August 26, 2025 • 56 mins
On #DearKuyaJush, we share a deeply moving letter from Benedict—a son carrying the quiet weight of regret. Now a father himself, Benedict reflects on the years he spent chasing responsibilities, building a life, and unintentionally drifting from the two people who gave him everything.
This episode isn’t just about grief—it’s a wake-up call. Benedict’s story reminds us that time with our parents isn’t guaranteed. The dinners we postpone, the calls we forget to make, the stories we never ask to hear—they don’t wait for us. And sometimes, we realize too late that the most important moments were the ones we let slip by.
Kuya Jush invites you to listen with your heart wide open. Reflect on your own relationships, share your thoughts, and honor the memory of those who shaped you. Whether your parents are still with you or only live on in memory, this episode is a space for healing, honesty, and the kind of love that transcends time.
Your voice matters—chime in with your reflections, your stories, and your two cents.
dearkuyajush@phlvradio.com
#relationshipadvice #relationships #lovestory
#LifeAdvice #LifeLessons #LoveLetters #relationshipletters
#lifeexperience
#PHLV #phlvradio #jushandowitt #DearKuyaJush #kuyajush #AlamMoBa #AlamMoBaWithJushAndowitt
This episode isn’t just about grief—it’s a wake-up call. Benedict’s story reminds us that time with our parents isn’t guaranteed. The dinners we postpone, the calls we forget to make, the stories we never ask to hear—they don’t wait for us. And sometimes, we realize too late that the most important moments were the ones we let slip by.
Kuya Jush invites you to listen with your heart wide open. Reflect on your own relationships, share your thoughts, and honor the memory of those who shaped you. Whether your parents are still with you or only live on in memory, this episode is a space for healing, honesty, and the kind of love that transcends time.
Your voice matters—chime in with your reflections, your stories, and your two cents.
dearkuyajush@phlvradio.com
#relationshipadvice #relationships #lovestory
#LifeAdvice #LifeLessons #LoveLetters #relationshipletters
#lifeexperience
#PHLV #phlvradio #jushandowitt #DearKuyaJush #kuyajush #AlamMoBa #AlamMoBaWithJushAndowitt
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:01):
Instants, ants, assents as also, and not a moment.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Any.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Moment, spending, not spending, mons anything, spot any moment, any nights,
(02:21):
an link still stop moment, just like.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
A friend from back home. This is your Filipino radio
experience in Las Vegas p h l V Radio. Hello, look,
good thing. It's Saturday night here in California or in
(03:30):
Los Angeles. Just to let you guys, tho, it is
so hot here. It's like, in my opinion, it's hotter
in the Philippines. So good evening. If you're watching us
in the Philippines, it is one pm in the afternoon,
and I heard it's hot there as well, So magnan
(03:51):
tang ha, say you la to hap one rather saying
you laha. If you're watching us in different parts of
the world, good morning, good afternoon, good even mean and
of course happy viewing and good days. Adding team share
and team replay. Yeah, before anything else, before I would
say hello to everybody. We are live and different podcasts
(04:15):
namely Apple podcasts, Google podcasts, iHeartRadio, and Spotify simultaneously. We
are being We're airing live on PHLB radio facebook page
as well as PHLB Radio YouTube channel. So what you
need to do. If you're not a subscriber yet, is
(04:36):
like share and subscribe and if you want to not when.
If you want to be notified every time that we
have a show on, just click on that notification bell
so you won't miss any of the PHLB Radio shows. Also,
if you're using Amazon fire TV, just look for PHLB
(04:56):
Radio channel. And if you're using that equipment which is Alexa,
just say Alexa play PHLB Radio. And if you have
any questions or comments or anything to do with the
shows and the station, just log into our website which
is w w W PHLB radio dot com. Yeah, so telegon.
(05:20):
It is so humid here, my god, my electric fund
is on, my air condition is on, and it's still
so hot. Anyways, happy viewing the Humana first honor, a
second order and third honer and meaning. See neil Ver
hell Bozy of megal World Corporation for any of your
(05:44):
condominium meats. If you want to inquire you are you
just want to know more about the lending as well
as the purchasing way of buying condominiums through megal World.
Just look up or hitt up ce. Neil verhell Boz
is a megal World Corporation salesperson agent a good one
(06:07):
at that happy with youing also apping second honer Croynick
her none Rhyming is watching us from I think Simil
is watching us from McAthy s Rymi is watching us
from Project seven. My good friend Gilda Cooper is not
late today. She is on time and she's our third honor.
(06:29):
Say hi president a call. See Gilda Cooper is watching
us or Jigs Cooper is watching us from the beautiful
city of Carson, California. Yeah, and those people watching us
na in deep and actually shout out at chat box,
please do those I could give you a good greeting
nonetheless before anything else, nahome, let me help promote the
(06:54):
concert An Evening with Brian mcnight. Yeah, see Brian mcni
poem American singer nah like popular passikatnam one last Crye.
We all know that song back at once a check anytime,
among others. So Brian McKnight is going to have a
(07:15):
concert and it's entitled An Evening with Brian McKnight, and
we're showing that on the screen and it's going to
be this Saturday, August no, sorry, Saturday September six again
Saturday September six, and the gates will probably open. The
theater gates will open at five point thirty. And of
(07:38):
course the tickets are as follows super VIP, which is
limited tickets alone. It's by three hundred and fifty eight dollars.
The IP is one hundred ninety eight dollars, Gold ticket
is one hundred and fifty eight dollars, Silver is one
twenty eight dollars and bronze is ninety eight dollars and
(08:01):
general admission is seventy eight dollars. And of course it's
a free parking and it's gonna be at the Redondo
Beach Performing Arts Center again. It's Saturday, September six. For tickets,
you could call the following people. Jackie at area code
six one nine nine eight eight seven to one so
(08:23):
okay Jackie area code six one nine nine eight eight
zero seven one one. Larry area code five six two
two seven six three eight three six Floor area code
six two six two seven four five seven eight three,
Carle area code eight one eight nine three eight seven
(08:48):
four four six and Emmelda at area code five six
two six seven six five eight three three and special
announcement from from the producers in bad see Brad season.
Effective tomorrow Monday here in the States, it's gonna be
fifty percent on all those tickets, meaning from the super
(09:10):
VIP if there's anything left, uh, to the VIP to
the goal, to the Silver Bronze and g A, everything
is fifty percent off on all those ticket shifty purchase
that starting this Monday now. And they're doing this because
they want more people to really witness and be able
to see Brian McKnight live in concert. And it's an
(09:34):
evening with Brian mcnight. Yeah, happy ing Dessi Santos who
in the late Dessie Santos today watching us from Kabatu
and Street in Kessun City. Yeah. Our topic for today
Naho Naho made you. I think Marami takamah and tonight
(09:57):
Marami uh Marami my antique. The story at Marten. We
included a little twitch of guilt parahase sometimes overlook in
(10:17):
So this is timely, I think. And Marami Salamat Benedict
Palala and our letter Sanders Benedict he's forty five years
old and he's married. And an episode titled for Today,
which is a brand new episode. It is con Kailan
pa they con kaylan pay Now let's start and don't
(10:43):
worry about the lake commerce. I will do a synopsis
or a summary Paramaha and hopefully especially as your nicks
Jake side up papara them. I am maca comment, advice
(11:05):
at opinion Josh h Marami Salama just like anyone else.
Thank you for having a show like yours. Salamad, p
h l B Radio for allowing such a platform Ali
Ma liha or email Josh at Bavasa on air sabihi
(11:34):
Sama comments my opinion and advices not only Josh but
also for the viewers at the listeners a lie So
sanam continue and more power to p h l B
Radio as well as to uh Josh Naho Benedict Maso
(12:00):
to know that I appreciate you naming a nag dito
like sa owner owner and an phl B radio. It
takes a village to have a show like like ours.
