August 8, 2025 • 4 mins
If you say that you're too busy to date, why did you go out in the first place?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Stood up blocked again.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Let Jonna Chantel help, but there's seven thirty second date update.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Hey Kelly, Hey, Hey, how are we feeling?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
All right?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
I'm a little nervous to be honest.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Okay, all right, that's okay. We're gonna do you know,
we're gonna get to know each other first. This isn't normal,
but it's not weird.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
No, no, I mean obviously we've been doing this for
a long time, and we're gonna try to help you
today with a second date update. Just tell us what's
going on with you and Levi.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Yeah, we went on a date a couple of weeks
ago and it was great, But I have heard back
about another one, so I don't know. I just don't
really know what to make of that.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Okay, yeah, can you tell us a little bit.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
About the date.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Yeah, we've out dinner, you know, normal stuff, a couple
hours together. Just really connected.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I thought, I don't know, we really got to know
each other and we were just, I don't know, bonding.
We didn't even look at our phones the whole time.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
I feel like it's a good sign if you don't
pick up the phone, I mean, you're into each other's right.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Yeah, So what else happened on the date?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Not too much. You know, we finished dinner, we went
to get some ice cream and yeah, then he walked
me home.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
That was about it.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Okay, so a nice good day. I'm with you. So wait,
what the heck?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Exactly?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Any any red flag ideas anything that could have happened?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
No, nothing, nothing I couldn't think of.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Kelly, you didn't like throw your ice cream at a
car driving by because it was an ex boyfriend driving it,
you know how, like that's all of a sudden we
find out in the second date, it's like where was
that story?
Speaker 1 (01:29):
No? Okay, okay, let's play a song.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
Well, we're gonna talk about there for a second and
then we'll get a hold of Levi and we'll just
ask him why he's not calling me back.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Okay, Hello, Hey is this Levi? Yeah? What's up? Levi?
Speaker 4 (01:53):
My name is John Chantell's here. We're a part of
a morning radio show here in Salt Lake. We're on
the radio station Mix one on five to one.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
How are you? I'm well?
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Thank you all on the radio right now.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
We are recording right now. If that's okay? Is that
all right?
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Yeah, okay, Hey.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
We're calling because we wanted to talk to you about
a date that you went on.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
This was a couple of weeks ago with Kelly.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Yeah, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
I felt a little tension right now. We're just wondering
why you haven't called her back, Like, did something.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Go wrong on the date? No?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
No, Actually she was great, a lovely time with Kelly.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Okay, she's saying that she had a good time too,
So you had a good time together. That's what's going on.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Okay, So honestly, I guess, but it really is a
couple of days after we went out, I got a
call from my boss that I'm going to be.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
Getting a promotion, which means well, yeah, but it means
a lot of responsibility and like, you know, no free time.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
No free time though, like at all.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
So you're just not making dating a priority anymore. I mean,
my job's really important to me.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
This is a great opportunity, but you know, the hours
are long, and you know, by the time I get home,
I'm not sure I'm gonna we want to do anything.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Yeah, So obviously, like work is really where you're focused
right now.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I just don't think i'll have time for relationship, right.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Hey, LEVI by Kelly's actually listening in. Do you mind
if we just bring her on so you know you
can talk to her as well?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Yeah, yeah, okay, Hey Kelly, Okay, So you.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Won't have time for a relationship like at all?
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Hey not not really. Uh. You know, I'll be working
long days, some night weekends probably, and it's gonna be
rough for a while, you know. And I didn't want
to drag you into a relationships being and you know,
get started on something that really happened.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Yeah, but you just told me that.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right, You're right, and I should
have I'm sorry. I'm sorry about that.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I mean, would you be able to go out once
a week?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I don't know, I don't know. Maybe, but maybe not.
And I probably won't know what my schedules like until
i'm really, you know, knee deep in.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
It, you know.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that. You know, I
thought was really connected.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
We did, We did, Kelly, We totally did. I just
I wish there was more time in the week.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
So yeah, me too.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Let me just ask no chance for a second date
at all. It seems like the first day went so well,
and I feel like you want that relationship side too.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
You did go out on a dately by like you're
not interested.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
I don't know how much of a how much of
a relationship it would be if we just don't see
each other.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Right, Okay? And obviously, Kelly, how are we feeling? Yeah, Kelly,
how are we feeling? Right now?
Speaker 2 (04:39):
I mean, I mean I want another date, but at
the same time, like I you know, I'm interested in
seeing him, so if I can't actually see him, and
that's really what I'm interested in either, So so now
I mean, I don't know. It seems like it's going
to be hard to make it work.
