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Speaker 1 (00:00):
With a suspicion, you look for evidence. Are you paranoid
or on the right track? Catching the cheaters with Shantell's roses.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
If you feel like someone's cheating on you, I want
to get to the bottom of it. We're gonna call
them up offer a dozen free roses. They could send
anyone special in their life. The goal is that they're
going to send them to their significant other, but sometimes
they don't, and that's when we might catch a cheater.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
It's gonna be our goal to help out Letty. This morning, Hi, Letty, Hi,
good morning morning. Okay, so we were reading your DM
and you said your boyfriend Nico got a text at
two am that said you're just gonna leave without saying goodbye.
And I mean that's a big text to see, so like,
(00:42):
tell us what happened.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah, So, okay, I was up with our baby and
she's only four months so she's still waking up at night,
and his phone was on the nightstand and I saw
this text pop up at two in the morning and
it says literally says you're just gonna leave saying goodbye.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Oh my gosh, yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Yeah, so what happened?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
My stomach dropped? I just froze it just it didn't
sound like a spam text.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
You know, No, that doesn't sound like a spam text
at all. I mean that seems very personal. Did you
did you ask him about it? They challenge him.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
The next morning I told him I saw the text,
and he was like, Oh, it's just some random online thing.
It's like bots or spam, and he just just people
chatting online or whatever. It sounded flirty and very specific.
Did I just felt like total be us?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Yeah? Did you see the name with the text?
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Said it was from oh God for Ingrid.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Do you know any like Ingrid's in your circle that
would have that name or.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
In No, we don't know any and it's not a common.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Name, right really isn't a common name at all. So
he's saying like, now, this is nothing. It's just people
chatting online. It's a bot, blah blah blah. But obviously
you don't feel that way. Is there a reason why
your mind, though, is going straight to cheating. Is there
something in your life that has been feeling off?
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Well?
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Yeah, I mean having a baby, we're not as like
intimate right now, and lately he's been seeming restless. He
stays up later after I go to sleep. I put
our daughter down around like eight, and I'm exhausted, and
he's up on his phone okay, and he just doesn't
seem to be sleeping. He'll come to bed way later.
(02:25):
Kind of feels like he has his phone with him
all the time while I'm passed out to do like
anything he wants. Really, Yeah, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Then you see this text, yeah, and your your mind
starts to spiral from there.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
So what is she doing while I'm sleeping?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
You know?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Yeah, late night mystery woman two am ingrid like and
now she's mad that he left without saying goodbye. And
you're going, what happened here exactly? Okay, Lendy. I mean,
we can call up Nico. We can offer a dozen
roses and you know, see if he wants to send
him to ingri It or someone else or send them
to you, which we would love, Like is this something
(03:04):
you want to do?
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Absolutely?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Okay, okay, then we will play a song and we
will call up Ringville Letty and her husband Nico. They
have a newborn four months old and they're four month
old is not sleeping through the night, so Letty was
up and with their child and look down at Nico's phone,
and Nico had a two a m text message that said,
(03:27):
you're just gonna leave without saying goodbye? That's crazy, And
obviously Letty's like, what the heck is going on? Who
are you talking to? Who are you hanging out with?
That text message was from Ingrid, and so Letty, we're
gonna call it Nico. We're going to offer the roses
and we're going to see if he wants to send
these roses to Ingrid.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Okay, that would be great, stomach drop.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
We do need permission to record.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Oh okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Awesome, you ready? Chanton? I'm ready?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Is this Nico?
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Yes, Hei, Nico.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
My name is Shantell. I'm calling from J and C Flowers.
How are you doing today?
Speaker 4 (04:12):
I'm good? This is kind of random. How'd you get
my number?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
You may have selected online, probably with your cookie settings,
to receive local offers really quickly. I just we are
a flower shop here in Utah and we're offering a
dozen free roses, and I was just curious, would you
be interested in sending flowers to somebody today?
Speaker 4 (04:33):
I don't think I have time for this Is there
a catch to this or no.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
It's a it's completely free of charge. There's no subscription. Honestly,
it's just a fantastic offer if you're interested in sending
flowers to somebody today, no strings attached.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Okay, so you don't need a credit card and there's
no paper trowl. You're you're just sending flowers.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Yeah, it's just our way of kind of marketing and
spreading the word about our services.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Okay, as long as you don't need my finance and
so then no, yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Yeah, no personal information. I would just need to know
who you'd like to send the flowers.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Tomm Okay, I wasn't expecting this in the moment.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
It's totally understandable. Is there someone special you'd like to
send roses to?
