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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So with this powerful eclipse energy that we've just had
and this beautiful new moon energy that we're still in,
this is a powerful time for rebirth, renewal, and really
stepping into that next phase and that next chapter of
your life, and also in your self concept, how you
see yourself and as I like to say, the role

(00:20):
that you're playing in the movie of your life. Now.
I was meditating this morning on what to bring you
in this week's episode. I always do a little meditation
on how I can bring you what you most need,
and what came to me was sharing some very practical
pieces that you can use to build much greater self
confidence when you're giving readings, when you're using your intuition,

(00:44):
and most importantly, help you to sort of level up
how you see yourself as a tarot and intuitive reader. Now,
even if you're brand new and you're not doing readings
for clients yet, you're going to get lots of mindset
gold from this episode. You're also going to and get
some very practical things that you can use to really
set yourself up for success. And the same is also

(01:05):
true if you've been reading for a while or a
long time, or you're coming back to doing tarot and
intuitive readings. Just know that wherever you're at in your
journey with taro and giving readings and of course using
your intuition, just know that there's lots here for you
to enjoy and benefit from gold nuggets messages and of
course practical advice, insights and guidance too. So let's all

(01:29):
just take a moment together and just set that intention
that you are open to what you most need and
that you get what's most important for you from this session. Beautiful,
I want to also talk about that for a second,
and then we will dive in. So everybody's next level
will look different, and that's the beauty of it, right,

(01:49):
Like everybody has their own version of what their next
level looks like. You might be listening to this and
be brand new to giving readings and you've never charged
for a reading before. Part of your next level would
be charging for your time, right. Someone else might be
listening to this and they might be feeling like they're
holding themselves back in their readings, and their next level

(02:10):
might be very related to all of the points in
this episode, but their next level might be deeply trusting
that it's safe for them to share the messages that
they get. Somebody else could be listening, and it could
be about going deeper into the cards and not playing
it so safe. You know, insert whatever's true for you
right now. But everybody has their own next level when

(02:31):
it comes to working with Taro, and of course working
with their intuition as well. What we never want to
do is think that we don't need to keep learning
and growing. Right. One of the keys to really becoming
masterful at something is I would say having a very
healthy having a healthy form of like a beginner's mind, right,
knowing that you're always learning and growing and making a

(02:53):
commitment to constantly develop and grow an upgrade. I say
this so often in these episodes, right that it starts
with a permitment for yourself and a decision, and it
really does. So why don't we also do that as well? Right,
we've just set that beautiful intention, let's also make that
decision that this is a turning point for you, one

(03:14):
where you're taking your gifts and your abilities seriously. You're
taking your Tarot's skills and techniques seriously, and you're also
taking your identity as a reader seriously. You know, we've
just had this powerful Eclipse, which was all about rebirth
and renewal, stepping into a new chapter. We've got this
beautiful new moon that we're still in, which is of

(03:35):
course all about fresh new beginnings and new intentions. And
we've also got three and a half months left of
this year, right. I kind of can't believe how quickly
this year's gone, but that's for a different times. We've
got this, Yeah, we've got a few months left of
this year and this powerful energy to work with about
new beginnings. So if you're listening to this and you're thinking,

(03:57):
you know what, I want to take myself more soon.
I want to learn how to give readings with confidence.
I want to learn how to work with Taro powerfully
and also build my skills and confidence as a reader.
I'd like to be a little bit blunt with you
and say, do something about it. Stop putting it off,
stop waiting for another time, and stop making excuses. If

(04:18):
you're serious about it, you owe it to yourself to
do something about it. Everything I'm going to be sharing
with you in this episode is taking from my program,
The Confident Reader Mastermind. It's a beautiful six month container
where I teach you how to read taro with confidence,
how to learn the symbols on the cards, how to
tell stories of the cards, how to understand each card

(04:40):
in a deep and meaningful way, and how to use
it in a reading. I also teach you lots of
techniques for giving readings, lots of practical things you can
do in your sessions to give beautiful messages and guidance
to your clients. Plus we do loads of mindset work
on you building and developing your gifts and your self trust.
And also a really exciting part of the program that

(05:01):
I love is also I mean, I love it all,
but one of my favorite parts is actually all of
the self concept work we do, coaching you to really,
you know, build your gifts and most important, you build
self trust and really level up your boundaries as a reader.
I do not hear this talked about nearly enough, so
I'm on a bit of a mission here. But one

(05:24):
of my real things I love teaching people is boundaries
with their gifts. No more free readings, no more silly
swaps or trades or cheap readings. This is about you
really taking yourself seriously and showing self respect and self worth.
If you're just constantly doing free draining long readings. I
mean this with love. It doesn't look like you respect

