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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So if you'd like to feel a lot more confident
giving tarot and intuitive readings and developing your gifts, this
episode is going to be a must listen for you.
I'd already recommend that you save this and listen to
it a few times, as it's going to be full
of gold nuggets for you. I've been doing a lot
of content about this on my socials, in my private workshops,
and actually a lot of coaching on this in my
(00:22):
private sessions. I also cover this in depth inside The
Confident Reader Mastermind, where I coach and mentor you on
reading taro with confidence and also developing and building your
skills and your confidence as a reader. More information on
that later on. But I'm going to share with you
very shortly three things that are I'm going to be
blunt with you, really holding you back. These things are
(00:45):
going to be keeping you playing small. They're really going
to be limiting your confidence and your ability to grow
and develop as a reader. And these are not just
things I see in people who are new. These are
things that people can get a little bit stuck with,
especially if they are, let's say, feeling a little bit
of a plateau in their practice or their career or
(01:06):
their identity as a reader. So I'll dive in very
shortly with those, but just to say a huge thank
you to you guys for being here. I so appreciate you,
and I really appreciate the lovely messages that you send
me as well. They really do mean so much. Two
quick announcements and then we'll dive in. So the first
one is Confident Reader Mastermind is opening back up for
a new six month round, very very shortly. This is
(01:29):
such beautiful timing for you to join, because we're going
to be wrapping up twenty twenty five and going into
twenty twenty six already inside the program, so it's a
really nice way of sort of symbolizing you leaving maybe
your old identity behind and stepping into a fresh new
version of yourself where you're really taking yourself and your gifts.
So seriously, feel free to DM me if you have
(01:51):
any questions. I'll also be posting a lot about that.
Second announcement for you is I'm also opening up a
few places to do private coaching and then with so
if you'd like to talk about really working closely with
me one on one with your mindset, your goals, your
magical practice, your self concept, your identity reach out and
I'll be happy to send you some information as well.
(02:13):
But before we do dive into this episode, I'd like
you to just take a moment and if you can
comfortably and safely do so. Just take a beautiful, deep breath,
hold it for a moment and just exhale and know
that you're in exactly the right place at exactly the
right time. And I'd like you to set the intention
that you connect to the messages from this session that
(02:34):
you most need, and it's my intention that you get
exactly what you need and more from this session. So
I want to talk about you really stepping into more
confidence with your gifts. If you've been around me for
more than five minutes, you'll know that I read taro
and do intuitive readings for people around the world. I
also do mindset coaching, and I teach taro and intuitive
(02:57):
development in my programs, specific the Confident Reader Mastermind. So
I'm really tuned into seeing what holds people back and
seeing what works for people. And one of the things
I love doing more than anything is really helping people
to feel more confident in themselves and their gifts, especially
people who feel like they have a bit of a
(03:19):
mission around this. Okay, if you're listening to this and
you're thinking, I'd love to do tarro readings with confidence,
I'd love to charge well for them, I'd love to
help people with my gifts. This episode is for you,
and I want you to trust that you're listening to
this at exactly the right time, because the truth is,
you know your gifts and abilities are there to help
(03:41):
other people, but they're also there to help you as well,
and you don't get a gift certificate for playing small
with them. I know that's going to feel like a
little bit of a call out for some of you,
but it's said with love. Stop holding yourself back and
waiting for some big thumbs up from the universe for
you to feel more confident, and then you'll start just
like saying I'm going to start going to the gym
(04:02):
when I get strong, right, or I'm going to start
singing when my voice is better. It just doesn't work
like that. It's about you making a decision that you're
ready to take yourself and your gift seriously. And as
I said just now, this really is the perfect time
to do that. We're about to go into the holiday season,
and then we're about to go into a brand new
(04:23):
year as well. So if you're ready to make twenty
twenty six the year that you really step into your
power with your gifts, then let's dive in and talk
about it. So the first thing I want you to
stop doing, okay, I want you to write this down. Stop.
The first thing I want you to stop doing is
identifying with your old self. Okay. A lot of the
(04:45):
work I do with my clients is on their self
concept and their identity and how they see themselves. And
I can promise you your confidence in your gifts and your
ability to give beautiful readings is directly connected to how
you see yourself. If you find yourself saying things like
I'm not very confident yet, I'd love to be more confident.
