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Caracteristicas de la mentalidad de rechazo:
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Caracteristicas de la mentalidad de rechazo:
4. Intenso deseo por afirmación: Un no saludable deseo por aprobación y afirmación.
5. Un proceso de dolor no saludable.
6. Una mentalidad de rechazo puede crear una falsa identidad.
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This spirit of rejection is manifested inour lives. And today I want to
share with you the rest of thosecharacteristics, because we all have to be
alert to them. These are waysto behave, behaviors, things we sometimes
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overlook, but they are there andwe have to confront them. We have
to get that out of our lives. So, well, if you and
I are ready, let' sget started. I want to pray to
start. Lord You, we thankyou in this hour Father, for this
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time We thank you for this word, for this message that you are going
to share with us, which youput in my heart to speak, to
teach, to bring healing to you. Mr Te, I thank you,
Mr Te. We ask that yoube your holy spirit speaking on this night
that you be your holy spirit bringingthat awareness, that every veil that people
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have may fall, that these womenhave on this subject, whether it be
for them or for anyone, thatthey know that this is happening or that
they have these characteristics so that theycan be totally healthy, so that they
can be totally free. In thename of Christ Jesus. So let'
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s start and today I want totouch the dots. Last time we talked
about the first three. Today we' re going to play the rest and
Mr Be the one dealing with thissubject. Today we' re going to
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hit the point as many as four, five and number six are three more,
three more, and I' mgoing to give you four steps so
we can fight this and win thatbattle. So woman you' re there.
Welcome connect at this time share thislive with someone you think may also
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need this time. Welcome Gina,God bless you, Alessandra, God bless
you. And we go with thefourth, with the fourth characteristic of this,
this problem, this rejection mentality,this rejection spirit, that many of
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us have had to fight and dealwith specifically, as I told you last
week, if we have experienced problemsin our family, if we have had
a family of difons, if wehave had traumas in our childhood, it
is that this is very common.And, so it' s very common,
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it' s often overlooked and suffereda lot during the time we'
re dealing with this. The fourthcharacteristic of this rejection mentality is the intense
desire for affirmation. The intense desirefor affirmation is like an unhealthy desire for
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the approval of others, an unhealthydesire for the affirmation of others. Welcome
to Claudia and sometimes watch us recoverfrom this. Being free from this takes
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a lot of time. There arepeople who are suddenly quick to be free
from this and be healthy from this, but others are not. It took
me a long time, it tookme a long time, years why,
because I was ignorant of these thingsand because I was also not totally with
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the desire to be vulnerable to acceptthat I was having these behaviors that were
not mine to hear were behaviors thatwere provoked by that wound that I had
in my heart and that the enemytook advantage of it. So, these
healing, release processes can sometimes taketime to look at you. I'
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ll give you an example. I, Right Now, I' m gonna
be six months old from having surgerybecause I decided to take off some breast
implants that I had, that werekilling me, some that I was,
I was eighteen years old. Ihad this and I had no idea that
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all my medical complications, all myhealth complications had to do with it.
And I made that decision to takethis off six months ago. And now,
after all these months, I'm still in recovery. A lot
of symptoms are gone. Yes,it was more than twenty- five symptoms
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that had me sick, that Ididn' t know what the root will
be. But I' m stillin recovery. There are only two that
are, rather, the most annoying, the hardest, which have been the
hardest to fight. But I knowI' m going to be completely healthy.
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I know that, even though that' s yet, those two don
' t want to leave. Iknow the Lord is going to remove them.
I know I' m in thishealing process. I know I have
to get a lot of toxics outof my body that had those implants,
and that' s something that doesn' t happen again and again. Sometimes
people recover faster, sometimes they don' t. Others take a year.
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There are some testimonies I' veread that take up to two years.
Imagine yourself then by the fact thatyou sometimes know and are aware that there
is some rejection in your life andyou say, but I pray, hold
on to me, gold, Ipray. They have prayed for me every
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time I administer in the Church,a conference or something I raise my hand,
I go and I feel that Iam still struggling with that, Beloved
friend. Sometimes those healing and releaseprocesses take a long time or sometimes take
a certain time, as well astaking time for me to recover from this
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physical issue. So, in thesame way, things emotion are also spiritual
things. But does that not meanthat God is not working, that God
is not helping you, that Godis not healing you, that God does
not want to heal you? No, that doesn' t mean? That
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means you just have to go througha process then these things, of having
this rejection mentality. Sometimes it seemslike you' re not moving forward,
but yes, you' re movingforward, yes, you' re moving
forward. So stay here with meduring this lifetime, because I' m
going to give you at the endfour steps, four things you need to
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do for that healing to come,for that liberation to come. In the
name of Jesus. That' swhy I' m sharing these issues.
That' s why I' mrevealing these issues in depth, because if
you don' t know what you' re suffering from, then you'
re going to make yourself healed andfree, right and look. Sometimes these
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desires for affirmation and approval fuel thespirit of rejection, those desires of feeling
that you fit into a certain groupthat you are approved by others who are
giving you words of affirmation. Sometimesso much desire for that is what feeds
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that mentality of rejection, that spiritof rejection, because you seek affirmation in
others. You seek affirmation in yourfriends, Seek affirmation in a leader,
Seek affirmation in a pastor, Seekaffirmation in someone at work, Seek affirmation
in your husband, in your boyfriend. You seek the affirmation even if you
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are a person who is in arelationship as a bride or married. Sometimes
you seek affirmation with other friends emotionally. You feel that need to be fulfilled
there that affirm you and through therealso the enemy enters to cause adultery,
to cause fornication, to cause allthese kinds of things, then look how
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one thing leads to the other.You' re suddenly looking for affirmation on
social networks, on social media.You look for affirmation every time you mount
that picture showing what you shouldn't show. You seek affirmation every time
you despair, because suddenly you wantthose lives in social media. That is
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seeking affirmation and approval from others.And we don' t depend on that.
True, we depend on seeking theLord Jesus. When we seek that
affirmation in Lord Jesus there is andis when he begins to break these cycles.
The fifth characteristic of this rejection mentalityis that people who have this are
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difficult. They don' t knowbetter so they don' t know how
to process the pain. They don' t have a healthy way to process
the pain look. I' vebeen married for seven years and this year,
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in October, I' m goingto be eight, thank God,
right, but my husband and Icome from dysfunctional families, we even come
from a previous divorce and living thosethings, we know and we' ve
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lived what pain is. And thatalso at the time of bringing him into
marriage, guess we' re alsogoing to experience pain in marriage. We
have also had pain together in thistime of marriage. We are people who
are not perfect and come to arelationship with these things and many of those
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things expand during marriage, when theyare not healthy. Before that and I
came to the marriage, this marriagethat the lord gave me, I arrived
healthy because I took a while listeningto the voice of the lord, I
took a time in counseling, Itook a time in help with other people.
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But yet and that doesn' tmean that one isn' t going
to have one than another episode ofrejection. When you are in the relationship,
that the Lord wants you to beminded with this spirit of rejection does
not have a healthy processing of pain. Why, because they didn' t
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learn to deal with emotions in ahealthy way. And this happens so much
for work, for ministry with anykind of relationship. When a person is
having these problems, truth is reflecteda lot in the work environment, is
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reflected a lot in the ministry,is reflected a lot in the family.
And one of the things when we' re at it, we' re
struggling with this rejection mentality. Itis that, for example, if you
are in a job, if youare in a ministry, you were given
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a new position as a leader andthere are some indications, while you are
doing that job, that you aretold that you should do the best or
that why you don' t doit this way, there is immediately a
reaction from that person like that okyes, I, if I don'
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t do it right, then thatsomeone else does it or if I don
' t do it right, thenyou why don' t do it.
