know,
I mean, no, I didstuff, but like I was like
a serial dater. I would ohno never still now yeah, I would
date people only one I didn't startsaying all that worked out, I did.
I have a theory about all ofthis. But what you give the
(03:59):
therapy about it? We should goto therapy, by the way, go
to therapy every I think therapy super. Maybe we could get a sponsor from
a therapy place. But I don'tsend them angry emails. So you really
said an angry email to better help? Wasn't angry? Wasn't? It was
an antagonizing email? And what wasI don't know. I don't remember it
entirely. She's this bro Uh.No, I do have a little theory.
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I don't want to get too deepin that. I don't want to
get too deep in general, yourmom she no, my sister would not
agree with this because she did it. She married the first person she dated.
But our mother was very much like, you shouldn't date and you should
just be friends with everybody, butno relationships because she didn't want us to
(04:47):
make her a grandma. Oh andnow she's a grandma times three. Well,
my brother got his girlfriend pregnant ateighteen, so after that she was
like, no, we don't wantto. I forgot your nieces like nineteen
twenty. Yeah. My brother's oldestis twenty eight, twenty eight, yeah,
and then the youngest I think itis twenty twenty twice twenty. So
(05:10):
she has one to you, fourby him, one by me, one
by Hayley, and then one moreon the way. Yes, I said
she's pregnant. Yeah she'll be.She's dealing like a week. No,
so yeah, the world was likerepressed from dating. Yeah, yeah,
which is probably why I'm the lambnow, I don't think so. Anyway,
we should we talk about like restaurantsand stuff. Probably we just got
(05:32):
done and the videos will be out. We don't know in what order.
But we were at Land Grant,then brew Dog. We didn't get any
bre roll a boot dog brew dogthough, No, we didn't. He
bought a couzy. Yeah, andthe well, we don't know, but
I have no idea. I haveno idea what orders he's gonna come.
It all depends on Like he didn'tsay not to steal a pine class.
(05:55):
Did you steal him? No?But no he gave me yet I really
wanted to, like we should puton up here, so we but they
don't have to get muf Why didn'tyou just fucking just tell me that I
was just gonna take it? Butthen you're like, let's walk up to
tell me that you want to takeone. You would have been we would
have probably been able to wave ather. But I think I could have
said I'm stealing this. Yeah.They just don't care. Yeah, it's
whatever, which is fine. They'rebartenders are not supposed to be managing.
(06:16):
What do you think about so brewerystuff is pretty much tapped out? This
it is a saturated Yeah, comingfrom a brewery. It was a niche
market and now it's when your startedit was for sure how long it was
before? It was nineteen ninety five, Yeah, so like that was before
like the brewery, well, craftbrew brew pub, craft beater kind of
(06:40):
had just become a thing, probablylike Sam Adams and all that stuff.
Yeah, because Sam Adams was likea big part of it was like,
all right, this is gonna bethe next big thing. Yeah, that
was thirty fucking years ago, thoughit's fucking crazy to think about twenty eight
years ago. I mean, breweriesare great. I would I don't want
them to go No, I don'tthink they should go away. I just
(07:01):
also think we can keep opening breweriesforever. That's kind of where I'm at
because I like craft beer, butI don't need it. Yeah, that's
kind of where I'm at with withit. Like the amount of breweries,
especially in this city, Columbus,Ohio. Yeah, insane, insane amount
of breweries. Chino's got a lot, Michigan is riddled with Michigan's Riddle with
(07:23):
Michigan doesn't even make sense anymore.But do you think it's Like So,
there used to be a joke thatwe had back at my old job,
and it was like, if youfall backwards into some money, what you
do You open a pizza shop.I feel like that used to be a
thing, yeah, or buying abar. Yeah. Now I feel like
if these people are starting concept,like just the amount of brew hubs and
(07:45):
breweries out there are fucking insane.What about I'm saying, Yeah, I
think craft beer in general it's great. Who doesn't love it? Because what
do you think? What's that nextthing? So like breweries and breweries,
brewerweries and especially Mike Breweries dominated MichaelBrewery's got to have a short over the
past like ten years. So Ithink, what's really taken off in the
(08:07):
last ten years and what I seeis happening right? The next thing?
Then we talked about in our lastshow about branding right, like, like
a lot more companies are branding.So like, even if you have a
restaurant, which is I mean,shit, there's this place called Blue Willies
downtown from downtown from where I live, small ass burger joint, delicious Burgers.
