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Speaker 1 (00:03):
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are the hosts of Opinions and Consequences, the podcast, the
show where Europeans can lead to consequences.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
So choose your words wisely. Joy the show. Heyday ay
ay ay h did he by? Did he by? Y'all?
What's going on? People?
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Men?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Welcome back to another episode of you Know, the thought provoking, entertaining,
sometimes controversial show of Opinions Consequences Off the books. Man, guys,
welcome back. I'm your host, Ajria McLaughlin. Guys, and I
got a guest in the building. I want to welcome
(00:50):
K to the building. What's poppy? How are you doing?
What is that?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
Is that own?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Is that right?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
You don't know that thing? They do want to go?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I don't know. I don't know. I know, I know
I do, but I really don't. I don't know all
the dances. What's your favorite dance?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
This one? I don't know the words. I don't know
the words.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Okay, God's feeling a blank for her because I don't
know the words neither. How you doing?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
I'm all right?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I'm alright, you're good, chilling, chilling. How was your New
Year's man?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
It's it was a new year?
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Is a new year? Any resolutions at all?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I mean, you know, just better than last year, surviving
better than last.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Year, you know what. I like that? I like that.
Like that. Do you have like a process? Okay, first
of all, listen, you're coming at me. No, I don't
have a process.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Expensive out here. I'm just trying to survive.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I ain't gonna lie. It's it's super expensive out here.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I'm trying to be like, Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
First of all, we're not gonna try to be like, hey,
we're gonna be better than a Okay, that's what we're
gonna do. That's what we're gonna do. That's what we're
gonna do. We're gonna pour shot real quick before we
get into the action. People. It is a hard bar, no,
but it's a standard bar. Guys. I ain't gonna lie
to you man. This episode. We're gonna get real spicy
here you go. Man.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Thanks, listen.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
I like the ones though. Oh man, listen, we gotta
get right into it. We're gonna take this cheers real
quick to a great episode. Uh mm hmm, man like
mention on this guys, man, we're gonna get real spicy.
This is all about a lot of bit a lot
of dating conversation. Okay, let me ask you this, in
(02:42):
this wild era of modern love, what's really your relationship
wish list? Forget the obvious cliches. What's the non nonsense,
keep it real vibe you're aiming for? And what's the
bare minimum you're willing to roll with? Respectfully? I know
that's a lot that I just said, but talk to me,
(03:07):
Talk to me.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
I know it's twenty twenty five, yeah, twenty five, and
it's hard with you know, social media and all types
of platforms. But the cheating gets on my nerves. It's
the lying. It's the lying. I can't do the lying. Yeah,
(03:29):
it's it's pretty much it is. That's that's one of
my pet peeves.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
It's the lion.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Like what like, okay, guys, I know, like you know,
everybody has their own type of lying and all that
extra stuff, but like, what like what would you prefer
like would you rather somebody tell you like it? This
is what it is versus the whole cookie cut and stuff.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
I'd rather have somebody tell me what it is.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Ladies, gentlemen, you're that take you, not take up.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Me. I'm a selfish individual and I like, you know,
my person to myself. However, if there is somebody else involved,
I would like the honest to god truth. Even if
that other person can't handle the truth. I can handle
the truth, and I respect honesty. Uh. Now, with that honesty,
(04:33):
you may not get the full version of me.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Wait a minute, So okay, So you would be more
respectful to somebody like a Will and Jada, like an
entanglement where he's just like, yo, here's a deal, my god.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
However, however I feel you what's up?
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Yeah, that's pretty much.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I respect that. I respect that. I'm not now once
a good guys. I'm not saying go out there and
do this. But at the same time, it's one of
those things where like, yo, listen, if you are going
to get that type of respect where it's it's like listen,
this is what's going on. Are you with it or not?
That's on you now, right? You feel me?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Right?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Okay? So what's a bare minimum?
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Bare minimum? I like my what is it? I love language.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Language.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I'm a gift giver, so I like I like gifts.
I like roses.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
I like okay, I like like simple stuff with like
you don't like.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
I like simple stuff. I like simple things. I don't
like going out. I'm not I'm not the big data,
big going out. You know.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
So somebody could get you a Teddy Bear and you good,
I mean, like.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
If personalized, personalized, not from Walgreens or so.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
So they got to take you to build a beer.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Yeah, yeah, we were good.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I'm I don't know if that's still around.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
It's still a thing, it's still a thing. Yeah, give
me some roses.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
To build a bit. But so I know. Okay, So
you like to you like more stuff that is specialized
for you? Yes, okay.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I love intimacy.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Okay. Do they have a hype requirement? Because I ain't
gonna hold you. I can hold you, Gods, gods listen
to me.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
I just won't let everybody know I have five to ten. Okay,
I'm two hundred and thirty pounds.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Okay, first of all, I'm.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Starting in that center, we have number now, I ain't
gonna lie. If you want a basketball team, I'm moving
to the four. You're putting that screen.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
No, there is a there is a hype requirement because
I'm not I'm too I'm too big. I'm too big,
and I can't you know my child, My child is
bigger than most men. Can't you know. I can't have that.
And I need my child to look up to somebody
who we can fight, can hold their room.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
So guys, in other words, where he's saying, yo, if
you are below the five to ten mark, below the
six below the six foot mark, and how much do
they have to wait? Like do they have to like
you got to be like I mean, I'm not saying
they can't be built like a bike ride.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
I can't do it.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I can't do it. I tried it.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
I tried it in a teas me for it.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
I do, I do. I tease it all the time.
I'm like, yo, you gotta stop.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
You gotta stop.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
All right, yep, yep, said all right, let me ask
you this question like before before we go onto the
next question, like what is it with most of these
females not saying yourself that leave guys on red bro,
You guys leave guys on ready and then you leave
them with limbo and then after that you go ghosts.
