September 22, 2025 • 27 mins
#87: @CherCosenza's 6 year old daughter Porsha is already calling the shots when it comes to getting her ears pierced and couture for school- and Cher is fine with it...but how far is too far and how quickly should you allow your child to wear make up...Skeery throws the caution flag. Watch the full episode and subscribe on Cher's youtube channel @chercosenza
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From friendships to relationships, to fashion and entertainment. It's your
one stop high speed pop culture podcast. This is Speaking
Volumes with Share and Scary.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
That's right, it is Speaking Volumes episode eighty seven.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Is that right? Geez, oh my god.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
Feels like it should be so much more.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Let's share, I'm Scary. Welcome to Speaking.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Volumes, the Speaking Volumes Podcast. Scary, Yes, yes, Share.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Do you know why it feels like so much more?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Why is that?
Speaker 4 (00:34):
It's?
Speaker 5 (00:35):
Technically it has been?
Speaker 4 (00:36):
You know what? I love the fact when our previous
podcast fans write in and say how much they love
that we are still going strong because we had such
a cool fan.
Speaker 5 (00:49):
Base from our off airheads. Do you remember that?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
I sure do.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
I remember the off air show when we used to
do that together with the Jersey Kid and Bald Freak Ronnie.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Oh yeah, and you know what, I found some really
cool videos of us being in studio.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
Those were some good days.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Man.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
We would come in, I'd come into the Boys clubhouse
and I'd like, try to clean you people up.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Yeah, you'd try to whip us into shape.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
And then some days you would, you know, dress all
provocatively and remember those days pre child in.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Second, I would dress provocatavely, but there was a theme.
I mean I came in in a little Santa out.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
I know, I know, Mary, Chris, and you're free to
dress however you want. You know, everybody could, you know,
whatever speaks to you.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
But my guy in your.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Old building where iheartwise and how you guys used to
be in that building, there was so many people walking
in and out. I mean, it was not a shock
to see somebody coming in in any time.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
That's true. That's true.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
Is it more corporate now in your new place?
Speaker 3 (01:47):
It could be at times.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
I will say though, the morning that the Radio City
Rockets came in, it was one of our first days
in the building. Yeah, and they were all dressed in
there radio City Rocket attire in the middle of like
you know, October because they were promoting the show. But
they were looked they were like they were showtime ready.
(02:11):
So the office building across the way from us saw this,
and we looked up and we saw them staring at
us because and they were like, what the hell is
going on in.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
That office building? Because it's not because the buildings.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Are so close together here everyone's looking at each other's business.
But nine percent of the buildings in corporate Midtown are
like people wearing you know these you know, fuzzy vests
and they're you know, long sleeve button down underneath it,
and they're wearing their you know, their khaki pants.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
It was like, or a lot of people are in suits,
but people.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Are in like proper attire, and all of a sudden,
they see this one office building across the way with
like scantily clad women.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Not too much.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I mean, it's a family it's a family show, but
they see the suits.
Speaker 5 (03:02):
Scary for sure.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
They're definitely not in suite you know what.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Neither when I used to coming.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Right shivery Santa suits. So yeah, they couldn't stop staring
at us. I'm like, yeah, you and the two jobs
that we have.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
No wait, hold on though, I gotta go back for
a second.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
I found a clip the other day from one of
the shows and it was pretty it was actually pretty funny.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
I'm gonna have to post it.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
But you and I were in studio and for some reason,
Greg teas to never like show up on certain times
we were supposed to record, and one was like he
just ran out of the building, and you were like,
what the hell?
Speaker 5 (03:40):
And another time he.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Was sick, but we couldn't tell if he was faking it,
and it's literally us on the phone with him, and
like it's it's the funniest video to go back to
because you just see the chaos in the four of
us actually coming together and trying to like just live
our lives and put together the show that we were doing,
and how organic it was, and it just made it
(04:02):
so great. That that's why I love how real we
took everything forward and we're here now, and that's why
it just feels like so many more episodes in eighty seven.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Yeah, it's been a lot more. A lot more.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Yeah, this has been a lot more. It was a
lot more. I think we had a cake on what
was it on the other show? Our one hundredth or
two hundredth episode.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
I don't even go on one hundredth episode.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Oh my god. It was just awesome.
Speaker 5 (04:23):
It was great.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
But I didn't tell you. I can't believe it's mid September.
September came in so hot. I mean it was like,
I guess for me, all of a sudden, scary. It's
a totally different thing, right, It's like back to school.
I have a school kid like she she's a first
grade and it was like, oh my god. I mean, listen,
(04:45):
she's still like the baby of the group, right, but
she was a kindergartener and it was like this tiptoe thing.
And now it's like first grade and I'm like, oh
my god, this stuff is real. Like I, I.
Speaker 5 (04:55):
Like have a lot to do.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
So I couldn't believe how fast September came in and
I is just so disappointed.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
I was still in VAK mode. I was like, oh
my god, I.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Was in VAK mode. We got back to school coming in.
We had fashion Week in the city coming in. I
don't know if you've seen any of my posts, but
I got to give a shout out to some very
cool new friends that we have at Rookie Kids and
give them a big plug. They just had their fashion
week show in the city and Rookie Kids we got
Fran who is ball or boss and she is just
(05:25):
like she's the most amazing thing.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
And she has people like Megan on her team. The
whole team is amazing.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
But I want you guys to know everyone's always asking
me about my kids because I always make a statement
that school is our fashion show and my kids are
rookie kids, and that is the hidid brands.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
And you're talking.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Nike, La Costa, Holo, Ralph Lauren for kids, Abrah Crombie kids.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
They know how to dress my kids.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Wait a second, they don't rub it in other children's faces.
That that's it.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
No, no, no, no no no, that you can't do that.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
I've got rubbing it anything and anyone's faith.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Is this a competition here? But listen, some people are
trying to live. They live in paycheck to paycheck. They're
trying to make ends meet.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Sales on the clothes.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I get it, but I'm sure not all the parents
dress their kids in Lacoste and whatever.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Whatever that was. What did you say?
Speaker 5 (06:19):
A second?
Speaker 4 (06:21):
The point is, The point is is that people ask
me all the time, Hey share, what do you do
for this?
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Hey share? What's Porscha doing for this? Hey share? What
are you doing for the baby? For this?
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Like what you're using Huggies?
Speaker 5 (06:33):
What are you using? Yes, by the way, Huggies.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
You know, I gotta I gotta be real here and
just say when it comes to brands, these guys know
what they're doing. Those brands to me, okay, look the
best they are the best. Okay, when you ask me
when I dressed my kids in there, you go, So
shout out to rookie kids.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Okay, shout out to you guys. Now, now what about Wow?
