July 17, 2025 • 30 mins
In this inspiring episode of The No Fruit Podcast, Kafi and Maurice are joined by Britton and Carolee Beckham, a couple whose story is a bold reminder of what it means to go ALL IN with your spouse.
Together, they unpack the mindset, vulnerability, and intentionality it takes to build a relationship without a backup plan. From personal challenges to shared victories, the Beckhams share how choosing each other daily—no matter the circumstances—creates the kind of trust and intimacy that marriages are meant to be built on.
Whether you are newly married, facing hard seasons, or simply trying to deepen your connection, this episode will challenge and encourage you to show up fully. Because when both people go ALL IN, the relationship becomes more than love—it becomes unshakable.
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Together, they unpack the mindset, vulnerability, and intentionality it takes to build a relationship without a backup plan. From personal challenges to shared victories, the Beckhams share how choosing each other daily—no matter the circumstances—creates the kind of trust and intimacy that marriages are meant to be built on.
Whether you are newly married, facing hard seasons, or simply trying to deepen your connection, this episode will challenge and encourage you to show up fully. Because when both people go ALL IN, the relationship becomes more than love—it becomes unshakable.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
I thank y'all very much for listening to the No
Fruit Podcast. Today we want.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
To talk about going all in in your relationship.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
So what would your relationship look like if there was
no plan being, no essex strategy, just two people fully
committed to making it work. Today we talk with Britain
and Carolee Beckham about what it truly means to go
all in with each other.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
We'll talk about it right after this.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Let's talk about loving then man the way of God,
intend like experience share.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
To help transfort.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
So Britain and Carolyn most couple say they're committed.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
But you two live out and all out and all
in mindset that goes beyond words most definitely, because if
y'all pay attention to.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Their YouTube you will see that. But what does all
it really mean to you?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
And what mindset shift does it take to live that
way every day?
Speaker 5 (01:21):
So I think the way that what was interesting for
us is like we didn't actually know that we weren't
all in, and it took us going through our you know,
deep healing journey transcending infidelity in our marriage and getting
to a realization that it wasn't just me, that wasn't
it was her as well, and when we came to
(01:44):
that conclusion, we were just like, oh, interesting, Yeah, I
guess we weren't. And then it was like, you know,
and we were at a very crux moment in our
healing journey when we came to this realization. It was
like early twenty twenty two, and it was at that
(02:04):
time that we were just like, oh, okay, well, at
least now we can decide if we want to do
that or not. And so we did, and we actually
as part of that going all in, we did a
new union sort of ceremony where we recommitted to each other,
you know, in our own ceremony. But it has been
(02:25):
the greatest decision. And what I've learned about going all
in is it's taught me that this is where all
the magic happens in life. When you're all in on anything,
when you're all in on life, when you're all in
on your relationships, when you're all in on your your
business endeavors. This is when that all in energy attracts something.
(02:46):
And I don't know how to describe it. It's like
the universe matches you back, but it is powerful and
it has been such an incredibly magical journey since we've
made that choice together.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Yes, yeah, that.
Speaker 6 (03:04):
You know, it's it was a big surprise when we
were able to put words to it right because, I mean,
we had gotten married, and we when we met, we
were Mormon, and the concept of like Mormonism and marriage
is you really are supposed to be all in, not
just for this life, but like for eternity, you know,
(03:25):
and it's like forever and ever and ever after you die.
Our marriage ceremony in the Mormon Temple is, you know,
it doesn't say until death to us part.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
It's like for time and all eternity.
Speaker 6 (03:36):
But even with that foundation, we we were guarded against
each other. We didn't know ourselves. We didn't even know
how guarded we were until infidelity really rocked. That rocked
our foundation, rocked our sense of security, and caused us
to really choose into healing as individuals but also as
(03:58):
a couple. And it was in that jury that we
realized that, you know, the infidelity highlighted the lack of
all illness, and it was scary while we were still
navigating that and healing the wounds of betrayal, to take
that leap of faith into saying that we could go
(04:18):
all in on each other. And so when we did it,
you know, for anyone who's like, ooh, I'm too scared
to maybe go all in on someone, now, what we
what we decided in that moment was I'm all in
for I'm all in in this present moment right now.
And you know, as we evolve, we're evolving together. We
held space for the fact that there might be some
(04:38):
future date where we realized, oh, maybe are all in
isn't quite with each other, right. We we left space
for our own evolution so that we didn't feel like,
oh no, if I change or if I need something different, oh,
I already made this commitment that I'm stuck. It wasn't
like it's not stuck energy.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
But it also isn't a plan B, right, Yeah, Like
there's no plan B. It's just we're in it together.
We're moving through this. But we also acknowledge that we
don't understand everything about the future. So our relationship, right,
and we've just gotten more all in and more all
in and it's just been this beautiful.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:15):
The minute the minute we made that choice, everything really
started shifting to help support us in that and we
just have been able to go deeper and deeper with
each other.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
It's been really really profoundly powerful. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I think one of the things I would like to
know is in reference to yourself, Like, you know, how
do you make that decision individually to go all in
with someone else? I think we have to make that.
I would assume that you have to make the decision
to be all in with yourself to understand your own self.
Marie always talks about understanding the man in the mirror
(05:49):
and understanding who you are so that you can present
yourself best for the other person. So would you agree
that you kind of had to understand a little bit
about yourself before you went all in?
Speaker 7 (06:00):
Oh my gosh, totally like it is.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
It is so important to know that. That was why
we like when we did it, we were also leaving
space to say, well, we don't because there's so much
depth to our own self that we're discovering as life
goes along. But at that point we had learned so
much more about who we are that we've been two
about three deep years into healing infidelity, and it was
(06:27):
like so clear, like the needs that we want, We
were able to be so much more honest and truthful
with each other, and so we were much more confident
and rooted in our own.
