The Kink Consultant

Talking spanking and kink with The Kink Consultant.

Episode Transcript

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This is the Never Too Old fora Good Spanking Podcast. Put the hands
up front, stick that butt up, stick it out. Yes, sir,
I need a guy Spain. Ineed a guy Spain. I need

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a guy Spain. I need Hey, everybody, Welcome to another episode of
the Never Too Old for a GoodSpanking Podcast. This might be my thirty
seventh episode. I'm not really sure. If I'm wrong, let me know,
but I think I think I havea great guest on the other end

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of the phone here. I guessyou could let me know about that also
after you hear this podcast episode.My guest today is a young lady named
Amanda. She resides in Las Vegas, Nevada, and she is the Kink
Consultant. You could find her infoon Instagram and you can look her up

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there by going to the Underscore KinkConsultant. You could find her on TikTok
and on there you could just typein the kink Consultant one word and you
could also find her on her ownweb page, also called the Kinkconsultant one
Word dot com. I'd like towelcome to the show right now, my

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new friend, Amanda. Amanda,how you doing today? I'm doing really
well, thank you? How areyou? It's great to hear your voice
on the phone, and it soundsrather sexy, if I might say so
myself. Wow, I've never heardthat one before, genuinely never. Nobody

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has ever told you that your voicesounds sexy, not one single human being
ever. I have a feeling thatsome of these people out here are going
to contact you somewhere where they canand tell you that you have a very
sexy voice. Okay, I'm hopingthat happens. Then, I think that
we need to start out with somethingfresh on everyone's mind right now. They

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probably are all wondering, just likeI am. How did you become the
kink Consultant? Do you like howI say that? I really stress it.
You say it better than I sayit? How did I become the
kink Consultant? I had to sayit just to see if you really do
say it better. I woke upone day and decided I wanted to be

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a sex and relationship coach. SoI signed up for a really good course
with a group called Somatica and didthis two part course to become a sex
and relationship coach. And as Iworked through it, I realized I really
want to specialize in a kink becausethere aren't enough people who I think are
king informed and being a sex andrelationship coach specializing in it. As for

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the name, I literally just goton TikTok one day, typed it in
to see if the name existed,and it didn't, so I grabbed it
and that is how I became theKing Consultant. So when you thought about
doing this, I know that youdidn't just say presto, wammo, I
am now the King Consultant. Howlong did you actually think about it before
you went all in? What doyou consider going all in? Can I

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ask that clarifying question because you justdid it? You actually just asked that
clarify I did, and I'm goingto now answer. Even though I had
to interrupt you, I was goingto answer that question. So here's a
firm reprimand that when you asked mea question, you need to let me
answer it, and I'm gonna dothat right now. You're not going to
say anything I didn't know because Iwas waiting for you. I mean,

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what I'm actually thinking is I've waitedtwelve years to talk to you, and
the first reprimand I get is forthis, and it feels it's falling a
little flat. To be honest,Whenever I said that, I'm like,
I hope she doesn't think I'm seriousbecause you went dead silence. So obviously
it worked, it must have worn'tto an extent, But I still don't

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understand what I was supposed to sayin response, because you didn't clarify.
I was sitting here waiting. I'mlike, what is she going to say?
Is she going to respond to me? She's going to yell back at
me, or she just going tosay something like yes, sir, But
you won't get that out of methroughout the podcast. I'd say, So,
what I'm thinking about, like allin, is you're sitting there,

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you want to do this? Whatmade you decide all of a sudden,
I'm going to start making these shortvideos, posting them on Instagram and the
TikTok as the kids might say,or maybe my mother would say because she
puts the in front of everything,including Walmart, but she says the Walmarts.

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I would say that going all inis when you decided I'm going to
put my face out there. I'mgoing to make little videos about kink and
stuff. Like that, When didyou finally say I'm all in? I
was doing the course and I wantedto sort of dip my toes in the
water of what I might work inif I wasn't to pursue coaching itself.

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And I answered a Craigslist ad tomake videos for a sex toy company,
and they sent me a couple ofsex toys to make the videos, and
they paid me to do sample videos. And as I was recording, I
thought, why am I doing thisfor somebody else? Let me do it
for myself, And the first videowas born. I knew I was going
to be on camera talking about somethingsex, and I decided I'd talk about

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kink. Literally, in that moment, I decided to be the kink Consultant
and recorded a video and something peoplehere if they listen to my videos,
as I say, I talk aboutall things kink and dating, relationships and
pop culture, and it literally wasall on the spot. I knew I
wanted to make videos to market mycoaching business. I made videos to try

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and get clients, and then TikTokitself kind of took off. I've seen
some of your videos on Instagram,and I've also seen them on TikTok.
But here's what I want to knowabout these videos. I do this podcast,
and I've also done some spanking videos. I don't know if you've ever
heard of me, but I don'tshow my face on those, and obviously

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in this podcast, I don't showmy face. All it is is my
voice. But when I first satdown to do this podcast, the very
first couple episodes, especially the firstone, I sat down in a closet
all by myself because the first twowere just me and I talked into the
microphone and I would listen to it. After I did the first episode,

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I erased it probably three or fourtimes before I finally did one that I
thought, Hey, I don't soundlike an idiot, but I'm not even
showing my face. You show yourface every single one of these videos.
So what I need to know fromyou is how much performance anxiety did you

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get when you first started recording thesevideos with your face in them to show
to the world. The answer isnot enough. I look back at my
first videos and it is painful forme to watch. I didn't edit I
recorded. I'm looking at some ofthe things I wore or how my makeup

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was done. And I was like, what was I doing? Why was
I so brave? I had alot of confidence early on that I do
not have anymore. I find thatamazing that you just sat down, you
did a video. And now whenyou did the video and you watched it
back, did you think this isawesome I need to post it or did
you think, oh my god,what am I doing. I didn't think

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through it enough, I'll tell youthat much. I think I just went
for it. I posted it,and then the next video I did was
about a sexuality and just describing howyou can be kinky and asexual. It
doesn't have to be about sex,and someone stitched that video explaining how I
had helped them. And from thatmoment on, from the second video where

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someone told me I had helped them, I just decided this is what I'm
going to do. Because helping peoplefelt so good through a quick video I
made, I was like, let'skeep this going. Isn't that kind of
cool? Because occasionally I'll get messagesfrom people, mostly from fet life,
that actually made their fet life profilebecause of my podcast, and not just

