May 11, 2025 • 28 mins
It’s Mother’s Day, and AJ (@ajandhisbackpack) and Rose (@irreplaceable_rodriguez) are back with a spicy tribute to moms—served with a side of truth and a dash of judgment. First, they ask the hard question: are moms playing the “I’m a mom” card like it’s a free pass? Then it’s a battle of the solo squads—who’s got it rougher: single moms or single men? And finally, let’s get honest... are you side-eyeing that mom whose kid is wildin’ out at Target? (No judgment... okay maybe a little). Tune in, laugh loud, and maybe call your mama after.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Of y Jay McLaughlin, I'm Ryan Rue, I'm DJ Rich
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of Opinions and Consequences, the podcast, the show where Europeans
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Speaker 2 (00:11):
So choose your words wisely, enjoy the show.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Hey, hey, hey, hey hey, get him man, m man.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Listening.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Then welcome back to another episode of Apeans Consequences Off
the books. Guys, I got a guest back in the building. Man,
I want to give a big welcome back.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
To Rose back of the buildings.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
It's goody. How you doing.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
I'm going, I'm thinking yourself.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I'm maintaining. I'm maintaining. I'm seeing better.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
You're seeing that, Okay?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Then okay, then okay, then you see okay, you see me,
nig I get my little blue spending on. Okay, I'm
in callingy. You didn't even know who I was, right,
I don't even know who I was right. I was like,
cut it, just cut it out, es, Yeah, real talk.
But guy's man, this is a special episode.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Man.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Happy Mother's Day.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
That's a Mother's Day special man, So happy Mother's Day
to everybody out there.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
You know. Just before and I'm gonna say that after too.
You know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Happy Mother's Day to everybody out there, okay, and happy
Mother's Day to you too.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
You think you all right? All right? But how's everything?
Everything's good?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Cope, setic? Working hard, working hard.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
For sure. Yeah, oh yeah, long hours.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Long hours. Yeah you definitely sound hispanic. It's long hours.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
But there's a difference. See they're working long hours.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Just you know what, what's the difference? No, no, no, go ahead,
go ahead, go ahead. You got the mic, you got
the mic. What's the difference. What's the difference between you
working long hours and the other has been?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
It's working long hours? No, people, I need to hear this.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Harder.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Okay, all right, okay, that's wild. Anything else? Like, who
do you got plans for today? All right, listen, we're
gonna get right into it. We're gonna get right into it. People, Listen, man,
this is the Mother's Day Special. We got a lot
of stuff cooked up on the itinerary. First things first,
(02:29):
like I've been wanting to notice for a long time, guys,
do moms weaponize that I'm a mom card way too often?
We need to talk about that and keep it real,
keep it real. Like you, you being a mother, you
being a mother, do you weaponize it a lot? Because
I feel like you guys use that as a get
out of jail free card.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
Damn well, that shows your point of view. But I
will say that the one to weaponize it, I think
it has to do a lot with their maturity level,
because there's going to be women who are going to
use the I'm a mom card to like you said,
get out of jail for your car. But then you
(03:12):
have the ones who that's the reason, that's the reason
to keep pushing forward, that's the reason to work hard,
that's the reason to hold themselves accountable. So I would
say it just comes down to the maturity level and
a lot of times you're going to see and again,
this doesn't even matter like age wise, this is literally
just like what your mindset is. There's a lot of
people who usually tend to use that line, and it's
(03:35):
because they're trying to again just not hold themselves accountable
for whatever life they're living, or you know, just actually
I'm experiencing this with someone that I currently work with,
so yes, yeah, but it's just like you constantly hear
that excuse over and over and over again, and then
(03:58):
you start to wonder, like when are you going to
use that I'm a mom card to say, let me
get my button here and do some work kicks for
myself for our future.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
So I'm a cloud, I'm a cloud.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
But no, I do I do agree, you know, I
can't personally sit here and say that yeah, like, yeah,
we use I'm a mom card, But like, I feel
like a lot more people, I feel like they use
it to hide certain other things and what's up in
what sense?
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Like you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Like I feel like it's it's kind of like a oh,
you gotta understand that I'm a mom type thing like
and I'm like, okay, what does that have to do
with you not calling them back? Like what the you
know what I mean? Like you're using me like you
have to understand I'm a mother.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
So are you born? Okay, so elaborate a little bit.
Are you using it as a like you're talking about
in the aspect of like relationships wise.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Or no, like this just like context wise, Like I
feel like a lot of people use it as an
excuse to get out of something like where it's just like, oh, okay,
I'm just gonna say this because of this, you know
what I mean? Like, I feel like I feel like
a lot of people and I'm not saying that everyone
does it, but I feel like they use that. Well,
you have to realize, I'm a mom sis, so that's
(05:18):
why you called out four days in a row. You
didn't even call you did, like no call.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
No, right exactly. Yes, I can definitely understand what you're
saying there, so that that's pretty much what I'm saying.
It comes down to the maturity level. Like those are
the people who usually don't hold themselves accountable, so they
will use their kids as an excuse for them not
what's the word amounting to anything? Really? You know, Oh,
it's because if my kids that I can't finish school
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can get the job done, didn't do you know, X,
Y and Z. So like I said, that's usually the
immature ones who just really don't want to hold themselves
was accountable for anything.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Do you do you feel like do you feel like
people abuse it or lover like? You know what I mean? Like,
I feel like I feel like because it's it's.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
It's the it's the one card where no one really
wants to overstep.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
No, I don't think that it's uh, they're abusing it.
I mean, like I said, only the ones who are
just not trying to hold themselves accountable, because there are
definitely times, I mean, I myself and my mother, and
there's only so much one mom can do in a day,
you know, we have to do we have to work
twice as hard to get where someone else can get
(06:39):
in just a few you know months. So I I
and I live that for work. I live that in
my life. That's just the reality of things, Like, there
are things that we have to sacrifice and give up,
and it's always gonna be a tough choice of having
to say, Okay, what am I going to sacrifice today
in order to get to where I want to be now?
