S7E2 Break Room Talk - Importance of Being A Man - JOI: Just Organize It with Qui Talks

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Attatatatas.

Speaker 2 (01:01):
So as we wait for our guests to survive, I decided,
why not talk to you guys. I never really get
to talk to you guys. Wait a minute, So as
we wait for our guests to arvive, I decided, why
not talk to you guys. I never really get to Yeah,
so that's the feedback, right, So I'll like you guys.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
Been house everything. I know, it's been a while. I know,
I know, I know.

Speaker 2 (01:26):
I am hardly here. I'm wearing vintage Q talks. Apparently
there's a vintage Q talks now. So so excited. But
I'm excited about today's topic because we're gonna really get
some questions that I've gotten DM. Thank you, thank you
ladies to the one who sent me the questions. We

(01:47):
got a few of them. I'm only gonna choose about
the ten or so.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
I got quite a few, but we're gonna talk about that.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
We're also gonna go through the red flags Red flags
Versus Green Flags? Who remember when I did that in
the beginning of the winter. So in the beginning of
the winter, for those who do not know, I started
doing a series called Red Flag Versus Green Flag, where
I just post up a bunch of little short videos

(02:15):
a question was it a red flag or was it
a green flag?

Speaker 3 (02:18):
And you decided whichever one it was.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
And I chose questions from the most watched videos.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
So we're gonna get excited.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Okay, so hold on, I just want to make sure
that everyone's here. But sorry, get the message, you know,
first and first I talk about black people because it's
eight minutes. We're just never on time. Okay, just never

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on time. I don't know how to explain that, but
we're just.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
Ever on time. Quick update with me.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
I'm still in New York. A lot of people want
to know if I'm in New York or if I'm
in LA. Yes, I'm still in New York. I am
planning on going back to LA for my LA people,
but also their June is music month, so I'm interested
in coming to LA for June. But we'll see. We
are looking for sponsors, so that's the only way, you know,

(03:22):
Keetok's got to get out there. You got to get
these things paid for and sponsored because we ain't all
in there. Oh, we have our first guess you guys
ready to see Haitian level? Okay, I'm admitting him in.
So once he's joining in, we're gonna say hi, hello,

(03:42):
his audios connecting, we're going to try to hide you,
can you see?

Speaker 3 (03:56):
All right?

Speaker 2 (03:56):
So I as his audio connects in, his video comes
in and these like subscribe right there. As you know,
I'm trying to build my followers and build my viewership
and the way, that's just the beginning of a brand
new me.

Speaker 3 (04:13):
Okay, that's my story.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
Oh that's so funny. If you didn't watch that video,
you know what that video is right on YouTube. Yeah,
I'm Haitian lover. You can actually come in while we
wait on Milton. Please come in so we can introduce you.
I want you to talk about yourself a little bit,
especially with him coming back from Miami and Haiti Haitian

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Heritage Month and Haitian Flag Day May eighteen, So we'd
like to know what happened down there for my viewers
that are hat of Haitian heritage.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
Check check check you out.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
Hear me, you hear me, you hear me. We'd like
to see you.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
Absolutely, I'm trying to do. I love that you gave
the give yourself a background. Trying to give myself a
background too.

Speaker 2 (04:59):
Okay, okay, so take your time to do that. Yeah,
I definitely, you know you gotta. This virtual thing is
perfect for us. So while you're doing that, I'm just
gonna give you a brief update and then figure out
where Milton is. This is going to be very casual, unprofessional.
Well I'm not gonna say unprofessional because at the end

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day I'm always professional, but.

Speaker 3 (05:21):
Very casual because I want this.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
To be more of a casual conversation, a more authentic conversation.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
I want the truth coming out.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
I want you to think about you being in the
break room at work and just talking your crap, and
I know you.

Speaker 3 (05:43):
Bucked a lot of that.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
Yeah, But in the meantime, for my followers, if you
didn't for my followers, sorry, I'll text and Milton. For
my followers if you didn't hear, I wanted you to
tell them about a little bit more about who you are,

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and tell them about what happened in Miami because you
just came back. It's the international DJ. Tell us how
I was Haitian flag day. Oh, Milton is here at
the same time.

Speaker 3 (06:19):
But you can continue, Okay, got you one moment and
I'll be.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
Worthy for you.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
No worries and Milton is connecting on as well. Hello Milton,
we'd like to see you as well. We're all coming
on cool perfect, Hey Milton, finally.

Speaker 4 (06:38):
I'm so sorry about that when you.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
Talk about CP time brothers CEP time. Okay, but okay, great,
I'm so excited at time.

Speaker 3 (06:50):
Bro oh love us here.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
Yay, okay, everybody, the whole gay finally made it. We're
finally here. So starting all over again. Welcome to the
Key Talk Show. And as everybody knows, when Key talks,
everybody listens. And what I was telling my viewers for
those who haven't catched in the beginning, this is going
to be a very casual show. Very casual. This is

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going to be your at work, your arm brake. You
got one hour and you're just chopping it up with
your co workers talking smack.

Speaker 1 (07:22):
All right.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
So the reason why let's start with the background, The
reason why I came up with this. It was really
funny because the whole thing about hearing the importance of
a man, and then somebody else had another topic, which
I will explore in the next future episodes. I'm just like,
so people just really want to talk crap, that's it.

(07:44):
I realized that everybody just likes to talk crap.

Speaker 3 (07:46):
So and I don't know what it is.

Speaker 2 (07:49):
If it's COVID and everybody just been quiet for COVID,
And now that we're outside and everybody just has all
this pent up emotion or whatever it is is, everybody
is just ready to release.

Speaker 3 (08:02):
And my correct or am I wrong? Let me know.

Speaker 4 (08:08):
That's one way of looking at it. One way of
looking at it.

Speaker 2 (08:15):
Okay, go Loover, I love its frozen. Oh he's frozen.
That is a okay, he's going to come back in.
But while he's coming back in, Milton, can you tell
everybody who you are, where you're from, so on and
so forth, tell us a little bit more about you.

Speaker 4 (08:38):
So not from born in Maryland, I grew up in
the Bronx, spent most of my life in the Bronx,
and currently living at Westchester. Now. I'm a father, father three,
two princesses fourteen and thirteen, and one future king who's nine.
I have a program, uh we're working out of Westchester

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called Tye Academy, which is also my son's name, which
stands for training your craft every day t y Ce.
And I'm just all about, you know, giving back to
the youth, making sure that they're good, them making sure
that I'm good. You know, I never wanted to be
that guy who underestimated the knowledge and the experiences that

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kids go through. So I'm constantly learning from them every
single day, as well as trying to teach them how to,
you know, not make some of the mistakes I've made
or some of the mistakes I've known people to make.
So like my phrases, we in this together. I tell
them that every day, and just trying to just trying
to figure out this thing that they call life, because

(09:45):
it's like it has no end to it, so just
trying to figure it all out, all right.

Speaker 3 (09:51):
Well, low background.

Speaker 2 (09:53):
The reason why I met Milton we met through mutual
like mentorship programs, and we just happened and to be
having a conversation doing one of our business lunch and
he talked about starting a podcast to educate men on
how to be more menly, and I invited Haitian love
It because I feel like you guys have the same

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kind of mindset and same kind of demeanor when it
comes to that.

Speaker 3 (10:22):
So let's talk about Haitian love It.

Speaker 2 (10:25):
To introduce him, tell us a little bit more about you,
mister international DJ. Let everybody know about you and also
about your Miami trip for Haitian Heritage Month and Haitian
Flag Day.

Speaker 1 (10:36):
Absolut, do you guys hear me loud and clear, Yes,
absolutely better. Bet. I had an unstable internet connection that
was giving me some issues, but now it seems like
I'm stable. So yesque shout out Milton with something my brother. Yes, yes,
I just came back recently from Miami. We had a

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couple events celebrating Haitian hair to jimonth and not only that,
Haitian Flag Day. This is a celebration that has been
done for quite amount of years now where they have
you know, they had a big festival where they include
a lot of the Haitian artists to perform a particular

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day celebrating Haitian Flag Day. But as time progress, it
has evolved from not just one particular festival, but a
lot of us people Haitian culture and some people of
not of Haitian descent fly down to Florida and we
partaking the festivities. And not only do we partaking the festivities,
we started doing our own events where we would celebrate

(11:42):
from or usually from Thursday to Tuesday, but now it's
like it's Wednesday to Wednesday, so there's different people throwing
different events. Myself and a couple of other members of
the Haitian music industry from New York City decided to
throw some events out there, and some of them were

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very successful. Some of them could have been better, but
you know, due to the fact that so many people
are going out there now and celebrating the culture. You know,
there's other people doing different things throughout the week. But
it's also a great experience, you know. I mean you
meet people from New York, you know, New Jersey, Connecticut,
people from out there in Florida, Georgia, Texas, so there's

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Canada as well. So there's a lot of different people
that fly out there and enjoy the weekend, enjoy the festivities.
I was blessed to being a couple of big events.
I was blessed to have the opportunity to throw some
great events as well.

Speaker 2 (12:40):
And how did you get here? Like what do you
do be cite Hation Flag Day?

Speaker 1 (12:45):
Oh you do.

