August 7, 2025 • 27 mins
It doesn't matter what IT is, why do it if you know it's wrong? Why take the chance or risk to cause further issues in your own life by making the wrong choices and decisions, when you know it's wrong? Never fixate on thoughts that you know are wrong, because the more you give power to thoughts they can control and consume your life, until you succumb!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hey, hey, hey, I'm bad with something. For you to
think about it, I have a question, why do it
if you know what's wrong? Why do it? If you
(00:25):
know what's wrong. As adults, we all know wrong from right.
You can say what you want to say. We all
know wrong from right. That's why people try to hide
stuff that they know it's unacceptable, that they know is wrong.
(00:46):
They try to hide. They do things undercover, They do
things in the dark, they do things behind closed doors
because they think no one can see. Why do it
if you know it's wrong. I want you to think
about that. A lot of people have gotten into so
(01:10):
much trouble because they've gone the wrong thing. Many of
you right now as I speak, are in unhappy and
one sided relationships because you got into it the wrong
way with the wrong person. You know it was wrong.
(01:31):
Many of you had the signs and red flags, and
many of you had this intuition that you ignored, but
you went on and did it. Many of you have
gotten married knowing you didn't want to be married. You
know you did it, but oh you end up pregnant
(01:55):
or there was a pregnancy involved family and friends doing it,
your parents cohersing you. You have all of this pressure
and you did it. But you know, you know you
didn't want to be married. Now you're miserable. Some of
you have had children, knowing full well you didn't want
(02:20):
no child. I know someone right now who told her husband,
I do not want children, but oh, you just have
that children. Baby, please, beaty, baby, baby please. So she
had children. She had a girl and a boy. And
guess what, he has to take care of them. They're
(02:42):
still together, been together for years, but he takes care
of those children. It's wild. But she told him, I
told you I didn't want any kids. Yeah, occasionally, you know,
she do things for them, but for the most part,
he take care of those children and they both work.
(03:04):
It's so crazy, But these are the types of things
that happen. You knew it was wrong. You knew it
was a wrong decision. Children should not have to suffer
because of the terrible, terrible choices and decisions their parents make.
(03:27):
Many people are doing the various things. You're stealing, you're killing,
you're murdering, you're lying, you're doing all kinds of things
when you know what you're doing is wrong. Some of
you are married, and you're sick of who you with so.
(03:49):
Now you're plotting to cause harm to your spouse because
you're going to get them out the way. Instead of
being an adult and saying, hey, I don't want this anymore,
you're gonna plot to get rid of them. You know
what's wrong, You know it. No answer if so, but's
(04:12):
about it. You know it is wrong, but people still
do it. You have people who befriend pregnant women as
they fake their pregnancy, only to rip the baby from
the woman and kill the woman and take the child.
(04:35):
You know it's wrong. It's like the people who committed
mass murder. If you planned it, then you had time
to think. You knew it was wrong. You knew it.
(05:00):
People who get into relationships with people who are already
in relationships, whether married or just in a relationship with someone,
and you know that's wrong. You know you wouldn't want
someone doing it to you, and you know what's wrong.
Some of you get in relationships with married people and
then you have the audacity to be upset that they
(05:22):
can't spend the time you want them to spend with it. You
know what you would get it into. You knew it,
You knew it was wrong. You knew it. Many people
get into certain jobs and positions to do terrible things,
abuse their power, take advantage. But the whole time, you
(05:49):
know what you're doing is wrong. But see, some people,
they get so comfortable in their wrong because they've gotten
away with it for so long. They've gotten comfortable and
they feel they're untouchable until they're touched. I'm telling you
that's the mindset that people have. It does not matter
(06:12):
if they are well known people or not. Some people
who are in certain positions do all kind of terrible
things because they've gotten away with it, because they've used
and abused their power, and they have latched on to
(06:34):
vulnerable people who won't say anything, so they continue to
do terrible things until someone finally speaks up. You knew
it was wrong the whole time. You knew it was wrong.
