June 16, 2025 • 53 mins
In this powerful episode, Jimmy Rex sits down with Adeyemi Adeyosoye, a transformational coach and shadow work guide, to explore the often misunderstood realm of the dark masculine and the shadow self. Adeyemi dives deep into what it means to confront the parts of ourselves we've hidden, rejected, or suppressed — and how doing so is the key to true personal freedom, growth, and emotional depth.
From breaking down the difference between the "dark masculine" and "toxic masculinity" to discussing real-life initiations and how men can reclaim their authentic power, this conversation is a roadmap for anyone ready to do the inner work. Adeyemi shares his personal journey, insights from working with men around the world, and why owning your darkness is essential for embodying your full truth.
Whether you're new to shadow work or have been on the path for a while, this episode offers wisdom, tools, and a perspective that will shift how you see yourself and the world around you.
From breaking down the difference between the "dark masculine" and "toxic masculinity" to discussing real-life initiations and how men can reclaim their authentic power, this conversation is a roadmap for anyone ready to do the inner work. Adeyemi shares his personal journey, insights from working with men around the world, and why owning your darkness is essential for embodying your full truth.
Whether you're new to shadow work or have been on the path for a while, this episode offers wisdom, tools, and a perspective that will shift how you see yourself and the world around you.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Hello, and welcome to another episode of The Jimmy Rex Show.
Today on the podcast, we have a special guest is
at A Yemmy at A Yosoi and he is from
Nigeria and he lives in Dubai currently. But I met
this guy at the Deva Dita event that I went
to in Florida a couple months ago and immediately just
knew this dude had a very unique perspective on life
and he was somebody that I was drawn to to
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learn more about and more from. And he's done some
awesome work. We talk all about the dark masculine, about
the shadow work, and this is a podcast that we
go pretty deep and he has a unique way to
explain these things.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
So that anybody can understand them.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
And So if you're looking to change your life, if
you have patterns in your life to keep repeating themselves
and you don't know why and you're not sure how
to break the cycle that you find yourself in, this
is the podcast you're going to want to listen to.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
So, without further ado, let's get to the show.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
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Speaker 2 (01:22):
So, without further ado, let's get to the show. How
do you have me? Good to see you, my friend,
jimmy brother. Happy to be here all right, man.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
You One thing I love about what you're doing is
it's completely different than what I'm doing. But we both
kind of dedicated our lives to helping men build brotherhood
in munity and really dive into the pieces of them
that are a little bit disconnected, and so such an
important message that you're doing.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Talk a little bit about exactly what type of.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Just what coaching you kind of focus on, because it's
very different than I think most people, especially where I'm
at here in Utah or a very religious state, and
people don't like to talk about sexuality and some of
these topics, and so it's fun to be able to
sit down and chop it up with.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
You about this beautiful So you talk about it from
a religious standpoint, right. I grew up religious, was born Christian.
And one of the things that affects a lot of
people is that they try to change their life to
become successful, to become as spiritual as they can be,
and they try to focus on the light path of
being the best version of themselves. The reason that doesn't
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work is oftentimes it means they have to separate and
divorce parts of themselves that are also true, which is
the sexual side of a person, the aggressive side of
a man. And because they those aspects of themselves, what
they actually separate from is they separate from their truth.
And most of the time they have to put on
the facade and put on a mask. What that does
is that separation that they have from themselves gets mirrored
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back into the world as separation with certain aspects of
the world.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Right.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
And so the work that I do for men and
for anyone in general is to help them find holistic
acceptance of every aspect of themselves, because that is the
way they can increase their frequency, increase their vibration and
actually become true, actually becomes safe, actually become powerful expressions
of their being because the whole and so the work
that I do takes people, yes, into the light, but
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it's actually saying, before we chase high levels of being,
can we first of all accept the darker elements of yourself,
the sexuality, the shame, all of those different pieces, the
things that makes you.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Want to hide. Let's accept that first.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
And as soon as you accepted, what starts to happen
is you now have self acceptance that mirrors out into
the world. All of a sudden, the world accepts you
a little bit more, and you get to accelerate down
the quantum field, have the higher levels of enlightenment, and
you actually get to create the life that you want
from wholeness, not divorce.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
So I think you're spot on with this.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
And I've always said, if you repress those pieces of
you or reject them, then they're gonna spring out in
kinky ways or ways that you can work against you
in a modern society.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
So what does that look like?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Somebody you say, you know, to look at all the
parts of yourself or the dark parts of yourself. Maybe
give us some examples of how you take somebody through
that and what that process even looks like. I think
people hear that, they're like, okay, I only know it.
What are you talking about? Push for sure?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
For sure, let's look at where it starts in the
first place. The first thing that we want to do
that everybody carries. By the way, and I know you've
had conversations with individuals who talk about trauma and different
parts of a person, but between the ages of two
and six, a person.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Has their first encounter with toxic shame.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
This is where something happens with your family, something happens
with whoever in their life, and they get the first
imprint in themselves that they are bad. The reason toxic
shame is toxic is because it's the kind of shame
where a person interprets as a baby that they are bad,
and they are the cause that causes that child, that
individual to then take on a new identity to become
good for the world and acceptable. So they have the
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first separation with themselves. Right That toxic shame with what's
manifests is what ends up manifesting across their life and
then they have the separation with parts of themselves that
are bad and there suppressed and other parts that are
likable that are better blah blah blah. But that's the
initial of disconnect. So the work that I do with
the person first is to understand, and this can be
pretty interesting to get into understand what I call the
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quantum patterns in the person's life where.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
A person loops.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Say, for example, you have some client who will get
to a point where they reach an energetic ceiling where
they can't make say over fifty one hundred k month,
or they have a repeating loop and a repeating pattern
in relationships. I like to first identify what are the
loops in their life, what I call the quantum loops
that keep happening because your subconscious is manifest and it's
in their realm for them to process, and from there
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trace that back into where it started in their life.
Identify the core memory, do some inner work on that
core memory to change and catalyze that particular moment, whatever
it is, and then start mapping out into the shame,
the deep sexual shame, the deep sexual aspects of a person,
something called shadow work, where we go into the again
the parts of themselves they've divorced, get them to reclaim
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those aspects of their being, and from that point we
go into some deeper sexual activation work to start changing
their energy. Because once a person, specifically a man, can
take ownership of his sexual energy, he takes ownership of
his life force. If he has cleared all the blocks
in his life that has been causing the subconscious patterns
and can supercharge his sexual energy, all of a sudden,
he just starts having.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
A way, way different energy in the world.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
And that energy is what ends up replicating to have
these men having more successful deals, better connection with women,
and actually being able to live without a mask. And
this in many ways was my own life, building success
and building some level of wealth, but actually living from
my mask and doing all of these things because I
wanted the world to approve of me and to gain connection,
when actually what I was looking for was to be
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accepted at my core across all aspects of my being.
That's where I had to go into my own inner
work and my shame work and my sexual work, and
from there something massive changed.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
The way I.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Showed up in business change, the doors that open for
me completely changed. The people had met like yourself things.
Life just started taking on a new leaf in its own.
And so that's the process core pattern, track that back
into where it started. It's a process that developed over
eleven years. Go deep into the sexual and the shame
aspects of that, and then the other things that I
do to then help that person accelerate their life and
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typically results in business success and whatever you may. Most
important thing though, is they finally return home to themselves.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Did you say that so well? And you explain it
very well so that people can understand it.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I think even the very thought of diving into your
sexuality and sexual shame and some of those things people
would rather in a lot of cases wear a mask.
It's very scary, right, takes a lot of courage to
do that kind of work. And I love that you
talk about we're trying to just be accept that. I
always say to people, you know, I look at the
previous versions of myself and a lot of these things
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that I did, and I just want to like hug
that version of me. I'm like, God, bless him. He
made some really poor decisions, but he was just trying
to be loved. Like everything that came out that was
you know, ego or pride in some of these other things,
the vanity and stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
It was just me trying to be loved.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
But it was that mask that you talk about, that
you put on to just say, hey, I promise I'm
worthy of getting to know I'm worthy of loving.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
But being able to take that mask off is when
you can.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Truly feel the love, because at that point you can
trust the love that's given because you know they're loving the.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Real version of yes. Yes.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
So talking about you mentioned the shadow and doing shadow work,
that's something I think is one of those buzzwords that
a lot of people talk about, but nobody really understands
what exactly that means. I'd love to dive into that
a little bit. For a man that wants to do
the shadow work, where would he start and sold even
do it? I guess understood. It's an interesting thing to
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think about. Shadow work seems, let's say, hots understand and
in some ways it is the best way I would
ground it is whatever someone is experiencing right now that
they don't want to experience in their life, whatever it is,
some part of their soul, some part of their being,
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actually wants that experience, and so shadow work is starting
to understand and shine light into that part of you
that actually secretly enjoys the chaos, the separation, the rejection,
the pain that's happened in your life. Right, And this
is why the dark masculine and the dark work I
do is quite interesting because when people hear dark they go, oh,
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my god, it's so scary.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
No, no, no. What we're actually doing is connecting you
into light. Because if you look at the structure of
the universe as a whole, ninety five percent of the
energy in the universe is dark matter, only five percent
is light. That five percent light is constantly spreading into
the darkness. If you look at the conscious and the
subconscious mind, the conscious mind is five percent of the mind.
The subconscious mind is ninety five percent of the mind
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as above. So right, and so what you want to
do is you want to orient yourself to the very
structure of how life is manifested in the entire universe
and take your light, your consciousness, your awareness, and start
to gaze into the parts of you that are in
the shadows the dark side. Because what you're doing is
you're taking light and spreading it into the darkness. What
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this means in shadow work is you're starting to discover
the parts of yourself and accept the parts of yourself
that actually wants the chaos, the drama, the rejection, the pain,
or whatever it is that you're experiencing in your life.
And because it's unconscious, most people think it's not true.
But the thing is, the unconscious parts of us gets
manifested in the world for us to process. Right, So,
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the unconscious part of me, and this was my own journey,
that actually wanted rejection, that enjoyed the process of rejection,
got manifested in the world as women and things and
opportunities constantly rejected me. Why because when I went back
into my inner child, what happened is when I had
my first rejection from family, from whatever it was, it
gave me some level of energy to go out into
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the world to prove. And so my core energetic driver,
my fuel source for life, came as a response to
the rejection. And so for me to have energy to conquer,
to win, to success, to succeed, I had to manifest.
And I kept manifesting situations of rejection because it angered
a part of me to go out and say this
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woman rejected me. Wait till I buy my corvette. She
rejected me. Wait till I get the Aston Martin and
the penthouse right. And so you see how the shadow
actually becomes a thing that subconsciously is driving a lot.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Of people forward, but they don't know it.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
And when you start getting into this work and start
shining the light into the dark, all of a sudden,
once you spot the pattern and you spot the fuel sauce,
then you can fundamentally change your core driver for life.
And so you start driving your life from a place
of expansion, excitement, love and joy instead of proving of
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running away from some experience is that you didn't want
to have. That's shadow work, in its essence, comeing into contact,
understanding and making space for the parts of yourself that
is subconsciously manifest in everything that you don't want in
your life.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
And I submit to you.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
It's one of the quickest ways that a person can
quickest paths that a person can take to be able
to change the core structure that manifests in the entire world.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
Damn, that's so well explained. I know in my own life.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
You know, I hid when I was in my teen years,
my father told me I wasn't good enough about something
and I used it as my driving force. I drove
that into my subconscious and that was like everything I
did was to prove that I was good enough. And
I remember, you know, the moment that I healed that
in the message that came back to me was so fascinating.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
It said, this has served you.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
It no longer does boom, And I was like, whoa boom?
Because that's the tricky part about your shadow. You said
it so good. You said, there's a part of you
that wants it. There's a part of you whenever you
make a bad quote unquote bad decision, right, there was
a part of you that wanted that experience. There was
a part of you that did that because it wanted
to have that experience. And so figuring out why you
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have these destructive behaviors is so powerful, so that you can,
like you said, drive from expansion or love instead of
the chaos you're creating subconsciously.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Can I tell you one moment where this really clicked
for me. I used to have a thing where I'll
struggle with connecting with women, for example, and I really
feared the rejection from a woman. It was super subconscious.