(08:28):
We probably go to lunch there tomorrow. T shirts. I wouldn't expect
it, but they got T shirtsand it said, I think they're their
phrases like blue Willies because no goodstory ever started with So I was eating
a salad and it has so Iwas eating a quotations because it's all about
the Burgers, but even a smallplace like that. I think the next
(08:50):
thing is these activity based restaurants actsthrowing. Oh yeah kins, Now they
got these basketball ones, they gotbaseball one. They got awesome. I
mean the one that the fucking thingthat tried to take off and didn't was
like the Barcades. I had atay Day for like two years. They're
still pretty popular here, but peoplemore fluctuate, like to your point,
(09:13):
more towards the pins part. It'sa lot of the more connected here.
Excelle's cool backstory. I think mightbe my favorite bar activity to do.
Fouling is like a real big fouling. I think it depends where you live
whatever. In Detroit, it's fowlingbasically. Listener, it's I sound like
Jason Bateman are it's smart smart lessalways does that basically listener, Basically the
(09:35):
two people listening to this, it'sit's set up. You set up just
like regular bowling, but then youhave a football and you're knocking off the
pin. It's like the cornhole coornholewith a football and bowling pins and it
is super fun. It's really fun. Yeah, yeah, that kind of
stuff. That kind of stuff willprobably take off. There'll be a thing
that I just don't know which oneit is, yet there will be the
(09:56):
thing, Like nothing's gonna replace billiards. Yea pool's always going to be a
thing. How how but at onepoint shuffle board almost was the thing.
I like shuffle board. I didn'ttake over. Well, don't you think
though that? Like I think it'sjust people. What is this obsession?
(10:18):
And I don't know if I don'tknow what it is and what shifted of
wanting to do those things when yougo out to a bar. Going out
to the bar used to be likethe social aspect and go out of the
public house, like you know what, I think it is a little bit.
Maybe I'm speaking because of the agewe are now hold as buck You
know how much fun is it tojust sit at a bar anymore? Honestly?
(10:41):
Not because I I could do thatat home. Yeah, you know,
I can do I can, Butback then it was a public house.
You didn't have a cell phone,you didn't have you know, your
social activity was to go to thebar and talk to people. Now we
have too much shit going on,so you're got a bar is borning.
So I'm just gonna do this andlike, yeah, cool, And then
I'm if we were red ording withmy phone right now, I'd probably be
on Yeah, I'd be on Reddylooking on Redd or Tender. You know,
(11:05):
fuck it, I wouldn't be onTender. You wouldn't. You're married.
But I'm saying, like, there'sjust so much alleged so now you
have to go out to do somethingsocial but having activity because there's too much
social bullshit going on on your phone. I mean it's because we've we've all
been to them, and I don'tknow if everybody has, But what brothels?
When did when did I? Whendid I say? When did I?
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You said we've all been to him? And I was just like clubs,
brothels? What are we talking aboutright now? Japanese bathhouses? No
massages? No, what have weall been to? Listening here to Shawn
Watson, we're talking about activity,bars alowing I duck bowling. You know,
usually don't let you get me thatfired up anymore. It's fun,
though, was just obnoxious. Itwas on purpose. I didn't say anything,
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even they're almost never on purpose,and that one was on purpose.
That was fucking stupid. So whatI don't think the next big thing to
me. So axing is a reallyinteresting one to me. Well, and
you know, like I do inmy backgyard for fun. Yeah, but
you're weird. Yeah, I'm apsycho. I don't know that'll be a
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progression to something else. Then what'sgonna be the next thing? But here's
what archery? No, here's no, not even that. I'm thinking like
digital archery at a bar. No, concept wise, I'm thinking and some
places are like some some classes haveit because you could do a night like
this for a date night, butcooking your own ship, you know what's
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funny. I was gonna go there, but I think I was gonna go
to the other way. Black rockdidn't take off. Black rock didn't take
off. But I think as faras like the having a structured date,
because here's the thing first date withsomebody, say I'm taking Shannon out for
Sandy out for a first date.I'm like, what's gonna fill our time
that we can talk about something?Ax strowing? Let's go axe throwing together?
