September 29, 2025 • 27 mins
When you refuse to see the truth, it is you who will suffer the most! People don't realize that most of what we go through is self-inflicted!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, hey, hey, hey, I'm back with something for you
to think about. I want to talk to you today
when you cannot see that something or someone is bad
for you, when you can't see it because all you
(00:22):
see is what you want.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
When you have that type of.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Mindset, it comes from that invisible part of you, that
unhealed part of you. When you cannot see what you
are becoming involved with or who you are coming involved
with is not good for you, something is terribly room.
(00:50):
There is a disconnect.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
You don't know who you are, You don't love yourself
when you're blind to reality.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Being blind to reality have caused people their lives because
they got into bad things or they got into bad
relationships with bad individuals. It don't matter how you feel.
That's what you gotta understand. It does not matter how
(01:23):
you feel, It does not matter what you think. What
matters is what you're allowing yourself to be involved with.
Who you are allowing yourself to be involved with, And
it goes back to the mindset that you have. Many
(01:48):
of you right now know that you're in a toxic relationship.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
But you won't go.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Many people the only way they left their toxic relationships
were in body bags.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
That is insane. It's insane. I've told you many times.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
If a person is not enhancing your life and you
are enhancing their life in some way positive, you're with
the wrong person.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Point blank.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
No one in your life should come into your life
and cause you to go down.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
No one or nothing.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
But see when you can't see something that's bad for you.
You're only going off of emotions and feelings and wants
and desires. What your eyes see, what your heart feel.
You're not able to really see things through because you're
only seeing through the eye of the needle.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
You want to see a small fraction.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Of what you need to see, because although it's there
to see, you don't see it because you refuse to
see it because.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
You want who you want or what you want.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Eyes must open, Your eyes must open if you want
to be able to see the truth. People can fake it,
they can pretend all they want, but the truth shall
(03:49):
be will be revealed. Some of you, you're acting like, oh,
everything is so great, it's so undo.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
You know you're lying. You just want to be with
that person so bad. You're treated horrible.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Men love to pick on women and say things like, well, women,
they know they can see a man doing them wrong.
They can see a man messing around, and they still want.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
To be with that man.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
It goes both ways, bruh, It goes both ways.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
But a lot of men because of.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
How they think, some men not all. That's what they
believe when they talk. They put all women in the
same boat. All women are not in the same boat.
But some people seem to think so. It's not just
(04:59):
women do it too.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Men move blindly and on emotions and feelings too.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
It does not matter.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
It is all about the mindset that you have.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
And I think it is such.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Disservice to self when you cannot see when something is
not good for you. Let me tell you, I have
no qualms whatsoever for hoghteiling it the other way.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
None none, you hear be?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
I mean quick, fast and in a hurry, because I
don't have time for foolishes.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I'm too old for that. I'm too old for that.
I refuse it. But so many people are just not
that way.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
They they loan so desperately for something or someone that
all they ever do is fail self because they keep
putting themselves in bad situations.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
With people who mean them no.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Good, or involved in things that are bad for them.
You cannot expect to get in a bad situation and
think it's gonna be good for you.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
Let me say it again.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
You cannot expect to get or go into a bad
situation and think it's gonna be good for you. If
you go into a bad situation, it's going to be
bad for you. Stop being caught up in looks, titles, positions,
(07:10):
what people have. Stop it because those who think like that,
those who are you are not a mature person. You
don't love yourself and you definitely.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Have some growing to do.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Now. You may get offended, and I'm not trying to
offend you, but I'm telling you the truth. I'm definitely
not trying to offend you, but I will stand on
my word.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Because I know it's true. I've seen it time and
time again.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Some of you, you're willing to give up everything for someone,
but they are not willing to do that for you.
Their agenda is different from yours. That's why I tell
you communication is key. You must communicate and know who
you are.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Involving yourself with.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
I've mentioned to you before, if someone come into your
life trying to entice you to do something, you know
is wrong, or trying to introduce you to things like drugs, alcohol,
illegal things, unlawful things, bad things. You should have sense
(08:38):
enough to not get involved with anything like that. But no,
what do people do. They will try it, They will
go alone, they will do whatever because.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
They want to be with that person. That is immaturity
and it's ignorant.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
It is.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
It is ignorant.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
That's an individual who mindset is their worst enemy.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
You've never done these things in your life.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Then you get with someone who introduce you.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
To these things.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
And instead of you saying no, I've never done that
and I'm not about to start doing that and disconnected
with that person, you will go on and try it.