You knew it, but you still risk it because you
(06:58):
wanted to do what you wanted to do. Why do
it if you know what's wrong? People don't care. It's
the mindset that people have. I'm telling you. Mindset is everything,
(07:18):
everything everything. Millions out there are sexual perverts. You know
you are. I mean, they absolutely know it. That's why
they try to hide it. That's why they hide their stuff,
at least they think they're hiding their stuff on line,
(07:41):
you know, and their little folders online and all of
this until they're caught. You know what you're doing is wrong.
If you didn't think it was wrong, you wouldn't be
trying to hide it. Those are the actions of a
person who know what they're doing. You get on these
(08:04):
jobs and you take advantage, You take advantage of children
when you know it is wrong. I'm just trying to
make a point. Why do it if you know it's wrong?
Why why go to the stores and steal when you
(08:27):
know it's wrong. Ask for a food. If you need food,
don't steal it. Somebody will get you some food, somebody.
It's not worth risking going to jail over stealing food.
Ask someone for food. They will give it to you.
(08:50):
Someone eventually will give you some food. People just do
things and don't think through to the consequences until they
find themselves in very, very bad places. You have individuals
(09:19):
you let into your homes. Oh, you believe them and
trust them with everything. They have shown you things, but
you fail to believe it. Now they come in. They
steal your check books, your credit cards, your man your woman.
(09:39):
Even though no one can steal anyone from no one else,
people walk away of free will. But I'm just saying
a lot of people open themselves up to this foolishness
because they give people free rein when they come into
their homes. They trust them wholeheartedly around their significant others. Yeah,
(10:02):
you're supposed to trust your friend, you're supposed to trust
your relatives, but when they show you signs, you're supposed
to be smarter than that. But many people are not. Obviously,
many people are not. They know what they're doing is wrong,
but they will try to get away with it. I
(10:27):
just don't. I just don't. I almost said I just
don't get it, But I really do get it. I
really really do get it because I know it's the
mindset of people unhealed hearts and minds. See a lot
of people get into things based on feelings and emotions
(10:50):
of you know, their hearts. But you're following wrong. When
you have an unhealed heart, you're gonna be lived wrong
all the time. When you're solely going by your feelings
and your emotions, you're going to be led wrong all
the time. Because See, people are blind to reality because
(11:14):
they're chasing what they want, what they desire, what makes
them feel good. They're not thinking through to the consequences.
You know you're making a bad choice, You're like thinking
about it. You're thinking about certain things you've seen, certain
(11:35):
things you've heard, and you're kind of questioning things, but
you still move forward when you know it was wrong.
Some of you get with people and you let them
coherse you into doing things that you know are against
the law, but you still do it because you think, oh,
(11:58):
that's my friend, well, a real friend. When coherts you
or influenced or persuade you to break the law, that's
what people don't get. Those are not friends. Those are
people who are out to get what they want to
get from you. They're not friends. A friend, a real
(12:18):
friend is not gonna persuade you in any shape, form
or fashion to do wrong. And I don't care if
it's your relative, your significant other, a friend so called.
I don't care who it is or other people. It
(12:41):
don't matter. You know when you're doing wrong or when
you're about to do wrong. You know it, but people
still do it. They will risk everything to do what
they want to do. People do it. There are individuals
(13:04):
who have totally abandoned their family. Totally abandon their family.
Their family, call, call, call, they never answer, but other
people call boom boom, boom. They answer every call. They
know they're wrong, and when you tell them, they got
(13:26):
an attitude. They don't want to talk to you because
you're telling them the truth. But as soon as those
other people them stab them in the back and do
them wrong, who they run back to the family that
they abandon. I mean, people are doing all kinds of foolishness,
all kinds of foolishness, knowing they are wrong. You have
(13:52):
pastors in the pool pit in high heels bringing all
of the world into the church, just doing all kind
of foolishness, I mean, all kinds of things that are
against God, knowing they wrong. It's right there in the world,
(14:13):
no one is wrong, but they still do it because
they have an agenda. Money, money, money, money, money, power, power, power, authority, authority, authority,
That's what it's about. It's not about saving souls or
trying to bring people to Christ because they can't save
(14:35):
no one. But the mission is people being saved. They're
not thinking about that. They want all the people they
can in the sanctuary so they can get money, seats
full so their pockets could be full. No one, they're wrong,
(14:59):
but people don't. I don't care because greed and lust
is way more powerful to them because they've succumbed to that.
