Episode 210: Hairy Matters

In this episode, the team dicuss the final ending to the Kendrick/Drake beef, hairy women, Ugly Iranian, nagging, pedo activities and much more!!!

Episode Transcript

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Yeah, keV knock gonna like theway we start the show today. You're
not gonna like this at all.But let's start the show up because I'm
excited about this episode because it's agood episode right now. Yeah, must
be niggas free. Look, youain't got no space, nigga, I'll
be walking on your ass right Yeah, niggas trying to see the streaking options.

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I'm fin the pass on this body. I'm John stocked in. Uh
huh? You asking not to buyable? With God watching? Yeah,
gotta pop out, got him,walk him down, bitch a hold on
him next door. Let's go.Oh safe, calf, This nigga says

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safe your save Drake is crazy.Let's get right into the show. What's
going on? Everybody doing today?Oh? Man, man lasting highly flavored?
What's good with you? Boy?I am doing great? Life is
great. Went to a chiro practicetoday, okay, and man, he
realigned me. And as he afterhe re aligned me, I thought popped

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in my head. I said,when my son gets older, he should
be he should become a doctor.And what kind of doctor would he bet?
Because his name is Kyro, wouldn'tthat be dope? Cairo? Cairo
son, that's it, and that'sactually kind of fired. Nigga. You

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should get a politzer for that.This nigga said, Yo, that's funny.
You should get a politicer for that. This nigga is m A D
son. This nigga opened his mouth. Give him a grammy all, Yo,
we gotta get into the show.Y'all. Welcome back to episode two
hundred and ten of the Old JokesOn Podcast. I'm your host, Will
Mills aka God damn It a kA king dirtbag sitting here next to my

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co host. Y'all know, I'mthe one and only Full seven Cav a
k A Kevin Dean a k Athe motherfucker Cassimmi Marada. The kids can't
forget Orlando's Calisi. Now, Iwas gonna get there a K A O
V O cav. You know whatI'm saying. One time Owls in the

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building on owls. My nigga gonnacome back, dog yo, And that
had been crazy. He came inhere the owl owl costume war. Yeah,
what's up? Owl Man? Bigowls? My nigga gonna get y'all
big Owls. Also joining us todayis my beautiful co host. I mean
ray A k A Honey j Ak A, The Green Eye Banded,

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the Blue Eyed Bandit, the LightSkin, Beauty from Beauty from Dolans Baby,
Hey, baby Baby, I gottamake that a That should sound too
dope. Well let's get right intoit, y'all. So it's been a

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very you know, this is thethird week in a row we had to
talk about this year. Yeah,that's crazy, bro, It's a great
It's a great time in life forhip hop fans. Let me tell you
something, whether you like Drake orKendrick, it is, it's a good
time hip hop. I actually talkedabout that. I did a video about
that, you know, because peopleshow me. I gave Drake a lot
of a hard time, bro,not drink. I gave his fans a
very hard time, bro, Andit was the best moment of hip hop

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for me. I'm honored to bealive do every battle rap, every battle
ever that ever took place. Iwas alive because hip hop is still a
really new genre. But I washere for all of it. It's fifty
years old, and how old areyou? Like? But niggas wasn't battling
back then, but every main batlike I was here for I was a

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kid, but I was here fora fucking uh uh Easy E and and
ice Cube. I was here foruh you know, pocking. Big I
remember this ship like I was herefor Jay and Nis like I was here
and but I think, and I'mgonna say this, I don't care,
I don't give who'll get mad?This is the best one of all time,
Bro. It really is not justthe first of all. It came

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at the perfect time because we haven'thad any good hip hop in ye Bro
twenty twenty four was a slow quarterer, like just starting off for hip hop.
We didn't have like the number oneon the billboards hip hop one,
nothing, So I think like thatwas the first one. Yeah, and
look who that was. That wasKendrick and Drake. But I'm Kendrick in
our future, Yeah, which startedthis whole thing. Yeah yeah, well

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actually first person Shooter was the firstone, Bigga said. Somebody said Kendrick
got mad and they gave him acompliment. Yeah, no, it's crazy.
This whole is already to crash outbecause I just made a comment.
And we all know this has beenBrewer quite some time. Now. We
know who won. I don't knowunequivocally. I don't know if we can

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decide a clear winner. I thinkthey y'all letting rolling Stones get to y'all,
y'a letting these white media entities.Well, I personally haven't seen rolling
Stones. No, they did,Actually I haven't seen it. So my
decision is not based off of rightroll. Well, also, he's he's
showing, but he knows you are. Drake actually threw in the towel himself.
No, he did. And thatlast thing that the nigga ran out

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of bars bro a minu and thirtyof just torking to run out of bars.
She was on tour for forever.He got off tours, gave this
nigga a little of attention and thenhey, nigg I have vacation. I
had this PTO built in. Firstof all, light, I'm trying to
go on vacation record. You talkabout not facts, you talk about not
keeping the same energy. The firstwho saw this nigga was like, yo,

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kids, where are you at?Yeah? I got time today that
when he was like, I don'treally want to be And he gave us
two back to back too. I'mproud that I helped you get back into
shut the fuck up. No,that's great, Yo, nasty that nigga
sounded defeat of his hell on thatlast go as hell. I don't even
know what to say. I'm sosick of this. Let's get into it,

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bro, I'm sick of I'm sickof the narratives we play. We're
playing this, this, this,Let's see what so one of my favorite
They Not Like Us one of myfavorite podcasts. And he actually follows me
to and he actually had me onhis show before. Uh, Joe,
Butden shout out to Joey shout out. He actually, hey, where is
it? He actually had an opinionabout it. I wanted to hear what

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he had to say because he wasat the forefront of all of this.
Him and Uh, he created alot of the narratives that are going out
that Kendrick used in his battle.Wow, he did. Joe was the
first one to say that Drake hangingout with young people looked weird, It
looked away, which then Kendrick tookand ran with, Well, Drake did
the same thing. What did Drakedo? The woman beater allegations that Joe's

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took that and started that, No, somebody else did. Yeah, everybody
took narratives from somewhere. No,I'm just saying that Joe Budden was the
one who introduced that narrative. Wellthen it it caught on like wildfire because
Joe Butden wasn't the only ones andeverybody said that Millie Bobby brown Ship was
as a matter of fact, sinceyou brought that up seventeen year old,
that was on stage even though shecame out, since you yeah, and
I was crazy. Let's let's let'ssince you want to bring it up.

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Nigga gets her on the lips inseventeen year old after he knew yeah,
he said, yo, you lookyou look good. Yeah. That was
that. That was nasty. Itwas Canada. They got different ages.
Joe him in Australia and he's honestlyso fantastic and a great What about your

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relationship with Drake? Tell me aboutyour friendship. How did this all come
about? I love him. Imet him in Australia and he's honestly so
fantastic and a great friend and agreat, great role model each other.
The other day, I miss youso much. I was like, miss
you more. He's coming to Atlanta, so I'm paraphrase, So, who's
Michael Jackson? He's paraphrase raising becauseMichael Jackson was friends with children. I

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don't think Michael Jackson never touched anybody. It looks weird. It looks weird,
like like you're like, all youcould do is take a narrative and
run with it. I'm not sayinghe did anything, but I'm just it
is weird as fuck. Bro,It's very weird for a grown man to
be like, hey, my buddy, Hey my friend, how you doing.
You know what happens when niggas arein the number one position. Niggas

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start looking for reasons to hate them, and all it takes is one little
member to create a wild fire.There's no definitive proof that Drake has or
Michael has done anything, right,I just said that, right, But
all it takes is a narrative tobe like, whoa, that looks weird.
That could be, but it does. Niggas run with it. Wait,
so you don't think it looks weirdfor growman to be friends with a

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fortune girl. You don't think that'sweird. I think that nuances are a
thing, bro, and I thinkthe context matters. They're both in a
different industry or she's an actor andeven is a white girlfriend entertainment. He
is at the top of his field. She's probably a big fan of him.
He probably likes Stranger Things and theyhave a little, a little friendship.

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They hung out and they chilled COOLV. That's crazy, that's crazy.
Sometimes your respond gives you're a no, no, no, no, no.
You know you know you know whathe is. You know he is,
he's your he's your typical Drake fan. Drake fans defend this man.
Okay, they defend this man.Have you never have you never had?

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Uh? No, let me askyou a question. Are you going out
of your way to befriend a MillieBobby Brown? She's not your niece,
she's not a Drake went out ofhis way? But in passing I get
it, like in passing, hey, oh I love you from Stranger Things,
then this is how he met her. It's not like it's not like
that's his homeboy's daughter. Up areyou doing Are you personally doing that to

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a random teenager? No, I'mnot. But one I think that she's
paraphrasing and two no, no,they actually text each other. Okay,
yeah, so I miss your Instagramthing. I think I miss you so
crazy, bro. Y'all. Y'allare both in the industry. Y'all know
how people just say light passing thingslike oh, you know, we gotta
get together one day, we gottalook up, and they never do it.

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Other one's doing that, apear,she's a kid or she was a
kid. No one's doing that.My best friend, I've known her since
her first child was three. Literally, I was with her in the bathroom
when she took her pregnancy for hersecond child, and never had I just

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been like, oh, let mebe friend my friends. You know what
I mean. It's like, ofcourse I love you and I care for
you, but I'm not just goingout of my way to be friend children.
Sure, I don't have no kidfriends, like I don't have no
kids. I don't like the ideaof kids, the responsibility. It's all
for me. But I will tellyou I have a little autistic niece and

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her little friend is also autistic,and they be sending me friend requests on
Facebook all time and messaging, andnine times out of ten I don't respond
because it's annoying. But every oncein a while, the little girl will
reach out to me like, oh, we're coming to Florida, We're coming
to Disney World. We want tosee you. And I'll be like,
all right, great, looking forwardto seeing you too, just to just
to be casually polite. I haveno interest in this girl. And if

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there's anything follow anything the furious,that's a good question. But if there's
anything inappropriate, let those text messagescome to light. So then now we
could be like, Okay, he'sa nasty No. No, I said
it's inappropriate. We said it's couldyou it's weird? Bro? First of
all, it's weird. I havein Rakes camp. But right there's no

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connection, there's no reason, there'sno reason for them to be friends.
I understand what y'allre saying, it'sweird. I also don't have kid friends.
I'm agreeing with y'all. But whatI'm saying is that weird takes on
a life of its own when youleave it to its own devices on the
internet. Just saying something is weirdthen turns into a niggas a pedophile.
This I get this. Nigga isget that. And there's nothing from that

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clip or anything else that that hascome out that has said that about Millie
Bobby Brown specific regardless of the lawsin Canada, can we not fucking say
that him knowing that there's a seventeenyear old person on stage, acknowledging that
and even still making what could beseemed deemed as inappropriate comments and then kissing

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that same child on the lips isnot How old are you? You're a
professional singers. I am talking infront of the mic. Oh I'm not
in the mic. That not infront of it. It's a third No,
no, no, somebody's she's beensinging way longer. She's been potted,

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no for sure, But I movein the mic because like, when
I'm drinking, I don't want tohear I don't want nobody here to go
open or the ice ulous. She'spretty satisficing, So then we should start
doing muck bangs. What the hellis when you eat on camera and they
it's it's like it's like like they'dbe like, is that what the Twitter
people? How much did you drinktoday? She's fucking goofy. No,

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you never heard of mug bank tosound like people when they be eating on
an AM. I think that youcould do anything and get away with it.
You're a bad bitch. So Ithink that people would would come and
see that white and far damn tryingto call me out because I wasn't in
a mic like it's because I'm drunkor something. Don't do me like that.

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I'll just acknowledge you. I ama functioning a. What I'm saying
is, it's weird. It's weirdthat you've been drinking all day all of
a sudden, it's but it's notweird that Drake kissed the seventeen year old
catch it wash the store? Iheard you was wash this though? Bro
Okay, Michael Jackson right, Idon't think he's ever touched a child inappropriately.

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I don't think that. I don'tbelieve that. I don't think Michael
Jackson was a pedal. I thinkMichael Jackson was a weird guy. I
think Michael Jackson enjoyed being friends withlittle kids. Was Michael Jackson a weird
person? Yes? Yes? Whyis Drake nine? Same ship? They
both like being friends with little kids? Do you think that most industry niggas
are normal? Do I live ina world where I said, do you

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know Drake is weird? Okay,there we go. That's all I want
to hear. Sure, I thinkthat most people, and as a comedian,
you know this more most common areweird to some level. We're all
on some weird level. I don't. I don't think that Drake is a
perfectly normal person. But I don't. I don't want to jump on the
legend say because he texted Millie BobbyRowlands she was fourteen, that the nigga

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is a nasty nigga. That's allI'm saying. I would I wouldn't even.
I wouldn't even. I like thejokes, but I would never,
even with all the ship that I'vedone. You see my videos online'll be
going crazy on Drake. Yeah.I've never pushed that narrative because that's not
fair, right, that's not fair. There's no proof. The girl herself
said, you know, if itcomes out that there's anything else, if

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he's like a yo, hey,I would you look really good in that
dress? Anything, I'm not puttinganything. I'm automatically going like, oh
no, Drake, you got achilli. I'm not putting that, putting
on his jacket, but just forher to say in a runway like oh
yeah, we text each other whenwe miss each other sometimes and then people
saying, oh yo, he'll betexting fourteen year old girls that they missed
him, Like that's a that's theinternet, though, that is not the

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internet. Out of content. Butis that the everything that presented about him
his mill? Well? No,no, no. The other one was
even wilder. The seventeen year oldgirl on concert. I didn't I'm not
really from Okay, so let's goand plick the video. What time period
was that? How old was hewas? Seventeen? Then she's thirty one
now, so, oh my god, sixteen years ago? Hold on,
hold on, no, no,he asked for her age on stage.