You know, I feel like you're asking your kids to
grow up way too quickly because you're putting all these
fashions and these brands on them and like, for instance, accessories.
Oh yeah, what at what age did Portia get her
ears pierced?
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Well, I'm glad you asked this because I was just
going to say, we hit all these milestones this summer,
and my little girl decided that she wanted to have
a mommy and me like facial day, which I was like, really,
And she wants to do tutorials on makeup.
Speaker 5 (07:27):
I'm like, wait what huh no, no, no, no, spin
it back?
Speaker 3 (07:31):
How back to see? This is no ok She's six
years old.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
We got to take it. We got to take it
back a little bit.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
And she says to me.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Mommy, I'm ready. I'm like, you're ready for what?
Speaker 4 (07:44):
And she's like, and didn't she come on the podcast
the last time and show you her ear rings?
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (07:49):
She did, didn't she?
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Right?
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Guys?
Speaker 4 (07:51):
Wasn't she on the last podcast, and she said, Uncle Scary,
go the ears pierce. She had just gotten her ears pierced. Okay,
so this is just you know, two or three weeks ago,
she got her ears pierced. She got her ears pierced.
And I want to give everyone something that I learned.
So we all have these ideas for our kids. And
just like Scary said, are you pushing them to grow
(08:11):
up too fast because you're talking brands.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
And this and that. No, it's actually the opposite now.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
And the crazy thing is is based on the world
today and what they see, whether you're letting them just
watch Nickelodeon or they are on a tablet for a
little while and that's like a parent tablet like and
you're monitoring and whatever. It is the things they're seeing, Okay,
even with this K pop thing right now, the k
pop trend right now, the clothes, the atmosphere.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
The music.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
That was going to be my best question.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
Yeah, well wait, Poorscha comes to me and actually said
to me something that now I realize it's it's stunned
me for a second. She says to me, Mommy, I'm
ready and I will I will tell you guys right now,
we were in a place that actually did earpiece piercing
when this.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
Happened, and I was not in there for that at all.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
We were going to buy like hand sanitizers and makeup
and some other stuff.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
I was so stunned.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
But then I stopped myself and I said, as a mom,
should I not let her do this right now? Like,
I don't know if it's going to be successful. A
lot of places you go to they have two people
doing it at the same time. This place was short
staffed at the time, so they could only do one
at a time, which means you have to wait for
the other. There was a lot of things. As a
mom protecting her, I was like, I don't know if
(09:30):
you're ready. I don't know if I want you to
get this yet. Maybe we wait till your next birthday.
We'll do it as a special thing.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
See this is this is the response I thought I
was going to be hearing from you, because what's going
through Because you got to hit you gotta hit the
brakes at some point because otherwise you're gonna lose them
before and you know they grew up so fast, right, yeah,
and and so let me so wait.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
So I got to finish this because you're gonna love this.
So I actually had to palm down for a minute,
yeah and say to myself, wait a second, there's one
thing I'm missing. If she's saying she's ready, do I
let her feel that independence that actually do it? And
you know scary. I was so torn on whether that
(10:14):
was the time to do that or not and give
her that independence, and I think I made the absolute
best choice to go, you know what, Let her feel brave,
let her see that she can do this, let her
have the confidence to know that she told Mommy that
she was ready and that I believed in her.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
Well, although I do see that as a positive, sometimes
they'll say they're.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
Ready for something and they're not.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
And so wait, yeah, if you had your way, when
would she have gotten her ears pierced?
Speaker 5 (10:46):
When I planned it?
Speaker 3 (10:47):
I definitely like her twelfth birthday or is that too late? No?
Speaker 4 (10:51):
No, it's not an age thing. I think it was
more of a preparation thing. I think for me, I
thought that she was going to get scared after they
did one, and I thought I was going to take
her to a jeweler that I had scheduled, somebody that
I knew their cleanliness, somebody that I knew their atmosphere
the way they did it, I thought maybe I was
going to make it a special day, you know, make
(11:13):
it a whole thing, because to me, that builds up
like some type of thing for it, maybe her next birthday.
But it wasn't that I felt the age wasn't right.
It was more the fact that I didn't know if
it was right because it was spontaneous. And that's where
I'm sharing with the other moms. Sometimes when they come
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to us and they're saying that, it's almost like, oh wow,
they're trying to show us that they actually they feel.
Speaker 5 (11:42):
A confidence in them. So do we let them explore that?
Speaker 4 (11:44):
You know?
Speaker 5 (11:45):
And it's kind of meaningful.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
That it is meaningful.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
But what are you going to do when she reaches
the next step and says, mom, I'm ready to wear
makeup to school, what are you going to tell her?
Speaker 5 (11:55):
Don't? No, yeah, because that's got age limits.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Oh does it now? So don't your piercings? Don't? So
what's the age? What? What?
Speaker 2 (12:04):
What is the earliest that you'd be able to send
her to school wearing lipstick?
Speaker 4 (12:09):
Let's say, oh, man, but that's scary, scary, you know,
why that's hard because just now she she went into
Saphora with me the other day.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
See, that's what I'm saying. She's going so quickly. What
are you doing?
Speaker 5 (12:20):
It's going way too question.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
But you're allowing this.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
You're in charge, You're the mommy. And I know that
she has feelings and she says, mom, I'm ready. But
you just can't take her at word. You've got to
You've got to step in and be a parent, and
you got to tell her no. You gotta say no.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
You didn't wait a second though.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
There's there's levels though. Did I let her get an
adult make up?
Speaker 5 (12:41):
No?
Speaker 4 (12:41):
Did I get a lip bomb that was clear?
Speaker 5 (12:44):
And I said, you know what, you could use this sometimes?
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Yeah, so she could go to the motion of putting
on clear lipstick.
Speaker 5 (12:52):
I bought her kids make up set.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Okay, that's practice for the real world.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
When it's enough with poor shot and when do I
actually allow this stuff to happen with makeup and allow
her to actually buy these things? Is going to be
much later on as far as being like out and
going to school and stuff. Absolutely, she's a kid, she's
a baby.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Well, that's what I'm saying. That's been the theme of
this entire time. But obviously there are some rules that
apply and others that don't. Like your piercings are okay early, right.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
Yeah, there's some rules that apply in something. But I mean,
let's not be crazy.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
What about the fact that you have a son and
a daughter now and now, how does the dynamic change
when your son wants to do certain things and reach
certain milestones. Now I'm not saying he's going to be
asking to put on makeup, so that's a bad example,
but there's got to be something that you would allow
him to do earlier, right then, Porsche, because he's a boy.
