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July 3, 2024 64 mins
Como líderes es necesario ser sanos para poder dar a los demas y producir buenos frutos en todas las areas de nuestras vidas y es nuestra responsabilidad identificar y reconocer que debemos ser sanados y obtener la ayuda necesaria. 

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1. Es una mente indecisa por que la raíz es falta de afirmación y falta de confianza en sí misma por la experiencia de vida que la persona ha tenido.

 2. Una mentalidad de rechazo es una mente atribulada que no te permite disfrutar muchas veces de los buenos momentos.

3. Es una Mente con expectativas no realistas.




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But well, let' s talkimmediately after the commercial shorts, let'
s talk about the subject that is, dear Father today. Let' s
talk based on a couple of verses. The first is going to be James
one eight. So let' sgo to Santiago one eight. The ones

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with their Bibles there. I willgive you the verses in advance to search
for them, because I do notwant you to just listen to what I
am speaking here and not pass mywords by the word of the Lord.
So they have James one eight.Psalms one from one to three and we

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will also be playing Luke ten fromforty- one from forty- two.
So take note of those three scripturesso that you are meditating on them these
days. And we thank you,sir, for your word is good,
for you give us revelation in thesethings. I want to talk to you

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tonight about what those rejected characteristics ofthe mind are, what those characteristics of
the rejection mentality are, because manytimes we act under this mentality and we
don' t know it and youcan' t improve, you can'

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t grow, you can' tthrow out anything that you' re really
not aware that you have, thatyou' re doing it, that you
' re acting like this and that' s why there are so many things
in your life that don' tmove forward. So, during these series
that we' re going to behaving here on Women Rise Up, I

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want your wife to understand that allthese messages, what I' m doing,
these messages for you, is tohelp you get up and Walman curl
Up? Get up, woman?There' s a lot of stuff.
We have to get rid of alot of things and it' s not

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working on us, because I don' t really like that term of work.
That' s where I' mworking myself. I' m working
on this, I' m workingon this weakness I have. I'
m working not because we really don' t work on that. It really
is leaving the holy spirit to dothe work. It' s a totally
different thing. But yes, theLord brings here the things he needs us

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to look at so that we canunderstand what he wants to do with our
life, the call he wants tomake with our lives, the plan he
has with us and we walk,but that we do not stay stagnant and
sitting, but that we rise upbrave and believing and confident and confident in
ourselves, that he who called usis the one who will finish the work

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in ourselves. So in the nameof Christ Jesus, let us speak of
James one eight and say that thedouble- minded man is inconsistent in all
his ways. True, this isa verse that you know and hear and

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have heard many times. And Ilike this word a little bit to shred
it, because we have to understandseveral things here about it. And the
first characteristic of a rejected mind,of a rejected mind that has been struggling

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with rejection to say it in threedifferent ways and there is no doubt about
the subject, is that it isan undecided mind, an undecided mind to
fight against that. God bless allthose who are connecting, sharing, sharing
this life, which is a blessingfor the lives of their friends, family

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and others. So the first characteristicis an undecided mind, an undecided mind.
Some of you will be struggling withindecision, it will be hard for
you to make a decision and waitand wait and wait for confirmation and be

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clear one thing and the other tomake the decision and go round and round
and round and do not make thedecision. It is good that you want
to receive confirmation from the Lord onsome matters, but it is also true
that many times we delay to makea specific decision because we have an undecided

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mind. We have an undecided mindand this having an undecided mind is a
gateway to the enemy for what reason. Because if you are an undecided person,
you are an unstable person and thatcomes against the movement of God in

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your life. Many of you arenow at a time when you have to
make a very important, very importantdecision, and this indecision comes in.
Even though they have received confirmation fromthe Lord to move forward, they do
not move forward because they are withthat indecision. And this makes the enemy

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take advantage and stop the master's plans with you. This speaks here
the word in James, one eight, the double- minded man is unwholesome
in all his ways And it turnsout that when one is an indecisive person,

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when one is one has an indecisivemind, many times it is because
it comes bound up with a spiritof rejection of something that happened in our
lives that made us feel that way. It didn' t make us feel
confident. They know because when onehas a rejected mentality, a rejection mentality,

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because something happened to us before,it is because there, at that
moment, we felt that we werenot affirmed. We feel that someone told
us, we feel that our parentsdid not affirm us. We feel something
about anyone who doesn' t feelsupported, we don' t feel affirmed.
And when there is a lack ofaffirmation in our lives, there is

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indecision. And it turns out thatfor you to be a fruitful woman,
you have to be planted, thatis, when you know what you'
re going to do, you're determined, you do it, and
there' s no one there tomove you forward or back. You'
re planted. And one of thethings that this year is important to you,

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for it to be fruitful, isthat you are a woman, as
a firm decision, that you area yes, that you are not one
with the Lord' s approval obviously, but that instability comes to stop and
damage the process of your fruitification.And we know one to three so they