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She told him how oh she wasright, and he's like, damn,
why do you look like that?He still was like pushing an issue.
I think he even said, like, I'm twenty three. We can still
make it work. Some weird shit. That's a five year age difference,
and we're not gonna hold on,hold on, hold on, We're not
going to act like times. We'renot different. Just ten years ago,
we've we've become super woke to grooming. I agree to women and having a

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different age. Right, all right, here's the thing too, Your boy
academic says some wow, shit,academics is crazy, he said, some
wold shit. But my thing isI get that because if you take the
age out of it and the status, it becomes a different thing, right
Because realistically speaking, I graduated fromhigh school young at sixteen, right,
so seventeen them in college. I'min college with twenty three year olds in

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college. If me and you areon the same campus, I don't give
a fuck, like real shit,but I have to. But if I'm
also in college in high school freshmanat thirteen some sceiors of eighteen, what's
up with that? I know whatI'm saying. That's different. I think
when you're I think that when you'rein the same grade range, if you

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will, like if you're both inhigh school, that's when it's not crazy.
It's not crazy. But that niggawasn't in college, No, No
said, because any it would be. I would feel the same way about
any thing, even though I wasa high school student dealing with men that

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were not you know, but asan adult one. Like again, that
goes back to what I said onthe previous podcast, Like, just because
it's a normal doesn't necessarily make itright or less fucking weird. When you
really think about it. Drake getscreepy with seventeen yeard girl on stage audio
We also do no care. Ididn't know what right there he wanted to

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get on stage different time. Watchyou look like that? Son? Well
all right, listen, I don'tknow if I should be jilty or not.

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That one like the way the worstfeel against my chef. No,
you know what, I never watchedthis whole thing. Your boys wound?
Is he vild? A couple ofteaks? No no, no, no
no no no no yeah yea yeah, yeh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah
yes, pack them up, himup, pack him up. I feel

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like the boy's nasty. He's anasty nigga. You found out she was
seventeen. I ain't why you looklike that? Yo? You man,
dick, you said, breath mychest. Oh no, your boy is
a wild nigga. Son? Thatwas. I can't to die that ya.
Hold on? I see I seefathers kiss they sons on the mouth,

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innocent. I see it be.I see it be bad and a
thousand kiss each other. I'm gonnakeep it a thousand. That is my
first time watching that whole thing.I never see that's a nasty nigga.
Now fuck that now now that MillyBobby Brown shit is wowd nasty. I
don't know what y'all never seen theGodfather part me. Let me tell you
something, bro that Michael Corley hisbrother, and let me tell you something.

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No, no, that's the onlything. Let me say something.
Listen, no no, no,no, no no no, you tell
me twenty three. I'm twenty somethingand you say seventeen. Im get off
my stage. He said, verbatim. Oh ship, I can't go to
jail. Yeah, he said thatfirst, and then he said why you

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look like that? Damn you sobig? Like then he said, I
like the way your breast feel againstmy chest, and then he proceeded the
kids so on the he's hyping thecrowd, yo, y'all. Never been
a performer, y'all, never hadto gas the crowd. Fucking performer.
But I'm not going to bring upand I was a performer that would like
literally give guys lap dances. WhyI dance? I'm not but I'm not

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bringing a fucking fifteen year old,even as a woman seventeen. I'm not
bringing a kid. You might notwant to bring, you might not want
to get behind this niggas. I'mnot bringing it to stage talk about oh
damn, you're only seventeen. ButI like the way your heart whatever felt

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when I was like that, sayingthat was crazy. I'm saying it's just
a few years ago. We wereless responsive to the age. That's come
on, son, that's wild,son. The me Too movement was how
long ago? About ten years ago, wasn't it? No? I feel
like it started like like twenty sixteen. Yeah, probably, all right,

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that's it's twenty This is probably amonth right before the meat to movement,
right before alone. We don't allhave parents that are ten years older than
keV. I don't want to putyou in the same category as Drake,
because can you just we never seewe never seen a mom and dad with
a ten year age difference. There, what age are they? A lot

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of our parents, a lot ofthese niggas. Jesus Jesus is mom married?
Does the make it right? Thatdoesn't make it any less weird when
you really think about it. AllI'm saying is that the culture has shifted.
We have as a society have grown. That's always been crazy. It's
always been crazy. Pick a youngerbride, No, no mission because he

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said, I can't go to jail. He very well know crazy. But
the minu he found out, ohshe was he wants to pack it up.
Yeah you're beautiful, but you're tooyoung. Yeah, this nigga said,
Nah, you so think you're againstmy chest? Crazy, it's that

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twenty thousand concets. You're gonna findone piece of material, keV. That
is insane. I'm about to kickyou in a second. No, I
can't believe it. It was thatbad. That's a big deal. Bro
Okay, that's nasty work. Right. Why wasn't it a big deal before
Ken? Because it wasn't nobody Drake. It was probably a big deal even

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then. It just wasn't this moveright, right right right right? To
my point, culture and society haschanged all we have not. No,
I don't think that it's changed inthat sense. I think information is just
very much so more readily. Also, I think I think it didn't give
a point. If that ship wouldhave came about Drake, that ship would
have went crazy. What I don'tknow, Look, yo, because we

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were still upset ten years ago orwhenever. This was about R. Kelly
and his Shenanigan. The thing iswe weren't we let that ship rock with
now for a long time until thesurviving r Kelly Dot came out No no,
no yet away with a lot ofship. I personally always thought it
was weird, but it didn't takeit didn't take away. Yeah, it
didn't take away from the artist.I am too. It didn't take away

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from the artistry. But it's crazythat y'all are out here saying that Kelly
is amazing, that I would stilllisten. Well, no, I'm gonna
be honest after this Kendrick and DrakeBeef. I literally, honestly, when
I see Drake or listen to aDrake song, I don't see him the
same anymore. This is this isI'm like everything Kendrick said is right about

(23:34):
Drake. Like if you go backand Kendrick lied a lot of sh okay,
maybe maybe the daughter thing, maybethat's it, because thenn't when push
a t well, it is becauseI saw I saw a tweet or something

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that came back out again where abouteight years ago there was a conversation our
tweets, our messages or whatever thatwere posted about him possibly having a daughter,
and and that would put it ather being eleven now the time that
it came out, it would puther at being at eleven now. But
also, I mean, but didn'twheever push a t sets that about adonas

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that's his son. Didn't he initiallydeny that too. No he didn't.
No, he was forced to admitit. He ca he can't write out
drop scorpion dropped March fourteenth, andactually he never responded to push it in
that regards, I'm in that regard. I'm literally only going by what I've
seen on social media, which isthat he initially lied about a donas he

(24:42):
never well was the first time weheard it guy, and then he kind
of had to like because he washaving an Adidas rollout added on was the
name of the Adida's line, right, and it was after he was naming
it after Adonna's. He was goingto roll out the Adidas brand and roll
out his son at the same time. Yeah, roll out for yourself.
It's crazy to my to Ray's pointabout seeing these comments on social media,

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well, a lot of people don'tunderstand is that certain algorithms are gonna make
you see a lot of one sidedthings. Okay, and I'm telling you
this as a bias Drake fan onmy Twitter feed. All I'm seeing right
now is uh is pleased for Drake. Drake, Drake getting bought like like
defenses, people coming to Drake's defenses. Yes, but I I understand that

(25:32):
the algorithm is feeding me that becausethey think that that's what I want to
see as a Drake fan. Sowhat other people don't understand is when you're
a Kendrick fan, all you're gonnasee is all of the bashing that niggas
are doing for Drake, and you'regonna think that that's what the whole internet,
the whole community thinks. There's awhole world of people that think that
Drake is up in his battle thatDrake is. That Drake handled his own

(25:53):
he was barring a nigga, hewas wrapping his ass off. Family matters.
Did to believe Drake one. Idon't believe Drake one. Oh.
By the way, okay, thankyou. I don't believe that Drake won.
If there's anybody out there he believeDrake one, there, it's something
wrong with them. Son. Butyou can't think because it's a clear it's

(26:14):
a clear winn at this point,why do you think it's a clear one.
But as a biased Drake fan,I would like to know why you
don't think Drake won. I thinkthat Drake is gonna lose lose situation.
I think that if it's a battleof bars, that niggas automatically assumed that
Kendrick is the better lyricist, sothey're not listening to Drake for the bars
that he was spinning. He waswrapping his ass off on family matters.

(26:38):
He said a lot of things thatniggas don't want any So you you don't
think, you don't think like likethere was a clear winnerness like Drake one
like I think what made I thinkwhat made a clear winner is that Kendrick
dropped not like us and it wasa dance song where niggas were like,
that's where Drake was gonna have theadvantage. And then instead of Drake responding
with equal Bob, he came outwith the police song where he just all

(27:02):
he did was defend uh the allegationsthat he was forced to defend niggas Drakes
that yeah, put him in alosing put him there, didn't he put
him John? If the nigga didn'tacknowledge it, they would have been like,
oh yeah, he's definitely pop outand show niggas bud Man, I'm

(27:26):
the one up to score with him. Nigga is the motherfucking Bobba Yaga and
he got your boy pout of here. Son. It was a hot song,
Bobba ya it is a very hotthat's ship you heard? Have you
heard it in the club? Thatship sounded crazy in the club? Have
you been out right? I havebeen ba That ship sounds insane in the
club, Son, Yeah. Andthen Drake dropped the hard Part six and

(27:48):
it wasn't it wasn't hit and itdidn't do what it was supposed to do.
But I don't think it's over.I don't think no, it's it's
over. It's over, it's over. I mean if Drake, that's Drake
dropping this right now is like jCole dropping his song right now. We
don't want to hear like nobody's gonnacancel. What if Drake did something like
we Are the World type ship andthen just got like all the biggest artists

(28:10):
in the world, and he gotall the biggest artists in the world.
Now, what if he got likej you got jay Z jay Z and'
get behind that jay Z. Butwhat that nigga's gonna get naves back?
What if he got j nas hepulled up some wishful thinking. Yeah,
and Kendrick gonna respectfully he gonna boughtthem niggas now too. Kendrick is on

(28:30):
the killing spreez hunt. Yeah,I guess so niggas don't want the fucking
problems with Kendricks hun. Enough aboutthat. Drake lost, you know,
he's out of here. I'm notEve gonna play Joe Budden. Shit.
We had a good discussion about it. We don't need to hear Joe Budden
shout out to him though they lookat how they massacred my boy. I

(28:52):
will say this though, I havea theory. I think Drake is such
in a bad position right now.I think he shot up his own house.
Bro, I'm dead ass like that'smy theory because check us out right,
it's not just losing the rat battle, it's this, the pedal news,

(29:18):
the the the nasty news that everyeverything about him like this getting bro.
So now, what do you whatdoes a bitch doing that in that
in that position? A woman womanwomen do it to make themselves the victim
that way, to divert the attentionoff all the flak you're get in Now
his house gets shot up in Toronto. Also his fucking the Ovo stores they

(29:44):
spray painted, not like us onthe stores? Can we Do you think
there's the people in Toronto who arebigger Kendrick fans than Drake fans? I
believe that. You think that everybody? I don't think. I think Drake
fucking runs Toronto. Bro, allright, do you think everybody here in
Florida is the biggest code of Isaid that wrong, Craze fans. You

(30:07):
think there's a crazy You think firstof all, ain't nobody going from America
going to Toronto to do nothing?You have you ever heard of that invention
called a plane? I think canget easily. Ain't going in Toronto to
shoot up Drake house and and justspringing some ship and get the fuck out
of here? Kendrick. I thinkit was an inside job. I think

(30:27):
it was an inside job to divertthe attention away from the beef. And
that way, even with this happening, right, Kendrick drops no more songs.
Now, Kendrick is gonna look likea fucking asshole. Look, Kendrick,
your fans are destroying his house andshooting up his house. His bodyguard
got shot and kens, You're like, fuck, I got my fans are
going crazy because of my music.I'm not dropping no more, bitch,

(30:49):
asked with waving white flag. Didy'all hear that first of all, chugging,
I'm just looking at it, don'tread it. Yes, sorry,
okay, did y'all hear that?Allegedly Kendrick's label and Drake's label have been
meeting and Drake's label is asking kendricklabel to tell him to apologize public that,