When I started getting into the shadow pot, and I
realized there was a part of me that enjoyed the
rejection because it drove me forward and subconsciously meant I
wouldn't go for the things I wanted to go for
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because it kept me. I just stayed in this subconscious
path of keep hustling, keep driving, don't go for the
thing you want because you're going to get rejected. But
subconsciously was driving me anyway. I realized it, and I
decided to do a test. I said, if I'm going
to if I enjoyed this rejection subconsciously, let's make it
conscious and so let me go up to the prettiest
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woman and completely bomb my approach to her in a
way that almost guarantees my rejection.
Speaker 2 (14:07):
And I did.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
I went to this woman, extremely beautiful woman gave I
didn't even say like HI or anything.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
I was just like, hey, I think you're beautiful.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
I'm going to give you my number, and I just
wrote it out for her randomly, super cheesy handed it
to her and she just kind of threw the cod
in front of her while she was speaking to me. Brother,
It hurt me so much, But then I went into
the taxi shortly after that and because I did it consciously,
I went, yes, I'm getting the rejection that I want. Finally,
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I kid you not. I had goose bumps run through
my body. I had a massive surge of energy that
ran through my body and my entire being found this
level of wholeness and power where for the first time
I made the subconscious driver conscious and it was wow.
And so whenever I want to shift the person's life,
i'm quite and I move against against the standard way
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of doing things. A person might come to me and go,
you know, hey, they are strug with XYZ and they
want me to help them change that part of themselves
as struggle. I'll say no, for the next week, I'll
take you through a process that allows you to fully
struggle and enjoy your struggle process.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
When I do that, typically they.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Come out of it and they never have to go
back into that situation again, because it's finally been okay
for them to actually have the experience that subconsciously they
have been manifesting, but the world has told them to
run away from. So the fastest path is to go
deep down and through, not necessarily to avoid and change it,
because that just manifest the thing again. Because your soul
wants mind wholeness.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Wells kind of you just took a deeper way of saying,
you know, the thing you fear the most is the
thing that you need to go do. It's it's like
I always say, it's such a gift to go broke
once in your life because you realize it's not that
bad and all of a sudden, not afraid of being
broke or you know, go out and get rejected by women.
I love that you went and did it just like
that because you realize I'm still because your subconscious brain thinks,
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if I get rejected by this woman, it still has
the programming when you'd meet one hundred people in your lifetime,
so it thinks, well, if she rejects me, the other
potential mates in the village will see that I was rejected.
I'll die alone. I won't pass on my posterity, and
that's the end of me. The reality is is all
that happened is there was this random girl that probably
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still hung up on her boyfriend or whatever, maybe she's
not even single or whatever, might be decided that you
weren't her type. But if you go and you've experienced
the rejection, and then you go oh, I lived, I
wasn't too bad. I really think that's just a really
beautiful way of explaining where are some other shadows that
people have that they could look at to maybe try
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to bring it to the light.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
I guess let's look at an example of someone who
goes broke. And he goes broke and ends up living
with his family and he's getting taken care of by
his mom and he's getting some level of support. The
shadow part of him that's showing up is the part
of him that actually wants to be kid and in
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some ways feel helpless and be accepted as helpless and
cared for by life. When he's with his mom, if
he's still struggling to come out of that situation and
not fully embracing that part of himself, he will probably
manifest being in that situation a lot longer than he
needs to, so he would manifest the person what's happened
in that situation. He's manifesting being broke to get care
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because a part of him was not cared for in
his life and he actually wants that experience. And so
that's an example of hey step into it fully. You
can also say this with many different aspects and say
from women and rejection, you can spay from the part
of them that wants to be weak. You can say
it from the man who actually doesn't want to succeed
in his life. And yes, he's not manifesting his success
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or he's trying to manifest his success, but he keeps
manifesting the blocks because for some reason, deep down in
his life, he actually wants to feel what it's like
to be helpless, to be weak, to not have Instead
of trying to get him to move forward very quickly,
and there's a way to get him to accelerate forward
very quickly. Sure, I would say, spend your time going
into that part of you that actually does not want
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to win, because that part of you actually was never
allowed to fail. So this is typically from the high performers, right,
I'm sure a lot of the people who watch your
show athletes and individuals like that. One of the things
that happens in that spare is a lot of individuals
are forced to be successful as athletes and they're never
actually allowed to fail. Then it's never okay for them
not to win. And so what I would rather do
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the way that shadow will manifest is they will keep
manifest in situations that force them to fail in some way.
I'd rather say, step into it, gain contact with that
part of yourself, gain full ownership, do it for a week,
don't judge yourself for it, and fail fully because your
soul wants.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
That experience, and do it consciously.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
In the same way.
Speaker 3 (18:44):
With the rejection, it's not just get rejected and then
get into your mind of why it didn't work. No,
get rejected and go. There is a part of me
that loves this rejection. There's a part of me that
secretly wants to fail, and I've allowed that part of
me to live for one week. Embrace it, learn the
tours of it. From that point, it's not creating your life.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
That's beautiful. Man.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
So you talk a lot about the quantum field, and
this is one of those things that I try to
explain to people, and I know I don't do.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
It very well. So I'd love to here.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
You just do such a good job of articulating these concepts.
You can tell that you know this has become your
life passion. Why is it important that energetically you make
these shifts and how that works with the quantum field?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Beautiful?
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Yeah, beautiful So let's go into what the quantum field is,
and I'll say it in a very simple manner. Everything
in the world, as we know proven by Einstein, is
created off of energy. There's an energetic base for every
single thing in the world. The reason you and I
connected where we connected, there was an energetic reason for it.
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The seed for this podcast was planted subconsciously by someone saying,
let's buddy up at an event.
Speaker 4 (19:52):
There was an energetic seed that's sold that and so that's.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Manifested into this podcast into an amazing conversation.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
Right.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
So the quantum fiel, it was essentially saying there's a
base layer across the entire world where energy manifests, and
that is the base energy that creates the world. That's
the base energy that connects a man and a woman,
that puts them in the same situation together where they
both get two thoughts, Hey, let's go to the same
cafe and they meet, they lock eyes, they go into
a relationship, babies are formed. That is how life manifests itself. Right,
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It's this synchronistic path. What we're doing when I speak
about the shadow and dark masculine charging your energy up,
what you're doing is you're saying, Hey, can I clear
my field within the quantum field and raise my energy
to such a point that it becomes easier for me
to have those synchronistic connections with people, opportunities, and the
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very things that I want.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
Why is this important? There's something called.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
The scale of consciousness, which I'm sure you know Scale
of Consciousness by David Hawkins. It's a scale that shows
the different vibrating levels and the different levels of vibration
of the different emotions in a person's body. The lowest
emotion a person can have in their body is shame.
Grief is close to that, Anger and the rest are
close to that. The highest vibration is things like joy, enlightenment,
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and super high levels of being where once you embody
that frequency. For example, when you're joyous and you go
out on the deal on the business deal, people almost go, wow,
he's joyful. I want to work with this person. They
get magnetized to higher levels of being. Now, when a
person has shame, grief, whatever the emotions are from their
childhood that are suppressed, that actually reduces their frequency massively.
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So if shame is at twenty, let's just say shame
is the number the number for shame is twenty. The
number for love is at five hundred. You put shame
in there, you take the average, you're two hundred and seventy,
two hundred and ten or whatever, two hundred and sixty immediately,
and so what we are doing, and the reason this
is important is once you start clearing those energies in
your body, your body starts to come into coherence and
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the messages you start sending into the quantum field, the
base layer of reality becomes a lot more coherent, which
allows you to have more synchronistic connections, which allows you
to vibe rate at a frequency where deals magnetize themselves
to you, your partner. You connect deeper with your partner,
your woman, whatever it is, You start becoming magnetic. The
final thing here is the reason why the dark masculine,
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these parts of going into the shadow and the hidden
parts of yourself are important, is that if you divorce
parts of yourself, right, the sexual side, the part of
you that wants whatever it is. If you divorce parts
of yourself, you start sending an incoherent field into the
quantum field. Because you are incoherent inside of yourself, there's
a disconnection, right, So on the surface, you're this religious person.
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Deep down you have these deep desires that you've never
actually owned. You project that field into the world. And
the other thing on this is when other people receive that,
or whenever other people meet you, their nervous system can
also pick up on your frequency, so they pick up
on that incoherence. And the field here is about three
feet wide, and so if you're broadcasting an incoherent signal
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into the field, then you manifest an incoherent synchronistic of
tunities that typically don't go according to plan. All of
a sudden, you can never go past one hundred grand
a month or ten grand a month because you're stuck
at that point. Once you start changing your core frequency
and your signal becomes more coherent, all of a sudden,
when people meet you, they feel truth. And as soon
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as they feel your truth, they go, man, there's something
about you. I was pool to come. This started happening
to me. Man, I'll go to an event and I'll
have people walk across go there's something about you that
I want to There's some reason I want to connect
with you. I just feel like we need to do
business together. Let's have a chat that comes after you've
done the work to start broadcasting a coherent field. So
I'll recap really quickly quantum field based energetic layer. The
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work we're doing here is starting to get you. It's
about getting you into a coherent signal so that you
can interact with this field and maximize the synchronicities and
the synchronistic opportunities that come into your life. This is
how you get into higher levels of wealth, deeper connection, happiness,
joy and actually having fulfillment.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
Well, I've looked at my own life, right, and you
know that's when people talk about you're going to attract
people that are on your same frequency. That's what they're
referring to. Is this energy. This call it your aora,
whatever you're putting out into the universe energetically. And I look, now,
there's some decisions I made five, six, seven years ago,
going to business with certain people, being around certain people,
and I look at it now and I'm like, what
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the hell was I like, how did I not see this?
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Right?
Speaker 1 (24:27):
But it's funny because that's the frequency that I was
vibrating on and I can see it now. After you
change your own frequency, you look back and you're like, oh,
because I don't think we in those moments, we don't
know that we're attracting the wrong things into our lives
or maybe just rejecting the right things. But I think
that's one of the beautiful things about doing the work
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or taking off your mask or these things, is you
do start to almost repel the things that aren't for you.
And I think that's really importanting people always talk about
what they want to attract to themselves, and I've heard
you talk about this, but just as importantly, when you
work on this and you you know, up your frequency
or your energy, you're going to start repelling the things
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that aren't for you, that shouldn't be in your world.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
Absolutely, And you know, I always say rejection. You have
to have separation for you to attract. You can't be
an individual if you're not separate from others. It's just important.
You can't be Jimmy if you're not separate from maddieby
And a lot of times we fear separation, not understanding
that separation is is literally the medicine. Separation means attraction.
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To be separate for something means you get attracted into
other things. And so I really try to tell people, yes,
sometimes it's painful to go down this journey and to
start up leveling your life and step into a higher frequency,
and it would cause you to separate from other individuals.
One of my biggest pains is I was born in Africa, right,
and since then I've traveled around the world. I've done
many different things. I don't most people don't notice. But
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at a point I was cleaning floors. A lot of
the work and the things I share was what manifested
and allowed me to get to the current level that
I am in my life. But one of the pains
of that is going down my own individual journey to
become my individuate itself.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
In the world.
Speaker 3 (26:13):
Men separating from a lot of my friends. It meant
separating from home. It meant not having some of the
things that yes, I love so deeply, but maybe they're
just not me as much. And so sometimes to get
the thing that you want, you're going to have to
separate from people that even and you would love them
so much. But that is part of that individuation of frequency.
So it's uh, I think that's defuly beautiful one.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
I think it's one of the hardest parts of it
because I know, for me, that separation and all of
a sudden, places that used to feel like home don't anymore.
And you're not still quite comfortable with your new place
as you're you know, feeling more comfortable, and so you
kind of feel this almost like homeless for a little bit.