Many times even the person is rebelledbefore the authority because he is not willing
to accept any kind of indication,any sort of correction. None of this
is true, and when we're in a relationship, I don'
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t know if this is familiar,but I think it is. It can
be familiar to you. When you' re in a relationship right away,
you hear a lot of times yousay something like this. They' re
in an argument discussing something. Idon' t think that' s what
you' re saying. I don' t think so. Immediately the person
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with a rejection mentality reacts and saysok. So you don' t love
me, you don' t payattention to me. You never support me.
The thing is, you really don' t consider what I am to
you and blah blah blah blah blahblah, blah, blah, but my
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friend let me just tell you that. It' s a symptom you don
' t know how to process thepain. You don' t know how
to process the pain and since youdon' t know how to process those
situations that give you some kind ofpain, because you' re dealing with
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that rejection. Your growth is affected. Your growth as a woman is affected.
Your growth as a leader has affectedyour growth as a wife, your
growth as a mother, your overallgrowth is affecting. Because you' re
in a position where there' sfriction. When there is friction between one
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person and another in a relationship,imagine what the Bible says. The word
says in proverbs twenty- seven,seventeen that as iron sharpens with iron itself
a friend, one is sharpened witha friend. True, we have heard
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that verse many times. Ah it' s not that iron sharpens with iron
and you think that woe. It' s not that when I meet my
friend, when I meet with myfriends or with the people with whom I
join, that' s where yougrow up and look at it from the
positive context of sharpening iron with iron. But it turns out that when you
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' re doing this, iron withiron, that comes out a horrible sound.
Right. How about when you're sharpening the knife in your kitchen
with part of it with another pieceof metal, that' s horrible.
That sound is annoying. In thesame way, when you are in a
relationship with a person, call yourselfwhat the relationship is called and these events
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happen that you have to confront thatthere is friction. That doesn' t
feel right. And that is howthe Bible speaks. But so it says
the word that we sharpen with eachother. I have to let myself be
corrected, I have to let myselfbe taught? I have to let them
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show me those aspects of me thatare not so pleasant for me to be
able to confront them and overcome them. That' s what iron with iron
means. That' s when there' s friction. When there is friction
and we manage things well, wecan handle pain, then growth comes.
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But usually a person with a rejectionmentality, usually that person doesn' t
know how to process the pain.So what happens when you' re in
a confrontation with someone, what happenswhen you' re in a fight with
the boyfriend, with the husband,with the friend, with the mom,
with the dad. What are thefirst two reactions that can be given.
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First, a reaction may be thatsince you can' t stand the pain,
since you' re not emotionally matureenough to deal with that moment,
then the first thing you' regoing to do is to explode and run
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out. You don' t wantto talk. No. No, no,
no, no, I can't talk here You can' t
leave that alone You get out ofthis immediately. You don' t know
how to process the pain I thinkI have to tell you this, but
it' s the way to confrontthings. You can' t have difficult
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situations. If you' re ina difficult situation, you either go through
that or run away or second,you' re fighting. One of the
two things happens, you' refighting all the time and the other is
that you run out and immediately applythe law of I' m going to
ignore you. Don' t tellme anything. I' m not telling
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you anything. Let' s ignorethat is behaviors of a rejection mentality.
You can' t handle difficult conversations. You can' t stand an argument,
No, you can' t standthe confrontation without being angry you spend
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several sweet days, very sweet withthe person well feel good and suddenly inside.
That moment is being built, thatemotion is being built. There'
s deep down that, since youhaven' t been able to talk about
it before, there' s goingto stay until the time comes when pf
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explodes, explodes with this, withthese reactions, you' re unable to
sit with that person and talk withoutcrazy emotions controlling you why, because you
never learned to do it, becauseyou didn' t see it in your
house before, when you were agirl, when you were younger. That
' s why and many of ushave ruined the potential we have for this
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so malign thing that it' scalled the spirit of rejection. Because of
this mentality of rejection, because ofthis problem of feeling rejected, you have
ruined your potential. You' rein danger that you won' t walk
your purpose. You' re indanger of not walking on your call.
You' re in danger of theLord' s plans being fulfilled in your
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life, because you can' tgrow. That is why it is so
important that you grasp this problem ofreins and once and for all, make
it disappear from your life, beingavailable for the Lord and the Holy Spirit
to work in you in a deepway, tearing these roots out, drawing
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out in the name of Christ Jesusand by the blood of Christ every spirit
of rejection of your life. Thecharacteristic basket that a person fights with a
spirit of rejection mentality is that thatperson creates false identities of himself and I
' ll mention just four of youI' m going to personally. That
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' s all, because if not, rather here, we usually stay a
person who is building a false identitywhen he has this rejection problem. He
' s a strictly methodical person,he' s a person who has to
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do everything the way he says,because if it' s not done the
way he says, things are notwell done. It is also a better
characteristic, it is a manifestation ofthis spirit. When a person is a
worldka Hollik. What does this meanthat she' s a workaholic? It
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doesn' t mean that every timea person is addicted to work, or
it means that that' s aconsequence of being dealing with it with spirit
and rejection. Not because not everytime is the case, but it can
be presented that a person is beingthat way, because the spirit of rejection
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manifests itself that way in his life. The other thing, that the other
manifestation of this spirit in the identityof the person is that they are people
that please everyone. They' repeople who don' t know how to
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say they' re not a pleacer. We say here, in the United
States, that they please everyone andthere is nothing more terrible than to keep
an eye on them. If thatperson is pleased with what one does,
by what one says, there isnothing more terrible than that. Then these
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people are the ones who, inorder to avoid being upset with her,
are not accepted. So these peopleare never going to do anything that bothers
the others They' re never goingto do anything, they' re never
going to say anything, they're never going to confront anything. You
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' ve heard a lot of peoplesay ay It' s not like I
don' t like confrontation. Well, if there are some people who,
by nature, the Lord has madeus braver and given us that I say
it the right way. The giftof confronting, especially if one has a
call, for example prophetic. Inmy case, the prophets usually confront the
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people of Christ because they are onein the beloved. This is one of
the characteristics is the call a prophethas. So, a person who wants
to please everyone, imagine in whatdangerous sands he walks in too dangerous sands,
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because a person who has this spirit, for example, of rejection and
is in the Ministry never, Buthe will never be able to preach the
Gospel as it is, will neverbe able to preach the Gospel of Christ?
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Can you preach the Gospel disguised,but not the Gospel of Christ?
Why? Because he' s afraidto confront people. And if you read
the Bible very well, if youhave studied the Gospels well, if you
have had time to seek and knowJesus in the scriptures, you will realize
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that our Lord Jesus Christ had nofear of telling things to people. I
was not afraid to confront religious leaders, I was not afraid to confront those
of the government, I was notafraid to confront them and tell them they
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were in vipers. I wasn't afraid because he didn' t come
into this world. To please noone. He came here to please his
father and the word says that ifwe are truly here to please others,
then we are not worthy to becalled disciples of Jesus uff how tremendous,
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truth, how tremendous if you andI are not so strong to stop pleasing
people. That means we' reafraid. And if we are afraid of
people, you and I cannot preach. The word you are not qualified to
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preach, because you are going topreach what people always want to hear an
image, the danger that a personhas who has not been healthy and free
from the spirit of rejection and receivesfrom the Lord the call to be a
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prophet imagine. What' s thatgonna be like? What' s that
gonna be like? And it's too dangerous to be in the ministry
and still be struggling with this,because the message comes out distorted, The
message is comes out with manipulation.The message does not come out, it
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does not come from the river ofthe Holy Spirit, but it comes already
with a filter of your broken heart, from your rejected heart. And that
' s when people start preaching andin preaching the message comes out as with
hate. In the preaching the messagecomes out with manipulation. The preaching of
the message is distorted and you knowwhat' s going on. The people
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who get those messages are going tobe in their state It' s going
to be worse than how they gotthere before they heard you terrible. What
a great responsibility it is for us, as leaders, to be healthy first
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look at nothing else. Te.I' m talking in the ministerial field,
but also this applies to the professionalfield and business, because if you
' re not healthy, you're first before you start doing things,
those results of those fruits are goingto come out defective, they' re
going to go wrong. Imagine evenmore if we are in the ministry with
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a heart that is still struggling withspirits and wounds of the soul, with
wounds of the heart. That iswhy the Lord wants and is speaking so
deeply to us here, in thisMinistry and here with you, that you
are there, that you have tobe healthy, woman, you have to
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be free, because God needs you. Now he needs you and these are
to equip you, so that youwill be ready when God raises you up,
when God promotes you, when Godwants a healthy woman there who can
manifest the presence and glory of God, let it be a vessel, let
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it be a clean vessel where thereis no break of the enemy, with
which the enemy comes with things toharm you. Your Mind makes you feel
like you' re not going topreach that message. Now it arises,
because if you preach it, thenin that event, in that church,
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in this life you will be listeningto Fulanita such and if she listens to
you, then later she will notwant to invite you to her events.