(31:11):
yeah, they're asking him to publiclyapologize Kendrick for the slander. But
see even that that pedophilic. Butthat also but that also drops my conclusion.
Kendrick said, fuck no, like, listen, we gotta get Drake.
This is nasty because you have theNike deal, Drake has a lot
of Drake is losing endorsements, he'slosing brand deals, He's losing millions to

(31:34):
these alleged pedophile It's nasty. Idon't like it. These are lies.
The nigga lied on are saying thatthat's well, well, he's definitely on
some pedal shit. Why is hedefinitely on some side should play the video
agames he's shaking. You think thatwas a one time thing? Yeah,

(31:56):
I don't think so. Nigga wastwenty three? Were you as smart as
you were? Are gonna be okay? So, okay, listen, listen,
let me let me let me Bobby. I don't I don't think.
I don't think that's nothing. Idon't think that. I'm just saying because
it doesn't help his case. Well, listen, let me, let me,
let me, let me, letme, let me extend him in
olive branch. Okay, when Iwas twenty three, I might have sucked
a couple of nineteen year olds,right, facts, because I was just

(32:19):
fresh out of college. Probably did. I wasn't asking ages back then.
He's in if you're if you're incollege, or if you're in the club.
I'm not asking how old you are. Respectfully. However, if you
say seventeen and I'm twenty three walkingthe other way, that sounds crazy.
I bet you when you were forty, you fucked at least one twenty five
year old. Tell me, I'mone hundred percent. That's a huge Not

(32:40):
a kid. Twenty five is agrown ass woman, think that's different.
It's a grown ass woman with herown crib, own car, probably got
a kid too, possibly allegedly.Okay, but I'm not gonna have this
conversation. Well, we're gonna tellyou I'm seventeen and you like, all
right, even if you just said, like, damn, I didn't you
look a little older to certain youtiful? But nah, yeah, acknowledge that

(33:02):
she's beautiful and keep it moving.When I was even push it out when
I was twenty three down, Idid dumb shit. He tripled down.
Y'all be happy, y'all, beone of your cake and eating it too.
Women all the time say who isy'all the culture society. Women are
defending sh The women always say thatwomen mature faster, and that's said that.

(33:23):
I said that myself more than men. So now it's a conversation of
a young twenty three year old.The brain is not fully developed. It
is not developed to he's twenty five. He's in front of the lights and
camera and he did a stupid thing. I'm not defending. It's a dumb
thing. Listen, listen, listen. It's the word to use. The
niggas said, damn, I don'twant to go to jail yet, damn

(33:46):
clear, I like the way yourbreast felt. First of all, you
your acknowledging that you can go tojail for fucking with her, and then
you say her teddies felt nice onyou, and then you proceed the kiss
on the mouth. You can goto jail for that, just for the
words. It's a simple fact thatyou understand. Understand that you don't give
a fuck, right, because Ithink that is a It is a difference

(34:08):
in dirt back being twenty three ashis example, that he was in college
and a nineteen year old also beingin college, Like, it looks like
y'all may be on the same andit's possible that she was twenty three,
he was twenty three and she wasin college too, But nigga, you
don't know that. But what youdo know that is she is a minor,

(34:30):
and you can't because even an eighteenyear old having sex with a fourteen
year old, even if she's afreshman and he's a senior, he could
go to jail for that. It'sstatutory rape in some states, so you
know that, but the is differentin different states. It is, but
it don't matter. We don't knowwhere he's at in that concert. Did
you hear what he said? Though, yes, I heard what he said.

(34:51):
I don't want to go to jailyet, So obviously he knew he
could go to jail for that,y'all. Ever, y'all know that he's
in front of millions of people outof the concert. He was making jokes.
He's not he's not taking he's nota comedians kissing the seventy on the
Mount. Anytime the artist breaks downand has a conversation with the people in
the audience at this is fighting.You're gonna look crazy on the putting on

(35:15):
a show. I you are goingto look insane on the episode. I'm
telling you. All I'm saying isI'm not as smart as I was at
twenty three, But you're smart enoughnow to know he looks crazy. Yes,
and I'm agreeing with you. Sowhat are you? What are you
though? Y'all are saying that thisnigga is out here, you're comparing a
college situation to like a nigga likehe's actually trying to date this bitch,

(35:37):
I will say. But what I'msaying is, but he's old enough to
know that there is consequences behind it. Yes, and listen to Acknowledge and
the beauty. Listen, how often, right do you see girls? All
Right? You know, I alwaysthough it's very cute Jenna Altega, Yeah,
I thought she was a cute girl, Wednesday Adams, right, but

(35:57):
I thought she was a little girl. Mm hmm. So internally she's had
him like she can be bad.Right when I found out she was old
enough, I'm like, oh,now I can openly admit she's cute.
But when I didn't know how oldshe was and I'm thinking, like,
she's young, I feel weird evenbut you still have the same feelings and
the same intentions. I think thatit's you know, I wouldn't act on

(36:19):
it. I understand that, andI think that that makes you a good
person. I wouldn't act on iteither. I just think that it's crazy
that we villainize people for having thesame thoughts that we have. But I
wasn't the thought, but a niggajust vocalized it. But that was crazy,
bro, What he did on thatstage was insane, and I completely
agree. I think that it wasvillainizing him. I think he had nasty

(36:39):
niggas respectfully. All Right, Soback to the battle, I guess because
that's a cav's not like us.Why why y'all keep ostracizing me for the
group? Why keep separating? Hesaid, Oh, well, you're an

(37:00):
idiot. Now I got to lookfor videos because this is the new computer,
and I didn't transfer up, soI delivered as my fact. I
got to mail my phone. What'sthe other one I was going to talk
about? Yeah, let's look aboutthis one. Yeah, let's keep going
about this fucking now we need somethingelse to talk about. What's let's talk

(37:21):
about your drinking? Huh? Whyyou're always drinking for try to take the
heat on me. I know thatat time right in Cairo's mom, you
know she's from Iran? No,I did not know that. Yeah,
she's Persian. Okay, do youknow that Persian people were Iranian? No?
I didn't know that. I thoughtthat was common knowledge. No,

(37:42):
do you know that? But didyou know that Persian people are from Iran?
I didn't look into it. SoPersia used Iran used to be Persia,
is what you're saying. It expandedand Iran is Persia. Persia still
is Persians anymore, because remember itwas a Persian empire. Yes, And
Iran. It was like the Sothey Iranians don't speak Arabic, they speak

(38:05):
Farsi. Okay, they speak adifferent language. Me let me simble for
these yeah, okay, I foundmore. Okay. So back in Iran
there was a there was a standardof beauty, and I gotta show you
this. This is insane, son, How what beauty was defined as for

(38:30):
women? Son? If this everwas the standard of beauty anywhere, bro,
throw me off a fucking mountain,my nigga, because this is nuts.
Okay. So you think it's crazyto meet a seventeen year old and
then the next day she turned eighteen? Yo, broo, son knock,
I'm you're gonna look insane in thisepisode, son, and she turned eight

(38:52):
the next day. That that girlis completely uh an intelligent person and now
able to date a nigga and ableto get kissed to the face. Is
that on your far left? No? I think that's a different Yeah,
okay, So back this was thestandard of beauty. I'm going to play

(39:17):
the video Sho. You know it'scrazy. I'm not trying to play.
She kind of looked like you,I don't do that. I think Iranians
they all look like mm hmm.I don't know enough Iranians to have a
comment. You know, some ofyou just don't know the the Iranian.

(39:38):
So look, I want you tocheck his video. Oft from Kajar,
Iran, a period when beauty standardsdiffered significantly from those of two. No,
that's a woman, Yes, awoman. Yo. It looks like
she looks crazy. Oh man,it looks like a guy. I don't

(40:00):
mean to talk. I thought that. I thought we were just switching like
slides to no. No, no, Nigga, she looked like he video.
She looked like a pizza shop employees. Princess Fatima Kanoum from the Process,
a period when beauty standards differed significantlyfrom those of today. During that

(40:21):
time, in the nineteenth century,facial hair was considered beautiful for women,
a standard that evolved dramatically in thetwentieth century. Nigga, you know they
haven't believed that. You know that. No, no, you know that's
a movement facial hair, it saidChicken India. She's actually really in the
UK. She's actually really pretty,but she has a full beard like us.

(40:43):
Nigga, she's actually got a prettyface, so you can tell she
cut it off. So she's talkingabout how like she needs uh like like
men should accept her. Have youever seen the movie The Greatest Showman with
Hugh Jackman. It's like a movieabout the Barnuman Valley circus. Yeah.
I had a huge crush on thebearded lady from that. From that movie

(41:05):
she had like the biggest titties I'veever seen in min entire, I'm gonna
play two of them. Look atthis ship, right e. Harry women
is something that's been like Stephen Curry, freakish something female. She looks like,
say, Harry married, and I'mlike, oh, well on you.
And it's a bad beard. It'sa nasty growing. When I became

(41:27):
a woman, she looked like MellyMales. Uh whether Hi, I believe
I've got an appointment with you,so went to go get it shaped do.
Yeah, I see how she couldbe pretty. But I can't even
talk too much ship because I definitelygotta well it ain't that you got No,

(41:52):
I don't have p C O.S Well. I've never been diagnosed
with it, but probably within likethe last four to five years. Like
the hair on my chiney gin chin, we grown a bitch. But I
go and get that ship wet,get at that. But no, this
is the chicken I was talking.I don't think that I could ever,
so are you. It's amazing whatyou can do when you're just authentic.

(42:15):
It's amazing what you can do.DJ cow. I am a woman with
a beard when a beard is supposedto be a manly thing, the dame
with a beard. But I workas an anti bullying activist, and I

(42:35):
model too policistic. Go through syndromeis as simple as saying that I have
more testosterone in my body than thefemale sex hormone, and the side effect
of the condition is a would youoh yeah, yeah, yeah, No
questions asking that she would be mybeard? Wow, people already think I'm

(43:00):
gay. I'm like, hey,what's up. I can't be gay.
I'm daying. I'm not even jokingaround. Yeah, no questions asked.
Why would I not fuck her?I think she's attracted. I've always thought
to myself, if my girl justhad will Mills's beard, I would be
complete in life. What's that why? I was like, I just try

(43:22):
to learn the ways. I startedgrowing my beard out. I was like,
man, that's nice. You're sucha control I swear, can you
be for real? But let metell you something. I would hit that.
I would easily hit that. Ibelieve she sounds smart, she sounds
worldly, well rounded, and shegot some city is the problem beautiful skin?
So she has a video right whenshe's talking about like how she she's

(43:46):
a feminine woman and men reject herbecause of her beard. Yeah, And
I'm like, yeah, we should, we should? Why should you because
she has because that's it she has. She has a really pretty face.
But she has a condition. SoI feel like that's no, no,
no no, no, no nono. But here's the thing. I'm

(44:07):
not saying it's curable or not,but there are there's laser treatments and shape.
She doesn't want to conform to society. But even outside of that,
please keep also in mind that alot of like the treatments, like laser
treatments are not not that she lookscompletely melanial. It's not necessarily get geared

(44:29):
towards people of color, So gettinglaser treatment can actually make your appearance look
worse. And it's expensive. Whyam I taking this extra expen Like you
could just go one nasty take andI'm getting there, both of you all
right, Now I'm sick of thatship, right, what ship? I'm

(44:49):
sick of people be yourself? No, no, no, right, all
right boom so say a guy.Right, And I saw a nigga without
no whole bottom jaws, like he'smissing his whole ship. Like he looked
like Mole from the Simpsons, likehis he's missing his whole bottom drawl.
Right. And he was bitching abouthow women don't want them. See see

(45:10):
how that works, Like he can'tdo nothing about that. She can cut
that off. Like men don't likebeards, right, So why do we
have to like beard because you havea condition that off. I don't do
that, either of us have to. If you don't have to force niggas
to like the beard, and youdon't have to force it, don't.
But my thing is, don't getat men for not liking it, because

(45:35):
we're not supposed to like that.Men are not a monolith. Will some
men might like it. I'm oneof those men. And which y'all you're
gay. See that's exactly what y'alldo, and we're not. We don't
follow whatever your standards are, y'all. Start a man's standard, though,
what the man would have a womanthough. I mean also, I guess
it's a bit with any other thing, like what kind of men are you

(45:59):
to get the other joint you're nottrying to get a cab, but you're
trying to get a wheel Like theother joint had the little go tea all
right, brittle. I didn't likethat one. That was nasty. She
looked like she's playing. I thinkthat she's just a prettier girl. I
just like I just like her.The first one, No, she just
looked very lesbian in the face.And I don't don't The first one didn't

(46:20):
even look like a woman at all. Yeah, she had a big forehead.
I wasn't it was a big one. Yeah, no she was.
She was say. Overall, Ifeel really really bad when people have conditions.
I do too, because yes,she could go get it whack like
I feel like it would just bea lot with that because even me,
I got a little beard, well, ain't dead. I really don't got
a beard. I just got likethirty hairs on my chin. But I

(46:42):
could thirty I don't know. Idon't really be counting, but it's just
too much for me. But Icould literally go get it wax today and
by next Wednesday, it's already youknow what I mean. So it's like
it's a lot to me. You'restill a beautiful girl, whether you have
a full beard or not. Icould I've always been the type of person.
It doesn't mean she's not beautiful becauseshe is. Sure. I've always
been the type of person. Evenin high school, they used to call

(47:05):
me the potential seeker. I couldsee a girl who I know is pretty,
she just needs some work in onearea. It's like that too,
and I would take that girl andmake her cool, and make her popular,
make her and she start hanging outwith people, started dressing a little
bit different, being a little bitmore confident, and then boom, she
goes. That's why you got nocomment. I think that when it comes

(47:27):
to certain things, I feel likewomen like her are needed for other women
who are like her. Yeah,Like I feel like that, Like that
includes do that ship all the time. I feel like women like her are
needed for other women like her.So I can respect that because me,
I'm not trying to let this girlif you had a full beard, If

(47:50):
you had a full beard and youcame up in here, I'll still be
like, yo, Ray is fine. Like she's a gorgeous woman. But
I think that women on show mepersonally. I but I also don't have
that condition, so I can't reallysay if I would wouldn't. But I
think I can respect that she wouldbe at the forefront of that because there
are are i'm sure other women justlike her who may be struggle with that

(48:13):
and who are maybe spending hell ofbread for Like it's just it's just a
part of who you are. It'sanother black girl. I don't know if
y'all seen this ship got Harry chestHarry did you see that one? Oh?
No, don't even show And she'sadvocating, like telling us, oh,
we need to love this, embraceher whole ship like Saber too from
it's nasty. The chest is aproblem for me because I'm a titty nigga.

