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Peace shawl Issha Man Dave with mybrother Quest, the man bringing you all
things marriage, paying you huge dividendson your investment in time with us,
We're talking about love, sex,having children, money, spirituality, life,
communication, and anything else to helpyou thrive and win in your relationships.
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And guess what this is grown folksbusiness. So get ready to make
grown up decisions. You know why, because marriage Ain't for suckers. That's
the name of the program. MarriageAin't for suckers. All right, let's
get into it. Hey, yourQuest. It's time to give the people
something. Man, what are wetalking about today? What up? What
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up? What up? Is yourboy? Quest? You already know what
it is. The over there gettingthis two step on. Welcome to another
edition of the Marriage Ain't for SuckersPodcast. I'm joined by you know what
I'm saying, the man living underrock jib Rock to be specific, you
know what I'm saying, big updoor like Jemmy Condemn. Yes, indeed,
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that's how we're doing it, David. Yes, indeed, shout out
to everybody. Man. I wantto welcome and I'm joined by you know
what I'm saying, like see whatsay the basing sensation. I'm joined by
the anomaly. Ladies and gentlemen,my man, my mellow, my mellow,
my man, l D the anomaly, Harris your quest. Yeah there
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you are. Listen. I knowyou're getting your buttons over there, but
they're not coming through, bro justthey're not coming through the quest. I
got buttons for you. You gotbuttons from me. I got buttons for
you. How about we do thisone? Oh, hey, quest,
how about we get this one?Oh? Yeah, that one right there?
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I understand. How am I notcoming through that? That's crazy?
Yeah, I overheard it through yourmic, through your head thoughts. That
ain't good. Yeah, engage thething, man. But anyway, we're
here. Many quest, I'm onthe mic. Talk to me, Broke.
Yeah, we're here. Man.It's good to see your face as
usual as well. Man, it'sgood as well. We've been really blessed.
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I ain't even gonna front, Iain't gonna hold you blessing with you
being in Jaya and me being herein the Carolina's like for real, we've
gotten to see each other at leastonce a month. Wow, And that's
that's been a blessing. That's amazing. And then we're gonna switch it up
and I'm coming to the to therock next month, should God spare life?
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Word? Oh yeah? So wealmost buck up two times in one
month? Yeah, next next almosttwo times to one month. Wow,
that would have been crazy. Andthen we get to see each other again
in January. So man, yeah, it's been a wid Yeah, we
get to see each other in January. On the on the low, Hey,
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I just need to make sure thatthere are electro lights in that in
that water. I just want tomake sure that they did. We got
we got water, okay, mhm, you had the lights for today
already, mad Two lights all right, two lights, Okay, we're good,
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We're good. I just want tomake sure because I don't need to
know you know what I'm saying.Yeah, that's that travel problem, man,
I don't know, man, thattravel I've been trying to I've been
trying to lick that travel problem.But it got me this time, man,
And that now go out and againhappened again. That one was nearly
tragic. Real talk. Yeah,that's not good at all. Mm hmmah
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indeed, so yeah, shouts outto everybody man who regularly listens to the
podcast. I want to remind everybodysee for real, if you are well,
let me just say this next yeartwenty twenty four, August second through
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the tenth. Oh, David andmyself, Oh que quee along with money
in the middle. You know whatI'm saying, where's she at right in
the middle, keep the faith anda couple of other couples. You know
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what I'm saying. Oh, Isee you, I see what you did.
You know what I'm saying, Isee what you did. Ab C.
You know what I'm saying, Shonda, Tim, the whole squad.
In essence, we're taking a tripto Aruba. No you in the Bahamas?
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No you didn't, and CURIUSU Noyou didn't. Oh yeah I did.
And if you want to be apart of the blast that we're about
to have, oh oh yeah yeah. Let me just go ahead and tell
them. You know what I'm saying, it's the Greenhouse marriage get Away.
Shouts out to Ballissa West who justtapped in. Yeah, it's the Greenhouse
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marriage get Away. And truth betold. If you single and you just
want to come kick it, youcan do that too. Yah. Yeah,
yes you can. You know whatI'm saying, Yes, yeah,
yes you can. So once again. It's happening August second through the tenth,
twenty twenty four. We're leaving outof where is it again in Miami?
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Poor No sir, yep, yeah, poor Canaval. So we're leaving
out of there and it's going tobe ten lovely days and like for real,
if you want to have a goodtime, shouts out to my man
Flip Harvey. If you want tohave a good time, then you might
want to be on this trip onceagain. August second through the tenth,
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twenty twenty four, Royal Caribbean Cruiselines up a Ruba, Coccaine, the
Bahamas, and Curasu. If youneed more information, go to j Questgreen
dot com Ford Slash Conference twenty twentyfour and yeah, man, sign up,
get your joints in and I'll seeyou on the I'm gonna be there,
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David gonna be there. I'm gonnabe there, and we're gonna be
chilling in a major kind of way. Sold on. You're saying that I'm
leaving Jamaica, Yes, to geton a cruise ship in Orlando to go
around the Caribbean. Yes, thatmust be gonna be dope. That must
be gonna be dope, Okay,to leave Jamaica to come to the US,
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to get on a cruise ship,the cruise around where you already live.
I'm just telling y'all when we gettogether on the open sea, I'm
telling you, y'all, it's gonnabe dope. You might want to be
on this trip. You uh Now, we're not gonna do a whole lot
of conference, and we did thaton purpose, but we will be doing
that life together. We will wina whole lot of life together. So
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I will be speaking, David willbe speaking, the Serial Entrepreneurs Loving Business,
Lemoyne and Crystal Robinson, they'll bespeaking. Pastor TJ. Tias,
associate pastor for a park. Yeah, lancing in the house, shouts out
the lansing. You feel me,They'll they'll he's speaking, And I'm telling
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you it's just gonna be a lovelyall around event. And So if you
want to be a married couple andbe amongst like minded individuals who really want
to kick it with other married coupleswho like to turn up, then come
on through. If you single andyou want to come kick it with the
married folk, I'm telling you thatyou can come and kick it with us
and enjoy yourselves. Heyes, yo, can I kick it? Yes?
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You can? Okay. I justwanted to make sure can I kick it
up? You can? Okay,that's it. I don't have no more
questions. I'm good, all right, cool, cool, Yeah as always,
the how was life on the rock? Well, life is life.
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I'm not paying life is life.I'm just saying I had the sounds on
deck. Yeah, life is life, man. So we're doing what we
do and uh, there's something tropical, some kind of storm trying to push
through here. But it's all good. I'm still on here, and uh,
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and I'm gonna get some sun probablyin a couple of days if Lord
spars, and then we back wereback. We're back to, you know,
back to basics, which I love. Man. I just caught what
you said. It's a storm.It's not like a affront. No,
no, no, no, realreal, real, real stuff. Yeah,
normally it happened twenty minutes, thirtyminutes rain, and then the sun
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is back out again. Now we'renot talking about that. We're talking about
something that's bending trees, you know. Okay, Yeah, but we're good
right now. We're good. Weregood season. It's the season. Yeah,
y'all gotta say it. That's it. I gotta favorite of so yod
let's jump into this thing as everybodyknows. Man, one of the things
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that first of all, I wantto just say I'm publicly that I'm grateful
for our forty years of friendship,I'm grateful for the way that we ride
together because I don't and I'll behonest, I don't know if I could
necessarily do what we're doing right nowon my own. And it really popped
a way that we wanted to thankfulfor that first and foremost to have and
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more importantly, like, is itme? Is it my sound? Yeah?
I heard something with your phone orsomething. I don't know it's what
Yeah, let me let me pullback the bluetooth, the bluetooth or whatever
may be still connected to you.Okay, Yeah, we can get back
to the pleasantries now that the phoneis. I was rather enjoying that part.
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He was enjoying that part. Yeah, I was rather enjoying that part.