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Yeah, what's to say? Whatif restaurants? Because ghost kissiens are
becoming more and more of a thing, and ghost kiss are also with these
pop ups, we actually didn't getto talk about that. But that wasn't
that. We need to go overthat for sure, but we're Shannon's taking
pictures of us. She's like,look at these fucking nervous recording a podcast
and nobody's gonna listen to that's yourassumping. But really she's inside like what
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has been so cute? She's shakingher head. No, but what I'm
thinking of is like built in datenights, and I think there's a market
for that. So you're you're buyingall of your ingredients any Okay, you're
buying all your say hey, we'regoing to cook a file at dinner,
So you're right about I think whereyou're going this, there is a concept
of cooking in restaurants that do thisreally, because I think you're talking about
like I'm not talking about black rocksor wanting to bring out the stone Korean
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barbecue. Does this really fucking well? Yes? That could, Yes,
but that also feels like an assemblyline like a Chipotle. No, Like
there's good Ones Whitney in Detroit.I don't think I've ever been so the
coals are built into the table.No, there's a heating almond underneath you
and they turn it on, theybring you the things, and then you
cook them. That's pretty fun.Look, so it's kind of almost like
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really two with the fond dude.Yeah like that. But I think the
act I think we're even going evenfurther into it though. I think it's
gonna be and it's something that Iwould I would pay a hundred bucks for.
Oh, you're gonna be one hundredand fifty, Unna be like two
fifty three hundred and then you're drinking. Yeah, So it's it's a niche
market for sure, but it's alsoI think if you do it right,
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you're teaching people how to cook alittle bit also giving them a date night.
I mean, because you're we're givingthem a cultural idea of how to
cook. That's a really good wayto say on that cultural way. Cultural
way, like okay, you gottahere's your fucking hot stone and thirty seconds
on each side for rare whatever likeblack Girl. I'm not totally shitting on
black Rock and just didn't take off. No, I didn't the way the
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way that I thought it would have. Yeah, the first time I had
it was like the first restaurant thatthey had built, and it was a
maybe in Brighton. We were drivingfrom Lancing back to Toledo and some you
know had to stop eat there andI didn't even do their thing. I
got a burger. I was like, what's the point of this? Yeah,
it's crazy. You can bring outWe'll bring out you will Black Rocks,
the one they took over the oldClata. Yeah it did. Yeah,
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And that was doesn't do a storyfrom the story from from old,
old old episodes. But basically Clatais where I Claude was a great restaurant
where I got into we're gonna talkabout the progression to what's the next thing
instead of breweries or food. I'mgonna tell this clos story real quick,
interrupting me or you, but youknow, my trains of thought go quickly.
So Clada was a restaurant that Iworked at, an Irish pub,
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and basically how it shut down wasthe workers were doing a trash run to
close out the night and found blueprintsfor black Rock. Oh yeah, I
said, Cloda on it. Andthen the next day and they said,
hey, what is this And thenext day they shut him down. Yeah.
But the next big thing, Ithink I think that's what it might
be or I'll tell you my hope. I don't know what it's gonna be.
My hope for it for dying.I forgot to mention top golf to
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top golf is part of that.Top golf is definitely gonna not go away
for a Top golf is part ofthat. Activity based dinner activities we're kind
of talking more about. We're talkingabout dining and restaurant we're talking about dating
kind of more than anything. Yeah. Yeah, And as a guy who
in the last year has fucking dateda lot regular restaurant dining. If you're
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going out on a first date oryou know in the first couple of dates,
that is the worst ship you cando. Yeah, it's awkward,
don't do it? Yeah you know, Wait did you do that? No?
But I've had girls say they wantthat. I'll remember so we can
pivot. But is there quickly astory that you can tell of a date
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that you went on that it waslike, Oh, this is a fucking
terrible IDEA bad first date spot,not as much spots, just like the
general date though. Yeah, Iwas saying like, oh, it's a
really bad I don't understand why peoplego to movies for a first date.