You know what I care about fivecucumbers, me, the only one I
want to answer to. It's God you who' s the only
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one who has to be held accountable. It is God the only one we
have with pleasure. It' sGod the only one I have to give
to him. It is to Godand my message must come out pure,
because I am healed in the nameof Christ Jesus. I don' t
have the manipulation to be pleasing people. I don' t, I don
' t have that. I don' t come here to please you.
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I come here to tell you thetruth of Christ and sharpen you well so
that you go and do what theLord has commanded you to do. And
many times that' s gonna soundawful to you, it' s gonna
sound strong to you. But that' s how you' re gonna grow
up. And the problem with beingcomplacent with others rather than with the Lord
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rather than fearing the Lord is thatyou are going to live a life much
less, with much less than Godhas prepared for you, because you are
kneeling before the people. First thanbefore God. God help us, God
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help us truly, because we cannotbe kneeling before people, simply to try
to like them so that we canfit into their circle. God forbid.
Another manifestation of this spirit is thatpeople have a victim mentality. And I
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think I don' t have toexplain much here, because you know what
it' s like to be avictim- minded person, but I do
have to tell you that a personwho' s saying ay right now is
not that I don' t knowwhy this happens to me and victimization at
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all times. Oh, it's not like you' re dedicated to
me. Oh, it' snot like you already noticed me with the
boss. Oh, it' snot like you' re running all the
time It' s not like Itutor victimization at all times. I want
to tell you that that will bringyou to relate to people who have this
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spirit of hexabel that in professional words, not speaking spiritual terms a narcissistic person.
Normally, people who have a spiritof rejection mentality are in relationships with
people who are total narcissists. Terrible, because there' s that codependency.
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And here too the theme of pleasingothers comes to fruition. Another manifestation of
that mentality is that the person isa controller, what we call here a
freak control. You' re afreak control. You want to be controlling
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things all the time, because ifyou don' t control them, then
they' re not gonna be welldone. If you don' t control
things, things can go wrong.And if things go wrong, it'
s going to cause you stress,it' s going to cause you panic,
it' s going to cause youpain and, like you, you
want to avoid pain at all costs, because you don' t know how
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to handle it. Then you becomea controller. You want to control everything
that makes every move you make inyour home, every move your kids make,
every move your husband does. Yourhusband can' t turn this way,
this way, because he has towalk forever. That' s right
with you, you' re afreak control, my God, you have
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to be in control of everyone.Terrible is this, this desire to control
everything is often confused with protection.You say ay, it' s not
like I have to protect myself.That' s why I' m not
letting him go. I have toprotect myself. And that means you'
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re not willing to give in.You' re not willing to give control
to anyone. That' s whyit takes a lot of work for you
to have relationships with other people.A person who is a freak control in
the professional realm, is very difficultto deal with. You can' t
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delegate, you can' t delegate, you don' t want to delegate,
everything wants to be. She's in trouble with her coworkers by
herself. Anyway, in two words, such a person needs deliverance. He
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needs release. Now to close,I' m going to take four steps
so you can start dealing with thisand finish it all, once and for
all, in your life. Firstyou have to learn the role of the
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father. What is the role ofthe father in your life, because that
rejection is a lack of acceptance.The word says in Ephesians, one,
five, seven that in love havingpredestined us to be adopted as his children
through Jesus Christ, according to thepure effect, the pure affection of his
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will for the advancement, of theglory, of his grace, with which
he made us acceptable in the lover, in whom we have redemption by his
blood, the forgiveness of sins,according to riches in glory, Glory to
God. The first step you haveto be loved by me is to accept
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that you have this problem and learnwhat the role of the eternal father is
in your life. Learn the roleof the father in your life. Take
this fesios writing, one, five, seven and break it down, learn
it, memorize it speak it,not just read it out loud and study
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this writing, learn to remember timewith it. You will break this when
you learn that your acceptance to beloved is not in. Whether you do
right or wrong, it is inthe Blood Covenant of Jesus. Now he
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' s not gonna play me.It' s not that I' m
telling you that now he' sgot the doors open to go bad.
Don' t listen to what Godwill tell you. You are so covered
in the love of God that Godlooks at you through his eyes and he
knows that you are imperfect. Andbut through the Blood Covenant of Jesus And
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you are the daughter of God,you are no longer under the law,
you are under the grace of LordJesus. And if you are a child
of God, you are not towork for works, because that would be
called legalism, you are under acovenant of God that covers you. It
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' s not that you can dothe wrong thing or that you have free
will to do the wrong thing andthat you do and you undo and from
there you can come and do whateveryou want and it' s okay.
Not here I' m talking.It is that, as the word of
God says, know that everything islawful for you, everything is lawful for
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you under the sun and the moon, everything is lawful for you. But
everything doesn' t suit you.Everything doesn' t suit you, not
everything builds you, not everything buildsyou. Then you have to make the
decision to remove and put things fromGod' s word in your life that
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will make you stronger, because ifyou really love Jesus and if you,
really have an intimate relationship with him, you won' t want to offend.
You' re not gonna want tooffend him. You' re not
going to do the things that God' s word says you shouldn' t
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do, because you' re ina relationship. You' re on cover.
You don' t want to getyour husband to be brave with you.
You want to like him. Youwant to please that person, you
want to please your friends. Truea healthy desire to please, because one
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wants to please the people with whomone has around him. I like to
give people gifts. I like servingpeople. And that doesn' t mean
I have a lack of affirmation,not my way of being. Then we
have to know how to interpret howwe are so that we can act and
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understand that, by the role ofthe father in our life, we are
in a covering and in a covenantwith him, in a relationship with him,
we are redeemed. We' reredeemed. I would like with this
microphone and to hear the whole placeso that we no longer have these pains,
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these pains in our heart, inour emotion, which affects us so
much that it hurts us, somuch that it damages our full potential,
that it damages us, it damagesus. We' re redeemed. So
accepting father' s rock our lifeis the first. Second, we have
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to confront the identities I mentioned earlier. Being control freekills, being a controlling
truth, making us victims at alltimes, in pleasing people and in super
strictly methodical. However, often beingmethodical is good, but other times it
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' s not really yours is thatyou' ve assumed it as a defense
mechanism, but well, we've already played that part. You have
to confront those identities, those manifestations, those identities I mentioned earlier. If
you are a person who is afreak control, if you are a freak
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control, you have to accept thatand be vulnerable and honest, because if
you are not vulnerable, you willnot be able to heal. If you
' re not able to tell someoneyou' re dealing with this, you
' re not going to be ableto heal, because you' re not
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vulnerable, because you don' twant them to see you weak, because
you' re embarrassed that they seeyou as weak. And I have to
show myself as strong as I amso I can have everything under control.