(05:46):
yourself and your gifts. It looks like you're sort of
it's a little hobby that one day you'd like to
feel serious about. Stop it. This is about you showing
real self worth and self respect now right. You can
hear how fired up I get about this because it's
so important. I also say in the program that the
things you'll learn inside Confident Reader will also benefit the

(06:07):
rest of your life. For the rest of your life,
meaning it's not just about learning tarot and intuitive work.
It's about deeply respecting yourself, honoring your gifts, honoring your energy,
and also really showing up powerfully for yourself. Okay, So,
if you'd like to come and join us, check out
the links in the show notes. We meet twice a

(06:29):
month on Zoom for beautiful Taro mentoring sessions. There's also
time for Q and A and open coaching. Plus you
get to listen to all the recordings in your own time,
and there's also a library of pre recorded trainings and
mindset sessions and getting started assignments that you can dive
right into as well. Any questions just reach out so
with all that being said, let's dive in with We'll

(06:52):
do about three maybe you know, knowing me, there'll probably
be more that come through, but let's do at least
three practical ways. You can build a lot more confidence
with your intuition and gifts when giving tarot and intuitive readings.
So first point view, and I've written this in capitals,
is get to know all of the cards. Get to

(07:14):
know all of the cards. You know, if there are
some cards in the deck that you don't like reading,
or you get stuck on, or you're not sure about,
that is a really powerful sign that it's time for
you to really go to that next level of building
your relationship with each of the cards in the Tarot deck. Now,
inside Confident Reader, Mastermind, we do exactly that. I take

(07:35):
you through each of the cards. I show you how
you can read it, how you can use it in
a reading. I also show you how you can reframe
negative cards and doing that in air quotes and use
them in empowering ways. And I say this because a
lot of people behind the scenes will say to me, oh,
I never like it when this card comes up, I

(07:55):
don't know how to read this card. If you're doing
a reading with that in the of your mind that
you're maybe a little bit nervous about a certain card
coming up, or you don't know how to use a
certain card. If it comes up, that will come through
to your client, and it will also add a pressure
in the reading because you're not going to want to
get caught out or be stuck. But you're also going

(08:17):
to have that slight energy of I hope this doesn't
come out and I get stuck or on the spot.
The first time you're reading a card should not be
with your client. You should be comfortable with each of
the cards. And something I teach in the program as
well is you should see each of the cards as
like a cherished, dear friend that's coming into a reading

(08:39):
to add value and beauty and magic. Not scary cards
come in. I don't want it to be here, or
this card's come in. I don't know what to say.
I don't know how to translate this to my client,
because on a practical level, that will manifest as a
lot of well right winging it, which is not a
good way of doing a reading. Your client will pick

(08:59):
up on it and it can throw you. I've had
clients tell me, you know, before they took the program
and really got to know each card. I've had clients
tell me that they would be in the middle of
a reading a certain card would come up and they
would freeze, or they would not know what to say,
or they would just feel, you know, quote awkward about it.
I don't want that for you. You know, A really beautiful

(09:20):
way of seeing the cards is like I just said,
like each of the cards is a beautiful, cherished friend
and they've really come through in that reading to you know,
give magic and benefit and beauty to that reading. I
have a belief that in every reading, the cards that
that client most needs will come up. So I want

(09:42):
you to get to know all of the cards and
again inside the Confident Reader mastermind, I give you specific
exercises that you can do every day. Take about one
to four minutes, one four or five minutes to really
build and deepen your connection with each of the cards
so that when they come up in a reading, you
know what to say, you know how to use that card,
and most importantly, you know how to connect to it.

(10:04):
You're not left there arming and ring and feeling awkwardly.
Number two is bring your intuition into the reading. Anybody
can google carrot card meanings. Anybody can, you know, use
bullet points from a book. Anybody can do that. That's
not really a reading. In my opinion, the magic of
the reading is you, right, you are as the reader.

(10:26):
You are the magic in the reading. You are the
magic in that space, your intuition and your gifts. And
this manifests in two ways. One in how you use
the cards. So you're going to look at the card
and I mean, I'll do it now, right, I've just
turned my cards over and the first card that's come
up is my favorite one, the Magician. So there's a
number of ways you could use, for example, the Magician

(10:49):
card in a reading. Right, there's a number of different
meanings that the card can bring. Your intuition is going
to show you which one to use and how your
intuition is going to guide you to which symbol on
the card to work with, what message on the card
to bring out. Another way this can manifest is you
sharing what other insights you're getting. So when you're talking

(11:10):
to your client and you're looking at the card, what
are you feeling, what are you seeing, sensing maybe hearing?
What are you getting a strong download about or a
strong sense of knowing about That's another way that your
intuition will come into the reading, and that's a really
really powerful way of creating a magical reading for your

(11:31):
client and building your confidence, because I promise you the
more that you use your intuition and the more that
you know how to work with it, the stronger it
will get. Inside the Confident Reader mastermind, I give you
specific exercises that you can do before a reading to
open up psychically, during a reading to connect, and after

