Two Mothers' Love: The Touching Story of A Life Saving Donation and Transplant

In this incredible episode of Marrow Masters, we sit down with Kayla West, a stem cell donor from Texas, and Miriam Bauer, the mother of a young leukemia survivor Miley, from Oklahoma. This story is a deeply emotional journey of hope, resilience, and a connection that transcends bloodlines. Kayla and Miriam take us through the entire transplant process from both perspectives: the donor stepping up during a pandemic, and the caregiver navigating a life-threatening diagnosis in a child.

We begin with Kayla’s decision to join the donor registry after a chance encounter with DKMS at a Goo Goo Dolls concert. She didn’t expect to be called to donate, but when she was, during COVID lockdown, she jumped at the chance to help someone—anyone—in need. That “anyone” turned out to be Miley, an eleven-year-old girl who had been diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia (AML) and urgently needed a transplant after two brutal rounds of chemotherapy.

Miriam recounts those terrifying early days at St. Jude, from the moment of diagnosis through the chaos of the early pandemic lockdowns. She was Miley’s only caregiver during a 248-day hospital stay. Her story is filled with moments of heartbreak and triumph, from failed chemo rounds to the joy of reaching remission and finding a viable donor in Kayla. We learn how transplant coordination works, how donor cells were frozen and shipped during COVID, and how little details—like celebrating donor day or choosing a transplant date that coincides with family birthdays—brought joy in dark times.

Post-transplant, Miley’s life has been a mix of recovery and lingering health effects, but she's thriving. Miriam emphasizes advocacy, honesty, and self-care for caregivers. Kayla, for her part, reflects on the overwhelming emotion of learning she was a match, undergoing all the testing during COVID, and then finally meeting the recipient of her cells in an unforgettable reunion in New York. The two families, now bonded for life, meet regularly and have built a deep friendship.  Next up: A trip for Kayla's family to Oklahoma to experience a powwow with Miriam, Miley, and their family!

The videos below will have you reaching for the tissues and hopefully inspire many to get swabbed.

Kayla also shares her decision to launch a nonprofit, SETX Leukemia Organization, focused on educating communities and recruiting new donors. Her goal is to prevent other families from facing what Miriam’s did—wondering if there will be a match in time. Kayla’s drive, born from her experience, continues to ripple outwards as she recruits more potential donors at local events with DKMS support.

This episode isn’t just about survival—it’s about connection, purpose, and what can happen when strangers become family through an act of extraordinary generosity.

SETX Leukemia Organization (Kayla’s nonprofit): https://setxleukemia.org/

DKMS (Be The Match partner organization): https://www.dkms.org

DKMS Video about Kayla, Miley, and Miriam: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sNhwRxXMbw8

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