Speaker 3 (12:47):
More than that.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
Well, you know, having that type of experience and you
hear it, you know, because I'm not gonna lie before
me going out there you know, I would hear my
friends talk about it. Here We're going out to Miami
and it's just like that weekend. Ah, we're gonna go
turn out, We're going to do this and that. I'm like,
all right, whatever is not like that? And then when
I come when they come back and tell me the

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stories of so much people having fun, you know what
I mean. Everybody's getting their hotels, their airbnbs, and it
becomes a tradition for people to you know, hang out
during the certain days, you know what I'm saying. And
like now it's been so comfortable for people getting different airbnbs.
It's not only just a party thing. Certain people that

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you would see in your area or in party scenes
that you usually don't have a conversation with for usually
doing acknowledge. When you get out there, all of a sudden,
everybody wants to kumbaya. Everybody wants to everybody wants to
become friends, you know what I mean. And it's a

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great experience for the fact that so many people are
coming together. They're putting drama aside. They're putting all I'm
better than you, or I'm flashier than you, or I'm
on a better financial bracket than you aside, you know
what I mean, and everybody is pretty much equal during
this time, you know what I mean. So I guess

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the Haitian Flag Day weekend, you know, brings a lot
of people together and it creates more unity between people
of our culture.

Speaker 2 (14:23):
Which I appreciate because this is something that we need
in all, not just the Caribbean culture, but in everybody
absolutely talking about the culture. The culture has been in
my dms after I posted that video this morning asking
questions for importance of the man.

Speaker 3 (14:42):
So this is how the show's gonna go.

Speaker 2 (14:44):
We're gonna do a Q and A then we're gonna
do a red flag versus green flag lightning route. So
you guys remember when I posted those up. So we'll
retouch the most viewed or most interactive and most impressed
and videos questions with you guys. So let's start with
the first question. The first question is i'ppose it with

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to Milton, since Milton was the one who came up
with this topic.

Speaker 3 (15:13):
What does a man mean to you? What does what
does that? What's that definition for you?

Speaker 4 (15:23):
I guess, first and foremost, a man is someone who
is who is strong and when I say strong. I
don't necessarily mean you know, built, or or how many
how many weight he could lift or anything like that,
but just someone who's who's who's strong minded, and who willing,
who's willing to do anything to be successful. Now, successful

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comes in different levels. I don't necessarily mean financially, but
successful meaning making sure that his people in his circle
are taking care of, whether that's taking care of, mentally,
taking care of in all types of aspects. A man
is someone whose responsibility is never ended. It's our duty

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to make sure that our women are taking care of,
our kids, are taking care of, our parents are taking
care of and again not necessarily financially, you know, me
calling my sister to make sure she's good, you know,
to make sure that that someone is letting her know that, hey,
I'm here if you ever need to talk, you know,

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or my friend who I know is going through a
very difficult divorce letting her know, hey, if there's anything
I can do, if you you know, need me to
come get the kids for a couple hours, just to
give you some some peace of mind. It's my duty
as a man to just make sure that everyone that
in my reach is taking care of some way. Or
at least you know that they come to me lover.

Speaker 1 (16:49):
On that great, great answer. Let's give a great answer.
I agree with Milton. I agree with him one hundred percent.
I look at men as leader forer, someone that you
can talk to in confidence, people who are here to
support you, give you advice, give you strength emotionally. When

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it comes to being a man, it comes to being
there to help in people's sometimes sometimes physically, because we
might be around, we might be amongst some people who
don't have the physical capability to take care of certain
necessities or responsibilities around their house or job location or

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work location. So when it comes to being a man,
you're going to use your physical strength, your physical capability
as well, sometimes such as groceries, garbage, tech technical things
might be around the home, even around the vehicle, so
things of that sort. It's things that a man should
do as well. That's what you know. We try to

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raise and train our children, our young men, you know,
to become a man, how to teach him to become
a man. Unfortunately, in the world we live in today,
not every child has an opportunity to have a male
role model to teach him how to be a man
and we have a lot of beautiful women and a
lot of queens who try their best to give them
that role model from a woman's perspective on how to

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be a man. So I applaud those women as well.
But all those things that I just said and what
Milton has said as well, all great qualities on how
to be a man.

Speaker 3 (18:38):
So I'm going to touch back on raising a man.

Speaker 2 (18:41):
Both of you guys are fathers, happy early fathers stay
by the way, So what Milton's a father of a son,
I'm not sure if you have a son, love as well. Okay,
so raising a son. For those who do have sons
or do not know how to raise their son, what

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kind of advice or what does it look like in
terms of raising your son correctly?

Speaker 3 (19:08):
What does that mean?

Speaker 2 (19:09):
Because you know, with the whole stigma beating your kids
is not a good thing, but.

Speaker 3 (19:14):
Other parents may think it's a great thing.

Speaker 2 (19:16):
Being hard on your kids where keeping your kids locked
in the house may not be a good thing for
one kid, but some parents may think it's a good thing. So,
between both of you guys having sons, how do you
raise your son to be a man?

Speaker 3 (19:31):
I'll start with you, love, since you said the last
about it.

Speaker 1 (19:34):
Okay, Well, now my son is a young man. He's
sixteen years old. So when you know I'm not I
can't say I'm an old guy. I'm a very young guy. Student. Well,
when it came to raising my son, I'm going to
be very honest. You know, I had my son at

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a young age. You know, I was still developing as
a man myself when I had my son, and I
was very confused at that time. I wasn't I was unexperienced.
You know. I looked to my father for advice, and
my father gave me, you know, rest in peace. You know,
my father passed away recently. Yeah, so he gave me

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a lot of great advice on how to be a father. Fakure.
You know, when it comes to when it comes to
raising my son, I've learned that you have to acknowledge
and try to understand who your son is. It's not
only us putting our child in a certain direction that

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we would like them to grow, but we have to
realize who our son is. Just because we like certain
things doesn't mean our child is going to like the
certain things. I was a person of when I was
a kid at a young age, I was. I was
very chaotic. I was you know, running all over the place,
jumping all over the place. I was very active into

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sports and playing every sport I could play when I
was growing, when I was raising my son, he was
a complete opposite. He was a video game guy. He
was a techie. He wasn't into sports as much as
I was into sports. And I needed to accept that,
you know, when as a father, thinking that, you know, hey,
I'm going to try these different things. Which was good
to see which type of sports or which type of

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extracurricular activities he'll gravitate towards. You know, I bought basketball,
you know, play school hoops. I bought you know, football stuff,
soccer stuff, this stuff, and it was all a waste
because he didn't gravitate towards none of those things, you
know what I'm saying. And I really wanted him to,
but I had to realize this is not him, that's me.
He understands. I had to focus on what he likes,

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what he wants to do, at the same time giving him,
you know, correct guidance on you know, how to be
a good student, you know how to be batu child,
you know what I mean. So one of the most
important things I say in this day and age, due
to the fact that our decade is different now, is

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that we must really try to understand our children, not
only give them guidance, but understand our children and see
what works best for them.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
Okay, so you are understanding your child, that is the
best way to help raise your kid. Now, Milton, what
is your touch on raising? Because you have a son,
how do you raise your son?

Speaker 4 (22:34):
So his deal, it's no real blueprint, right, there's no
blueprint that's going to guarantee me or any other father
anything when it comes to raising their son. But I
do think that again having girls, having two girls and
having a son, the raising is the same. But at

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some point we just hit a fork in the road.
So with the girls, when they hit the fork in
the role, it's okay to lean on emotion. It's okay
to have feelings, it's okay to just let it all out.
It's okay to come to dad, and Dad is going
to try to hug his hug your heart back in
the place. That's okay. Unfortunately, for boys, when we reach

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that fork in the row, there's three things we have
to worry about. His emotion, his appearance and how he
carries himself, right, because you can't cry, you know. I
teach my son it's okay to cry. But here's the
hard part. The girls could cry in front of the
world and get that sympathy. My son can't cry in
front of the world and get that sympathy because he

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may be called a point in the middle of his
emotion is emotional state. So unfortunately, I have to teach
my son. Listen, all right, you lost the game, you're upset,
don't cry on the court. Hey, how about we go
crying the locker room. Because what we don't want as
a young man, we don't want these kids or anybody
else to ever be able to hold this against you,

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because that's what they do to especially black men. Once
we show emotion, you know, everybody talks about it forever.
I know that there was times when I was little
where I could have fell and cried, and my friends
talked about that for two weeks, you know what I mean.
So with boys, it's almost the same thing. But we're

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just not allowed to show that emotional side just out
in the open, all right. So I have to teach
my son that, you know, when you're dealing with a
police officer and the police officers just being a jerk.
You have to bottle that emotion in and maybe cry
about it later.

Speaker 2 (24:42):
So now touching on emotion, because that is a very heavy,
very heavy thing to deal with, especially with their being
mental awareness month. Men do cry, boys do cry, right,
so women us we're raised to think that, you know,
men don't cry.

Speaker 3 (25:03):
And as a.

Speaker 2 (25:04):
Woman, especially as a black woman, I hear it. Yeah,
women are allowed to cry. But as a black woman,
if we cry, it looks the same way as if
a black man cries.