You're I don't fit in here, but I don't fit
in here, and you're trying to find yourself. I think
it scares a lot of people back to that they
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retreat back into these places that they were trying to
separate from.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
But it's just you again.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
I think that's why it's so important to do this
with have accountability, have a brotherhood, right, and I think
most healing has to be done in community because that's
where a lot of our pieces were broken.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
Yes, I agree, And you know you have your brotherhood
looks amazing. I have the things that I run. It's all.
This is so important because I realized in my life
I needed brotherhood. I've traveled, I've solo traveled across the world.
I've been to I've moved twenty thirty times. Man, and
after a while, you just get to a point where, yes,
you're looking for home. First, you have to find home
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in yourself and Once you find home in yourself, then
brotherhood you need. You need a solid group of people
where for the first time you can drop the mask.
And even if you don't drop the mask, they will
call out your mask. That's a brotherhood where they look
at the man. This is not you bring out a different,
go deeper, show up and when a man has space
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for that, oh it's incredible. That's why anyone creates no brotherhood.
It's just any man. Find your brotherhood, find your tribe
of people that can guide you deep and can hold
space for you. This is the work you do. This
is the work I do. It is fundamental. It's like
a lifeline of existence.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
I love a lifeline of existence because people often say,
I feel like this is the first time in my
life I can just let my entire guard down, and
I think, correct me if I'm wrong on this. But
I think that for men to truly heal, we have
to have other strong men around us. I know my
most healing moments for me, the breakthroughs I've had is
when very strong masculine men have called me out. Because
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in order to heal, you kind of have to go
into your feminine. In order to do that, you need
other like you. At the event we went to, I
didn't really care to be there for most of the first.
Speaker 2 (28:51):
Part of the event.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
I'm going to be honest, and I think the reason
why I was here we had to pick an accountability partner.
Speaker 2 (28:58):
I think I picked you because you were all in.
You were very present. I was not. I was all
over the place.
Speaker 4 (29:04):
I just was.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
This work we were doing was very frustrating for me.
Speaker 1 (29:08):
It was at the you know, David Dita uh personally
trained about thirty of us for three or four days straight.
And it was cool because you were able to like
call me to be more present, and it's the thing
that I've been working for a year and a half on.
So instead of going, you know what, fuck this guy,
I went, oh, I really didn't like that, but I
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respect him because that is one present motherfucker right across
from him, you know. And I was like, Okay, I'm
going to take the challenge. And I it wasn't easy,
but by the second or third day, I was able
to open up my truth and I think it benefited
the whole group dramatically.
Speaker 2 (29:43):
Because I was able to push past.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
My own resistance and if it wasn't strong, people there
like strong men that had called me out. There's no
way I would have left. I had things I would
We were in Florida the beach. There was NCAA basketball
tournament going. I know what attracts me away from doing
the work. It's very easier to distract myself. But because
of that, I was able to do a lot of
work and a lot of I will say healing in
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that space.
Speaker 3 (30:07):
Oh man, love you brother far too kind And you
know you touched on two things.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
One was around the value of brotherhood.
Speaker 3 (30:15):
I think a lot of men put brotherhood lost does
an afterthought because they hope that when they're more successful
or whatever, they can drive your life forward. They're just
all the different conditions that we have. But I want
to go back into the point where most of the time,
the thing that we're really looking for is connection back
into toxic shape. And so when you're really looking for connection,
typically you will put it as the last thing, thinking
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there other things that you need to do in your
life to create the grounds for connection. And so when
a man finally finds brotherhood and sees people that actually
see him, that hold him together right for the first time,
it's like, oh, it's actually easy for me to be
loved without my mask. And that's a now chemical process
on its own. So there's a lot of beauty in that.
Now I'm going to the point of the masculine feminine
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really strong men. They're really masculine men, and men who
are masculine enough to be able to allow their feminine come.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
Out to play.
Speaker 3 (31:08):
Right, And you have a lot of people who have
this narrative of being masculine, being ultra tough, and there
is no play in them. Those people, when you're around them,
it's just not fun to be around that kind of
a person.
Speaker 4 (31:17):
Yes they are structured, yes they're good, Yes.
Speaker 3 (31:19):
They build the business, but there is no life force
in there. And so what happened when we're at the
David Data it was a little bit of that of
once you're around strong men, yes they would help you
step into your femine, because a man has to go
into his feminine to heal, and he needs to be
able to be around other men that can hold him
well enough so he can do the healing work. But
when he leaves, he needs to be able to reclaim
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his masculine and feel safe in that. And so that's
a lot of the thing. But the core point is
for a man to really be a man, he needs
to be able to hold space for his own feminine
to be expressed. That's how it's going to hold space
for his woman for life with many different flows and
ebbs and flows.
Speaker 4 (31:56):
Right, And also at that event, I have to say
it was very similar. Right.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
Yes, I had the masculine structure and the shell and
stance in all of that, but there was also a
lot of beauty that came from yourself, from David Data,
from the different people there that allowed me to open
up into my core feminine parts of me. And that
was one of the things David Data talked about. It's like, yes,
you're an ultramasculine person, but you're also very feminine.
Speaker 4 (32:17):
Man, So can you own that? And there is power
in that.
Speaker 3 (32:20):
And as soon as I did that, what happened I
had people come to me saying, hey, I just I
feel resonance.
Speaker 4 (32:25):
Now there's beauty.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
So for any man who's listened, women, men whoever, that
feminine is the connective force. When a beautiful woman walks in,
everybody looks, everybody wants to connect. And so when a
man can allow that side of him to come out
all of a sudden, he becomes more magnetic. And that's
what I think the core thing here that we're all
doing is is become so rooted in yourself that you
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can play with life and just see what life does
to you after that.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
Yeah, Well, and tapping into that feminine does so many
things for a man too. I mean, it's your creative side,
it's your playful side. But it also I think helps
you understand the women in your life better. I think
a lot of men don't truly appreciate the experience that
a woman is going through. They've never bothered to try
to see it from that point of view. And so
you see a lot of these in cels and you
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know people online right now, a lot of guys that
just kind of try to tear down the feminine in
different ways. It's because they don't understand it. They don't
know the difference between walking down the street as a
man versus walking down the street.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
As a woman being hit on as a woman by somebody.
Speaker 1 (33:26):
You have absolutely zero interest in ever having a conversation
with like these different experiences that they have to have.
It's why I've always you know, it's I always say
it's hard to trust men in your inner circle that
have never been around beautiful women because they don't understand
the experience that they go through in life. And so
it's one of the gift of having beautiful friends is
you get to talk to these women and hear there
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and you're like, oh, and so they're not bitches, They're
not you know whatever you want to refer to them to,
just because they're not giving you the attention that.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
You selfishly want.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
They have a very different experience that are going through
in order to feel safe and to go through their
own life, they have to be a certain way around
all sorts of different mask and energies.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
Yes, and I really think it's the onness is on
us as men to hold a way.
Speaker 4 (34:18):
Of being that creates safety for the feminine right.
Speaker 3 (34:21):
And I'm not saying this from a provider protector stands
and I think there are a lot of women who
do have a masculine shell.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
Obviously we're coming from David data, so we know this.
Speaker 3 (34:30):
But the onness is on us to be able to
actually become new examples of how to connect, how to
relate where there is no bickering back and forth, and
there is no anger because someone rejects you. It's like,
be open to life, let life penetrate you. She rejects you, great,
that's just an experience in your life. Be open flow
and creates safety in a way where if you have
safety and your feminine and you have safety for your
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feminine to express itself automatically. A woman who sends that
idio and it's a lot easier to connect because she
sends that you are playful. She sends something different again
the nervous system. Her nervous system knows, her nervous system knows.
If you think about men as the predators in the
field and women as the prey in some way, they
have a more prey oriented kind of nervous system. They're
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programmed for this. They're programmed to find safety and so
find safety in yourself and see what that does for
the world. And this is why I fundamentally think the
narrative of what it means to be a successful man
needs to be augmented. It needs to be changed. It
needs to be about about men who are rooted India,
being confident India, sexuality, absolute, amazing, ambitious people in their
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business who are successful and who know how to create
a sense of safety in themselves that they can then
project out into the world for the women, for the kids,
and for everything else. And these men will stand.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
Yeah, the DIDs that I can't stand being around are
guys that are needy because they haven't done any of
that work. Is being able to find that safety in yourself,
because when you're comfortable with your own self, a.
Speaker 2 (35:58):
You don't have, you don't need it.
Speaker 1 (36:00):
You know, any relationship to be a certain way, you
don't have an expectation for how your friends have to
show up. I always talk about with my best friends,
there's no neediness. We could not talk to each other
for three months, and nobody's like, dude, where you've been,
Like why haven't you called me? It's like I know
that I got my I got this buddy Mike that listens.
San Diego is one of my ten best friends in
the world. Freaking love this guy like a brother. And
we won't talk for like three months, and he'll call
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me up. He'll just be like, bro, you're never gonna
believe what happened today. And there's you don't have to
catch up on anything, You're just going on with life.
And there's just such a security around that, and that
creates so much safety for other people with those kinds
of relationships. And I think it's the thing that people
men in general, and I guess in just in today's
modern society, it's harder to find time to sit with
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self and to be by yourself, and you know, there's
so much of this dialogue of it has to be more,
and we're.
Speaker 2 (36:52):
Always consumed with everything coming at us.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
You talked about something recently where you said, and I
love this, It's where I'm going with everything too. But
people will come up and ask you, well, what's next
for you? And ask me too, what what are you
going to do now? What's the next thing for you?
And you talked to.
Speaker 2 (37:09):
Us It's funny.
Speaker 1 (37:09):
I feel like this is probably why we connected so easily,
but like the same frequency of and I just I'm
in this place where I'm trying not to have goals.
I'm trying to just be as present as possible and
be where I'm at.
Speaker 2 (37:21):
And I heard you talk about that and the way that.
Speaker 1 (37:22):
You say it, I'm just like, oh, it's exactly what
I'm trying to explain to people.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
This is where I'm at.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
I don't want to have another goal I have to
go achieve. I just want to be as present as
possible in each moment that I'm living right now.
Speaker 3 (37:35):
I want I want life to come through me. I'm
tired of chasing life. I've tried it, man, and I'm
one of those weird people. I don't know what kind
of contract my soul went through, but as soon as
I put a goal on anything, I'm done for. I'm
literally done for content. Yes, I have a successful content engine.
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As soon as I put a goal for what I
want to achieve, dry up immediately. I think getting into
a world where the real differentiator, especially in a world
with AI, the real differentiator is going to be the
quality of your being. This was the work we did
with data. It's the transmission, It's the thing that comes
through you where you can just sense life happening right now.
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So I live the path of surrender. And people might
say surrender and say, hey, it's a weak term, but
actually the path of surrender means resisting the nudge from
society and life to go a particular direction, to be
a particular person, and instead to witness the effulgence coming
through you. So that's been a tough one for me right,
because I grew up in a life with a family.
What are your goals with typically African where you're going
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to achieve? What is the next thing? You need to
be bigger, you need to be X y Z. And
for me, that just creates so much pressure that it
takes away from the genius expression of myself. Granted, they
are some people, some men specifically, who need them to function,
that's just the way their consciousness op breaks. For me, though,
and probably for yourself, it's I'm a witness to what's
coming through I don't know what's going to come out
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of my mind out in the next ten seconds, and
I choose to instead sit in witness and not being
This mental gain that is just proliferates to society where
you meet men and you're so charged because they're all
in the mind no deep, what does life want to
manifest through you? What about that sense when you're with
a woman instead of the idea and that the way
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your typical way of connecting on the date and you
do this and then you take a year and this
is your just sense in this moment with this being
what wants to happen in a business deal instead of
having everything being goal oriented just meets the person and
from that point, see if you don't get a deeper
sense of understanding that actually allows you to get to
your goal faster. So I'm spot on with that, and
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you're spot on with that.
Speaker 2 (39:42):
Rather well.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
The danger of that, because I really do believe you
said it so well. In an era of AI, it
is going to be how well you can just be present,
how well you can just be in the in the
world that you're in. I think where the trouble can
come in is somebody's listening to this and they're like, oh,
I'm going to use that as my excuse to just
be lazy or not doing anything. And I think what
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you and I understand is I have a natural motivation.