(07:00):
Don't no, it's not to It's definitely not something that
is just being abused by you know, just anyone. It's
it's you're literally choosing your life every single day and
your future every single day.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Listen, I'm listen. I agree. I agree.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
I just feel like like and I think we're on
the same page, like you, like, we're agreeing that a
lot of people that based off their maturity level, they're
going to abuse certain weapons of you know, being a
mother to either deflect or to kind of overshadow either
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their work ethic, either being motivated to do more either
you know, striving and all that stuff. Because I feel like,
you know what I mean, it's kind of like you
know and you know it to be on a It's
like I feel like with a lot of other people, know,
we do this too, Like we do this as like
oh damn, like you know, only if I had this,
(08:08):
this would have been better in my life type thing.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Like you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
We always love to deflect on certain things that are
going on in our lives.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
Right, we try to just put it on the on
the outer aspects that are affecting our life. But we
don't choose to be introspective.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Yeah, we don't take accountability for just being like nah, bro,
you're lazy. Yeah, Like nah bro, not you didn't want
to do that, bro, Like let's keep it a funk,
let's keep it ninety or no.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
It's like you're disorganized, like if you had something and
you would definitely be able to you know, figure it
out pretty much how it is for everyone. So having
kids doesn't change that factor for anyone. Really, it just
means you've got to you know, work a little bit
more and kind of be a little again, working smarter, harder.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Listen, man, you couldn't agree. Man, I manage you. I
know you had a question. And this is this. Hey listen,
listen to people. You gotta listen to this one. Listen
to this one. People, listen. Who do you think has
it harder single moms or single men? Talk to me?
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Listen. Okay, look, I'm let me click up real quick.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
I'll let you.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
And this is based off of me. I think that
you know, single men have it a bit harder when
it comes down to dating a single mom.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
So when you say who has it harder, your your
references to.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Dating in terms of dating, I think men have it harder.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Why.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
I feel like they have to give up more in
the beginning then to receive a lot at the end.
And this is and this is based off of just hope.
This is old people, This is hope. I'm all basically
all hope. Okay, listen, because you gotta think about it.
You gotta think about it. You got to think about
it like this, like you know what I mean. They
have to forfeit a lot. They have to forfeit because
(10:16):
you gotta think about it, like, you know, like you
as a single mother, you know what I mean, you
as a mother, just just just just like that in general,
you as a mother, what comes first child?
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Bingo.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
So it's like this, I'm already like I'm thinking riding shotgun.
You're like, no, get on the back, bro, put them
a seatbelt. My my, my child sits in the front.
You see what I'm saying. Though, so automatically you already
have to go into it with the mentality like I,
I gotta figure out how to make two people happy, yep,
(10:50):
versus you gotta figure out how to make.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
One person.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
Talk to me, Talk to me, talk to me. I
got you, guys, God, I got you. I'm iffy. I'm iffy.
Go ahead, go ahead, ma'am, go ahead, ma'am.
Speaker 4 (11:06):
Okay, fix my sheep. You see. I Logically that makes sense.
But here's the factors that you have to you know,
consider a single mom is doing a mother's work and
a father's job too. There is a love there is.
So here's what I'll say, a lot of times, it's
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hard for a guide to integrate himself into a family.
First of all, because when you're trying to date a
single mother. You're not just dating a single mother. You're
trying to learn to be a family man and integrate
yourself into it. So it all just comes down to
how the guide learns to manage that test. Because let's
be real here, if you are used to dating single women,
(11:52):
there is a lot of factors that you're not considering
as a single man that you are now going to
have to consider if you're dating someone who as a child.
So I wouldn't say that I would still believe it's
harder for the woman because you have to consider the
fact that the man you know you first of all,
if you like the guy, cool, right, But then you
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have to consider if your kid's gonna like the guy? Right?
Then you have to consider the fact that you know,
is he willing to integrate himself into your life and take,
you know, that position that's supposed to be a family man?
You know, is he going to protect? Is he going
to provide? Is he does he care about holding emotional
space not just for you, but for your child? Is
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he willing to step up to the plate. So there's
all of these factors that you have to consider in
a guy, and you can't just go out and just
pick whatever guy you want just because you like them,
just because there's chemistry, just because you're attractive to them.
You have to consider what does my life look like
with this man if I choose him? Right, what is
my child's life going to look like? How will she
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progress or he progressive? It's apt you know. Those are
all of the things that we have to consider. It's
not just like, oh, I really like this guy. Let's
see where it goes, which is what you would be
able to do it? How'd you been a single person?
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Right?
Speaker 4 (13:12):
So it's your tap to learn to make two people
happy if you're dating a single woman. But a woman
has to consider what kind of man is going to
lead her family.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
Listen, I'm not I'm not listen. We're gonna we're gonna
circle back to this. Guys, Listen, we're gonna circle back
to this. But I love the bars. I love the bars.
You're gonna talk to the back because that's an interesting
topic because you know what I mean, I know a
lot of people would love to hear more about that.
Let me ask you this, what's your what's your opinion
on hot moms versus wholesome moms? And can you be both,
and let's you know what you know, and I'm gonna
(13:45):
give I'm gonna give you guys a definition, so.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Kind of like you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
A wholesome mom typically refers to a mother who embodies
qualities associated with prompting well being and positive influence.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
On her children and family.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
Listening could include healthy, caring, kind, morally, sound, okay.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Cool.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
Hot moms can refer to who is both a mother
and proceed as sexually attractive or desirable, often in a
way that challenges the traditional stereotype of mother being.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
A mother, mother bring a mother. So here's what I think.