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because of me, but because ofthe words of inspiration that my guests on
the podcast have given them that we'renot weirdos. We could put ourselves out
there and find other people that arejust like us, and I think that's
awesome. I love the podcast forthe advice everybody gives on it, and
I do think it even helps me. It even helps the King Consultant to

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be consistently reminded we're not weirdos.Not that I feel like a weirdo anymore,
but it takes me back to someof those earlier days where I did
not even understand why I thought aboutspanking all the time. I can't believe
sometimes the encouragement and the information thatthe people I have on this podcast what
they throw out there for everyone tohear. And sometimes I'm listening to it

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and thinking, these people are somuch smarter than me. I'm impressed by
how vulnerable people are willing to be. I'm ecstatic that they are, because
otherwise it would still just be metalking on this podcast. I liked the
first episode. One of my favoritetopics that I will ask, especially people

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who were in their young early twentiesexploring their kinks before the Internet existed.
One of my favorite things to askthem about is how did they meet people?
What did they respond to? Whatads and classified things did they respond
to to have their needs met?You will hear the most interesting stories when
you ask those questions. So yourepisode on being a spanko before the Internet

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was probably one of my favorites.Well thank you. I think though,
that gen X people maybe the peoplethey met weren't kinky, and they kind
of made them a little kinky.I know I did, but I think
a lot of them did it thesame way as we all met regular people,
regular people, like we're not we'renot, we're not regular, don't

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tell anyone. I think that theydid it the same way like we had
to approach people and we had toget the balls up to say this is
kind of what I like to do. Where now everything's online, you don't
have to face someone just to askthem out. Imagine some of these people
who actually would have to face peopleand say will you go out with me?

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It's I think that asking someone outwas harder for me to do than
actually introduce them to spanking, becausewhat happens is if I'm in a relationship
with them, now I know theylike me. So if I could slowly
work in this whole spanking thing ina fun way. They like me already,

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they know I'm kind of normal,and now I'm introducing them this little
fun thing that I do that willgain intensity as our relationship goes along.
I am shocked by this because Iam impressed. Right, but you are
a good looking guy. It couldnot have been that hard to approach someone
and ask them out versus I wantto put you over my knees, spank

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you, and at some point probablypull your pants down and spank you a
little bit more. Well, youmight want to clarify that, because just
let everyone out there know that you'renot talking directly to me when you said
that. Thank you very much forthe compliment, but it's still very nerve
racking approaching someone I liked When youkind of knew they were interested in you,

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it was much easier that way.But to walk up to someone cold
and introduce yourself it was kind oftough back in the day because rejection really
hurts. But once you gain theirconfidence and now they like you, they
laugh with you, you've hung out, they realize that you're not some kind
of psycho they hope anyway. Nowyou can slowly introduce this stuff to them,

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and that's what I did. Iwould introduce it in a fun way
to them, and because I'm notsomeone who needs to cause pain or needs
to be in charge, it's reallyjust this guy kind of really likes to
smack and rub my butt, andthat's how it always worked out with me.
I love that. As a canconsultant, it makes me very happy
to hear that. I guess I'mjust used to a lot of people who

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are in relationships who struggle to bringit up. So your story is quite
the opposite of what I hear alot of. You really need to bring
this stuff up early, because ifyou keep this in your head head for
a long time, it is harderand harder to do when you actually do
it. I completely agree. Ithink the earlier the better. Within reason.

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There are some people that I say, yeah, sure, bring it
up on the first date. Thereare others I'm like, maybe wait till
a third or fourth. It's alittle individual, but definitely early on instead
of keeping it a secret for years. There is truly no point. I
totally agree with you there, andeven four dates might be too early for
some, but you got to workthis stuff in early. When you're having

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fun, you're laughing all the time, and they actually can still tolerate you,
because if you're in a relationship andyou know that spark has left that
relationship years down the line, Idoubt and it might happen, but I
really doubt telling them that you wantto spank them is really going to bring

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that spark back. Probably true,So we don't know. Let's get look
back on track here. We reallysidetracked for a second there. Am I
getting reprimanded again? Or is thisthis is just to get back on track.
This was just me saying let's getback on track. It's not me
using a firm voice calling you younglady or anything. This is just me

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saying, let's get back to wherewe were going. Okay. Just wanted
to clarify. How many videos doyou have out there now? I've never
counted. I just make them whena thought crosses my mind, and then
sometimes one video becomes three because peoplecomment and ask more questions. I've been
doing it just a little over ayear, so around one hundred. Let's
say, Well, you do havea lot of fans, because on Instagram

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and TikTok you have over one hundredthousand fans on each site. I'm really
lucky. I've got a lot ofgreat I call it my community. I've
got a great community on both Instagramand TikTok. Do they know that you're
going to be the next episode onthe Never Too Old for a Good Spanking
Podcast? They don't know, ohyet, but I'm going to tell them

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this week. I can't wait tillthey know because I want them to listen
to it and really boost my numbers. It will be interesting to see.
You know. I've never made avideo about stanko's specifically, so maybe I
should start there. I was actuallygoing to say that to you because I
went through I don't have TikTok,but I went through all the videos that

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I could see on your Instagram,and I don't remember any that specifically catered
to spankos. So i'd like tosay, you know, get on that,
yes, sir, Look at that. You gotta yes, sir,
But you are right. I thinkthat one of the things that I try
not to do when I make videosis sort of talk about my own kinks

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one way or another, because Iwanted to just be general information as opposed
to about me and what I'm interestedin. And that was just a decision
I made early on. But becauseof that, I have not made a
video about spanking or Stanko's and Igo to spango parties just for fun,
and I never make a video aboutgoing or anything like that, and I
need to. Speaking of that,I believe you went to the most recent

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party at Oasis in Las Vegas,right, Yeah. I went to the
most recent one and the one justbefore that as well, and I'll go
again this September. What was yourfavorite part about that party both times?
If the same thing happened in bothtimes, or if something was different this
time, That's what I want toknow. I had friends this time.
The first time it was sort ofI was just meeting new people. But

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I think my favorite part was kindof silly. Is every new person you'd
meet, they'd be like, howlong have you been into this? Like
how long have you known? AndI'd say since I was five, and
they'd be like, me too,And everyone kept asking this, and everyone
kept saying it was since they werefive, and I was like, why
aren't we asking each other this?It's pretty much the same answer, And
it's fun to be around a bunchof people who are into the same thing

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as you're into We all seem tosay around five years old, around first
grade. But was I sitting thereas a one year old thinking, man,
I'd like to smack that ass.We'll never know. These are things
we can't know. No, wecan't. But I think maybe I think
we are born with it. Thatis my take on this. A friend

