February 3, 2025 • 53 mins
Joanne's Healing Within - Season 8, Episode 2 "Healing After Betrayal". Hosted by Joanne Angel Barry Colon. Tonight's guest is Samantha Bailey. Joanne's Healing Within is aired live on Strong Island Television from Paradise Studios NY - www.strongisland.com
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Speaker 1 (00:08):
In the soucing bing in is sucing, b tansis dicing
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bdancer of Doso.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Hello, Hello, Hello, and happy Monday. It is February third.
Oh my god, I cannot believe it's already in the February. Nevertheless,
the third of February. Happy, happy Monday to every one
of you. If you are tuning in and you're wondering
who I am. I am doing inter Barry Clone the
hosts of Doings Healing Within, and I'm super excited to
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be with you. I am your certifi holistic, personal trainer,
Holistic and degrade, the teacher, Waiki, master, medical astrologer, master
of Numerology, pod quator, and card reader. I'm super excited
to be here with you today, really excited. It's the
first Monday of the month, and it's an unusual Monday
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because this Monday I actually have a guest with me today.
Before I go ahead and dive in and invite her in,
we have to go through the rituals today. So right
off the bat, to start with, I want to remind
you to go ahead and share, like and comment. I
would probably do that later because as usual I've been
having some technical challenges, so I will definitely share the
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show shortly, however, I would love for you to.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Share the show.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
In addition, I would love for you to for comments
in let you know what's going on for you, how
you liking the show, and feel free to chat with
us while we're having these conversations. Also want to bring
out our partner Frier, introducing all of our partners that
make the show go on week after weekft the week,
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starting with Miss Kinney, who is our storyteller astrologists. Then
we have Joel Monkman, who is our personal development teacher.
And last and not least, we have Nancy Nance. She's
our author, public speaker and psychmedium. Now, if you're interested
in be coming one of our partners, feel free to
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go ahead and email Healing with Dan seven six at
gmail dot com. I'm always looking for new partners, sponsors
of course for you to be on the show as well.
I'm getting so thrown off by my background because I'm
not used to my background being so land, but it
is what it is. For today, it's all good anyway.
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Let's tipe it into a little energy for the day.
See what's going on. For those of you who do
follow astrology, know that today Venus the planet of love, relationships, partnerships,
It's associated with our physical body, and of course money
has recently moved out of Pisces, where it so loves
to be, and it's entered areas where it's not very comfortable.
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Anytime we have a plane sitting in a zodiac sign
when it's not comfortable, that means we may not be
very comfortable as Venus sits in Aris. Why is this
an uncomfortable position to start off with? Venus is feminine,
it's love, it's passion, it's compassion. Where areas rule by Mads,
which is the opposition of Venus, is about aggression and
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it's leadership. It's the boss. It's fire, and sometimes it
can be explosive as well. So with Venus sitting in Ares,
this is gonna be one or two days for you.
Though on the positive note, it's gonna give you energy,
it's gonna make you motivated, it's gonna give you that
kick to get things going. On the other side of
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the coin, it's definitely not gonna make you all lovey dovey,
because again, Nomber Venus is about love, sitting in Aries
not so much. So this is really going to be
a period of time where it's really about more work
and let's play. More work and let's play, and let's
not forget that. As Venus is now an Aries, we
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will experience a retrograde for the first time. As Venus
does not retrograde every year like all the other planets do.
It only retrogrades every two years, and we're going to
experience to retrograde, those of you who are new to retrograde.
It to retrograde is when the planet itself so us
to slow down, to give us an opportunity to be
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flat on the energy of the planet and the zodiac line.
So we're going to be reflecting on our relationships, on
how we interact with money, and we're going to be
filling our fields with our physical body as well and
with arias. It really is about the aggressionist. Do you
get up and go now? Do want to put this
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disclaimer out for all of you. During this time that
Venus is in Areas, you may very well experience some
physical symptoms showing up in your body, especially for those
of you who do have your sun moon or a
sending in Aries, or you have vida sitting in your
first house or six house, so pay attention, because those
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symptoms are just your body's way of letting you know
that either something needs to be realigned or that you
are going through an evolution, which means your body is
being realigned as well. Our retrograde starts as much first.
We will be in what's called the shadow period over
the next two weeks, so we're gonna start to feel
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that slowly down process and we'll believe it there for now.
And I also want to bring in so highlight that Jupiter,
our planet of expansion, spiritual growth and also good fortune,
has just gone direct in torust energy. And note that
Venus rules Tourus, so there's a little conjunction going on
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between the two of them, and there's an expansion happening.
So we're gonna leave that day. If you want to
know more about how these planets are going to impact
you personally, as always, just reach out or we gotta
do is email Healing within seven six at gmail dot com.
I'm gonna go ahead and pull a car see what
we need to know based on this energy we have
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gone on and there it goes to cars, and now
we have two causes that flew out. Obviously, I'm not
gonna be both, but I am gonna read the first
one that's flew out the deck, which is Queen and King,
and that's so appropriate. With this energy. We you have
Venus being the queen, the feminine energy, if being in
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Aries the king energy. So it's that push pulls, so
to speak. The energy of the Sacred Chakra is really
about tapping into your confidence during this time, because yes,
with Venus and Aries, you may not feel as confident
as you were feeling on Venus in Pisces. That number
two is reminding you about your partnerships that you may
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very well see blossoming during this season. Because again, the
flip side is Venus is about love. The positive side
is Venus is sitting in Aries. So it's going to
be more work and less play. So that's how hard
for right now? All right, I'm gonna take a quick
commercial break, and when I get back, I'm going to
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be coming back and introducing you to our guests all
the day. I'll be right back. Did you know we
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are in the age of Aquarius.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
It's all about.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
Finding your tribe, making connections, collaborations, networking, being inspired, being
empowered and transforming. Hello, Reverend Joan Injebarry Cologne, the founder
of Holistic Fitness and Why and Women Empowering Women. I'm
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Speaker 2 (08:48):
I would love to.
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Invite you in as my VIP guests. To redeem your
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I do promise that you will be inspired, empowered and
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second Monday of the month at eight pm Eastern time.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Hello and welcome back. If you're just tuning in, remember
to share, like and comment on today's show. Share it out,
Share it out, Share it out. Like I said before
I bring in my guests for the day, I just
want to come back to our car for today. After all,
it is about the Queen and King, venus and areas
where it's not so comfortable, which means during this time
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you may be a little uncomfortable in regardless to the
love theme. However, you may be very comfortable in regards
to doing more business and less playing during this season,
and we all will be in a retrograde cycle with
Venus being an ari Pay attention because again that arias
energy does tap into your im statement and there is
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going to be a conjunction between readers and Kaiwon because
Chaion is sitting in areas energy, So you're in a
child wounds may be shown up, especially for those of
you who do carry your kaiwan in aries like me,
So pay attention to that. And again, if you want
more information about how all this really plays out for
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you on a personal level, just send out an email
dealing within seven six at FMail dot com. So for
right now, what I would love to do is I'm
going to introduce my amazing guest, Samantha Bailey. She's an
author and coach and speaker and today she's here to
share with you her brand new book that she has
recently written, and she and I have been chatting it
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out and I'm super excited to have her here today. So, Samantha,
how are you, my love?
Speaker 3 (10:56):
I'm doing great. Thanks so much for having me. I
really appreciate the here.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Oh, I'm excited to have you here today. I'm so
excited for your book. I'm so excited for everything that's
going on.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
In your life.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Samantha and I have been chatting behind the scenes over
the last couple of weeks regarding all the amazing things
that's going on, and I have a list of questions
for her. But I have a feeling this is going
to be in just a general conversation like two girlfriends
sitting talking about a book. So start off with I
like to just like dive right in and ask what
inspired you to write this book? And the book is
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called Deceptive You stay the title because I'm going to
screw it up.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Deceptive Liaisons.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
There you go, yes, yes, So what inspires you to
write this book?