First of all, I think you can be both.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
This whole neck movement, you gotta che says you gonna
strain your neck kind.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
Of got She's like, you better let me, you better
let me. I think you can be both. But here's
the thing. When you hear hot mom and wholesome mom,
they sound like very separate entities, right, because you're going
to associate the hot moms with the mom that you
(14:58):
know it is shaking her on Instagram probably, you know,
wearing the short mini skirts and like the whole nine
the twitty, right, you know, And let's be real There
are women who just have that sexual appeal and they
don't really have to do all that, you know what
(15:19):
I'm saying, Like, she might just be hot just because
she looks good. She's, you know, the good grace of God,
she got the looks, you know, So I can't and
what if she's not the person who's like into the
whole being a hot mom thing. That's not her personality.
There are some moms who are hot and they will
make that their entire personality. Then you have women who
(15:41):
are just hot, but they you know, they'd rather be
a wholesome mom. You know, they have values. They they
rather put their energies and their efforts into an image
that their kids are going to follow, versus you know, oh,
the hot mom is probably thinking more of like, well,
this is like my asset, this is how I'm going
to provide for my kids, or whatever may be the cause.
(16:03):
But yeah, I wouldn't always It's not black and white
all the time. There's definitely a bit of a gray
area where a mom can be both and that doesn't
necessarily you know, I mean that I don't know that
you can you can't be both, I don't know. And
for me, it's like, yeah, it's some can be both.
(16:24):
Others are just gonna fall on either end of the spectrum.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
Okay, okay, listen, I'd love to hear everybody's thoughts on this,
because you know what I mean, Like I don't, I don't,
I don't know. I don't know if they could be both,
you know, because you know, certain people have their whole
definition of a wholesome mom.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Like you know, somebody may think a wholesome mom is like.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
The modest mom, the neighborhood part of the neighborhood watch program,
church leader, like you know what I.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Mean, So you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
So a lot of subjective.
Speaker 3 (16:57):
It could be very subjective where you know, like you said,
the hot mom could have the only fans you know,
you know what I mean, But she don't.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
She don't drive the minivans.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
She drives like a gl like you know what I mean,
the g wagon and something like that, you know what
I mean. So like it's it does vary on whoever
is defining it. But that's interesting because you know what
I mean, I always like I was always looking, I
was always thinking, like all right, damn, it was like damn, could.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
They be both?
Speaker 3 (17:22):
Could they be like, could they be wholesome and hot
at the same time.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
Nah, you can't unless you do like like a half
and half.
Speaker 4 (17:29):
Like I feel that's going to be subjective because.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
There on a weekend need to be a hot mom,
and then you could be wholesome during the week.
Speaker 4 (17:35):
But what about the people who are into women who
are intelligent business woman, they might think that's hot again,
that's all that's it is, so like you see in
that person's eyes that woman is hot because she's intellectual
and she looks good, and you know, she's pretty much
the whole package for them.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Okay, let me ask you this, yo, and this is
this is this is tough because I know a lot
of you females do this out there, a lot of
you females, be honest. Do you ever judge moms based
on how their kids act in public?
Speaker 4 (18:13):
Okay, there's a few factors that I would be judging.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
We go, here, we go, oh, here we go.
Speaker 4 (18:20):
It depends on how old the child is, right, all right,
all right, all right?
Speaker 2 (18:23):
Right?
Speaker 4 (18:25):
For example, if I see a toddler acting out in
public and he or she is tan tripping on the
ground and the mom is just standing there and just
letting them, you know, just letting them take the fumes out.
I wouldn't judge that because I mean, or at least
I wouldn't judge it in a negative way, because that,
to me is like, you know what, I've been there,
(18:46):
I get it. Toddler sometimes don't have the capacity to understand,
you know, understand when your parents trying to communicate like hey,
we can't get this today, but we can get it
tomorrow or whatever it is. They all the child knows
is that they're upset that they're not getting what they want,
and so they tantrum because they don't know how to
handle their emotions. Right now, if I see a thirteen
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year old girl and she's over here, you know, cussing
out her mom or you know, doing something of that nature,
then that's where I start to judge a little bit
because how did she get to that point? Why is
she at this point at only thirteen years of age
where she feels like she can disrespect you in such
a manner and in public, embarrassing herself and you that
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you see, So that those are the kind of things
that I would be judging a little bit more. Shan't
say like, Okay, you clearly didn't do your job in
the beginning, and now the results are showing to.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
So you just you you automatically like is like an
inside voice you or you just like, Yeah, I swear
for the Lord. I wish that was my kid.
Speaker 3 (19:53):
Parents swear my kid don't have like that. They know better,
they know better, Like yeah, you're like they know better.
Speaker 4 (20:00):
They know better, like they no better for sure, I.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
Swear, and then you do the whole life. Yo, I
swif you ever I like that in public?
Speaker 4 (20:07):
No, you see, I want to judge, but I want
to do that to my daughter. I will only correct
her on where she's from. But I don't bring like
any outside stuff into that, because what you don't need
to intimidate your kid, especially if you know that you've
taken the steps to make sure that your kid respects you,
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that you guys have a good relationship and that it's yeah, like,
I don't need to do that because I already have
cut all the effort in the beginning.
Speaker 3 (20:40):
I'm not saying I judge, but I've been on a
few planes.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Lit'sen been a few, a few like five, But.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
You know, sometimes I'm just like, I swear full Lord,
I swear lord, and it's I'm you know what, and
I'm nobody to sit here and sit here and tell
you how to raise a kid. I'm you know, I
don't I don't have no kids and all that stuffs like,
so I can't sit here and tell you what to
(21:12):
do what not to do. That's one thing I can't do.
I can't speak on that. However, Damn, I think I
would give the kid to look like you know what
I mean.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
If I had a kid like, you know what I mean,
I'll give them that like, try me like, you know
what I mean that, try me look like you know
what I mean?
Speaker 3 (21:30):
Like, And I feel like a lot of times you
know what I mean like And that's and that's one
of the things where I envy a lot of parents
where I'm like, yo, like how did you do this?
How did you build this rapport? How did you how
did you maintain this?
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Monster?
Speaker 3 (21:48):
Like?