That' s what he thinks,that' s the mentality, and the
person thinks that' s a strength. He doesn' t let himself be
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vulnerable, but he really isn't. It' s a mixture of
bad identity. It' s acamouflage to protect you. Normally, these
people are quick to give their opinion, but they do not accept the opinion
of others, true, because theycannot handle their conflicts. You can'
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t handle it. You don't know how to handle these things,
and you have to confront it tomake them free. You have to accept
that you' re a controller soI can be free. La. The
third step I give you the youthat I give you to get out of
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this in the nono of Jesus isthat you need to have a comptability what
this means in Spanish. You needto be accountable and accountable to someone.
Surround yourself from a group, surroundyourself with a person, at least one
person who shows you when you havethese kinds of behaviors or reactions and makes
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you see look right now. Youjust did that kick, that show,
because people who have this spirit don' t see themselves how they react.
They think they react and react well. But when you have a person,
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a partner who' s accountable tocall him that, a mentor, a
friend who' s accountable to him, then that person is going to make
you see, it' s goingto be seeing when you' re falling
into these behaviors and there at once, there at the root you' re
cutting off with this. How muchyou have to start that path and that
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walk with the Holy Spirit, beginto have and strengthen those bonds with the
Holy Spirit. You have to livein the spirit. You say Romans,
eight, one, four. Nowtherefore there is no condemnation for those who
are in Christ Jesus, who walknot according to the flesh, but according
to the spirit, for the lawof the spirit gives life in Christ Jesus
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has delivered me from the law ofsin and death, for that which was
impossible for the law because it wasweak by the flesh. God sending his
son in the likeness of sinful fleshand because of sin, condemned sin in
the flesh so that the righteousness ofthe law might be fulfilled in us,
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who walk not according to the flesh, but according to the spirit. Hallelujah
you have to start walking in thespirit and all these verses, catch them,
study them, learn them, walkin them, make them from you
the weapons that will help you breakwith all this. And I' m
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not talking here about walking the spiritay No. I go to the Church
on Sundays and I am walking inthe Holy Spirit Ay Not that I connect
to Lie Warman rise asap of arises. There I am walking in the Holy
Spirit. I' m not talkingto you and getting in your room like
and nce is worshiping Mr There areyunes doing in the private. What you
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have to do for the Lord Readthe word submit all this in prayer,
seek and give this to a groupof intersecting in prayer. Here, in
the Ministry, we have an intersectinggroup here We receive these things to help
you, to walk with us,to walk with the Holy Spirit, to
walk in cover, to walk withsomeone here you can account for, to
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have a support if you don't have it there where you live or
in your local church, because sometimesin our local churches you can' t
do these things there isn' t. That' s why we exist online
ministries, because we can be closeto you walking with you on a day
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- to- day basis. Soif you need prayer for this, if
you need someone to intercede for Youin prayer, also help you walk with
You in this process. Here weare, we' re here to help
you too if you have to getin the room and cry to the Lord
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in the spirit for hours and hours, do it, but you have to
do whatever it takes to make youfree from this. It doesn' t
mean this is going to be aboutyour effort. No, but you have
to take action, take action.Thus is Josselin, the name of Jesus
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Today the last scene that Jesus todaywas the last meal Glory to God.
That is why we are going toread Romans eight hundred, fourteen to seventeen,
for all who are led by thespirit of God, these are sons
of God. And we were justpublishing a blog here on our page yesterday,
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which spoke of Daniela Rios about whatit is to be a real child
of God. And some of youdo not know what it is to be
truly a daughter of God, forall who are led by the spirit of
God, these are children of God, led by the spirit of God.
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For you have not received the spiritof slavery, the slavery, the spirit
of rejection, that, that hasnot received it from the Lord to be
in fear again, but you havereceived the spirit of adoption, the spirit
of acceptance from the Lord by whichwe cry out ada father. The spirit
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itself testifies to our spirit that weare children of God and if children,
we are also heirs Hallelujah, heirsof God and co- heirs with Christ,
if we suffer together with him,so that we may be glorified together
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with him. Glory to God.So today is the day the Holy Spirit
is going to do and attract thatfreedom in your life. Today is the
day that the Holy Spirit is goingto begin to break that in the name
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of Jesus, because today you aregoing to decide to give this totally to
the Lord to recognize these kinds ofthings that I have been denouncing today and
to tell him, Lord here Iam no longer want to be so Lord
Transform me, Lord Change me completelyhere I am and I will pray until
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all this is broken in the nameof Jesus and you stubborn devil. You
will not come to tell me morelies about how I should act, about
how I should react, about howmy relationships should be, because this dies
today in the name of Christ Jesus. You have to be brave, brave
and talk to him like that withcharacter, without fear, because the Lord
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will bless you, the Lord willfree you, the Lord will bring you
victory in your life, the Lordwill bring you healing? So that you
can have a life in all aspects, so that you can have an abundant
life in all aspects, so thatyou don' t suffer more for all
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these behaviors, which really aren't of you, make us of you.
They are born from that root thatI have been dealing with and that
the enemy has taken advantage of andtied himself there to somehow manipulate the way
you behave in the name of ChristJesus. In the name of Christ Jesus
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hallelujah well, already during this timewe will read them here a little and
pray. Finally, in the nameof Lord I know that this will bring
blessing in your life and come andhear it again. If you have to
listen to it, take note andlisten to it again and review it with
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the Holy Spirit on this subject andlet him be revealing to you every thing
and take that action on this,let' s see who' s here
that is. Thank you, Gina, we' ll be praying for each
of you. God bless you neida. Here we are reviewing these comments.
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If anyone has a prayer request toclose, let us at once pray for
you, because, in the nameof Christ Jesus, every spirit of rejection,
every mentality of rejection, leaves yourlife, has to leave, because
when you are exposed, you havenowhere to go. So I ask the
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Lord to bring that revelation to you, that the Holy Spirit Ahorita is looking
within You and is pointing out toyou Look, I think he' s
talking about you. The Holy Spirittells you to give it to me,
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because I want to end it inyour life now. Glory to God,
Glory to God, Welcome to GleldaIsabel, God bless you, connecting here
on Instagram. In conclusion, asI told you, we are here in
this Ministry open to receive petition andprayer from you to help you during this
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process. So, if you wantto connect with us and talk a little
bit more about this, if thismessage has touched your heart, today send
us a private message here to Instagram, send me a comment here on YouTube
channel, on Facebook or send ifyou don' t want anyone to see
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it as a comment, then sendus a direct message and we will be
in contact with you, We willbe in prayer with you, God Bless
you Joseguin, let' s praytonight, Lord You, We give thanks
for this time beloved father. Thankyou, sir, for these things that
you teach us, those things thatyou particularly want to help us overcome with
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the power of your holy spirit nowin the name of Christ Jesus. Lord,
if you are there at this momentand you want to receive from the
Lord that relief, that strength ofthe Lord regarding this subject, hour this
prayer, Lord, at this momentI give you every mentality of rejection,
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I give you all pain in myheart, Lord Ben and heal my wounds,
if you are there and you donot even have a relationship with the
Lord if you have not received LordJesus as your Savior, hour with me
and tell him Lord, I comefrom before you, forgive me for my
sins. Sir, I want tobe a new person. I want to
be a new woman come and directmy life to be lord of my life.
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Sir, I regret all the thingsI' ve done for my bad
behavior. Lord I open the doorof my heart for you to come and
make me new, as you sayin your word, for I know that
you love me, Lord, andI come before you at this moment to
give my life in the name ofChrist Jesus. And if you are one
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of those people who today give hislife completely to the Lord let him know
also because to want to be withyou to accompany you during this time and
be able to be that support youneed. God bless you, Joselin,
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in the name of Jesus. It' s good to know that you deliver
everything to the Lord on this day. Praised, may it be sir?