They know they're wrong, but they take bits and pieces
of the Bible and use that whatever benefit them. You
(15:21):
have pastors in the church, male pastors married to other males.
They know that's wrong. You live how you want to live.
But when you subject other people to it, saying that
(15:41):
you are of God, when you know that's against the Bible,
come on, live how you want to live. Just don't
call yourself a pastor, don't get up in front of
the church. But live how you want to live. That's
on you. But when you subject other people to it,
(16:08):
that's wrong. A lot of people say, oh, I'm on
the Lord's side, I love God, I love Jesus talking
out the side of their next And I will always
say because I firmly, firmly believe. People do it because
(16:33):
they really don't believe one hundred percent. They're like, oh,
it may be a god, Jesus may be real, but
I like this world more because I see tangible things
I could touch things. I can feel things, I could
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smell things, I could taste things. I need this tangible
and it's wrong. It's wrong, and that's what's gonna lead many, many, many,
many many to hell because they have no roots. They
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are liing. Just be who you are. You might as
well just be who you are, because God already know
who you are. He already knows. See, people spend their
lives trying to please and appease man. Man has no
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heaven or Hell to put you in the same way.
They are getting there. You're getting there. I'm getting there.
It's according to what we choose here on earth while
we are in these fleshly natural bodies. What we choose now,
it's what we're gonna get later based on who we served.
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You can say you love God all day, but you
know you lying. You know it. You know you're you're lying.
You know who you are. And as I said, live
how you want, just be honest about it. Just be
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honest about it because the lion part, the doing the
wrong part, is what's gonna hurt you the most. Because
God is going to repay, He's gonna he's gonna award you,
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award you, reward you, pay, repay, you could, you could call,
or whatever you want to. You agree what you sow,
you'll get what you chose. Many many people go through
life doing wrong when they know it's wrong. They know
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when you get that thought in your head, you know
that is wrong. But instead of saying nord, nope, no way,
you keep thinking about it, keep thinking about it until
you commit the act. When you knew that very first
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thought was wrong, you knew it. You knew going on
that business trip and cheating. You knew it was wrong
when you first saw that person that you was attracted
to as a merried man or a merit woman. You
knew you should have went the other way. But no lust, lust,
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lust of the flesh. You left that overpower your commitment
to your spouse, although you knew it was wrong, and
because of it, a lot of people end up bringing
bad things back home to their spouse, a crazy person
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that they messed around with. Because some people track you
down and cause straight aviod in your life, diseases, all
kind of foolishness that could have been avoided, that should
have been avoided, just because a person chose to do
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the wrong thing. I know people on jobs who have
messed around with the boss, knowing the boss is married,
mess around with the boss just so they could move up.
I personally know several people who have done that. They're
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not my friends or anything like that. We were just work,
you know, associates, and they one thousand percent did it.
No one it was wrong, and the boss knew it
was wrong too. People don't see until they're caught. But
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why would anyone want to live that way? Why just
do the right thing because it's the right thing to do.
I'm gonna remember one time somebody said, well, what's right
to you may not be right to someone else. Get
out of here with that foolishness. Right is right, Wrong
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is wrong, Regardless I've told you you can dissect a
lie a million different ways, it's still a lie. You'll
never make a lie the truth. People know when they
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do wrong. People just don't care. They risk their lives,
they risk their careers, they risk their families, they risk
their health, They risk everything to do wrong. Knowing is wrong.