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Uh? Yeah, you couldn't. Your name is Heidi?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Okay, Heidi?
Speaker 2 (05:23):
And what do you want the card to say?
Speaker 4 (05:26):
What the card?
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Just put it six twenty nine dash N six nine
dash and got it?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
And then is this like a romantic thing or more friendly?
I just want to make sure so I pick the
right kind of card to attach it to.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Well, no, it's not romantic, nothing like that. Just just
keep it simple.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Hey, Nico.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Uh wait, yeah you go.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Hey man, my name is John that you were talking
to Chantell. We're a running radio show here in cel
Lake on Mixed one O five to one. We do
something called Chantell's Roses. I got. We're not a flower shop.
I want you to know that right now.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Wait? Wait what is this?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
And we have your girlfriend Letty she's on the phone too,
and Letty was asking us to see who you would
send roses to? Letty? Do you want to kind of
share how we're feeling right now?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Who is Heidi? Nico? And what does six twenty nine mean?
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Wait?
Speaker 3 (06:19):
What is Oh my god, It's like you just had
the chance to send flowers to me and you sent
them to someone named Heidi. And I saw that two
am text from Ingrid. I mean, oh, you're just gonna
leave without saying goodbye? Who are these women? O?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Right?
Speaker 4 (06:33):
So listen? Oh my god, I could I could explain this?
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Yeah? I think Nico, that's what we're asking for you
to do right now? Like who is Heidi? Who's Ingrid?
Why are you sending roses to someone that you know isn't? Yeah?
Go ahead, first of.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
All, like this is all misunderstanding. First of all, Heidi
and Ingrid are the same person, so wait, what this
is all explained? Like, oh my god, so her name's Heidi,
but she used Ingrid for this sight. I met her online,
but she goes on both what.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Kind of online like a DM flirting or something more
than that.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
No, No, it's all like it's not serious, like we
talk and stuff, but it's just FaceTime and that's it.
Like I don't there's nothing more like it's very simple
stuff like what kind of stuff, Nico, Well, like like
we FaceTime, so like we see each other on comrades.
We've never met in person.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
An adult n are you doing adult things with her
on faceto?
Speaker 4 (07:34):
I mean okay, Like I'm gonna be honest, like maybe,
but it's not cheating. We've never ever even been in
the same room. Like there's nothing to it.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
I mean, the thing is, I mean, you're using the
word technically a lot, and if you're creating like a
connection virtually or in person, it is still cheating.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
You are absolutely cheating. I'm at home, I'm exhausted, I'm
taking care of our baby, and you're in another room
doing stuff of facetimeless Heidi ingrid person.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Okay, but you're not like ready yet after the baby.
I get that. Not mad about it. This just felt
like a way to, you know, do certain stuff with that.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
I'm going to just stop you because what you're doing
is going I'm going to redefine cheating. It's convenient. This
is a loophole I figured out. So, Nico, let me
just ask you. How often is this happening.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
I don't know, like a few times ballpark it for us.
I don't know, like maybe like three times a week
for a month or so, like, I don't know, not
that crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Oh, okay, this is terrible.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
So I just Nico, just so you can understand what
we're hearing. For more than a month, three times a week,
you're facetiming this woman, you're doing adult acts and stuff,
and then you're sending her roses with some kind of
code on the card. And then you're telling us this
is technically technically not cheating.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
I mean we've never met in person, like it's all online.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
But it's not that it's just online, like this is
emotional cheating, I mean tech although you're not in the
same room, it is like physical Like distance doesn't make it, okay.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Right, No, I can't believe Uniko. I mean, who even
are you?
Speaker 4 (09:14):
Are you like I'm not like, I'm not proud of it, Okay,
I just didn't know how to explain it, and I
knew like you weren't going to understand.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Letdia, I'm curious right now, where are you at? How
are you feeling?
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I'm disgusted and I want him out of my house.
