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Well, welcome to inspire conversations withKim Evans, and I am your lovely
host. I am so glad tobe here today, Ladies and gentlemen him
heard them or there. I justwant to be able to include everybody.
I'm so excited to you. Iam your lovely host. I am Kim
Evans. I'm the proud owner CEOof two Gorgeous Integrated Health and Wellness and
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also cam Me Coaching. I willsend my blessing to all of you at
the end. We are an internationalpodcast. We are in our fourth season,
twenty seven years in business. Soonto celebrate twenty eight years. Those
of you will be listening to thispodcast next week May first, we will
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be crushing it and crossing over totwenty eight years in business brick and mortar.
So I'm so excited to you todaywe're gonna be talking about We're gonna
get right to it the title ofthis series, and it's going to be
a podcast series of six as Iwill pepper it in to my other podcast
actually, and it is called RadiantVibes, igniting your feminine energy to manifest
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your soulviet So let me begin.I am a beauty and business coach.
I've actually been an esthetician, massagetherapist, professional makeup artists for twenty seven
years and now business coach, andI also have my podcast show. This
is in our fourth year. ActuallyI started it right before COVID and it
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has just been It's been great andI love it. I love being a
podcaster. So I bring to youbeauty, health and wellness and global travel
around the world for my entrepreneurs,people in business that actually can learn and
to grow and to expand their business, and lifestyle wellness, and those are
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some of the topics that we talkabout. So I'm so excited in spirituality,
fitness, nutritious, holistic wellness becauseI'm also a holistic wellness coach.
But today I really wanted to talkabout feminine energy, although I'm not an
energy coach, but I'll give youjust sixty seconds of background. I was
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once married, you know, forten years, and now I am divorced,
so I can talk about umpikito alittle bit about that, But more
importantly, I really want women towin. I want women to actually be
able to embrace their femininity, thepower that God has gives them that give
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them and everybody is looking for lovefor the most part, and we really
want to be partnered with with ourideal soulmate. And I know for me,
I would one day love to bemarried again. And so as my
clients come in and as I canand you to do further research on the
development of just what make women great, but also what makes relationships great,
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I have embarked upon energy, feminineenergy. So today we're going to talk
about radio vibes, igniting your feminineenergy to manifest your so may. So
we're going to get right into it, and it's going to be six podcasts.
This is the first of six.So what I really want to talk
about and uncover in this particular thisparticular episode, is the true essence of
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feminine energy as much as I canin the small time frame that I have,
from nurturing intuition to embracing vulnerability,as we explore tapping into our feminine
essence so that we can amplify magnetismto draw our soul mates closer. So,
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in this particular one that I wantto talk about, did y'all know
that you know feminine energy? Letme just say let me let me just
say this off the cuff, feminineenergy is so powerful, ladies, is
because a man cannot write a check. You see, my pin. A
man cannot write a check for itis so essential. It's so powerful when
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you know the power of who youare because God made you to be destined
to be. So a man alreadysees it. He already recognizes it.
Men are very intelligent creatures. Theysee it when a woman possess it.
But ladies, my question is doyou see it? Do you see the
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power that you have? God hasgiven us the power, and we speak
wisdom with our mouths. You canraise up your man, or you can
break him with the power and thewords that you speak. If you speak
to the King and him, hecan rise up far love. If you
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speak just diminishing words to him,he can shrivel up. So we are
so powerful, and the words thatwe speak, the words that we share.
Two are men. In this particularepisode, I want to talk about
ex one of feminine energy as itrelates to attracting your soulmate. So let's
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embrace our feminine energy. Let's tapinto our innate power and to create the
love and the connection that we desire. Are you guys ready for that?
Are you ready for that because I'mready to give it to you. This
is kim EVAs. Come on,So first of all, let me tell
I mean, it's a whole gamut. I can be here to fifteen hundred
hours, but I really want tohone in on this right here, this
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one om pequito, this one arearight here. But remember this is one
of six podcasts. Okay, youguys are ready follow me. So we're
going to talk about the four essentialways to show appreciation. But the feminine
energy is just not receiving because wedon't want to receive this way. The
masculine it gives. The feminine receives. It's about giving. A true queen
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gives. A true queen is benevolent, A true queen is very stable,
A true queen is very loving.A true queen really knows who she is.