So what I would say is, look at yourself. Look
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at yourself. If you're thinking wrong, look at yourself, if
you're doing wrong, look at yourself, because you are the
biggest problem. In your own lives. You are, you're in
your way. Your mindset is your enemy, because if it's wrong,
you shouldn't do it. Have integrity about yourself, be a
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trustworthy person. If you're married, be faithful and loyal and
committed and dedicated to who you married. If you feel
attraction to someone else, handle that in the right way.
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If someone's trying to course you into doing something that
you don't want to do, that you don't agree with,
you don't go along with you don't feel good about.
Don't do it. If you know it's wrong, I don't
care who it is or what it is, don't do it.
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You have to stand up for yourself. You have to
have an taking integrity and dignity for yourself, and respect
for yourself even if no one else want to be
around you. Staying tall for yourself, for your own piece.
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Don't let people bring you down with their level or
on their level. I'm almost finished writing my book, and
I have a little slogan in there that I talk about,
you know, the saying, misery loves company. H be careful
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the company you keep. Be careful of the company you keep.
All company is not good company, but especially for individuals
who are struggling mentally. And I'm not saying with mental illnesses.
I'm talking with loving self, knowing self, struggling with that
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unheal hearted mind that has formed that negative mindset that
you have. See, you gotta clean all of this stuff
on the inside before you have that right mindset, that
positive mindset. It is a must and absolute must. Faking
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and pretending it will not benefit you. It will keep
you in the same place you've always been. You will
continue to make bad choices and decisions. You will continue
to allow and accept things that you shouldn't. You will
continue to go along to get along, to be long.
You will continue to do things that you shouldn't do.
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You will keep doing things that you know is wrong.
You will keep taking risks because of that mindset that
you have. I just want you to think about it.
There is so many things that I could have talked about,
so many but I just gave you a little bit
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to think about. But you could put any scenario in there.
I just want you to think about who you are
as a person, what you allow in the sept in
your life, what you open yourself up to, who you
open yourself up to think about that, Why do it
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if you know it's wrong. That's all I'm saying. I'm
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Hey, hey, hey, I'm bad with something. For you to
think about it, I have a question, why do it
if you know what's wrong? Why do it? If you
(00:25):
know what's wrong. As adults, we all know wrong from right.
You can say what you want to say. We all
know wrong from right. That's why people try to hide
stuff that they know it's unacceptable, that they know is wrong.
(00:46):
They try to hide. They do things undercover, They do
things in the dark, they do things behind closed doors
because they think no one can see. Why do it
if you know it's wrong. I want you to think
about that. A lot of people have gotten into so
(01:10):
much trouble because they've gone the wrong thing. Many of
you right now as I speak, are in unhappy and
one sided relationships because you got into it the wrong
way with the wrong person. You know it was wrong.
(01:31):
Many of you had the signs and red flags, and
many of you had this intuition that you ignored, but
you went on and did it. Many of you have
gotten married knowing you didn't want to be married. You
know you did it, but oh you end up pregnant
(01:55):
or there was a pregnancy involved family and friends doing it,
your parents cohersing you. You have all of this pressure
and you did it. But you know, you know you
didn't want to be married. Now you're miserable. Some of
you have had children, knowing full well you didn't want
(02:20):
no child. I know someone right now who told her husband,
I do not want children, but oh, you just have
that children. Baby, please, beaty, baby, baby please. So she
had children. She had a girl and a boy. And
guess what, he has to take care of them. They're
(02:42):
still together, been together for years, but he takes care
of those children. It's wild. But she told him, I
told you I didn't want any kids. Yeah, occasionally, you know,
she do things for them, but for the most part,
he take care of those children and they both work.
(03:04):
It's so crazy, But these are the types of things
that happen. You knew it was wrong. You knew it
was a wrong decision. Children should not have to suffer
because of the terrible, terrible choices and decisions their parents make.
(03:27):
Many people are doing the various things. You're stealing, you're killing,
you're murdering, you're lying, you're doing all kinds of things
when you know what you're doing is wrong. Some of
you are married, and you're sick of who you with so.