Speaker 3 (11:45):
Yeah? A great question. So about five and a half
years ago, I was living in Paradise in Hawaii and
really content and enjoying my life. Had a great job,
had made new amazing friends there, and thought I had
a you know, a steadfast, solid marriage and we were
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brand new empty nesters. So it was the first time
that we could enjoy each other and you know, just
get to enjoy everything that Hawaii had to offer as well.
So things were going well. In about three years after
living there, I found out that my husband was having
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what I thought was one affair, but it turned out
to be over a dozen fares with sugar babies, escorts, prostitutes,
and spending almost our entire retirement savings on them for
you know, luxury trips, five star hotels, design a shopping spree,
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sex time, you name it. And it took a year
and a lot of detective work on my behalf to
uncover the truth as far as I know it today.
At that point, I just kind of didn't want to
know anymore. But a lot of the times when I
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was going through initially the trauma of finding out, there
were so many days that were a fog in my head.
So I journaled, and the journaling kind of was almost
like healing for me, and it also was able to
track my progress, which was kind of stagnant. I wasn't
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really going anywhere. But I was also able to look
back and go, Wow, that happened to me, and why
did I do this and that, and realized that there
were so many things that I did wrong. Some I
did right, but the things that I did wrong really
delayed my healing path. And once I realized that I
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probably I was thinking I'm probably not a lot and
I want others to know what not to do and
what to do, especially when they first discover and they've
you know, hit the shock wave and the betrayal trauma
and everything that's going through them. So I decided to
write a book about what had happened, and not only
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what had happened, how I came out of it on
the other side, not just no longer a victim, but
surviving and thriving and living a happy life and full
of joy and just peace.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
Yes, now you mentioned that you did it the wrong way.
Could you explain what that actually means by you're doing
it the wrong way? Curious to know that answer?
Speaker 3 (14:45):
Yeah, Well, what I did for almost three years straight,
I was looking in the past. I was looking at
Facebook memories every day, anything that popped up with a
memory with my husband, myself. I would look at everything
and I was just searching, like, you know, where was
I How did I not know what happened? And I
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did that consistently for three years. Another thing that I
did was I tracked him. He had an app where
I knew exactly where he was, so it was a
constant I'm looking at that in the morning when he
goes to work to make sure he's going to work
and making sure throughout the day he's there, and that
all it did was create more and more stress, and
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I wasn't helping anything by controlling him. I needed to
help me first and worry about him after.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
That makes so much sense, and I'm glad I asked
the question for one, because I believe that there's a
lot of women who have experienced some of the stories
that end up doing the same thing. So with the
focus on what they are doing, that we take the
focus off our own healing. It's really not about what
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they're doing anymore on you once you discovered the story,
it's really about how you can work on healing and
not being in that quote unquote victim space. So I really,
I really First of all, I commend you for even
deciding to write this and to put this out there,
because I know you know that there are many women
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that's going to benefit from your journey that you went through.
I truly believe that when someone does go to a
journey like you have, you have a bigger purpose. And
there's so much that you've learned in that experience of
the moment you found out about the deception of your marriage. Yeah,
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so exactly. So next question that I have for you
is what would you say to those who feel they'll
they've never been able to forgive the person who betrayed them.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
I would say it's vital to their health. For me,
looking back, for some reason, I had an easier time
forgiving my husband than I did the affair partners. But
when I kind of did a little assessment, I realized
that I had so much anger and resentment and just
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holding all that, you know, dark cloud over me, and
and I realized that I needed to forgive them too.
And inside I'm thinking, how can I forgive the affair partners,
especially the ones who knew he was married? And I
realized that in order to release myself from them, I
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had to forgive them. And I actually did a took
a couple hours. I did a little balloon ceremony. I
had my husband bring home fifteen red balloons with white
string helium, and I wrote the names of each affair
partner on each balloon. I took them outside and I
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pray to forgiveness, prayer over each of them. There were
some tears involved as well, and you know, a lot
of emotion. And then I took some scissors. I didn't
release the balloons to the sky. I actually released what
I thought, I acquitted the helium to be their soul.
So I took some scissors and I stabbed the balloon,
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releasing the helium up to the heavens, no longer attached
to me. And the amazing thing that happened after that,
I had severe anxiety, almost like someone was choking me.
I had a hard time speaking at times as well.
After that little ceremony, my anxiety was completely gone, like
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I didn't feel this, you know, choking out, like where
is it? What's happened? And I realized that, you know,
this unforgiveness and bitterness and anger and resentment was what
was giving me the anxiety and releasing that gave me freedom.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
Yes, I'm writing down some of your words because they're
just so powerful and love. I just love the I'm
gonna use this term the practice and exercise that you
took on to give yourself this permission to forgive the
other parties. As you said, forgiving your husband was the
easier part. For giving the women that were involved with this,
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especially those that knew you were married, were the harder
part of it all. However, it was the most necessary part,
as you mentioned, because many people don't realize that when
something like this occurs, we do hold on to that
energy in our bodies and over time if we don't
let it go, and not just in the betrayal, just
in any type of of any emotional connection, you know,
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in reference to grief, in reference to angle, whatever it is,
we hold that in our bodies. So I'm loving the
fact that you chose balloons, red balloons on that what
a powerful color, and just allowing the actual helium to
be released worth letting the balloons go, because in my mind,
if you were going to end up saying that you'll
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let the balloons go, it's like to me, that's like
it's a very different energy than if you allow the
actual helium to come out, because that's almost like releasing
the air from them and the connection from me as well.
So that's extremely powerful and truly love it and the
forgiveness Pueyer and freeing yourself.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
Worried about too. I didn't want any balloons stuck in
any engine.
Speaker 2 (20:50):
So exactly exactly, now, if you can recall from the
time you did that practice, how many days later did
you actually really start to feel the relief and the
heaviness sought to lift throw off. Can you recall that.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
It was immediate? It was immediate, Yeah, it was. It
wasn't a physical like paw relief. It was just like
I didn't feel the need to be anxious anymore. It
just knew too better.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
Yeah, And ansiety it's more in your throats and as
opposed to anywhere in your body or just really the
tole area.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
It was. It was kind of in my heart, but
it would come through my throat, especially when I would
try to speak. It would be just kind of like
all consuming, and you know, I'd be as a speaker.
That's not something you want to have happened to you.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Yes, exactly exactly, And it happens too many of us
in general, just because we speak so much that out
throat chocolate gets overactive from it that we really do it.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
It's like being a singer.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
We have to littlely pop our voice before we begin
to sneak, otherwise we come out sounding horse, so to speak. Now,
in regards to your balloons, you said you had fifteen
of them. Was that the amount of women that were
involved in this betual?
Speaker 3 (22:11):
Yes, yes, that's yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
That's that's that's a lot. And in regards to for
giving your husband, what was that like for you?
Speaker 3 (22:23):
It was kind of an ongoing process because it took
him a whole year to tell me the truth, like
full disclosure. I had eight different D days and that
D day is a day of discovery when you first
discover the infidelity, and that happened eight different times in
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a year's period. So the forgiveness was kind of like ongoing.
And you know, I kind of went through this whole
process of the shock and then just realizing that I
needed to forgive again. I wanted to work on my marriage.
I absolutely loved my husband, and I wanted to do
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whatever it took with boundaries in place to make my
marriage whole again.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
That's that's just beautiful, very beautiful. So we do have
to take a commercial break. So if you can let
our audience know how they can meet you, and if
through email or even through your wrong I mean email
address a polity a good good place to start.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
Sure you can reach me at author Sam Bailey. That's
b A. I L eu Y at gmail dot com.
And my book will be out on Amazon any day now.
I'm just waiting on the publisher to give me the
thumbs up. So and also you can read more about
me and my bio on my website. It is help
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the Number four Betrayal Trauma dot com.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
Yeah, we got beautiful, So we're going to take that
quick commercial break and then we'll be back for more.
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Speaker 2 (25:54):
Hello, and welcome back. If you are just tuning in,
take a moment to shield like and comment. You will
walking Julianne's Healing Within. I'm your host Joanne and grew
Barbie Cologne, and I'm gonna bring my guest back on
Submitha Billy as we talk about her amazing book that
is available on Amazon. And I don't know if we
can get a little shot of that book, Bobby, can
you bring the image of that book up book here?