(48:37):
That is a problem for me.I could do that. I can't
give. No, I can't givewith it. You know what I can't
get with them. I'm trying tobe progressive and forearm hair if I shorty
got like thick like them Indian girlsor like something sometimes Mexicans sometimes people will
have like the dark hair on theirarms. If I see that I'm what
immediately how you feel about Harry Couch. I don't have a problem with that,

(48:58):
I do. I don't have aproblem with that. I don't all
right, don't have no hair onthe pussy the top. I don't want
that. But I don't like hairmy food. Of course nobody does,
you know what I mean? Likeno, seriously, like I don't like
because because I groom too, sowe both of them, you know what
I mean? Like I'm not I'mnot one of them, I think.
And hair, I think it trapssmells right, so if you pee,

(49:22):
you know, you kind of leavea little white white, but clear up,
no, nigga. The hair trapsthe funk out. It smells niggas.
I think it's more fresh. Itfeels a lot better because I mean,
when it starts growing back, it'sa little prickly, might chop it
waxed shape because it's not like thatwhen you oh, no, the wax
is to man, it's actually waxinghelps the follicles. They don't grow back,

(49:46):
right. And women who wax arethe ship bro because they go you
know, you can ask all that'show ask it ate. On my end,
you wax it' I just hate z. I just hate all the extra
ship that women have to do inorder to be to be and and and

(50:08):
it is a lot of maintenance.You gotta think, you guys think.
Wait, when I was a teenager, I used to shave my arms.
I used to and I really didn'thave whoa hold on? These men and
are to to fit in with society, society, bro hold on, hold

(50:28):
on, you think women got todo more than us? Not even close.
What you got to do got knockbefore before I say what I want
to say, broken ship because listen, could be exists at the same time.
But don't sit here and make itseem like, y'all ship is just
more just because you gotta do more. We got to do more by whose

(50:49):
standards? Tell me what you gottado because we gotta make money too,
especially especially in this day and withthe type of niggles, because you got
to be bringing more. Let meexplain something to you. What do y'all
know? You know what your facelooks like, right, it's cute?
Right? Yeah, you don't.I don't get the luxury of just being

(51:13):
here one second. You mean totell me, right, you had to
have some kind of income to pullthe niggas you pull your money was important
at any point, and it wasprivileg no, no, no, pretty
pretty privilege may be a thing,but a lot comes with pretty privilege as

(51:36):
well. But that's not like,that's not like I don't want me personally.
I literally hate when I'm someone's dreamgirl or when it's just like you
so bad. I don't like thatbecause I feel like niggas just didn't want
you to be a trophy, andthen what you do come with can't be
can't really be a thing like ohyou too, because at the end of

(51:59):
the day, regardless if you're tryingto be with a man or a woman,
at the end of the day,as a human being, there's ship
that you have to do in thislife to live your life. So no
matter what the fuck a nigga wants, desires, or anything, Rayandrea has
to take care of herself. SoI do have to work. I do
have to and I'm the type ofperson who I don't I want to be
able to know that I could dothis on my own too, Like if

(52:21):
I want some rare bottoms, Ican go get it. I don't know,
but you're doing that because you wantyou I'm glad you Okay, No,
let's get back to the topic ofhand. What do you have to
do, and then we'll talk aboutwhat women have. Okay. First of
all have to do we we weone have to make money, okay,

(52:44):
which is hard. Okay, it'svery hard thing to do. Right.
Everything else falls under the umbrella ofmoney, right, because here we have
to compete with your standards, becauseat the end of the day, we
have to bring something to the tableand hope that you can reciprocate it.
Right, because we when when Imeet you, I gotta take you out.

(53:07):
I gotta pay for everything, andhopefully I'll be rewarded after that.
We do everything with a hope.You guys are always guaranteed it and also
also always always you get you guysget you reap all the benefits. In
the beginning, we gotta hope.We gotta work for it, y'all.
Don't gotta work for shit. Andsecondly, most of the things women do

(53:29):
isn't even for us because we cando without it. You for the most
part, when I first met you, you were you were on your supernatural
shit like you woret a big fro, like you was on some soup you
want. No, you don't wearmakeup now like you was on some real
like natural beauty shit, right,which is what men prefer, right if

(53:50):
they're bad. Well, women nowadayscan make themselves bad and they be like,
I'm a bad bitch. Bad bitchstands with bad bitch stands nowadays.
Everything it's fake, had two toe, weave makeup, eyelashes, all that
shit is not you. Right,we don't even know what these bitches look
like, but we gotta work hardfor to get a chicken a costumes hun

(54:15):
right, and then when you saysomething about they get offended. At the
end of the day, men don'tlike fake asses. We fuck a fake
as, We don't. We don'tlike that. We don't like fake titties.
We don't like that shit. Wedon't like it. That's what women
get choices and they think we likethat. No, we want to fuck
that because it seems easy. Butwifey is more like your standards. That's

(54:36):
what most men want, because youwant to know what you look, what
you're looking at when you wake upin the morning. Interesting that that's a
fact, like they had a didyou ever see that video? I all
give a chicks about this all thetime, like, oh, y'all love
them fake asses? Who said that? Like, men never asked for that.
No men ever say you know what, babe, for your birthday,
I'm just saying you can get afat, a fake ass. I'm gonna
get you some fake lashes. We'regonna put a weave in your head.

(55:00):
Men suggested that women suggest that.So is it just because I think we
have to look at people's experiences too, right, Because I have definitely been
in a relationship where I have beenvocal about like, hey, there's just
certain things that I had to workup to be confident about. Right.
So, yeah, you might sayyou don't want X, Y and Z,

(55:24):
and even if it's like X,Y and Z, you just want
to smash like you will. Menwill literally ruin their whole lives and their
whole household and family for this thatyou claim you don't want. Right.
But then in addition to that,you can you could be with a person
who's like, I love your naturalbeauty, but then be like, I'll
pay to get your titties done,I pay to get your asso, And

(55:46):
it's like, but I already saidI don't want that. So how are
we supposed to really navigate through that. If I'm already telling you that's not
what I want for myself, Idon't want that, but men are offering
to get that. So it's like, how were supposed to really trust that
that's not what you want when especiallyin society. I think, now,
the group of men that's in myorbit don't want what we're talking about.

(56:09):
They don't want fake asses. Andbut how many how many people are actually
in that orbit? You know whatI'm saying. So when we are looking
at societal standards, if you will, social media, et cetera, it's
bitches that got fake asses, faketitties, lace fronts and all that they
getting, some of them holes isgetting treated better than they getting married.

(56:34):
I see no they, But ifyou think married, if you think of
societal there's no girl to be theother's married. What I'm saying is when
you see why when you see wifeya man's wife, they rarely look like
that, but then they hide.But then there's so many But then they

(56:58):
hiding them to many different they behiding them to all. Right, think
about it, if we're if we'reseeing because we'll see, oh, his
wife is beautiful, but we rarelysee her, but we see him attached
to women with fake asses, faketitties, the face of the And I
actually used to wear way more makeupthan when I was in my nep than

(57:19):
I do now because I just,I honestly don't care to do all of
that. But it's like, butyou'll get cheated on regardless no matter what.
From there, the original conversation andwhether I hate you have to defend
women, but women have to domore in terms of maintenance. And I

(57:45):
think I feel it's so easy tosay that nigga as a nigga who has
to make money to get bitches.I understand your point, but I've literally
dated multiple girls and the amount oftime it takes me to get ready,
put on a pair of short I'mwatching. Okay, okay, So are
we talking about keeping up with theJones or keeping up with their men?

(58:07):
Not keeping up with the jo becauseyou also want to look good for your
men. Just keeping up with theupkeeper, making sure. I've been in
a few okay, young woman,keep up her look the whole time.
If she's Puerto Rican a minute.They always women get comfortable to the motherfucker.
They do that ship They do thatship in the beginning. Black women

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don't keep it. They do thatship in the beginning and they stop doing
that. You don't think black womenkeep up. They keep up with the
Joners and their friends. I don'tknow. When a black women goes out,
she's always gonna look her she's gonnabe around. But inside the house,
I think no, I think Imean, that's a woman. I
think that's the one thing I thinkwomen. But I think that I really
I want to offer push back.I will say this because I don't want

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to look crazy twice on this party. That's what you gotta say, And
then I'm gonna say what I gottasay. I dated a specific Puerto Rican
girl who told me her mother toldher all always wake up before your man
and make sure you look your best, because niggas are susceptible to all of
the temptations in the world. Sodon't give your your man another reason.
Ladies, ladies don't exactly. Ithink that maybe, if, maybe,

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if black women specifically, I thinkthat we also understand that it literally does
not matter what we do. Ifa nigga wants to cheat our fuck around,
that's what he's gonna do. ButI also think that it depends probably
on the man, because I havedefinitely been in relationships where I felt like
I had to be on a hundredall the time, and that is that's

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draining as fuck, dead ass whenwe talk about successful niggas and rich niggas,
whatever the case may be. Andit's not for everybody that girl if
you are not if you are nottrying to wake up before them. Because
I'm a person that values myself,I tell women at all the time,
certain dudes you have to do thatpaper. He got standards like I take

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care of myself. You better takecare of yourself. You so you better
take care of your Then you gottathink too. There are some of us
get with men who literally tell willtell you like I don't care about when
I first got with my with myman, I would like I would go
to his crib. I remember thefirst time I ever went over there.
I had on a black like littlebodysuit thing. I had my little fur

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vest on my real fur because Idon't wear a fake fur. But I
was in I was in there,I was in my bag and I would
do that all the time and hewould be like, you know you don't
like or he would come over andI'd be like, let me, let
me take a let me set them, and he'd be like, you don't
have to do all of that.So now I'm just kind of like,
I definitely want to still be appealing, but if I don't have to,

(01:00:47):
if I'm still appealing to you inmy mumu with my ashes jiggling as opposed
to being in laingerie and my hairdone all the time, I'm going with
the most comfortable route. So Idon't think that it's always a situation where
women just let themselves go as opposedto Maybe it's just the type of person
that you're the reality of the situation. And as a nigga, I want

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to be a good dude because Iunderstand how hard it is to kill over
the maintenance. So when I getin a relationship, I'm like, yo,
you don't have to do all that, like come as you are relaxed,
right. But I've also been ina situation where I said that and
that shit bit me in the ass. The girl starts coming over, she
got the bonnet on every day.As a nigga who dates black women,
I'm fine with the bonnet, butit starts becoming more and more. She

(01:01:27):
starts looking she starts wearing a sloppynightgown and got the mustard things on it,
holes in it. Have you everbeen to a woman who always wears
makeup, who's always be dood itup, and then one day you say
to her, you don't gottathway don'tmake up? Yeah, it gets offended.
Yeah, yeah, that's insecurity,like a motherfucker never means like that's
actually a compliment. I'm telling youyou look better without it. Yeah,

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but see that's the that's and mostwomen nowadays are like that. They do
all the fake shit and then man, it's like, yo, you ain't
gonta do all that because that's theone you're trying to keep up with the
josers. That's not fun. That'snot a woman who's doing it for her
man, because the man say,yo, you don't got to do all
that. I think you're beautiful theway you look. And then they get
offended because they're not. It's nolonger I'm doing this for me, So

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you want to be fake for yourself? Well, I just don't even like
that energy in general, because thegirls that be going that shit going out
all dressed up and ship and lookinggood, and then they at the crib
and they look busted and they belike, Yo, how come you don't
want to fuck me no more?How come you're not attack it to me?
I'm like, because you go outand keep up with Listen, you
learn great when you telling the camerayou turn to the toxic Gavenja shorty,

(01:02:36):
you gotta lace front on, fakeeyelashes, man makeup, lip fillers,
fucking five hot titties pushed up.When you take all that shit off,
shorty, you go from a nineto a three. Son. That's crazy,
and now niggas are gassing you upoutside. I think the women who
may get offended may just not trulybe comfortable in their skin. And I

(01:02:58):
can understand how that. That's oneof the reasons why I don't wear makeup
a lot, because I noticed whenI was wearing makeup, I started to
feel like I needed it because youjust look. Essentially, when you wear
makeup, you're trying to look howyou wish you looked in a sense,
so make up it and then itwould make me feel like, damn,
I'm not as cute without makeup.So you have to believe to kind of

(01:03:22):
get out of that that d Butthat's where confidence coming because like for me,
right when I have ibs, Sosometimes my stomach is bloated. Sometimes
I got my six pack, continuedupon what I ate for the day.
I'm so insecure about my stomach,you know what I mean. So this,
like I wear a hat all thetime. People think I do it
because I'm insecure with my ballhead.I think it's because I'm from New York.