I've never once needed to be motivated in my entire life,
Like I'm going to already go do the most productive
thing I can because that's who I am.
Speaker 2 (40:20):
But I don't have to do it.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
I used to fill this need, like if I didn't
do it, I wouldn't be loved. If I didn't do it,
nobody would like me. If I didn't do it, I
wouldn't I'd be lonely and broken. Whatever that looks like
and I think the difference if you're listening to this,
it's like, look, that's the goal is to do. But
if you do need some kind of drive or purpose
or intention to build a life by design, But it
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doesn't mean you have to have endless goals and achievements.
Like I remember one of my big goals was to
get to one hundred countries, right, and so this is
part of where I don't even know if I would
do it differently because I had to.
Speaker 2 (40:56):
Learn these lessons.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
But dude, half those countries I spent less than a
day in, and I couldn't tell you anything.
Speaker 2 (41:02):
Of what it really is like to be there.
Speaker 1 (41:04):
You know, people ask me if I've been to Japan,
and I almost felt guilty. I mean, I tore it
around Tokyo. But dude, I got there at like six
at night. I was on a layover. I purposely had
did a one day layover sold I was going to
Bali the next day, or sorry, to Taiwan the next day,
and and I was like, okay, I've got to get
everything in tonight because I'm leaving it two o'clock tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (41:24):
Whatever.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
So dude, I get a taxi and taxis in Tokyo
are really expensive. For the record, I spent like five
hundred dollars on this taxi that night because I'd go
to one spot, look at something for ten minutes, go
to another spot, and I was trying to hit everything,
and I didn't experience the true beauty of Tokyo and
the culture because I was so damn worried about just
seeing everything.
Speaker 2 (41:45):
And I look back now and I'm.
Speaker 1 (41:46):
Like, I don't can I even spend to Tokyo, Like
I spent, you know, fifteen hours running around taxis and
like being there. Sure, I guess I've been to Tokyo,
but I didn't really sit and immerse in the Japanese culture.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
People will talk about the Japanese people and how they
act a certain way and how beautiful it is, and
I'm sitting here and going like, oh, yeah, I remember
that from Tokyo.
Speaker 2 (42:06):
But if I if I'm being honest, like I don't know.
Speaker 1 (42:09):
I mean I remember people ignite, but I have no
idea what it means to fully immerse in that. And
that's the part about being And so for me, it's,
you know, I've had to change my goals a little bit.
It's like, it's not about getting to every country, it's
about experiencing every culture. It's about being in all these
different places, and a lot of them I know I
have to go back to, and I kind of always
knew eventually I'll have to get back these places. There's
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a few I want to make sure if I go,
I don't have to go back. But anyway, and so
you know, even Dubai. You're in Dubai, and dude, I
hate Dubai. Well why do I hate Dubai Because I
went there on this crazy trip with my ex girlfriends
six years ago and we came Dude, we went to London,
to India, to the Maldives, to the Alps in Switzerland,
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to Ski, to Paris, to or Sorry, then to Dubai
for New Year's and we got there at five o'clock
on New Year's Eve and because of traffic, we had
a mess getting around and then we ended up having
like this. We were at the overlooking the Burde Khalif
a dinner. Thing was so chaotic, and I just remember
the traffic and getting stuck for four hours on the
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way back. And so when people are like, how's Dubai?
I hated Dubai. But I didn't experience Dubai. I have
no idea what it's like to actually go and be
present in Dubai.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
I'm totally with you, man. I want to touch on
the thing on goals. Yes, as much as I say, hey, surrender,
That's why I say it's active surrender because when you're
surrendered and you don't have a goal, what you actually
doing is you're saying, I'm going to follow the nerd,
the nudge of my soul and my purpose that's coming out.
And when that comes out and you start connecting into that,
you do have to work. You do have to take action,
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right because that doesn't stop. And so for me, yes,
I'm surrendered into life. Yes, they have no goals, but
I'm on a mission to express myself into the world
and so that gives me endless energy. I'm not chasing
after a title. I want to end my life at
the end of my life whenever that is and say
I completely expressed everything inside of me. That means action absolutely.
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And to your point on travel when you were speaking,
the thing that was coming to.
Speaker 2 (44:15):
Me is.
Speaker 3 (44:17):
We really do that. I think we really do that
because fundamentally is like there's not enough. There's not enough life,
there's not enough time, and so I have to get
everything in. And so I will flip the script because
I've before before even coming to Dubai, traveled through eight countries,
five continents, I did everything back and forth. I was
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seventeen flights in a few months or whatever it is.
And ultimately it's at what point do you say this
is enough? One is enough? This point in my life
now is good enough. This woman is enough. The city,
this slow experience, and I started to slow travel. I
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want to feel I can't get it all life and
life doesn't end. You have eight billion possibilities, so many
different things. But in that when humans try to get
a grasp on life and they go into this thing
of it's not enough.
Speaker 4 (45:12):
I have to take everything in and that's actually gluttony.
Speaker 3 (45:15):
No, it's enough. I'm never going to experience it all.
That's the nature of life. And so if I just
trust my body and see where it wants to take me,
maybe I'm going to have a beautiful experience.
Speaker 2 (45:24):
But you do have to come back to Dubai. Brother, No, no,
I definitely this is a big place. I know.
Speaker 1 (45:32):
And half the time we were out in the desert
as well, So I definitely need to come back. Well,
it's you know, the way that you were referring to
that it reminds me of a quote the movie Wall
Street if you've ever seen it, and it's kind of
more of a warning quot. It's one of my favorite
quotes about warning about gluttony and the need for more.
Is you know, Michael Douglas's character, he's just constantly trying
to get more and more and more. And the dude
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asked him, he says, when is enough? And he said,
or he said, how much is enough? And he says,
you know, just a little bit more. And it's like,
dam that's a really dangerous way to go through life,
always needing to have enough, you.
Speaker 2 (46:07):
Know, to have more.
Speaker 1 (46:08):
And so I think that really is a very important
part in all of this is and you've talked about
taking action and letting your soul guide you, and I
think that's what people When you take the time and
sit in silence and you slow down, you know, do
meditations and do these different things, your soul can start
to speak to you and guide you to where you're
supposed to go, as opposed to I think a lot
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of times we mistake fulfillment for pleasure. Right, pleasure is
very easy to find, and so we'll go and we'll search,
and we'll try to do things to distract ourselves, but
our soul is probably calling us somewhere else, and so
we have to take that step back sometimes to just
sit and let us be guided to where that next
action is supposed to go.
Speaker 3 (46:51):
Yeah, absolutely, it's yeah, there's action that needs to needs
to be needs to come out of all of that.
Speaker 1 (46:57):
So, I mean, right now, you talk to a lot
of you coach a lot of very successful men, some
of the guys that have made tens of millions of
dollars things like that, what do you see as the
you know, the world changing super fast right now. Like,
I don't know if you're filling this, but I'm just like, dude,
I think we're going to look back in three years
and won't recognize the world we have today.
Speaker 2 (47:14):
Three years. I think it's only a couple of years away.
Speaker 1 (47:17):
What challenges do you see and what's the best way
to prep for those as far as just showing up
to the world of the right ways a man.
Speaker 3 (47:25):
The biggest thing that I've started helping people with is
and you know this term, helping them trust their transmission,
helping them trust whatever their bean is underneath that. If
I want to make it a little bit more palatable
for people to understand, it's getting out of the mind
and getting deep into the bean.
Speaker 4 (47:45):
Let's use AI as a framework for this.
Speaker 2 (47:48):
Right.
Speaker 3 (47:49):
AI is accelerating an exponential pace to mirror intelligence of life.
But life as a whole has been existent, has been
existing for infinity life exponential case is that a clip
that AI can never.
Speaker 2 (48:02):
Catch up to.
Speaker 3 (48:03):
And so what I do with men and to people
and to help them calibrate is to tap into that
superintelligence inside of them that keeps them one step ahead
of life. And when they can connect into that part
of themselves, especially in the world that's changing, once they
find center, all of a sudden, all the change orbits
around their center, what a lot of people are doing
is they're chasing everything that's running. They're chasing the change,
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trying to grasp onto it.
Speaker 2 (48:27):
No no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 3 (48:28):
You're never going to do it again, back to enough.
You're never going to be able to have it all.
What is your center? What is the manifestation coming through
you that is your quickest access into superintelligence. That would
always be AI in my opinion, because that's the frequency
of you, that's the thing that people want. And so
a lot of my work comes into that because again
we go through all of the things of getting them
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into wholeness, into their being, get them to trust themselves,
get them to start vibrating at a higher frequency, and
from that point start to penetrate life.
Speaker 4 (48:58):
That's how I see. I've had guys who come to me.
Speaker 3 (49:01):
I had a guy who made two point seven million
dollars in his business last year, went to three months
of my program. I made two point three million dollars.
I had another dude. I have people who start and
they don't want to join it first, and then they
go through it and then tears afterwards because for the
first time they're no longer grasping it life and something
else starts to flow. In a world where there's a
lot of distraction, the fastest and best thing you can
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do is to activate your quantum potential and become that
man that's rooted in something that is unchangeable. That is
the essence of the work I do, and that manifest
in business success, manifest in relationships. Gets these men aligned
and they're standing finally in power. Power comes from being.
It's never going to come from the mind of strategy.
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The mind is the strategy, and what comes from the
mind is just the collection of all the thoughts and
the condition that led you.
Speaker 4 (49:51):
To this point in the first place. So just drop
that and go into a deeper point.
Speaker 2 (49:56):
It's beautiful, man.
Speaker 1 (49:57):
What are a couple of exercises some men can do
to start? Are, you know, working on their shadows self
or their dark masculine and kind of tapping into it.
Speaker 3 (50:06):
I think the first thing I'll start with a lot
of people like to do things around breath work.
Speaker 2 (50:09):
Do that.
Speaker 3 (50:11):
Actually, the first exercise is to go through your life
in the last seven years and ask yourself how many
times have you repeated the same loop in your life
and least seven years. The reason for that is the
human body essentially changes every seven years. Like every single
aspect at them or whatever, the human body evolves in
seven year cycles. So if you go in a seven
year cycle, you just look in the last seven years,
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you'll typically see some patterns where have you made some
money and crashed?
Speaker 2 (50:36):
What is that level for you?
Speaker 3 (50:37):
For some guys, as they get to three hundred kN
every time they hit it, something manifest to crash. Spot
the patents in your life. Where have you got in
the woman that you really want and crashed? Where have
you started connecting with a woman. And notice that as
soon as you actually like a woman, some in a
child infantile version, if you comes out that cannot handle
the situation anymore. Just I want you to spot the
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patents first. If you can do that, then spend the
next week trying to trace where that started. Really really
spend time journal where was the first time this started?
What started to happen there, and see if you can
identify that moment in relation to the shadow map everything
actually map the three things that you don't like about
your life currently are the three things you really avoiding
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from your life. Rejection, struggling in business, having issues with
a partner, whatever is the case. And then go a
step further and ask yourself what part of me really
enjoys this? And in fact, don't even ask yourself, just
say to yourself, there is a part of me that
really enjoys this, and I'm ready to open and unlock
that part of me right now. You would notice a
jot of energy come through and from that point, ask yourself,
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in what ways does this give me energy that are
currently subconscious? But in some ways it's powering every other
aspect of my life? How does this give me energy
the very thing that you're pushing against in life? If
you can do that, identify the powers, go a little
bit deeper and go into the shadow work, you would
have taken a massive step into self understanding.
Speaker 2 (52:06):
Beautiful dude.
Speaker 1 (52:07):
For people that want to learn more from you, want
to see what you're doing with your coaching group, the
other side and everything else you got going on, where's
the best place to send them?
Speaker 2 (52:15):
Great?
Speaker 3 (52:15):
So the other side is it is a brotherhood that
I have similar to yours in some ways, where it's
all about individuals who are quite conscious and also rooted
in ambition and success coming together. That's join OtherSide dot com.
