Stand-Up Choices: Comedy, Divorce and Fatherhood

After divorce, which stand-up choices really count?

This week I’m joined by comedian, writer, and director Jay Larson, who’s been making audiences laugh for 24 years. When his marriage ended right before the pandemic, Jay made intentional choices to give his kids a different story than the one he grew up with after his parents’ divorce. His story is honest, funny, and so relatable.

As you listen, I invite you to think about your own stand-up choices. Which ones have been hard won? Which ones are you rethinking? Jay’s experience just might mirror something in your own life — whether it’s how you talk about your ex, what you choose to share (or not share) about your divorce, or simply the words you use to describe your life now.

This conversation kept evolving well beyond the questions I asked. Jay talks about the impact of words, what it means to stand up for your kids and your values, and the everyday choices that shape who we are after divorce. It’s funny, vulnerable, and so relatable.

Find out more about Jay:

Website: jaylarsoncomedy.com

Instagram: @jaylarsoncomedy

Twitter/X: @jaylarsoncomedy

Facebook: Jay Larson Comedy

YouTube: Jay Larson Comedy

Podcast: He also co-hosted The CrabFeast and has guested on many comedy podcasts.

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Over two days you’ll hear from:

Bree Sullivan-Howell on crushing divorce and taking back your power

Phil Weiss on gaining financial clarity and confidence

Aurisha Smolarski, LMFT on creating a holiday game plan with more ease

Riana Malia on moving from stuck to starting over

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