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of mine just text me today Outa'sBlue. She texted me she was like,
do you think fetishes are genetic?And I said no, but also
yes because it's a hard question toanswer, and I said, I think
we're born with it. I don'tknow if that means they're genetic. I
have definitely had some spankos that havecontacted me that became spankos later in their

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life. They weren't thinking about ittheir whole life. Someone kind of introduced
it to them and now they reallylike it. So it can be done.
And I'm sure that almost anything outthere can be someone's new hobby,
someone's new interests, and obviously someone'snew kink. But I wonder if they
will ever know exactly what it meansto be a full on, die hard

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spanko. I think about this question. All the time. Thank you for
Thank you for even bringing that up. My friends who discovered it later in
life have almost no shame or embarrassmenttied to being into spanking in the same
way people have been into it theirwhole lives. They carry this shame or
embarrassment or they act like it's somethingto be embarrassed about much more than the

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ones who discover it later. AndI think it's really funny that the shame
and embarrassment becomes ingrained. That hasbeen my experience talking to many spancos who
discovered it at various ages. Imean, sometimes I'm like, do we
really get to call you a spankoif you were obsessing over it before you
even understood why you were obsessing overit? I don't know. I don't

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make the rules. I just talkabout them. So here is my philosophy
with that. Remember the movie TheTitanic. Wasn't the Titanic or was it
just Titanic? You know, Ihave no idea. Let's just say it
was Titanic? Okay, Yes,I remember the movie. Okay, do
you remember the unsinkable Molly Brown?Yes? What did she come from a

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poor background? Right? She camefrom new money? Oh? New money?
Yes? So people who had oldmoney and were rich their entire lives
frowned upon the people who had thenew money. So that is what we
must do with newer spankos that didn'thave to study their whole life. I

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love this analogy. We will acceptthem, but behind their backs, we
will frown upon them. Yes,except for the ones listening right now who
I'm friends with, I'm not frowningupon you. But all the others,
yes, but when they're not listeningto this podcast, we're frowning again.
That was a really good analogy.I'm very impressed. It just came to

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me because I always remember that partof the movie where they I looked down
upon Kathy Bates because of her newmoney. I think about that scene two
because I'm like, I'll take anymoney. I would be looked down upon,
and if I got to enjoy lotsof money. The never too old
for a good spanking podcast. We'llbe right back, Welcome back to the

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show. I have a question,though I was not a spanco who researched
it in the dictionary, and Ithink there are various levels of how much
of a spanko you were, andI was not a dictionary level spanko.
I was a different run who justsort of thought about it all the time,
did you I definitely did, andI don't know why. I would
continually look it up, and ifI found another dictionary, I would have

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to look it up there, justin case they said something a little different.
Okay, that is something that definitelydoes not happen. Now we have
access to so much more information.No one's googling the word and just looking
at the definition because there's more toaccess. I don't want to say her
name, but you could just askthat little round dot there that's probably sitting

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in everyone's house and ask what thedefinition of spanking is, and she's going
to tell you. I don't evenhave one of those. If I did,
I would go ask it right now. You probably have Siri that you
asked questions to. No, she'soff as well. I actually have mine
off too. I'm sure that themajority of people do have these things at

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their disposal, and I'm sure thatinstead of the dictionary thing, a lot
of people nowadays will just ask thatInternet super Highway God that will give them
the definition of what spanking is.I love that Internet super Highway God.
I used to google, I wantmy boyfriend to spank me. That was
my Google search for many years.Did you get any good suggestions? Yes?

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I got good blog posts and people'sstories, some believable, some absolutely
unbelievable, but it was good fodder. It would be awesome if, everone
just told the real stories out there, because you never can tell the good
from the bad, just like inthe old Penthouse forum. I know,
but it's fun to think, likeI wonder if that ever did happen.

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I enjoy the fantasy of maybe ithappened, unlikely, but could have.
There are definitely some true crazy storiesout there, because I've had some myself,
and I've talked about them on thispodcast. So I'm not saying that
everyone out there makes up these outlandishspanking stories, but man, I would
really like to know which ones aretrue and which ones aren't. In too,

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back to our kinks and if we'reborn with them or if we develop
them over time. I think thatwe are pretty lucky if you were born
a spanko and that's all you wereborn. Man. I feel bad for
some people out there, and I'mnot kink shaming at all, because you
know, get into whatever you wantto get into. I don't care,

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but some of these things would beway harder explaining to someone of the opposite
or same sex that you're going tobe in a relationship with than other ones.
One hundred percent. There are definitelysome that are just harder to explain.
Kudos to anyone who is so bravethat no matter what kink they have,

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they are letting their freak flag flyout there no matter what anyone thinks,
because I did not do that,even for something as simple as spanking.
And it's hard no matter what yourkink is. But the thing I
work with my clients on specifically iswhat core desire is this kink meeting,
because I think if you have oneof the ones that's a little bit more

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difficult to explain to someone, especiallyI find that it's harder for the top
to explain what they're looking for sometimesbecause a top in our example would be
the spanker and the bottom would bethe person getting spanked. It's sort of
like, oh, I want tohurt you or I want to tie you
up. That I can be alittle bit jarring for someone, especially if
they're not kinky. So I liketo go a level deeper and be like

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Okay, when you tie someone up, what does it do for you?
Why do you enjoy doing it?What does it make you feel? So
then I sort of start to peelback those layers and say, that's how
we're going to introduce the conversation toyour partner, because some of them are
a little bit more jarring than spanking, because I think everyone knows what a
spanking is not everyone knows what shabarior electro play are, and therein lies

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some of the complication exactly, becausea spanking could be brought into just fun
play that you are doing with someone, even before doing anything sexual with them,
because you could introduce it it's justa fun little thing because of something
they said or something they did,and see how they react to when you

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say to them, do you wantme to give you a spanking? And
then you kind of know based ontheir reaction how they feel. Yes,
definitely easier then can I tie youup and I'll electrocute you? Exactly?
And if they say to you,if you touch me, I will kill
you, maybe back off. I'mback at it again later. That would

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be my professional advice. Do youhave a favorite video that you've done?
I do have a favorite video I'vedone, and it was the first one.
I think. I like it somuch because it was my first one
that went viral and hit over amillion views, and it's the current trend
on TikTok. It's kind of alreadyon its way out where you say we're