So so, yeah, I don'tknow if I could necessarily do what
I'm doing right now, and uh, you know what I'm saying without and
then the part that I love aboutit the most is that some people get
put together because of their like mindedand outside of us being like minded when
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it comes to this thing called marriage, D like, I really rock with
who you are, you know whatI'm saying. Like, and it's like,
for real, once again, it'snot just something somebody put together because
we have a like minded Like whatI'm saying this is, this is years
of you. You know what I'msaying. And they say that people come
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into your life for a reason,season and a lifetime, and I know
without a shadow of a doubt thatwe have a lifetime relationship, you know
what I'm saying. Yeah, that'swhat's saying. I'm grateful for that,
and not only that we get todo what we do and enjoy doing it.
Yeah, and you know what,I'm not trying to be a jerk
about it. Quest y'all can hearit. I hope you'll hear it right,
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Like, it's not like I'm bored, It's not like I don't have
nothing to do, Like I'm sobusy that I'm a bit stressed. But
I was telling Quests a little earliertoday. I was like, Bro,
you're the first person who's dreams ofmy dreams that's crazy by talking about simone,
we really don't need to even We'renot putting our wives in a competition.
So anytime you hear something like that, just understand those women are on
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a pedestal, right, they ontheir own thing. But when it come
on to homeboys, right and friends, like, whereas I love our friends,
this is the first friend who's dreamsI've attached and aligned to. Quest
is the first and only person whosedreams I've attached and aligned to this way
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straight. Yeah, yeah, Sorespect respect to you on that bro,
for real, it's mutual. Andbecause for real, David rides for me
and vice versa in a way thatI don't think we've experienced to this degree.
M h. Right, and soI'm grateful for that. All right,
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So enough of the bromance. Iwant to get to polls. I
want to get to Oh you can'tjust yeah, I'm just saying it is
it is that. It is that. I ain't gonna lie. I'm not
ashamed to say it. I justwant to hit the you know what I'm
saying, hit the nail now.So David and I have really put some
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thought into and you know saying,got some help from the team and shouts
out to Shanda, shouts out toab, shot out to our wives,
Simon, and keep the faith toput together this, you know what I'm
saying, Look look at to puttogether this new arm of the greenhouse.
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We've done what we've done, andwe've done it, I think in a
decent kind of way in terms ofmarriages. But I think that if we
are ever to put a dent inthe divorce rate, it's going to have
to be from the singles perspective.Why because when people get married, Nata
married, right, you're either goingto be a success at your marriage or
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you're going to be a failure.Right. But people are still getting married,
and if we can give them theproper information before they jump in,
maybe they'll be better equipped and wecan lower as they're coming in the divorce
rate. From that perspective. Ithink that's one of the things that you
and I've always discussed is to someway, somehow put a dent in the
divorce rate. You know what I'msaying, Because like for real neighborhoods,
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children, communities are falling apart simplybecause two people committed to one another and
then decided not to be committed nomore. Hey, Quest, I want
to put something on the screen.Man, I want to put someone Can
I want to put some on thescreen? Quest? You can? You
can't. Am I behaving impatiently?No, you're not beaving bit impatiently at
all. Let me we can getthis going now, I can put something
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on the screen. Okay, I'mgonna put something on the screen. Okay,
here it comes, here it comes, and look, I'm gonna refresh
it. Ladies and gentlemen. Ooh, ooh, y'all, just watch that
spin. Watch it spin. Oh, that's dope. Watch it spin.
Mm hmmm, that's dope. Yeah, I'm gonna play something for y'all who
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are listening on the podcast. Butright now, just watch that spin.
Ooh. This is the Singles ConnectSummit twenty twenty three, and I'm about
to play play play a guy whosevoice here with whom you're familiar, And
here we go. What of y'all? Is your boy? Quest Green,
founder of the Greenhouse. Listen,let me be the first person to welcome
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you. Yup, you're here,You're finally here, and you're here for
one reason because you know as wellas I know that you want more.
That's right, And not only doyou want more, you deserve more.
Yeah, I know you get inthe bag. I know you're living in
what you want to live in.You driving in what you want to drive
in. Like for real, youlive in pretty pretty lovely right now.
Right. But the one thing thatyou have not been able to do for
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some strange reason is connecting the areaof love and relationships, right because we
all want a long lasting of verygood you know what I'm saying, loving,
affection and all the good stuff.Right, That's the kind of relationship
that we want and one that willstand the test of time. Here's the
funny thing. We firmly believe thatin order to choose the right person,
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you got to beat a person.That's where we come in. Don't worry
about it, dope, I've doneall the work for you. I've went
and gotten some of my closest friendswho are most influential in the game.
Right now, right, I've goneand gotten Candice Quinny dope, right,
the creator founder of the Cupcake collection, Mignon Francois. Let me tell you
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something phenomenal. I've went and gottenmy homeboy, l D. The Anomaly.
Harris the Coach is coach, right, and then of course I got
my big bro. You know whatI'm saying, Doctor Eric Thomas aka E
T to Hip Hop Preacher. Letme tell you something. I've gotten all
of these people together to show youthat not only can you get more,
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but you can get it now.Right. But the first thing that you
got to do is be the rightperson before you choose the right person.
Let me not do a whole bunchof talking. If you want to be
there, the summit is free.It is the Greenhouse Singles Connect Summit,
and once again it's free. Clickthe button below right and register now,
and I'll see y'all at the summitNovember nineteenth through the twenty first. It's
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your boy quest allah your quest.I'm gonna actually just play the I'm gonna
go ahead and play these videos.Man. I think you should. I
think you should. I think youshould because Mignon go oh, let me
just say this before you play hervideo. I'm not gonna play her as
first. I'm going to Candas first. All right, I'm just as dope.
For those who don't know, CandaceQuinny is the wife of C.
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J. Quinny, right, whois the president of Eric Thomason Associates.
Right, So she is a monsterin her own right. Why because she
was a beast in the corporate gamelong before CJ took off and became president
of the of ETA. So letme tell you she has an insight unlike
no other. And I'm telling y'll, y'all need to be in the building,
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like, yeah, let's rock withwith candas Man. Hey, family,
this is Candace Quinny and I amso excited to be a part of
the Single Summit. So family,you know, it's always a great time
when we get together, but thistime we're getting together to have a good
time but also have some real honestconversations about relationships because we all deserve to
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have those thriving, beautiful marriage goalstype relationships. So at this summit,
it's going to be all about that. So just a little background about me.
I have been married for over fourteenyears. I have two beautiful children,
and I spent ten years in corporatefinance and leadership positions, traveling all
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over this country while supporting my husbandas he built several multimillion dollar businesses.
And I'm happy to say our marriagehas thrived and we have enjoyed ourselves the
whole way. So that might seemimpossible to some, but it is one
thousand percent possible. So during mysession, we're gonna get into it.
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We're just gonna break down the lessonsthat I learn and being in this incredible
relationship, and we're gonna keep itshort and sweet. Basically five principles on
how to transform your decision making sothat you can transform your relationship. So
it's gonna be fun. You don'twant to miss it because you deserve a
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healthy, successful, attractive, thrivingrelationships. So register now and bite your
friends. Click that button below,and I will see you at the summit.
I'm telling you d When I tellyou, I'm I'm just letting you
know. And she's gonna wax heavyon. Don't autopilot your relationship choices.
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You heard of fourteen years in marriage, corporate finance, executive movements, like
for real, she's fitting to blowthrough that and oh come on, she
gonna give you the cheico. Yeah, well, we got a few more
quests. Come on, and thenwe circle back to king quest. Go
let's go with let's go with Etthe hip hop preacher, Let's go.
Yeah, Yo, what's up?Fam? Is your boy e t A.
