6.10.25 Simping Aint Easy

This week on *OooohTheyFunny*, the crew tackled three thought-provoking topics that hit home in today’s world. First, they dug into whether job loyalty is outdated in a climate where layoffs can happen overnight and job-hopping often leads to bigger paychecks. Is staying loyal noble—or just naive? Then, things got spicy as they discussed Travis Hunter’s decision to get married without a prenup, questioning why some men ignore glaring red flags in the name of love, or maybe just straight-up simping. Finally, the guys explored the pressure-packed idea of “finding your purpose,” asking if it’s a genuine life goal or just another social construct that’s making people feel like failures if they haven’t figured it all out. As always, real talk, humor, and hard truths were served up with no filter.

Episode Transcript

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no topic that they won't go They tell the truth.

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Lace wood appends.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
If you dreams or the thought, then it's something they
can melt it make you laugh, make you cry, happy
looking at your friends, like, tell me why.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
How could he?

Speaker 1 (00:25):
What did she did?

Speaker 2 (00:26):
They say that?

Speaker 1 (00:27):
MG, I can't replease play that back.

Speaker 2 (00:30):
Put the kids to bad because it might get.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
Ronchiven't like to welcome y'all to our private part. I
think it's safe to say these amigo type asuitos got
them yelling.

Speaker 2 (00:38):
Okay, I told her why they'd have messed up.

Speaker 1 (00:41):
Now we'd have took the cat off if they ain't
gonna hold him down.

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Sit back, relax its time I start the show. There's
no topic that they want to go back relaxus. Time
I start this show.

Speaker 1 (01:00):
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Speaker 2 (01:04):
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Showtime is the place to beat.

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Speaker 3 (01:09):
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to beat a C. Show Time is the place to beat.
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Speaker 1 (01:46):
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la la hash mm hmmm.

Speaker 2 (01:53):
A C would not approve at all at all. Brother
Steve is on AC so he let us know early
so he don't get a no call, no show. He
did earnest he's been going through helping out.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
I forgot what he.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
Does for a living again, even though he told us
on the show, I don't know. It was something with
families finding Do you remember what he say?

Speaker 5 (02:23):
I know he works at like a senior with seniors.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
So basically.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
We'll go with that. Go with that on today's show.
His job loyalty overrated. Uh Simping ain't easy. Uh finding
your purpose? We got your excess family. We got some emails.
I don't know if we'll get to what's after the emails,

(02:51):
but if we do, we got attraction. It's about timing.
But before we get to any of that. Y'all know
what time it is, so let's get to it.

Speaker 1 (03:02):
And now it's time for things not good. This message
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Speaker 2 (03:14):
Over there as always big Us to lousis over there
off of Main and Broad. Y'all know what's going down
in nine days? Shoot, you know what's going down in
nine days one?

Speaker 1 (03:26):
But we got too, We got too. We got other's
day and.

Speaker 2 (03:30):
That's true my birthday and birth yeah yeah, basically yeah yeah,
and little April and little April's birthday.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
See, you don't lost your birthday?

Speaker 5 (03:45):
Share I shared with two of my other friends too.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
Who else is birthday? It's to my old boss and
then a friend friends who we're talking about? What's the
body bill? See, you ain't no real friend.

Speaker 6 (03:59):
I did word shooting my boss. Her name is April.
And then Tahitia is just a good friend of mine.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
I've heard of Tia. Yeah yeah, you ain't talk to
her in a minute.

Speaker 7 (04:10):
I know.

Speaker 5 (04:10):
I talk her works sometimes.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
First thing.

Speaker 5 (04:15):
My friends at work they work there too.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
First thing we're not talk Is that a real friend
or is that a work friend?

Speaker 6 (04:21):
I talked to Alasia at work, to everybody work, I
know what I'm saying, like I talked to my real like.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
Elationa need to come on to show to defend herself
one day, tell her by, tell her I'll have I'll
have a homeboy for her.

Speaker 6 (04:38):
Soies right now, so she's not gonna be Yeah, I
don't know what kind of sickness.

Speaker 5 (04:43):
She gets sick more than any person I know.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
I don't know about a healthy as he say, you
know what he was due and he has not gotten.
He was not gott.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
He has not gotten sick or he didn't tell us
he yeah, because he ain't been here. Yeah, that's true,
that's true. The first thing we're not gonna talk about
today is National Iced Tea Day, So go get you
some ice tea. I don't know how that became a day,
but it is too like he got a day. No, No,

(05:18):
we were talking about the liquid iced tea. Nothing we're
not gonna talk about while a rapper Walley got embarrassed
last night. His streamer Ky Sannat had a conversation with
him and had no idea who he was until the
live stream was telling him who it was. To make
matters worse, Walle came up to him and address the
issue because he got embarrassed.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
Was he on the show with him?

Speaker 2 (05:39):
So they were in the back like behind the scenes,
and Wile was playing on like a Nintendo switch and
Kyle was.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
Like, hey, man, what's what's that switch?

Speaker 2 (05:48):
Called? No no No? And uh.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
What's up?

Speaker 2 (05:52):
Kyle like he knew him, and so they're live streaming him,
and so he gets into his little van and he's like, man,
I need to get that, uh the switch, And then
the streams like all like, oh, that's what he said.
Who's y'all? Who's that?

Speaker 1 (06:10):
And then the dude, how old is the guy?

Speaker 8 (06:11):
Though?

Speaker 2 (06:12):
He's old enough to know who he definitely heard Little Flower?
Yeah he was, Yeah, he's old enough to know who he.

Speaker 6 (06:20):
Like eighteen then right, because if I said that to
my kid, I know heven be like, who are you
even talking about?

Speaker 2 (06:25):
But yeah, he's I don't know, how can you look up?
How old is about to spell his name?

Speaker 1 (06:31):
Here we go, I don't know, dude, he is young
only twenty three?

Speaker 2 (06:37):
Know because if you girl away, you moving.

Speaker 6 (06:41):
So they make a lot of them know a lot
of the younger kids, guys whatever, know the songs, but
they don't always know the artist.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
That is true.

Speaker 5 (06:49):
I really can tell you a song, and he'd be like,
oh I heard that before. I'm like, who sings it?

Speaker 2 (06:53):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (06:54):
She's right because that one group them thrones. I was
in there and somebody posted the black dude Dreads I
forgot his name, the one in the House of the Dragon.
Oh yeah, somebody posted him. And then they said they
posted the song get Little, but they said the house Ludacris.

Speaker 1 (07:12):
Everybody's like. Nod was like, how old are you like?
How old are you like?

Speaker 3 (07:19):
That's just very disrespect, he said, Ludacris. Everybody was getting
He had to delete the post.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
Nothing. We're not gonna talk about. The Crawford Canelo fight.

Speaker 1 (07:30):
Will be on Netflix. You know I'm gonna have that.

Speaker 2 (07:33):
So if it's on Netflix, do you have to pay
for it?

Speaker 5 (07:35):
Or they put it on They're not on Netflix. They
don't have anything on Netflix.

Speaker 1 (07:40):
Never mind watching it.

Speaker 5 (07:43):
Did you remember how.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
Well it was right.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
Netflix? Which is how I ended up going to the fight?
Come my homeboy called me at the last second.

Speaker 5 (07:56):
Yeah, but they didn't stream.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
Well, well, I have to worry about that. There they
take watching watching that old man get his ass?

Speaker 1 (08:04):
Everybody else we did.

Speaker 2 (08:06):
Man, the first two rounds, though, I was like, maybe
he got a shot, he pulled, he pulled. He was
not trying to knock him out at all, I think,
I mean, what's the name for sure? Did? But I
think Tyson just got tired.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
Heard he did, but he was good enough to knock
him out in the first two rounds. If you wanted to.

Speaker 2 (08:25):
Nothing, We're not gonna talk about the protesting against Ice
and our government in l A and be met with resistance,
even though it's been mostly peaceful protests. Last thing we're
not gonna talk about the saying did He's trial is
shaping up to be a mistrial? I heard it got
shut down earlier? Also did it Finally?

Speaker 1 (08:43):
I think that it's not gonna be a miss trial.
Don't Apparently I.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
Heard somebody say that, no, it's gonna it's not gonna
be a mistrial. But all the other little people like
behind the scenes are saying that possibly.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
If they, if they, I.

Speaker 2 (08:57):
Mean, because nothing that that's been come out as it
been anything with a Rico has all just been He's
a nasty motherfucker.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
He's done illegal.