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kinky, and then I proceed todescribe something that is completely stereotypically kinky that
everyone thinks from the outside, andit's sort of poking fun at kingsters.
That is my favorite video because itwas fun to address some of the stereotypes
head on. Do you know whichone you've gotten the most feedback from?
The video that has gotten the mostfeedback was one where I described my first

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date with my now fiance and wewere going out to dinner and we met
outside the restaurant and as we approachedthe door for the restaurant, he said,
I'm going to get the door andthis blew my mind. I was
like wow, he basically was tellingme don't touch the door handle, and
I felt immediate piece in that.I was like, Wow, this guy

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is communicating he's in charge right now, and I felt comfortable. And I
shared that story on social media andthat video got so many reactions and so
many comments. You have your faceout there. You are all over the
place. People have seen you outthere. Have any of your family or
friends seen you out there? Yes, it has started to happen. I

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have been seen by friends. PeopleI knew ten years ago have reached out
and been like, did I justsee a video of you? My family
and my fiance's family have seen itas well, all by accident, just
randomly coming up when you already puttingyourself out there. Did you tell any

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family that you were doing it?I told my sisters, and I told
my mom because I didn't want herto have to hear it from anybody but
me. But honestly, not inthe beginning. I didn't tell anyone at
all until I think I hit twentythousand followers and I was like, just
in case anyone finds out, Ishould get ahead of this. Sometimes I
have to forget that they follow meor know about my content, because I

(27:26):
cannot be thinking my mom might seethis. I think it would affect how
I make videos. I think themost embarrassing was when my aunt found it.
She was one of the few peoplewhere I was like, oh God,
I hope she never sees this,but she did and it was fine.
Did she contact you after she sawit? My cousin immediately began recording,

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So I have a recording of myaunt discovering my account and watching my
videos. That is so, it'sfunny, It is good, It is
hilarious. I am blushing even thinkingabout it. On videos, I don't
talk about my specific kings, likenobody knows whether I am dominant or submissive.
They don't know about my relationship dynamic, and there's sort of deniability in

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it. So my family doesn't knowtoo much. But if anyone comes and
listens to this podcast, my veryfirst podcast is The King Consultant, I
think they're going to learn a lotmore about me. Are you saying that
none of them know you're a spancoexcept my sister. She does know because
she was in town when I wentto Oasis and I had to explain to
her why I wasn't hanging out withher one weekend that she was here.

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What does she think about that?She she's a very supportive person. She
definitely knows me well enough not totry and King shame me at all.
She was very understanding, but shedid have a little bit of a giggle
when I explained the whole party,and she got on the website and looked
up about Oasis because it was totallyforeign to her. None of my friends

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have ever stumbled upon my videos,which I'm thankful for that you know of.
I will guarantee you they would contactme right away and let me know.
And you think that they would comeout to you about their own spanking
fetish just to let you know thatseeing your video, maybe they were just
doing a little search on porn hubor whatever it is. Is that what

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it is? Porn Hub? Yes, yes, it doesn't sound right to
me right now. You're such astanko that the most popular porn site in
the entire world, the name ofit is escaping you right now. But
if I ask you any of thespanking ones, you would know, right.
But I'm saying, let's just saythey weren't on spanking Tube. They
were on porn hub and somehow myvideo popped up and they're like, wait

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a second, I know that voice, I know that tattoo. They would
call me probably immediately. That istotally fair. Do you watch other people's
spanking videos? There are so manygreat videos out there. I just don't
watch them as much as I usedto. Michael Masterson's videos. I love

(30:02):
the way he spanks. He's alittle more harsh than me, but we
both have kind of the same styleof spanking. I like some of Dallas's
videos. I loved Firm Hand.I'm not sure if they still make videos,
and I started out with Shadow Lane. I loved their videos back then.
I loved Raven Hill Studios. PunishBrats make some good videos. I

(30:27):
do have a thumb drive or USBdrive full of some of my favorite spankings
that I've collected over the years becauseI was a member of a lot of
these websites that these famous spanko producershad at one time or another, and
maybe some still do. I thoughtit was very good because you can go
on there and download as many clipsas you want. And I only like

(30:49):
specific things in videos. There arethings that will take me out of a
spanking. But man, when Isee a video, I really love love
it till the day I die.I agree completely. Yeah, we all
have our thing too, and weall have the perfect video, right the
one that is the holy grail,and once you find it, you know

(31:11):
that that is going to be afavorite for life. I totally agree with
you. And one of my favoritevideos is Won by Michael Masterson where he
is spanking this girl who apparently ishis daughter, I believe. In the
second he starts spanking her, herfriends come to the door and the mother
answers the door and tells them justto stand just inside the door and wait

(31:36):
for her. So they're standing bythe door, and the whole time you
could see her getting a spanking,and you can see the girls by the
door and the expression on their facesbecause they're hearing everything, and they will
peek around the corner to see what'sgoing on. And it is one of
the hottest videos I've ever seen.That sounds hot but also so so crushingly

(31:59):
embarrassing. I'm not sure it woulddo it for me because I would have
so much empathy for this girl thatI think that would take me out.
Just two people in the video that'slike my max. There can only be
two people otherwise I'm taken out becauseof the embarrassment. I am blushing right
now thinking of this video. Thenyou've just described that is my favorite thing
about the video. The expressions onthe girl's faces, priceless, everything about

(32:23):
the video is fantastic. And whenshe's done, she was allowed to go
out, which there is the partthat I don't believe with the video that
right after a spanking she's allowed togo out with her friends. But she
gets up and she's going out withtheir friends and they're like comforting her on
the way out, and I'm like, well, they understand because I've seen
videos with them getting spanked in frontof other friends too. I like those

(32:45):
videos that he does where they're infront of people, and I especially like
it when they're in front of theperson that is not getting a spanking,
because that makes it even more embarrassing. It definitely makes it more embarrassing.
And I'm just getting over the cringeof it. How cringey that is to
me now. But yeah, weare on opposite spectrums there. But to

(33:07):
your point on it not being believable, that is the point of a spanking.
It happens, and then it's done. You have been absolved of whatever
badge you've done. Of course,she got to go to the mall with
her friends or wherever it was shewas going. I think she was going
to a concert. There you go. It's my favorite part about is banking.
That's it. You're resolved. Well, I must say that back in

(33:27):
my day, there's not a chancein hell I'm going to be able to
go to that concert after different times. But anyway, I love that video.
I don't think it has a specificname, but look it up.
It's absolutely fantastic. You've given thenext to no ded. She said that
this video is like a lot ofthe other videos of them being spanked.

