October 9, 2025 • 17 mins
If your significant other is good, hang on to him or her because it's rare these days and times. Make no mistake about it, just being good isn't enough, they have to be someone who loves God, love themselves, love others, mature, healed, committed, faithful, dedicated, honest, loyal, etc. When you have the total package, don't mess it up! The dating pool is very tough these days! Don't let your unhealed hearts and minds get you bamboolzed and manipulated into thinking you have something when you have nothing! Hold on to that special someone!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hey, hey, hey, I'm.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Back with something for you to think about before I
get started. Listen, I have tried something new. I started
a new podcast. It's called From the Heart to the Heart.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
It is me singing.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yes, I'm singing acapella, then I'm speaking. I'm giving words
of encouragement after that. So please do me a favor.
Go check it out and share. I am a songwriter.
I reraise songs, I write original songs, and I am
(00:44):
available to help anyone who need a song. Just let
me know and we can work together. So after saying that,
let's get into it. When you have a good one,
you better hang on for dear life.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Let me say that again.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
When you have a good one, meaning a good man
or a good woman, you better hang on for dear life.
Make sure now, make sure it's a good one. See
a lot of people think it's a good one.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
But that's because.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
An immature person don't know the difference, whether male or female.
An immature person does not know the difference. So let's
put that aside. Okay, we're not talking about immature people.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
When you have.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
A good man or a good woman, and you yourself
is a good person, a mature person a person who
has it together. And you find someone else like that, baby,
let me tell you you better hold on for dear
(02:15):
life because let me tell you they they are individuals
who have gone through.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
And learn from.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Experiences and grow to be mature people. They have allowed
healing to take place in their lives.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
So when you find someone that is good.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Hang on, baby, because I'm telling you.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
It is.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Very few people who are in happy relationships.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
That's sad.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
It's like serving God. There are very who truly truly
serve God. The rest of them just talkers, talking out
the side of their next hearts, far far from him.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
So when you have someone.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
That's good, hang on, And I know that people will
because they're like minded. They're on one accord. Because it's
some terrible people in this world. It's some terrible people
in this world who should not be in no kind
(03:39):
of relationship.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
None. You have people in relationships controlling, abusing.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Being obsessive and possessive, beating their significant others, lying, stealing
from them, all kind of craziness. So when you have
someone that's good to you, good for you, hang on,
hang on, because there's gonna be a lot of wolves,
(04:16):
lot of wolves.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
That's gonna come around in Chep's clothing.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
That's why you have to be careful who you allow
into your life. When you're in a relationship with someone, you.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Have to be careful who you allow into your life.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
You cannot go and tell your business and things like
that because I let me tell you, let me tell you.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Listen carefully.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
I know.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Sometimes people go and say, oh, my husband, he is
so sweet. Oh he do this, and he.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Do that, and he's just so gentle and so loving,
and ah, he is just one in a.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Million blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. So you
go and tell all of this to your.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Friend or your so hard friend, and she taking it
in or he it could be a heat. They're taking
it in, and the next thing you know, they are
eyeballing your man or woman because you don't want to
tell them all these great things, and now they want
(05:32):
a little bit of the good good.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
I mean, it's just reality. So stop it.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Keep your business at home, Keep your business at home.
Don't allow yourselves to be distracted by the world. Don't
ever be too busy for your significant other. Show them
(05:59):
you love them, because love is an action word. Don't
just say it, show it, talk, communicate about everything, don't
hold in no feelings about anything, talk about everything.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
But be very careful who you allow in your life.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Because see, everybody that say they are for you, they
are not for you. Everybody that's smiling in your face,
they don't like you, or they trying to take your place,
or they want what you have. So you better be
careful who you allow into your life. And and you
(06:47):
with the same sex friends, be careful. That's all I'm
gonna say.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Be careful. You have those individuals who DENI and you
have your girlfriends.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
M Okay, you just gotta be careful of the type
of people that you allow on your life, the same
sex and the opposite sex, especially the opposite sex, because see,
everybody of the opposite sex can't just be friends. They
(07:37):
can't because of importunity. So all I'm saying, everybody who
say your friend, they're your friend, is not your friend.
