Adam

Adam is a guy in the Central Florida area looking for other guys into spanking.

Episode Transcript

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This is the Never too Old fora Good Spanking Podcast. Put the hands
up front, stick that butt out, stick it out. Yes, sir,
I need a guy spank. Ineed a guy spank. I need

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a guy span I need Hey,everybody, Welcome to another episode of the
Never Too Old for a Good SpankingPodcast. I have a man in my
closet right now. I think thisis the second episode of the podcast that
I actually do have a man inmy closet. This actually may be the

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second time in my life that Ihave a man in my closet. I
think my brother did check out thecloset one time. But I do have
a guy in my closet right now. He is thirty one years old from
Central Florida, and from what Ihear, he's always looking for bad boys
in the area that need a spanking. So sit up up straight and pay
attention to everyone, or I willbe sending him to make a house call.

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So right now, sitting across frommeet in the closet, like I
said, I'd like to welcome tothe show. Adam. How's it going
today, Adam, It's going great. I'm glad to be here. You
sounded nervous before. Now you soundfantastic, and I'm just listening to that
description and it's like so awesome andstupid. So yeah, well, isn't

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spanking also awesome and stupid at thesame time? It really is? Anyway,
Adam, you make house calls?Is that what you usually do?
You don't usually host it your place. I can't host him my place.
Yeah, so it's easier just togo meet the guy when you do make
these house calls. What is thefurthest that you'll travel? Now you live
in central Florida. I don't wantto see the exact location, but can

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you tell me, like some townsalong the way the furthest that you would
go. I don't know about eastand west, but as far as the
north and south goes Caseimei, youwere starting to get into like Okay,
this is a bit of a drive, and then Daytona would probably be a
bit of a drive. Not thatanything else is close, but I'm willing
to drive. I like driving.Daytona's a next town over, I know.

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Yeah. Yeah, so you're likeright on my border. So you're
Cloe perfect. So if I everneed a spanking, I know who to
contact. Yeah. Yeah, whatabout age limits? You're thirty one years
old, you have age limits onthe guys that you'll spank. Just my
experience in general, I've done thingswith older guys and it doesn't click.

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So I like younger guys when I'mspanking. Probably thirty five right now is
the max. Would you identify asby gay or something else? Definitely gay,
but I used to be more asexual. I really don't want to do
anything, and like, we cango into that later on if you need

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to. But yeah, I'm definitelyattracted to guys. Have you ever spanked
a female? No, And I'vethought about it when I've gotten desperate and
nothing happening, I kind of needsomething, but no, So you're desperate
is sometimes you think, h,maybe I will spank a female. Not
that desperate. It's a lot ofthings, like there'll be guys who were

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assholes to me. I'll try toreach out to them again, or guys
that I haven't heard from in along time, and it's just like,
H, I like guys who aretoxic, which probably isn't a good thing,
but I try to limit that.Well. We will be talking about
some of those assholes later. Yeah, but when you're not spanking, What
are some of your favorite vanilla thingsthat you like to do? As I

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said, I like to drive around. I like going down I drive,
seeing all the attractions and seeing allthe people around. I like to creatively
write sometimes when I feel it,and other times I just listen to music
or I'm not sure. I haven'treally thought about hobbies in a while.
What do you creatively write about?Usually science fiction or fantasy or things of

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that nature. Let me clear somethingup for the people out there that are
from Florida. When he says Idrive, and I'm from Connecticut, but
I've been not here a few years, so I know he's talking about international
drive. You have listeners who aren'tin Florida, Well, I have like
four listeners. Awesome. Now youalso said you liked music. What kind
of music do you like right now? I'm sort of really digging video game

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music, so like Sonic the Hedgehogsoundtracks, or I'll just have Mario themes
in my head while I'm doing stuff. I don't know. It's cool,
it's catchy, it's nice. Ithink that's starting to become more popular with
people. I have absolutely no ideawhat video game music is. Is it
the sounds that a video game makes, or are these like the soundtracks that

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are on the Mario movie. Ihave not seen the movie yet, so
I'm gonna assume and say, yes, you have to explain this to me.
What video game music? It's likethe soundtracks. It's kind of like
that. Did you play any gamesat all when you were a kid?
You know that When I was akid, we had Atari and Pong.
Well, there you go, that'sthe starting point. I can't imagine the

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soundtrack for Pong. It would somethinglike this boop boop. Well, there's
the beat and then you just buildup from there. It's kind of like
EDM or just electronic sound to it. Synth wave. I guess they have
a whole bunch of new waves now. So would it be almost like approaching
techno? Wow? I forgot technowas a thing. It was once upon
a time. I guess it's moreof a soft core techno. I'm not

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really sure. I probably shouldn't havesaid anything because I'm not an expert.
No, that's fine. I justwanted to know what it was. I
had no idea. But you knowwhat, enough about that, let's get
into the meat of this podcast.Besides spanking in which you would consider your
main fetish, right, that's basicallylike the whole thing. Do you have
any other fetishes that you're into.I was gonna say, I don't know

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why I'm being embarrassed. I'm talkingabout spanking on a podcast in a guy's
closet. You're embarrassed right now aboutyour other fetishes? Kind of yeah,
because it almost seems like spanking isnormal at the moment it actually does.
Have you ever been on fet life? No, I have not. I
looked at that like a long timeago, and I reason I didn't get
on it. Well, fet lifeis tough because not that it's tough,
but there are so many fetishes outthere, and some people are going to

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be totally turned off by some.Some people are actually gonna be a little
afraid of some. But the greatthing about fet life is you don't have
to associate with the things you're notinto. So if you're just into spanking,
that's all you need to be into. Whenever I'm on fetlife, most
of the things that I see haveto do with spanking. I don't see

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hardly anything else. So if youever get on fetlife and your profile says
that you're a spanko, you're inthe spanking, and someone who's into something
a little more extreme, it's probablynot going to even contact you. So
fet life is actually a decent place, but it doesn't have a great search
engine to find others. And thenthe other thing is just in my experience