Speaker 3 (25:19):
We're full of emotion.

Speaker 2 (25:20):
We can't control our this, our that, or if we
are outrageous, we can't control our temper and so on
and so forth. How do you tell your son when
he's having those emotional battles where it's like, I can't
go to the locker room, I don't have time to
do this, I don't like I need to feel this

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emotion right here, right now, because it's happening right here,
right now. How do we what do you tell your
son in that moment, Like, how do you tell him
to constrain that emotion? Because you tell him to go
to the locker room, But how do you tell him
to like, right here, right now, there's nowhere to go.

Speaker 3 (25:57):
What can we do with.

Speaker 2 (26:00):
Because this is the cops pull you over, and the
cops and we all know the cops will find anything
to antagonize you to get you upset.

Speaker 3 (26:09):
What do you tell your son, Milton?

Speaker 4 (26:14):
Sorry, I think that I think that there's different situations
called different reactions. Right, So, you know, cop pull you over,
that you feel completely for no reason, and he's just
giving you the hardest time. You you want to make
it home at the end of the night. You have
to bottle that emotion. You have to. It's it's it's

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not worth your life. It's it's not worth risking your
life to curse him out, tell him off, or give
him a hard time. It's just not worth it. Now
on a basketball court, okay, hey, you want to cry
at the middle of the court. You're not harming anymore.
So I think it's different. It's you always want to

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you want to teach your son. It's just different. It's
just a time and a place for everything, right, and
you just want to teach. Oh, you want to teach
your kids that in general, you know, But I think
with young black boys, man it's it's tough for them.
I think it's super super tough for them. And and
again you don't necessarily want to take the emotion out
and you touched on you know, when women cry and

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stuff like that. Want when a woman cries, all right,
And it's been like this from the beginning of time.
When a woman cries, someone is going to grab some tissue.
When a man cries, we got to find out why
are crying? While he crying, what's wrong with him? Who
broke his heart? It comes with like this stigma of

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your souls, you know, and and sometimes that emotion you
just don't want to show the world that. And I
gotta be honest, even someone in a relationship, it's not
even comfortable to cry in front of your wife or
your woman.

Speaker 3 (27:54):
It's not it's not comfortable Pandora's box. You know that.

Speaker 4 (28:00):
I'm just saying. You know, I've been in a situation
where you cry fund of someone and that should come
up two weeks, three weeks later in the middle of
an argument, you know what I mean. So I showed
you my royals emotion for whatever it was, and now
we're bringing that up. A man a red flag that
if a man. If a man does that, he's turning.

Speaker 2 (28:21):
Okay, So all right now, now since we're opening up pan,
there's box, we're gonna talk about emotions.

Speaker 4 (28:27):
Let's talk.

Speaker 3 (28:27):
Let's start with the first.

Speaker 2 (28:29):
Thing that normally deals with everybody's own mental issues, insecurities.
Women have insecurities that are very visual things that we
talk about.

Speaker 3 (28:41):
I don't like my legs, I don't like my bud,
I don't like my arms.

Speaker 2 (28:44):
I don't like my you know, very vain, very you know, girlic,
girly things. I know girls don't. Don't don't hurry me
for that. But what are one of my followers want
to know? What are men insecure about?

Speaker 4 (29:03):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (29:03):
It is a lot of men, you know, you know
a lot of men who are confident within themselves and
confident within their relationships. They'd like to carry themselves a
certain way, you know what I mean? They they they
you know, all men, all men enjoy their egos, stroke right,

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all of us. You know, we always want to hear
the nice compliments from the lady that we're dealing with,
whether it's uh, it's somebody with just dating, somebody in
a relationship with for somebody that's our wives. We always
love our ego stroke, you know what I mean? And
and we and the being the fact that our egos
are stroked. That's how we walk in confidence. But a

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common insecurity that a lot of men have that some
men don't even pay attention to, is when they catch
their women right staring or or or pretty much talking
about particular quality another man has that you know, is

(30:05):
a little bit different from theirs. For example, right if right,
if a particular man is husky, right, he'sa he said,
he's a chebvy guy. He's a husky guy. And then
they see their woman admiring a guy who's well built.
He unders saying that's far a six pack. He's a
he's a three to four Jim goer, you know, three

(30:26):
times a week Jim goer. That can cause an insecurity
with a man his body, you know what I mean,
because he sees how his woman looks at another particular
man because of his physical because of his physical features,
you know what I mean, That can cause insecurity. Another
insecurity that's common with the men that men do not
like to acknowledge or like to say anything, is when

(30:49):
their woman right will see another particular man in a
nice vehicle that there, you know, that they hope to
purchase in the near future, you know what I mean.
But now that can cause a financial insecurity with that
man because he sees how his woman gravitates to that
particular you know car, you know what I mean. So

(31:11):
that's a financial security. And the thing about it is
that it's not that she's like drooling over the vehicle
or making the shows that making it seem like, oh,
her man is not you know, it's not a financial
provider for her. It's just that he sees the look
in this woman's eyes. And now, him being a provider,
he wants to, you know, make sure that his woman

(31:33):
is comfortable, and he wants to give his woman his
desire because he loves this woman.

Speaker 2 (31:37):
But they'll tack on those little fights after a while
where it's like, oh, I see you looking at that. Yeah,
that's the unintentional like you said, she doesn't intentionally realize
she's doing it. But then now it's causing a problem
because I guess it touches on the insecurity. Ladies that

(31:59):
they're complaining about that were touching on the insecurities that.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
Causing security with a man. You know what I mean,
I've I've you know, I've been there before where I've
seen you know, my woman check out a certain dude.
You know what I'm saying. And you know I felt
at that time, I felt a certain way. You know
what I mean, I did feel a way. I didn't
I didn't mention it. I didn't have a conversation, but
I seen the look in her eye. I was like, oh, wow,
you know.

Speaker 3 (32:21):
What I mean.

Speaker 1 (32:22):
And then you know, later on when we had a
big argument about something and I mentioned it, you know
what I mean, I revisited I mentioned it, and then
you know, she was so she was so surprised, you know,
when when I when I brought it up, and she
was like, how But I never said to you that
I didn't like the way you look. I didn't say I.

Speaker 3 (32:40):
Didn't like wa complaining for it had nothing to do
with you.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
Yeah, But at the same time, it was just the look.
It was the presence because at the end of the day,
we all go through insecurities.

Speaker 2 (32:51):
Now insecurities now you know we could, but now this
is the argument keep coming out because men are more
likely to look at it other woman or even if
the woman has everything that other women that they're looking at.

Speaker 3 (33:05):
But we as women have to repress those feelings.

Speaker 2 (33:09):
But men are more likely to act on those feelings
quicker than we are.

Speaker 3 (33:15):
M What do you have to say about that? Because
I can.

Speaker 2 (33:21):
I say that you are a guy that have done that,
act on those feelings quicker.

Speaker 4 (33:29):
Milton, I'm a saint. I haven't never done anything wrong.

Speaker 3 (33:34):
Look at the mercy please. Okay.

Speaker 2 (33:36):
First thing, first, Lover, you've never seen Milton outside of
this screen. I bumped into Milton yesterday at a graduation.
This guy had Gucci glasses. He's as fire as you.
You guys be coming in with the Gucci This louis
that gotta look the design?

Speaker 3 (33:50):
I look at hey, you don't please? They said what
car you drive?

Speaker 1 (33:55):
Milk?

Speaker 3 (33:59):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (33:59):
That was BMW because they say everyone THATW is a WHRSE.

Speaker 3 (34:03):
So I'm just making sure.

Speaker 1 (34:06):
I'm an Eastside man. So I'm good.

Speaker 3 (34:11):
Cool. So now insecurities.

Speaker 2 (34:15):
What are some insecurities besides the looking that lover has
told us?

Speaker 3 (34:21):
What are some insecurities you think men have?

Speaker 4 (34:26):
Well? I think the always the elephant in the room
is anything based around sex is always a huge insecurity
for men. Two To know that your woman might desire
someone else in any kind of way can be can

(34:47):
be in a huge hit to your ego.

Speaker 2 (34:50):
All right, now, how do you know your woman desires
another man physically without her acting on it.

Speaker 4 (35:00):
I think I think women's intuition is very very real.
I think it's very very real. And I think men
also has that. And I think that when when you're
with someone long enough, or even care about someone that much,
you know the shift. You could tell the shift, You
could tell that that, you know that that feeling you

(35:24):
you know that look right, and and our our women
can see it, you know, we we're looking at us,
We could be looking at a celebrity too hard. She
knows that that's just no, no normal look. You know,
the way he look at Siatra is not the same
way he look at Lebron, you know. Like, so she knows,
you know. And I think I think men know too,

(35:45):
Like men know, you know. I think girls are more honest.
Women are more honest. Yes, so your woman will tell you, man,
I think, uh, it's next to as hell. You know what,
we don't We don't necessarily tell woman that, like we
don't necessarily tell our women.

Speaker 2 (36:02):
Hey, I think wait that I was not so you're
talking about us. Come on calling out a celebrity.

Speaker 3 (36:08):
That can be so yeah, it can be. It can
be tag on the insecurity.