You go ghosts for a little bit and then you
(08:08):
be like, yo, I just feel like you wasn't trying.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
You know.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Your ladies be like, oh, I mean I could throw
myself in that category.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
I do that. I do that. I mean, is it
like a balance of powers?
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Okay, no, no, it's it's one. It's like, look at
you now, look at me, like, what makes you think
that you can talk to me? Like? Am I ugly?
That that be the reason sometimes sometimes, however, sometimes well
for me too, social media platforms about it if I
can't see anybody in person. I like the old school
(08:46):
you know which I.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Your pocket?
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Yeah, exactly. I like that sticky note type you gotta
find it at the end of the night, you know
that type of I like that type of yo. I
don't like the social media. I don't like that stuff.
You know why, because it's like, how many times have
you hopped in somebody else's DM with that same line?
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Talk about it?
Speaker 1 (09:12):
You know?
Speaker 3 (09:12):
So I like the old school. Excuse you, I mean,
maybe not the skin. I kind of ignore the sky you,
but I like the ex me.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
Ken Okay, listen, I know you had a question. What's
your question?
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Hey? Okay, so what do you think is the most
underrated quality that makes a relationship successful?
Speaker 2 (09:38):
And why underrated quality? God damn it. I think I
think an underrated quality is support. I think a lot
of people, a lot of people really really don't support
each other in a relationship. You know nowadays now days
(10:00):
is kind of like I'm doing me. You do you?
Like I got this going on? You got that going on? Cool?
But it's kind of like I feel personally, I'm gonna
talk to you guys here. I feel like, personally like
there's a lot of relationships that they don't allow you to,
you know, support each other, like you know what I mean,
(10:22):
If you got something going on, I'm like, all right, yo, listen, kay,
like what you got going on? Let me see if
I can help you with this and this and that.
I feel like a lot of relationships nowadays are are competitive.
It's like nah, yo, I'm doing this, I'm doing that,
I'm doing this and then versus whereas it like it
should be like yo, listen, she needs help with this, well,
(10:42):
he needs help with that.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
I totally agree. I totally agree.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Get myself a club. What about you? What are you doing?
Speaker 3 (10:49):
I would have to I would have to agree with
you and then everybody nowadays is like, is he cheating
on me? Am I cheating on's that's what people are
worried about. So instead of focusing on the support and
what you talked about, everybody's wondering, like with the cheating
(11:12):
and like what's going on? Or yeah, everybody wants to
be in everybody's bit your business, you unlock your phone
type deal. But no, I totally agree with you with
the support, Like, I'm the type of girl if my
partner is starting something, I'm an asset to whatever he's doing.
(11:38):
I like to be behind the scenes, like what can
I do to help? I'm the I'm the techie person. Well,
I mean as on a different level. I mean I
can get there, but on a different level.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
You like pepper pots. Yes, yes, so that's that's how
you feel about it. She was kicking out no bs,
no bs, and she she was like an assistant. What
was she assistant?
Speaker 3 (12:11):
She was like, she was like Jarvis, here we go,
here we go. But she got her man at the
end of the day. She was kicking holes out.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
No, she was. She was kicking holes out. And listen, guys,
we're gonna get right into this next one. What is
something that you used to think was essential in a partner,
but you no longer care about. So, like, what what
is that one thing? I told you we're gonna get
spicy people? I'm talking about white a so spicy yo.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
I honestly mine was like the whole image, like like
you had to.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Be like that's.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
That's I'm looking ahead with his period, his thinking and
his gear. Now as I got older, the more I
realized I got older, yo, Somebody get me out here
with some newbies on. Okay, I mean now, not okay,
not the nineties sixties. I'm talking about the granddad joints.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
But they gotta be all white. You can't. Can't look
like you've been running through chocolate milk with them.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Maybe a trace of navy blue. Okay, the granddad's are
because those are the ones who got investments, the assets,
the money. Okay. And I'm talking about a T shirt
from nineteen ninety six, freaking your your what's that? What's that?
What's the thing? A reunion your school your reunion T shirt?
(13:39):
I'll bag that. I'll bag that.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
So okay, hold on, wait and hold on a week,
because guys, I got you, I got you, so wait.
So you're telling me here's the scenario. Boom, we got target. Yeah,
I'm out here, you know, got the gray sweats on? Yo? Okay,
then hold on, hear me out. You know what I mean.
I just came man from the gym. I'm out here
with the wait do the could the caller be droopy?
Speaker 3 (14:02):
It can be droopy? What is it called cow neck?
Dropped from the sweat? I'm bagging that.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Wait, so hold on, hold on, wait? What are you
the type to pull up and be like, yo, what's up?
But I know yeah, ye see that's what I'm saying though,
So like, okay, so if if they came up to you,
what is the what's the next? All right, look we're
going to do a role play real quick. Yo. All right?
(14:28):
Your here? Oh yeah, so what's up shorty? You're looking
at you? What you in here for?
Speaker 3 (14:38):
Stopping a little bit?
Speaker 2 (14:39):
Okay, with your mind?
Speaker 3 (14:42):
Whatever you need?
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Oh? Whatever I need? Why can it be whatever we need? That? Okay? Then?
So wait, do you give the number of the social media?
Speaker 3 (14:53):
I'm giving the number if you're talking about that.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
That's what I'm talking about, guys and myself. Yeah, listen,
that's copy right. Use my ship people, don't use my
ship because I will come for you. Pause, like you
know what I mean. Like, but so you don't you're
not into the whole apparel thing. Like I'm not saying
that you're not into the whole apparel thing. I feel
like I feel like there's a time of day. There's
a time and day.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
Like I feel like when we go out, he got
that ship on, he got that ship on.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Hello.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Yeah, But when we we cool it, we cool it.
I mean the fresh cut, you know, the after shaves.