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were there scoring these scriptures. Hesays that the man comes boldly and here
they speak, obviously, both menand women. Blessed is the man,
who was not counseled by evil men, neither was he in the way of
sinners, nor in the seat ofscorners; but in the law of the
LORD is his delight, and inthe law he meditates day and night;

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and it shall be as a treeplanted, and well planted; and it
shall be as a tree planted,that what is it, which bringeth forth
its fruit in its season? Itwill be like a tree planted by streams
of water, which gives its fruitin its time and not and its leaf

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does not fall. And everything hedoes will prosper. Everything he does will
prosper. So that' s ahell of a word. This is that
if we don' t use themwell, we can' t understand what
the Lord is talking to us rightnow. Your wife, if you are

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a woman, planted in what,planted in your convictions, planted that you
do not move, for all good, to doctrine, planted in the word
of the lord, planted in thehouse of the lord, planted in your
home? Taking firm what is yourrole? Having firm, what' s

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it gonna take you? TO YOUmove forward, to YOU and your family,
a planted person thrives. But theperson who doesn' t make decisions,
who is from here to there andfrom there to here and doesn'
t know what to do with hislife, who has trouble making radical decisions,

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who has trouble making a radical decisionof obedience to the Lord So be
it something not so easy or notso cute. Those people don' t
prosper why, because what the Lordhas for them isn' t going to
move forward, because you lack adecision. If you are planted in his

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word, the word says so youwill have plenty. And here I am
not talking about money alone, butabout all the areas that we have as
women. This speaks of the abundanceyou receive when you are at peace,
when you are at peace with thedecision you are making when you are at

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peace, no matter how difficult youare when you are at peace. You
advance in good and you will prosperand you will have plenty when you are
at peace, with your emotions,because it is that an undecided woman also

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lets herself be carried away by heremotions when you are. Oh my got,
something happened here on Instagram that tookme out. Allow me a second

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and I reconect apologize here on Facebookor it' s Team Happen says I

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' ve been taken off Instagram andI can' t reconnect what this is,
my God, Mr Well, I' m sorry about what you were
seeing on Instagram. What a horriblething. I can' t go in.

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I can' t get into theInstagram account in the middle of the
message the name of Christ Jesus,what is this? You can' t
come in. You can' tgo on Instagram, so sorry, I

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' m sorry. We' restill around here, we' ll refuel
the video after there somehow, butlook at you, look at you.
These are the things of real life. Oh obvious, obvious, I don

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' t know what happened. IfGina didn' t pull me off Instagram,
I mean, I can' tget into the account, I can
' t get into the account.I don' t know if the platform

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fell, or I don' tknow what happened, but I can'
t get in. Well, theteam. Please, if there' s
anyone that aily Maria Daniela I'm suddenly getting any Instagram messages about live,
please report that we' re onthis side. Well, we keep

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going when we' re at peace, with our emotions, we' re
going to be able, we're going to have the ability. We
will have that blessing of being ableto be abundant, for what our life
would be like without our emotions wouldhave complete peace. It would be totally

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different. True, it would betotally different, because we feel. There
are days that we feel good,there are days that we feel bad.
Our emotions are here and there,and those days we feel that the world
is against us. But that's nothing more than one' s emotions
trying to move him to where perhapsthe Lord doesn' t want us to

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be true, and it' snot that emotions are bad, but that
we have to learn not to letourselves be fooled by them many times.
So the important thing here is thatwe have that peace of mind, a
rejected mind is always ready to defenditself? Listen to this? Listen to

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this, Women, because I'm talking to you about this subject,
because I went through this, Iwent through this issue of having that mind
of rejection, having that spirit ofrejection for many years, why is it
because of a trauma I lived inmy childhood and a rejected mind is always

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ready to defend itself? There's the defensive. It' s not
teachable. And when you' relike this, you won' t be
able to grow God' s Woman, you can' t be defending yourself
at all times, because you don' t tolerate criticism, you don'

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t tolerate either good or bad.I don' t like talking much.
I don' t like that termof constructive criticism, because it' s
okay that you can correct it tome I rather like to call it as
correction, because really like that constructivecriticism, I don' t know for

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myself that it' s one thingagainst the other. Then there are people
who do not tolerate a correction,who do not tolerate a confrontation, because
they believe and feel immediately that itis an attack on them. But it
' s an attack depending on theperson who' s making that criticism,

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who' s making that reprimand,who' s making that correction. That
depends on a person who is alwaystrying to defend himself, He does not
stop ending when one is going tosay things, when he is already defending
himself. He is a person whohas a mind of rejection, who has
yet to be corrected by the LordIn that he has to renounce the spirit

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of rejection of his life and thatcharacteristic which is also linked to that mind
of rejection generates instability. Instability ina person is very dangerous. It'
s too dangerous for us to beunstable. That' s why that one,