Speaker 7 (06:35):
Self and we're able to make that commitment.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Mmm, I'm gonna be honest with you.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
In order for me to be all in, sometimes I
didn't understand understand the foundation that need to be created,
which was trust. I didn't know how to trust, you know, anyone,
because I didn't always see it in my life, you
know so, And ultimately I didn't trust myself, you know so. So,
(07:05):
so my question to you is that did you have
that example of trust prior to to even understand what
it really meant to be all in being that foundational word.
Speaker 7 (07:17):
I didn't.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
I actually honestly didn't either.
Speaker 6 (07:20):
And before we were able to go all in, we
actually we actually burned things that had to do with
our original marriage, right, So, like the dress I wore
when I married, when we got married in the Mormon temple,
I had burned. He burned our marriage certificate. Like we
(07:40):
had to kind of let go of the program of
relationship that we were given, you know, because our culture,
the culture that we're from, and our family dynamics and
the way in which just the culture in general tells
you marriage is supposed to be all these ideas of
what made is successful relationship. We had done really well
(08:04):
in practice, but in theory, our relationship didn't show that
it was like it really was struggling. We really had
a lot of things that broke us open and made
it hard to be together. So we had to say
goodbye to all the programs that were given to us
and really rooted into Okay, what would my ideal relationship
(08:26):
be like? Not what would my parents or my culture,
or my church or all of this tell.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Me my perfect relationship? Is like what is it for
me personally?
Speaker 6 (08:36):
And that kind of goes back to like the idea
of knowing ourselves fully? Right, So we began to discover
that self knowsis of relationship and then see that it
was possible with each other. And so we were going
to go all in on exploring what that could feel
like now that we were setting ourselves free from all
(08:58):
of the programs that kept us what.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
So my question is that how did it feel to
be uncomfortable? Because because everything you just mentioned, right, we're
put into an uncomfortable situation because that's all we knew, right,
that's our foundation, that's you know.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Our parents, grandparents, you know our community.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
So now you're gonna burn up your your your comfortability,
your your blanket, your linus blanket.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
How you're gonna get rid of that? You know?
Speaker 1 (09:29):
So what did that feel like to to now transition
to a place of being uncomfortable?
Speaker 5 (09:35):
Well, I think we had the comfort blanket that was
on top of us was no longer comfortable. It was
like yeah that like like that that reality that had
been generated for us since we joined really since we
were born into the church, but just like married into
(09:57):
it as well, like it dissolved and that reality dissolved
before some Then we were standing naked and we realized
it's our choice.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
Now everything from here is our choice.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
So it has nothing to do with even the pre
cognitive ideas of around marriage.
Speaker 7 (10:13):
Like we started from scratch. It's like.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
If you go to an alien world and you try
to teach them about marriage because they don't have it, Like,
how would you describe it?
Speaker 7 (10:23):
Right?
Speaker 5 (10:23):
There's so many cultural ideas around it, And what we
wanted to do is just lay a new foundation. Going
back to your thing about trust, I couldn't trust myself either,
and we had to build.
Speaker 7 (10:37):
So what I say is.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
Trust, honesty, honesty, and integrity is the cement that pours
into the foundation of trust. And so as you do,
as you are honest and open and vulnerable with each other,
you begin to build a foundation because you're pouring into
that foundation all of that honesty and integrity and vulnerability,
(10:59):
and you've got this foundation of trust and then you
can build anything you want on top of that. And
that's what Caroly and I were doing. We were like,
we had already burnt everything down and we were just
rebuilding and it was a beautiful thing.
Speaker 7 (11:11):
And so we have this.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
Strong relationship of openness, vulnerability and you know, being each
other's mirror for shadows, and it's just a really great
thing and it's full of trust.
Speaker 6 (11:24):
Yeah, and I'll add you know, you asked the question
like what did it feel like? It was very uncomfortable,
you know, like and like Britain said, really the blanket
that we had that was our security blanket actually was
suffocating us.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
So we had to let it go.
Speaker 6 (11:41):
But there was a period of time from when he
burnt the marriage certificate and that was like February of
twenty two, and then in April of twenty two, I
ended up burning parts of the dress that I wore
and we were just kind of saying goodbye to this
old life. And then the new Union sarahmony where we
remarried ourselves and recommitted we held privately, just in the
(12:05):
privacy of our own bedroom in May. So in that
time frame from February until May, we felt so different.
It was like, as we were clearing all that energy.
We were still living together, we were still sleeping in
the same bed, we were still parenting our children, we
(12:26):
were still doing all the things, but we could really
feel this distance between us. That made that point in
time like super interesting. And that was what led us
to wanting to do the new union ceremony, is that
distance was there and we were like, actually, we.
Speaker 4 (12:45):
Don't want that distance.
Speaker 6 (12:46):
We're going to really root into each other as we continue.
I mean, we still had more healing ahead, you know.
We did all of this, and by June we decided
to sell our house and then by September we were
moving to Bali with our four children.
Speaker 4 (13:02):
You know.
Speaker 6 (13:02):
And so it's like after selling everything that we own
and so going all in on each other and all
in on our life. Like earlier that year, we had
Britain had come home from a men's retreat and had
had this download and he was like, I know what
we're going to do.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
We're going to live the full fuck yes.
Speaker 6 (13:21):
And so it was like we were going all in
on life, on every aspect of life, and seeing where
we hadn't given ourselves permission to say yes, where we
had been giving our acting in accordance with.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Other people's yeses, not our own.
Speaker 6 (13:35):
And so this was like really helping us have that
foundation of what's my yes, what's your yes, and what's
like the wee yes?
Speaker 4 (13:43):
And that's what we discovered.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
So what was it like to finally throw your head
back and take a deep breath and letting go of
that because sometimes we don't have that type of experience,
sound like y'all had that experience of being able to
breathe another type of air, to let go of all
(14:06):
the things that are holding us back, breaking through that wall,
because sometimes we have this wall in front of us.