Speaker 4 (15:28):
Up keep.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
Yeah, sorry sorry sorry, so no, no, that's my fault.
That's my fault. That's my fault. That's me. That's me,
and I jumped out of the characters.
Speaker 3 (15:39):
Jesus. But no, yeah, yeah, you know, the facial up keep,
the hair up keep. But I'm not saying, you know,
we're the same sweatsuit. Okay, you know, but we don't
have to be Gucci down.
Speaker 4 (15:54):
We don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
So you're looking for like an every day God, Listen, guys,
this is a subject. This is this is great stuff
to know because yo, listen, a lot of times guys
be thinking that YO gotta be dapper down, and that's
not always a case. You know, everybody. But see that's
but at the same time, though, okay, you got to
like yo, listen you you five to ten. My g like,
(16:17):
I know, I'm built like a two door minivan, but
like yo, it's it's it's kind of tough for them
to pull up.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
I know, I know you know, and I don't get that.
I don't get that. A lot of guys are intimidated
by me. A lot of guys are intimidating. People are like, oh,
I know you got I know you got them by
the basketball team. I know you got them by the
football team. No I don't. I don't. I don't. I'm
over here, Sydney, here trying to find one tennis player.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
For I'm done. I don't.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
I don't have them. I don't have them by the
boat load. They see me like, hey, I know you
got them by which makes guys intimidated and don't want
to talk to me. But I don't. So you're seeing this.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
So in other words, when she's saying, guys, you'll shoot
your shot, but once again, if you can't, if you
can't reach the peanut butter on the top shelf, she's
saying to stay in your lane. That's a I am
I correct.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
Okay, okay, oh man, all right, okay, okay. So with
that being said, I have a question to ask you. Okay, okay,
what Okay, here we go. What's the biggest misconception people
have about love and relationships? The biggest misconception? What do
(17:37):
you think?
Speaker 2 (17:41):
I think the biggest misconception is that everyone is meant
for each other. I don't. And I'm just saying. I'm
just saying. I'm just saying. I feel like I feel
like a lot of times people don't realize more so
(18:05):
that I feel like a lot of people go into
relationships thinking that they could change a person and mold
them to who they want them to be, right, And
that's the biggest problem. And I think that's the biggest
misconception that a lot of people think that like, nah,
I'm gonna change him, I'm gonna change her, bla blah
(18:26):
blah blah. Like I don't want to change you, be
what you do. You know, I want you just just
the way that you all because at the end of
the day, I feel like you're not being authentic, You're
not being authentic like it. And it's one of those
things where I feel like that's why the divorce rates high.
People like, I feel like a lot of times people,
I'm gonna talk to you real quick, listen. I feel
(18:47):
like a lot of the people they they categorize themselves
to fit in other people's lives. So in other words,
it's kind of like this. It's like, yo, if I
know she likes carrots, why am I giving her broc Yeah?
Not only that, why are you giving them brocoli? But
I'm gonna be like, I like carrots too. No, you don't,
bro You never like carriats life.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
In your life?
Speaker 2 (19:11):
Who like, why are we doing it?
Speaker 3 (19:13):
I just want to be the puzzle piece your life.
That's it. I don't that's it. I don't want to
change it. I don't want to cut it off to
make me fit. I just want to be the puzzle
piece that.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
I'm talking about. But no, it's true. You know, it's
real still people, It's real, still like because a lot
of times people don't realize like this is a lot
of this is a big problem with a lot of
relationships because a lot of people they go into these
relationships thinking like, no, I'm gonna make him do this.
I'm gonna make him do this. I'm gonna make him
do that. I'm gonna make him better. No, Sis, you're
(19:49):
not making them better. You're you're you are compartner, compart
to my lization. They know what I'm say. Don't talk
about like it's a twist, but like what you're doing
is you're keeping that person boxed. Then so now when
she hits the fan, he's back to who he really is.
(20:14):
And now you're like, oh my god, who are you?
Speaker 3 (20:16):
I never it's a narcissis bingo. They're being a narcissas.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
Yeah, so what Okay? So what about you?
Speaker 4 (20:29):
I think?
Speaker 3 (20:31):
I mean, well, I agree with you.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
A lot of people don't agree with a lot of things.
Let's say five plates, did I go ahead? Sorry man, ma'am, sorry.
Speaker 3 (20:47):
What's my question? Okay? You gotta, I feel like you
just got you gotta be in love with yourself, You gotta.
You gotta be in love with like you gotta. If
you're feeling like a pant, go and brush your shoulders off,
and then your partner just gotta be there to hype
(21:08):
you up too. And you know you hype your partner
up too, like you gotta love yourself love with you too.
And if y'all can come together and support that and
be like, ah, like you know what I'm saying, that
type of ship, Like you gotta you gotta be about yourself.
(21:28):
What are you doing? You know what I'm saying. You
can't just go in and try to, like you said,
fix other people, make people contour people to you, to
you and your life. Nah, love yourself first and let
that other person love you for who you are. That's it.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
What office? I feel like you prep your resume for
working at homemark by Gie listen. I ain't gonna lie.
She didn't line people like yourself because I feel like
a lot of us don't love ourselves. We're therefore like
they're now asking for the person in their life to
(22:10):
now make them happy. Absolutely, and that's the problem. The
problem is that you can't make yourself happy. So therefore,
when you can't make yourself happy, therefore, it's kind of
like one of those things where it's like, oh word,
oh I don't feel good with you. I don't want
to do this, so blah blah blah blah blah bah blah,
and a lot of people they don't get that, like
you gotta love yourself, you got I'm not saying be narcissistics.
I'm not saying that you got to have a high ego,
(22:32):
conceded all that stuff. What I'm saying is what she's saying,
to love yourself and then you you guys together, will
love each other.