(03:49):
Now you're plotting to cause harm to your spouse because
you're going to get them out the way. Instead of
being an adult and saying, hey, I don't want this anymore,
you're gonna plot to get rid of them. You know
what's wrong, You know it. No answer if so, but's
(04:12):
about it. You know it is wrong, but people still
do it. You have people who befriend pregnant women as
they fake their pregnancy, only to rip the baby from
the woman and kill the woman and take the child.
(04:35):
You know it's wrong. It's like the people who committed
mass murder. If you planned it, then you had time
to think. You knew it was wrong. You knew it.
(05:00):
People who get into relationships with people who are already
in relationships, whether married or just in a relationship with someone,
and you know that's wrong. You know you wouldn't want
someone doing it to you, and you know what's wrong.
Some of you get in relationships with married people and
then you have the audacity to be upset that they
(05:22):
can't spend the time you want them to spend with it. You
know what you would get it into. You knew it,
You knew it was wrong. You knew it. Many people
get into certain jobs and positions to do terrible things,
abuse their power, take advantage. But the whole time, you
(05:49):
know what you're doing is wrong. But see, some people,
they get so comfortable in their wrong because they've gotten
away with it for so long. They've gotten comfortable and
they feel they're untouchable until they're touched. I'm telling you
that's the mindset that people have. It does not matter
(06:12):
if they are well known people or not. Some people
who are in certain positions do all kind of terrible
things because they've gotten away with it, because they've used
and abused their power, and they have latched on to
(06:34):
vulnerable people who won't say anything, so they continue to
do terrible things until someone finally speaks up. You knew
it was wrong the whole time. You knew it was wrong.
You knew it, but you still risk it because you
(06:58):
wanted to do what you wanted to do. Why do
it if you know what's wrong? People don't care. It's
the mindset that people have. I'm telling you. Mindset is everything,
(07:18):
everything everything. Millions out there are sexual perverts. You know
you are. I mean, they absolutely know it. That's why
they try to hide it. That's why they hide their stuff,
at least they think they're hiding their stuff on line,
(07:41):
you know, and their little folders online and all of
this until they're caught. You know what you're doing is wrong.
If you didn't think it was wrong, you wouldn't be
trying to hide it. Those are the actions of a
person who know what they're doing. You get on these
(08:04):
jobs and you take advantage, You take advantage of children
when you know it is wrong. I'm just trying to
make a point. Why do it if you know it's wrong?
Why why go to the stores and steal when you
(08:27):
know it's wrong. Ask for a food. If you need food,
don't steal it. Somebody will get you some food, somebody.
It's not worth risking going to jail over stealing food.
Ask someone for food. They will give it to you.
(08:50):
Someone eventually will give you some food. People just do
things and don't think through to the consequences until they
find themselves in very, very bad places. You have individuals
(09:19):
you let into your homes. Oh, you believe them and
trust them with everything. They have shown you things, but
you fail to believe it. Now they come in. They
steal your check books, your credit cards, your man your woman.
(09:39):
Even though no one can steal anyone from no one else,
people walk away of free will. But I'm just saying
a lot of people open themselves up to this foolishness
because they give people free rein when they come into
their homes. They trust them wholeheartedly around their significant others. Yeah,
(10:02):
you're supposed to trust your friend, you're supposed to trust
your relatives, but when they show you signs, you're supposed
to be smarter than that. But many people are not. Obviously,
many people are not. They know what they're doing is wrong,
but they will try to get away with it. I
(10:27):
just don't. I just don't. I almost said I just
don't get it, But I really do get it. I
really really do get it because I know it's the
mindset of people unhealed hearts and minds. See a lot
of people get into things based on feelings and emotions
(10:50):
of you know, their hearts. But you're following wrong. When
you have an unhealed heart, you're gonna be lived wrong
all the time. When you're solely going by your feelings
and your emotions, you're going to be led wrong all
the time. Because See, people are blind to reality because
(11:14):
they're chasing what they want, what they desire, what makes
them feel good. They're not thinking through to the consequences.