Oh completely today.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I'm sorry I had to hear this. Yeah, let's talk
for a minute off air, okay, yeah, sure,
With a suspicion, you look for evidence. Are you paranoid
or on the right track? Catching the cheaters with Shantell's roses.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
If you feel like someone's cheating on you, I want
to get to the bottom of it. We're gonna call
them up offer a dozen free roses. They could send
anyone special in their life. The goal is that they're
going to send them to their significant other, but sometimes
they don't, and that's when we might catch a cheater.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
It's gonna be our goal to help out Letty. This morning, Hi, Letty, Hi,
good morning morning. Okay, so we were reading your DM
and you said your boyfriend Nico got a text at
two am that said you're just gonna leave without saying goodbye.
And I mean that's a big text to see, so like,
(00:42):
tell us what happened.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah, So, okay, I was up with our baby and
she's only four months so she's still waking up at night,
and his phone was on the nightstand and I saw
this text pop up at two in the morning and
it says literally says you're just gonna leave saying goodbye.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Oh my gosh, yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Yeah, so what happened?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
My stomach dropped? I just froze it just it didn't
sound like a spam text.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
You know, No, that doesn't sound like a spam text
at all. I mean that seems very personal. Did you
did you ask him about it? They challenge him.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
The next morning I told him I saw the text,
and he was like, Oh, it's just some random online thing.
It's like bots or spam, and he just just people
chatting online or whatever. It sounded flirty and very specific.
Did I just felt like total be us?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Yeah? Did you see the name with the text?
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Said it was from oh God for Ingrid.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Do you know any like Ingrid's in your circle that
would have that name or.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
In No, we don't know any and it's not a common.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Name, right really isn't a common name at all. So
he's saying like, now, this is nothing. It's just people
chatting online. It's a bot, blah blah blah. But obviously
you don't feel that way. Is there a reason why
your mind, though, is going straight to cheating. Is there
something in your life that has been feeling off?
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Well?
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Yeah, I mean having a baby, we're not as like
intimate right now, and lately he's been seeming restless. He
stays up later after I go to sleep. I put
our daughter down around like eight, and I'm exhausted, and
he's up on his phone okay, and he just doesn't
seem to be sleeping. He'll come to bed way later.
(02:25):
Kind of feels like he has his phone with him
all the time while I'm passed out to do like
anything he wants. Really, Yeah, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Then you see this text, yeah, and your your mind
starts to spiral from there.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
So what is she doing while I'm sleeping?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
You know?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Yeah, late night mystery woman two am ingrid like and
now she's mad that he left without saying goodbye. And
you're going, what happened here exactly? Okay, Lendy. I mean,
we can call up Nico. We can offer a dozen
roses and you know, see if he wants to send
him to ingri It or someone else or send them
to you, which we would love, Like is this something
(03:04):
you want to do?
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Absolutely?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Okay, okay, then we will play a song and we
will call up Ringville Letty and her husband Nico. They
have a newborn four months old and they're four month
old is not sleeping through the night, so Letty was
up and with their child and look down at Nico's phone,
and Nico had a two a m text message that said,
(03:27):
you're just gonna leave without saying goodbye? That's crazy, And
obviously Letty's like, what the heck is going on? Who
are you talking to? Who are you hanging out with?
That text message was from Ingrid, and so Letty, we're
gonna call it Nico. We're going to offer the roses
and we're going to see if he wants to send
these roses to Ingrid.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Okay, that would be great, stomach drop.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
We do need permission to record.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Oh okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Awesome, you ready? Chanton? I'm ready?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Is this Nico?
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Yes, Hei, Nico.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
My name is Shantell. I'm calling from J and C Flowers.
How are you doing today?
Speaker 4 (04:12):
I'm good? This is kind of random. How'd you get
my number?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
You may have selected online, probably with your cookie settings,
to receive local offers really quickly. I just we are
a flower shop here in Utah and we're offering a
dozen free roses, and I was just curious, would you
be interested in sending flowers to somebody today?
Speaker 4 (04:33):
I don't think I have time for this Is there
a catch to this or no.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
It's a it's completely free of charge. There's no subscription. Honestly,
it's just a fantastic offer if you're interested in sending
flowers to somebody today, no strings attached.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Okay, so you don't need a credit card and there's
no paper trowl. You're you're just sending flowers.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Yeah, it's just our way of kind of marketing and
spreading the word about our services.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Okay, as long as you don't need my finance and
so then no, yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Yeah, no personal information. I would just need to know
who you'd like to send the flowers.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Tomm Okay, I wasn't expecting this in the moment.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
It's totally understandable. Is there someone special you'd like to
send roses to?