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with their sites I have tried,it's going to be the same group of
people who I recognize your profile pictureor your description, and I know I'm
in that group too, And itjust makes me wish that Craigslist was still
around. You know what, Ialways say, the Craigslist killer killed Craigslist.
I know, and it's always funnyevery time. Oh you've heard that
before. If you're just looking forsomeone to make videos, or someone into

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spanking, or pretty much anything onCraigslist, you could find that way back
when, and now you can't doanything because it had Jackass from I think
it was Boston, Massachusetts. Ohyeah, oh wow, that was a
long time ago. I saw themovie. Oh yeah, of course there's
a movie. So let's get backto spanking. So on a typical day,

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how often do you think of spanking? Too many times to count.
Well, if we had to givea rough estimate, would it be somewhere
around three to four million times aday? Yeah? Sure, you want
to give a conservative estimate. Thatwas being conservative. Yeah. Here's something
I always ask people, and ifyou've heard my podcast, you know this
question is coming at some point,what is your earliest recollection of this spanking

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thing? Infiltrating your brain? Forsome reason, I have it in my
mind that I really got into thisin like eighth grade. I found spankincentral
dot com and it was specializing inspanking boys specifically, and it was like,
oh, wow, this is awesome. I mean I was a teenager,
early teens, about the right ageto find stuff you shouldn't be finding.

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That's absolutely true. And if Ihad the Internet back then, I
would also have found that stuff.And I guarantee you my parents would not
have known how to look up myhistory because even now they don't know how
to use computers, and they've beenout forever. I've had a few close
calls and it was like, okayagain, sloppy, hide it. When
did you come out? I'm notout. Oh you're not out, and

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less your parents have no idea.If they do have any idea, they're
being nice enough not to say anything, and it's sort of good at the
moment. Back to the first timeyou had thoughts, Were they always you
on the giving or did you thinkyou wanted to receive spankings or was it
always you want to give. No, it's pretty much always been given.

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I didn't necessarily know what it was, but at an early age, I
knew I liked boys, I likedbutts, and I like causing pain as
bad as that sounds, so itwas like, okay, well all three
together, I mean that works.When I was in first grade, I
knew that I liked women's butts andI knew I wanted to spank them,
but I had no idea why.I'm not one of the people who wants

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to cause pain. I just wantto smack a butt. I know it's
going to sting a little. Ijust want to smack a button. That's
all it ever has been. Iwas never really a disciplinarian kind of thing.
That's not my thing, although Ido it quite a bit. My
thing is I just want to getthat girl over my lap and I just
want to spank that butt. Ikind of like causing pain, but not

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necessarily in a disciplinarian measure. ButI've had a few guys where I'd give
them a few swats and it's like, oh, that's too hard, and
it's like it's a spain and Idon't know what to tell you. I
mean, I had one guy whoI was there for twenty minutes and then
I had to leave, and thatwas like a complete waste. Why was
that? I guess he was donein twenty minutes. In twenty minutes,

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yeah, Well, everyone's different.Some people might want ten smacks for a
spanking, but if you're driving along waya sure, it feels like a
waste of time. That's why theguys who talk about I don't want to
do endless emails. I want tomeet now. It's like, no,
I'm going to do endlessen emails.I want to establish what's going on here.
And I agree with you that youneed to talk to people because you're
into spanking, but you're into yourway of spanking, and maybe they're into

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getting spanked, but they're into theirway of getting spanked. And if you
can't meet somewhere in the middle andthey just want to meet right away and
then you show up, you wasteyour time driving there. Well, I
do like introducing guys into spanking,and a lot of new guys will contact
me and say about, hey,i've never tried this before, and I
like that because there's not enough ofus. A lot of the responses I

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get are older guys, and it'slike, I'm sorry, I'm not in
interested. The biggest issue is theyalways want more than spanking, and maybe
with a younger guy, I don'twant to get too graphic, but we
can kiss or touch or do otherstuff, but absolutely no sex. It's
nice when a guy contacts me about, hey, i've never tried spanking before.
We'll go slow, we'll build up. I described the process, what

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implements I'll use. But you're gonnaget a red ass as long as you've
discussed it beforehand. So they knowwhat's gonna happen to them, and they
should know obviously what's not going tohappen to them. If they just want
you to come there and all ofa sudden they think let's skip the spanking
and let's do a blowjob. Thisisn't what you travel. Oh there's so

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many of those too. This iswhat I mean, Like, I'm not
a typical gay guy. I haveno interest whatsoever in anything with Dix.
This is gonna sound weird. Thefirst guy I ever spanked, I picked
him up and we did car play. He was a furry, but he
didn't have the suit. He triedsucking me, and I was not hard.
He only did for probably like thirtyseconds, and I stupidly asked if

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he liked it, because I didn'tknow what else to say. Wait,
you asked him. I asked himif he liked sucking me, and obviously
the answer was no, But Idon't know what he said that. I
dropped him back off and I neverheard from him again. And with him
too. Spankan was only a littlething of what he wanted, but that's
what I wanted, so we triedto compromise on that, but it didn't

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turn out good. How long didyou talk to him, this guy who
was a furry before you actually methim, And was there some kind of
a line drawn, like this iswhat you want, this is what they
want, and you thought that maybethis is gonna work. I don't remember
if there was a line drawn,but we were talking I think for maybe
a few weeks or maybe even amonth or so. But we tried being

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friendly, and then he sent apick and I sent a pick, so
we knew what we looked like.And it's so funny. For how long
we talked, we probably had oneof the most in depth conversations that I've
had with guys I've tried to meetup with. And we did so little.
And I felt so bad too afterwardsbecause it was my friend's birthday and
it was also December seventh, soI felt bad. I did it on

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Pearl Harbor Day and it was justlike weird. I think I got drunk
that night too try and blot itout, but I've gotten better as I've
gone on. So I realized thatyou're gay and your family doesn't know it.
So I'm assuming your family has noidea about this spanking. No,
no, no, what about friends. It's funny because at this point the

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spanking thing is more private than thegay thing because not being afraid to come
out, but sort of like Idon't need to come out, I don't
need to rock the boat. Everything'sfine the way it is right now.
But I have told a few peopleI'm gay. I like guys. I've
absolutely told nobody about the spanking exceptfor who's involved. So you found it
easier to come out about being gaythan coming out being a spanko. Yeah,