(33:50):
I'm literally just trying to think,what would I even search. I think
that plenty of people out there thathave seen Michael Masterson's videos will know exactly
what I'm talking about. Let's getoff of this subject because we need to
get back on you. Okay,okay, all right. So you are
the King Consultant and you are arelationship coach, and I know that if

(34:12):
people go to your Thekinkconsultant dot compage, they're going to find quite a
few things there. But one thingthey are going to find out is that
they can get a free, that'scomplimentary, twenty minute phone conversation with you.
Can you walk us through that alittle bit? Sure? On that
phone call, I find out whysomeone wants to talk to the King consultant.

(34:37):
I ask how they found out aboutme, what made them reach out,
And for a lot of people,it's tough to reach out and make
that first phone call or set upthat call to talk about their own kings
or something they're feeling vulnerable about.Mostly I listen on that call, I
find out what they want to workon, what they want to achieve by

(34:57):
working with me, and then Ishare a little about what my sessions look
like, what we could work ontogether. And that's all highly dependent on
what the person says, because notwo of my sessions is the exact same.
They open up to me, andfor a lot of people who call
me, it is the first timethey are saying out loud what they're interested
in, and it's almost like theyjust want to gut check if it's uh,

(35:21):
I hate this word, but quoteunquote normal, you know. So
that's sort of what happens on thosecalls. I'm sure when these people are
calling you for the first time,they are so nervous about it. They
really are. And it's funny tome because I'm like, if you knew
what my last three calls were orwhat my next three calls are going to

(35:42):
be, I wish I could sharethat with people, because it is normal.
So many people are experiencing and areinterested in the same thing that you're
talking to me about, but theydon't know that because not many people are
having these open conversations, so sometimesit can seem really like they are alone.
I'm not the only content creator outthere, but a lot of people
reach out to me because they werelike, yours is the first one I've

(36:05):
seen like this, so I wantedto chat, and that's always nice to
hear, and it's just something alittle bit different that makes people feel comfortable.
So people get out there, goon to the Kinkconsultant dot com and
maybe even get involved in one ofthese complimentary twenty minute conversations with her.
Maybe she'll even let you go twentyone minutes. I don't know. I
don't know what the rules are withthese conversations. I am not hard and

(36:29):
fast on the twenty minutes. Idid go on your the Kinkconsultant dot com
page, and there's one thing thatI'm very curious about. You do recommend
a few products out there, andI'm assuming that you recommend them because you've
obviously tried them out, so let'sjust say maybe I am, maybe I'm

(36:50):
not, But let's just say rightnow that I am very much looking for
a high end glass anal plug kit. Why would I buy the one that
you have advertised on your page thatyou could find an Amazon for nineteen ninety
five. This is the part whereI don't want my family to continue listening
if they are, But I'm gonnatell you of all the ones I've tried,

(37:16):
this was my favorite budget friendly option, and that's something I'm always trying
to give people, the budget friendlyoption. So yes, you would find
these in a drawer next to mybed if you were to come over,
And that's why I recommend them.I'm a huge fan of glass products in
general. For that area. Ifind that it doesn't retain a smell,

(37:37):
it's really easy to clean. Thethree sizes, it's like a three pack,
very good sizes. Great for beginners, also great for people who might
be slightly more advanced. And that'swhy I think that they're the perfect purchase
if you're interested in exploring. Ithink, right when I get off this
phone call with you, I mightbe going to Amazon and buying myself a

(37:59):
glass anal plug kit. I hopeyou do. Let me report that,
speaking of glass anal plug kits,do you have any other fetishes besides being
a spanko. I identify as asubmissive leaning switch, so I'm into a
lot of different other kinks, butI think spanking is my only true fetish.

(38:22):
I like to role play. Ihave kinky scenes that do not involve
spanking at all, and I reallyenjoy those as well. Do you also
give spankings? Absolutely so, Igive spankings, but this is like my
big shame. It's kind of likeZoolander, the guy can't turn left.
I am terrible at giving hand spankings, and that is kind of the one

(38:45):
thing you have to be good at. I'm good at implements, I'm good
at scolding, so I'm good atgiving a punishment spanking, but not the
hand part. But I'm learning.I'm trying to up my skill level there.
What makes you terrible at giving ahand spanking? The reason I can
answer this is I was lucky enoughat the last oasis someone pulled me aside

(39:05):
to teach me how to handspank becausethey were appalled that I was not so
great at it. And apparently it'sthe positioning of my hand. It is
not proper, so I'm not cuppingmy hand in the right way to be
able to endure a long stanking.That is part of it, because I
know where to hit. It's justabout how hard to hit and how to

(39:25):
maintain that for a long time.I think it's funny because you're talking about
cupping your hand where I kind ofkeep a semi loose hand when I'm giving
a spanking. That's because you havegood endurance. My hand ends up hurting
so bad I cannot do it forvery long. So I need to up
my endurance. And I've looked thisup too. There are things you can

(39:45):
do to increase your endurance, andI guess I just need to put time
into it. It was so badthat when this guy took me aside to
teach me, he didn't actually takeme aside. We were in the middle
of the room and he made hisfriend bend over and he started to tea
me how to spank, and literallyI was three or four things in and
we both turned around and two differentmen were holding out wooden spoons because they

(40:07):
could see I was struggling with ahand spanking. So objectively, I have
a lot of work to do.I'm sure there is a young lady out
there or a young man that wouldbe more than happy to bend over your
knee and let you work on theirbutt for hours, working up your endurance
with your hand, because once youhave that even sometimes if I go right

(40:30):
at someone and go hard spanking,my hand will hurt, but it will
go away within fifteen seconds and thenI'm fine. But that's what I think
you need to get to. Ithink so too, But for me,
sometimes my hand still hurts the nextday. That's where we're at. I
don't think we have the strongest spankoscene in Vegas surprisingly, So if there

(40:53):
are secret spankos in Vegas, messageme online. I will guarantee you there
are secret spank goes in or aroundVegas. I'll report back after this podcast
comes out. So you do spankand you get spanked? Do you get
spanked and spank both men and women? Yes? I do, but I

(41:15):
prefer to spank men because I feellike I can go harder, especially with
implements, which is my main formof spanking. So I do spanking,
get spanked by both men and women, but prefer to spank men. How
about when it comes to getting spanked, who do you prefer? Probably men?
I like the dynamic. That's almostunfair of me to say. I

(41:37):
recently got a wonderful spanking from anamazing friend of mine and she did not
hold back and it was really good. But I've gotten great spankings for both
men and women. I think Ijust get more spankings from men. What
is your favorite thing that you've noticedabout getting spanked from a woman? They
are less likely to take an excuse, and I like that they are unrelented.