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We wait till later. I don't know if you could
do that now, it would be great if now we
can always wait till later. Whichever way this flows. So meanwhile,
what we're going to do is we're gonna ask the
next question. So the next question, the real one there
is that beautiful book. Now is that a gorgeous book?
We're gonna have to talk about that cover and we'll
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do that short. We love that book, amazing, amazing, amazing.
Thank you, Bobby. All Right, So my next big question,
and then we're gonna go and talk about that cover,
is how can someone spot red flags early to avoid
potential betrayal in the future.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
Yeah. I, first of all, one of the things that
twelve several. It took me a while to realize that
there were red flags because initially I thought there were none.
But when you trust someone one hundred percent completely, you
take them at their words, so you're not really looking
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for red flags. But looking back, there were many, and
some of them were He starts untagging you on Facebook.
Why who does he not want to see that you're
with when previously you would write nice comments and you know,
we're a thumbs up or a heart. All of a sudden,
he's removing himself from the tag. He takes his phone
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with him everywhere, even in the middle of the night
to go to the restroom. The phone is with him.
It's always right by his side. When he is on
the phone, he usually has the screen away from you,
so you cannot see who he's talking about. And usually
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he'll say, oh, this is work. Where before when it
was you know, dinner time or we were out with friends,
the phone would be put out. The phone was not
an interruption, but it began to become an interruption, and
it was always the excuse work. But you know, looking back,
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there was some smirks and smiles in the you know
response when he was texting back. So that's another thing
to keep an eye on business trips. I never checked
or verified his boarding passes. A lot of times he
went on trips and basically stayed on island and booked
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a beachfront resort in Hawaii right under my nose, and
I wasn't aware of it because I thought he was
on a business trip. Make sure that you are able
to call through to wherever hotel he's staying. Nowadays, you
can't just call and them forward it directly. You have
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to be on their proof lists. So make sure you're
on that. And also, you know, it's okay to ask
to look at their phone, you know, not not necessarily
because you want to snoop, just that you just want
to confirm that everything's okay, And it's okay to do
that every once in a while I wish I had.
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But again, when you trust someone completely and if they're
not doing anything wrong, then great, that's that's amazing, but
if they are, you know, sooner rather than later finding
out is much better. And I just think there was
just a lot of times that he would go hiking
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and I never thought twice, well, it's pouring rain out,
but he would say it wasn't raining when he he
was hiking, and I never checked the weather, like just
little things that I could have done to confirm because
he would never have hyped in the rain. And also
just confirming maybe with some business associates whether or not
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he was with them like he said he was. Yeah.
Just so there were a lot of red flags and
also very easily agitated and defensive if the question was
asked that he felt was not a question that should
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be asked, he turned it around, like for instance, when
I asked him, you know, are you having an affair
on me? He was almost like angry, No, why would
you even ask me that I love you so much?
Where would you get this idea? When I knew in
fact he already was. But you know, just things like
that gaslighting, you know, making you feel like you're the
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one that's crazy asking those questions, things like that.
Speaker 2 (31:04):
Yes, yeah, yeah, I have a philosophy, and my philosophy
is the meaning I have to start questioning or checking
or use the ords buying or looking at the phone
or whatever not right off the back I no longer
trust the situation. And if I no longer trust the situation,
that means there's been something broken already. So that's like
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a red flag in general, and a moment of trying
where you can just ask the question of the time
you already know the answer. You're probably not going to
get the direct answer from the partner only because again,
like you said, they're not going to be ready to confess.
Is the religion. They're used to lying exactly exactly, and
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so sometimes sometimes it's they want to be caught. It's
easier for them to be caught than to actually come
straight out and say this is what I'm doing and
for when other reasons are And ninety percent of time
it really has actually nothing to do with you or
any woman. It's more about their habits and what's going
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on in their world, and women need to also unless
on two it's really not about them at all. It's
about the man's situation, what's going on in his life
at that time. So I love your red flags. So
before I go into my next questions, that's here for
me to ask. I do want to talk about your
book cover, because oh my god, its gorgeous. How did
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you come up with that cover? Where did it come from?
Is it a photo? Is it a vision? What's that
cover about?
Speaker 3 (32:36):
I it was a vision. I wanted it because you know,
everything took place in Hawaii. I wanted a beach scene
and with the sun coming up. It's kind of like
the front is a little bit dark, but if you
look in the background, the sun is rise, saying, and
that's very It's kind of like the beginning of the
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book is dark, but in the end the sunrises and
it's a beautiful day.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
Yes, yes, And it sounds like exactly how your journey
went where it got really dark and then somewhere along
the line you're finding your light, you know, and like
it should your journey that you are on all the
things that you've learned through this process about yourself and
how you're sharing this with other women, and this is
everything that led to your book. Otherwise, and we'll talk
(33:27):
later about your second book that's coming out, because we
know there's a second one coming out, but for right now,
without that, we don't have that journey, you wouldn't have
this juicy book to talk about. So in some way
or another we have to say, well, there's something that
came out of that journey.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
Correct, Oh, absolutely absolutely. It's funny because I had a
therapist once tell me that one day you'll be grateful
for your journey, what you went through, and I'm like,
she's crazy, And now how grateful is the word? But
I'm very happy that I went through this because had
(34:06):
I not, I wouldn't be in a position where I
am today, which is happy with a purpose. I know
what my purpose is. And when you have that, you
know your life is complete, not done, but it's full.
Speaker 2 (34:19):
Yes, yes, it's full because you have a purpose. There's
a reason I always say that. Again, whatever the journey
is that we go on and the different people, we
have agreements too to have this journey with. Some of
those agreements are challenging, is and obstacles show up for
us to learn about patients and resilience and compassion for
ourselves and then to bough that out to others as well.
(34:41):
So my next question, which is directly a lot of
what we're talking about, which is what was the moment
you realize you wanted to take control of your healing
instead of staying in the pain.
Speaker 3 (34:56):
Yeah, great question. Again. I had been in a bad place,
like a pit for almost three years and I came
across a website that there was a test for big
trail trauma and it showed what stage you were in.
(35:18):
It rated one to five, and so I took the quiz.
One was you've just discovered and you're not in a
good place. Five is you're on the road to healing
and you're in a really good place. Well, my score
was a three, which basically said that how I like
to describe it as like I could get from point
(35:39):
A to point B, but I was carrying this huge
heavy ball and chain around me and in order to walk,
I had to pick it up and go everywhere. And
it was just exhausting. And I was living, but I
was exhausted, and I realized that I was so tired
that I, you know, it was affecting me physically and
meant and then I decided to take all the courses
(36:04):
that they recommended. What I loved about the quiz is
they wouldn't put me in courses if I came in
and number one, they tailor the courses based on what
you come in at. And so I completed the courses
and became my healing journey. I decided to continue training
and become a certified PBBT coach as well Post betrayal transformation.
Speaker 4 (36:30):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (36:31):
So you learned a lot in this process of going
through your healing journey and just moving along and recognizing
that again, which is something many people do, is that
we don't realize how we are carrying as I like
to refer to it as like releasing the emotional weight
that we hold launch it and that we carry it
(36:52):
for so long, and when we when we finally make
that decision to put it down, it really is life
saving because what you're putting down saves your life as
opposed to holding on to a full much longer period
of time, which could over time and create health issues
which many of us don't want.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
So yeah, quite, I love I love that you said
when you make the decision, because it really is a
choice that you have to make. You know, do I
want to stand this victim mentality or do I want
to crawl out of it? And I was ready to,
you know, dig my way out and up and out
for good.
Speaker 2 (37:34):
Yes, yes, And it doesn't really matter how long it
takes you to get there. The idea of the game
is to make that decision when you're ready to make
that decision.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
So it's it's.
Speaker 2 (37:46):
Yeah, there's really newerk and work.