Speaker 1 (36:13):
Milton is onto something, Milton, for some men, for some men,
why not?

Speaker 4 (36:18):
For for some men, why not if you're a if
you're a light skin brother, If you're a light skinned brother,
and regardless of how you look, you could be in shape,
right if you're a light skinned brother. But your woman
is always pointing out dark skin men, celebrity, celebrity or not.
That that can that can And I don't care how
mentally strong he is. Correct, that can somehow have him thinking, well,

(36:42):
that and what the hell she with me for she
always pointing out dark skin brothers.

Speaker 1 (36:46):
Milton, can I answer jet? You said some of the
one hundred percent correct? I agree with Milton and Underson.
I was one time I had an ex girlfriend of mine.
She was infatuated with Usher, infatuated with Usher, and you know,
she you know, and I said to her the way
she was infatuated with Usher, I was like, yo, you
make it you very You make me feel comfortable. If

(37:07):
I would never buy you Usher tickets, like.

Speaker 5 (37:09):
I would never go to a concert with you with
Usher I even asked the one time, I said, Yo,
if usher came at you, right, if we was backstage
it usher came at you, would you let him hit?

Speaker 6 (37:21):
And she took like three seconds to answer the question.
She took three seconds too long. It's supposed to be automatically. No,
come on, babe, stop it.

Speaker 1 (37:31):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (37:32):
The one in a million kind.

Speaker 1 (37:34):
Of like if.

Speaker 3 (37:37):
That's the matter, who's supposed to who's your favorite? Like
celebrity that you wouldn't think about? Yo, she were to
ask me right now, I just may.

Speaker 4 (37:50):
No, it's nobody for me. I don't know body. I'm
a singer.

Speaker 2 (37:54):
Oh god, clearly we can tell ladies that these people
are probably in relationship.

Speaker 3 (37:58):
So that.

Speaker 2 (38:00):
So we got it all right, So for the sake
of it, now we're going to move forward. Another viewer
of mine want to know what do men want from women?

Speaker 3 (38:12):
Like, we give you everything you guys possibly want?

Speaker 2 (38:15):
You want someone cook clean, someone that makes you feel comfortable,
someone that makes you create a home.

Speaker 3 (38:22):
What else?

Speaker 2 (38:23):
What what do men want from women? Who wants to
be a first answer?

Speaker 3 (38:29):
Not all at once? That means you, guys, what got
you right?

Speaker 1 (38:33):
Real quick? I've learned this when I was younger. When
I was younger, you know, I did everything for myself,
you know what I mean, and it didn't matter to me.
I didn't really have much preferences when it came to
women when I was younger. But it changed drastically after
I became thirty. You know, once I passed thirty, thirty one,

(38:53):
thirty two, all the quality the choice changed drastically.

Speaker 3 (38:57):
You know.

Speaker 1 (38:57):
Before I mainly focused so you know, her looking cute,
her looking good, her looking fly you know what I mean.
You know pretty much eye candy, you know what I mean.
That's what I focused on at that early age, you
know what I mean. But it wasn't until I got
older that I realized I need a woman who was
able to maintain a household, cook clean, you know what

(39:23):
I mean, create her own source of income, you know
what I mean. And the most important thing right now
is the same way that women ask for stability. You know,
one of the most important things now is the stability.
I need to feel as though that if something happens
to me, I give you the ball, you won't drop
the ball that you can't can that ball of responsibility,

(39:46):
meaning that when I'm sick, when I'm down and out
when I feel as though I can't move, I'm tired,
I'm exhausted, you know what I mean, I'm sick that
you can take care of me. You can go to
the market, you can make food for me, you can
you can shout with me, you can bathe me, you
can you know, get me ready for my next day.
You can encourage me, you can give me motivation to

(40:07):
do what I need to do. And that's very important.
And you know them. And I'm gonna say this probably now,
the woman that I'm dealing with now, she gave me
that confidence, you know what I mean. We started off
as friends and you know she you know, she gets
somebody nerves here and there, right, but like every woman,

(40:29):
but she encourages me, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (40:32):
She motivates me.

Speaker 1 (40:33):
And you know, and throughout the process that I've been
going through in the last year and a half, she's
been there for me a lot. And I really appreciated that,
and am and and I don't take that.

Speaker 4 (40:44):
For granted, for real, for real.

Speaker 1 (40:46):
So it's that type of mindset that you know, say,
we need to have, you know what I mean. And
and a woman and that makes me comfortable. So as
long as that woman is stable, that will give a
lot of men comfortability.

Speaker 2 (41:03):
Well you said for real, for real, so I know
it's for real. Because okay, Milton, do you have anything
to say? Because I wanted to ask another question. Let's
piggyback off of what he said.

Speaker 4 (41:15):
I mean, my my biggest thing that I don't want
to say the best thing because that sounds horrible. But
what's really important for me is just silence. And that
doesn't mean that you can't voice your opinion, kirk me out,
curse me out when I'm wrong, pull my card on
some things. But I think sometimes a man just wants silence,
like just be his peace, you know. And you know,

(41:39):
sometimes maybe I just want to come home and I
don't want to hear about how fter of your day was,
you know, and I don't want to complain about my
day either. Let's just sit here, like let's just sit
here and maybe just listen to some music, like let's
just say nothing. You know, sometimes when we in the car,
you're let's just like let's just like say nothing. Our
lives are full of get up and go kids, schedules

(42:03):
work like silence sometimes is just golden for me.

Speaker 3 (42:08):
So this is interesting.

Speaker 2 (42:09):
So this is a great way for me to segment
the next question. So to piggyback off of Haitian love
and you you like silence and you took a while
to finally get into the relationship with the person.

Speaker 3 (42:20):
So now someone wants.

Speaker 2 (42:22):
To know what does it take to get to wait,
what does it take to have a relationship with the man?
What does it take to really get in a relationship
with the man? For a man to actually say I
want you to be my girl.

Speaker 4 (42:38):
Well, unfortunately, that's kind of tough because not every man
is ready for a relationship.

Speaker 2 (42:47):
And explain on that, because not everybody knows what that means.
Because a lot of guys do tell girls, hey, I just.

Speaker 3 (42:52):
Want to mess around. I'm not ready, but same thing
vice versa. But no one really.

Speaker 2 (42:57):
Knows what that means because a lot of people do
really relationship things, but they're not ready for relationships.

Speaker 4 (43:04):
Well, that's one of the issues that men have. We
are not the best communicators, and I think the most
important thing in a relationship is communication. You know, I
was I was listening to the comedian Michael Blackson the
other day and him is his fiance was up there

(43:25):
talking about like disagreement that they have that he could
mess around with you know whoever. You know, they got
some like weird thing going on. Yeah, technically it's weird
for us, but it seems to be working just fine
for them.

Speaker 2 (43:39):
I was like, let me just tell the viewers for
those who don't know what's going on, I believe it's
their show called Couple's Retreat on VH one, if I'm
not mistaken. Michael Blaxon and his current fiance I'm not
sure where her name is, but they basically have a
deal where I think a quarter every quarter of the year,

(44:02):
so that's about four quarters in the year, right, every
quarter of the year, so four times a year he
can have a side check.

Speaker 3 (44:11):
Yeah, so continue Milton.

Speaker 4 (44:14):
So, and I'm not advocating for all men to have that,
you know, unless you get the co sign or for
that or out to you. But I just think that
the communication right. So, and we feel we feel as men,
not saying how we feel, you know what, because because
we change like men, we do change women.

Speaker 2 (44:37):
I think you think that has to do with the
emotion that you told your son to like, you know,
certain place, certain times.

Speaker 3 (44:43):
So now he doesn't know what place and time.

Speaker 4 (44:45):
Well, I think I think men change for multiple reasons. Right,
we change.

Speaker 2 (44:49):
We change because continue, it's a lawyer in me, but continue.

Speaker 4 (44:55):
Yeah, we change. Men change for multiple movies.

Speaker 1 (44:57):
Right.

Speaker 4 (44:57):
We changed because we see something that we think is better.
We change because this person is just not what I
thought they were. Right, we change because we're insecure. We
have insecurities, you know. But when we don't communicate it,
then we just look like a bad guy. Whereas and

(45:21):
if you tell this woman, hey, listen, you know, I
just don't think we're working out. I just don't think
that I'm right for you and get right for me,
now you look like a man like you know what
I mean. You get credit for saying that instead of
just ghosting the chick, not saying anything, treating her different.
Now you look like an animal. So we lack that communication.

(45:41):
So I think for women, the best thing you can
do to really get a man is to make sure
that he is so able to be transparent and communicate
with you. And if he can't do that from the
first day, then cut it off.

Speaker 3 (45:52):
Oh I was about to say that's easier said than done.

Speaker 4 (45:55):
Of course it is.

Speaker 3 (45:56):
As women are.

Speaker 2 (45:57):
More likely to communicate because you know, I'm only them
in here, so I have to advocate for my ladies.
Right now, we are more likely to communicate, But then
us communicating too much is considered nagging.

Speaker 4 (46:09):
Mm hmm, good point.

Speaker 3 (46:13):
Okay, let's talk about it.

Speaker 2 (46:15):
So what what is on the spectrum as to what
point does communication turn into nagging?