Speaker 5 (13:50):
Yeah, I don't know about this yet. I'm not there yet,
so you.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Have to I'm just saying this. There's gonna be there's
gonna be something.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
I'm sure.
Speaker 5 (13:57):
Oh, there's gonna be something. I can't wait.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
Godfather. Maybe I'll reach out to his godfather and ask, hey, godfather, scary,
what do you think about the fact that little Enzo
wants to do this?
Speaker 5 (14:08):
Maybe that's where no, no.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
I didn't sign up. I don't sign up a parenting.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
When I said that I would be the godfather of
your child, I never this was not in the contract.
Speaker 4 (14:21):
No, everybody's agreeing with me, because listen, at some point
I might just turn to you, but listen, at the
end of the day, Portie is still only six years old.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (14:29):
The bottom line is is that I love the takeaway
for mom though and dad's if your child is that
compelled to try to feel confident and do.
Speaker 5 (14:38):
Something, if it is within reason.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
I never saw the delight on her face to be
able to say to everybody that I was ready.
Speaker 5 (14:48):
I was ready.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
The same thing as swimming and going underwater this summer
and jumping in off a diving board. She didn't even
like water in her eyes in May. By the end
of the summer, she was just like, I'm gonna do it, Mommy,
I'm gonna jump off a diving board.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Like.
Speaker 4 (15:02):
I was enthrilled with her jumping. I was like, you
don't need to jump off a diving board. John. I
was like, you're good. You know you're swimming, you just started.
It's all good. But then you gotta go, Okay, I'm
in the pool. She's good.
Speaker 5 (15:14):
Let her do it, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Yeah, certain times you let them go that next step.
Others explore yeah, other others yeah, But with with with
restrictions of course.
Speaker 4 (15:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:27):
Let me tell you something.
Speaker 4 (15:28):
My daughter's singing this K pop stuff like it's going
out of style. Yeah, I mean I got I got
golden everywhere hunter x oh you have no idea, no idea.
We had cute little costumes picked out for Halloween and
all of a sudden, she's like, so bommy that purple thing.
I'm like, oh wow, So it's very it's very quick.
(15:50):
How quick they grow up? And I'm I'm kind of going, no, wait,
there's plenty of time for this, but we're gonna have
to see what happens. But I will tell you I
want to go back to the parents for a second
because I had a little something I wanted to share
with everybody. And I might throw this up as a
separate share nose, but I do want to give this
to you.
Speaker 5 (16:08):
Guys.
Speaker 4 (16:09):
We always scary have talked about school what I call
what I call the germ now because obviously I literally
am nasily because my children went back to my.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
Child big Petri dish.
Speaker 4 (16:20):
I can't I don't even understand.
Speaker 5 (16:22):
I didn't know this.
Speaker 4 (16:23):
Again, I'm a newbie, didn't know the school thing. It
is like germ freaking Central. I feel I have my
computer up on a tissue box right now. That's how
pathetic this is, because literally she went back to school and.
Speaker 3 (16:37):
I'm just like, yeah, they carry it, they carry it
and bring it home.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
So here's a share nose for you, guys, Mama's dads.
Speaker 5 (16:47):
I love you.
Speaker 4 (16:48):
The back to.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
School stuff is so much fun to see.
Speaker 4 (16:51):
And yes, I know you're gonna tell me you hid
your accounts and things are private, and oh, only Aunt
Betsy sees my soul shillan, that's not true.
Speaker 5 (17:02):
Let me just tell you guys something right now.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
I love the love because I'm right there with you.
I got my fifty thousand photos of her on her
first day. I love the signs, I love everything about it.
But my head is spinning when I see those boards
that say miss h McCullough at such and such elementary school.
And my daughter loves the color blue and her favorite
(17:26):
toy is Elsa. But you aren't handing handing somebody a
gift to steal your child. You aren't literally exposing them
to people that you do not want to expose them to.
You must you must guard them. There is no one
that's going to guard them better than you and you
don't mean to.
Speaker 5 (17:44):
Not guard them.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
But let me tell you, you are giving some very
bad people way too much information to twist and turn
it and go right to where your kids are and
possibly pray on them.
Speaker 3 (17:58):
You me a favorite.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
Stop.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Please do write something else in it.
Speaker 5 (18:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (18:04):
Write the one for you, for your for your phone,
Write it the way you want so you have that
memory of that one shot. Do not post that on
social It's really giving people too much information about your
precious baby.
Speaker 3 (18:19):
Very true. The same reason why uh.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
Similarly, when you are in your car, you know how
sometimes you could put you could put in a preset
for work and for home.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
Oh, the home preset's a bad one.
Speaker 3 (18:35):
Don't don't put home.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
Don't write the preset of of what your dress is,
because if God forbid, your car gets stolen, you could
open up the navigation and now you have the address
of your house.
Speaker 5 (18:48):
Dary that happens.
Speaker 4 (18:52):
That is some freaky stuff, man, And that is a
very good point. You know what, I think we're gonna
We're gonna put together a couple of more in the audience.
And again, guys, I am I'm on the same page
with you.
Speaker 5 (19:03):
I'm on the same.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
Page with like the love and the desire and oh
my god, that moment they're going out to that day
of school and you're so cozy and it's exciting. Yeah,
but there is a bad person on every corner waiting
for that information and they.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Will find it pretty creepy.
Speaker 4 (19:21):
They will get it, so I will just say it.
Speaker 5 (19:24):
Let's be careful, okay, all right.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Now I have something really quickly. I know, before we
before we run, I know we came on to us
to catch up. Yeah, what's that?
Speaker 5 (19:35):
I want to know one.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
Thing because we haven't been on in a couple of
weeks because Scary went on vacation.
Speaker 5 (19:40):
I just got to ask a question.
Speaker 4 (19:42):
When you decide to.
Speaker 5 (19:43):
Go on a vacation, Yes, how do you know where
you want to go next?
Speaker 4 (19:49):
Is there something that hits you because you have recently
explored bigger Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
I promised myself several years ago, three four years ago
at this point, that I would try and visit new
places and not not go to the same five spots
that I'm comfortable with. I want to go out of
my comfort zone. So recently I visited Sicily I've been,
which was where they film they filmed that the the
Wow the season of white Lotus taraminea Sicily and I
(20:19):
spent some time in Sanchope in the south of France.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
Love that. That was gorgeous, great time, it's beautiful. We
don't go east as often as we should. We should
go to Europe.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
There's a lot going on over there, and it's easy
to take a you know, to fly down to the
Caribbean or Florida.
