Why Are You So Angry (Part 2)

Why Are You So Angry (Part 2). Pastors Derrick and Belinda Minor

Episode Transcript

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press down anger like this, shedenied, or kid mm hmm, the
fagus. I'm confronted. That's whatwe do. We'll standing from them.
Will we want to make real bess. He'll say, God, I thank
you, Here I go. I'mnot angry. I'm done, he said.

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I'm not angry. I'm just tellinganyone who just called me. I'm
not angry. I'm get over whatwe're doing. We're denying our ant.
Why color has all tapped over thedoing it didn't go. I'm fine.
We're lying at her. We're notfine. We're not We're mad. We're

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really mad. I just don't wantto talk to you right now. So
that's a pressure cup because why Idid it was stuck it down. Were
denied our aim when the knocking becauseof why you cannot correct which you knock
in front? You know what?Yes, you did something to me?
Wh me do all the time,she'll ask me because I hurt your feelings.

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I'll say, nah, I'm allright. She don't get it.
I'm mad, you know, getit what I'm mad because I'm like,
I'm all right, I'm just I'mall right. Does my body language and
everything tells her? Why keep itagain? Sitting my eyes? When I'm
mad, what's this? I'll tellyou, Mom, I'm gonna be I'm
gonna be real when i'm mad.Every morning I kiss goodbye, I tell

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you good about When i'm mad,I'll be like, I'm looking at the
room behind, going in there,getting my car, and draft ain't man
because I know I love I don'twant to see her right now. But
she'll say, you are right,I'm fine, I'm testing, I'm fine,
Hunt, I'm good, I'm good, I'm good. We deny it.

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We don't want to confront the issue. We don't want to say it,
I'm mad at you, Hunt,I'm mad, I'm really mad.
We don't want to say we're sodeny that we're angry. When I deny
my anger, the anger says thereand it sists there and it is sit
there. And we'll go to Davidan talking to you know, not speaking
in general. We'll go to David, all talking because I don't want to
confront the issue, because every timewe talk about the issue, we argue.

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We fight about this thing. SoI don't want to what you don't
confront, you don't correct. Youhave to, you have to say,
you know what, we'll say yesI'm mad, or to say yes I'm
mad and were discussing. We don'targue. We have heated fellason. We
call a heated fellas of the man, but a man as heated. We

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don't argue. We never exactly wantsto each other. We have heated fellowship
because other times we're just we're gonna, You're gonna put head and a wall.
But you can't. You have toconfront the issues. Yeah, she
hurt me. What you said frommy feelings, what you did. It
did affect men when you deny it, and it becomes a freshan cutter heresian

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and that it builds up and buildsup, and then she'll say, watch
this, it's built up now.So she'll say something to me, and
all of a sudden you explore allbecause like a jacket of box, you
stuffed it down and you kept windingand whining and whining, and all of
a sudden you bite her head off. Why because the anger is still in

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there, because you have it happenson it all of a sudden, it'll
come out with your mom. Don'tdo Because you kept depressing, kept pushing
it down, you got denying thatyou're angered. You really am? You
denying it because you don't want todeal with emotional anger. You want people
to know. I'm always in control, but we are not in control.
Sometimes you have to confront it.If you don't confront, yes, I

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am hung that's I am angry.Yes, I am going you this lessen,
come and reason together. Let's talk. Husbands were good at this.
We get you. We'll get aside of treatment, watch the game,
do everything. We won't say anything. We you one word sentences. You're
right, yep, I'm good husbandsand am I speaking Drew, I'm good.