(05:06):
I don't have the skills yet, you are identifying with
your old self. You're identifying with an old, out of
date version of yourself. And that version of yourself is
not the same version that's going to be doing taro
intuitive and taro and intuitive readings for people, for groups
with confidence and in magical ways. So it's really about
(05:28):
you stepping into a brand new self. Concept and a
brand new way of seeing yourself and as I like
to say, a brand new role in like the movie
of your life. Okay, I read for people around the
world privately, in groups in my workshops, and I can
tell you one of the biggest things that made the
biggest difference for me was exactly this, really stepping into
(05:51):
this fresh, brand new identity. And the stories I get
from my students around this are incredible. So I'll give
you a quick tip. Instead of saying things like I'm
not very confident yet, I want you to start saying,
I'm really developing my confidence, I'm really building my gifts
and abilities. Now talking about your gifts and abilities, I
(06:14):
want you to also spend some time really acknowledging your
intuitive gifts and your intuitive abilities. What you focus on expands,
what you focus on grows right, and what you praise
and celebrate you attract more of. So stop talking as
your old self and identifying as your old self, and
(06:34):
start stepping into this fresh new identity. Now inside the
Confident Reader Mastermind, we do a ton of mindset work
around this. I give you very specific exercises when you
join to really get you into this fresh new mindset.
You get lots of accountability to keep you connected to
that version of yourself. And I also give you coaching
on letting go of old limiting beliefs about yourself and
(06:57):
your gifts. And I show you how to step in
to this new version of yourself now and this new
version of you as a reader. Okay, so reach out
if you've got any questions. You can also, of course
check out the links below in the show notes. But
stop identifying as your old self, you know, saying that
you don't feel confident or you don't feel confident enough yet.
(07:19):
It's not going to help you to feel more confident, right,
It's just simply not. It's going to hold you back.
The next piece is a practical one and a mindset one,
and it's something I'm extremely passionate about. And this is
going to probably feel like a call out for some
of you people pleasers, some of you people who overly
caretake others, those of you who might lack boundaries. You
(07:41):
know what's coming. Stop doing free readings for people thinking
that that's going to make you more confident. Now, let
me just start by saying I am not opposed to
free readings. When done with intention and purpose. Okay, there
are people in my life that I do free readings
for because I love them and we have a beautiful
action and a beautiful relationship. But here's what I don't
(08:03):
want you to do. I don't want you to be
doing free readings for people thinking that you're practicing, or
thinking that you're building your confidence, or thinking that you
are practicing so that you can start feeling, you know,
more professional. That's just simply not true. Okay, I'm going
to give you a little bit of a tough love moment.
(08:24):
That's like taking the really easy way out of holding
yourself back, because when you do free readings for people,
very often you feel like you've taken all the pressure
off of yourself. Well, they're not paying me, so it's okay, right,
and let me tell you a few things I notice
happened here. Okay, things my students tell me, things my
clients tell me, and things I notice. You do free
(08:47):
readings for people. Obviously they're not paying you, so the
pressure is off. They tend to take a long time
or feel quite draining or quite heavy, and you can
tend to go into this like people pleasing mode, right,
or I'm giving them a free reading. They'll like me
now I'm not charging them, so they can't be like,
you know, mad at me for charging them, right, I
(09:08):
hear it all. When you're doing free readings as well,
what can often happen as a reader is there's no like,
there's no skin in the game, right, you're taking the
easy way out. You're doing it for most likely people
pleasing reasons, and you're keeping yourself very safe and very small. Again,
(09:29):
that's like saying I'm going to go to the gym
when i'm strong. It's simply just not how it works.
People that you do free readings for also are not
taking you seriously or themselves seriously. They're just most likely
wanting to be kind of heard, maybe enabled. It's just
not the same. Now, what I would recommend that you
(09:50):
do is start if you really do want to do
free readings, only do them when you choose to do
them for someone, and give them a very clear and
very specific time frame. This is something I teach inside
the Confident Reader Mastermind, by the way, So if you
love this kind of coaching on boundaries and techniques for
(10:10):
maintaining boundaries with your gifts, definitely check this out. But
here's what you could do. You could say I have
five spaces available for a complimentary fifteen minute read, would
you like one? That's how you do it. Do not
sit there for an hour, hour and a half and
just giving endless free readings. You're going to drain yourself.