And one of the most profound waysthat we can give is to our
appreciation to our men. So whenwe appreciate the men in our lives,
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we not only fulfill our desires,but we uplift and empower them. And
when you look at the great kingsthat have fought wars in this nation,
and you go back in the Bible, they were over women. Woo,
I don't have to repeat that again. They were over women. Okay.
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The four es central ways to showingappreciation. How can we show appreciation to
our partners? Here are for essentialways. So we talking about the feminine
energy. We're talking about something thata man he just actually can't even take
out his pen and write a checkfor because when he sees that in a
woman, it's like he is soattracted to your feminine energy, to your
feminine grace. It is the thingthat he needs when he come out of
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the board room and when he goesinto the bedroom. You're the only person
who can give that to him.That is so innate, that is so
powerful, you cannot write a checkon that, ladies. So let's get
into it. So number one,the number one thing, The number one
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are you ready for? I hopeyou're driving and you listening. Come back
to this and you can hit replay. The number one is expressing gratitude to
your man. You know, Iactually as at my Daddy's girl. I
was raised by my dad. Ishare this in many of my podcacts,
and many people know I saw mymom every every other weekend. But you
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know, I was raised by mydad, and he had a wife and
we were in blended families. ButI learned so much from my king.
My dad has recently passed away,but he left with me and stilled with
me some beautiful nuggets. And it'sso wonderful winner a woman child, a
female child can be raised by herdad because we get a glimpse of wisdom
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that you cannot put a price tagon. You know, a father shows
you the game of life. Amother nurtures you, but a father helps
to ground you. So expressing gratitude, take the time to express gratitude for
the little things your partner does.So I'm gonna have my notes just so
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that I have the tendency of speakingfaster that I can keep myself to slow
down. So, whether it's makingyou a cup of coffee in the morning,
or listening attentively to stories, oracknowledging the efforts of fosters are deeper
connection. Let's talk about gratitude.A man loves that when you're dating.
That's second with the dating. Whenyou're dating and you're expressing gratitude, you
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know, it's really interesting when yougo out for the date and at the
end of the date, the manpays for it. Generally speaking, some
of y'all ladies, y'all do asplit on your American Express cards. That's
cool if that's what you're down with. But I still believe in chivalry.
But there are some women they're justlike, Okay, well whatever, we're
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not going to get into that.But at the end of the date,
whomever, it's like, if hepays, which he should. You know,
express gratitude is just showing thankfulness whetheror not you go out or not.
Let's just say that you go outon a walk or whether you're doing
something to where he came up withthat idea, and it's your first date,
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your second day. Y'all know,I got an ebook coming out I
do how to get from the firstdate to the second date to the finish
line. Man, I've been workingon this for like eight years. I'm
finally gonna finish it, and I'mso excited. I want you all to
get it. It's gonna be ait's gonna be an Amazon bestseller, it's
gonna be great. So so whetheror not you're on a date or whatnot.
It's just like, how many ofy'all express gratitude and the gratitude is
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thank you, something as simple asthat, thank you, thank you for
your time, thank you for invitingme, thank you for creating this experience
with me. I enjoyed your company, I enjoyed your essence. You give
that man a smile. We're gonnaget into ladies. Are you dressing properly?
Are you wearing that sexy perfume?You know? Are you wearing your
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hair to wear it's just rocking onthe right or to the left. Are
you wearing something in your outfit?You're feminine essence, your vibe, your
touch, your speech, your walk, you know. Are you just like
putting that down naturally to the guythat you're dating, to the that you
go out with. That's expressing gratitudeand you're just saying thankful you just same
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thing, thank you, and youare attentive and you're just in connection to
showing your appreciation. That's number one. Offering affirmations. I love it.