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And with me, they're kind ofboth the same because going back to
the kind of ads I post,it's like, I'm not interested in anything
other than the spanking. And Iknow you talked before about that is the
trade offs. You're being spanked,you're the one spanking. There shouldn't be
anything else expected, but there alwaysis. And for ten emails I have

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with different guys trying to meet up, maybe a point oh five of them
work out. And I've talked aboutthis before on the podcast, that guys
do contact me that want to bespanked, but I don't spank guys,
and I'm very nice spouted. I'lljust be like, I don't do it.
But there's plenty of guys out therethat do. And there's plenty of
great guys who are just like thanksfor the response, you know, and

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they leave me alone. But I'llhave guys, and I'm not talking about
the good ones out there, becausethere's plenty of good ones out there,
and I talked about this, Ithink with the James podcast. But they'll
send me these pictures of penis shots, and I'm like, what about your
penis makes you think that I'm gonnawant to spank you? I don't understand

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that with guys, and I'm sureyou witness this a lot. Absolutely,
Yeah, it's weird. And it'slike, I'm not interested in your dick,
I'm interested in your ass. Sendme a nice picture of your ass
and I think it's nice, thenwe'll work from there. But what about
the ass full on, bend overspread, those ass cheeks wide open.
That's another one that I get alot. And not from girls. I'm

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talking from guys. Oh yeah,even a girl, I don't want to
see that. That's a weird look. But when it comes from a guy,
it's like, wow, that's alot. It depends because just in
terms of getting emails, I haven'tgotten this a lot, but I used
to get a lot of responses fromstraight guys who were okay with me fucking

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them but didn't want me to kissthem. And I've yet to understand why
that's a thing. You know what, I don't even want to investigate this,
can't I can't even process it inmy head right now, We're just
gonna go on to something else,right Oh, jeez, here's what I
want to know. Have you everspanked one of your vanilla friends? No?

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I have not spanked any of myfriends. Have you ever discussed it
with many of them? No?Never that this is a very private thing
for me. Are there any ofyour friends that you'd like to spank?
Yes, there's a guess. Yeah, go back to your early days.
You're thirty one years old, andyou said that you started having these thoughts

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in your head in middle school.When did you give what you would consider
your first official spanko type spanking.I would have been after college, but
I can't put a better date onthat. How did that go? I'm
trying to remember what it would havebeen because there's so many half ass experiences
and very few great ones, andI feel like the great ones have been

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more recent. But probably the firstreally great one I did was with a
black twink and I picked him up. It was nighttime. We parked in
the parking lot of the post officeand I spanked him in my back seat,
and he had leopard underwear on andhe was really responsive. He made
noises, he took it, hisass jiggled perfectly, and it was just

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really great. And then except forthe cop coming and me ducking down for
like a minute there. I don'tknow why he drove through the lot other
than to check it out, butthere were other cars there besides us,
so that was good. And thatwas the best first experience, except for
when he wanted twenty dollars afterwards,which I knew he wanted money, but
I was going to try to finaglethat somehow. But it was a nice

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experience and it was only twenty dollars. Yeah, I said, that's all
I had. That's not horrible fora first great spanking that you considered the
first great spanking. Again, it'sstill twenty though, Like that's true.
You could have went out, gotyourself dinner and beers. I don't think
I had a ten. Maybe ifI had a ten, I could have
told him how did that all comeabout? How did you get this guy

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to come with you to the postoffice parking lot a federal building to get
this spanking. It just worked outbecause we needed a place to go that
we could be somebody secluded in private, and both his and the post office
were relatively close to where I lived, so it worked out. How did
you meet him on the internet?Yeah, he might have been from Craigslist
and he knew that you wanted togive him a spanking. Yes, I

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don't think there was anything expected otherthan being generous, which apparently I bit
the bullet on that one. Hadhe ever gotten spanked before? I don't
know. I don't remember. Thatwas so long ago. When it comes
to spanking, I would imagine yourfavorite position has to be over the knee.
Yes, what are your next twofavorite positions? Oh? Jeez,

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I guess laying down on like abed or something, or across the couch.
Have you ever tried wheelbarrow? Now? I have no interest in that.
I have no interest in the diaperposition. I'm more of the traditional
I like to feel a guy layacross me, and I like to feel
him squirm and wiggle a little bit. It's a real power trip. I
was kind of like that for awhile. And I don't know if you

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heard me discuss this on the podcastbefore, but I was totally against diaper
position, which I say I stillam. I know there's people out there
that like it. That's fine withthem. I'm not a big diaper position
person, but the wheelbarrow position fordiscipline, no way, Because it's a
little weird for me, it doesn'tseem like a disciplinary position. But when

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it comes to seeing a female forme in the wheelbarrow position, it is
absolutely fantastic. Gives you a goodview. Yeah, I would never say
to them, young lady, you'regoing to get a spanking, now,
get in the wheelbarrow position, becausethat just doesn't sound right to me.
Here's another thing when guys will sendme pictures that want to be spanked by

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me, the tidy whities. Iremember when I was younger, I totally
hated tidy whities. Oh okay,how do you feel about tidy whities?
I don't care for them. Forme, it's the jockstrap because it covers
the dick and then your asses rightthere easy access. Looks beautiful, But
it seems like in the spanking scene, tighty whities are like a thing for

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the guy on guy or even femaleon guy spankings. I don't maybe it's
a traditional thing because I know there'salso panties and then completely naked. But
I do like underwear because I knowit's there, but it's also I can't
see it, so there's almost likea mystery, and that's kind of arousing
as well. Now when you saycompletely naked, you're talking the entire body

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completely naked. Yeah. For me, I kind of like that. It's
also part of the dominating of theguy and the power trip. Like I
mentioned, it's sort of nice whenyou stay clothed and they get completely naked.
And a lot of guys ask thattoo, about like will you be
dressed or will you be naked,and it's like, no, I'll be
dressed. I also notice that inmale male videos that a lot of completely

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naked. Even sometimes the person givingthe spanking is naked, but a lot
of times to person getting the spankingis completely naked. I know this is
definitely not a preference of a lotof people out there, but I love
giving a spanking to a female intights or those stretch shorts or stretch pants.