And then the next thing you know, you're hooked and
can't control yourself, and then you become lost in that stuff.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
You become possessed by it.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
See, let me tell you, I know all too well,
and one day I.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
May tell this story, but right now, I just it's
just too hard. I can't tell it right now.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
But I know all too well how people get involved
in things that they think that they can handle, but
they can't. People have lost their lives, People have taken
lives because they got into something they thought they could handle,
(10:32):
but they couldn't. You have to have eyes to see.
So many people think they have eyes to see, but
they don't. And the easiest way for you to understand
that you don't is by pausing, taking a moment and
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do self assessment. Evaluate yourself in your life right now.
Who are you involved with, what are you doing? What
are you allowing and accepting? That's gonna tell you about
who you are. Some people, no matter what you say
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to them, they want what they want, They want who
they want. They don't care what you say until they're
in such a bad way. Some people, like I said,
they're introduced to drugs and alcohol them they become addicts.
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They become addicts doing things they know they never done.
Let me tell you and this on everything.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
If someone came.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Into my life and I saw that's what they were into,
I mean, not even a second thought, not a second thought,
I would disconnect.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I don't care if it was.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
So called friend, family, significant other, I would disconnect immediately.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Because I don't have time for that.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
I'm not trying to tell anybody what they should or
shouldn't do.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
You do you boot, I'm just saying what I wouldn't do.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
And you know, people say oh, never say never, Oh
yes I will, yes, I will. I can say never
old as I am. I can say never because I
don't have any type of desire at all for those
types of things. And my tolerance is a zoo a
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row zero zero, however you want to say it. I
don't have time for cnetigans and foolishness. I don't have
time to try to love the hell out of somebody.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
I don't have time to.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Try to fix, save or change someone. So why would
I open myself up to something like that?
Speaker 2 (13:42):
And neither should you.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
If you meet someone who's drug or alcohol addicted, Oh
my goodness, you have opened the door to some demonic stuff.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
You're gonna go through some hell, I promise.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
So many people think that they can love it away,
they can love all the pain of someone that's away.
No trying to love the hell out of them. You
find yourself in hell. I did a podcast on that,
by the way, go check it out.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
Find it.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Yeah, you find yourself in hell trying to love the
hell out of that person because you couldn't see that.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
They were bad for you. It's a fact when you
don't have eyes to see.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
It can cost you your life, your mind, your soul.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
It can cost you. I just sometimes.
Speaker 5 (14:52):
Just sit and just look at all of the craziness
going in the world, and all I can do is
shake my head.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Because it's just wow. You know, people just don't understand me.
They ask me, Oh, why don't you get on YouTube?
You know, I've been saying that for years, still having
done it. Why don't you get on TikTok? Why don't
(15:25):
you go to Facebook? Why don't you go to blue Scout.
Why don't you do this?
Speaker 4 (15:30):
Sir?
Speaker 1 (15:30):
It's a blue sky or blueski something whatever, you know
what I mean. Why why haven't you got on these platforms?
You need to do this, You need to do that. No,
I don't see. I'm just not your average girl. I'm
just not It don't matter to me. I'm not chasing
(15:52):
money like that. I'm not chasing pipe dreams and this
and that looking for fame and fortune. I care less.
I care less. I care less.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
I careless. So I'm not on any of those things.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
And maybe if I was, my my podcast would be bigger.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Than it is. But I don't. I don't have time
for that. I don't have time for the Shenanigans of people.
I deal with that enough five days a week. I
don't need.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
To deal with that on my off time. The Shenanigan
of people. I don't want anyone praising and worshiping me.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
I just don't. I don't want to be nobody's idle.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
I don't crave that stuff.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
And I'm definitely not gonna be a doormat or any
of that.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
So I just don't have time. I don't have time.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
But people are always on me. You need to do this.
You're so talented, you need to do this, and you
need to do that.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
No, I don't. I'm doing what I'm doing. Whatever God
has for me is for me.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
And I tell them that to them, they say, you know,
sometimes you gotta step out. I feel like I'm stepping
out now. My podcast is literally all over the world.
It may not be huge, but it is all over
the world. I mean to include places like Russia where
you never thought it would be, India, Israel.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
All over the world. It may not be popular like
many podcasts, but people do hear it.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
See, I don't want to open doors to all of
these different portals and things for all of these different
things to come in.