I don't know if you know whatit's a bad first date. But I
had a accidental first date at amovie that ended up being a good first
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date. But the story of itis we had made plans to go on
a date on a Monday, butwe I thought it was Monday and she
thought it was Tuesday. Whatever,So we had our babysitters crossed, and
then we ended up both having babysittersfor Monday and Tuesday. So then Monday
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we're like, okay, never mind, it was supposed to be Tuesday,
We're gonna go get sushi. Iwas like, yeah, but what are
you doing tonight? And she's likewhy already have a babysitter? Like,
got me too. So we endedup going to a movie, which was
like a weird good ice breaker.It was like pre first date, first
date. Yeah, like meet up, We're gonna get some popcorn, watch
a fucking movie. Did you cutthe hole in the bottom or did you
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just like stuff it through? No? I just held her face. I
was just asking just a good questionthat and then you went you're gonna go
down reddit hole you don't want toin? Yeah? No? Actually,
no, good good to dates nevera good idea to plan the first date
to be a movie, but becausewe had figured out that the date was
actually supposed to be Tuesday and getsushi, Like we both have nothing to
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do on Monday? Do you wantto just hang out? When to a
movie? Watched Megan, Oh yeah, yeah, went to a movies Like,
all right now we kind of like, don't have this weird first date
vibe on the first date, whichwas cool. It's almost like when you
if you're you may have never donethis, and I don't think I really
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have either, like gone on afirst date with some with a girl that
you're friends, that you've been friendswith for a long time, but never
it kind of felt like that bythe time or at the first date,
I actually have done that. Ireally haven't. Intentionally. I've ended up
out with a girl that had knownfor a long time and they're like,
oh, I guess this is kindof a date. Yeah you know.
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No, But I think traditional dynastonI've accidentally dated. It's been both of
my life. I think traditional dininglike sit down, have a salad and
entraining a dessert and a glass thewine. As a first date, that's
got to go the fuck away.Yeah, because the interactive thing is good
because you know why, it's aninterview. It is, and that's all
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it turns in. It's a fuckinginterview. And the way dating is now,
most of the time you meet somebodyonline, you're you're talking well,
and you text for two weeks.First. By the time you get to
the first date, You're like,now, what the fuck do I ask
you this? He talked about allthese things, this thing, and I
don't want to put this out inthe universe, but I'm going like,
well, if this, if ifif my marriage goes tits up, I'm
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fuck, I can't do that.I can't do anything. Man. I
thought that too. And you knowwhat, because you were different. You
were different before your ex right.I was a serious I remember I was
a serial monogamous for a very longI was never a monogamist. Yeah,
I know you are, And thenI was only a monogamist. Yeah,
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And then I was like, oh, yeah, you don't have to do
that. If she han like,if she ever wises up, He's like,
you know what I mean, she'son doctors every day. What the
fuck am I? Ah, youget a pretty good career, buddy.
Yeah. The podcast on side,and I do stuff with food. That's
how I play hockey and break yourlegs every hockey and break by like,
hey, honey, it just gonnabe a quick three grand after I already
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paid about three grand over the pastthree years to play the sport. Just
gotta gotta reset a few bones inmy leg. But I twisted in the
circle. It was. It waswe got so off topic there, but
we do and I can bring itback though. We're talking about the dating
thing and I know, but thenI had a point that I wanted to
make and I lost it. Ohyeah, No. So my hope for
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yeah, dining in general, thenext thing for activities. Yeah, I
think that activity like based bar stuffis going to continue full top golf,
axe throwing. There'll be new shipthat we don't know about yet. You
know, I've seen the places thathave like flip cupp and all those things
set up. I think that's anoxious. But I'm hoping for dining.
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I'm hoping what happens is either morecourt out like you're here for a dining
experience. You're not here for asalad, steak, dessert, go home
like tasting menus. I'm hoping well, doesn't already exist though, but as
more normalized like more, that's whatyou're gonna get. I think that's how
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you have to pay one hundred andthirty dollars for a tasting. I know
that's when you run into like that'swhen you run into the profitability like so
profitability wise doing that and not chargingas that amount because you're not turning anything,
right, you're talking about a threehour probably table turn talking about tapas.
Yeah, basically small portion. Yeah, but you can three yeah,
but not as much as you wouldif you would do fastcast. And this
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is the thing that everybody always argues, Yeah you have no table turn.
Okay, that's fair, but ifyou can, you know, you're stretching
this experience over two or three hours. So the ideas you're going to spend
more money per person, and thenyou have to have good people in sales
so it can continue. Servers haveto basically be salespeople. Yeah, but
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then they're the ones that have tokeep the other side of that that.
I wish i'd see more that youalmost never see unless you go to like
a fucking buffet, which I thinkis trash. Is family style dining would
be so family style dining. I'dlike to see more of them. You
know, that's actually large portion.I would like to see that too.
We see it, we see whichthen doesn't have to be two hours.
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We see it in like barbecue placesand we see it. Yeah, like
we just had some barbecue. Seebarbecue is the most chicken places. Like
this place is called the Eagle,which I did not know is a change
until I went the fucking sor rightgood, change are good? Change are
all bad? I know until Iwent to Pittsburgh one year, Like I
thought it was a Columbus thing.I went to Pittsburgh with the Pittsburghs.