You know you're making a bad choice, You're like thinking
about it. You're thinking about certain things you've seen, certain
(11:35):
things you've heard, and you're kind of questioning things, but
you still move forward when you know it was wrong.
Some of you get with people and you let them
coherse you into doing things that you know are against
the law, but you still do it because you think, oh,
(11:58):
that's my friend, well, a real friend. When coherts you
or influenced or persuade you to break the law, that's
what people don't get. Those are not friends. Those are
people who are out to get what they want to
get from you. They're not friends. A friend, a real
(12:18):
friend is not gonna persuade you in any shape, form
or fashion to do wrong. And I don't care if
it's your relative, your significant other, a friend so called.
I don't care who it is or other people. It
(12:41):
don't matter. You know when you're doing wrong or when
you're about to do wrong. You know it, but people
still do it. They will risk everything to do what
they want to do. People do it. There are individuals
(13:04):
who have totally abandoned their family. Totally abandon their family.
Their family, call, call, call, they never answer, but other
people call boom boom, boom. They answer every call. They
know they're wrong, and when you tell them, they got
(13:26):
an attitude. They don't want to talk to you because
you're telling them the truth. But as soon as those
other people them stab them in the back and do
them wrong, who they run back to the family that
they abandon. I mean, people are doing all kinds of foolishness,
all kinds of foolishness, knowing they are wrong. You have
(13:52):
pastors in the pool pit in high heels bringing all
of the world into the church, just doing all kind
of foolishness, I mean, all kinds of things that are
against God, knowing they wrong. It's right there in the world,
(14:13):
no one is wrong, but they still do it because
they have an agenda. Money, money, money, money, money, power, power, power, authority, authority, authority,
That's what it's about. It's not about saving souls or
trying to bring people to Christ because they can't save
(14:35):
no one. But the mission is people being saved. They're
not thinking about that. They want all the people they
can in the sanctuary so they can get money, seats
full so their pockets could be full. No one, they're wrong,
(14:59):
but people don't. I don't care because greed and lust
is way more powerful to them because they've succumbed to that.
They know they're wrong, but they take bits and pieces
of the Bible and use that whatever benefit them. You
(15:21):
have pastors in the church, male pastors married to other males.
They know that's wrong. You live how you want to live.
But when you subject other people to it, saying that
(15:41):
you are of God, when you know that's against the Bible,
come on, live how you want to live. Just don't
call yourself a pastor, don't get up in front of
the church. But live how you want to live. That's
on you. But when you subject other people to it,
(16:08):
that's wrong. A lot of people say, oh, I'm on
the Lord's side, I love God, I love Jesus talking
out the side of their next And I will always
say because I firmly, firmly believe. People do it because
(16:33):
they really don't believe one hundred percent. They're like, oh,
it may be a god, Jesus may be real, but
I like this world more because I see tangible things
I could touch things. I can feel things, I could
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smell things, I could taste things. I need this tangible
and it's wrong. It's wrong, and that's what's gonna lead many, many, many,
many many to hell because they have no roots. They
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are liing. Just be who you are. You might as
well just be who you are, because God already know
who you are. He already knows. See, people spend their
lives trying to please and appease man. Man has no
(17:36):
heaven or Hell to put you in the same way.
They are getting there. You're getting there. I'm getting there.
It's according to what we choose here on earth while
we are in these fleshly natural bodies. What we choose now,
it's what we're gonna get later based on who we served.
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You can say you love God all day, but you
know you lying. You know it. You know you're you're lying.