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Freaking love it. I would dothat nine times out of ten over
a bare butt, although I lovea bar butt. I've just always loved
giving a spanking to someone in clothing, But when it comes to removing the
clothing, I prefer them to keepall of their clothing on except for the
butt area. That just is amore traditional thing for me. I'm not
knocking your way. No, that'swhat you want to do. You do

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that, but as far as me, that's what I like and not always
too. But at some point you'regonna get hot. Are you talking about
you or you talking about the persongetting the spanking? Both of us?
After like ten minutes, we're gonnabe a little sweaty. It's going to
be like, Okay, well,those short shorts are nice though I absolutely
love them, absolutely love them.All I have to say is you better

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be here when the show gets back. Welcome back to the Never Too Old
for a Good Spanking Podcast. Soyou like to cause a little bit of
pain during a spanking? Would yousay you're more of a disciplinary spanker over
giving fund spankings. I could givefun spankings, but I like to go

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harder with it. Not necessarily disciplinarian, but definitely more sato mesochistic. Get
into that territory. I also haveto explain this to guys a lot.
There's not gonna be any permanent markin. You're not gonna bleed or anything,
because I can't hit that hard tomake that happen, and I don't
want to either, But I yeah, I don't think I have anything to

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say. I don't know where Iwas going. Apparently I was going nowhere
do you like to give a goodlecture or a scolding? Now I am
purely I'm the spanker. You're gonnaget spanked. This is what's gonna happen
for like the next hour or so, and then I'll leave and you can
do whatever you want. I've alsosort of become more comfortable with gain spank
myself if the guy is right.One time I was put in the corner

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for corner time, and it wasthe most born thing. I was like,
why do people like this putting someonein the corner. I can't do
that for a long period of time. If someone's being a pain in the
ass, I will put them inthe corner so that I can just avoid
their interaction for a while. It'slike, you know what you want to
be like that, go stand inthe corner. I'll go do what I

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want to do. I'll go checkmy fantasy football team or my fantasy baseball
team. I can't be that nice. I would still be being on them
all right. If someone comes toyou and wants a specific kind of spanking
besides the scolding and lecturing, whichyou're not really into. Can you cater
to them? Depends because I've triedrole play. I'm not so good with

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role play. I've had really goodsuccess with guys who absolutely wanted to be
disciplined because they'd done something wrong.And those are the guys I've had who
actually cried. That was a niceexperience. That's not from anything you said,
just from the spanking. One guy, I was getting into it and
being like, you let people down, you should be ashamed in addition to

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the spanking, and I think thatreally added to the experience for him.
But otherwise I'm just interested in thespanking. A lot of people do like
that communication. I'm not really ascolder myself, but I've made it where
I could talk to someone in akind of a firm, but calm tone.
I don't feel as weird as Iwould scolding someone. I can't just

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stand there and yell at someone,but I could calmly but firmly talk to
someone about why they're getting the spanking. I've come to a happy medium with
myself with that because I don't feelcomfortable doing either. But to do that,
it's a lot easier just to talkto someone and like we discussed before
we did this podcast, having themover my knee, I don't actually have

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to see them while I'm talking tothem, and it's not like I'm doing
it completely silent either. I wantto make sure everyone is comfortable, because
while I'm causing you pain, Iwant you to enjoy it. But otherwise
there's not drawn out conversations, butthere's also not complete silence. I want
to make sure that everything is okaywhile I'm spanking them, because if something's
not okay, I'll try to rectifyanything. And as you get to know

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these people, if they're regulars thatcome back eventually, you're not gonna have
to ask them anything. You're justgonna know what to do and they're gonna
know what to expect. Yeah,I'm definitely better than I was, but
I'm still learning, all right.So if I contacted you, maybe not
specifically me, but let's just saya guy contacts you and let you know
that he's never been spanked before andhe's not really sure what he could take.

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He knows he wants to try aspanking. What type of session would
you recommend for this person? Iwas gonna say for me again, we
could talk after yeah, what kindof session? Maybe we won't. What
kind of session do you think thatyou would recommend for this person? The
biggest thing is start out slow andto make sure they're comfortable, and then
build up the intensity and I'll trythings. I'll have hand, I'll have

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the belt, I'll have a hairbrush I like to use. I have
a writing crop that I'm really happyto use on guys. And it's just
about getting them accustomed to everything andjust to see if they like it or
if they don't, then we gofrom there. Would you say that the
most interesting place you gave a spankingwas the post office parking lot. The
most interesting spanking probably would have beenthe one guy who moved away who I

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used to meet up back in craigslistdays. He lived I don't know what
it was, but he lived nextto let's say, a landfill, and
so I would pick him up athis development and we park outside the entrance
to the landfill, where absolutely nobodywas gonna bother us. Everything was completely
dark, no street lamps, nonothing. So that might have been the
most interesting place just because it wasnext to a landfill. But otherwise I've

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never done anything like we met inthe bathroom at Downtown Disney or something.
You have never done that, notyet. No, I have no interest
in doing that because I don't needto get caught. Let's just say that
it is totally accept of course,this is a fictitious world that I'm talking
about right now. It's totally acceptableto give someone a spanking anywhere that you

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want. Where is the place thatyou would love to give someone a spanking?
Probably somewhere at Disney. Would youwant Mickey Mouse to be in attendance,
Yes, because it would be neat, But no, because there would
be too goofy. I feel therewas a joke there was there. When
it comes to spanking, I knowyou're not really into the disciplinary aspect.

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You just want to cause a littlepain to someone's ass. I mean I
enjoy smacking ass, So if youneed discipline, I offer that too.
But everyone has a safe word.I always tell people, whatever your limits
are, please let me know andI'll be respectful. But I also want
to offer about what I'm interested in, like if there is going to be
kissing involved, or maybe tickle inor other things. Nothing said in stone.