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The question is am I ready?Career? If no? No,
I'm not talking about money like he'llbe killing the game, fin Ashley,
like you're killing You're killing it,you climbing the corporate loadder you doing your
thing. I'm talking about relationships like, am I ready? You know what
I'm saying? Am I ready tofind that person? Am I ready to
commit to that person? Am Iready to be in love forever with that
person? So ask your boy et? Y'all got Q, y'all got l
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D Harris, y'all got me Yon, y'all got cannon. But I'm telling
you right, you don't want tomiss my session. All right? I
got three things I'm gonna hit youwith. Number one, neutralism, Like
I'm gonna show you the art ofneutralism so you can know, like who
is the person you're supposed to attract. Number two, Yeah, we're gonna
talk about it to win win becausein most relationships you got one person off.
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I'm just being real. They winit. They win it with the
US. The white ain't winning.The relationship is terrible for her, or
a husband is losing and the wifeis in it. I want to show
you how to make both of y'allwin, like a win win. And
then finally, like, I wantyou to gauge your readiness, like when
do I know if I'm ready,you know, ready to be in a
relationship, ready to commit, Likeeven in my marriage, when don't we
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ready to take it to the nextclub. I'm just being real me and
d d Like there were times thatI outgrew Diddy academically and it hurt the
marriage. Or there's time she outgrewme spiritually and that hurt the marriage and
we had to learn the art ofreadiness, like not just growing, but
when are we both ready to grow? And what is the time to grow?
Look, so as you know,the spaces are limited, make sure
you sign up right now, rightnow, right now, and get it
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opportunity to learn how to take yourrelationship as high as you take in your
business. It's your boy et Remembersmall steps, great distances. Now you
know, let's go. Yeah,all right, I'm just saying, I'm
just saying, you know what imean. I'm just saying, bro,
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look like we boy, it's gonnabe a good day. It's gonna be
a good day. Three days ofthis, y'all. So y'all gotta make
sure that you not only come forthe nineteenth, but you come on the
twentieth, you come on the twentyfirst, and I'm telling you bananas,
this chick right here, Okay,So so yeah, this is like me
and and De's sister, like realMinyon is. Let me just say,
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you don't want to miss especially whenshe blacks out and goes in. Yeah,
y'all, yeah, yeah, y'all, don't let me. I don't
know if you can hear that ornow I'm hearing it creeping in through your
mic, but it's it's not comingthrough I don't know what it is.
Then then yeah, I might haveto look at that later. But yeah,
yeah, Minyon, All right,let's get her. These these are
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keys that a lot deeper connection.Listen. I'm no love and relationship gurul.
I'll be the first, in factto tell you that my marriage it
fell, and my dating life isnonexistent, and I'm right in the place
where I'm supposed to be. Atleast that's what my married friends and all
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of the relational content advisors have tosay. Was that way too soon,
the way too forward, or justdownright to the nitty gritty just the way
you'd hope this would be. Eitherway, join me and the rest of
our crew for a New Relationship Summit. I'm talking vulnerability and openness. It's
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the difference between volunteering the information andsimply revealing it. Openness and vulnerability are
not the same thing. In fact, openness is the shouting out of things
that might make people call you anoversharer. Wow. Vulnerability, well,
that's the sacrifice of your own comfortin exchange for true intimacy. So come
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experience emotional liberation. Spaces are limited, secure your spot and transform your journey
in business and in love. Rememberit's we We've got the keys. O
bruh. I don't know what totell you. I don't know what to
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tell you. I don't know whatto tell you. It's gonna be fire.
And So if you're listening right now, and yeah, you're looking for
how to yep yep singles connect summitdot com, I'm gonna say one more
time singles S I N G LE S singles plural connect summit dot Com.
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Of question, guess what happened?Guess what happened? So, as
Melissa West is talking like this,and then she corrects herself with singles.
Then the email pops up to sayshe registered. How that go again?
Yes, I'm just saying that theremight be some things that you might see
as we educate that that you mightwant to go back in marriage and revise
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make adjustments. I'm just saying,yeah, let's go. So we got
two more, two hard heads.Let's go with the first hard head.
Here we go. Mm hmm,All right, y'all, come on in
here hod the anomaly Harris, andI need to invite you to this summit
for singles who are professional. You'regreat, you have done so much in
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your lives, but for some reason, you're just not able to crack the
code where successful long term relationships areconcerned. I was going to go right
outside my studio right because I livesomewhere really dope. You want to know
where that is, don't you?Maybe I'll have to tell you another time.
And I said, you know what, this is so important that you
cannot wait until you go outside tothat really dope setting out there to invite
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the people, right, I needyou to invite your single professional friends.
You've mastered all things that you wantedto up until this point, but for
some reason you're not able to crackthe code where long term relationships is concerned.
Right, and so in my session, when we come together for this
free summit, I'm gonna ask youa question. Whose voice are you listening
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to? Three key areas. Iwant you to drown out the negative chatter.
Right, you're getting too old,there's something wrong with you. How
did you do all of this butcan't do that? Dround out the negative
chatter. Also, you're not gonnajust look at the things you won't hear
or listen to. You're going toembrace the positive things. You've been successful.
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You are indeed a catch, likeyou have so many things going for
you and you just need to shareit with other people. And the other
people are actually out there. There'sso much I'm gonna say, but I
won't give it to you all here. And then finally you can thrive in
business and love. You do nothave to choose, Like, you don't
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have to make a decision. Sometimespeople say it's very difficult to balance.
It's only difficult to balance because maybeyou don't have the tools. So I
want you to become the best versionsof yourselves you can be. Know that
you can have success in your businessand professional lives as well as love.
So y'all come on in here,like I said, invite your friends,
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Invite your family who are single justlike you, and those who would like
to have success in business and love. And you can do them both and
at the same time. Right,So like, see you when you get
here. What are you looking atme for? Hit the register button.
I'll at y'all. Peace, peace, David. I I Well, let
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me just say this because David isnot gonna say it. Yeah, we're
a mouthpiece when when David's present day. Yeah, on the low, David
be punching people in the mouth onthe low, on the low, so
be prepared. He ain't gonna sayit, but I'm gonna tell you.
I'm gonna put you up on game. He about to knock your teeth out.
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That doesn't sound positive, Quest,now it is. Sometimes you need
your teeth knocked out, like forreal. Yes, it's all love.
Well, we got one more,We got one more? Quest Yeah,
Yeah, I think you may befamiliar with this guy. Let's see what
he says. Let me see whatup, y'all is your boy, Quest
Man, founder of the Greenhouse.Listen, let me tell you I've helped
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tons of marriages move from shaky togood, from good to great, but
ultimately to phenomenal. Right, Butphenomenal don't just happen. It takes work,
and all of those couples that didthe work are experiencing blissful relationships right
now, we want to do thesame for the singles. Yeah, I
got your emails, I got yourtext right, and now I'm answering.
So here's what we want to do. I want you all to come to
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the summit on November nineteen through thetwenty first, and I'm going to talk
about three different things. Right.Number one, unlocked untapped potential. That's
it. I want to unlock untappedpotential. Some of us are living in
this gray area where we're not takingthe you know, the effort to move
forward in a particular area, andit's affecting not just that area, but
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all other areas of our lives.Right, And there's a plethora of other
things that I want to share withyou in terms of unlocking untapped potential.
The second thing that I want todo for you is I want to elevate
your everyday game, or help youelevate your everyday game, right, uh
self, assessing, checking my beliefsystems, checking the information that I currently
have, and does it properly serveme in the place and space in which
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I'm operating, not only for relationships, but simply for myself. And the
third thing that I want to sharewith you guys, is the blueprint for
consistent growth. Come on, weknow that what we did in the twenties
is not working in the thirties.We know what we did in the thirties
is not necessarily working for us inthe forties, and so on and so
on. So we want to makesure that we're making moves and we're making
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decisions that affect us in a positiveway in the place and space in which
we operate. Not last year's objectives, not ten years ago objectives, but
objectives that will promote us in thehere and now. So do me a
favor of those three areas. Iwant to unlock your untapped potential, I
want to elevate your everyday game.And I want to show you the blueprint
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for consistent growth. Because when youmake better decisions, you have better outcomes,
and then you become a better person. Remember, it takes the right
person to choose the right person.So we got to work on ourselves first.