(42:00):
I think that's actually an awesome answer. I myself will let girls get
away with stuff, and I knowthat people that see my videos they comment
all the time about how I letthem get away with it. But I
feel so bad sometimes because I knowit's hurting. I know they need to
move. You know what, Igot to learn to stop doing. You

(42:20):
know where we're always learning, We'realways learning. I have to learn to
stop making them do things that I'mnot going to hold up my end of
the bargain on. I can't reallyspeak to that because my immediate urge is
to say, don't change a thing, because your thinking are perfect. Oh
well, thank you, that isa very nice compliment. I will take

(42:49):
you over my knee and spank youif you're not here when I get back,
enjoy the rest of the show.I know that one of your favorite
things to do, no matter whataspect of this kink you're working with,
one of your favorite role play scenesis an interrogation. Is that on both

(43:12):
ends of the interrogation. Absolutely,I love nothing more than a good interrogation
scene. What end do you likemore? Do you like giving the interrogation
or receiving the interrogation? Giving?Because being on the receiving end is kind
of scary. I prefer being onthe giving end. And this could work

(43:34):
with many different fetishes, not justspanking. Oh and it does when I
interrogate somebody. You seem to bevery confident about your interrogation skills. I'm
enthusiastic about my interrogation skills. Differentthing. I think since you're so enthusiastic,

(43:57):
which to me comes off as confidence, which is not bad at all.
I would like to know if youwould like to run through a very
short interrogation scene with me right now. Okay, I feel like I need
to center myself. Let me buildwhat's going on? Here. I'm going
to give you a little scenario.All right, Let's just say that there

(44:19):
is a serial spanker that's been goingaround. He's been spanking young ladies in
tight jeans, and I am theprime suspect. Shocker. Okay, but
let's just say you don't know thatabout me, but you've heard things,
and now you're interrogating me. Areyou ready? Yeah, let's go.

(44:43):
All right, but picture it you'resitting down. Yes, I'm sorry,
it was me. You are verygood at this. Wow, I didn't
realize how quick you were going tocrack this case. To see where I
get my confidence from. Hold onone second. You know what I'm gonna
do right now. You'll know thesound once you start hearing it. That's

(45:07):
a slow clap. It's gonna startbuilding. So eventually that slow clap would
have been a big round of applause. I would even give you a standing
ovation, but we don't have thattime on the podcast. But man,
you were fantastic at that interrogation.Thank you. I am bowing right now.
But you have to understand when yougive a slow clap over a podcast,

(45:30):
I'm not sure if it's the beginningof a spanking or a slow clap.
As I was doing the slow clap, That's exactly what I thought.
That's why I had to tell youthat it was a slow clap. I
knew it wouldn't translate on this podcast. This is why you're gonna move to
video, my favorite medium. Yeah, because people would have been looking at
me saying, I think that idiot'sdoing a slow clap. That's exactly what

(45:54):
they would have been saying. Oneof your videos that I've watched, and
you actually had several parts to thisone. You had videos on these Disney
characters and all different kind of kinks. If you had to pinpoint one right
now, what Disney character is absolutelya spanko. It's not even fair because

(46:19):
it's Peter Pan and he's Spank's tinkerBell, so it's not even fair we
see it happen. But I dothink that there are possibly other spangos out
there. Do you have any atthe top of your head right now?
Not a classic Disney hero, butI think iron Man is a spango.
Okay, because Disney owns Marvel exactly, but in the Marvel movies, I

(46:44):
think Tony Stark and Loki possible spangos. They're my top candidates. I have
not watched Iron Man. Is Lokipart of Iron Man? No, he's
just in the Marvel universe. Whatdoes Loki do. He's essentially like the
god of chaos. And he wasThor's brother or half brother. So if
he saw the Thor movies, Lokiwas in those, and every kingster I

(47:07):
know who saw Thor was far moreinterested in Loki than Thor. But every
vanilla person I know was far moreinterested in Thor. I'm not a big
superhero Marvel fan or any of theother ones that are out there. My
brother is, and I know alot of people really like these. But
if they started working in some spankingsin these movies with some of those girls

(47:30):
that are these superheroes in the movies, I'm in start throwing some spankings their
way, and I will watch everysingle movie, even if they don't have
a spanking, just in case Istumble up pal one. Exactly. Quentin
Tarantino throws his foot fetish in everysingle movie he does. I can picture

(47:51):
Uma Thurman's feet just because of hismovies. Exactly. Go back to Iron
Man. What about him makes youthink he's a spanko? Us such a
brat. Are you saying that heis a spank e of the spanko genre.
Yes, Temper Potts has definitely spankedTony Stark and he deserved it.

(48:14):
I will have to watch this tofigure it out. But you know what,
I am definitely a very sarcastic person. So other spankos that I've hung
out with spank Ease obviously probably thinkthat I deserve a spanking more than them
sometimes. Why would you say that? Because I think that too, launching
the videos sometimes from you, Iam a very sarcastic person, So you'd

(48:40):
have to hang out with me fora while and I think eventually you would
say, how come no one everspanks you? That's what I want to
know. Well, I don't wantto know. Let's move on. This
came from another one of your videos, and it was about people on these
mainstream dating sites and how they canattract someone who's also kinky, all those

(49:04):
other kinks aside, because this isa spanking podcast. But obviously the information
you're giving here will help them too. But as far as being a spanko,
what can I put in my profilethat's going to attract another spanko?
But it's not going to let someoneelse know what I'm doing. All right,
I have a formula. Are youready? That's why I asked you.