(11:51):
a reading to safely close down and protect. They also
give you lots of coaching on things you can do
in your daily life to really build your intuition. And
I'm talking about practical ways that you can literally tap
into messages that your client needs. The next piece. And
this is making me laugh a little bit because we
have a joke inside the Confident Reader that the next

(12:13):
piece is js TMB. Just share the message, babe, Okay,
just share the message, babe. What that means is when
you're doing your readings, stop holding yourself back, stop wanting
to impress your client right, stop worrying that you might
get it wrong or you might offend them, or you

(12:35):
might say something that doesn't make sense. Just share the message, babe. Okay.
I want you to take that mindset on, give yourself
permission to start sharing the messages that come to you.
On a practical level, it's not your client's job to
validate you or give you approval or tell you that
you've been a good reader. Of course, you should absolutely

(12:55):
have that intention to give a fabulous, powerful reading, of course,
but that's not your client's job to give you that approval.
It's also not your job to impress them in that way. Right.
What your job as the reader is is to connect,
do the reading, and share the messages. It's about your client,
not you. The other piece here is the more that

(13:16):
you give yourself permission to start using your intuition, I
promise you, the stronger it will get. It's kind of
like saying I'm going to start going to the gym
when I get stronger. It doesn't work like that. You
have to go to the gym and lift the heavier
weights to get stronger. Similarly, with your intuition, right, the
more that you're using it, taking care of it, and

(13:38):
of course sharing the messages, the stronger it will get.
And what that will do that will build your self trust.
That will build your self confidence. You don't want to
be going into a reading afraid of certain cards coming up,
not sure how to read them. You also don't want
to be I'm going to give you, guys a little
bonus one. I knew this would happen. I give you
a bonus one here. It's also important for you to

(14:01):
understand how to use taro in any reading, how to
use the cards in any reading. And I say that
because a lot of quite general, basic sort of readers
will you know, they'll look at cards as being only
connected to certain things, right, So they might say something
like they might say something like pentacles are only money

(14:23):
and business, and then they do a relationship reading for
their client and they get pentacles. But oh, it's simply
not the case. Yes, of course they can indicate that.
But pentacles can also, for example, indicate your health. They
can also indicate your body right, the five points of
the star that their head, arms, and legs. Right. Pentacles

(14:43):
can also represent what you're investing in and building. So
it's really important to understand how to use taro in
different readings, in different types of subjects and topics with
ease and confidence okay, and we cover all this of
course inside the confident reader, but back to the LAS.
So it really is about you just sharing the message,

(15:04):
and I want to give another little part to that
as well. Right, I'm doing it again, so probably five
keys at this point. The next piece is I want
you to stop saying things like, well this could if
you are trying to connect and you're trying to think
about what to say next, don't say anything. Don't um

(15:27):
and make all those noises. It sounds like you don't
know what you're talking about. Take a deep breath, ground, relax, connect,
look at the card, and don't say things like I
hope this made sense? Does this make sense? Does that
mean anything to you? Because it makes it sound like
you're not confident with what you're giving, and it can

(15:47):
also make the clients feel like they have to sort
of like almost give you approval. So instead you want
to just share the message and you can say things
like what resonates most with you from that reading? I'd
love to know which part of that really resonated with
you the most. That's a very empowering way of asking it.
You don't want to be asking in a way that

(16:08):
makes it look like you don't have confidence in your gifts. Right.
So I could go on and on because this topic
is so close to my heart. But I hope this
has been empowering and helpful, and I'd love to know
what resonated with you the most from this session. You
could drop me an email or of course a DM.
And if you're listening to this and you're thinking, yeah,
you know what, I'm ready to dive in. Take myself seriously,

(16:31):
build my skills and confidence as a reader, come and
join us inside the Confident Reader mastermind. The link is
in the show notes. Drop me a DM what I
would encourage you to do. If it doesn't resonate with
you and you don't want to, of course don't. But
if you're listening to me thinking I'd love to, don't
put it off. Don't make excuses and wait and delay
and put things off. We've got three and a half

(16:53):
months left with this year. Don't wrap this year up
wishing you'd take in more action and still having loads
of things you haven't done. Right. One of the things
I always love to say to people is around this
point now is actually magic, because if you start working
on your goals and intentions now you can start the
new year already having three months behind you. So for

(17:16):
example and confident reader, it's a six month container. Right, So,
people who are joining now, you're already going into twenty
twenty six with a good three and a half months
of coaching and training behind you, versus it's January. Oh
why should really take this seriously now? Right? You get
the point. Anyway, I'm sending you lots of love and
magic and blessings. Check out the links in the show notes,

(17:36):
and if you have any questions, just feel free to
send me a DM
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