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sir, calls him and brings himout here in word. An unstable
person in all his ways will notprosper, and that is what this word
speaks of, will not prosper.So pay attention to those reactions from you

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at certain times and ask the HolySpirit. Holy Spirit, why I react
like this, why my reactions likethat. Please, deal with me Holy
Spirit. Take this away from meI don' t want to be like
this, Mr Help me, Saname. A person can be very has,

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can have many talents and idols andcan be a powerful person who knows how
to handle his talents and gifts,who has that favor, who has that
grace of the Lord, who hasthis motion. But if the person is
unstable in his mind, by thisspirit, by this mentality of rejection,

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he is a dangerous person. Youcan have very nice talents and gifts,
but it' s unstable, it' s double- minded and dangerous.
You don' t want to befriends with such a person? You don
' t want to be a friendor a person like that. How we

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are going to make you want tobe friends with a person that we are
in relationship with her and at alltimes feel that you are attacking her for
something that you can tell her truthis a lot. This looks a lot
like when you say ah, butthat girl that young man is like an

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eggshell, you can' t tellhim anything, because right away he gets
upset, You have to look anddetail yourself and think about how he'
s going to tell you things sothat the person doesn' t bother.
That person who is so has thismentality of rejection and has to be healthy
from it, has to be freefrom it. She' s a very

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annoying woman who listens to me ifyou' re the person that you are,
that other people want to be aroundyou because it' s terrible.
It' s terrible. It's terrible that you deal with one when
one is. And that what generatesthe spirit of rejection is so tremendous that

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what it generates is that people reallyreject the person who really throws it aside,
who really doesn' t take itinto account at all, who really
don' t invite it anywhere,who really don' t let go of
the big projects that it is,that' s what the spirit of rejection
does. Then you who listen tome here, listen to the word of

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the Lord, you hear how theLord is speaking right now, because the
Lord wants to bring healing and Ifeel from the Lord that tonight the Lord
will bring awareness and remove all plugsin your ears where you do not want
to listen. That shovel is aword of correction. This message is a

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message for that too to be ableto align yourself in what the Lord wants
to do with your life and thatyou are teachable, that you let yourself
be taught, that you let yourselfbe treated by the Lord, not by
me, that you let yourself betreated by the Lord, that you be

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open to what the Lord wants tobe today and wants to talk to you
these days. I' m sorry, a rejected person of mind. He
' s a person who changes alot, changes a lot. His personality
changes a lot. One day it' s fine and the next day it

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' s remal One day you cantalk to him and the next day you
can' t talk to him,because his emotions are going around. That
' s what we say here inEnglish. It' s a mood person
mood the mood changes your mood everyday. I mean, he' s
not a stable person in the professionalterm, they call this. She'

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s an even- handed person.It' s a person that you can
access, that you always see herthe same as you see her with the
same way of being as long asyou do. That' s very nice.
Is it very nice that they sayabout you that you' re an

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eco- animous person, that you' re a stable person? That you
' re a stable person? Emotionallyyou are a person that your joy is
the same today and tomorrow and nomatter what you are going through that moment.
Your joy, still the same.He is a person who, despite
any adversity, a woman who,despite any adversity, brings a smile to

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him. There are no external factorsthat can move a person, a woman
who is planted, who is planted, who is not like a crazy car
with her emotions, who is planted. In what the Lord has said And

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this happens because you, woman,beautiful woman, you hear the voice of
the enemy more than the voice ofGod. You' ve heard what the
enemy has said more than what thelord himself has said about you Then that
undecided woman died who changes her temperfrom here to there, who has that

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temper, my God, that noone can stand it. These are characteristics
of a person who has a spiritof rejection or who has that mentality of
rejection. And the lord wants todeal with that, he wants why,
because he wants to have daughters whoare planted, who have firm convictions,

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who do not wander here and there, when you have a double mentality,
true, a double way of beingthat you change so much. That steals
your vision, woman, that stealsyour vision because the vision thrives with conviction.

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Write that down and think about it. The vision prospers with conviction,
that is, that your vision thevision that God has given you for what
you have to do, for yournext decision, for the business that you
are going to open, for theentrepreneurship that you are doing, for the

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ministry that you are going to start, for the mission that you are going
to start, for the family,that you are going to start, for
the studies, that you are goingto start? You have to be sure.
You have to be sure. Youhave to be assertive, that is,

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being a person who doesn' thave a double mentality. Be assertive,
have clear conviction. You have tobe a decisive person, woman because
it is that the undecided mind isa characteristic of a rejected mind. It
arises why, that is, why. It is precisely because of the lack

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of affirmation. It is because ofthe lack of affirmation to you that you
lack confidence in yourself, because ofthat lack of affirmation, because of that
life experience that you lived. Then, at that moment, it began to
operate in your life that spirit ofrejection, which is also super bound to

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the spirit of orphanhood. How so, spirit of orphanhood. Yes, the
enemy is an orphan. He stoppedhaving a father and he doesn' t
want you to have a father toassert you. So you' re always
going to be feeling that you don' t belong to anything, that you
don' t belong anywhere, thatyou don' t fit anywhere, that

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people always look over you, thatyou' re ignored, because that'
s the spirit of Orphanhood, ofthe spirit of rejection. As he feels
like that, it makes you feelthat way. Satan has no father and
he does not want any of usto know the Lord as our father.