So come to the summit November nineteenthrough the twenty first, iss your
boy quest and I'll be there helpingyou navigate through those three areas. Come
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on, y'all, it's the GreenhouseSingles Connect Summit, and I want to
see you there. Run and tellall your friends, all your successful friends
who are interested in true relationship,long lasting relationship, and we're gonna show
you how to get there. Shipboy quest Peace. No. Yeah,
(31:12):
I don't know what to tell them. Tell them, tell them to sign
up. That's it. I registertoday if you have the opportunity, register
today, because the seats are limited. I think there are a couple of
seats left. And it's happening Sunday. So what's today, Thursday? Yeah,
you got today, you got tomorrow, and you got Saturday. Chuck,
(31:36):
you got the early part of Sunday. But who knows it might be
So you know what I'm saying,Those seats might seats might be filled up
by then. So if I wereyou, I would go by there.
How you get their quest singles connectsummit dot com. That's it. This
is my first infomercial. This ismy first infomercial quest. But I think
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it's it's it's life changing stuff.Remember we both got certified, uh some
years ago. I think it wastwenty sixteen and seventeen. Uh huh.
Save your marriage before it starts.So yeah, shout to the people who
understand that we don't have to choosebetween success and positive and successful long term
(32:20):
relationships. You don't have to choose. We can have them both and at
the same time. Still yeah yeah, shut to Melissa. She she's bringing
sisters. She's saying she's bringing girlfriends. So thank you for that. And
uh, shout to everybody who whorecognizes the value and will share with as
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many people as possible. Indeed,Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah, yeah, yep, I'mexcited about it, man. I am
as well. I think this isyou know, we went back and forth
over a number of things deep andI believe, like for real, for
real, those who come, you'regoing to get insight that you've never gotten
before as it relates to relationship,because it's not stuff that they putting out,
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you know what I'm saying. Everybodywants to lead with the drama and
focus on what the problem is.What we're trying to do is not only
show you the problem, but showyou the solution. And it starts with
personal development. It starts with workingwith you yourself, you know what I'm
saying. And so yeah, someof us, I know, we don't
like to look in the mirror,We don't like to deal with the authentic
(33:25):
individual that we are. We putthe armor on every day and we go
out. But some of you,you come from places where you have to
do that. You ain't in theplaces in spaces no more, take the
armor off, you know what I'msaying. Get to know the authentic you,
because that's the authentic you that's goingto find the person that you can
find, you know, being longlasting relationship with Yeah, I always say
it, d I'm always on that. You know, you pick a reflection
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of who you are spiritually. Sothe more that you develop as an individual,
the better you become as an individual, You process better, you think
they're differently minds said is different,and it allows you to pick a make
a healthier choice as to who you'regoing to spend the rest of your life
with. So yeah, well I'lltell you, man, I almost got
married twenty four years ago and didn'tyou know, No, shade it just
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what it is, what it is, and you know, the blessing when
I didn't get married, I hadsome solid people to help me become the
best me I could possibly be.And that's what kept me safe for a
two year span before I got marriedto one of my best friends. Real
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talk like that, that having thoseindividuals not nearby, I mean, they
were protective. Matter of fact,one of my female friends she is you
know, was a part of acouple. So their last name is Baker,
right, and so Michelle or Shelleyis my homegirl. And so when
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Simone comes around and it's like,oh, this is something serious. Shelley
didn't know that Simone and I kneweach other longer than Frank. Frank and
Shelley who were married who are married, right, but still, so it's
like, yo, who's this chicklike? And so she basically interviewed her
and fifth degree her and tenth degree? What's the damn much degree? Or
(35:22):
like she really like really you know? And then guess what she did.
Quest she replaced me and Simone becameher peoples. She was just I was
like, so you you love Simonemore than you love me, now,
don't you? She said. Yeah. I was like, wow, that's
good. That's good. They wereprotective. Third degree there it is.
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They were so protective and now supportiveyou feel me. Yeah, see how
that works conceived? Man? Yeah, And look now y'all walking into what,
oh, twenty two years? Howyou mean deuce deuce? Yeah,
man, twenty two years of goodmarriage? Man, great marriage? Deuce
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yeah yeah yeah man. So Ijust want to encourage the people, like,
for real, tell I mean,if you're married and you want to
come less I already says she finto be there. If you're married and
you want to be there, cool, I ain't tripping, But do me
a favor. I need you toinvite. I'm sending David, and I
are sending a special invitation for youto invite all of your friends who are
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successful and single. Because here's thefunny thing, and I'm not trying to
discriminate, but I want to targetspecific people, right, I want to
target those who you are dope inthe area of work ethic. You dope
in the area of getting the bag, Like it's not a problem for you,
(36:52):
right, You you sit on theexecutive staff at your company, like
you're one of the movers and shakers. The one area that you can't seem
to connect with for whatever reason thereit is that we're connecting connect one area
that you can't seem to connect withis with good relationship. Why because some
of the stuff that y'all to listento, like, for real, I
(37:14):
know that what we find in termsof our wind down time, we scroll
Instagram, we scroll Facebook, andif you're not careful, you find yourself
in a rabbit hole and listen intofoolishness. Sometimes we want to give you
solid foundational information that when it comestime for you to choose the love of
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your life, you know exactly whatyou need to do. Why because you're
going to be a particular person basedon the info we're gonna give you.
Know what's interesting, man, Sometimespeople are just so busy, Yeah,
real talk like really really wonderful.People are just busy because they did everything
that that mama told them. Theydid everything that society told them in terms
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of making yourselves really incredible people andprofessional some businesses, some business owners,
company owners two. And then it'slike, oh my goodness, man,
I've done all of this work andI don't have anybody with whom to share
this absolutely, you feel me.So it's just like sometimes just like time,
(38:17):
ten years runs by, like howdid I get here? Fifteen years
just ran by, And it's like, i want to go to Seychelles and
I'm tired of going with my homeboys. I'm tired of going with my homegirls.
I want to go with somebody who'swho's into me. Come on now,
you feel Come on now and keepit, you know, keep it
real clean. I'm not you know, I'm not trying to break nobody's values.
(38:39):
But I'm just saying, like,you want to rite you want to
be with not just ya. You'relike you, you want to be with
somebody's opposite than you, right,you want to be you want to be
compatible with somebody. Yep, andgo and go enjoy these things together too.
So yeah, it is that andmore so I'm looking forward to it.
Man. I'm not going to saytoo much on it because then I'll
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end up making presentations I wish werenot about to do. I'm not about
to do that, and I'm excitedout the frame. So yeah we can.
We can send them on the waythough, But I'm just telling y'all
for real food, do not donot miss out do not and yeah again,
shout to Melissa, who's sharing itwith people that are close to her,
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and shout to my, uh mysister, I call her Suster.
Suanne is my sister in love,sister in law. I uh, I
don't know whether fortunately or unfortunately Iaccidentally proposed to Simone on her birthday.
But that's a whole different discussion.I know, I ain't no, I
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ain't no, but we're still here, man. So she inherited a brother,
and I inherited a sister, sowe could shuts out to suand though
big up su Yeah. Yeah,so yeah, I think I think we
can just let them, let themgo, man, I think we can
just yeah, yeah, we definitelyagain, We'll see y'all. Yeah,
all right, y'all. There youhave it, y'all. I hope you've
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enjoyed your time with us. Marriageis about mutual love and mutual respect,
and it works for those willing tomake it work. Real talk, our
espouses are treasured jewels given to usto make life better, and the sooner
we learn to value one another willbe the sooner we become the absolute best
versions of ourselves we can be.Until next time, Peace,
Peace shawl Issha Man Dave with mybrother Quest, the man bringing you all
things marriage, paying you huge dividendson your investment in time with us,
We're talking about love, sex,having children, money, spirituality, life,
communication, and anything else to helpyou thrive and win in your relationships.
