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She brings wealth and health to heraudience by tackling hot topics around substance use,
disorder, mental health and wellness.Her mission, vision and goal are
to help you heal from your pasttrauma, inspire you to transform your body,
mind and soul so you can liveyour best life. Your Board certified
psychiatric mental health doctor of Nurse,practitioner, Trauma Care Maestro, and media
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analyst, your Life Ambassador, bestselling author, ted X Talk speaker,
CEO of Pull of the Festa PsychiatricHealth in Arizona. Let's all welcome Doctor
Princess Fumy Hancock. Hello everyone,thank you so much for joining me.
For those of you who do notknow me yet, my name is doctor
Princess Fumy Hancock, a doctov NOSpractice psychiatric Docto NOS practice in Arizona,
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So a cause other people called meyour compassionate trauma care maestro to talk to
my For those who are listening tome right now, I wanted to talk
about something that is really really beingon my mind for a lot. For
some of you, you do knowme already that I treat patients from four
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years old all the way up tolike ninety nine across the lifespan in psychiatry,
and there's something that has been reallyreally shown up lately at least,
it's the pandemic with some of thepatients that I see, in particular the
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young ones. And this is myplea to parents out there, not just
those that I treat, but parentsthat are out there, that you need
to really be aware because your children. Your children are going through a whole
lot of mental health crisis. Andone thing that is coming to some of
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the children that I see, notnecessarily in my clinic, part even how
they're when I go out to speak, is the fact that a lot of
their parents leave them to their owndemise. I have a lot of children
tell me that they are in theirroom almost all day with nobody even checking
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in on them, because of coursethey're problematic, so their parents just leave
them alone in their room. Ihave some children that tell me, oh,
they go through societal idation, thatthere are times they just feel like
they need to just go into thestreets and get hit by the car or
even even almost idle. And whatdo what do I mean by almost idle?
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They go into the streets and they'resitting there and they have this wash
of energy that they need to justtake, pick up a bathroom, or
even their parents gone and shoot somebody. Yeah you heard that, shoot somebody.
And then when I asked, asyou told your parents, Oh no,
I don't want to bother them becausethey'll never believe me anyway. Okay,
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why didn't you tell your parents?Oh well, I told my parents
one time, and my parents justsaid, you've just been this boy brand.
Listen, listen, here's the deal. I know that our parents,
particularly the single words. I'm workingso hard because I was a single mother
when I got divorced with children.There were four A four an hour once
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and a four or two an lall right, two boys, and so
I think there when you hear mesay this, it's not because I don't
understand what you're going through. I'vealso been their way as even as an
adult, I girls set up andI tried to complete suiciety by taking my
car across a very as an oldbridge in New York. So I've been
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there, all right. So Iwanted to hear me, and hear me
clearly today you've got to keep aneye on your children. I am tired
of hearing from paper from children orseeing children that have been left alone because
here their mother have to walk sohard, they're working so hard, and
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so they believe, well if weconnect them to a psychiatric So that said,
it is not the psychiatrists responsibility toraise your children. I want to
book at what's going on in oursociety right now, where guns are rampat,
where things are rampat. We hada situation where you had a three
year will pick up a god andwe went into open the door while the
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dad was sleeping probably they're retired,and went into the hallway shooting. We
have a six year o the gostlesix of the teacher took it gon to
the school and shot. It istime for our parents, who also own
our responsibility as a parent. Itis time that we quit leaving that responsibility
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to other people. Yes, Iknow that you're working hard, because trust
me, people on the internet knowme as the deep freezer lady. And
what do I mean by that?When I was taking care of my four
our two year old guests worked,I was working in a deep freezer.
You're even with my master's degree,that's right. I had to see my
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children. Okay, So I amspeaking from a love from a love angle
this morning that enough of seeing ourchildren attempting suicide, enough of seeing our
children being bullied in school, enoughof seeing our children going to the streets
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and shouldn't enough of all of that? It is time that we as parents
also take responsibility with God to takeresponsibility. Okay, so that what do
you do? It is time I'mto get involved in your children, Get
involved in what they do. Getinvolved. Ask them yes. If they
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tell you, oh, I don'twant you in my room, just say
I'm sorry, but I want Iwant you in my life. Can you
come out to the living room oncea while and let's talk. Figure out
find out what's going on with yourchildren, even when they're locked up in
their room. Find out who theyare speaking to, find out what they're
up to. Parents, This isa love letter for you from somebody who
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loves you and loves Yes, youdon't know me, some of you do,
right. You know my history,you know my story, So you
know that this is not a judgmentzone. This is actually saying parents,
can we be frank. That doesn'tmean you're being blamed for what's going on.
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It's just that you need to takeresponsibility to You need to own your
part in this. You need tospend time with your children. You need
to understand what they're going through.You need if they're not in school,
put them in school for great outloud. And I know what I'm saying
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because I have some parents that it'sjust like do you even cattle? And
then I have parents that children areactually telling them I'm feeling this, and
they're not even give them to apsychiatry. They're are taking them for psychiatry
treatment. They just say, oh, you're just being this point brand,
and they leave the child alone untilsomething bad happens. This is my love
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letter. If you have not subscribedto me, please please plea space place
find me on all the platform forpodcasts as Fearless Visionary Tier Defil fear Less
Visionary tiar Desail on YouTube. Thatmy brand, the Princess of so Bobia.
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There are lots of videos out there, lots of video on my website.
Doctor Foomy f you m I psychp s y right cch DMP dot
com. Ontil next time, ONTI, next time, America, Ontil,
next time, nanger ontil next time. The world be inspired, be motivated
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and be of sentimental value. Youare powerful. You plan all your part
in taking care of your children,no matter how hard the world. These
these days, at the end ofthe day where you've done your best and
there's something happened, you can restknowing that you've done everything that you could
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do with your children. Biefe nowthank you for listening to Tear the Veil
with Doctor Fumy. We hope youhave enjoyed being a part of today's show
and that we have helped you inshining. For further information, you can
visit us at doctor Fumey, Psychd and P dot com.