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You won't get there. But we'rehungry. But we don't want them
to cook. I'm all right,I find and my right hand. You
say it, man, I don'twant to cook from me. I don't
know. I'm man. We're humbries. I don't know what if we don't
want me try, I won't feellike cooking. But because you're angry.
You say, I don't know.I don't want to that, I don't
know. I'm good, I findsomething, man, can I'm ready to

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get up. But I say,it's like you need to dissect the feelings
because a lot of times we pressit in and hold it, but we
didn't actually say you know. Whenyou did that, it made me feel
like when you said that, thatmade me feel some kind of way,
you know, and you feel ina blace for the rest of the way,
because they can understand when they saidsomething to you, or when they've

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done something to you, or whensomebody has done something when we look at
the thing about it. When Ilook at prolonged anger in and simmering,
most of that is found in relationshipswith family. I'm gonna tell you I
came from a family where I learned. I came out the womb not liking
this lady down the street. Andwhen I say that, it's because my

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grandmother she knows how to hold inthat bitterness. And when we all learned
that. But when I came toGod, he had to break all that
up and break it down. AndI'm telling him it was like a sledge
hammer because what happened was I wentback and forth between God and my grandmother,
God and my grandmother, and I'mjust like, you know, that's
I'm a father, you know.And so when we had to learn how
to do that, that carried onin a lot of relationships and God had

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to sever that. Okay, I'mquit, that's good. Watch that step
on when we have a disagreement.That's a husband. Let me tell you,
as a husband, a husband.The one thing she hates the most
when I talk over her when Itry to fix the problem instead of listening

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to her, what I do here? Would you say? But my mind,
I'm thinking of a comeback, tellingthe truth. What can I say
to combat what she said? Andthat's another room for anger. That's another
thing I'm gonna get them before theygive me. You know, they can't
get a word in right here.Amen, that's deep down because what she
really wants me to do is hearher out, not say anything, but

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just listen without saying you know what? But but what? And with me
and we think, well, thisis men. I didn't get a twenty
thing right. And you found theone thing I did, Hey, am
I telling the true brothers? Theone thing I did wrong you're gonna bring
up, but we're about the othertwenty seat anger because I'm like, I

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feel violated because I feel like youdidn't recognize anything I did other than the
one thing that I didn't do.So now I'm mad because I feel like
you're not recognizing my contribution to themarriage. So now we're talking and she's
telling me, and I'm thinking inmy mind what can I say to her
to combat what she's saying to me. Now we're not peating anywhere, And

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finally would say, you know what, let's talk about it later, and
we don't. All of a sudden, now I'm anger, man, Just
rights hold on. We're don't developeda thing here that we do. And
it's like a white flag. Canyou What it says is can you hear
my heart for a minute. Hearingmy heart means it I gotta touch on

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because his love language is physical touch, so he needs to understand right now.
But I'm not trying to break themdown, and that means that I
ain't trying to kick you. I'mnot trying to beat you while you down
right now. But I need youto listen, and I need you to
hear my heart. And listening meansthat I just need you to be quiet,
being quiet. I need you toquiet your heart, quiet your mind,
allow with you, just be atease so that you can hear my

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heart and what I'm telling you towatch the ladies. But she says,
I gonna tell you why. Asmen, we are wired to be aggressive,
as we're hunters, we're warriors,and we're creative to be protectors.
So when you come to us inthe wrong spirit, all the magnet are
defysist go why, because we're weare quired to protect. We're wired to

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defend. So whata arms is come, what she did with this arms or
what she just did, it justarms me. My defasics are down now
because I don't perceive you as beinga threat when they're When I feel a
threat, all the magi is aman. My defensis go up. My
alarms starts sounding, and all ofa sudden restleness come out of my spirit

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while it comes out because I'm wiredand you're all I wired that way as
men well word to be defendish protectors. So when we when she comes to
me, she comes like that,it just arms me because she's coming in
a spirit of love, you know, she may say something to hurt my
feelings, and she's coming into spiritof love. I can receive it as

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a man because it's done in thespirit of love, because she recognizes my
love language. It's touch hers,just words of affirmation, acts of service.
I know how to make her happy. Why I know she don't care
about be bringing her diamond in.She can't care less if I'm out the
floor or hang them kurtas up.That ain't did yet. Hey, man,

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that's her love of language. I'vebeen waiting twenty three years. Its
hangers kurted up, and I knowlonger. Man, I'm a brothers.
I'm getting here. I'm getting here. But thank godsh angry that Kurt still
y'all? Can you know how youknow that kurtas still hanging in my hallway.
I'm gonna get to it, giveit to just get the person another
story. He's something, baby,I'm gonna get to the So he called
himself going downstairs and get to thethings, because he want to prove me