So if you got someone good, you make sure it
stays that way.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Keep your business at on.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
I don't care how good he is to you or
how good she is to you. Keep it at home.
There's nothing wrong with giving your your boot accolades will
be very, very careful, because I'm telling you, those wolves.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
They just ready to pounce. They're ready to pounce.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Be careful of the company you keep. I'm just telling you,
be careful of the company you keep. See because some
people come around because they trying to get in there.
They trying to wield their way in there, to mess
(08:46):
up what you got going on.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Be careful of the company you keep.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
And like I said earlier, never be so busy that
you don't have time for your significant other being because
that is not the way you treat someone that you
are in love with. You have time for the person
you're in love with. When you feel that you have
(09:15):
to force time, look at what's going on. Look at yourself,
because something that's going on, because you should want to
spend time with the person you're in love with. Never
never let the flames of passion go out. Always put
(09:41):
kettle on that fire, Always fuel the fire, do things.
Never stop dating. I don't care if you you have children.
Never stop dating. I'm telling you. If you got someone good,
(10:05):
if they're good to you and you're you're you're in love.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
And all of that. Never and I do mean never, ever, ever, ever, ever,
ever let anyone come in between.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
You see good good good relationships like this are rare.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
But God has to be the head. God has to
be the head. And I know there are relationships.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Where people you know fairly get alone and things like that,
but they still have a lot of issues and they
handle their issues differently than godly people. You can't be
in love with a woman and you talk to her
like crap. You just think you're in love. A man
(11:08):
who loves his woman and a woman who loves her man.
They are respectful of one another. They never talk down
in negative and degrading to one another, playful or not.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
That's immaturity when people do that.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
You have to give your significant other and that relationship
the attention that it requires, the attention that he or
she requires, and you have to make sure in the
beginning you build your relationship on a solid foundation, because
(11:56):
I'm telling you it's hard. It is truly hard to
meet someone who is compatible, positively.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
In a positive way, compatible to you and next days
in time. It truly is hard. So when you have someone,
make sure make sure you hold on to what you have.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Don't let anyone persuade you, don't let anyone distract you
don't let anyone make you think anything different than.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
What you know is true. That you have a good person.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Your significant other is a good person and they do
good by you. Don't let anyone come alone the little
wolf to plant negative seeds in your head.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
And you won't. If you're a mature person, you definitely won't.
You will not, You won't do it.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
A lot of people find out the hard way when
they no longer have that person that they say that
they love because they let distractions come along and pull
them apart. But see, that is the mindset of an
immature person who thought they were mature. Mature people, they're
(13:39):
they're on another level. I'm telling you, they're on another level.
When you have something good and you know it's good,
treat it like it's good. Protect it treated delicate like
you know, delicate. Treat it. I almost couldn't get that
(14:02):
out the first time. Treated delicate because it is. And
it's rare for people to have real, good, solid relationships.
I don't care what nobody saying. It's rare. It's possible,
but it's rare. So when you know you got someone good,
(14:25):
don't let anyone trick you into messing it. Up because
you may never find that again. See a lot of
people never get to experience real love.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
They never get to be with who they.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Are destined to be with because they're so busy holding
on to that person that is not for them. But
they still want that person so bad because of who
they are themselves, unhealed, full of insecurities and.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
And lack So they hold on to who never meant
to be.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
In their lives, who was never meant for them, and
they never get to experience.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Who God has for them because they're.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Holding on to the person that was never meant for them.
When you have that person and you know that person
is good and that person is for you, like.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
The Bible say, let no man.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Sat on Sunday, don't let no man break you apart,
no man, no woman. Be rooted and grounded in God,
and your relationship will flourish. People will look at you
with envy, but that's not don't be concerned with that.
(15:56):
Don't even entertain it. Always show love towards one another, always, always, always,
without fail Your relationship will continue to soar. And I
pray that for those who are in solid relationships that
(16:20):
you allow the Lord to just cultivate and grow that relationship,
and that you.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Always remind the other.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
How important they are in your life.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
But in saying that, you know, I gotta throw this
in there, don't ever.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Be so caught up in him or her that you
lose a sense of who you are.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
Mature people don't do that.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
That's all I'm saying. God, bless you and your relationships.