Speaker 2 (21:48):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (21:49):
Because at the end of the day, like listen, if
you don't if you don't treat or or you don't educate, tutor,
you're child like, your child's gonna turn into a minute.
So I'm gonna keep it a hunting like you know
what I mean.
Speaker 4 (22:04):
Like, so likely there's no lack of order, what do
you expect them to respect the future?
Speaker 2 (22:08):
So I envy you.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
I envy all the moms, all the dads, single dads.
You got the cape out there, you guys.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
That's raising these wholestum kids that are like you know,
like I want to say, straight line and anything, and
there's no direspect for the because for the kids that
you know are out of order and all that stuff.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
You know what I mean. That's it is what it is.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
But at the same time, I gotta envy you guys
for that because it takes a lot.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
It takes a lot to be.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Able to to be able to do that, you know
what I mean, Like especially you know, while having a
life and doing all the extra stuff, like where a
lot of people, a lot of other people that don't
appreciate that, right, you know what I mean. But like damn,
I'm not saying I'll put the hands on the kids,
but like you know what I mean, Like my mom
used to always do like I don't know, like what
was the experience like with your mom, Like would you
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like what did she give you a look? Or like
did she grab like the hang up the wire like
you know how the Hispanic houseoles be like you know
what I mean, they grab whatever the like, you know,
like a frisbee.
Speaker 4 (23:09):
Oh yeah, I remember that one.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
All right, listen, we're gonna go through a little rapid
fire real quick. Okay, talk to me. Do mom secretly
judge other moms harder than the rest of us? Do?
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Only the ones who think they're above everyone will judge
the hardest. And they're probably the ones with the worst kids.
They have no idea that are acting up, but you
know they that their kids are kes.
Speaker 2 (23:36):
Okay, I'm just saying.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
Can a mom posts a thirst trap in a Bible
verse in the same week?
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Can't? Can you do that?
Speaker 4 (23:51):
I mean, they shouldn't forget the same week. It shouldn't
be done at all.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
You gotta man, how that's sad? Mess her?
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Damn?
Speaker 3 (24:04):
How you gonna be twerking when we're talking about twer
they're talking about yo, three sixteen Corinthians, like, Yo, we
should follow the light of God.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
I'm like, what just happened?
Speaker 3 (24:15):
Like, Yo, she was just in Miami doing all this
twerk and stuff, and now all of a sudden it's.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
If she has the only fans, mom, If she has
only fans and bakes organic muffins, what do you call them?
Speaker 4 (24:30):
A hypocritic?
Speaker 3 (24:33):
That's fun up. I call her Sarah Lee Man. Shout
out to Sarah Lee Man. Betty Crocker shout out to
you guys. Man, you guys are making it work. Man,
you're making it work. I don't care, yo, you're making
buff muffins, cookies, cakes, yo. Did She's like, who's better
at pretending everything is fine when it's clearly not between
(24:54):
a man and a woman?
Speaker 4 (24:57):
You better pretending? Man. I'm sorry men.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
And that's He's like, okay, go ahead, go ahead, guys.
Speaker 4 (25:07):
We can't really pretend for the life of us. We'll
tell you we're fine, but we're really not. You'll see
it in our facial expressions and our body language and
our tone. A guy could be going through hell and
beyond and say he's fine, and and you know he'll
be silent.
Speaker 2 (25:27):
Now. I ain't gonna lie to you. I got a
side with her on this one, guys. I got to
side with her. Listen, men, listen.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Us men, like, we only have two speeds, Like it's
either we're fine or pissed like that's it. We can't
be in the middle, like because in the middle that
means that you're emotionally we're like, oh, what's going on?
Like why you're doing? Why you're doing? You know, why
are you moving like this? Like Yo, we can only
be either fine or upset. Yeah, No, I'm with you
on that one. I'm with you on that one. Yeah,
(25:52):
because you females, you could do all of the start
slamming stuff and then you know what I mean, talking
extra loud on the phone like what's going on?
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Like you know what I mean? Because we got to
talk about it exactly exactly. Yeah, Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
All right, listen before we get out of here, people,
any shout outs you want to give, No shout out
to all the moms out there, you know what I mean, the.
Speaker 4 (26:16):
Ones who are working hard and every day making those
sacrifices for your children. I solute you. It's not easy,
but you're the ones that are going to come out
on top. But you're definitely the model we need.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
Damn don't talk about it. Listen, man, big shout out
to all the moms out there. Love you, mom, Happy
Mother's Day, Happy Mother's Day. Tati Happy mother Day to
all my aunts, cousins, newly parenting, all all you guys
that are just becoming a mom, becoming a parent and
all that stuff. I don't care if you're a male
or female. Tomorrow's your day to No, today's your day too, tomorrow,
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matter of fact, like every day is your day yo,
like yo, because I feel like a lot of times
like I feel like we we do this whole like yo,
Mother's Day, Father's Day Like nah, bro, I think it
should be one day like a like a parent.
Speaker 4 (27:07):
Day, a parent's day. Now, that gets messy very quickly.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
How does that get messy? That's not that's not right.
Speaker 4 (27:14):
It'll get messy very quickly. Yeah. Because here's the thing
you as a mom, you want to feel appreciated. Imagine
having to share that with your husband or the father
of your children. Think about that for a second.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
Yeah, yeah, because he equally does a lot a lot too.
Speaker 4 (27:32):
Okay, that's why there's Father's Day. Think about it for
a minute. Do you do you, as a man, enjoy
being acknowledged for your efforts, being respected, getting the recognition
for the things that you do for the you know,
for yourself or for your family. I know you don't
have an immediate family of your own, but at least
for the people that you care about.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Okay, first of all, do you I have a lot
of friends that tell me what they get.
Speaker 4 (27:54):
For Father's Day, Okay, and all.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Of them are sad.
Speaker 4 (27:57):
Okay, all of them all right for you guys.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
Looking on for you, guys, Listen, guy, listen, We're gonna
we're gonna have this off topic. Listen, man, Guys, stay
tuned for a dope episode. Thank you for tuning and in.