You know that that is hindering us from seeing everything
else and even to a point of saying, hey, we're
going to sell everything and go to Bali, like you know,
because again that's like you said, that's somebody else's dream
(14:27):
or or the the hey you know, let's Brittain, I
heard something about you being in software and you know,
living a dream, just making money, whatever it might have been.
So you're breaking all these traditional values, right, these traditional
ideals of living a life right white pick of face.
Speaker 7 (14:46):
Mentality, successful relationship.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
Yeah, you know. So what was that like to take
that deep breath?
Speaker 5 (14:53):
I mean, frankly, it was refreshing. And and you know,
there's always a little bit ofnxiety involved with going into
the unknown. Anytime that you're exploring new territory in rebellion
or revolution within your own self, you are you are
in a space of the unknown, right, Like you don't
(15:13):
know the predictable outcome. Like that's when you talk about
leaving the traditions, because those are all predictable, you know,
and and you know to at least a great extent
of what life might look like. But well, yeah, we
were entering new territory for ourselves and it felt really good.
Speaker 7 (15:32):
But it was a little bit of like anxiety.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
But what we discovered was with that anxiety, we could
transmute it into or alchemize it into excitement. It's kind
of the same energy. It's just like how you view
something carely, has this Like example, she always talks about
being on a cliff ready to jump into water, right,
like if you're like ten fifteen, twenty feet up, it's
a pretty big jump, and that can feel anxiety.
Speaker 6 (15:59):
Into Yeah, I'm the kind that will stay there for
like twenty minutes, not jump like okay, I'll.
Speaker 4 (16:05):
Go, you know.
Speaker 5 (16:06):
But yet then there's people that will come up to
the cliffs that jump in, swim in the shore, climb
back up, jump in again, just loving it because it's exciting.
And so there you it's the same energy of like,
oh my god, it's like twenty feet but but it
it's internally viewed differently. And so that's what we did,
is we viewed as as an opportunity of excitement.
Speaker 8 (16:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
I think Maurice and I kind of went through that
through our transition when he decided to leave the corporate
America and start his own business. So again it was
kind of that oh, the anxiety of how are things
going to continue on? But it became excitement, as you're
stating in reference to, hey, now you get to try
out all the things you've been wanting to do in
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life that you've been trying to do every night or
only on the weekends. Now you'll have time to do
all of those things. So likewise with yourselves, now you
have that time to focus in on one another. You
have time now to focus in on yourselves and your family.
So I think that's just great that you're able to
do all of those things.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
And along with just again that whole idea of going
to BALI like just my because of it really breaks
the idea that, hey, I have to stay in this
tradition yet, you know, because of parents like you know,
and I don't speak about my own experience, you know,
I listen to sometimes my parents and how they live
(17:31):
in fear right, and how that has trickled down to me,
and to some degree it has trickled down to my
kids just a little bit right, you know. And so
just breaking free of those type of chains, generational chains
that that will keep you bound up in a certain spot,
you know. So so that's why I'm kind of like, hey,
(17:54):
that whole balley idea and jumping off cliffs and even
though I can't swim, you know, but it's the idea
of you're right.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
So I'll just I'll clap you on out. I'll sell
appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
You do it for me, you know, but I think
that's something that a lot of us deal with. We're
not always that free will. We don't feel like we
have that free will to do that.
Speaker 5 (18:20):
Yeah, we feel that way because we're we're told that,
you know, there's a system, there's a structure, there's a
plan for you.
Speaker 7 (18:28):
Just follow this plan and everything will be great. You know.
Speaker 5 (18:32):
It reminds me of the ever evolving horrible situation with
health insurance, which you know, they just want more and
more money from us and less and less real services
that are genuine and authentic. And so if we just
keep in that, we're just kind of in this disillusionment.
And so I would I would just say, you know,
(18:53):
like if you when you step out and you understand
this because you left your your career like I did,
and it was the most freeing act. And when you
take that power and you find it actually you know,
like oh, and you're instead of thinking there's just no
way I can do this, how am I supposed to
afford it? How am I suppsed to blah blah blah
blah all of the nose, And you can overlook that
(19:15):
and say, actually, I'm going to step into my power
I'm going to step into the magic of life, and
I'm going to see where this this uh you know,
this blazing the trail act is going to take me.
Then you see, yeah, you see like how I think God,
the creator the universe comes to meet us with that
all in energy, right, we bring the all in energy
(19:35):
to life. God's all in on us too, the same
it's reflected.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Wow, I think that.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
We don't always even with that that space of being
in that spiritual space. We don't even know how to
be all in with that either, because again, that's something
we can't touch, you know, we can't feel it, you know,
and so we don't really know what that means.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
You know.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
So even with ourselves, we can't be all in with
ourselves because we really don't know. We're again we're living
somebody else's dream, you know. I listen to other cultures
how they say, hey, you know, well my mom or.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
My dad wanted me to be a lawyer or a doctor.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
Up front, Well, when they were born.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Maybe I just wanted to paint toenails like you get,
you know, And so it's so.
Speaker 7 (20:21):
Would you say it's a good point, yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
So, so if that's not how I feel, and that's
not the most enjoyment I think I can get out
of life because we only go this way once. Well,
some of us believe that, you know, So how do
we get the most out of life without being all in?
Do you think we can even do that?
Speaker 5 (20:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (20:45):
I think actually going all in is the secret case. Yeah,
you know, And what challenge is it too, is you
brought this up with like parents and family and like
what they expect, you know, as we we began to
really radically, you know, a lot of our healing at
the beginning was really internal. Nobody in our families knew
(21:09):
that we were going through infidelity. Nobody knew the depths
of like what we were really moving through and how
we were holding our healing and why things were the
way that we're very secretive, you know. But then it
got to this point where we still weren't really courageous
to like own the story. It's a hard story to own.