You know who you are. And as I said, live
how you want, just be honest about it. Just be
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honest about it because the lion part, the doing the
wrong part, is what's gonna hurt you the most. Because
God is going to repay, He's gonna he's gonna award you,
(18:44):
award you, reward you, pay, repay, you could, you could call,
or whatever you want to. You agree what you sow,
you'll get what you chose. Many many people go through
life doing wrong when they know it's wrong. They know
(19:08):
when you get that thought in your head, you know
that is wrong. But instead of saying nord, nope, no way,
you keep thinking about it, keep thinking about it until
you commit the act. When you knew that very first
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thought was wrong, you knew it. You knew going on
that business trip and cheating. You knew it was wrong
when you first saw that person that you was attracted
to as a merried man or a merit woman. You
knew you should have went the other way. But no lust, lust,
(19:55):
lust of the flesh. You left that overpower your commitment
to your spouse, although you knew it was wrong, and
because of it, a lot of people end up bringing
bad things back home to their spouse, a crazy person
(20:18):
that they messed around with. Because some people track you
down and cause straight aviod in your life, diseases, all
kind of foolishness that could have been avoided, that should
have been avoided, just because a person chose to do
(20:39):
the wrong thing. I know people on jobs who have
messed around with the boss, knowing the boss is married,
mess around with the boss just so they could move up.
I personally know several people who have done that. They're
(21:05):
not my friends or anything like that. We were just work,
you know, associates, and they one thousand percent did it.
No one it was wrong, and the boss knew it
was wrong too. People don't see until they're caught. But
(21:36):
why would anyone want to live that way? Why just
do the right thing because it's the right thing to do.
I'm gonna remember one time somebody said, well, what's right
to you may not be right to someone else. Get
out of here with that foolishness. Right is right, Wrong
(22:00):
is wrong, Regardless I've told you you can dissect a
lie a million different ways, it's still a lie. You'll
never make a lie the truth. People know when they
(22:21):
do wrong. People just don't care. They risk their lives,
they risk their careers, they risk their families, they risk
their health, They risk everything to do wrong. Knowing is wrong.
So what I would say is, look at yourself. Look
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at yourself. If you're thinking wrong, look at yourself, if
you're doing wrong, look at yourself, because you are the
biggest problem. In your own lives. You are, you're in
your way. Your mindset is your enemy, because if it's wrong,
you shouldn't do it. Have integrity about yourself, be a
(23:13):
trustworthy person. If you're married, be faithful and loyal and
committed and dedicated to who you married. If you feel
attraction to someone else, handle that in the right way.
(23:36):
If someone's trying to course you into doing something that
you don't want to do, that you don't agree with,
you don't go along with you don't feel good about.
Don't do it. If you know it's wrong, I don't
care who it is or what it is, don't do it.
(23:56):
You have to stand up for yourself. You have to
have an taking integrity and dignity for yourself, and respect
for yourself even if no one else want to be
around you. Staying tall for yourself, for your own piece.
(24:22):
Don't let people bring you down with their level or
on their level. I'm almost finished writing my book, and
I have a little slogan in there that I talk about,
you know, the saying, misery loves company. H be careful
(24:51):
the company you keep. Be careful of the company you keep.
All company is not good company, but especially for individuals
who are struggling mentally. And I'm not saying with mental illnesses.
I'm talking with loving self, knowing self, struggling with that
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unheal hearted mind that has formed that negative mindset that
you have. See, you gotta clean all of this stuff
on the inside before you have that right mindset, that
positive mindset. It is a must and absolute must. Faking
(25:42):
and pretending it will not benefit you. It will keep
you in the same place you've always been. You will
continue to make bad choices and decisions. You will continue
to allow and accept things that you shouldn't. You will
continue to go along to get along, to be long.
You will continue to do things that you shouldn't do.
(26:02):
You will keep doing things that you know is wrong.
You will keep taking risks because of that mindset that
you have. I just want you to think about it.
There is so many things that I could have talked about,
so many but I just gave you a little bit
(26:23):
to think about. But you could put any scenario in there.
I just want you to think about who you are
as a person, what you allow in the sept in
your life, what you open yourself up to, who you
open yourself up to think about that, Why do it
(26:43):
if you know it's wrong. That's all I'm saying. I'm
leaving it right there. Love you so much in every
episode the same Please share in every episode the same minute.
I hope you do it. Flek on on it mhm
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