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that I did this all right.Out to do that I did this,
I didn't all right. So Iain't gonna say nothing. So he going
down there and get the tools andhe get down and he said, oh,
I mean our house. I'm tellingyou they put that house up in
the day because because you might hangsomething up and he might slap that time
and walk off. So he gotdown there with the drill. He like,

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Oh, I'm gonna just have tofind an ankor I'm gonna need to
go get something with it that Ican find. Answering four years, it's
not even that important. I justsaid, Okay, if he tried,
it's not even that important. Theother thing is that when you talk to
somebody, what's your vocal turn tonesound like? You know? Sometimes it's
like I said, I have tomake sure that my my octave is not

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up. It's like I say thatyou speak with the front of your mouth,
and when you preach, you speakwith the back of your mouth,
which is suit so much power becauseyou can't just say God. You know,
you got to say God is God? You know what I mean,
because the people don't really receive doyou believe what you're saying? So in
that I gotta make sure that mytone. If the tone is like,

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hey, you're hungry, what youwant? What you want for pting on
one watch what's in It's the wordof God give Propert's parting in one tone
means everything you're responding. Tone onme. If you say it in the
right spirit, I received. You'resaying the spirit of aggressiveness. I'm not
gonna receive it. No matter howtrue it is, I'm not gonna receive

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it. Propers peting on one says, what a soft A soft answer?
That means be SWI to hear slower, speed, slow, to get angry.
In other words, before you confrontsomebody, bring it down to talk,

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because when you're angry, right thenit's gonna come out angry. Let's
go to sign score in there,so you know what. I'm gonna take
the sheet of papers my examples thatI like to say. Women, y'all
know if this is this sheet ofpaper represents five thousand workers we got.
That mean you can talk. Ican call you up and tell you about
it. Then I need to tellyou about it because I still ain't there
yet. Now I need to callyou up because I need to know I'm

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coming down and I need you topray with me so that that way,
when he get home, I'm alreadyspoke out about four thousand workers. So
when he get home. He gotone sentences. He's more represented. Not
If the game is on, that'sone. You got three letters. If
he had a bad day, that'stwo lems all right, So you got
just a few minutes to convey whatyou're talking about, because you can't five

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thousand works. That's why women needother women men. They just like,
how was your day? We wantto know the whole hitt feel me about
from the person. Then walk throughthe front door to the back door.
They have anything you don't. Theyjust didn't see anybody. They can get

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a job for somebody, you know. And so people like baby, I
don't know, I didn't ask.You can tell our cards. We write,
we sign your cards. She writea pack. All write one word,
I love you say. I justsaid, honey, right, I
said, he you know I'm gonnago one. I'm a one line person.

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They get that one line. Theygot every day game. And I
just want you when I write,I just want you to understand what your
gift is. Let's when you havea bad day, you can look back
in there and see what is Godplaying for me? What is my gift?
Okay? What is the scripture thatthey said that I need to go
read? When she get be writing, I ain't got know what what one
word to wright who carry no,because that's dead. We are not conversationists.

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We just I'm good, I'm fine, you know ray, And to
us, that's the least. I'mnot gonna. I'm not gonna going to
from nine o'clock to sinx clock onmy day it was all right all the
day that was it was good.I was that a good day. I'm
not gonna. That's how we arethough, were wired. We are wired
that way. And what happens isif you don't understand how we're wired.

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You're angry because he don't talk tome. Well, he don't talk to
nobody that does him a man.We're more comfortable rounder fellas because we're wired
her that way. I'd be talkedto them because they understand my language a
man. So we're getting angry fornormal because we don't because we don't understand
one another. So I'm angry becauseshe talked too much. Man, I

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don't get here all that because whatwe hear when we come home watch this.
I work in customer service, andI did every day I did with
church focus. I work in aChristian bookstore. I gotta hear every problem,
may issue, everything going on theline here. I gotta Okay,
God bless you get your bible.I gotta hear everything when I come home.