Praise be to the Lord So Ibless you in the name of Jesus I
keep praying for each of you andsee you with God' s favor in
the next and woman raiza God blessyou. I love them with all my heart
This spirit of rejection is manifested inour lives. And today I want to
share with you the rest of thosecharacteristics, because we all have to be
alert to them. These are waysto behave, behaviors, things we sometimes
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overlook, but they are there andwe have to confront them. We have
to get that out of our lives. So, well, if you and
I are ready, let' sget started. I want to pray to
start. Lord You, we thankyou in this hour Father, for this
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time We thank you for this word, for this message that you are going
to share with us, which youput in my heart to speak, to
teach, to bring healing to you. Mr Te, I thank you,
Mr Te. We ask that yoube your holy spirit speaking on this night
that you be your holy spirit bringingthat awareness, that every veil that people
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have may fall, that these womenhave on this subject, whether it be
for them or for anyone, thatthey know that this is happening or that
they have these characteristics so that theycan be totally healthy, so that they
can be totally free. In thename of Christ Jesus. So let'
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s start and today I want totouch the dots. Last time we talked
about the first three. Today we' re going to play the rest and
Mr Be the one dealing with thissubject. Today we' re going to
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hit the point as many as four, five and number six are three more,
three more, and I' mgoing to give you four steps so
we can fight this and win thatbattle. So woman you' re there.
Welcome connect at this time share thislive with someone you think may also
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need this time. Welcome Gina,God bless you, Alessandra, God bless
you. And we go with thefourth, with the fourth characteristic of this,
this problem, this rejection mentality,this rejection spirit, that many of
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us have had to fight and dealwith specifically, as I told you last
week, if we have experienced problemsin our family, if we have had
a family of difons, if wehave had traumas in our childhood, it
is that this is very common.And, so it' s very common,
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it' s often overlooked and suffereda lot during the time we'
re dealing with this. The fourthcharacteristic of this rejection mentality is the intense
desire for affirmation. The intense desirefor affirmation is like an unhealthy desire for
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the approval of others, an unhealthydesire for the affirmation of others. Welcome
to Claudia and sometimes watch us recoverfrom this. Being free from this takes
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a lot of time. There arepeople who are suddenly quick to be free
from this and be healthy from this, but others are not. It took
me a long time, it tookme a long time, years why,
because I was ignorant of these thingsand because I was also not totally with
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the desire to be vulnerable to acceptthat I was having these behaviors that were
not mine to hear were behaviors thatwere provoked by that wound that I had
in my heart and that the enemytook advantage of it. So, these
healing, release processes can sometimes taketime to look at you. I'
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ll give you an example. I, Right Now, I' m gonna
be six months old from having surgerybecause I decided to take off some breast
implants that I had, that werekilling me, some that I was,
I was eighteen years old. Ihad this and I had no idea that
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all my medical complications, all myhealth complications had to do with it.
And I made that decision to takethis off six months ago. And now,
after all these months, I'm still in recovery. A lot
of symptoms are gone. Yes,it was more than twenty- five symptoms
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that had me sick, that Ididn' t know what the root will
be. But I' m stillin recovery. There are only two that
are, rather, the most annoying, the hardest, which have been the
hardest to fight. But I knowI' m going to be completely healthy.
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I know that, even though that' s yet, those two don
' t want to leave. Iknow the Lord is going to remove them.
I know I' m in thishealing process. I know I have
to get a lot of toxics outof my body that had those implants,
and that' s something that doesn' t happen again and again. Sometimes
people recover faster, sometimes they don' t. Others take a year.
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There are some testimonies I' veread that take up to two years.
Imagine yourself then by the fact thatyou sometimes know and are aware that there
is some rejection in your life andyou say, but I pray, hold
on to me, gold, Ipray. They have prayed for me every
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time I administer in the Church,a conference or something I raise my hand,
I go and I feel that Iam still struggling with that, Beloved
friend. Sometimes those healing and releaseprocesses take a long time or sometimes take
a certain time, as well astaking time for me to recover from this
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physical issue. So, in thesame way, things emotion are also spiritual
things. But does that not meanthat God is not working, that God
is not helping you, that Godis not healing you, that God does
not want to heal you? No, that doesn' t mean? That
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means you just have to go througha process then these things, of having
this rejection mentality. Sometimes it seemslike you' re not moving forward,
but yes, you' re movingforward, yes, you' re moving
forward. So stay here with meduring this lifetime, because I' m
going to give you at the endfour steps, four things you need to
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do for that healing to come,for that liberation to come. In the
name of Jesus. That' swhy I' m sharing these issues.
That' s why I' mrevealing these issues in depth, because if
you don' t know what you' re suffering from, then you'
re going to make yourself healed andfree, right and look. Sometimes these
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desires for affirmation and approval fuel thespirit of rejection, those desires of feeling
that you fit into a certain groupthat you are approved by others who are
giving you words of affirmation. Sometimesso much desire for that is what feeds
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that mentality of rejection, that spiritof rejection, because you seek affirmation in
others. You seek affirmation in yourfriends, Seek affirmation in a leader,
Seek affirmation in a pastor, Seekaffirmation in someone at work, Seek affirmation
in your husband, in your boyfriend. You seek the affirmation even if you
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are a person who is in arelationship as a bride or married. Sometimes
you seek affirmation with other friends emotionally. You feel that need to be fulfilled
there that affirm you and through therealso the enemy enters to cause adultery,
to cause fornication, to cause allthese kinds of things, then look how
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one thing leads to the other.You' re suddenly looking for affirmation on
social networks, on social media.You look for affirmation every time you mount
that picture showing what you shouldn't show. You seek affirmation every time
you despair, because suddenly you wantthose lives in social media. That is
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seeking affirmation and approval from others.And we don' t depend on that.
True, we depend on seeking theLord Jesus. When we seek that
affirmation in Lord Jesus there is andis when he begins to break these cycles.
The fifth characteristic of this rejection mentalityis that people who have this are
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difficult. They don' t knowbetter so they don' t know how
to process the pain. They don' t have a healthy way to process
the pain look. I' vebeen married for seven years and this year,
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in October, I' m goingto be eight, thank God,
right, but my husband and Icome from dysfunctional families, we even come
from a previous divorce and living thosethings, we know and we' ve
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lived what pain is. And thatalso at the time of bringing him into
marriage, guess we' re alsogoing to experience pain in marriage. We
have also had pain together in thistime of marriage. We are people who
are not perfect and come to arelationship with these things and many of those
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things expand during marriage, when theyare not healthy. Before that and I
came to the marriage, this marriagethat the lord gave me, I arrived
healthy because I took a while listeningto the voice of the lord, I
took a time in counseling, Itook a time in help with other people.
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But yet and that doesn' tmean that one isn' t going
to have one than another episode ofrejection. When you are in the relationship,
that the Lord wants you to beminded with this spirit of rejection does
not have a healthy processing of pain. Why, because they didn' t
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learn to deal with emotions in ahealthy way. And this happens so much
for work, for ministry with anykind of relationship. When a person is
having these problems, truth is reflecteda lot in the work environment, is
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reflected a lot in the ministry,is reflected a lot in the family.
And one of the things when we' re at it, we' re
struggling with this rejection mentality. Itis that, for example, if you
are in a job, if youare in a ministry, you were given
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a new position as a leader andthere are some indications, while you are
doing that job, that you aretold that you should do the best or
that why you don' t doit this way, there is immediately a
reaction from that person like that okyes, I, if I don'
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t do it right, then thatsomeone else does it or if I don
' t do it right, thenyou why don' t do it.