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And guess what this is grown folksbusiness. So get ready to make
grown up decisions. You know why, because marriage Ain't for suckers. That's
the name of the program. MarriageAin't for suckers. All right, let's
get into it. Hey, yourQuest. It's time to give the people
something. Man, what are wetalking about today? What up? What
(00:44):
up? What up? Is yourboy? Quest? You already know what
it is. The over there gettingthis two step on. Welcome to another
edition of the Marriage Ain't for SuckersPodcast. I'm joined by you know what
I'm saying, the man living underrock jib Rock to be specific, you
know what I'm saying, big updoor like Jemmy Condemn. Yes, indeed,
(01:06):
that's how we're doing it, David. Yes, indeed, shout out
to everybody. Man. I wantto welcome and I'm joined by you know
what I'm saying, like see whatsay the basing sensation. I'm joined by
the anomaly. Ladies and gentlemen,my man, my mellow, my mellow,
my man, l D the anomaly, Harris your quest. Yeah there
(01:37):
you are. Listen. I knowyou're getting your buttons over there, but
they're not coming through, bro justthey're not coming through the quest. I
got buttons for you. You gotbuttons from me. I got buttons for
you. How about we do thisone? Oh, hey, quest,
how about we get this one?Oh? Yeah, that one right there?
(02:00):
I understand. How am I notcoming through that? That's crazy?
Yeah, I overheard it through yourmic, through your head thoughts. That
ain't good. Yeah, engage thething, man. But anyway, we're
here. Many quest, I'm onthe mic. Talk to me, Broke.
Yeah, we're here. Man.It's good to see your face as
usual as well. Man, it'sgood as well. We've been really blessed.
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I ain't even gonna front, Iain't gonna hold you blessing with you
being in Jaya and me being herein the Carolina's like for real, we've
gotten to see each other at leastonce a month. Wow, And that's
that's been a blessing. That's amazing. And then we're gonna switch it up
and I'm coming to the to therock next month, should God spare life?
(02:42):
Word? Oh yeah? So wealmost buck up two times in one
month? Yeah, next next almosttwo times to one month. Wow,
that would have been crazy. Andthen we get to see each other again
in January. So man, yeah, it's been a wid Yeah, we
get to see each other in January. On the on the low, Hey,
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I just need to make sure thatthere are electro lights in that in
that water. I just want tomake sure that they did. We got
we got water, okay, mhm, you had the lights for today
already, mad Two lights all right, two lights, Okay, we're good,
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We're good. I just want tomake sure because I don't need to
know you know what I'm saying.Yeah, that's that travel problem, man,
I don't know, man, thattravel I've been trying to I've been
trying to lick that travel problem.But it got me this time, man,
And that now go out and againhappened again. That one was nearly
tragic. Real talk. Yeah,that's not good at all. Mm hmmah
(03:55):
indeed, so yeah, shouts outto everybody man who regularly listens to the
podcast. I want to remind everybodysee for real, if you are well,
let me just say this next yeartwenty twenty four, August second through
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the tenth. Oh, David andmyself, Oh que quee along with money
in the middle. You know whatI'm saying, where's she at right in
the middle, keep the faith anda couple of other couples. You know
(04:40):
what I'm saying. Oh, Isee you, I see what you did.
You know what I'm saying, Isee what you did. Ab C.
You know what I'm saying, Shonda, Tim, the whole squad.
In essence, we're taking a tripto Aruba. No you in the Bahamas?
(05:02):
No you didn't, and CURIUSU Noyou didn't. Oh yeah I did.
And if you want to be apart of the blast that we're about
to have, oh oh yeah yeah. Let me just go ahead and tell
them. You know what I'm saying, it's the Greenhouse marriage get Away.
Shouts out to Ballissa West who justtapped in. Yeah, it's the Greenhouse
(05:23):
marriage get Away. And truth betold. If you single and you just
want to come kick it, youcan do that too. Yah. Yeah,
yes you can. You know whatI'm saying, Yes, yeah,
yes you can. So once again. It's happening August second through the tenth,
twenty twenty four. We're leaving outof where is it again in Miami?
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Poor No sir, yep, yeah, poor Canaval. So we're leaving
out of there and it's going tobe ten lovely days and like for real,
if you want to have a goodtime, shouts out to my man
Flip Harvey. If you want tohave a good time, then you might
want to be on this trip onceagain. August second through the tenth,
(06:09):
twenty twenty four, Royal Caribbean Cruiselines up a Ruba, Coccaine, the
Bahamas, and Curasu. If youneed more information, go to j Questgreen
dot com Ford Slash Conference twenty twentyfour and yeah, man, sign up,
get your joints in and I'll seeyou on the I'm gonna be there,
(06:30):
David gonna be there. I'm gonnabe there, and we're gonna be
chilling in a major kind of way. Sold on. You're saying that I'm
leaving Jamaica, Yes, to geton a cruise ship in Orlando to go
around the Caribbean. Yes, thatmust be gonna be dope. That must
be gonna be dope, Okay,to leave Jamaica to come to the US,
(06:53):
to get on a cruise ship,the cruise around where you already live.
I'm just telling y'all when we gettogether on the open sea, I'm
telling you, y'all, it's gonnabe dope. You might want to be
on this trip. You uh Now, we're not gonna do a whole lot
of conference, and we did thaton purpose, but we will be doing
that life together. We will wina whole lot of life together. So
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I will be speaking, David willbe speaking, the Serial Entrepreneurs Loving Business,
Lemoyne and Crystal Robinson, they'll bespeaking. Pastor TJ. Tias,
associate pastor for a park. Yeah, lancing in the house, shouts out
the lansing. You feel me,They'll they'll he's speaking, And I'm telling
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you it's just gonna be a lovelyall around event. And So if you
want to be a married couple andbe amongst like minded individuals who really want
to kick it with other married coupleswho like to turn up, then come
on through. If you single andyou want to come kick it with the
married folk, I'm telling you thatyou can come and kick it with us
and enjoy yourselves. Heyes, yo, can I kick it? Yes?
(07:59):
You can? Okay. I justwanted to make sure can I kick it
up? You can? Okay,that's it. I don't have no more
questions. I'm good, all right, cool, cool, Yeah as always,
the how was life on the rock? Well, life is life.
(08:22):
I'm not paying life is life.I'm just saying I had the sounds on
deck. Yeah, life is life, man. So we're doing what we
do and uh, there's something tropical, some kind of storm trying to push
through here. But it's all good. I'm still on here, and uh,
(08:43):
and I'm gonna get some sun probablyin a couple of days if Lord
spars, and then we back wereback. We're back to, you know,
back to basics, which I love. Man. I just caught what
you said. It's a storm.It's not like a affront. No,
no, no, no, realreal, real, real stuff. Yeah,
normally it happened twenty minutes, thirtyminutes rain, and then the sun
(09:05):
is back out again. Now we'renot talking about that. We're talking about
something that's bending trees, you know. Okay, Yeah, but we're good
right now. We're good. Weregood season. It's the season. Yeah,
y'all gotta say it. That's it. I gotta favorite of so yod
let's jump into this thing as everybodyknows. Man, one of the things
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that first of all, I wantto just say I'm publicly that I'm grateful
for our forty years of friendship,I'm grateful for the way that we ride
together because I don't and I'll behonest, I don't know if I could
necessarily do what we're doing right nowon my own. And it really popped
a way that we wanted to thankfulfor that first and foremost to have and
(09:54):
more importantly, like, is itme? Is it my sound? Yeah?
I heard something with your phone orsomething. I don't know it's what
Yeah, let me let me pullback the bluetooth, the bluetooth or whatever
may be still connected to you.Okay, Yeah, we can get back
to the pleasantries now that the phoneis. I was rather enjoying that part.
(10:18):
He was enjoying that part. Yeah, I was rather enjoying that part.