Speaker 3 (37:50):
Yeah, there are stages of grief that you need to
go through and experience in order to heal. You have
to feel you can't jump those stages. And everyone's sage
and timeline for grief is different, so you can't put
an exact date on you know, Gosh, I should be
okay by this time. It's different for everyone.
Speaker 2 (38:13):
Exactly because you definitely may have a moment in time
where you think that you got past something and something
comes up and it's like, oh, I'm not actually one
hundred percent past that. It's very similar to you when
you when we lose a person regarding debt, going through
the stages of grief and just when you think, oh
I thought I was past it, really I thought it
(38:34):
was truly great again, and this sort of hiccup shows up.
So I love that.
Speaker 3 (38:39):
I love that.
Speaker 2 (38:40):
So what we're gonna do now is we're gonna take
another work. I was gonna say, coffee break, I must
want coffee it's too late for coffee anyway. Again, let
our audience know how they can read you your email
and website.
Speaker 3 (38:52):
Okay, my email is author sam Bailey at gmail dot com.
You can also quest coaching sessions with me through that
email where you can read a little bit more about
my book and my bio on help the Number four
Betrayal Trauma dot com. Excellent.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
We're going to take a look at that book one
more time, Bobby, if you can just bring that on up,
not just one more time, we'll probably look at a
handful before we actually did. We go beautiful book. Beautiful book,
and it will be available on Amazon. So for those
of you who are interested in reading, feel free to
support Samantha by going going and purchasing it. We're going
to take that quick commercial break and then we'll be
(39:37):
back for some more with Samantha.
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And if you want to know more, you can find
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Monkman at gmail dot com.
Speaker 2 (41:15):
Hello and welcome back. If you are just tuning in,
I'm your host, Johanne and your Barry Cologne. You're currently
watching Joanne's Healing Within Remember the Shield. Like and comment
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know that you can always come back later and watch
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(41:40):
our guests Samantha back up so we can continue our
conversation because it is a amazing, fun conversation learning all
about her story of betrayal and her amazing book. My
next question for you is he loove, when the phone
just go up, if you can go back and give
(42:00):
us a one piece of advice in the early days
of your healing, what would it be.
Speaker 3 (42:08):
Oh wow, that's a great question. I think one of
the things that I would do is it's hard to
you know, you're in such a fog, but I think
reaching out to someone right away that you can talk to,
(42:30):
like a therapist or a counselor. For me, I spoke
to a pastor right away, well not right away, it
was a couple of days in because I really didn't
know where to turn, and he was able to refer
me to a therapist and counselor from there. And I'd
(42:51):
recommend that the therapist and or counselor be experienced in betrayal,
specifically betrayaled trauma, because initially, the first ones that I
went to when I shared my story, they were like
in shock and I didn't want a therapist that was
in shock. I wanted help and you know what do
(43:12):
I do? So once I found a good fit, it
was you know, it put me in a better place
for healing when I had someone who had that understanding
and that experience.
Speaker 2 (43:28):
Yes, now do you a healing journey be so I
see actually go into a surrapist. Did you actually take
on any type of healing modalities to help, like the
emotional impact that on your physical body, let's say, make
the energy work or sound healing with homotherapy, any of that.
Speaker 3 (43:48):
I did the the AMDR MDR and then the tapping.
I don't Yeah. Yeah, the tapping was really good because
trick my focus off, you know, the negative, the bad
things that I was feeling, and it kind of helped
me refocus and realize that because at the end, you say, yeah,
(44:11):
this is what I'm feeling, but I'm gonna be okay,
and you're just like programming yourself to feel that you're
gonna be okay. So that was one of the big
things that I really liked. Yes, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (44:25):
So what Samantha speaking on when it comes to the
tapping is the emotional freedom technique where you're tapping on
specific areas of the body as you are also either
creating matras or speaking out to retrain the brain so
to speak, and to also take your mind off of
what is going on. And you do this continuously until
(44:47):
you can literally feel the shift in your body in
the process of tapping. So, if you've never experienced emotional
freedom technique and you're interested in experiencing emotional freedom technique,
to the audience, I feel afraid to reach out to
me and I can definitely refer to an amazing therapist
that does it. So going back to Samantha and her journey,
(45:09):
I have one more question before we dive into where
my questions go? Oh, no questions, where did they go?
I love when they disappear? Oh right, I think we
might have answered that one. Okay, there we go. I
want I would like for you too, what is one
small actionable step someone can take to start feeling stronger today?
Speaker 3 (45:36):
One small actionable step I don't know necessarily about feeling stronger,
but it will put them on the path to healing.
And it's kind of one of the things that I
say not to do. And I mentioned the first thing
that you should do is find a therapist. But one
of the things you shouldn't do is you need to
(46:00):
try to avoid alcohol and cannabis because alcohol is a depressant.
You've got a gaping wound, you don't need to add
salt to it. Cannabis also is the same. It may
or may not offer temporary relief. The keyword is temporary
and it's only going to delay your healing process. So
(46:21):
I highly recommend you stay away from that. You'll feel
so much better and you'll be able to. Like I said,
you have to feel in order to heal, so you
have to go through those stages and not put them.
You know, if you're taking alcohol or cannabis, you're going
to be stuck.
Speaker 2 (46:40):
Yes, And I think the word Samantha was looking for
you don't want to You don't want a number the
experience of your healing. So you do need to feel
whatever it is you're going to feel on your journey
and allow it to be. And I think Samantha has
the most most important tip is really support getting a therapist.
(47:00):
And also, yeah, I'm hearing spirit just really say get
a dirpist because you don't really want to lean into
your girlfriends about this. You really want to keep this
where the derpist can give you some fine insight as
opposed to getting what I like to call other people's
perspectives based on your situation, because everyone's going to have
(47:21):
their own point of view to what you should and
should not be doing. So, Samantha, again, I want to
thank you for sharing your journey, your story, and more importantly,
your book. And I know you have a second book
coming out. Do you have a title for that second
book yet? I do.
Speaker 3 (47:38):
It's a mouthful. It's called I'm sorry I interrupted Chronicles
of a Wandering Mind hashtag oops, I did it again?
And what's about growing up in the sixties and seventies
with ADHD. And it's actually a hilarious look of some
of the shenanigans that I went through because back then
(48:02):
ADHD wasn't even a word or a term, so we
were just the problem children or the talking too much
or not talking enough, or interrupting constantly. And there's just
a lot of funny stories that I share about, you know,
having ADHD and then realizing as I was growing up
(48:26):
that it wasn't a hindrance, it was my superpower. And
I shared.
Speaker 2 (48:32):
Exactly, We're gonna have to come get you back on
for that book when that one comes out, because that's
going to be a definitely a conversational piece in itself.
So one last time, let I wandience know your email
and websites so they can reat you.
Speaker 3 (48:46):
Sure. My email is author Sam Bailey at gmail dot
com and you can also go to my website at
help the Number four Betrayal dot com. Excellent.
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Hello, Hello, Hello, and happy Monday. It is February third.
Oh my god, I cannot believe it's already in the February. Nevertheless,
the third of February. Happy, happy Monday to every one
of you. If you are tuning in and you're wondering
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because this Monday I actually have a guest with me today.
Before I go ahead and dive in and invite her in,
we have to go through the rituals today. So right
off the bat, to start with, I want to remind
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I'm getting so thrown off by my background because I'm
not used to my background being so land, but it
is what it is. For today, it's all good anyway.
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Let's tipe it into a little energy for the day.
See what's going on. For those of you who do
follow astrology, know that today Venus the planet of love, relationships, partnerships,
It's associated with our physical body, and of course money
has recently moved out of Pisces, where it so loves
to be, and it's entered areas where it's not very comfortable.
(03:37):
Anytime we have a plane sitting in a zodiac sign
when it's not comfortable, that means we may not be
very comfortable as Venus sits in Aris. Why is this
an uncomfortable position to start off with? Venus is feminine,
it's love, it's passion, it's compassion. Where areas rule by Mads,
which is the opposition of Venus, is about aggression and
(04:00):
it's leadership. It's the boss. It's fire, and sometimes it
can be explosive as well. So with Venus sitting in Ares,
this is gonna be one or two days for you.