Let's get into affirmations. Words havethe power to uplift into inspire. God
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has given us the power to skilland destroy in our mouths. And that
is when you are in the essenceand the presence of someone is to say
how much that we appreciate them,but more so to uplift and to inspire
them. And so when you're inthe presence of people, and particularly men
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that we're talking about, that you'redating or that you win in a relationship,
how much affirmation are you sharing withthem? Are you offering affirmations to
your partner? Are you acknowledging theirstrengths and their qualities? Let them know
how much you value and admire them. Men are looking for women who respect
them, and women are looking formen who love them. But we're talking
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about us to the men, andthat is giving them affirmations and gratitude and
thankfulness, just showing appreciation. Aman love praise. Do you know he
would just run around the world ifhe knows how much you praise him.
Just give him praise. Thank himfor taking it out to tress, Thank
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him for waking up and making youcoffee. Thank you for making me dinner.
You know, I have a beautifulbeloved and it's so wonderful sometimes to
see him in the kitchen cook it. It's just great. It's just like,
Okay, I just want to dothe funky chicken in the Tutsi road
and it's like you know my dad, you know, he raised me.
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You know, he is one ofthe greatest cooks next to my grandfather.
I love going and visiting my grandfatherand seeing him and my grand mother cooking.
And she's still live today, onehundred and five Ladies and gentlemen cooking
together. And so when I seea man that's in the kitchen and they're
cooking, and it's just like,wow, this is just really great,
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and you know, I just marvelat it when I see it. I
think it's one of the most spectacularscenes. You know, it's whatever blow
your hairback, ladies, is whateverthat you enjoy. But we're going to
get into limited beliefs, and we'regoing to get into traumas, and we're
going to get into some dark places. Because I want you, ladies,
to get out the dark places andto get into the light. And if
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you're not being able to give yourman gratitude or to show him affirmations,
maybe you need to work on yoursin. And it is not the man,
maybe it is you. And ifyou are traumatized with the background that
you have suffered, God bless you. I get it and understand, but
recognize let's work on that. Let'swork on that. Let's work on that.
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That is something that you need towork on. It's okay. We're
all broken at some point in time. It's okay. But we get to
a point that there's nothing missing orlacking or broken in our life, that's
where we need to be. That'swhat we call wholeness. Yes, that's
what we call wholeness. All right, So let's get back to it.
Offering affirmation, words of encouragement,words of words of gratitude, words of
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thankfulness. We're talking about today thoseare who are joining me. We're talking
about the title of this is radiantvibes, igniting your feminine energy to manifest
your so maate, your ideal suwmates. But in order to manifest your ideal
saw maate, you have to bewhole and healthy within yourself. Okay,
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all right, so let's continue withthe affirmations. So this is the thing
that your man is looking for,your ideal partner, and he ignites and
he becomes attract to your energy,to your ying and your yang. You
know, it's like, oh mygod, this is just so wonderful.
It's just like this is this energy, this this dance that the both of
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you are having. It's amazing andthey love it and they don't even know,
No, they do know. Theyknow what it is. They know
exactly what it is, and it'sjust like, it is so amazing.
And I see this all day everyday, and I just love it when
I see it, and it's like, dang, this stuff. It's really
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true. Just by giving appreciation andjust by giving, you know, gratitude
and affirmation, I guarantee you tryit. You know, take the closest
mail to you and start giving themgratitude and appreciate the acts of kindness that
they give you. And see howthat man responds to you. That's how
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they respond to you. That's whatthey're looking for, Queen. They're looking
for that, and they become energythat they magnetize to that, they grow
taller to that. So we needto be conscious to that. That's feminine
power. That's walking into your femininegrace, among other things. But we're
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just going to start with that.So let's talk about acts of service.
Show your appreciation through acts of service, whether it's cooking their favorite meal,
are helping out with chores, smallgestures, speaking volumes, and strengthening your
ball. I always say it likethis, speak to the king and young
men, speak words of affirmation tohis soul and motivate him. You know,
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it's so many women that tear downtheir men. Men are looking for
queens that speak them up, thatuplift them, that can see the vision
where they are going, and canyou be a team mate and to be
able to help to build them up. That's part of our role, that's
part of a job to do that. That's what a man is looking for.
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So when you think and you seea man and he's with a woman,
it's like, how can he bewith her? Because she's speaking to
the king in him and that's somethingthat you haven't been able to do.