So Marab Marabi Salamat for that wonderful, wonderful comment like
(12:21):
I see. Okay, now Sabiyah, let's continue, Kuya Josh, I
know this is the right time to share my story
with my with my sincere hope that it would open
people's mind on what they should do now, not tomorrow
but now Hindi bogas needed now you na ipposed Benedet
(12:48):
forty five years old, married is Aku med text is
a Mala king Hospital Dito Sabakati Maggin Buhai namind negosha
Amalama Gudako. My siblings and I went to the best
schools and universities and heavy and had an easy life
(13:09):
because of them. We are all married now with children
Kuya Josh Sigurro. It is important to appreciate our parents
now while they are still with us. Growing up case
we were very close with each other. We do things
together and even and even traveled as well. As we
(13:32):
grew up, we all became busy with our careers and
eventually our own families. During that and spending time with
our parents nagging limited. Now before we will travel together
and do and do things together Perro. Part of growing
up Sigurro, we gained friends outside of our family Kayaagin
(13:56):
madalang Na lang and Pavisita Sakanila at an Aking Maaamilia
at an Aking Pamilia Kuya Josh. We all became busy
like everyone else. Kaya La is acting pageging busy, I
overlooked the fact that our parents are getting old as well.
(14:19):
In my case alam Ko Narian Langna manzilla Alamlabyum, feeling
that they are always there growing up kayak Paglakiko and
Arian parinsula Hidiku Namalaya and as I get older, silarin
are getting older. Kuya Josh, I will admit so many
(14:41):
times I have I have taken them for granted, so
many occasions that I should be there but was not
able to because I was busy in dilain priority Cosabuhai
trabajo material things pera nagin priority school. I want to
(15:02):
be successful case so I can be financially free, me
being moving forward. However, in chasing in chasing these dreams
in so many ways, I forgot to make my parents
my priority as well. Kuya Conka Noasilla. I finally realized
(15:25):
the errors and mistakes I did for not giving them
time Conkla Nolaasilla to feel the appreciation and love I
have for them. Colla Indi Salamako Samagandan Buhai at educash
vine Nilasa Amen I should have could have would have
(15:51):
Baasana and Nasa Hindi Taya Kuya. I wrote you this
letter as a wake up call and a reminder to
give a reminder to all to give your parents the
priority they rightfully deserved. Keep in mind the sacrifices they
(16:14):
did for all of us Hindi batayo Indi batata daminandila,
sacrifices that they did for us when we were born,
from infancy to childhood to maturity. You are always a
priority for them, priority, indiating priority peroa marama at in
(16:42):
satin Indi nasilan priority nothing. It is my prayer and
my wish. Appreciate them. Now, spend time with them, express
your gratitude and be a blessing to them. Basil i
hope my son alaa mara, you know what Marami sabi
(17:12):
Marami adam sagila while they were still around Silla and
valu Nila mahaila ma masaaki sigur masa malama at Sagila
(17:39):
nasi lang I mean magula at lahai sana ma maa
viewers at Magan naiki Pola and Mala mahamagua i matutu
(18:02):
si lang magpasalamad matutu si lang to pick up their
cell phones. Mila magpasalamad atala iparam dam mila and mahalula
bagupa mala sila muna kuya marami salamad more power to
(18:23):
you your show and of course to p h l
B Radio mcbamahal at lagging sumasa sumusu bye bye sayung
Manhapro Gramma Benedict Navo madj you Marama samanga in Nasabia Monica, Monica.
When d is watching us from Project seven, Alexander Francisco
(18:47):
is watching us from the Manila, Si Hilda is watching,
as an Ernie is watching us as well. So at
synapses no no bevid So Benedick is forty five years
all he's married and he obviously he grew up in
a he had the good life, saving Anya because the
parents of Benedict we were uncohante business people, so they
(19:13):
were sent to the best schools and best universities. That
being said Sabi Anya, As we age, you know, there's
a lot of sacrifices, Naa, as they age. When we age,
(19:34):
when we mature, we we we acquire friends outside of
our own family, and like before the very closely. They
travel together, they do things together. But as he aged,
as he approached to maturity, a life outside of of
(19:55):
his family and uh he wrote to us to remind
us it's a wake up call and reminder. Now do
it now, Priora. What it means is mima occasions, manga
family gathering, hindish because of work, because as we all know,
(20:21):
when we're young, we are always striving to be successful
in our In the path of being successful, we always
want to work or if we have a business, we
concentrate ourselves in business. We give time for for the
family and for the business. And a lot of times
the gentle y mahakuaa, they're just there. They were always
(20:42):
going to be there for us. So there's a possibility
of we are taking them for granted.
Speaker 3 (20:47):
So and.
Speaker 2 (20:50):
Benedict, it's a reminder, it's a wake up Coolna. What
I should have could have and would have made may
an effort going priority that And what is saying to
us as a reminder is as we age, as we mature,
as we as we grow older, we have to understand
(21:14):
our tenents are growing older as well. Data you must
Tomata Mamma Kayana. It's a reminder. Now think about it
your parents as we age either either with there with
us dealing with us or they have their own independence.
It would not hurt to give them a call. It
(21:36):
will not hurt the ba to to to make sure
that they are appreciated. You don't don't see, but in
a realizing you should have, could have, would have when
everything is done, realized Massana. You know what while they're
(21:58):
still around, can you realize it all? Because he's he's
getting to that face. Also he's forty five magulan binshah.
So at the end of the day, sabing and all
of us wants to be appreciated, I mean ma appreciation Mai.
(22:25):
What more are are our parents not talagan from conception Palangi,
but when they found out that that your mom our
mothers are conceivingila on future, not in inla schools, papadao,
the profession that that we should be taken in college Quanta.
(22:45):
They have plants, they have they have they have dreams
for us and together with that, incorporated with that saving
a yu maga sacrifices that that that they have to
work the double time, they have to concerted their bus business.
From from birth palan Bay, you just your mother carrying
you for nine months in their womb. It's already a
(23:07):
big sacrifice for for our female audience, for our female
listeners at Maganana, John Alum you it is not a
walk in the part to carry a baby in your womb.
Atta Kai. There's so many things that that midmaga changes
(23:33):
while you are pregnant, and that's already a sacrifice in itself.
Now although we are not carrying the baby with us,
we are we are tasked to provide the best food
on the table, the vitamins, the milk at maga, diapers,
(23:53):
tying the ginkarang hunter for how we you know, as
as as our father's and in a society we have
we know that for a fact you manga single mothers done.
We need to consider that as well that they are
the They are being the father and the mother as
well the barsila all in one same time with the
(24:17):
single father as well. They are the father and the
mother as well at anything in between. So there's so
many sacrifices. What Benedict was saying is in Tayu Marie
mind map Lahana. Now I we know not maraami time
priority that we want to be successful. We have our
(24:39):
own family, We have our own set of friends. We
have all our hobbies, we have our own vacations, we
have advocations, we have our own hobby. Not in caita
and pain and addin mahama gulan uh. You have to
find time to make them feel and Maa magamagulan. And
of course my parents told me that while while you know, okay,
(25:03):
they don't really need financial assistance, especially Mama, it's the
time time and talgan at in. It is the the
the the my mom, it's the smelly and and they're
(25:25):
just in the rooms. Importality because the mesilla, your closeness,
the misilla you you present, your present nahing. It's not
really the material things that they're after. It's not, but
it's more like the they. It is important for them.
(25:46):
They they they know for a fact. They to Maa
that it is worth their sacrifices. It is worth the
sleepless night to you maha. And it is such a
heaven a feeling of of nirvana. Ala I love you, mom, dad,
(26:09):
or thank you for giving us the best education, or
for for for for disciplining us, or for showing us
the right path, or for showing us for teaching us.
Making the sense of gratitude think about it, because it's
(26:29):
so easy for us to say we love them, that
we appreciate them, that we we we we care for them,
and we tried and as much as possible we spend
qualady time with them. Why can't you not do that
same thing to your parents? So our parents, if they're
still around. What a feeling kaita think about it? If
(26:52):
if the if, the if the if, if the situation
is reversed the bad, Even us as individuals, we always
want whether you whether we we we are broken about it.