Though on the positive note, it's gonna give you energy,
it's gonna make you motivated, it's gonna give you that
kick to get things going. On the other side of
(04:21):
the coin, it's definitely not gonna make you all lovey dovey,
because again, Nomber Venus is about love, sitting in Aries
not so much. So this is really going to be
a period of time where it's really about more work
and let's play. More work and let's play, and let's
not forget that. As Venus is now an Aries, we
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will experience a retrograde for the first time. As Venus
does not retrograde every year like all the other planets do.
It only retrogrades every two years, and we're going to
experience to retrograde, those of you who are new to retrograde.
It to retrograde is when the planet itself so us
to slow down, to give us an opportunity to be
(05:04):
flat on the energy of the planet and the zodiac line.
So we're going to be reflecting on our relationships, on
how we interact with money, and we're going to be
filling our fields with our physical body as well and
with arias. It really is about the aggressionist. Do you
get up and go now? Do want to put this
(05:25):
disclaimer out for all of you. During this time that
Venus is in Areas, you may very well experience some
physical symptoms showing up in your body, especially for those
of you who do have your sun moon or a
sending in Aries, or you have vida sitting in your
first house or six house, so pay attention, because those
(05:46):
symptoms are just your body's way of letting you know
that either something needs to be realigned or that you
are going through an evolution, which means your body is
being realigned as well. Our retrograde starts as much first.
We will be in what's called the shadow period over
the next two weeks, so we're gonna start to feel
(06:06):
that slowly down process and we'll believe it there for now.
And I also want to bring in so highlight that Jupiter,
our planet of expansion, spiritual growth and also good fortune,
has just gone direct in torust energy. And note that
Venus rules Tourus, so there's a little conjunction going on
(06:27):
between the two of them, and there's an expansion happening.
So we're gonna leave that day. If you want to
know more about how these planets are going to impact
you personally, as always, just reach out or we gotta
do is email Healing within seven six at gmail dot com.
I'm gonna go ahead and pull a car see what
we need to know based on this energy we have
(06:49):
gone on and there it goes to cars, and now
we have two causes that flew out. Obviously, I'm not
gonna be both, but I am gonna read the first
one that's flew out the deck, which is Queen and King,
and that's so appropriate. With this energy. We you have
Venus being the queen, the feminine energy, if being in
(07:10):
Aries the king energy. So it's that push pulls, so
to speak. The energy of the Sacred Chakra is really
about tapping into your confidence during this time, because yes,
with Venus and Aries, you may not feel as confident
as you were feeling on Venus in Pisces. That number
two is reminding you about your partnerships that you may
(07:32):
very well see blossoming during this season. Because again, the
flip side is Venus is about love. The positive side
is Venus is sitting in Aries. So it's going to
be more work and less play. So that's how hard
for right now? All right, I'm gonna take a quick
commercial break, and when I get back, I'm going to
(07:52):
be coming back and introducing you to our guests all
the day. I'll be right back. Did you know we
(08:14):
are in the age of Aquarius.
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It's all about.
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Speaker 2 (09:22):
Hello and welcome back. If you're just tuning in, remember
to share, like and comment on today's show. Share it out,
Share it out, Share it out. Like I said before
I bring in my guests for the day, I just
want to come back to our car for today. After all,
it is about the Queen and King, venus and areas
where it's not so comfortable, which means during this time
(09:44):
you may be a little uncomfortable in regardless to the
love theme. However, you may be very comfortable in regards
to doing more business and less playing during this season,
and we all will be in a retrograde cycle with
Venus being an ari Pay attention because again that arias
energy does tap into your im statement and there is
(10:06):
going to be a conjunction between readers and Kaiwon because
Chaion is sitting in areas energy, So you're in a
child wounds may be shown up, especially for those of
you who do carry your kaiwan in aries like me,
So pay attention to that. And again, if you want
more information about how all this really plays out for
(10:27):
you on a personal level, just send out an email
dealing within seven six at FMail dot com. So for
right now, what I would love to do is I'm
going to introduce my amazing guest, Samantha Bailey. She's an
author and coach and speaker and today she's here to
share with you her brand new book that she has
recently written, and she and I have been chatting it
(10:49):
out and I'm super excited to have her here today. So, Samantha,
how are you, my love?
Speaker 3 (10:56):
I'm doing great. Thanks so much for having me. I
really appreciate the here.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Oh, I'm excited to have you here today. I'm so
excited for your book. I'm so excited for everything that's
going on.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
In your life.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Samantha and I have been chatting behind the scenes over
the last couple of weeks regarding all the amazing things
that's going on, and I have a list of questions
for her. But I have a feeling this is going
to be in just a general conversation like two girlfriends
sitting talking about a book. So start off with I
like to just like dive right in and ask what
inspired you to write this book? And the book is
(11:30):
called Deceptive You stay the title because I'm going to
screw it up.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Deceptive Liaisons.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
There you go, yes, yes, So what inspires you to
write this book?
Speaker 3 (11:45):
Yeah? A great question. So about five and a half
years ago, I was living in Paradise in Hawaii and
really content and enjoying my life. Had a great job,
had made new amazing friends there, and thought I had
a you know, a steadfast, solid marriage and we were
(12:06):
brand new empty nesters. So it was the first time
that we could enjoy each other and you know, just
get to enjoy everything that Hawaii had to offer as well.
So things were going well. In about three years after
living there, I found out that my husband was having
(12:28):
what I thought was one affair, but it turned out
to be over a dozen fares with sugar babies, escorts, prostitutes,
and spending almost our entire retirement savings on them for
you know, luxury trips, five star hotels, design a shopping spree,
(12:51):
sex time, you name it. And it took a year
and a lot of detective work on my behalf to
uncover the truth as far as I know it today.
At that point, I just kind of didn't want to
know anymore. But a lot of the times when I
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was going through initially the trauma of finding out, there
were so many days that were a fog in my head.
So I journaled, and the journaling kind of was almost
like healing for me, and it also was able to
track my progress, which was kind of stagnant. I wasn't
(13:35):
really going anywhere. But I was also able to look
back and go, Wow, that happened to me, and why
did I do this and that, and realized that there
were so many things that I did wrong. Some I
did right, but the things that I did wrong really
delayed my healing path. And once I realized that I
(13:57):
probably I was thinking I'm probably not a lot and
I want others to know what not to do and
what to do, especially when they first discover and they've
you know, hit the shock wave and the betrayal trauma
and everything that's going through them. So I decided to
write a book about what had happened, and not only
(14:21):
what had happened, how I came out of it on
the other side, not just no longer a victim, but
surviving and thriving and living a happy life and full
of joy and just peace.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
Yes, now you mentioned that you did it the wrong way.
Could you explain what that actually means by you're doing
it the wrong way? Curious to know that answer?
Speaker 3 (14:45):
Yeah, Well, what I did for almost three years straight,
I was looking in the past. I was looking at
Facebook memories every day, anything that popped up with a
memory with my husband, myself. I would look at everything
and I was just searching, like, you know, where was
I How did I not know what happened? And I
(15:09):
did that consistently for three years. Another thing that I
did was I tracked him. He had an app where
I knew exactly where he was, so it was a
constant I'm looking at that in the morning when he
goes to work to make sure he's going to work
and making sure throughout the day he's there, and that
all it did was create more and more stress, and
(15:31):
I wasn't helping anything by controlling him. I needed to
help me first and worry about him after.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
That makes so much sense, and I'm glad I asked
the question for one, because I believe that there's a
lot of women who have experienced some of the stories
that end up doing the same thing. So with the
focus on what they are doing, that we take the
focus off our own healing. It's really not about what
(16:01):
they're doing anymore on you once you discovered the story,
it's really about how you can work on healing and
not being in that quote unquote victim space. So I really,
I really First of all, I commend you for even
deciding to write this and to put this out there,
because I know you know that there are many women
(16:23):
that's going to benefit from your journey that you went through.