(21:30):
But the outward manifestation of our life really began to
shift as our inner landscape was being more grounded and
rooted and healed, and so as that outer you know,
one of the big outer manifestation of shifting was this
idea of like giving ourselves permission to be like full
yes into our life, and it started to kind of
(21:52):
blow people's minds around us, and especially I mean, imagine
we put our house on the market. We just built
this house, like maybe we'd been there three years and
we had designed it. It was it was part of
a spec build, but like from the very beginning, we
picked the paints and the colors and the cabinets and
all the things, and we had just built this and
(22:16):
we really loved it. We had still been working on
landscaping the yard, and then all of a sudden, we're
like putting it up for sale, and everybody's like, where
are you moving to?
Speaker 4 (22:24):
Where's your new house? And we said, we don't have one.
Speaker 6 (22:27):
Right, we began to do things in like an opposite order,
and we had to face the judgment, the criticism, the scrutiny,
the questioning of not only like family members, but like
even community members.
Speaker 4 (22:43):
We went back to.
Speaker 6 (22:44):
Utah just this last April and literally heard that one
of our old neighbors still thinks we've gone off our rocker,
like they still think we're crazy, and you know, we're
cool with that. Like you got to lose your mind
to find yourself, right, like our mind keeps us locked
into somebody else's life. But we had to sit with
(23:08):
the discomfort of also, oh, people are going to judge us,
people are going to think, you know.
Speaker 7 (23:13):
And especially the Mormon community has a lot of that judgment.
Speaker 6 (23:17):
Yeah, especially if you like leave it and then all
of a sudden like you're having left the faith.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Thing shouldn't work out for you.
Speaker 6 (23:24):
And the fact that things started to work out for
us caused some real cognitive dissonance, and even some of
our family members they couldn't believe that.
Speaker 4 (23:33):
They're still here. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:36):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yeah, And I think that there's a lot of things
that y'all have said that will make us reconsider that
word yes, because that's something that you just said carey
about saying yes, yes, I'm going to live life. Yes
I'm gonna experience certain things. Yes I'm gonna jump off
this ledge. Yes I'm gonna be you know, looking at
(23:57):
this sun. Say yes, I'm going to recommit myself, you know,
not just to someone else, but even just to myself
of just saying yes. So so for those individuals that
are stressing with that or are struggling with that, how
can they come and talk to you and find your
information and find a way to say yes to themselves.
Speaker 7 (24:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (24:22):
So we're extremely passionate about helping people find the same
joy and level of magic that we found in our
own life, in our own marriage or relationship, and even
with our children. It's really evolved everything. And part of
that is I was just coaching a client two days
to go, and you know, I could tell that there
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was like a guard you know, typically it was like
our first meeting, so you know, there's always going to
be a little bit of that. But as we sat
with each other and I kind of started asking him questions,
it was clear that he wasn't all in with his
relationship either. And it was the sim of that where
he was uncommitted to you know, buying a home, a
(25:05):
bigger home, like upsizing their upsizing their space, they've got
another baby on the way, all that, and it was
just clear that like the all in this wasn't there.
And I kind of brought that to his attention and
he was like, uh yeah, And I'm like, so that
all lack of all innes is the hesitation, and so
you know, how do we invite people into that, Well,
(25:25):
we invite him in by one inspiring him with our story.
Speaker 7 (25:28):
Our story is incredible.
Speaker 5 (25:30):
We've gone from being in a really rough, high demand
religion with all these ideals placed on us, and our
marriage was falling apart, our sex life was falling apart,
like all of these things were not in alignment. But
through our commitment to healing, and we have come up
with a really awesome way of doing that. We guide
(25:50):
people through this process. We can do individuals, couples, you know,
and they can find our story and access our offerings
and get on our mailing and stuff. Contact us at
the Magical Story of Us. We do free discovery calls
and so the Magical Story of Us dot com and yeah,
just learn about our a little bit about our journey
(26:10):
there and then you know, reach out and we'd love
to help anyone find the joy and love that we
have and see the magic re enter their life.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
And I have to say that after doing my research
listen to other episodes, you know, looking at your pictures,
I'm like, wow, y'all have really seen some really really
beautiful sights. You know, you had an instrument in friends
Stonehengs like you know, just all these things you know
that that I know my I personally have not been
(26:43):
able to experience I would love to, but because of
sometimes pulling yourself back thinking saying no. Here on the negative, neighbors,
if you will, saying hey, you know you off your rock?
Speaker 2 (26:55):
Are you? You know? This is the life.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
I don't know what you're doing, you know, because of
being stuck in that space. So I thank you very
much for being a role model and that of saying, hey,
you can still do it, you know, outside of the
normal lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (27:11):
You know. So I thank you very much for coming
on the show and sharing the story.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
But before we let you go, But before we let
you go, we have one more question for you. For
you both hopefully both can answer this question. If you
could sing a duet with anyone in the world, living
or deceased, and it's not your spouse, who would you
sing that duet with?
Speaker 4 (27:35):
I already know that.
Speaker 5 (27:39):
I want to hear your who.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Okay, yes, yes, she.
Speaker 6 (27:48):
Does this, you know Jess on New Girl. And she's
really quirky and she like sings like Christmas. She has
like a Christmas all phone. But she's got she's got this.
Speaker 7 (27:58):
She actually have an album.
Speaker 8 (27:59):
She's got lots of el Yeah, that's funny.
Speaker 7 (28:11):
You know it's I've never.
Speaker 4 (28:12):
Changing his second like.
Speaker 5 (28:15):
Because I'm not I don't consider my voice like a
good singing voice doesn't matter.
Speaker 7 (28:22):
I think I would. I think I would like to
do it with.
Speaker 5 (28:29):
I'm feeling into my old teenage self and it's like
a Christina Aguila. I mean, she's hot and she's like
got an incredible voice, and and she could make up
for all of my mistakes.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
That's funny. That's funny.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
I'm glad that you'll be Yeah, yeah, have fun with that.
I appreciate you all answering that, honestly.