Speaker 3 (09:04):
Besides that, because they tried to say that he was
like sex trafficking and all this other ship that they
have brought that.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
Yeah, nothing.

Speaker 3 (09:14):
All it's been is like, okay, do a wild old
gen Yeah, Pete on Cassie. The only thing that they
could have gotten him for, but it's too late. They
already settled it was him beating her ass.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
That's it. But they already settled that.

Speaker 3 (09:24):
So yeah, if that's what he was on trial for,
then yeah he's one hundred percent guilty. But it's not
about domestic just about sex traffick.

Speaker 1 (09:32):
Yeah, that's it.

Speaker 2 (09:34):
That's it. So for decades, job loyalty was seen as
a badge of honor. Stick with the company long enough
and you'd be rewarded. But in today's world, the layoffs
burnout and better off offers just to click away. It's
fair to ask his job loyalty even worth.

Speaker 3 (09:50):
It anymore, really, because they already got to a replacement
waiting as soon as you quit.

Speaker 1 (09:56):
It's fifty people on indeed, just ready to take your spot.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
That is very true. And back when I was in
like management positions, I would talk talk to the young
people and I'll be like, look, I appreciate y'all, but
always keep in mind, like if you find something better,
even though it's gonna put me in a mind let
me know ahead of time so I can start looking
for your replacement, because I want you to be happy,
because this job don't care about you at all.

Speaker 3 (10:21):
And that's the thing, most of them, they really don't
care to you, just a body to help keep the
machine going.

Speaker 1 (10:27):
But yeah, your replacement is already there. Really.

Speaker 6 (10:30):
I also read and it was a while back, and
I don't remember when or where it was, but I
also read some blog posts before where they did statistics
on like annual salaries and people that stay at the
same job statistically have a lower salary than people that
job hop because they like people that job hop overall.

(10:52):
Obviously it's not for everybody, but when they're job hopping,
like if you every you know, five years or less,
you're going to a new position, going to a new job,
like it could be a brand new company. They give
you more of your salary because you tell them what
you made and they want to beat that, and so
they'll you'll get a bump.

Speaker 5 (11:08):
Another couple of years.

Speaker 6 (11:09):
You could leave your job and get go find another
company and do something similar and they'll give you a
bump and you statistically make more.

Speaker 1 (11:17):
Yeah, that and they're not more than likely it's not
going to go somewhere paying less.

Speaker 3 (11:25):
Or dad, or unless you're one of those people who say, look,
I might not make as much, but I'm happier.

Speaker 1 (11:29):
Yeah, which this economy is kind of nowadays.

Speaker 6 (11:33):
But I remember when I first started my job, like
everybody's like, oh, you know you're gonna love.

Speaker 5 (11:40):
This company, and you know you're people be like oh.

Speaker 6 (11:43):
And I would see people bragging so hard about this
company and they're like, oh, yeah, they drink the kool aid.

Speaker 5 (11:48):
Don't drink the kool aid.

Speaker 6 (11:50):
And when I tell you, I loved this company so
much for like the first six years that I worked there,
and I would recommend it to anybody, I'd be like,
this is the best job ever.

Speaker 5 (12:01):
This company does you so good. And now I'm like,
do not fucking.

Speaker 2 (12:06):
Not.

Speaker 5 (12:06):
They do not get ships about people anymore.

Speaker 2 (12:09):
And I am just so thankful that whenever schwab bitch
ass decided to cut me in my department and I
was like, hey, what about that spot over there and
you were sending me to the places, they was just
like not Deny.

Speaker 6 (12:28):
I still feel God for Acy because I drug her
out here and it was like but it wasn't bad
when all that was starting, like when y'all were trying
to get on and it was still like decent.

Speaker 5 (12:38):
But they've just gotten to where everything is just put
about numbers. Now they're just pushing out people.

Speaker 6 (12:42):
They're trying to get everything, like the budget as low
as they can possibly get it.

Speaker 1 (12:46):
So it's terrible.

Speaker 5 (12:49):
They don't care.

Speaker 1 (12:50):
Yeah, they do not.

Speaker 6 (12:52):
And like you said, it's like I one of my
cohors are actually in the hospital right now, and a
lot of them have been in the hospital in the
past couple of years for stress, and I'm like, they
could die and tomorrow they're gonna have their position or
place literally just die, like be gone.

Speaker 1 (13:11):
But it ain't even cold yet.

Speaker 5 (13:12):
Yeah, and it could be even stress induced from the job.

Speaker 6 (13:16):
Doesn't matter. You just gonna be replaced tomorrow. There's gonna
be like three people that are gonna cry for you.

Speaker 1 (13:25):
So we saw why it's not But what was the question.
I want to make sure I phrase it right. Job loyalty.

Speaker 2 (13:30):
What is job loyalty worth it anymore?

Speaker 3 (13:32):
No, we saw it during COVID when all the people
got laid out. They showing how expendable most people are
unless you were essential. So it's not if you ain't.
If you're not getting out of them almost as almost
as much as they're getting out of you, it.

Speaker 2 (13:46):
Ain't worth it.

Speaker 1 (13:47):
Honestly.

Speaker 2 (13:48):
Now, I will say this to this point my job now,
and I think it's because we're not public or a
private company.

Speaker 1 (13:55):
They actually care.

Speaker 5 (13:57):
I can say a difference.

Speaker 2 (13:59):
I can say for sure that they actually care. There's
a lot of people that drink the cool I will
never drink the kool aid of any place I work.

Speaker 1 (14:06):
But yeah, you played yourself.

Speaker 2 (14:10):
And maybe it's just because seeing the manager side and
see what goes down behind the scenes, I'm like, I
never ever because I just see just the evilness in
the job. But I can say that this place, hell,
I mean, we don't have anything about the DEI or
anything like that. They're like, if y'all we're gonna do

(14:30):
our own ship. Like I see so much diversity and
everything here. Plus they feed us, or they used to.
The tax tax seasons are over, but but during tax
season I was eating motherfucking good.

Speaker 1 (14:44):
I was eating motherfucker.

Speaker 6 (14:45):
It also depends on the size of the company, because
so I have my mixed feelings on smaller companies.

Speaker 5 (14:53):
Working for them. Like when I worked for my smaller company, there.

Speaker 6 (14:56):
Was a lot of pros and cons, And one of
the cons was like they didn't have health insurance. Like
I mean, they had like three certain things, but not
like not like the bigger corporate companies do. They didn't
have four to one k's all that stuff like it
didn't have those. But when I say, they would literally
like break their back for you, like they would go
behind you and make sure you were taking care of
one hundred percent.

Speaker 5 (15:16):
There were times when my boss, like I but it
was also because she.

Speaker 6 (15:19):
Didn't pay me very much, but I didn't have a
lot of money, so that she would like literally pay
it for challeng's birthday parties and stuff like that. Like
and then to this day, and it's been eleven years
since I've worked there, they will. They will still every
time I run into They're like, you want to come back,
You want to come back, Bro, you can't afford me.

Speaker 5 (15:34):
Now you can't afford me.

Speaker 2 (15:37):
Yesterday's price is not today's price. Why do y'all think
job hopping? Hopping is seen as a red flag when
it often leads to better pay, faster growth than more opportunities.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
Employers probably like Oh, you're not stable, you're not commititted.

Speaker 3 (15:52):
Yeah, they think you're not committed. It's like, no, I'm
just not going to accept something that I know I
can do. If I can do better, if i know
I'm worth more than them, I'm gonna stay here. Like
if I know that I could be making extra thousand
a month somewhere else, especially if I'm doing a less yeah,
I'm gonna go there.

Speaker 2 (16:11):
Right.

Speaker 3 (16:11):
If I'm doing less work but getting more money, like,
why the fuck would I stay here?

Speaker 1 (16:16):
That is facts.

Speaker 2 (16:17):
Last question on this is what's the real reward were
staying at the same job for ten to fifteen or
twenty years, it's just to say.

Speaker 7 (16:25):
You did it.

Speaker 5 (16:26):
The only thing at ours is like you get a
little bit extra vacation time.

Speaker 1 (16:29):
That's it.

Speaker 5 (16:31):
Like, once you're there for fifteen years, you get I
think a month a year or something like that a vacation.

Speaker 1 (16:39):
Quick enough.

Speaker 2 (16:40):
So I found out maybe about like two weeks ago,
that if you work at my job like for a
certain amount of time, to basically buy you out and
give you like an early retirement depending on what you've done,
cause you get shares even though we're private, you get
a whole bunch of other little things, but if you

(17:02):
get to a certain point and they'll be like, hey,
go off to your son set.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
I think mine is kind of similar.