But if you can see that andresonate with that, that's what that man
is looking for. So we talkabout expressing gratitude, being thankful and grateful
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for what they do. We're talkingabout offer words of encouragement and ask for
me and affirmation. I know Ihave a few male friends and we have
a beautiful bond and it's like him, I can always count on you when
I'm lowest of the lower, whenI'm highest of the high, that you
always want to speak into my soulinto my spirit. That makes me higher
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than what I am. And that'swhat a man is looking for. That's
what a king is looking for.A queen speak into his soul well,
speaking to his destiny and learn howto do that. And that comes from
God. Nothing missing, nothing life, and nothing broken. But when a
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broken vessel is broken, then awoman can't speak that. So you have
to work on yourself if you're brokenor traumatized. But that's not what this
is not podcast is about. Iwanted to talk about coming from a wholeness
and when you are that way andyou are trying to attract your Soviet these
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are the things that you can do. So let's get to number four.
Physical affection. Ooh ooh. Physicaltouch is a powerful way to express appreciation
love, whether it's a hug,a kiss, or holding hands or physical
affection fossil intimacy and connection. Soa man, the king is looking for
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intimacy. Ladies, queens, areyou in to me? A man wants
a woman that's into him, that'sinto intimacy. Are you into your king?
Are you into your perspective king thatyou're dating? Are you into him?
He can see of it, Hecan see it if you're there if
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you're not like the late great RayCharles, but that's what they're looking for.
So when you're looking at from apast and you're like, how is
this person with this person or howis this man with this woman? Is
because she sees into him, shespeaks into his soul, she speaks to
the king in him. And that'swhat we have to do as women,
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because this is our feminine energy thatthey are actually looking to do. So
acts of service. Show your appreciationthrough your active service, whether it's cooking
or your favorite meal. And againis what are the things that you can
do. You know that your kingloves, that your perspective date loves,
and to be able to honor andto give those things unconditionally. Learn to
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know what your love language. Youremember the four Agreements in Learning your Love
Language, there's a book called theFour Agreements. The author escapes me at
the moment, I actually will leaveit in the show notes that it'll be
something that we could come back to, and I will leave that into the
notes, go back, and that'san assignment to read the Four Agreements.
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It's absolutely a wonderful it's the fourAgreements, and also it's the book about
knowing what your love language is absolutelygreat. And then the fourth one,
I want to talk about a physicalaffection. All let's get into this.
Physical touch is a powerful way toexpress appreciation and love, whether it's a
hug, whether it's a kids holdinghands. Physical affection fosters intimacy and connnection.
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Ooh, A man loves it whena woman smiles, when she has
like her eyes speak loveliness, she'sbeautiful, her dress, the way she
walks, her smile towards him,your whole feminine being, your essence,
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your spirit, your mindfulness. Andthen you walk over in sashey, your
beautifulness and hug your king and youkiss him, you adore him, you
give him a hug. It issomething that physical touch, that physical affection.
I'm telling you, ladies, youcan't write a check for it.
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It is infinitely priceless and only youcan possess that. It's so powerful.
Do you know how powerful you are? Ladies? Do you know how powerful
you are? Queens? That physicalaffection and foster's intimacy and connection. And
I'm not talking about sex. I'mnot there yet. That's on another podcast.
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I'm gonna blow your mind when Iget to that. But I'm just
talking about physical affection. You know, when you hug someone and it's a
deep hug, you know, it'sthat church pat that's like this, you
know, you get that that distantchurch back. And then when you hug
your man and you see him andyou just all up in him and it's
just like, you know, it'sjust like marsh Mellows roasting on an open
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fire. He don't want to letyou go. It's like, you know,
you can let you can let mego now, you can, you
can let me go now, Andit's like it feels so good. And
he's like, I don't want tolet you go. I don't want to
let you go. It's so beautiful. Please, dude, you know how
powerful you are? Oh my gosh. And I'm gonna add one bonus one.