Speaker 7 (29:04):
Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
No prob, no prob. But we think y'all very much
for coming on the show.
Speaker 4 (29:11):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 7 (29:12):
Thank you for the interview.
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I thank y'all very much for listening to the No
Fruit Podcast. Today we want.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
To talk about going all in in your relationship.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
So what would your relationship look like if there was
no plan being, no essex strategy, just two people fully
committed to making it work. Today we talk with Britain
and Carolee Beckham about what it truly means to go
all in with each other.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
We'll talk about it right after this.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Let's talk about loving then man the way of God,
intend like experience share.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
To help transfort.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
So Britain and Carolyn most couple say they're committed.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
But you two live out and all out and all
in mindset that goes beyond words most definitely, because if
y'all pay attention to.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Their YouTube you will see that. But what does all
it really mean to you?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
And what mindset shift does it take to live that
way every day?
Speaker 5 (01:21):
So I think the way that what was interesting for
us is like we didn't actually know that we weren't
all in, and it took us going through our you know,
deep healing journey transcending infidelity in our marriage and getting
to a realization that it wasn't just me, that wasn't
it was her as well, and when we came to
(01:44):
that conclusion, we were just like, oh, interesting, Yeah, I
guess we weren't. And then it was like, you know,
and we were at a very crux moment in our
healing journey when we came to this realization. It was
like early twenty twenty two, and it was at that
(02:04):
time that we were just like, oh, okay, well, at
least now we can decide if we want to do
that or not. And so we did, and we actually
as part of that going all in, we did a
new union sort of ceremony where we recommitted to each other,
you know, in our own ceremony. But it has been
(02:25):
the greatest decision. And what I've learned about going all
in is it's taught me that this is where all
the magic happens in life. When you're all in on anything,
when you're all in on life, when you're all in
on your relationships, when you're all in on your your
business endeavors. This is when that all in energy attracts something.
(02:46):
And I don't know how to describe it. It's like
the universe matches you back, but it is powerful and
it has been such an incredibly magical journey since we've
made that choice together.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Yes, yeah, that.
Speaker 6 (03:04):
You know, it's it was a big surprise when we
were able to put words to it right because, I mean,
we had gotten married, and we when we met, we
were Mormon, and the concept of like Mormonism and marriage
is you really are supposed to be all in, not
just for this life, but like for eternity, you know,
(03:25):
and it's like forever and ever and ever after you die.
Our marriage ceremony in the Mormon Temple is, you know,
it doesn't say until death to us part.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
It's like for time and all eternity.
Speaker 6 (03:36):
But even with that foundation, we we were guarded against
each other. We didn't know ourselves. We didn't even know
how guarded we were until infidelity really rocked. That rocked
our foundation, rocked our sense of security, and caused us
to really choose into healing as individuals but also as
(03:58):
a couple. And it was in that jury that we
realized that, you know, the infidelity highlighted the lack of
all illness, and it was scary while we were still
navigating that and healing the wounds of betrayal, to take
that leap of faith into saying that we could go
(04:18):
all in on each other. And so when we did it,
you know, for anyone who's like, ooh, I'm too scared
to maybe go all in on someone, now, what we
what we decided in that moment was I'm all in
for I'm all in in this present moment right now.
And you know, as we evolve, we're evolving together. We
held space for the fact that there might be some
(04:38):
future date where we realized, oh, maybe are all in
isn't quite with each other, right. We we left space
for our own evolution so that we didn't feel like,
oh no, if I change or if I need something different, oh,
I already made this commitment that I'm stuck. It wasn't
like it's not stuck energy.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
But it also isn't a plan B, right, Yeah, Like
there's no plan B. It's just we're in it together.
We're moving through this. But we also acknowledge that we
don't understand everything about the future. So our relationship, right,
and we've just gotten more all in and more all
in and it's just been this beautiful.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:15):
The minute the minute we made that choice, everything really
started shifting to help support us in that and we
just have been able to go deeper and deeper with
each other.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
It's been really really profoundly powerful. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I think one of the things I would like to
know is in reference to yourself, Like, you know, how
do you make that decision individually to go all in
with someone else? I think we have to make that.
I would assume that you have to make the decision
to be all in with yourself to understand your own self.
Marie always talks about understanding the man in the mirror
(05:49):
and understanding who you are so that you can present
yourself best for the other person. So would you agree
that you kind of had to understand a little bit
about yourself before you went all in?
Speaker 7 (06:00):
Oh my gosh, totally like it is.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
It is so important to know that. That was why
we like when we did it, we were also leaving
space to say, well, we don't because there's so much
depth to our own self that we're discovering as life
goes along. But at that point we had learned so
much more about who we are that we've been two
about three deep years into healing infidelity, and it was
(06:27):
like so clear, like the needs that we want, We
were able to be so much more honest and truthful
with each other, and so we were much more confident
and rooted in our own.
Speaker 7 (06:35):
Self and we're able to make that commitment.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Mmm, I'm gonna be honest with you.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
In order for me to be all in, sometimes I
didn't understand understand the foundation that need to be created,
which was trust. I didn't know how to trust, you know, anyone,
because I didn't always see it in my life, you
know so, And ultimately I didn't trust myself, you know so. So,
(07:05):
so my question to you is that did you have
that example of trust prior to to even understand what
it really meant to be all in being that foundational word.
Speaker 7 (07:17):
I didn't.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
I actually honestly didn't either.
Speaker 6 (07:20):
And before we were able to go all in, we
actually we actually burned things that had to do with
our original marriage, right, So, like the dress I wore
when I married, when we got married in the Mormon temple,
I had burned. He burned our marriage certificate. Like we
(07:40):
had to kind of let go of the program of
relationship that we were given, you know, because our culture,
the culture that we're from, and our family dynamics and
the way in which just the culture in general tells
you marriage is supposed to be all these ideas of
what made is successful relationship. We had done really well
(08:04):
in practice, but in theory, our relationship didn't show that
it was like it really was struggling. We really had
a lot of things that broke us open and made
it hard to be together. So we had to say
goodbye to all the programs that were given to us
and really rooted into Okay, what would my ideal relationship
(08:26):
be like? Not what would my parents or my culture,
or my church or all of this tell.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Me my perfect relationship? Is like what is it for
me personally?