Downtown Toweto is now riddled with thingsthat you wouldn't think are changed. And
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then if you go to the website, there's ten of them. They're not
that's fear of them, but there'sten of them. You know, they
have like five cities at their sixcities whatever they do them. I do
like the idea of family style becausewe still like see more because how awkward
is it? It creates the samekind of conversations exactly, because you're talking
about creating conversations, and that's Ithink why Also to the activity dates top
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golf. Terrible idea, pins terribleidea for first eight sixteen bit terrible idea.
You want it to be almost likeeither axe throwing or honestly, axe
throwing might be the only one thatwere And so actually six I'll take it
back sixteen bit because you gotta thinkthey're turn based. Yeah, you can't
talk to somebody because it's like,Op, it's my turn, I gotta
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go. Yeah, Op, it'smy turn, I gotta go. We
didn't do fireballs. No, wecan do fireball. I fucked up the
recording yet again. So we're justgonna do shots of fireball. What's happening?
We got thirty minutes in, soI think we finished the story about
the conversation, that conversation we werehaving, and then I think that's a
good It was about you know,activity, activity, dating activity, dating
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activities and bars. So what's thenext thing that it cut off? I
mean dating that we got into adating conversation. Yeah, we got into
a dating conversation, but we talkedto it, you know, fulling and
all that stuff. Yeah, barsare gonna have to have activities, for
sure. They're gonna have so muchfor activities, you know, maybe more
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bars just need to sell little individualthoughts to Fireball. I don't know,
I think they don't they I mean, you can just buy a shadow.
I love how you made fun ofputting the water in here. But my
thirty six year old asks like,yeah, aw hydrate, Yeah, oh
you want to about being old.So on the way down here, I
bought up fifty leader thing of wateror whatever, and then I bought a
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coconut water for tomorrow morning. Whenyou gotta make sure you get your vitamins
back, Yeah, we're gonna takethem all. So I think where we
kind of left off was the questionI was asking you was sort of like,
what's the difference of dating when ormarried? Yeah, as opposed to
like you don't remember because it wasa million years ago you were dating.
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Yeah, I think I used acertain person. You're you're obviously you've been
dating for the past about year nowyear heavily dating, Like heavily dating.
What is how to Shannon night?Date? Like? Is it? Yeah?
Like? What is it? Youknow? What's important when you guys
want to date? Is it justgoing to Applebe's on Tuesday or nothing wrong
with that? No? But likeno, doesn't But I think your main
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point was like having a plan.So yeah, we Yeah, there's we
take turns like planning stuff. Wewe actually we bet on it like we
were big Big Brother fans. That'sa sentence for you. We watch a
lot of reality TV and what we'lldo is we'll bet and we'll like draft
people and we'll have like fantasy.Yeah, not for The Bachelor, the
Bachelor at because I can't watch those. I give it like two or three
(25:48):
episodes that I'm done. Yeah,but like inc Master, like The Challenge,
Real World and stuff like that.But either way, coming back to
that, Yeah, it's super importantto us. We try to make it
so that we don't do the samething over and over and over again.
Yeah. So it's like, hey, it's the first Tuesday of September or
the first Tuesday of the month,like let's go to Cooper Sauk like we
always do. Like we don't dothat, Like we try not, so
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we try to go to different places. So that's important to us, is
I guess variety? Variety is important. Variety is important. But I guess
one of my question was like isn'thaving the plan? Yeah, like if
it's your turn to plan the date, and then you show up and it's
Friday night, Like I don't know, we're just gonna like yeah, especially
because whatever we'll win it that's sounimpressive, right, So she's just gonna
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be likens like everybody that knows mywife, she's a psycho about our dogs,
so like planning is more important toher, not for just like me
having the plan, but more forthe dogs. But what pisses her off
the most is if I don't havea plan, like you have to even
if you're married. And also it'skind of a respect thing, like if
it's your like and like when webet, it's on who's going to plant,
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Like if you win the bet,that means you are not planning the
date, like planning a date.Oh you know what, though I would
so much want to want to planto plan it. I will fucking because
she does some really cool shit,and like I feel I feel so much
pressure. Yeah, if I aska girl if she wants to go out
on like a Saturday, but I'masking around like a Tuesday, I like,
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fucking great, Now I've got fouror five days to like come up
with a plan. Have you beenon a date that the gal has planned
not recently. Closest thing to that, which is just in ladies, Matt
Turner will not go on a datewith you if you plan it. No,
No, I'm saying like the closestthing to that was about a year
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ago with a girl that I wassort of dating. I hope the plane
is being picked up you too,Ah, that was sort of dating but
not dating. And she showed upwhere I worked a couple of days after
my birthday because I didn't do anythingfor my birthday, and she said,
I'm gonna take you out to dinnerfor your birthday. And then she was
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like, but what do you wantto do? Like bol So showed up
here who I was getting off,I'm gonna I'm gonna pay, but you're
still I'm gonna take you out,But where do you want to go?