Speaker 2 (18:04):
I just don't.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
It's like AI, I finally finally try something with AI.
But for me, I like authenticity and I probably said
(18:30):
the word.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Room, but I don't like to be authentic. You're not
authentic with AI. You have input, but you're not. It's
not you know. I try to Ford to write a
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little song for me, and then when I read it,
I was like, nah, that's not me.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
You just gotta be true to yourself. When you're true
to yourself, you're not gonna let anyone come alone.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
And cause you.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Have it, or you're not gonna open yourself to anything
that will cause you have it.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
And it's not to say that you're boring. You don't
ever do things. No. I do plenty. I do plenty,
I travel, I do all kinds of things.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
But I just don't do those things. I don't feel
I need to. But people are so desperate to belong.
They wanna be recognized and praised and idolized and worshiped.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
No, no, only do that for Jesus and God.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
It's okay to like, it's okay to be impressed, but
when you start to worship, no, oh, but see people
so called up and their feelings and their emotions, their
wants and their desires.
Speaker 2 (20:26):
They can't see anything.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
They can't see what they need to see because they're
only seeing what they want to see. And that is
why so many are in horrible relationships, horrible relationships. A
couple of months ago, a couple somewhere in Georgia, I
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think it was Georgia where they had a toxic relationship
and all they did was would get you know, they
would get on social media and argue terribly, and he
ended up killing her.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
On social media.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
And I mean just doing a live just got that
angry and snapped just that quickly. That's why if a
couple cannot get alone, don't go to social media air
and your dirty laundry getting on there talking about each
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other and cursing. That is so immature, that is so
extremely in mature.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
It is.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Complete immaturity. That that is not how adults handle things.
Putting all your business on social media, but you can't
see that because you cannot see what you're in is
(22:15):
bad for you. You get to you make it normal,
You normalize the bad things.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
You involved with someone, and the person say.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
We're gonna go commit a robbery and we want you
to drive the car. We want you to be the
lookout are you giving me?
Speaker 2 (22:39):
You want me to what?
Speaker 1 (22:42):
I know?
Speaker 2 (22:43):
You are a liar. You're a liar, and.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
The devil is not in you, because let me tell you.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
No, the devil is in you. You are lieing the
truth not in you. It's what I meant. I know
you a lie.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
But some people, well, oh okay, I got you, boo,
I got you. Know the heck, I don't have you,
and I'll be gone so fast. You can't entice me
to do wrong. There is nothing. I don't care who
he is or.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
What it is.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
You cannot entice me to do wrong or even go
along with wrong.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
But as I look.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
And look and look at the people in the world,
millions upon millions upon millions don't even think for themselves.
They don't even think for themselves at all. They just
go alone to be lone. They don't think. Like I
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said in my last episode, people are so gone that
they think right is wrong and wrong is right because
they don't think for themselves.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
So when you don't think for yourself.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
That being someone else is thinking for you, and trust
and believe that person that's thinking for you is worse
off than you. They're worse off than you. People are
so desperate to be long that all they want is
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a voice to follow.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
They just want someone who will speak, even if they're
spilling wrong, because they have.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
Such a sense of belonging.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
And that is why so many are in terrible relationships.
So many are in horrible relationships for which many have
lost their lives because they can't see beyond their feelings
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and their emotions. Most people in the world are emotion.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
Driven. That's why pop off snack in an.
Speaker 4 (25:27):
Instant, because they're so emotion driven, caught up in their
own feelings, just ready to explode it any second.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
And these are the people you're getting into relationships with,
these short feels who fake and pretend that they are
one way when they are really another.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
And you can't see it because you just want boo boo.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
Until gooboo turn on you and treat you the same
way that he or she has been treating other people
before you. Some of you, you still want boobo no
matter how bad you're treated, you still want booboo. But
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that shows you who you are as a person. You
have unhealed inner issues when you cannot see that it's
bad for you or that person is bad for you.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
It is you who is your worst enemy.
Speaker 1 (26:46):
That's all I'm saying. I'm leaving it right there. I
really really, really really pray that you don't just listen
to this, that you learn something.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Make up.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
You deserve better, You are worthy of better. You just
have to believe it. I in every episode the exact same.
