October 16, 2025 • 17 mins
Immature women think that dressing inappropriately shows they're confident, beautiful, etc. Lies! Women who are walking around half dressed are very disrespectful to themselves and to others. These women think they're showing confidence and strength but in reality it shows just the opposite. It shows who these women are inside. They lack confidence and have lots of insecurities that they'll never admit to. It doesn't matter how cute she is when a woman is half dressed it makes her look bad. Women who are walking around wearing clothes that are too small have no clue how horrible they look. It's not cute at all! I feel sorry for women who feel a need to dress inappropriately and can't take a real look at themselves to see what they're really showing others! What's inside is always coming out in many ways, dressing inappropriately is just one! They lack self-love and are in denial. What they see in the mirror is a reflection of what's inside of them but it's not reality! Some men dress inappropriate too and everything applies to him. What people forget is children are also watching!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hey, hey, Hey, I'm bad with something for you to
think about.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Now.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
You all have listened to me enough enough, some of
you to know that I don't get on here and
talk about people, not in that type of way anyways,
like some of the podcasters and YouTubers do.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
I I that's not me.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
I'll never make a sense in life if I have
to get on and talk negative about people.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Are all about people's business. That's not me anyways.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
But I do wanna talk about this, and I'm talking
predominantly to women, but I'm talking to men too, because
y'all can look a mess too. You can look a
mess too.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I want to talk about what I saw today when
I was out.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
When I tell you, booty booty, booty, booty booty everywhere,
it's a puer of shame. It is a pair of shame.
I don't care if you have the body.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
For it or not. It is a pure shame what
I saw today.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Ladies, you must respect yourselves better than that. Respect yourselves
better than that. If you don't respect yourself, no one
else is going to respect you. When I see someone
(01:51):
like that, I already know they have inner issues. Irrefutable,
they have their issues there is no way a woman
will walk out the house looking the way I saw
people look today, several people of different races.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I saw women.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I mean all of their butt cheeks were out, you
know when you can see the dark part of their
butt cheeks underneath their all of their butt cheeks out,
And I'm like, what is going on today? They're trying
to get it in before I get cold. I guess, ridiculous. Ridiculous,
(02:36):
you hear me. I mean some of them was busting
out the clothes. They were so big, and the clothes,
the stomachs hanging and listen, I don't care if it's
a neat woman, a neat, builked woman who slim got
(02:57):
a nice shape, I don't care. It is so inappropriate
and nobody wants to see it. People are so broken
they cannot even look in the mirror and see what
they're putting on is wrong. I don't care how you
(03:22):
dress at home, but when you go out, come on.
You should have some respect for yourself. You should have
respect for yourself and the comforts of your home. Dress
how you want to, but nobody should be subjected to that.
(03:43):
See men like it, especially when ladies have big booties
build nice. They like it, but that tells me what
kind of man he is. I know people are not blind,
they can see, but you wouldn't want to take nobody
home to mama looking like that. Women, get some respect
(04:08):
for yourselves, because if you don't respect yourself, no one
is going to respect you. And some of you have children.
You dressing like that in front of your children so inappropriate,
and I mean women of all caliber celebrities are doing too,
(04:32):
and it's not cute.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
That tells me so much about an individual.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
When I see how a person dressed, that tells me
so much about an individual. When a person is dressing
like that, that tells me a lot about that person.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
They are broken, something.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Is disconnected inside, especially these people who wearing clothes three
sizes of too small. They would right past the mirror,
didn't even turn to look. I mean, it's insane.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
No self love, no.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Self love, no respect for yourself. And the reason I'm
talking to women because I am a woman, and I
tell you right now you was related to me. I
don't care who you were. If you were related to me. Oh,
(05:42):
I'm telling you about yourself now. You know you're wrong
what you have on you know, you're wrong, and.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
It belittles you. No one have to do it.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
You belittle yourself, you degrade yourself when you dress like that.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Woman, You're gonna be mad.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
But that's okay, It's okay. I have thick skin, bring it.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
You know what.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Every single day, and this is no exaggeration, every single
day that I go to work, I'm told you look nice.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Every single day? Did you hear me?
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Every single day? That's because I care about my appearance,
and i'd be looking at a little fly sometimes. I
haven't lost it yet. I hope to never lose it.
But you will never catch me dressing and appropriate.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Never. You have to have self respect.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
If you don't, people will look at you and automatically
assume things about you. Just like I said, when I
see someone, but I'm looking a different way than the
average person, because I've dealt with people all of my life,
basically but professionally the majority of my life, and I
(07:21):
know what the catalyst is in the lives of many people.