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I'm going to add this one righthere. The art of not saying
anything and being silent. I'm gonnasay it right one more time, The
art of not saying anything in beingsilent. Do you know a man loves
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it when he can come home AndI'm not trying to be negative to this
with no chatter, no questions towhere he can just come home and silent
and his woman just do not sayanything. If you just really want to
throw the opposite, try this,as in his exercise, that s where
to God do the work. Ifyou want to just throw a wrench in
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your game when your man come home, try when he comes home you're not
talking about Bob and Bill and thekids and the dog and the bills and
what has happened and what's going onin your face, and then the job
and your career and so on andso forth, and that you're not like
to get to the gym, andwhat you're going to cook tonight and so
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on and so forth, and allthe other things that life brings it to.
Wards. You could just say,baby, the food is in the
oven, and you exit stage leftand you do not say a word.
Now I'm getting to people who livetogether and married people. Can you imagine,
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let's take a breath. Keys arein the door he comes in.
That's how he feels on the otherside of the door. Ladies, It's
like, damn, I gotta gointo this house, and I got to
hear this woman's voice, and Ialready know what it's going to be,
and I already know the kids andI know everything that's going in, but
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can you imagine Key's in the door? He comes in, a beautiful,
peaceful environment, is clean, itsmells wonderful of a Roman therapy, essential
oils in there, candles lit,peaceful, and you greet your king and
you say, honey, how wasyour day? And he starts to tell
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you how his day. Okay,baby, the food is in the oven
or it will be ready in tenor fifteen minutes. You know, you
share with him his favorite beverage.And you exit stage left and you don't
even say a word. And hecomes on in and he sits down and
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he has his famous imported beer cocktailor iced tea or glass of sparkling water.
And you don't even say a word. Now you become his refuge.
Oh man, it's like, ohmy god. I feels like it's like
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peace in the home. And it'slike, WHOA, wow, what does
that do? He decompresses, he'sable to center, he's able to balance.
WHOA, no kids, no cats, maybe a dog barking. But
it's like she's not asking for anything, but what she's doing, she's really
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giving. She's not pulling on me. But what she is doing is nurturing.
She's not asking of me, butwhat she is doing is fostering.
Woo. She's not dumping on me, but what she is is creating a
world of an oasis and a serenity. Oh, what is she doing is
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giving me a space that I canthrive in my own abode. That's what
men are looking for. They're lookingfor peace. Nine times out of ten
they go in bars because they arelooking for peace, peace in their own
household. But more importantly, they'relooking for you, ladies, queens,
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to give them that. That isa part of your feminine energy to where
you can't even put a price tagon. Yeah, we got into something
different up and here today. SoI hope I'm gonna I'm gonna drop those
nuggets. I'm gonna review them forone quick second. So I thank you
for turning into tuning into radiant vibes. Until next time, stay radiant and
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keep shining your light into the worldof this dark place. So what I
want you to do is to goback and to the listens to this and
share this out. This is KimEvans and so we're talking about today.
This is our topic is radiant vibesigniting your feminine energy to manifest your soul
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much. Oh it's gonna get juices. Come on back to podcasts number two.
So we talked about exploring your feminineenergy, the importance of appreciation before
essentials to show your appreciation, andthat is how to express your gratitude towards
your king, offer affirmations, actsof kindness, and physical affection. So
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I hope you all have enjoyed that. I didn't want to take it too
long. I kept it right underthirty minutes. I'm so excited. We
are in, we are out,and I wanted to switch it up a
bit. So I am your lovelyhost. I am Kim Evans, and
if you would like more information onhow we can work together, I have
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a link below, and I actuallyoffer free complementary coaching sessions. A second
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way we can work together. Ialso have coaching packages and in addition to
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inspired conversations, and as y'all allknow now, I'm going to end with
my salutation that this war goes outas far as the east, as far
as the west, as far asthe north, as far as the east,
the east, the west, thenorth and the south. And may
you be transpired, motivated, liftedand you can actually walk away with a
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nugget or two and this can actuallyplant something within your life and how you
can be motivated and have a transformativeshift. Please share it the podcast show.
I'm so excited. Thank you foryour time. Until we see next,
till we are together again. Thisis Kim Evans and thank you so
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much for tuning in to Inspired Conversationspodcast show twenty twenty four with him Evans.
Bye for now.