Much much loved to you. Please share this in every
episode the same and I hope and I pray.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
You do it.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Yeah, you think on it.
Hey, hey, hey, I'm.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Back with something for you to think about before I
get started. Listen, I have tried something new. I started
a new podcast. It's called From the Heart to the Heart.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
It is me singing.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yes, I'm singing acapella, then I'm speaking. I'm giving words
of encouragement after that. So please do me a favor.
Go check it out and share. I am a songwriter.
I reraise songs, I write original songs, and I am
(00:44):
available to help anyone who need a song. Just let
me know and we can work together. So after saying that,
let's get into it. When you have a good one,
you better hang on for dear life.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Let me say that again.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
When you have a good one, meaning a good man
or a good woman, you better hang on for dear life.
Make sure now, make sure it's a good one. See
a lot of people think it's a good one.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
But that's because.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
An immature person don't know the difference, whether male or female.
An immature person does not know the difference. So let's
put that aside. Okay, we're not talking about immature people.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
When you have.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
A good man or a good woman, and you yourself
is a good person, a mature person a person who
has it together. And you find someone else like that, baby,
let me tell you you better hold on for dear
(02:15):
life because let me tell you they they are individuals
who have gone through.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
And learn from.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Experiences and grow to be mature people. They have allowed
healing to take place in their lives.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
So when you find someone that is good.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Hang on, baby, because I'm telling you.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
It is.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Very few people who are in happy relationships.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
That's sad.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
It's like serving God. There are very who truly truly
serve God. The rest of them just talkers, talking out
the side of their next hearts, far far from him.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
So when you have someone.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
That's good, hang on, And I know that people will
because they're like minded. They're on one accord. Because it's
some terrible people in this world. It's some terrible people
in this world who should not be in no kind
(03:39):
of relationship.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
None. You have people in relationships controlling, abusing.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Being obsessive and possessive, beating their significant others, lying, stealing
from them, all kind of craziness. So when you have
someone that's good to you, good for you, hang on,
hang on, because there's gonna be a lot of wolves,
(04:16):
lot of wolves.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
That's gonna come around in Chep's clothing.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
That's why you have to be careful who you allow
into your life. When you're in a relationship with someone, you.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Have to be careful who you allow into your life.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
You cannot go and tell your business and things like
that because I let me tell you, let me tell you.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Listen carefully.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
I know.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Sometimes people go and say, oh, my husband, he is
so sweet. Oh he do this, and he.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Do that, and he's just so gentle and so loving,
and ah, he is just one in a.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Million blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. So you
go and tell all of this to your.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Friend or your so hard friend, and she taking it
in or he it could be a heat. They're taking
it in, and the next thing you know, they are
eyeballing your man or woman because you don't want to
tell them all these great things, and now they want
(05:32):
a little bit of the good good.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
I mean, it's just reality. So stop it.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Keep your business at home, Keep your business at home.
Don't allow yourselves to be distracted by the world. Don't
ever be too busy for your significant other. Show them
(05:59):
you love them, because love is an action word. Don't
just say it, show it, talk, communicate about everything, don't
hold in no feelings about anything, talk about everything.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
But be very careful who you allow in your life.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Because see, everybody that say they are for you, they
are not for you. Everybody that's smiling in your face,
they don't like you, or they trying to take your place,
or they want what you have. So you better be
careful who you allow into your life. And and you
(06:47):
with the same sex friends, be careful. That's all I'm
gonna say.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Be careful. You have those individuals who DENI and you
have your girlfriends.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
M Okay, you just gotta be careful of the type
of people that you allow on your life, the same
sex and the opposite sex, especially the opposite sex, because see,
everybody of the opposite sex can't just be friends. They
(07:37):
can't because of importunity. So all I'm saying, everybody who
say your friend, they're your friend, is not your friend.
So if you got someone good, you make sure it
stays that way.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Keep your business at on.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
I don't care how good he is to you or
how good she is to you. Keep it at home.