It's that mindset. It's that unhealed heart and that unhealed mind.
It's immaturity, lack of growth, lack of self respect. It's
(07:48):
no way, no way, no way you respect yourself, and
you walk out that door with all of your boots
hanging out or your shorts up your butt are they
so tight you barely walk? You can present yourself very central,
(08:11):
and you can look very sexy, which clothes on. You
don't have to go out looking like that, because I
don't care if you built like a.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Brickhouse or whatever. It's not cute.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
And if you have on a mini skirt, that's pushing it.
But that looks better than these booty shorts.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
They got to go.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
No respect, there's no way you have respect for yourself.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
You just think it's cute and you want to be seen.
You want to be seen.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
You know you can say now, I don't want nobody
to see me. I'm dressing for myself. No, you want
to be seen, and believe me, you are, and it's
not in the way you want.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
No man want a woman looking like that, not a
mature man.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Now, immature man will get you and get out of
you what he can on what he's trying to get.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
But he don't want you like that.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
If you present yourself like that, he sure will take
it whatever he can. Have some respect for yourself, learn
to love yourself and be an individual.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Who is that woman? Who have pride in your appearance.
I'm not saying be.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
You know, in a narcissistic way or or an egotistical way.
I'm saying, be proud of how you represent, how you
present yourself. It's like a celebrity. I'm not mentioning the name,
but you may know who it is when you hear
what I'm gonna say. Who showed up I think in
(10:22):
her child's graduation with DC through clothes.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
No, no, I don't know you. I don't care who
you are. I don't know you. Now, don't get away
from me.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Mm hmm. I would have walked the other way. But
see they used to that, and that's horrible. You dressed
like that in front of your child, your grown child.
No self respect. It's not cute, it's no self respect.
(10:56):
Shame on you mothers, Shame on you. Shame on you.
Women who go to church with these sea through clothes
on and these revealing clothes in these kite clothes. Shame
on you. Shame on you.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Gospel singers who dressed like that because you don't have
no God in you. It's all performance.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Yeah, get mad. I want you to I want you
to get mad and contact me so I can tell
you about yourself, and it'll be in love, not to
hurt you. I'm telling you how you look, and you
can try to be cute as you want to be.
(11:44):
You have no self respect, you don't you don't love yourself.
I don't care if you are a billionaire, then you
look like that. You have no self respect, and you
don't love yourself. There's no way on earth that you do.
And you present yourself like that. And then some of
(12:09):
you you go out there with these tight clothes on.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Who are you trying to impress? Or they hanging down
your butt or around your knees. Come on, now, come on.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
That's not attracting. Well, it is to some women, but
they are immature, just like him. I've told you you're
always dealing with either the immature or the mature.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
They are not one and the same, not one in
the same.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Believe what you want, but they are not one in
the same. And I know some people listening and they're like,
who do.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
I think I am? I am who I am, And
I'm not trying to be no one else.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
I'm telling you in love, I'm not trying to be
hypocritical or trying to be a person who who is
spewing out negativity.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
No, because I'm telling the truth.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
What I saw today multiple times was horrible, absolutely horrible.
It doesn't matter if the woman is beautiful, It does
not matter if she alright looking or whatever. None of
it constitutes.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
To walk out of your house looking like that and then,
like I say, some of you have your child with you. Shame, shame, shame,
shame on you.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
That's why the kids grow up to be horrible adults
because of what they learn at home.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Do better, especially you women going to church. Do better.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
If you can't find nothing more appropriate to where, go
to good Will, go somewhere. Stop dressing inappropriate because it
shows that you lack.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Self respect.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Nobody may have never told you, you may never heard
of them before, but I'm telling you today you don't
love yourself and you lack self respect.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
You have some inner issues.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
That need to be resolved, because there's no way you
love yourself leaving home looking like that.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
I was told appalled today. I was like, what are
you serious? Couldn't believe some of the stuff I saw today.
I was like, what is going on? I mean, was
it a memo put out today or something.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
It was horrible, horrible. People may as well had on panties.
And I'm not even exaggerating they may as well had
on panties. That's how short throw a short tour and
I saw multiple I saw them at the grocery store.
(15:41):
I saw them, saw them at the mall. Horror them all,
no self respect, inappropriate.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
Yeah, I said it. Please reach out to me so
we can have a talk about it. And like I said,
I'm not trying to hurt anyone's feeling. I'm not trying
to offend, but we all know what it's the truth.
