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October 30, 2025 35 mins
Somewhere between the hustle, the heartbreak, and the doctor’s visits, Phoenix Ash realized she wasn’t chasing success, she was chasing everything. In this episode of Life as P..., P is done pretending that “just attract it” is some kind of magical mindset hack. She’s breaking down why that advice feels vague, and how she finally figured out how to stop gripping so tight to outcomes that were never hers to control.

From her sister’s glowing example of leveling up without the scramble (Switzerland on the horizon, hello?!), to the deeply personal journey through love, loss, fertility treatments, and letting go,this one’s for the listeners who are exhausted from trying to outrun their own expectations. We’re talking toxic love stories, TikTok trauma bait, advice without context, and how external validation will rob you of your joy faster than a nosy in-law shopping for your house.

There’s power in healing, but only if you stop trying to do it alone and in silence. And yes, she said what she said. If you’re finally ready to shift from chasing the picture to feeling fulfilled, this episode isn’t your blueprint, it’s your mirror. 

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