But before I go, much love, thank.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
You for listening. Please share. I in every episode the same,
and I hope you do it. You know what it is,
think on it,
Hey, hey, hey, hey, I'm back with something for you
to think about. I want to talk to you today
when you cannot see that something or someone is bad
for you, when you can't see it because all you
(00:22):
see is what you want.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
When you have that type of.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Mindset, it comes from that invisible part of you, that
unhealed part of you. When you cannot see what you
are becoming involved with or who you are coming involved
with is not good for you, something is terribly room.
(00:50):
There is a disconnect.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
You don't know who you are, You don't love yourself
when you're blind to reality.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Being blind to reality have caused people their lives because
they got into bad things or they got into bad
relationships with bad individuals. It don't matter how you feel.
That's what you gotta understand. It does not matter how
(01:23):
you feel, It does not matter what you think. What
matters is what you're allowing yourself to be involved with.
Who you are allowing yourself to be involved with, And
it goes back to the mindset that you have. Many
(01:48):
of you right now know that you're in a toxic relationship.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
But you won't go.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Many people the only way they left their toxic relationships
were in body bags.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
That is insane. It's insane. I've told you many times.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
If a person is not enhancing your life and you
are enhancing their life in some way positive, you're with
the wrong person.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Point blank.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
No one in your life should come into your life
and cause you to go down.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
No one or nothing.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
But see when you can't see something that's bad for you.
You're only going off of emotions and feelings and wants
and desires. What your eyes see, what your heart feel.
You're not able to really see things through because you're
only seeing through the eye of the needle.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
You want to see a small fraction.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Of what you need to see, because although it's there
to see, you don't see it because you refuse to
see it because.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
You want who you want or what you want.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Eyes must open, Your eyes must open if you want
to be able to see the truth. People can fake it,
they can pretend all they want, but the truth shall
(03:49):
be will be revealed. Some of you, you're acting like, oh,
everything is so great, it's so undo.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
You know you're lying. You just want to be with
that person so bad. You're treated horrible.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Men love to pick on women and say things like, well, women,
they know they can see a man doing them wrong.
They can see a man messing around, and they still want.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
To be with that man.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
It goes both ways, bruh, It goes both ways.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
But a lot of men because of.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
How they think, some men not all. That's what they
believe when they talk. They put all women in the
same boat. All women are not in the same boat.
But some people seem to think so. It's not just
(04:59):
women do it too.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Men move blindly and on emotions and feelings too.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
It does not matter.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
It is all about the mindset that you have.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
And I think it is such.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Disservice to self when you cannot see when something is
not good for you. Let me tell you, I have
no qualms whatsoever for hoghteiling it the other way.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
None none, you hear be?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
I mean quick, fast and in a hurry, because I
don't have time for foolishes.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I'm too old for that. I'm too old for that.
I refuse it. But so many people are just not
that way.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
They they loan so desperately for something or someone that
all they ever do is fail self because they keep
putting themselves in bad situations.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
With people who mean them no.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Good, or involved in things that are bad for them.
You cannot expect to get in a bad situation and
think it's gonna be good for you.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
Let me say it again.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
You cannot expect to get or go into a bad
situation and think it's gonna be good for you. If
you go into a bad situation, it's going to be
bad for you. Stop being caught up in looks, titles, positions,
(07:10):
what people have. Stop it because those who think like that,
those who are you are not a mature person. You
don't love yourself and you definitely.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Have some growing to do.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Now. You may get offended, and I'm not trying to
offend you, but I'm telling you the truth. I'm definitely
not trying to offend you, but I will stand on
my word.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Because I know it's true. I've seen it time and
time again.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Some of you, you're willing to give up everything for someone,
but they are not willing to do that for you.
Their agenda is different from yours. That's why I tell
you communication is key. You must communicate and know who
you are.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Involving yourself with.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
I've mentioned to you before, if someone come into your
life trying to entice you to do something, you know
is wrong, or trying to introduce you to things like drugs, alcohol,
illegal things, unlawful things, bad things. You should have sense
(08:38):
enough to not get involved with anything like that. But no,
what do people do. They will try it, They will
go alone, they will do whatever because.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
They want to be with that person. That is immaturity
and it's ignorant.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
It is.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
It is ignorant.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
That's an individual who mindset is their worst enemy.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
You've never done these things in your life.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Then you get with someone who introduce you.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
To these things.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
And instead of you saying no, I've never done that
and I'm not about to start doing that and disconnected
with that person, you will go on and try it.