Speaker 3 (22:41):
It's a party. It's a party. That's not me.
Speaker 4 (22:50):
I'm me, but that's me.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
What are you guys? Reaching? But when you do that,
you go like that, when you're.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
Like, you're just grabbing.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
But okay, listen, that was that was a buzzer beat. Okay, guys, listen,
We're gonna go right into a rapid fire. Okay, listen, yes,
no one word answers. What's one thing you secretly hope
your future partner sucks at?
Speaker 3 (23:26):
Flirting?
Speaker 2 (23:27):
Damning? Okay? If your relationship had a theme song, what
would it be?
Speaker 3 (23:37):
Justine Scott and it won't stop? Look it up Apple Music, Spotify, whatever.
Speaker 2 (23:43):
You want to get. We're not gonna plug them. Do
you care more about how they argue or how they apologize.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
How they argue? I am a cry baby. Don't say no,
don't say no, crazy.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
No, I ain't gonna lie. We can't switch because I'm sorry.
I don't responsorby Disney. I mean, okay, okay, if there
was a social if their social media was completely blank,
is that a pro con for me?
Speaker 3 (24:16):
If it's completely blank, it it's a pro for me.
I don't really. I mean, depending on what you're doing.
Do you have a business or whatever, But if you're
completely blank, that's fine. I know businessmen business, but completely
blank social media. They don't. They don't even know how
(24:38):
to use it. And I kind of like those kind
of like I like those the ones that that really
don't hey babe, how I do this?
Speaker 2 (24:48):
How I do this?
Speaker 4 (24:49):
Show me how to do that?
Speaker 3 (24:50):
I like those those you can't be seen, like the
techie ones you can. I don't like the techy ones.
The tech ones know how to hide stuff, how to
put the photos in the I like, I like a
man to ask me, Hey baby.
Speaker 4 (25:06):
How I do this?
Speaker 2 (25:07):
Baby?
Speaker 3 (25:07):
What's my pass word?
Speaker 2 (25:09):
Oh? So you want you want the okay? Okay, okay,
because once you.
Speaker 3 (25:13):
Start knowing stuff, that's when you start doing stuff.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
Okay, okay, okay, okay, you can go ahead with your
rapid fire. You could. I don't know if you want
to ask me, but like I don't, I don't need
to answer it.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
No, no, okay, okay, okay, I'm gonna ask the same questions.
What you got, what's thing? What's one thing you secretly
hope your future partner?
Speaker 4 (25:36):
Oh ache, throw ache it girl, yo, I've been over
here two for two.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
Boston, go ahead.
Speaker 4 (25:56):
Number two.
Speaker 3 (25:57):
If your relationship had a theme song, what would it be?
It's gonna be some whole gonna.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
Oh man, skip that one, skip that, want to come back?
Speaker 3 (26:16):
All right?
Speaker 4 (26:17):
Number three? Do you care?
Speaker 3 (26:19):
Do you care about how they argue or how they apologize?
Speaker 2 (26:24):
Don't care about how they argue. I want to. I
want to. I want to hear that. I want to.
I want to. I want to see how how in
depth you go like, I want to see. I want
to see where your where your.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Brain is at, like you know, because you're an analyst.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Yeah, correct, correct, correct.
Speaker 3 (26:38):
You're an analyst. I've known A for a minute. A
is an analyst. He tries to figure out why?
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Why?
Speaker 3 (26:44):
Why? Because I don't understand?
Speaker 4 (26:47):
That's A.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
That's a go ahead, Yeah, that's him. You don't really
care for the apology whatever? Whatever? Okay, all right? If
their social media was completely rank, is that a pro con?
Speaker 2 (27:01):
I think it's a con. I don't like, I don't
like Blank. I don't like Blake because I feel like
I feel like, I feel like something else. It's something
else going on here. You don't even.
Speaker 4 (27:16):
On social media, and they want to be like, oh
it's a cony.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
Listen, No, no, okay, that's true. But my whole thing
is like this. If I see your page and it's
like you got zero followers, you got zero posts, and
you're following mad people, I'm like, since, why do you
have this? Why do you have this?
Speaker 3 (27:34):
Brom Yeah, yeah, I get it. I get it. Yeah
that makes me want tote.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Okay and listen, no, no, no, we're gonna we're gonna
come back to anything positive or negative that you gotta
say before you go.
Speaker 3 (27:52):
Negative. I mean, you only live once. Fight out, I
mean fight yo.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
Let me tell you.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Okay, no, no, this is my this is this is
because I've recently gone through this, like the whole twenty
twenty five. Don't let anybody take your kindness for weakness.
I know it's like cliche, but some friends will take
your kindness for weakness and treat you however that you
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relationships to relationships to men and women, heterosexual or whatever.
They they will treat you like they will walk over you.
Give somebody the opportunity to walk all over you, they will.
So set boundaries. Boundary boundaries is my thing for twenty
twenty five. I already had them, but it's stronger more
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than ever because you were talking about this.
Speaker 2 (28:51):
Guys. Listen, a little bit of words wisdom before I
get out of here, before we both get out of here. Guys, listen,
girls don't never of like seeing another girl spend money
on their dude. Yeah, they're like, could it be me?
We know, brokey, brokey move more the story people, guys,
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imagine getting jumped and you over here the other person say,
this ain't even him? Heinous guys. Man, I want to
thank you guys rocking out with us for another episode
of Pence Consequences Off the books, got k in the building. Listen,
I'm gonna put I'm gonna put all of our social
media stuff out there. Man, listen, please, no eggplants, no blank,
(29:35):
no blank. You have to be over five, ten, six weeks, sorry, ma'am.