Speaker 3 (46:24):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (46:25):
To be honest, I've learned this the hard way that well,
first off, when it comes to when it comes to
having a woman want to be taken serious into your relationship,
I think that a lot of people have this mindset. Well,
I've said, I've come across a lot of you know,

(46:46):
different discrepancies with different people where they say they feel
as though that you shouldn't show all your quality traits,
your positive quality traits for a relationship unless he puts
the ring on the finger, or you don't let all
the tricks out the bag until you're in a relationship.

(47:08):
I disagree with that. And the reason why I disagree
with that is because you know you are serious relationship,
you know potential. You should show that you have these
quality traits. You should show that you're able to maintain
a household. You should show that you're able to do

(47:31):
all of these things that you deserve to be in
a long term relationship if that's what you want. So
when you show these things to this particular gentleman and
he sees it and he loves it, and he and
he's transparent, like Milton said, he's transparent and seeing that, Yo,
you know what, this is what I want and this

(47:53):
woman has all these quality traits. Sometimes you got to
show him, like they're listening, this is not for free.
I have that I have worth, you know what I mean.
There was a time where I was I was, I
was coming out of a relationship and I started dating
a woman and I didn't clear the past relationship. You know,
that relationship was still lingering around and I'm over here

(48:14):
involved with another woman and she knew it, you know
what I mean. And and so now I'm involved with both
women and you know, I'm just you know, having my
cake and eat it too. Until one day she realized
and said, you know what, I'm worth this much and
if you really want to be with me, you're gonna
cut off old ties with that lingering relationship. So guess

(48:38):
what she did. She gave me a taste. She said,
you know what, I'm gonna show you that I'm worth
what I'm worth. So she popped up to a location
with another dude and I was in my feelings right
and I was like, yo, listen, if I really want
to be with this woman, I need to cut off ties.

(48:59):
And you know what I'm saying. She put the proof
in the putting and it worked. Sometimes, Ladies, if you
feel as though that you deserve, you know, deserve what
you want, you gotta show it. You gotta pull it,
You got to back it up. You can't just talk
to talk. You gotta walk the walk. And now it

(49:20):
is a gamble, yes, it is a gamble. But at
the end of the day, I feel as though that
when you take this gamble, it's gonna work out in
your favor. If this is what you really want, you
got to invest in yourself, you know what I mean.
You got to know your work, and if you show
your work, I think other people will see your work
as well.

Speaker 4 (49:36):
I thank you, you're such a nice guy.

Speaker 3 (49:41):
I hear you, love I do, I really really do
hear you.

Speaker 2 (49:44):
But there are those special men that these women do
show them their worth and it's like, well, if she's
given it to me. All right, now, it's the point
of putting ring on it? What's the point of doing
all of that? Got it all like this right now?
You get what I mean? So, yeah, what give him
a taste? Yeah, but don't give him the whole plate.

Speaker 1 (50:05):
You know what I'm saying. Give him a small order,
not a large order.

Speaker 4 (50:08):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (50:09):
I give him a taste. You know what I mean.
Don't let them don't let him eat it to buffaith.

Speaker 3 (50:13):
You know what I mean, ladies, I need a time frame.
What's the time? What's what's a little taste?

Speaker 2 (50:17):
Like you give it to them in the beginning of
the relationship for like a month or two, and then
you change up.

Speaker 4 (50:24):
I would say, give it to him for a little while.

Speaker 1 (50:27):
Give it to him for a little while, so that
way you can, you know, get accustomed to the taste.
And then say, listen, if you want to continue eating
this good food, you know what I mean. You know
what you need to do. You know what I mean.
You know what you need to do. You need to
lock it in. You know what I mean. Lock it in, ladies.

Speaker 4 (50:43):
When you when you when you go.

Speaker 1 (50:45):
To a car dealership and you want to get a
and before you sign this finance, this finance, so you
sign this lease. You want to test job, give that
test job, make sure you're confident, you do all these things,
and then you lock it in. You know what I mean,
this is what you really want to lock it in.

Speaker 2 (50:59):
I can't, okay, talk about locking it locking in it.
I can't even say it. But doing the test job
and seeing the one that you want. Another one of
my viewers want to know, do men really care about
physical imperfection?

Speaker 3 (51:15):
Because now we're in an error where.

Speaker 2 (51:17):
Everybody, the BBLS, the Columbia, the DRS, we all know
what those are. And now I'm hearing men are getting
abs done as well. Apparently they're getting BBL abs. One
of my followers want to know, do men really care
about physical appearance? Milton, Let's start with you, a good brother.

(51:42):
Hell yeah, physical no physical imperfection.

Speaker 3 (51:45):
I'm sorry, physical imperfections.

Speaker 4 (51:49):
I mean hell yeah. And I think that I think
that men and women have the right to like what
they like, right Like I think here's where we go wrong.
Here's where we go wrong. Like you you have the
right to life. What the hell you like? You like
stretch marks, then go get you stretch marks you like

(52:10):
a big butt, fake breast, then go get you fake
but fake breast. Where we at fuck back is when
we go get the opposite and now try to change
that person to what we like. Right, So we go
get the girl who who natural hair, you know, regular breast,
she was born with, regular bodies, she was born with.

(52:32):
But now we're telling her you should go get your butt,
you should go get your rest. But why when there's
plenty of women out there that look exactly like you
you're talking about you know what I mean Like, let's
let's not make that, Let's not make the queen feel
feel away, Let's not mess up with her insecurity. Go
get the girl who is got her body done.

Speaker 2 (52:55):
Well, this is now where we have to stite to
think the reason why you're with the girl are with
the natural hair, because it was something more than just
the outside that pulled you in. So if you're going
to get those girls that has all of that but
does not have the inside, I feel like the inside
means more than what the outside looks like.

Speaker 3 (53:13):
Am I wrong or am I right right?

Speaker 4 (53:17):
It depends on what stage you are in life, because
at twenty two, the inside don't mean anything for most
for most right, but at thirty two, thirty five, the inside,
I mean everything.

Speaker 2 (53:30):
Now there's a still men at this age right now,
So chasing the outside only.

Speaker 1 (53:38):
Yeah, eye candy, it's the icon, everybody, you know. The
thing about it is that everybody loves the icon. You
know about it is not every not all. The eye
candy is good to build with, you know what I mean.
Like you know what it saying. It depends on the
cities in your life, and the cities in your life
when you're young, well, what I like to say, you
know the phrases when you're young, dumb, full of come.

(54:00):
You know what I'm saying. All you care about is
just you know, looking good, you know, feeling good, spending
money on activities. You're not really basically planning your planning
your seeds for the future. That's not this, that's not
in the mindset that you're at aage when you're older,
when you pass your thirties and you realize, oh snap,
I need good credit. Oh I need I need a

(54:23):
good apartment, I need my own space, I need a home.
I need to you know, provide for my children. I
want to have children. Those things are very important. And
now you look at the big breasts and the big
butt as not the most important things in the woman
that you want to deal with, you know what I mean.
But if that is what you're attracted to, and if

(54:47):
that what you if that is something that you feel
you need in a woman that you're dealing with, then
you go after that type of woman. You shouldn't sit
there and then go over go after the opposite and then,
like Milton said, try to create, you know, or try
to mold that woman into you know, the Instagram model.

(55:10):
You know what I mean. You don't want to do that, you.

Speaker 4 (55:11):
Know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (55:12):
But if your woman besides that, you know what, I
want to make these changes to her physical appearance for
her own personal self esteem reasons. I'm completely forward. But
you know, if you want to stay natural the way
you are, that is okay with me because I loved

(55:32):
you the way you look, and I'm going to continue
loving you the way you look, and I hope you
do the same thing for me. You know what I mean.
I'm not always going to be the best looking DJ.
You know what I mean, I'm not going to be
the best you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (55:44):
Always be the best looking DJ? He naturally right, you
know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (55:50):
So at the end of the day, I hope you
still love me when I start looking like an old gizer,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (55:55):
So, and I'm going to.

Speaker 1 (55:57):
Continue to love you when you know what I'm saying,
you're going to looking like you know, uh uh what's
the word again, a milk? You know what I mean.
So it's okay, you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (56:08):
That's that's the way we're going to look at it.

Speaker 1 (56:10):
That's how I feel.

Speaker 4 (56:11):
I think it's it's important like and and for the ladies,
the women out there, stop stop stop stop assuming that
every man you meet is a man. Like stop stop
just because he got a beard and you know, go team,
you know, got a particular body part that's different from yours.

(56:32):
Stop assuming that he's a man doesn't necessarily make him
a man.

Speaker 3 (56:36):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (56:38):
You know so I think I think sometimes women are
there there they're worse downfall, you know you And I
think women sometimes get caught into the looks and and
different things and you end up getting your heart broken
at the end of the day, you know, because I know,
I know forty five year old men who just have
not figured it out yet.

Speaker 3 (56:58):
As do if you want.

Speaker 2 (57:01):
All right, So I'm gonna end this Q and A
with two last questions before we get to the red
flag green flag lightning round. So now that we've gone
through the whole questionnaire of okay, the type of woman
you want, Now that we've built our lady, our future wives,
which are the ones that are with you?