Oh ouch, it hurts.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
It don't hurt when it don't apply, but when it applies,
it hurts. Do better, do better? And you know what
gets me, some people think because they're so pretty, and
people think they're this and that, because they have money
(16:36):
and this and that, you still look just like the
brokenst person. You still look exactly like the brokenst person.
Trust and believe That's all I'm saying because I'm tired
of talking about it. Women do better, Men do better?
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Much? Hello, please share in every episode the same And
I hope I really really really do Did you do it?
Thank on it,
Hey, hey, Hey, I'm bad with something for you to
think about.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Now.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
You all have listened to me enough enough, some of
you to know that I don't get on here and
talk about people, not in that type of way anyways,
like some of the podcasters and YouTubers do.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
I I that's not me.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
I'll never make a sense in life if I have
to get on and talk negative about people.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Are all about people's business. That's not me anyways.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
But I do wanna talk about this, and I'm talking
predominantly to women, but I'm talking to men too, because
y'all can look a mess too. You can look a
mess too.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I want to talk about what I saw today when
I was out.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
When I tell you, booty booty, booty, booty booty everywhere,
it's a puer of shame. It is a pair of shame.
I don't care if you have the body.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
For it or not. It is a pure shame what
I saw today.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Ladies, you must respect yourselves better than that. Respect yourselves
better than that. If you don't respect yourself, no one
else is going to respect you. When I see someone
(01:51):
like that, I already know they have inner issues. Irrefutable,
they have their issues there is no way a woman
will walk out the house looking the way I saw
people look today, several people of different races.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I saw women.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I mean all of their butt cheeks were out, you
know when you can see the dark part of their
butt cheeks underneath their all of their butt cheeks out,
And I'm like, what is going on today? They're trying
to get it in before I get cold. I guess, ridiculous. Ridiculous,
(02:36):
you hear me. I mean some of them was busting
out the clothes. They were so big, and the clothes,
the stomachs hanging and listen, I don't care if it's
a neat woman, a neat, builked woman who slim got
(02:57):
a nice shape, I don't care. It is so inappropriate
and nobody wants to see it. People are so broken
they cannot even look in the mirror and see what
they're putting on is wrong. I don't care how you
(03:22):
dress at home, but when you go out, come on.
You should have some respect for yourself. You should have
respect for yourself and the comforts of your home. Dress
how you want to, but nobody should be subjected to that.
(03:43):
See men like it, especially when ladies have big booties
build nice. They like it, but that tells me what
kind of man he is. I know people are not blind,
they can see, but you wouldn't want to take nobody
home to mama looking like that. Women, get some respect
(04:08):
for yourselves, because if you don't respect yourself, no one
is going to respect you. And some of you have children.
You dressing like that in front of your children so inappropriate,
and I mean women of all caliber celebrities are doing too,
(04:32):
and it's not cute.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
That tells me so much about an individual.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
When I see how a person dressed, that tells me
so much about an individual. When a person is dressing
like that, that tells me a lot about that person.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
They are broken, something.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Is disconnected inside, especially these people who wearing clothes three
sizes of too small. They would right past the mirror,
didn't even turn to look. I mean, it's insane.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
No self love, no.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Self love, no respect for yourself. And the reason I'm
talking to women because I am a woman, and I
tell you right now you was related to me. I
don't care who you were. If you were related to me. Oh,
(05:42):
I'm telling you about yourself now. You know you're wrong
what you have on you know, you're wrong, and.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
It belittles you. No one have to do it.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
You belittle yourself, you degrade yourself when you dress like that.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Woman, You're gonna be mad.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
But that's okay, It's okay. I have thick skin, bring it.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
You know what.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Every single day, and this is no exaggeration, every single
day that I go to work, I'm told you look nice.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Every single day? Did you hear me?
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Every single day? That's because I care about my appearance,
and i'd be looking at a little fly sometimes. I
haven't lost it yet. I hope to never lose it.
But you will never catch me dressing and appropriate.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Never. You have to have self respect.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
If you don't, people will look at you and automatically
assume things about you. Just like I said, when I
see someone, but I'm looking a different way than the
average person, because I've dealt with people all of my life,
basically but professionally the majority of my life, and I
(07:21):
know what the catalyst is in the lives of many people.
It's that mindset. It's that unhealed heart and that unhealed mind.
It's immaturity, lack of growth, lack of self respect. It's
(07:48):
no way, no way, no way you respect yourself, and
you walk out that door with all of your boots
hanging out or your shorts up your butt are they
so tight you barely walk? You can present yourself very central,
(08:11):
and you can look very sexy, which clothes on. You
don't have to go out looking like that, because I
don't care if you built like a.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Brickhouse or whatever. It's not cute.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
And if you have on a mini skirt, that's pushing it.