(10:31):
It also shows that you don't take yourself seriously. Okay.
If you want to feel more confident, you know, giving
readings and more confident being a reader, the best way
to start doing that is to take yourself seriously, learn
and develop and practice, but paid practice being paid for
your readings. The clients who are paying you take themselves seriously.
(10:54):
They take the reading seriously, and you take yourself seriously,
not because you have to, but because it's a blessing
right that person has chosen to connect with you for
a reading. There's a respectful exchange of energy going on,
and then that's how you develop and you grow. Okay,
So stop doing free readings thinking that you're building your
(11:14):
confidence or you're practicing, because I promise you that's keeping
you stuck and it's keeping you playing small. Instead, I
want you to start charging for your readings. And if
you're brand new and you've never started charging before. There's
actually trainings inside the Confident Reader Mastermind about how to
start training and how to start charging. That'd be funny,
(11:34):
how to start charging for your readings. I also have
a lot of trainings in there on how to start
raising your prices and how to start feeling more confident
charging for your readings as well. So this is resonating
with you, You'll absolutely love it. But instead I want
you to, like I said, start charging for your readings,
and you can explain to people in order for you
(11:55):
to get the most out of this reading. Here's how
to book. You don't even need to talk about it.
You don't even need to say to people I'm not
doing free readings because blah blah blah. Don't go into
justifying and explaining. You just simply say here's a link
to book of reading. And if they turn around and
don't want to pay you, well, I mean that says everything, right,
(12:16):
Like they're not taking the reading that seriously or themselves
that seriously if they're not even wanting to pay for
a reading. And I also want you to be really
mindful that when you respect your gifts, when you respect
your energy, your time, your wisdom, and your magic that
also has an impact on everything else in your life.
It's about you really stepping into that new place of
(12:39):
self respect and self worth. Okay, your energy and gifts
are not free, babe. And if you want to feel
more confident giving readings and charging well for them, then
stop doing free readings. Okay, and stop convincing yourself that
you're practicing, because that's not what that is. Inside the
confident reader. We do lots of practice, but we do
it in a session in a zoom group in very
(13:01):
specific ways that build your confidence. Okay. The next piece
here is stop neglecting your mindset and your practice. Now,
what I mean by this is imagine that you imagine
that you want to get in the best shape of
your life. Right, Let's say you want to get in
better physical shape, whatever that means for you. Okay, you
(13:23):
wouldn't just go to the gym and sort of just
do lots of exercises and hope they worked, would you.
I mean, I hope you wouldn't. What you would most
likely do if you wanted to get results, you would
probably hire a professional or certainly do lots of studying
on your own. Have some clear goals, have a plan,
and really commit to that plan and show up for yourself.
(13:47):
It's the same with your confidence and your ability reading
tarot and giving readings. If you want to feel more
confident reading tarot, giving readings, charging well for your readings,
being a confident reader, right, that's why my program, the
Confident Reader Mastermind. Then you need to stop neglecting your
mindset and practice and just sort of hoping that magically
(14:08):
you feel more confident or magically you feel more comfortable charging. Instead,
what you want to do is make a commitment to yourself,
make a decision, start practicing in a way that supports
you feeling more confident, Start learning more techniques, Start learning
more about the cards so that when you work with them,
(14:29):
you've got more to say and collect to and also
start practicing developing your gifts and abilities and practicing different
techniques that you can use in your readings. This is
literally the difference between you go into the gym and
trying to figure it out by yourself hoping that you
get different results, or following a program from a trainer
that is going to make you get the results so
(14:52):
much quicker and so much faster. Now, inside the Confident
Reader Mastermind, we do a combination of all of these things.
I give you lots of mindset trainings to listen to.
I share lots of tips and techniques that you can use.
I also give you lots of time to practice as well,
so you get lots of time to practice working with
the cards readings. I also teach you things like how
(15:15):
to run a session with confidence, how to start and
end on time, how to coach your client to ask
empowering questions, how to feel confident reading on any subject.