Speaker 3 (17:08):
Like I know for sure, if I were to stay
here the whole time, I don't play it, but if
I did, I'll retire at like fifty one, so I'll
be like, hey, that's good.

Speaker 2 (17:17):
Do they have like a pitcher or something or yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
So and plus, like I get so much time off,
and that's a benefit. I get plenty of time.

Speaker 3 (17:24):
I already only work for for off, but I accumulate
so much time. It's like I could ship take like
half the year of and get paid for shit.

Speaker 1 (17:32):
So it's like until I find someone I can take
that much time. If still get paid for, I.

Speaker 3 (17:37):
Ain't going nowhere, so I respect like because like, if
I take time off, I could be doing other ship
making money from there too. So I'm like, I'm not
going nowhere, and I got it easy. I'm by myself
all fucking day.

Speaker 2 (17:51):
Whatever you want to listen to, just be chilling out.

Speaker 3 (17:54):
Don't get me wrong, it gets boring sometimes, but at
the same time, like, hey, I can be looking for
other ship to do like you loves of that time.

Speaker 5 (18:01):
So just be thinking, well, you're not stressed out at
the end of every day.

Speaker 2 (18:05):
Yeah, she said, I hate it.

Speaker 1 (18:07):
I hate it.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
Here. So, a couple of weekends ago, Travis Hunter, the
Heisman winner and possibly the next King of Simps, went
deeper into a scent bag when he decided to get
married without a prenup.

Speaker 1 (18:19):
You know about Travis Hunner, you're about to find out.

Speaker 2 (18:23):
I don't know if he's hard headed or just slow,
but I hope for his sake it turns out well
for him. So I'll give you a little insight on
the Travis him. So, Travis Hunter, I feel like you've
heard us talk about him. You have? She probably just
owned down, Yeah, because there was a moment where he
was where he was trending a lot.

Speaker 3 (18:42):
So he played for Colorado like Dion's team, so he
was like hiding the winner.

Speaker 2 (18:49):
One of the when what draft number two O two?

Speaker 1 (18:51):
Yeah, so highly ranked sought after athlete. Right.

Speaker 3 (18:56):
His girl did not give a fuck about him. And
it was clearly like she said stuff like you did
hear about this? I remember we talked about this. She
said stuff like.

Speaker 1 (19:06):
Oh yeah, he would take me to parties and wait
outside in the car.

Speaker 2 (19:10):
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (19:10):
Yeah, that basically acting like she gave zero fucks about him.

Speaker 5 (19:14):
He married her.

Speaker 2 (19:15):
Yeah, and at the wedding they caught the video where
he went to go try to kiss him. She backed
up like this, and I said, and this motherfucker, you
know what he might be. I don't think she's proud.
I think that's just where her body shaped and it
was like a tight dress. But I'm curiously Travis Hunter
is kind of slow too, because he'd be doing some
stuff and I'd be like, you might be slow.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
Where is his father?

Speaker 2 (19:40):
His father was there, but like at the wedding there,
I've seen videos on a TMZ and media takeout and
so like her side of the family's all happy and stuff,
his side is all me mugging and like I can't believe.

Speaker 1 (19:52):
I can't believe his dad let him do that shit.

Speaker 2 (19:54):
He should have been like so. And you know, here's
the bad thing about it, because you know, it's not
like he came from like a Dion Sanders type family
where they have the money when you you know when
your son made it, but y'all are struggling. It's kind
of like you won't say too much because you don't
messle with the money trying.

Speaker 3 (20:13):
Still man, like, you see your boys out here getting played, Yes,
because we already know by twenty twenty seven, if even
that far from now, she gone and she.

Speaker 2 (20:24):
Taking half his shit and we and I'm not even
gonna feel bad for him because he just chose to ignore.
But that's that's a great leading to this next question
of what makes some men ignore red flags, even obvious ones,
and still go all in emotionally, financially, illegally for a
woman who might not have their best interests at.

Speaker 1 (20:40):
Hearts stubborn for sure.

Speaker 3 (20:45):
They want to prove I'm improve y'all wrong, y'all giving
me all these warnings, Ima prove to you. You ain't
gonna prove nothing to me because if it works out, okay, great.
But when it doesn't and we know it's not going
to I'm not gonna say I told you so. Just
don't come to me telling me, bru believe she did this.
I shouldn't listen, man like, because the whole world was
telling this dude, bro, you need to cut her off,

(21:08):
like even when he got drafted, like nah, she this,
this dude's the idiot. Yeah, straight up, I've never seen
somebody who has the whole world that they feed be
so stupid.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
Black guy just willingly bro you're guaranteed? Like, what was
this contract? I forgot how much it was? A lot?
Could it in half because the other half is won
her guarantee.

Speaker 2 (21:29):
On top of the nil money he's already made because
he's already a millionaire before he even got in this.
And you know, I guess this question could be posed
the other way around when I look at it like
a Britney Spears, But like, what would make I don't
know if Britney Spears had to prent up her, I
feel like she did though or had something like that,

(21:50):
and he finessed the hell out of that. But but
risk gave from your opinion. Let's say you got a
whole bunch of money. Your friends are telling you, hey,
get a prenup? Like, what do you think would make
you fight that?

Speaker 5 (22:04):
Nothing?

Speaker 2 (22:06):
I would just do it, bet y'all.

Speaker 1 (22:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (22:08):
Like, and like I.

Speaker 5 (22:12):
If I had a bunch of money, I would expect
I would expect.

Speaker 6 (22:15):
Whoever I was marrying to like tag team into my
businesses anyways, Like I would expect them to assist or
do what they could to assist because I've never been
the one that's like, is this my money? My money
even if it is like I'm never gonna be like
telling somebody else that, even if that's the way it is.

Speaker 5 (22:32):
But I'm also not gonna just be like, here's, you know,
all this money and.

Speaker 1 (22:38):
I'm just you can just.

Speaker 6 (22:39):
Sit on your butt while I'm you know, doing whatever
I'm doing to make money. Yeah, I'm not sharing willingly
without you putting some effort into I know a girl,
another boodoir photographer.

Speaker 5 (22:52):
She her husband did that.

Speaker 6 (22:53):
Well, okay, let me make kind of back check a
little bit, because it was kind of her fun about
the divorce.

Speaker 5 (22:58):
But her husband took her for because she was like
made like millions doing.

Speaker 6 (23:04):
Just boudoir and education and stuff, and her husband took
a lot of it because she retired him.

Speaker 5 (23:11):
She retired him while they were together, and so whenever,
no prenup.

Speaker 2 (23:16):
No nothing, And when was he there from like the beginning,
like before she blown up, because that can make a difference.

Speaker 6 (23:23):
I do think, yeah, he was there in the beginning too,
but he didn't like help with her business though there
was no like him assisting she was. He was never
in the picture helping with the bit like when people
have their husbands helping most of the time. They're like
they're putting that out there too, like you know, this
is because people are quick, especially women.

Speaker 5 (23:42):
I retired him. I retired him, but he's still doing
this with me.

Speaker 7 (23:45):
Like or for me.

Speaker 1 (23:47):
But she ain't. She fucked up by now he's accustomed
to that, like, oh yeah, and.

Speaker 6 (23:54):
That's what that's what the lawyer told That's what the
lawyers told her. And so she has to pay him
like this enormous amount monthly even though he don't even
have their kids like she has the I mean they
share the kid, one kid, but they do share the kids,
so he gets the kids sometimes too.

Speaker 5 (24:08):
But I mean he's getting like a ship tongue for alimony.

Speaker 3 (24:11):
And I'm like, oh, if I got married, if I
got married, got rich, hit the lotto or or what
is the XRP took off whatever, I'm gonna still keep
things pretty chill. We might go on a vacation here
and there, but as soon as you trying to leave,
I was using his lifestyle. Note we didn't go on
that many trips. You didn't get all these new cars.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
No, not at all. I like to me, I think
about like a travels hunter, and I think about like
all the men out there that are dumb enough to
either one let the girl conn and be like, you
don't love me if you're making me do a prenu

(24:51):
Well no, it's really You can look at a preno
like it's a protection for you. Yeah, because y'all can say, hey,
you're not gonna be high and you know we're getting
into this thing because I think it's gonna work.

Speaker 1 (25:02):
Because you can negotiate.