It is so important for us. Nana appreciate Taya, appreciate
tayo nothing significant other nothing, nothing, Nahata nothing, co workers nothing,
(27:22):
and bos nothing. That appreciation means a lot but imagining
to him because in gravit Pan sacrifices not nigay A
think Mala and who are we not to appreciate them?
And who are we not to to be able to
tell them and and and express our love and and
(27:45):
and and and gratitude to them. Of course a lot
of us would say and angel Manzilla like what Bennett
was saying, Di no Mozilla, no, and behold, you got
to remember if we are aging as well, we got
to remember people take fifteen to twenty years or more
(28:08):
difference than age age. Nothinga And you got to remember,
with all these things happening in the world, the sickness
and and the stress, we never know ind la taiu
we we we are not saba we are we don't
have the future in our hands. That is between God
(28:30):
and and of course your destiny not. But what Benedict
is is making us realized is make our parents a priority.
Well nothing akutan, well nothing uh is a is ataba
or in neglect or overlook nothing because it will be
(28:50):
such a travesty. It will be such a sad day
for them. Kaaa. It is so sad and it will
be a gloomy day for for them to not especially
in special occasions like you know, Christmas, holidays and especially birthdays, anniversary.
(29:17):
And if you're far away Filipinos abroad, if your parents
are are in the Philippines, nahoi. Technology now, we could
send them cakes, we could send them flowers, we could
send them money, we could send them buying boxes. And
if you are normal in provinces, telegram is still alive,
letters still is still going. A phone call would not
(29:37):
hurt vive. Your called what's up, vibrant messenger. There's so
many ways of calling them FaceTime and no excuses telega
and and and and as kids, as children. This is
one thing I learned kit that Nato, in the eyes
(29:57):
of our parents, we are still children or liven go
ka good good Nataio Nasa fifty sixties, Nataio forty fifty sixties.
When you are with your parents, they don't look at
you at your age. They look at you as still
their children. Minsan, like my mom would always tell me
(30:21):
and away when I when I rememher visiting and and
you know, at a certain age paran wow parang. But
because a teenager your years now indeed and nick curfew
Casina kaitna you say you are of age and you
have your own family. In the eyes of the parents,
(30:42):
we are still young adults. We are still their children.
Na aruga in definitely Hindia bay Hey before anything else
that Mama comet see Rosanna and Millard Barrea is back
in Doha, Qatar. It will Rosanna in Jeed Ceter. She
she and her family was was they were on vacation
(31:07):
here in California, and then they went to New York
and then of course San Francisco, I think, and then
they went all over Canada and now she is back.
It's the first day at work in Doha, Qatar. So
happy viewing, sayo, Rasanna, and welcome back to reality Shadow.
So it's time to go back to work. And happy viewing,
(31:29):
say Familia, and of course happy viewing to our team
Doha Qatar, Helloka see see see A Thin, Hagibi c
joselle A Thin. Joel Ortegaea is of course one of
them member original member named Hagibbi's u s a who's
(31:50):
having a tour. I believe according to Eugene daw it's
gonna be at next year. Now you one next year
and because Marmi in Ioso looking forward to that. So
happy viewing, sayo Joel, as well as to give this
us a and of course Joel is watching us in Nevada,
(32:13):
in Las Vegas, Nevada. See Raymie Martinez, Hi Raymie, how
are you please let us know where you are watching
us from? And happy viewing sayo, and welcome, welcome to
the show. So oh yeah, going back to Benedict. So indeed,
(32:34):
when Parama preached deva uh, it is not the intention
of man theo is a letter in the benedict Tegna
time Lee, especially the holiday season Manao in a couple
of weeks Na lann and gentlemen uh see Joe Marich
(32:55):
and cause as we all know and Christmas taga it
starts in September. If you're in the Philippines, so ima
Filipinos abroad. We all know that right but bever month
nay amana toktogging fan pasco some Christmas carols ayan a
living NASA radio saving. We are known the country Philippines
(33:19):
is known, not the country who celebrates Christmas. Nah that
celebrate Christmas. Now four months September, October November December talagana
maga and talk with this September. It is always important
that we we realize the value of family. We should
(33:42):
we should take into account and make sure that we
make sure that we express our love appreciation to our
parents first and foremost, because without them we are not here.
Without their sacrifices, we won't be here without you. Mannah
(34:04):
milas at the disciplines that they besoapan us and I
make bid, but it is you got to remember and
you know what not to hurt us, not to make
an example of us, but that we we go to
(34:28):
the right path. You discipline, discipline, the discipline by itself
is already a language of love. And they care about you.
They want you to be the good person, to be
the best version of yourself. And how do they do
that expression and parents not and how they express their
(34:53):
love for us. Some the express it to monetary. Some no,
man are very The expression is they're very touchy, hagey philly.
Uh you attachedman. It's a combination of that. Uh. Some
noman paddle or or discipline uh some noman Uh. They
(35:15):
shower you with material things UH can And this I've
been saying this time and time again. There's really no
handbook on how to be a parent, how to be
a good parent, because experience can exposure uh. And same
thing with with with us kids, especially in Muggig, in
(35:38):
Maga in Tayo. It's a it's a uh. As you
go alone, you learn. I see you man dow the personality.
You what what what's good for one child might not
be effective to the other kid And you maam nothing
And you let me know they're doing there by experience,
(35:58):
you know. So I the manana parr partern uh paron
cookie cutter discipline. Your eldest will be the same discipline
to your second, to your third, to your good. So
definitely not Canny has a personality and not magana because
just like all of us, we have our own personality
(36:21):
as well. We have our own needs, wants, dreams and aspirations.
So and so it is really very very difficult for
the parents the name of first time parents talbot about
booklet on how to be the We also also have
(36:41):
our our our witnesses as well as our strength and
we learn also what most important is the appreciation. What
is most important is for us at this stage, we
need to pick up the phone and saying thank you Mom,
thank you Dad, I love you, I appreciate you guys
for what you did to us. Uh Takita. This is
(37:05):
the time the takita you your sense of gratitude now,
because you are not where you are if not for them.
Indebu mari its young success more without without them putting,
putting the hardship first. Putting paved the way. Tara, you,
(37:28):
you your pa would be an easy path to success. Okay,
now see see Leyah Leah Spencer is watching Hello Josh Hello, Leah,
happy happy viewing s Silus Formida Marasigan is watching Hello
to you as well, Lose and of course to Eddie
(37:48):
and and Lea's watching I believe, I think Eagle Rock
or the Inland Empire in California and slun Marce is
watching us from g M A Cavite. So Jamie is
general something okay, but that Jessaca bete so happy viewing
Saime you and keep keep saying keep hydrated and hopefully
(38:11):
young Jose Philippines with with about the flood control. I
just wish and pray now matapi us as we all know,
maye divert divert unti a little bit. Even Manila. It's
all over the news, It's all over the YouTube and internet,
(38:33):
its Facebook as well. Imagine hanging to or city of
Manila in some places, like before the show, I was
watching it, hanging you hang s M. Manila Grady. So hopefully,
like what I said in past shows, nothing now. This
(38:55):
has been a problem. The flood in the Philippines has
been the problem has been there for so long problem
and Ghana and hopefully with all these stops in the Senate,
with all the Blue Riven discussion, Blue Riven Committee discussion
and as solved nothing yan at maka bana mansulu shun
(39:19):
and we could only hope and we could only pray,
and we could only put our trust in our government.
Now they'll do what's right and what's best. So maybe adverse.
So you you letter me the Benedicta. What a good reminder,
Samana Talgon. They're coming to that age we're in. It's
(39:42):
just a matter of time. We have parents who are
on their sixties, seventies, eighties and nineties, Keyana sober appreciation Telaga.
One thing I like with the government, the Philippine government
Sana migas America or I don't know about the other countries.