We also do really cool sessions like how to get
to know the cards on a deeper level, how to
have a Tarot date with yourself. And I also teach
you a lot about things like how to how to
(15:37):
really reframe any negative cards or cards that you're not
comfortable with. So if there are cards that you don't
like it when they come up in a reading, or
you don't know how to read them, you know, bring
that to these sessions and I'll show you how to
reframe them. So you're giving yourself I would say the
gift of really taking yourself seriously and also taking your
gifts seriously as well. It's not about hoping or waiting,
(16:00):
about making a decision Now, if you're listening to this
and you're thinking I've been reading for a while. Now again,
another thing that you can do is just think about, like,
where are some areas of growth for me? Where can
I go to that next level in my practice? Okay,
we have people inside the Confident Reader Mastermind who are
brand new who've never charged for a reading before. We
(16:20):
also have some incredible people who have been reading for
a few years, and we have students who've been reading
for decades. It's a beautiful group of people from around
the world. We meet a few times a month on Zoom.
There's also a private Facebook group as well, and in
this new round we'll also be doing private Tarot workshops
on Zoom and also practice sessions as well. So if
you'd like to learn more about the program, feel free
(16:42):
to reach out and I'll be happy to chat with
you about the different packages that we have. A little
bonus tip I want to give you before we complete.
I want you to see your gifts and your abilities
as a reader as a precious, precious asset. From a
business point of view, it's amazing you can read for
(17:05):
people anywhere in the world. Around the world. You can
help people in the most fulfilling way possible, and you
can do something that, let's be honest, kind of lights
you up. Right, when I do readings for people, I
never feel like I'm working. Even days I'm fully booked
out and I've got barely any like time for lunch,
it doesn't feel like I'm working. It feels like, you know, invigorating.
(17:27):
It's great, but it's something that I just feel like
I'm meant to do from a kind of mindset piece
as well. It's incredibly fulfilling, you know, reading taro developing
your gifts. And I always say as well to my
students that the things that you learn in Confident Reader, right,
learning about tarot cards, how to read them, how to
(17:48):
give readings, how to develop your gifts, actually empower the
rest of your life. For the rest of your life.
You learning to develop your confidence and your abilities and
your intuition is going to help your business, your relationships, everything, right.
It truly is magical work. So if you'd like to
learn more, if you'd like to come and join us,
just send me a message. I'll be happy to chat
(18:09):
with you. You can also check out the link in
the show notes, and I'm sending you magic and blessings.
I was going to say and an iced coffee, but
it's way too cold for that. So magic blessings and
a hot coffee and lots of smooth, easy manifestations
So if you'd like to feel a lot more confident
giving tarot and intuitive readings and developing your gifts, this
episode is going to be a must listen for you.
I'd already recommend that you save this and listen to
it a few times, as it's going to be full
of gold nuggets for you. I've been doing a lot
of content about this on my socials, in my private workshops,
and actually a lot of coaching on this in my
(00:22):
private sessions. I also cover this in depth inside The
Confident Reader Mastermind, where I coach and mentor you on
reading taro with confidence and also developing and building your
skills and your confidence as a reader. More information on
that later on. But I'm going to share with you
very shortly three things that are I'm going to be
blunt with you, really holding you back. These things are
(00:45):
going to be keeping you playing small. They're really going
to be limiting your confidence and your ability to grow
and develop as a reader. And these are not just
things I see in people who are new. These are
things that people can get a little bit stuck with,
especially if they are, let's say, feeling a little bit
of a plateau in their practice or their career or
(01:06):
their identity as a reader. So I'll dive in very
shortly with those, but just to say a huge thank
you to you guys for being here. I so appreciate you,
and I really appreciate the lovely messages that you send
me as well. They really do mean so much. Two
quick announcements and then we'll dive in. So the first
one is Confident Reader Mastermind is opening back up for
a new six month round, very very shortly. This is
(01:29):
such beautiful timing for you to join, because we're going
to be wrapping up twenty twenty five and going into
twenty twenty six already inside the program, so it's a
really nice way of sort of symbolizing you leaving maybe
your old identity behind and stepping into a fresh new
version of yourself where you're really taking yourself and your gifts.
So seriously, feel free to DM me if you have
(01:51):
any questions. I'll also be posting a lot about that.
Second announcement for you is I'm also opening up a
few places to do private coaching and then with so
if you'd like to talk about really working closely with
me one on one with your mindset, your goals, your
magical practice, your self concept, your identity reach out and
I'll be happy to send you some information as well.