And then the next thing you know, you're hooked and
can't control yourself, and then you become lost in that stuff.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
You become possessed by it.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
See, let me tell you, I know all too well,
and one day I.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
May tell this story, but right now, I just it's
just too hard. I can't tell it right now.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
But I know all too well how people get involved
in things that they think that they can handle, but
they can't. People have lost their lives, People have taken
lives because they got into something they thought they could handle,
(10:32):
but they couldn't. You have to have eyes to see.
So many people think they have eyes to see, but
they don't. And the easiest way for you to understand
that you don't is by pausing, taking a moment and
(10:59):
do self assessment. Evaluate yourself in your life right now.
Who are you involved with, what are you doing? What
are you allowing and accepting? That's gonna tell you about
who you are. Some people, no matter what you say
(11:24):
to them, they want what they want, They want who
they want. They don't care what you say until they're
in such a bad way. Some people, like I said,
they're introduced to drugs and alcohol them they become addicts.
(11:49):
They become addicts doing things they know they never done.
Let me tell you and this on everything.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
If someone came.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Into my life and I saw that's what they were into,
I mean, not even a second thought, not a second thought,
I would disconnect.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I don't care if it was.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
So called friend, family, significant other, I would disconnect immediately.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Because I don't have time for that.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
I'm not trying to tell anybody what they should or
shouldn't do.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
You do you boot, I'm just saying what I wouldn't do.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
And you know, people say oh, never say never, Oh
yes I will, yes, I will. I can say never
old as I am. I can say never because I
don't have any type of desire at all for those
types of things. And my tolerance is a zoo a
(13:14):
row zero zero, however you want to say it. I
don't have time for cnetigans and foolishness. I don't have
time to try to love the hell out of somebody.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
I don't have time to.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Try to fix, save or change someone. So why would
I open myself up to something like that?
Speaker 2 (13:42):
And neither should you.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
If you meet someone who's drug or alcohol addicted, Oh
my goodness, you have opened the door to some demonic stuff.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
You're gonna go through some hell, I promise.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
So many people think that they can love it away,
they can love all the pain of someone that's away.
No trying to love the hell out of them. You
find yourself in hell. I did a podcast on that,
by the way, go check it out.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
Find it.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Yeah, you find yourself in hell trying to love the
hell out of that person because you couldn't see that.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
They were bad for you. It's a fact when you
don't have eyes to see.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
It can cost you your life, your mind, your soul.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
It can cost you. I just sometimes.
Speaker 5 (14:52):
Just sit and just look at all of the craziness
going in the world, and all I can do is
shake my head.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Because it's just wow. You know, people just don't understand me.
They ask me, Oh, why don't you get on YouTube?
You know, I've been saying that for years, still having
done it. Why don't you get on TikTok? Why don't
(15:25):
you go to Facebook? Why don't you go to blue Scout.
Why don't you do this?
Speaker 4 (15:30):
Sir?
Speaker 1 (15:30):
It's a blue sky or blueski something whatever, you know
what I mean. Why why haven't you got on these platforms?
You need to do this, You need to do that. No,
I don't see. I'm just not your average girl. I'm
just not It don't matter to me. I'm not chasing
(15:52):
money like that. I'm not chasing pipe dreams and this
and that looking for fame and fortune. I care less.
I care less. I care less.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
I careless. So I'm not on any of those things.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
And maybe if I was, my my podcast would be bigger.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Than it is. But I don't. I don't have time
for that. I don't have time for the Shenanigans of people.
I deal with that enough five days a week. I
don't need.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
To deal with that on my off time. The Shenanigan
of people. I don't want anyone praising and worshiping me.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
I just don't. I don't want to be nobody's idle.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
I don't crave that stuff.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
And I'm definitely not gonna be a doormat or any
of that.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
So I just don't have time. I don't have time.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
But people are always on me. You need to do this.
You're so talented, you need to do this, and you
need to do that.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
No, I don't. I'm doing what I'm doing. Whatever God
has for me is for me.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
And I tell them that to them, they say, you know,
sometimes you gotta step out. I feel like I'm stepping
out now. My podcast is literally all over the world.
It may not be huge, but it is all over
the world. I mean to include places like Russia where
you never thought it would be, India, Israel.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
All over the world. It may not be popular like
many podcasts, but people do hear it.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
See, I don't want to open doors to all of
these different portals and things for all of these different
things to come in.