(49:29):
I nearly Chris, but I didn't. I'm trying to be better about
that. You get into the emojipart, make it all emojis. You're
going to want the hand waving onewith the little squigglies to show that the
hand is waving. Then you're goingto do the peach, which is implying
a butt. And then on theother side of the peach, and thank
god they made this one, you'regoing to include the table tennis paddle with

(49:52):
the little ping pong boll. Thatis the formula. Do you think that
someone who is a vanilla is goingto look at these three things and realize
that peach looks a lot like abutt? And I'm thinking this guy might
want to take that hand and eitherhit me with that or take the paddle
and hit me with that. Thereis a small chance that they will know,

(50:15):
but I don't think that they'd bebrave enough to ask about it.
And the upside is the people whoknow are going to swipe right. But
obviously, if she said she's notinto spanking, you're gonna have to end
the conversation pretty quickly. Yeah,you're going to abort that mission. But
now I have to explain myself.I'm obviously a big lover of peaches and

(50:36):
ping pong and I love to wavemy hand. Yeah exactly. Okay,
you're saying, Hi, that allmakes sense. See, I thought through
every eventuality. When I met myfiance. I met him on Tinder,
and I didn't have any of thesesubtle hints that I was kinky at all

(50:57):
or into spanking. So we wenton a date and he didn't know,
but I brought it up on ourfirst date. After we'd gotten dinner,
we were at a bar getting drinks. I said to him, there's something
I didn't put in my profile,but I think I should tell you.
I said, I'm into BDSM andI really like spanking, and he said,
which one, getting or giving?I said I like receiving and he

(51:22):
looked me den thee and he said, we're not going to have a problem.
Oh wow, that's nice. Itwas an ideal situation. I will
say that I got lucky, butI think that's another great example of how
you can bring it up on afirst date. There are many different ways
you could bring it up. Iwill always use it as a fun thing
where they would do something and Iwould warn them, not warn them sternly,

(51:45):
but I would be like, ifyou do that again, you're in
big trouble. And I might eventhrow in a young lady and then you
know right away if they're playful,because a lot of them will go right
for what they just did wrong,just to see what you're gonna say.
Yes, And it wasn't like Iwent in totally cold. He had a
couple of dominant personality traits, soI had an inkling that it would go

(52:08):
over okay. Speaking of online dating, though, I am getting involved with
a kinky dating app, and beforeI agreed to actually get involved, one
of the first things I asked wasdo you list spanking as one of the
kinks? And in there you canidentify as a spanco. So I'm going
to tell you about this app.It's called meat Kinksters, and I have

(52:30):
a fifty percent off code for anyonewho wants to check this out. You
can access it through meetkinsters dot com, forward slash TKC for the King Consultant,
and in there you can get fiftypercent off for your first month to
try out meetkinsters dot com and itmight be the perfect way for you to

(52:51):
meet your spanco other half if you'recurrently single and looking to data Kingster.
Are you speaking specifically to me orwas the you for everyone out there listening?
It was for ever. I feellike I'm talking directly to them.
But if you're looking at might workfor you too. So this is not
a vanilla dating site. This isspecifically four fetishes and in the drop down

(53:15):
box or whatever it is, theywill have a bunch of different fetishes,
is what you're saying. Yes,and you can filter the search by specific
fetish, which is my main problemwith Fetlife. I know it's not a
dating app. It's not supposed tobe a dating app. I'm saying that
meat Kinksters is a perfect alternative becauseyou can search and use it as a

(53:35):
dating app. I think this wouldbe great, and I'm not saying anything
bad about it being a paid app. I think with it being a paid
app, there's going to be twothings. One's going to help you,
one's going to hurt you. Thething that's going to help you is being
a paid app. You are notgoing to get people out there that are
going to be just playing internet gamesbut also exactly being a paid app.

(53:57):
People are going to be a littleapprehensive about giving you their information. So
I feel like people feel safer beingable to give their information to a site
that verifies and is personally verified.Every picture on there has been looked at
and made sure this is really theperson who they are who they say they
are. I think it's a muchsafer option than a lot of the non

(54:21):
pay versions. I think that's great. And what I did mean was they
don't want to give you their informationlike you know who they are. I
think that some people are going tobe apprehensive both that that's fair, but
it is for people who want tomeet other kinsters though, and one of
the things you have to do isbe a little out there to do it
right. I think it's a greatidea, but I think those are going

(54:43):
to be the two things. It'sa great thing that you're charging because you're
going to get a lot of realpeople on there, but you're also going
to be missing some of those peoplewho are still very apprehensive about all this.
But if you don't give the aanswer that I am looking for right
now, some of these people outthere might be a little reluctant to give

(55:06):
you their information. Here's what Iwant to know from you. We were
all there back in the day.We needed this advice, but a lot
of us had to find it onour own. What's some advice that you
could give to some of these peopleout there that are having a little problem
accepting this whole spanking thing in theirlives. So the sooner you accept this,

(55:28):
the more fun it's going to be. And the truth is, it's
not going away. I spent yearstrying to get rid of this kink,
thinking that if I just wasn't lookingfor a stanko, everything would be fine.
I tried hypnotherapy therapy. I literallytalked to a hypnotist and asked them,
can you make me not want spankingsanymore? And they said no,

(55:49):
it doesn't work that way. Sothe lesson I learned, and the thing
I tell everyone is accept it.The sooner the better, because then you
can start getting to the enjoying it, which is the best part. And
it's the same advice I think almosteveryone has given when you ask that question,
right, it is, But Ithink it needs to be on every
single podcast because there may be someoneout there listening for the first time,

(56:12):
and I want them to hear thatI'm really glad. That is the perfect
answer. I agree, because weall had to come to terms with it
and accept it, especially us oldmoney spankos like this. For a really
long time, we had that momentof like, Okay, now I just
need to accept it so that Ican start having fun with it. There's
so many analogies you could use,like I could try not to eat today,

(56:37):
but eventually I'm going to get hungry, and that's spanking. You could
try not to spank for a littlewhile. Eventually you are going to get
hungry. Perfect. I read aquote in a book once and it said
a fetish is the pet you feedor the beast that eats you. Meaning

(56:57):
if you take care of that fetishand accept it, you were going to
have a lot of fun. Ifyou don't, it kind of you to
you alive. And I know alot of people who come to me and
they're avoiding it. They're trying tonot lean into one of their kings or
even fetishes. What they learn isthey become obsessive. All they do is
think about it all the time.And one of the few ways that I
can think of that allows you tonot do that is if you finally accept

(57:22):
yourself except that you enjoy spanking andpursue it consensually. Of course, Oh,
of course consensually. Everyone always saysthat on the podcast too, and
I think pretty much everyone out thereknows that we're talking essentially, but everyone
always thinks they need to throw thatin because we get attacked. Well,

(57:44):
obviously there are people who do thiswithout consent, Because that guy you were
interrogating before was a serial spanker outthere spanking all these girls in tight jeans.
Obviously he wasn't asking them to doit first, or else he wouldn't
be in front of this mass interrogatorexactly. This is why I need to
do the work I do as aninterrogator. Your answer makes me want to

(58:07):
run to meet kinksters dot com andsign up for this page because I think
I need to find myself some buttsto spank consentially. Certainly enough about this
dating stuff. What is it aboutflying that gets you so turned on?