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Imagine, imagine the depth of thisis that one begins to see the word
and the Lord begins to reveal tohim one and the other thing, one
and the other, and I amjust talking about the first. Characteristically undecided.

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It is a rejected mind, becauseit has lack of affirmation, lack
of affirmation of who. I don' t know whose. You' ve
had a lack of affirmation in thepast. But the Lord wants to heal
you from it, because the Lordassures you every time we have an encounter
with the Lord Jesus. Guess whatthe Lord Jesus first speaks in our lives.

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He talks about our identity, Hetalks to us and tells us you
are this, you are this?And you' re this? When you
get a word from the lord he' ll always sign you on who you
are to him. That is whyyou cannot lend your ears to people who
have no idea who you are toGod. You can' t lend your

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ears to those people. You can' t lend your ears here. This
Gina comment is super hot. Whenwe' re like this, we'
re really like a volcano. Welook like a swindler like they' re

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with any pro- explosion thing andthat' s not right. That'
s not right now. Second characteristic, the mind of rejection or the mind
of rejection. It' s atroubled mind. It' s a troubled

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mind, it' s a troubledmind. Now the word troubled don'
t take it to one end.The word troubled is that they are troubled
that in the face of the problemwith herself. The troubled mind is a
rejected mind. And there is apart of the Bible, in Luke ten

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forty- one and forty- two, and it is a classic example of
this. And we see it inMarta' s life. In this verse
we see Martha with a troubled mind, with a troubled mind, and look
at what the Lord says in thisword. Jesus answered Martha, Martha,
anxious and troubled, you are withmany things. Look at the words of

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Lord Jesus, anxious and troubled.Afán and the troubled mind, the troubled
mind, are like little cousins,there like little sisters. The Afán brings
a troubled mind Martha, Martha,anxious and troubled, you are with many

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things, you walk with many things, But only one thing is necessary and
Mary has chosen the good part,which will not be taken away from her.
Look what another version says, that' s the version of Queen Valera
and this one I' m goingto read to you, I think is

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the new living translation Marta, Marta, why you care about so many things.
There' s something more important.Mary has chosen him and no one
will take him away. Look atthis troubled mind. It allows you to
be in a crowded place and notenjoy the moment. Look at how Marta

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was in a spectacular place, underthe sun. Which place is no more
spectacular than sitting next to the LordJesus listening to his teachings with a group
of friends, that is to complementthe thing that spectacular is that I have
my group of friends here with menow and Lord Jesus suddenly come print and

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sit here with us what you thinkI am going to do, that you
think you are going to do justrunning, seeing the face of our Lord
Jesus, in love with him,listening to his words, listening to his
teachings, my God. But howam I not going to enjoy that moment

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gives that blessing that the Lord isgiving me. The same thing happened to
Marta. He had the opportunity ofthe centuries, of the centuries, amen
sitting there, standing there, receivingin his house Lord Jesus, and she

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was walking behind, corrotting with thosefrets countries for here pending to whom he
was going to serve and to whomhe was going to help and to whom?
And the lord told him, butwhat' s the matter, hear
you, in our language here colloquial, but what' s happening to you,
Martica? Okay, what' shappening to you, Martica? You

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don' t see that I amyou, sir, and you don'
t come here to be next tome to receive the best I have for
you, when even in a fewdays I' m going to die.
And you' re still looking outfor whether the corrotos are clean or not
so clean, whether or not thefood is enough, and you' re

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tormenting your sister' s life,that is, a person who has a
rejection mentality, can be in themost spectacular environment, full of people and
feels bad. They can' tenjoy it for a moment. And I
tell you this is because I,in a time I walked better said this

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way, I went into places andplaces and I felt that not there?
I wasn' t feeling well.Obviously, there are environments as far as
the spiritual realm is concerned. Inthat environment one is going to feel a
repulsion of being in certain places eventhough they are supposedly normal. Not anything

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demonic or anything like that, butit is the holy spirit and the design
of spirits will tell you when youare in an environment nothing to see truth,
an environment where you are operating manyspiritual things from the back. But
many times you can even be ina community activity, in your church,

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in a small groove, and youfeel that you don' t fit there,
you feel suddenly you can' tenjoy the moment or the blessing of
that moment, because in your mindsomething starts to tell you that voice of
the enemy begins to tell you it' s not that look at that,
it' s not that look atthe other, it' s not that