So so, yeah, I don'tknow if I could necessarily do what
I'm doing right now, and uh, you know what I'm saying without and
then the part that I love aboutit the most is that some people get
put together because of their like mindedand outside of us being like minded when
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it comes to this thing called marriage, D like, I really rock with
who you are, you know whatI'm saying. Like, and it's like,
for real, once again, it'snot just something somebody put together because
we have a like minded Like whatI'm saying this is, this is years
of you. You know what I'msaying. And they say that people come
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into your life for a reason,season and a lifetime, and I know
without a shadow of a doubt thatwe have a lifetime relationship, you know
what I'm saying. Yeah, that'swhat's saying. I'm grateful for that,
and not only that we get todo what we do and enjoy doing it.
Yeah, and you know what,I'm not trying to be a jerk
about it. Quest y'all can hearit. I hope you'll hear it right,
(11:22):
Like, it's not like I'm bored, It's not like I don't have
nothing to do, Like I'm sobusy that I'm a bit stressed. But
I was telling Quests a little earliertoday. I was like, Bro,
you're the first person who's dreams ofmy dreams that's crazy by talking about simone,
we really don't need to even We'renot putting our wives in a competition.
So anytime you hear something like that, just understand those women are on
(11:46):
a pedestal, right, they ontheir own thing. But when it come
on to homeboys, right and friends, like, whereas I love our friends,
this is the first friend who's dreamsI've attached and aligned to. Quest
is the first and only person whosedreams I've attached and aligned to this way
(12:07):
straight. Yeah, yeah, Sorespect respect to you on that bro,
for real, it's mutual. Andbecause for real, David rides for me
and vice versa in a way thatI don't think we've experienced to this degree.
M h. Right, and soI'm grateful for that. All right,
(12:30):
So enough of the bromance. Iwant to get to polls. I
want to get to Oh you can'tjust yeah, I'm just saying it is
it is that. It is that. I ain't gonna lie. I'm not
ashamed to say it. I justwant to hit the you know what I'm
saying, hit the nail now.So David and I have really put some
(12:56):
thought into and you know saying,got some help from the team and shouts
out to Shanda, shouts out toab, shot out to our wives,
Simon, and keep the faith toput together this, you know what I'm
saying, Look look at to puttogether this new arm of the greenhouse.
(13:18):
We've done what we've done, andwe've done it, I think in a
decent kind of way in terms ofmarriages. But I think that if we
are ever to put a dent inthe divorce rate, it's going to have
to be from the singles perspective.Why because when people get married, Nata
married, right, you're either goingto be a success at your marriage or
(13:39):
you're going to be a failure.Right. But people are still getting married,
and if we can give them theproper information before they jump in,
maybe they'll be better equipped and wecan lower as they're coming in the divorce
rate. From that perspective. Ithink that's one of the things that you
and I've always discussed is to someway, somehow put a dent in the
divorce rate. You know what I'msaying, Because like for real neighborhoods,
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children, communities are falling apart simplybecause two people committed to one another and
then decided not to be committed nomore. Hey, Quest, I want
to put something on the screen.Man, I want to put someone Can
I want to put some on thescreen? Quest? You can? You
can't. Am I behaving impatiently?No, you're not beaving bit impatiently at
all. Let me we can getthis going now, I can put something
(14:28):
on the screen. Okay, I'mgonna put something on the screen. Okay,
here it comes, here it comes, and look, I'm gonna refresh
it. Ladies and gentlemen. Ooh, ooh, y'all, just watch that
spin. Watch it spin. Oh, that's dope. Watch it spin.
Mm hmmm, that's dope. Yeah, I'm gonna play something for y'all who
(14:50):
are listening on the podcast. Butright now, just watch that spin.
Ooh. This is the Singles ConnectSummit twenty twenty three, and I'm about
to play play play a guy whosevoice here with whom you're familiar, And
here we go. What of y'all? Is your boy? Quest Green,
founder of the Greenhouse. Listen,let me be the first person to welcome
(15:13):
you. Yup, you're here,You're finally here, and you're here for
one reason because you know as wellas I know that you want more.
That's right, And not only doyou want more, you deserve more.
Yeah, I know you get inthe bag. I know you're living in
what you want to live in.You driving in what you want to drive
in. Like for real, youlive in pretty pretty lovely right now.
Right. But the one thing thatyou have not been able to do for
(15:35):
some strange reason is connecting the areaof love and relationships, right because we
all want a long lasting of verygood you know what I'm saying, loving,
affection and all the good stuff.Right, That's the kind of relationship
that we want and one that willstand the test of time. Here's the
funny thing. We firmly believe thatin order to choose the right person,
(15:58):
you got to beat a person.That's where we come in. Don't worry
about it, dope, I've doneall the work for you. I've went
and gotten some of my closest friendswho are most influential in the game.
Right now, right, I've goneand gotten Candice Quinny dope, right,
the creator founder of the Cupcake collection, Mignon Francois. Let me tell you
(16:18):
something phenomenal. I've went and gottenmy homeboy, l D. The Anomaly.
Harris the Coach is coach, right, and then of course I got
my big bro. You know whatI'm saying, Doctor Eric Thomas aka E
T to Hip Hop Preacher. Letme tell you something. I've gotten all
of these people together to show youthat not only can you get more,
(16:40):
but you can get it now.Right. But the first thing that you
got to do is be the rightperson before you choose the right person.
Let me not do a whole bunchof talking. If you want to be
there, the summit is free.It is the Greenhouse Singles Connect Summit,
and once again it's free. Clickthe button below right and register now,
and I'll see y'all at the summitNovember nineteenth through the twenty first. It's
(17:03):
your boy quest allah your quest.I'm gonna actually just play the I'm gonna
go ahead and play these videos.Man. I think you should. I
think you should. I think youshould because Mignon go oh, let me
just say this before you play hervideo. I'm not gonna play her as
first. I'm going to Candas first. All right, I'm just as dope.
For those who don't know, CandaceQuinny is the wife of C.
(17:26):
J. Quinny, right, whois the president of Eric Thomason Associates.
Right, So she is a monsterin her own right. Why because she
was a beast in the corporate gamelong before CJ took off and became president
of the of ETA. So letme tell you she has an insight unlike
no other. And I'm telling y'll, y'all need to be in the building,
(17:48):
like, yeah, let's rock withwith candas Man. Hey, family,
this is Candace Quinny and I amso excited to be a part of
the Single Summit. So family,you know, it's always a great time
when we get together, but thistime we're getting together to have a good
time but also have some real honestconversations about relationships because we all deserve to
(18:15):
have those thriving, beautiful marriage goalstype relationships. So at this summit,
it's going to be all about that. So just a little background about me.
I have been married for over fourteenyears. I have two beautiful children,
and I spent ten years in corporatefinance and leadership positions, traveling all
(18:37):
over this country while supporting my husbandas he built several multimillion dollar businesses.
And I'm happy to say our marriagehas thrived and we have enjoyed ourselves the
whole way. So that might seemimpossible to some, but it is one
thousand percent possible. So during mysession, we're gonna get into it.
(19:00):
We're just gonna break down the lessonsthat I learn and being in this incredible
relationship, and we're gonna keep itshort and sweet. Basically five principles on
how to transform your decision making sothat you can transform your relationship. So
it's gonna be fun. You don'twant to miss it because you deserve a
(19:21):
healthy, successful, attractive, thrivingrelationships. So register now and bite your
friends. Click that button below,and I will see you at the summit.
I'm telling you d When I tellyou, I'm I'm just letting you
know. And she's gonna wax heavyon. Don't autopilot your relationship choices.
(19:44):
You heard of fourteen years in marriage, corporate finance, executive movements, like
for real, she's fitting to blowthrough that and oh come on, she
gonna give you the cheico. Yeah, well, we got a few more
quests. Come on, and thenwe circle back to king quest. Go
let's go with let's go with Etthe hip hop preacher, Let's go.