You have to be over a certain certain.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Failure.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
Well listen, bitter what thank you guys rocking out with
us for another episode, but till next Time, Salutations, Hey,
Of Hey Jay McLaughlin, I'm Ryan Ruie, I'm DJ rich
I verceis the tough for I Clinnie Martinez and we
are the hosts of Opinions and Consequences, the podcast, the
show where Europeans can lead to consequences.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
So choose your words wisely. Joy the show. Heyday ay
ay ay h did he by? Did he by? Y'all?
What's going on? People?
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Men?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Welcome back to another episode of you Know, the thought provoking, entertaining,
sometimes controversial show of Opinions Consequences Off the books. Man, guys,
welcome back. I'm your host, Ajria McLaughlin. Guys, and I
got a guest in the building. I want to welcome
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K to the building. What's poppy? How are you doing?
What is that?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
Is that own?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Is that right?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
You don't know that thing? They do want to go?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I don't know. I don't know. I know, I know
I do, but I really don't. I don't know all
the dances. What's your favorite dance?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
This one? I don't know the words. I don't know
the words.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Okay, God's feeling a blank for her because I don't
know the words neither. How you doing?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
I'm all right?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I'm alright, you're good, chilling, chilling. How was your New
Year's man?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
It's it was a new year?
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Is a new year? Any resolutions at all?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I mean, you know, just better than last year, surviving
better than last.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Year, you know what. I like that? I like that.
Like that. Do you have like a process? Okay, first
of all, listen, you're coming at me. No, I don't
have a process.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Expensive out here. I'm just trying to survive.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I ain't gonna lie. It's it's super expensive out here.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I'm trying to be like, Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
First of all, we're not gonna try to be like, hey,
we're gonna be better than a Okay, that's what we're
gonna do. That's what we're gonna do. That's what we're
gonna do. We're gonna pour shot real quick before we
get into the action. People. It is a hard bar, no,
but it's a standard bar. Guys. I ain't gonna lie
to you man. This episode. We're gonna get real spicy
here you go. Man.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Thanks, listen.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
I like the ones though. Oh man, listen, we gotta
get right into it. We're gonna take this cheers real
quick to a great episode. Uh mm hmm, man like
mention on this guys, man, we're gonna get real spicy.
This is all about a lot of bit a lot
of dating conversation. Okay, let me ask you this, in
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this wild era of modern love, what's really your relationship
wish list? Forget the obvious cliches. What's the non nonsense,
keep it real vibe you're aiming for? And what's the
bare minimum you're willing to roll with? Respectfully? I know
that's a lot that I just said, but talk to me,
(03:07):
Talk to me.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
I know it's twenty twenty five, yeah, twenty five, and
it's hard with you know, social media and all types
of platforms. But the cheating gets on my nerves. It's
the lying. It's the lying. I can't do the lying. Yeah,
(03:29):
it's it's pretty much it is. That's that's one of
my pet peeves.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
It's the lion.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Like what like, okay, guys, I know, like you know,
everybody has their own type of lying and all that
extra stuff, but like, what like what would you prefer
like would you rather somebody tell you like it? This
is what it is versus the whole cookie cut and stuff.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
I'd rather have somebody tell me what it is.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Ladies, gentlemen, you're that take you, not take up.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Me. I'm a selfish individual and I like, you know,
my person to myself. However, if there is somebody else involved,
I would like the honest to god truth. Even if
that other person can't handle the truth. I can handle
the truth, and I respect honesty. Uh. Now, with that honesty,
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you may not get the full version of me.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Wait a minute, So okay, So you would be more
respectful to somebody like a Will and Jada, like an
entanglement where he's just like, yo, here's a deal, my god.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
However, however I feel you what's up?
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Yeah, that's pretty much.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I respect that. I respect that. I'm not now once
a good guys. I'm not saying go out there and
do this. But at the same time, it's one of
those things where like, yo, listen, if you are going
to get that type of respect where it's it's like listen,
this is what's going on. Are you with it or not?
That's on you now, right? You feel me?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Right?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Okay? So what's a bare minimum?
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Bare minimum? I like my what is it? I love language.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Language.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I'm a gift giver, so I like I like gifts.
I like roses.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
I like okay, I like like simple stuff with like
you don't like.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
I like simple stuff. I like simple things. I don't
like going out. I'm not I'm not the big data,
big going out. You know.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
So somebody could get you a Teddy Bear and you good,
I mean, like.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
If personalized, personalized, not from Walgreens or so.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
So they got to take you to build a beer.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Yeah, yeah, we were good.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I'm I don't know if that's still around.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
It's still a thing, it's still a thing. Yeah, give
me some roses.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
To build a bit. But so I know. Okay, So
you like to you like more stuff that is specialized
for you? Yes, okay.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I love intimacy.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Okay. Do they have a hype requirement? Because I ain't
gonna hold you. I can hold you, Gods, gods listen
to me.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
I just won't let everybody know I have five to ten. Okay,
I'm two hundred and thirty pounds.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Okay, first of all, I'm.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Starting in that center, we have number now, I ain't
gonna lie. If you want a basketball team, I'm moving
to the four. You're putting that screen.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
No, there is a there is a hype requirement because
I'm not I'm too I'm too big. I'm too big,
and I can't you know my child, My child is
bigger than most men. Can't you know. I can't have that.
And I need my child to look up to somebody
who we can fight, can hold their room.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
So guys, in other words, where he's saying, yo, if
you are below the five to ten mark, below the
six below the six foot mark, and how much do
they have to wait? Like do they have to like
you got to be like I mean, I'm not saying
they can't be built like a bike ride.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
I can't do it.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I can't do it. I tried it.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
I tried it in a teas me for it.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
I do, I do. I tease it all the time.
I'm like, yo, you gotta stop.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
You gotta stop.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
All right, yep, yep, said all right, let me ask
you this question like before before we go onto the
next question, like what is it with most of these
females not saying yourself that leave guys on red bro,
You guys leave guys on ready and then you leave
them with limbo and then after that you go ghosts.