(02:13):
But before we do dive into this episode, I'd like
you to just take a moment and if you can
comfortably and safely do so. Just take a beautiful, deep breath,
hold it for a moment and just exhale and know
that you're in exactly the right place at exactly the
right time. And I'd like you to set the intention
that you connect to the messages from this session that
(02:34):
you most need, and it's my intention that you get
exactly what you need and more from this session. So
I want to talk about you really stepping into more
confidence with your gifts. If you've been around me for
more than five minutes, you'll know that I read taro
and do intuitive readings for people around the world. I
also do mindset coaching, and I teach taro and intuitive
(02:57):
development in my programs, specific the Confident Reader Mastermind. So
I'm really tuned into seeing what holds people back and
seeing what works for people. And one of the things
I love doing more than anything is really helping people
to feel more confident in themselves and their gifts, especially
people who feel like they have a bit of a
(03:19):
mission around this. Okay, if you're listening to this and
you're thinking, I'd love to do tarro readings with confidence,
I'd love to charge well for them, I'd love to
help people with my gifts. This episode is for you,
and I want you to trust that you're listening to
this at exactly the right time, because the truth is,
you know your gifts and abilities are there to help
(03:41):
other people, but they're also there to help you as well,
and you don't get a gift certificate for playing small
with them. I know that's going to feel like a
little bit of a call out for some of you,
but it's said with love. Stop holding yourself back and
waiting for some big thumbs up from the universe for
you to feel more confident, and then you'll start just
like saying I'm going to start going to the gym
(04:02):
when I get strong, right, or I'm going to start
singing when my voice is better. It just doesn't work
like that. It's about you making a decision that you're
ready to take yourself and your gift seriously. And as
I said just now, this really is the perfect time
to do that. We're about to go into the holiday season,
and then we're about to go into a brand new
(04:23):
year as well. So if you're ready to make twenty
twenty six the year that you really step into your
power with your gifts, then let's dive in and talk
about it. So the first thing I want you to
stop doing, okay, I want you to write this down. Stop.
The first thing I want you to stop doing is
identifying with your old self. Okay. A lot of the
(04:45):
work I do with my clients is on their self
concept and their identity and how they see themselves. And
I can promise you your confidence in your gifts and your
ability to give beautiful readings is directly connected to how
you see yourself. If you find yourself saying things like
I'm not very confident yet, I'd love to be more confident.
(05:06):
I don't have the skills yet, you are identifying with
your old self. You're identifying with an old, out of
date version of yourself. And that version of yourself is
not the same version that's going to be doing taro
intuitive and taro and intuitive readings for people, for groups
with confidence and in magical ways. So it's really about
(05:28):
you stepping into a brand new self. Concept and a
brand new way of seeing yourself and as I like
to say, a brand new role in like the movie
of your life. Okay, I read for people around the
world privately, in groups in my workshops, and I can
tell you one of the biggest things that made the
biggest difference for me was exactly this, really stepping into
(05:51):
this fresh, brand new identity. And the stories I get
from my students around this are incredible. So I'll give
you a quick tip. Instead of saying things like I'm
not very confident yet, I want you to start saying,
I'm really developing my confidence, I'm really building my gifts
and abilities. Now talking about your gifts and abilities, I
(06:14):
want you to also spend some time really acknowledging your
intuitive gifts and your intuitive abilities. What you focus on expands,
what you focus on grows right, and what you praise
and celebrate you attract more of. So stop talking as
your old self and identifying as your old self, and
(06:34):
start stepping into this fresh new identity. Now inside the
Confident Reader Mastermind, we do a ton of mindset work
around this. I give you very specific exercises when you
join to really get you into this fresh new mindset.
You get lots of accountability to keep you connected to
that version of yourself. And I also give you coaching
on letting go of old limiting beliefs about yourself and
(06:57):
your gifts. And I show you how to step in
to this new version of yourself now and this new
version of you as a reader. Okay, so reach out
if you've got any questions. You can also, of course
check out the links below in the show notes. But
stop identifying as your old self, you know, saying that
you don't feel confident or you don't feel confident enough yet.
(07:19):
It's not going to help you to feel more confident, right,
It's just simply not. It's going to hold you back.