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I don't don't want to hear yourfor me. I just don't want
to hear because she loved. She'sa someone right now. I don't care
about no bother about nor out.I don't care Dad. So missunderstanding.
Lisa anger because she feel I'm nothearing her. But we gotta learned to

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communicate. I gotta learned A softanswer turns away anger. When you fight
fire with fire, you got aforest fighter. When she come hard,
confuse it with a soft I gothim to go to the favery store.
Y'all. What I did was Imade him a pocket flare pocket. That's

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his little if. I did asong for him. It's hey. She
got me enjoined the battery by makingme your pocket squeer. When I got
the door, like man, yougonna just no more help, dude,
I'll spend an hour and a halfthere. I said, you know what,
Okay, that's a burglar last familyevery man. But he got me

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there by love language. You gotme there by doing something. Amen.
Psalms forward for the activating your rageplactor. You're gonna Psalm four and four
can be gonna go into Psalms Sturtyseven seven. Psalms four and four canna
go. Do not sin by lettinganger control you, do not sin,

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so familion on it. By lettinganger control you, it says, don't
sin again. Anger is a humanemotion. We all have that, but
it says, don't sin by lettinganger control us. A number words when
I'm angry usually comes out of mywords on it says, don't sin by

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letting anger control this like push theaccupation body with your next part. Think
about it overnight and remains sight mthink about it and meditate, Meditate on
how to respond. Meditate, startgetting into that world. Getting of God's
present says meditate, think about itbecause you know what, it's not worth

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it. Watch this. Winning anargument and losing your make is not worth
it. Is you want an argument, but now you got you got.
Now you are walking to separately becauseyou've hurt it. She's hurt it,
says, think about it. What'sthere? What's there to win by winning
an argument? So you're right?So what what is that proud. I
don't prove anything. It says,don't let sin control you. Meditate,

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think about it, think about thedanger of that. What is it?
What is anger? One literal movementof danger. That's all it is.
Reading it all for sacrifices in theright spirit. Awker sacrifice is in the
right spirit. In other words,the reason why God wohimself King's offering because

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he didn't receipt came because King's horrorwasn't right. It's horror. It wasn't
about his offering. King's heart wasn'tright. It's a hedn't received King or
his offer. Because if my heartof right, God will receive right and
God. So it's why King wasrejected. Because of King's offering of his

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heart. God wants a contrite spirithumility. The angry shows a lot of
humility. I rather, I ratherhave my anger than admit that. Do
you recognised or admit and I'm wrong, or admit I'm vulnerable? My feelings

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are hurt, It says, offerto God the right sacrifices. Read the
next part and trust Lord, trusttrust God. We want to take revenge,
don't we We want to prove thatwe're right, But God says trust
God. In other words, Lord, I'm gonna give you my anger.

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I'm mad. Tell God what I'mangry. I tell God all the time,
lottle, I'm angry when our dordwas murder said God. I'm angry.
Lord. I don't understand. Itold God, Lord, I don't
understand. Why was she said?Why? Why was she murdered? I
don't understand. I told God Lordwhy God received it because I was letting
it out to him, Because ifI did not let it out to him,

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I would take it out on peoplearound me. It's what we do,
don't when we hold anger in,we take it out on our children.
To watch this. When couples aremad at each other, who gets
hurt the children because all of asudden, our tone, if I got

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to do the one little thing,we holler at them, don't we because
we're not mad at them. Wematter our mate, or matter your social
manner, your brother. But you'retaken out on those that are innocent victims.
When your relationship and you you're anew relationship and you still angry about
the last relationship, if they doanything that reminds you, but the other

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person, somebody's saying, man,you got that sword ready to cut their
head off, and many because you'renot. But you're not really mad at
him. You man at your past. Come on, you're still angry a
boy being used by being cheated on. So all of a sudden, here
comes at anger. Take it toGod. Lord. I'm anger. I
was wounded, I was hurt.I can't handle this, Lord, I'm

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giving it to you. I'm givingyou this sacrifice. I'm sacrifice in my
right to be angry. So I'mputting it here on the altar. If
I can't watch this, if II have a little question, can I
change what happened? If I can, If I can't, I gotta release