I truly believe that when someone does go to a
journey like you have, you have a bigger purpose. And
there's so much that you've learned in that experience of
the moment you found out about the deception of your marriage. Yeah,
(16:48):
so exactly. So next question that I have for you
is what would you say to those who feel they'll
they've never been able to forgive the person who betrayed them.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
I would say it's vital to their health. For me,
looking back, for some reason, I had an easier time
forgiving my husband than I did the affair partners. But
when I kind of did a little assessment, I realized
that I had so much anger and resentment and just
(17:28):
holding all that, you know, dark cloud over me, and
and I realized that I needed to forgive them too.
And inside I'm thinking, how can I forgive the affair partners,
especially the ones who knew he was married? And I
realized that in order to release myself from them, I
(17:50):
had to forgive them. And I actually did a took
a couple hours. I did a little balloon ceremony. I
had my husband bring home fifteen red balloons with white
string helium, and I wrote the names of each affair
partner on each balloon. I took them outside and I
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pray to forgiveness, prayer over each of them. There were
some tears involved as well, and you know, a lot
of emotion. And then I took some scissors. I didn't
release the balloons to the sky. I actually released what
I thought, I acquitted the helium to be their soul.
So I took some scissors and I stabbed the balloon,
(18:32):
releasing the helium up to the heavens, no longer attached
to me. And the amazing thing that happened after that,
I had severe anxiety, almost like someone was choking me.
I had a hard time speaking at times as well.
After that little ceremony, my anxiety was completely gone, like
(18:54):
I didn't feel this, you know, choking out, like where
is it? What's happened? And I realized that, you know,
this unforgiveness and bitterness and anger and resentment was what
was giving me the anxiety and releasing that gave me freedom.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
Yes, I'm writing down some of your words because they're
just so powerful and love. I just love the I'm
gonna use this term the practice and exercise that you
took on to give yourself this permission to forgive the
other parties. As you said, forgiving your husband was the
easier part. For giving the women that were involved with this,
(19:36):
especially those that knew you were married, were the harder
part of it all. However, it was the most necessary part,
as you mentioned, because many people don't realize that when
something like this occurs, we do hold on to that
energy in our bodies and over time if we don't
let it go, and not just in the betrayal, just
in any type of of any emotional connection, you know,
(20:01):
in reference to grief, in reference to angle, whatever it is,
we hold that in our bodies. So I'm loving the
fact that you chose balloons, red balloons on that what
a powerful color, and just allowing the actual helium to
be released worth letting the balloons go, because in my mind,
if you were going to end up saying that you'll
(20:21):
let the balloons go, it's like to me, that's like
it's a very different energy than if you allow the
actual helium to come out, because that's almost like releasing
the air from them and the connection from me as well.
So that's extremely powerful and truly love it and the
forgiveness Pueyer and freeing yourself.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
Worried about too. I didn't want any balloons stuck in
any engine.
Speaker 2 (20:50):
So exactly exactly, now, if you can recall from the
time you did that practice, how many days later did
you actually really start to feel the relief and the
heaviness sought to lift throw off. Can you recall that.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
It was immediate? It was immediate, Yeah, it was. It
wasn't a physical like paw relief. It was just like
I didn't feel the need to be anxious anymore. It
just knew too better.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
Yeah, And ansiety it's more in your throats and as
opposed to anywhere in your body or just really the
tole area.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
It was. It was kind of in my heart, but
it would come through my throat, especially when I would
try to speak. It would be just kind of like
all consuming, and you know, I'd be as a speaker.
That's not something you want to have happened to you.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Yes, exactly exactly, And it happens too many of us
in general, just because we speak so much that out
throat chocolate gets overactive from it that we really do it.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
It's like being a singer.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
We have to littlely pop our voice before we begin
to sneak, otherwise we come out sounding horse, so to speak. Now,
in regards to your balloons, you said you had fifteen
of them. Was that the amount of women that were
involved in this betual?
Speaker 3 (22:11):
Yes, yes, that's yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
That's that's that's a lot. And in regards to for
giving your husband, what was that like for you?
Speaker 3 (22:23):
It was kind of an ongoing process because it took
him a whole year to tell me the truth, like
full disclosure. I had eight different D days and that
D day is a day of discovery when you first
discover the infidelity, and that happened eight different times in
(22:46):
a year's period. So the forgiveness was kind of like ongoing.
And you know, I kind of went through this whole
process of the shock and then just realizing that I
needed to forgive again. I wanted to work on my marriage.
I absolutely loved my husband, and I wanted to do
(23:11):
whatever it took with boundaries in place to make my
marriage whole again.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
That's that's just beautiful, very beautiful. So we do have
to take a commercial break. So if you can let
our audience know how they can meet you, and if
through email or even through your wrong I mean email
address a polity a good good place to start.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
Sure you can reach me at author Sam Bailey. That's
b A. I L eu Y at gmail dot com.
And my book will be out on Amazon any day now.
I'm just waiting on the publisher to give me the
thumbs up. So and also you can read more about
me and my bio on my website. It is help
(24:05):
the Number four Betrayal Trauma dot com.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
Yeah, we got beautiful, So we're going to take that
quick commercial break and then we'll be back for more.
Speaker 5 (24:30):
Hey, this is Joe Monkman and I am a personal
development trainer and that means that I help people step
into their leadership roles, take their place as a visionary,
really understand their own mastery in the world so that
they can really find their place at the buffet of life.
And if you want to know more, you can find
(24:51):
me on my Facebook page at Joe Monkman and Joe
Monkman at gmail dot com.
Speaker 6 (24:59):
Hi everyone, Kitty Beadwing Fast the storytelling and astrologer reader
of the Stars, and I'd like to invite you to
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(25:21):
about how your circuitry works.
Speaker 3 (25:24):
Not mistay.
Speaker 7 (25:27):
Hi, I'm Nancy Nance. I am an energy humor, psychic medium,
transformational breakthrough coach, and international best selling author.
Speaker 8 (25:38):
Choose Joy, a survivor's Guide for Hope, is a map
and a strategy to help you live your best life,
available on Amazon today.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Hello, and welcome back. If you are just tuning in,
take a moment to shield like and comment. You will
walking Julianne's Healing Within. I'm your host Joanne and grew
Barbie Cologne, and I'm gonna bring my guest back on
Submitha Billy as we talk about her amazing book that
is available on Amazon. And I don't know if we
can get a little shot of that book, Bobby, can
you bring the image of that book up book here?
(26:16):
We wait till later. I don't know if you could
do that now, it would be great if now we
can always wait till later. Whichever way this flows. So meanwhile,
what we're going to do is we're gonna ask the
next question. So the next question, the real one there
is that beautiful book. Now is that a gorgeous book?
We're gonna have to talk about that cover and we'll
(26:37):
do that short. We love that book, amazing, amazing, amazing.
Thank you, Bobby. All Right, So my next big question,
and then we're gonna go and talk about that cover,
is how can someone spot red flags early to avoid
potential betrayal in the future.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
Yeah. I, first of all, one of the things that
twelve several. It took me a while to realize that
there were red flags because initially I thought there were none.
But when you trust someone one hundred percent completely, you
take them at their words, so you're not really looking
(27:15):
for red flags. But looking back, there were many, and
some of them were He starts untagging you on Facebook.
Why who does he not want to see that you're
with when previously you would write nice comments and you know,
we're a thumbs up or a heart. All of a sudden,
he's removing himself from the tag. He takes his phone
(27:41):
with him everywhere, even in the middle of the night
to go to the restroom. The phone is with him.