Many times even the person is rebelledbefore the authority because he is not willing
to accept any kind of indication,any sort of correction. None of this
is true, and when we're in a relationship, I don'
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t know if this is familiar,but I think it is. It can
be familiar to you. When you' re in a relationship right away,
you hear a lot of times yousay something like this. They' re
in an argument discussing something. Idon' t think that' s what
you' re saying. I don' t think so. Immediately the person
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with a rejection mentality reacts and saysok. So you don' t love
me, you don' t payattention to me. You never support me.
The thing is, you really don' t consider what I am to
you and blah blah blah blah blahblah, blah, blah, but my
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friend let me just tell you that. It' s a symptom you don
' t know how to process thepain. You don' t know how
to process the pain and since youdon' t know how to process those
situations that give you some kind ofpain, because you' re dealing with
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that rejection. Your growth is affected. Your growth as a woman is affected.
Your growth as a leader has affectedyour growth as a wife, your
growth as a mother, your overallgrowth is affecting. Because you' re
in a position where there' sfriction. When there is friction between one
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person and another in a relationship,imagine what the Bible says. The word
says in proverbs twenty- seven,seventeen that as iron sharpens with iron itself
a friend, one is sharpened witha friend. True, we have heard
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that verse many times. Ah it' s not that iron sharpens with iron
and you think that woe. It' s not that when I meet my
friend, when I meet with myfriends or with the people with whom I
join, that' s where yougrow up and look at it from the
positive context of sharpening iron with iron. But it turns out that when you
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' re doing this, iron withiron, that comes out a horrible sound.
Right. How about when you're sharpening the knife in your kitchen
with part of it with another pieceof metal, that' s horrible.
That sound is annoying. In thesame way, when you are in a
relationship with a person, call yourselfwhat the relationship is called and these events
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happen that you have to confront thatthere is friction. That doesn' t
feel right. And that is howthe Bible speaks. But so it says
the word that we sharpen with eachother. I have to let myself be
corrected, I have to let myselfbe taught? I have to let them
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show me those aspects of me thatare not so pleasant for me to be
able to confront them and overcome them. That' s what iron with iron
means. That' s when there' s friction. When there is friction
and we manage things well, wecan handle pain, then growth comes.
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But usually a person with a rejectionmentality, usually that person doesn' t
know how to process the pain.So what happens when you' re in
a confrontation with someone, what happenswhen you' re in a fight with
the boyfriend, with the husband,with the friend, with the mom,
with the dad. What are thefirst two reactions that can be given.
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First, a reaction may be thatsince you can' t stand the pain,
since you' re not emotionally matureenough to deal with that moment,
then the first thing you' regoing to do is to explode and run
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out. You don' t wantto talk. No. No, no,
no, no, I can't talk here You can' t
leave that alone You get out ofthis immediately. You don' t know
how to process the pain I thinkI have to tell you this, but
it' s the way to confrontthings. You can' t have difficult
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situations. If you' re ina difficult situation, you either go through
that or run away or second,you' re fighting. One of the
two things happens, you' refighting all the time and the other is
that you run out and immediately applythe law of I' m going to
ignore you. Don' t tellme anything. I' m not telling
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you anything. Let' s ignorethat is behaviors of a rejection mentality.
You can' t handle difficult conversations. You can' t stand an argument,
No, you can' t standthe confrontation without being angry you spend
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several sweet days, very sweet withthe person well feel good and suddenly inside.
That moment is being built, thatemotion is being built. There'
s deep down that, since youhaven' t been able to talk about
it before, there' s goingto stay until the time comes when pf
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explodes, explodes with this, withthese reactions, you' re unable to
sit with that person and talk withoutcrazy emotions controlling you why, because you
never learned to do it, becauseyou didn' t see it in your
house before, when you were agirl, when you were younger. That
' s why and many of ushave ruined the potential we have for this
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so malign thing that it' scalled the spirit of rejection. Because of
this mentality of rejection, because ofthis problem of feeling rejected, you have
ruined your potential. You' rein danger that you won' t walk
your purpose. You' re indanger of not walking on your call.
You' re in danger of theLord' s plans being fulfilled in your
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life, because you can' tgrow. That is why it is so
important that you grasp this problem ofreins and once and for all, make
it disappear from your life, beingavailable for the Lord and the Holy Spirit
to work in you in a deepway, tearing these roots out, drawing
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out in the name of Christ Jesusand by the blood of Christ every spirit
of rejection of your life. Thecharacteristic basket that a person fights with a
spirit of rejection mentality is that thatperson creates false identities of himself and I
' ll mention just four of youI' m going to personally. That
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' s all, because if not, rather here, we usually stay a
person who is building a false identitywhen he has this rejection problem. He
' s a strictly methodical person,he' s a person who has to
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do everything the way he says,because if it' s not done the
way he says, things are notwell done. It is also a better
characteristic, it is a manifestation ofthis spirit. When a person is a
worldka Hollik. What does this meanthat she' s a workaholic? It
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doesn' t mean that every timea person is addicted to work, or
it means that that' s aconsequence of being dealing with it with spirit
and rejection. Not because not everytime is the case, but it can
be presented that a person is beingthat way, because the spirit of rejection
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manifests itself that way in his life. The other thing, that the other
manifestation of this spirit in the identityof the person is that they are people
that please everyone. They' repeople who don' t know how to
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say they' re not a pleacer. We say here, in the United
States, that they please everyone andthere is nothing more terrible than to keep
an eye on them. If thatperson is pleased with what one does,
by what one says, there isnothing more terrible than that. Then these
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people are the ones who, inorder to avoid being upset with her,
are not accepted. So these peopleare never going to do anything that bothers
the others They' re never goingto do anything, they' re never
going to say anything, they're never going to confront anything. You
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' ve heard a lot of peoplesay ay It' s not like I
don' t like confrontation. Well, if there are some people who,
by nature, the Lord has madeus braver and given us that I say
it the right way. The giftof confronting, especially if one has a
call, for example prophetic. Inmy case, the prophets usually confront the
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people of Christ because they are onein the beloved. This is one of
the characteristics is the call a prophethas. So, a person who wants
to please everyone, imagine in whatdangerous sands he walks in too dangerous sands,
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because a person who has this spirit, for example, of rejection and
is in the Ministry never, Buthe will never be able to preach the
Gospel as it is, will neverbe able to preach the Gospel of Christ?
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Can you preach the Gospel disguised,but not the Gospel of Christ?
Why? Because he' s afraidto confront people. And if you read
the Bible very well, if youhave studied the Gospels well, if you
have had time to seek and knowJesus in the scriptures, you will realize
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that our Lord Jesus Christ had nofear of telling things to people. I
was not afraid to confront religious leaders, I was not afraid to confront those
of the government, I was notafraid to confront them and tell them they
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were in vipers. I wasn't afraid because he didn' t come
into this world. To please noone. He came here to please his
father and the word says that ifwe are truly here to please others,
then we are not worthy to becalled disciples of Jesus uff how tremendous,
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truth, how tremendous if you andI are not so strong to stop pleasing
people. That means we' reafraid. And if we are afraid of
people, you and I cannot preach. The word you are not qualified to
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preach, because you are going topreach what people always want to hear an
image, the danger that a personhas who has not been healthy and free
from the spirit of rejection and receivesfrom the Lord the call to be a
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prophet imagine. What' s thatgonna be like? What' s that
gonna be like? And it's too dangerous to be in the ministry
and still be struggling with this,because the message comes out distorted, The
message is comes out with manipulation.The message does not come out, it
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does not come from the river ofthe Holy Spirit, but it comes already
with a filter of your broken heart, from your rejected heart. And that
' s when people start preaching andin preaching the message comes out as with
hate. In the preaching the messagecomes out with manipulation. The preaching of
the message is distorted and you knowwhat' s going on. The people
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who get those messages are going tobe in their state It' s going
to be worse than how they gotthere before they heard you terrible. What
a great responsibility it is for us, as leaders, to be healthy first
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look at nothing else. Te.I' m talking in the ministerial field,
but also this applies to the professionalfield and business, because if you
' re not healthy, you're first before you start doing things,
those results of those fruits are goingto come out defective, they' re
going to go wrong. Imagine evenmore if we are in the ministry with
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a heart that is still struggling withspirits and wounds of the soul, with
wounds of the heart. That iswhy the Lord wants and is speaking so
deeply to us here, in thisMinistry and here with you, that you
are there, that you have tobe healthy, woman, you have to
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be free, because God needs you. Now he needs you and these are
to equip you, so that youwill be ready when God raises you up,
when God promotes you, when Godwants a healthy woman there who can
manifest the presence and glory of God, let it be a vessel, let
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it be a clean vessel where thereis no break of the enemy, with
which the enemy comes with things toharm you. Your Mind makes you feel
like you' re not going topreach that message. Now it arises,
because if you preach it, thenin that event, in that church,
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in this life you will be listeningto Fulanita such and if she listens to
you, then later she will notwant to invite you to her events.