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it. I can't change what happened, but I'm gonna release it to God.
I can't change it. It happened. I can't change it. Well,
I gotta do nothing's release it.I'm getting it to God. Lord.
I can't fix this. I can'tchange this. But here I'm giving
you the right site what it saysthe next part seven, verse five again

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that I was four or five,So read four and five again. Don't
seem by letting anger control you thinkabout it overnight and remains silent, offer
sacrifices in the right spirit and trustthe Lord. Yes, yeah, somebody,
and trying to let it go.If it doesn't it make you bad

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in the morning, and it wasn'tworth if you if you, what I
do is hollow that I'm not nowanymore. I can talk about about anger
resting my spirit. You jump upwith and at other people because they're telling
about it. He's an anger,a live doesn't the more folk I tell

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more than anger, says a lie, because I can tell of him.
He got over because I'm telling I'mtelling round about what Donnie did it.
I'm telling wheal my one Donni did, I'm telling call my what Donnie did.
All I'm doing is keeping all thatanger live. It's like keeping a
fire burning. Now it's blazing becauseit's like a tape recorder. When you
hit stop and then the next personto call you rewind it, and then

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you hit play and for every personthat caused you rewinded it, stopped it
and replayed it again, and soit keeps replaying. And what happens is
it's a big space that's in youremotionals that has not yet been dealt with,
and so what happens is it continuesto fester, it continues to grow.
And so when you not allowed thatpause in there, forgot I can
get in there. Then that's howyou know you've not gotten obody, man,

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because the anger's there. She's stillthere because I keep again, I'm
keeping the anger. And I alwayssay that what we do when I'm mad
I've been hurt, I build awall up. I'm not gonna allow nobody
else to get closer. I putthe wall up there. I'm gonna I'm
gonna keep you out. I don'tI don't want to be hurt, So
I'm gonna build a wall. Orwhat I've really done, I build the

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wall to keep the pain right,so the the pain can't get out.
Because of my wall is there.That wall refused to trust anybody. I
refused to let anybody get close tome. That's first you involved with.
You don't even allow them the soul. They can get nothing to you.
But because of the wall there,I refuse to allow them to get close.

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Because of what he did, whatshe did, I will put a
wall up. I won't be usedanymore. I won't allow nobody to hurt
me anymore. That wall is there, and all that pain is still in
there because the wall is there.What God wants to do gets to tear
that wall down to let that painout. Once that pain out, you
can get healing. As long asthat wall is up, God can heal

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you because the wall is up.What a gopy love is? Is this
I'm getting. I'm surrounding my right, surrounding my rights to God, the
unconditioned Lord. I trust you withmy heart. I trust you with whom
you put in my life. Itrust you the box of the wounds for
a friend in faith. Because littleendy out to see in other lords,

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I gotta remove a wall. Wehave so many wall That's why you are
sowing and much of pain. Becauseyou have the walls up there. You
don't want anybody do close to you. You're like, you know, I
had the best friend. He betrayedme, so I don't have no more
best friends. And to watch thisyou could tell because every month you got
a new best friend. What happenedto oil? They did something? I

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had to gump and showed you thatwall is still loved. My pain is
still a why because I don't allowno one to get you too close to
me. Because I don't want tobe hurt a long where I'm really holding.
I'm festering anger and un begetting theausternat bitterness. I don't trust anybody,

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even though they they earned my trust. I don't trust me because of
my past and that anger of whatDaddy did. Daddy left me so you
might need me. My father abandonedme, my mom put me up for
adoption, so I don't trust anybody. I won't allow anybody to get close.

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I gave my heart to her,to him, they betrayed me,
so I don't trust anybody. Ihave this wall and all that pain,
all that we hurt is still inthere, and it comes out every once
in a while in your relationships andyour walk with God. We're angry at

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God sometimes because or that hurt,that pain. Because King wasn't angry at
Able get me angry at God.He took it out on Ady. He
called it brother and acuity because hewas angry. It wasn't he able done
to him. It was God thathe thought did me wrong. God violated

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my right. I gave y'all something, he didn't receive it. Because I
feel like you should receive my performancebecause you didn't. Then I'm angry and
we take our anger out on everybodywho comes across our past. Person to
call you the wick stand up.Melissa's male stand up for a minute.
Male's a waitress had a bad day. She gave me one bad drink and