But it was a really complicated situation. I was like, most places we
can't go because we can't be seentogether. Oh, we'll talk about that
off at the off. Yeah.But I'm saying like, no, really,
I've not had a girl ask meout on a date she had planned.
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No. I don't think so.I think you have to. I
think it's a guy when you're singleand you're theres two people when you're single.
Yeah. Do you think that thatthat that gets the girl wants?
Great? I think that at thebeginning of dating as single, people call
it what you want. There's genderroles. Yeah, you know we're gonna
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we're gonna be going down a thinghere. Yeah, but there are you
know, a girl wants to gonnagive you a couple a couple of paragraphs
tell a girl wants to be takenout and shown a good time by a
guy so that she knows he's interestedin her, and then he's gonna put
some efford in maybe date three sheshould plan. I don't know, Yeah,
well I would say not even especiallyif if I ask a girl out,
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I shouldn't ask her out and belike yeah, but then whatever you
want to do, like you tellme and I'll just p I know,
I thought I was just I wantto see it, like maybe maybe if
I can, you're taking it awayfrom yeah, yeah, yeah, if
I can. Of course they leave. Thanks Ruby and Rollo. I'm so
happy that I have a stick onmy You know you did it. You
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know what, you're not the mysteriousone. I didn't think you'd be the
ones still going at it psycho psychopathsover there with her ears and keep her
in frame just for funzies, buteither way being too close to the fire.
Yeah yeah, yeah, So I'veactually had girls. One specifically,
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so I took on a couple ofdates tell me that. She's just like,
I don't really want you to askme out, and then be like,
yeah, well, so whatever youwant to do is cool. She's
like, be impressive, Like youwant to take me out. You're asking
me out to the date. Yougotta land this plane somehow, I know
how we land this plane. Allright, let's get back on track.
The point of the original question was, is there a difference in dating when
you're married, like the expectation thatis set to when you're dating when you're
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single. I would say the answeris yes and no, which is a
total cop out. But I takepride in the fact that we do fun
things together and we like to planfun things together. It is very easy
to fall into that. Hey,it's Wednesday night, It's right. I
mean, you'll never have that withsome of you just started dating. You
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can't. Well, that's what I'msaying. That's what they did. Like,
that's like you're going to find answersfor both for both, Like with
married couples, like we we takepride and I don't know if it got
cut off when we when I fuckedup the recording, but like people like
always tell us that we're a prettygood couple, and we kind of take
pride in that to you, Yeah, and because we feel oh yeah,
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prime example at the wedding, Yeah, well I was like, yeah,
solid couple. Everybody liked it.You're talking great about her, she's talking
shit about you. Yeah, that'sthe whole pa. If she's good.
That's the thing is if the secondshe stops making fun of me something,
something's fucked up, something, something'ssomething's really fun and really bad. Yeah,
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but you guys are a cute couple. You do the whole uh my
beautiful wife over there thing. Andthat's good and that's good. That's good
that you do it, you know, But I mean I feel like it's
it's necessary sometimes, Like even whenyou were set up the camera, she's
like looking at him outside. Oh, he's such a fucking nerd. She's
like, it's so cute. Howmuch it cares. No one's listening to
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this trying. That's just that that'sgood couple. The shit, I like,
we are a couple. Yeah.As far as like the idea of
what a good date is, I'lltake it back to what we originally started
talking about, the traditional dinner anda couple of cocktails date when you're single,
is that is drying up? Yeah, just like going to a bar
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and having nothing to do besides atthe bar and talk. That's that's going
away. Yeah, I felt it. Yeah, like activities for bars,
fulling acts, throwing all that,that's gonna be the next thing. Same
with dating, Like it's so infuriatedto go on a date with a girl
and she's like, all right,well it's fun talking and then she's like
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on Instagram, yeah you can't dothat. But if there's a solid plan,
then you know you did good work. And I feel like that's the
same for restaurants and bars, ifyou've done your due diligence to not just
make it a dining experience or adrinking experience. Like having a brewery is
great. If you have a greatbeer, that's fantastic, but that like
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the place we went to, theyhad all kinds of ship that like,
enjoy our beer. But then lookat this atmosphere we've created. Yeah,
there's like fucking golf, corn hole. Yeah, there's like basketball. Yeah,
we've got music. If you listento that, and we're not going
to provide they do the fucking beerkeg curling. Yeah, that's sweet.