You know what I care about fivecucumbers, me, the only one I
want to answer to. It's God you who' s the only
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one who has to be held accountable. It is God the only one we
have with pleasure. It' sGod the only one I have to give
to him. It is to Godand my message must come out pure,
because I am healed in the nameof Christ Jesus. I don' t
have the manipulation to be pleasing people. I don' t, I don
' t have that. I don' t come here to please you.
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I come here to tell you thetruth of Christ and sharpen you well so
that you go and do what theLord has commanded you to do. And
many times that' s gonna soundawful to you, it' s gonna
sound strong to you. But that' s how you' re gonna grow
up. And the problem with beingcomplacent with others rather than with the Lord
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rather than fearing the Lord is thatyou are going to live a life much
less, with much less than Godhas prepared for you, because you are
kneeling before the people. First thanbefore God. God help us, God
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help us truly, because we cannotbe kneeling before people, simply to try
to like them so that we canfit into their circle. God forbid.
Another manifestation of this spirit is thatpeople have a victim mentality. And I
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think I don' t have toexplain much here, because you know what
it' s like to be avictim- minded person, but I do
have to tell you that a personwho' s saying ay right now is
not that I don' t knowwhy this happens to me and victimization at
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all times. Oh, it's not like you' re dedicated to
me. Oh, it' snot like you already noticed me with the
boss. Oh, it' snot like you' re running all the
time It' s not like Itutor victimization at all times. I want
to tell you that that will bringyou to relate to people who have this
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spirit of hexabel that in professional words, not speaking spiritual terms a narcissistic person.
Normally, people who have a spiritof rejection mentality are in relationships with
people who are total narcissists. Terrible, because there' s that codependency.
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And here too the theme of pleasingothers comes to fruition. Another manifestation of
that mentality is that the person isa controller, what we call here a
freak control. You' re afreak control. You want to be controlling
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things all the time, because ifyou don' t control them, then
they' re not gonna be welldone. If you don' t control
things, things can go wrong.And if things go wrong, it'
s going to cause you stress,it' s going to cause you panic,
it' s going to cause youpain and, like you, you
want to avoid pain at all costs, because you don' t know how
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to handle it. Then you becomea controller. You want to control everything
that makes every move you make inyour home, every move your kids make,
every move your husband does. Yourhusband can' t turn this way,
this way, because he has towalk forever. That' s right
with you, you' re afreak control, my God, you have
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to be in control of everyone.Terrible is this, this desire to control
everything is often confused with protection.You say ay, it' s not
like I have to protect myself.That' s why I' m not
letting him go. I have toprotect myself. And that means you'
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re not willing to give in.You' re not willing to give control
to anyone. That' s whyit takes a lot of work for you
to have relationships with other people.A person who is a freak control in
the professional realm, is very difficultto deal with. You can' t
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delegate, you can' t delegate, you don' t want to delegate,
everything wants to be. She's in trouble with her coworkers by
herself. Anyway, in two words, such a person needs deliverance. He
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needs release. Now to close,I' m going to take four steps
so you can start dealing with thisand finish it all, once and for
all, in your life. Firstyou have to learn the role of the
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father. What is the role ofthe father in your life, because that
rejection is a lack of acceptance.The word says in Ephesians, one,
five, seven that in love havingpredestined us to be adopted as his children
through Jesus Christ, according to thepure effect, the pure affection of his
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will for the advancement, of theglory, of his grace, with which
he made us acceptable in the lover, in whom we have redemption by his
blood, the forgiveness of sins,according to riches in glory, Glory to
God. The first step you haveto be loved by me is to accept
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that you have this problem and learnwhat the role of the eternal father is
in your life. Learn the roleof the father in your life. Take
this fesios writing, one, five, seven and break it down, learn
it, memorize it speak it,not just read it out loud and study
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this writing, learn to remember timewith it. You will break this when
you learn that your acceptance to beloved is not in. Whether you do
right or wrong, it is inthe Blood Covenant of Jesus. Now he
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' s not gonna play me.It' s not that I' m
telling you that now he' sgot the doors open to go bad.
Don' t listen to what Godwill tell you. You are so covered
in the love of God that Godlooks at you through his eyes and he
knows that you are imperfect. Andbut through the Blood Covenant of Jesus And
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you are the daughter of God,you are no longer under the law,
you are under the grace of LordJesus. And if you are a child
of God, you are not towork for works, because that would be
called legalism, you are under acovenant of God that covers you. It
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' s not that you can dothe wrong thing or that you have free
will to do the wrong thing andthat you do and you undo and from
there you can come and do whateveryou want and it' s okay.
Not here I' m talking.It is that, as the word of
God says, know that everything islawful for you, everything is lawful for
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you under the sun and the moon, everything is lawful for you. But
everything doesn' t suit you.Everything doesn' t suit you, not
everything builds you, not everything buildsyou. Then you have to make the
decision to remove and put things fromGod' s word in your life that
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will make you stronger, because ifyou really love Jesus and if you,
really have an intimate relationship with him, you won' t want to offend.
You' re not gonna want tooffend him. You' re not
going to do the things that God' s word says you shouldn' t
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do, because you' re ina relationship. You' re on cover.
You don' t want to getyour husband to be brave with you.
You want to like him. Youwant to please that person, you
want to please your friends. Truea healthy desire to please, because one
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wants to please the people with whomone has around him. I like to
give people gifts. I like servingpeople. And that doesn' t mean
I have a lack of affirmation,not my way of being. Then we
have to know how to interpret howwe are so that we can act and
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understand that, by the role ofthe father in our life, we are
in a covering and in a covenantwith him, in a relationship with him,
we are redeemed. We' reredeemed. I would like with this
microphone and to hear the whole placeso that we no longer have these pains,
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these pains in our heart, inour emotion, which affects us so
much that it hurts us, somuch that it damages our full potential,
that it damages us, it damagesus. We' re redeemed. So
accepting father' s rock our lifeis the first. Second, we have
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to confront the identities I mentioned earlier. Being control freekills, being a controlling
truth, making us victims at alltimes, in pleasing people and in super
strictly methodical. However, often beingmethodical is good, but other times it
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' s not really yours is thatyou' ve assumed it as a defense
mechanism, but well, we've already played that part. You have
to confront those identities, those manifestations, those identities I mentioned earlier. If
you are a person who is afreak control, if you are a freak
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control, you have to accept thatand be vulnerable and honest, because if
you are not vulnerable, you willnot be able to heal. If you
' re not able to tell someoneyou' re dealing with this, you
' re not going to be ableto heal, because you' re not
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vulnerable, because you don' twant them to see you weak, because
you' re embarrassed that they seeyou as weak. And I have to
show myself as strong as I amso I can have everything under control.