Speaker 6 (08:36):
And that kind of goes back to like the idea
of knowing ourselves fully? Right, So we began to discover
that self knowsis of relationship and then see that it
was possible with each other. And so we were going
to go all in on exploring what that could feel
like now that we were setting ourselves free from all
(08:58):
of the programs that kept us what.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
So my question is that how did it feel to
be uncomfortable? Because because everything you just mentioned, right, we're
put into an uncomfortable situation because that's all we knew, right,
that's our foundation, that's you know.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Our parents, grandparents, you know our community.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
So now you're gonna burn up your your your comfortability,
your your blanket, your linus blanket.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
How you're gonna get rid of that? You know?
Speaker 1 (09:29):
So what did that feel like to to now transition
to a place of being uncomfortable?
Speaker 5 (09:35):
Well, I think we had the comfort blanket that was
on top of us was no longer comfortable. It was
like yeah that like like that that reality that had
been generated for us since we joined really since we
were born into the church, but just like married into
(09:57):
it as well, like it dissolved and that reality dissolved
before some Then we were standing naked and we realized
it's our choice.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
Now everything from here is our choice.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
So it has nothing to do with even the pre
cognitive ideas of around marriage.
Speaker 7 (10:13):
Like we started from scratch. It's like.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
If you go to an alien world and you try
to teach them about marriage because they don't have it, Like,
how would you describe it?
Speaker 7 (10:23):
Right?
Speaker 5 (10:23):
There's so many cultural ideas around it, And what we
wanted to do is just lay a new foundation. Going
back to your thing about trust, I couldn't trust myself either,
and we had to build.
Speaker 7 (10:37):
So what I say is.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
Trust, honesty, honesty, and integrity is the cement that pours
into the foundation of trust. And so as you do,
as you are honest and open and vulnerable with each other,
you begin to build a foundation because you're pouring into
that foundation all of that honesty and integrity and vulnerability,
(10:59):
and you've got this foundation of trust and then you
can build anything you want on top of that. And
that's what Caroly and I were doing. We were like,
we had already burnt everything down and we were just
rebuilding and it was a beautiful thing.
Speaker 7 (11:11):
And so we have this.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
Strong relationship of openness, vulnerability and you know, being each
other's mirror for shadows, and it's just a really great
thing and it's full of trust.
Speaker 6 (11:24):
Yeah, and I'll add you know, you asked the question
like what did it feel like? It was very uncomfortable,
you know, like and like Britain said, really the blanket
that we had that was our security blanket actually was
suffocating us.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
So we had to let it go.
Speaker 6 (11:41):
But there was a period of time from when he
burnt the marriage certificate and that was like February of
twenty two, and then in April of twenty two, I
ended up burning parts of the dress that I wore
and we were just kind of saying goodbye to this
old life. And then the new Union sarahmony where we
remarried ourselves and recommitted we held privately, just in the
(12:05):
privacy of our own bedroom in May. So in that
time frame from February until May, we felt so different.
It was like, as we were clearing all that energy.
We were still living together, we were still sleeping in
the same bed, we were still parenting our children, we
(12:26):
were still doing all the things, but we could really
feel this distance between us. That made that point in
time like super interesting. And that was what led us
to wanting to do the new union ceremony, is that
distance was there and we were like, actually, we.
Speaker 4 (12:45):
Don't want that distance.
Speaker 6 (12:46):
We're going to really root into each other as we continue.
I mean, we still had more healing ahead, you know.
We did all of this, and by June we decided
to sell our house and then by September we were
moving to Bali with our four children.
Speaker 4 (13:02):
You know.
Speaker 6 (13:02):
And so it's like after selling everything that we own
and so going all in on each other and all
in on our life. Like earlier that year, we had
Britain had come home from a men's retreat and had
had this download and he was like, I know what
we're going to do.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
We're going to live the full fuck yes.
Speaker 6 (13:21):
And so it was like we were going all in
on life, on every aspect of life, and seeing where
we hadn't given ourselves permission to say yes, where we
had been giving our acting in accordance with.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Other people's yeses, not our own.
Speaker 6 (13:35):
And so this was like really helping us have that
foundation of what's my yes, what's your yes, and what's
like the wee yes?
Speaker 4 (13:43):
And that's what we discovered.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
So what was it like to finally throw your head
back and take a deep breath and letting go of
that because sometimes we don't have that type of experience,
sound like y'all had that experience of being able to
breathe another type of air, to let go of all
(14:06):
the things that are holding us back, breaking through that wall,
because sometimes we have this wall in front of us.
You know that that is hindering us from seeing everything
else and even to a point of saying, hey, we're
going to sell everything and go to Bali, like you know,
because again that's like you said, that's somebody else's dream
(14:27):
or or the the hey you know, let's Brittain, I
heard something about you being in software and you know,
living a dream, just making money, whatever it might have been.
So you're breaking all these traditional values, right, these traditional
ideals of living a life right white pick of face.
Speaker 7 (14:46):
Mentality, successful relationship.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
Yeah, you know. So what was that like to take
that deep breath?
Speaker 5 (14:53):
I mean, frankly, it was refreshing. And and you know,
there's always a little bit ofnxiety involved with going into
the unknown. Anytime that you're exploring new territory in rebellion
or revolution within your own self, you are you are
in a space of the unknown, right, Like you don't
(15:13):
know the predictable outcome. Like that's when you talk about
leaving the traditions, because those are all predictable, you know,
and and you know to at least a great extent
of what life might look like. But well, yeah, we
were entering new territory for ourselves and it felt really good.