If you want to learn about the program that I run,
it's called Rebord. That's join OtherSide dot com slash reborn.
Best place to find me is on Instagram at ami
(52:35):
Adiya Sooyer you can put.
Speaker 4 (52:37):
It in the show notes. It's a pretty long African name,
but that's why you'd be able to see.
Speaker 2 (52:40):
All of my work.
Speaker 1 (52:41):
Beautiful man. Thanks again, man, This was awesome. You're very
well spoken and it's really fun.
Speaker 2 (52:46):
To talk to you.
Speaker 1 (52:48):
A lot of these contents that people want to understand,
you really make it easy to do so.
Speaker 3 (52:52):
So thanks again man, thank you brother, much love, thanks
for having me.
Speaker 5 (52:55):
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Hello, and welcome to another episode of The Jimmy Rex Show.
Today on the podcast, we have a special guest is
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this guy at the Deva Dita event that I went
to in Florida a couple months ago and immediately just
knew this dude had a very unique perspective on life
and he was somebody that I was drawn to to
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learn more about and more from. And he's done some
awesome work. We talk all about the dark masculine, about
the shadow work, and this is a podcast that we
go pretty deep and he has a unique way to
explain these things.
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So, without further ado, let's get to the show. How
do you have me? Good to see you, my friend,
jimmy brother. Happy to be here all right, man.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
You One thing I love about what you're doing is
it's completely different than what I'm doing. But we both
kind of dedicated our lives to helping men build brotherhood
in munity and really dive into the pieces of them
that are a little bit disconnected, and so such an
important message that you're doing.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Talk a little bit about exactly what type of.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Just what coaching you kind of focus on, because it's
very different than I think most people, especially where I'm
at here in Utah or a very religious state, and
people don't like to talk about sexuality and some of
these topics, and so it's fun to be able to
sit down and chop it up with.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
You about this beautiful So you talk about it from
a religious standpoint, right. I grew up religious, was born Christian.
And one of the things that affects a lot of
people is that they try to change their life to
become successful, to become as spiritual as they can be,
and they try to focus on the light path of
being the best version of themselves. The reason that doesn't
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work is oftentimes it means they have to separate and
divorce parts of themselves that are also true, which is
the sexual side of a person, the aggressive side of
a man. And because they those aspects of themselves, what
they actually separate from is they separate from their truth.
And most of the time they have to put on
the facade and put on a mask. What that does
is that separation that they have from themselves gets mirrored
(02:58):
back into the world as separation with certain aspects of
the world.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Right.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
And so the work that I do for men and
for anyone in general is to help them find holistic
acceptance of every aspect of themselves, because that is the
way they can increase their frequency, increase their vibration and
actually become true, actually becomes safe, actually become powerful expressions
of their being because the whole and so the work
that I do takes people, yes, into the light, but
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it's actually saying, before we chase high levels of being,
can we first of all accept the darker elements of yourself,
the sexuality, the shame, all of those different pieces, the
things that makes you.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Want to hide. Let's accept that first.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
And as soon as you accepted, what starts to happen
is you now have self acceptance that mirrors out into
the world. All of a sudden, the world accepts you
a little bit more, and you get to accelerate down
the quantum field, have the higher levels of enlightenment, and
you actually get to create the life that you want
from wholeness, not divorce.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
So I think you're spot on with this.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
And I've always said, if you repress those pieces of
you or reject them, then they're gonna spring out in
kinky ways or ways that you can work against you
in a modern society.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
So what does that look like?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Somebody you say, you know, to look at all the
parts of yourself or the dark parts of yourself. Maybe
give us some examples of how you take somebody through
that and what that process even looks like. I think
people hear that, they're like, okay, I only know it.
What are you talking about? Push for sure?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
For sure, let's look at where it starts in the
first place. The first thing that we want to do
that everybody carries. By the way, and I know you've
had conversations with individuals who talk about trauma and different
parts of a person, but between the ages of two
and six, a person.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Has their first encounter with toxic shame.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
This is where something happens with your family, something happens
with whoever in their life, and they get the first
imprint in themselves that they are bad. The reason toxic
shame is toxic is because it's the kind of shame
where a person interprets as a baby that they are bad,
and they are the cause that causes that child, that
individual to then take on a new identity to become
good for the world and acceptable. So they have the
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first separation with themselves. Right That toxic shame with what's
manifests is what ends up manifesting across their life and
then they have the separation with parts of themselves that
are bad and there suppressed and other parts that are
likable that are better blah blah blah. But that's the
initial of disconnect. So the work that I do with
the person first is to understand, and this can be
pretty interesting to get into understand what I call the
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quantum patterns in the person's life where.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
A person loops.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Say, for example, you have some client who will get
to a point where they reach an energetic ceiling where
they can't make say over fifty one hundred k month,
or they have a repeating loop and a repeating pattern
in relationships. I like to first identify what are the
loops in their life, what I call the quantum loops
that keep happening because your subconscious is manifest and it's
in their realm for them to process, and from there
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trace that back into where it started in their life.
Identify the core memory, do some inner work on that
core memory to change and catalyze that particular moment, whatever
it is, and then start mapping out into the shame,
the deep sexual shame, the deep sexual aspects of a person,
something called shadow work, where we go into the again
the parts of themselves they've divorced, get them to reclaim
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those aspects of their being, and from that point we
go into some deeper sexual activation work to start changing
their energy. Because once a person, specifically a man, can
take ownership of his sexual energy, he takes ownership of
his life force. If he has cleared all the blocks
in his life that has been causing the subconscious patterns
and can supercharge his sexual energy, all of a sudden,
he just starts having.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
A way, way different energy in the world.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
And that energy is what ends up replicating to have
these men having more successful deals, better connection with women,
and actually being able to live without a mask. And
this in many ways was my own life, building success
and building some level of wealth, but actually living from
my mask and doing all of these things because I
wanted the world to approve of me and to gain connection,
when actually what I was looking for was to be
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accepted at my core across all aspects of my being.
That's where I had to go into my own inner
work and my shame work and my sexual work, and
from there something massive changed.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
The way I.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Showed up in business change, the doors that open for
me completely changed. The people had met like yourself things.
Life just started taking on a new leaf in its own.
And so that's the process core pattern, track that back
into where it started. It's a process that developed over
eleven years. Go deep into the sexual and the shame
aspects of that, and then the other things that I
do to then help that person accelerate their life and
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typically results in business success and whatever you may. Most
important thing though, is they finally return home to themselves.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Did you say that so well? And you explain it
very well so that people can understand it.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I think even the very thought of diving into your
sexuality and sexual shame and some of those things people
would rather in a lot of cases wear a mask.
It's very scary, right, takes a lot of courage to
do that kind of work. And I love that you
talk about we're trying to just be accept that. I
always say to people, you know, I look at the
previous versions of myself and a lot of these things
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that I did, and I just want to like hug
that version of me. I'm like, God, bless him. He
made some really poor decisions, but he was just trying
to be loved. Like everything that came out that was
you know, ego or pride in some of these other things,
the vanity and stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
It was just me trying to be loved.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
But it was that mask that you talk about, that
you put on to just say, hey, I promise I'm
worthy of getting to know I'm worthy of loving.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
But being able to take that mask off is when
you can.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Truly feel the love, because at that point you can
trust the love that's given because you know they're loving the.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Real version of yes. Yes.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
So talking about you mentioned the shadow and doing shadow work,
that's something I think is one of those buzzwords that
a lot of people talk about, but nobody really understands
what exactly that means. I'd love to dive into that
a little bit. For a man that wants to do
the shadow work, where would he start and sold even
do it? I guess understood. It's an interesting thing to
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think about. Shadow work seems, let's say, hots understand and
in some ways it is the best way I would
ground it is whatever someone is experiencing right now that
they don't want to experience in their life, whatever it is,
some part of their soul, some part of their being,
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actually wants that experience, and so shadow work is starting
to understand and shine light into that part of you
that actually secretly enjoys the chaos, the separation, the rejection,
the pain that's happened in your life. Right, And this
is why the dark masculine and the dark work I
do is quite interesting because when people hear dark they go, oh,
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my god, it's so scary.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
No, no, no. What we're actually doing is connecting you
into light. Because if you look at the structure of
the universe as a whole, ninety five percent of the
energy in the universe is dark matter, only five percent
is light. That five percent light is constantly spreading into
the darkness. If you look at the conscious and the
subconscious mind, the conscious mind is five percent of the mind.
The subconscious mind is ninety five percent of the mind
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as above. So right, and so what you want to
do is you want to orient yourself to the very
structure of how life is manifested in the entire universe
and take your light, your consciousness, your awareness, and start
to gaze into the parts of you that are in
the shadows the dark side. Because what you're doing is
you're taking light and spreading it into the darkness. What
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this means in shadow work is you're starting to discover
the parts of yourself and accept the parts of yourself
that actually wants the chaos, the drama, the rejection, the pain,
or whatever it is that you're experiencing in your life.
And because it's unconscious, most people think it's not true.
But the thing is, the unconscious parts of us gets
manifested in the world for us to process. Right, So,
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the unconscious part of me, and this was my own journey,
that actually wanted rejection, that enjoyed the process of rejection,
got manifested in the world as women and things and
opportunities constantly rejected me. Why because when I went back
into my inner child, what happened is when I had
my first rejection from family, from whatever it was, it
gave me some level of energy to go out into
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the world to prove. And so my core energetic driver,
my fuel source for life, came as a response to
the rejection. And so for me to have energy to conquer,
to win, to success, to succeed, I had to manifest.
And I kept manifesting situations of rejection because it angered
a part of me to go out and say this
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woman rejected me. Wait till I buy my corvette. She
rejected me. Wait till I get the Aston Martin and
the penthouse right. And so you see how the shadow
actually becomes a thing that subconsciously is driving a lot.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Of people forward, but they don't know it.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
And when you start getting into this work and start
shining the light into the dark, all of a sudden,
once you spot the pattern and you spot the fuel sauce,
then you can fundamentally change your core driver for life.
And so you start driving your life from a place
of expansion, excitement, love and joy instead of proving of
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running away from some experience is that you didn't want
to have. That's shadow work, in its essence, comeing into contact,
understanding and making space for the parts of yourself that
is subconsciously manifest in everything that you don't want in
your life.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
And I submit to you.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
It's one of the quickest ways that a person can
quickest paths that a person can take to be able
to change the core structure that manifests in the entire world.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
Damn, that's so well explained. I know in my own life.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
You know, I hid when I was in my teen years,
my father told me I wasn't good enough about something
and I used it as my driving force. I drove
that into my subconscious and that was like everything I
did was to prove that I was good enough. And
I remember, you know, the moment that I healed that
in the message that came back to me was so fascinating.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
It said, this has served you.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
It no longer does boom, And I was like, whoa boom?
Because that's the tricky part about your shadow. You said
it so good. You said, there's a part of you
that wants it. There's a part of you whenever you
make a bad quote unquote bad decision, right, there was
a part of you that wanted that experience. There was
a part of you that did that because it wanted
to have that experience. And so figuring out why you
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have these destructive behaviors is so powerful, so that you can,
like you said, drive from expansion or love instead of
the chaos you're creating subconsciously.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Can I tell you one moment where this really clicked
for me. I used to have a thing where I'll
struggle with connecting with women, for example, and I really
feared the rejection from a woman. It was super subconscious.
When I started getting into the shadow pot, and I
realized there was a part of me that enjoyed the
rejection because it drove me forward and subconsciously meant I
wouldn't go for the things I wanted to go for
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because it kept me. I just stayed in this subconscious
path of keep hustling, keep driving, don't go for the
thing you want because you're going to get rejected. But
subconsciously was driving me anyway. I realized it, and I
decided to do a test. I said, if I'm going
to if I enjoyed this rejection subconsciously, let's make it
conscious and so let me go up to the prettiest
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woman and completely bomb my approach to her in a
way that almost guarantees my rejection.