Speaker 1 (57:21):
Ladies?

Speaker 2 (57:21):
If you watch, if you share with your wives that
your current girlfriends and let them know that you guys
did well, I'll let them know report card, they did well, ladies,
but let's just say you are with them. One of
my followers want to know how do men deal with
a partner who has a low sex strive? Like she
has everything you need, every quality in the world. Everything

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for her sex drive is low. It's not because she
doesn't want to have sex.

Speaker 1 (57:50):
It's just.

Speaker 3 (57:52):
That's just who she is.

Speaker 4 (57:55):
If it means that much to you, your best bet
is to just learn know this ain't gonna work. Don't
I think don't don't don't disrespect her and continue your relationship.
But you feel the need to have to step out now.
So you you have to be able to communicate a
I mean, need you step your game up, because if

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the shoes. On the other foot, she would damn sure
tell you.

Speaker 2 (58:20):
Well, here's the second part to the question. Now, someone
also said, how can you get guys to be open
about changes in the bedroom? Like what you said? Okay,
you're telling her it's not gonna work. Why not introduce changes?
Like how what if she's into something that you're not
and she wants.

Speaker 1 (58:40):
To tell you about it?

Speaker 4 (58:42):
But that we back to we back to communication. It
comes back to communication. Tell me, tell me what you want?
You want me to go put on a fireman outfit?

Speaker 1 (58:51):
Like how how.

Speaker 2 (58:52):
Can you tell? Like how would you like her to
tell you? Because some people like you saying that, but
you know, it's a lot. It's kind of awkward to
kind of bring that up, like, hey baby, I kind
of want you to choke the share.

Speaker 1 (59:03):
It's it's I think it's it's of course, it's not
what you say, it's how you say it. You know
what I mean, It's how you say it. It's ego. Men,
we all have egos, you know what I mean. It's
all about stroking the ego, you know what I mean,
making us feel comfortable with certain things. And I know
there's there's a lot of things that when it comes

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to heterosexual relationships, right that men might not feel comfortable
with because the activity might feel homosexual. That's the biggest
problem is when the activity that the person wants to
introduce into the bedroom can have the male feeling like
this is a homosexual act. And that's very important. You

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want to secure our masculinity at all times, especially in
the bedroom. You understand.

Speaker 2 (59:56):
I feel like in the bedroom is the time where
you're vulnerable, and the whole idea of doing this act
makes me feel homosexual. But you're with your spouse and
this is something your spouse enjoys.

Speaker 3 (01:00:11):
You wouldn't think about exploring that.

Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
The thing is if it's an act, If it's an
act for me to to do to my spouse, that's
not a problem. But if it's an act that my
spouse wants to do to me, then there can be
a lot of issues there, you know, I mean there's
a lot of issues there when it comes to speaking

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to your spouse about Yeah, yeah, yeah, your sex lack
is very important, you know what I mean, Like, because
I've been I've been in it. I've been a predicament
where you know, I didn't I didn't give up the
sex to my to my shorty as frequently as she wanted,
you understand, and she was, and she was able to

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accept that, you know what I mean, she was able
to tip that. Of course that wasn't our reference, you know,
but you're able to accept that because there certain things
that we might go through emotionally, you know what I'm saying,
physically mentally that caused us not to be focused, not
to be you know, not to be you know, as
as as you know, what's the word I want to say, horny,
but but I guess so I get the word horny,

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you know what I'm saying, as you usually do. But
when it comes to introducing certain you know, toys or
certain gestures to do inside the bedroom, I think it
all depends on how you bring it up to us,
like hey, you know, as she goes, you know, hey, babe, hey,
I want to try something different, you know what I mean?
Or you know, you make them comfortable. You can you

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bring it up in the act, you know what I mean,
where he feels comfortable, you know, doing something that you
already know that he already likes. And then now since
he's already in the mood, you bring it in you
understand the same way. I've learned that when you give
someone some constructive criticism, you know what I mean. You know,
some people are not able to handle the negative criticism

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right away. Cool like you did this wrong, you did
this wrong, you did this wrong. No, you let them
know listen, this is great, this was good, this path
was okay. I think that you know what, if we
tried this, it would have been better, you know what
I mean. If we did this, executed this this way,
it would have been better rather than just telling them
everything they did wrong.

Speaker 3 (01:02:24):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:02:24):
I mean so that I think introducing something at a
great time of where they're happy, they're comfortable, they're confident,
will be the best way to help your sex life.

Speaker 2 (01:02:37):
Okay, Milton, you have anything to say last about the
sex life?

Speaker 4 (01:02:43):
Man? Like I said, it's just communication and you can
just you just got to know your partner. You got
to know your partner. You got to know what he
or she will stand for, what they want. You know,
my woman come to me talking about she wants to
bring another dude in the room. I wish you out
the best. I agree, I wish you got I would
shot at absolute best. You know that silence that I

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was talking about earlier, you know, but it depends, man.
You know, you want to bring in some toys or
some fun stuff like that, or do more gamy type
things and yeah, cool, you know what I mean, why not?
Why not step out on the lead of leap of
faith with you? But you know, certain things just just
not going to go for like, let's just be realistic now, yeah,

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all right.

Speaker 2 (01:03:30):
Cool, all right, So there you guys have We're gonna
wrap that part up now, last segment, which is we're
gonna do the Lightning round. If you guys have not
seen my Instagram, which I know love I've seen because
I think I tagged you with one of the more
you reply to one of them. In the beginning of
the year, I was doing a segment red Flag Versus
Green Flag, where we just had I was just having

(01:03:53):
fun with social media.

Speaker 3 (01:03:55):
So we just post up a bunch of.

Speaker 2 (01:03:56):
Questions and I decided to pull the ones that the
most views and the most impressions and interactions engagement, and
I'm gonna post them to you guys. Now, what you're
gonna do, I'm gonna ask a question. You're just gonna
say red flag of green flag? You don't have to
wait for each other to answer. You guys get answer
at the same time. All right, we're just gonna run

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through them. If something excites some type of excitement. Oh,
I'm definitely digging in.

Speaker 1 (01:04:22):
You guys know that.

Speaker 3 (01:04:23):
All right?

Speaker 2 (01:04:24):
All right, first question, someone that takes care of themselves,
because self love is the first step to loving someone else.

Speaker 4 (01:04:33):
Green flag, green flag.

Speaker 3 (01:04:35):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:04:37):
They are emotionally able to express fears or vulnerabilities when
my feelings turn into an argument, why is that funny?

Speaker 3 (01:04:55):
What's the funny part?

Speaker 4 (01:05:00):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (01:05:00):
So is that supposed to be a subliminal Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:05:03):
No, you you said it, not me.

Speaker 2 (01:05:07):
I didn't say, ladies, not me. Okay, moving on taking
Christmas pictures knowing y'all ain't happy together.

Speaker 4 (01:05:17):
Red flag, red flag? Yeah, red flag?

Speaker 3 (01:05:20):
Okay, Now why is that red flag?

Speaker 4 (01:05:26):
I think it's a red flag because.

Speaker 1 (01:05:29):
If you guys are in that stage where you guys
don't know what you're going to do with each other yet,
and I don't think that you should pretend. I think
that you should just state the obvious and converse speaking,
have a conversation about what you guys want to do
and where y'all going with your relationship. Because it don't
make sense to pretend to be.

Speaker 3 (01:05:46):
Something that you're What if you guys been together for
a while, Milton, I just.

Speaker 4 (01:05:51):
Hate I just hate being fake in the moment. Like
I hate being fake in the moment. So yeah, and
I've been there, you know todays. Yeah, but there's I
just don't like being fake in the moment. It's just
it's not for me.

Speaker 3 (01:06:06):
Okay, moving on, did you want?

Speaker 2 (01:06:10):
If someone says, did you want anything, I'm about to
grab some food.

Speaker 4 (01:06:16):
Green flag. Fuck.

Speaker 3 (01:06:18):
I don't drink water.

Speaker 4 (01:06:22):
That's a real thing.

Speaker 3 (01:06:23):
Uh huh, that's a real thing.

Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
I don't drink If someone doesn't drink water, that's a
that's a red flag for me.

Speaker 3 (01:06:31):
That's a red Milton.

Speaker 4 (01:06:33):
No, I'm saying I didn't. I didn't even think he
was being serious. How could you go but not drink water?
But yeah, that's definitely a red flag.

Speaker 2 (01:06:40):
There are grown men that don't drink water, that believes
juice is the answer to everything, Like they really don't
like the taste of water.

Speaker 4 (01:06:47):
Oh good luck to them. I don't know how that happens.
But okay, yeah, that's a repla.

Speaker 3 (01:06:54):
It's women too. You'll be surprised if I'm doing anything that.

Speaker 2 (01:06:58):
Bothers you, are hurts you, or you just don't like,
let me know so I can fix it.

Speaker 4 (01:07:04):
Green flag, yellow flag, every color flag.

Speaker 2 (01:07:09):
Now, now going back to the beginning part, when my
feelings turn into an argument. So if she comes up
to you and tells you about the things that are
hurting her and she just don't like, she can't argue.

Speaker 4 (01:07:25):
It don't have to be an argument. Why can't we
discuss it without fighting?