Speaker 7 (15:32):
But it was a little bit of like anxiety.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
But what we discovered was with that anxiety, we could
transmute it into or alchemize it into excitement. It's kind
of the same energy. It's just like how you view
something carely, has this Like example, she always talks about
being on a cliff ready to jump into water, right,
like if you're like ten fifteen, twenty feet up, it's
a pretty big jump, and that can feel anxiety.
Speaker 6 (15:59):
Into Yeah, I'm the kind that will stay there for
like twenty minutes, not jump like okay, I'll.
Speaker 4 (16:05):
Go, you know.
Speaker 5 (16:06):
But yet then there's people that will come up to
the cliffs that jump in, swim in the shore, climb
back up, jump in again, just loving it because it's exciting.
And so there you it's the same energy of like,
oh my god, it's like twenty feet but but it
it's internally viewed differently. And so that's what we did,
is we viewed as as an opportunity of excitement.
Speaker 8 (16:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
I think Maurice and I kind of went through that
through our transition when he decided to leave the corporate
America and start his own business. So again it was
kind of that oh, the anxiety of how are things
going to continue on? But it became excitement, as you're
stating in reference to, hey, now you get to try
out all the things you've been wanting to do in
(16:50):
life that you've been trying to do every night or
only on the weekends. Now you'll have time to do
all of those things. So likewise with yourselves, now you
have that time to focus in on one another. You
have time now to focus in on yourselves and your family.
So I think that's just great that you're able to
do all of those things.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
And along with just again that whole idea of going
to BALI like just my because of it really breaks
the idea that, hey, I have to stay in this
tradition yet, you know, because of parents like you know,
and I don't speak about my own experience, you know,
I listen to sometimes my parents and how they live
(17:31):
in fear right, and how that has trickled down to me,
and to some degree it has trickled down to my
kids just a little bit right, you know. And so
just breaking free of those type of chains, generational chains
that that will keep you bound up in a certain spot,
you know. So so that's why I'm kind of like, hey,
(17:54):
that whole balley idea and jumping off cliffs and even
though I can't swim, you know, but it's the idea
of you're right.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
So I'll just I'll clap you on out. I'll sell
appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
You do it for me, you know, but I think
that's something that a lot of us deal with. We're
not always that free will. We don't feel like we
have that free will to do that.
Speaker 5 (18:20):
Yeah, we feel that way because we're we're told that,
you know, there's a system, there's a structure, there's a
plan for you.
Speaker 7 (18:28):
Just follow this plan and everything will be great. You know.
Speaker 5 (18:32):
It reminds me of the ever evolving horrible situation with
health insurance, which you know, they just want more and
more money from us and less and less real services
that are genuine and authentic. And so if we just
keep in that, we're just kind of in this disillusionment.
And so I would I would just say, you know,
(18:53):
like if you when you step out and you understand
this because you left your your career like I did,
and it was the most freeing act. And when you
take that power and you find it actually you know,
like oh, and you're instead of thinking there's just no
way I can do this, how am I supposed to
afford it? How am I suppsed to blah blah blah
blah all of the nose, And you can overlook that
(19:15):
and say, actually, I'm going to step into my power
I'm going to step into the magic of life, and
I'm going to see where this this uh you know,
this blazing the trail act is going to take me.
Then you see, yeah, you see like how I think God,
the creator the universe comes to meet us with that
all in energy, right, we bring the all in energy
(19:35):
to life. God's all in on us too, the same
it's reflected.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Wow, I think that.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
We don't always even with that that space of being
in that spiritual space. We don't even know how to
be all in with that either, because again, that's something
we can't touch, you know, we can't feel it, you know,
and so we don't really know what that means.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
You know.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
So even with ourselves, we can't be all in with
ourselves because we really don't know. We're again we're living
somebody else's dream, you know. I listen to other cultures
how they say, hey, you know, well my mom or.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
My dad wanted me to be a lawyer or a doctor.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
Up front, Well, when they were born.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Maybe I just wanted to paint toenails like you get,
you know, And so it's so.
Speaker 7 (20:21):
Would you say it's a good point, yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
So, so if that's not how I feel, and that's
not the most enjoyment I think I can get out
of life because we only go this way once. Well,
some of us believe that, you know, So how do
we get the most out of life without being all in?
Do you think we can even do that?
Speaker 5 (20:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (20:45):
I think actually going all in is the secret case. Yeah,
you know, And what challenge is it too, is you
brought this up with like parents and family and like
what they expect, you know, as we we began to
really radically, you know, a lot of our healing at
the beginning was really internal. Nobody in our families knew
(21:09):
that we were going through infidelity. Nobody knew the depths
of like what we were really moving through and how
we were holding our healing and why things were the
way that we're very secretive, you know. But then it
got to this point where we still weren't really courageous
to like own the story. It's a hard story to own.
(21:30):
But the outward manifestation of our life really began to
shift as our inner landscape was being more grounded and
rooted and healed, and so as that outer you know,
one of the big outer manifestation of shifting was this
idea of like giving ourselves permission to be like full
yes into our life, and it started to kind of
(21:52):
blow people's minds around us, and especially I mean, imagine
we put our house on the market. We just built
this house, like maybe we'd been there three years and
we had designed it. It was it was part of
a spec build, but like from the very beginning, we
picked the paints and the colors and the cabinets and
all the things, and we had just built this and
(22:16):
we really loved it. We had still been working on
landscaping the yard, and then all of a sudden, we're
like putting it up for sale, and everybody's like, where
are you moving to?
Speaker 4 (22:24):
Where's your new house? And we said, we don't have one.
Speaker 6 (22:27):
Right, we began to do things in like an opposite order,
and we had to face the judgment, the criticism, the scrutiny,
the questioning of not only like family members, but like
even community members.
Speaker 4 (22:43):
We went back to.