(01:03:44):
Bro, I don't mind my ballbut I have my insecurity too.
But it's not to the point towhere I'm going to fucking is he your
teeth? My little teeth? Yeah, yeah, that's yeah, my teeth
are tiny. Okay, I appreciateyou sharing. Now why would you say
that though? I just want tomake sure he was being true for even
talking about that I got a littleteeth. Why him out like that?
Yeah, but that's cool. That'smean three times a day? What does

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that mean? You were saying?In security everybody, But it's not to
the point to where my flaws arecovered up sort of world and I'm hiding
it from because now on what's themovie with Leonardo DiCaprio, The Departed?

(01:04:29):
He said, we're dealing deception.We don't. We don't deal in self
deception. Now you deceive yourself.Fuck all that deceiving the world. Now
you you're at home with the bullshit. Yeah that shit is crazy. But
anyway, I got a lady Iwant you to hear. I forgot what
she said, but I think it'ssomething like about what we're talking about right
now, real quick. A womanwho is broke and never been to college,

(01:04:53):
but as fine as hell can cook, has good nurturing skills, good
and bad will always get the betterman than the woman who makes Hella Brad
is Hella accomplished, but she istotally out of touch on her womanly side.
And yob, it's women right nowmaking tons of money a plus credit

(01:05:13):
business rolling while you're gone at workall day. Your man is cheating with
a woman unemployed and makes him feellike a man. When a woman says
they don't want me independent because Idon't got to take his ish, basically
what she's saying is that if Ihave my own everything, I can talk
to you any kind of way.It means I can have other men.

(01:05:35):
I got an own money back rightthere should disqualify a woman from being the
white feet a face car. Weas women should all be functioning as adults
money, credit, transportation, housing, That's called being a grown adult.
And no, I agree. Idon't disagree with anything because I think nowadays

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women view having money. Women areputt that ship in they bio own money.
On card O, I was like, bitch, so what you're an
adult? Like, I'm not impressedby you doing adult ship and it's nothing
impressive about that. So who wassupposed to do it for you? Like
you're supposed to get it on yourown. I don't think that that is
too I think y'all also got tothink of the fucking world we live in,

(01:06:26):
though, Like women are being toldthat nowadays, and y'all might not
be the men, but women areliterally being told you have to come to
the table with something other than yourgood looks and your pussy and you're fucking
chicken aut afraid of and you needYou also have to keep in mind that
a lot of women, either we'vebeen through it ourselves or we've seen our

(01:06:49):
parents, our mothers, our singlemothers struggle with this. Whereas like you're
relying on a man to do somethingand it fucks you up. So I
don't necessarily think that it's like wejust want to shit. I can't speak
for other women, but I thinkthat it is very important for a woman
to go after her dreams, goingto ask her So, if that's school,

(01:07:11):
if that's your career, if that'swhatever, that is very important because
you definitely don't want to become ina situation where you're just solely relying on
a man and then if things don'twork out, you can't get a motherfucking
job because you don't got a degree. You've just been a goddamn domestic engineer,
y'all, like for twenty fucking years. Like that, shit really happens
where we don't do the things thatwe desire to do or think we should

(01:07:35):
do, and we get with aman and we're fucking left destitute while that
nigga's going on about his business.So don't I won't say for everyone.
Maybe there are some women who arejust really like Nigga, I want to
shit on a nigga, But Idon't think that the majority of the women
who are driven in that manner thatshe said, right, I don't think

(01:07:57):
that that's an issue. And Ido think that there are definitely some men
in the world who are intimidated bythat and just want women who have to
rely on them. So it's notlike it's not necessarily like I got all
this money or whatever, I won'tlisten to you. Are you you know
what I mean? Like I wantother niggas. I don't think that.
That's the thing with the majority ofwomen who are The problem is women are

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abandoning the other part. So it'slike, yeah, you work, yeah,
you you're you're driven, you gotbread, but can you cook?
Are you nurturing? See, that'sthe thing. Women are doing all of
those things now, but they're abandoningthe other part. It's like, hey,
because I make all of this moneyin work, I don't need to
know how to cook. I don'tneed to be nurtured. Video and only

(01:08:44):
hear the parts that they're gonna getdefensive about, right, and not listen
to the first Right. That's that'sbecause you're at the end of the at
the end of the day, aman with money don't give a fuck about
a woman with money. It's it'snot a valuable quality. Like if I
got our own brand, I don'tgive a fuck about your money. First
of all, real men don't careabout how much money she got anymore.
But y'all gotta also think are there? And I'm playing Devil's advocate because I'm

(01:09:06):
very much a boss chick. ButI am very much so I don't have
a problem being submissive to the personthat deserves submission. That's the thing here,
And I feel like in this society, who the fuck? Who the
fuck? No y'all got okay,take away our personal experiences, our personal

(01:09:30):
when we look at social media,that it's simp ass, pussy ass,
fuck ass niggas who the fuck wantsto? Some women can barely operate in
their femininity because some of them,the pickup the litter that they have,
are just not that like they mighthave to be the ones really out here.
Let me ask your question, then, let me ask your question what

(01:09:51):
that said? How long does ittake to you for you to know that
that's the kind of guy I couldbe submissive to? Because women talk that
shit and be with a guy theycan't submit to, why are you with
him? Then every girl says thesame thing, I'll be submissive to a
nigga who's deserving of it. Whyare you with the nigga? In the
first place that you can't y'all know. Y'all knows. Everybody leads with their

(01:10:14):
fucking representative. We know that.So let's not play that game where why
are you and you just picked thewrong because a lot of times can I
say something so I think women whosay that it is incapable of submission period,
I do think so because because that'swhat the reason I'm saying that.

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All right, put like this right, I've been cheated on, I've cheated
I've been fucked over like I've done, But never have I said, oh
and ship, because I understand thatwas that woman, right, So when
a woman says but because a woman, a lot of women I understand not

(01:10:57):
giving you're all into the relationship.But whatever you're qualities are, you're auditioning
too, So he shouldn't have towait. Imagine, imagine a nigga be
like, I don't really know herwell enough, so I'm not gonna take
it out on dates. And butwhy why do we as a society jump

(01:11:20):
in the middle of the fucking story, Because let's not ever act like there
that's probably an X of mine thatcould be like that bitch wasn't ship and
he's only thinking about the middle ofthe story, but we're not thinking about
how I really was submissive as fuckingI was following your lead and I was
doing all I was cooking, Iwas cleaning, I was doing all of

(01:11:41):
this, and then somewhere down theline you started to fuck up to where
you were no longer deserving of thatfrom me anymore, that type of energy,
and I was just maybe trying tofigure out an exit strategy now in
the middle of the story. Oryou're like, is this bitch nags all
the time, she gonna cook you? And or you getting and or you
get with a dude who, likeI used to love to cook, right,

(01:12:03):
I don't like I still love tocook, but I really honestly don't
have the time for all that fuckingenergy. And I'm okay with that.
But yeah, that's but we willswitch off. It's not like it's not
a situation where it's like he cooksmore than I do. But I know
that there's an X out there that'slike might have heard or might have I

(01:12:24):
might have operated in a certain spacebefore, and then it's like, why
am I giving all this energy?And or not even at my point was
or what I was really about tosay is sometimes we women really do get
in relationships with men depending on typeof man, where it's like I want
to cook for you, I wantto do all of this, but then
you sit there and you're like,I got a babe, or you shouldn't
be slaving in the kitchen. Ican just cook, I can just order

(01:12:46):
food. That's what we could paypeople for that. And then in the
middle of the story, now I'mnot cooking as much because every time I've
tried to fucking cook, you knowwhat I'm saying, You're like, you
ain't got to do that. Sothe middle of the story, now,
when you go talk to your homeboysis this. It's always like that because
because people people always talk about thelast thing you said, Yeah, nobody
want to talk about how it gotto that point in the fair list.

(01:13:06):
And I feel like that's the thing, even in this topic of conversation,
because I don't think women just jumpedout the gate, like you know what
I'm saying. And then I feellike the women who are getting the degrees
and have money and all of that, when we really start popping our shit,
it's in the middle of the story. Yeah, but all the time.
I honestly believe most women who traditionallycome from single parent households are not

(01:13:29):
even fucking raised with nurturing it becausea lot of women are raised to be
taught to not need a man.Right, we're not even talking about that
portion of the video, right,I don't care about the cooking and cleaning.
I think that that's a very subjectiveway for some people. Now an
example, Yes, I need,when I say, a woman to be
in her womanhood, I need awoman who's kind. I need a woman

(01:13:53):
who brings peace. And I needa woman who's confident. That is a
womanly character. Because now I knowthat I could be soft around here,
I could be vulnerable, right becausebecause because cooking is an extension of you,
Who the fuck are you? Theare y'all reallyships with women who are
not kind? And who are letme tell you something. Let me tell

(01:14:15):
you something some women, when youmeet it a lot of women who work
hard and they got a lot ofmoney, they stay in that mode even
when they get home. Right.So it's like this, right, if
I'm with a very a woman who'sin her femininity is a feminine woman.
When I have a hard day atwork, or a hard day out in
the world. I should just beable to come home and just lay on

(01:14:36):
her lap and she like rub myhead like you know what I'm saying,
she can feel my energy and allowme to be masculine. Because some women
will not even less you be masculine. They will take that they had a
hard day too. They also hada hard day. So it's not about
making you. Now you're competing,but now neither person ever gets their needs

(01:14:58):
met because you had a long dayand you had a lot, right,
So women and women just disregard.But here's two things. Though, it's
two things. Being masculine is inthe sense you have to be a little
nurturing too, right. But Ibut I truly believe that most women,
most women. I'm saying this becauseyou always see this. It's it's art

(01:15:20):
image reality. If you watch likeany movies, like with Gabrielle Union,
some ship, right, it's alwaysthe bad black chick single, ain't got
no man. That's really how itis, bro because the money is the
power, like and and men don'tlike that ship. It's not that it's
nothing attractive about that. The onlytime a chick with a lot of money
that tractive was to a broke assnigga and most of the time he's gonna

(01:15:42):
use her. He don't want tobe he want to think we're saying the
same thing. I think that it'sa cultural thing we had on the show.
We're talking about Mexicans or Italians orsomething. Certain people. Those type
of women are the type of womenthat the nigga went and worked on roofs
all day and ship and then whenhe comes home there's spaghetti on the table.
He made them at dinner. Andit's not it's not like he compressed

(01:16:04):
with your work day time. Andit has to be a balance. It
has to be a balance, andI think it's far and few because back
in the days, women were onlyone thing, all domesticated because women weren't
working. Yeah right. I thinkmost women nowadays have abandoned all that shit
and now it's just work, work, work, work, work, And

(01:16:25):
we're the same road because at theend of the day, money don't make
you who you are. Yeah,if I'm bringing in six figures and my
girl is bringing in six figures,but nobody is nurturing, relationship is bound
to fail. Fact because there's there'sno humanity in our relationship. We're just
too boss niggas and boss bitches.You're still a woman at the end of
the day. I don't care howmuch one of you guys. Why is
it ever just on one person,like one side of the spectrum and not

(01:16:48):
on both Because I like what yousaid. If we both making six figures,
but nobody's nurturing. That's that reallyis the real problem. And I
think a lot of times in relationships, no matter what scale the partners are
on, those conversations are just notbeing had, you know what I mean.
And so like you are coming toa relationship, you are coming to

(01:17:08):
a relationship to expect Yes, itis a thousand it's on both a man's
job to be Okay, Well,what y'all want in the beginning of the
relationship is for us to court you, is for us to want and done
you, for us to have ourship together. So it's not fair for
you to then change the role dynamicin the middle of it and be like,
oh, well, I'm educated.Social instance, over the course of

(01:17:34):
time, the role of a manhas never changed. No, no,
it's never changed. The man isstill expected to be. The way that
the man operates has changed. Right. But well, I'm glad you said
that because that's because we had toreadjust to what women want. Because now
but we women want the same way, we feel like we had to readjust
to what we were either not givingor i mean receiving, or what we

(01:17:58):
felt like we needed to do.I think I think that society was used
to women just being so selfless,and now women are being more selfish.
I don't think that that's an issue. You have to be selfish in life
because a lot of times what's happenedin the past is a lot of us
women saw our grandmothers and our motherslike literally working themselves to the bone for

(01:18:21):
little to nothing in their fucking relationships. Like they're not even fulfilled, They're
not happy. I'm relying on grandpa. So I can't do shit. This
nigga could be my ass, hecould cheat on me, he could do
everything. But I gotta stay inthis because I have nothing for myself.
And when you it's when you watchthat, it's either one of two things
that's gonna happen. You're either goingto rebel against that or you're just gonna

(01:18:41):
repeat the cycle. And I thinka lot of life are just they are
rebelling against that cycle because they whothe fuck wants to be ground But during
your but during the women's rebellion,which is a selfish which is a selfish
thing where you would men have todeal with that ship and we have to
and then when we don't accept it, when we don't accept it, we're

(01:19:03):
called asshole. With why you gotto put up with that ship? Bro,
You don't have to put up withthat. And this is where the
passport bros came from. Yeah,self preservation is important, right, understand
your point fully, but you're notlooking at it from a whole perspective of
now the other all of the othermen, because men are not a monolith.