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Yeah, that's gonna have to bethe next thing. Activities, activities,
activities. Yeah, and then getoff your phone, you know how like
get off your phone. Yeah,get like you know, when you go
to a concert now or a comedyshow, they put him in the They
put your phone in the bag.Dave Chappelle. I fucking hope at some
point when you go out to arestaurant or a bar, that'll the first
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fuck I wish I had one.I would do it. Gears a bag,
put your fucking phone in there,like they're here to have a social
experience. What not to be onyour phone? What if that is the
idea that you just came up withthat just takes I mean, I'm a
fucking know because it was How coolwould that be? Because here's the thing
is that that's a trend out.Do you know that like some of these
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like fucking minimalistic millennial fucking gen zeor whatever, like the Zennioals or whatever.
These little fucking fuckers think that theZoomers was the best from them.
They think they invented like social awareness, but they like have no idea.
I know. It cracks me out. I love. I love that you
are socially aware and you were fightingfor the little guy gal or they and
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like whatever, you didn't invent this, no, like you didn't invent this.
No, there was years of repression. There was there was so many
people that were damaged. Yeah,yeah, I forgot what we were to
even talking about. I don't know. When you go to a restaurant bart
you have to put your phone inthe bag. That's what I was going.
Okay, so as we were recordingon a phone, and like I
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we recorded everything all day. Imean, but I feel like there are
there are actual millennials that you havefoot or Zennioals or whatever that have footphones
now because they're like I want tobe unconnected. So there's like you can
literally they get flip phones to nottake like they have their phone, they
have their iPhone yeah whatever, andthen they have a footphone. They have
like the same number, so theycan leave their iPhone at home and have
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their footphone to text and stuff bein the moment, so they're not on
their phone the entire time. I'mall four, that's like the thing.
That's why that's and then like obviouslyall the all the all the boomers and
stuff like that, that are thebaby boomers. My favorite term for the
present gen z's yeah, because they'rethe same mentality. Yeah, thing is
(35:37):
stupid not don't understand it. Yeah, they I just wish there was.
But they're just so like woke mentalitytoo. They're like, I don't understand
why people haven't always felt like therewas oppression. No, we all felt
it. Yeah, we looked throughremote a lot of it. And it's
nineteen you fucking morons. Like everytime a baby boomers, every time a
(35:57):
boomer says woke, a gay angelgets its wings or something like, okay,
angel gets its unicorn horn or something, it's something like that. I
don't know. I'm just like,I'm a I'm on a school thought that
I don't hate anybody. I loveeverybody me too, even though I say
I hate people all people. Ihate all people. I hate all people.
I don't hate the person you are, I just hate you. That's
(36:20):
a really good way to put Ihate all people, but in general,
it's not for who you are.It's not for who you are as person.
No, I just hate you.I just don't like you around too
many people, and I like,I don't people well sometimes like never,
I am super social. We're ina fucking thousand all the time. Yeah,
(36:40):
but they said this when we're atthe back a part of the wedding.
But I said one of the two. I think it was a wedding
saying it to your I was Iwas pulling actually saying it to your wife
because I had to. And Idon't think it was the day of the
one who was the day before weall got there. It's just always to
be up here. I'm like,I get it. You want to keep
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the energy of everybody going great.Sometimes everybody else wants to be down here,
and you're just like, well,that's the thing. I love it
because I need that. Otherwise I'mjust gonna do exactly what we're doing right
now. I'm gonna sit in achair that is Matthews. Matthew's that way
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of telling me that I'm annoying.I like it because I need that.
I need to That's what we thinkthat's keep it going. I'll just do
this by myself. So here's thething is I do it when I think
people need it. Yeah, solike a good example. But sometimes when
you think people need it, everyone'slike, hey, we need ten.
Well that's like they I'm okay withpeople telling me that. The perfect example
(37:42):
was I remember Lex Jake's wife,Uh, good friend of the show.
Lex should be fun to have tenin the morning. Oh, she's hilarious.
He's like the best. She wasout of ten all the time too,
right, no, no, ohno, Like I don't know.
