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Yeah, so.
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So episode.
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Basic.
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So in a way, it's kind of a dog eat dogs.
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So tonight what I wanted to talk.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
About, which I was getting dark tonight, what I wanted
to get into is I wanted to.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Talk about a dark side of sex, like violence and sex.
So and another thing is tonight will be the last
night I.
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Was gonna be depending so much on AI overviewings.
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The AI overviews are really.
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Simple as simplified with y'all, I'm gonna start doing.
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The research like I used to.
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Again, it's just so many hours in a day, that's
all it is. It is just so many hours in
a day.
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And so much that I can get done.
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I try not to burn myself out.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
So the dark side of sex, the safe search, what
is AI okay Ai overview. The dark side of sex
refers to the harmful, traumatic, and damaging aspects of sexual
experiences that can significantly significantly impact the person's mental, emotional,
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and physical well being. While sexuality can be a source
of pleasure and intimacy, it's negative dimensions involve non consensual acts, cohesion, exploitation,
and unhealthy psychologic patters.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I mean, that's deep.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
That really is deep.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
We kind of got into that. We touched on to
that when we talked about sexibility. You know, your sexibility can.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Depend on a lot of things.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
Sometimes some people have been sexually assaulted.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
At a young age, and from.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
What I've studied, sometimes the victim will try to reenact.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
What happened to them.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Like, let's say they didn't want to do it, but
there were times that it felt good that when they
were doing it, it may.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Have actually felt good even though.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
They didn't want to do it.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
So they feel guilty because it felt good. So they
may not wanted to do that with the person that
they did it with. So when they do find somebody,
they may actually go out and look for somebody that resembles.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Them so they can re enact the situation. That's just
the psychological aspect of it.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
You know, that's the.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Unhealthy psychological psychological patterns that they were talking about.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
All right, So you've.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Got sex and violence and abuse, sexual violence and abuse,
all right, sexual assault and rate. Non Consensual sexual contact
is a traumatic event that can lead to severe We
repeat that non consensual sexual contact is a traumatic event
that can lead to severe and long lasting psychological arm
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including anxiety, depression, and post traumatic stress disorder PTSD. Victims
often experienced fear, feelings of guilt and chain, and the
loss of personal safety because they've been violated. They don't
feel like they have space, and that's dry how we
can get They'll feel guilt and shame because they did
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something that they didn't want to do.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
They were forced into it.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Sexual cohesion This involved pressuring, threatening, or tricking someone into
unwor sue sexual activity without physical force. It can be subtle,
such as guilt tripping with phrases like if you love me,
you would do it, and leaves the big ful feeling
violated and manipulated. The sexual exploitation this is the use
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of someone's vulnerability, powerlessness, or trust.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
For sexual gratification our commercial purposes.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
It includes forms such as sex trafficking, survival sex, and
the creation of child pornography. Wow, I've never heard of
survival sex, but I got the idea what it could be.
This is deep, all right today, y'all, today's show might
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not be that long, but trust me, what I would
want to do is I'm going to carry on and
we're going to continue to talk of the dark side
of sexual where I was your sex probably or the
last the next couple of mondays, because this is the
unhealthy sexual patterns.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (08:06):
Reproductive cohesion a form of abuse where a partner manipulates
or threatens a person regarding reproductive choices. This can include
removing condoms, tempering with birth control. Our birth are forcing
a partner to carry our into and pregnancy against their will. Okay,
we got unhealthy sexual patterns and relationships.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Now, this is the dark side of sex, all right.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Compulsive sexual behavior sometimes.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Referred to as sex addiction. This is a pattern of
excessive sexual.
Speaker 5 (08:44):
Fantasies, urges, and behaviors that feels out of control and
persist despite negative consequences. It is often used to cope
with issue like loneliness, depression, or anxiety, and can lead
to guilt, shame, and damage relationships.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Woo.
Speaker 5 (09:00):
I think that that is the majority problem today.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
I really do, I really do.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
And we don't get into that. We gonna get into that.
We definitely gonna get into that the outside.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Of the States.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Let me play this.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Wee you, I can go get something, call my man.
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I hate y'all.
Speaker 5 (09:44):
I had to get some packs so I can remember.
So right, today would be part one of the Dark
Side of Sex. The next Monday would be part two.
So I'm just making a note compulsive sexual behavior.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
I think that that is one of the.
Speaker 5 (10:11):
Biggest things, and we'll get into that. I'm duly noting
this for part two. All right, we got negative mental
health effects of casual sex. While casual sex is not
harmful for everyone, it can be detrimental to mental health
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for some people.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Research indicates a mixed picture, with some.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
Studies correlating casual sex with negative emotional outcomes such as anxiety, regrets, depression,
and low self esteem. Factors that can increase the likelihood
and negative experience include unmet emotional needs, misaligned expectations, and
substance use.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Ooh, negative, I gotta write that.
Speaker 5 (11:04):
They said negative mental health effects of casual sex. So
that's when the person is telling you that they can't
do it without an emotional connection.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
So emotional needs arenment.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
I get it.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
So when you keep asking and being like, well, if
you down you say this, you.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
Court somebody like that would probably be somebody that you
gotta core. You couldn't do it physically, you will probably
have to coherce them into doing it. Well, I'm not
an expert on it, but it's line expectations for sexual predator.
They definitely would have a way of doing what they do.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (11:56):
All right? Post cohedo dysphoria PC tinally known as the
post sex blues. Wow, this is a phenomenon post sex blues.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
I have never heard of that. Post sex blues.
Speaker 5 (12:14):
This is a phenomenon where a person feels sadness, anxiety,
or agitation feeling consensual sexual activity. It can affect anyone.
It may be linked to home mormal flunctuations. Guilts are
past trauma. Then you've got emotional trauma and relationships. Toxic
relationships can involve sexual.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
Abuse and coordati has a way for.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
One partner to maintain power and control over the other.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
The resulting psychological trauma.
Speaker 5 (12:41):
Can we need to trust issues, low self esteem, and
difficulty with intimacy and future relationships. Okay, we got the
broader societal and cultural issues this isdeed, I'm gonna do
we know this broader societal and cultural issues sexuals the mind,
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and cultural and religious beliefs that promote chain around sexuality
can have a damaging effect on a person's well being.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
This can lead to.
Speaker 5 (13:21):
Internalized ills, can make it difficult for individuals to have healthy,
open conversations about sex. Yeah, see that unequal gender dynamics,
outdated and restrictive gender roles contribute to the dark side
of sex by creating an environment where women may be
devalued and exploited. Sexual double standards can cause women to
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have experience can cause women to experience more negative emotional
consequences from casual encounters. Okay, trafficking are vulnerable people. Human
traffickers often prey on those in vulnerable situations, such as
visuals experiencing poverty, homelessness, or history of abuse. They use
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fall promises of love or you better like explain the
victims for commercial sex.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
All right, so that will be basically the format. Let's
say this is the foundation.
Speaker 5 (14:21):
For what we're gonna get into for the rest of
September the Dark side of sex, and what.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
I'm gonna do is that's gonna be the episode for today.
Thank y'all for tuning in.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
Go a little deeper into with research that I've done,
but for right now, that's just y'all getting the emotion,
understanding what's going on.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
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Speaker 3 (15:19):
Without the