Speaker 2 (01:07:30):
But that's when she says, my feelings turned into an argument.
So how do you not turn that into argument? If
it turns into nagging?

Speaker 4 (01:07:37):
Sometimes it's all about approach, baby, Yep, it's all about approach.

Speaker 1 (01:07:44):
I've had I've had discreperencies with my significant other. And
the thing about it is that I told her, I said,
when we having a conversation or discrepancy, all right, bo,
I'm gonna let you talk, let me hear you out,
because I want you to tell me what's bothering you,
what's giving you the issues. And then after you tell

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me what's giving you the issues, I'm going to give
you my thought. But my thing is this, if you
discuss what's giving you issues, and then now after you
discuss what's giving you issues. You don't want to hear
what I have to say how we're going to resolve
the problem. Sure, I understand you want advent, you want

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to tell me what's the issue. Absolutely, But now you've
got to give me opportunity to talk and tell you
why I've been acting this way or why I've been
maneuvering this way or saying what I or I've been
you know, not acknowledging your feelings. The thing about it
is that it's again not what you say, it's how
you say it. It's okay to be upset, it's okay

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to be on the opposite side of the fence, but
you know, tell me in a manner that's you know, respectful.
Give me an opportunity to give you my opinion, my thought.

Speaker 4 (01:09:00):
And maybe the reason why I.

Speaker 1 (01:09:02):
Gave you this was a miscommunication is year maybe I
didn't know, Maybe I didn't understand you and what I mean.
So that's the big thing. Maybe I didn't understand that's
the biggest thing. And I always say that, I said
that a lot of times. We misunderstand a lot of
things a lot. The thing about it is you're never

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dumb or you're never stupid or you're never slow if
you don't understand something. But the minute you choose not
to understand, meaning you know this person for this great
and you're purposely choosing not to acknowledge how they feel,
then you're being ignorant, you're being dumb, you're doing.

Speaker 3 (01:09:42):
Sup and you should get out the relationship. That means
you don't care.

Speaker 1 (01:09:46):
That's that's that's what I look at.

Speaker 3 (01:09:48):
All right, all right, let's finish up these last questions.

Speaker 2 (01:09:50):
All right, when are you going to have my kids?

Speaker 4 (01:09:58):
Oh? Wow? Hm, I'm not sure if that's that's that's
green all red right, it's neutral right there?

Speaker 3 (01:10:09):
Neutral?

Speaker 4 (01:10:10):
Yeah, I mean it depends like maybe her maybe she
feels her time is tickings, so I could understand that approach.
But you know, if we just met three weeks ago
and you're talking about that, then that's a red flag.
So I guess it depends on what's the scenario, lover.

Speaker 1 (01:10:28):
Yeah, it does. The comfortability too, of the man as well. Yea,
of the man as well. Sometimes you know, sometimes we have,
you know, our own goals. Sometimes we want to experience
things differently. Sometimes we've had negative experiences in the past
with relationships with former mothers of our children. I like,

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I don't like to say baby mother, but like I said,
with former mothers of our children, you know what I mean.
And sometimes you want to just experience the rest of
your life without the response stability of another child because
you might be done with the children. So at the
same time, we gotta be we have to be considerate

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of us significant other, you know what I mean. And
she wants to have children, and see what's going to
be the best thing to do moving forward with your relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:11:22):
Talking you guys like they are real.

Speaker 4 (01:11:25):
Like I'm gonna say green flag. I'm gonna say green flag.
I like that aggressive ship.

Speaker 3 (01:11:30):
I could see you.

Speaker 2 (01:11:33):
I see Milton, like, you're not aggressive, Okay, so I
see the dynamic right now, and she lover is really
a loved boy.

Speaker 3 (01:11:40):
And then Milton just like that aggressive love that shows
you you love you. Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:11:45):
Next one when they give you random hugs.

Speaker 4 (01:11:52):
Oh you know what that's that's such a good one. Wow,
you know what. I gotta be honest, I'm in a
religion ship now and I love I love the random hugs.
But you know when I don't like it, I don't
like it when I'm trying to get my point across,
and it's used as a tastic to like kind of
just shut up. Yeah, I don't. I don't like that.

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Like like if I come home from work or just
passing you on the hallway and you hugged me, I
mean great, I'm all for it, like tap you on
the butt, love you day. But if I'm like, yo,
I really didn't like that you did such and such
and then you come hug me to like shut me up,
I don't like that. That drives me crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:12:31):
That's not even shutting you up.

Speaker 2 (01:12:32):
That's just probably her saying you know what, I'm sorry, baby, Like,
let me just embrace you.

Speaker 1 (01:12:37):
Well, maybe you want to get this point across.

Speaker 4 (01:12:39):
I want to get my point across.

Speaker 6 (01:12:40):
Right.

Speaker 2 (01:12:40):
You said you didn't like what I did, so I'm like, okay, cool,
you expressed yourself. So now I'm embracing you to like
you acknowledged, to let you know, I acknowledge that you
didn't like.

Speaker 4 (01:12:52):
That I said. If you say, if you said if
we were together hypothetically, and you said, and mil and
what happened yesterday, I really didn't like. Now I may
not know exactly what you're talking about. But I feel
like this is gonna lead to an argument, so I go, oh,
come here, cue, give me hug. I don't even know
what I'm apologizing for hugging you about. I'm just trying
to prevent you from going on. I don't think that

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that's cool. Like I and women do that shit a
lot and then getting man getting his feelings and it's
just like, give me a hug, give me a kiss,
and just just we're not gonna talk about.

Speaker 3 (01:13:26):
It, Okay, love it. You had something to say about that?

Speaker 1 (01:13:30):
Agree? I like I DOREW like physical attention, physical touch,
you know what I mean. I'm a big cuddler, you
know what I mean when it comes to hanging out
with my significant other. When it comes to us, you know, alone,
I'm you know, hugged.

Speaker 4 (01:13:47):
Up on you.

Speaker 1 (01:13:47):
You hugged up on you, laid down cutting. But we
go to sleep, we're knocking out, we take a naps
of liver, all that good stuff. But yeah, but I
would say random hugs, it's okay. But this same time,
I need my space too, you know what I mean?
I need my space too. But when they come to this,
you know, channel in a good space. Yeah, you could
be up up under me. You know what I mean,

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as long as I'm not with the boys. You know
what I mean, I'm a respect as long as I'm
not with the boys, because you know, we got to
have our voice time, the same way you gonna have
a girls your girl's time. I'm not going to intrude
on your girls time hanging out. I'm a big I'm
a big I'm a big advocator for girl trips. You
need your growth trips, go on your girls ships, go

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on your girls out and you need it. Y'all need
to have fun, do your girls things the same way
guys need to go on their guys trips.

Speaker 2 (01:14:37):
And advocator because as well a woman's doing it, and
that gives you the allowance to do it.

Speaker 3 (01:14:42):
But like, oh, but I'm laying you do it though.

Speaker 1 (01:14:44):
You need the space apart so that way you can
miss each other and come back and do back to
your regular stuff. If y'all going away on certain tips, yes,
go on your girls trip, have fun, turn up. Just
don't do nothing you're not supposed to do. That's it
and I'm not gonna do nothing about supposed to do.

Speaker 2 (01:15:02):
I've always mean that way, say Milton.

Speaker 4 (01:15:05):
I said please go find a friend.

Speaker 3 (01:15:08):
You know what.

Speaker 2 (01:15:10):
We're moving on, all right, let's finish the rest of
these questions viewing my stories by having text me.

Speaker 4 (01:15:16):
Back if she's doing that to me, or if I'm doing.

Speaker 2 (01:15:22):
That to her, But if she's doing that to you,
red flag or green flag, yeah, I.

Speaker 4 (01:15:29):
Guess that's I guess that's a red.

Speaker 2 (01:15:32):
Really her going through your stories and just saying text
you back. What if she wanted to, like really answer
you fully but she didn't have to have time to
and you know, you're going through the stories and it
just happened to follow on you.

Speaker 4 (01:15:43):
Oh no, you got to put me before social media.
I had an argument about this the other day.

Speaker 1 (01:15:48):
Yeah, yesterday, I'm more important in social media. I don't
care about you Facebook, I don't care about your Instagram,
I don't care about your Snapchat.

Speaker 4 (01:15:56):
I'll come before that period.

Speaker 2 (01:15:59):
Yeah, obviously, But there are times a day, you know,
you send me a message and I really want to
answer you fully, thoroughly, and instead of me just sending
you like a yeah, no one word answer. But I
haven't had the time real quick, but I just happen
to be on Instagram, Or what if I just forgot
you text me.

Speaker 1 (01:16:18):
That's a selfish that's all. Yeah, it's just me.

Speaker 3 (01:16:23):
I gotta first that, all right.

Speaker 2 (01:16:27):
So then I guess this one when they're all about
their family and friends because they're great relationship, because they
have great relationships with them.

Speaker 4 (01:16:36):
I love that. That's a great flat.

Speaker 1 (01:16:38):
Yeah, that's a great flat family.

Speaker 4 (01:16:40):
Yeah, I'm all about family people.