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you don' t fit in here, no, but because you' re
going to feel good here and themind starts to spin in the head to
the person, I what I dohere, I don' t fit in
here. This is not for meto look at the other as it looks
at me, that is, apanorama and some weird movies that you arm
yourself in the head when you havethis rejection mentality that isn' t true,
that all you want is to provokea problem, when it' s

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also in mind you start to tellyou all that. Why don' t
you enjoy it, don' tlet him enjoy that moment. You don
' t let the lord even blessyou at that moment with something specific,
that he wants, that you see, that he wants, that you learn,

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that he wants you to contact someonesuddenly that will help you with something
and you, by understanding this malicementality, miss the opportunities that the lord
has for you, because you don' t enjoy, because you don'
t want to hear what the lordis talking to you at that moment,

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when you' re in that place. The lord suddenly took you to that
place so that you would meet someone, so that he is suddenly giving you
some kind of contact or something thatwill later help you, your life,
your family and your purpose, yourplans what you have with him. Obviously,

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Mira Marta was there and she couldn' t enjoy that moment, she
couldn' t enjoy being at Jesus' feet And many times, how many
times we find ourselves so even alonein our homes we have a time to

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look for the Lord and we don' t enjoy that moment because we have
our heads in thousands of different things. I know there are distractions. I
know there are distractions, but hereI am talking about this mentality of rejection,
which is extreme and which is totallyfocused on sabotaging, sabotaging your identity

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as a child of God, youridentity of what the Lord has put within
you to assert yourself. It's dedicated to sabotaging you and you'
re not going to find that noside fits. That' s right,
even in marriage it brings difficulties andI was already going to touch on that

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issue later. Look Marta was thereand she couldn' t enjoy Mr Tremendo.
This is true. She lost almostlost that blessing, because the lord
who passed immediately afterwards, the lordconfronted her. The lord rebuked her at

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that troubled marten moment that you areand has not chosen the best part.
Truth told the lord in his facethe fuck better to be there cooking than
to be here with me Now I' m not saying go and stop cooking

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and give up to do your workand the house. No, but in
the example of when the Lord commandsyou to be in a place and you
can' t even enjoy it,sometimes you go and you can' t
even enjoy the husband that God gaveyou. They cannot enjoy praying single women
who are here. You pray andpray and pray for that future husband.

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But when does it come time tobe married? I want you to remember
this message because when the time comesfor you to be married, you start
to see all the bad things thereare and start to what you' ve
walked so hard. For so long, there comes a time when you hear
you cannot even enjoy the husband,because you can meet in a moment suddenly.

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The man prepared a moment something invitedthem to the restaurant or something,
and listen to me this mentality isso horrible that when they look for a
way to feel rejected, yes,they understand me. Then she' ll
find a way to fight. He' s gonna find a way. Oh,

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no, but why do you bringme this restaurant? Oh, no,
but look at that food that's really ugly, no, but
hey, it doesn' t looklike anything to you. Everything like my
mom used to say, everything willtake you. Everything' s wrong with
you. They criticize the man thatif I get it right and if he

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doesn' t get it out,it' s also good. It'
s bad. I mean, thatpoor guy can' t even figure out
how to put you where to,because there' s so much rejection mentality
that you have that nothing satisfies you. Nothing satisfies you, because it is
all the time throwing things in yourmind, making you feel that you need

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more, that you need more affirmation, that you need more. To words
that I don' t, butyou don' t love me. You
don' t love me. Ohno, you don' t love me.
And in someÑoñerías, as theRepublican says, those of omaiga Republican
dominica. I am, I'm talking cute, the Dominican Republic.

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My God, they begin to criticizethis man, they correct him something bothers
them about him that if they putthemselves on. So if they say that,
if the man looks and sticks ourhair, I mean, they don
' t find a way to botherwith something. How annoying it is to

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have a woman who has a rejectionmentality. I' m sorry I'
m telling you this, but awoman with a rejection mentality is a nuisance.
Hey, I was a pain inthe ass. It was a nuisance
to myself and not just to thehusband, to all relationships. They spoil

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all relationships. She' s atwork, and if you' re the
boss, if you' re theleader, you' re always looking for
something to criticize the poor Christian that' s there, which is to criticize

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your dear worker that you have there, that is, you' re always
looking for a way to make peoplefeel the way you feel and believe me
many times. I mean, thiscan be something that' s not even
something that you make intentional sometimes theydon' t even realize for that very
reason. That' s a spiritualthing, because sometimes the same person doesn

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' t even realize he has it. But that' s how my leading
bosses act that they just spend theirlives tormenting their work team, that nothing
else to measure it the detail andtime when it moved and the minute it

(41:50):
didn' t work and the timesit didn' t go to the bathroom
and it' s a horrible thing. You can work, you can have
high positions, you can have aleading position, but you have a rejected

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mind and that looks a lot likea rejected mind. The third feature doesn
' t have healthy and realistic?Expectations a mind rejected, Do not have

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healthy and realistic expectations? Don't you have healthy expectations? You don
' t have realistic expectations? BecauseI tell you one thing, when you
have very high expectations, you areoften disappointed. Then listen to this.