And then Philippines, especially our Philippines abroad, who would be
(40:07):
flying to Manila. If you are sixty years old in above,
you could easily apply for a senior card. The senior
card pole would allow you twenty percent on on on
medication as well on when you go to restaurants, when
you eat outa kaite fast football, they honored that. Imagine
(40:28):
a twenty percent discount if you are a senior and
senior push a Philippines is sixty years old and above
so I'm gonna telegan new Papapa Laga and Manga Senior
at that was me Linapo. Even airlines if you're flying domestically,
(40:48):
meaning in the in the different regions in the Philippines,
by air or a kite sa or if you're going
by bass or any model transportation, being a senior basamerankay
in senior car, you are allowed twenty percent. Imagine that
that was in some city Spat birthday you have a
birthday cake. And in the provinces they give you money
(41:11):
every quarter at Chaa bigas and rice. And then of
course in Keson City, which I'm very familiar, between one
Monday and Tuesday, between the hours of one pm to
five pm, you could watch movie for free, regardless of
whether a new release or old old movie. A those
(41:33):
are acceptable as long as you present your senior card.
So I'm just letting you guys know now Senior magda
Alima and kuide, some of the fast food like Charlie d. McDonald's,
and in assal any any food establishment, tropical hut name it.
(41:57):
If even even you missed shown my show my house
Kai do a kyosas as long as you present your
your senior card automatic, they give you twenty percent of
your bill. Imagine that and and and maybe you guys
start texting me apply when you fly into the Philippines,
(42:19):
and of course you have no friends and family that
you stay, right, you just have to get a barangay
certification that you you are housed there. And then of
course you show your identification and hopefully by now you
are dual citizenship or all you have dual citizenship or
your dual citizens and then and then you go to
(42:41):
the municipality or municipia or cp hall and like in
most places, a medical certification from from stay as you
bring it to the munisicipi or the cipy hall automatic
don't give you a card. And the card is really
very powerful. And we imagine more if you eat outside,
(43:03):
twenty percent again, twenty percent a gat is taken out
of your your bill. Divan and does and I'm alreally
hoping Nasana, one of the senators in the US. We
think about that. America, normally it's sixty five or pensions,
a social security the earliest draw you could do is
(43:26):
sixty two. But in the Philippines, sixty you're considered already
a senior and so if you even when you watch
movies maga, the priority line, the prioric line, and senior
and people with disability as well as young manga pregnant women.
So at Talaga, they even the parking, they have designated
(43:49):
place for that you're not land sometimes specially the parking.
Ind and hopefully the discipline is always an issue if
you are if you are in the Philippines. Yeah, so
hopefully that that gave you some information about how it
is to be a senior in the Philippines. Okay, going
back to U K. Benedict Na letter, Sami Lea Spencer,
(44:15):
you mah have ito Samini Leaya. We are ten in
the family at Munsoo Galizaki and I am the princess
to my mom Hangang sak in unfair DAUSI mother hang
gang and take you John. I thank you Leah for
(44:39):
that comment at all. Being I I I I would
like to agree to disagree. We we could we could
have a an agreement, an agreement to agree to disagree, okay,
because I always believe not like you know, in a
(45:02):
family lagging merno okay, like lugging. And of course I
I put a lot of tests to my good friends
here in the States as well as in the Philippines,
and most of them majority all of them, if not
all of them. They would always say now mala po.
(45:27):
I always say man mahal para lagging merin la man
for one reason or another. So you most likely e
cao you E call you the blessed, must must have
suka normally say uh through experience on in the papa
(45:48):
sinko or observation plan. You know first born, that was likely,
especially Chinese first born firstborn son taladan pre and they're
considered a blessing and a privilege that normally in no
man come only girls a family or do soka normally nasa.
(46:12):
You're in your attention to say you are the youngest,
the bad so the rest in between, you know, sabia savinga.
It could go both ways. You could be a favorite
or you could be okay lang So anyways, so I
(46:33):
get the letter in the benedict, uh nat it's a
wake up call sannah or nothing do nothing. You get
to thea nothing do nothing. I realize an important stilla
and value la last in uhila do nothing. Uh I
(47:02):
should have said something. I I I ought to do
something Sannah. Indeed, do not thing you point me or
young because now, Saba do it now, not tomorrow, but now.
So if you could pick up the phone, you could
(47:22):
drop a note, you could text our parents and the appreciation,
the blessed how they are as a blessing to you
and and all that. It would be such a good
feeling for them, because when my parents not Vigia, especially
at a certain age, they're not as material anymore. Uh,
(47:43):
they are not asking for too much. It's just like
they just they just want to be loved, to be appreciated,
to to to to have more time, to for us
kids children, to spend more time with them, to fellowship
with them, to take them out once in a while,
(48:05):
maybe for coffee if they can still go and they're
still ambilatory, ka basta in present. Know your presence alone
is more than enough for them. It's just the feeling
that you are there for them. I think that that
would amount to a beautiful life para regret when the
(48:26):
time comes and and for us, Mama gig magulan, didn't maglayo,
and you should realize the importance of the presence, importance
of time spent, quality, time spend your importance non proximity, importance,
(48:48):
non appreciate on a day to day basis. All they
ask is they cannot They're very dependent on us. Mammy daddy, this,
mammy daddy dad or we want this mommy daddy. As
the age partern Uh Dinasila, Maguilla in Dinasilla. Like before recently,
(49:23):
I could still they could still be with us. They
could still uh, they could still be around us perol
as we all know. Uh, that's the facts of life
that we all come to an age where in we
are independentenda. Independence should be coupled with appreciation. We should
(49:43):
be coupled with sense of gratitude, especially to our parents.
So again see Chloe, Marie Mendy is watching as well,
Saba as a first day, put your back and Doha
at work, Mamay Klobe marie h Sabina Toma, Sabina, Kabysia
(50:16):
mahindi mus oh wow. The then is atawa is a
cabusta is adala manding ball the second option. You know
that hashtag who got radio that was having a miller
(50:41):
Hello Manitoba, peeps, joy abbad yes and friends, Badi so
marani islam benbeg for sharing that for reminding us uh
and and and hopefully Uh it's a wake up call
for a lot of us. It's a wake up call. Uh.
And then and a good reminder about the appreciation saving
(51:02):
it is important nah nah a priority and gona know
me Chloe Atawa but nothing and and I think that
is a good reminder. Show your appreciation now, show your
(51:26):
your gratitude, sense of gratitude. Now, let's not wait when
it's all done and overwetah son and adding episode for today.
Another episode is finished for today. But am in salamat
for your continued support. It was adding one thing programma happened,
(51:48):
but Amama if you if you are not we're not
able to watch it. Yesterday. It was the travelogue I
did in the beyond the area, so you put is
the oldest China town in the world. It is toted
to be the oldest China town in the world. And
that's Big Nondo, which is a district of Vanilla. Baman
(52:09):
Salama at a cheer, so I appreciate that so much.
Versana a Hi Toronto, Peach Sanni r. Jacinto and family
La Burlas. Yeah, so you know about it. Rosanna has
a galant all over the world or old North North America,
(52:31):
so Davili and I was privileged to meet the husband
as well as one of the sons, me Rosanna. So
it was such a pleasure to see Rosanna. And I
believe Versanna even visited a PHLD radio and had a
wonderful time with the owners at uh at visiting the
station of PHLD Radio in Las Vegas. Yeah, and so
(52:54):
with that said, again Marami Marami salamato, uh pakikig samang
pakiki for for being here here in our show. And
again this is not just Kola Josh' show, but this
(53:15):
is our show because like what I said to the
owner of a phl B radio, it takes a village.
If there if it's it's a it's it takes a village.