Speaker 4 (20:36):
Is there anything scary that like hits you as to
where you actually want to go? Like, is there something
that like makes you say, like, Hey, the next break
I get, I'm going here.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
I like warm places and TikTok usually guides me. I
see all the cool Yeah, I go take a look
on TikTok to see who's going where and places that
look awesome, places that are all written down the places
that I want to visit.
Speaker 5 (21:03):
So so guides you on where you want to go.
Speaker 4 (21:07):
Yeah, it's interesting. So I just want to share this
with everybody. In twenty twenty five, little share nos tidbit
here too. Travel highlights have been including a rise in
experimental and sustainable travel. So the destinations have been switching
up a lot on where people want to go and
what they want to see. The focus has been on
(21:29):
responsible tourism for the greater desire to immerse yourself in
a certain type of stay or feel like something that
like it's almost like it's a little deeper. So I
don't know about you, scary, but I'm almost ready for
another vacation and I'm trying to figure out where I'm
going to go.
Speaker 5 (21:49):
But I need to get a vacation spot.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
So Japan. I hear great things about Japan. Oh yeah.
Interesting on the side.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
Of the world share nos is looking for some right.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
I know we have to run out of here very soon,
but I have an idea. I have a question for you, Okay.
I went to a clothing store to pick up something
at the last minute. Store closes at eight pm. I
walked into seven forty five pm. By the way, I
brought this to Brody and the Brooklyn Boys. I brought
it to the Big Show on it with Elvis, and
I've yet to find somebody on my side. So I'm
(22:22):
hoping that you've be my one ally here. That's why
I'm bringing it up to you. At seven forty five
pm and I'm walking into a store. Yeah, and the
store closed at eight and I shopped for a couple
pairs of jeans. Now seven to fifty five? Do I
get to go try those jeans on before I leave
the store?
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Security comes over to me and says, sir, we're closing
in five minutes. Go to the register, and I'm like, well,
I have to try these on first.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
No, it's too late. We're closed.
Speaker 2 (22:51):
I'm like, huh, it's seven fifty five. I still have
five minutes. And by the way, there are twenty other
people in the store, all checking out more people in
the store. They're like twenty people in the store. So
so you knew that there were people. You knew that
even if I got on the end of that line,
it was.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
Wait, I ask the question here because so far you're
not in the wrong at all.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
All Right, the question is do I get to try
on those jeans or I mean I've already I've already
gone through half the shopping process.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
I just have to see if they fit so I can.
Speaker 4 (23:19):
Is this a question with people, because can I tell
you something?
Speaker 3 (23:22):
Oh no, they got angry. They wouldn't let me. They
wouldn't let me try this stuff.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
Oh no, no, I don't know what the big show
and brody and everybody else thought about your opinion on
this thousand percent, My ass would be walking into that
dressing room and trying them on or else I'm not
giving you my money.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Well that's obvious, but but they would rather lose.
Speaker 3 (23:41):
So no, they would rather lose. What they were trying
to say is time's up.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Put the clothes down and walk out, or go to
the register and wring them up, but no time to
try on, try them on to see if they actually fit.
Speaker 4 (23:52):
So what what did you do?
Speaker 3 (23:54):
Well?
Speaker 2 (23:55):
I had it. I put them down because I couldn't.
And there was one jacket that I had that I
just tried on right there in front of the mirror,
and I took the jacket.
Speaker 5 (24:04):
And I don't like being I don't like being rushed
when I shop.
Speaker 3 (24:07):
Well I know, neither do I.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
But people people were telling me left and right that
it was a courtesy thing, that I should have been
more courteous, and I should have gotten in there earlier,
and I should have tried them on earlier. But I'm like, well,
well eight o'clock is eight o'clock. It's still seven to
fifty five. I still have a chance to try these
damn jeans. On and make the purchase.
Speaker 4 (24:25):
So if seven fifty five was eight o'clock, then people,
let's stop work at eight o'clock. Should have clopped out
at seven fifty five, but they didn't. You know why
the seven to fifty five isn't eight o'clock. Eight o'clock's
eight o'clock.
Speaker 5 (24:35):
And usually, I.
Speaker 4 (24:36):
Thought to the stores that I've been involved with, if
you're online and people are in the store, they're not
going to turn away those people. There's no way everybody
got done by eight o'clock. Well, personally, you know why,
if you want my business, you're gonna let me go
into the dressing room.
Speaker 5 (24:49):
You're gonna stay open an extra five minutes.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
Well, thank you. I wish I had you on my side.
You're the only out I wish I had you.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Then I needed need to be my defense lawyer because
everyone else said that.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
People call me and consider it. That's rude. These people
have lives, they want to be go home with their family.
It's time.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
I said, no, No, if you're going to close, if you're
going to close, you close the door. You lock the
door from the outside, so no new people will come
in people in right.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
That's what that means. To me the store. Yes, let
them finish doing the transaction, let them fall.
Speaker 5 (25:18):
Happy with this at all? Who is this store?
Speaker 3 (25:21):
Zara? Is it Zara in Dublin, Ireland? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Where I got stuck overnight? That but I got stuck.
That's a whole other podcast episode.
Speaker 4 (25:30):
You weren't in the US. No, okay, Wait, that's probably
part of the problem. There's probably a different understanding and
theory behind this.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
Then then we don't know.
Speaker 4 (25:40):
Scary because if that was the Zara in like Manhattan,
and they did that to you, I think they were
absolutely crazy. I think I might call them right now
and say to them, you can I ask you a
question about your policy?
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Apparently all that means everything needs to be wound up
by eight o'clock.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
If it's closed to.
Speaker 2 (25:58):
Eight, everything needs to be done and you need to
be out the door at eight o'clock.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
Do you think Do you think you were inconsiderate?
Speaker 3 (26:05):
No? I didn't think that was well, thank you, I
appreciate you.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
You weren't in considered. Did you get the clothes?
Speaker 2 (26:11):
No, we left them there, so did my girlfriend. She
had clothes too to try on. We just dropped them
right there. Bought a couple of yeah, we bought a
couple of jackets and we walked out. She had stuff
to try on as well.
Speaker 5 (26:23):
Oh no, no, no, no no, that would have been
so passed. I would have been passed.
Speaker 4 (26:26):
You know what, You and Robin deserved to shop as
long as you want to. You were in the store
plenty of time.