Speaker 2 (14:07):
And I did.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
I went to this woman, extremely beautiful woman gave I
didn't even say like HI or anything.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
I was just like, hey, I think you're beautiful.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
I'm going to give you my number, and I just
wrote it out for her randomly, super cheesy handed it
to her and she just kind of threw the cod
in front of her while she was speaking to me. Brother,
It hurt me so much, But then I went into
the taxi shortly after that and because I did it consciously,
I went, yes, I'm getting the rejection that I want. Finally,
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I kid you not. I had goose bumps run through
my body. I had a massive surge of energy that
ran through my body and my entire being found this
level of wholeness and power where for the first time
I made the subconscious driver conscious and it was wow.
And so whenever I want to shift the person's life,
i'm quite and I move against against the standard way
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of doing things. A person might come to me and go,
you know, hey, they are strug with XYZ and they
want me to help them change that part of themselves
as struggle. I'll say no, for the next week, I'll
take you through a process that allows you to fully
struggle and enjoy your struggle process.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
When I do that, typically they.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Come out of it and they never have to go
back into that situation again, because it's finally been okay
for them to actually have the experience that subconsciously they
have been manifesting, but the world has told them to
run away from. So the fastest path is to go
deep down and through, not necessarily to avoid and change it,
because that just manifest the thing again. Because your soul
wants mind wholeness.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Wells kind of you just took a deeper way of saying,
you know, the thing you fear the most is the
thing that you need to go do. It's it's like
I always say, it's such a gift to go broke
once in your life because you realize it's not that
bad and all of a sudden, not afraid of being
broke or you know, go out and get rejected by women.
I love that you went and did it just like
that because you realize I'm still because your subconscious brain thinks,
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if I get rejected by this woman, it still has
the programming when you'd meet one hundred people in your lifetime,
so it thinks, well, if she rejects me, the other
potential mates in the village will see that I was rejected.
I'll die alone. I won't pass on my posterity, and
that's the end of me. The reality is is all
that happened is there was this random girl that probably
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still hung up on her boyfriend or whatever, maybe she's
not even single or whatever, might be decided that you
weren't her type. But if you go and you've experienced
the rejection, and then you go oh, I lived, I
wasn't too bad. I really think that's just a really
beautiful way of explaining where are some other shadows that
people have that they could look at to maybe try
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to bring it to the light.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
I guess let's look at an example of someone who
goes broke. And he goes broke and ends up living
with his family and he's getting taken care of by
his mom and he's getting some level of support. The
shadow part of him that's showing up is the part
of him that actually wants to be kid and in
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some ways feel helpless and be accepted as helpless and
cared for by life. When he's with his mom, if
he's still struggling to come out of that situation and
not fully embracing that part of himself, he will probably
manifest being in that situation a lot longer than he
needs to, so he would manifest the person what's happened
in that situation. He's manifesting being broke to get care
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because a part of him was not cared for in
his life and he actually wants that experience. And so
that's an example of hey step into it fully. You
can also say this with many different aspects and say
from women and rejection, you can spay from the part
of them that wants to be weak. You can say
it from the man who actually doesn't want to succeed
in his life. And yes, he's not manifesting his success
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or he's trying to manifest his success, but he keeps
manifesting the blocks because for some reason, deep down in
his life, he actually wants to feel what it's like
to be helpless, to be weak, to not have Instead
of trying to get him to move forward very quickly,
and there's a way to get him to accelerate forward
very quickly. Sure, I would say, spend your time going
into that part of you that actually does not want
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to win, because that part of you actually was never
allowed to fail. So this is typically from the high performers, right,
I'm sure a lot of the people who watch your
show athletes and individuals like that. One of the things
that happens in that spare is a lot of individuals
are forced to be successful as athletes and they're never
actually allowed to fail. Then it's never okay for them
not to win. And so what I would rather do
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the way that shadow will manifest is they will keep
manifest in situations that force them to fail in some way.
I'd rather say, step into it, gain contact with that
part of yourself, gain full ownership, do it for a week,
don't judge yourself for it, and fail fully because your
soul wants.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
That experience, and do it consciously.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
In the same way.
Speaker 3 (18:44):
With the rejection, it's not just get rejected and then
get into your mind of why it didn't work. No,
get rejected and go. There is a part of me
that loves this rejection. There's a part of me that
secretly wants to fail, and I've allowed that part of
me to live for one week. Embrace it, learn the
tours of it. From that point, it's not creating your life.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
That's beautiful. Man.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
So you talk a lot about the quantum field, and
this is one of those things that I try to
explain to people, and I know I don't do.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
It very well. So I'd love to here.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
You just do such a good job of articulating these concepts.
You can tell that you know this has become your
life passion. Why is it important that energetically you make
these shifts and how that works with the quantum field?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Beautiful?
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Yeah, beautiful So let's go into what the quantum field is,
and I'll say it in a very simple manner. Everything
in the world, as we know proven by Einstein, is
created off of energy. There's an energetic base for every
single thing in the world. The reason you and I
connected where we connected, there was an energetic reason for it.
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The seed for this podcast was planted subconsciously by someone saying,
let's buddy up at an event.
Speaker 4 (19:52):
There was an energetic seed that's sold that and so that's.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Manifested into this podcast into an amazing conversation.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
Right.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
So the quantum fiel, it was essentially saying there's a
base layer across the entire world where energy manifests, and
that is the base energy that creates the world. That's
the base energy that connects a man and a woman,
that puts them in the same situation together where they
both get two thoughts, Hey, let's go to the same
cafe and they meet, they lock eyes, they go into
a relationship, babies are formed. That is how life manifests itself. Right,
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It's this synchronistic path. What we're doing when I speak
about the shadow and dark masculine charging your energy up,
what you're doing is you're saying, Hey, can I clear
my field within the quantum field and raise my energy
to such a point that it becomes easier for me
to have those synchronistic connections with people, opportunities, and the
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very things that I want.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
Why is this important? There's something called.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
The scale of consciousness, which I'm sure you know Scale
of Consciousness by David Hawkins. It's a scale that shows
the different vibrating levels and the different levels of vibration
of the different emotions in a person's body. The lowest
emotion a person can have in their body is shame.
Grief is close to that, Anger and the rest are
close to that. The highest vibration is things like joy, enlightenment,
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and super high levels of being where once you embody
that frequency. For example, when you're joyous and you go
out on the deal on the business deal, people almost go, wow,
he's joyful. I want to work with this person. They
get magnetized to higher levels of being. Now, when a
person has shame, grief, whatever the emotions are from their
childhood that are suppressed, that actually reduces their frequency massively.
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So if shame is at twenty, let's just say shame
is the number the number for shame is twenty. The
number for love is at five hundred. You put shame
in there, you take the average, you're two hundred and seventy,
two hundred and ten or whatever, two hundred and sixty immediately,
and so what we are doing, and the reason this
is important is once you start clearing those energies in
your body, your body starts to come into coherence and
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the messages you start sending into the quantum field, the
base layer of reality becomes a lot more coherent, which
allows you to have more synchronistic connections, which allows you
to vibe rate at a frequency where deals magnetize themselves
to you, your partner. You connect deeper with your partner,
your woman, whatever it is, You start becoming magnetic. The
final thing here is the reason why the dark masculine,
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these parts of going into the shadow and the hidden
parts of yourself are important, is that if you divorce
parts of yourself, right, the sexual side, the part of
you that wants whatever it is. If you divorce parts
of yourself, you start sending an incoherent field into the
quantum field. Because you are incoherent inside of yourself, there's
a disconnection, right, So on the surface, you're this religious person.
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Deep down you have these deep desires that you've never
actually owned. You project that field into the world. And
the other thing on this is when other people receive that,
or whenever other people meet you, their nervous system can
also pick up on your frequency, so they pick up
on that incoherence. And the field here is about three
feet wide, and so if you're broadcasting an incoherent signal
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into the field, then you manifest an incoherent synchronistic of
tunities that typically don't go according to plan. All of
a sudden, you can never go past one hundred grand
a month or ten grand a month because you're stuck
at that point. Once you start changing your core frequency
and your signal becomes more coherent, all of a sudden,
when people meet you, they feel truth. And as soon
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as they feel your truth, they go, man, there's something
about you. I was pool to come. This started happening
to me. Man, I'll go to an event and I'll
have people walk across go there's something about you that
I want to There's some reason I want to connect
with you. I just feel like we need to do
business together. Let's have a chat that comes after you've
done the work to start broadcasting a coherent field. So
I'll recap really quickly quantum field based energetic layer. The
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work we're doing here is starting to get you. It's
about getting you into a coherent signal so that you
can interact with this field and maximize the synchronicities and
the synchronistic opportunities that come into your life. This is
how you get into higher levels of wealth, deeper connection, happiness,
joy and actually having fulfillment.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
Well, I've looked at my own life, right, and you
know that's when people talk about you're going to attract
people that are on your same frequency. That's what they're
referring to. Is this energy. This call it your aora,
whatever you're putting out into the universe energetically. And I look, now,
there's some decisions I made five, six, seven years ago,
going to business with certain people, being around certain people,
and I look at it now and I'm like, what
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the hell was I like, how did I not see this?
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Right?
Speaker 1 (24:27):
But it's funny because that's the frequency that I was
vibrating on and I can see it now. After you
change your own frequency, you look back and you're like, oh,
because I don't think we in those moments, we don't
know that we're attracting the wrong things into our lives
or maybe just rejecting the right things. But I think
that's one of the beautiful things about doing the work
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or taking off your mask or these things, is you
do start to almost repel the things that aren't for you.
And I think that's really importanting people always talk about
what they want to attract to themselves, and I've heard
you talk about this, but just as importantly, when you
work on this and you you know, up your frequency
or your energy, you're going to start repelling the things
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that aren't for you, that shouldn't be in your world.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
Absolutely, And you know, I always say rejection. You have
to have separation for you to attract. You can't be
an individual if you're not separate from others. It's just important.
You can't be Jimmy if you're not separate from maddieby
And a lot of times we fear separation, not understanding
that separation is is literally the medicine. Separation means attraction.
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To be separate for something means you get attracted into
other things. And so I really try to tell people, yes,
sometimes it's painful to go down this journey and to
start up leveling your life and step into a higher frequency,
and it would cause you to separate from other individuals.
One of my biggest pains is I was born in Africa, right,
and since then I've traveled around the world. I've done
many different things. I don't most people don't notice. But
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at a point I was cleaning floors. A lot of
the work and the things I share was what manifested
and allowed me to get to the current level that
I am in my life. But one of the pains
of that is going down my own individual journey to
become my individuate itself.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
In the world.
Speaker 3 (26:13):
Men separating from a lot of my friends. It meant
separating from home. It meant not having some of the
things that yes, I love so deeply, but maybe they're
just not me as much. And so sometimes to get
the thing that you want, you're going to have to
separate from people that even and you would love them
so much. But that is part of that individuation of frequency.
So it's uh, I think that's defuly beautiful one.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
I think it's one of the hardest parts of it
because I know, for me, that separation and all of
a sudden, places that used to feel like home don't anymore.
And you're not still quite comfortable with your new place
as you're you know, feeling more comfortable, and so you
kind of feel this almost like homeless for a little bit.
You're I don't fit in here, but I don't fit
in here, and you're trying to find yourself. I think
it scares a lot of people back to that they
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retreat back into these places that they were trying to
separate from.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
But it's just you again.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
I think that's why it's so important to do this
with have accountability, have a brotherhood, right, and I think
most healing has to be done in community because that's
where a lot of our pieces were broken.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
Yes, I agree, And you know you have your brotherhood
looks amazing. I have the things that I run. It's all.
This is so important because I realized in my life
I needed brotherhood. I've traveled, I've solo traveled across the world.
I've been to I've moved twenty thirty times. Man, and
after a while, you just get to a point where, yes,
you're looking for home. First, you have to find home
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in yourself and Once you find home in yourself, then
brotherhood you need. You need a solid group of people
where for the first time you can drop the mask.
And even if you don't drop the mask, they will
call out your mask. That's a brotherhood where they look
at the man. This is not you bring out a different,
go deeper, show up and when a man has space
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for that, oh it's incredible. That's why anyone creates no brotherhood.