One person cannot do the show, but it's it takes
a lot of people behind the scene to make the
show the show that it is, to make this our
good show. Sabimi Sabimi, guil Dam Cooper, enjoy your parents
(53:39):
while they are still alive, you know, Tamasana Mary Grace
of Toronto. Hello. Yeah. So with that said, uh, looking
forward to seeing you next Friday, another guest we have
and then of course next Saturday, if you're watching us
in this part of the world, and it's gonna be
(53:59):
Saturday and Sunday in a manpo if you are watching
us in the Philippines, and if you're in different parts
of the world depending on your location, your time zone,
Taki check me and in your programming. Now before I go,
as always remind everyone that be kind. You can never
ever go around for being kind and the act of
(54:20):
kindness that you do to people, it will come back
to you in so many ways, so many times, in
different times, in different situations, with different people. And also
be grateful. It is important to be grateful and always
remind yourself the mere fact you woke up this morning,
(54:41):
you wake up the following day, it's already a blessing
in itself because that gives you a new slate, a
new day, to begin a new a new day, to
make yourself a better version of you. And also to
be to choose to be happy, because when you're happy,
when you choose to be happy, it's said the mood
(55:02):
the whole the mood of the whole day, regardless of
the challenges or any curve ball that would happen to you,
the whole day so with that, Salama, enjoy the rest
of the week and and if I don't see you
next week, you have a wonderful blessed next week and
(55:24):
God bless us all by everybody for now to you,
and Joe is signing off and I'll see you next week.
By everybody, Stay safe
Speaker 3 (56:01):
Nints, mountains, ants, anything as amants, anything continents a
Instants, ants, assents as also, and not a moment.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Any.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Moment, spending, not spending, mons anything, spot any moment, any nights,
(02:21):
an link still stop moment, just like.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
A friend from back home. This is your Filipino radio
experience in Las Vegas p h l V Radio. Hello, look,
good thing. It's Saturday night here in California or in
(03:30):
Los Angeles. Just to let you guys, tho, it is
so hot here. It's like, in my opinion, it's hotter
in the Philippines. So good evening. If you're watching us
in the Philippines, it is one pm in the afternoon,
and I heard it's hot there as well, So magnan
(03:51):
tang ha, say you la to hap one rather saying
you laha. If you're watching us in different parts of
the world, good morning, good afternoon, good even mean and
of course happy viewing and good days. Adding team share
and team replay. Yeah, before anything else, before I would
say hello to everybody. We are live and different podcasts
(04:15):
namely Apple podcasts, Google podcasts, iHeartRadio, and Spotify simultaneously. We
are being We're airing live on PHLB radio facebook page
as well as PHLB Radio YouTube channel. So what you
need to do. If you're not a subscriber yet, is
(04:36):
like share and subscribe and if you want to not when.
If you want to be notified every time that we
have a show on, just click on that notification bell
so you won't miss any of the PHLB Radio shows. Also,
if you're using Amazon fire TV, just look for PHLB
(04:56):
Radio channel. And if you're using that equipment which is Alexa,
just say Alexa play PHLB Radio. And if you have
any questions or comments or anything to do with the
shows and the station, just log into our website which
is w w W PHLB radio dot com. Yeah, so telegon.
(05:20):
It is so humid here, my god, my electric fund
is on, my air condition is on, and it's still
so hot. Anyways, happy viewing the Humana first honor, a
second order and third honer and meaning. See neil Ver
hell Bozy of megal World Corporation for any of your
(05:44):
condominium meats. If you want to inquire you are you
just want to know more about the lending as well
as the purchasing way of buying condominiums through megal World.
Just look up or hitt up ce. Neil verhell Boz
is a megal World Corporation salesperson agent a good one
(06:07):
at that happy with youing also apping second honer Croynick
her none Rhyming is watching us from I think Simil
is watching us from McAthy s Rymi is watching us
from Project seven. My good friend Gilda Cooper is not
late today. She is on time and she's our third honor.
(06:29):
Say hi president a call. See Gilda Cooper is watching
us or Jigs Cooper is watching us from the beautiful
city of Carson, California. Yeah, and those people watching us
na in deep and actually shout out at chat box,
please do those I could give you a good greeting
nonetheless before anything else, nahome, let me help promote the
(06:54):
concert An Evening with Brian mcnight. Yeah, see Brian mcni
poem American singer nah like popular passikatnam one last Crye.
We all know that song back at once a check anytime,
among others. So Brian McKnight is going to have a
(07:15):
concert and it's entitled An Evening with Brian McKnight, and
we're showing that on the screen and it's going to
be this Saturday, August no, sorry, Saturday September six again
Saturday September six, and the gates will probably open. The
theater gates will open at five point thirty. And of
(07:38):
course the tickets are as follows super VIP, which is
limited tickets alone. It's by three hundred and fifty eight dollars.
The IP is one hundred ninety eight dollars, Gold ticket
is one hundred and fifty eight dollars, Silver is one
twenty eight dollars and bronze is ninety eight dollars and
(08:01):
general admission is seventy eight dollars. And of course it's
a free parking and it's gonna be at the Redondo
Beach Performing Arts Center again. It's Saturday, September six. For tickets,
you could call the following people. Jackie at area code
six one nine nine eight eight seven to one so
(08:23):
okay Jackie area code six one nine nine eight eight
zero seven one one. Larry area code five six two
two seven six three eight three six Floor area code
six two six two seven four five seven eight three,
Carle area code eight one eight nine three eight seven
(08:48):
four four six and Emmelda at area code five six
two six seven six five eight three three and special
announcement from from the producers in bad see Brad season.
Effective tomorrow Monday here in the States, it's gonna be
fifty percent on all those tickets, meaning from the super
(09:10):
VIP if there's anything left, uh, to the VIP to
the goal, to the Silver Bronze and g A, everything
is fifty percent off on all those ticket shifty purchase
that starting this Monday now. And they're doing this because
they want more people to really witness and be able
to see Brian McKnight live in concert. And it's an
(09:34):
evening with Brian mcnight. Yeah, happy ing Dessi Santos who
in the late Dessie Santos today watching us from Kabatu
and Street in Kessun City. Yeah. Our topic for today
Naho Naho made you. I think Marami takamah and tonight
(09:57):
Marami uh Marami my antique. The story at Marten. We
included a little twitch of guilt parahase sometimes overlook in
(10:17):
So this is timely, I think. And Marami Salamat Benedict
Palala and our letter Sanders Benedict he's forty five years
old and he's married. And an episode titled for Today,
which is a brand new episode. It is con Kailan
pa they con kaylan pay Now let's start and don't
(10:43):
worry about the lake commerce. I will do a synopsis
or a summary Paramaha and hopefully especially as your nicks
Jake side up papara them. I am maca comment, advice
(11:05):
at opinion Josh h Marami Salama just like anyone else.
Thank you for having a show like yours. Salamad, p
h l B Radio for allowing such a platform Ali
Ma liha or email Josh at Bavasa on air sabihi
(11:34):
Sama comments my opinion and advices not only Josh but
also for the viewers at the listeners a lie So
sanam continue and more power to p h l B
Radio as well as to uh Josh Naho Benedict Maso
(12:00):
to know that I appreciate you naming a nag dito
like sa owner owner and an phl B radio. It
takes a village to have a show like like ours.
So Marab Marabi Salamat for that wonderful, wonderful comment like
(12:21):
I see. Okay, now Sabiyah, let's continue, Kuya Josh, I
know this is the right time to share my story
with my with my sincere hope that it would open
people's mind on what they should do now, not tomorrow
but now Hindi bogas needed now you na ipposed Benedet
(12:48):
forty five years old, married is Aku med text is
a Mala king Hospital Dito Sabakati Maggin Buhai namind negosha
Amalama Gudako. My siblings and I went to the best
schools and universities and heavy and had an easy life
(13:09):
because of them. We are all married now with children
Kuya Josh Sigurro. It is important to appreciate our parents
now while they are still with us. Growing up case
we were very close with each other. We do things
together and even and even traveled as well. As we
(13:32):
grew up, we all became busy with our careers and
eventually our own families. During that and spending time with
our parents nagging limited. Now before we will travel together
and do and do things together Perro. Part of growing
up Sigurro, we gained friends outside of our family Kayaagin
(13:56):
madalang Na lang and Pavisita Sakanila at an Aking Maaamilia
at an Aking Pamilia Kuya Josh. We all became busy
like everyone else. Kaya La is acting pageging busy, I
overlooked the fact that our parents are getting old as well.