(27:56):
The biggest thing is spanking. Absolutelyno sex, and that last part
eliminates seventy percent of the emails.It would be nice if guys listen to
this podcast and they want to contactme. But with the double List crowd,
especially, half the guys either knowwho I am and they're like,
oh, okay, that's that guy, or they know who I am and
it's like, oh, it's thatasshole. So yeah, Well, when

(28:19):
it comes to these punishment type spankings, have you been asked to do anything
like mouth soaping, corner time,hand spanking, or even temperature taking.
Oh I've always wanted to do temperaturetake and I never thought of that.
Maybe mouth soaping came up once,but that would have been with a guy
who we talked and then he droppedoff or I lost interest or something.

(28:41):
So besides the temperature taking, whichyou just said that you wouldn't mind trying,
would you like to do any ofthe other things. When I say
hand spanking, I'm talking about smackingsomeone on the palm of the hand with
a ruler. Oh that Oh?Oh, actual hand spanking. Oh yeah,
Because if I say hand spanking,that would be a question because obviously
you like to give hand spanking.Well, hand's the best because you get

(29:03):
to feel the meat, and Itotally agree that is my favorite. I
would do that forever and only thatif people would let me. But would
you get into stuff like that?I know you said tempt taking, but
hand spanking corner time. Would youdo mouth soaping? Depends on the situation,
I guess. I know. Idid fig in once with a guy

(29:25):
and he immediately was like, takeit out, take it out, take
it out, and it's like,okay. I did figuring also, and
you could hear about it on thepodcast that I did with the two Georgia
Peaches. Okay, and one girlshe could have had that thing in her
for days. The other girl,although she didn't totally hate it, she
didn't totally love it. So everyone'sdifferent when it comes to that. I

(29:48):
tried it once and it was likeI'm not getting anything, So I don't
know if I didn't do it rightsomehow, or like what the deal was.
I think it's just But then differentassholes like different things. Pulls a
beautiful well maybe not for you,but you know, you just smack a
boy on his hole and it's justlike, yeah, I get their attention.

(30:10):
The nice thing about spanking guys isthat sometimes you can reach down and
grab their balls and I'm not gonnasqueeze or pull or anything, but just
a little reminder like I'm in control, settle down, take your discipline.
I've never actually been able to reachdown and grab a female's balls. Maybe
someday. Well, you gotta meetthe right women, so you know you

(30:30):
listen to the James interview that Idid. Yes, he loves to get
spanked by guys who aren't really spankers. That's his thing. But he also
doesn't care about after care after aspanking. How do you feel about aftercare?
I think that gets a little intimate. I'm going to sound like an
asshole for saying this, but Idon't think I've ever done after care with

(30:51):
somebody. It's usually just okay,we're done, I'll leave or whatever.
It was nice me and you.Maybe it's me. Maybe I'm the problem.
So you've never actually sat there andjust gave a guy a great butt
massage. If I did, itwas only once and it wasn't anything special.
Do you like to do that?I guess yeah. I love the

(31:11):
ass anyway, so as much asI can grab it, I'll take it.
Yeah, that's one of my favoriteparts, it's just rubbing a button,
yeah, you know, but againthat leads into touching and hugging and
kissing, sometimes licking and bite andif they're okay with that. A lot
of times when girls contact me forspankings, we are not having sex.
This is just about a spanking.Even if I'm rubbing their butt. It

(31:32):
doesn't mean that all of a suddenit's gonna evolve into something else. It
doesn't have to, but sometimes itdepends on the person. But ultimately,
for me, it's just the spanking. And that's the problem that a lot
of guys have, is like,no, I want to do more and
I'm not interested. Guys you know, Yeah, what's the craziest thing that's
ever happened to you during one ofthese encounters? Craziest thing? You just

(31:59):
take your time? Yeah. See, this is the trouble because like I'm
trying to think of how to wordit nicely, but I'm also working with
faulty memory. So you know,you're only thirty one and you're already having
faulty memory. It's been that wayfor a while. That's nothing new.
Do you smoke a lot of weed? No? Because I know a couple
of girls that I've hung out with, we've done edibles. I've only done
edibles a couple times, and thetwo times that I did it with girls,

(32:22):
I was out of my freaking mind. And they call it dope for
a reason because I felt like afreaking Now now you're shown your age,
I felt like an idiot. Icouldn't formulate thoughts. I couldn't remember what
I was saying as I'm saying thesentence. I was out of it.
It is freaking crazy. But anyway, enough about that, get back to

(32:43):
the strangest, craziest, weirdest thingthat's ever happened to you in one of
these encounters. Oh jeez. Itwas one guy who lived down by the
International Airport and that was me gainingspanked. In that scenario, he wanted
me to shower and he watched meshower, which I was fine with,
but I think it was more ofa gramophobe thing than sensual. And then

(33:06):
the second time we met, hewas kind of weird, but he paid
me. As I'm bitching about theI had to pay the other guy.
Some other guy was paying me.So you got your money back. Yeah,
I guess you know, if you'regoing to put a good spin on
it. But then he tied meto the bed, which was the first
time I ever tried bondage, andI was freaking out inside. This doesn't

(33:27):
feel comfortable, and I don't feelcomfortable, but I just went with it.
And then also he rubbed against me. I was like, oh God,
he's gonna fuck me while you're tiedup. Yeah, he didn't do
that. He did take a picture, though, and I asked him to
delete it, and I don't knowif he did or not, but I've
never met him again, but thatwas definitely the weirdest interaction I can think
of. I think the tying upwhen you really don't know someone is scary

(33:52):
as well. I'm not the oneon the receiving end. But not only
do I think they're going to killme, but the other worst part about
that is I think they're gonna probablytickle me, and I do not want
to be tickled. I like ticklingbecause then that gets into the other fetishes,
and again it's having that control andpower over a submissive on top of

(34:13):
the spanking. All right, Sowith all that, do you have a
spanking fantasy that you would love todo but you haven't done yet. No,
I think I've pretty much done itwith the guy from California because he
was sort of like a femboy.He had the cute little collar and cat
ears and he was wearing a skirt, which I don't care about skirts,
but it made a nice easy accessbecause there was no underwear. So he

(34:37):
cried a little bit, but otherwisehe just took the spanking and we've made
it out a little bit, andhe was just so comfortable with me.
I was sitting on the couch inhis hotel suite with him and we talked
for like an hour before we evendid anything. We were that comfortable.
And I'm just amazed because I'm sittinghere with my arm around him and my
pit stain right there, and he'snot saying anything. I don't know if

(34:59):
he's he doesn't care, but it'slike I got the best boy in the
world right here. And yeah,I like femboys, but like I say
in my ads, furries, straits, jocks, femboys, anybody, for
the most part, at least reachout to me, even if the answer
may end up being no. Youdon't know until you do it. And
I like talking to people and justbasically don't be an asshole to me.