Stood up blocked again.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Let Jonna Chantel help, but there's seven thirty second date update.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Hey Kelly, Hey, Hey, how are we feeling?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
All right?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
I'm a little nervous to be honest.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Okay, all right, that's okay. We're gonna do you know,
we're gonna get to know each other first. This isn't normal,
but it's not weird.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
No, no, I mean obviously we've been doing this for
a long time, and we're gonna try to help you
today with a second date update. Just tell us what's
going on with you and Levi.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Yeah, we went on a date a couple of weeks
ago and it was great, But I have heard back
about another one, so I don't know. I just don't
really know what to make of that.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Okay, yeah, can you tell us a little bit.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
About the date.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Yeah, we've out dinner, you know, normal stuff, a couple
hours together. Just really connected.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I thought, I don't know, we really got to know
each other and we were just, I don't know, bonding.
We didn't even look at our phones the whole time.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
I feel like it's a good sign if you don't
pick up the phone, I mean, you're into each other's right.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Yeah, So what else happened on the date?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Not too much. You know, we finished dinner, we went
to get some ice cream and yeah, then he walked
me home.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
That was about it.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Okay, so a nice good day. I'm with you. So wait,
what the heck?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Exactly?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Any any red flag ideas anything that could have happened?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
No, nothing, nothing I couldn't think of.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Kelly, you didn't like throw your ice cream at a
car driving by because it was an ex boyfriend driving it,
you know how, like that's all of a sudden we
find out in the second date, it's like where was
that story?
Speaker 1 (01:29):
No? Okay, okay, let's play a song.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
Well, we're gonna talk about there for a second and
then we'll get a hold of Levi and we'll just
ask him why he's not calling me back.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Okay, Hello, Hey is this Levi? Yeah? What's up? Levi?
Speaker 4 (01:53):
My name is John Chantell's here. We're a part of
a morning radio show here in Salt Lake. We're on
the radio station Mix one on five to one.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
How are you? I'm well?
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Thank you all on the radio right now.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
We are recording right now. If that's okay? Is that
all right?
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Yeah, okay, Hey.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
We're calling because we wanted to talk to you about
a date that you went on.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
This was a couple of weeks ago with Kelly.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Yeah, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
I felt a little tension right now. We're just wondering
why you haven't called her back, Like, did something.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Go wrong on the date? No?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
No, Actually she was great, a lovely time with Kelly.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Okay, she's saying that she had a good time too,
So you had a good time together. That's what's going on.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Okay, So honestly, I guess, but it really is a
couple of days after we went out, I got a
call from my boss that I'm going to be.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
Getting a promotion, which means well, yeah, but it means
a lot of responsibility and like, you know, no free time.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
No free time though, like at all.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
So you're just not making dating a priority anymore. I mean,
my job's really important to me.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
This is a great opportunity, but you know, the hours
are long, and you know, by the time I get home,
I'm not sure I'm gonna we want to do anything.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Yeah, So obviously, like work is really where you're focused
right now.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I just don't think i'll have time for relationship, right.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Hey, LEVI by Kelly's actually listening in. Do you mind
if we just bring her on so you know you
can talk to her as well?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Yeah, yeah, okay, Hey Kelly, Okay, So you.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Won't have time for a relationship like at all?
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Hey not not really. Uh. You know, I'll be working
long days, some night weekends probably, and it's gonna be
rough for a while, you know. And I didn't want
to drag you into a relationships being and you know,
get started on something that really happened.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Yeah, but you just told me that.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right, You're right, and I should
have I'm sorry. I'm sorry about that.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I mean, would you be able to go out once
a week?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I don't know, I don't know. Maybe, but maybe not.
And I probably won't know what my schedules like until
i'm really, you know, knee deep in.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
It, you know.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that. You know, I
thought was really connected.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
We did, We did, Kelly, We totally did. I just
I wish there was more time in the week.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
So yeah, me too.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Let me just ask no chance for a second date
at all. It seems like the first day went so well,
and I feel like you want that relationship side too.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
You did go out on a dately by like you're
not interested.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
I don't know how much of a how much of
a relationship it would be if we just don't see
each other.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Right, Okay? And obviously, Kelly, how are we feeling? Yeah, Kelly,
how are we feeling? Right now?
Speaker 2 (04:39):
I mean, I mean I want another date, but at
the same time, like I you know, I'm interested in
seeing him, so if I can't actually see him, and
that's really what I'm interested in either, So so now
I mean, I don't know. It seems like it's going
to be hard to make it work.
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