(14:19):
In my case alam Ko Narian Langna manzilla Alamlabyum, feeling
that they are always there growing up kayak Paglakiko and
Arian parinsula Hidiku Namalaya and as I get older, silarin
are getting older. Kuya Josh, I will admit so many
(14:41):
times I have I have taken them for granted, so
many occasions that I should be there but was not
able to because I was busy in dilain priority Cosabuhai
trabajo material things pera nagin priority school. I want to
(15:02):
be successful case so I can be financially free, me
being moving forward. However, in chasing in chasing these dreams
in so many ways, I forgot to make my parents
my priority as well. Kuya Conka Noasilla. I finally realized
(15:25):
the errors and mistakes I did for not giving them
time Conkla Nolaasilla to feel the appreciation and love I
have for them. Colla Indi Salamako Samagandan Buhai at educash
vine Nilasa Amen I should have could have would have
(15:51):
Baasana and Nasa Hindi Taya Kuya. I wrote you this
letter as a wake up call and a reminder to
give a reminder to all to give your parents the
priority they rightfully deserved. Keep in mind the sacrifices they
(16:14):
did for all of us Hindi batayo Indi batata daminandila,
sacrifices that they did for us when we were born,
from infancy to childhood to maturity. You are always a
priority for them, priority, indiating priority peroa marama at in
(16:42):
satin Indi nasilan priority nothing. It is my prayer and
my wish. Appreciate them. Now, spend time with them, express
your gratitude and be a blessing to them. Basil i
hope my son alaa mara, you know what Marami sabi
(17:12):
Marami adam sagila while they were still around Silla and
valu Nila mahaila ma masaaki sigur masa malama at Sagila
(17:39):
nasi lang I mean magula at lahai sana ma maa
viewers at Magan naiki Pola and Mala mahamagua i matutu
(18:02):
si lang magpasalamad matutu si lang to pick up their
cell phones. Mila magpasalamad atala iparam dam mila and mahalula
bagupa mala sila muna kuya marami salamad more power to
(18:23):
you your show and of course to p h l
B Radio mcbamahal at lagging sumasa sumusu bye bye sayung
Manhapro Gramma Benedict Navo madj you Marama samanga in Nasabia Monica, Monica.
When d is watching us from Project seven, Alexander Francisco
(18:47):
is watching us from the Manila, Si Hilda is watching,
as an Ernie is watching us as well. So at
synapses no no bevid So Benedick is forty five years
all he's married and he obviously he grew up in
a he had the good life, saving Anya because the
parents of Benedict we were uncohante business people, so they
(19:13):
were sent to the best schools and best universities. That
being said Sabi Anya, As we age, you know, there's
a lot of sacrifices, Naa, as they age. When we age,
(19:34):
when we mature, we we we acquire friends outside of
our own family, and like before the very closely. They
travel together, they do things together. But as he aged,
as he approached to maturity, a life outside of of
(19:55):
his family and uh he wrote to us to remind
us it's a wake up call and reminder. Now do
it now, Priora. What it means is mima occasions, manga
family gathering, hindish because of work, because as we all know,
(20:21):
when we're young, we are always striving to be successful
in our In the path of being successful, we always
want to work or if we have a business, we
concentrate ourselves in business. We give time for for the
family and for the business. And a lot of times
the gentle y mahakuaa, they're just there. They were always
(20:42):
going to be there for us. So there's a possibility
of we are taking them for granted.
Speaker 3 (20:47):
So and.
Speaker 2 (20:50):
Benedict, it's a reminder, it's a wake up Coolna. What
I should have could have and would have made may
an effort going priority that And what is saying to
us as a reminder is as we age, as we mature,
as we as we grow older, we have to understand
(21:14):
our tenents are growing older as well. Data you must
Tomata Mamma Kayana. It's a reminder. Now think about it
your parents as we age either either with there with
us dealing with us or they have their own independence.
It would not hurt to give them a call. It
(21:36):
will not hurt the ba to to to make sure
that they are appreciated. You don't don't see, but in
a realizing you should have, could have, would have when
everything is done, realized Massana. You know what while they're
(21:58):
still around, can you realize it all? Because he's he's
getting to that face. Also he's forty five magulan binshah.
So at the end of the day, sabing and all
of us wants to be appreciated, I mean ma appreciation Mai.
(22:25):
What more are are our parents not talagan from conception Palangi,
but when they found out that that your mom our
mothers are conceivingila on future, not in inla schools, papadao,
the profession that that we should be taken in college Quanta.
(22:45):
They have plants, they have they have they have dreams
for us and together with that, incorporated with that saving
a yu maga sacrifices that that that they have to
work the double time, they have to concerted their bus business.
From from birth palan Bay, you just your mother carrying
you for nine months in their womb. It's already a
(23:07):
big sacrifice for for our female audience, for our female
listeners at Maganana, John Alum you it is not a
walk in the part to carry a baby in your womb.
Atta Kai. There's so many things that that midmaga changes
(23:33):
while you are pregnant, and that's already a sacrifice in itself.
Now although we are not carrying the baby with us,
we are we are tasked to provide the best food
on the table, the vitamins, the milk at maga, diapers,
(23:53):
tying the ginkarang hunter for how we you know, as
as as our father's and in a society we have
we know that for a fact you manga single mothers done.
We need to consider that as well that they are
the They are being the father and the mother as
well the barsila all in one same time with the
(24:17):
single father as well. They are the father and the
mother as well at anything in between. So there's so
many sacrifices. What Benedict was saying is in Tayu Marie
mind map Lahana. Now I we know not maraami time
priority that we want to be successful. We have our
(24:39):
own family, We have our own set of friends. We
have all our hobbies, we have our own vacations, we
have advocations, we have our own hobby. Not in caita
and pain and addin mahama gulan uh. You have to
find time to make them feel and Maa magamagulan. And
of course my parents told me that while while you know, okay,
(25:03):
they don't really need financial assistance, especially Mama, it's the
time time and talgan at in. It is the the
the the my mom, it's the smelly and and they're
(25:25):
just in the rooms. Importality because the mesilla, your closeness,
the misilla you you present, your present nahing. It's not
really the material things that they're after. It's not, but
it's more like the they. It is important for them.
(25:46):
They they they know for a fact. They to Maa
that it is worth their sacrifices. It is worth the
sleepless night to you maha. And it is such a
heaven a feeling of of nirvana. Ala I love you, mom, dad,
(26:09):
or thank you for giving us the best education, or
for for for for disciplining us, or for showing us
the right path, or for showing us for teaching us.
Making the sense of gratitude think about it, because it's
(26:29):
so easy for us to say we love them, that
we appreciate them, that we we we we care for them,
and we tried and as much as possible we spend
qualady time with them. Why can't you not do that
same thing to your parents? So our parents, if they're
still around. What a feeling kaita think about it? If
(26:52):
if the if, the if the if, if the situation
is reversed the bad, Even us as individuals, we always
want whether you whether we we we are broken about it.
It is so important for us. Nana appreciate Taya, appreciate
tayo nothing significant other nothing, nothing, Nahata nothing, co workers nothing,
(27:22):
and bos nothing. That appreciation means a lot but imagining
to him because in gravit Pan sacrifices not nigay A
think Mala and who are we not to appreciate them?
And who are we not to to be able to
tell them and and and express our love and and
(27:45):
and and and gratitude to them. Of course a lot
of us would say and angel Manzilla like what Bennett
was saying, Di no Mozilla, no, and behold, you got
to remember if we are aging as well, we got
to remember people take fifteen to twenty years or more
(28:08):
difference than age age. Nothinga And you got to remember,
with all these things happening in the world, the sickness
and and the stress, we never know ind la taiu
we we we are not saba we are we don't
have the future in our hands. That is between God
(28:30):
and and of course your destiny not. But what Benedict
is is making us realized is make our parents a priority.
Well nothing akutan, well nothing uh is a is ataba
or in neglect or overlook nothing because it will be
(28:50):
such a travesty. It will be such a sad day
for them. Kaaa. It is so sad and it will
be a gloomy day for for them to not especially
in special occasions like you know, Christmas, holidays and especially birthdays, anniversary.