Speaker 6 (22:44):
Utah just this last April and literally heard that one
of our old neighbors still thinks we've gone off our rocker,
like they still think we're crazy, and you know, we're
cool with that. Like you got to lose your mind
to find yourself, right, like our mind keeps us locked
into somebody else's life. But we had to sit with
(23:08):
the discomfort of also, oh, people are going to judge us,
people are going to think, you know.
Speaker 7 (23:13):
And especially the Mormon community has a lot of that judgment.
Speaker 6 (23:17):
Yeah, especially if you like leave it and then all
of a sudden like you're having left the faith.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Thing shouldn't work out for you.
Speaker 6 (23:24):
And the fact that things started to work out for
us caused some real cognitive dissonance, and even some of
our family members they couldn't believe that.
Speaker 4 (23:33):
They're still here. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:36):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yeah, And I think that there's a lot of things
that y'all have said that will make us reconsider that
word yes, because that's something that you just said carey
about saying yes, yes, I'm going to live life. Yes
I'm gonna experience certain things. Yes I'm gonna jump off
this ledge. Yes I'm gonna be you know, looking at
(23:57):
this sun. Say yes, I'm going to recommit myself, you know,
not just to someone else, but even just to myself
of just saying yes. So so for those individuals that
are stressing with that or are struggling with that, how
can they come and talk to you and find your
information and find a way to say yes to themselves.
Speaker 7 (24:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (24:22):
So we're extremely passionate about helping people find the same
joy and level of magic that we found in our
own life, in our own marriage or relationship, and even
with our children. It's really evolved everything. And part of
that is I was just coaching a client two days
to go, and you know, I could tell that there
(24:43):
was like a guard you know, typically it was like
our first meeting, so you know, there's always going to
be a little bit of that. But as we sat
with each other and I kind of started asking him questions,
it was clear that he wasn't all in with his
relationship either. And it was the sim of that where
he was uncommitted to you know, buying a home, a
(25:05):
bigger home, like upsizing their upsizing their space, they've got
another baby on the way, all that, and it was
just clear that like the all in this wasn't there.
And I kind of brought that to his attention and
he was like, uh yeah, And I'm like, so that
all lack of all innes is the hesitation, and so
you know, how do we invite people into that, Well,
(25:25):
we invite him in by one inspiring him with our story.
Speaker 7 (25:28):
Our story is incredible.
Speaker 5 (25:30):
We've gone from being in a really rough, high demand
religion with all these ideals placed on us, and our
marriage was falling apart, our sex life was falling apart,
like all of these things were not in alignment. But
through our commitment to healing, and we have come up
with a really awesome way of doing that. We guide
(25:50):
people through this process. We can do individuals, couples, you know,
and they can find our story and access our offerings
and get on our mailing and stuff. Contact us at
the Magical Story of Us. We do free discovery calls
and so the Magical Story of Us dot com and yeah,
just learn about our a little bit about our journey
(26:10):
there and then you know, reach out and we'd love
to help anyone find the joy and love that we
have and see the magic re enter their life.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
And I have to say that after doing my research
listen to other episodes, you know, looking at your pictures,
I'm like, wow, y'all have really seen some really really
beautiful sights. You know, you had an instrument in friends
Stonehengs like you know, just all these things you know
that that I know my I personally have not been
(26:43):
able to experience I would love to, but because of
sometimes pulling yourself back thinking saying no. Here on the negative, neighbors,
if you will, saying hey, you know you off your rock?
Speaker 2 (26:55):
Are you? You know? This is the life.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
I don't know what you're doing, you know, because of
being stuck in that space. So I thank you very
much for being a role model and that of saying, hey,
you can still do it, you know, outside of the
normal lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (27:11):
You know. So I thank you very much for coming
on the show and sharing the story.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
But before we let you go, But before we let
you go, we have one more question for you. For
you both hopefully both can answer this question. If you
could sing a duet with anyone in the world, living
or deceased, and it's not your spouse, who would you
sing that duet with?
Speaker 4 (27:35):
I already know that.
Speaker 5 (27:39):
I want to hear your who.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Okay, yes, yes, she.
Speaker 6 (27:48):
Does this, you know Jess on New Girl. And she's
really quirky and she like sings like Christmas. She has
like a Christmas all phone. But she's got she's got this.
Speaker 7 (27:58):
She actually have an album.
Speaker 8 (27:59):
She's got lots of el Yeah, that's funny.
Speaker 7 (28:11):
You know it's I've never.
Speaker 4 (28:12):
Changing his second like.
Speaker 5 (28:15):
Because I'm not I don't consider my voice like a
good singing voice doesn't matter.
Speaker 7 (28:22):
I think I would. I think I would like to
do it with.
Speaker 5 (28:29):
I'm feeling into my old teenage self and it's like
a Christina Aguila. I mean, she's hot and she's like
got an incredible voice, and and she could make up
for all of my mistakes.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
That's funny. That's funny.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
I'm glad that you'll be Yeah, yeah, have fun with that.
I appreciate you all answering that, honestly.
Speaker 7 (29:04):
Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
No prob, no prob. But we think y'all very much
for coming on the show.
Speaker 4 (29:11):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 7 (29:12):
Thank you for the interview.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
You're welcome, You welcome, and we thank y'all very much
for listening to the note through podcast.
Speaker 2 (29:17):
Of course, all the information will be in the show notes.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
So if you're one of those people that's skydiving right now,
you listen to this show, you'll be able to cut
as soon as you touch ground and you kiss the ground,
say hey, I'm back home. You know, all the information
will be right there. So we thank y'all very much
for listening and we'll talk to you just a little
bit later.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
Thanks for tuning in to another episode of the No
Fruit Podcast, where we bring you fruitful conversations, ripen wisdom
and love that's deeply rooted.
Speaker 5 (29:43):
We hope today's discussion left you feeling uplifted, encouraged, and
ready to take on life's journey with purpose.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
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Speaker 8 (29:50):
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Speaker 1 (29:56):
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Speaker 3 (30:01):
Until next time, stay rooted in love and remember every
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