It's always right by his side. When he is on
the phone, he usually has the screen away from you,
so you cannot see who he's talking about. And usually
(28:01):
he'll say, oh, this is work. Where before when it
was you know, dinner time or we were out with friends,
the phone would be put out. The phone was not
an interruption, but it began to become an interruption, and
it was always the excuse work. But you know, looking back,
(28:22):
there was some smirks and smiles in the you know
response when he was texting back. So that's another thing
to keep an eye on business trips. I never checked
or verified his boarding passes. A lot of times he
went on trips and basically stayed on island and booked
(28:48):
a beachfront resort in Hawaii right under my nose, and
I wasn't aware of it because I thought he was
on a business trip. Make sure that you are able
to call through to wherever hotel he's staying. Nowadays, you
can't just call and them forward it directly. You have
(29:08):
to be on their proof lists. So make sure you're
on that. And also, you know, it's okay to ask
to look at their phone, you know, not not necessarily
because you want to snoop, just that you just want
to confirm that everything's okay, And it's okay to do
that every once in a while I wish I had.
(29:30):
But again, when you trust someone completely and if they're
not doing anything wrong, then great, that's that's amazing, but
if they are, you know, sooner rather than later finding
out is much better. And I just think there was
just a lot of times that he would go hiking
(29:52):
and I never thought twice, well, it's pouring rain out,
but he would say it wasn't raining when he he
was hiking, and I never checked the weather, like just
little things that I could have done to confirm because
he would never have hyped in the rain. And also
just confirming maybe with some business associates whether or not
(30:16):
he was with them like he said he was. Yeah.
Just so there were a lot of red flags and
also very easily agitated and defensive if the question was
asked that he felt was not a question that should
(30:37):
be asked, he turned it around, like for instance, when
I asked him, you know, are you having an affair
on me? He was almost like angry, No, why would
you even ask me that I love you so much?
Where would you get this idea? When I knew in
fact he already was. But you know, just things like
that gaslighting, you know, making you feel like you're the
(30:58):
one that's crazy asking those questions, things like that.
Speaker 2 (31:04):
Yes, yeah, yeah, I have a philosophy, and my philosophy
is the meaning I have to start questioning or checking
or use the ords buying or looking at the phone
or whatever not right off the back I no longer
trust the situation. And if I no longer trust the situation,
that means there's been something broken already. So that's like
(31:25):
a red flag in general, and a moment of trying
where you can just ask the question of the time
you already know the answer. You're probably not going to
get the direct answer from the partner only because again,
like you said, they're not going to be ready to confess.
Is the religion. They're used to lying exactly exactly, and
(31:48):
so sometimes sometimes it's they want to be caught. It's
easier for them to be caught than to actually come
straight out and say this is what I'm doing and
for when other reasons are And ninety percent of time
it really has actually nothing to do with you or
any woman. It's more about their habits and what's going
(32:08):
on in their world, and women need to also unless
on two it's really not about them at all. It's
about the man's situation, what's going on in his life
at that time. So I love your red flags. So
before I go into my next questions, that's here for
me to ask. I do want to talk about your
book cover, because oh my god, its gorgeous. How did
(32:29):
you come up with that cover? Where did it come from?
Is it a photo? Is it a vision? What's that
cover about?
Speaker 3 (32:36):
I it was a vision. I wanted it because you know,
everything took place in Hawaii. I wanted a beach scene
and with the sun coming up. It's kind of like
the front is a little bit dark, but if you
look in the background, the sun is rise, saying, and
that's very It's kind of like the beginning of the
(32:59):
book is dark, but in the end the sunrises and
it's a beautiful day.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
Yes, yes, And it sounds like exactly how your journey
went where it got really dark and then somewhere along
the line you're finding your light, you know, and like
it should your journey that you are on all the
things that you've learned through this process about yourself and
how you're sharing this with other women, and this is
everything that led to your book. Otherwise, and we'll talk
(33:27):
later about your second book that's coming out, because we
know there's a second one coming out, but for right now,
without that, we don't have that journey, you wouldn't have
this juicy book to talk about. So in some way
or another we have to say, well, there's something that
came out of that journey.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
Correct, Oh, absolutely absolutely. It's funny because I had a
therapist once tell me that one day you'll be grateful
for your journey, what you went through, and I'm like,
she's crazy, And now how grateful is the word? But
I'm very happy that I went through this because had
(34:06):
I not, I wouldn't be in a position where I
am today, which is happy with a purpose. I know
what my purpose is. And when you have that, you
know your life is complete, not done, but it's full.
Speaker 2 (34:19):
Yes, yes, it's full because you have a purpose. There's
a reason I always say that. Again, whatever the journey
is that we go on and the different people, we
have agreements too to have this journey with. Some of
those agreements are challenging, is and obstacles show up for
us to learn about patients and resilience and compassion for
ourselves and then to bough that out to others as well.
(34:41):
So my next question, which is directly a lot of
what we're talking about, which is what was the moment
you realize you wanted to take control of your healing
instead of staying in the pain.
Speaker 3 (34:56):
Yeah, great question. Again. I had been in a bad place,
like a pit for almost three years and I came
across a website that there was a test for big
trail trauma and it showed what stage you were in.
(35:18):
It rated one to five, and so I took the quiz.
One was you've just discovered and you're not in a
good place. Five is you're on the road to healing
and you're in a really good place. Well, my score
was a three, which basically said that how I like
to describe it as like I could get from point
(35:39):
A to point B, but I was carrying this huge
heavy ball and chain around me and in order to walk,
I had to pick it up and go everywhere. And
it was just exhausting. And I was living, but I
was exhausted, and I realized that I was so tired
that I, you know, it was affecting me physically and
meant and then I decided to take all the courses
(36:04):
that they recommended. What I loved about the quiz is
they wouldn't put me in courses if I came in
and number one, they tailor the courses based on what
you come in at. And so I completed the courses
and became my healing journey. I decided to continue training
and become a certified PBBT coach as well Post betrayal transformation.
Speaker 4 (36:30):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (36:31):
So you learned a lot in this process of going
through your healing journey and just moving along and recognizing
that again, which is something many people do, is that
we don't realize how we are carrying as I like
to refer to it as like releasing the emotional weight
that we hold launch it and that we carry it
(36:52):
for so long, and when we when we finally make
that decision to put it down, it really is life
saving because what you're putting down saves your life as
opposed to holding on to a full much longer period
of time, which could over time and create health issues
which many of us don't want.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
So yeah, quite, I love I love that you said
when you make the decision, because it really is a
choice that you have to make. You know, do I
want to stand this victim mentality or do I want
to crawl out of it? And I was ready to,
you know, dig my way out and up and out
for good.
Speaker 2 (37:34):
Yes, yes, And it doesn't really matter how long it
takes you to get there. The idea of the game
is to make that decision when you're ready to make
that decision.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
So it's it's.
Speaker 2 (37:46):
Yeah, there's really newerk and work.
Speaker 3 (37:50):
Yeah, there are stages of grief that you need to
go through and experience in order to heal. You have
to feel you can't jump those stages. And everyone's sage
and timeline for grief is different, so you can't put
an exact date on you know, Gosh, I should be
okay by this time. It's different for everyone.
Speaker 2 (38:13):
Exactly because you definitely may have a moment in time
where you think that you got past something and something
comes up and it's like, oh, I'm not actually one
hundred percent past that. It's very similar to you when
you when we lose a person regarding debt, going through
the stages of grief and just when you think, oh
I thought I was past it, really I thought it
(38:34):
was truly great again, and this sort of hiccup shows up.
So I love that.
Speaker 3 (38:39):
I love that.
Speaker 2 (38:40):
So what we're gonna do now is we're gonna take
another work. I was gonna say, coffee break, I must
want coffee it's too late for coffee anyway. Again, let
our audience know how they can read you your email
and website.
Speaker 3 (38:52):
Okay, my email is author sam Bailey at gmail dot com.
You can also quest coaching sessions with me through that
email where you can read a little bit more about
my book and my bio on help the Number four
Betrayal Trauma dot com. Excellent.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
We're going to take a look at that book one
more time, Bobby, if you can just bring that on up,
not just one more time, we'll probably look at a
handful before we actually did. We go beautiful book. Beautiful book,
and it will be available on Amazon. So for those
of you who are interested in reading, feel free to
support Samantha by going going and purchasing it. We're going
to take that quick commercial break and then we'll be
(39:37):
back for some more with Samantha.