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I brought about gonna rip her headoff. Hen manager, cool shit,
cook the food? Why you madeit hurt? For hauling anger? It
comes out and you feel to knowyou because we are so angry. Somebody

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say something to you and help melord, because me on the road,
I need deliverers. I need deliverrius. I need prayer ring them on the
road. When people dry slow andI'm trying to get I just now.
I don't cuss, I just getmad. I don't like and I tried.
My wife's lis at me, likeboy, I try to speed I
go around him to speed up.Man, tell him I'll do it.
I'm sorry. But that's dear dogright there. That's that's dear dog.

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That's his nickname when he gets onthe road. I'm just saying, and
I don't know what. It's justannointing that people just kind of just rapping.
I mean, yesterday somebody was ridingthis clumps of the carts, and
I mean they were so close theycould have caused an accident or knocked our
mirror off either one. And hewas just like, get you see down
man that it comes out. AndI'm like, Lord, help me,

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and I pray, Lord help mebecause what you're doing save me from an
accident. But at the time,I'm so mad. I don't realize the
Lord. It's a probably the divinedelay. But all I'm thinking about you
I driving so slow, Like whyare you getting my lane? You're driving
slow? Y'all? Do that,y'all? Not only one get with you
that I just get. And thenmy daughter the same way like her daddy.

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Ain't man, because I feel like, watch this. I feel like
this is my role, my right. Don't get in my way a man.
This is man to me, ain'tman, So everybody else is get
all my way. My comments.Sometimes it's very listen, are we gonna
be at a rounding pizza? Oram I gonna have to just drop you?
Just say that, man, becauseand I'm still dealing with loyal mindy

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every day. Scary. Someday somedayI'm really good. I su Lord,
thank you Jesus. I thank youJesus. Now I just braised your ches.
Someday my news is blazing words.What's going on? I'm got my
leg and don't work a man,so I gotta say this morning that's it's
not perfect. I'm working on meand Lord working on me. But a

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girl, man, let's gonna soundsthirty seven, let me know, thirty
seven to seven. Kay, bestill in the presence of the Lord.
Be still when I'm angry, bestill in the presence. Give a God's

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presence. God is so violent becausewhen you feel that urge a rage and
you're coming on spirit, give God'spresent. Why she's good at doing that
when when she's going through something shesays, just give me a minute.
She say give me a minute.In other words, if I talk to
you right now, it may notbe good. Give me a minute.

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She's getting God's presence. It says, be still in God's presence. As
a husband, I've learned to respectthat because as men, I want to
fix it. I want know whathappened. Just say, honey, I
want to talk about it now.I'm angry now because he gonna take he
was going on and I'm not realbecause all she wants. Is time to

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process some things. She gets inGod's presence, my be being a man,
I want to fix everything. Igot my hammer, my screwdriver.
Okay, tell me what I needto do. What I gotta fix.
This ain't gonna him. I'm workingon it. Did you come over tonight?
He don't. We can't do highera man an He'll sit there Tuesday.

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So you gotta get alone in God'spresence. Lord, I need this
because I'm hurt my feelings to dayboy, my child betrayed. Mandn't come
home that side or if this happened. To get the presence of God and
read the next part and wait patientlyfor him to act. Oh Lord,
I love that. Wait patiently forGod to act. What we do is

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week taking in our own hands,though, Oh God, yes, because
we're gonna let God not go fastenough for us. So I'm gonna go
fix it. And while while I'mdoing, I bring it gasoline to the
fire. I'm bringing I'm bringing dynamiteto the fire because I want to fix
this thing right now. When youend up destroy and we're trying to fix,

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she says, wait for God tofix it, patiently. Wait Lord,
you know what. I can't fixthis. I need you to do
it. I'm gonna wait. I'mgonna worship while I wait. I'm just
gonna wait for you. I needyou to fix this. God wants you
to give it to him quick tryingto be the hero, quickly trying to

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fix everything. So Lord, Ican't fix this. I can't only you
can't wait patiently read the next person. Don't worry about even people who prosper,
don't worry about it. Don't worryabout it. So what they got
away with it, don't worry worryabout it, don't worry about it.
Don't worry about the judge, don'tworry about the don't worry about it.