Speaker 5 (26:32):
Yes, no, no, no no.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
We're at a time right now. I love you, Thank you,
I knew I liked you. This has been speaking volumes.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
If you want to comment on any of this, go
to shares page on Instagram and dm her or on
her Facebook page at share nos uh and leave it,
leave us a comment.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
Thank you, all right, thanks for thanks for listening and.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
Watchingship, Relationships, Fashion and Entertainment. It's you one stop high
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Speaker 3 (27:03):
This is speaking volumes with Share and Scary
From friendships to relationships, to fashion and entertainment. It's your
one stop high speed pop culture podcast. This is Speaking
Volumes with Share and Scary.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
That's right, it is Speaking Volumes episode eighty seven.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Is that right? Geez, oh my god.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
Feels like it should be so much more.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Let's share, I'm Scary. Welcome to Speaking.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Volumes, the Speaking Volumes Podcast. Scary, Yes, yes, Share.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Do you know why it feels like so much more?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Why is that?
Speaker 4 (00:34):
It's?
Speaker 5 (00:35):
Technically it has been?
Speaker 4 (00:36):
You know what? I love the fact when our previous
podcast fans write in and say how much they love
that we are still going strong because we had such
a cool fan.
Speaker 5 (00:49):
Base from our off airheads. Do you remember that?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
I sure do.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
I remember the off air show when we used to
do that together with the Jersey Kid and Bald Freak Ronnie.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Oh yeah, and you know what, I found some really
cool videos of us being in studio.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
Those were some good days.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Man.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
We would come in, I'd come into the Boys clubhouse
and I'd like, try to clean you people up.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Yeah, you'd try to whip us into shape.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
And then some days you would, you know, dress all
provocatively and remember those days pre child in.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Second, I would dress provocatavely, but there was a theme.
I mean I came in in a little Santa out.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
I know, I know, Mary, Chris, and you're free to
dress however you want. You know, everybody could, you know,
whatever speaks to you.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
But my guy in your.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Old building where iheartwise and how you guys used to
be in that building, there was so many people walking
in and out. I mean, it was not a shock
to see somebody coming in in any time.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
That's true. That's true.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
Is it more corporate now in your new place?
Speaker 3 (01:47):
It could be at times.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
I will say though, the morning that the Radio City
Rockets came in, it was one of our first days
in the building. Yeah, and they were all dressed in
there radio City Rocket attire in the middle of like
you know, October because they were promoting the show. But
they were looked they were like they were showtime ready.
(02:11):
So the office building across the way from us saw this,
and we looked up and we saw them staring at
us because and they were like, what the hell is
going on in.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
That office building? Because it's not because the buildings.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Are so close together here everyone's looking at each other's business.
But nine percent of the buildings in corporate Midtown are
like people wearing you know these you know, fuzzy vests
and they're you know, long sleeve button down underneath it,
and they're wearing their you know, their khaki pants.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
It was like, or a lot of people are in suits,
but people.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Are in like proper attire, and all of a sudden,
they see this one office building across the way with
like scantily clad women.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Not too much.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I mean, it's a family it's a family show, but
they see the suits.
Speaker 5 (03:02):
Scary for sure.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
They're definitely not in suite you know what.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Neither when I used to coming.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Right shivery Santa suits. So yeah, they couldn't stop staring
at us. I'm like, yeah, you and the two jobs
that we have.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
No wait, hold on though, I gotta go back for
a second.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
I found a clip the other day from one of
the shows and it was pretty it was actually pretty funny.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
I'm gonna have to post it.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
But you and I were in studio and for some reason,
Greg teas to never like show up on certain times
we were supposed to record, and one was like he
just ran out of the building, and you were like,
what the hell?
Speaker 5 (03:40):
And another time he.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Was sick, but we couldn't tell if he was faking it,
and it's literally us on the phone with him, and
like it's it's the funniest video to go back to
because you just see the chaos in the four of
us actually coming together and trying to like just live
our lives and put together the show that we were doing,
and how organic it was, and it just made it
(04:02):
so great. That that's why I love how real we
took everything forward and we're here now, and that's why
it just feels like so many more episodes in eighty seven.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Yeah, it's been a lot more. A lot more.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Yeah, this has been a lot more. It was a
lot more. I think we had a cake on what
was it on the other show? Our one hundredth or
two hundredth episode.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
I don't even go on one hundredth episode.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Oh my god. It was just awesome.
Speaker 5 (04:23):
It was great.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
But I didn't tell you. I can't believe it's mid September.
September came in so hot. I mean it was like,
I guess for me, all of a sudden, scary. It's
a totally different thing, right, It's like back to school.
I have a school kid like she she's a first
grade and it was like, oh my god. I mean, listen,
(04:45):
she's still like the baby of the group, right, but
she was a kindergartener and it was like this tiptoe thing.
And now it's like first grade and I'm like, oh
my god, this stuff is real. Like I, I.
Speaker 5 (04:55):
Like have a lot to do.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
So I couldn't believe how fast September came in and
I is just so disappointed.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
I was still in VAK mode. I was like, oh
my god, I.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Was in VAK mode. We got back to school coming in.
We had fashion Week in the city coming in. I
don't know if you've seen any of my posts, but
I got to give a shout out to some very
cool new friends that we have at Rookie Kids and
give them a big plug. They just had their fashion
week show in the city and Rookie Kids we got
Fran who is ball or boss and she is just
(05:25):
like she's the most amazing thing.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
And she has people like Megan on her team. The
whole team is amazing.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
But I want you guys to know everyone's always asking
me about my kids because I always make a statement
that school is our fashion show and my kids are
rookie kids, and that is the hidid brands.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
And you're talking.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Nike, La Costa, Holo, Ralph Lauren for kids, Abrah Crombie kids.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
They know how to dress my kids.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Wait a second, they don't rub it in other children's faces.
That that's it.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
No, no, no, no no no, that you can't do that.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
I've got rubbing it anything and anyone's faith.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Is this a competition here? But listen, some people are
trying to live. They live in paycheck to paycheck. They're
trying to make ends meet.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Sales on the clothes.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I get it, but I'm sure not all the parents
dress their kids in Lacoste and whatever.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Whatever that was. What did you say?
Speaker 5 (06:19):
A second?
Speaker 4 (06:21):
The point is, The point is is that people ask
me all the time, Hey share, what do you do
for this?
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Hey share? What's Porscha doing for this? Hey share? What
are you doing for the baby? For this?
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Like what you're using Huggies?
Speaker 5 (06:33):
What are you using? Yes, by the way, Huggies.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
You know, I gotta I gotta be real here and
just say when it comes to brands, these guys know
what they're doing. Those brands to me, okay, look the
best they are the best. Okay, when you ask me
when I dressed my kids in there, you go, So
shout out to rookie kids.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Okay, shout out to you guys. Now, now what about Wow?