Speaker 6 (39:53):
Hi, everyone, could he be to wink Fass the storytelling astrologer,
reader of the stars, and I'd like to bite you
to join me on Intuition of the Soul on Facebook,
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(40:13):
dot com. If you want to personalized reading to find
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Speaker 7 (40:20):
Hi, I'm Nancy Nance. I am an energy healor psychic medium,
transformational breakthrough coach, and international best selling author.
Speaker 8 (40:31):
Choose Joy, a Survivor's Guide for Hope, is a map
and a strategy to help you live your best life,
available on Amazon today.
Speaker 5 (40:45):
Hey, this is Joel Monkman and I am a personal
development trainer and that means that I help people step
into their leadership roles, take their place as a visionary,
really understand their own master in the world so that
they can really find their place at the buffet of life.
And if you want to know more, you can find
(41:06):
me on my Facebook page at Joe Monkman and Joe
Monkman at gmail dot com.
Speaker 2 (41:15):
Hello and welcome back. If you are just tuning in,
I'm your host, Johanne and your Barry Cologne. You're currently
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(41:40):
our guests Samantha back up so we can continue our
conversation because it is a amazing, fun conversation learning all
about her story of betrayal and her amazing book. My
next question for you is he loove, when the phone
just go up, if you can go back and give
(42:00):
us a one piece of advice in the early days
of your healing, what would it be.
Speaker 3 (42:08):
Oh wow, that's a great question. I think one of
the things that I would do is it's hard to
you know, you're in such a fog, but I think
reaching out to someone right away that you can talk to,
(42:30):
like a therapist or a counselor. For me, I spoke
to a pastor right away, well not right away, it
was a couple of days in because I really didn't
know where to turn, and he was able to refer
me to a therapist and counselor from there. And I'd
(42:51):
recommend that the therapist and or counselor be experienced in betrayal,
specifically betrayaled trauma, because initially, the first ones that I
went to when I shared my story, they were like
in shock and I didn't want a therapist that was
in shock. I wanted help and you know what do
(43:12):
I do? So once I found a good fit, it
was you know, it put me in a better place
for healing when I had someone who had that understanding
and that experience.
Speaker 2 (43:28):
Yes, now do you a healing journey be so I
see actually go into a surrapist. Did you actually take
on any type of healing modalities to help, like the
emotional impact that on your physical body, let's say, make
the energy work or sound healing with homotherapy, any of that.
Speaker 3 (43:48):
I did the the AMDR MDR and then the tapping.
I don't Yeah. Yeah, the tapping was really good because
trick my focus off, you know, the negative, the bad
things that I was feeling, and it kind of helped
me refocus and realize that because at the end, you say, yeah,
(44:11):
this is what I'm feeling, but I'm gonna be okay,
and you're just like programming yourself to feel that you're
gonna be okay. So that was one of the big
things that I really liked. Yes, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (44:25):
So what Samantha speaking on when it comes to the
tapping is the emotional freedom technique where you're tapping on
specific areas of the body as you are also either
creating matras or speaking out to retrain the brain so
to speak, and to also take your mind off of
what is going on. And you do this continuously until
(44:47):
you can literally feel the shift in your body in
the process of tapping. So, if you've never experienced emotional
freedom technique and you're interested in experiencing emotional freedom technique,
to the audience, I feel afraid to reach out to
me and I can definitely refer to an amazing therapist
that does it. So going back to Samantha and her journey,
(45:09):
I have one more question before we dive into where
my questions go? Oh, no questions, where did they go?
I love when they disappear? Oh right, I think we
might have answered that one. Okay, there we go. I
want I would like for you too, what is one
small actionable step someone can take to start feeling stronger today?
Speaker 3 (45:36):
One small actionable step I don't know necessarily about feeling stronger,
but it will put them on the path to healing.
And it's kind of one of the things that I
say not to do. And I mentioned the first thing
that you should do is find a therapist. But one
of the things you shouldn't do is you need to
(46:00):
try to avoid alcohol and cannabis because alcohol is a depressant.
You've got a gaping wound, you don't need to add
salt to it. Cannabis also is the same. It may
or may not offer temporary relief. The keyword is temporary
and it's only going to delay your healing process. So
(46:21):
I highly recommend you stay away from that. You'll feel
so much better and you'll be able to. Like I said,
you have to feel in order to heal, so you
have to go through those stages and not put them.
You know, if you're taking alcohol or cannabis, you're going
to be stuck.
Speaker 2 (46:40):
Yes, And I think the word Samantha was looking for
you don't want to You don't want a number the
experience of your healing. So you do need to feel
whatever it is you're going to feel on your journey
and allow it to be. And I think Samantha has
the most most important tip is really support getting a therapist.
(47:00):
And also, yeah, I'm hearing spirit just really say get
a dirpist because you don't really want to lean into
your girlfriends about this. You really want to keep this
where the derpist can give you some fine insight as
opposed to getting what I like to call other people's
perspectives based on your situation, because everyone's going to have
(47:21):
their own point of view to what you should and
should not be doing. So, Samantha, again, I want to
thank you for sharing your journey, your story, and more importantly,
your book. And I know you have a second book
coming out. Do you have a title for that second
book yet? I do.
Speaker 3 (47:38):
It's a mouthful. It's called I'm sorry I interrupted Chronicles
of a Wandering Mind hashtag oops, I did it again?
And what's about growing up in the sixties and seventies
with ADHD. And it's actually a hilarious look of some
of the shenanigans that I went through because back then
(48:02):
ADHD wasn't even a word or a term, so we
were just the problem children or the talking too much
or not talking enough, or interrupting constantly. And there's just
a lot of funny stories that I share about, you know,
having ADHD and then realizing as I was growing up
(48:26):
that it wasn't a hindrance, it was my superpower. And
I shared.
Speaker 2 (48:32):
Exactly, We're gonna have to come get you back on
for that book when that one comes out, because that's
going to be a definitely a conversational piece in itself.
So one last time, let I wandience know your email
and websites so they can reat you.
Speaker 3 (48:46):
Sure. My email is author Sam Bailey at gmail dot
com and you can also go to my website at
help the Number four Betrayal dot com. Excellent.
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Speaker 2 (50:37):
Hello and welcome back. I'm your host, Joy in your
very cologne. You are watching your inn Sealing Within. If
you are just tuning in, oh my, oh my, you
missed an amazing, amazing show with my amazing guest Samanthy.
But Samantha Bailey word her amazing book. It definitely don't
have to come back and watch from the beginning. You
can do so by watching from Roku, Amazon, fireTV, Twitch TV.
(50:59):
You can all so listen on iHeartRadio, Spotify, Audible and
many other podcast platforms. With that being said, I want
to share out some promos we have going on. As usual,
there's always something for you with you in mind. So
to start off where we're going to bring up the
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(51:24):
together on February ninth at eleven a m Eastern time.
We're talking about how you signing relates to your personal style.
You don't want to miss that, I guarantee you. The
next one we have going on is Women Empowering Women.
I was just thinking about that in my commercial, but
you definitely want to come join. It meets once a
month the second Monday of the month, and we have
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(51:46):
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six at gmail dot com to sign up. Then we
have the book which we just spoke about, Samantha Bailey's
amazing book that you have. It will be available on Amazon.
Just reach out to the samanthra so you can go
ahead and order her book. Last, but not least, we
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have Spirit Messages and Energy Insight coming up again. This
is an amazing group. It meets every Tuesday for six weeks,
then they take a short little break the data there.
Reach out to Joe Monkman to get yourself involved with
the session. All that being said, wow, how the time flies.
Time flies when you're having fun. Right. We'll be back
(52:28):
again in March the first Monday of the month. Until then,
enjoy this energy and I'm going to ask you to
buckle up, Buttercup, because this upcoming week is going to
be a juicy because we have several of our planets
going retrograde. Read this, Mercury and Mars will be coming
out of retugales, so that's quite interesting. Join me on
(52:49):
my personal page to find out more about how all
that's going to impact you until we meet again on
the other side. Bye bye for now.
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