The next piece is a practical one and a mindset one,
and it's something I'm extremely passionate about. And this is
going to probably feel like a call out for some
of you people pleasers, some of you people who overly
caretake others, those of you who might lack boundaries. You
(07:41):
know what's coming. Stop doing free readings for people thinking
that that's going to make you more confident. Now, let
me just start by saying I am not opposed to
free readings. When done with intention and purpose. Okay, there
are people in my life that I do free readings
for because I love them and we have a beautiful
action and a beautiful relationship. But here's what I don't
(08:03):
want you to do. I don't want you to be
doing free readings for people thinking that you're practicing, or
thinking that you're building your confidence, or thinking that you
are practicing so that you can start feeling, you know,
more professional. That's just simply not true. Okay, I'm going
to give you a little bit of a tough love moment.
(08:24):
That's like taking the really easy way out of holding
yourself back, because when you do free readings for people,
very often you feel like you've taken all the pressure
off of yourself. Well, they're not paying me, so it's okay, right,
and let me tell you a few things I notice
happened here. Okay, things my students tell me, things my
clients tell me, and things I notice. You do free
(08:47):
readings for people. Obviously they're not paying you, so the
pressure is off. They tend to take a long time
or feel quite draining or quite heavy, and you can
tend to go into this like people pleasing mode, right,
or I'm giving them a free reading. They'll like me
now I'm not charging them, so they can't be like,
you know, mad at me for charging them, right, I
(09:08):
hear it all. When you're doing free readings as well,
what can often happen as a reader is there's no like,
there's no skin in the game, right, you're taking the
easy way out. You're doing it for most likely people
pleasing reasons, and you're keeping yourself very safe and very small. Again,
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that's like saying I'm going to go to the gym
when i'm strong. It's simply just not how it works.
People that you do free readings for also are not
taking you seriously or themselves seriously. They're just most likely
wanting to be kind of heard, maybe enabled. It's just
not the same. Now, what I would recommend that you
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do is start if you really do want to do
free readings, only do them when you choose to do
them for someone, and give them a very clear and
very specific time frame. This is something I teach inside
the Confident Reader Mastermind, by the way, So if you
love this kind of coaching on boundaries and techniques for
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maintaining boundaries with your gifts, definitely check this out. But
here's what you could do. You could say I have
five spaces available for a complimentary fifteen minute read, would
you like one? That's how you do it. Do not
sit there for an hour, hour and a half and
just giving endless free readings. You're going to drain yourself.
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It also shows that you don't take yourself seriously. Okay.
If you want to feel more confident, you know, giving
readings and more confident being a reader, the best way
to start doing that is to take yourself seriously, learn
and develop and practice, but paid practice being paid for
your readings. The clients who are paying you take themselves seriously.
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They take the reading seriously, and you take yourself seriously,
not because you have to, but because it's a blessing
right that person has chosen to connect with you for
a reading. There's a respectful exchange of energy going on,
and then that's how you develop and you grow. Okay,
So stop doing free readings thinking that you're building your
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confidence or you're practicing, because I promise you that's keeping
you stuck and it's keeping you playing small. Instead, I
want you to start charging for your readings. And if
you're brand new and you've never started charging before. There's
actually trainings inside the Confident Reader Mastermind about how to
start training and how to start charging. That'd be funny,
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how to start charging for your readings. I also have
a lot of trainings in there on how to start
raising your prices and how to start feeling more confident
charging for your readings as well. So this is resonating
with you, You'll absolutely love it. But instead I want
you to, like I said, start charging for your readings,
and you can explain to people in order for you
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to get the most out of this reading. Here's how
to book. You don't even need to talk about it.
You don't even need to say to people I'm not
doing free readings because blah blah blah. Don't go into
justifying and explaining. You just simply say here's a link
to book of reading. And if they turn around and
don't want to pay you, well, I mean that says everything, right,
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Like they're not taking the reading that seriously or themselves
that seriously if they're not even wanting to pay for
a reading. And I also want you to be really
mindful that when you respect your gifts, when you respect
your energy, your time, your wisdom, and your magic that
also has an impact on everything else in your life.