(35:21):
Well as you know about social mediaor anything like these ads on these sites,
there's definitely a lot of good people, but there are a lot of
people who can't help but to saysomething stupid. Yeah, let's get back
to something a little lighter. Isthere a celebrity that you will love to
spank? Probably Sewn Mendes is thefirst one that comes to mind. What

(35:45):
does he do? I can't evenpicture him. He's a musician, and
a lot of people think he's inthe closet, and it's like, I
don't know if he is or isn't. Just let you know, leave him
alone. What kind of music doeshe play? I would say pop music,
but I don't know if anybody hasa different classification. Do you think
people out there right now or saying, damn, you are old if you
don't know who Sean Mendez is.Yeah, but you're young on the inside.

(36:07):
Oh, thank you very much.Are you saying I'm not young on
the outside? I know what Isaid. Do you have a favorite spanking
scene from a mainstream television show ora movie. I'm not spinking. But
one of the earliest things was Malcolmin the Middle episode. It's the one

(36:28):
where they're trapped in the cabin andthe one guy stole a piece of string
or something, and they're all holdingthis trial and he's guilty, and it
cuts back to them later they're holdingthe guy down and he's pulling the poker
out of the fire, going we'regonna brand your string, thief, and
they pull his pants down and he'sscreaming, and then I think the woman
comes in and she's like, thesnow's gone, you can leave. I

(36:49):
did not see this one I thoughtyou were talking about. I know it
was the mother, and I knowMalcolm was there. I don't remember if
their brothers were there, but theywere all at a shelter for some reason,
and there was a whole whole bunchof people out of shelter, and
the mother was talking to Malcolm andhe gave her some lip. So the
mother all of a sudden takes themover her knee, and all the kids
are standing there watching in the wholearea with all the cots and everything,

(37:13):
and all of a sudden, allthe kids you hear him go like that,
and she raises her hand up andthey're all looking and she comes down
and she just pats them on theass and she goes Whenever you're too big
to be taken over my knee,that's when you're too old. If that
was me, I would not beable to face those kids again for the
rest of my life. Do youever dream spanking? Oh my god.

(37:37):
I've had a few times where I'vedreamt something is gonna happen, Like I
had my one college buddy tied upin bondage, which I don't even like,
but he was hot in it,and like, I'm gonna start to
thank somebody, and then I wakeup. The dream knew what I was
gonna do, and it took itaway from me. So do you have
frequent dreams about spanking? No,it's been a while. I talked about

(38:00):
this on the last podcast. Butyou would think that with people like us
to think about spanking so often,that you would have dreams all the time.
But that's not even true, becausethere are things I never think about,
and here I have a dream aboutit. But you would think that
with us that they would be moreoften, and it's a shame that it's
not. Yeah, it doesn't makesense now that you mention it. All

(38:22):
right, I'm pretty sure I knowwith you the answer to this question,
because you've pretty much said it already. But I asked people this a lot
for the rest of your life.You had to give up one sex or
spanking? Which one? Is itgoing to make sex immediately? Right?
Yeah? Would you have preferred,though, if you were never born with

(38:42):
this spanking thing? Or do youlove it? Do you ask James something
similar to that? I asked thisquestion quite frequently. Okay, Well,
what I try to do is notask everyone all the same questions and not
ask them in specific orders. Buta lot of these questions people want to
know. So I try to putone at the end, this one,
I'll put one in the middle ofthis one. I'll start out with this
one. I try to be realcreative, and at the end it's always

(39:06):
the same stuff. Yeah. Forme, they've always been tied together because
I like guys. But I've hadthe I wish I wasn't gay, thought
a lot more I've never thought aboutI wish I didn't have spanking. I
know that when I was younger,I would have preferred if I wasn't a
spanko because it was so weird backwhen I was younger. Oh, I

(39:28):
didn't didn't have the internet. Ihad no idea that there were other people
out there like this. I wasvery fortunate to find girls that weren't into
spanking that would let me spank them. But I still felt weird about it,
and I wondered if they thought Iwas still weird. But I think
my life would have been a littleeasier if I wasn't one. But now
that I'm fifty five, I'm prettyokay with it. You sat there during

(39:52):
this commercial break and think about whatyou have done. Shame on you.
Shame Now try to behave yourself duringthe rest of the podcast. Is there
anything with this whole spanko thing?If you could do it, would you
go back and change something about howyou've handled things so far? I probably

(40:14):
would have started earlier college. Iabsolutely should have done stuff, but it
just didn't work out, and Iwas still very private and closeted. Actually,
back when I was in college,Craigs was still around, and I
remember one guy answering and I recognizedhis name, and I was like,
oh, he goes here, soI should have done something with him.
But would you call that a missedopportunity? Yeah? Because I was away

(40:37):
from the house for four years,so that would have been nice. Do
you think you've had a lot ofmissed opportunities where you're like, damn,
I wish I could go back andrelive that part. Probably, But I'm
that kind of person who I alwaysthink about what could have happened. So
when I have a really good night, like with the guy from California,
it's like, oh man, thatwas awesome, and now you want all

(40:57):
future experiences to be exactly. Like, not exactly, but I want it
to be a good experience. Idon't want to leave there thinking, man,
that was a waste of time.Everything's a learning experience, which sounds
the lame when you say it outloud like that, but you're always gonna
be improving, and different people willbring different experiences. Even if you do
meet another spanko, that doesn't necessarilymean that you two are gonna click.