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Uh? Yeah, you couldn't. Your name is Heidi?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Okay, Heidi?
Speaker 2 (05:23):
And what do you want the card to say?
Speaker 4 (05:26):
What the card?
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Just put it six twenty nine dash N six nine
dash and got it?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
And then is this like a romantic thing or more friendly?
I just want to make sure so I pick the
right kind of card to attach it to.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Well, no, it's not romantic, nothing like that. Just just
keep it simple.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Hey, Nico.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Uh wait, yeah you go.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Hey man, my name is John that you were talking
to Chantell. We're a running radio show here in cel
Lake on Mixed one O five to one. We do
something called Chantell's Roses. I got. We're not a flower shop.
I want you to know that right now.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Wait? Wait what is this?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
And we have your girlfriend Letty she's on the phone too,
and Letty was asking us to see who you would
send roses to? Letty? Do you want to kind of
share how we're feeling right now?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Who is Heidi? Nico? And what does six twenty nine mean?
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Wait?
Speaker 3 (06:19):
What is Oh my god, It's like you just had
the chance to send flowers to me and you sent
them to someone named Heidi. And I saw that two
am text from Ingrid. I mean, oh, you're just gonna
leave without saying goodbye? Who are these women? O?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Right?
Speaker 4 (06:33):
So listen? Oh my god, I could I could explain this?
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Yeah? I think Nico, that's what we're asking for you
to do right now? Like who is Heidi? Who's Ingrid?
Why are you sending roses to someone that you know isn't? Yeah?
Go ahead, first of.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
All, like this is all misunderstanding. First of all, Heidi
and Ingrid are the same person, so wait, what this
is all explained? Like, oh my god, so her name's Heidi,
but she used Ingrid for this sight. I met her online,
but she goes on both what.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Kind of online like a DM flirting or something more
than that.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
No, No, it's all like it's not serious, like we
talk and stuff, but it's just FaceTime and that's it.
Like I don't there's nothing more like it's very simple
stuff like what kind of stuff, Nico, Well, like like
we FaceTime, so like we see each other on comrades.
We've never met in person.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
An adult n are you doing adult things with her
on faceto?
Speaker 4 (07:34):
I mean okay, Like I'm gonna be honest, like maybe,
but it's not cheating. We've never ever even been in
the same room. Like there's nothing to it.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
I mean, the thing is, I mean, you're using the
word technically a lot, and if you're creating like a
connection virtually or in person, it is still cheating.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
You are absolutely cheating. I'm at home, I'm exhausted, I'm
taking care of our baby, and you're in another room
doing stuff of facetimeless Heidi ingrid person.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Okay, but you're not like ready yet after the baby.
I get that. Not mad about it. This just felt
like a way to, you know, do certain stuff with that.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
I'm going to just stop you because what you're doing
is going I'm going to redefine cheating. It's convenient. This
is a loophole I figured out. So, Nico, let me
just ask you. How often is this happening.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
I don't know, like a few times ballpark it for us.
I don't know, like maybe like three times a week
for a month or so, like, I don't know, not
that crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Oh, okay, this is terrible.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
So I just Nico, just so you can understand what
we're hearing. For more than a month, three times a week,
you're facetiming this woman, you're doing adult acts and stuff,
and then you're sending her roses with some kind of
code on the card. And then you're telling us this
is technically technically not cheating.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
I mean we've never met in person, like it's all online.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
But it's not that it's just online, like this is
emotional cheating, I mean tech although you're not in the
same room, it is like physical Like distance doesn't make it, okay.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Right, No, I can't believe Uniko. I mean, who even
are you?
Speaker 4 (09:14):
Are you like I'm not like, I'm not proud of it, Okay,
I just didn't know how to explain it, and I
knew like you weren't going to understand.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Letdia, I'm curious right now, where are you at? How
are you feeling?
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I'm disgusted and I want him out of my house.
Oh completely today.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I'm sorry I had to hear this. Yeah, let's talk
for a minute off air, okay, yeah, sure,
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