(29:17):
And if you're far away Filipinos abroad, if your parents
are are in the Philippines, nahoi. Technology now, we could
send them cakes, we could send them flowers, we could
send them money, we could send them buying boxes. And
if you are normal in provinces, telegram is still alive,
letters still is still going. A phone call would not
(29:37):
hurt vive. Your called what's up, vibrant messenger. There's so
many ways of calling them FaceTime and no excuses telega
and and and and as kids, as children. This is
one thing I learned kit that Nato, in the eyes
(29:57):
of our parents, we are still children or liven go
ka good good Nataio Nasa fifty sixties, Nataio forty fifty sixties.
When you are with your parents, they don't look at
you at your age. They look at you as still
their children. Minsan, like my mom would always tell me
(30:21):
and away when I when I rememher visiting and and
you know, at a certain age paran wow parang. But
because a teenager your years now indeed and nick curfew
Casina kaitna you say you are of age and you
have your own family. In the eyes of the parents,
(30:42):
we are still young adults. We are still their children.
Na aruga in definitely Hindia bay Hey before anything else
that Mama comet see Rosanna and Millard Barrea is back
in Doha, Qatar. It will Rosanna in Jeed Ceter. She
she and her family was was they were on vacation
(31:07):
here in California, and then they went to New York
and then of course San Francisco, I think, and then
they went all over Canada and now she is back.
It's the first day at work in Doha, Qatar. So
happy viewing, sayo, Rasanna, and welcome back to reality Shadow.
So it's time to go back to work. And happy viewing,
(31:29):
say Familia, and of course happy viewing to our team
Doha Qatar, Helloka see see see A Thin, Hagibi c
joselle A Thin. Joel Ortegaea is of course one of
them member original member named Hagibbi's u s a who's
(31:50):
having a tour. I believe according to Eugene daw it's
gonna be at next year. Now you one next year
and because Marmi in Ioso looking forward to that. So
happy viewing, sayo Joel, as well as to give this
us a and of course Joel is watching us in Nevada,
(32:13):
in Las Vegas, Nevada. See Raymie Martinez, Hi Raymie, how
are you please let us know where you are watching
us from? And happy viewing sayo, and welcome, welcome to
the show. So oh yeah, going back to Benedict. So indeed,
(32:34):
when Parama preached deva uh, it is not the intention
of man theo is a letter in the benedict Tegna
time Lee, especially the holiday season Manao in a couple
of weeks Na lann and gentlemen uh see Joe Marich
(32:55):
and cause as we all know and Christmas taga it
starts in September. If you're in the Philippines, so ima
Filipinos abroad. We all know that right but bever month
nay amana toktogging fan pasco some Christmas carols ayan a
living NASA radio saving. We are known the country Philippines
(33:19):
is known, not the country who celebrates Christmas. Nah that
celebrate Christmas. Now four months September, October November December talagana
maga and talk with this September. It is always important
that we we realize the value of family. We should
(33:42):
we should take into account and make sure that we
make sure that we express our love appreciation to our
parents first and foremost, because without them we are not here.
Without their sacrifices, we won't be here without you. Mannah
(34:04):
milas at the disciplines that they besoapan us and I
make bid, but it is you got to remember and
you know what not to hurt us, not to make
an example of us, but that we we go to
(34:28):
the right path. You discipline, discipline, the discipline by itself
is already a language of love. And they care about you.
They want you to be the good person, to be
the best version of yourself. And how do they do
that expression and parents not and how they express their
(34:53):
love for us. Some the express it to monetary. Some no,
man are very The expression is they're very touchy, hagey philly.
Uh you attachedman. It's a combination of that. Uh. Some
noman paddle or or discipline uh some noman Uh. They
(35:15):
shower you with material things UH can And this I've
been saying this time and time again. There's really no
handbook on how to be a parent, how to be
a good parent, because experience can exposure uh. And same
thing with with with us kids, especially in Muggig, in
(35:38):
Maga in Tayo. It's a it's a uh. As you
go alone, you learn. I see you man dow the personality.
You what what what's good for one child might not
be effective to the other kid And you maam nothing
And you let me know they're doing there by experience,
(35:58):
you know. So I the manana parr partern uh paron
cookie cutter discipline. Your eldest will be the same discipline
to your second, to your third, to your good. So
definitely not Canny has a personality and not magana because
just like all of us, we have our own personality
(36:21):
as well. We have our own needs, wants, dreams and aspirations.
So and so it is really very very difficult for
the parents the name of first time parents talbot about
booklet on how to be the We also also have
(36:41):
our our our witnesses as well as our strength and
we learn also what most important is the appreciation. What
is most important is for us at this stage, we
need to pick up the phone and saying thank you Mom,
thank you Dad, I love you, I appreciate you guys
for what you did to us. Uh Takita. This is
(37:05):
the time the takita you your sense of gratitude now,
because you are not where you are if not for them.
Indebu mari its young success more without without them putting,
putting the hardship first. Putting paved the way. Tara, you,
(37:28):
you your pa would be an easy path to success. Okay,
now see see Leyah Leah Spencer is watching Hello Josh Hello, Leah,
happy happy viewing s Silus Formida Marasigan is watching Hello
to you as well, Lose and of course to Eddie
(37:48):
and and Lea's watching I believe, I think Eagle Rock
or the Inland Empire in California and slun Marce is
watching us from g M A Cavite. So Jamie is
general something okay, but that Jessaca bete so happy viewing
Saime you and keep keep saying keep hydrated and hopefully
(38:11):
young Jose Philippines with with about the flood control. I
just wish and pray now matapi us as we all know,
maye divert divert unti a little bit. Even Manila. It's
all over the news, It's all over the YouTube and internet,
(38:33):
its Facebook as well. Imagine hanging to or city of
Manila in some places, like before the show, I was
watching it, hanging you hang s M. Manila Grady. So hopefully,
like what I said in past shows, nothing now. This
(38:55):
has been a problem. The flood in the Philippines has
been the problem has been there for so long problem
and Ghana and hopefully with all these stops in the Senate,
with all the Blue Riven discussion, Blue Riven Committee discussion
and as solved nothing yan at maka bana mansulu shun
(39:19):
and we could only hope and we could only pray,
and we could only put our trust in our government.
Now they'll do what's right and what's best. So maybe adverse.
So you you letter me the Benedicta. What a good reminder,
Samana Talgon. They're coming to that age we're in. It's
(39:42):
just a matter of time. We have parents who are
on their sixties, seventies, eighties and nineties, Keyana sober appreciation Telaga.
One thing I like with the government, the Philippine government
Sana migas America or I don't know about the other countries.
And then Philippines, especially our Philippines abroad, who would be
(40:07):
flying to Manila. If you are sixty years old in above,
you could easily apply for a senior card. The senior
card pole would allow you twenty percent on on on
medication as well on when you go to restaurants, when
you eat outa kaite fast football, they honored that. Imagine
(40:28):
a twenty percent discount if you are a senior and
senior push a Philippines is sixty years old and above
so I'm gonna telegan new Papapa Laga and Manga Senior
at that was me Linapo. Even airlines if you're flying domestically,
(40:48):
meaning in the in the different regions in the Philippines,
by air or a kite sa or if you're going
by bass or any model transportation, being a senior basamerankay
in senior car, you are allowed twenty percent. Imagine that
that was in some city Spat birthday you have a
birthday cake. And in the provinces they give you money
(41:11):
every quarter at Chaa bigas and rice. And then of
course in Keson City, which I'm very familiar, between one
Monday and Tuesday, between the hours of one pm to
five pm, you could watch movie for free, regardless of
whether a new release or old old movie. A those
(41:33):
are acceptable as long as you present your senior card.
So I'm just letting you guys know now Senior magda
Alima and kuide, some of the fast food like Charlie d. McDonald's,
and in assal any any food establishment, tropical hut name it.