You know, I feel like you're asking your kids to
grow up way too quickly because you're putting all these
fashions and these brands on them and like, for instance, accessories.
Oh yeah, what at what age did Portia get her
ears pierced?
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Well, I'm glad you asked this because I was just
going to say, we hit all these milestones this summer,
and my little girl decided that she wanted to have
a mommy and me like facial day, which I was like, really,
And she wants to do tutorials on makeup.
Speaker 5 (07:27):
I'm like, wait what huh no, no, no, no, spin
it back?
Speaker 3 (07:31):
How back to see? This is no ok She's six
years old.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
We got to take it. We got to take it
back a little bit.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
And she says to me.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Mommy, I'm ready. I'm like, you're ready for what?
Speaker 4 (07:44):
And she's like, and didn't she come on the podcast
the last time and show you her ear rings?
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (07:49):
She did, didn't she?
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Right?
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Guys?
Speaker 4 (07:51):
Wasn't she on the last podcast, and she said, Uncle Scary,
go the ears pierce. She had just gotten her ears pierced. Okay,
so this is just you know, two or three weeks ago,
she got her ears pierced. She got her ears pierced.
And I want to give everyone something that I learned.
So we all have these ideas for our kids. And
just like Scary said, are you pushing them to grow
(08:11):
up too fast because you're talking brands.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
And this and that. No, it's actually the opposite now.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
And the crazy thing is is based on the world
today and what they see, whether you're letting them just
watch Nickelodeon or they are on a tablet for a
little while and that's like a parent tablet like and
you're monitoring and whatever. It is the things they're seeing, Okay,
even with this K pop thing right now, the k
pop trend right now, the clothes, the atmosphere.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
The music.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
That was going to be my best question.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
Yeah, well wait, Poorscha comes to me and actually said
to me something that now I realize it's it's stunned
me for a second. She says to me, Mommy, I'm
ready and I will I will tell you guys right now,
we were in a place that actually did earpiece piercing
when this.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
Happened, and I was not in there for that at all.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
We were going to buy like hand sanitizers and makeup
and some other stuff.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
I was so stunned.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
But then I stopped myself and I said, as a mom,
should I not let her do this right now? Like,
I don't know if it's going to be successful. A
lot of places you go to they have two people
doing it at the same time. This place was short
staffed at the time, so they could only do one
at a time, which means you have to wait for
the other. There was a lot of things. As a
mom protecting her, I was like, I don't know if
(09:30):
you're ready. I don't know if I want you to
get this yet. Maybe we wait till your next birthday.
We'll do it as a special thing.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
See this is this is the response I thought I
was going to be hearing from you, because what's going
through Because you got to hit you gotta hit the
brakes at some point because otherwise you're gonna lose them
before and you know they grew up so fast, right, yeah,
and and so let me so wait.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
So I got to finish this because you're gonna love this.
So I actually had to palm down for a minute,
yeah and say to myself, wait a second, there's one
thing I'm missing. If she's saying she's ready, do I
let her feel that independence that actually do it? And
you know scary. I was so torn on whether that
(10:14):
was the time to do that or not and give
her that independence, and I think I made the absolute
best choice to go, you know what, Let her feel brave,
let her see that she can do this, let her
have the confidence to know that she told Mommy that
she was ready and that I believed in her.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
Well, although I do see that as a positive, sometimes
they'll say they're.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
Ready for something and they're not.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
And so wait, yeah, if you had your way, when
would she have gotten her ears pierced?
Speaker 5 (10:46):
When I planned it?
Speaker 3 (10:47):
I definitely like her twelfth birthday or is that too late? No?
Speaker 4 (10:51):
No, it's not an age thing. I think it was
more of a preparation thing. I think for me, I
thought that she was going to get scared after they
did one, and I thought I was going to take
her to a jeweler that I had scheduled, somebody that
I knew their cleanliness, somebody that I knew their atmosphere
the way they did it, I thought maybe I was
going to make it a special day, you know, make
(11:13):
it a whole thing, because to me, that builds up
like some type of thing for it, maybe her next birthday.
But it wasn't that I felt the age wasn't right.
It was more the fact that I didn't know if
it was right because it was spontaneous. And that's where
I'm sharing with the other moms. Sometimes when they come
(11:34):
to us and they're saying that, it's almost like, oh wow,
they're trying to show us that they actually they feel.
Speaker 5 (11:42):
A confidence in them. So do we let them explore that?
Speaker 4 (11:44):
You know?
Speaker 5 (11:45):
And it's kind of meaningful.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
That it is meaningful.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
But what are you going to do when she reaches
the next step and says, mom, I'm ready to wear
makeup to school, what are you going to tell her?
Speaker 5 (11:55):
Don't? No, yeah, because that's got age limits.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Oh does it now? So don't your piercings? Don't? So
what's the age? What? What?
Speaker 2 (12:04):
What is the earliest that you'd be able to send
her to school wearing lipstick?
Speaker 4 (12:09):
Let's say, oh, man, but that's scary, scary, you know,
why that's hard because just now she she went into
Saphora with me the other day.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
See, that's what I'm saying. She's going so quickly. What
are you doing?
Speaker 5 (12:20):
It's going way too question.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
But you're allowing this.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
You're in charge, You're the mommy. And I know that
she has feelings and she says, mom, I'm ready. But
you just can't take her at word. You've got to
You've got to step in and be a parent, and
you got to tell her no. You gotta say no.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
You didn't wait a second though.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
There's there's levels though. Did I let her get an
adult make up?
Speaker 5 (12:41):
No?
Speaker 4 (12:41):
Did I get a lip bomb that was clear?
Speaker 5 (12:44):
And I said, you know what, you could use this sometimes?
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Yeah, so she could go to the motion of putting
on clear lipstick.
Speaker 5 (12:52):
I bought her kids make up set.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Okay, that's practice for the real world.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
When it's enough with poor shot and when do I
actually allow this stuff to happen with makeup and allow
her to actually buy these things? Is going to be
much later on as far as being like out and
going to school and stuff. Absolutely, she's a kid, she's
a baby.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Well, that's what I'm saying. That's been the theme of
this entire time. But obviously there are some rules that
apply and others that don't. Like your piercings are okay early, right.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
Yeah, there's some rules that apply in something. But I mean,
let's not be crazy.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
What about the fact that you have a son and
a daughter now and now, how does the dynamic change
when your son wants to do certain things and reach
certain milestones. Now I'm not saying he's going to be
asking to put on makeup, so that's a bad example,
but there's got to be something that you would allow
him to do earlier, right then, Porsche, because he's a boy.