(41:21):
It'll help it like, it's notguaranteed, oh exactly. But even with
some people that have come to me, some I click with immediately and other
people, I mean, we stillhave a good time, but we're not
quite on the same page. Ifthey're really into discipline and that's all they're
into, it's not gonna be atotal great time for me because that's not
me. I'm not a total disciplinarian. And I will give you your disciplinary

(41:44):
spanking, but you have to letme have some fun too. I want
to do some fun spank. Yeah, but if you come to me and
we can meet each other halfway,we're probably gonna have a good time.
Oh So, there seems to bea typical thing where it's like the people
you want don't want you, andthe people who want you you don't want,
and it's trying to find that middleground. Like with you, you

(42:04):
have age limits that you like,and I don't hold that against anyone because
I know there's a lot of girlsout there that won't come to me because
I'm older and they don't like that. And that's totally fine because there's plenty
to go around. Although you know, at times it hits me a little
harder because I know I'm getting older. Well, there's the preference, but
there's also the experience. I've beenwith older guys and it's just not the

(42:25):
same. It's like you got tohave that closer age range. So when
I'm driving and I see cute youngerguys, is like, I wish I
had you, and then it's immediatelyfollowed up by oh, man, I
really hope you're eighteen. So youdrive around too, and you're looking and
you see a nice button, You'relike, I would love to spank that.
Everywhere I do it all the timetoo, I'm constantly looking saying,

(42:49):
I wonder if that girl would letme spank her. Pretty much, I
call everyone I spank a girl,but all of them are women, but
I always say girl, and Iwonder if that offends anyone. There was
that one time. I don't wantto talk about it. So what advice
would you give to someone that hasn'treally experienced any of this stuff if they're
having a little trouble accepting this wholespanko thing, you know, just try

(43:13):
it. See I don't know ifI ever had trouble accepting it, But
again, for me, it's becauseit's so equated with the sexuality. That's
a good question there if it hadan answer. So in your opinion,
I know you probably watched spanking videos. Yeah, do you watch male female
videos or female female videos? SometimesI'll watch female dom male sub videos,

(43:35):
but it's usually just male male videosfor me, who out there. As
far as your concern has the bestmale male spanking content. It used to
be spank This, but they haven'tbeen putting stuff out for years for some
reason. What makes their videos sogood the twinks and they got good models.
Describe what a twink is to peopleout there, sort of a thinner

(43:58):
guy, he's leaner skin, you'reyounger. Not necessarily a twig, but
getting into that territory. But Ihave been slowly becoming a chubby chaser lately.
But yeah, I spank This usedto be very good, and spaink
in Central before he retired did goodvideos. It was a guy named Cliff
Meador. I think he passed awayearlier this year, unfortunately. But he

(44:22):
would have specific rooms like the lockerroom, the bedroom, the couch,
and then different angles and you couldsee the guy's face react as he was
getting smacked. It was almost artisticthe way it was done. Ultimately,
it depends on the guy who's gettingspank because you have preferences about who you
like. Everyone does have preferences.I have preferences when I watch a video,

(44:45):
and anyone who says they don't havepreferences is lying. Whatever your preferences
are, I wouldn't think you're offendinganyone, and other people out there shouldn't
think they're offending someone just because theyhave preferences. And then also with spanking
Tube, that everyone on there,I would say is more amateur or maybe
semi professional, but a lot ofthem have very good videos, regardless of

(45:07):
if it's recorded off of a phoneor professional camera. It depends on the
nature of it. If there's goodchemistry, if there's good interaction. Some
people did good work on There isthis guy a good spanking he's okay.
Oh, he's not bad at all. Yeah, he has a problem where
he'll set up cameras. Yeah,and he'll do the videos and then he'll

(45:29):
watch the videos and'll be like,man, those angles were fantastic and never
be able to find those angles again. Ah. So a guy once posted
something about my video and he said, this is possibly the best video I've
ever seen in my life. Theangles are great, the girl's reactions are
great. Everything about it was great. The only thing he didn't like about

(45:51):
it is that the girl was wearinga thong. You know, a lot
of people like the old fashioned style. But it was a great write up
about my video and I'm like,well, I need to see these camera
angles and try to reproduce it,and I can't. But nowadays anyone can
do this yeah, and make moneyoff of it because there's so many outlets
to do that. I've never wantedto record stuff. I've taken pictures sometimes

(46:15):
if they want pictures, but I'venever wanted to post videos. And then
just like, no, this isjust private, it's just between us.
I was gonna say something else.What are we talking about? No,
it's totally fun. Oh, noabout the Oh it's a great video,
but I didn't like her underwear.I've never thought that. I just moved
on to the next video, andI do the same thing. If I

(46:36):
see something I don't like, I'mskipping that video. It's an overall quality
of bro. Is there an alltime favorite video that you have out there?
Not that you have out there,but you love that's out there.
It's from spank This and the model'sname is Tommy Anders. I don't know
if he still does stuff, buthe was getting spanked and there's this one
shot where the camera is getting inclose and the spanker pulls his blue underwear

(46:59):
down and he looks over his shoulderadded and his nice plump asses there again
read there really is a beautiful shin. And I always remember that. Do
you have any hard copy videos likeDVDs and stuff? No, but I've
always wanted to, Well, Iused to always want to. Now pretty
much everything's digital. I told storieson some of my past podcasts where when

(47:22):
I was younger, that's all wehad. I would go into these adult
bookstores and I would go buy thesevideos, which were exorbitant prices. Now
you could go on these sites andpay your month subscription and download a bunch
of clips, where back then wehad to go in and get these videos,
and sometimes you'd pay up till seventyfive dollars for a spanking video.