Yeah, Yo, what's up?Fam? Is your boy e t A.
(20:10):
The question is am I ready?Career? If no? No,
I'm not talking about money like he'llbe killing the game, fin Ashley,
like you're killing You're killing it,you climbing the corporate loadder you doing your
thing. I'm talking about relationships like, am I ready? You know what
I'm saying? Am I ready tofind that person? Am I ready to
commit to that person? Am Iready to be in love forever with that
person? So ask your boy et? Y'all got Q, y'all got l
(20:32):
D Harris, y'all got me Yon, y'all got cannon. But I'm telling
you right, you don't want tomiss my session. All right? I
got three things I'm gonna hit youwith. Number one, neutralism, Like
I'm gonna show you the art ofneutralism so you can know, like who
is the person you're supposed to attract. Number two, Yeah, we're gonna
talk about it to win win becausein most relationships you got one person off.
(20:52):
I'm just being real. They winit. They win it with the
US. The white ain't winning.The relationship is terrible for her, or
a husband is losing and the wifeis in it. I want to show
you how to make both of y'allwin, like a win win. And
then finally, like, I wantyou to gauge your readiness, like when
do I know if I'm ready,you know, ready to be in a
relationship, ready to commit, Likeeven in my marriage, when don't we
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ready to take it to the nextclub. I'm just being real me and
d d Like there were times thatI outgrew Diddy academically and it hurt the
marriage. Or there's time she outgrewme spiritually and that hurt the marriage and
we had to learn the art ofreadiness, like not just growing, but
when are we both ready to grow? And what is the time to grow?
Look, so as you know,the spaces are limited, make sure
you sign up right now, rightnow, right now, and get it
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opportunity to learn how to take yourrelationship as high as you take in your
business. It's your boy et Remembersmall steps, great distances. Now you
know, let's go. Yeah,all right, I'm just saying, I'm
just saying, you know what imean. I'm just saying, bro,
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look like we boy, it's gonnabe a good day. It's gonna be
a good day. Three days ofthis, y'all. So y'all gotta make
sure that you not only come forthe nineteenth, but you come on the
twentieth, you come on the twentyfirst, and I'm telling you bananas,
this chick right here, Okay,So so yeah, this is like me
and and De's sister, like realMinyon is. Let me just say,
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you don't want to miss especially whenshe blacks out and goes in. Yeah,
y'all, yeah, yeah, y'all, don't let me. I don't
know if you can hear that ornow I'm hearing it creeping in through your
mic, but it's it's not comingthrough I don't know what it is.
Then then yeah, I might haveto look at that later. But yeah,
yeah, Minyon, All right,let's get her. These these are
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keys that a lot deeper connection.Listen. I'm no love and relationship gurul.
I'll be the first, in factto tell you that my marriage it
fell, and my dating life isnonexistent, and I'm right in the place
where I'm supposed to be. Atleast that's what my married friends and all
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of the relational content advisors have tosay. Was that way too soon,
the way too forward, or justdownright to the nitty gritty just the way
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bruh. I don't know what totell you. I don't know what to
(24:22):
tell you. I don't know whatto tell you. It's gonna be fire.
And So if you're listening right now, and yeah, you're looking for
how to yep yep singles connect summitdot com, I'm gonna say one more
time singles S I N G LE S singles plural connect summit dot Com.
(24:45):
Of question, guess what happened?Guess what happened? So, as
Melissa West is talking like this,and then she corrects herself with singles.
Then the email pops up to sayshe registered. How that go again?
Yes, I'm just saying that theremight be some things that you might see
as we educate that that you mightwant to go back in marriage and revise
(25:10):
make adjustments. I'm just saying,yeah, let's go. So we got
two more, two hard heads.Let's go with the first hard head.
Here we go. Mm hmm,All right, y'all, come on in
here hod the anomaly Harris, andI need to invite you to this summit
for singles who are professional. You'regreat, you have done so much in
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your lives, but for some reason, you're just not able to crack the
code where successful long term relationships areconcerned. I was going to go right
outside my studio right because I livesomewhere really dope. You want to know
where that is, don't you?Maybe I'll have to tell you another time.
And I said, you know what, this is so important that you
cannot wait until you go outside tothat really dope setting out there to invite
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the people, right, I needyou to invite your single professional friends.
You've mastered all things that you wantedto up until this point, but for
some reason you're not able to crackthe code where long term relationships is concerned.
Right, and so in my session, when we come together for this
free summit, I'm gonna ask youa question. Whose voice are you listening
(26:23):
to? Three key areas. Iwant you to drown out the negative chatter.
Right, you're getting too old,there's something wrong with you. How
did you do all of this butcan't do that? Dround out the negative
chatter. Also, you're not gonnajust look at the things you won't hear
or listen to. You're going toembrace the positive things. You've been successful.
(26:48):
You are indeed a catch, likeyou have so many things going for
you and you just need to shareit with other people. And the other
people are actually out there. There'sso much I'm gonna say, but I
won't give it to you all here. And then finally you can thrive in
business and love. You do nothave to choose, Like, you don't
(27:10):
have to make a decision. Sometimespeople say it's very difficult to balance.
It's only difficult to balance because maybeyou don't have the tools. So I
want you to become the best versionsof yourselves you can be. Know that
you can have success in your businessand professional lives as well as love.
So y'all come on in here,like I said, invite your friends,
(27:32):
Invite your family who are single justlike you, and those who would like
to have success in business and love. And you can do them both and
at the same time. Right,So like, see you when you get
here. What are you looking atme for? Hit the register button.
I'll at y'all. Peace, peace, David. I I Well, let
(27:55):
me just say this because David isnot gonna say it. Yeah, we're
a mouthpiece when when David's present day. Yeah, on the low, David
be punching people in the mouth onthe low, on the low, so
be prepared. He ain't gonna sayit, but I'm gonna tell you.
I'm gonna put you up on game. He about to knock your teeth out.
(28:15):
That doesn't sound positive, Quest,now it is. Sometimes you need
your teeth knocked out, like forreal. Yes, it's all love.
Well, we got one more,We got one more? Quest Yeah,
Yeah, I think you may befamiliar with this guy. Let's see what
he says. Let me see whatup, y'all is your boy, Quest
Man, founder of the Greenhouse.Listen, let me tell you I've helped
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tons of marriages move from shaky togood, from good to great, but
ultimately to phenomenal. Right, Butphenomenal don't just happen. It takes work,
and all of those couples that didthe work are experiencing blissful relationships right
now, we want to do thesame for the singles. Yeah, I
got your emails, I got yourtext right, and now I'm answering.
So here's what we want to do. I want you all to come to
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the summit on November nineteen through thetwenty first, and I'm going to talk
about three different things. Right.Number one, unlocked untapped potential. That's
it. I want to unlock untappedpotential. Some of us are living in
this gray area where we're not takingthe you know, the effort to move
forward in a particular area, andit's affecting not just that area, but
(29:22):
all other areas of our lives.Right, And there's a plethora of other
things that I want to share withyou in terms of unlocking untapped potential.
The second thing that I want todo for you is I want to elevate
your everyday game, or help youelevate your everyday game, right, uh
self, assessing, checking my beliefsystems, checking the information that I currently
have, and does it properly serveme in the place and space in which
(29:45):
I'm operating, not only for relationships, but simply for myself. And the
third thing that I want to sharewith you guys, is the blueprint for
consistent growth. Come on, weknow that what we did in the twenties
is not working in the thirties.We know what we did in the thirties
is not necessarily working for us inthe forties, and so on and so
on. So we want to makesure that we're making moves and we're making
(30:06):
decisions that affect us in a positiveway in the place and space in which
we operate. Not last year's objectives, not ten years ago objectives, but
objectives that will promote us in thehere and now. So do me a
favor of those three areas. Iwant to unlock your untapped potential, I
want to elevate your everyday game.And I want to show you the blueprint
(30:27):
for consistent growth. Because when youmake better decisions, you have better outcomes,
and then you become a better person. Remember, it takes the right
person to choose the right person.So we got to work on ourselves first.