Speaker 5 (13:50):
Yeah, I don't know about this yet. I'm not there yet,
so you.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Have to I'm just saying this. There's gonna be there's
gonna be something.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
I'm sure.
Speaker 5 (13:57):
Oh, there's gonna be something. I can't wait.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
Godfather. Maybe I'll reach out to his godfather and ask, hey, godfather, scary,
what do you think about the fact that little Enzo
wants to do this?
Speaker 5 (14:08):
Maybe that's where no, no.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
I didn't sign up. I don't sign up a parenting.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
When I said that I would be the godfather of
your child, I never this was not in the contract.
Speaker 4 (14:21):
No, everybody's agreeing with me, because listen, at some point
I might just turn to you, but listen, at the
end of the day, Portie is still only six years old.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (14:29):
The bottom line is is that I love the takeaway
for mom though and dad's if your child is that
compelled to try to feel confident and do.
Speaker 5 (14:38):
Something, if it is within reason.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
I never saw the delight on her face to be
able to say to everybody that I was ready.
Speaker 5 (14:48):
I was ready.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
The same thing as swimming and going underwater this summer
and jumping in off a diving board. She didn't even
like water in her eyes in May. By the end
of the summer, she was just like, I'm gonna do it, Mommy,
I'm gonna jump off a diving board.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Like.
Speaker 4 (15:02):
I was enthrilled with her jumping. I was like, you
don't need to jump off a diving board. John. I
was like, you're good. You know you're swimming, you just started.
It's all good. But then you gotta go, Okay, I'm
in the pool. She's good.
Speaker 5 (15:14):
Let her do it, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Yeah, certain times you let them go that next step.
Others explore yeah, other others yeah, But with with with
restrictions of course.
Speaker 4 (15:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:27):
Let me tell you something.
Speaker 4 (15:28):
My daughter's singing this K pop stuff like it's going
out of style. Yeah, I mean I got I got
golden everywhere hunter x oh you have no idea, no idea.
We had cute little costumes picked out for Halloween and
all of a sudden, she's like, so bommy that purple thing.
I'm like, oh wow, So it's very it's very quick.
(15:50):
How quick they grow up? And I'm I'm kind of going, no, wait,
there's plenty of time for this, but we're gonna have
to see what happens. But I will tell you I
want to go back to the parents for a second
because I had a little something I wanted to share
with everybody. And I might throw this up as a
separate share nose, but I do want to give this
to you.
Speaker 5 (16:08):
Guys.
Speaker 4 (16:09):
We always scary have talked about school what I call
what I call the germ now because obviously I literally
am nasily because my children went back to my.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
Child big Petri dish.
Speaker 4 (16:20):
I can't I don't even understand.
Speaker 5 (16:22):
I didn't know this.
Speaker 4 (16:23):
Again, I'm a newbie, didn't know the school thing. It
is like germ freaking Central. I feel I have my
computer up on a tissue box right now. That's how
pathetic this is, because literally she went back to school and.
Speaker 3 (16:37):
I'm just like, yeah, they carry it, they carry it
and bring it home.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
So here's a share nose for you, guys, Mama's dads.
Speaker 5 (16:47):
I love you.
Speaker 4 (16:48):
The back to.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
School stuff is so much fun to see.
Speaker 4 (16:51):
And yes, I know you're gonna tell me you hid
your accounts and things are private, and oh, only Aunt
Betsy sees my soul shillan, that's not true.
Speaker 5 (17:02):
Let me just tell you guys something right now.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
I love the love because I'm right there with you.
I got my fifty thousand photos of her on her
first day. I love the signs, I love everything about it.
But my head is spinning when I see those boards
that say miss h McCullough at such and such elementary school.
And my daughter loves the color blue and her favorite
(17:26):
toy is Elsa. But you aren't handing handing somebody a
gift to steal your child. You aren't literally exposing them
to people that you do not want to expose them to.
You must you must guard them. There is no one
that's going to guard them better than you and you
don't mean to.
Speaker 5 (17:44):
Not guard them.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
But let me tell you, you are giving some very
bad people way too much information to twist and turn
it and go right to where your kids are and
possibly pray on them.
Speaker 3 (17:58):
You me a favorite.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
Stop.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Please do write something else in it.
Speaker 5 (18:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (18:04):
Write the one for you, for your for your phone,
Write it the way you want so you have that
memory of that one shot. Do not post that on
social It's really giving people too much information about your
precious baby.
Speaker 3 (18:19):
Very true. The same reason why uh.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
Similarly, when you are in your car, you know how
sometimes you could put you could put in a preset
for work and for home.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
Oh, the home preset's a bad one.
Speaker 3 (18:35):
Don't don't put home.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
Don't write the preset of of what your dress is,
because if God forbid, your car gets stolen, you could
open up the navigation and now you have the address
of your house.
Speaker 5 (18:48):
Dary that happens.
Speaker 4 (18:52):
That is some freaky stuff, man, And that is a
very good point. You know what, I think we're gonna
We're gonna put together a couple of more in the audience.
And again, guys, I am I'm on the same page
with you.
Speaker 5 (19:03):
I'm on the same.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
Page with like the love and the desire and oh
my god, that moment they're going out to that day
of school and you're so cozy and it's exciting. Yeah,
but there is a bad person on every corner waiting
for that information and they.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Will find it pretty creepy.
Speaker 4 (19:21):
They will get it, so I will just say it.
Speaker 5 (19:24):
Let's be careful, okay, all right.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Now I have something really quickly. I know, before we
before we run, I know we came on to us
to catch up. Yeah, what's that?
Speaker 5 (19:35):
I want to know one.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
Thing because we haven't been on in a couple of
weeks because Scary went on vacation.
Speaker 5 (19:40):
I just got to ask a question.
Speaker 4 (19:42):
When you decide to.
Speaker 5 (19:43):
Go on a vacation, Yes, how do you know where
you want to go next?
Speaker 4 (19:49):
Is there something that hits you because you have recently
explored bigger Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
I promised myself several years ago, three four years ago
at this point, that I would try and visit new
places and not not go to the same five spots
that I'm comfortable with. I want to go out of
my comfort zone. So recently I visited Sicily I've been,
which was where they film they filmed that the the
Wow the season of white Lotus taraminea Sicily and I
(20:19):
spent some time in Sanchope in the south of France.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
Love that. That was gorgeous, great time, it's beautiful. We
don't go east as often as we should. We should
go to Europe.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
There's a lot going on over there, and it's easy
to take a you know, to fly down to the
Caribbean or Florida.
