Why You’re NOT Manifesting Exactly What You Want (Fix This NOW!) | Story 6 - Manifest on Purpose

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Have you ever wondered how sometimes you can manifest exactly
what you want, while sometimes the manifestation seems hit or miss.
I'm going to share with you the top seven reasons
why this is happening to you and what you can
do about it. Hello, Hello, Hello, you are in the

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right place. You are listening to the manifestor on purpose?
Shall I am your host, Kimberly. I am here to
help you elevate your mind to a higher level of
consciousness so that you can manifest on purpose. Thank you
so much for joining today, Thank you for all of

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those that you invite to join as well, and thank
you for subscribing and sharing here and on the website
at Kimberly kim Ba l Ey dot com. The God
in Me loves the God in you. I always share

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that you're always manifesting no matter what. But the question
I want you to think about today is are you
always manifesting exactly what you want? Well? If you're one
of those people that say no, this is going to
be a very interesting conversation for you you today and

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I'm going to get into it. But before I do,
let's hear our astronumerology forecast for today. Courtesy of astronumerologists
Lloyd Straehorn and the Star eight mobile numerology app. It
is Wednesday, February the nineteenth. The sun is in Aquarius,
the moon is in Scorpio. It's an eleven universal month,

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a five universal week of three universal day. If ever
there was a day that you've been holding back on
something that you need to get it off your chest
once and for all, well, today's the day to do
just that. In particular, if your name or reputation comes

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into question, today puts you in a position to clear
the air, set the record straight, and dispel any gossip
or rumors that may be swirling about you. Now, if
you take a look on the positive side of the equation,
you have everything to gain by being positive, optimistic, as

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well as enhancing your name, notoriety, and reputation among your family,
friends and associates that you come with to the table
with sparkling ideas that can possibly take things to the
next level. It's in this regard that a Pisces sagittarius

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and anyone born on the third, twelve, twenty first and
the thirtieth of any month may just be the ones.
Once again, that is our astronumerology forecast for today, courtesy
of astronumerologist Lloyd Strayhorn. You can download the Star eight
Mobile Numerology Act at a star Aastar the number eight,

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or you can get it on Google Play or the
App Store, or go to Linktree, Forward, Slash Numbers and
You and check out some of his other products and
services there. Make sure that you pick up your astronumerology
forecasts for the year so that you can plan the

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rest of the year out. You can get that report
along with your compatibility Report, personal report, or business report
at Kimberly dot com, and if you want to go
a little deeper, you can also book your astronumerology consultation

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as well. Now let's jump into this story. Christmas time
at Mama's house was hit or missed. Sometimes you would
get something, sometimes you wouldn't. When you did get something,
sometimes you got almost what you wanted, but not quite

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how you wanted it. This happened to me quite often,
and don't get me wrong, I was completely grateful anytime
that she did get us anything, but it was kind
of off sometimes, like the year that I wanted the
typewriter for Christmas. Yes, I know it sounds geeky, but

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I was so set and determined on being an author.
I wanted a typewriter, but not just any old typewriter.
I wanted the newest typewriter. It was an electric typewriter.
I even remember who manufactured it. It was made by brother.
And I love this typewriter because it had a correction

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feature on it, so you could automatically correct something that
you made a mistake, not like the manual typewriters where
you would have to go in with whiteout. This new,
upgraded electric typewriter took care of all of that. So
I went to Mom and I just told her I

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wanted a typewriter, and she said the usual girl get
out my face. And I was used to that, that's
her Capricornian energy. But I did what she said because
I wanted that typewriter, and I still wasn't sure that
I was going to get it. Usually I'm the last

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person up in the morning. However, on Christmas Day that year,
I was the first one up and I ran straight
into the living room to see if there was a
gift for me, and there was. There was this big
old box, so I just knew that I got my typewriter.

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I was so serious about this that I had already
started writing my first book. It probably was a fiction book.
I wish I had that book now, but I wanted
to be ready when I got the typewriter so I
can just start typing my stuff down. But I got surprised.

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I noticed on the way back to my room with
the big box that the box was a little bit
heavier than expected. Because I was so excited that I
got it, I just kept going until I reached the
room and I closed the door, sat down, opened up

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the box, and my lip hit the floor. I discovered
that instead of getting me the electric typewriter that I wanted,
she had gotten me the old manual typewriter. It was

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a dinosaur. I could not believe what happened. On one hand,
I was excited because I did get a typewriter for Christmas,
but on the other hand, it was not the one
that I really wanted. I know, this is just a

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child's story. However, it happens all the time, and this
is one of the biggest things that I see in manifestation.
A lot of people are seeing things manifesting their life,
but they're not seeing things the way they quite intended.