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Expectations frame experiences depends on the expectationsyou have. That way, it'
s going to be your experience.For example, how do I explain this
to you here? For example,if I go to a marriage, to

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a wedding party and the card andinvitation, I have a little thing here.
The invitation card is a divine,spectacular thing, an elegance on that
card, such a beautiful thing andthey tell one who has to go with

(43:42):
a dress code gala. One imaginesto hear me as if I was doing
on the card what the truth receptionwill be like and when one arrives at
that party, it turns out thatthe ceremony has nothing to do with the

(44:06):
invitation, that is, the invitationmounted it to one with a wow expectation
that when one arrived at the reception, one says this does not match,
that is, I thought it wasa thing like more I know more elegant,
like much more pomp. And it' s not how it goes,

(44:30):
like according to the design of thecard, the quality of the card and
all that. All of a suddenyou get to the reception and you better
go with your best dress and youget there and you say and I bought
myself a$ 200 dress. Formaking a dress like that two hundred dollars.

(44:50):
There' s just getting here toa party, to a little table,
right, that' s having highexpectations, and I' m not
talking about you coming to the partyto criticize. No, but I'
m trying to set the example thatmany times the way we get the message

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or communication doesn' t go accordingto reality. It doesn' t go
according to reality. And many timesyou receive a word from the Lord She,
be it a prophetic word given toyou by another person. And this

(45:34):
word has been framed with a lotof pomp and lots of things. And
when you truly enter the realm offulfillment of that promise, you are disappointed
and your mind and your emotions cameizay, sir, but you promised me this
and because I am now living this. Sir you called me to the Ministry

(45:55):
that I had a very big call, sir, and now I come here
and I' m serving in thisand what I get to do is clean
the floors. Oh, sir,I mean, total change of expectations,
but why does that happen, whycan' t we have a conviction of

(46:22):
being able to understand God' sthings and God' s processes are totally
different. Sometimes, as we seeit in reality, so many times expectations
frame experiences. One has an expectationas soon as one saw that invitation card

(46:43):
and our experience, in reality,was not so POMPOSA truth, one has
that expectation of the great call,but in experience, in reality, it
is not so pompous. It's the same way that when and as
it isn' t, then ouremotions change, then our commitment changes then

(47:07):
everything changes and there' s nothingmore lying than judging something that the lord
wants to do and it' sgoing to bring you an eternal fruit,
that' s going to bring apermanent fruit in your life for something that

(47:30):
' s an experience, that's something momentary, that' s something
that' s part of your path, but that' s not the end.
I want to know if they followme. Put in the comments to
see if they follow me with thiswhich I am explaining to you now.
I' ll give you another example. For example, we are often recommended
to myself, for example, thatI love, I love going to restaurants

(47:54):
and meeting restaurants, I love goodfood and they recommend me to a restaurant.
Oh, they don' t comefrom that one. Not anymore.
That' s a supreme maravililla.That' s a restaurant. Better said
that, we went and the foodis spectacular, the attention is spectacular,

(48:14):
the atmosphere, the decoration, theplace and I uff there immediately get hooked
to me tell me that of arecommendation immediately there I am, I mean,
I don' t chevere go country, I will see it and what
terrible thing. It happened to me. Truth has happened to me, I
have received recommendations and when I goto the site I do not go as

(48:36):
a dog at Mass. We sayin my country, that is to say,
first a similar thirty- minute waitto enter restaurant. Then it takes
me 40 minutes to get my plate. Then the meat was horrible, the
chicken was dry, I mean,and my experience there was fatal. High

(49:01):
expectations, bad experience. Here,when I mean, your expectations frame experiences
are not met. The expectations wehave with things, then that changes the
way we respond many times, evenif we bring it into the realm of

(49:27):
marriage. You have one expectation ofman, but in reality it is another.
Then your expectation is determining your experience. That' s something that'
s like that. That' swhy you better call me a man.
Yeah, if that' s arestaurant, well normal, it' s

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okay if I recommend it and everything, but don' t put so many
parapets on it, don' tput so many qualities and things on it.
That I' m the one who' s going to get the experience
and that' s different when theygive me a normal recommendation and I go
to the place and I' mtotally thrilled because there you didn' t
tell me it was like this.So good. I' m not coming
back again. Many times your relationships. And I' m not just talking

(50:16):
about a couple here, I'm talking about it in general. Many
times your expectations are over there,through the clouds, and they don'
t match your reality. And whenyour expectations are skyrocketing, you' re
going to suffer in the experience.That is why you, single women,

(50:38):
single women, stop making so muchlist, with so much requirement and with
so much birdy and with so muchpink and with so much of what your
marriage can be, of what yourboyfriend, your future husband, is going
to be, and I don't know what, because the reality is

(50:59):
another, loved, reality is another. Stop doing so much expectation with the
ceremony and how I want to bemy marriage and how I want to be
this princess' s wedding and voice, when you' re really putting very
high expectations for that moment, whenthe experience is different. All that effort
you put into expectation is gonna needyou when you' re in the experience.