But until next time, sality changes. Happy mothers to everybody
Speaker 2 (28:14):
Chip shout out to Roadse Happy Mothers Day.
Of y Jay McLaughlin, I'm Ryan Rue, I'm DJ Rich
the Tough for Plinny Martinez, and we are the hosts
of Opinions and Consequences, the podcast, the show where Europeans
can lead to consequences.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
So choose your words wisely, enjoy the show.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Hey, hey, hey, hey hey, get him man, m man.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Listening.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Then welcome back to another episode of Apeans Consequences Off
the books. Guys, I got a guest back in the building. Man,
I want to give a big welcome back.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
To Rose back of the buildings.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
It's goody. How you doing.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
I'm going, I'm thinking yourself.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I'm maintaining. I'm maintaining. I'm seeing better.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
You're seeing that, Okay?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Then okay, then okay, then you see okay, you see me,
nig I get my little blue spending on. Okay, I'm
in callingy. You didn't even know who I was, right,
I don't even know who I was right. I was like,
cut it, just cut it out, es, Yeah, real talk.
But guy's man, this is a special episode.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Man.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Happy Mother's Day.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
That's a Mother's Day special man, So happy Mother's Day
to everybody out there.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
You know. Just before and I'm gonna say that after too.
You know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Happy Mother's Day to everybody out there, okay, and happy
Mother's Day to you too.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
You think you all right? All right? But how's everything?
Everything's good?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Cope, setic? Working hard, working hard.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
For sure. Yeah, oh yeah, long hours.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Long hours. Yeah you definitely sound hispanic. It's long hours.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
But there's a difference. See they're working long hours.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Just you know what, what's the difference? No, no, no, go ahead,
go ahead, go ahead. You got the mic, you got
the mic. What's the difference. What's the difference between you
working long hours and the other has been?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
It's working long hours? No, people, I need to hear this.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Harder.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Okay, all right, okay, that's wild. Anything else? Like, who
do you got plans for today? All right, listen, we're
gonna get right into it. We're gonna get right into it. People, Listen, man,
this is the Mother's Day Special. We got a lot
of stuff cooked up on the itinerary. First things first,
(02:29):
like I've been wanting to notice for a long time, guys,
do moms weaponize that I'm a mom card way too often?
We need to talk about that and keep it real,
keep it real. Like you, you being a mother, you
being a mother, do you weaponize it a lot? Because
I feel like you guys use that as a get
out of jail free card.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
Damn well, that shows your point of view. But I
will say that the one to weaponize it, I think
it has to do a lot with their maturity level,
because there's going to be women who are going to
use the I'm a mom card to like you said,
get out of jail for your car. But then you
(03:12):
have the ones who that's the reason, that's the reason
to keep pushing forward, that's the reason to work hard,
that's the reason to hold themselves accountable. So I would
say it just comes down to the maturity level and
a lot of times you're going to see and again,
this doesn't even matter like age wise, this is literally
just like what your mindset is. There's a lot of
people who usually tend to use that line, and it's
(03:35):
because they're trying to again just not hold themselves accountable
for whatever life they're living, or you know, just actually
I'm experiencing this with someone that I currently work with,
so yes, yeah, but it's just like you constantly hear
that excuse over and over and over again, and then
(03:58):
you start to wonder, like when are you going to
use that I'm a mom card to say, let me
get my button here and do some work kicks for
myself for our future.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
So I'm a cloud, I'm a cloud.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
But no, I do I do agree, you know, I
can't personally sit here and say that yeah, like, yeah,
we use I'm a mom card, But like, I feel
like a lot more people, I feel like they use
it to hide certain other things and what's up in
what sense?
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Like you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Like I feel like it's it's kind of like a oh,
you gotta understand that I'm a mom type thing like
and I'm like, okay, what does that have to do
with you not calling them back? Like what the you
know what I mean? Like you're using me like you
have to understand I'm a mother.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
So are you born? Okay, so elaborate a little bit.
Are you using it as a like you're talking about
in the aspect of like relationships wise.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Or no, like this just like context wise, Like I
feel like a lot of people use it as an
excuse to get out of something like where it's just like, oh, okay,
I'm just gonna say this because of this, you know
what I mean? Like, I feel like I feel like
a lot of people and I'm not saying that everyone
does it, but I feel like they use that. Well,
you have to realize, I'm a mom sis, so that's
(05:18):
why you called out four days in a row. You
didn't even call you did, like no call.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
No, right exactly. Yes, I can definitely understand what you're
saying there, so that that's pretty much what I'm saying.
It comes down to the maturity level. Like those are
the people who usually don't hold themselves accountable, so they
will use their kids as an excuse for them not
what's the word amounting to anything? Really? You know, Oh,
it's because if my kids that I can't finish school
(05:49):
can get the job done, didn't do you know, X,
Y and Z. So like I said, that's usually the
immature ones who just really don't want to hold themselves
was accountable for anything.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Do you do you feel like do you feel like
people abuse it or lover like? You know what I mean? Like,
I feel like I feel like because it's it's.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
It's the it's the one card where no one really
wants to overstep.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
No, I don't think that it's uh, they're abusing it.
I mean, like I said, only the ones who are
just not trying to hold themselves accountable, because there are
definitely times, I mean, I myself and my mother, and
there's only so much one mom can do in a day,
you know, we have to do we have to work
twice as hard to get where someone else can get
(06:39):
in just a few you know months. So I I
and I live that for work. I live that in
my life. That's just the reality of things, Like, there
are things that we have to sacrifice and give up,
and it's always gonna be a tough choice of having
to say, Okay, what am I going to sacrifice today
in order to get to where I want to be now?