You go ghosts for a little bit and then you
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be like, yo, I just feel like you wasn't trying.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
You know.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Your ladies be like, oh, I mean I could throw
myself in that category.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
I do that. I do that. I mean, is it
like a balance of powers?
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Okay, no, no, it's it's one. It's like, look at
you now, look at me, like, what makes you think
that you can talk to me? Like? Am I ugly?
That that be the reason sometimes sometimes, however, sometimes well
for me too, social media platforms about it if I
can't see anybody in person. I like the old school
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you know which I.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Your pocket?
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Yeah, exactly. I like that sticky note type you gotta
find it at the end of the night, you know
that type of I like that type of yo. I
don't like the social media. I don't like that stuff.
You know why, because it's like, how many times have
you hopped in somebody else's DM with that same line?
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Talk about it?
Speaker 1 (09:12):
You know?
Speaker 3 (09:12):
So I like the old school. Excuse you, I mean,
maybe not the skin. I kind of ignore the sky you,
but I like the ex me.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
Ken Okay, listen, I know you had a question. What's
your question?
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Hey? Okay, so what do you think is the most
underrated quality that makes a relationship successful?
Speaker 2 (09:38):
And why underrated quality? God damn it. I think I
think an underrated quality is support. I think a lot
of people, a lot of people really really don't support
each other in a relationship. You know nowadays now days
(10:00):
is kind of like I'm doing me. You do you?
Like I got this going on? You got that going on? Cool?
But it's kind of like I feel personally, I'm gonna
talk to you guys here. I feel like, personally like
there's a lot of relationships that they don't allow you to,
you know, support each other, like you know what I mean,
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If you got something going on, I'm like, all right, yo, listen, kay,
like what you got going on? Let me see if
I can help you with this and this and that.
I feel like a lot of relationships nowadays are are competitive.
It's like nah, yo, I'm doing this, I'm doing that,
I'm doing this and then versus whereas it like it
should be like yo, listen, she needs help with this, well,
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he needs help with that.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
I totally agree. I totally agree.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Get myself a club. What about you? What are you doing?
Speaker 3 (10:49):
I would have to I would have to agree with
you and then everybody nowadays is like, is he cheating
on me? Am I cheating on's that's what people are
worried about. So instead of focusing on the support and
what you talked about, everybody's wondering, like with the cheating
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and like what's going on? Or yeah, everybody wants to
be in everybody's bit your business, you unlock your phone
type deal. But no, I totally agree with you with
the support, Like, I'm the type of girl if my
partner is starting something, I'm an asset to whatever he's doing.
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I like to be behind the scenes, like what can
I do to help? I'm the I'm the techie person. Well,
I mean as on a different level. I mean I
can get there, but on a different level.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
You like pepper pots. Yes, yes, so that's that's how
you feel about it. She was kicking out no bs,
no bs, and she she was like an assistant. What
was she assistant?
Speaker 3 (12:11):
She was like, she was like Jarvis, here we go,
here we go. But she got her man at the
end of the day. She was kicking holes out.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
No, she was. She was kicking holes out. And listen, guys,
we're gonna get right into this next one. What is
something that you used to think was essential in a partner,
but you no longer care about. So, like, what what
is that one thing? I told you we're gonna get
spicy people? I'm talking about white a so spicy yo.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
I honestly mine was like the whole image, like like
you had to.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Be like that's.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
That's I'm looking ahead with his period, his thinking and
his gear. Now as I got older, the more I
realized I got older, yo, Somebody get me out here
with some newbies on. Okay, I mean now, not okay,
not the nineties sixties. I'm talking about the granddad joints.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
But they gotta be all white. You can't. Can't look
like you've been running through chocolate milk with them.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Maybe a trace of navy blue. Okay, the granddad's are
because those are the ones who got investments, the assets,
the money. Okay. And I'm talking about a T shirt
from nineteen ninety six, freaking your your what's that? What's that?
What's the thing? A reunion your school your reunion T shirt?
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I'll bag that. I'll bag that.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
So okay, hold on, wait and hold on a week,
because guys, I got you, I got you, so wait.
So you're telling me here's the scenario. Boom, we got target. Yeah,
I'm out here, you know, got the gray sweats on? Yo? Okay,
then hold on, hear me out. You know what I mean.
I just came man from the gym. I'm out here
with the wait do the could the caller be droopy?
Speaker 3 (14:02):
It can be droopy? What is it called cow neck?
Dropped from the sweat? I'm bagging that.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Wait, so hold on, hold on, wait? What are you
the type to pull up and be like, yo, what's up?
But I know yeah, ye see that's what I'm saying though,
So like, okay, so if if they came up to you,
what is the what's the next? All right, look we're
going to do a role play real quick. Yo. All right?
(14:28):
Your here? Oh yeah, so what's up shorty? You're looking
at you? What you in here for?
Speaker 3 (14:38):
Stopping a little bit?
Speaker 2 (14:39):
Okay, with your mind?
Speaker 3 (14:42):
Whatever you need?
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Oh? Whatever I need? Why can it be whatever we need? That? Okay? Then?
So wait, do you give the number of the social media?
Speaker 3 (14:53):
I'm giving the number if you're talking about that.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
That's what I'm talking about, guys and myself. Yeah, listen,
that's copy right. Use my ship people, don't use my
ship because I will come for you. Pause, like you
know what I mean. Like, but so you don't you're
not into the whole apparel thing. Like I'm not saying
that you're not into the whole apparel thing. I feel
like I feel like there's a time of day. There's
a time and day.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
Like I feel like when we go out, he got
that ship on, he got that ship on.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Hello.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Yeah, But when we we cool it, we cool it.
I mean the fresh cut, you know, the after shaves.