Speaker 2 (25:04):
Yeah, during that premum, say hey, if things don't work
out here, go four million, go live your life. It's
not just to be like you can't have nothing.

Speaker 6 (25:13):
But I also don't think that the other like participants
should have to take care of you forever. Ye Like
if I come into this and I mean somebody that
has this like a crap ton of money, and I
decided in ten years, I don't want to be with
him no more.

Speaker 5 (25:27):
I'm not gonna expect you to take care of me
for the rest of your life.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (25:31):
I want to know how to who the hell signed
off on alimony like that shit don't make It had
to be like some judge's daughter got played and he
was like, you know what I'm gonna put this because
I don't see any rational man be like.

Speaker 5 (25:45):
You know what, I'll take care of forever Regardland, Like
I'm not with you.

Speaker 2 (25:52):
I have to wait until you get married. In this
day and age, people can just shack up. And you're
telling me you can be shocked up living with this person.
And I'm still paying you because you didn't marry this
person yet to where you're off of my my payroll,
Like bru as crazy.

Speaker 1 (26:10):
He is an idiot, Travis Hunter.

Speaker 3 (26:15):
Yeah, but he's getting like we all know, he's guaranteed
to lose half, yes, like it's not if it's winning.

Speaker 2 (26:22):
And then if he has kids would which he will.
That's eighteen years he's working on that.

Speaker 1 (26:29):
Right now.

Speaker 3 (26:31):
He's so proud of himself, just just smiling NonStop, and
I can just see. I'm like you said, I feel
like something might be wrong with him, and I'm kind
of scared for him that he might crash out when
she leaves because he don't.

Speaker 5 (26:48):
And then have you ever tried, like.

Speaker 6 (26:49):
As far as like the parents go, have you ever
tried to tell your kids something and like give them
all your knowledge on this one thing and they still
do the opposite.

Speaker 5 (26:59):
And then you want to beat the ship.

Speaker 6 (27:01):
They're like, why aren't you listening? Like I know better
than you in this one specific situation. Listening it's the
most frustrating thing.

Speaker 3 (27:11):
And you're like, all right, well you're telling them then,
because you've been there before, going through the exact same thing,
you got enough experience to where you can say, look,
you might want to a millionaire, you want to stay
a millionaire?

Speaker 2 (27:25):
Yes. And what I do to supplement the lessons that
I teach is I will get on YouTube and to
show videos of other people, because I feel like it
doesn't click because you know, kids are just gonna be like, oh,
I'm gonna do. You don't know what the hell you're
talking about it. Even though I got the experience and
all this other stuff, I feel like it doesn't ever
really click for them until they see other people. Like

(27:45):
even with my daughter, like she eight years old and
still likes to try not to brush her teeth for
some odd reasons. So I always got to check her
because she like, I brush my tea and I go
touch her too, brush and it'll be dry as hell,
and I'll bring up big I'm like, all right, let's
watch these videos of these kids. The videos obviously aren't
working because she still tries brush your teeth. I'm like, okay,

(28:08):
let's watch these videos and we'll watch kids with cavities
getting drills put in their mouth. So the first time
watched that video, for about a month and a half,
she was brushing her teeth for real on a consistent basis,
and then just randomly check. I'm like, this too, brushes dry.
Did you brush your teeth? Yes?

Speaker 1 (28:26):
You didn't? Uh. With the other two, I.

Speaker 5 (28:29):
Said, what kids say that, like they got brush.

Speaker 2 (28:33):
I'm like, why don't y'all want to brush your teeth?
Why do you want your birth to be found?

Speaker 5 (28:37):
I'll be in the car he'd be next to like,
because you brush your teeth today.

Speaker 3 (28:42):
Because they were at the at the age before they
started being interested in like the opposite six and stuff like,
I mean I brushed my teeth when I was Yeah,
I'm like, I wasn't like thoroughly, like I showered and
stuff all the time. I wouldn't like really getting them
in there. And so I started really liking girls like
a lot. That's why I was like, yeah, I gotta
make sure everything's on the point.

Speaker 2 (29:03):
I think for me, my scrubbing got hardcore whenever that
one day I decide I forgot to put the yolden on.
I was funky and ship and I was like, all right,
let me be let me start to lock in, because boy,
that's the worst where you keep your piss as tight
as you can and here can you do this? You can?

Speaker 8 (29:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (29:20):
Yeah, it's someone be like man, funky. Everybody knows who
it is. But if it's one of your homeboy, hing
gonna stick you out. But you know he knows. He's like, nigga,
know it's you. You just ain't you on try to
go in that bathroom. But once that ship is funky,
it don't matter. If that's soaping the paper salion.

Speaker 1 (29:39):
Musty.

Speaker 2 (29:39):
Yeah, it hain't gonna work at all. But Travis under,
I really hope that it works out for you, bro,
and all the dudes like you who don't want to
listen to wisdom. I really hope it works out for
y'all because I don't want you to get the word.
I really want you to prove us wrong. I just
don't think you're gonna prove us wrong, especially when we
all know that while y'all were dating, she was out

(30:02):
here making rap video with her ex boyfriend. We've seen
all all the different type of evidence and stuff.

Speaker 3 (30:08):
But here's why I have zero hope for him. Divorce
is already on the ride. It's already at an all
time guy.

Speaker 1 (30:15):
So let's say even if she was like a decent chick,
there's still a fifty change.

Speaker 3 (30:21):
I don't get divorced anyway. But she's already showing you
she't about it. It's one hundred percent for you, damn
mirror like and then the offense risky. But about seventy
percent of divorces are initiated by women, like.

Speaker 5 (30:35):
Because the majority of people that did start shouting and
cheat are men. Y'all would just sit there.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
Or or or or they just want the money they
do they do the wrong. Okay, explain this.

Speaker 3 (30:55):
Then why is it that when lesbians get married the
divorce rates even higher?

Speaker 2 (31:00):
Is it?

Speaker 7 (31:00):
It is?

Speaker 1 (31:01):
I swear to God, two women that are married, that's
the highest divorce rate of moments.

Speaker 5 (31:05):
One of the most probably cheating.

Speaker 1 (31:10):
So she kept taking her deal to someone else.

Speaker 2 (31:15):
And you know who has the highest ratio of staying married,
gay man? Why is that?

Speaker 5 (31:24):
Because it's because they both like to be out there
in them streets probably, and.

Speaker 2 (31:28):
The bros don't care because they understand, hey, we're just
having fun exactly.

Speaker 5 (31:35):
But that's why men and women together don't work, because
the men just want to have fun.

Speaker 3 (31:40):
No, a lot of it in reality is because now
women don't have to depend on men when they use
two back in the day, so they know, hey, I
don't need you for money. I can, we can, we
can get sweat up. Even if they don't take them
to court, get album one and anything they like. I
can bounce back. I don't need you no more. So
that's why because a lot of it is cheating. It's
not black guy the court. Black men, don't That guy

(32:05):
was Canadian, don't count.

Speaker 1 (32:07):
Don't care.

Speaker 2 (32:09):
Every do you dated had a bit of Canadian? Then answer,
if we're just keep it on one hundred, Uh, we're
gonna take a break when we come back. We got
some emails you're listening to. Ooh they funny.

Speaker 8 (32:21):
Fellas. You can't let her keep doing this, taking your
old spice deep padration with a low body wash. It's unacceptable. King.
She's gonna have to understand that you got your own
groom in need a dealer.

Speaker 5 (32:36):
She might say, boy, please what's yours.

Speaker 4 (32:39):
Is mine, I'll buy moil be just fine.

Speaker 5 (32:42):
What if she don't, don't go, don't let her bring
up the guy call let her know man.

Speaker 8 (32:51):
Time and time again, she's been taking your spy steep hydration.

Speaker 1 (33:00):
Speak good for yourself.

Speaker 5 (33:01):
Don't let it you said, there's nothing in that.

Speaker 8 (33:04):
Oh my guys, Never let your skin go dry, and
always keep an eye on your old spice, body lotion
and body wash because men have skin too.

Speaker 1 (33:17):
We love, we love, we love, and.

Speaker 2 (33:31):
You're listening to ooh they funny local.

Speaker 1 (33:34):
National Global, we love going global.