(07:00):
Don't no, it's not to It's definitely not something that
is just being abused by you know, just anyone. It's
it's you're literally choosing your life every single day and
your future every single day.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Listen, I'm listen. I agree. I agree.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
I just feel like like and I think we're on
the same page, like you, like, we're agreeing that a
lot of people that based off their maturity level, they're
going to abuse certain weapons of you know, being a
mother to either deflect or to kind of overshadow either
(07:47):
their work ethic, either being motivated to do more either
you know, striving and all that stuff. Because I feel like,
you know what I mean, it's kind of like you
know and you know it to be on a It's
like I feel like with a lot of other people, know,
we do this too, Like we do this as like
oh damn, like you know, only if I had this,
(08:08):
this would have been better in my life type thing.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Like you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
We always love to deflect on certain things that are
going on in our lives.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
Right, we try to just put it on the on
the outer aspects that are affecting our life. But we
don't choose to be introspective.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Yeah, we don't take accountability for just being like nah, bro,
you're lazy. Yeah, Like nah bro, not you didn't want
to do that, bro, Like let's keep it a funk,
let's keep it ninety or no.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
It's like you're disorganized, like if you had something and
you would definitely be able to you know, figure it
out pretty much how it is for everyone. So having
kids doesn't change that factor for anyone. Really, it just
means you've got to you know, work a little bit
more and kind of be a little again, working smarter, harder.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Listen, man, you couldn't agree. Man, I manage you. I
know you had a question. And this is this. Hey listen,
listen to people. You gotta listen to this one. Listen
to this one. People, listen. Who do you think has
it harder single moms or single men? Talk to me?
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Listen. Okay, look, I'm let me click up real quick.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
I'll let you.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
And this is based off of me. I think that
you know, single men have it a bit harder when
it comes down to dating a single mom.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
So when you say who has it harder, your your
references to.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Dating in terms of dating, I think men have it harder.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Why.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
I feel like they have to give up more in
the beginning then to receive a lot at the end.
And this is and this is based off of just hope.
This is old people, This is hope. I'm all basically
all hope. Okay, listen, because you gotta think about it.
You gotta think about it. You got to think about
it like this, like you know what I mean. They
have to forfeit a lot. They have to forfeit because
(10:16):
you gotta think about it, like, you know, like you
as a single mother, you know what I mean, you
as a mother, just just just just like that in general,
you as a mother, what comes first child?
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Bingo.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
So it's like this, I'm already like I'm thinking riding shotgun.
You're like, no, get on the back, bro, put them
a seatbelt. My my, my child sits in the front.
You see what I'm saying. Though, so automatically you already
have to go into it with the mentality like I,
I gotta figure out how to make two people happy, yep,
(10:50):
versus you gotta figure out how to make.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
One person.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
Talk to me, Talk to me, talk to me. I
got you, guys, God, I got you. I'm iffy. I'm iffy.
Go ahead, go ahead, ma'am, go ahead, ma'am.
Speaker 4 (11:06):
Okay, fix my sheep. You see. I Logically that makes sense.
But here's the factors that you have to you know,
consider a single mom is doing a mother's work and
a father's job too. There is a love there is.
So here's what I'll say, a lot of times, it's
(11:29):
hard for a guide to integrate himself into a family.
First of all, because when you're trying to date a
single mother. You're not just dating a single mother. You're
trying to learn to be a family man and integrate
yourself into it. So it all just comes down to
how the guide learns to manage that test. Because let's
be real here, if you are used to dating single women,
(11:52):
there is a lot of factors that you're not considering
as a single man that you are now going to
have to consider if you're dating someone who as a child.
So I wouldn't say that I would still believe it's
harder for the woman because you have to consider the
fact that the man you know you first of all,
if you like the guy, cool, right, But then you
(12:15):
have to consider if your kid's gonna like the guy? Right?
Then you have to consider the fact that you know,
is he willing to integrate himself into your life and take,
you know, that position that's supposed to be a family man?
You know, is he going to protect? Is he going
to provide? Is he does he care about holding emotional
space not just for you, but for your child? Is
(12:36):
he willing to step up to the plate. So there's
all of these factors that you have to consider in
a guy, and you can't just go out and just
pick whatever guy you want just because you like them,
just because there's chemistry, just because you're attractive to them.
You have to consider what does my life look like
with this man if I choose him? Right, what is
my child's life going to look like? How will she
(12:59):
progress or he progressive? It's apt you know. Those are
all of the things that we have to consider. It's
not just like, oh, I really like this guy. Let's
see where it goes, which is what you would be
able to do it? How'd you been a single person?
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Right?
Speaker 4 (13:12):
So it's your tap to learn to make two people
happy if you're dating a single woman. But a woman
has to consider what kind of man is going to
lead her family.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
Listen, I'm not I'm not listen. We're gonna we're gonna
circle back to this. Guys, Listen, we're gonna circle back
to this. But I love the bars. I love the bars.
You're gonna talk to the back because that's an interesting
topic because you know what I mean, I know a
lot of people would love to hear more about that.
Let me ask you this, what's your what's your opinion
on hot moms versus wholesome moms? And can you be both,
and let's you know what you know, and I'm gonna
(13:45):
give I'm gonna give you guys a definition, so.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Kind of like you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
A wholesome mom typically refers to a mother who embodies
qualities associated with prompting well being and positive influence.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
On her children and family.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
Listening could include healthy, caring, kind, morally, sound, okay.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Cool.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
Hot moms can refer to who is both a mother
and proceed as sexually attractive or desirable, often in a
way that challenges the traditional stereotype of mother being.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
A mother, mother bring a mother. So here's what I think.
First of all, I think you can be both.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
This whole neck movement, you gotta che says you gonna
strain your neck kind.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
Of got She's like, you better let me, you better
let me. I think you can be both. But here's
the thing. When you hear hot mom and wholesome mom,
they sound like very separate entities, right, because you're going
to associate the hot moms with the mom that you
(14:58):
know it is shaking her on Instagram probably, you know,
wearing the short mini skirts and like the whole nine
the twitty, right, you know, And let's be real There
are women who just have that sexual appeal and they
don't really have to do all that, you know what
(15:19):
I'm saying, Like, she might just be hot just because
she looks good. She's, you know, the good grace of God,
she got the looks, you know, So I can't and
what if she's not the person who's like into the
whole being a hot mom thing. That's not her personality.