There's nothing wrong with giving your your boot accolades will
be very, very careful, because I'm telling you, those wolves.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
They just ready to pounce. They're ready to pounce.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Be careful of the company you keep. I'm just telling you,
be careful of the company you keep. See because some
people come around because they trying to get in there.
They trying to wield their way in there, to mess
(08:46):
up what you got going on.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Be careful of the company you keep.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
And like I said earlier, never be so busy that
you don't have time for your significant other being because
that is not the way you treat someone that you
are in love with. You have time for the person
you're in love with. When you feel that you have
(09:15):
to force time, look at what's going on. Look at yourself,
because something that's going on, because you should want to
spend time with the person you're in love with. Never
never let the flames of passion go out. Always put
(09:41):
kettle on that fire, Always fuel the fire, do things.
Never stop dating. I don't care if you you have children.
Never stop dating. I'm telling you. If you got someone good,
(10:05):
if they're good to you and you're you're you're in love.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
And all of that. Never and I do mean never, ever, ever, ever, ever,
ever let anyone come in between.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
You see good good good relationships like this are rare.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
But God has to be the head. God has to
be the head. And I know there are relationships.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Where people you know fairly get alone and things like that,
but they still have a lot of issues and they
handle their issues differently than godly people. You can't be
in love with a woman and you talk to her
like crap. You just think you're in love. A man
(11:08):
who loves his woman and a woman who loves her man.
They are respectful of one another. They never talk down
in negative and degrading to one another, playful or not.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
That's immaturity when people do that.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
You have to give your significant other and that relationship
the attention that it requires, the attention that he or
she requires, and you have to make sure in the
beginning you build your relationship on a solid foundation, because
(11:56):
I'm telling you it's hard. It is truly hard to
meet someone who is compatible, positively.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
In a positive way, compatible to you and next days
in time. It truly is hard. So when you have someone,
make sure make sure you hold on to what you have.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Don't let anyone persuade you, don't let anyone distract you
don't let anyone make you think anything different than.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
What you know is true. That you have a good person.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Your significant other is a good person and they do
good by you. Don't let anyone come alone the little
wolf to plant negative seeds in your head.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
And you won't. If you're a mature person, you definitely won't.
You will not, You won't do it.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
A lot of people find out the hard way when
they no longer have that person that they say that
they love because they let distractions come along and pull
them apart. But see, that is the mindset of an
immature person who thought they were mature. Mature people, they're
(13:39):
they're on another level. I'm telling you, they're on another level.
When you have something good and you know it's good,
treat it like it's good. Protect it treated delicate like
you know, delicate. Treat it. I almost couldn't get that
(14:02):
out the first time. Treated delicate because it is. And
it's rare for people to have real, good, solid relationships.
I don't care what nobody saying. It's rare. It's possible,
but it's rare. So when you know you got someone good,
(14:25):
don't let anyone trick you into messing it. Up because
you may never find that again. See a lot of
people never get to experience real love.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
They never get to be with who they.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Are destined to be with because they're so busy holding
on to that person that is not for them. But
they still want that person so bad because of who
they are themselves, unhealed, full of insecurities and.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
And lack So they hold on to who never meant
to be.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
In their lives, who was never meant for them, and
they never get to experience.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Who God has for them because they're.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Holding on to the person that was never meant for them.
When you have that person and you know that person
is good and that person is for you, like.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
The Bible say, let no man.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Sat on Sunday, don't let no man break you apart,
no man, no woman. Be rooted and grounded in God,
and your relationship will flourish. People will look at you
with envy, but that's not don't be concerned with that.
(15:56):
Don't even entertain it. Always show love towards one another, always, always, always,
without fail Your relationship will continue to soar. And I
pray that for those who are in solid relationships that
(16:20):
you allow the Lord to just cultivate and grow that relationship,
and that you.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Always remind the other.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
How important they are in your life.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
But in saying that, you know, I gotta throw this
in there, don't ever.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Be so caught up in him or her that you
lose a sense of who you are.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
Mature people don't do that.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
That's all I'm saying. God, bless you and your relationships.
Much much loved to you. Please share this in every
episode the same and I hope and I pray.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
You do it.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Yeah, you think on it.
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