Speaker 2 (18:04):
I just don't.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
It's like AI, I finally finally try something with AI.
But for me, I like authenticity and I probably said
(18:30):
the word.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Room, but I don't like to be authentic. You're not
authentic with AI. You have input, but you're not. It's
not you know. I try to Ford to write a
(18:53):
little song for me, and then when I read it,
I was like, nah, that's not me.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
You just gotta be true to yourself. When you're true
to yourself, you're not gonna let anyone come alone.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
And cause you.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Have it, or you're not gonna open yourself to anything
that will cause you have it.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
And it's not to say that you're boring. You don't
ever do things. No. I do plenty. I do plenty,
I travel, I do all kinds of things.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
But I just don't do those things. I don't feel
I need to. But people are so desperate to belong.
They wanna be recognized and praised and idolized and worshiped.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
No, no, only do that for Jesus and God.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
It's okay to like, it's okay to be impressed, but
when you start to worship, no, oh, but see people
so called up and their feelings and their emotions, their
wants and their desires.
Speaker 2 (20:26):
They can't see anything.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
They can't see what they need to see because they're
only seeing what they want to see. And that is
why so many are in horrible relationships, horrible relationships. A
couple of months ago, a couple somewhere in Georgia, I
(20:55):
think it was Georgia where they had a toxic relationship
and all they did was would get you know, they
would get on social media and argue terribly, and he
ended up killing her.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
On social media.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
And I mean just doing a live just got that
angry and snapped just that quickly. That's why if a
couple cannot get alone, don't go to social media air
and your dirty laundry getting on there talking about each
(21:39):
other and cursing. That is so immature, that is so
extremely in mature.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
It is.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Complete immaturity. That that is not how adults handle things.
Putting all your business on social media, but you can't
see that because you cannot see what you're in is
(22:15):
bad for you. You get to you make it normal,
You normalize the bad things.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
You involved with someone, and the person say.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
We're gonna go commit a robbery and we want you
to drive the car. We want you to be the
lookout are you giving me?
Speaker 2 (22:39):
You want me to what?
Speaker 1 (22:42):
I know?
Speaker 2 (22:43):
You are a liar. You're a liar, and.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
The devil is not in you, because let me tell you.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
No, the devil is in you. You are lieing the
truth not in you. It's what I meant. I know
you a lie.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
But some people, well, oh okay, I got you, boo,
I got you. Know the heck, I don't have you,
and I'll be gone so fast. You can't entice me
to do wrong. There is nothing. I don't care who
he is or.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
What it is.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
You cannot entice me to do wrong or even go
along with wrong.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
But as I look.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
And look and look at the people in the world,
millions upon millions upon millions don't even think for themselves.
They don't even think for themselves at all. They just
go alone to be lone. They don't think. Like I
(23:57):
said in my last episode, people are so gone that
they think right is wrong and wrong is right because
they don't think for themselves.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
So when you don't think for yourself.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
That being someone else is thinking for you, and trust
and believe that person that's thinking for you is worse
off than you. They're worse off than you. People are
so desperate to be long that all they want is
(24:37):
a voice to follow.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
They just want someone who will speak, even if they're
spilling wrong, because they have.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
Such a sense of belonging.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
And that is why so many are in terrible relationships.
So many are in horrible relationships for which many have
lost their lives because they can't see beyond their feelings
(25:13):
and their emotions. Most people in the world are emotion.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
Driven. That's why pop off snack in an.
Speaker 4 (25:27):
Instant, because they're so emotion driven, caught up in their
own feelings, just ready to explode it any second.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
And these are the people you're getting into relationships with,
these short feels who fake and pretend that they are
one way when they are really another.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
And you can't see it because you just want boo boo.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
Until gooboo turn on you and treat you the same
way that he or she has been treating other people
before you. Some of you, you still want boobo no
matter how bad you're treated, you still want booboo. But
(26:25):
that shows you who you are as a person. You
have unhealed inner issues when you cannot see that it's
bad for you or that person is bad for you.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
It is you who is your worst enemy.
Speaker 1 (26:46):
That's all I'm saying. I'm leaving it right there. I
really really, really really pray that you don't just listen
to this, that you learn something.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Make up.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
You deserve better, You are worthy of better. You just
have to believe it. I in every episode the exact same.
But before I go, much love, thank.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
You for listening. Please share. I in every episode the same,
and I hope you do it. You know what it is,
think on it,
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