Speaker 2 (33:40):
So we got our first email, which is a response
email from last week. Hey, guys, First off, appreciate y'all
for reading the email on the show and giving some
straight up, no fluff advice. I sat with it for
a day or two, replayed your words a few times
in the car, and finally your side to stop being
a punk and handle like a grown man. So here's

(34:00):
what went down. This all happened over the past week.
I hit up Kayla after work one evening, just real casual.
We were both staying late, of course, so I asked
if she wanted to grab a drink nearby. Nothing fancy,
just a low key bar around the corner. We got
a booth in the back. I let her settle in,
and then I told her straight up, I gotta talk
to you about something that might be a little weird,

(34:21):
but I.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
No, but I'd rather be honest to sneaky.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
She gave me that look, you know, the one girls
give when they already know what you're about to say,
but they wanted to see how you say it. I
told her I've been feeling a real connection with Tiana.
That it's not something I want I went looking for,
but it's something I can't ignore. I made it clear
that I respect her, our history and our friendship with Tiana,
and I don't want to move funny behind her back.

(34:47):
Now here's the part that surprised me. She took a
long sip of her drink, sat back and just said, yeah,
I figure. She admitted she still had a little soft
spot for me, but she also said she was impressed
about it. What tripped me out is that she said
the real reason of my sting is because she already
had a feeling Tiana like me too, and that's where
she felt a little betrayed, not by me, but by

(35:07):
the silence. Said it wasn't about seventh grade. It was
about grown folks not being real with each other fair.
So I asked her straight up, is this going to
ruin your friendship? She said no, but how y'all handle it,
will decide if it gets weird or not. Basically, she
gave me the green light, but told me to keep
it respectful, not treat Tiana like some old like some
office fling. That stuck with me. A couple nights later,

(35:29):
me and Tianna were walking to our cars at the work.
I told her I talked to Kayla, laid everything out
and said I wanted to see where things could go
if she was open to that. She just looked at
me for a second and said, finally, man, listen, it's
only been a few days, but we've been spending more
time outside the office already. She came by this past
weekend to watch that wild playoff game, and one thing

(35:50):
led to another. Let's just say the chemp streets definitely
not in our heads. It's still early, but it feels good, real,
like something that wasn't just timing their convenience. And me
and Kayla we've actually been cool a little space at first,
but she's been professional, still jokes with us and doesn't
seem salty. So yeah, I appreciate the push y'all might
have helped me step into something serious. Brandon, Well, yes

(36:14):
you're welcome, sir. Wait a man up.

Speaker 1 (36:16):
Yeah, but that's good that she's not all acting, all bittering. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (36:20):
Just don't treat her like she's third wheel now, ye,
still you know, acknowledge her like you would before, like
good morning all that.

Speaker 2 (36:31):
Yeah, don't make it weird, man, So appreciate the response email.
I'm glad. I hope hope that works out. And if
if ship pops off and y'all do get engaged ship,
hey you better invite us. Yeah, invite us to the
wedding because I love free food.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
We'll be here.

Speaker 2 (36:50):
Next email, we got here. What's good fellas long time
listenering man. I need to get this off my chest
because I'm on the verge of losing my damn mind.
So here's the situation. I've been with my girl for
a little over year. She's solid, smart, support, funny, finest health.

(37:11):
But when it comes to sex, straight missionary, missionary, no detours,
no off ramps, just lay down, lights off and don't
make a mess.

Speaker 1 (37:20):
That's it.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
I brought it up plenty of times in a respectful
way too, Not on some why ain't you freaky enough
type shit, but just some just open convo, like, hey, babe,
maybe we could switch it up tonight, or you ever
think about trying insert your freaky idea. I'm not talking
about wild stuff either, just a little variety, maybe some lingerie.
Maybe she's on top more than once a month. Maybe

(37:42):
we try some light bondage your role player, even just
not act like moaning as a crime. Every time I
bring it up, she either changes the subject, laughs it off,
or hits me with that's just not really me, that's
just not really mean. Look, I don't need a porn
star every night, but damn can I get a little enthusiasm,
little and expecting mouth action without it being my birthday? Anyway?

(38:04):
This anywhere? This past week, and we went on a
double day with my boy Dante and his girl, who
he's been with for a few years now. I've seen
him out before, and I always thought his girl was real, reserved, real, yes, ma'am, no, ma'am, energy, sweaters,
quiet voice, like she teaches first grade Sunday school. I
even joked to Tay a while back, like, yo, how

(38:25):
you keep how you keep from falling asleep over there?
He just smiled and said, trust me, I'm good. So
we're out this past weekend vibing, which is funny to
be because that is a damn shame. The Terrell Dennis
is back in business with a with a fake.

Speaker 1 (38:44):
Man because he he was trying to meet a miner and.

Speaker 2 (38:48):
See eating eating at a little spot. Drinks are eating
at a little spot. Drinks are doing what drinks doing?
Out of nowhere, she starts talking reckless like recks reckless,
talking about how she tied Tay up last week, blindfolded him,
and fed him strawberries out of her goodies while he
couldn't move. Said you got to keep your man guessing

(39:12):
and laugh like this was just Tuesday night behavior. I
damn near dropped my fork. Meanwhile, my girl looked like
somebody just told her SAYTA wasn't real. I'm sitting here
thinking this is the prude looking girl. Meanwhile, I'm over
here going home every night to someone who acts like
asking for doggy styles of federal offense. I did say
anything at dinner. I'm not dumb, but you better believe

(39:33):
the energy changed quick. We got home and she flips,
accusing me of setting the whole thing up. Like I
called Tay before man it told him to coach this
girl into saying all that wild shit to guilt tripper.
She said I embarrassed her on purpose and that I
was trying to pressure her to being someone she's not.
I told her straight up, I had no idea that
conversation was coming, but it didn't matter. She wasn't trying

(39:54):
to hear any of it. I got the silent treatment
for the rest of the night, and now she won't
even look at me unless she's ad. And here's the thing.
I'm not trying to change her. I just want a
little passion, a little free a little damn baby, I've
been thinking about you all day. I want to feel
like we're doing something together, not just checking off a
routine chore before rolling over. I don't even know where
to go from here. If I bring it up again,

(40:16):
you'll say I'm pressure pressuring her. If I stay quiet,
I'm slowly dying inside. And now I'm just walking around thinking,
damn even sweater vests Sarah out here living her fifty
shades life, and I can't even get reverse cow Girl
with the Light song. Help me out, y'all. Darren aka
Prisoner of the Bedroom, have.

Speaker 1 (40:35):
You tried watching porn with her? Or is that too
extreme for her? That might be too she's anything else.

Speaker 5 (40:42):
She's not gonna watch porn, so he.

Speaker 1 (40:44):
Said he barely even has her right, Yeah, yeah, barely.

Speaker 2 (40:48):
I think he said. She rides once a month, but.

Speaker 3 (40:50):
Y'all, having sex, that's what upside. But yeah, missionary, Oh man,
I get tired if it was literally every.

Speaker 2 (40:56):
Time that's all we do.

Speaker 3 (40:59):
Yeah, maybe you should try something like if you're going
down on it, just get a little bit messy with.

Speaker 1 (41:05):
It, barry your face in it, just get her really
turned on.

Speaker 2 (41:08):
He seems like he's doing the stuff though, like he's
trying to get her to do stuff, and she just
is like, I don't like it.

Speaker 7 (41:14):
I don't like this.

Speaker 1 (41:17):
So what I wonder how mad.

Speaker 5 (41:19):
Should be if he just like man handled her.

Speaker 3 (41:20):
I was about to say, I was going to suggest
that just be like, look, man, just flip turn her
ass over and then just go to town.

Speaker 1 (41:32):
But don't if she's telling you, yeah, like, but she
just like stop, I can't believe you did that.

Speaker 3 (41:39):
Man, You know, I don't like it going to when
she's in the kitchen in the fridge, walk up behind
her and put them shorts down and just start you now,
just dig her down right there in the kitchen and
she calls the cops.

Speaker 2 (41:51):
I'm still I'm still wanting to know why she flipped
it on you and said that you set it up.

Speaker 5 (41:57):
That is terrible. I mean, it does kind of ran
never think that somebody said that. But it's very random.

Speaker 6 (42:02):
If there's this really quiet person that she's just telling
all this guy's business.

Speaker 2 (42:07):
Like i mean, they said they've been drinking, so yeah,
but I'd be like, I'd be wondering, how did that
just come up?

Speaker 1 (42:13):
Yeah, she was so specific and.

Speaker 7 (42:16):
All of that.

Speaker 5 (42:17):
I'm I'm so vocal though, I'd be like, why why
are you telling me this? Like what is that supposed
to say?

Speaker 8 (42:22):
You need to know?