Then Quitton Bay House on a Sundayand we're like watching I think we always
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watched bar Rescue every time we werehung over at the Bay on a Sunday,
and I was talking to Shannon aboutlike jet skiing, and I was
like super animated and super exciting.There's about ten people in this living room.
Everybody looks like they're about to die. Yeah, And I was thinking,
like we need yea and then Lexsnaps, She's just like okay,
Well, because I was talking aboutgoing jet skiing, just go then chirp,
(38:28):
chirp, chirp, churp. Tripthat's all you do. That's all
you do is chur church chrip chripchirp. And I was just like,
Okay, that's my inner dialogue withall people all the time. But I
just don't say it because what Ireally do is go like that's super fucking
annoying. I'm not gonna pay attentionto that at all. I'm just gonna
(38:49):
sit here quietly and got everybody saysit to you, and I wish I
could turn it. I wish Icould turn it off. No, don't
turn it. I wish I couldturn The world needs people. Well,
And that's the thing. It's like, if it's just Shannon and I,
I'm not like that. I getsuper excited. I would seriously hope you
know it was your wife all thetime. I get like this when like
people are at the house because Iget excited. I like to entertain the
people that I know and loved likethat. It's so weird when I say
(39:10):
that I hate people, yeah,but I love I love my population.
Yeah. So it's people you don'tget to choose to be. I I
tried so hard to not be asas bad as I am, but it's
it's just so like you have totell me and I won't tell you.
I just think it's funny. Wellthat's she's gotten really good. We have
(39:32):
like kind of like a cobord thing. She's like, you're you're being off
with Chipper because I'm like, allright, cool. So then I know
I was like, all right,I need to dial it back because like,
for instance, like her friend Sarah, it was like one of the
first nights I ever stayed at theirnew house and I woke up at like
seven thirty. Oh, I wasready to go. I was like because
(39:54):
I had my monster and I wasgood to go. And I think that
was still when I was doing likeSunday or from my old company. So
I was just on my laptop andeverybody's walking down was like, hey,
guys, go to the roll.Yeah. And then I was like,
so you're a morning person. Yeah, yeah, it is what it is.
That's how I felt when we're atthe Batchword party. But I was
like, I'm not a morning person. I'm not a morning person. I
(40:16):
just don't want to feel like shittoday. Yeah, I'm gonna get this
over with. I think mine islike my go to phrase. And you
might have quinned just get all theevil out of you. Got to get
and I deal with it. Mything is, it's like I get so
excited where my people are around,like I do. Well, it's because
(40:37):
like in a great way. Idon't mean that. Yeah, here's why.
Here's why it is. We don'tsee everybody else. I'm gonna end
it on a sappy note. Yeah, like I don't get to see everybody
all the time because we're down here. We're down here. We thank god
we have like Seawan, the Triangleof Yeah, we have basically you know,
Toledo Columbus and like even saying Nattyuh cle Cleveland, Tledochus me uh
(40:58):
and I want every single minute Icould possibly get. Yeah, So like
yeah it seems like crazy. Soyeah, I'll stay up till four.
So I stay up till four lastnight, you know, woke up at
eight. Yeah, took a tooka tiny nap in a nap between eight
and eleven. But you know,like still, I was just so excited
(41:19):
to get the day started, likeso like it would be the same thing
if anybody was here. You know, it's more so if like like one
of my best friends is here.So it's it's people. If they tell
me to calm down. I don'ttake it harshly, but that's just where
I'm coming from. Yeah, Ijust so excited for everybody. I was
just like, yeah, it's awesome. I'm like a fucking I'm literally a
Yorkie puppy. Yeah. I thinkmaybe it was just me and you for
(41:39):
like a week at some point andbe like, hey man, chill the
fuck out. I think big groupof people like you know what I can
do with you is I can justbe like off somebody else. So I
had your back at the wedding andthe bachelor party. I was just like
if you the second you were done, I was like, everybody, look
at me, look at me?Well, will my attention at me of
(42:00):
it? That's also too is it'slike I hate people, but I like
attention. But I like attention.It's so weird because that's why I stream
all the time. Like I said, oh, it's we all know you
like it. It's crazy to me. But then I'm like, oh no,
I don't like attention. You likeattention in a good way. Yeah,
you only draw attention to yourself ina positive way, which is nice.
(42:22):
You're being awfully close to like justbeing like super nice to me.
Oh, that's as close as agis. All right, let's say buy
a Matt alright,
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