"Reclaim love life"

Laura Lee's 5 Minutes Spirit Reboot with Tonja Weimer, relationship coach, columnist, and author "Thriving after Divorce," shares how to reclaim your love life after losing a life partner, divorce and hope.

Episode Transcript

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Find inside guidance and answers. Answers. Tune into Spirit with radio medium Lorely
Loreallyally Really. As your dearly belovedpartner passed away, are you divorced a
new single parent? Stay tuned into this five minute Spirit reboot to reclaim

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your love life. I am RadiomediumMorley and joining me in the studio is
relationship and life coach and author ofThriving after Divorce, Miss Tanya Weimer.
Welcome, Tanya, Thank you,nice to be here. Tanya, first
question I have for you is thata lot of people call me as a

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psychic obviously looking for love and askingwhether or not they're going to have it
again, especially after a dry spell. What would you say to everybody out
there who is not hopeful about loveafter love again? Well, as a
coach, I hear from people allthe time, especially after forty five or

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fifty that there's no one out thereand there are actually a hundred and twenty
seven million single in the United States, and I say to them, you
think maybe there's one for you,and that would be my message today.
Instead, if there's no one outthere, there is someone out there looking

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for you, longing for you.Just as you are longing for them.
I love that. What was yourdefining moment that you decided to focus on
this particular area of love helping peoplefind it again in their lives. Well,
I used to do keynote speeches andconcerts for children, and my husband,

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whom I met when I was fortytwo, would go with me to
support me. And though I havea lot of good information for school systems
all over the world, the numberone question they had for me was where
did you meet your husband? Anddoes he have a brother? Can we
own him? And everyone wanted toknow how did you meet this wonderful man?

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Oh, so for twenty two yearsI've been a coach, and I
met him at a singles dance andI finally decided, all right, for
people over fifty sixties seventy, therearen't many elegant venues for them to meet
someone, and if they go outto bars, to clubs anywhere, they

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come home feeling worse than when theywent. And so I decided, I'm
going to have a gala for peopleover forty five, fifty five, sixty
five and beyond in an elegant studywonderful and so for anybody who's out there
right now and in the boat ofnot believing love is out there for them.

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What's the biggest tip you can givethem right now to open their mind
and their heart to the possibility oflove. If you were to meet someone
right now, would you have roomfor them in your life? You need
to declutter your house and get yourlife together, get ready for welcome someone
into into your home, into yourlife. Past number one. Number two.

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We can't control the world, butwe can control ourselves. So I
would say deep clutter, get ridof tolraations, and start to exercise.
Get your body and your mind ina healthy place, because that's how you
attract someone, and you attract someonewho is attracted to you you're attracted and

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the way you feel about yourself rightThank you for hearing that message, because
that goes under the radar for alot of people. It really does.
Where can people find your book ifthey would like to learn more about driving
after divorce or just contacting you.Sure you can find this is probably an

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Amazon. Do you have a website? Yes, it's dot Tonyamweimer dot com.
I have another website called dear Tonywhere people send me letters. Oh,
that's wonderful and you'll answer them atabout love. That's fantastic. Thank
you for sharing your wisdom with ouraudience today. Appreciate it. Thank you,

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