Speaker 2 (01:16:43):
Okay, even though their family will probably like they absorb
a lot of their time.

Speaker 4 (01:16:49):
That's okay, that's okay, and me bring me into that part.

Speaker 3 (01:16:52):
Oh that's beautiful.

Speaker 1 (01:16:53):
Yeah, I bring, I bring, I bring what I'm dealing
with into my family.

Speaker 4 (01:16:58):
Once you get into a.

Speaker 1 (01:16:59):
Certain you know, like the time I bring into my family,
my family going to know who you are.

Speaker 3 (01:17:04):
Okay, cool, all right, that's the last few they are.

Speaker 2 (01:17:11):
No, no, I did that one. It's been two hours
since I heard from you. Are you cheating on me?
You get that text message?

Speaker 4 (01:17:19):
Oh that's a right then, Like that's a reflag. You're
going to get left on scene.

Speaker 3 (01:17:25):
Yo, Milton, your part.

Speaker 4 (01:17:31):
Ignorant stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (01:17:33):
Your partner understands that the relationship is just part of
your life, not your whole life.

Speaker 4 (01:17:44):
I've been hit with that.

Speaker 2 (01:17:45):
One partner understands that this relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:17:52):
Is only part of your life and not your whole life.

Speaker 4 (01:17:57):
MM, that's a reflect well, you know what, you know what,
you know. It depends if she's right right. If she's right,
then it's a green flag because you're you're expressing yourself.
You're telling me how you feel. And you know what,
at the end of the day, I may not admit it,
but you're right. But if you're wrong, then that shit
is a red flags.

Speaker 3 (01:18:17):
How is that a right or wrong?

Speaker 4 (01:18:20):
Because if your woman, if your woman says like I'm
just if she's telling me no and I'm only part
of your life. But let's say let's say I'm always
out with the boys, I'm always working, I'm always doing
my thing, and I'm not really giving her that attention,
then she's correct. Damn it. Maybe she is part of
my life and I put her I've made her feel

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that way. But if I'm constantly with you and we're
always together and we're always doing things together, and you're
saying I'm only part of your life, then you just
how much more time you want from me?

Speaker 3 (01:18:52):
That's interesting? You want to know it?

Speaker 2 (01:18:53):
So funny, that's the that's the power communicate communication because
I didn't see it that way. For me, as saying
telling somebody you're a part of my life and not
my whole life, not necessarily meaning that I'm making you
feel less than I'm just letting you know that you
are a part of a particular part of, you know,

(01:19:14):
my triangular or my circular life, because I have career,
I have Q talks, You get what I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:19:22):
I have my family and then I have you. So
that's how I see it.

Speaker 2 (01:19:26):
But in terms of, like what you said, if it's
the way of what you're doing to make them feel
that particular feeling that moment, for me, it's a whole,
entire all the time. When I get married, you're a
part of my life. My family is going to be.
Of course, God comes first and then my family. But
still at the end of the day, I don't want

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to think about it because I'm not going to go
into my marriage this way. But God forbid something happens
when me and my spouse, Yes, of course they'll be
depression or whatever goes through that. But at the same time,
this part of my life still has a function. I
still have to run a business, I still have to

(01:20:08):
put food on table.

Speaker 3 (01:20:09):
I still have bills to pay, I still have this.

Speaker 4 (01:20:11):
Those are two separate things, because that's what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:20:14):
I'm a woman.

Speaker 4 (01:20:15):
I'm with you are my life now, work, friends, activities,
that's part of my life. But if I'm with you
and we have kids, you you are my life. Everything
else is secondary.

Speaker 2 (01:20:28):
That's interesting. I see it the other way interesting. Whether
you have any thoughts.

Speaker 1 (01:20:32):
About I think I think that like you said, if
if you are in a relationship where you guys share
children together, and yeah, that's that's that's that's the family
that falls into that same family category. But when it's
different when you have an outside child, so it breaks
into portions. Like you said, you'll have your career, you'll

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have your child, which is another portion. Then you'll have
your family and your relationship. You know, your family and
friends is one category. Your career is one category, your
child is another category, and then your relationship is another category.
And the relationship is part of your I would say

(01:21:15):
your extracurricular giving me your extrac activity, that's the things
that you do for fun, was providing you happiness, which
is your relationship.

Speaker 4 (01:21:22):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:21:24):
And for a person with goals with morals, your partner
should realize that you know, I mean that you make
them a priority in your life, one of your priorities.
Those are the main priorities, your career, your family, your child,
and your relationship. That when you give all of these
things an equal amount of time, you know, you give

(01:21:46):
them an equal amount of energy. So that way this
person can you know, adapt with your lifestyle. Understand your lifestyle,
be a part of this lifestyle, you know what I mean.
It all depends on the length of your relationship and
where you guys want to go with each other, what
you want to build, because it's not only just being

(01:22:07):
a partner, it's.

Speaker 4 (01:22:08):
About being someone.

Speaker 1 (01:22:10):
In this particular, I guess Sandwich of life.

Speaker 3 (01:22:16):
I was like, okay, that's a good one.

Speaker 2 (01:22:18):
So now I'm going to create a whole entire show
around that about what it means to be a part
in the full because now I just heard like four
different dynamics, so I didn't know that it could split that.

Speaker 3 (01:22:28):
So this is interesting. All right, We're gonna finish one
last question. The ladies you.

Speaker 2 (01:22:33):
Guys are with, But if they told you I am
allergic to condoms, never used them anyway, I don't wear
them anymore anyway.

Speaker 3 (01:22:43):
No, it's not exacting. All right, Well, let our talkers know.
I'm gonna serw with Milton where they can find you
if they want to follow you and what you provide.

Speaker 4 (01:22:57):
Yeah, you could come and get getting together now with
Ques help. Starting my own podcast called Suits, Ties and
Hoodies that's going to be happening, you know, topics similar
to this that should be starting next month. But you
could definitely hit me up on Instagram. I'm you at
Milk Marvelus twenty one on IG and I look forward
to chatting it up.

Speaker 2 (01:23:18):
Yes, and now my favorite DJ of all time is
a love a lover. Let them know services where they
can find you.

Speaker 1 (01:23:26):
Yes, ready to gent. You can find me on Instagram
at Haitian Lover. That's spelled l o v A, hit
you level or one word. Also on Facebook lover lover
l v A l o v A. And as you know,
I have a lot of events coming up, but I
also have our radio show that Q blessed us on
being a guest on that. I'm just saying radio show.

(01:23:47):
You can find the link on my Instagram. It's I'm
just saying show on Instagram. I'm just saying show tune in.
I have a lot of events coming up. Follow me
on the Grand Next event coming up is the annual
Memorial Day Barbecue interested in place in Brooklyn, New York.
It's a day fat we're giving away free food. Tickets

(01:24:10):
are up on my Instagram right now for you to
get some tickets. It's a great event. It's an indoor
outdoor location, great, big location, you can travel there. We've
taken it to i would say downtown not too far,
but downtown Brooklyn area that we're going to take it to. Yeah,
ever between Crown Heights and Cabo Hill in the Hill area.

(01:24:34):
It's a great location that we have this year. So
if you guys want to pop out from a over
the game, you want to have some very multipoltual vibes,
hip hop, reggae, pompa, afrobead soca, you know what I'm saying,
reggae throwing a little bit of that too.

Speaker 4 (01:24:50):
You wanna pop out, hit up.

Speaker 1 (01:24:51):
QQ will give you some information on hitting up and
then we'll can send you the location where it's going
to be. It's going to be another great event. This
is thirteen years strong. Thirteen years you've been doing.

Speaker 3 (01:25:02):
It and I've attended and I can vouch.

Speaker 2 (01:25:05):
It is you know the back in the day's bashment
where like elbow to elbow and like everybody is sweating
and dancing and having fun.

Speaker 1 (01:25:13):
And it was it started from the family backyard, like
putting four hundred people really backyard, and then yeah, the
whole block filled with people. People thought it was a
block party, and it wasn't never a block party. It
was really a backyard memorial day of barbecue. And then
it just evolved. We took it to a great location

(01:25:34):
yes last year, and then you know this year we
took it to another big location. So it's just been
involving and involved and celebrated over thirteen years. So it's
another good event. So I just wanted to invite everybody
who tuned into this livee this afternoon.

Speaker 3 (01:25:50):
Yes Q approved it, so please go because it's actually
a lot of fun.

Speaker 2 (01:25:54):
And you know, I don't party that much, so if
I go to a party, that means I'm actually really
going out, all right.

Speaker 3 (01:26:01):
Thank you Milton, thank you Haitian Love.

Speaker 2 (01:26:03):
You guys were phenomenal. Thank you for answering truthfully and
being authentic. Thank you for having fun with you as
always talkers, as you guys all know. Make sure you follow,
subscribe like all of them, Milton and Haitian love of course,
including myself, and I will see you next week.

Speaker 3 (01:26:21):
With enough topic. This is just gonna be fun.

Speaker 2 (01:26:23):
I'm gonna have fun with this while I can't until
I go back to La right or am I going back?

Speaker 3 (01:26:28):
No one knows.

Speaker 1 (01:26:28):
We'll see

Speaker 3 (01:26:32):
Later

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