That' s what he thinks,that' s the mentality, and the
person thinks that' s a strength. He doesn' t let himself be
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vulnerable, but he really isn't. It' s a mixture of
bad identity. It' s acamouflage to protect you. Normally, these
people are quick to give their opinion, but they do not accept the opinion
of others, true, because theycannot handle their conflicts. You can'
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t handle it. You don't know how to handle these things,
and you have to confront it tomake them free. You have to accept
that you' re a controller soI can be free. La. The
third step I give you the youthat I give you to get out of
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this in the nono of Jesus isthat you need to have a comptability what
this means in Spanish. You needto be accountable and accountable to someone.
Surround yourself from a group, surroundyourself with a person, at least one
person who shows you when you havethese kinds of behaviors or reactions and makes
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you see look right now. Youjust did that kick, that show,
because people who have this spirit don' t see themselves how they react.
They think they react and react well. But when you have a person,
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a partner who' s accountable tocall him that, a mentor, a
friend who' s accountable to him, then that person is going to make
you see, it' s goingto be seeing when you' re falling
into these behaviors and there at once, there at the root you' re
cutting off with this. How muchyou have to start that path and that
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walk with the Holy Spirit, beginto have and strengthen those bonds with the
Holy Spirit. You have to livein the spirit. You say Romans,
eight, one, four. Nowtherefore there is no condemnation for those who
are in Christ Jesus, who walknot according to the flesh, but according
to the spirit, for the lawof the spirit gives life in Christ Jesus
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has delivered me from the law ofsin and death, for that which was
impossible for the law because it wasweak by the flesh. God sending his
son in the likeness of sinful fleshand because of sin, condemned sin in
the flesh so that the righteousness ofthe law might be fulfilled in us,
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who walk not according to the flesh, but according to the spirit. Hallelujah
you have to start walking in thespirit and all these verses, catch them,
study them, learn them, walkin them, make them from you
the weapons that will help you breakwith all this. And I' m
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not talking here about walking the spiritay No. I go to the Church
on Sundays and I am walking inthe Holy Spirit Ay Not that I connect
to Lie Warman rise asap of arises. There I am walking in the Holy
Spirit. I' m not talkingto you and getting in your room like
and nce is worshiping Mr There areyunes doing in the private. What you
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have to do for the Lord Readthe word submit all this in prayer,
seek and give this to a groupof intersecting in prayer. Here, in
the Ministry, we have an intersectinggroup here We receive these things to help
you, to walk with us,to walk with the Holy Spirit, to
walk in cover, to walk withsomeone here you can account for, to
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have a support if you don't have it there where you live or
in your local church, because sometimesin our local churches you can' t
do these things there isn' t. That' s why we exist online
ministries, because we can be closeto you walking with you on a day
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- to- day basis. Soif you need prayer for this, if
you need someone to intercede for Youin prayer, also help you walk with
You in this process. Here weare, we' re here to help
you too if you have to getin the room and cry to the Lord
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in the spirit for hours and hours, do it, but you have to
do whatever it takes to make youfree from this. It doesn' t
mean this is going to be aboutyour effort. No, but you have
to take action, take action.Thus is Josselin, the name of Jesus
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Today the last scene that Jesus todaywas the last meal Glory to God.
That is why we are going toread Romans eight hundred, fourteen to seventeen,
for all who are led by thespirit of God, these are sons
of God. And we were justpublishing a blog here on our page yesterday,
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which spoke of Daniela Rios about whatit is to be a real child
of God. And some of youdo not know what it is to be
truly a daughter of God, forall who are led by the spirit of
God, these are children of God, led by the spirit of God.
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For you have not received the spiritof slavery, the slavery, the spirit
of rejection, that, that hasnot received it from the Lord to be
in fear again, but you havereceived the spirit of adoption, the spirit
of acceptance from the Lord by whichwe cry out ada father. The spirit
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itself testifies to our spirit that weare children of God and if children,
we are also heirs Hallelujah, heirsof God and co- heirs with Christ,
if we suffer together with him,so that we may be glorified together
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with him. Glory to God.So today is the day the Holy Spirit
is going to do and attract thatfreedom in your life. Today is the
day that the Holy Spirit is goingto begin to break that in the name
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of Jesus, because today you aregoing to decide to give this totally to
the Lord to recognize these kinds ofthings that I have been denouncing today and
to tell him, Lord here Iam no longer want to be so Lord
Transform me, Lord Change me completelyhere I am and I will pray until
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all this is broken in the nameof Jesus and you stubborn devil. You
will not come to tell me morelies about how I should act, about
how I should react, about howmy relationships should be, because this dies
today in the name of Christ Jesus. You have to be brave, brave
and talk to him like that withcharacter, without fear, because the Lord
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will bless you, the Lord willfree you, the Lord will bring you
victory in your life, the Lordwill bring you healing? So that you
can have a life in all aspects, so that you can have an abundant
life in all aspects, so thatyou don' t suffer more for all
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these behaviors, which really aren't of you, make us of you.
They are born from that root thatI have been dealing with and that
the enemy has taken advantage of andtied himself there to somehow manipulate the way
you behave in the name of ChristJesus. In the name of Christ Jesus
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hallelujah well, already during this timewe will read them here a little and
pray. Finally, in the nameof Lord I know that this will bring
blessing in your life and come andhear it again. If you have to
listen to it, take note andlisten to it again and review it with
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the Holy Spirit on this subject andlet him be revealing to you every thing
and take that action on this,let' s see who' s here
that is. Thank you, Gina, we' ll be praying for each
of you. God bless you neida. Here we are reviewing these comments.
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If anyone has a prayer request toclose, let us at once pray for
you, because, in the nameof Christ Jesus, every spirit of rejection,
every mentality of rejection, leaves yourlife, has to leave, because
when you are exposed, you havenowhere to go. So I ask the
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Lord to bring that revelation to you, that the Holy Spirit Ahorita is looking
within You and is pointing out toyou Look, I think he' s
talking about you. The Holy Spirittells you to give it to me,
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because I want to end it inyour life now. Glory to God,
Glory to God, Welcome to GleldaIsabel, God bless you, connecting here
on Instagram. In conclusion, asI told you, we are here in
this Ministry open to receive petition andprayer from you to help you during this
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process. So, if you wantto connect with us and talk a little
bit more about this, if thismessage has touched your heart, today send
us a private message here to Instagram, send me a comment here on YouTube
channel, on Facebook or send ifyou don' t want anyone to see
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it as a comment, then sendus a direct message and we will be
in contact with you, We willbe in prayer with you, God Bless
you Joseguin, let' s praytonight, Lord You, We give thanks
for this time beloved father. Thankyou, sir, for these things that
you teach us, those things thatyou particularly want to help us overcome with
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the power of your holy spirit nowin the name of Christ Jesus. Lord,
if you are there at this momentand you want to receive from the
Lord that relief, that strength ofthe Lord regarding this subject, hour this
prayer, Lord, at this momentI give you every mentality of rejection,
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I give you all pain in myheart, Lord Ben and heal my wounds,
if you are there and you donot even have a relationship with the
Lord if you have not received LordJesus as your Savior, hour with me
and tell him Lord, I comefrom before you, forgive me for my
sins. Sir, I want tobe a new person. I want to
be a new woman come and directmy life to be lord of my life.
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Sir, I regret all the thingsI' ve done for my bad
behavior. Lord I open the doorof my heart for you to come and
make me new, as you sayin your word, for I know that
you love me, Lord, andI come before you at this moment to
give my life in the name ofChrist Jesus. And if you are one
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of those people who today give hislife completely to the Lord let him know
also because to want to be withyou to accompany you during this time and
be able to be that support youneed. God bless you, Joselin,
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in the name of Jesus. It' s good to know that you deliver
everything to the Lord on this day. Praised, may it be sir?
Praise be to the Lord So Ibless you in the name of Jesus I
keep praying for each of you andsee you with God' s favor in
the next and woman raiza God blessyou. I love them with all my heart
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