Speaker 5 (42:23):
Is she supposed to keep this either in girl talk
time or keep it to.

Speaker 2 (42:27):
Your Yeah, just to say, because even if even if
I was telling I'm like, hey man, I want anybody
knowing all that because like what it depends on what
she said, because she's someone tied him.

Speaker 6 (42:37):
Up and fed them strawberries and creamy bottle somewhere, like
do you really want to have that in a public
conversation if.

Speaker 1 (42:44):
I if I'm hanging out, like let's say it's a
big thing, we all keep it. I'm with my chick.

Speaker 3 (42:50):
I don't want her to telling every single thing, even
if she's like hyping me up, tiping man, he wore
my ass, Like don't you know all that? So I'd
be kind of wondering too, like why are we talking
to Like if we were just playing like a game
or something, they said, hey, what's the freaking thing?

Speaker 1 (43:06):
Y'all done?

Speaker 2 (43:07):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (43:08):
But just bringing it up?

Speaker 8 (43:09):
Nah?

Speaker 2 (43:10):
Yeah, And I don't know if something happened, maybe some
music was playing and that started. I don't know, but
I brouh in terms of your girl, that would.

Speaker 6 (43:24):
Be rough, like at least and I'm a pillow princess myself,
but I'm not going to just stick to that.

Speaker 1 (43:29):
But I'm I'm pretty sure you'd be okay with you
do man.

Speaker 6 (43:34):
Somewhere it's fine, Like no, I'm not going to just
tell them no like if you if you specially if
you're in a committed relationship and they are like, can
we try this?

Speaker 5 (43:43):
I'm like, all right, as long as it's like like
something I'm just like on my absolutely not list exactly.

Speaker 3 (43:50):
I'm all right, she's gotta be a little bit more
open minded as her. Maybe something happening, because I've never
met somebody.

Speaker 1 (43:57):
Who wasn't a little bit who wasn't at least.

Speaker 3 (44:01):
Open to talking about something or like maybe watching some
porn or something like, yeah, maybe is.

Speaker 2 (44:07):
There a reason that you literally yeah, like I mean
he said, you try to talk to her about it.

Speaker 1 (44:12):
She just you need to just choke her. Bro just
missionaries one time, just do it.

Speaker 6 (44:16):
And then those are the girls like I can't believe
you cheated on me or left me, Like I can't
believe you just lovet me.

Speaker 1 (44:24):
Here one time, just one time, I guarantee you.

Speaker 2 (44:28):
I don't like that. I don't like that.

Speaker 3 (44:30):
Just talk, she'd say, Oh, I know what you're gonna like,
turn her over, do something. She's gonna like something you
do eventually, or you just go to jail.

Speaker 2 (44:38):
One of the two. Two and if it ain't worth
going to jail, just as Eddie was, say leave.

Speaker 1 (44:44):
You because right you're a prisoner right now anywhere. Like
I couldn't marry that man, No, sorry.

Speaker 2 (44:51):
I cut I hope y'all aren't in a I hope
your lease is almost stuff because no, sir, do not man.
Don't get her breagnant. No sir, don't get her pregnant,
because it's gonna be even worse. You're gonna go from
missionary to once a month.

Speaker 3 (45:08):
And you want to know what sucks if they break up,
gonna be freaky, is freaked out. I'm talking spitting on it,
slapping herself in the face with it, sending you videos
of it, all types of I don't hope it'll work out, though.

Speaker 1 (45:22):
I hope that you can get her to be a
free for you, but I don't think it's gonna happen.

Speaker 2 (45:26):
This is like Travis Hunter Part two. Yeah, so last
email we got here, did we give them advice?

Speaker 1 (45:35):
Yeah? Or Leader we'll watch or lever.

Speaker 2 (45:40):
Hey boys, I'm listening to y'all's podcast for a while now,
and every time one of your listeners writes in with
some wild story, I think, damn, I can never deal
with that. Here you are, but here I am writing
to you with my own episode of madness, featuring none
other than my helicopter boundary stomping, emotionally manipulative mother in law.
I swear this one and is giving Jade Daniels mama

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rough for her money. When I first met my now husband,
his mom seemed cool, a little extra, but nothing unmanageable.
She popped by with food sometimes give him advice he
didn't ask for, but it was nothing I couldn't tune out.
Even the first year of marriage, she kept her distance
enough that I thought I got lucky. I haven't brad
to my girls that I didn't have one of those
mother in laws. I spoke too Soon year or two,

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she got real comfortable. She started reference to my kitchen
as our kitchen, as in, I'll just recognize, I'll just
reorganize our pantry while you're at work so it makes
more sense. And I came home one day to find
out she had actually done it, Like she really went
through my cabinets, threw away my spice rack and replaced
with dollar store bins and labels like we were in
kindergarten classroom. Who the hell throws out somebody else's cuman?

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That's how you spell see you in Miami. Cuman.

Speaker 1 (46:52):
Yeah, pronounce okay, but it gets.

Speaker 2 (46:55):
Worse, y'all. She has a key to our house, a
key I did not agree to give her. Apparently my
husband gave it to her when we first moved in,
just in case and never mentioned it. I found out
she had it because I came home on Friday night
thinking I had the house to myself, and this woman
was in our bedroom folding my laundry. Oh my god,
and not just folding it, refolding it because, in her words,

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you don't do it the way he likes. I had
to sit down. I really sat on the edge of
the bed and stared at this woman, like, is this
real life? And don't get me started on the accidental text.
I get messages meant for her group chat all the time,
like I wish she'd stop wearing that God off of lipstick,
or she's lucky he still finds her attractive. One time

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I texted back, you know I can read this right,
and she hit me with oops, that was meant for
my sister, not you like that made it okay. But
this past week this is what finally made me email
y'all we're trying to have a baby. It's been a process, timing,
tracking doctor's visits, the whole nine. I confided in my
husband that I was feeling the pressure and wanted to
keep things private until we had actually news to share.

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He agreed, or at least I thought he did. Fast
forward to Sunday dinner, raw at her house, passing potatoes.
She looks me dead in the eye and says, well,
I hope you're taking your prenatal vitamins this time. We
don't want another missed opportunity, do we? In front of everybody,
his siblings, their kids, His aunt just aired me out
like I was a guest on Mari. I was so

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stunned I couldn't even respond. I stood up, grabbed my
person left. I told my husband later that night, either
you set boundaries with your mom or I will, and
trust me, mine will come with smoke. He says. She
means well and just wants to be involved. I told
him she's involved enough to be eligible for marriage benefits
at this point. Have you guys ever had any issues
like this with mother in laws or what would you

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do in this situation? I'm one cast role in a
backhanded compliment away from a applying for witness protection. Loved
the show. Pray for me, Brittany and Baden Ruthe, you guys.

Speaker 5 (48:55):
Said some strong boundary. I could never do a MoMA's boy,
like that can't do it because they will not stand
up to my mom.

Speaker 3 (49:02):
And you need to check your yes, like he's he
betrayed your trust y'all weren't supposed to tell anybody.

Speaker 1 (49:09):
That, and like I get it.

Speaker 6 (49:10):
And then he didn't even stand up for her when
haply cussing everybody out.

Speaker 3 (49:16):
Because like when you get married, yes, your mom is important,
but even in the Bible and all it don't say
you're supposed to like now your wife, your wife got
be number one. Like if your mom really gave a
funk about you, she's gonna understand that. She's gonna fall back. Say, hey,
you got your wife. You and your wife, y'all make decisions.
I can give you advice, but your wife has come

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before me. Your husband is mom is a piece of shit.
Like in them text I swear they're not accidental. She's
talking shit And why is she talking about you like
that anyway? Talking about all hellesman from my sister, Like nah, I'm.

Speaker 6 (49:52):
Coming back with some ship, Like you wouldn't believe this
crazy stuck bitch mother in law.

Speaker 5 (49:56):
My oh my god, that was supposed to be my sister.

Speaker 2 (49:58):
Yea, I just don't understand how as a mom you
get to the point where you just want to be
in your kids, like all in their shit, Like why
don't you want them to grow up? Like what are
you hanging on to? Why can't you go date somebody
else so you got something to do? Like why? And
you know you hear all the stories about the crazy

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mother in laws, the crazy mamas, like you hear all
these and yet you do it, Like why do you
want to fall into that trap? That's like being one
of these like terrible baby daddies that don't ever pay
for the kids shit or whatever, Like why do you
want to fall into that trap where you don't have
to Like that's a choice and you're choosing.