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Yuggernau you understand what I' msaying right now. I mean,
it' s a hell of athing. So, many times that rejected
mind that we have has totally unrealisticexpectations. It has expectations that are not

(51:53):
going to match reality at all.He has unhealthy expectations. And that'
s what the Lord wants to healThe Lord wants to heal him Now,

(52:13):
when we get to a church,when we get to a church, sometimes
we have that expectation that we getto that church and expect everything to be
like touching the harp that one entersand the angels come down from heaven,
we get to the perfect church andwhen we see something happening inside the church,

(52:35):
we get disappointed. And that isnothing more than a lie from the
fifth paila of hell, because thechurches are not perfect. People are a
complete mess. We' re amess when that' s what churches are
for. They' re like ahospital of disastrous people, of people who

(53:02):
suck, of broken people, ofpeople who have problems. And then you
think that because you' ve alreadyarrived at that church, you already mean
that everything is perfect. Then itbegins the person with this mentality of rejection
to jump from here to there andfrom there to here, from church to
church and even often it is stoppedto congregate. And that' s not

(53:30):
like that. If you are sucha mentality, you are going to have
a bad experience wherever you go,because always with that mentality, the enemy
will take advantage of it to notlet you enjoy anything, won' t
let you hear me. But howwonderful is the grace of the Lord Truth

(54:00):
who, for example, although Iam not perfect, but still, being
not perfect, I share this message. Still, not perfect. I preach
and that is what Lord Praise Christdoes, because he lives and is the
one who gives us the grace ofGod. None of us are perfect.

(54:25):
Then do not go with expectations expectationsthat are unrealistic in your life all the
time, because you will suffer,you will suffer. Then remember these characteristics.

(54:46):
So far, I' m goingto leave them to continue in the
next. Next week, if Goddoes not allow, but this feature is
mindless. A woman with a rejectedmind. She is an undecided woman,
first or second, she is awoman with a mind that creates trouble,

(55:08):
a troubled mind remember the example ofMartha And third, a woman with a
mind of rejection, with which youare struggling with the spirit of rejection,
with the spirit of orphanhood. Itis a person who has, a woman

(55:29):
who has a mind that has nohealthy expectations or realistic expectations. And these
things torment, torment the woman whohas this mentality and the lord wants to
make you free from this woman,the lord wants to make you free from

(55:51):
this. In this verse, whereMartha talks to the Lord, we also
see something very important, and itis that in every relationship that the Lord
wants you to have, you mustand you need to have a definition like

(56:12):
this. There is a difference betweena friend, for example, and a
mentor. There is a deference andhere the lord is speaking in some way
like the two, but more likethe teacher, that he is true,
as the mentor, that he isof Martha and Mary. There' s

(56:37):
a difference between a friend and amentor. Friends claim you, but the
mentor confronts you. Friends cheer youup, but the mentor challenges you.
That Jesus did there in this versethe challenge and confronted Martha and it was

(57:00):
Jesus. You too, friends ofall those who were there, were the
Master, was Rabbi, was theLord, He, was the King,
but also there he was teaching herwith this portion that she, with this
show that she did there she wasalso teaching him, she was mentoring her,

(57:27):
you were telling her, but whyyou take that. When you can
be here with me, right,then mentors will confront you, friends cheer
you up. There is a definition, which is a mentor, which is
a friend, a mentor challenges youand just as Lord Jesus, God will

(57:49):
send you mentors to your life,who will challenge you, who will confront
you. But because he wants youto grow up. Understand that role,
He wants you to grow. Thedefinition is important for you not to feel
rejected when someone tells you something,the definition of that relationship. Who'

(58:16):
s your mother or your father tellingyou, a friend, a friend,
your mentor, your boss is tellingyou, is your pastor telling you?
Who' s telling you? It' s important that you know that definition
when you' re going to feelrejected from who' s coming. Each

(58:43):
relationship needs definition. Every relationship needsdefinition, it' s important that you
know that a lot. Now thereare some who are going to be dealing
with people who have different roles intheir lives and you have to know clearly
when the person interacts with you intheir different roles. For example, you

(59:08):
can have a pastor, you canhave a leader, but that pastor,
that leader is at the same timea friend of yours is at the same
time a mentor of yours and youhave to know how to differentiate and define

(59:31):
what role the person is talking toyou so that you don' t feel
in defense or offended or you won' t cause a reaction in your rejection
mentality. When you' re inthis healing process of that and you'
re going to be getting a pain, you can feel pained by the way

(59:54):
you' re confronted, as you' re corrected. You have to understand
the different definition and positions of someonein your life so that as long as
you completely heal from this, Youare not hurt, You are not damaged,
You do not keep your crazy emotionsthinking and arming movies in your mind