Speaker 4 (15:28):
Up keep.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
Yeah, sorry sorry sorry, so no, no, that's my fault.
That's my fault. That's my fault. That's me. That's me,
and I jumped out of the characters.
Speaker 3 (15:39):
Jesus. But no, yeah, yeah, you know, the facial up keep,
the hair up keep. But I'm not saying, you know,
we're the same sweatsuit. Okay, you know, but we don't
have to be Gucci down.
Speaker 4 (15:54):
We don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
So you're looking for like an every day God, Listen, guys,
this is a subject. This is this is great stuff
to know because yo, listen, a lot of times guys
be thinking that YO gotta be dapper down, and that's
not always a case. You know, everybody. But see that's
but at the same time, though, okay, you got to
like yo, listen you you five to ten. My g like,
(16:17):
I know, I'm built like a two door minivan, but
like yo, it's it's it's kind of tough for them
to pull up.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
I know, I know you know, and I don't get that.
I don't get that. A lot of guys are intimidated
by me. A lot of guys are intimidating. People are like, oh,
I know you got I know you got them by
the basketball team. I know you got them by the
football team. No I don't. I don't. I don't. I'm
over here, Sydney, here trying to find one tennis player.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
For I'm done. I don't.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
I don't have them. I don't have them by the
boat load. They see me like, hey, I know you
got them by which makes guys intimidated and don't want
to talk to me. But I don't. So you're seeing this.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
So in other words, when she's saying, guys, you'll shoot
your shot, but once again, if you can't, if you
can't reach the peanut butter on the top shelf, she's
saying to stay in your lane. That's a I am
I correct.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
Okay, okay, oh man, all right, okay, okay. So with
that being said, I have a question to ask you. Okay, okay,
what Okay, here we go. What's the biggest misconception people
have about love and relationships? The biggest misconception? What do
(17:37):
you think?
Speaker 2 (17:41):
I think the biggest misconception is that everyone is meant
for each other. I don't. And I'm just saying. I'm
just saying. I'm just saying. I feel like I feel
like a lot of times people don't realize more so
(18:05):
that I feel like a lot of people go into
relationships thinking that they could change a person and mold
them to who they want them to be, right, And
that's the biggest problem. And I think that's the biggest
misconception that a lot of people think that like, nah,
I'm gonna change him, I'm gonna change her, bla blah
(18:26):
blah blah. Like I don't want to change you, be
what you do. You know, I want you just just
the way that you all because at the end of
the day, I feel like you're not being authentic, You're
not being authentic like it. And it's one of those
things where I feel like that's why the divorce rates high.
People like, I feel like a lot of times people,
I'm gonna talk to you real quick, listen. I feel
(18:47):
like a lot of the people they they categorize themselves
to fit in other people's lives. So in other words,
it's kind of like this. It's like, yo, if I
know she likes carrots, why am I giving her broc Yeah?
Not only that, why are you giving them brocoli? But
I'm gonna be like, I like carrots too. No, you don't,
bro You never like carriats life.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
In your life?
Speaker 2 (19:11):
Who like, why are we doing it?
Speaker 3 (19:13):
I just want to be the puzzle piece your life.
That's it. I don't that's it. I don't want to
change it. I don't want to cut it off to
make me fit. I just want to be the puzzle
piece that.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
I'm talking about. But no, it's true. You know, it's
real still people, It's real, still like because a lot
of times people don't realize like this is a lot
of this is a big problem with a lot of
relationships because a lot of people they go into these
relationships thinking like, no, I'm gonna make him do this.
I'm gonna make him do this. I'm gonna make him
do that. I'm gonna make him better. No, Sis, you're
(19:49):
not making them better. You're you're you are compartner, compart
to my lization. They know what I'm say. Don't talk
about like it's a twist, but like what you're doing
is you're keeping that person boxed. Then so now when
she hits the fan, he's back to who he really is.
(20:14):
And now you're like, oh my god, who are you?
Speaker 3 (20:16):
I never it's a narcissis bingo. They're being a narcissas.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
Yeah, so what Okay? So what about you?
Speaker 4 (20:29):
I think?
Speaker 3 (20:31):
I mean, well, I agree with you.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
A lot of people don't agree with a lot of things.
Let's say five plates, did I go ahead? Sorry man, ma'am, sorry.
Speaker 3 (20:47):
What's my question? Okay? You gotta, I feel like you
just got you gotta be in love with yourself, You gotta.
You gotta be in love with like you gotta. If
you're feeling like a pant, go and brush your shoulders off,
and then your partner just gotta be there to hype
(21:08):
you up too. And you know you hype your partner
up too, like you gotta love yourself love with you too.
And if y'all can come together and support that and
be like, ah, like you know what I'm saying, that
type of ship, Like you gotta you gotta be about yourself.
(21:28):
What are you doing? You know what I'm saying. You
can't just go in and try to, like you said,
fix other people, make people contour people to you, to
you and your life. Nah, love yourself first and let
that other person love you for who you are. That's it.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
What office? I feel like you prep your resume for
working at homemark by Gie listen. I ain't gonna lie.
She didn't line people like yourself because I feel like
a lot of us don't love ourselves. We're therefore like
they're now asking for the person in their life to
(22:10):
now make them happy. Absolutely, and that's the problem. The
problem is that you can't make yourself happy. So therefore,
when you can't make yourself happy, therefore, it's kind of
like one of those things where it's like, oh word,
oh I don't feel good with you. I don't want
to do this, so blah blah blah blah blah bah blah,
and a lot of people they don't get that, like
you gotta love yourself, you got I'm not saying be narcissistics.
I'm not saying that you got to have a high ego,
(22:32):
conceded all that stuff. What I'm saying is what she's saying,
to love yourself and then you you guys together, will
love each other.