There are some moms who are hot and they will
make that their entire personality. Then you have women who
(15:41):
are just hot, but they you know, they'd rather be
a wholesome mom. You know, they have values. They they
rather put their energies and their efforts into an image
that their kids are going to follow, versus you know, oh,
the hot mom is probably thinking more of like, well,
this is like my asset, this is how I'm going
to provide for my kids, or whatever may be the cause.
(16:03):
But yeah, I wouldn't always It's not black and white
all the time. There's definitely a bit of a gray
area where a mom can be both and that doesn't
necessarily you know, I mean that I don't know that
you can you can't be both, I don't know. And
for me, it's like, yeah, it's some can be both.
(16:24):
Others are just gonna fall on either end of the spectrum.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
Okay, okay, listen, I'd love to hear everybody's thoughts on this,
because you know what I mean, Like I don't, I don't,
I don't know. I don't know if they could be both,
you know, because you know, certain people have their whole
definition of a wholesome mom.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Like you know, somebody may think a wholesome mom is like.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
The modest mom, the neighborhood part of the neighborhood watch program,
church leader, like you know what I.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Mean, So you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
So a lot of subjective.
Speaker 3 (16:57):
It could be very subjective where you know, like you said,
the hot mom could have the only fans you know,
you know what I mean, But she don't.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
She don't drive the minivans.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
She drives like a gl like you know what I mean,
the g wagon and something like that, you know what
I mean. So like it's it does vary on whoever
is defining it. But that's interesting because you know what
I mean, I always like I was always looking, I
was always thinking, like all right, damn, it was like damn, could.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
They be both?
Speaker 3 (17:22):
Could they be like, could they be wholesome and hot
at the same time.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
Nah, you can't unless you do like like a half
and half.
Speaker 4 (17:29):
Like I feel that's going to be subjective because.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
There on a weekend need to be a hot mom,
and then you could be wholesome during the week.
Speaker 4 (17:35):
But what about the people who are into women who
are intelligent business woman, they might think that's hot again,
that's all that's it is, so like you see in
that person's eyes that woman is hot because she's intellectual
and she looks good, and you know, she's pretty much
the whole package for them.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Okay, let me ask you this, yo, and this is
this is this is tough because I know a lot
of you females do this out there, a lot of
you females, be honest. Do you ever judge moms based
on how their kids act in public?
Speaker 4 (18:13):
Okay, there's a few factors that I would be judging.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
We go, here, we go, oh, here we go.
Speaker 4 (18:20):
It depends on how old the child is, right, all right,
all right, all right?
Speaker 2 (18:23):
Right?
Speaker 4 (18:25):
For example, if I see a toddler acting out in
public and he or she is tan tripping on the
ground and the mom is just standing there and just
letting them, you know, just letting them take the fumes out.
I wouldn't judge that because I mean, or at least
I wouldn't judge it in a negative way, because that,
to me is like, you know what, I've been there,
(18:46):
I get it. Toddler sometimes don't have the capacity to understand,
you know, understand when your parents trying to communicate like hey,
we can't get this today, but we can get it
tomorrow or whatever it is. They all the child knows
is that they're upset that they're not getting what they want,
and so they tantrum because they don't know how to
handle their emotions. Right now, if I see a thirteen
(19:09):
year old girl and she's over here, you know, cussing
out her mom or you know, doing something of that nature,
then that's where I start to judge a little bit
because how did she get to that point? Why is
she at this point at only thirteen years of age
where she feels like she can disrespect you in such
a manner and in public, embarrassing herself and you that
(19:32):
you see, So that those are the kind of things
that I would be judging a little bit more. Shan't
say like, Okay, you clearly didn't do your job in
the beginning, and now the results are showing to.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
So you just you you automatically like is like an
inside voice you or you just like, Yeah, I swear
for the Lord. I wish that was my kid.
Speaker 3 (19:53):
Parents swear my kid don't have like that. They know better,
they know better, Like yeah, you're like they know better.
Speaker 4 (20:00):
They know better, like they no better for sure, I.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
Swear, and then you do the whole life. Yo, I
swif you ever I like that in public?
Speaker 4 (20:07):
No, you see, I want to judge, but I want
to do that to my daughter. I will only correct
her on where she's from. But I don't bring like
any outside stuff into that, because what you don't need
to intimidate your kid, especially if you know that you've
taken the steps to make sure that your kid respects you,
(20:28):
that you guys have a good relationship and that it's yeah, like,
I don't need to do that because I already have
cut all the effort in the beginning.
Speaker 3 (20:40):
I'm not saying I judge, but I've been on a
few planes.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Lit'sen been a few, a few like five, But.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
You know, sometimes I'm just like, I swear full Lord,
I swear lord, and it's I'm you know what, and
I'm nobody to sit here and sit here and tell
you how to raise a kid. I'm you know, I
don't I don't have no kids and all that stuffs like,
so I can't sit here and tell you what to
(21:12):
do what not to do. That's one thing I can't do.
I can't speak on that. However, Damn, I think I
would give the kid to look like you know what
I mean.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
If I had a kid like, you know what I mean,
I'll give them that like, try me like, you know
what I mean that, try me look like you know
what I mean?
Speaker 3 (21:30):
Like, And I feel like a lot of times you
know what I mean like And that's and that's one
of the things where I envy a lot of parents
where I'm like, yo, like how did you do this?
How did you build this rapport? How did you how
did you maintain this?
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Monster?
Speaker 3 (21:48):
Like?
Speaker 2 (21:48):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (21:49):
Because at the end of the day, like listen, if
you don't if you don't treat or or you don't educate, tutor,
you're child like, your child's gonna turn into a minute.
So I'm gonna keep it a hunting like you know
what I mean.