(01:00:15):
with things that are not. Ithink this is going to make sense to
several of you. I know thisis going to make a lot of sense
to several of you and it's going to help you understand why you
sometimes react with the way you reactat different times. So next week we

(01:00:39):
' re going to be talking aboutthe rest of the features that are like
two or three more over there sothat the Lord brings complete healing to this
whole rejection issue. Now I wantto pray for you. I want to

(01:01:01):
pray for you if anyone here wantsa specific prayer or if we are not
going to act in general already toclose Hola Joselin, if here I am
seeing you already I see you here. Thank you to Mr Yes, let

(01:01:25):
us be surprised here, says Gina. I know link clearly yes, free
you are in the name of Jesus. Well, let' s pray.
Lord, We give thanks, You, we give thanks at this time beloved

(01:01:45):
father for what you are bringing,Lord, for this teaching, Father,
for this word, Father, Thankyou, Lord, for what you want,
for us to let go, forus to let go, for us
to enter you? Lord now,in the name of Christ Jesus, in
the name of Christ Jesus and underthe authority that he has given to my

(01:02:07):
life, in the name of Jesus, I rebuke every spirit of orphanhood of
the lives of these women, Irebuke every spirit of rejection of their lives
in the name of Jesus. Thankyou, sir, for everything you'
re doing. Lord, thank you, Eternal Father, for what you do
in your life. Thank you,sir, for what you' re bringing
the lives of each of them.In the name of Christ Jesus. In

(01:02:31):
the name of Christ Jesus, Father, beloved that tonight they can receive more
from you through this message that theycan meditate on your word, Lord Speak
to them, Lord Tell them,in the name of Christ Jesus, every
spirit of rejections, that does nomore than harm, that brings pain,

(01:02:52):
that brings burden, that brings weight, that does not let it enjoy,
that does not let them be toreceive those blessings that you have for them
at those times, Lord when theyare in certain places, when they are
in company, when they are inthe Father Church, in the name of

(01:03:13):
Christ Jesus, that leaves that whichhas made them, that does not stop
going to the congregations because they believethat when they get there, they will
reject them. Not in the nameof Christ Jesus, that leaves your life,
leaves your mind, no one willreject you. Go and congratulate yourself
to the Church that you have togather, woman. All those words are
lies that you hear from the enemyso that you will not be planted in

(01:03:38):
the name of Christ Jesus. Yoraof reprimanding every spirit of rejection of your
mind in the name of Christ Jesus, that you go and commit yourself in
the place where the Lord has putyou to go and commit yourself and in
the relationship that the Lord wants youto go if you commit yourself to that
place of work, that you goif you commit yourself, in that business

(01:04:01):
that the Lord wants you to undertake, that you commit yourself, that you
do not think with that mentality ofrejection that woe not that if you are
this business, no one will buyme that if amount opens that business,
who will stop balls to my productand if I do this service, who
will pay me. That is purementality of rejection in the name of Christ
Jesus. In the name of ChristJesus. I now rebuke all that of

(01:04:28):
your life and your mind in thename of Jesus. Thank you, holy
spirit. Thank you, sir.Thank you, sir, for now show
me this, Lord that even whatyou think your business will not prosper that
spirit of rejection. People are gonnawant the things your hands do. People

(01:04:51):
are going to want the work ofyour hands. People will want it because
the lord says that in all thethings your hands do. Will prosper the
things that your hands do, ProsperáPresent your hands to the lord right now
and tell him sir? Make prosper, sir, everything you do in these

(01:05:14):
hands. Make prosper, sir,all that these hands will impress. Make
this relationship that you brought into mylife prosper, sir. Make these children
that you have given me prosper,sir. Make these new ideas that I
have prosper, sir. Make itprosper, sir, and leave my mind
all spirit of rejection. In thename of Jesus. In the name of

(01:05:36):
Jesus, in the name of Jesus, in the name of Christ Jesus,
Glory to God, Glory to God, Blessed be your name, Lord,
bring healing to you today after healing. Now. In Jesus' name,
receive, receive deliverance, receive healing. In the name of Jesus, hallelujah

(01:06:06):
good hallelujah and then we will knowwhy Instagram wanted to not let me live
there. But anyway, they're gonna see it there. Wing.

(01:06:26):
Let' s go to the lordtonight and bless her. Tonight we throw
with all my heart. We willsee next week the second part of this
message, because the Lord will bringtotal 100 percent liberation and healing through this
issue. Lord is going to revealyour life and show you things you'

(01:06:49):
ve never thought of before. Withthis message and with the next, because
the Lord will bring freedom, intoyour mind, into your life all that
you do in the name of ChristJesus. Let' s see those healings,
those testimonies. So I want tosee those testimonies of what the Lord

(01:07:10):
speaks to you about this subject inthe name of Christ Jesus. See you
next time.
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