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Or expected them to be. It's kind of like their
manifestations are hit or missed. Sometimes they hit the jackpot
and exactly what they want, while at other times not
so much. So let's jump into seven reasons why this

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may be happening to you. Reason number seven, yourself impose limitations.
Don't you know you're in unlimited bin. A lot of
times people are held back at getting exactly what they
want because they limit themselves from what they really want.

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Let me give you an example of how this can happen.
Let's just say, for instance, that there's a specific amount
of money that you wish to manifest or you wish
to achieve in your life. However, you only feel like
there's certain ways that that amount of money can come

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to you. For example, for people that are seeking a
large amount of money, a lot of times they will
say something like they want to hit the lottery. When
you do say that, and there's nothing wrong with that,
but you've set a limitation because instead of leaving it

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open for many ways for this money to circulate in
your life, you cut it off at one point. So
that means that the only way that money will come
into your life is through that focal point that you
set your set point, which is hiding the lottery. If

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that's what it is. However, here's how to fix that.
Don't get caught up in dictating how things should enter
into your life. The key to fixing that is to
have an open mind. And when I say have an
open mind, I mean have many vehicles and I use
the word vehicles for methods to circulate what you want

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to attract in your life. So you have in your
mind there's multiple ways that that amount of money can
come into your life, not just one way. The more
you open your mind to unlimited possibilities, the more unlimited

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possibilities you will attract. Number six, you're being a little
bit too imp patient. And another way that I like
to say this too, is you're manifesting out of desperation.
You want something quick. And that's understandable because in today's society,

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it's like we're in the microwave generation, where people just
want to add water and it be done, or popping
in a microwave and it'll be done. A lot of times,
when you are impatient or doing something out of desperation,
you may see things coming to play in your life

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that look like what you wish to attract or look
like what you set your intentions on, but it's not
really the real thing yet, meaning it has to cook
a little bit longer. It may be very similar, but

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it may not be exactly what you want right now.
And there's a reason that this happens in this synchronicity.
The way to tell that you're getting close to what
you want to manifest is because you begin to see
synchronicities in your life, and these synchronicities begin to look

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like those things that you want to attract in your life,
and the closer you get to it, the stronger these
synchronicities get. So it may almost look like exactly what
you want, but you may jump on it too fast
and later on realize that you jump prematurely and you

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should have waited for a better option. The solution to
this is simply be more patient. Become the observer in
your life. Everything that comes to you it's not for you,
so take your time to observe those things that come

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into your life to see if this is in fact
the thing that you've been setting your intention for all along.
One more important thing here is to remember energy attracts
like energy, so if you're attracting something when you're in

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that impatient state of mind or out of desperation, those
are the things that you will attract into your life.
Number five, you bid off more than you can believe in.
There are no limitations other than yourself. But what you

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have to come to realize is it is your own
belief or the lack thereof, that can create limitations in
your life. One of my teachers used to teach about
relationships and one of the principles she talked about in
her relationship series was the law of the lead. And

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I'm going to use that here and I'm going to
be talking about manifestation or your beliefs. I need your
help with this. So what I need you to do
is I want you to imagine a glass jar with
the lid on it. Okay, Now, everything that's inside of

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that jar is considered to be your beliefs. Where the
lid is is the cap that you put on your beliefs.
So your beliefs can go no higher than that lid
once the top is closed on that lid. What that

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is basically saying is you can attract no more than
what your belief allows you to attract. So in other words,
what this is saying is, if your intention is set
to attract the million dollars, but you don't believe that

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you can attract more than one hundred thousand, then you
capt your belief at one hundred thousand. And the solution
here is simple. You have to believe it first. If
you feel like that you're one of those people that

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are capped at a certain amount, but you want to
grow over that amount, then take small steps to begin
to believe more than that. Esther Hicks said, a belief
is just a thought that you keep thinking. So what
this means is you need to be doing subconscious mind techniques.

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You need to be using affirmation techniques to strengthen the
things that you believe. In number four, your vibration is low,
which hinders your focus. When you have an intention set

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to create something or manifest in your life, when your
vibration is low, it's not going to happen. First of all,
what we have to realize is that manifestation is the
same thing as creation. You can't create and be in

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stress mode at the same time because when you are
in stress mode, your body functions differently because it is
designed to help you get out of that stressful situation
which makes it hard for you to focus and makes
it hard for you or impossible for you to create.

