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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Joseph Bonner Show is The Joseph Bonner Show is
a unique show designed to provide comfort and support to
the international community.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
It's gonna make you feel bad.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Joseph Bonner is an experience mentor, live coach and certified
mental health first aid responder.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Like an amazing guy.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Get ready to feel inspired, get ready to feel like
you can make a difference, and get ready The Joseph
Bonner Show starts now.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Okay, let's dive in. We all know life, the thrills,
challenges that you oh.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Absolutely personal stuff, career curve balls, just moments where you
feel completely overwhelmed. It happens, it's just part of it.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
But what if there's something like fundamental that doesn't just
help you get through it, but actually helps you grow
stronger from it.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
And it's not about figuring it all out on your own,
is it? Or suddenly getting superpowers? It's about connection exactly.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
That's what we're digging into today, the absolutely crucial role
of a strong support system, your friend's family, community ties.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Yeah, we've been looking at some really interesting excerpts from
a source called Building Your Support Network and honestly some
powerful insights there.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Right, so our mission here is to really zero in
on the key takeaways. First, why is this network essential,
like truly essential for resilience for well being?
Speaker 2 (01:24):
And then the practical side, how does this source suggest
you can actually, you know, nurture the relationships you have
and build new ones.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Okay, so let's start with the why. The source really
hammers this home, doesn't it That a good support system
is like.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
A buffer exactly, a buffer against life's shocks. It gives
you that emotional reassurance we all need sometimes practical.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Help too, and that feeling of belonging that seems really key.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
It really is. And what's interesting is how it details
the benefits. It points out that people with strong social
connections they consistently report lower stress levels significantly lower.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Wow. Okay, so it's not just a feeling.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
It's measurable apparently, So the source suggests a link to
actual physiological stress responses being reduced, better mental health markers too,
and just greater life satisfaction overall, lower.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Stress just from having good connections. That's pretty compelling, isn't it.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
It seems like knowing you have people to fall back
on fundamentally changes how you face challenges. They just feel
well less daunting.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
It stops that isolating feeling, maybe especially when things get tough.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Precisely it actively combats isolation. So the why is super clear.
It's foundational for reguriance, for well being, stress, satisfaction, the
whole picture.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Okay, okay, but knowing it's important is one thing. The
how is often the tricky part, right, Yeah, how do
we actually build and maintain this?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Right? And the source breaks it down into sort of
two main areas. First, strengthening those bonds with the people
often closest friends and.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Family, your inner circle makes sense.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
And the piece really emphasizes this needs intentional effort. It's
not just built on history, but on ongoing things like
open communication, real honesty.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Trust, and making time for actual shared experiences. Right, Not
just liking a post online exactly.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
It's just real actions like yes, check in regularly, but
it highlights the quality of that check in a proper
phone call where you actually listen, a coffee where you're.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Focused, not just a quick text.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Right, and being vulnerable, being willing to share your own struggles.
That creates space for others to give you the support
you really need.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
And it has to go both ways, I imagine.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Oh, absolutely offering your support back is crucial. That builds
the trust, strengthens the whole connection. It's reciprocal.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
But what's fascinating, as you mentioned, is the Source doesn't
just stop at friends and family. It really pushes the
idea of building community connections too.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Yeah, expanding that network, which you know raises a question
for a lot of.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
People, like what if your circle feels small, or you've
moved somewhere new, how do you even start building those
community links? Genuinely?
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Well, the source offers a few avenues. It talks about
joining local events, things based on your interests. That's a
natural way to meet people, isn't it. Sure, shared interests
break the ice and volunteering it highlights that not just
for the good you do, but because working towards a
shared goal is a powerful way to bond with people.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
That makes sense.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Shared purpose and seeking mentorship is another one. Getting guidance
or perspective from someone with different experience that can be
invaluable and different from what friends or family might offer.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
So putting it all together, this Source building your support
network is basically saying this layered system friends, family and
community creates this really dynamic foundation.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
M M. It helps you navigate whatever comes up personal, professional,
emotional stuff. Different people offer different perspectives, different kinds of encouragement,
maybe practical solutions you hadn't thought of, and it all.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Feeds into that long term well being, reinforcing confidence, emotional stability.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
But it's not passive, is it building and keeping this network.
It takes conscious effort, It takes.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Work exactly, it's active, but the source is pretty clear.
The payoff is well invaluable.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Friends, family, community, They really do form that powerful base
for resilience. Let's you face things with more strength, more confidence.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
So by intentionally working on these relationships, engaging with communities,
you're basically building something that doesn't just boost your well being,
it really enriches your whole life.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Couldn't have said it better.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Okay, So, considering the effort involved, but also those huge
benefits we've talked about from building your support network, here's
something for you to think about. What's one specific, concrete
thing you might do this week based on what we've explored,
to actively nurture one important relationship or maybe take that
first step towards building a new connection