Speaker 1 (50:40):
Are his parents still married or what?

Speaker 2 (50:42):
I didn't hear. I didn't hear any mention.

Speaker 7 (50:44):
Of its.

Speaker 5 (50:46):
Giving them that much attention.

Speaker 2 (50:48):
Well, and the thing is, you see it with the
mother in laws that have somebody, but they're just married
to like weak ass men who want toy leave them
the funk alone.

Speaker 1 (50:56):
But if they're not married, you need to tell him,
like you see that your mom is single, it's for
a reason because she's fucking crazy.

Speaker 6 (51:03):
And then and then it puts the kid in the
bad position too, because then you're like, now, at this point,
you gotta change your mom and your.

Speaker 5 (51:08):
Wife because you can't have both. When the mom's like that,
you can't have both.

Speaker 3 (51:12):
And then the fact that she said that ship in
front of everybody at the dinner table, that was, yeah,
very fucked up.

Speaker 1 (51:18):
Your husband.

Speaker 2 (51:19):
I'm sorry, it's really him, like he needs to stuff
the funk up.

Speaker 1 (51:23):
He ain't got all.

Speaker 5 (51:24):
That's just how she is. You better fix that.

Speaker 2 (51:28):
She can be that way, just not around me, y'all.

Speaker 6 (51:30):
Didn't handle that be where you have the baby, because
that's gonna get ten times worse. If she's talking about
the way you folk close, can you imagine what she's
gonna stay about raising children like.

Speaker 3 (51:43):
And then you better hope you don't have what is
the postpartum depression. Better hope you don't have that, because
she's gonna say, yeah, mother's fucking crazy. Yeah she she
claims his postpartument. I think she's just got she gets friends.

Speaker 1 (51:55):
That's what it did. Yeah, you need to y'all need
to check that ship. Yes, wait, if check that ship yesterday.

Speaker 2 (52:01):
And you need to really get on.

Speaker 3 (52:02):
Your husband, like, don't don't attack him, but tell him like, hey,
like your mom, she's being way too invasive, way too
like she's feeling too comfortable in our marriage.

Speaker 2 (52:13):
I also want to know what made her change, because
she said in the beginning that she was cool, Like
she even said like, hey, I got a good mother
in law. And she said week year two when they
got married when she started tripping a little bit, and
after that has just been crazy.

Speaker 1 (52:28):
So what happened?

Speaker 2 (52:29):
Maybe she was married and wist her husband.

Speaker 1 (52:31):
And been telling her ship like she supposed to close
the stupid ship.

Speaker 6 (52:38):
Yeah, there's some things you can't just you can't talk
about everything. Yeah, they're supposed to stay between y'all.

Speaker 2 (52:47):
So good luck to you. Love to get a response
to email. And I don't know if he put you
on the show or not, but if he didn't, let
him hear what we have to say, punk asny.

Speaker 1 (53:00):
They're talking about my mommy those show no more.

Speaker 2 (53:04):
So. The idea of finding your purpose has been pushed
as the key to a meaningful life, but maybe it's
just another story we've been sold to give life more
structure than it really has. Do you guys think everyone
truly has a purpose or is it just that something
we've been conditioned to believe to feel like our whole
life matters.

Speaker 1 (53:23):
Not really.

Speaker 3 (53:23):
I used to think everybody did, but then I thought
about it, like, there's so many people who don't even
get to eat.

Speaker 1 (53:31):
Every day, and we were our first world problems.

Speaker 3 (53:35):
Like if somebody in a third world country swap lives
with us, even though somebody in one of the lowest
positions here that's way better than the third world country,
what could they purpose possibly be? And I'm not talking down,
but that sounds like a horrible life? Is my purpose
supposed to be living shitty life so I can have
somebody else be more appreciative of their life?

Speaker 1 (53:55):
Fuck that?

Speaker 3 (53:56):
Yeah, I don't want that to be my purpose in life,
to let somebody else know, hey, at least you got
this going nah. So I don't think everybody has like
a genuine purpose in life. Is you just make most
of what you got?

Speaker 1 (54:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (54:09):
I think there's only like a select few people that
make like amazing discoveries that help humankind that really have
like a true purpose. But most everybody else, I just
feel like they're just going through this life just yeah,
doing the best.

Speaker 5 (54:26):
You can, like to find something you like, and you
just hope that it makes some money.

Speaker 2 (54:29):
Yeah, because for me, it's like I like to instill
like all the stuff I have into like my kids.
And then because I've coached, I know that I've made
impressions on like a lot of their friends and help
shape them. And I'm considered the cool dad, so they
talk to me more about just different stuff hey coach
t than they would their own parents. And because they

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know I'm just cool. And I think part of that too,
is gonna the younger parent out of most of the parents.
So I look at those things, is like that's kind
of fulfilling my purpose and parting wisdom or im partying
just do life lessons or things like that. But in
the whole scheme of things. And maybe, well, you know what,
we do have a purpose on the show, because every

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once in a while we get emails like last week
with somebody to tell. So maybe maybe that's our purpose,
Maybe that we get to inspire people. Maybe we're I
think we actually do have a purpose, that we do
have a purpose.

Speaker 3 (55:29):
But it is dope getting those emails when somebody says
they was going through some ship and they just stumbled
across it and they're like, man, it helped me get
through this depression. If that's my purpose, good, I mean,
because I'm not a professional by any meaning. But if
I can help somebody out in any kind of way,
help them get through some troubling times, good.

Speaker 1 (55:46):
I would love to do that. I would love for
that to be something I can actually do professionally.

Speaker 3 (55:50):
I can help people out, but I don't got time
for schooling and all right, but maybe that is our purpose.

Speaker 1 (55:55):
If we can help you in any way, that's good.

Speaker 2 (55:58):
Yeah, because now I think about what risk. Maybe her
purpose is making these women feel good with these buds.
Maybe everybody here has a purpose. But not everybody in
the world has a purpose nobout at all.

Speaker 1 (56:09):
No, I agree, not everybody does.

Speaker 6 (56:12):
And I think I think that society puts so much
pressure on people to feel like they have to have
a purpose. To you, and like I have friends that
their their purpose is just living their life, like they
don't have to help somebody, they don't have to be
like the.

Speaker 5 (56:28):
Coach or something like that.

Speaker 6 (56:30):
They don't have to have like a purpose for other people,
Like it's their purposes living and raising their kids.

Speaker 1 (56:37):
Like what you just said.

Speaker 3 (56:38):
I used to put that pressure on myself. I would
think that my purpose is for other people, and I
would lose them. I put it like on a global scale,
you'd like, I'm.

Speaker 1 (56:46):
Supposed to be this athlete and blah blah blah this
other shit. I thought. I felt like I had to
do something that left a big mark on the world.

Speaker 3 (56:54):
I'm like, not everybody is meant for that. That's not
everybody's path. And it's like, like you said, your purpose
don't got to be for other people.

Speaker 5 (57:02):
It might just be for your family, your kids. Like you,
you made an impact on somebody, so it doesn't.

Speaker 6 (57:08):
Have to be like on a global level or you know,
on a super large scale where there's some people that
know you and know what you've done, Like it could
just be your family.

Speaker 3 (57:17):
So a lot of people, I feel like a lot
of people struggle with it, like if they don't leave
behind this amazing legacy, they feel which.

Speaker 1 (57:24):
That's not true.

Speaker 2 (57:25):
And I think part of that too, not only like
with society's pressure, but I think we you know, you
think about like how we had these motivational speakers that'd
be like, you know, you can do this, you can
do and not everybody can everybody if.

Speaker 5 (57:37):
He wants to, like you, just people just don't want
to or like you, they can't.

Speaker 3 (57:41):
But no, and then you gotta think. I actually thought
about this not too long ago. It's I'm gonna get
back to the original thing. But one time I was
watching this, uh, this predator thing. It was catching all
these predators just praying on kids.

Speaker 2 (57:53):
I'm like, what the fuck is wrong with you?

Speaker 3 (57:54):
Why would you be attracted to these kids? I'm found
about It was like, not everybody's brain is wired the
same way. Yeah, like them motherfuckers can't help they attracted
to it. Yeah they're still sick, but they if they
have people in their corner target to them, like you
need should be doing that, get them some help. It's
the same thing with telling everybody they can all do this.
You can do this if you just work hard.

Speaker 1 (58:14):
No the fuck you can't. Not everybody's brain.

Speaker 3 (58:16):
Everybody has the same motivation, same dedication, perseverance, all.