(01:19:23):
We're not all your grandfather who iswhipping ass, drinking bad Now the
niggas who are like yo, Istill want to have a conventional relationship because
so many women still want the qualitiesthat their grandfather provided a neggative be in
that position of power, security andprotection, but they don't want to do
any of the things that their grandmotherwas doing, caring, caring for the

(01:19:43):
house, raising the kids. Soit's like y'all want the benefits from old
traditions, but y'all don't want tofollow any of what, the bad parts
of what. But y'all shouldn't andwe shouldn't. I think the thing is
that no one's really just having thatcon like things have shift, and so
I think in going into any typeof relationship where the it be romantic bit,

(01:20:05):
so much has shifted. So Ithink that there just should be a
different type of expectation, Like Idon't think that there, at least the
women in my circle, we're notnecessarily expecting. I think a lot of
women are not expecting the traditional thinglike the no no, no, Well,
I'm gonna seek for my circle,I think. But I think men

(01:20:26):
pick and choose too. I thinkeverybody, yes, y'all do. Progressive
woman still wants a negga to changeher tire. No, I got a
homegirl who's literally don't give a fuck, like, like, you change my
tire. I'm not because I don'tknow how to do that, but my
homegirl do, and she don't expectthe nigga to change her tire. But
I'm over here, like, bitch, you're not getting on. You'll needs
to change your motherfucker tire. Myman say, he on his way.

(01:20:48):
You know what I'm saying, butthat is, but but in our dynamic,
there's not necessarily like a male femalerole, if you will, I
feel like I feel like in societythere's more so like an equal I think
that a lot of relationships he justwanted to be equal in some way,
shape or form, like just becausehere's the thing. So women are working

(01:21:13):
out, men are working out right. The thing typically the thing that happens
is a woman would work all dayjust like the man. Right, but
when the woman comes home, herjob never stops. She still got to
take Katy's kids, She still gotto cook, she still gotta clean.
When a man come home, hehome that nigga kicking up his feet,
and it's like, damn, Igotta do all of this. I might
as well be by myself. IfI got to do all this by myself.

(01:21:35):
So I think that that you mentionedbalance, I think that people really
just want to balance, and nobody'sreally talking about that honest conversation. I
think we are. I think Ithink well we are. I think women
need to I think women need torealize that the only people who's expected to

(01:21:57):
change are the women, and wehave to adjust whatever changes you make,
that's what it's y'all have to think. In relationships, we are constantly fucking
adapting to what a man wants aswell. So we probably have the same
exact arguments as male and females,but no one's able to see beyond what

(01:22:17):
it is that they want. Andit's like when you're in a partnership not
adjusted to what I speak for myselfbecause I don't know the rest of these
bitches and my circle, we're prettymuch the same. Otherwise I wouldn't be
with you. I wouldn't be kickingit with these bitches. You know what
I'm saying. It's it's like,what adjustments there's always like, Okay,

(01:22:42):
let me just I think that traditionally, for the last thousand years, niggas
have wanted the same thing. Iwant a bit you I can fuck.
I want to come home to aclean house and I would like to have
a meal prepared, and I don'twant my bitch nagging at me. That's
the only thing that my father wantedand his father before him, so to
So the adjustments that are being askedto be made by women are also being

(01:23:06):
are the pressures that women are puttingon themselves. We didn't ask you to
go get educated. We didn't askyou to go get that six figure job.
We didn't ask you to get aBBM. We didn't ask you to
go get that y'all did I'm asking. I asked for my female, the
girl that I'm dating. I wantyou to have hobbies because I don't want
you up my ass. I wantyou to have big time. I want
you to have fun. I wantyou to be able to do what you

(01:23:29):
I want you to change your dreamsand your passions so you're fulfilled as a
woman. So when you come todate me, you're not looking for your
happiness inside. That's what I want. So I think that even what you
said, the general basis of whatmen want all also have come with the
expectation that women just have to doit no matter how they're feeling. So

(01:23:51):
I just want a woman that'll fuckme right. But that means and maybe
not for you, but that meansbecause you, my nigga, I gotta
fuck you whenever you want. AndI'm not in the mood. And now
I'm not upholding my wife lee orgirlfriend duty right, I'm not what was
not nagging right, But a lotof times nagging starts in the fucking middle.

(01:24:12):
Why am I nagging now? Becausewhen we first got together, I
wasn't fucking nagging on no loison,not all of them. There are some
that just bitch for no reason.But also I think that sometimes nagging is
taken in a way that it's reallynot like it could be nagging that.
Let's just say, just for instance, I've been telling you for three fucking

(01:24:36):
weeks that we need to fix themotherfucking water heater. And I've and I've
said, hey, babe, weneed to fix this water heater. Maybe
I could just call and maybe Icould just call so and so. But
now I keep reminding you because shitis fucked up in the house. And
then I'm like, baby, ifwe don't get this fixed, I've had
to remind you seventeen times, andthen guess what the fucking shit is fucked

(01:24:57):
up. It's escalated. And nowI'm like, I fucking told you what
you're thinking that? What is hedealing with in the meantime? I don't
know. But but here's the thingimportant that is important. But are y'all
forthright about what the fuck y'all aredealing with this? Because most of women
don't care you know what you do. Know that's not true because if you,
at least for me, if youtell me what you babe, I
just got. I got this motherfuckingproject that I gotta get done at work.

(01:25:20):
That's my main focus. I'm gonnabe like, all right, because
if you're if I'm telling you todo that, that's why you gotta start
personalizing. Then you gotta speak fora general respective No, I can't because
I sense of the world. ButI think even in general, I think
generally speaking, because if we're goingto generalize things, I think lumping men
all into just not But I thinkgenerally speaking, most most women knack for

(01:25:42):
no reason. No, I don'tthink that. I know I never want
to say no reason, no reason. It is very disc okay, okay.
Is accountability a traditional quality of awoman, Yes, but I think
that I think I think that different. I think accountability is different based on
what you expect. What you expectfrom accountability. And I could say to

(01:26:06):
you, I'm sorry, keV,like that won't happen again. And but
if I didn't say it exactly themoment you wanted me to say it,
are exactly the way you wanted meto say. So, here's my thing.
I don't. I don't. Idon't think, and this is my
thing. I don't think women arecapable. I don't think. I don't
think any woman on planet Earth iscapable of accountability. Immediately, I know

(01:26:28):
immediately when I'm wrong, right,I won't. I won't. I won't
immediately try to justify it or findlike a lad to staying on the nick
to myself. I just think that'san estrogen thing. I just think that's
I think I see you do thatall the time. Well, I think
I called you out on a podcastabout that last week, and you said,
and you chocked it up to scorpioenergy. Niggas will often take accountability
for it and then cop a pleaof why they did it right afterwards.

(01:26:49):
Yeah, that's accountability. That's notaccountability. Won't say accountability accountability all No.
But see, here's the thing too, because accountability is not just admitting
that you're fucking wrong. Accountability isthe changes that you make, the effort.
And I think that, yeah allday every I'm a person me personally,

(01:27:11):
I'm a person. I'm not apologizingif I don't fucking mean it.
Dad asked, I gotta mean it, and then in that I'm just going
to make different decisions. That's accountabilityas well. I think apologizing and sincerely
meaning it is accountability. Changing yourway of trying to make sure that it
doesn't happen again is accountability. Butwhat the thing is is because I think

(01:27:32):
men and women do the same thingthat you just say he does. Because
I could be honest and say thatI could see what that's wrong at but
and I don't necessarily think that it'sbecause we don't want to be held accountable
as much as we really just wantyou to understand where that came from.
Because if I say something to youthat's off putting and you automatically just think

(01:27:54):
I was just trying to play withyou, I want you to understand where
my mindset was, and I wasn'ttrying to play with you. But I'm
not negating the fact that you feltplayed with. But I also want you
to know that I really wasn't tryingto be to understand that most women are
not like you. Okay, that'sfine, I disagree. I feel like
I have this conversation over and overand it's reminiscent of a lot of women

(01:28:15):
that I've dated. I think thatevery person in their story thinks that they're
the hero of their story and thinksthat they have the purest intentions. I
try to operate my relationships on thefact that, baby, you need to
understand that I'm never doing anything maliciouslyto you. I would not be in
a relationship if I was doing somesly underheaded, malicious shit. Everything that

(01:28:39):
I'm doing is purely selfish or purelyignorant. I don't realize how it's affecting
you, and I operate giving youthe same benefit of the doubt. I
don't think that you're nagging me tobe malicious. I don't think that you're
being forgetful to be malicious with yourwater heater metaphor. I'm not forgetting that
shit every week to fuck you over, to fuck our household over. To

(01:29:00):
Will's point, I have other shipon my mind. Maybe I'm not the
best communicator, but I'm good toyou in other areas. Not everybody is
perfect in relationships. We have tooperate in our relationships where you need to
know I have your best intentions atheart, and I feel the same way
about you. She made a point, and she said that we need to
have. We're not having these discussionsenough, right. I think most of

(01:29:21):
discussions you'll never catch when you getyour group of friends. Right do we
have Do men have round tables abouttheir women or about just women in general?
Like, I don't think we dothat. I think all of these
conversations have stems from problems that womenhave. But a lot of it is

(01:29:41):
like, Okay, it's one sided. So it's like, I know we're
expected to be a lot stronger andbut yo, we're really not. We're
really not. Like so it's likeit's like a lot of time I just
got to take a deep breath andwalk away because it's like it's not penetrating
because I'm not as like it's likeanything I think a good man, right,

(01:30:02):
anything we say is to help,Yes, it's to fix. Men
are fixers, right, So awoman to talk to another woman or tell
you how often you have a womantell you her problems and her story and
it's just the problem. There's nosolution, there's no solution. So it's
just a problem. Problem, problem. It's like all right, Like if
you call me and say, yo, I'm having a bad day, I'm

(01:30:24):
like, you know, we'll geta drink, bro, Yeah, a
woman to sit around and cry aboutit. Men are different. That also
goes to another problem that I have, and I think that we touched on
it before we started potting. Whena woman has a problem and she gets
with her female friends and they're lookingto comfort her. They're gonna tell her
that what the nigga was doing waswrong, right, Yeah, well all

(01:30:47):
of that to make her feel better, and it's pure, it's good intentions.
It's not from a delicious place.But what that does is it gets
in her head that she's like,you know her, she had just four
other people confirmed that what her niggais doing is not acceptable, So now
that puts the battery in her back. They're like, yo, everybody else
sees it. Everybody else is like, yo, you're fucking up. Why
don't you see it? And thennigga, when niggas hang out with other

(01:31:10):
niggas, we're not sitting check oboys, But we're also not sitting around
going ay yo, I've been lettingthat water heat. The situation just go
CN is so bad Like niggas,I'm just not thinking about that. It's
just not on my mind having thetime. If I'm having woman problems.
I don't even talk about it myboys. I probably mentioned it briefly.

(01:31:30):
It's cool. I probably like mentionedit briefly and like, yo, let's
go get a drinkers. Yeah,I'm likey, I don't really want to
talk about it because because it doesnothing. It does nothing. These things
does nothing. And I think that'sprobably one of the biggest issues though,
Like is that I feel like menjust kind of not necessarily sweeping under the
rug, but y'all just would ratherjust not deal with it, Like it's

(01:31:55):
not something y'all care to talk about. And I feel like, how that
you're to deal with? Yeah,talk about deal with But I feel like
that's an issue for women because it'slike we want to deal with it and
we want to like get past it. I want you to hear me,
though, because and if it seemslike it's nagging, it's literally because y'all
don't care to fucking hear it ordeal with and it's like holloween women.