(58:28):
I wish I knew. I don'tknow what it is about flying. I
just know that as soon as Iget up in the air, I am
immediately horny, and then I amstuck on a plane unable to do anything
about it, and I had anankling. I wasn't alone. And there
are a lot of great things abouthaving over one hundred thousand followers, but
another is just sort of throwing someinformation out there, and a bunch of

(58:50):
people will come in and tell youif you're the only person like that,
or if they experience the same thing. And I got an overwhelming number of
comments from people who told me theyalso have the same experience when they fly.
I definitely feel that way too.But if you put me in church,
I'm going to have the same experience. If you put me in pretty

(59:10):
much anywhere where there's females around,I'm going to have the same experience.
Okay, but I don't even mademen around, but listen. I felt
most validated when a flight attendant DMedme to tell me that she had the
same experience, but the plane didn'tneed to be in the air. She
was convinced it is just about beingon a plane at all, and it

(59:36):
does something. Did she become partof the mile high Club. I never
asked about that part because I wasso shocked by one of the things.
She did tell me, you knowthe area where everyone walks past the front
cabin area? Are you talking aboutnear the cock pit? I am talking
about right near the cockpit. I'mfamiliar with this area, are good.

(01:00:01):
Well. She told me that sheenjoyed pleasuring herself in that area when nobody
else was on the plane, noother flight attendance, no pilots, just
her by herself. That's what shesaid. She was on the plane alone
and she took the opportunity to pleasureherself in that area of the plane.

(01:00:22):
I don't know the whole goings onwith these people. I don't know how
they end up on a plane bythemselves. But I have to tell you
right now that I think that thatthing you just said won the podcast.
Every time I do a podcast,I get this one thing from my guest
on the podcast, and that thingright there just won the podcast. That

(01:00:45):
was the winning thing. It wasmy impressive interrogation. Gil. Okay,
no, that's fair. I wasequally delighted when this person DMS me about
this, and I did ask clarifyingquestions, which is how I got that
information. I didn't ask the MileHigh Club question though, because I was
so excited by this plane revelation.I have a picture on my head of
what this woman looks like. Idon't want to know what she looks like.

(01:01:07):
I want to keep it just theway it is. Will you tell
me what is the picture in yourhead? Because you know a lot of
people have a picture in their heeadof what you look like. So I
would like to know what you thinkthis woman looks like. I'd rather keep
that to myself and not sound likea pig. So let's move on.
I feel very recommended every time yousay let's move on. Just that's some

(01:01:29):
fcene back for you. I hopethat it's a good feeling for you.
I'm hoping you're getting something out ofit. I mostly just feel like I'm
in trouble. Let's just say youcan go back a certain place in time
to get a spanking, and evenby someone specific if you want, what
time period would you go back to? And if you have someone specific that

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you would love to give you thisspanking, who would it be as in
any time period, like we'd goback to the torn times or in my
life anything you want, but youare your age now. I like that
stipulation. I would go back toVictorian England for an old fashioned birching.
I don't have a person I wouldchoose to do it, though. Would

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you like to be birched by thequeen's right hand man or woman? No,
far too formal. I wanted tobe casual and raw, like I'd
done something and been caught in theact and I was going to be immediately
punished. How about this. Youand your horse are trotting through the countryside,

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and you happen upon an apple orchard, and you take an apple and
maybe one for the ride home.And you're wearing your very form fitting riding
breeches, and you have your littleriding crop and your very tight fitted top
with that little jacket and the funnyhat. And the person who owns the
apple orchard spotted you taking one ofhis apples, and he comes up to

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you and immediately removes you from thehorse and starts giving you the birch.
I love it. That is perfect. Would you like him to maybe give
you a little lecture before he birchesyou? Absolutely? Would you like him
to get the birch himself or makeyou do it? I think that I

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would want him to do it becauseof this scenario that you've just described.
If you made me go get it, I would just run away. And
I know you don't want anyone towitness it, so I won't even ask
that. Would you want him tomake you take down your breaches or would
you like him to just do itas is ooh, starting up then down.
I like that idea because I lovea spanking upon some very form fitted

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breaches. There you go something wecan agree on. Where do you see
the King Consultant in ten years?I don't know where I see the King
Consultant next week, but I thinkthat I have things that I want to
achieve in the next few years.So I want to continue helping people.

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But at scale I would love tomaybe have my own podcast. Then maybe
you'd be a guest on. AndI think the dream and it might be
a pipe dream right now, butI would love a show where I get
to help people and have that bebroadcast, where I coach them through I
introduced them to King, help themmaintain kink in their relationships, and talk

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about it more openly. I wouldbe more than happy to be on your
podcast. I don't believe anyone's everasked me to be on a podcast.
Well, now I want to beyour first. So now I'm like,
I need to start the podcast nextweek and within two weeks ask you to
be a guest before someone else beatyou to it. Exactly, Amanda.

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I have to say, this wasan awesome conversation, and people out there
check out this dating site that she'sgoing to be a part of. It's
called Meetkinksters dot com. Also goto her Instagram page at the Underscore Kink
Consultant, her TikTok page at theKink Consultant one word, and definitely go

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check out her web page, Thekinkconsultantdot com and maybe get your free twenty
minute consultation with her. But Ireally appreciate you being on the podcast.
I think you were awesome. Yougave some fantastic answers and feedback. I
think people are going to really enjoythis one. Well, thank you so
much for having me on, andthank you for the really fun conversation.

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And if anyone else wants to followthe King Consultant over the next ten years,
make sure to get on my emaillist as well. And you can
do that by just going to mywebsite and getting on the email list or
going to the links in my bioon Instagram and TikTok. Can you tell
them what your email address is rightnow? Yes? I can. It

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is info at the Kinkconsultant dot com. Is there anything else you would like
to say to these people in party? Yes? Okay, well then go
right ahead. Do not be afraidto explore your kinks and try them out
and have those conversations with people.And if it's something you're not ready to
do by yourself, I would recommendgetting a coach, finding the help to

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have those conversations. Because your lifeis going to open up in ways you
can't even imagine yet, why don'tyou start accepting it? So, Amanda,
one last question for you, besidessaying goodbye to these beautiful people out
there, is there anything else?No, I think you've drained me.
Every answer. I have everything Ihave to say. All right, then

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you know what to do. Bye? Everyone? All right, everybody,
That wraps up another episode of theNever Too Old for a Good Spanking Podcast.
I will see you next time.The show is over. Now run
along before I take down your pantsand spank you