Speaker 3 (22:41):
It's a party. It's a party. That's not me.
Speaker 4 (22:50):
I'm me, but that's me.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
What are you guys? Reaching? But when you do that,
you go like that, when you're.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
Like, you're just grabbing.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
But okay, listen, that was that was a buzzer beat. Okay, guys, listen,
We're gonna go right into a rapid fire. Okay, listen, yes,
no one word answers. What's one thing you secretly hope
your future partner sucks at?
Speaker 3 (23:26):
Flirting?
Speaker 2 (23:27):
Damning? Okay? If your relationship had a theme song, what
would it be?
Speaker 3 (23:37):
Justine Scott and it won't stop? Look it up Apple Music, Spotify, whatever.
Speaker 2 (23:43):
You want to get. We're not gonna plug them. Do
you care more about how they argue or how they apologize.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
How they argue? I am a cry baby. Don't say no,
don't say no, crazy.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
No, I ain't gonna lie. We can't switch because I'm sorry.
I don't responsorby Disney. I mean, okay, okay, if there
was a social if their social media was completely blank,
is that a pro con for me?
Speaker 3 (24:16):
If it's completely blank, it it's a pro for me.
I don't really. I mean, depending on what you're doing.
Do you have a business or whatever, But if you're
completely blank, that's fine. I know businessmen business, but completely
blank social media. They don't. They don't even know how
(24:38):
to use it. And I kind of like those kind
of like I like those the ones that that really
don't hey babe, how I do this?
Speaker 2 (24:48):
How I do this?
Speaker 4 (24:49):
Show me how to do that?
Speaker 3 (24:50):
I like those those you can't be seen, like the
techie ones you can. I don't like the techy ones.
The tech ones know how to hide stuff, how to
put the photos in the I like, I like a
man to ask me, Hey baby.
Speaker 4 (25:06):
How I do this?
Speaker 2 (25:07):
Baby?
Speaker 3 (25:07):
What's my pass word?
Speaker 2 (25:09):
Oh? So you want you want the okay? Okay, okay,
because once you.
Speaker 3 (25:13):
Start knowing stuff, that's when you start doing stuff.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
Okay, okay, okay, okay, you can go ahead with your
rapid fire. You could. I don't know if you want
to ask me, but like I don't, I don't need
to answer it.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
No, no, okay, okay, okay, I'm gonna ask the same questions.
What you got, what's thing? What's one thing you secretly
hope your future partner?
Speaker 4 (25:36):
Oh ache, throw ache it girl, yo, I've been over
here two for two.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
Boston, go ahead.
Speaker 4 (25:56):
Number two.
Speaker 3 (25:57):
If your relationship had a theme song, what would it be?
It's gonna be some whole gonna.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
Oh man, skip that one, skip that, want to come back?
Speaker 3 (26:16):
All right?
Speaker 4 (26:17):
Number three? Do you care?
Speaker 3 (26:19):
Do you care about how they argue or how they apologize?
Speaker 2 (26:24):
Don't care about how they argue. I want to. I
want to. I want to hear that. I want to.
I want to. I want to see how how in
depth you go like, I want to see. I want
to see where your where your.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Brain is at, like you know, because you're an analyst.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Yeah, correct, correct, correct.
Speaker 3 (26:38):
You're an analyst. I've known A for a minute. A
is an analyst. He tries to figure out why?
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Why?
Speaker 3 (26:44):
Why? Because I don't understand?
Speaker 4 (26:47):
That's A.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
That's a go ahead, Yeah, that's him. You don't really
care for the apology whatever? Whatever? Okay, all right? If
their social media was completely rank, is that a pro con?
Speaker 2 (27:01):
I think it's a con. I don't like, I don't
like Blank. I don't like Blake because I feel like
I feel like, I feel like something else. It's something
else going on here. You don't even.
Speaker 4 (27:16):
On social media, and they want to be like, oh
it's a cony.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
Listen, No, no, okay, that's true. But my whole thing
is like this. If I see your page and it's
like you got zero followers, you got zero posts, and
you're following mad people, I'm like, since, why do you
have this? Why do you have this?
Speaker 3 (27:34):
Brom Yeah, yeah, I get it. I get it. Yeah
that makes me want tote.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Okay and listen, no, no, no, we're gonna we're gonna
come back to anything positive or negative that you gotta
say before you go.
Speaker 3 (27:52):
Negative. I mean, you only live once. Fight out, I
mean fight yo.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
Let me tell you.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Okay, no, no, this is my this is this is
because I've recently gone through this, like the whole twenty
twenty five. Don't let anybody take your kindness for weakness.
I know it's like cliche, but some friends will take
your kindness for weakness and treat you however that you
(28:26):
relationships to relationships to men and women, heterosexual or whatever.
They they will treat you like they will walk over you.
Give somebody the opportunity to walk all over you, they will.
So set boundaries. Boundary boundaries is my thing for twenty
twenty five. I already had them, but it's stronger more
(28:46):
than ever because you were talking about this.
Speaker 2 (28:51):
Guys. Listen, a little bit of words wisdom before I
get out of here, before we both get out of here. Guys, listen,
girls don't never of like seeing another girl spend money
on their dude. Yeah, they're like, could it be me?
We know, brokey, brokey move more the story people, guys,
(29:14):
imagine getting jumped and you over here the other person say,
this ain't even him? Heinous guys. Man, I want to
thank you guys rocking out with us for another episode
of Pence Consequences Off the books, got k in the building. Listen,
I'm gonna put I'm gonna put all of our social
media stuff out there. Man, listen, please, no eggplants, no blank,
(29:35):
no blank. You have to be over five, ten, six weeks, sorry, ma'am.
You have to be over a certain certain.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Failure.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
Well listen, bitter what thank you guys rocking out with
us for another episode, but till next Time, Salutations, Hey,
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