It's about you really stepping into that new place of
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self respect and self worth. Okay, your energy and gifts
are not free, babe. And if you want to feel
more confident giving readings and charging well for them, then
stop doing free readings. Okay, and stop convincing yourself that
you're practicing, because that's not what that is. Inside the
confident reader. We do lots of practice, but we do
it in a session in a zoom group in very
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specific ways that build your confidence. Okay. The next piece
here is stop neglecting your mindset and your practice. Now,
what I mean by this is imagine that you imagine
that you want to get in the best shape of
your life. Right, Let's say you want to get in
better physical shape, whatever that means for you. Okay, you
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wouldn't just go to the gym and sort of just
do lots of exercises and hope they worked, would you.
I mean, I hope you wouldn't. What you would most
likely do if you wanted to get results, you would
probably hire a professional or certainly do lots of studying
on your own. Have some clear goals, have a plan,
and really commit to that plan and show up for yourself.
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It's the same with your confidence and your ability reading
tarot and giving readings. If you want to feel more
confident reading tarot, giving readings, charging well for your readings,
being a confident reader, right, that's why my program, the
Confident Reader Mastermind. Then you need to stop neglecting your
mindset and practice and just sort of hoping that magically
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you feel more confident or magically you feel more comfortable charging. Instead,
what you want to do is make a commitment to yourself,
make a decision, start practicing in a way that supports
you feeling more confident, Start learning more techniques, Start learning
more about the cards so that when you work with them,
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you've got more to say and collect to and also
start practicing developing your gifts and abilities and practicing different
techniques that you can use in your readings. This is
literally the difference between you go into the gym and
trying to figure it out by yourself hoping that you
get different results, or following a program from a trainer
that is going to make you get the results so
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much quicker and so much faster. Now, inside the Confident
Reader Mastermind, we do a combination of all of these things.
I give you lots of mindset trainings to listen to.
I share lots of tips and techniques that you can use.
I also give you lots of time to practice as well,
so you get lots of time to practice working with
the cards readings. I also teach you things like how
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to run a session with confidence, how to start and
end on time, how to coach your client to ask
empowering questions, how to feel confident reading on any subject.
We also do really cool sessions like how to get
to know the cards on a deeper level, how to
have a Tarot date with yourself. And I also teach
you a lot about things like how to how to
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really reframe any negative cards or cards that you're not
comfortable with. So if there are cards that you don't
like it when they come up in a reading, or
you don't know how to read them, you know, bring
that to these sessions and I'll show you how to
reframe them. So you're giving yourself I would say the
gift of really taking yourself seriously and also taking your
gifts seriously as well. It's not about hoping or waiting,
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about making a decision Now, if you're listening to this
and you're thinking I've been reading for a while. Now again,
another thing that you can do is just think about, like,
where are some areas of growth for me? Where can
I go to that next level in my practice? Okay,
we have people inside the Confident Reader Mastermind who are
brand new who've never charged for a reading before. We
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also have some incredible people who have been reading for
a few years, and we have students who've been reading
for decades. It's a beautiful group of people from around
the world. We meet a few times a month on Zoom.
There's also a private Facebook group as well, and in
this new round we'll also be doing private Tarot workshops
on Zoom and also practice sessions as well. So if
you'd like to learn more about the program, feel free
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to reach out and I'll be happy to chat with
you about the different packages that we have. A little
bonus tip I want to give you before we complete.
I want you to see your gifts and your abilities
as a reader as a precious, precious asset. From a
business point of view, it's amazing you can read for
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people anywhere in the world. Around the world. You can
help people in the most fulfilling way possible, and you
can do something that, let's be honest, kind of lights
you up. Right, when I do readings for people, I
never feel like I'm working. Even days I'm fully booked
out and I've got barely any like time for lunch,
it doesn't feel like I'm working. It feels like, you know, invigorating.
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It's great, but it's something that I just feel like
I'm meant to do from a kind of mindset piece
as well. It's incredibly fulfilling, you know, reading taro developing
your gifts. And I always say as well to my
students that the things that you learn in Confident Reader, right,
learning about tarot cards, how to read them, how to
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give readings, how to develop your gifts, actually empower the
rest of your life. For the rest of your life.
You learning to develop your confidence and your abilities and
your intuition is going to help your business, your relationships, everything, right.
It truly is magical work. So if you'd like to
learn more, if you'd like to come and join us,
just send me a message. I'll be happy to chat
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with you. You can also check out the link in
the show notes, and I'm sending you magic and blessings.
I was going to say and an iced coffee, but
it's way too cold for that. So magic blessings and
a hot coffee and lots of smooth, easy manifestations
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