But that looks better than these booty shorts.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
They got to go.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
No respect, there's no way you have respect for yourself.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
You just think it's cute and you want to be seen.
You want to be seen.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
You know you can say now, I don't want nobody
to see me. I'm dressing for myself. No, you want
to be seen, and believe me, you are, and it's
not in the way you want.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
No man want a woman looking like that, not a
mature man.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Now, immature man will get you and get out of
you what he can on what he's trying to get.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
But he don't want you like that.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
If you present yourself like that, he sure will take
it whatever he can. Have some respect for yourself, learn
to love yourself and be an individual.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Who is that woman? Who have pride in your appearance.
I'm not saying be.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
You know, in a narcissistic way or or an egotistical way.
I'm saying, be proud of how you represent, how you
present yourself. It's like a celebrity. I'm not mentioning the name,
but you may know who it is when you hear
what I'm gonna say. Who showed up I think in
(10:22):
her child's graduation with DC through clothes.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
No, no, I don't know you. I don't care who
you are. I don't know you. Now, don't get away
from me.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Mm hmm. I would have walked the other way. But
see they used to that, and that's horrible. You dressed
like that in front of your child, your grown child.
No self respect. It's not cute, it's no self respect.
(10:56):
Shame on you mothers, Shame on you. Shame on you.
Women who go to church with these sea through clothes
on and these revealing clothes in these kite clothes. Shame
on you. Shame on you.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Gospel singers who dressed like that because you don't have
no God in you. It's all performance.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Yeah, get mad. I want you to I want you
to get mad and contact me so I can tell
you about yourself, and it'll be in love, not to
hurt you. I'm telling you how you look, and you
can try to be cute as you want to be.
(11:44):
You have no self respect, you don't you don't love yourself.
I don't care if you are a billionaire, then you
look like that. You have no self respect, and you
don't love yourself. There's no way on earth that you do.
And you present yourself like that. And then some of
(12:09):
you you go out there with these tight clothes on.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Who are you trying to impress? Or they hanging down
your butt or around your knees. Come on, now, come on.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
That's not attracting. Well, it is to some women, but
they are immature, just like him. I've told you you're
always dealing with either the immature or the mature.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
They are not one and the same, not one in
the same.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Believe what you want, but they are not one in
the same. And I know some people listening and they're like,
who do.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
I think I am? I am who I am, And
I'm not trying to be no one else.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
I'm telling you in love, I'm not trying to be
hypocritical or trying to be a person who who is
spewing out negativity.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
No, because I'm telling the truth.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
What I saw today multiple times was horrible, absolutely horrible.
It doesn't matter if the woman is beautiful, It does
not matter if she alright looking or whatever. None of
it constitutes.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
To walk out of your house looking like that and then,
like I say, some of you have your child with you. Shame, shame, shame,
shame on you.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
That's why the kids grow up to be horrible adults
because of what they learn at home.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Do better, especially you women going to church. Do better.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
If you can't find nothing more appropriate to where, go
to good Will, go somewhere. Stop dressing inappropriate because it
shows that you lack.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Self respect.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Nobody may have never told you, you may never heard
of them before, but I'm telling you today you don't
love yourself and you lack self respect.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
You have some inner issues.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
That need to be resolved, because there's no way you
love yourself leaving home looking like that.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
I was told appalled today. I was like, what are
you serious? Couldn't believe some of the stuff I saw today.
I was like, what is going on? I mean, was
it a memo put out today or something.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
It was horrible, horrible. People may as well had on panties.
And I'm not even exaggerating they may as well had
on panties. That's how short throw a short tour and
I saw multiple I saw them at the grocery store.
(15:41):
I saw them, saw them at the mall. Horror them all,
no self respect, inappropriate.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
Yeah, I said it. Please reach out to me so
we can have a talk about it. And like I said,
I'm not trying to hurt anyone's feeling. I'm not trying
to offend, but we all know what it's the truth.
Oh ouch, it hurts.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
It don't hurt when it don't apply, but when it applies,
it hurts. Do better, do better? And you know what
gets me, some people think because they're so pretty, and
people think they're this and that, because they have money
(16:36):
and this and that, you still look just like the
brokenst person. You still look exactly like the brokenst person.
Trust and believe That's all I'm saying because I'm tired
of talking about it. Women do better, Men do better?
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Much? Hello, please share in every episode the same And
I hope I really really really do Did you do it?
Thank on it,
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