Speaker 4 (20:36):
Is there anything scary that like hits you as to
where you actually want to go? Like, is there something
that like makes you say, like, Hey, the next break
I get, I'm going here.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
I like warm places and TikTok usually guides me. I
see all the cool Yeah, I go take a look
on TikTok to see who's going where and places that
look awesome, places that are all written down the places
that I want to visit.
Speaker 5 (21:03):
So so guides you on where you want to go.
Speaker 4 (21:07):
Yeah, it's interesting. So I just want to share this
with everybody. In twenty twenty five, little share nos tidbit
here too. Travel highlights have been including a rise in
experimental and sustainable travel. So the destinations have been switching
up a lot on where people want to go and
what they want to see. The focus has been on
(21:29):
responsible tourism for the greater desire to immerse yourself in
a certain type of stay or feel like something that
like it's almost like it's a little deeper. So I
don't know about you, scary, but I'm almost ready for
another vacation and I'm trying to figure out where I'm
going to go.
Speaker 5 (21:49):
But I need to get a vacation spot.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
So Japan. I hear great things about Japan. Oh yeah.
Interesting on the side.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
Of the world share nos is looking for some right.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
I know we have to run out of here very soon,
but I have an idea. I have a question for you, Okay.
I went to a clothing store to pick up something
at the last minute. Store closes at eight pm. I
walked into seven forty five pm. By the way, I
brought this to Brody and the Brooklyn Boys. I brought
it to the Big Show on it with Elvis, and
I've yet to find somebody on my side. So I'm
(22:22):
hoping that you've be my one ally here. That's why
I'm bringing it up to you. At seven forty five
pm and I'm walking into a store. Yeah, and the
store closed at eight and I shopped for a couple
pairs of jeans. Now seven to fifty five? Do I
get to go try those jeans on before I leave
the store?
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Security comes over to me and says, sir, we're closing
in five minutes. Go to the register, and I'm like, well,
I have to try these on first.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
No, it's too late. We're closed.
Speaker 2 (22:51):
I'm like, huh, it's seven fifty five. I still have
five minutes. And by the way, there are twenty other
people in the store, all checking out more people in
the store. They're like twenty people in the store. So
so you knew that there were people. You knew that
even if I got on the end of that line,
it was.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
Wait, I ask the question here because so far you're
not in the wrong at all.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
All Right, the question is do I get to try
on those jeans or I mean I've already I've already
gone through half the shopping process.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
I just have to see if they fit so I can.
Speaker 4 (23:19):
Is this a question with people, because can I tell
you something?
Speaker 3 (23:22):
Oh no, they got angry. They wouldn't let me. They
wouldn't let me try this stuff.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
Oh no, no, I don't know what the big show
and brody and everybody else thought about your opinion on
this thousand percent, My ass would be walking into that
dressing room and trying them on or else I'm not
giving you my money.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Well that's obvious, but but they would rather lose.
Speaker 3 (23:41):
So no, they would rather lose. What they were trying
to say is time's up.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Put the clothes down and walk out, or go to
the register and wring them up, but no time to
try on, try them on to see if they actually fit.
Speaker 4 (23:52):
So what what did you do?
Speaker 3 (23:54):
Well?
Speaker 2 (23:55):
I had it. I put them down because I couldn't.
And there was one jacket that I had that I
just tried on right there in front of the mirror,
and I took the jacket.
Speaker 5 (24:04):
And I don't like being I don't like being rushed
when I shop.
Speaker 3 (24:07):
Well I know, neither do I.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
But people people were telling me left and right that
it was a courtesy thing, that I should have been
more courteous, and I should have gotten in there earlier,
and I should have tried them on earlier. But I'm like, well,
well eight o'clock is eight o'clock. It's still seven to
fifty five. I still have a chance to try these
damn jeans. On and make the purchase.
Speaker 4 (24:25):
So if seven fifty five was eight o'clock, then people,
let's stop work at eight o'clock. Should have clopped out
at seven fifty five, but they didn't. You know why
the seven to fifty five isn't eight o'clock. Eight o'clock's
eight o'clock.
Speaker 5 (24:35):
And usually, I.
Speaker 4 (24:36):
Thought to the stores that I've been involved with, if
you're online and people are in the store, they're not
going to turn away those people. There's no way everybody
got done by eight o'clock. Well, personally, you know why,
if you want my business, you're gonna let me go
into the dressing room.
Speaker 5 (24:49):
You're gonna stay open an extra five minutes.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
Well, thank you. I wish I had you on my side.
You're the only out I wish I had you.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Then I needed need to be my defense lawyer because
everyone else said that.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
People call me and consider it. That's rude. These people
have lives, they want to be go home with their family.
It's time.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
I said, no, No, if you're going to close, if you're
going to close, you close the door. You lock the
door from the outside, so no new people will come
in people in right.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
That's what that means. To me the store. Yes, let
them finish doing the transaction, let them fall.
Speaker 5 (25:18):
Happy with this at all? Who is this store?
Speaker 3 (25:21):
Zara? Is it Zara in Dublin, Ireland? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Where I got stuck overnight? That but I got stuck.
That's a whole other podcast episode.
Speaker 4 (25:30):
You weren't in the US. No, okay, Wait, that's probably
part of the problem. There's probably a different understanding and
theory behind this.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
Then then we don't know.
Speaker 4 (25:40):
Scary because if that was the Zara in like Manhattan,
and they did that to you, I think they were
absolutely crazy. I think I might call them right now
and say to them, you can I ask you a
question about your policy?
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Apparently all that means everything needs to be wound up
by eight o'clock.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
If it's closed to.
Speaker 2 (25:58):
Eight, everything needs to be done and you need to
be out the door at eight o'clock.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
Do you think Do you think you were inconsiderate?
Speaker 3 (26:05):
No? I didn't think that was well, thank you, I
appreciate you.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
You weren't in considered. Did you get the clothes?
Speaker 2 (26:11):
No, we left them there, so did my girlfriend. She
had clothes too to try on. We just dropped them
right there. Bought a couple of yeah, we bought a
couple of jackets and we walked out. She had stuff
to try on as well.
Speaker 5 (26:23):
Oh no, no, no, no no, that would have been
so passed. I would have been passed.
Speaker 4 (26:26):
You know what, You and Robin deserved to shop as
long as you want to. You were in the store
plenty of time.
Speaker 5 (26:32):
Yes, no, no, no no.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
We're at a time right now. I love you, Thank you,
I knew I liked you. This has been speaking volumes.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
If you want to comment on any of this, go
to shares page on Instagram and dm her or on
her Facebook page at share nos uh and leave it,
leave us a comment.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
Thank you, all right, thanks for thanks for listening and.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
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