Speaker 4 (22:04):
Like, so likely there's no lack of order, what do
you expect them to respect the future?
Speaker 2 (22:08):
So I envy you.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
I envy all the moms, all the dads, single dads.
You got the cape out there, you guys.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
That's raising these wholestum kids that are like you know,
like I want to say, straight line and anything, and
there's no direspect for the because for the kids that
you know are out of order and all that stuff.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
You know what I mean. That's it is what it is.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
But at the same time, I gotta envy you guys
for that because it takes a lot.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
It takes a lot to be.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Able to to be able to do that, you know
what I mean, Like especially you know, while having a
life and doing all the extra stuff, like where a
lot of people, a lot of other people that don't
appreciate that, right, you know what I mean. But like damn,
I'm not saying I'll put the hands on the kids,
but like you know what I mean, Like my mom
used to always do like I don't know, like what
was the experience like with your mom, Like would you
(22:55):
like what did she give you a look? Or like
did she grab like the hang up the wire like
you know how the Hispanic houseoles be like you know
what I mean, they grab whatever the like, you know,
like a frisbee.
Speaker 4 (23:09):
Oh yeah, I remember that one.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
All right, listen, we're gonna go through a little rapid
fire real quick. Okay, talk to me. Do mom secretly
judge other moms harder than the rest of us? Do?
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Only the ones who think they're above everyone will judge
the hardest. And they're probably the ones with the worst kids.
They have no idea that are acting up, but you
know they that their kids are kes.
Speaker 2 (23:36):
Okay, I'm just saying.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
Can a mom posts a thirst trap in a Bible
verse in the same week?
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Can't? Can you do that?
Speaker 4 (23:51):
I mean, they shouldn't forget the same week. It shouldn't
be done at all.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
You gotta man, how that's sad? Mess her?
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Damn?
Speaker 3 (24:04):
How you gonna be twerking when we're talking about twer
they're talking about yo, three sixteen Corinthians, like, Yo, we
should follow the light of God.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
I'm like, what just happened?
Speaker 3 (24:15):
Like, Yo, she was just in Miami doing all this
twerk and stuff, and now all of a sudden it's.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
If she has the only fans, mom, If she has
only fans and bakes organic muffins, what do you call them?
Speaker 4 (24:30):
A hypocritic?
Speaker 3 (24:33):
That's fun up. I call her Sarah Lee Man. Shout
out to Sarah Lee Man. Betty Crocker shout out to
you guys. Man, you guys are making it work. Man,
you're making it work. I don't care, yo, you're making
buff muffins, cookies, cakes, yo. Did She's like, who's better
at pretending everything is fine when it's clearly not between
(24:54):
a man and a woman?
Speaker 4 (24:57):
You better pretending? Man. I'm sorry men.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
And that's He's like, okay, go ahead, go ahead, guys.
Speaker 4 (25:07):
We can't really pretend for the life of us. We'll
tell you we're fine, but we're really not. You'll see
it in our facial expressions and our body language and
our tone. A guy could be going through hell and
beyond and say he's fine, and and you know he'll
be silent.
Speaker 2 (25:27):
Now. I ain't gonna lie to you. I got a
side with her on this one, guys. I got to
side with her. Listen, men, listen.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Us men, like, we only have two speeds, Like it's
either we're fine or pissed like that's it. We can't
be in the middle, like because in the middle that
means that you're emotionally we're like, oh, what's going on?
Like why you're doing? Why you're doing? You know, why
are you moving like this? Like Yo, we can only
be either fine or upset. Yeah, No, I'm with you
on that one. I'm with you on that one. Yeah,
(25:52):
because you females, you could do all of the start
slamming stuff and then you know what I mean, talking
extra loud on the phone like what's going on?
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Like you know what I mean? Because we got to
talk about it exactly exactly. Yeah, Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
All right, listen before we get out of here, people,
any shout outs you want to give, No shout out
to all the moms out there, you know what I mean, the.
Speaker 4 (26:16):
Ones who are working hard and every day making those
sacrifices for your children. I solute you. It's not easy,
but you're the ones that are going to come out
on top. But you're definitely the model we need.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
Damn don't talk about it. Listen, man, big shout out
to all the moms out there. Love you, mom, Happy
Mother's Day, Happy Mother's Day. Tati Happy mother Day to
all my aunts, cousins, newly parenting, all all you guys
that are just becoming a mom, becoming a parent and
all that stuff. I don't care if you're a male
or female. Tomorrow's your day to No, today's your day too, tomorrow,
(26:54):
matter of fact, like every day is your day yo,
like yo, because I feel like a lot of times
like I feel like we we do this whole like yo,
Mother's Day, Father's Day Like nah, bro, I think it
should be one day like a like a parent.
Speaker 4 (27:07):
Day, a parent's day. Now, that gets messy very quickly.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
How does that get messy? That's not that's not right.
Speaker 4 (27:14):
It'll get messy very quickly. Yeah. Because here's the thing
you as a mom, you want to feel appreciated. Imagine
having to share that with your husband or the father
of your children. Think about that for a second.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
Yeah, yeah, because he equally does a lot a lot too.
Speaker 4 (27:32):
Okay, that's why there's Father's Day. Think about it for
a minute. Do you do you, as a man, enjoy
being acknowledged for your efforts, being respected, getting the recognition
for the things that you do for the you know,
for yourself or for your family. I know you don't
have an immediate family of your own, but at least
for the people that you care about.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Okay, first of all, do you I have a lot
of friends that tell me what they get.
Speaker 4 (27:54):
For Father's Day, Okay, and all.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Of them are sad.
Speaker 4 (27:57):
Okay, all of them all right for you guys.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
Looking on for you, guys, Listen, guy, listen, We're gonna
we're gonna have this off topic. Listen, man, Guys, stay
tuned for a dope episode. Thank you for tuning and in.
But until next time, sality changes. Happy mothers to everybody
Speaker 2 (28:14):
Chip shout out to Roadse Happy Mothers Day.
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