(01:32:16):
I'm going to deal with it myself, but women don't do issue. Didn't
just call and fix that ship.We can, but depending on the nigga,
I'll handle it. I'll handle it. I deal. I'm not saying

(01:32:40):
us. I'm saying the man wouldbe like I got it. I got
it, and y'all want us totrust and follow your lead. So it's
like, I'm trusted to following yourlead. Niggas. Three weeks now,
it's hot to ship in this holethe girl, So I can't I can't
speak to that specifically, but Ialso know that that's us take, ladies.
That's why I know that I couldn'tnecessary. I can't even live with

(01:33:02):
a nigga like as a friend.I have too much independence on my own
and I'm not trying to deal withnobody else's time. If there's food in
the fridge that's been old or spoiledfor too long, and I got a
roommate and I gotta tell that niggaonce or twice about it, I'm gonna
take it out myself and then I'mgonna be pissed about it. So I
have to live on my own.But I think when you're dealing in a
domestic relationship, you have to understandthat everybody was raised differently culturally, so

(01:33:26):
you're you never know nobody to y'allhave to, y'all have again, it
goes to my point, you haveto have conversations like I notice a lot
now, like my guy, myman is an avid hookah smoker, right,
so there are just certain things whereI'm like, it'll like bother me.
But instead of me just being annoyed, I'll just ask like, babe,
why do you leave that towel here? It's not I don't think no,

(01:33:50):
no, no no, it's notnice. No no no, because
I'm asking because I could just belike why the fuck, like why the
is this towel here? But it'slike maybe he has an actual why does
he have to answer that question?Why does he have to? Because I
would rather know, like instead ofjust going off, I would rather be
like, why did you put?Yeah? So that I'm not tripping and

(01:34:13):
it might make more sense to methan putting like if I put like we
feed the dog, right, shegot her own motherfucking specific measuring cup.
Now if he feed her. Heleave that ship on the sink, but
it goes in a specific area.For me, I want to know,
why are you leaving it on thesink? And then he could literally be
like I don't think that I askedit in the condescending man, I'll just

(01:34:36):
be like no, because I thinkthat's what he is supposed to. Let
me know why he would leave itthere, And I can understand if he's
like, it's just quick. Iunderstand why women get using relationships because they'd
a nigga like me. Who Iwant you to ask those questions. I

(01:34:57):
want to let you know I leftit up there because I needed to drive
a little bit before I washed it, instead of instead of I would rather
us have a conversation about it insteadof me every time I see it,
I'm mad and now we arguing aboutsomething I don't have nothing to do with
that. Limits But that's y'all,mother. You don't want to God damn
talk. Everything is nagan. Questionis question? Is nag crazy? All

(01:35:20):
right? You're asking a question becauseyou have a problem with it? Yes,
you know you want to know?No, you do, no,
otherwise I would. I don't wantto moving it is not gonna fix because
I'm still gonna look you have aproblem with it. It's annoying, but
I genuinely want to know because mejust moving it or me just tripping is

(01:35:41):
not going to fix the fucking problem. If you will, it's just gonna
consue to happen. He the betterquestion, Why does it need to go
where you want to? Why can'tit just stay there? Why? For
women specifically, there's a place foreverything, right, So if you know,
the motherfucking catch up is in thegoddamn cabinet, and now you you
hungry as fucking you trying to getsome fries and you can't find it?
Are you? Not? Exactly?Yeah? Where's the ketchup? But if

(01:36:05):
it keeps happening, if it keepshappening my household, we put we put
certain ship in the pantry, notthe fridge. Maybe for him, Like
you put bread in the fridge.That's crazy. The bread lasts longer the
fucking fridge. Soda soda, SODA'sketchup. But it ain't going in the

(01:36:27):
fridge. You can heat the breadup. Who's heating ketchup up? Though?
I don't eat well, first ofall, I don't eat cold motherfucking
sandwiches. Bread goes bad and I'mthrown away by another one. So you're
trying to preserve the freshness of thebread about making it cold longer. But
I know we're not. We're notgetting away from this. We don't have

(01:36:50):
to. You're not concerned with thetexture of the bread. It doesn't change
there of the bread. Yes,it does, the it doesn't. Are
you heating it up? Because Idon't always want toast. I don't eat,
like I said, I don't eatcold bread. I don't eat cold
sandwich. It's always either toast orlike for sandwich. I'm toasting my What

(01:37:13):
kind of bread do you use?It's Sarah, it's Sarah le artisan.
Okay, okay, it's good stuff. But cold bread is creepy. I'm
not eating it cold. I've neverhad a slice of bread. That's fine.
I love that. I love that. I've never heard this. I've
never had a slice of bread beforeone slice. You've never had one slice.

(01:37:34):
I don't. I've never had apeanut butter and jelly sandwich. I've
never had a ham sandwich. I'mnot a sandwich nigga. I'm a sandwich.
We grew up very Caribbean. Myhousehold had bunn and cheese, nigga.
I never had well my family did, but I did it. I'm
not cake and ship like that.Yeah, I'm not a I'm not a
bread person. I don't even eata lot of bread. My first piece
was a cheddar, biscuits, carbs, I like, I love garb.

(01:37:57):
I don't eat pasta. I kindof stay away from potat but I eat
a lot of rice. So II just don't want to be questioned.
As a man, you just don'twant to be questions. No, Because
here's the thing. We don't neverhave to act all right. If I
if I'm having a if I ifI drink right, I want my cup
down right. I put it there. That's why I wanted to go.

(01:38:19):
If you have a problem with itbeing there, just move it. That's
fucking different. Bro. Know thatsounds like I'm not you don't drinking your
cup, and I'm gonna be like, why would you put that cup that
you're she's tapping right now, Bro, I know that I know this type.
She's a nagger. Bro, I'mnot a fucking nagger. Said.

(01:38:40):
Sometimes your man put a towel inand you just you like, no,
I wonder why he left it this, I did it. Like, it's
not a general thing. If somethingagain we gave thom because we're giving examples,
but generally speaking, I'm not afucking nagger, like you said,
I'm gonna ask questions to answers thatI want to know. That's fine.
But here's the thing, right,but I'm not every time, I'm not
like, why you let me no, I'm I'm gonna ask him once.

(01:39:03):
We're gonna have the conversation about it, and then I'm gonna just understand if
he doesn't put it back the nexttime, I'm like, Okay, that's
fine. Let me watch this.Let me show you. Let me shore
nagging ship. When you see this. If I'm a nagger, please comment
yes or no, and be honest. Please please do please Ryan, Ryan,
bro let me know because I thinkI feel your pain right now.

(01:39:27):
It's a safe space, respectfully,it's a safe space. I always know
him on the way home. AndI'm so check this out right. Uh,
you text a girl texts you,right, and for whatever reason,
you don't text back, right,and then you do call her hours later
and you pick up the phone,Hey, I text you earlier, So

(01:39:54):
like like that that ship that's naggington It's like it's like, it's like,
okay, so why didn't you call. I'm sorry, I'm sorry I
fucked up. She texts you,and then you speak to her sometime the
next day or later on the dayor whatever, and then she has an
attitude when you call her and I'mlike, what's your problem? Or I

(01:40:15):
text you and you didn't text back, like you immediately rushed to the attitude
first, instead of figuring out whydidn't text you back? Like you set
me up for failure? OV,can I ask you a question based on
what the fuck he just said?Yeah? Do you not think asking the
question instead of just jumping to theattitude would be better? Yeah? No,
that's I want you to confirm youbecause you want her to You don't

(01:40:39):
want her to just jump to anattitude. And I'm saying I'm saying I'm
gonna ask the question because I don'twant to just jump to a conclusion.
I have an attitude. I don'tthink that's a female male thing. If
I texted somebody, uh like early. Also, Yeah, I'll admit it.
I hate I hate being questioned.Yeah, I think you just have
a problem of communication. Give thebig no. No, no, no,

(01:41:00):
no, no, no, nono no question. No that's not
true, bro, because no listen, because there's the deadline between a question
and interrogation. Yeah, well,I understand what you're saying. I don't
like passive aggression and what it's youdon't like it, it's I hate it,
bro because because they're like, whatdo you really mean? It's like,
it's like, so then ask thatquestion, what do you really mean?
Because now it's an argument. Isgoing to say if you ask me

(01:41:25):
about something that I did intentionally,clearly you have a problem with it.
I want you to do that.Yeah, nobody, I'm not saying you,
I'm just saying that's that. Iknow. I know that because I
am a great communicator. I knowwhat you're trying to do. And because
I am, and because that's whyI have a podcast talk it might be
easier for you to communicate with yourco hosts than anyone. No, no,

(01:41:46):
the internet, they don't you No, no, no. I don't
bully them. I don't believe them. I'm very clear. I don't speak
in phrase. I don't paraphrase.I speak very directly. I say what
I mean yes, because I don'tlike confusion, and that's a that's a
sign of a great communicator, likeI don't. There's no lines of reading
between. So what I'm saying istypically not you right. Typically, when

(01:42:13):
people ask you questions about something thatyou did, intentionally they have a problem
with it, and they're not sayingwhat their real problem is. That's the
problem. That's the passive that's thepassive aggressive shop. I understand that some
people are like that, but itgoes back to my original statement of I
don't have Malicia's intentions when I'm withyou, and so I automatically don't assume
my partner does. So if mypartner asked me a question about why this

(01:42:35):
cup is here, I don't thinkthat she's being passive aggressive unless she's coming
at me with an attitude or beinglike, yo, nigga, why is
this cup always here? That's adifferent question. But if she's like,
yo, why do you put thatcup there? I'm gonna be like,
oh yea, Honestly, I justdon't like washing dishes and wasting dishes.
I think I only had I onlyhave water in this, so I'm gonna
use it three or four times?All right? Boom boom? And then

(01:42:58):
no, I think he's a bitch? Why though? So? Being I
think being a great community, whydo I always have to be? I?
I a this podcast. Go,You're gonna see how how non toxic
I am and how when niggas seethat everything real quick, real quick.
That ship is way more toxic.That ship he does is way more toxic

(01:43:20):
because there's no way to maintain thatenergy. That's problem. I'm cool.
Niggas like that, ain't ship respectfully? Are you always saying you don't have
a problem? You cool? Always? No? No, No, I'm
a nigga. If I have aproblem, I'm bringing it to your doorstep
immediately, and I'm doing I'm doingit in a non confrontational way. Narcissist.
I'm not a narcissist, so I'mnot afraid of confrontation. I'm going

(01:43:44):
to be like, hey, youare afraid of confrontation. No, I'm
going to tell you I have aproblem. And I don't think that you're
I don't think that you're doing somethingmaliciously. I think that it was I
would rather I would rather not thinkthat you're doing something malicious and ask assume
don't do it like that. YouWhat I wanted to say that your motherfucking
ask is that I feel you.You feel like you're a great communicator because

(01:44:08):
you don't want things to be misunderstood, right. I feel the exact same
way. So a lot of timessometimes I might it might seem like I'm
over explaining, right, but evenI think that even going deeper than that,
being a good communicator and not wantingthere to be misunderstandings, I genuinely
want to understand. That's fine,So I'm going to ask a question.