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God has it. God has itbecause one thing you gotta understand. Can't
hide for God. You can't hidefor God because one thing about it.
When God gets a person, hegets them good. So it says way
for God. Don't worry about folksthat do wrong. Don't worry about it.
There they is coming. Because ifI take revenge, then God got

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to judge me because I acted inhis face. I didn't wait on God
because I don't know what God's goingto do in the future. So it
says, wait patient, let Godact or a friend about their wicked skin.
Keep going. Stop being angry.Oh stop. That tells me right
there, I can't control it.Stop being and it tells me to stop.

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In other words, push the activateblood. Stop being angry. We
gotta quick and telling God, Ican't help it. I can't stop it.
You call it God a liar.God says stop being. Just stop
says put it away, put offanger and says in the booking figure put
off anger, put it off,put it off, Start and worship them.

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Go for a walk, deactivate thebutton, sit on the bed,
think, meditate, push the deactivate, butdon don't push the detonate budd
but the activateing. We always pushthe bu blow up man. We love
b stuf but we love we lovefighting, we love thing, we life.

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Push the activate blof stop being angrywith my love. The next part
turn from your race. Turn Turnthat means I have control. Turn who
hadn't saying out you have control?Turned from your reg or what what I

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do when I'm mad? Now Igo hugger. Even though I go mad,
I go hugger because it's gonna beActivate the rage, the activate you
gotta the activate. Turn from yourrage. I w I do when I
feel teachings feel not to me.I love action movies. I watch an
action movies and I fight with them, and I rat it with them by

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tab after them done, I'm oh, I'm good now fine or release point.
Find something to get defended. I'llhit it out of you. Don't
just sit there thinking about what thatperson done have done. Don't sit there
worrying about thinking about it. Finda release them. Let that steam out.

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I got a person cooker, andwhen it's done cooking, you gotta
release that steam. If you don't, you don't want to open up the
steamer is in there, blow up. You got release it. Release the
steam de activated. Turn from yourrage. For the next part, do
not lose your temper. It onlyleads to harm. Don't lose your temper.

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It only leads into harm. Andthe other words, it's not gonna
do any good to lose your temper. You push that the activation. But
so you know what, my angeris not worth be destroying my walk through
me and my son, treat meand my wife, trinking, my friend.

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It's not worth it. So losingGod, it's not worth it.
It says turn In the other words, if you turn it from it,
turn God, give it to God. Go to God and thread Lord help.
He will absolutely help you when yougo here, be able to help
all those who come to him.If you do not come to him,
he can't help because it did notsay he'll take your cares. It tells

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you to cast all your careers.God can't take anything you do not give
it. You have to give ityou to Lord. I'm angry at my
father. I'm angry at my childhood. I'm angry. So Lord here,
I'm giving it to you. Mademe knew he'll do that. God wants
you to be activate all that anger, all that rage is building up,

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and last thing gonna hear. Itsays about being a volcano. We all
been about bron volcanos who just explode. A volcano person is a person that
you always walk around eggshells around becauseyou never know when they're gonna set go
off. You have been help,You're right there. You never know.
A little comment, something happened,child does something, all of a sudden

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hit comes, this volcano erupts.Everybody else has to walk around on eggshells,
afraid of saying anything doing anything.I don't want to set off this
vocando. That's the danger is dangerousway to be is that volcano. I
have to allow God to remove allthe anger. My cold defeasians for twenty

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six. How'm enjoying us today?Man, I don't know, and don't
stand by letting anger control you.Don't let the sun go down while you
are still angry. For anger givesa fool a foothold to the devil.

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M Anger gives what a foothold?It allows the devil access to your emotion.
When you open the anger door,you're inviting in, say come on
in. You open your door forhim. Once he gets a foothold there,
it is hard to get out.The Bob says, don't be around

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a hanging Verse says, don't thembecause they're volcano. That's why the Word
of God tell us from food allanger that makes something that happen to give
to God. This is Pastor BelendaMinor from Power of the Word Prophetic Church.
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