(41:57):
If even even you missed shown my show my house
Kai do a kyosas as long as you present your
your senior card automatic, they give you twenty percent of
your bill. Imagine that and and and maybe you guys
start texting me apply when you fly into the Philippines,
(42:19):
and of course you have no friends and family that
you stay, right, you just have to get a barangay
certification that you you are housed there. And then of
course you show your identification and hopefully by now you
are dual citizenship or all you have dual citizenship or
your dual citizens and then and then you go to
(42:41):
the municipality or municipia or cp hall and like in
most places, a medical certification from from stay as you
bring it to the munisicipi or the cipy hall automatic
don't give you a card. And the card is really
very powerful. And we imagine more if you eat outside,
(43:03):
twenty percent again, twenty percent a gat is taken out
of your your bill. Divan and does and I'm alreally
hoping Nasana, one of the senators in the US. We
think about that. America, normally it's sixty five or pensions,
a social security the earliest draw you could do is
(43:26):
sixty two. But in the Philippines, sixty you're considered already
a senior and so if you even when you watch
movies maga, the priority line, the prioric line, and senior
and people with disability as well as young manga pregnant women.
So at Talaga, they even the parking, they have designated
(43:49):
place for that you're not land sometimes specially the parking.
Ind and hopefully the discipline is always an issue if
you are if you are in the Philippines. Yeah, so
hopefully that that gave you some information about how it
is to be a senior in the Philippines. Okay, going
back to U K. Benedict Na letter, Sami Lea Spencer,
(44:15):
you mah have ito Samini Leaya. We are ten in
the family at Munsoo Galizaki and I am the princess
to my mom Hangang sak in unfair DAUSI mother hang
gang and take you John. I thank you Leah for
(44:39):
that comment at all. Being I I I I would
like to agree to disagree. We we could we could
have a an agreement, an agreement to agree to disagree, okay,
because I always believe not like you know, in a
(45:02):
family lagging merno okay, like lugging. And of course I
I put a lot of tests to my good friends
here in the States as well as in the Philippines,
and most of them majority all of them, if not
all of them. They would always say now mala po.
(45:27):
I always say man mahal para lagging merin la man
for one reason or another. So you most likely e
cao you E call you the blessed, must must have
suka normally say uh through experience on in the papa
(45:48):
sinko or observation plan. You know first born, that was likely,
especially Chinese first born firstborn son taladan pre and they're
considered a blessing and a privilege that normally in no
man come only girls a family or do soka normally nasa.
(46:12):
You're in your attention to say you are the youngest,
the bad so the rest in between, you know, sabia savinga.
It could go both ways. You could be a favorite
or you could be okay lang So anyways, so I
(46:33):
get the letter in the benedict, uh nat it's a
wake up call sannah or nothing do nothing. You get
to thea nothing do nothing. I realize an important stilla
and value la last in uhila do nothing. Uh I
(47:02):
should have said something. I I I ought to do
something Sannah. Indeed, do not thing you point me or
young because now, Saba do it now, not tomorrow, but now.
So if you could pick up the phone, you could
(47:22):
drop a note, you could text our parents and the appreciation,
the blessed how they are as a blessing to you
and and all that. It would be such a good
feeling for them, because when my parents not Vigia, especially
at a certain age, they're not as material anymore. Uh,
(47:43):
they are not asking for too much. It's just like
they just they just want to be loved, to be appreciated,
to to to to have more time, to for us
kids children, to spend more time with them, to fellowship
with them, to take them out once in a while,
(48:05):
maybe for coffee if they can still go and they're
still ambilatory, ka basta in present. Know your presence alone
is more than enough for them. It's just the feeling
that you are there for them. I think that that
would amount to a beautiful life para regret when the
(48:26):
time comes and and for us, Mama gig magulan, didn't maglayo,
and you should realize the importance of the presence, importance
of time spent, quality, time spend your importance non proximity, importance,
(48:48):
non appreciate on a day to day basis. All they
ask is they cannot They're very dependent on us. Mammy daddy, this,
mammy daddy dad or we want this mommy daddy. As
the age partern Uh Dinasila, Maguilla in Dinasilla. Like before recently,
(49:23):
I could still they could still be with us. They
could still uh, they could still be around us perol
as we all know. Uh, that's the facts of life
that we all come to an age where in we
are independentenda. Independence should be coupled with appreciation. We should
(49:43):
be coupled with sense of gratitude, especially to our parents.
So again see Chloe, Marie Mendy is watching as well,
Saba as a first day, put your back and Doha
at work, Mamay Klobe marie h Sabina Toma, Sabina, Kabysia
(50:16):
mahindi mus oh wow. The then is atawa is a
cabusta is adala manding ball the second option. You know
that hashtag who got radio that was having a miller
(50:41):
Hello Manitoba, peeps, joy abbad yes and friends, Badi so
marani islam benbeg for sharing that for reminding us uh
and and and hopefully Uh it's a wake up call
for a lot of us. It's a wake up call. Uh.
And then and a good reminder about the appreciation saving
(51:02):
it is important nah nah a priority and gona know
me Chloe Atawa but nothing and and I think that
is a good reminder. Show your appreciation now, show your
(51:26):
your gratitude, sense of gratitude. Now, let's not wait when
it's all done and overwetah son and adding episode for today.
Another episode is finished for today. But am in salamat
for your continued support. It was adding one thing programma happened,
(51:48):
but Amama if you if you are not we're not
able to watch it. Yesterday. It was the travelogue I
did in the beyond the area, so you put is
the oldest China town in the world. It is toted
to be the oldest China town in the world. And
that's Big Nondo, which is a district of Vanilla. Baman
(52:09):
Salama at a cheer, so I appreciate that so much.
Versana a Hi Toronto, Peach Sanni r. Jacinto and family
La Burlas. Yeah, so you know about it. Rosanna has
a galant all over the world or old North North America,
(52:31):
so Davili and I was privileged to meet the husband
as well as one of the sons, me Rosanna. So
it was such a pleasure to see Rosanna. And I
believe Versanna even visited a PHLD radio and had a
wonderful time with the owners at uh at visiting the
station of PHLD Radio in Las Vegas. Yeah, and so
(52:54):
with that said, again Marami Marami salamato, uh pakikig samang
pakiki for for being here here in our show. And
again this is not just Kola Josh' show, but this
(53:15):
is our show because like what I said to the
owner of a phl B radio, it takes a village.
If there if it's it's a it's it takes a village.
One person cannot do the show, but it's it takes
a lot of people behind the scene to make the
show the show that it is, to make this our
good show. Sabimi Sabimi, guil Dam Cooper, enjoy your parents
(53:39):
while they are still alive, you know, Tamasana Mary Grace
of Toronto. Hello. Yeah. So with that said, uh, looking
forward to seeing you next Friday, another guest we have
and then of course next Saturday, if you're watching us
in this part of the world, and it's gonna be
(53:59):
Saturday and Sunday in a manpo if you are watching
us in the Philippines, and if you're in different parts
of the world depending on your location, your time zone,
Taki check me and in your programming. Now before I go,
as always remind everyone that be kind. You can never
ever go around for being kind and the act of
(54:20):
kindness that you do to people, it will come back
to you in so many ways, so many times, in
different times, in different situations, with different people. And also
be grateful. It is important to be grateful and always
remind yourself the mere fact you woke up this morning,
(54:41):
you wake up the following day, it's already a blessing
in itself because that gives you a new slate, a
new day, to begin a new a new day, to
make yourself a better version of you. And also to
be to choose to be happy, because when you're happy,
when you choose to be happy, it's said the mood
(55:02):
the whole the mood of the whole day, regardless of
the challenges or any curve ball that would happen to you,
the whole day so with that, Salama, enjoy the rest
of the week and and if I don't see you
next week, you have a wonderful blessed next week and
(55:24):
God bless us all by everybody for now to you,
and Joe is signing off and I'll see you next week.
By everybody, Stay safe
Speaker 3 (56:01):
Nints, mountains, ants, anything as amants, anything continents a
Popular Podcasts
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Crime Junkie
Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.
NFL Daily with Gregg Rosenthal
Gregg Rosenthal and a rotating crew of elite NFL Media co-hosts, including Patrick Claybon, Colleen Wolfe, Steve Wyche, Nick Shook and Jourdan Rodrigue of The Athletic get you caught up daily on all the NFL news and analysis you need to be smarter and funnier than your friends.