(01:44:29):
I'm cool with that, But yourwatch because because I was reminiscent, but
Cake, he's projected. Can youcan you know what I'm talking about?
Though? Do you know when peopleare doing that though they're asking you question
that they already know the answer to, just to avoiding argument, you know
what I'm talking about? No,it's like this, right, say if

(01:44:50):
all right? If I all right? So I come home and I put
my jacket over the chair, right, and it's supposed to she prefers you
to be in a closet, right, I would prefer to say, come
put your jacket in the closet.I would prefer that that's direct. But
if you come to me and say, why is your jacket hit on the

(01:45:12):
chair? Come on, I knowwhy you're saying that. I'm talking about,
bro, but for my closet,for my example, it wouldn't be
the first time that you I wouldn'tlike your first time putting it on the
fucking back. That makes sense tome. It wouldn't be your first time
doing it. It would literally belike we've had several conversations about it in
the past. Why I might belike, da, no, that's no,

(01:45:35):
because at a certain point now therejust needs to be an understanding.
Why isn't this clicking for either oneof us? Like why is this it's
still an issue for me? Letme just ask you, why don't you
turn on the garbage disupposed to whenyou discard your shisha. I know when
you don't do it because because notnag nagging. Nagging is literally different than

(01:46:00):
what you're saying that you know,you know what she can do. She
had a problem with it, shecan just hit the switch. That's it.
I keep doing it, So keepdoing it because if I keep doing
it after having the conversation and wejust never touch it again, I'm annoyed
now now it's now I'm just likewhen when you ain't text her back and
she got a motherfucking attitude. I'mtrying to avoid that. I don't want

(01:46:24):
to have an attitude or just curseright because I don't want to do that.
I'd rather get cursed. I'd rathersay rather, because everything everybody know,
because everything New York. Everything doesn'trequire a conversation. Everything does.
I agree, everything doesn't require aconversation. Hey, listen, stop putting

(01:46:46):
your down to the garbage and turnit on please. I'm tired of this
ship think that everything conversation. Butbecause you why did you not hit the
garbage disposed? Now we having aconversation. But it's not like that.
It's not that why did well?It could be it could literally be something
like I'm trying to think because Iactually saw a post. That's what made

(01:47:09):
me honestly start being like, letme just ask instead of assuming, instead
of just catching an attitude, becausethere might be something that makes more sense
on his end than it does onmy end. I'm just doing ship out
of habit. But me to you, right, to you, to me,
I feel like I'm very and whenyou're in a partnership at some point

(01:47:32):
some things need to make sense.I want you to how my brain was.
I do too. I want youto understand, like why did you
say it? Like I'm a personthat if if if you say something to
me right, I'm gonna be likedepending on how I ingested it at that
moment, I'm gonna be like,did you mean it that way? Or
am I tripping because I want tohave an understand I'm just gonna I'm an

(01:47:56):
inquisitive individual text message comment. Iwould be so livid if I texted somebody
for h and I don't hear forthem for hours and then they never acknowledge
why they didn't hit me back.If I'm in a sick one of you
to give a chance to No,I'm not gonna. I'm not hours.
I'm not jumped through tick right.No, no, No, I'm just
saying, like to your point,yeah, if I call you and you're

(01:48:18):
already angry, I'm not doing that. So what I'm saying, it's like,
let me say why I didn't letme take. I'll take. You
don't know if you don't acknowledge itat all, that's crazy. My yo.
I was dating at Shorty recently andshit pisses me off. Nigga.
She's talking about, Hey, we'regonna link up on Friday at eleven am.
She'll text me at ten forty sixlike, hey, shit is getting

(01:48:42):
crazy. I'm running behind. Igotta take my grandma to the nurse.
About bamb I'm probably not gonna bethere till closer to three. And I'm
like, all right, that's fine, thank you for communicating to me.
Now it's three o'clock and you're stillnot here. I don't hear from you
from until four or four thirty.Now, you holding up my day,
You holding up my time. Icould have gone to the gym. I'm
really you getting who's this one?You call me? Exactly? So?

(01:49:03):
Then so so she'll hit me upat four thirty talking about something. Hey,
I'm on my way now, andI'm like, all right, whatever,
and she's like, oh yo,if you're gonna have an attitude about
it, I just want gas LightCity. That's a gas light right,
gas lights City. We were supposedto shut at eleven is four thirty.
My whole day is off. Nowmy whole day is off. And you're

(01:49:23):
gonna want to You got here atfour thirty or five, you're gonna want
to chill, bitch, I gottashow at seven. So now we don't
even have the time to do anythingthat. We can't get a full movie
off, we can't get a restaurant. That's that's a bad job in it.
She's fired that's a problem with community, and that's that's what I thought
you were talking about. I havea problem. If I, oh,
no, I'm not with that,don't text me and then don't let me
hear from you for a few hours, and then try to act like I'm

(01:49:45):
the problem when I'm like, yo, bitch, where have you been all
day? Right? Well? Seewhat that is a follow up because the
expectation is through the text, we'regonna see each other. Yes, if
it's just hey, how's your daygoing? Oh yeah, bitch, I
might not respond to Yeah, I'mnot I got shit to do, but
I am ayo, Hey, I'vebeen running around all day. Right,
I'm gonna tell you why we weredoing podcasts. I definitely don't think going

(01:50:09):
into it with an attitude is asolution. Yeah, it makes it big.
But I if I if I genuinelyhave a problem with something, and
I think that I am a personthat I don't, I honestly don't have
like lots of problems with things.I think I'm a very like I understand
people and and how life works.But if it's really something that gives me

(01:50:29):
pause, I'm going to bring it. That's why I say I don't think
that I naged because there's far there'svery few and far between things that I
actually bring up to my man,you're a great orator, and that's scary
for a lot of that means communicator. You speak very well, right but
but but even more than that,I think you have the ability to speak

(01:50:49):
logically, which is and that's whyI said to you, most women are
not like you. I'm very directtoo, and I think that even so
I could see how a guy couldbe like she nagging because I'm just direct,
like I sometimes I can. II'm very calculated in how I present

(01:51:11):
things to people in general, butthere are sometimes like where I just don't
care to be soft or or firm. I'm just saying that how to come
out, so I might really belike, I'm just straightforward, and I
know even with work like that,ship will rub people the wrong way sometimes
like she's being a bitch, andI'm like, I'm really not. I'm
just focused on what the needs tobe done. So why wasn't it done
by the day? My prayers,Ryan's good, get that water fix.

(01:51:38):
We don't. I genuinely don't haveto worry about it. I literally genuinely
and I feel so blessed because Iget to live such a soft life.
He's afraid of you, He's notafraid of No, he will the fun

(01:52:00):
out of me the nicest I meanafraid of you. Like going back and
forth because I don't think you don'tback down, No, I don't.
We will just but but if there, if it's a situation where nobody's backing
down, we will just table itfor a different way. Back down me
always, nobody should back down whenthey are you know what. And we're

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gonna end show soon because and I'mnot seeing you. I think nowadays there's
a problem with women not understanding thepower of their feminity. Right, you
ever got into an argument with yourmen and during the argument he's heated and
you just fucking kissed them? Whywhy yelling? Argument over? Because if
you're yelling at me, no,no, listen. But that's the thing

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when I'm just not dealing with allright, So when when when when men
and women are yelling? When manand women are yelling back? When men
and women are yelling back and forthwith each other? Right, the reason
why the men get so aggressive becausethe women is now presenting energy, She's
being masculine, so a woman canand it sounds because most men we argue

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for the sake of having a conclusionand a compromise. A woman most times
just wants you to hear the problem. There's no compromise there, so in
that a woman can confuse and win. And because a woman would rather take
ten minutes to argue than thirty secondsto stroke his ego a little bit and

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make it better for everybody. BecauseI'm telling you a heated argument, a
woman just bro, I don't givea funk out. I don't give a
fuck out, angrier, nigga keVcan you would you know what to do
if a woman kissed you while you'reyelling, bro, it will confuse the
fuck out of it. I guessyou're gonna disarm me y right there.
So ladies, if y'all both arenot good communicators and you just want to

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get the shit over it, Iguess kiss And I'm not trying to make
a say. I don't have aperfect relationship, but I have very close
to right. We don't we genuinelyThat's good. You don't like that,
like we genuinely have. What I'msaying, it's very men at the end
of the day, we resort backto our brute, primitive sate primal nature

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because feminine energy wins all the time. It does. Listen, Why do
you think listen? Because why doyou think? What do you listen?
Let me tell you. Let metell you something. You know who you
know who has mastered being feminine host? No, nobody marries them. This
is why. This is why men. Why do you think men love the

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strip club? Because the women areso fucking feminine? It's a facad no,
but but that no, but that'sall the time men and men know
that. That's why they're willing topay for it. Will is cooking right
now. Will really men are willingif women men are willing to pay for
it what it is? Because it'snothing. They're just being listen at the

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at the rip club. What dothey do? They sit next to you,
how you doing, baby? Theysit there, they rub your knee,
They don't, they don't, theydon't put none of their bullshit on
you. They just listen to you. And the man sit there and just
fucking give her all his money justfor being feminine. She's not giving him
no pussy. She just being feminineas fuck. And and men love that
ship. We hear what y'all aresaying, what you're how you're about to

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defend fake it's all bullshit, don'tmatter. We're not talking about that.
Can we also say that men,because I don't ever want any man to
feel like they're like just I don'tthink that men are scared. I think
that y'all are willing to weigh thewhite flag quicker than women are, just
for the sake of peace and nothaving to go and always looking for peace

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always. You know what, youknow, what piece is silence. That's
not always gonna but that's what piecesthough. We want to come to the
kid because when there's real issue,silence cool. It may feel and seem
like piece in that moment, butit's not gonna be a continuous, peaceful
situation because then if you just nevercome back to it, you just wanted

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to shut up. Because women canfeel that too, when y'all just want
us to shut the fuck up andy'all say whatever, we could feel that
this nigga just want me to shutthe fuck up, you know what I
mean? But that doesn't negate thefucking issue. We're just gonna it's just
gonna come up again. So isit really peaceful because we just kissing it?
Can we hear what will? Canwe hear what Will is really saying?
Though, Let's talk about the argument. If we have backed to the

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water heater issue, if you whereare you back and forth? I told
you I was gonna take care ofthe water heater nigga, you haven't,
and then boom, you just goand kiss that nigga and you will fix
it in five minutes. Hey,hey baby, I'm sorry. I raised
my voice. I'm sorry I gotloud. I've just been real fla.
I'm just telling you, fel energyalways winna be it wins. He's gonna
be disarming. He's gonna be like, yo, you know what I am

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fucking bugging about. That's why.Let me see if I can take care
of it right now. If Ican't, I'll take care. That's that's
probably through most women. What domost women do when they're losing an argument?
What do you do? They cry? They cry and and and what
what crying does is here's what itdoes. It makes the man shut the

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fuck up, forget about his problem. Now he deals with you. I
can't I can't even resolve my frustrationbecause as a human being who cares about
you, I can't want to seeyou. Got you gotta bro listen,
listen, listen. I've had Iwas in a relationship for years and my
problems never got solved because every problemI had, she would start to cry.

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I would have to console her,and we never even spend the block
and come back to my ship.So now we got piling because ship.
You know what that's called. That'semotional bullying. It's emotional bullying, and
that's the thing that's a ship thatnobody talks about. Women do that a
little time. They think that's beingfeminine. No, it's it's if you
can conjure up tears, like becausehere's what I found out women, No,

(01:58:00):
No, here's what I found outright in in your sad state.
Right you're you're you're emotional. Letme stay saying about another bitch. All
of a sudden, you you peckedright back up again. Now, oh
what you said about another bit show? But I thought you were just sad.
What happened? What happened to thetears? Because you did that on
purpose. That was your that's yourdefense mechanism. Let me cry so I

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can become the victim and he forgetsabout where his valid issue is and make
it about me. I think Iwill agree. I do because I even
see toddler girls do. That's it, it's instinct you have to do that.
But maturity will allow you to sitthere and have your fucking moment of

(01:58:41):
shame because you're wrong. Hear himout toxic. Is I think this nigga?
Is? I really think that he'sspitting about this one, particularly because
you don't need We both don't listen. We both don't need to get our
issuies off right now. Don't havea fucking issue because I have one?
How often does that happen? Youhave it? You and she's like yeah,
but so it's like boom, nowwe just we could never talk about

(01:59:03):
your problems because you have all ofthese things built up about me. So
if I'm like, hey, yo, but it's it's not because we donet
fucking made up over my problem.You're just bringing it up now because it's
similar to the problem I have withyou. I'm like, yo, if
to the texting point, like yo, if I'm gonna be wasting my whole
fucking day, text me and letme know what's going on and then she

(01:59:24):
goes like, oh yo, whatwhat about the time when you how come
you always liking these bitches pictures onInstagram? That conversation because that's and that's
the dodging accountability. I can agreewith you guys on that. Ladies,
they're right because we do and Iwill say we and I speaking generally,

(01:59:47):
are just putting it on me.We do do that. We do do
that, so we could tighten upon that to our Sgain didn't even get
the bottom U. But you knowwhat I mean. That means we have
a great show. This is thethird show the row we did and like
we had two hours every week.Now, hell of an editing job.
But this one was dope. Thisone was dope, as as all of

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them are. I didn't put thetheme song on here tonight, So don
cavin nig upcoming shows odic every Tuesday. Nikka, we're on tour next week.
What are you talking about next week? So we are skipping next next
week. We probably will try toget one out maybe later in the week
early and we we'll try. Butme and cav are doing the America Takeover
tour with Ben Bankers. I'm featuringI think Kev's hosting and Ben is headlining.

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We're gonna be in Orlando at theOrlando Funny Bone next Tuesday, Tampa
Funny Bone on the fifteenth, andDaniel Beach down South Florida on the sixteen,
so that's gonna be a three dayshow for I'm also I Venture this
Friday, so if y'all out,the day of the podcast dropped, so
that day came, I will bein Kekos. Oh you're going to You're

(02:01:00):
gonna wait next wether anyway? Ohyeah, so yeah, next weether,
we have a week off then poof, So we see y'all in two weeks,
all right, But nevertheless, yo, this episode two ten, I
don't have the song because I gota new computer. But that's all jokes,
A sad baby episode two ten inthe books, We will see you
guys in two weeks. As amatter of fact, we're gonna have to
drop the visuals for the last episodethis week and then give them the next

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one next week, so you guyswon't miss any shows. All right,
peace out, y'all much loud,We out of here.