(47:43):
I'm talking video VIDHS tape. BeforeDVDs came out, you didn't have them
on laser disc. I don't rememberever seeing a spanking video on laser disc.
But occasionally I would start feeling reallyguilty about this spanking thing, and
I would wrap them up into abag and I'll I was a construction worker
back then, and I would goto the construction sites and throw them into

(48:04):
the dumpsters. I threw out hundredsand hundreds of dollars worth of magazines of
these spanking videos, of implements,and I'd turn it off for a couple
of weeks. Two weeks later,here I am back of the video store
buying another video. See I wishand I had the old ones. Yeah.
See, I like history too,So the fact that you destroyed the
historical artifacts of spanking, it's like, no, give them away, sell

(48:28):
them, do something. Where whodo I give it to? What do
I walk down the street and giveit to the old man down the road?
You wait thirty years for the Internetto develop, and then you find
people, and then you get themto your closet, and then you give
them to them. If somebody reachesinto the bag and they pull out something,
it's like, okay, thanks,I'll never watch this, but I
always have the memory. All right. So, Adam, we've been talking

(48:50):
here for a while. We're windingthings up. Okay, But I really
want to get you some clients.Not clients, I want you. I
want to get you some friends thatare gonna come if they want to be
be nice, get to get paid. Yeah, let's just say. I
want to get you some guys tobe regulars. You guys can get together
and by like the third fourth timeyou know them, they know you,

(49:12):
and everything's great. I want thisto happen for you. That'd be nice.
So I'm going to give your emailaddressed here. And like we said,
you're looking for boys to spank,which also means guys like I do
with the girls and the women.And this is for any experience level,
like you said in your ad andreal discipline or just spanking. But with
that spanking, they have to knowthat it's going to hurt a little bit.

(49:36):
The important thing is just to reachout and you love the hand,
you love the belt, you lovethe hair brush, and you love this
riding crop that you have and whateverelse they really want to be spanked with.
Yeah, I also have a floggertoo, but I do not have
a paddle, which is funny forbeing a big spanker for like ten years.
Go to home depot, they havethese little grill scrapers that look just
like paddles. I've used a spatulandI wouldn't spoon. I love the wooden

(49:59):
spoon. Do you love the hairbrush? That's not really a hairbrush, it's
not a hat brush. I lovewhen she said that, but it is
now when I try to tell agirl that this is basically a hairbrush with
a tiny little bit of a longerhandle. Now everyone denies it being a
hairbrush because it's a bathbrush. IfI didn't tell anyone, they would accept

(50:20):
it as a hairbrush a bathbrush.The thing is way longer, and I
love those long bathbrushes, but theyhurt, like hell. See, this
is why you need to be moreopen about spanking, and then you could
be the next Is this dress blueor is it white? I think I'm
pretty open about spanking, but theblue in the white dress. I was
with a girl the other day andshe has a green shirt on. There's

(50:40):
a gray car ahead of us,and she goes, oh, that car
almost matches my shirt and I'm like, yeah, the car's gray, your
shirt is green. And then shegoes, well, maybe i'm a little
colorblind. I have the exact thing, to a little degree, colored blindness,
the gray and green thing. Somaybe that's what she had too.
I can tell gray and green,but when you're them together, it's like,
Okay, that's a little too much. But that story win nowhere.

(51:04):
No, that's okay. The storyresolved of its own volition. Well,
momentum would be a better word.There you go. Yeah, what's the
definition of volition momentum? See,yeah, I think volition actually sounded more
like a sophisticate. They would belike, wow, that a good spanking.
He's a sophisticate. Okay, youwin, all right, So Adam,
I'm going to give everyone your emailaddress right now and hope that this

(51:28):
evolves into some long time friendships andhardcore ass banking. For you guys out
there, if you're in the centralFlorida area and you heard the points of
interest that he wanted to travel toand not beyond, and I got to
tell you, if you think you'rea great match for him, he might
just take that extra ten miles.But if you want to contact Adam,

(51:52):
here's his email address. It's Adamsixty nine forty nine at gmail dot and
Adam is spelled just like you wouldthink, ad Am sixty nine forty nine
at gmail dot com. Contact him, talk to him, tell him what
you want from him. The guysays, Spankoh, he's not looking for

(52:14):
anything more. Unless he really getsto know you, than maybe other things
could happen. But just know thatwhen you come the first time you're coming
for a spanking. He just wantsto spank your fine ass and hopefully everything
works out. But Adam, Ido want to thank you for coming all
the way here. This is almostat your outskirts of where you want to

(52:35):
travel due to meet someone to spank. But I want to thank you for
coming here, joining me in mycloset for this interview. It was a
fun time. Yeah, I'm honoredto be here as a guy who spanks
guys. Yeah. I want toget a variety of people out there.
I hope I didn't ramble too muchfor you in your audience. By the
time I get done with all thisediting, we're both gonna sound like we
are scholars. Okay, great,I like sounding like a scholar. It

(52:59):
sounds I got my work ahead ofme then. But anyway, Adam,
thank you very much for doing this. Thank you for having me on.
Do you want to say anything tothe people in parting? Just reach out,
that's the biggest thing, because younever know what's going to happen.
Well, thanks a lot. Onceagain, Why don't you say goodbye to
everyone? Goodbye? Everyone? Allright, everybody out there, anybody who

(53:20):
wants to get their butt spanked contactAdam, but everybody else out there,
thanks a lot for joining me foranother episode of the podcast. And before
we go, I just wanted tosay one more thing, and after I
say this thing, definitely do notfeel obligated to do this, But people
are always asking me why I don'tcharge for my content. So I set

(53:44):
a little something up at wish tenderdot com And like I said, don't
feel obligated that you have to godo this. There is absolutely no pressure
here. But if you have enjoyedall of my content over the years and
want to show some appreciation, justgo to www dot wish tender dot com

(54:06):
forward slash a g S and wishtender is spelled wi s h t e
n d e R. That's wishtender dot com forward slash ag s and
it is all totally anonymous. Iwill sincerely appreciate anything that comes my way,

(54:29):
but don't feel obligated. I havea few things I'm working on that
I'd like to put out there,but it's definitely gonna take me, probably
a little bit more time and money, but I'm not even sure if I'm
gonna be able to pull it off. But any appreciation you want to show
for my past and future content,it will be appreciated. And again everything

(54:52):
is totally anonymous, but don't feelany pressure to do anything. So that
wraps up another episode and I willsee see you next time.