Speaker 1 (58:20):
The other adjectives.

Speaker 3 (58:21):
Not everybody is wired the same to do the same shit.
So it's like you can't tell everybody.

Speaker 1 (58:27):
All you gotta do is do what I did. No,
that's not going to work for everybody. So it's like.

Speaker 3 (58:34):
It's a lot of stuff that people do is circumstantial.
Like some of the athletes, they were blessed with just
great genetics. It could be somebody who works harder than them,
but they just don't got the talent. Some of the
billionaire tycoons, they happen to know somebody know somebody knows somebody.
We don't all get them same opportunities. It don't mean
that you don't really have anything that you're supposed to

(58:55):
are not supposed to do, But it don't mean that
you can't impact somebody, right, But don't put the pressure
on yourself that you gotta be like world renowned and yeah, yeah,
like they got to talk about me like Martin Luther King.
Because you do that, then yeah you're gonna feel like
life sucks.

Speaker 5 (59:13):
Just if you're a parent. Just try your heart, humans
and job.

Speaker 1 (59:18):
And that's that thing.

Speaker 3 (59:19):
Don't don't tell your kids they have to go to
some major university or something like that. If they find
something they like and they're able to take care of themselves,
encourage that ship.

Speaker 2 (59:30):
Yeah, because even with that, as you were talking to
I started thinking about how whenever I was a kid,
and I remember as a kid, I thought I was
gonna be the greatest football, basketball, soccer player of all time,
bro lived my life. Yeah, then I thought I was
gonna take that, get into the movies, have my commercials.

(59:50):
I thought I was gonna have my own clothing line,
Like I had all these big ass ideas as a kid.
And the beautiful thing about that is because I had
all these ideas of these different things that I was
going to do, my whole life wasn't just about playing football.
And I know a lot of times with a lot
of my old teammates, that's all they ever had in
their mind was I gotta play. I got to make

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it to the league, and that's all that they thought
they were to where when I think all athletes go
through this little sad state whenever we're done, because we
know we can't do it anymore. But for me, it
was easier to get out of that because I always
knew I was going to do X, Y and Z.
Even though I still I've done those things on a
smaller scale, but like on a large scale, I'm still
not in the movies yet. But my whole life, I

(01:00:35):
knew I was going to be an entrepreneur. I knew
I was going to get into a whole bunch of
different things, So that made the transition easier for me
when it came to that. But I also was looking
at my parents, like, yo, I gotta be bigger than there.
Has it happened yet, No, But I'm still I'm still
trying to aim for that shit because both my parents
are like I put my dad at like a D

(01:00:56):
list celebrity, and my mom's working her way up to
like a B listleing. So like my mom's way more
famous than my dad. Now, Like they both got a
Wikipedia page, which is which is whatever you can tape
their name, and they're gonna pop up on Google, so
like they're famous. Me to type me up, you got
to specifically write a certain thing in there for me

(01:01:17):
to pop up. And that's perfectly fine. One day the
show is gonna pop off, and and I ain't gonna
go do ship.

Speaker 1 (01:01:24):
See I'm trying to. I'm trying to one day get
cast alongside Michael, that's all.

Speaker 2 (01:01:31):
You won't so we won't just one day.

Speaker 1 (01:01:34):
Of course, I'm just gonna be a supporting actor.

Speaker 2 (01:01:36):
That's all. I just want to be one major motion picture.
But like I said, I don't put my my life
into like purpose. Like it's like it's never like some
if I don't do this, it's not like my purpose
is for me. Like it's all within the realm of
the Tony universe. And so if I feel like I'm

(01:01:58):
fulfilling myself and I feel like I'm hitting everything that
I'm trying to hit, yeah, I'm still striving for more.
I think that is within my purpose because at the
end of the day, we're all gonna die. I just
want to be remembered, and I'm gonna be remembered through
this podcast because once me and Eddie and Risk they
are gone, the podcast will live forever. Yeah, let the

(01:02:18):
church say, man.

Speaker 1 (01:02:20):
I kind of want to be remembered too, even though
I won't know what's going on. Cool. Yeah, at least
at least for fifty years or something.

Speaker 2 (01:02:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:02:28):
Just I don't want it to be like, all right,
you've been dead for two much.

Speaker 2 (01:02:31):
Yeah, Like I would love for my great great great
grand kids to discover this podcast and be like, yo,
motherfuckers living, motherfucker's pretty dope, motherfucker's wold.

Speaker 1 (01:02:42):
Because I'm not. I ain't gonna put the pressure on
myself to be up. There were like the all time
known people that ain't gonna happen. If it was, it
would have happened already. Maybe.

Speaker 2 (01:02:52):
I mean, we look at Samuel Jackson, took him a minute.
We're still younger than he was before he broke.

Speaker 1 (01:02:56):
Up, even die and furious.

Speaker 2 (01:03:02):
Yeah, I mean he was a riddic though.

Speaker 1 (01:03:05):
Yeah, still on a game.

Speaker 2 (01:03:11):
Yeah. If y'all, If y'all have thoughts on that finding
your purpose, send us those emails. Love to hear y'all
thoughts on that last topic of the night.

Speaker 1 (01:03:23):
I don't want to talk about this.

Speaker 2 (01:03:24):
We ain't gonna talk about this right now because I
know Steven has.

Speaker 1 (01:03:28):
Something to say on this.

Speaker 2 (01:03:29):
I definitely know Steven has something to say on this,
So we're gonna wait until next week. That's your exis family.
We also got attractions about timing and situations where you
expect racism. Plus I have a racism game to play
next week, so excited about that. Risky.

Speaker 1 (01:03:47):
I guess that means you have to come back.

Speaker 5 (01:03:49):
I'm at home next thing.

Speaker 2 (01:03:50):
So fine, Yeah, to talk about racism, but appreciate y'all
every week coming through listening to us. I hate the
fact that we're not live, so it takes a while
for me to see what we did numbers wise, but
I just we've been doing this for a long ass time,
and I just appreciate everybody just listening, just taking the

(01:04:12):
time out of your day just to listen to us.

Speaker 1 (01:04:14):
So I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 3 (01:04:15):
That is a pretty dope feeling, just knowing that it's
people loyally listening. It's like every week just tuning in.
I actually appreciate y'all for that, because if you told
me what ten years ago i'd be doing something where
it's thousands of people listening every week, I would have
been like, yeah, hey.

Speaker 2 (01:04:37):
We will take it. So go to Google type of
oo they funny as three yos with an age. Anything
that has to do with us will pop up. Continue
sending those emails The shows zero three two at gmail
dot com. Again, the shows zero three two at gmail
dot com. Yes, I saw your in my assholes. No,
they weren't good, which is why I did not read them.
Do better, Do better? Risk? How can I get at

(01:05:01):
you on? I G at Risk E P I G
Black Superman And when it couse to my instagram's missed
no River two k FI, I'm missed no bever.

Speaker 1 (01:05:09):
K one more time?

Speaker 2 (01:05:10):
Step ain't here it's mister n O V E M
B E R two K five A C would be
so mad at you, Stephen.

Speaker 1 (01:05:17):
And if you don't know, now you know peace. I

(01:05:39):
just want to thank you for listening to this show.
You're home with us, laugh with us.

Speaker 7 (01:05:45):
Now we gotta go controversial, thought provoking it to a guarantee.

Speaker 1 (01:05:52):
If you're tune in, we'll show why I didn't get
your watching me.

Speaker 7 (01:05:56):
You have a busy life, man, I know that you
got options. But every Wednesday, you know it's on. We're
gonna keep this party rocking. Just tune in and jail out.
You'll never know what we'll talk about. Just want to
thank you for helping us grow. If you don't know, well,
now you know. Riding with us high side with us,
getting plied with, it's gonna live with us kind of

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high fitness.

Speaker 1 (01:06:17):
Never stop with us.

Speaker 7 (01:06:18):
The belief will always have a good show. If we go,
it's the show. It's the show.

Speaker 1 (01:06:24):
That's the end. Gotta go, gotta go, gotta go. And
for riding with us high side, with us, getting plied with,
it's gonna live with us kind of high with.

Speaker 7 (01:06:34):
Us, them stop with us, the belief we will always
have a good show. If we go, it's the show.
It's the show. That's the end, there's no more. Hey,
thanks for tuning into the show, the show, the show. Hey,
thanks for tuning into the show.

Speaker 2 (01:06:56):
The show, the show, the nase.

Speaker 1 (01:07:01):
We turned it into the show.