So come to the summit November nineteenthrough the twenty first, iss your
boy quest and I'll be there helpingyou navigate through those three areas. Come
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on, y'all, it's the GreenhouseSingles Connect Summit, and I want to
see you there. Run and tellall your friends, all your successful friends
who are interested in true relationship,long lasting relationship, and we're gonna show
you how to get there. Shipboy quest Peace. No. Yeah,
(31:12):
I don't know what to tell them. Tell them, tell them to sign
up. That's it. I registertoday if you have the opportunity, register
today, because the seats are limited. I think there are a couple of
seats left. And it's happening Sunday. So what's today, Thursday? Yeah,
you got today, you got tomorrow, and you got Saturday. Chuck,
(31:36):
you got the early part of Sunday. But who knows it might be
So you know what I'm saying,Those seats might seats might be filled up
by then. So if I wereyou, I would go by there.
How you get their quest singles connectsummit dot com. That's it. This
is my first infomercial. This ismy first infomercial quest. But I think
(31:57):
it's it's it's life changing stuff.Remember we both got certified, uh some
years ago. I think it wastwenty sixteen and seventeen. Uh huh.
Save your marriage before it starts.So yeah, shout to the people who
understand that we don't have to choosebetween success and positive and successful long term
(32:20):
relationships. You don't have to choose. We can have them both and at
the same time. Still yeah yeah, shut to Melissa. She she's bringing
sisters. She's saying she's bringing girlfriends. So thank you for that. And
uh, shout to everybody who whorecognizes the value and will share with as
(32:40):
many people as possible. Indeed,Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah, yeah, yep, I'mexcited about it, man. I am
as well. I think this isyou know, we went back and forth
over a number of things deep andI believe, like for real, for
real, those who come, you'regoing to get insight that you've never gotten
before as it relates to relationship,because it's not stuff that they putting out,
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you know what I'm saying. Everybodywants to lead with the drama and
focus on what the problem is.What we're trying to do is not only
show you the problem, but showyou the solution. And it starts with
personal development. It starts with workingwith you yourself, you know what I'm
saying. And so yeah, someof us, I know, we don't
like to look in the mirror,We don't like to deal with the authentic
(33:25):
individual that we are. We putthe armor on every day and we go
out. But some of you,you come from places where you have to
do that. You ain't in theplaces in spaces no more, take the
armor off, you know what I'msaying. Get to know the authentic you,
because that's the authentic you that's goingto find the person that you can
find, you know, being longlasting relationship with Yeah, I always say
it, d I'm always on that. You know, you pick a reflection
(33:49):
of who you are spiritually. Sothe more that you develop as an individual,
the better you become as an individual, You process better, you think
they're differently minds said is different,and it allows you to pick a make
a healthier choice as to who you'regoing to spend the rest of your life
with. So yeah, well I'lltell you, man, I almost got
married twenty four years ago and didn'tyou know, No, shade it just
(34:15):
what it is, what it is, and you know, the blessing when
I didn't get married, I hadsome solid people to help me become the
best me I could possibly be.And that's what kept me safe for a
two year span before I got marriedto one of my best friends. Real
(34:36):
talk like that, that having thoseindividuals not nearby, I mean, they
were protective. Matter of fact,one of my female friends she is you
know, was a part of acouple. So their last name is Baker,
right, and so Michelle or Shelleyis my homegirl. And so when
(35:00):
Simone comes around and it's like,oh, this is something serious. Shelley
didn't know that Simone and I kneweach other longer than Frank. Frank and
Shelley who were married who are married, right, but still, so it's
like, yo, who's this chicklike? And so she basically interviewed her
and fifth degree her and tenth degree? What's the damn much degree? Or
(35:22):
like she really like really you know? And then guess what she did.
Quest she replaced me and Simone becameher peoples. She was just I was
like, so you you love Simonemore than you love me, now,
don't you? She said. Yeah. I was like, wow, that's
good. That's good. They wereprotective. Third degree there it is.
(35:44):
They were so protective and now supportiveyou feel me. Yeah, see how
that works conceived? Man? Yeah, And look now y'all walking into what,
oh, twenty two years? Howyou mean deuce deuce? Yeah,
man, twenty two years of goodmarriage? Man, great marriage? Deuce
(36:07):
yeah yeah yeah man. So Ijust want to encourage the people, like,
for real, tell I mean,if you're married and you want to
come less I already says she finto be there. If you're married and
you want to be there, cool, I ain't tripping, But do me
a favor. I need you toinvite. I'm sending David, and I
are sending a special invitation for youto invite all of your friends who are
(36:31):
successful and single. Because here's thefunny thing, and I'm not trying to
discriminate, but I want to targetspecific people, right, I want to
target those who you are dope inthe area of work ethic. You dope
in the area of getting the bag, Like it's not a problem for you,
(36:52):
right, You you sit on theexecutive staff at your company, like
you're one of the movers and shakers. The one area that you can't seem
to connect with for whatever reason thereit is that we're connecting connect one area
that you can't seem to connect withis with good relationship. Why because some
of the stuff that y'all to listento, like, for real, I
(37:14):
know that what we find in termsof our wind down time, we scroll
Instagram, we scroll Facebook, andif you're not careful, you find yourself
in a rabbit hole and listen intofoolishness. Sometimes we want to give you
solid foundational information that when it comestime for you to choose the love of
(37:35):
your life, you know exactly whatyou need to do. Why because you're
going to be a particular person basedon the info we're gonna give you.
Know what's interesting, man, Sometimespeople are just so busy, Yeah,
real talk like really really wonderful.People are just busy because they did everything
that that mama told them. Theydid everything that society told them in terms
(37:57):
of making yourselves really incredible people andprofessional some businesses, some business owners,
company owners two. And then it'slike, oh my goodness, man,
I've done all of this work andI don't have anybody with whom to share
this absolutely, you feel me.So it's just like sometimes just like time,
(38:17):
ten years runs by, like howdid I get here? Fifteen years
just ran by, And it's like, i want to go to Seychelles and
I'm tired of going with my homeboys. I'm tired of going with my homegirls.
I want to go with somebody who'swho's into me. Come on now,
you feel Come on now and keepit, you know, keep it
real clean. I'm not you know, I'm not trying to break nobody's values.
(38:39):
But I'm just saying, like,you want to rite you want to
be with not just ya. You'relike you, you want to be with
somebody's opposite than you, right,you want to be you want to be
compatible with somebody. Yep, andgo and go enjoy these things together too.
So yeah, it is that andmore so I'm looking forward to it.
Man. I'm not going to saytoo much on it because then I'll
(39:00):
end up making presentations I wish werenot about to do. I'm not about
to do that, and I'm excitedout the frame. So yeah we can.
We can send them on the waythough, But I'm just telling y'all
for real food, do not donot miss out do not and yeah again,
shout to Melissa, who's sharing itwith people that are close to her,
(39:22):
and shout to my, uh mysister, I call her Suster.
Suanne is my sister in love,sister in law. I uh, I
don't know whether fortunately or unfortunately Iaccidentally proposed to Simone on her birthday.
But that's a whole different discussion.I know, I ain't no, I
(39:45):
ain't no, but we're still here, man. So she inherited a brother,
and I inherited a sister, sowe could shuts out to suand though
big up su Yeah. Yeah,so yeah, I think I think we
can just let them, let themgo, man, I think we can
just yeah, yeah, we definitelyagain, We'll see y'all. Yeah,
all right, y'all. There youhave it, y'all. I hope you've
(40:14):
enjoyed your time with us. Marriageis about mutual love and mutual respect,
and it works for those willing tomake it work. Real talk, our
espouses are treasured jewels given to usto make life better, and the sooner
we learn to value one another willbe the sooner we become the absolute best
versions of ourselves we can be.Until next time, Peace,
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