It's just any man. Find your brotherhood, find your tribe
of people that can guide you deep and can hold
space for you. This is the work you do. This
is the work I do. It is fundamental. It's like
a lifeline of existence.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
I love a lifeline of existence because people often say,
I feel like this is the first time in my
life I can just let my entire guard down, and
I think, correct me if I'm wrong on this. But
I think that for men to truly heal, we have
to have other strong men around us. I know my
most healing moments for me, the breakthroughs I've had is
when very strong masculine men have called me out. Because
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in order to heal, you kind of have to go
into your feminine. In order to do that, you need
other like you. At the event we went to, I
didn't really care to be there for most of the first.
Speaker 2 (28:51):
Part of the event.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
I'm going to be honest, and I think the reason
why I was here we had to pick an accountability partner.
Speaker 2 (28:58):
I think I picked you because you were all in.
You were very present. I was not. I was all
over the place.
Speaker 4 (29:04):
I just was.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
This work we were doing was very frustrating for me.
Speaker 1 (29:08):
It was at the you know, David Dita uh personally
trained about thirty of us for three or four days straight.
And it was cool because you were able to like
call me to be more present, and it's the thing
that I've been working for a year and a half on.
So instead of going, you know what, fuck this guy,
I went, oh, I really didn't like that, but I
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respect him because that is one present motherfucker right across
from him, you know. And I was like, Okay, I'm
going to take the challenge. And I it wasn't easy,
but by the second or third day, I was able
to open up my truth and I think it benefited
the whole group dramatically.
Speaker 2 (29:43):
Because I was able to push past.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
My own resistance and if it wasn't strong, people there
like strong men that had called me out. There's no
way I would have left. I had things I would
We were in Florida the beach. There was NCAA basketball
tournament going. I know what attracts me away from doing
the work. It's very easier to distract myself. But because
of that, I was able to do a lot of
work and a lot of I will say healing in
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that space.
Speaker 3 (30:07):
Oh man, love you brother far too kind And you
know you touched on two things.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
One was around the value of brotherhood.
Speaker 3 (30:15):
I think a lot of men put brotherhood lost does
an afterthought because they hope that when they're more successful
or whatever, they can drive your life forward. They're just
all the different conditions that we have. But I want
to go back into the point where most of the time,
the thing that we're really looking for is connection back
into toxic shape. And so when you're really looking for connection,
typically you will put it as the last thing, thinking
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there other things that you need to do in your
life to create the grounds for connection. And so when
a man finally finds brotherhood and sees people that actually
see him, that hold him together right for the first time,
it's like, oh, it's actually easy for me to be
loved without my mask. And that's a now chemical process
on its own. So there's a lot of beauty in that.
Now I'm going to the point of the masculine feminine
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really strong men. They're really masculine men, and men who
are masculine enough to be able to allow their feminine come.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
Out to play.
Speaker 3 (31:08):
Right, And you have a lot of people who have
this narrative of being masculine, being ultra tough, and there
is no play in them. Those people, when you're around them,
it's just not fun to be around that kind of
a person.
Speaker 4 (31:17):
Yes they are structured, yes they're good, Yes.
Speaker 3 (31:19):
They build the business, but there is no life force
in there. And so what happened when we're at the
David Data it was a little bit of that of
once you're around strong men, yes they would help you
step into your femine, because a man has to go
into his feminine to heal, and he needs to be
able to be around other men that can hold him
well enough so he can do the healing work. But
when he leaves, he needs to be able to reclaim
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his masculine and feel safe in that. And so that's
a lot of the thing. But the core point is
for a man to really be a man, he needs
to be able to hold space for his own feminine
to be expressed. That's how it's going to hold space
for his woman for life with many different flows and
ebbs and flows.
Speaker 4 (31:56):
Right, And also at that event, I have to say
it was very similar. Right.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
Yes, I had the masculine structure and the shell and
stance in all of that, but there was also a
lot of beauty that came from yourself, from David Data,
from the different people there that allowed me to open
up into my core feminine parts of me. And that
was one of the things David Data talked about. It's like, yes,
you're an ultramasculine person, but you're also very feminine.
Speaker 4 (32:17):
Man, So can you own that? And there is power
in that.
Speaker 3 (32:20):
And as soon as I did that, what happened I
had people come to me saying, hey, I just I
feel resonance.
Speaker 4 (32:25):
Now there's beauty.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
So for any man who's listened, women, men whoever, that
feminine is the connective force. When a beautiful woman walks in,
everybody looks, everybody wants to connect. And so when a
man can allow that side of him to come out
all of a sudden, he becomes more magnetic. And that's
what I think the core thing here that we're all
doing is is become so rooted in yourself that you
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can play with life and just see what life does
to you after that.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
Yeah, Well, and tapping into that feminine does so many
things for a man too. I mean, it's your creative side,
it's your playful side. But it also I think helps
you understand the women in your life better. I think
a lot of men don't truly appreciate the experience that
a woman is going through. They've never bothered to try
to see it from that point of view. And so
you see a lot of these in cels and you
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know people online right now, a lot of guys that
just kind of try to tear down the feminine in
different ways. It's because they don't understand it. They don't
know the difference between walking down the street as a
man versus walking down the street.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
As a woman being hit on as a woman by somebody.
Speaker 1 (33:26):
You have absolutely zero interest in ever having a conversation
with like these different experiences that they have to have.
It's why I've always you know, it's I always say
it's hard to trust men in your inner circle that
have never been around beautiful women because they don't understand
the experience that they go through in life. And so
it's one of the gift of having beautiful friends is
you get to talk to these women and hear there
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and you're like, oh, and so they're not bitches, They're
not you know whatever you want to refer to them to,
just because they're not giving you the attention that.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
You selfishly want.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
They have a very different experience that are going through
in order to feel safe and to go through their
own life, they have to be a certain way around
all sorts of different mask and energies.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
Yes, and I really think it's the onness is on
us as men to hold a way.
Speaker 4 (34:18):
Of being that creates safety for the feminine right.
Speaker 3 (34:21):
And I'm not saying this from a provider protector stands
and I think there are a lot of women who
do have a masculine shell.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
Obviously we're coming from David data, so we know this.
Speaker 3 (34:30):
But the onness is on us to be able to
actually become new examples of how to connect, how to
relate where there is no bickering back and forth, and
there is no anger because someone rejects you. It's like,
be open to life, let life penetrate you. She rejects you, great,
that's just an experience in your life. Be open flow
and creates safety in a way where if you have
safety and your feminine and you have safety for your
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feminine to express itself automatically. A woman who sends that
idio and it's a lot easier to connect because she
sends that you are playful. She sends something different again
the nervous system. Her nervous system knows, her nervous system knows.
If you think about men as the predators in the
field and women as the prey in some way, they
have a more prey oriented kind of nervous system. They're
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programmed for this. They're programmed to find safety and so
find safety in yourself and see what that does for
the world. And this is why I fundamentally think the
narrative of what it means to be a successful man
needs to be augmented. It needs to be changed. It
needs to be about about men who are rooted India,
being confident India, sexuality, absolute, amazing, ambitious people in their
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business who are successful and who know how to create
a sense of safety in themselves that they can then
project out into the world for the women, for the kids,
and for everything else. And these men will stand.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
Yeah, the DIDs that I can't stand being around are
guys that are needy because they haven't done any of
that work. Is being able to find that safety in yourself,
because when you're comfortable with your own self, a.
Speaker 2 (35:58):
You don't have, you don't need it.
Speaker 1 (36:00):
You know, any relationship to be a certain way, you
don't have an expectation for how your friends have to
show up. I always talk about with my best friends,
there's no neediness. We could not talk to each other
for three months, and nobody's like, dude, where you've been,
Like why haven't you called me? It's like I know
that I got my I got this buddy Mike that listens.
San Diego is one of my ten best friends in
the world. Freaking love this guy like a brother. And
we won't talk for like three months, and he'll call
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me up. He'll just be like, bro, you're never gonna
believe what happened today. And there's you don't have to
catch up on anything, You're just going on with life.
And there's just such a security around that, and that
creates so much safety for other people with those kinds
of relationships. And I think it's the thing that people
men in general, and I guess in just in today's
modern society, it's harder to find time to sit with
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self and to be by yourself, and you know, there's
so much of this dialogue of it has to be more,
and we're.
Speaker 2 (36:52):
Always consumed with everything coming at us.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
You talked about something recently where you said, and I
love this, It's where I'm going with everything too. But
people will come up and ask you, well, what's next
for you? And ask me too, what what are you
going to do now? What's the next thing for you?
And you talked to.
Speaker 2 (37:09):
Us It's funny.
Speaker 1 (37:09):
I feel like this is probably why we connected so easily,
but like the same frequency of and I just I'm
in this place where I'm trying not to have goals.
I'm trying to just be as present as possible and
be where I'm at.
Speaker 2 (37:21):
And I heard you talk about that and the way that.
Speaker 1 (37:22):
You say it, I'm just like, oh, it's exactly what
I'm trying to explain to people.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
This is where I'm at.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
I don't want to have another goal I have to
go achieve. I just want to be as present as
possible in each moment that I'm living right now.
Speaker 3 (37:35):
I want I want life to come through me. I'm
tired of chasing life. I've tried it, man, and I'm
one of those weird people. I don't know what kind
of contract my soul went through, but as soon as
I put a goal on anything, I'm done for. I'm
literally done for content. Yes, I have a successful content engine.
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As soon as I put a goal for what I
want to achieve, dry up immediately. I think getting into
a world where the real differentiator, especially in a world
with AI, the real differentiator is going to be the
quality of your being. This was the work we did
with data. It's the transmission, It's the thing that comes
through you where you can just sense life happening right now.
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So I live the path of surrender. And people might
say surrender and say, hey, it's a weak term, but
actually the path of surrender means resisting the nudge from
society and life to go a particular direction, to be
a particular person, and instead to witness the effulgence coming
through you. So that's been a tough one for me right,
because I grew up in a life with a family.
What are your goals with typically African where you're going
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to achieve? What is the next thing? You need to
be bigger, you need to be X y Z. And
for me, that just creates so much pressure that it
takes away from the genius expression of myself. Granted, they
are some people, some men specifically, who need them to function,
that's just the way their consciousness op breaks. For me, though,
and probably for yourself, it's I'm a witness to what's
coming through I don't know what's going to come out
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of my mind out in the next ten seconds, and
I choose to instead sit in witness and not being
This mental gain that is just proliferates to society where
you meet men and you're so charged because they're all
in the mind no deep, what does life want to
manifest through you? What about that sense when you're with
a woman instead of the idea and that the way
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your typical way of connecting on the date and you
do this and then you take a year and this
is your just sense in this moment with this being
what wants to happen in a business deal instead of
having everything being goal oriented just meets the person and
from that point, see if you don't get a deeper
sense of understanding that actually allows you to get to
your goal faster. So I'm spot on with that, and
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you're spot on with that.
Speaker 2 (39:42):
Rather well.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
The danger of that, because I really do believe you
said it so well. In an era of AI, it
is going to be how well you can just be present,
how well you can just be in the in the
world that you're in. I think where the trouble can
come in is somebody's listening to this and they're like, oh,
I'm going to use that as my excuse to just
be lazy or not doing anything. And I think what
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you and I understand is I have a natural motivation.
I've never once needed to be motivated in my entire life,
Like I'm going to already go do the most productive
thing I can because that's who I am.
Speaker 2 (40:20):
But I don't have to do it.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
I used to fill this need, like if I didn't
do it, I wouldn't be loved. If I didn't do it,
nobody would like me. If I didn't do it, I
wouldn't I'd be lonely and broken. Whatever that looks like
and I think the difference if you're listening to this,
it's like, look, that's the goal is to do. But
if you do need some kind of drive or purpose
or intention to build a life by design, But it
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doesn't mean you have to have endless goals and achievements.
Like I remember one of my big goals was to
get to one hundred countries, right, and so this is
part of where I don't even know if I would
do it differently because I had to.
Speaker 2 (40:56):
Learn these lessons.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
But dude, half those countries I spent less than a
day in, and I couldn't tell you anything.