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The suggestion here is whenever you feel yourself in a
low vibratory state, you need to immediately do techniques to
get your vibration up. Sometimes it can be meditation, Sometimes
you may have to take a walk, sometimes you may

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have to read. And another thing that you can practice
is preventative maintenance. Keep yourself away from things that will
lower your vibration, like those negative people or things that
you may be watching in the media. On to number three,

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you won't step outside of your comfort zone causing you
to miss opportunities. How many times has that even happened
to you? The number one cause of this is probably
because of the fact that this person has to be

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in a fixed mindset. A person with a fixed mindset
just kind of let life happens to them because they
feel as if they can grow no more than what
they already are. The trouble with that is it's not
good for manifestation. I often tell people that manifesting is

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really alignment. So you have to be in alignment with
those things that you want, and a lot of times,
the things that you want are not going to be
on that path that you've been on for your entire life.
What I mean is some people, especially those with a

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fixed mindset, feels comfortable doing the same thing over again,
and Albert Einstein says that insanity is doing the same
thing over again and expecting different results. You need to
step outside of the box. A lot of times your

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opportunities are outside of that comfort level that you've been
on for so long. That's the reason why it's called growth.
You have to step outside of those areas that you
are so familiar with, and sometimes whatever you're looking for

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could be just outside of that area. So if you
feel like you're one of those ones that are afraid
to step outside of your level of comfort, take small steps,
start doing things that are a little bit different for you.

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Sometimes you may open up doors that you would have
never if you had not stepped outside of your comforts.
And now we're at number two, and number two is
that you're a contradiction. Are you contradicting yourself? Are you

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telling yourself that you want one thing, but really subconsciously
what you want is something else That sounds like, Man,
My intention is to be successful on this diet, but
deep down inside, I know I want those cakes and cookies.

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Sometimes this could be due to the influence of another
It may be that another person is influencing you that
it's close to you to do one thing, but you
know that you really want something else and the idea
that really stands out to me. It's like safer instance,

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if a child decides that they don't want to go
to college, but the parent feels like, Okay, they should
go to college, but the child, just to satisfy the parent,
goes to college and sometimes put their gifts on the
shelf because they're doing what someone else felt like was

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best for them. This is one way that this could happen,
and sometimes it could be due to your own influence.
There may be some things that you feel like you
should have by a certain age, or things you should
get done within a certain amount of time that pressure

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is on you as well. This could happen in relationships,
like one person in a relationship feels like, hey, we've
been in this long enough, we should be married by now,
even though oh, the relationship may not be at that
level yet. What I suggest for a solution here is

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something that I think you should do anyway. You should
keep a journal and you should take inventory of yourself
to determine what it is that you want and why
you really want it, so that you will know if
it's something that you've been influenced to want or if
it's something that you really want for yourself. And this

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conversation goes right into the number one top reason why
your manifestations are hit and miss, and I bet you
already guessed this one. Your intentions are not clear enough.
A lot of times you feel like automatically the mind

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is supposed to know exactly what you want, but life
is not built on supposition, and the mind is definitely
not going to know exactly what you want if you're
not communicating in its language. Your mind does not have
Merriam Webster on standby. The mind understands energy, frequency, vibration, imagery,

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signs and symbols, emotions, and it takes everything literal. The
mind does not have time to interpret. The mind collects
data and information, So in order to set an intention properly,

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you need to see it in your mind. First. You
need to make sure that it's really really what you want.
You need to why you wanted to give you motivation
and stand power. You also need to have emotions. You
need to imagine what it feels like. This is where

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your creative visualization comes in. When you're setting an intention,
you should already be in the feeling as if you
already have it. Your job is to convince your mind
that you already have it, and the only way for

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you to do that is to be able to convince
yourself first that you already have it. Going back to
my example in the beginning about the typewriter, of course
I got that old typewriter because when I went to
my mother to ask for I just said I want

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a typewriter. I did not tell her what type of
typewriter i'll wanted. All I said was I wanted a typewriter.
And then her defense, she gave me exactly what I
asked for. So if you are unclear about your intentions,

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or if you are not setting intentions properly, then you
get exactly whatever you ask for. And I guess that
really sums up the solution there. Just make sure that
you're setting proper intentions, make sure that when you are

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requesting something, you are fully engaged in it, and that
you are really sure that it's what you want, even
down to the colors and all of that. You should
be accurate in your description. How I wish somebody would
told me that when my mom gave me that dinosaur

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typewriter for Christmas. But next year was a lot better
because when I explained to her that I did not
get exactly what I wanted, and I actually told her
what I wanted the next year, she got exactly that.

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Sometimes manifestations are hit or miss. Sometimes you can get
exactly what you want and sometimes not so much. But
when you notice that there's something off, go back to
these seven points to see if there's anything that you

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have been doing to hinder your own growth and progress.
I love you to life. This is how you manifest
onm purpose.

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