Speaker 2 (41:02):
Of what it really is like to be there.
Speaker 1 (41:04):
You know, people ask me if I've been to Japan,
and I almost felt guilty. I mean, I tore it
around Tokyo. But dude, I got there at like six
at night. I was on a layover. I purposely had
did a one day layover sold I was going to
Bali the next day, or sorry, to Taiwan the next day,
and and I was like, okay, I've got to get
everything in tonight because I'm leaving it two o'clock tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (41:24):
Whatever.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
So dude, I get a taxi and taxis in Tokyo
are really expensive. For the record, I spent like five
hundred dollars on this taxi that night because I'd go
to one spot, look at something for ten minutes, go
to another spot, and I was trying to hit everything,
and I didn't experience the true beauty of Tokyo and
the culture because I was so damn worried about just
seeing everything.
Speaker 2 (41:45):
And I look back now and I'm.
Speaker 1 (41:46):
Like, I don't can I even spend to Tokyo, Like
I spent, you know, fifteen hours running around taxis and
like being there. Sure, I guess I've been to Tokyo,
but I didn't really sit and immerse in the Japanese culture.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
People will talk about the Japanese people and how they
act a certain way and how beautiful it is, and
I'm sitting here and going like, oh, yeah, I remember
that from Tokyo.
Speaker 2 (42:06):
But if I if I'm being honest, like I don't know.
Speaker 1 (42:09):
I mean I remember people ignite, but I have no
idea what it means to fully immerse in that. And
that's the part about being And so for me, it's,
you know, I've had to change my goals a little bit.
It's like, it's not about getting to every country, it's
about experiencing every culture. It's about being in all these
different places, and a lot of them I know I
have to go back to, and I kind of always
knew eventually I'll have to get back these places. There's
(42:31):
a few I want to make sure if I go,
I don't have to go back. But anyway, and so
you know, even Dubai. You're in Dubai, and dude, I
hate Dubai. Well why do I hate Dubai Because I
went there on this crazy trip with my ex girlfriends
six years ago and we came Dude, we went to London,
to India, to the Maldives, to the Alps in Switzerland,
(42:53):
to Ski, to Paris, to or Sorry, then to Dubai
for New Year's and we got there at five o'clock
on New Year's Eve and because of traffic, we had
a mess getting around and then we ended up having
like this. We were at the overlooking the Burde Khalif
a dinner. Thing was so chaotic, and I just remember
the traffic and getting stuck for four hours on the
(43:13):
way back. And so when people are like, how's Dubai?
I hated Dubai. But I didn't experience Dubai. I have
no idea what it's like to actually go and be
present in Dubai.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
I'm totally with you, man. I want to touch on
the thing on goals. Yes, as much as I say, hey, surrender,
That's why I say it's active surrender because when you're
surrendered and you don't have a goal, what you actually
doing is you're saying, I'm going to follow the nerd,
the nudge of my soul and my purpose that's coming out.
And when that comes out and you start connecting into that,
you do have to work. You do have to take action,
(43:45):
right because that doesn't stop. And so for me, yes,
I'm surrendered into life. Yes, they have no goals, but
I'm on a mission to express myself into the world
and so that gives me endless energy. I'm not chasing
after a title. I want to end my life at
the end of my life whenever that is and say
I completely expressed everything inside of me. That means action absolutely.
(44:12):
And to your point on travel when you were speaking,
the thing that was coming to.
Speaker 2 (44:15):
Me is.
Speaker 3 (44:17):
We really do that. I think we really do that
because fundamentally is like there's not enough. There's not enough life,
there's not enough time, and so I have to get
everything in. And so I will flip the script because
I've before before even coming to Dubai, traveled through eight countries,
five continents, I did everything back and forth. I was
(44:37):
seventeen flights in a few months or whatever it is.
And ultimately it's at what point do you say this
is enough? One is enough? This point in my life
now is good enough. This woman is enough. The city,
this slow experience, and I started to slow travel. I
(44:59):
want to feel I can't get it all life and
life doesn't end. You have eight billion possibilities, so many
different things. But in that when humans try to get
a grasp on life and they go into this thing
of it's not enough.
Speaker 4 (45:12):
I have to take everything in and that's actually gluttony.
Speaker 3 (45:15):
No, it's enough. I'm never going to experience it all.
That's the nature of life. And so if I just
trust my body and see where it wants to take me,
maybe I'm going to have a beautiful experience.
Speaker 2 (45:24):
But you do have to come back to Dubai. Brother, No, no,
I definitely this is a big place. I know.
Speaker 1 (45:32):
And half the time we were out in the desert
as well, So I definitely need to come back. Well,
it's you know, the way that you were referring to
that it reminds me of a quote the movie Wall
Street if you've ever seen it, and it's kind of
more of a warning quot. It's one of my favorite
quotes about warning about gluttony and the need for more.
Is you know, Michael Douglas's character, he's just constantly trying
to get more and more and more. And the dude
(45:54):
asked him, he says, when is enough? And he said,
or he said, how much is enough? And he says,
you know, just a little bit more. And it's like,
dam that's a really dangerous way to go through life,
always needing to have enough, you.
Speaker 2 (46:07):
Know, to have more.
Speaker 1 (46:08):
And so I think that really is a very important
part in all of this is and you've talked about
taking action and letting your soul guide you, and I
think that's what people When you take the time and
sit in silence and you slow down, you know, do
meditations and do these different things, your soul can start
to speak to you and guide you to where you're
supposed to go, as opposed to I think a lot
(46:30):
of times we mistake fulfillment for pleasure. Right, pleasure is
very easy to find, and so we'll go and we'll search,
and we'll try to do things to distract ourselves, but
our soul is probably calling us somewhere else, and so
we have to take that step back sometimes to just
sit and let us be guided to where that next
action is supposed to go.
Speaker 3 (46:51):
Yeah, absolutely, it's yeah, there's action that needs to needs
to be needs to come out of all of that.
Speaker 1 (46:57):
So, I mean, right now, you talk to a lot
of you coach a lot of very successful men, some
of the guys that have made tens of millions of
dollars things like that, what do you see as the
you know, the world changing super fast right now. Like,
I don't know if you're filling this, but I'm just like, dude,
I think we're going to look back in three years
and won't recognize the world we have today.
Speaker 2 (47:14):
Three years. I think it's only a couple of years away.
Speaker 1 (47:17):
What challenges do you see and what's the best way
to prep for those as far as just showing up
to the world of the right ways a man.
Speaker 3 (47:25):
The biggest thing that I've started helping people with is
and you know this term, helping them trust their transmission,
helping them trust whatever their bean is underneath that. If
I want to make it a little bit more palatable
for people to understand, it's getting out of the mind
and getting deep into the bean.
Speaker 4 (47:45):
Let's use AI as a framework for this.
Speaker 2 (47:48):
Right.
Speaker 3 (47:49):
AI is accelerating an exponential pace to mirror intelligence of life.
But life as a whole has been existent, has been
existing for infinity life exponential case is that a clip
that AI can never.
Speaker 2 (48:02):
Catch up to.
Speaker 3 (48:03):
And so what I do with men and to people
and to help them calibrate is to tap into that
superintelligence inside of them that keeps them one step ahead
of life. And when they can connect into that part
of themselves, especially in the world that's changing, once they
find center, all of a sudden, all the change orbits
around their center, what a lot of people are doing
is they're chasing everything that's running. They're chasing the change,
(48:26):
trying to grasp onto it.
Speaker 2 (48:27):
No no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 3 (48:28):
You're never going to do it again, back to enough.
You're never going to be able to have it all.
What is your center? What is the manifestation coming through
you that is your quickest access into superintelligence. That would
always be AI in my opinion, because that's the frequency
of you, that's the thing that people want. And so
a lot of my work comes into that because again
we go through all of the things of getting them
(48:50):
into wholeness, into their being, get them to trust themselves,
get them to start vibrating at a higher frequency, and
from that point start to penetrate life.
Speaker 4 (48:58):
That's how I see. I've had guys who come to me.
Speaker 3 (49:01):
I had a guy who made two point seven million
dollars in his business last year, went to three months
of my program. I made two point three million dollars.
I had another dude. I have people who start and
they don't want to join it first, and then they
go through it and then tears afterwards because for the
first time they're no longer grasping it life and something
else starts to flow. In a world where there's a
lot of distraction, the fastest and best thing you can
(49:23):
do is to activate your quantum potential and become that
man that's rooted in something that is unchangeable. That is
the essence of the work I do, and that manifest
in business success, manifest in relationships. Gets these men aligned
and they're standing finally in power. Power comes from being.
It's never going to come from the mind of strategy.
(49:45):
The mind is the strategy, and what comes from the
mind is just the collection of all the thoughts and
the condition that led you.
Speaker 4 (49:51):
To this point in the first place. So just drop
that and go into a deeper point.
Speaker 2 (49:56):
It's beautiful, man.
Speaker 1 (49:57):
What are a couple of exercises some men can do
to start? Are, you know, working on their shadows self
or their dark masculine and kind of tapping into it.
Speaker 3 (50:06):
I think the first thing I'll start with a lot
of people like to do things around breath work.
Speaker 2 (50:09):
Do that.
Speaker 3 (50:11):
Actually, the first exercise is to go through your life
in the last seven years and ask yourself how many
times have you repeated the same loop in your life
and least seven years. The reason for that is the
human body essentially changes every seven years. Like every single
aspect at them or whatever, the human body evolves in
seven year cycles. So if you go in a seven
year cycle, you just look in the last seven years,
(50:32):
you'll typically see some patterns where have you made some
money and crashed?
Speaker 2 (50:36):
What is that level for you?
Speaker 3 (50:37):
For some guys, as they get to three hundred kN
every time they hit it, something manifest to crash. Spot
the patents in your life. Where have you got in
the woman that you really want and crashed? Where have
you started connecting with a woman. And notice that as
soon as you actually like a woman, some in a
child infantile version, if you comes out that cannot handle
the situation anymore. Just I want you to spot the
(50:58):
patents first. If you can do that, then spend the
next week trying to trace where that started. Really really
spend time journal where was the first time this started?
What started to happen there, and see if you can
identify that moment in relation to the shadow map everything
actually map the three things that you don't like about
your life currently are the three things you really avoiding
(51:20):
from your life. Rejection, struggling in business, having issues with
a partner, whatever is the case. And then go a
step further and ask yourself what part of me really
enjoys this? And in fact, don't even ask yourself, just
say to yourself, there is a part of me that
really enjoys this, and I'm ready to open and unlock
that part of me right now. You would notice a
jot of energy come through and from that point, ask yourself,
(51:44):
in what ways does this give me energy that are
currently subconscious? But in some ways it's powering every other
aspect of my life? How does this give me energy
the very thing that you're pushing against in life? If
you can do that, identify the powers, go a little
bit deeper and go into the shadow work, you would
have taken a massive step into self understanding.
Speaker 2 (52:06):
Beautiful dude.
Speaker 1 (52:07):
For people that want to learn more from you, want
to see what you're doing with your coaching group, the
other side and everything else you got going on, where's
the best place to send them?
Speaker 2 (52:15):
Great?
Speaker 3 (52:15):
So the other side is it is a brotherhood that
I have similar to yours in some ways, where it's
all about individuals who are quite conscious and also rooted
in ambition and success coming together. That's join OtherSide dot com.
If you want to learn about the program that I run,
it's called Rebord. That's join OtherSide dot com slash reborn.
Best place to find me is on Instagram at ami
(52:35):
Adiya Sooyer you can put.
Speaker 4 (52:37):
It in the show notes. It's a pretty long African name,
but that's why you'd be able to see.
Speaker 2 (52:40):
All of my work.
Speaker 1 (52:41):
Beautiful man. Thanks again, man, This was awesome. You're very
well spoken and it's really fun.
Speaker 2 (52:46):
To talk to you.
Speaker 1 (52:48):
A lot of these contents that people want to understand,
you really make it easy to do so.
Speaker 3 (52:52):
So thanks again man, thank you brother, much love, thanks
for having me.
Speaker 5 (52:55):
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